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<v Speaker 1>Your mind is a weapon, and you've got to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to use it and control it.

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<v Speaker 2>Most people are out of control with their mind.

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<v Speaker 3>They don't point it at something, They let the world

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<v Speaker 3>point it and they misfire all the time. You have

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<v Speaker 3>control over your mind, you just have to assert it.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to decide that you.

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<v Speaker 1>Are going to be in control, that you are going

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<v Speaker 1>to do what you want to do.

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<v Speaker 4>And if you understand the mind, it does what you

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<v Speaker 4>tell it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's its john. And if you tell it better stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>you have an amazing life.

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<v Speaker 1>And you can tell it mediocre stuff, you have a

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<v Speaker 1>mediocre life.

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<v Speaker 2>Because there are some things in your life that will

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<v Speaker 2>make you rod that slap you out of your stupor

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<v Speaker 2>and say, this ain't no time to cry. So you

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<v Speaker 2>got to get used to being a little disappointed. You

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<v Speaker 2>gotta get used to walking into situations and being flexible,

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<v Speaker 2>because if you are not flexed, you cannot survive. And

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<v Speaker 2>all of a sudden, life demands let you pick up

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<v Speaker 2>the pace. If you don't pick up the pace, you

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<v Speaker 2>won't be left behind.

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<v Speaker 3>Because almost all problems can be solved if only you

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<v Speaker 3>take the time to see them and think them through.

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<v Speaker 3>That's very easy to understand, and it's very easy to say,

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<v Speaker 3>but it takes strong character to put it into practice.

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<v Speaker 3>You live in a world that's flat and two dimensions.

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<v Speaker 3>In other words, the impatient person lacks all sense of perspective.

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<v Speaker 3>Perspective lets you measure your plans and current events against

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<v Speaker 3>things that have already occurred, and also against your desires

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<v Speaker 3>and aspirations.

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<v Speaker 5>For the future.

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<v Speaker 3>Then and now, here and there, near and far, Need

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<v Speaker 3>and know, watch and wait. These are the dual optics

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<v Speaker 3>that allow the patient man to see in stereo, where

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<v Speaker 3>the near sighted person sees only the prison, or the

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<v Speaker 3>dreamer seems only in imaginary future, and more likely than

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<v Speaker 3>not trips over his mistakes trying to get there.

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<v Speaker 6>Why is it that most people don't pursue their dreams,

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<v Speaker 6>so don't do better than what they're doing if they're

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<v Speaker 6>capable of doing it. I think that many of us

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<v Speaker 6>don't go the next step because we don't know what

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<v Speaker 6>to do yet. And I say that that the reason

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<v Speaker 6>that we don't even explore the possibility of what to

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<v Speaker 6>do is because subconsciously we don't believe that it can

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<v Speaker 6>happen for us, and we don't believe that we deserve it.

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<v Speaker 6>So here's what I'm suggesting. How much time do you

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<v Speaker 6>spend working on you? How much time do you spend

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<v Speaker 6>every day working on your dream in the last ninety days?

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<v Speaker 6>Many books have you read in the last year, What

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<v Speaker 6>new skill or knowledge have you acquired? What kind of

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<v Speaker 6>investment have you made in you? See? I'm saying that

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<v Speaker 6>as you begin to look at where you want to go,

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<v Speaker 6>if you want to make it today, and things are

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<v Speaker 6>changing so fast you have to literally run to stand still.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm saying that you've got to make some conscious effort

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<v Speaker 6>to begin to work to develop you. Since out here

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<v Speaker 6>in the universe.

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<v Speaker 4>If you don't take the plunge, I guarantee you somebody else.

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<v Speaker 6>Will take the plunge. Go into action, and ladies and gentlemen,

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<v Speaker 6>you will be surprised of how things will come together.

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<v Speaker 6>You'll be surprised. Now you're going to have some difficult challenges.

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<v Speaker 6>I can tell you that. Now, be aware of that

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<v Speaker 6>things are not going to work out exactly right for

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<v Speaker 6>a time. They will sometimes, and that's when life is

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<v Speaker 6>just playing a game with you. Ladies and gentlemen, Go

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<v Speaker 6>into action with your dream and don't avoid where the

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<v Speaker 6>fights are. Get in the midst of the fight.

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<v Speaker 4>And get some hickeys on your.

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<v Speaker 6>Head, get knocked.

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<v Speaker 4>Down so you can learn how to fight, so you

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<v Speaker 4>can hold your position. See, most people don't get out

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<v Speaker 4>in the arena of life.

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<v Speaker 6>Because they don't want to fight. Most people don't get

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<v Speaker 6>out there because they don't want to get knocked down.

