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Speaker 2: A face sunny sumone on I hadasion night be.

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Speaker 2: Hey, everybody, welcome, hello to another episode of f c L.

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Speaker 1: Sure is I forgot to hold up my How you doing, kayl,

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I'm good?

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Speaker 3: How are you?

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Speaker 2: We have the story? Caylen's got a story for us.

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Speaker 1: Aelynn is caman with a hot hot under the hot

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his being esteemed, his being esteem.

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Speaker 3: No, it's actually something I'm excited about.

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Speaker 1: Oh, okay, well, let's say hello to Ashley because you

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know why she's Stephanie's a stinker, wrinker and Athena. We

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love your dancing, Sandra. It's not easy being green. Jennifer

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needs to get the hell up. Aaron is a dirty Sanchez.

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I just love saying that. I'll say it. I get

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yeah thirty Sanchez. Les Laves is still coughing, which you're

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almost done. I'm almost done. Alicia as goalante for the

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city of all Monte. Kelly is not your aunt, but

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you you know Rebecca a little bit. It's so cute

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hot nice Gabby and Missy.

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Speaker 2: Oh they're still at the river from last week yep,

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and haven't made at home.

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Speaker 1: No, they can't get a ride. Katerina check your moler.

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Valerie hits it out of the park, Polly, we love

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your pancakes, Rita's rocking, Elizabeth Williamson's kids in her bath

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see yet, Nikki, call your girl. Katie's rolling one, Kelly ooh, Ladida,

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and Dick is frolicking. That's right, guys. Thank you, thank

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you for supporting our show. We love you guys. Yeah,

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so Kaylin, what's up?

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Speaker 4: Oh so, like two weekends ago is really hot and

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you know, we don't have like a pool at our house,

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but when it's hot out, we put out the things

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for the girls in the front yard, like a water

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table and the hose and toys, and we have like

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a big kiddie pool, you know, like the blue ones.

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Speaker 3: We have like a big one of those and fill

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Speaker 4: And like halfway through the day, I took my boogie

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board out of the garage and I threw it into

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the kiddie pool, so it was floating on there, and

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Ila got on it and had like the most fun

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I've ever seen her, like thinking.

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Speaker 3: Like oh, look, I'm surfing. I'm surfing.

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Speaker 4: And she was on it and she was like falling

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off and getting back on. She's having so much fun.

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Speaker 3: Doing it.

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Speaker 4: Like the next day, She's like, I want to do

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it again. I want to get on the boogie board

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and do it again.

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Speaker 3: So she got it again.

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Speaker 4: And so if you remember last year, I was like,

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I'm gonna get into surfing, and I took a couple

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lessons and then like that was hit. Then winter came

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around and I was like, yeah, okay, I'm just gonna

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put this off. And then I saw her doing that

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and I was like, okay, I'm getting back into surfing again.

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I went out and I bought a surfboard yesterday, like

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I used the one off off her up, and I'm like,

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I am going to get good at surfing. So by

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the time she's old enough, like it could be a

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fun thing that me and I could do. We can

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I could like teach her to surf later. And so

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now I'm all hot on my surfing again, so I

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can get good enough, and then I think I will

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like it based on how much she was having fun

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Speaker 2: So yeah, you having You're gonna do it every week.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna try if I can find time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, if I get like, if I can get

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like enough work done, like at nights or like over

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the weekend. Then you know, there's some days where I'm

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at home. It's normally when I do a lot of editing.

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It's like, Okay, I take both the girls to school

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and then I have like a couple hours where I

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normally just work and do my edits. So like during

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that time the girls are at school, you know, everyone's

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at work. I was like, Okay, if I can get

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all my work done, then I can use this time

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to go and practice surfing and get better at it.

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Speaker 2: That's really cool.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: I have a friend that I grew I see him

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from time to time because he's a manager at my

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Gelson's in my neighborhood, and he I had known him

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since I was a teenager, went to high school with him.

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like Dick Clark like he because I think he gets

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up every morning and goes surfing before he goes to work.

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into his fifth d He's a dad, his kids serve

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and it keeps him.

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Speaker 1: He looks really young.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean the surfers they get up really early.

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myself up that early one day and do that. Yeah,

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it's a good workout for now. I'm just gonna go

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at like you know, ten am. But if I can

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get it, it takes a lot of practice. Like I've

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researched it twice now, because that's what I do. I

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get really into things, and then I researched him my research.

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I researched and I go, okay, I'm not and then

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it just falls off. And then a year later surfing

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has the background, I go, I shouldn't and then I

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have to go re research all the things I was

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researching last year, and pretty much the general consensus is

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consensus is like.

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Speaker 3: You got to do it a lot.

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Speaker 4: You gotta be going like at least every week, let

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alone like a couple of times a week. It's gonna

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take you like six months to a year to get

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up because I bought it's like a big giant board, right.

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like that hard top. They're like you need one of those.

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It's eight feet long. It's giant. I put it in

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my pond car. It takes up the whole like my suv.

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you to be on that thing for like at least

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six months to a year before you can even get

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on like, you know, a more fun like shorter looking surfboard.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think Kln going off to surf camp.

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Speaker 1: I'm proud of you for not having bought all this

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stuff when you were first interested in almost because that's

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how I how I run things. It's like when I

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even just get an inkling of being it, like you

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know what, we're all going to bike ride, then you

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know there's me on either the buy nothing group or

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Facebook market like I'm gonna get bikes for everybody, and

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then that's like my whole thing for a while until

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I get like raped and murdered in a you know,

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doing a Facebook that's that's a terrible joke to make

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you know what I'm saying. I And then but then

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nobody gets interested in doing the thing, So then I

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have to then sell the resell the bikes or yeah,

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give them away or leave them out in the curb

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to be stolen.

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Speaker 4: Right I used I used offer up, So that's a

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good app I've bought. I've bought in snowboarding gear, and

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a good app for forgetting stuff. But I have a

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buddy of mine is a big surfer that I work with,

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and he's like, here, have a swimsuit. I mean yeah,

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and they're like jumping at me kit kit. Maybe it's

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kite surfing. I think windsurfing is something else. And I

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was like, that looks really fun. I should get into that.

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told you this, I took. They sent me to go

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take a surf lesson and I could. I mean I

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was trying it for like two hours. I could never.

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I never was able to get up, not one time.

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Speaker 3: It's hard.

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Speaker 2: It's very, really hard.

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Speaker 1: And I tried. When I was thirty, I tried water skiing,

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and I finally got up on the water skis, like

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toward the end of my whole thing. I don't I

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don't know what's wrong with me. I guess water skiing.

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Speaker 2: Back too, but I remember learning for the first time

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that first time you get up, you're like, oh my god,

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when somebody lets go and you're like, I'm doing it.

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and the first one I was like doing all day.

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going to come back and do another one. And I

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like they were bigger and faster, and I just ate

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shit like every single time, and I was like, oh, fuck,

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Speaker 3: As easy as I thought it was going to be.

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Speaker 1: Now you're gonna have to be like getting up like

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Kaylin, that is so funny. This is

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you're gonna be the dad too. And Lynette and I

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have been through it where your kids are gonna express

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interest in something one day and you're gonna go buy

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all the gear, get the most expensive. Like they're gonna

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be like, I really like drawing, and you're gonna go,

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I'm going to I'm gonna get the best charcoal pencils

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that are like eighty dollars, all this stuff, and then

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it doesn't get a two week later. They're gonna yeah, no,

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they'll never use it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I can't remember any of my kids wanting to do

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a hobby. Uh, not that I could not off the

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top of my head, like as far as like instruments

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or anything that I bought, But I mean just little

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things like Natalia doing the rainbow loom bracelets and remember

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those stupid oh my god, making the slime added to

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the store to get glue and shit every other day. Yes,

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I'm talking about like taking ice skating, Like I know

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Natalia was actually into ice skating. But I went through

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a phase where Sadie thought she wanted to ice skate, remember,

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and then I was going to like the ice rink.

