Speaker 1: From work House Connect and aj Benza fame. Uh, he'd
Speaker 1: liked to be walked on a leash and play really dirty,
Speaker 1: kinky sex games. Is uh the guy put the cock
Speaker 1: in the peacock network. Okay, bitch, Hey, everybody aj Benzi
Speaker 1: here with fame is a bitch. This is your daily
Speaker 1: Unfiltered podcast for November twenty sixth, twenty twenty four one
Speaker 1: one two six two two four. We are racing through
Speaker 1: the month of November. We are days away from Thanksgiving,
Speaker 1: which means I am days away from not even caring
Speaker 1: about turkey. Let's talk about it. Not a big turkey fan.
Speaker 1: I've often said the way I grew up, the way
Speaker 1: my family cooked Rosalie, my brother law Frankie, my mother
Speaker 1: putting the turkey in the oven. It's no big feet. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can pair it a certain way, Brian. It all
Speaker 1: the bullshit, how what kind of spices, what kind of stuffing? Okay, great,
Speaker 1: it's still putting a bird in the oven and waiting.
Speaker 1: I don't like that. I'm a more of an instant
Speaker 1: gratification guy. I can barely wait for a stake to
Speaker 1: be done. I don't like waiting hours for turkey and
Speaker 1: taking a nap and basting it. And here's the crispy skin.
Speaker 1: You have a piece, No, I want that piece, don't
Speaker 1: touch it. Get I can't. It's all. I gonna meet
Speaker 1: Rocky and rock on Thursday. That's fine. It's the way
Speaker 1: I like it. Not making turkey not. I'm gonna go
Speaker 1: like I always go. I go stuff shells, homemade sauce,
Speaker 1: stuff shells fantastic. Nobody complains about my stuff shells. Terrific recipe.
Speaker 1: I'll share it with you. It's not hard. Got to
Speaker 1: know how to make sauce, though, when I can't sit
Speaker 1: there and give it all sauce recipe at this point
Speaker 1: in our lives, you gotta have a sauce recipe. But
Speaker 1: in terms of the mixture for the stuff shelves, not
Speaker 1: a problem. I'll do that. Maybe I'll get a ham.
Speaker 1: I don't want to, you know, I guess whatever. I
Speaker 1: might even a chicken color parmesan, how about that. I mean,
Speaker 1: I might even go like look, I saw videos a
Speaker 1: couple of years ago. I saw that Netflix documentary My
Speaker 1: octopus teacher and I could not believe how smart octopus are.
Speaker 1: We never learned this in school. We learned that they
Speaker 1: were scary, and they could take down ships. The gigantic octopus,
Speaker 1: if there even is that, it took down ships many
Speaker 1: years ago. Okay, but now they're very smart. They twist
Speaker 1: off legs, they take pictures of people in there and
Speaker 1: their confinements, their tanks. And I saw that movie, It'll
Speaker 1: make you cry. No more octopus on Christmas Eve? We
Speaker 1: have always a cold octopus salad at the olives and
Speaker 1: the parsley in the olive oil and the gard No
Speaker 1: not having that, no more. And I just saw videos
Speaker 1: all week of turkeys, people having pets that are turkeys,
Speaker 1: and they're like, there's like the dogs. They walk up
Speaker 1: to you, they lay on your lap, your pet their head.
Speaker 1: Now they're not as cute as are dogs, but there's
Speaker 1: still an animal that wants to be loved and pet
Speaker 1: and squeezed and spoken to. I can't eat that anymore.
Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong. Next week I'll have a jersey
Speaker 1: my Hero with turkey and prolong geez, that's different. I
Speaker 1: don't need to see the whole turkey caccas in my oven,
Speaker 1: you know. And let's stop with the president pardoning a turkey.
Speaker 1: It's so juvenile, it's dumb. Let's start with that, and
Speaker 1: let's start with pucks of Tony Phil. No one knows
Speaker 1: what it means. It's not even true, So let's just
Speaker 1: stop kidding each other. How about like we said, Kat
Speaker 1: Williams said, twenty twenty four the year of the truth,
Speaker 1: it is it has been, twenty twenty five is getting
Speaker 1: even bigger. Speaking of the truth, I'll get to that
Speaker 1: later in the show when I deal with Jamie Fox
Speaker 1: and this whole comedy, especially he's got coming out. Listen,
Speaker 1: the truth is coming out for sure in many areas.
