Speaker 1: Dedi White my guest for the evening. You know exactly
Speaker 1: where you can find her at de d White. Links
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Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming on with menight. It's
Speaker 1: a pleasure to meet you.
Speaker 2: You're welcome.
Speaker 1: Let me start with the boring question, the common one
Speaker 1: that always comes through. How did you initially decide to
Speaker 1: get into the adult entertainment industry? Was it a was
Speaker 1: it a coming off a cliff and you were just
Speaker 1: fully into it? Did you tiptoe in? What was your
Speaker 1: whole entrance into this field?
Speaker 2: I actually was a swinger, okay, seemed to be from
Speaker 2: the swinger level first, where you're experiencing sex with a
Speaker 2: lot of different people, sharing with your husband, and then
Speaker 2: he was videoing me, and then we decided that he
Speaker 2: loves watching and posting me, and I've gotten popular with
Speaker 2: all the born industries and the swingers of course, and
Speaker 2: the fans out there. It took maybe about a year
Speaker 2: of doing swinging, which we didn't really We started a
Speaker 2: little bit when we were didn't have our children around
Speaker 2: for a while. There was a break where we had
Speaker 2: no children, came back with previous marriages things like this. Sure,
Speaker 2: so we got to have fun. Then we stopped because
Speaker 2: we had responsibilities. And then we went from the family
Speaker 2: time to us alone and had a lot of fun
Speaker 2: and started in the swing. But it was something where
Speaker 2: we were doing that for about a year and then
Speaker 2: when the videos were going up on a swinger that
Speaker 2: you put short clips on the swinger sites and on
Speaker 2: Twitter at that time. Now X and I was found
Speaker 2: and started to get into the pint industry that way.
Speaker 2: That's how it happened. I've met a lot of nice people.
Speaker 2: It's a lot of fun and we're just going along
Speaker 2: and doing a lot of pings.
Speaker 1: So a lot of the performers I've talked to recently
Speaker 1: got into it through swinging through the lifestyle. I always
Speaker 1: find it so fascinating. I've been with my wife since
Speaker 1: I was nineteen. I'm thirty eight now, I've not only
Speaker 1: have I not been in the swinging lifestyle whatsoever, I
Speaker 1: haven't even what was the term spread My seed or
Speaker 1: done whatever, and I'm okay with it.
Speaker 3: I love it.
Speaker 1: I love my wife, I love our sex life, this
Speaker 1: and that. So I come to this completely from a
Speaker 1: place of ignorance, not rudeness or malice or anything. Can
Speaker 1: I ask when you can, I ask this, And if
Speaker 1: any of this is too personal, please let me know
Speaker 1: and I'll just you know, we'll cut it out. How
Speaker 1: long were you together with your husband before you decided
Speaker 1: to get into the lifestyle.
Speaker 2: Wow, Well, honestly, when I met him with my second marriage,
Speaker 2: I was thirty and I did not know anything even
Speaker 2: the word what swinging meant. He was already into that,
Speaker 2: and that's how he was dating I apparently was with
Speaker 2: other couples. Then we ran into each other at a club,
Speaker 2: of course, and we dated, and then he started to
Speaker 2: introduce me to his friends, and I discovered the swinging
Speaker 2: lifestyle at thirty. Sure, at that time we didn't have
Speaker 2: our children. I had two girls, He had two girls,
Speaker 2: and our spouses had them at different times, and so
Speaker 2: that was a lot of fun at first. It was interesting, though,
Speaker 2: when he introduced me to that style, I was like,
Speaker 2: maybe he's not happy with me. Maybe I shouldn't be
Speaker 2: going on with this relationship, and it was like, well,
Speaker 2: I'll go a little bit further and see where it goes.
Speaker 2: But it was like off and on. Then we discovered
Speaker 2: that there were certain things I liked and he didn't
Speaker 2: like when we were meeting people, so we let it
Speaker 2: go for a while. We had our children, I'd say
Speaker 2: maybe twenty years went by, and when they finally grew
Speaker 2: up and they were out of the house, we decided
Speaker 2: to go back to the swinging lifestyle. And we did
Speaker 2: that because it was exciting. And after a while, when
Speaker 2: you're married, you do the same things repeatedly, Okay, the
Speaker 2: excitement starts to sway. Even though you love each other,
Speaker 2: those things you want to start making exciting again, and
Speaker 2: that's when we decided to go back. And at that
Speaker 2: time I decided that he liked he liked watching me
Speaker 2: with black men, So that was our king where he
Speaker 2: liked videoing. It wasn't necessarily him getting involved. He loved
Speaker 2: watching me, okay. So that's how we got it back
Speaker 2: into the swinging lifestyle and got to do what we
Speaker 2: were doing now.
Speaker 1: So it's such an interesting journey you have there because
Speaker 1: what I find my first questions, the first question I
Speaker 1: have is how much did the lifestyle or how it's
Speaker 1: approached or how you look into it change in the
Speaker 1: twenty years or so that you were out of it.