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Panorama City. Drive in my ass all the way out

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there with her, and she liked it a few times,

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trying to track down some you I got her like

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used ice skates by like good ones, like barely used. Yeah,

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and then you know, she lost it. And then I

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signed up for the lessons and then I would have

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to go there freeze my ass off, yes, and then

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she hated it and then she wouldn't really take part

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right in the actual world.

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like I took her ice skating for the first time.

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the ice skating rink and they were like, we're we're

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doing a play for the Grinch and it's a bunch

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of little kids of all ages. If she wants to join,

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like's not she hasn't even been around the rink once.

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she's never ice skating. He's like, it's fine, and then

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she was in the freaking Grinch and then that was it.

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she was going every week and I was bundling up

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and going to the ice skating ring and she was

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in a competition like in Anaheim, and she won a

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little thing. And then when we moved, nobody in our

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neighborhood went ice skating right, and then she was onto

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the next thing.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like my kids have been through so

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many things that and I don't know if this is

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living in la and I know we've talked about this

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a million times, but you do like want your kids

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to have a thing starting from when they're young, because

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everybody freaking specializes in something, right, like these kids, like

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you know, they've got dads like Kaylin putting them in

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soccer at like three, you know, and then next thing

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you know, they're like these amazing soccer players in high

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school and then getting like these so you're like, okay, yeah,

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my kids are going to do that too, like I'm

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gonna get them in basketball young. But then they do

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it for a while and you're like, not that talented.

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you know, she was always a smart player and she

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was good, but she was tiny and she just wasn't

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aggressive enough. I know we've talked about this a million times,

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but like you reach a point where you're like, oh,

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I've sunk, We've sunk a few years in this and

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it's fun and I love it, but you're not going

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to be And sure enough, it didn't even last through

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high school. I know, COVID happened. But then both you know,

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and then Sadie and Xander with their basketball, but then

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Sadie never wanted to go to practice, and look.

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and stuff.

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Speaker 1: But that was something that he just did on his own.

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Even though John was like okay, great, oh you like guitar, great,

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we'll get you lessons, and he was like, no, thank you,

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and on his own. And they always say like I

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remember talking to a friend of mine about kids and gymnastics,

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and it's like, because I think Elbie was going to

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try gymnastics. But my thing was like, if you're not

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out on your front lawn into it doing gymnastics like

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every day trying to look, you're not going to stick

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with it just because you stick them in expensive lessons, Right,

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it has to come from within them. They have to

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be really into it. They have to love it, right,

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and I think it's okay if kids start something they

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could try it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah they're into it or they're not, right, like, yeah,

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I put Sonny and Italia in. I put Sonny and dance,

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just like I did for Natalia. I put them in

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gymnastics and she because she wanted to do those things,

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not necessarily him. They were really young and he just

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was not into it at all. He just didn't want

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to do the dance recital, but he went along with

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it because we were doing it and he was so young.

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But then after that it was like hell no, it

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wasn't for him and it wasn't for her either.

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Speaker 1: She didn't want to do dance or gymnastics.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then eventually they find their thing.

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Speaker 1: And you know, my brother and sister in law with

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my niece and nephew. With my nephew, they he was

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a little ham from a young age and they got

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him into acting. He was doing dance and he would

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be like the only boy with a bunch of girls.

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But he was super funny, like he whatever the dance

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was doing. He wasn't always doing the exact dance they

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were doing, but he was just like hamming it up.

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a lot into i know you relate to this, but

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into him acting. And he did a couple little things

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and he was in some like plays, but they were

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like in it and then one day he was like eh.

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Speaker 2: Like, oh really was he going on auditions and things?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah really all the time. Yeah, But then one

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day he was like, yeah, not that into it anymore.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And it's been kind of like that with a with

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stuff right with him, right. But they were always the

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parents that like, oh, you want to play drums. Then

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they would go by like the most expensive, huge drum

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set and then he would take lessons, like a couple

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lessons and then lose interest and then they'd have a

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drum set. It's a huge yeah, whereas at least I

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would get it used exactly. I was always like, I

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am not shelling out like thousands of dollars for this

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thing that you may not actually ran into. And sure enough,

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most of the things they were like did not go

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that far. And even their guitars, I bought used guitars.

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by nothing like acoustic guitar because now they have a

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few guitars. It wasn't until they were really playing for

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a while because John wanted to get I remember Xander

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a guitar first, and I was like, wait, wait till

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he's been playing for a year. I want to see

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him playing that guitar every day and really learning, and

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then we'll get him an electric guitar, which we did

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and it was a great investment. And then same with Sadie.

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I was like, oh, Sadie says she wants to play, let's.

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Speaker 2: See, yes, yeah, they can share a guitar.

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Speaker 1: Well, Xander would always be like absolutely not, do not

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touch my stuff. How is how Sadie do a driving.

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Speaker 2: She's driving now doing so great.

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Speaker 1: She she doesn't really drive on the freeway. I need

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I need John to go out driving with her on

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the freeway to get her a little more comfortable. So

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she takes workarounds. She'll take city streets everywhere she goes.

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But she drives every day she takes. She drives to

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school every day she does. Oh yeah, she has been

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driving both of them to school for like six months.

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Oh nice, Yeah, so and she drives. The other night

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she went out somewhere by herself to she drove from

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our house to like a gathering in West Hills, just

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drove herself home.

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Speaker 2: And she doesn't take the freeway. I was like that too, really,

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like the first year I didn't want to get on

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the freeway. Nobody took me driving in my family. But

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then I think Mike Gerstein was like, you got to

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learn how to drive on the freeway now, and he

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taught me to get on the freeway. So I did

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it with him and then I got used to it.

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But I remember, like the first year I did not

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get on the freeway.

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Speaker 1: LA freeways are scary.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I hated it was too much for me.

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Speaker 1: I loved driving on the freeway. What Like when I

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moved back to LA. So I got my driver's license

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in Massachusetts and Springfield, mass which was really not hard

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to drive. There lots of open roads, you know, very

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little traffic. I moved back to LA. I'd had my

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driver's license for like two years, and then had to

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drive in LA and was thrown into it because I

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moved here by myself drove here, so all of a sudden,

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I was like driving on the freeway with my Maza

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GLC that had one hundred thousand miles on it and

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the rust through the floorboard. Oh, and the car wouldn't

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really go over like forty five fifty miles per hour.

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So I was having to drive on the freeway with

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that piece of sh That's horrible.

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Speaker 4: It was.

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Speaker 1: I was scared every day. Yeah, then I got used

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to it, and then got another car, and then as

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I've aged, I've gotten unused to it again, and now

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it gives me anxiety again. Sometimes it does. Yeah, I

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the freeways.

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Speaker 2: I just had to go to the DMV to get

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my new my license expired. I had to take the test.

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Oh you take it, Yeah, to take a written thing.

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Why it was really easy. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: My thing expired and they were like, now you.

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Speaker 2: Have to take a test, and I was like, okay,

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I don't know if it's because I got I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's because I got some speeding tickets. Oh really in.

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Speaker 2: Like the last two years, so not recently. Huh So

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maybe I don't know. But it was pretty quick and painless.

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Speaker 1: And then but to study for it, no.

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Speaker 2: I just took it. It was it was so dumb.

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It was kind of basic, you know, basic knowledge.

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Speaker 1: There weren't things about like the like how many would

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an oncoming car? How far do you have to be

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to turn on your high beam?

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Speaker 2: No, so it shows you, like it tells you everything

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and goes you know, so when you're in a school zone,

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you're supposed to go twenty five, when you're in this zone,

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you go. When you're in a bike like, so it

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tells you and then it asks you the questions.

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Speaker 1: Oh so it's that reading comprehension.

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Speaker 2: It was like a virtual test. So I signed up

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to do it at home, which I did at home.

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Took me I don't know, like a couple of days

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I did it. Took a break, but it's pretty easy

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then then you make the appointment. Then you go in

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and get your picture taken, get a new license.

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Speaker 1: That's that. So when you took it at home, do

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they do a thing so that you can't cheat?

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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, you can't cheat? Like I I was like,

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can I fast forward? Can I put it on speed

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like higher speed? Couldn't do any of that. Just got

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to you know, get to the next screen, Get to

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the next screen.

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Speaker 1: But like, you can't google the answers on your phone.