Speaker 1: But I will tell you this, there are many people
Speaker 1: who now have spaces and spots on the Internet, YouTube, Instagram,
Speaker 1: TikTok who are trying to tell you they know all
Speaker 1: the ins and outs of every rumor. They don't. They
Speaker 1: don't leave that their professionals like me. Please these idiots
Speaker 1: who want to tell you exactly what happened with Pete
Speaker 1: Diddy and Jamie Folk, they don't know a fucking thing.
Speaker 1: They're repeating what they heard. I call these people the
Speaker 1: footnote people. They just take what they heard and spin
Speaker 1: it in their own words to make you think they
Speaker 1: figured it out. They just heard a story. Speaking of
Speaker 1: hearing stories. Look, I'm the first guy to say when
Speaker 1: when Lizzo began to look in better shape and was
Speaker 1: losing some weight, we saw pictures of her kind of
Speaker 1: sweating working out. Okay, good. I don't care what people
Speaker 1: do to lose weight and get away from being obese.
Speaker 1: I don't care what they do as long as they
Speaker 1: do it, because look, you're gonna die if you walk
Speaker 1: around obese. Lizzle was beyond obese. Okay, she was, you know,
Speaker 1: a candidate for an early death. She still might be,
Speaker 1: but you know she made us thing. She's working out,
Speaker 1: and yeah, I'm sure she did. I'm sure she started
Speaker 1: eating better as well. When you got that kind of money,
Speaker 1: why not get a chef and nutritionist and a trainer.
Speaker 1: I have everybody. I'd be followed around like Robert Downey.
Speaker 1: Robert Downey has I wouldn't get the sober coach, but
Speaker 1: he had a bad time for a long part of
Speaker 1: his life, so yeah, sober coach. Good. You got a
Speaker 1: chef to make you healthy so you can always step
Speaker 1: into a role like Iron Man and be perfect. Good
Speaker 1: for you. You got a missuse, you got it. I would
Speaker 1: do all that shit if I had the money all
Speaker 1: of it. I'm all for anything you can do to
Speaker 1: make you feel better about yourself. When you look at
Speaker 1: the Mira, go do it. Lizzo's got the money. Yesterday
Speaker 1: there's a picture in the newspaper. She's trying to make
Speaker 1: us believe that she's in the back of a car
Speaker 1: with her mother, who looks a lot like Liz, a
Speaker 1: heavy set woman. To say the least, they both had braids.
Speaker 1: It was cute. You could tell that's Lizzo's mom, definitely,
Speaker 1: even if she wasn't overweight, very similar face. Lizzo looked
Speaker 1: fantastic in this car in this picture, but it's obvious.
Speaker 1: You know she's doing something else besides eating rice. But again,
Speaker 1: you know, I said she's on Ozembik. I don't care
Speaker 1: what it is with Govi, Manjaro, o Zempa. It's all
Speaker 1: the same shit. It makes you lose weight. It's like
Speaker 1: vive Vance, which I took years ago before I had
Speaker 1: my first bat of pneumonia fivence. I lost twenty pounds
Speaker 1: on vive vance quickly going to the gym on a treadmill,
Speaker 1: taking that pill. It's anfetimines. I know Ozempik and Magovi
Speaker 1: Manjaro are different. They're they're aim toward the diabetics. But
Speaker 1: either way, you're speeding up your metabolism. So good fur,
Speaker 1: but don't act like you didn't dabble on those pills. Lizzo,
Speaker 1: come on, you look too good. I know that a
Speaker 1: lot of what she has on her faces she did
Speaker 1: a lot of contouring with filters. All these girls help filters.
Speaker 1: You wouldn't believe we all have different algorithms. My algorithm is,
Speaker 1: you know, I see a lot of crazy things, clock crashes, murders, looting, sports,
Speaker 1: pretty girls that just pop up everywhere, like all these
Speaker 1: women on the internet need to be or are on
Speaker 1: only fans without a doubt, and they use Instagram and
Speaker 1: TikTok to advertise themselves. Okay, so my algorithm is different
Speaker 1: than many other algorithms. And I see some people who
Speaker 1: are looking thinner and better, and you could tell us
Speaker 1: from the drugs. And again it's fine, but don't show
Speaker 1: me a picture of Lizzo's mom and say Lizzo's mother stunned.
Speaker 1: I can't take the verbs stunned with her braids and
Speaker 1: a leopard print jacket, stunned. If she were spotted with
Speaker 1: that leopard skin jacket in Africa. I'd be stunned that
Speaker 1: no one shot her. Okay, she's that big, but good
Speaker 1: for Lizzo. But stop acting like you didn't do anything
Speaker 1: but eat right and hit the fucking gym. It's a lie.