Speaker 1: I mean, I assume it would be like a one
Speaker 1: eighty you'd be going from a horse to a car,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, Well from finding people and little clubs and
Speaker 2: secret areas through the newspaper those type of ways where
Speaker 2: now it's a website. It's all these people and they
Speaker 2: say where, what area they're at, what they're into. You
Speaker 2: don't have to sit there in a bar and talk
Speaker 2: to them and find out, well do I like? You
Speaker 2: can see what they look like. You can see how
Speaker 2: they their sexual desires are, and how they are on
Speaker 2: the website before you even meet them. Right, So it's
Speaker 2: and you can interact back and forth right website. So
Speaker 2: being in a place meeting outside and not comfortable and
Speaker 2: saying nope, you're not for me and goodbye, you can
Speaker 2: do this on the way. It's a lot easier with
Speaker 2: the internet, definitely. And then of course you can see
Speaker 2: where the house parties are the certain there's a lot
Speaker 2: more clubs out there. If you want to travel to
Speaker 2: a different town, they're already advertising where they're at there
Speaker 2: and you can even talk to those people before you
Speaker 2: even get there.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's a little more you're able to customize
Speaker 1: your experience almost a little bit more here, it's not
Speaker 1: And it seems like, I know, everyone gets so scared
Speaker 1: of the internet. It seems like there's less risk with
Speaker 1: this than just calling the number in the back of
Speaker 1: a dirty magazine or a newspaper or whatever it is.
Speaker 2: Right exactly, Yes, sure, yes, sure so, because you don't
Speaker 2: know if you're even saying there's there's females out there
Speaker 2: that only like to be with couples because they feel
Speaker 2: more comfortable with that. Sure, and being a single woman
Speaker 2: and trying to experience this on your own, you don't
Speaker 2: know what you're walking.
Speaker 1: Into, right, Can I ask did you have Okay, so
Speaker 1: you came into the quote the swinger lifestyle. I assume
Speaker 1: your marriage before that was much more vanilla, I mean
Speaker 1: very vanilla or Missouri Okay, all right, So when you
Speaker 1: came into this, was there any kind of rules or
Speaker 1: boundaries that you established early on with your husband maybe
Speaker 1: now your new husband in the lifestyle, and then did
Speaker 1: those eventually erode over time where it was a little
Speaker 1: bit like I you could go ahead and do yeah,
Speaker 1: go ahead and try that?
Speaker 3: Or were there just no rules from the beginning?
Speaker 2: Would we would talk it over beforehand or in the
Speaker 2: middle right at the moment. They were always good about
Speaker 2: when we went into a club or even meeting people
Speaker 2: on the website, that we would discuss it before we
Speaker 2: would go any further. The dos and don'ts. Sometimes you
Speaker 2: don't know what the don'ts are or theds until you
Speaker 2: start to get into it. Sure, so like dot being dominated,
Speaker 2: it's kind of interested me, but I didn't know how much.
Speaker 2: So he was there and we met somebody and he
Speaker 2: was showing us what certain things you do, and so
Speaker 2: it was a safe environment and we said yes to this,
Speaker 2: no to this, and that's the way. You know how
Speaker 2: we did it.
Speaker 1: Do you guys currently and if you don't want to
Speaker 1: disclose him, that's understandable as well. Do you currently have
Speaker 1: rules in place? And are those only applied towards lifestyle
Speaker 1: things or is it applied across the board for work
Speaker 1: as well, production shooting anything.
Speaker 2: I haven't run across it because a lot of people
Speaker 2: we know what we're looking for when we want to
Speaker 2: do video shoots. Before we have them come in to
Speaker 2: do the shoots, we're already talking to them about the
Speaker 2: dues and them don'ts gotcha. So's there's no surprises.
Speaker 3: Gotcha, gotcha?
Speaker 1: And that's the best way to have it, right, no surprises,
Speaker 1: everyone having fun, good time.
Speaker 3: Let's be up front, let's be honest about it, right.
Speaker 2: Yes, there was one thing I was surprised that I
Speaker 2: would do. And when we would go to clubs, they
Speaker 2: always have the girls up there dancing, and that was
Speaker 2: something that I always loved dancing. That's how we met
Speaker 2: each other in a club dancing. So when I got
Speaker 2: up and started to strip on it with a stripper pole,
Speaker 2: I was shy, didn't really know what I was, you know,
Speaker 2: if I wanted to do it, But once I got
Speaker 2: up there, that was something that I experienced. So later
Speaker 2: on in years before I got into porn, when we
Speaker 2: got back into swinging, I actually told him how would
Speaker 2: you feel about actually working as a stripper in the
Speaker 2: evening for a while because I always wanted to experience that.
Speaker 2: He loved it. Yeah, those are things. We just worked
Speaker 2: with each other and we're wild people as it is,
Speaker 2: so we are open, very very much open to that one.
Speaker 1: Gotcha. Gotcha. A couple more questions about the lifestyle. Here
Speaker 1: is your husband. Are you okay with him engaging with
Speaker 1: other women throughout the time or is he primarily a
Speaker 1: watcher In this scenario.