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Now I didn't need it. You don't need to.

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Speaker 2: They tell you the answers and then they ask you

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the questions. Then they go to the next you know,

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safety or they'll go highway driving, or they'll go the

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next thing, and then they'll give you the you know.

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Speaker 1: Then they write and.

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Speaker 2: If you don't get the answer right, it goes incorrect.

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Try again.

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conditions supply seasite for details. Okay, yeah, how is your week?

480
00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:34,160
My week was fine yesterday. My neighbors. Okay, so we

481
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:37,960
have a new a new neighbor and their dog gets

482
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:42,839
out sometimes. So one time, I hope they never listened

483
00:23:42,839 --> 00:23:44,759
to the show. It doesn't even matter. It's not even

484
00:23:45,079 --> 00:23:47,920
a big slim. They're really nice. They're very nice neighbors.

485
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,440
Let me say that. So their dog got out, and

486
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:54,519
I know phil dogs get out. This happens sometimes. We

487
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:58,440
have a neighborhood where seriously, some of these some dogs

488
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:00,920
just wander the neighborhood and we know who they belonged to.

489
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,200
But so our neighbor's dog got out. This is a

490
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:09,799
while ago. My other neighbor. You know how I've told

491
00:24:09,799 --> 00:24:12,720
you about my neighbor, Mitch, who's his mom is like

492
00:24:12,799 --> 00:24:15,039
kind of a busy body. Remember she's the one that

493
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:17,240
was like, who are you talking to on the phone, Like, right,

494
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:20,480
are you always on your telephone? Okay? So Mitch is

495
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,200
her son, and he's super nice and we go on

496
00:24:23,279 --> 00:24:26,680
walks together. But he knows what's going on with every

497
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:30,799
single He's a Missus Kravitz, you know. So one time

498
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:33,720
he texted me he was like, do you know whose

499
00:24:33,759 --> 00:24:36,160
dog this is? It was my next door neighbor's dog.

500
00:24:37,319 --> 00:24:40,279
The dog had been wandering. He found the dog. Then

501
00:24:40,319 --> 00:24:43,359
they put the dog in back. So my neighbors have

502
00:24:43,759 --> 00:24:46,440
the front of their house is all fenced. Put the

503
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:51,000
dog in front of the house. Somehow I figured out

504
00:24:51,039 --> 00:24:53,640
my neighbors. He'd given me his phone number, so I

505
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:59,319
contacted the neighbor and then his wife was sleeping, but

506
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,480
he had to give me all these really intricate instructions

507
00:25:02,519 --> 00:25:05,319
on where to find his spare key because he wanted

508
00:25:05,319 --> 00:25:07,240
me to open the front door of the house because

509
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:10,559
he couldn't rouse. His wife works nights, so she's asleep.

510
00:25:11,599 --> 00:25:13,319
So he was like, but I would need the dog

511
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:14,920
to go in the house because he was at work.

512
00:25:15,519 --> 00:25:18,519
So I got into their house and I let the

513
00:25:18,519 --> 00:25:22,440
dog in their house, and I was all scared. The

514
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:25,240
dog was scared. I was scared. The dog was scared

515
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:27,799
because it's just like a timid dog. But I was like,

516
00:25:27,839 --> 00:25:30,200
what if the alarm goes off? What you know? It

517
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:33,519
felt like a cat sleeping in the other room. She's sleeping.

518
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:36,240
I was like, what if she hears the front door open?

519
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:38,640
I literally said to the guy on the text. I

520
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:40,319
was like, oh, I was talking to him on the phone.

521
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,720
I'm like, what if she hears the front door open.

522
00:25:42,759 --> 00:25:44,240
He's like, she's not going to hear it. She's going

523
00:25:44,279 --> 00:25:47,039
to sleep through it. I was like, the last thing

524
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:51,039
I need is somebody like coming up with a gun. Right. Yeah, Anyway,

525
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,319
it all worked out and it was fine. But then

526
00:25:54,559 --> 00:25:59,640
yesterday dog wandering the neighborhood again. So now I know

527
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:02,920
the all. But the dog is very like I said,

528
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:05,279
he's very scared and he was running the other way.

529
00:26:05,319 --> 00:26:07,759
So now I got me and my other neighbor and

530
00:26:07,799 --> 00:26:10,960
we're trying to catch the dog to get and put

531
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,279
the dog back in the yard. His dog keep getting out.

532
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:18,160
That's a good question, that was my question. So we

533
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,920
we have to we open the front gate, their front gate.

534
00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:23,440
I go in the house and get a treat. It's

535
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,680
like a whole operation, right, It's like a whole sting operation.

536
00:26:27,279 --> 00:26:30,279
I go get a treat. I'm standing this way. Somebody's

537
00:26:30,319 --> 00:26:32,039
on the other side of the dog. So then we're

538
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:35,000
but then the dog is like seriously like a cat,

539
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:40,319
like just skin runs. It's young, it's got energy, so

540
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:44,079
it just took off really fast. It's like a little

541
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:48,960
little Collie type of dog, but like a little one,

542
00:26:49,599 --> 00:26:53,799
like a little border collie. Yeah. Anyway, so we finally

543
00:26:53,839 --> 00:26:58,519
get it into the gate, close the gate. So I

544
00:26:58,559 --> 00:27:01,799
text the neighbor. I'm like, hey, there's no cars in

545
00:27:01,839 --> 00:27:04,359
their driveway, so they're not home. I was like, hey,

546
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:08,640
we got your dog. Your dog was wandering the neighborhood. Again.

547
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:12,759
We got we got. It's a him. We got him.

548
00:27:12,799 --> 00:27:17,000
And the name is like something you're never gonna remember.

549
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:19,480
It's like they named their dog like a Hebrew name.

550
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:23,880
So it's it goes in my head as they've told

551
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:25,880
me the name like twelve times, and I just go

552
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,240
ah huh. And then I can't ever. I'm like, your dog,

553
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:33,960
that's your dog. He's in your front yard. What do

554
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:37,839
you want me to do? Please advise because so he's like,

555
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:40,640
oh man, oh no. So then I'm not hearing back

556
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:43,599
from him, and the texts are coming up in Green Uh.

557
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 4: Oh.

558
00:27:45,079 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 1: Then now my other neighbor. I have this other neighbor

559
00:27:49,839 --> 00:27:54,759
who's also super nice. Apparently she was on the maybe

560
00:27:54,799 --> 00:27:58,519
the first, maybe the second season of Big Brother. Oh really,

561
00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:01,440
yeah did you used to watch? Yeah? Her name is

562
00:28:01,599 --> 00:28:07,640
Erica Erica. Yeah, she was like an og Big Brother totally.

563
00:28:07,839 --> 00:28:10,880
Now she's a casting person. She casts like some Bravo shows.

564
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:16,519
But anyway, she's super nice. She and I years ago

565
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:20,519
found this chihuahua running around the neighborhood that was super scared,

566
00:28:20,599 --> 00:28:23,519
had no collar, and she and I spent literally like

567
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:26,720
four hours trying to catch this chihuahua. Eventually I gave

568
00:28:26,799 --> 00:28:29,079
up and went in the house, but she finally got

569
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:32,359
it and then tried to find its owner, couldn't find

570
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:34,839
its owner, and then that was her pet for years.

571
00:28:35,559 --> 00:28:38,119
Then he passed away and they got a new little

572
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:42,759
Chihuahua Oh yeah, named Joey. It's really cute. But anyway,

573
00:28:43,079 --> 00:28:45,799
so she's a total dog lover. So now she's worried.

574
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,480
So she's like, what if the dog can jump the fence.

575
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:51,880
I'm like, I don't think he can jump the fence.