Speaker 1: Remember Lizen, I remember when you were putting blended ice
Speaker 1: creaming donuts and a blender and making everybody think that
Speaker 1: you love being fat. And I said, many years ago,
Speaker 1: you don't like being fat. You can't stand it. You
Speaker 1: just don't have the willpower to change it. And you
Speaker 1: finally found it good for you. You got a pretty face.
Speaker 1: I've always said it. Keep going, but get healthy too.
Speaker 1: Speaking of fat people, fat bastards who have secrets, let's
Speaker 1: talk about Bishop T. D Jake's Oh my goodness, td
Speaker 1: stands for Touch Diddy. I don't know. I'm just saying
Speaker 1: there's rumors out there that, well not rumors TDJ went
Speaker 1: to Diddy's parties. Now people are all trying to say, oh,
Speaker 1: I went to the party, but I left before the
Speaker 1: after party. Okay, so you went from what seven to nine,
Speaker 1: nine to eleven? When'd you go? The way everybody's denying
Speaker 1: They went to the free costs means that no one
Speaker 1: went to the free costs they were there. People get nosy,
Speaker 1: inquisitive what goes along to free costs? So Bishop T. D. Jakes,
Speaker 1: who's been tied to the Diddy controversy for a while now,
Speaker 1: suffered this medical emergency while he was delivering his sermon
Speaker 1: on Sunday. In the middle of his sermon, he said,
Speaker 1: Oh Lord, my strength, my redeemer, let them go in peace.
Speaker 1: Then he dropped the microphone and just stopped talking, sat
Speaker 1: in a chair and started involuntarily shaking. Everybody rushed around
Speaker 1: him trying to give him support, and of course they
Speaker 1: did the three things that I just don't understand that
Speaker 1: we do when somebody is hurt. People I heard saying,
Speaker 1: back up, give him some room, and give him some water.
Speaker 1: Why do we think those three things work? Give him room,
Speaker 1: get him some water, and back up? Why? Why is
Speaker 1: that the magical cure for an emergency? Oh my God,
Speaker 1: so and so fell well, give him room and get
Speaker 1: him water. Why why kill him a fucking doctor. It
Speaker 1: was a live stream. They cut the live stream off
Speaker 1: and a voice on off camera asked all the attendees
Speaker 1: at the church and online to begin to pray of course,
Speaker 1: his team went on x afterward to share his condition.
Speaker 1: During today's service, Bishop td Jakes experienced a slight health
Speaker 1: incident and received immediate medical attention following his powerful hour
Speaker 1: long message. He is stable and under the care of
Speaker 1: medical professionals. Okay, people say, hey, that looked like a stroke.
Speaker 1: Did he have a stroke? No one's saying what he had.
Speaker 1: No one's saying what he You know, this guy has
Speaker 1: been around for a while, since the nineties. He has
Speaker 1: a non denominational, multicultural church. Why not get all the
Speaker 1: money you can make it non denominational, make it multicultural.
Speaker 1: Just get everybody in the door. It's got thirty thousand members.
Speaker 1: That's good. And he promises to bring together the down
Speaker 1: and out, the homeless, and other walks of life to
Speaker 1: worship and serve together in one or more of the
Speaker 1: fifty nine different ministries. You've seen this guy on Sundays.
Speaker 1: I've seen him sometimes, you know, I look, here's what's
Speaker 1: happening to this guy. He's lived, my father would say,
Speaker 1: a very hypocritical life. My father would always point to
Speaker 1: people who act very religious, and I gotta be careful
Speaker 1: because a lot of you I speak to are quite religious,
Speaker 1: quite spiritual. In fact, the Great Captain Stewart sends me
Speaker 1: a Bible verse every day. Angela Domino, the meat whisper,
Speaker 1: the same thing. Other people. Linda Craig used to send
Speaker 1: me Bibles. I still have. I've paged through them. I
Speaker 1: can't I haven't sat down and read the whole thing yet,
Speaker 1: but I've done some work and I'm seeing things differently,
Speaker 1: and I really enjoy it. I love the daily things
Speaker 1: that the Great Captain Steward sends me. But my father
Speaker 1: was not into that at all. He always thought, ah,
Speaker 1: he's ultra religious. People are fucking hypocrites. AJ, listen to
Speaker 1: your father. Listen to your father, al AJ's got to
Speaker 1: make confirmation. What does that mean, Lily. He's got to
Speaker 1: go to Catechism and go to this and that, and
Speaker 1: he receives where Saint Joseph's church. Aje, would you rather
Speaker 1: go talk about religion at Saint Joseph Church or go
Speaker 1: fishing with your father every Sunday fishing with you? Okay, Lily,
Speaker 1: that's settled. He's not gonna get confirmed. What about when
Speaker 1: he gets married. I'll just slip the priest fifty dollars.