Speaker 2: He watches. He's told me that. I've told him many
Speaker 2: of times, if you see somebody that you really want
Speaker 2: to be with, you know, I go for it. I'm
Speaker 2: open to it also, but yeah, I know you're always
Speaker 2: watching me. And he said no. He says, you're hard
Speaker 2: to replace.
Speaker 3: Oh, he's so sweet.
Speaker 1: So I was like, oh, okay, it's so funny because
Speaker 1: you understand I'm not in the industry as you are.
Speaker 1: I'm like periphery kind of. But I've spoken to enough
Speaker 1: people and interviewed enough people that from the outside perspective,
Speaker 1: the vanilla perspective, you might look at it. And again,
Speaker 1: I do not feel this way. But some one ignorant
Speaker 1: to the industry looks at it and be like, well,
Speaker 1: this guy, he's just kind of forcing his wife to
Speaker 1: go to swingers clubs and do this and that. And
Speaker 1: what they don't understand is those relationships don't last if
Speaker 1: you're making the woman do something she doesn't want to do.
Speaker 3: Hopefully she gets out of it quick, right.
Speaker 1: So there's this perception or whatever that especially if it's
Speaker 1: like a one way thing like oh, he doesn't hook
Speaker 1: up of people he or maybe the other perception is
Speaker 1: you you're not happy with him, so you have to go
Speaker 1: out and you're forcing him into this. This is entirely mutual.
Speaker 1: You both love what you're doing. You only got here
Speaker 1: because you loved it.
Speaker 3: Is that correct?
Speaker 2: It is? I have to tell you one thing. You
Speaker 2: just reminded me out though. Sure, there was a time
Speaker 2: between the children growing up that it didn't work out
Speaker 2: for a while and I had gangway and he wanted
Speaker 2: to go back to that lifestyle when I wasn't ready.
Speaker 2: I had to get back and feel good about myself
Speaker 2: before I did it again. Even though I wasn't against it,
Speaker 2: I wasn't ready for someone to see me overway. Sure,
Speaker 2: And so that's another thing too a woman. My guys,
Speaker 2: I don't know if you're the same, but when a
Speaker 2: woman doesn't feel good about herself, that stops her from
Speaker 2: doing it too.
Speaker 3: Gotcha, gotcha?
Speaker 1: So I don't know how to broach Oh, there is
Speaker 1: one last question about the lifestyle, and I don't think
Speaker 1: it applies to you, unfortunately if your husband is not. Also,
Speaker 1: my question is I always find this concept funny. Have
Speaker 1: either of you ever had to, quote unquote take one
Speaker 1: for the team. So I picture a couple and I
Speaker 1: picture looking at another couple and my wife is really
Speaker 1: in the guy and I'm looking at the girl, going
Speaker 1: this is gonna be a bummer for me. Have you
Speaker 1: or him either had to be like, I don't love this,
Speaker 1: but I'll do this one for you here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there was a time one I experienced that we
Speaker 2: were before we figured out that he really wanted to
Speaker 2: just watch me. There was an attractive blonde. My husband
Speaker 2: loves blondes, so I said, go for it, even though
Speaker 2: the guy the husband was by foot. But we didn't
Speaker 2: realize is after we're stripped off and he's on it,
Speaker 2: he's doing her. He doesn't have anything. It's like, uh okay.
Speaker 2: So we proceeded to try and he tried to please
Speaker 2: me another way. I was like the good Yeah, those
Speaker 2: situations happened. Yeah, sure, sure, because at that time they
Speaker 2: weren't showing people on the website. Clips weren't there. You
Speaker 2: were just that the complete communication on the internet wasn't there.
Speaker 2: It was just talking to people back and forth, got texting?
Speaker 3: Gotcha?
Speaker 2: All right. Second, I don't understand.
Speaker 1: All right, let me dive into the content. I don't
Speaker 1: know how to approach this appropriately. You got into this
Speaker 1: industry a little bit older in life, right. I am
Speaker 1: thirty eight, and my bones feel like they're breaking every
Speaker 1: day when I get out of bed. I feel horrendous
Speaker 1: all the time. I'm not healthy. How do you do this?
Speaker 2: I work out all the time, gotcha, you can't slow down.
Speaker 2: After we got back into the industry. Thing that I
Speaker 2: always took care of myself. I didn't get way overweight.
Speaker 2: So now it's you get to the gym because you're joints.
Speaker 2: You have to be limber, You've got to take vitamins.
Speaker 2: There's just a lot of things you have to do, definitely,
Speaker 2: and it's worth it, though, because I'm seventy one and
Speaker 2: a lot of people I'm my younger sister, there's a
Speaker 2: really bad shape next to me. It's like a lot
Speaker 2: of people are ages. They're overweight now. They don't take
Speaker 2: care of themselves anymore. And I do the gym, I
Speaker 2: go cycling, I else. I love to be outside.