576
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,400
It's kind of high. So she's like, can you ask

577
00:28:54,559 --> 00:28:57,519
your neighbor. So I'm texting. I'm the only one that

578
00:28:57,599 --> 00:29:00,680
has the neighbor's phone number. So anyway, he gets back

579
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,680
to me and he's like, oh my gosh, sorry, I

580
00:29:03,759 --> 00:29:06,039
just I was on a flight. I just landed. And

581
00:29:06,119 --> 00:29:08,640
I'm like, did you land here? Are you here? And

582
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:10,799
he's like, yeah, I'm in town, but it's going to

583
00:29:10,839 --> 00:29:12,559
be a while till I can get my car and

584
00:29:12,599 --> 00:29:17,480
get home. I think she should be fine, and he's like,

585
00:29:17,559 --> 00:29:19,079
let me hold on, I'm going to figure out where

586
00:29:19,119 --> 00:29:22,000
my wife is. Then I just don't hear back. So

587
00:29:22,119 --> 00:29:25,279
then I'm like, hey, did you locate your wife? Like

588
00:29:25,319 --> 00:29:26,720
what do you want me to do? It's still kind

589
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:29,440
of hot out at this point, I can't bring his

590
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:35,640
dog in my house because penelpe will freak out. So anyway,

591
00:29:36,839 --> 00:29:40,599
time goes by. Erica goes and gets a bowl of water.

592
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:43,400
She goes to my house like we're making this. It's

593
00:29:43,519 --> 00:29:45,839
becomes a whole thing. She goes to my house and

594
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:49,559
it's like, hey, can you tell Stephanie that I'm bringing

595
00:29:49,599 --> 00:29:51,920
a bowl of water over there for the dog. So

596
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:54,279
then John's trying to text me, Hey, Erica is looking

597
00:29:54,279 --> 00:29:56,960
for you. I'm like all right, everybody, I'm on a

598
00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:02,200
walk at this point with Penelope. So anyway, long story short,

599
00:30:02,559 --> 00:30:05,519
I guess somebody got home. The dog just was in

600
00:30:05,559 --> 00:30:09,559
their front yard, which made me think that in the

601
00:30:09,599 --> 00:30:12,079
old days, dogs just lived in the front yard or

602
00:30:12,119 --> 00:30:14,759
the backyard and they were fine. Now we now I'm

603
00:30:14,799 --> 00:30:17,400
acting like, oh my god, this dog's been like alone

604
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:23,039
in a yard. Yeah, get them at hours, right. So anyway,

605
00:30:24,319 --> 00:30:28,319
finally I asked the guy, hey, are you almost are

606
00:30:28,319 --> 00:30:30,519
you are you almost home? And he's like, yeah, I'm

607
00:30:30,599 --> 00:30:34,920
on my way. But this is like hours later. Suffice

608
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:37,640
it to say, they never texted me again. They never

609
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:38,920
said like, hey we got home.

610
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 2: Really yeah, nothing, no, nothing.

611
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 1: So I never heard anything, and I was like, that's

612
00:30:44,519 --> 00:30:46,799
kind of weird, like you'd think they would just be like, hey,

613
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:50,079
I made it home, dog's in the house. All's good.

614
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:53,079
But then this morning, right as I was about to.

615
00:30:53,079 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 2: Tell you this story, dog got out again.

616
00:30:57,319 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 1: No, he just wrote, he just wrote, Hey, I just

617
00:30:59,519 --> 00:31:03,559
want to say thank you again for yesterday. Uh oh,

618
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:07,839
this was this was the thing though. He I was like, Okay,

619
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:10,519
if you're not home and your wife isn't home and

620
00:31:10,559 --> 00:31:14,079
you were on a trip, how is the how did

621
00:31:14,079 --> 00:31:15,960
the dog get out? Yeah, so I had said, do

622
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,359
you guys have a doggy door? Like, maybe there's their

623
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:20,960
side gate I think can get open. So I was like,

624
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:25,359
do you guys have a doggy door? And he goes nope. Now,

625
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:27,039
so here's the thing. I didn't want to be like

626
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:30,319
confrontational and go okay, well, then if nobody's home, are

627
00:31:30,359 --> 00:31:33,599
you just leaving the dog in the yard, like while

628
00:31:33,599 --> 00:31:38,240
you're on a trip? Right? But I know wife's around,

629
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:42,759
she wasn't home. Then she wasn't home. But so then

630
00:31:42,759 --> 00:31:46,480
he said, oh, I think maybe the gardeners left the

631
00:31:46,519 --> 00:31:50,160
side gate open. But the gardeners had not been there

632
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,519
all day, so that was weird. So then it was

633
00:31:53,519 --> 00:31:57,440
like becoming a little mystery. So then I text Erica

634
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,240
and I was like, Okay, so this is kind of weird.

635
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:03,519
And then I tell her he says, he says, they

636
00:32:03,519 --> 00:32:05,920
don't have a doggy door, but the dog got out

637
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:08,759
of the side gate. Oh, because I go, the dog

638
00:32:08,799 --> 00:32:12,839
can't jump the fence. He said, basically, he thinks it

639
00:32:12,839 --> 00:32:16,160
got out of the side gate, but they're saying he's

640
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,480
saying maybe the gardener's left it open, but the gardeners

641
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,440
haven't been here and now of course she was on

642
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:24,680
She was like that is sus uh huh right, But

643
00:32:24,799 --> 00:32:26,599
I was like, what am I? Then I sent her

644
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:28,920
a little emoji of the nervous emoji. I was like,

645
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:30,759
but what am I going to do? Confront him and

646
00:32:30,799 --> 00:32:33,880
go it's things are not adding up? Yes, how did your.

647
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,519
Speaker 2: Dog get Do something so that the dog doesn't keep

648
00:32:36,559 --> 00:32:37,720
getting out?

649
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and listen, like I said, I totally get it

650
00:32:43,519 --> 00:32:45,359
if the dog got out because somebody like left the

651
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:47,880
gate open for a second. That can happen, as it's

652
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:51,000
happened with film many times. Yeah, what was What was

653
00:32:51,039 --> 00:32:56,759
worrying me was like, are you nobody's home right right right?

654
00:32:56,839 --> 00:33:00,240
So there's no gardeners, so how you need to figure

655
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:02,200
out how the dog is getting out? But also I

656
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:04,440
would rather like you leave your dog in the house

657
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:07,160
when you're not home exactly, that's all right.

658
00:33:07,599 --> 00:33:10,359
Speaker 2: There were times where I was living at the condo

659
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:15,400
and I was like on face neighborhood Facebook page once

660
00:33:15,839 --> 00:33:18,720
on a Saturday morning and there's Phil like on the

661
00:33:18,799 --> 00:33:21,960
horse trail, anybody know who this dog? Whose dog this is?

662
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:26,240
And there's four black labs in our neighborhood that look

663
00:33:26,759 --> 00:33:29,839
all the same and it's like maybe it's the Thompson's

664
00:33:30,079 --> 00:33:32,799
or maybe it's and I'm like, no, that's my dog.

665
00:33:33,559 --> 00:33:37,839
And then people so when I wasn't home, like you know,

666
00:33:38,119 --> 00:33:41,279
at the house, people were leaving Phil outside because it

667
00:33:41,319 --> 00:33:43,039
was a night's day. He had a pool, he had

668
00:33:43,079 --> 00:33:46,279
his water for a few hours. But I'm like, don't

669
00:33:47,319 --> 00:33:49,359
check the gates before you do that, because we have

670
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:53,640
a lot of gates around the property. Kids come visit,

671
00:33:53,799 --> 00:33:56,440
they come and go, they don't close the gate behind them.

672
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 1: And that's what was going on.

673
00:33:58,319 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 2: Ever since we moved out of that house. Nope, Phil

674
00:34:01,279 --> 00:34:03,960
has not gotten out right ever since.

675
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 1: Well, these people don't have kids. Yeah, I don't know. Yeah.

676
00:34:09,119 --> 00:34:11,280
I think that they need to figure out where the

677
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:14,039
dot where their dog is getting it's getting out somehow,

678
00:34:14,559 --> 00:34:16,559
because this is like the fourth time I know that

679
00:34:16,599 --> 00:34:19,639
the dog's gotten out. Yeah, two times that I have

680
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:22,679
a chi Oh I don't know. Yeah, and it doesn't

681
00:34:22,679 --> 00:34:27,039
have a collar. It's not wearing a collar, right, I

682
00:34:27,039 --> 00:34:31,800
hope it's chipped. I don't Yeah, but now I feel like,

683
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,599
what am I gonna like? Yeah, chip? I don't want

684
00:34:34,599 --> 00:34:39,119
to be a police. Yeah, It's like I let them live, right,

685
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:43,280
It's not a huge deal. It's just I feel bad.

