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Speaker 1: Where do they go on a second date? Well, we'll

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must be the last time they ever talked and kiss

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in the morning. Second date Updates, I'm kiss ninety five seven.

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All right, are you guys ready for second date updates?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: I love doing it this time of year. We're going

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to Newington.

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Speaker 3: Lauren is on the Line says she went on a

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great first date with a guy named Scott.

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Speaker 4: Good morning, Lauren, good morning, And like it wasn't just great,

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I think it was the perfect first date, like truly, truly, truly.

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Speaker 3: Truly, Oh my gosh, all right, so tell us about

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this perfect first date.

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Speaker 4: So we just we went out with some cocktail, okay,

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and like it was just a dream. Like he showed

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up with flowers.

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Speaker 1: Oh what a gentleman.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I know nobody does that anymore, and like, you know,

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they were just like so beautiful and like they were

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a mixture of like red and white, and like you know,

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they were just like I know, like very holiday spearity.

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And it was just so great and the conversation was great,

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and like he flirted the entire time and not in

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a cheesy way, like literally in a smoldering like I

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don't know, it's like a game.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I bet you felt your heart skip

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a beat.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's not like lightning honestly struck my heart.

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It was just so honestly, so real. I've never had

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anything like this happened before, like you know, and afterwards,

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like he actually like went to Walmart with me because

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I said I didn't have a Christmas tree and he

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helped me to pick out a steak Christmas tree and

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paid for it.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god God.

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Speaker 3: All right, oh yeah, listen, this sounds like an amazing date.

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So so you reached out to him after the date

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and you're getting ghosted?

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Speaker 1: Is that what's happening?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I had like reached out to thank him, and like,

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you know, just it was such a wonderful, beautiful time.

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Like the snow when we were like leaving the store

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sort of like lightly falling outside and like a snowflake

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like landed on like and he like wiped it away.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 3: I'm yeah, you're jealous, Jeff, Oh my gosh, I love this.

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Speaker 1: This is what we're gonna Lauren.

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Speaker 3: It does sound like a pretty magical date, and we're

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gonna call Scott. You'll be listening in. Feel free to

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jump in if you want Okay, hold on.

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Speaker 1: So bomby Jeff.

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Speaker 2: I'm guessing there's a complete This guy is a completely

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different view of the date.

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Speaker 1: Let's find out.

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Speaker 5: Hello, Hi is Scott. There is Scott.

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Speaker 1: Hey Scott, it's Courtney Scott. It's Walmart Jeff, Hey Scott,

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it's Savannah. All right, we're calling from Kiss ninety five seven.

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I have to tell you are on the radio.

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Speaker 5: Okay, cool, all right, you're on something.

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Speaker 1: Called second date Update.

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Speaker 3: That's where if somebody goes on a first date, they

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have a great time, but for some reason they get

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ghosted after that and they want answers, they call us,

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and that's why we're calling.

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Speaker 1: You, Scott. Okay, all right, So Lauren called us.

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Speaker 3: She said, uh oh, she said the date with you

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is magical. She said, you guys went for cocktails. She

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said you were fantastic, a true gentleman. She was, you know,

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impressed that you brought her flowers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounded like it was like one of those

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Hallmark Christmas movies.

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Speaker 1: Basically, Yeah, that's what it did sound like.

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Speaker 3: But she she's reached out to you to thank you

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for the date. Then you haven't, you know, reached out

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to her. What's going on, why are you ghosting her?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 5: Well, you kind of labeled it. It not only felt

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like a hallmark okay, felt like she wanted it to

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be even more so, and she even underlined that. And

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she was just like moving super fast, and she was

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already talking about how we're going to exchange gifts and

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to get in the holiday spirit, we should just take

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a little getaway vacation to Vermont to get in the

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holiday spirit.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 5: It was just too much, all right.

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Speaker 1: So it's a first date.

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Speaker 3: So this is your first date, and she's mentioning going

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away for a weekend.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. It was just very like this grandiose picture of

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like a movie was being painted. I was like, okay, hey,

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this is real life.

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Speaker 4: Okay, wait, question, have you guys like talked a lot beforehand?

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Speaker 1: Did you guys talk for a couple of months. Maybe

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she feels like she knows you better than she does.

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Speaker 5: No, okay, all right, she just got really wrapped up

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into it, and it was it was a little like

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putting in too much for me.

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Speaker 3: What you're telling me is she was moving too fast

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for you. Other than the fact that you felt she

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was moving too fast for you, wanting to exchange gifts

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and you guys just met.

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Speaker 1: Did you enjoy her company? Were you attracted to her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: It was just like a full throttle like lead foot

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on the gas, okay, like romance.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Scott, are you a big city doctor that just

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moved to a small town that yeah?

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Speaker 1: Or like a lumberjack something like that.

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Speaker 5: All right, Yeah, I need to give up on my

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dreams and just settled down.

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Speaker 3: No, we're not doing that. Can we bring Lauren on?

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I should have told you, Scott, she's listening in Lauren.

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Apparently you're just moving a little too fast for him.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm so sorry for moving too fast, but

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like she just had never felt that way before, and

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like you're just such a great guy, Scott, Like I'll

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totally slow it down, Like I just really want to

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get to know you more. I mean, you're a romantic

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here who like drops flowers and bought a Christmas right,

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so oh a little I.

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Speaker 1: Guess Okay, Oh man, listen.

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Speaker 5: I mean I just want to make sure I said

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a precedent of like what's sustainable, because I don't want,

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you know, to just like start at the end and

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do these like ten plus plus dates and then all

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of a sudden a couple months down the road, You're like,

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where did that guy go? What happened? And I felt

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like we were in that direction. I was like, I

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just need to cut it off.

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Speaker 1: Okay, she was moving too fast. You were moving a

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little slower.

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Speaker 3: Is there any is there any room to like compromise

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and like, if you want to go on a second date,

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maybe Lauren, you dial it back a little, maybe Scott

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get into a little more of the Hallmark movie Spirits,

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and I'll pay for the date.

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Speaker 5: I mean, as long as we measure expectations of what

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real life is, I could try again, Laurie.

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Speaker 1: We'll hook you up with a gift card to Arby's

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take real Life.

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Speaker 3: So, Lauren, are you game for a second date if

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you can reel an interest in tad? You know?

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Speaker 4: I think so. I I think i'd be game.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 3: Listen, I'm gonna put you guys on hold so we

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can work out the deeps. But we're going to pick

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up the tab for the next date. And I think

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you should go listen. I think you're gonna try a

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second date just to say, okay.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, absolutely, are you guys? Hold on