Speaker 1: He'll marry him, sure enough when I got married nineteen
Speaker 1: eighty six, and can I see the paperwork of your confirmation?
Speaker 1: That's the thing, pastor, He wasn't confirmed, but I like
Speaker 1: to talk to you about that fifty dollars in the
Speaker 1: top pocket. Suddenly, Oh, no problem, let's step up and
Speaker 1: get married. It's all bullshit, okay whatever. Tdjkes knows he
Speaker 1: got too close to the action. He got too close.
Speaker 1: He touched the stove, hanging out with Pete Diddy, who
Speaker 1: liked act all religious and all like, Oh, he's so
Speaker 1: wonderful to people. Another fucking bullshit fraud. And Tdjakes now
Speaker 1: knows he got too close to the mouth of that dragon,
Speaker 1: and he's concerned. He's worried. This is what happens when
Speaker 1: old people do bad things and their conscious begins to
Speaker 1: grow heavy. It's like old people, you gotta be careful
Speaker 1: they don't fall, because once they fall, they go to
Speaker 1: the hospital. And while we were X ring or cat
Speaker 1: scanning your back, we found a lump by your pig kidney.
Speaker 1: It always happens. So if you're old, you can't fall. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's the beginning of bad things. You also can't have
Speaker 1: a bad conscience. And carry things with you because you
Speaker 1: don't what The longer you carry things, the weaker you get,
Speaker 1: and the heavy that shit you're carrying is on your
Speaker 1: back until one day you collapse. If Tdj's had a stroke,
Speaker 1: well what brings on a stroke? And I could think
Speaker 1: it's a lot of stress. Let's see. But I'll tell
Speaker 1: you something. He was very upset when he saw P
Speaker 1: Diddy's video of beating Cassie Ventura up in that hote
Speaker 1: in that hotel lobby. But like I said, he knows
Speaker 1: he got too close to the mouth of the dragon.
Speaker 1: Now he's gonna have to answer to this somewhere. Speaking
Speaker 1: of P Diddy, I know a lot of you have
Speaker 1: been sending me clips on YouTube of this comedian Paul
Speaker 1: It was a Sheer and the other guy. I think
Speaker 1: it's funny on a podcast talking about Hey, did you
Speaker 1: hear what happened? Jamie Fox has a comedy special and
Speaker 1: after special, he told the crowd that he's the one
Speaker 1: who called the cops on Diddy or call the FBI
Speaker 1: and Didny because did he poisoned him and he had
Speaker 1: to get back on him. And this is going on.
Speaker 1: It's being sent around everywhere, even though the comedy special
Speaker 1: that Jamie Fox tape was months ago. Okay, it was
Speaker 1: months ago, So now these things are coming to light now.
Speaker 1: I know one of his buddies, Choke No Joke, How
Speaker 1: do you? How are you an adult? And go by
Speaker 1: Choke No Joke anyhow, Choke No Joke, who's a comic,
Speaker 1: went to the taping a long time ago and said
Speaker 1: Jamie addressed the p. Diddy situation and he said, look,
Speaker 1: he had some jokes. I'm not sure if those jokes
Speaker 1: are gonna make the final cut, but he did say
Speaker 1: he's responsible for call on the FBI. Guys, first of all,
Speaker 1: did he didn't poison him? It's a very easy thing
Speaker 1: for Jamie Fox to claim because no one can prove it.
Speaker 1: And this way, Jamie Fox doesn't have to talk about
Speaker 1: what all of Hollywood doesn't want to talk about, the
Speaker 1: vaccination causing people a lot of harm. But that's what
Speaker 1: happened in Jamie Fox. That's what happened. That's what my
Speaker 1: source was told, and that's what he told me. And
Speaker 1: the rest is history. So were you're hearing now from people? Hey,
Speaker 1: you know he said a lot of special. He can't
Speaker 1: say that out loud. On his special for tape and
Speaker 1: have it beyond whatever. It's on HBO, whatever, Netflix, wherever
Speaker 1: it's going to appear. It's slander. It's libel. Oh p.
Speaker 1: Did he poison me? Really? You think that's not gonna
Speaker 1: go to a judge? At one point he didn't he
Speaker 1: if he even said that, he probably did as a
Speaker 1: joke because he's a comic. It's not gonna make the show.
Speaker 1: If it makes the show, boy, there's gonna be some problems.