686
00:34:43,559 --> 00:34:45,639
I feel bad if their dog gets out without a

687
00:34:45,679 --> 00:34:49,440
collar on. It literally disappears, yes, right, right, but obviously

688
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:54,880
kind of stays close. I guess. Yeah, So that's that.

689
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 2: That was that.

690
00:34:56,719 --> 00:35:02,199
Speaker 1: I have a question for you. Okay, So, Elbe, she

691
00:35:02,559 --> 00:35:05,320
is a tour guide at school, but she only gets

692
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:08,800
like a couple hours a week she does a tour.

693
00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:11,679
There's a lot of tour guides, so they get very

694
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,440
few actual hours to work. There's been a couple of

695
00:35:14,519 --> 00:35:17,880
times where she's done like an event at school where

696
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:21,400
there had where there were several tours. But you know, anyway,

697
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:26,519
my point is, so we're paying for college. When she

698
00:35:26,679 --> 00:35:30,440
was working, I never had to pay I paid for

699
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:33,760
her phone, I paid for her car insurance. We got

700
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:38,360
her a car, but she all of her expenses, like

701
00:35:38,519 --> 00:35:41,840
any living the lifestyle that she'd grown accustomed to, which

702
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:45,000
is going to sushi with her friends and buying clothes.

703
00:35:45,119 --> 00:35:48,760
All those things she paid for herself, right for years,

704
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:52,599
because she got a job at seventeen, like barely seventeen.

705
00:35:52,639 --> 00:35:55,559
She turned seventeen in November. By that January, she was

706
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working and she never stopped until she went to UCLA. Yeah,

707
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:04,159
I have noticed though that it is really hard, and

708
00:36:04,199 --> 00:36:06,199
I'm wondering if a lot of parents deal with this.

709
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You know, she obviously can't have like work the type

710
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of hours she was working before, and she thought that

711
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:15,800
having this job as a tour guide would be like

712
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:19,679
enough hours, but it's not. It's hardly any money. So

713
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:25,199
I've been supplementing her money a lot, but it's not

714
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:28,719
like she's really cut her spending. Like I don't know

715
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:30,719
the last time she shop for clothes. She doesn't have

716
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,840
the money. But I feel bad because I feel like

717
00:36:34,119 --> 00:36:36,639
every week, I'm like one hundred dollars here, one hundred

718
00:36:36,639 --> 00:36:38,960
and fifty dollars here, two hundred dollars there. The kid

719
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:42,119
needs groceries. She doesn't have a meal plan at school

720
00:36:43,039 --> 00:36:45,679
because of the way it works the way the kids

721
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:48,559
that live where she lives, there isn't a meal plan.

722
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:52,519
They're not near all the dining halls, so you could

723
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get a meal plan, but it's very expensive and they

724
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:56,880
can only use it once a day and they have

725
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,280
to be it has to be during certain hours. So

726
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:01,960
none of the parents did it. Yeah, so I have

727
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:06,119
to pay for food anyway. I'm noticing that, like I'm

728
00:37:06,159 --> 00:37:10,800
just hemorrhaging money to her on top of college. Yeah,

729
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:14,800
should I be budgeting so that she has some spending money.

730
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:18,559
Should I give her like a lump sum or should I.

731
00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:22,760
Speaker 2: Give Sunny an Italian allowance every two weeks and they

732
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can save the allowance and save up, like, well, she

733
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:28,920
wants to get her nails done, you know, if that,

734
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:33,679
But that allowance is like for food and her gas

735
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:38,360
and stuff like that. But so once in a while,

736
00:37:38,519 --> 00:37:41,320
like she'll ask for a little extra, but for the

737
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:45,039
most part, she's on a budget. And now she's gonna

738
00:37:45,079 --> 00:37:49,840
be home made twenty second and she's already looking like

739
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:53,000
she wants to. She's definitely getting a job, both of them.

740
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:56,639
And we were just talking yesterday about when she gets home,

741
00:37:56,679 --> 00:37:59,760
helping her update her resume a little bit and refresh it.

742
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:03,199
But yeah, when she's home this summer, she's gonna go

743
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:06,039
back to work because she misses being able to have

744
00:38:06,079 --> 00:38:07,000
her spending money.

745
00:38:07,639 --> 00:38:10,679
Speaker 1: You know, it's hard they at home.

746
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:15,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, they she cooks a lot, like, they don't rarely

747
00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:21,079
eat out, so yeah, they buy groceries and stuff. But yeah,

748
00:38:21,119 --> 00:38:22,800
when she gets home, she's gonna.

749
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:25,440
Speaker 1: When Albie has money. She spends it like when she

750
00:38:25,519 --> 00:38:28,679
says money, she goes out, they you know, whatever, they

751
00:38:28,679 --> 00:38:32,159
go drinking. She spends she I know, she tries to save,

752
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:36,599
but it's hard. You know, she's used to living a

753
00:38:36,599 --> 00:38:39,599
certain lifestyle, so she's not used to being a total

754
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Yuh so, yeah, I wanted to add ask you a question. Okay,

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So I went out to dinner for Susanne's birthday the

806
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other night with our friends we used to work with,

807
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and I was telling them this story that one of

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our friends told me on our trip last weekend. Basically,

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his mother in law, his wife was traveling or whatever.

810
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His mother in law.

811
00:42:24,639 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 2: Called the wife his wife, and she was saying like,

812
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I've just been robbed. I'm beat up. You know, I'm

813
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at the house. You know, send an ambulance. They want

814
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money or something like that.

815
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:43,159
Speaker 1: Wait, I'm not tracking this story. This this the wife.

816
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Speaker 2: The wife was his wife or she was traveling, but

817
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:52,760
her her mother called her and said I was beat

818
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up and you know, her own house, at her own house. Okay,

819
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:58,800
So she called her husband and she was like, oh my,

820
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:02,880
like freaking out. He's calling like nine to one one police.

821
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:06,320
He's driving over there, and I don't know if you

822
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:07,199
know where this is going.

823
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:07,639
Speaker 1: I do.

824
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:12,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, total AI hoax. But it was her voice, so

825
00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:13,360
I was telling.

826
00:43:13,199 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 3: Her where did the number come from?

827
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:15,159
Speaker 4: Though?

828
00:43:15,199 --> 00:43:15,559
Speaker 1: Okay?

829
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:21,199
Speaker 2: So coincidentally, her phone number is always coming from a

830
00:43:22,039 --> 00:43:25,199
no ID. She calls from like a no ID line,

831
00:43:25,199 --> 00:43:29,480
like she's got her number, moldline. So so that's what

832
00:43:29,519 --> 00:43:33,159
they That's what it said, no ID. But then I

833
00:43:33,199 --> 00:43:35,599
was talking to my friends about it over the dinner

834
00:43:35,639 --> 00:43:37,840
the other night, and they were like they knew people

835
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:41,800
that it happened to, like with their voices, and I

836
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:44,400
was like, have you do you I have you heard

837
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:47,360
of anybody, like, have you guys heard of anybody getting

838
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:49,280
this like swatting phone call?

839
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:52,599
Speaker 1: I don't know of any I don't know a personal story,

840
00:43:52,639 --> 00:43:54,599
but you do hear about this all the time and

841
00:43:54,679 --> 00:43:57,079
it supposedly is sounds really real.

842
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't I don't know anyone personally, but definitely

843
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:02,039
as soon as you started saying that went oh yeah,

844
00:44:02,079 --> 00:44:03,079
this is one of those AI.

845
00:44:03,159 --> 00:44:04,639
Speaker 1: Things that's insane.

846
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:08,440
Speaker 2: Like I so now I'm thinking, like, do should I

847
00:44:08,519 --> 00:44:12,280
come up with a secret password like for my kids?

848
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:13,079
Speaker 1: Yeah?

