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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna leave you here. What is up, guys? How

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<v Speaker 1>is everyone doing? Welcome to the show today we have

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<v Speaker 1>a special guest author, podcaster, and autism awareness Miss Christy Michelson.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, hi, Jake, Now you do it.

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<v Speaker 1>And by the way, I usually get your name wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it Micholson?

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<v Speaker 2>It is, it's Christy Michelson. You got it perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I hope. Hold on. We we got a little

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<v Speaker 1>thing out here. Sorry if I'm Mike. They had this

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<v Speaker 1>thing now where you could do the chat bot right there.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yes, yes, box.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, But I hope everybody is staying save over. Everybody's

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<v Speaker 1>doing well on this great, fabulous Thursday afternoon, and it's hot.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hot. But tell us a little bit about yourself, Chrissy.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, well hello everyone. As Jake said, my name

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<v Speaker 2>is Christy Michelson. I am a book author, a podcast host,

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<v Speaker 2>and an APA for causes such as cancer, autism, and

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<v Speaker 2>lupa's awareness. You can actually find out more about me

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<v Speaker 2>by visiting my website at Christymichelson dot com, or you

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<v Speaker 2>can find my podcast ww double a podcast on all

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<v Speaker 2>the podcast platforms. I am a mother of two autistic children.

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<v Speaker 2>Well they're young adults now, my son Josh and my

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<v Speaker 2>daughter Cassie. Josh has high functioning autism. Back in the

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<v Speaker 2>day we called it aspergers and now I believe it's

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<v Speaker 2>called level one. And then my daughter, yes, right ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, is a thing that's called They now call it

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<v Speaker 1>as ASD autism spectrum disorder.

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<v Speaker 2>Very good, thank you, Jasi. I have been It's been

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<v Speaker 2>a while since I've done a lot of advocacy for autism.

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<v Speaker 2>My kids are now in their twenties, so it's been

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<v Speaker 2>a long time since I've gotten the terminology proper. So, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>my children are autistic again. My daughter is moderate severe.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I deal with LUPUS for myself on a

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<v Speaker 2>daily basis. So that's a little bit about me, ladies

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<v Speaker 2>and gentlemen. I never apologized, never apologize.

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<v Speaker 1>So one thing that you do a lot in work

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<v Speaker 1>with wrestling, I saw that you promoted a few of

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<v Speaker 1>its for wrestling.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely. Let me tell you a little bit about that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's kind of a short, kind of long story here.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll make it as short as possible. My son, being

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<v Speaker 2>on the autism spectrum, had always been obsessed with WWE.

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<v Speaker 2>He wanted to be a WWE wrestler. Well. Growing up,

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<v Speaker 2>he had lived in California with me and my husband

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<v Speaker 2>and my daughter, and during COVID, my husband lost his

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<v Speaker 2>job and we had to move out of state and

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<v Speaker 2>find a whole new life for us. Well, we ended

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<v Speaker 2>up moving to Texas, and my son decided that he

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<v Speaker 2>was going to look up wrestling schools while we got here,

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<v Speaker 2>and he found one called m WA, which is Main

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<v Speaker 2>Event Wrestling, and he trained with the pro wrestlers out

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<v Speaker 2>here in Texas on the indie circuit. And he had

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<v Speaker 2>went far in his training and he got to where

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<v Speaker 2>he was doing intern security. He was paying his dues,

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<v Speaker 2>but unfortunately, one night out in the audience during his interning,

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<v Speaker 2>someone started calling him a very bad name, which a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of us referred to it as the R word

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<v Speaker 2>because we don't like that word. And someone started picking

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<v Speaker 2>on him and bullying him, and him being autistic, he

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<v Speaker 2>took it pretty hard and he went through suicidal ideation,

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<v Speaker 2>suicidal thoughts. So still putting him through therapy and getting

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<v Speaker 2>him through the hard times that he was going through.