Speaker 1: Did he didn't poison Jamie Fox? Jamie Fox was around
Speaker 1: those places. He saw the shit going on. So did
Speaker 1: Kevin Hart. Jamie Fox's illness was about the vaccination. But
Speaker 1: again he's back in Hollywood. He can't say. Like Maria Grazia,
Speaker 1: one of my patrons, was making a comment about, you know,
Speaker 1: we talked about Lizzo and how she's taken what I
Speaker 1: think is os epic with Goovie or the other one Monjarro,
Speaker 1: And Maria said, you know, why can't she just admit
Speaker 1: what she's doing? And she made a reference to Jillian
Speaker 1: Barbary losing sixty pounds on one of those weight low
Speaker 1: drugs and feeling great, And I said, and she admits
Speaker 1: it I said, because Jillian has no career anymore. As
Speaker 1: sad as that is, because I think she's great and
Speaker 1: she's a good friend, and her life just got pulled
Speaker 1: out from under her and then cancer happened, and Jesus Christ,
Speaker 1: I feel horrible for her, But she has no career
Speaker 1: to speak up, so she can say I took with
Speaker 1: Govie and I feel great. Maybe she'll drop as a spokesperson.
Speaker 1: But if you're in the mix, if you're in a
Speaker 1: tippy top like Wizzo, well like Jamie Fox, you can't
Speaker 1: talk about the real shit because you're still in the game.
Speaker 1: Jamie Fox can't say the jab got me. You can't
Speaker 1: say it. He's not gonna say it. Trust me on that.
Speaker 1: The other thing that got me sick to myself. Did
Speaker 1: you see the clip, you know, the big new movie Wicked,
Speaker 1: Wicked and Roxy was on. Roxy did Wicked in school.
Speaker 1: I enjoyed it. She had a big you know, she
Speaker 1: had the Ariana Grande part, and I loved watching her.
Speaker 1: I was crying when she was on stage, how calm
Speaker 1: she was, and just really blew my mind. There's a
Speaker 1: clip going around with Ariana grand Grande. I hate her
Speaker 1: last name and Cynthia Arrivo. This is the weirdo who
Speaker 1: co stars in Wicked. You have to know first that
Speaker 1: Arivo is a huge vocal member of the LGBTQ off
Speaker 1: on gul Army. She's also probably the most full oft
Speaker 1: shit actress out there, largely because she's primarily a stage
Speaker 1: actress to people who love the smell of the grease paint. Okay,
Speaker 1: one of those people. She always seems to be trying
Speaker 1: to reach the fourth wall when she speaks. You know,
Speaker 1: when you're in the theater, you will speak loud and
Speaker 1: the uncie it for the back wall, the fourth wall.
Speaker 1: Full shit. So she speaks like that, and she looks
Speaker 1: weird with the cow, the cow piers the cattle ring
Speaker 1: in her nose, and she's so skinny. The both of
Speaker 1: them are the both of them meet a fucking ribbi
Speaker 1: and some cotton candy something, have some fun. But she
Speaker 1: looks and she has the long fingernails that are like
Speaker 1: three inches long. And finally, she was on Dak Shepherd's
Speaker 1: podcast last week and he said to her, in very
Speaker 1: delicate ways, how do you wipe your ass? And she
Speaker 1: was like, well, people need to understand, and she thought
Speaker 1: the question was, it's just not in bad taste. Well,
Speaker 1: everybody's thinking, how do you wipe your asshole? And she said,
Speaker 1: you know, I can do a lot with the tips
Speaker 1: of my fingers, not my nails. Okay, I don't want
Speaker 1: to even think more about it, but I guarantee you
Speaker 1: she's had to clean out those nails once or twice
Speaker 1: because they went through the paper. All the figures have
Speaker 1: gone through the paper. Don't lie. We've all done that
Speaker 1: and go oh no, oh, you want to you want
Speaker 1: to start the whole day over if you want to
Speaker 1: go back in the shower. Frankly after sometimes you know,
Speaker 1: you take a number two, it's like I gotta start
Speaker 1: the day over back of the shower. I don't like
Speaker 1: personally going out after a number two. I feel like
Speaker 1: now I'm starting over. Thank god, I go first thing
Speaker 1: in the morning. My body's trained that way now. I
Speaker 1: don't know why anyhow. Off the subject Aarrevo and Grande,
Speaker 1: I said, Ariana grand it's gotta be grande, I Ariana
Speaker 1: grand No, it's grand You know I've been doing this
Speaker 1: for seven years. I always get a name wrong. Arianna,
Speaker 1: who I like, becuse she's adorable and she's funny on SNL,
Speaker 1: but I know she's a print. I'm just saying. So
Speaker 1: they're sitting down for this interview for Wicked, and it's
Speaker 1: a big thing. This Wicked was a big Broadway smash,
Speaker 1: and their press tour for the movie has been filled
Speaker 1: with a lot of cringy moments, put it that way,
Speaker 1: but the most recent one was She's The two of
Speaker 1: them are being interviewed by a woman who writes for
Speaker 1: Out magazine. Her name is Tracy Gilchrist. Out magazine, of course,
Speaker 1: the gay magazine, and she tells Arianna and Cynthia that
Speaker 1: she heard people were taking the lyrics of the song
Speaker 1: defying Gravity. It's a big number in the play in
Speaker 1: the movie, and she said, and the people are quote
Speaker 1: really holding space with that and feeling power in that.
