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<v Speaker 1>Time for a second Date update. I hope we can

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<v Speaker 1>make a love connection. Let's see, we have got Matthew

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<v Speaker 1>standing by in Glastonbury. Good morning, Matthew, morning. Hi, welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the show. Second Date Update. You're getting ghosted, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's what second Date Update is. Tell us about this

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<v Speaker 1>date you had with a woman named Jordan.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Yeah, so we had a great time.

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<v Speaker 3>We went out and just had like really great conversation

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<v Speaker 3>and I don't know, I had just an amazing time

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<v Speaker 3>with her. She's a really just beautiful, funny girl, like

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<v Speaker 3>so much fun. And I've called her twice since then

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<v Speaker 3>and just absolutely no response. Totally getting ghosted. And I

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<v Speaker 3>just don't have any idea.

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<v Speaker 4>Why did you pay for the date I did?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, let me ask you a question.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, no, this is actually going to be a

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<v Speaker 5>really good question.

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<v Speaker 4>I promise we go. Did you pay attention to your date?

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<v Speaker 5>Because I know there are a lot of things happening

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<v Speaker 5>right now in the sports world, and if you went

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<v Speaker 5>to like a bar, sports bar, there's TVs on, you're

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<v Speaker 5>not giving one hundred percent that you should be giving.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you pay attention to your dates?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Definitely, I would never do that. Yeah. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>definitely was totally focused on.

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<v Speaker 6>Earth good Man, good Man.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's good because the one the biggest thing for

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<v Speaker 1>me is guys always talk about themselves incessantly and never

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<v Speaker 1>ask the woman about herself. On a date. You were,

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<v Speaker 1>you were talking to her, you were interested in what

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<v Speaker 1>she had to say, and you were asking her questions.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, no, yeah, that's like of course. Yeah, definitely was

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<v Speaker 2>asking all kinds of questions to find.

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<v Speaker 3>Out about her.

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<v Speaker 7>You weren't drunk, messy, eater, any of that.

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<v Speaker 4>We're just running down the chair.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, we're just like trying to eliminate any issues.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, sounds terrific. God, No, I was. I

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<v Speaker 2>was not any of those things.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, fabulous. He sounds like such a lovely guy, I know.

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<v Speaker 6>He just sounds like, Hello, Hi is Jordan there?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, yeah, this is Jordan Jordan.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Courtney.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey Jordan, it's Walmart Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Jordan, it's Savannah. You're on the radio. You're on

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<v Speaker 1>Kiss ninety five seven this morning.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh okay, well.

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<v Speaker 1>I suppose I should tell you you're on Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you heard of Second Date Update?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I've heard of update.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well the reason you're on is because you are

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<v Speaker 1>the person that's ghosting somebody. Jordan Matthew called us. He said, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you were beautiful and funny and smart. The day was amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>He says, he's reached out you, I think, called, not

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<v Speaker 1>even texted like a real old gentleman would do. He's

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<v Speaker 1>called you a couple of times, and you're ghosting him.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, so okay, like I hope that he does all

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<v Speaker 8>not listening, but like he was just he was just

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<v Speaker 8>too nice and I really don't well, he didn't like

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<v Speaker 8>it at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, hold on, So you're telling me you're ghosting

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<v Speaker 1>him because he was like, what happened on the date

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<v Speaker 1>that he thought he was too nice? Yeah, explain that's

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<v Speaker 1>a weird complaint.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 8>So okay, we get to this restaurant and like it

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<v Speaker 8>it's pretty nice. I mean, he helps me get out

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<v Speaker 8>of the car, which again very.

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<v Speaker 1>Sweet, very sweet, incredibly.

