Speaker 1: Hey, Saro, this is vocal d Vocald fragging is giving
yourself the opportunity, the blessing to physically and verbally ask
yourself the questions and question the answers. I do it
also in a journal that I've been doing since November
of twenty seventeen. It's asking yourself, the real, honest to
God questions. Not to belittle you, not to judge you.
It's to understand you. To create that relationship with the me,
myself and HI. You know, your mind, your body, your soul.
Just ask the questions and then question the answers. This
is vocal dfrag this week. The subject is it's kind
of really from out of nowhere, but it went somewhere.
A coworker came up to me and asked me. He says, man,
I just want to have a relationship with this person,
but I don't know how to approach it. I'm afraid.
I don't know what to do because there's pros and cons.
But I know in my heart I need to have
a relationship with this person. And I looked at him
and I go, so, what are you asking me? How
do you do it? How are you able to have
these conversations with people you don't even know, and yet
after you're done with him in a few short minutes
that you were together. How do you do it? How
do you have this respect for them and them wanting
to come back a different day or when you're not here,
they're asking where is that guy? Where's that guy? So
I looked at him. I said, this person you want
to build this relationship with. I said, do you really
feel in your heart that it's important I mean important
enough to invest your emotions your connections to not only
be in a moment of now, but to grow with.
And he goes, yes, I really need to be with
this person. And the simple words that I gave him
were exactly this. Every person has a problem, yes, yes,
did you hear me? Yes? But did you understand me? Yes? Okay,
every person has a problem. Okay, they have a problem.
Is that going to weigh you down? No? No, I'm
gonna ask you again. Is it going to weigh you
down when this relationship of honesty unveils that they have
a problem. No, that's what I want to have a
relationship for, to offer my support, my love. Okay, you
almost got the right answer. Every person has a problem
when it comes to building a solid relationship, your only
action is to be the solution. He looked at me
and totally understood where I was coming from. Every person
has a problem, be the solution. If you can't be
the solution, or if they're not real receiving your solution,
I think you've got the answer, the answer of should
I go with this, should I grow in love? Or
is this something that should remain of friendship. So that's
the question today. In everything that you are doing in
your life, we're all about connecting people. It's all about
connecting with other people as well as other things in
our life. In everything that you walk into there is
a problem, Be the solution, ask the questions, question the answers.
I call it defragging. I'm MARYL.