Speaker 1: Cynthia Revo grabbed her chest, was very visibly emotional and
Speaker 1: bowled over by what Gilchris said. She couldn't believe it,
Speaker 1: and she said, I didn't know that was happening. That's
Speaker 1: really powerful and gil Chris said hm hmm, and the
Speaker 1: Rivo said, that's that's what I wanted, so I want it.
Speaker 1: She turned to look at Ariana, and Ariana is nodding
Speaker 1: her head in agreement, and then she clutches the Rivos
Speaker 1: index finger and the Rivo says again, I should know
Speaker 1: that was happening, very emotional. Then Gilchris said, well, you know,
Speaker 1: I've seen it in a couple of posts, so it's
Speaker 1: not this huge thing. Sleep in the country. Gilchrist then said, well,
Speaker 1: I've seen it in a couple of posts. I don't
Speaker 1: know how wide spread it is, but you know, I
Speaker 1: am in the queer media. A new phrase. I want
Speaker 1: to kill myself or kill them. I'm in the queer media.
Speaker 1: I'm in the big dick media. Can I say that?
Speaker 1: Can I walk around? I'm gonna oh, do you know
Speaker 1: what I do? I'm in the big dick media, these assholes.
Speaker 1: I'm in the queer media. So that's my you know.
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's happening. I feel like I'm in a
Speaker 1: fever dream. I mean, these people are so phony. Meanwhile,
Speaker 1: this fucking movie's two hours and forty minutes and there's
Speaker 1: gonna be another one. Part two is coming out next November.
Speaker 1: Jesus helped me out. Do the studios think this is
Speaker 1: gonna be that much of a smash? Maybe it's wrong?
Speaker 1: Was it big? Play. But you know, even during this presto,
Speaker 1: Arianna adopted a British accent. There's a lot of stupid
Speaker 1: things happening. But I've got to tell you, when I
Speaker 1: looked up what holding space meant, I wanted to die.
Speaker 1: Holding space basically means being physically, mentally, and emotionally present
Speaker 1: for somebody. It means putting your focus on someone to
Speaker 1: support them as they feel their feelings. This is where
Speaker 1: we're at now in this and I'm reading now. An
Speaker 1: important aspect of holding one's space is managing judgment while
Speaker 1: you're present. The person who's holding space helps set the
Speaker 1: tone for a kind, curious and judgment free interaction where
Speaker 1: the other person can be vulnerable. And like the term says,
Speaker 1: have space, you fucking pussies, judgment free? What does it do?
Speaker 1: What is holding space do? Well? The dictionary says no,
Speaker 1: not the dictionary. The magazine says, when you hold space
Speaker 1: for someone, you can create a forum where they can
Speaker 1: feel safe. Think of a time when you are vulnerable, guys,
Speaker 1: think of what they're making. Everybody into a soft cushiony
Speaker 1: pussy who can't get hurt, can't up against the wall,
Speaker 1: can't get around a hurdle. This is what the new
Speaker 1: generation is doing. Everybody needs help and it feels vulnerable.
Speaker 1: Thank god Trump is taking every transgender out of the
Speaker 1: armed forces. Enough. I want guys and women to want
Speaker 1: to kick ass, not worry about when they can get
Speaker 1: back in their fucking drag outfits. So sick of this anymore.
Speaker 1: We don't have enough fucking shit to fight. We're sending
Speaker 1: all those shit to you create. I'll save that for
Speaker 1: next week's part. I can't Trump couldn't have got here sooner.
Speaker 1: Think of a time when you were vulnerable. What did
Speaker 1: you need at that moment? Did you need someone to
Speaker 1: give you advice and solve your problem? Did you need
Speaker 1: someone to tell you what to do or judge you?
Speaker 1: You probably just needed someone to be there for you.
Speaker 1: Sometimes the best thing we can do for someone to
Speaker 1: simply be with them. Sitting with someone, loving support can
Speaker 1: help them feel seen, understood and cared for. Did your
Speaker 1: parents ever walk around saying, you know, Lily, I just
Speaker 1: don't feel seen at the carpet showroom. Oh what's wrong?