Speaker 3: That's right. It shows up later. In life.
Speaker 1: Then I guess like, if I'm lucky enough to make
Speaker 1: it to your age, I probably won't be unless I
Speaker 1: get start working at it now, and the audience should
Speaker 1: know that too.
Speaker 3: Indeed, here's seventy one you sent or seventy.
Speaker 2: I'll be seventy one next in two more weeks.
Speaker 1: Well, congratulations on your birthday. That is a that is
Speaker 1: crazy because you look phenomenal. I just say that from
Speaker 1: the outside, and your energy and your performances is that
Speaker 1: of a thirty year old woman. So congratulations on staying
Speaker 1: healthy and staying good. Knock on wood on that one.
Speaker 1: If I were to go to any of your personal
Speaker 1: channels and sign up, by the way, for people listening
Speaker 1: at d D White, make sure you follow the links
Speaker 1: in the episode description where you produce your own content,
Speaker 1: your own What am I seeing on that? What kind
Speaker 1: of content do you and your And is your husband
Speaker 1: a part of the filmmaking process, Like is he filming editing?
Speaker 3: He's off, he's that, Yeah.
Speaker 2: All of it. We recently had to rebrand and thank
Speaker 2: god we had the raw footage because we had to
Speaker 2: take it all down. Wow, okay, like six different sites
Speaker 2: and you're still in the process of doing it all.
Speaker 2: Heyry eds and posts, and sometimes I'll let them post
Speaker 2: some my area, but I have certain areas where I
Speaker 2: like to keep in touch with my fans.
Speaker 3: Gotcha.
Speaker 2: But I'll be honest with you. I heard you say
Speaker 2: D D. White. There's a musician called D D. White. Okay,
Speaker 2: so I'm d D. White x x x X.
Speaker 1: I apologize d D. White xx. That's on Twitter. But
Speaker 1: if we want to find content of you, I think
Speaker 1: it's at D D. White right the other places?
Speaker 3: Yes? Correct? Correct? Okay, Yeah, it looks to everything in
Speaker 3: the episode.
Speaker 1: Please make sure you hit those because we always want
Speaker 1: to make sure we're supporting these people.
Speaker 3: So can I Okay.
Speaker 1: The rebrand is interesting to me because I go old
Speaker 1: school with my knowledge of porn, Like I know porn
Speaker 1: stars from the nineties and this and that. Seka you
Speaker 1: were for a while Sacah Black, Right, Seka was a
Speaker 1: legendary big name. She was actually even a little bit
Speaker 1: outside of my range. But I I'm aware of Sekah.
Speaker 1: Why the rebrand out of that name only because I
Speaker 1: only ask because there's a lot of porn stars with
Speaker 1: the name Brittany. There's a lot of porn stars with
Speaker 1: the name whatever. You know, So why the rebrand? Was
Speaker 1: this not a legal issue as if you were bring sued,
Speaker 1: but maybe an administrative issue or.
Speaker 2: I think it was more of a trademark, even though
Speaker 2: I always said Zeka Black, But then since I look
Speaker 2: similar to her and back in those days, I guess
Speaker 2: fans were getting confused. So I just decided that it
Speaker 2: was better if I just rebranded to g D. White.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, g D Whitely.
Speaker 2: It's fun. It's funny. A lot of my fans though,
Speaker 2: they say, we know who you are. It's like they
Speaker 2: followed me. It's it's great, that's great. So what kind
Speaker 2: of content do you two like to make for yourself?
Speaker 2: Obviously if you're shooting for big studios or anything, you
Speaker 2: were kind of holding the what they want to do?
Speaker 2: What is something that you guys really like to put together?
Speaker 2: You get excited for It's Monday and you I can't
Speaker 2: believe we're shooting that on Friday. Yeah. I love shooting
Speaker 2: with black men. They they just have this different way
Speaker 2: about them that I love to shoot with black men.
Speaker 2: And my husband loves to do the videoing and editing it.
Speaker 2: Since my age, I'm actually doing a lot of steps
Speaker 2: son or not Grandma as much. They I haven't gotten
Speaker 2: into that. It's more of a milk area, gotcha, or
Speaker 2: the naughty neighbor things like that, gotcha. But it's it's nice.
Speaker 2: I'm excited right now about going to do a shoot
Speaker 2: with I'm going I love being in costume. Oh I'm
Speaker 2: going to be a police officer and I'm going to
Speaker 2: arrest arrest him because he's shoplifting.
Speaker 3: Sure, we take.
Speaker 2: Of little scenes like that to start, and then we
Speaker 2: of course get into the fun where I love the
Speaker 2: gang Thans, the DP and then the three esomes, but
Speaker 2: it's always everyone. All my fans tell me they love
Speaker 2: the wash the beginning, seeing whether I'm seducing them or
Speaker 2: they're seducing me. Yeah, it's good.