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<v Speaker 2>We wanted to stay into the wrestling family and into

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<v Speaker 2>the wrestling business, so I became a sponsor for our

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<v Speaker 2>local wrestlers, and I sponsor a lot of our events,

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<v Speaker 2>and our wrestling family, we call them our family, is

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<v Speaker 2>helping me put together in November, November fifteenth, if we're

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<v Speaker 2>putting together a suicide awareness and prevention fundraiser, wrestling and

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<v Speaker 2>karaoke VIP party afterwards. So we're going to have all

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<v Speaker 2>kinds of wrestlers and we're going to do some matches

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<v Speaker 2>and my son is actually going to get step back

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<v Speaker 2>in the ring and be a referee for this event.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, And I just want to say that

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<v Speaker 1>number one, you know, and I think that people forget

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<v Speaker 1>that when you have a disability, you're people they use

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<v Speaker 1>in media, they use that word, that our word religiously

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<v Speaker 1>to clarify, and that is not right for someone to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, for someone with a disability. By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>your son had a birthday recently, he did.

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<v Speaker 2>He just turned twenty eight. Oh my gosh, I feel

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<v Speaker 2>so old.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I want to say that number one is

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<v Speaker 1>people who who don't understand you know, having to having

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<v Speaker 1>to deal with it, and you know, and I want

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<v Speaker 1>to say that you you you're a good person. You

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<v Speaker 1>got a great community on Twitter. A lot of times,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we try to Oblah. You know, I this

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<v Speaker 1>has been the second interview we tried. The first one

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<v Speaker 1>we tried to get and you had we had this,

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<v Speaker 1>you had to you had to back out the last

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<v Speaker 1>minute because of uh problems or.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, we had I don't remember what happened. I think

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<v Speaker 2>it was a scheduling problem. We were supposed to have

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<v Speaker 2>Axel Savage with us, and Axel was traveling. He's a

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<v Speaker 2>pro wrestler ladies and gentlemen. Axel was traveling at the time,

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<v Speaker 2>and then we could never get the schedules to coordinate

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<v Speaker 2>between Jake, myself and Axel. So it's been a while

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm finally here.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know what the thing is is. Also, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been I've been watching a few of your stuff. And

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, I am I am. I hope you're

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<v Speaker 1>on I think you're on Apple Bag. I'm gonna look

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<v Speaker 1>for you on Apple.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I'm definitely on Apple.

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<v Speaker 1>Apple podcast is good. But what do you think about? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we talked backstage about like what do you

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<v Speaker 1>think about? Like Number one, they're doing a show in

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<v Speaker 1>your neck of the woods in Texas over on an

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<v Speaker 1>Arlington called All in Texas AE W do you follow

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<v Speaker 2>I am not as big into ae W. My son

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<v Speaker 2>he follows all of it. I have followed over the years.

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<v Speaker 2>W W E a little bit of n X T.

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<v Speaker 2>Ring of Honor.

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<v Speaker 1>Doing a show on tomorrow. They're doing a show the

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<v Speaker 1>day before. They're doing a Texas show before all in

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<v Speaker 1>tomorrow night.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. In fact, we actually had Shane Taylor from Ring

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<v Speaker 2>of Honor wrestling my boy Axel Savage Goodness a year

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<v Speaker 2>ago at an autism benefit show that we did so

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<v Speaker 2>love love all of them to death.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. And I've actually had on my show earlier

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<v Speaker 1>in the in my first year of podcasting because I

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<v Speaker 1>pot I've been on I've been podcasting for five years,

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<v Speaker 1>been on YouTube for nine years. And the reason why

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<v Speaker 1>I started podcasting, thank you. The reason why I started

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<v Speaker 1>podcasting is because of death of my father. I lost

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<v Speaker 1>my father in twenty twenty two alcoholism, and it's hard

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<v Speaker 1>for me to you know, I want to say that

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<v Speaker 1>anytime that I'm not promoting my donation links because this

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<v Speaker 1>is not about me. This today is about Christy. Christy.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry you're finding you're because if you watch my shows,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be promoting my donation. But I'm not today, because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to I might do a stream later where

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<v Speaker 1>after interview, because when I do these interviews, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to do what's right for my fans.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that's wonderful, Jake.