Speaker 1: I don't feel seen? God damn it, I just told
Speaker 1: you now. Can I have a scotch? Are you sure
Speaker 1: you want a Scotch, make a better choice. All right,
Speaker 1: a hot tea? This is what the fuck are we
Speaker 1: turning into? And you could even hold space for yourself.
Speaker 1: Did you know that? Oh yeah, you can be present
Speaker 1: with yourself. I looked it up. It might be hard
Speaker 1: to put your focus out completely on yourself, but it
Speaker 1: can be excruciating to sit with your own feelings and
Speaker 1: sensations and thoughts and let go of judgment. You get
Speaker 1: the point. It's all this news speak of bullshit. This
Speaker 1: is a perfect example, is why it brought this story up.
Speaker 1: It's a great example of how the entertainment industry makes
Speaker 1: everybody understand how self important they are. SHOPI is. People
Speaker 1: like to think everything is done, everything that's done is art,
Speaker 1: art verse entertainment. Just because just because an entertainer gives
Speaker 1: a great performance, it doesn't make them an artist. Gallagher,
Speaker 1: the comedian who broke watermelons with a wooden sledgehammer, is
Speaker 1: he an artist? Come on? I could be the greatest
Speaker 1: fireman in the world, the best architect, engineer, you name it.
Speaker 1: I can win a Nobel piece, a Nobel Prize in chemistry.
Speaker 1: That could be the world's greatest athlete, or the guy
Speaker 1: that cleans the street quickest and best in America. Doesn't
Speaker 1: make anybody an artist. Arrivo and Ariana are in the
Speaker 1: entertainment industry. Get over yourself and here's a newslash. You
Speaker 1: both are a pain in the ass. Both of these
Speaker 1: women haven't realized their side lost the culture war and
Speaker 1: all this bullshit narcissistic self obsession with every little thing
Speaker 1: about themselves as a powerful and profound, existential revelation of
Speaker 1: their individuality. Shut the fuck up, Just shut up. That
Speaker 1: thinking is done. It's over. No one's looking to Hollywood
Speaker 1: anymore and thinking the answers are there with those smart
Speaker 1: people who act for a living. No one thinks that anymore.
Speaker 1: Get your side, deliver your lines, find you mark, and
Speaker 1: move the fuck on. We don't want to hear from
Speaker 1: you anymore. Beyond that, what are they doing to the
Speaker 1: English language? Holding space? Finding truth? My favorite phrase is
Speaker 1: standing in your power. Last month, two three months ago,
Speaker 1: the big phrase on social media was black people say, oh,
Speaker 1: stand on business and I stand on my business. I
Speaker 1: can figure out what that means. It means you're being
Speaker 1: a person of your word. But what they do to
Speaker 1: the language, What the fuck? Speaking truth to power? Truth
Speaker 1: is objective, it's not subjective. There is only the truth,
Speaker 1: not your truth, So stop speaking that way. Christ told her,
Speaker 1: I got a message on my phone's gi me my
Speaker 1: phone bill. I knew it. I don't understand whatever the fuck. Okay,
Speaker 1: finally I gotta say, Lindsay Lohan, I put up her
Speaker 1: picture last a few days ago on the podcast assessment.
Speaker 1: She looks beautiful, very glowing, looks very young. But then
Speaker 1: everybody said, oh, she's had work. Well, of course she's
Speaker 1: had work. I mean that's the way it is. I mean,
Speaker 1: did you see what you looked like recently before she
Speaker 1: got married, before she found the multi multi millionaire, not
Speaker 1: good Man almost two deck well yeah, two decad. It's
Speaker 1: a crazy partying anyhow. This doctor name Johnny Betteridge, is
Speaker 1: an aesthetic doctor. He says that she spent probably three
Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars in plastic surgery to get that look.
Speaker 1: This guy's the founder of something in London called JB Aesthetics.
Speaker 1: Has got a background in emergency medicine, intensive care and anesthetics. Okay,
Speaker 1: He shed an Instagram video where he talked about all
Speaker 1: the things Lindsay Loan he believes had done I'll put
Speaker 1: the picture up on this show in the Patreon thumbnail
Speaker 1: so you can see. He said, she's obviously had a facelift,
Speaker 1: an upper eyelid surgery, a nose job, and a surgical browlift.
Speaker 1: He said that most likely she had some degree of
Speaker 1: surgical facelift and it was done probably with an endoscopic
Speaker 1: endoscopic approach, meaning it was not too invasive. He says
Speaker 1: she got boatox, a lift, lip, lip fillers, and veneers.