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<v Speaker 6>They don't want to be dropped to their knees. But see,

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<v Speaker 6>you're going to be dropped whether you're on the field.

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<v Speaker 4>Or whether or not you're sitting on the sidelines, You're

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<v Speaker 4>going to be dropped.

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<v Speaker 6>So at least get dropped for something. Don't get knocked

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<v Speaker 6>down while you're sitting down. See that's now. Most people

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<v Speaker 6>are spectators in life. You don't want to be a spectator.

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<v Speaker 6>You want to get out in the field where the

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<v Speaker 6>action is and you will be amazed. After the struggle,

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<v Speaker 6>there will be a calm period and things will begin

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<v Speaker 6>to click for you. What would your life be like?

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<v Speaker 6>And I'm saying to you that all of us who

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<v Speaker 6>have been in tombed by fear, we have the capacity

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<v Speaker 6>to resurrect ourselves. Is it easy? No, it's not easy.

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<v Speaker 6>Can I do it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 6>What's one of the ways to get started? Some of

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<v Speaker 6>us need somebody to hold our hands. Sometimes we need

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<v Speaker 6>somebody to help us out, be willing to say I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know, be willing to reach out, be willing to

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<v Speaker 6>get some assistance to take you to the next level

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<v Speaker 6>of what great athlete? You never expect boxes to make

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<v Speaker 6>profound statements.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it was Joe Frazier who said this one.

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<v Speaker 6>He says, all of us are like the blind man,

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<v Speaker 6>at some point in our lives, standing on the corner

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<v Speaker 6>waiting for somebody to lead us across. So all of us,

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<v Speaker 6>at some point in our lives need some help, need

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<v Speaker 6>someone to reach out to us, to throw out the

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<v Speaker 6>lifeline to help us go across some treacherous waters that

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<v Speaker 6>we couldn't navigate by ourselves. None of us do it

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<v Speaker 6>by ourselves. All of us, at some point of our

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<v Speaker 6>lives we need that kind of health.

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<v Speaker 2>We need that.

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<v Speaker 6>Kind of assistance because we grow from the people we

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<v Speaker 6>have in our lives that can enrich our lives personally, professionally, spiritually,

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<v Speaker 6>and all the dimensions of our lives.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't grow in a valcuum.

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<v Speaker 6>So as you look at yourself, what are fears you

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<v Speaker 6>have that maybe you need some help and strengthening yourself

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<v Speaker 6>in that area, as you assess your strengths and your weaknesses,

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<v Speaker 6>as you begin to approve yourself and your passions and

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<v Speaker 6>your dreams and your goals and the things that you want.

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<v Speaker 6>If you decide to experience all of your true potential,

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<v Speaker 6>as you decide to manifest all of your greatness, as

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<v Speaker 6>you decide, wait a minute, what else is available to

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<v Speaker 6>me out here? If I decided to experience the fear

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<v Speaker 6>of rejection, the fear of know, the fear of failure,

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<v Speaker 6>the fear of standing by myself?

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<v Speaker 4>What else is available of taking a chance, a fear

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<v Speaker 4>of losing it all? What else is available to me

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<v Speaker 4>that will bring some extra meeting in value?

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<v Speaker 3>Receiving is not the problem. You don't have to work

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<v Speaker 3>on receiving. It's automatic. So if receiving is not the problem,

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<v Speaker 3>what is the problem. It's failing to ask? The man says,

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<v Speaker 3>I see it now. I got up every day this

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<v Speaker 3>year and hit it hard. But nowhere in my house

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<v Speaker 3>is there a list of what I want from my life?

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<v Speaker 3>Can you see, good worker, poor asker. Third, receiving is

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<v Speaker 3>like the ocean. There's plenty, especially in this country. It's

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<v Speaker 3>like an ocean here. Here, success is not in short supply.

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<v Speaker 3>It isn't rationed so that when you step up to

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<v Speaker 3>the window it's all gone. No. No, Well, if that's true,

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<v Speaker 3>what is the problem. Well, the problem is some people

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<v Speaker 3>go to the ocean with a tea spoon. Have you

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<v Speaker 3>got the picture a tea boom? What I suggest you do,

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<v Speaker 3>in view of the size of the ocean is trade

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<v Speaker 3>your teaspoon for at least a bucket, and you will

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<v Speaker 3>look better at the ocean with a bucket. Kids won't

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<v Speaker 3>make fun of you. Now here's something else to remember

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<v Speaker 3>about asking. There are two ways to ask. One is

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<v Speaker 3>asked with intelligence. It didn't say ask intelligently, but I'm

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<v Speaker 3>sure it meant that. Don't mumble. You won't get anything

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<v Speaker 3>by mumbling. Be clear, be specific. Intelligent asking means how high,

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<v Speaker 3>how long, how much? When? What size, what model? What color?