849
00:44:13,159 --> 00:44:18,199
Speaker 2: Because I I've been like, uh, dealing with like you know,

850
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:20,280
my lease is up, and so I've been trying to

851
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:23,320
like get the least thing finished. And there's like a

852
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:25,559
seven oh two number that calls me. And now I

853
00:44:25,559 --> 00:44:28,079
don't know if it's them that I'm supposed to be.

854
00:44:28,159 --> 00:44:31,039
You know, you're waiting for a phone number, But lately

855
00:44:31,079 --> 00:44:33,320
in the last two days, I'm answering the phone and

856
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:36,199
I'm like hello, Hello, and it's nobody. And now I'm going,

857
00:44:36,199 --> 00:44:38,559
oh fuck, are they gonna like pull a stunt like

858
00:44:38,599 --> 00:44:40,960
that on my kids or something like should we come

859
00:44:41,039 --> 00:44:45,159
up with a password something a code word, because it's

860
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:46,800
starting to happen a lot lately.

861
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:52,199
Speaker 1: You know, John answers the phone from unknown numbers all

862
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:54,639
the time, and I'm like, what are how bored are

863
00:44:54,679 --> 00:44:57,079
you that you're answering the phone? And then he'll get

864
00:44:57,079 --> 00:45:00,599
annoyed and be like, no, I don't want any or whatever,

865
00:45:00,679 --> 00:45:03,239
and I'm like, why are you answering calls from numbers

866
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:05,519
you don't recognize? And he's like, well, I don't know.

867
00:45:05,599 --> 00:45:08,719
You never know, Like if it doesn't say it's a scam.

868
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:11,000
I'm like, if even if it doesn't say it's a scam,

869
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:12,760
if it's a number you've never heard of, it, don't

870
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,079
answer it. Yeah, let it go to voicemail.

871
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 2: Right.

872
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:18,719
Speaker 1: Chances are they will not leave a voicemail.

873
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:20,559
Speaker 2: Because that's what his mother in law would do when

874
00:45:20,559 --> 00:45:23,760
she was always answering the phone, and maybe they got

875
00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:27,719
her voice that way. But it's kind of crazy and scary.

876
00:45:29,199 --> 00:45:30,960
So I didn't know if it's like because the two

877
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,119
people I was having dinner, what they're like, Oh, yeah,

878
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:34,480
happened to somebody at work?

879
00:45:35,039 --> 00:45:37,880
Speaker 1: Like really, I'd never.

880
00:45:37,519 --> 00:45:39,800
Speaker 2: Heard anybody that I know that it's happening.

881
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:44,199
Speaker 1: To AI has gotten so scary. Yes, I know. I

882
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,599
mean we used to years ago when we first started

883
00:45:46,679 --> 00:45:51,199
joking about OL like finding us stuff that answering our interests.

884
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:55,639
The algorithm is out of control though now it is.

885
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:58,400
It does. Your phone does listen to you, and I

886
00:45:58,519 --> 00:46:00,400
know there's some kind of setting where you can make

887
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:02,679
it not listen to you, but I haven't figured out

888
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:06,159
how to find that setting. So my phone listens to me,

889
00:46:06,559 --> 00:46:09,480
which listen I'll bee sometimes is great. You know.

890
00:46:09,559 --> 00:46:11,679
Speaker 2: I think you need to go into the ad mind

891
00:46:12,159 --> 00:46:15,880
like Instagram and turn the microphone off, or go into Facebook. Oh,

892
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:18,719
go into each app and turn the microphone.

893
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:23,119
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, because that that shit hears me, right,

894
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:29,199
it's always listening. Daddy's always listening, you know, yeah, because

895
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:33,079
you'll say something. I'll say something just in conversation, and

896
00:46:33,119 --> 00:46:36,320
then I'll get ads for it. Oh yeah, totally. I was.

897
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:39,519
Speaker 2: It happened like a couple of weeks ago. I was

898
00:46:39,639 --> 00:46:42,360
talking to somebody. We were talking about, Oh, we were

899
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:45,519
talking about the Sopranos, and then I open up Instagram

900
00:46:45,519 --> 00:46:48,480
and it's like all these clips from the Sopranos that

901
00:46:48,559 --> 00:46:49,639
I never got before.

902
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:54,599
Speaker 1: I'm like okay, okay, al, and then you kind of

903
00:46:54,639 --> 00:46:57,960
wonder like what is that supposed to do? Like is

904
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:00,800
it like, hey, do you want to rewatch the sopran Yeah,

905
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:03,639
like you want to rewatch it? Well, you're gonna need HBO,

906
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:06,039
So do you want to sign up for HBO?

907
00:47:06,119 --> 00:47:06,199
Speaker 4: Like?

908
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:08,480
Speaker 1: Where is it? You're gonna say? It's not like, like

909
00:47:08,639 --> 00:47:12,840
here's what I understand. If you're scrolling your phone, you

910
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:15,159
know how sometimes you'll be like on your phone and

911
00:47:15,199 --> 00:47:17,920
there'll be an ad and you're not actually interested in

912
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:20,719
the ad, but you get distracted for a second and

913
00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:22,880
you leave your phone on the ad even though you're

914
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:26,320
not playing the eye. If you hesitate for a moment,

915
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:29,920
they're like, oh, oh you want those socks? You like socks?

916
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:30,760
Do you like socks?

917
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 4: Oh?

918
00:47:31,079 --> 00:47:33,360
Speaker 1: Well, guess what we got these kind of socks. We

919
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:36,119
got these kind of socks. And suddenly all you're seeing

920
00:47:36,199 --> 00:47:38,599
is ads for socks where you're like, I don't even

921
00:47:38,679 --> 00:47:41,519
fucking care about socks. Right now, you made a mistake.

922
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:44,800
I didn't even watch the ad. I just have to

923
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:49,039
pause my phone for a second. Calm down with the socks? Yeah, yes,

924
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:52,880
I got enough socks? Right well? I do love Bombas.

925
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:55,440
But I'm just saying, yeah, now, why I'm gonna get

926
00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:56,920
a bunch of ads for Bombas.

927
00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:59,519
Speaker 2: Right, That's what I'm thinking after we leave here.

928
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, let's try it.

929
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:05,400
Speaker 4: I've been getting a scam couple times now. That almost

930
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:05,719
got me.

931
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 3: The first time that was like, oh, you went on

932
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:08,639
the toll road?

933
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:11,199
Speaker 1: Yes?

934
00:48:11,679 --> 00:48:13,119
Speaker 2: Almost.

935
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:14,760
Speaker 4: She's like, did you go on the toll road in

936
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:16,119
my car? Because I drive her car. I was like, no,

937
00:48:16,159 --> 00:48:17,920
it's a scam, don't don't worry about it.

938
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Speaker 1: Got John almost sent them money, but but he was

939
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but because we have gone on the toll road, but

940
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:29,320
we have there's like an app, and there's a toll

941
00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:32,519
road app, because they really do charge you like six

942
00:48:32,599 --> 00:48:35,519
dollars to drive when you're driving to Orange County if

943
00:48:35,559 --> 00:48:38,920
you don't have a certain pass on your phone, it's

944
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:42,480
a certain road that we drove that legitimately we have.

945
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:47,280
We had to pay a toll right. But there's another

946
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:49,840
one that is a scam that says it's the toll

947
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:52,280
roads and it just comes up as a text. And

948
00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:54,360
then John was like trying to look it up and

949
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:58,199
trying to pay it, and he found the app basically

950
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:01,239
and it said zero balance, and he's like, why is

951
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:03,079
it saying that I And I was like, it's a

952
00:49:03,119 --> 00:49:06,960
scam because the actual toll we paid. And then I

953
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:09,320
had to he didn't understand. I had to like show him.

954
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:11,599
I was like, look, look at it on my computer.

955
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:14,519
We paid this. We haven't been on that road. If

956
00:49:14,559 --> 00:49:17,320
it comes to your phone again, please ignore it. Do

957
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:20,559
not give them any credit card. Freaking scam this. I

958
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:24,400
know it's getting out of control. Wouldn't it be kind

959
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:26,599
of a cool job though, to like think of scams

960
00:49:26,639 --> 00:49:29,119
to do on people? Yeah, that would be cool.