Speaker 1: Is there is okay working with black guys? Is that
Speaker 1: an aura thing? Is it a size thing? I'll tell
Speaker 1: you why. I've always loved in a racial porn, which
Speaker 1: people are trying to get away from that turn. So
Speaker 1: I don't know, whatever you believe is fine. I don't
Speaker 1: believe in any kind of racism or anything like that.
Speaker 1: So if you don't like the term, that's your thing,
Speaker 1: not you the audience. But whatever I like it because
Speaker 1: there's a beautiful contrast of color, you know, and I
Speaker 1: can go the other way to a white guy and
Speaker 1: black girl.
Speaker 3: I love just it looks like just.
Speaker 1: A beautiful kind of like Plato mashed together of all
Speaker 1: these people. What do you like about it? Is it
Speaker 1: a size thing? Is it a vibe thing? Is it
Speaker 1: a like I said, artistic? Okay, all right, so.
Speaker 2: I have a funny feeling. I'll give you a little
Speaker 2: story here. I'm the oldest set of five kids. I
Speaker 2: had to take care of three braddy brothers. So oh
Speaker 2: I all I can imagine is that maybe because I
Speaker 2: had to deal with my brothers that I don't want
Speaker 2: anything to do with white and my father back in
Speaker 2: our days, my day, we weren't allowed to mix and
Speaker 2: it was something that you just didn't do. And it's
Speaker 2: like I always hated that as a young kid, that
Speaker 2: that was not right. And I don't know if that's
Speaker 2: in me. I really don't know.
Speaker 1: When I meet performers who really love again, sorry for
Speaker 1: the term in a racial porner shooting anything like that,
Speaker 1: I always like to ask, are you running away from
Speaker 1: racism in your family? Not in a negative way like
Speaker 1: you experienced it? Young and you hated it and you go,
Speaker 1: fuck it, I'm gonna not engage with this. Or maybe
Speaker 1: you had like a very open hippie family and you
Speaker 1: never even saw it as a different thing. You just
Speaker 1: kind of engage. But it's normally one of those two
Speaker 1: where it's kind of like, okay, you know, get it.
Speaker 1: I totally get it.
Speaker 2: And of course me being older and that that's all
Speaker 2: you heard back back in that time. Sure, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: that you couldn't but.
Speaker 1: That the great con The thing with you is, again
Speaker 1: we've already discussed your age is clearly just a number
Speaker 1: in this scenario, like you were in a much better shape.
Speaker 1: But if I were to say I'm gonna put an
Speaker 1: older lady here with this young, black, vibrant like dynamo,
Speaker 1: that creates this fun contrary where I'm like, oh my,
Speaker 1: is she going to make it out of here?
Speaker 3: Okay? What is you know?
Speaker 1: And at the end, you're loving it, you're smiling, you're
Speaker 1: covered in calmb whatever this situation is, and everything's good
Speaker 1: and we're happy.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah. I've had a couple of eighteen year olds
Speaker 2: that once they come they want to keep going. It's like,
Speaker 2: oh wow, this is great.
Speaker 1: I love it is okay, So then the age thing too,
Speaker 1: Let me ask about that. Are you are you as
Speaker 1: long as everyone's legal eighteen plus? Are you free working
Speaker 1: with anyone? Do you have preferences in the age range
Speaker 1: you like to work with?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 2: No, that's just so they're into me. I'm into that.
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. Most of the time, I don't even
Speaker 2: know how old they are. When they're at eighteen, they're
Speaker 2: on set, they're usually making a big deal about that age,
Speaker 2: so that's how I find out. But normally, no, it's
Speaker 2: just whether we're are personalities click sure, which most of
Speaker 2: the time they do. So that's what happens, and we
Speaker 2: go for it because it's fun.
Speaker 3: Great.
Speaker 1: I won't ask you to identify by name at all,
Speaker 1: but I want to get a contrast here, if possible.
Speaker 1: Have you been on a good mainstream production and a
Speaker 1: bad mainstream production and what separates the two. What can
Speaker 1: producers who are listening to this right now do to
Speaker 1: make a set a little more friendly, something that fits
Speaker 1: what you like. Maybe you've never had a bad experience,
Speaker 1: and if so, great, knock on wood, you won't have
Speaker 1: any going forward. But if you have had a like
Speaker 1: subpar or this was only Okay, what do you want
Speaker 1: from a director or a producer to bring to the
Speaker 1: set for you?
Speaker 2: It's not really the director or the producers. It's more
Speaker 2: they're trying to make it all happen, and talent will
Speaker 2: cancel at the last minute, and they have to find
Speaker 2: somebody over there on that set, and then everybody's got
Speaker 2: to sit around after getting up early in the morning
Speaker 2: and getting ready themselves, and we're sitting around. That's happened
Speaker 2: a few times, but it's understandable. But as far as
Speaker 2: the director, the video guys, and the people that are
Speaker 2: getting the costumes and together, it's not really on them.
Speaker 2: So it's and then of course they pull the talent
Speaker 2: in later on and they've already been at one another shoot.
Speaker 2: Then it really gets difficult. Okay, the poor guys, they
Speaker 2: shouldn't have volunteered.