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<v Speaker 1>The fans are the fans of the guys that So

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think about what's going on in the

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<v Speaker 1>in those worlds? About like you know now it's say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know there's TV shows talking about autism on the

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<v Speaker 1>on the specs and you actually said that you had

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry there, You're fine. I, personally, Jake, don't watch a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of the television shows that regard autism because I

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<v Speaker 2>the one that I actually started to watch, which was

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<v Speaker 2>The Good Doctor, and that was a while back. To me,

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<v Speaker 2>they stereotype autism, and that's not what I'm about. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not about stereotyping. I'm about the actual person, and you

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<v Speaker 2>and my children you're actual people. So I try not

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<v Speaker 2>to watch television these days, and I get a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of backlash on that. A lot of people are like,

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<v Speaker 2>why don't you watch these shows? It's about autism. To me,

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<v Speaker 2>autism is it's just a disability. It's not something that

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<v Speaker 2>I want to sit here and say you're autistic. That's

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<v Speaker 2>not what I'm about. I'm about getting to know the person.

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<v Speaker 2>And so watching television shows sometimes they can help you

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<v Speaker 2>understand autism, and I understand that, but again, the ones

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<v Speaker 2>that I have seen, they do nothing but stereotype. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just not about stereotip typing.

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<v Speaker 1>So when I was when I was younger, I got

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<v Speaker 1>sent into a middle hospital twice. And I've talked about this.

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<v Speaker 1>The first time was for fifteen days because the bleep

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<v Speaker 1>doctors I'm trying to keep PG here, bleep doctors decide

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<v Speaker 1>And the second time was because eight days because they

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<v Speaker 2>That's a day that's ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>And they so I'm not I'm not trying to I

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<v Speaker 1>want to have This show is for real people, real

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<v Speaker 1>life matters in this show. And and I thought I

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<v Speaker 1>knew that you were busy. I knew you. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>I've been bugging you about this.

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<v Speaker 2>For a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>In fact, today I'm kind of in a rush too.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just telling Jake, ladies and gentlemen, but ten

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<v Speaker 2>a show of my own that I've got to get

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<v Speaker 2>out and put it onto the podcast. But yeah, my son,

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<v Speaker 2>who I pick up from work every day, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>gets out early tonight. So I'm like in a rush

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<v Speaker 2>with Jake today too. I'm like, oh man, I feel

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<v Speaker 2>bad because I've had to put him off so many times.

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<v Speaker 1>Here you know what, and the thing is is and

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm I just am. You know. I've

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<v Speaker 1>done an interview where I did a fifteen minute interview

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<v Speaker 1>before I've done I've done where I did a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of hours. But I know that you're a busy person.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that you know. And the thing is is,

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<v Speaker 1>and the thing is we and then and later and

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is I was actually stressed in two days

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<v Speaker 1>before the show. Why because because I was nervous because

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<v Speaker 1>these interviews because number one, I don't know, didn't because

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<v Speaker 1>I've listened to you before. I try not to listen

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<v Speaker 1>to like the X stuff, the X spaces because that's

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's your guys, is that's yours stuff, not me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying to like disrespect you, but I love

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<v Speaker 1>that you are you are an amazing person. And by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, I digging that fifty dollars you sent a

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<v Speaker 1>couple months ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Awesome. I'm glad I do.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is now let's say everybody, so, you said

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't listened to Howard Stern in a while.

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<v Speaker 2>You said, yes, it's been a long time. I'll let me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna date myself and how old I am The

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<v Speaker 2>last time I listened to Howard Stern, Lisa Marie Presley

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<v Speaker 2>was actually a guest on his show. So it's been

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<v Speaker 1>But the new Howard, the new Howard is not good.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say this. He he turned into iMOS, he

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<v Speaker 1>Howard Stern became woke. But that's my opinion, not not

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what the thing is is, and that's

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<v Speaker 2>but I can go a few more minutes with you, James.

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<v Speaker 2>I thank you for that.

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<v Speaker 2>entire child things, not just ABC one two three. You're

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<v Speaker 2>teaching a lot about a lot of things in life.

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<v Speaker 2>I loved teaching. However, I got sick in I think

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<v Speaker 2>And from there I ended up working at a nursing home.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you also travel. I've seen you. I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>you do stuff in New York. You do stuff over,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I was like, to know you're saying like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, because I was because you didn't say central.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I didn't read the things as central. But

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<v Speaker 1>the Mountain time zones and the Pacific time zones in Japan, Australia. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, I I I heard there was a

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<v Speaker 2>Doctor right, I haven't heard about that yet.