961
00:49:30,559 --> 00:49:31,159
Speaker 2: I wouldn't know.

962
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 1: I guess, yeah.

963
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:35,840
Speaker 2: I don't know how we would have to be a

964
00:49:36,039 --> 00:49:37,559
I's well.

965
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:41,400
Speaker 1: Back during COVID, one of the big scams, do you

966
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:43,599
remember this one? You'd get an email and it would

967
00:49:43,599 --> 00:49:45,920
say it's from the water Department of Water and Power

968
00:49:46,159 --> 00:49:49,159
and that you're they're going to shut off your power

969
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:53,239
because your bill isn't paid. So I would I can't

970
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:55,719
tell you. I fell for this one like four times

971
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:58,199
where I'd be like, oh my god, did we not

972
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:01,280
pay a bill? And John's like, no, We've paid our bill,

973
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:03,519
and I'm like, I don't think so they're about to

974
00:50:03,519 --> 00:50:06,639
shut up Anyway, it took me finally figuring out calling

975
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:10,719
several times that they weren't during COVID days. They weren't

976
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:13,760
shutting off anyone's water and power even if you didn't

977
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:16,440
pay your bill, right, But that was that one seemed

978
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:20,280
really real. Yeah, it was an email and it looked

979
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:23,880
it came from they They've spoofed the email address, so

980
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:25,880
it was coming from the Department of Water and Power.

981
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:28,079
AT's see thing. You always got to check where it's coming.

982
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:30,239
Speaker 4: I've been getting a lot lately because I just started

983
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:34,360
a company and so it has like it looks like

984
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:36,639
an official government document and it has like the name

985
00:50:36,679 --> 00:50:38,719
of my name, my company, my address, and they send

986
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:40,320
it to me go, oh, you need to purchase like

987
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:42,800
a this thing for your business because it needs to

988
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:43,440
be regulation.

989
00:50:43,559 --> 00:50:44,480
Speaker 3: You need to have this sign.

990
00:50:44,519 --> 00:50:46,320
Speaker 4: And I was like I was about to do it,

991
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:47,679
and I was like, you know, I should check on

992
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:49,719
Reddit and see if this is and everyone on read

993
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:51,280
it was like, this is a scam, don't do it.

994
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,239
Speaker 3: I got like four or five of those so far.

995
00:50:54,039 --> 00:50:58,960
Speaker 1: Wow, that's interesting because we get those two and they're

996
00:50:59,119 --> 00:51:01,639
so random. So times where they're like you need to

997
00:51:01,639 --> 00:51:04,960
pay this one something something tax I bet you some

998
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:06,079
of those are scams too.

999
00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:13,119
Speaker 2: I keep getting this reoccurring bill for McAfee, mcavee a security. Yes, yes,

1000
00:51:13,159 --> 00:51:18,000
that's like total scam, but I still get it now.

1001
00:51:18,159 --> 00:51:20,719
I still get emails like your bill is five hundred

1002
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:25,480
dollars or it says we charged your credit card five

1003
00:51:25,559 --> 00:51:27,119
hundred dollars or whatever, and I'm.

1004
00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:29,679
Speaker 1: Like, I get that one all the time. You're and

1005
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:33,119
it will say like order number, yeah, yeah that you,

1006
00:51:33,199 --> 00:51:36,360
Oh you ordered this if if you didn't order this,

1007
00:51:36,599 --> 00:51:40,119
you ordered this on Amazon or whatever, four hundred dollars.

1008
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:44,039
If you didn't call this number or some if you

1009
00:51:44,159 --> 00:51:47,280
didn't email, if you didn't order this, please give us

1010
00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:49,760
your bank account information and your PIN number. And you're

1011
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:52,280
You're like, wait, should I exactly?

1012
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 2: Wow?

1013
00:51:55,719 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 1: Okay. Two things. One, I've been playing a little poker online.

1014
00:52:05,119 --> 00:52:08,440
I'm kind of doing well and I'm really enjoying myself.

1015
00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:21,280
So Robin, Robin's friend has this big yearly fundraiser for autism,

1016
00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:26,440
and there's a poker game. It's like a poker gaun.

1017
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:31,000
It's kind of costs a pretty penny to get into it,

1018
00:52:32,519 --> 00:52:35,039
but it seems really fun and it's for a good cause,

1019
00:52:35,679 --> 00:52:38,400
but I would have to go play poker against like

1020
00:52:38,519 --> 00:52:42,280
maybe some like celebrities. Even should I do it just

1021
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:46,639
for the story? Absolutely? Okay, it's in June. Okay, yeah,

1022
00:52:46,679 --> 00:52:49,880
you should totally do it. I know I'm going to

1023
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:54,239
be scared because I don't drink. I'm gonna feel all awkward.

1024
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:56,320
I'm gonna sit down at a poker table thinking I'm

1025
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:59,159
kind of a good poker player, when in actuality I'm

1026
00:52:59,199 --> 00:53:02,960
probably not. I think you're good. I think you should

1027
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:06,360
do fin that makes experience, but I'm not like the

1028
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:10,519
best at you know the strategy. I mean, I but

1029
00:53:10,559 --> 00:53:13,360
then probably a bunch of these people won't be either exactly.

1030
00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:16,760
Probably it's for a good cause. I think you should

1031
00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:18,760
do it, So I'll just do it and then just

1032
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:21,559
tell myself like no matter what, no matter how quickly

1033
00:53:21,599 --> 00:53:23,920
I get out, like I'm just I'm just helping people

1034
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:26,079
with autism. Yes, I'm a good person.

1035
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:27,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you should do it.

1036
00:53:28,639 --> 00:53:31,719
Speaker 1: Okay, it'll be that'll be good for a story. Okay,

1037
00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:37,440
so you've signed off on that. Oh, this is this

1038
00:53:37,559 --> 00:53:40,320
other quick thing I wanted to ask you. Okay, do

1039
00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:44,880
you think that this is kind of annoying? So you

1040
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:48,000
know how I have the big group of friends that

1041
00:53:48,159 --> 00:53:51,719
and we all celebrate each other's birthdays. And sometimes they

1042
00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:54,000
come up with great spots, like when they came up

1043
00:53:54,039 --> 00:53:56,559
with that sushi place where they play like seventies music,

1044
00:53:57,079 --> 00:54:00,840
you know. But this year, the one who did have

1045
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:04,280
the good idea of the spot wants us all to

1046
00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:10,599
go to breakfast on a Saturday, but super far. And

1047
00:54:10,679 --> 00:54:14,079
I feel like I'm the only one, like in Westlake,

1048
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:19,320
Oh geez, Westlake Village. So I was I'm always like,

1049
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:21,760
why am I the bitch? So I sent an I

1050
00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:25,440
sent back a text and I was like why Westlake,

1051
00:54:25,519 --> 00:54:29,920
you know, and then people thought that was like hilarious,

1052
00:54:30,199 --> 00:54:33,280
and oh, I know it's kind of far, but well,

1053
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:36,559
and then so somebody said something and I go, all right, fine,

1054
00:54:36,559 --> 00:54:38,480
I guess we'll make it a road trip. Like I

1055
00:54:38,519 --> 00:54:40,920
was just being kind of funny. Yeah, but now I'm

1056
00:54:41,079 --> 00:54:44,119
seriously kind of annoyed about it. Like we live in

1057
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:48,599
LA there are great restaurants like down the streets in

1058
00:54:48,679 --> 00:54:53,440
the valley in Woodland Hills. Why, which that's not fun, right.

1059
00:54:54,119 --> 00:54:56,400
Speaker 2: I just went to a birthday party on Saturday night,

1060
00:54:56,519 --> 00:55:00,400
which was an hour away from my house. Had to

1061
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:06,639
be there at seven. Why it's six, because it's everybody

1062
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:09,000
lives far apart from each other, so it's kind of

1063
00:55:09,039 --> 00:55:11,079
like most of the time, they always come by us

1064
00:55:11,119 --> 00:55:14,199
in the valley. This time they were like, how about

1065
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:16,679
you guys come to century A, Culver City.