Speaker 3: That's true. Yeah, don't sign up for the job if
Speaker 3: you can't do it.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So those those types of situations have happened. But
Speaker 2: you know, when you got everybody sitting there and you
Speaker 2: need to have someone to get the shoot done, you know.
Speaker 1: So professionalism, it sounds like is what might Again, it
Speaker 1: sounds like you haven't been on a bad set, but
Speaker 1: like a bad bad set, you know, I guess that's
Speaker 1: what it would separate it. This is a business. Let's
Speaker 1: approach it like a business. It's a real fun business.
Speaker 1: This guy over here gets the fuck D D. White today.
Speaker 1: It's a great business. Let's just all be on time
Speaker 1: and work the way we're supposed to. So, how okay,
Speaker 1: all right, I'm gonna do a thing on here. I
Speaker 1: like to call stat check. Now, stat check is entirely wrong.
Speaker 1: It is based on the Internet Adult film database day track.
Speaker 1: Some of your scenes, some of your scenes don't show
Speaker 1: up here. This happens that whatever. It's wrong. So these
Speaker 1: numbers are gonna be wrong. But I like to use
Speaker 1: it as a milestone. So when I interview you a
Speaker 1: year from now and you have all these AVN awards
Speaker 1: around you, I'm gonna go see where you were before.
Speaker 1: The number of scenes I have for you is ninety seven.
Speaker 1: The number of guys you have worked with forty nine,
Speaker 1: number of girls you have worked with ten one AVN nomination,
Speaker 1: zero wins so far?
Speaker 3: Is that correct? From what you know? At least at
Speaker 3: the end with the nominations and such.
Speaker 2: Well, two nominations, I.
Speaker 3: Will correct that things the.
Speaker 2: Season Performer, niche Performer of the Year, and fan's favorite
Speaker 2: milk gotcha?
Speaker 3: Gotcha? Gotcha?
Speaker 1: Any of those wins yet or no, we're still working
Speaker 1: on that. I know I got nominated for a podcast one.
Speaker 1: There's podcasts that listen that have three million listeners. So look,
Speaker 1: I'm middle of the road. I'm going to have to
Speaker 1: work my way up to that. But just being nominated
Speaker 1: is a good feeling, right.
Speaker 2: WHOA Definitely, Yeah, it was exciting to walk the red carpet.
Speaker 2: It's it's a great experience and being in the and
Speaker 2: the audience, just watching the awards, it was it was fun.
Speaker 1: Can I ask you? Can I ask you a dumb question?
Speaker 1: Did you walk the red carpet with your husband or
Speaker 1: a performer.
Speaker 2: With my husband?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 2: And then when we got up to the photos, stepped
Speaker 2: off to the side and then I went up by myself.
Speaker 3: Gotcha. Oh see that's nice.
Speaker 1: And how important is it having a partner who is
Speaker 1: one hundred percent all in with you on this?
Speaker 3: It's a requirement, it has to be right.
Speaker 2: Oh, it's definitely. Definitely. If you don't, it's a lot tougher.
Speaker 2: I know right now, I've got to. I hired a
Speaker 2: new PR guy and it helps a lot. But my husband,
Speaker 2: my gosh, he's I guess you could say, my producer.
Speaker 3: Sure, sure.
Speaker 2: Also, yeah, he got to because he's doing the video
Speaker 2: and editing and the posting.
Speaker 1: I always ask this question, and you're very lucky to
Speaker 1: have a husband that's willing to do this type of stuff.
Speaker 1: I always ask it, and it's a snarky question, but
Speaker 1: it's when you got into porn, did you realize it
Speaker 1: would be ninety five percent administrative work and video editing
Speaker 1: and or did you just think you were going to
Speaker 1: be having fun fucking young looking guys.
Speaker 2: Well, I didn't think it would be this much work, right,
Speaker 2: as far as I want to pull myself away from
Speaker 2: the computer and have a lot more fun. So we're
Speaker 2: in the process of getting there though. That's why the
Speaker 2: PR guy and we're real we're gradually getting to where
Speaker 2: we can get some more help here. I have my
Speaker 2: daughters are very talented. I have one girl that does
Speaker 2: my advertising in my artwork, So we're going to get
Speaker 2: more help.
Speaker 3: So again, we kind of touched on this off air.
Speaker 1: You're willing to say whatever you're willing to say, and
Speaker 1: I'm totally fine, just accepting that. You said your daughter
Speaker 1: also may have tiptoted or worked in the industry as well.
Speaker 2: I I well, between my husband and I we have
Speaker 2: five girls, okay, all right, So and they're very talented
Speaker 2: because we've had a past business that they've taken over
Speaker 2: and this is our retirement, so they I've got one
Speaker 2: that does artwork that is very very good. She does
Speaker 2: my banners, she does my logos everything, and she's a big,
Speaker 2: big help. Now, I'm my younger daughter that's was later
Speaker 2: that she was adopted. She's twenty four, and she's into all.
