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Speaker 1: Time for a second Date update. I hope we can

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make a love connection. Let's see, we have got Matthew

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standing by in Glastonbury. Good morning, Matthew, morning. Hi, welcome

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to the show. Second Date Update. You're getting ghosted, because

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that's what second Date Update is. Tell us about this

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date you had with a woman named Jordan.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, so we had a great time.

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Speaker 3: We went out and just had like really great conversation

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and I don't know, I had just an amazing time

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with her. She's a really just beautiful, funny girl, like

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so much fun. And I've called her twice since then

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and just absolutely no response. Totally getting ghosted. And I

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just don't have any idea.

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Speaker 4: Why did you pay for the date I did?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, let me ask you a question.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, this is actually going to be a

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really good question.

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Speaker 4: I promise we go. Did you pay attention to your date?

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Speaker 5: Because I know there are a lot of things happening

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right now in the sports world, and if you went

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to like a bar, sports bar, there's TVs on, you're

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not giving one hundred percent that you should be giving.

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Speaker 4: Did you pay attention to your dates?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Definitely, I would never do that. Yeah. Yeah, I

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definitely was totally focused on.

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Speaker 6: Earth good Man, good Man.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's good because the one the biggest thing for

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me is guys always talk about themselves incessantly and never

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ask the woman about herself. On a date. You were,

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you were talking to her, you were interested in what

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she had to say, and you were asking her questions.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, no, yeah, that's like of course. Yeah, definitely was

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asking all kinds of questions to find.

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Speaker 3: Out about her.

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Speaker 7: You weren't drunk, messy, eater, any of that.

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Speaker 4: We're just running down the chair.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we're just like trying to eliminate any issues.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, sounds terrific. God, No, I was. I

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was not any of those things.

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Speaker 6: Okay, fabulous. He sounds like such a lovely guy, I know.

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He just sounds like, Hello, Hi is Jordan there?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, this is Jordan Jordan.

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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Courtney.

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Speaker 4: Hey Jordan, it's Walmart Jeff.

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Speaker 1: Hey Jordan, it's Savannah. You're on the radio. You're on

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Kiss ninety five seven this morning.

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Speaker 8: Oh okay, well.

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Speaker 1: I suppose I should tell you you're on Second Date Update.

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Have you heard of Second Date Update?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I've heard of update.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well the reason you're on is because you are

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the person that's ghosting somebody. Jordan Matthew called us. He said, uh,

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you were beautiful and funny and smart. The day was amazing.

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He says, he's reached out you, I think, called, not

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even texted like a real old gentleman would do. He's

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called you a couple of times, and you're ghosting him.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, so okay, like I hope that he does all

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not listening, but like he was just he was just

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too nice and I really don't well, he didn't like

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it at all.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, So you're telling me you're ghosting

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him because he was like, what happened on the date

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that he thought he was too nice? Yeah, explain that's

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a weird complaint.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 8: So okay, we get to this restaurant and like it

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it's pretty nice. I mean, he helps me get out

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of the car, which again very.

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Speaker 1: Sweet, very sweet, incredibly.

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Speaker 8: Sure, and I expect him to hold the door open

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for me. Instead, I turned around and he's helping an

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old couple get into their car, and I was like,

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that's sweet, I guess, but also like I want a

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man that like will open the door for me before

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he helps anyone else.

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Speaker 1: All right, wait wait wait wait wait, Jordan, you're upset

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because he should have helped you out of the car

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first and held the door, then help the elderly couple.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, the fact that it's heard around and like no

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one was there because he was helping someone else. Like

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it's nice that he's helping someone else, but the fact that, like,

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all right, I was just like left there.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, that's off. That's awfully minor.

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Speaker 4: That's it.

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Speaker 1: That's the only reason you've been ghosting him, I know,

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for helping old people.

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Speaker 8: No, I mean, okay, that was just like the beginning, okay,

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then where we're at the dinner table and like honestly

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very boring conversation and like I I can't even remember

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what it was about, that's how boring it was. And

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he then mid conversation gets up and it helps another

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woman with her coat as she's leaving, and I'm just like,

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am I that born to that? Like in the middle

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of a conversation, you gotta go help someone with her coat?

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And then he kept like doing the napkin on his lap,

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like I feel like it was like it's just like

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too much for me, Like I like a guy that's

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more on the edge, like I just I don't know.

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And also I didn't necessarily find him the most attractive.

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He sunds like a doll for him, like he was

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six foot one, and like for me, I only date

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guys above six foot three, and so like already I

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was going into it kind of like I don't know.

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Speaker 7: But okay, Jordan, so let's take our nice, over six

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foot tall guy that respects the elderly and women, and

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let's just throw him to.

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Speaker 1: He's like six'y one. That's that's tall most jazz, That's

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what That's.

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Speaker 4: What I was saying. If this guy is such a catchport,

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why don't you date him?

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Speaker 1: No, this is exactly what I'm saying.

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Speaker 7: He's tall, he cares about the elderly, about women, like.

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Speaker 1: Let's bring him on. Jordan, you didn't think he was listening.

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Matthew was listening. Matthew, you're just a nice guy that's

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apparently only six ones. How dare he be sure? It's

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not sure. I'm being sarcastic.

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Speaker 2: That's like a bad thing to be nice. I'm really

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just taken aback by that. I mean, I guess if

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that's your thing, then I wish you, you know, very

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good luck on your journey to finding somebody mean, a

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bad boy?

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Speaker 1: Are you looking for a bad boy?

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Speaker 5: Jordan?

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Speaker 8: I call Matthew back because like, I don't want him

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to feel bad, but like that's just like how I

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feel like, I feel like I need like a more rigid,

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like badass man, and so like I just but also

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like I don't feel like I'm an awful person. So

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I wasn't gonna call Matthew and be like, hey, you're

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kind of too nice.

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Speaker 1: You don't like, is this really happening right now? You

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would just say I don't feel a connection. It was

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great to meet you. Maybe you guys both Wow, we disagree.

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Speaker 4: Jordan is one hundred percent correct.

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Speaker 3: All right, listen, thank you.

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Speaker 1: I usually offer, you know, to pay for the next

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date if you guys want to go, but this is

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a complete like I don't want you, Matthew to be

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like a dirty boy or whatever, just because you know,

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I don't want you to change for Jordan.

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Speaker 8: I agree.

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Speaker 1: Well, listen, I appreciate you Jordan being honest with us.

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Speaker 8: I try, I really try, except for when I go

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then I just stay silent.

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Speaker 1: Matthew, You've got your answers. Thank you so much for

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being on Second Date.

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Speaker 2: Update two, Thank you so much, very appreciated.