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<v Speaker 1>He's moving. I I don't watch DC anymore. Turned into

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<v Speaker 1>like to me, he's turned into like a channel where

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<v Speaker 1>they'll just play reruns or they'll they'll show shows where

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely no, absolutely yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But what what was your inspiration of doing podcasting?

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<v Speaker 2>my books and I was still a newbie, trying to

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<v Speaker 2>figure out how to work X and all that kind

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<v Speaker 2>of stuff. And I somehow connected with Billy D's the podcaster.

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<v Speaker 2>And Billy has had a strong podcasting background. He's been

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<v Speaker 2>in the business for over thirty years with radio and podcasting.

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<v Speaker 2>And he asked me, he goes, would you like to

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<v Speaker 2>be a guest on my show? Well, I didn't even

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<v Speaker 2>know what a podcast was i first came on here,

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<v Speaker 2>but I agreed and I went on his show, and

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<v Speaker 2>within the first few minutes to fewse through hours, et cetera,

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<v Speaker 2>we had over six thousand hits in just a few minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>And then people that was just on YouTube, and then

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<v Speaker 2>all the audio platforms were really listening because my story.

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<v Speaker 2>He had interviewed me about my dad's cancer, he had

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<v Speaker 2>were so many views. And he looked at me afterwards

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<v Speaker 2>and he's all, you have a gift. Why don't you

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<v Speaker 2>consider podcasting? And I said, I don't even know what

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<v Speaker 2>so he got me started by going into Twitter spaces

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<v Speaker 2>and talking to people and listening and see how they

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<v Speaker 2>like my microphone and my boom arm and all the revelator,

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<v Speaker 2>all the stuff that I have. He helped me pick

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<v Speaker 2>out my equipment, and he became my producer and he's

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<v Speaker 2>really helped to launch my career between podcasting and him

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<v Speaker 2>and I do a lot of stuff. In fact, I

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<v Speaker 2>am now one of the associates. I'm one of his

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<v Speaker 2>producer you know, his team on the Abilities podcast. So

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, the one thing that I am I

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<v Speaker 1>the chat box I could tell people, people can know

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<v Speaker 1>what we're saying when this goes to audio, I will

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<v Speaker 1>do all I will let I will get this put up.

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<v Speaker 1>Give me give me about an hour to put this

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<v Speaker 1>up on the audios, because because number one, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to download it. Make sure that I hand out. I

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<v Speaker 1>I know that you are busy. I know you just

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<v Speaker 1>got done. I know you got you got some most

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<v Speaker 2>and just let everybody know that I just put out

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<v Speaker 2>a new memoir called Sweet Inspiration, available on all the

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<v Speaker 2>bookstore platforms. So please check that out if you get

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<v Speaker 2>a chance. And also check out my podcast, ww double

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<v Speaker 2>a podcast available on all podcast platforms. That's ww A

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<v Speaker 2>so please feel free to check it out ladies and gentlemen,

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<v Speaker 2>and hello, I see people in the chat box.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi gays, by the way. I just want to let

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<v Speaker 1>With the new headset that I got. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>I do these shows because I want to show people Christy.

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<v Speaker 1>you are showing that you're strong and thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>what you're doing you and you know it for me

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<v Speaker 1>You know why? And I don't because my birthday, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I do. I don't do things that I try to do.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it's autism, sometimes it's lupis. Sometimes it's things are

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<v Speaker 2>happening at home that nobody else understands. Every day, people

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<v Speaker 2>are battling things that we know nothing about. So it's

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<v Speaker 2>up to us. It's up to all of us to

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<v Speaker 2>stand up and be kind to one another. Be the

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<v Speaker 2>one to say, hey, you're looking good today, or thank

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<v Speaker 2>you Jake for taking the time to get to know me.

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<v Speaker 2>Be the one to stand up, be the voice, be

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<v Speaker 2>the change, and be the one to make a difference

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<v Speaker 2>because you might be the one to save a life.

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<v Speaker 2>And with that, I'm going to say thank you very much, Jake.

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<v Speaker 1>And thank you. And also and I want to say

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<v Speaker 1>I always say this peace loving corn bread, y'all, remember

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<v Speaker 1>du I means that's so well, And always remember this.

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<v Speaker 1>You're always loved, and you're always loved, and we'll see

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<v Speaker 1>when we see you.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye, absolutely bye, everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Don'