Speaker 2: She's got her own kink on only fans and a
Speaker 2: couple other places. I don't know what they are because
Speaker 2: we don't We don't know, we don't see. We just
Speaker 2: interact with Instagram. Got to figure out, you know. She
Speaker 2: helps me with my promotion, promoting things, and she gives
Speaker 2: me a lot of advice. I don't give her much
Speaker 2: advice because that age group they know it all.
Speaker 1: Sure, Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, let me ask this is there.
Speaker 1: Did you always just raise a open and whatever fac
Speaker 1: Like I think if my mom asked me to help edit,
Speaker 1: you know something of her getting you know, banged by
Speaker 1: black dudes. I would while I would accepted as her life,
Speaker 1: I would also for a second go I'm not going
Speaker 1: to do that. I'm not going to cut that together.
Speaker 1: I can't do it. So is that the thing or
Speaker 1: was there a time of acceptance that need it to be? Like,
Speaker 1: I need you to know I love doing this and
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 2: They know that I what I do, what my chink is.
Speaker 2: They don't see it. That's hobby's job. They just do
Speaker 2: the pictures and the artwork of me.
Speaker 3: Got it? Okay, they don't do that.
Speaker 2: They don't do the videos and the edits.
Speaker 1: So everyone's aware. We just stay in our own corners
Speaker 1: while doing.
Speaker 3: Things as their own quarter. Okay, all right, totally makes sense.
Speaker 1: Are there any types of shoots or scenes that you've
Speaker 1: either maybe when I say this, I always wonder like
Speaker 1: if there's a specific tit type or niche or any
Speaker 1: like a gangbang, a bukaki of this or that. Is
Speaker 1: there anything that you've done in your personal life or
Speaker 1: haven't done in your personal life that you want to
Speaker 1: incorporate into your porn life as well that you haven't
Speaker 1: done it.
Speaker 2: I would like to start to do more videos with
Speaker 2: the cuck holing where it's a white guy with the
Speaker 2: black guy, but then they are interacting more. But it's
Speaker 2: hard where the cuck hold will actually stuck cock on
Speaker 2: a black guy. Okay, because you don't. You don't see
Speaker 2: too much of that.
Speaker 1: No, I normally turn it off at the end when
Speaker 1: the guy starts cleaning with his tongue. That's a personal
Speaker 1: preference of mine. I totally understand people enjoy that. Would
Speaker 1: you incorporate your husband in that scenario? Or would we
Speaker 1: do another performer with another performer? Okay, but it's hard
Speaker 1: for us to find people like that. There are a
Speaker 1: lot of people that love it, but they won't show
Speaker 1: their faces. Interesting, Okay, could you bring it because there's
Speaker 1: definitely mainstream people right that do that, Like I think
Speaker 1: of cuckold Session a bunch of different websites that end
Speaker 1: it with like a cleanup or whatever you'd like to
Speaker 1: refer to it as. Uh, so you haven't shot anything
Speaker 1: like that yet or you just like shooting the Okay,
Speaker 1: all right.
Speaker 2: I started. I did two shoots a couple of years ago.
Speaker 2: But that was really lucky to find. Oh no, that's
Speaker 2: what it was. They the cuckhold had to wear masks.
Speaker 2: So we decided not to do that direction anymore and
Speaker 2: put it off. But we're thinking about going back into
Speaker 2: it if we can, because there are a lot more
Speaker 2: people that are doing it now, and so maybe we will.
Speaker 2: We can find talent that will do it. Sure, but
Speaker 2: then also we need to have a black guy that
Speaker 2: will let them set their cock.
Speaker 3: So you need it.
Speaker 2: It's difficult.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to almost guys who were by willing,
Speaker 1: by curious whatever.
Speaker 2: Right exactly?
Speaker 1: Yeah, and oh were they maybe they were they not
Speaker 1: showing their face because they were embarrassed by that, I guess,
Speaker 1: So why be in it? Then, why be in it
Speaker 1: at all? Don't do that?
Speaker 3: Just suck cock on the side, you know whatever?
Speaker 2: Right, Well, there's a lot of that in the swinging lifestyle,
Speaker 2: so that's why it just will come out.
Speaker 1: Sure, So can I ask again this is this is?
Speaker 1: This is more towards your lifestyle type of thing, because
Speaker 1: I'm always fascinated by this too. Again, vanilla perspective outside
Speaker 1: totally doesn't understand anything other than just a regular relationship.
Speaker 1: I hear that and I go, oh, common internet term,
Speaker 1: her husband's a cock. That's not always the scenario. Does
Speaker 1: he like any of the humiliation in person? Or is
Speaker 1: he that's not it He's just a watcher. No, just
Speaker 1: a watcher. Yeah, yeah, okay, you know it's a fun
Speaker 1: I've interviewed so many women who came from and it's
Speaker 1: the same story.
Speaker 3: None of them are.
Speaker 1: I don't think there's any real cucks in the world
Speaker 1: from everyone I've interviewed and talked to.