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<v Speaker 3>Describe what you want? Define it? Remember well, defined goals

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<v Speaker 3>are like magnets. The better you define them, the stronger

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<v Speaker 3>they pull and give your goals purpose. Answer both questions,

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<v Speaker 3>what do I want? That's the object and the second question,

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<v Speaker 3>what for that's purpose? Purpose is stronger than object. What

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<v Speaker 3>you want is powerful and it will pull, but what

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<v Speaker 3>you want it for is more powerful.

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<v Speaker 5>Let me ask a simple question.

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<v Speaker 2>What makes you happy?

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<v Speaker 3>The thing that makes us happier with things that we're

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<v Speaker 3>passionate about I really like. And when they say that,

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<v Speaker 3>their face lights up?

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<v Speaker 5>Why don't you do more of that?

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<v Speaker 2>Well?

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<v Speaker 7>I can't because, oh, and you don't want to be great.

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<v Speaker 6>You're not ready to be You want to be good,

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<v Speaker 6>you want.

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<v Speaker 7>To be okay, But you don't want to be great

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<v Speaker 7>because great takes work.

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<v Speaker 1>Great takes a level of discipline that is distraction.

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<v Speaker 5>For all it takes is somebody wanted to take a step.

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<v Speaker 5>And there are certain things that a lot of people

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<v Speaker 5>in this world are sitting there thinking in their minds

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<v Speaker 5>and they're just not going to do. Like I used

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<v Speaker 5>to always try to pull a lot of people and

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<v Speaker 5>be like you, what you can do this?

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<v Speaker 7>You can do this.

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<v Speaker 5>But the people that hear that motivation over and over again,

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<v Speaker 5>sometimes they take that step. Some people just have it

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<v Speaker 5>in them early. It just starts and they're just getting

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<v Speaker 5>the muscle memory of just doing things. And if you fail,

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<v Speaker 5>so what you know, you start over, you do it again.

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<v Speaker 5>But most people, that fear of failure is the thing

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<v Speaker 5>that I think provinced them from like really really being successful.

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<v Speaker 5>And then also it's like a lot of other things

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<v Speaker 5>that are just difficult to do. You know, when you

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<v Speaker 5>tell people the answer to success, it's a lot of

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<v Speaker 5>hard stuff. You got to work hard. Right, Nobody wants

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<v Speaker 5>to hear that. Everybody wants to shortcut. You know, some

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<v Speaker 5>people understand that. They like they appreciate the progress. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>if you tell people right now, hey, if you want

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<v Speaker 5>to lose this many pounds, this is what you gotta do.

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<v Speaker 5>There's no short solution.

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<v Speaker 7>What do I think of people that say find your passion?

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<v Speaker 7>I will say they mean very well, but they don't

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<v Speaker 7>understand what passion actually is. So I think because a

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<v Speaker 7>rare breed of individuy or develops a passion when they're young,

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<v Speaker 7>they then mistake it for I found my passion. But

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<v Speaker 7>that's not really true.

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<v Speaker 6>Every day you just get up and I don't fear anything,

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<v Speaker 6>but I worry about everything.

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<v Speaker 3>And the day you stop worrying in good.

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<v Speaker 6>Times, the power will get your behind. And so as

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<v Speaker 6>great as things.

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<v Speaker 3>Are in life, I know you're only a few steps

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<v Speaker 3>or a few incidents away from something bad happen.

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<v Speaker 2>And you can never forget it.

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<v Speaker 1>Think someone thinks I'm confident, I feel confident. But if

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<v Speaker 1>someone thinks if I think someone thinks I'm not confident,

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<v Speaker 1>then I don't feel confident. Now, people were so far

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<v Speaker 1>removed from their own understanding of themselves that they were

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<v Speaker 1>either lost living a life they didn't want to, lost

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<v Speaker 1>living up to someone else's expectations, or lost becoming someone

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<v Speaker 1>to impress someone else. And so people their real identity

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<v Speaker 1>is almost buried under six feet of multiple identities they've created.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me tell you, in order to have something different,

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<v Speaker 3>you are going to have to do something different.

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<v Speaker 5>In order to have something more, you have to do

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<v Speaker 5>something you haven't done yet. And when you look up

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<v Speaker 5>and you don't have to have a magnificent change over

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<v Speaker 5>twelve months, have a small change over thirty days, and

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<v Speaker 5>then a small change over thirty days, your

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<v Speaker 3>Breakthrough will come and need appointments, and you look up

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<v Speaker 3>in five years and not recognize your life