1066
00:55:17,199 --> 00:55:22,159
Speaker 1: Oh, Culver City, Yeah, yes, bad times, yeahd times. Yeah,

1067
00:55:22,159 --> 00:55:26,280
that's where that speech and debate competition was. Yeah, and

1068
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:29,039
that I was. And as you know, I was considering

1069
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:32,000
getting a hotel for the night right because that's how

1070
00:55:32,079 --> 00:55:33,480
far it feels.

1071
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:37,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, I bet I know that breakfast place in Westlake.

1072
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:40,039
Oh really, yeah, I can think in the name of it,

1073
00:55:40,079 --> 00:55:44,039
there is a nice brunchy Westlake breakfast place.

1074
00:55:44,599 --> 00:55:46,360
Speaker 1: Maybe that's what it is. I don't know, I have

1075
00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:47,800
to I'd have to look up the name of it.

1076
00:55:48,559 --> 00:55:54,000
But I was in your neck of the woods yesterday.

1077
00:55:54,599 --> 00:55:55,079
Speaker 2: Uh huh.

1078
00:55:55,159 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 1: So okay, So Xander doesn't have his driver's license or

1079
00:55:58,000 --> 00:55:59,880
his permit, so I had to take him to this.

1080
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:04,519
He was helping a girl get her gold award in

1081
00:56:04,599 --> 00:56:09,119
Girl Scouts by she was doing a workshop for speech

1082
00:56:09,159 --> 00:56:12,440
and debate kids, teaching them about speech and debate. It

1083
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:14,559
was really cute, so she asked Ander if he'd help

1084
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:18,519
so the thing was from ten to two. I thought

1085
00:56:18,519 --> 00:56:20,840
it was from ten to twelve. So I was like,

1086
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:23,239
all right, well I'll just stay there because it was

1087
00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:25,039
all the way near you. So it was kind of far.

1088
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:28,840
So I drop him off and then we go in

1089
00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:30,440
and then it turns out, oh, it's going to be

1090
00:56:30,519 --> 00:56:34,079
till twoh so yeah, so I was like, oh, hell no,

1091
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:37,559
So I drove home, but I was I almost called

1092
00:56:37,599 --> 00:56:41,039
you yeah and be like that's how far stuff is

1093
00:56:41,079 --> 00:56:43,559
from each other that you're like, it's almost like I'm camping.

1094
00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:48,079
Speaker 2: I know, right, I know, Hey, it's everything is so

1095
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:49,239
spread apart.

1096
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:52,840
Speaker 1: It's just I mean, in actuality, it was twenty six minutes,

1097
00:56:53,079 --> 00:56:56,840
which but it was on a Sunday, right, no traffic,

1098
00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:59,440
so imagine that during traffic. Oh hell no, I don't

1099
00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:02,000
know how you do it. Now it's you know, I'm

1100
00:57:02,039 --> 00:57:06,239
out there. Yeah, everything's far from me and now you're

1101
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:07,079
reupping your lease.

1102
00:57:07,519 --> 00:57:10,599
Speaker 3: M m yeah when you talk about driving and things

1103
00:57:10,679 --> 00:57:11,360
being far as.

1104
00:57:11,320 --> 00:57:16,679
Speaker 1: Hilarious to me me this, mister long Beach have to

1105
00:57:16,719 --> 00:57:20,800
get here today. Well, before we go, let's talk about

1106
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:27,280
Robin's favorite charity, Popculture Rescue dot Org. Pop culture instead

1107
00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:29,639
of pop culture. Isn't that cute? Is it's a dog

1108
00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:33,440
rescue and other pets and they need our tax deductible

1109
00:57:33,519 --> 00:57:37,960
donations because they will help them get more dogs out

1110
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:45,920
of overcrowded shelters. Also, Sarah's thing is the Chase Haley

1111
00:57:46,119 --> 00:57:49,480
Project Chase Haley Project dot com. That's Kristas Troop is

1112
00:57:49,480 --> 00:57:52,519
paying for that. So sweet. She lost her son to

1113
00:57:52,599 --> 00:57:56,719
suicide and she's trying to fill the gaps in her

1114
00:57:56,719 --> 00:58:00,360
community in Ohio where mental health needs aren't being So

1115
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:05,559
check out Chase Haley Project. Also good friend of mine,

1116
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:10,880
she takes my writing class. She has a thing on

1117
00:58:11,039 --> 00:58:15,840
medium dot com and it's at Unbecoming Stories. Check that

1118
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:18,920
out on Medium so you can read the crazy stories

1119
00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:22,800
about her insane ex husband. Also The Family Skeptical. It's

1120
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:26,440
a podcast about raising kids without religion. So if you

1121
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:29,440
want to do that, which I do, go check out

1122
00:58:29,519 --> 00:58:33,000
The Family Skeptical. It has a new episode out like

1123
00:58:33,039 --> 00:58:37,719
every few weeks. Also Wilma and Friday Springs and Palm Desert.

1124
00:58:38,239 --> 00:58:41,440
My friend Julie, not Julie case from another friend. Julie

1125
00:58:41,559 --> 00:58:44,880
just went there, said she was f col and they

1126
00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:48,000
gave her They got their freemo. Most that's awesome and

1127
00:58:48,280 --> 00:58:50,960
the food is amazing and they had the homemade pop tarts,

1128
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:55,079
so that was nice. Basic Becky, Uh, you know what

1129
00:58:55,159 --> 00:58:57,199
that is. You know what she does. She makes the

1130
00:58:57,239 --> 00:59:00,960
t shirts, mousepads, mugs. Go to Jess baas Beecky dot

1131
00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:04,639
com or find her on Facebook at Basic Becky. If

1132
00:59:04,679 --> 00:59:07,000
you're on the island of Kawai, why not go to

1133
00:59:07,039 --> 00:59:11,519
Sugar Skull do some shopping some homemade desserts, or if

1134
00:59:11,519 --> 00:59:14,199
you want to check them on Instagram at sugar Skull

1135
00:59:14,400 --> 00:59:17,920
eight eight. If you want to go to Hawaii and

1136
00:59:17,960 --> 00:59:20,079
you need a travel agent, why not use our friend

1137
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Christine Black with Waves and Wonder Travel or on Instagram

1138
00:59:24,519 --> 00:59:27,920
travel with Christine B. Or just find her on our

1139
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:31,559
Facebook page. Here's what we really need is people to

1140
00:59:31,599 --> 00:59:36,280
make donations to the ACLU. Yes, tramp is out there

1141
00:59:36,320 --> 00:59:38,760
doing some crazy shit. We got to put a stop

1142
00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:44,920
to it. So ACLU also Carrie Kibler Discover Connection. They

1143
00:59:45,039 --> 00:59:48,960
just help people, homeless, people, the less fortunate. They give

1144
00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:53,639
people dream vacations. I seriously, when I went and looked

1145
00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:56,599
at the YouTube page, I cried. I watched several videos

1146
00:59:56,599 --> 01:00:01,480
and cried. So check that out and then Adam did

1147
01:00:01,519 --> 01:00:04,360
you Did you call him? I'm gonna call him. Okay,

1148
01:00:04,400 --> 01:00:06,599
So my friend Adam Lerner, he's a car broker. He

1149
01:00:06,639 --> 01:00:09,000
will get you the best deal in town. Takes all

1150
01:00:09,039 --> 01:00:11,639
the pain out of shopping for a car. Go to

1151
01:00:12,159 --> 01:00:15,079
Adams Got a Car dot com.

1152
01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:17,239
Speaker 2: M'm gonna be calling him soon.

1153
01:00:17,119 --> 01:00:22,119
Speaker 1: Or message me for his phone number. Also, Queer Youth

1154
01:00:22,360 --> 01:00:28,079
Resource in Vancouver, Washington. It's q y r C Vancouver,

1155
01:00:28,360 --> 01:00:33,360
w A dot org. This is helping these lgbt Q kids.

1156
01:00:34,480 --> 01:00:37,320
They really need our help. Yeah, so check that out.

1157
01:00:37,599 --> 01:00:40,079
All right, thanks everybody. Thank you. Kitlin, you'rer parent. Now,

1158
01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:41,199
don't f it up.

1159
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:46,400
Speaker 4: It's manning