Speaker 2: No, they don't come out.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: Have you ever been in a scenario where it got uncomfortable,
Speaker 1: like a guy was like, or does it not bother you?
Speaker 1: Like you guys like I'm fucking better than your husband?
Speaker 1: Where you're like, oh, maybe don't say that. Quiet down,
Speaker 1: he don't love that.
Speaker 2: Well, you're saying as far as somebody better than him.
Speaker 1: Well, or somebody or some guy declaring it like maybe
Speaker 1: that's his dirty talk. The black guy's like, oh, I'm
Speaker 1: better than your and does your husband not give a
Speaker 1: shit about that?
Speaker 2: Or no, no he doesn't care. Yes, it has happened.
Speaker 2: We've shot things where we've told them to cock to
Speaker 2: the camera. The POV. We'll talk to the camera and
Speaker 2: tell them that it's it's it doesn't bother him at all.
Speaker 3: Sure, it's just production, right, it's just yeah there you go.
Speaker 3: All right? Fair enough?
Speaker 1: Can I asked, have you okay, in your personal life
Speaker 1: and on film, what is like the largest gangbang you've
Speaker 1: been a part of? Any idea?
Speaker 2: H Well, when I was a swinger, it was eighteen
Speaker 2: guys I in a porn and a shoot was just
Speaker 2: a house party with the swing swinging lifestyle. And that's
Speaker 2: actually the time I decided it's time to go, you know,
Speaker 2: move on to porn.
Speaker 3: Really.
Speaker 2: But yeah, it was eighteen eighteen black men and it
Speaker 2: was a blast. I had a blast and the gang
Speaker 2: thing in the foreign industry. It was eight guys a
Speaker 2: black man.
Speaker 1: And what kind of frozen vegetables did you sit on
Speaker 1: when you got home?
Speaker 4: None?
Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough? Bags of peas work well from what
Speaker 1: I've heard.
Speaker 3: By the way, my dice.
Speaker 2: Were a little sore. That's about it.
Speaker 3: Fair enough.
Speaker 4: And it was you said it was eight in on screen? Yes,
Speaker 4: base okay? And that was what was that called? I
Speaker 4: don't remember the name of it. It was with the TEAMVP.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: In fact, that was my very first professional shoot.
Speaker 1: Interesting okay, wow, so I mean you again we went
Speaker 1: back to like one of the first things I said,
Speaker 1: you didn't tiptoe in.
Speaker 3: Huh, you dove off that cliff?
Speaker 2: This jumped? Yes?
Speaker 1: How was that overwhelming at the time, even though you
Speaker 1: really liked it? I mean, there's is there a huge
Speaker 1: difference I would assume, and I've heard that there is
Speaker 1: a huge difference between personal and then on set.
Speaker 2: Oh no, I don't think that it'll be kind of
Speaker 2: on them oney. The type of person were was well
Speaker 2: on a video on one bangs, that's what's any Yeah,
Speaker 2: just read it.
Speaker 3: That's awesome.
Speaker 1: We are okay, let me ask this is my last
Speaker 1: question I have for you here. Then I got one
Speaker 1: quick social media thing. What are the goals going forward?
Speaker 1: Are you living just day to day at this point?
Speaker 3: What scenes?
Speaker 1: Come on?
Speaker 3: Do you have some ultimate I tau you want to
Speaker 3: get to Do.
Speaker 1: You want to be doing this till you're ninety Do
Speaker 1: you guys want to make ten million dollars and get out?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 3: What is the game plan? Is there any game plan?
Speaker 2: Well, my mom lived till she was ninety one. She
Speaker 2: was in good shape. So as far as me quitting
Speaker 2: right away here, you have no time. I don't even
Speaker 2: think about quitting. Sure, not right now? No, it's my goals.
Speaker 2: I would love to since I'm rebuilding my branding now
Speaker 2: my name definitely shoot for more big companies. I live
Speaker 2: in Florida and I don't want to move to Cali
Speaker 2: or Las Vegas, but I plan on traveling a lot
Speaker 2: more and hopefully shoot. I shoot a lot independent, but
Speaker 2: I'm hoping that I will start to shoot more for
Speaker 2: the bigger industries.
Speaker 3: Gotcha, gotcha? All right?
Speaker 1: Well, ladies and gentlemen, if you are currently running a
Speaker 1: porn production company that specializes in very large African American
Speaker 1: gentlemen and you would like to get in touch, you
Speaker 1: can find D D. White at d D White xx
Speaker 1: on Twitter, but on all the other sites where we
Speaker 1: really want to drive you to, especially if you want
Speaker 1: to see her personal content, the stuff she makes with
Speaker 1: her husband.
Speaker 3: I met him before this.
Speaker 1: He seemed very nice, So just so everyone knows, you
Speaker 1: can check that out at d D White links to
Speaker 1: everything in the episode description.
Speaker 3: Didi, thank you so much for coming on with me today.
Speaker 2: You're welcome, Thanks for inviting me. We'll see you next week. Okay,
Speaker 2: bye bye