Speaker 1: He looked at her skin and said that she's done
Speaker 1: laser resurfacing and had a dermatologist led skincare routine and
Speaker 1: the cost if you put everything together is between two
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty and three hundred thousand dollars. Look, man,
Speaker 1: I mean, look at the picture. If you line them
Speaker 1: up next to each other, Lindsey had the look of
Speaker 1: someone just about to run into a wall. What she
Speaker 1: did in her career many times from that video where
Speaker 1: was she in Syria trying to take a child from
Speaker 1: a mother at night? Oh my god, she was got
Speaker 1: killed for that. I mean she went through some crazy
Speaker 1: eras in her life. That reality show she had where
Speaker 1: she lived in Manhattan and people just kept trying to
Speaker 1: wake her up to do something. It was a horrible show.
Speaker 1: They found a list of all the guys she had
Speaker 1: sex with, and she she kept it and they got
Speaker 1: set around the internet. Lindsay was with everybody, just not
Speaker 1: a very oh. She just wasn't feeling herself. She didn't
Speaker 1: think too highly of herself for a long time. And
Speaker 1: I hung out with her father, and that's not the
Speaker 1: father figure you want. Listen. I don't care what she spent,
Speaker 1: because if I had two and a grand, like I
Speaker 1: said earlier, if I had two and a grand in
Speaker 1: a box somewhere, I'd spend a bunch of it on
Speaker 1: my face too, especially if I'm in the business. And
Speaker 1: by the way, she's one of the few people who
Speaker 1: had major work done that actually looks good. Too many
Speaker 1: of these people get a lot of work done, and
Speaker 1: they don't look younger. They just look like people who
Speaker 1: had too much work done. Just stand on Canon Drive
Speaker 1: or Beverly Drive in Beverly Hills and take a look
Speaker 1: for yourself. Take a walk down Rodeo Drive. Everywhere they
Speaker 1: just look like women who had too much work done.
Speaker 1: No one looks and goes, wow, you're you're seventy. I
Speaker 1: thought you were seventy. You think you look fifty. It
Speaker 1: doesn't work. This job, this this not job, but this procedure,
Speaker 1: these procedures she went through. This is the one and
Speaker 1: only time that I've actually loved the end product of
Speaker 1: what someone looks like, because she looks natural, doesn't look artificial.
Speaker 1: And by the way, Lindsey Lohan has always had a
Speaker 1: great figure, and now with this face, I say, watch out.
Speaker 1: And I can promise you this. There have been already
Speaker 1: one hundred actresses, I guarantee you who've reached out to
Speaker 1: her to find out what doctors she used and where
Speaker 1: she went. How can they get an appointment because they're
Speaker 1: all the same. But here's the thing that no one's saying.
Speaker 1: It ain't just the surgery man. You can see it
Speaker 1: in her eyes that she quit drinking. I bet she's
Speaker 1: she slowed down the smoking too, because that'll aid you
Speaker 1: like crazy. There are people who quit drinking, you know,
Speaker 1: two three years later and you could just see them glowing.
Speaker 1: They look younger, they look healthier. And we all know
Speaker 1: that she played with a lot of substances when she
Speaker 1: was young, and she came from a home that was
Speaker 1: full of toxic behavior and drugs. And abuse and what
Speaker 1: have you. But I think marriage finally has been a
Speaker 1: blessing for her, given us some stability, and now she
Speaker 1: can focus on a healthier lifestyle. So I say good
Speaker 1: for her. And suddenly Lindsay Lohan is now pretty enough
Speaker 1: to actually be one of the true mean girls. But
Speaker 1: she won't be. She's going to remain nice to everyone because,
Speaker 1: you know what, she watched her career nosedive and she
Speaker 1: remembers what happened when she was down there, and now
Speaker 1: that she's on the come up, she'll be a much
Speaker 1: better person. And this will be the beginning of another
Speaker 1: career for her because she could always act and now
Speaker 1: she looks fantastic. And by the way, she's still only
Speaker 1: in her thirties. What I wouldn't give to be there again.
Speaker 1: I'm aj Bens and that was your daily Unfiltered podcast
Speaker 1: for November twenty sixth, twenty twenty four. I'm happy to
Speaker 1: see that Monday shows showed up on overcast, so the
Speaker 1: problem was with them. But the next few days, I'm
Speaker 1: still going to release these shows on the free side
Speaker 1: as well, just to make sure that people are getting it,
Speaker 1: and then we'll go back to the normal situation all right.
Speaker 1: Gang talk to tomorrow.