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<v Speaker 8>Sure, and I expect him to hold the door open

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<v Speaker 8>for me. Instead, I turned around and he's helping an

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<v Speaker 8>old couple get into their car, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 8>that's sweet, I guess, but also like I want a

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<v Speaker 8>man that like will open the door for me before

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<v Speaker 8>he helps anyone else.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, wait wait wait wait wait, Jordan, you're upset

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<v Speaker 1>because he should have helped you out of the car

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<v Speaker 1>first and held the door, then help the elderly couple.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, the fact that it's heard around and like no

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<v Speaker 8>one was there because he was helping someone else. Like

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<v Speaker 8>it's nice that he's helping someone else, but the fact that, like,

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<v Speaker 8>all right, I was just like left there.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, that's off. That's awfully minor.

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<v Speaker 4>That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the only reason you've been ghosting him, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>for helping old people.

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<v Speaker 8>No, I mean, okay, that was just like the beginning, okay,

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<v Speaker 8>then where we're at the dinner table and like honestly

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<v Speaker 8>very boring conversation and like I I can't even remember

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<v Speaker 8>what it was about, that's how boring it was. And

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<v Speaker 8>he then mid conversation gets up and it helps another

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<v Speaker 8>woman with her coat as she's leaving, and I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 8>am I that born to that? Like in the middle

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<v Speaker 8>of a conversation, you gotta go help someone with her coat?

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<v Speaker 8>And then he kept like doing the napkin on his lap,

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<v Speaker 8>like I feel like it was like it's just like

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<v Speaker 8>too much for me, Like I like a guy that's

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<v Speaker 8>more on the edge, like I just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 8>And also I didn't necessarily find him the most attractive.

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<v Speaker 8>He sunds like a doll for him, like he was

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<v Speaker 8>six foot one, and like for me, I only date

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<v Speaker 8>guys above six foot three, and so like already I

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<v Speaker 8>was going into it kind of like I don't know.

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<v Speaker 7>But okay, Jordan, so let's take our nice, over six

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<v Speaker 7>foot tall guy that respects the elderly and women, and

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<v Speaker 7>let's just throw him to.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like six'y one. That's that's tall most jazz, That's

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<v Speaker 1>what That's.

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<v Speaker 4>What I was saying. If this guy is such a catchport,

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<v Speaker 4>why don't you date him?

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<v Speaker 1>No, this is exactly what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 7>He's tall, he cares about the elderly, about women, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's bring him on. Jordan, you didn't think he was listening.

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<v Speaker 1>Matthew was listening. Matthew, you're just a nice guy that's

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<v Speaker 1>apparently only six ones. How dare he be sure? It's

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<v Speaker 1>not sure. I'm being sarcastic.

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<v Speaker 2>That's like a bad thing to be nice. I'm really

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<v Speaker 2>just taken aback by that. I mean, I guess if

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<v Speaker 2>that's your thing, then I wish you, you know, very

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<v Speaker 2>good luck on your journey to finding somebody mean, a

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<v Speaker 2>bad boy?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you looking for a bad boy?

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<v Speaker 5>Jordan?

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<v Speaker 8>I call Matthew back because like, I don't want him

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<v Speaker 8>to feel bad, but like that's just like how I

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<v Speaker 8>feel like, I feel like I need like a more rigid,

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<v Speaker 8>like badass man, and so like I just but also

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<v Speaker 8>like I don't feel like I'm an awful person. So

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<v Speaker 8>I wasn't gonna call Matthew and be like, hey, you're

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<v Speaker 8>kind of too nice.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't like, is this really happening right now? You

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<v Speaker 1>would just say I don't feel a connection. It was

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<v Speaker 1>great to meet you. Maybe you guys both Wow, we disagree.

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<v Speaker 4>Jordan is one hundred percent correct.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, listen, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I usually offer, you know, to pay for the next

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<v Speaker 1>date if you guys want to go, but this is

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<v Speaker 1>a complete like I don't want you, Matthew to be

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<v Speaker 1>like a dirty boy or whatever, just because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want you to change for Jordan.

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<v Speaker 8>I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, listen, I appreciate you Jordan being honest with us.

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<v Speaker 8>I try, I really try, except for when I go

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<v Speaker 8>then I just stay silent.

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<v Speaker 1>Matthew, You've got your answers. Thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 1>being on Second Date.

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<v Speaker 2>Update two, Thank you so much, very appreciated.