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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, Saddleback. My favorite time of the year, the summertime.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys all look pan, rested, ready for whatever. Take

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<v Speaker 1>out your message notes. This summer we're doing two major

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<v Speaker 1>series back to back. One of them is a case

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<v Speaker 1>doing a series on Choose Joy. And this week on Tuesday,

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<v Speaker 1>we literally had thousands of women involved in that in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning and the evening. And how many of you

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<v Speaker 1>were there at look at that. That's great and we

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<v Speaker 1>had a great, great study and actually a couple thousand

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<v Speaker 1>women watched online. Now, guys, you may say, well I

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<v Speaker 1>need joy too, Well, I'll tell you here's how you

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<v Speaker 1>can cheat and get into the women's study. Watch it online.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I did. I watched Kay teach on Choose

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<v Speaker 1>Joy last Tuesday, and I was sitting there taking notes, going, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I had said that. And now now you

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<v Speaker 1>understand my secret weapon where I get all my good

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<v Speaker 1>material is actually or my wife. So ladies, you can

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<v Speaker 1>join on Tuesdays Tuesday morning or Tuesday evening with thousands

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<v Speaker 1>of other women here at Saddleback and study Choose Joy.

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<v Speaker 1>And then on the weekend I'm doing a major series

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<v Speaker 1>on the Invisible War. And what I told you in

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<v Speaker 1>the first two sessions, is that the Bible teaches that

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<v Speaker 1>you have three enemies that are trying to mess up

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<v Speaker 1>your life. They want to defeat your family, They want

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<v Speaker 1>to defeat your life, They want to steal your soul.

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<v Speaker 1>They want to keep you from having joy and purpose

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<v Speaker 1>and meaning here in life. And these three enemies come

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<v Speaker 1>against you as kind of triple team and you know

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<v Speaker 1>tag team wrestling or you know double team take down

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<v Speaker 1>things like that. And the Bible calls these three enemies

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<v Speaker 1>that you have the world, the flesh, and the devil.

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<v Speaker 1>The world comes around you, Satan comes against you, and

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<v Speaker 1>the battle with you is within you. And this summer

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to go in detail into each of these

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<v Speaker 1>three enemies, because if you don't know who the enemy is,

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<v Speaker 1>you can never win the battle, and you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>go through life defeated. Most of your life. Now we're

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<v Speaker 1>beginning with your biggest enemy. And your biggest enemy is

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<v Speaker 1>not Satan, it's not the world, it's you. You are

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<v Speaker 1>your biggest problem. And as I said last week, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, when you want to run away from your problems,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to go to Cancun. The problem is you

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<v Speaker 1>take you with you, and all of that internal stuff

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<v Speaker 1>is inside you. Now. What we looked at last week

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<v Speaker 1>as we began studying the battle inside you, is that

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<v Speaker 1>you really do have two natures. If you are a believer,

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<v Speaker 1>you have your old nature. What's once to do, what's fun,

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<v Speaker 1>what's once to do, what's convenient, not necessarily the right thing,

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<v Speaker 1>the best thing, or even what's good for you. A

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<v Speaker 1>lot of things you want to do are actually self

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<v Speaker 1>destructive to you. And you know for a certain fact

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<v Speaker 1>that there are things you know you would be good

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<v Speaker 1>for you, be healthy for you, and you don't do them.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that there are things that are bad for you,

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<v Speaker 1>that are unhealthy for you, that mess up your life,

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<v Speaker 1>and you still do them anyway. And last week we

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<v Speaker 1>looked at this great Testimony of Romans, chapter seven, where

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<v Speaker 1>Paul says, you know what, I can't figure myself out.

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<v Speaker 1>All my best intentions aren't good enough. He says, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to do the right thing, but I don't. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do the wrong thing, but I do.

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<v Speaker 1>And that is the story of you, and it is

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<v Speaker 1>the story of me. You know far more than you're

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<v Speaker 1>actually doing. If you were actually able to practice all

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<v Speaker 1>the good things you know to do, you'd be a

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<v Speaker 1>lot more successful in life. But it's not just knowing it,

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<v Speaker 1>it's getting yourself to do it. And there's this battle

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<v Speaker 1>because we have a natural resistance inside of us that

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<v Speaker 1>wants to do what's easy, what's convenient, what's quick, rather

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<v Speaker 1>than what's right and what's best. In fact, our entire

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<v Speaker 1>nation is in a financial crisis because of this tendency

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<v Speaker 1>of human nature to have an inability to delay gratification.

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<v Speaker 1>We want it, and we want it now, whether we

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<v Speaker 1>can afford it or not. So we go out and

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<v Speaker 1>we charge it even though we can't ford it. And

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<v Speaker 1>the government's been doing that for years, and now we

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<v Speaker 1>have a financial crisis that teeters on the brink of

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<v Speaker 1>collapse because all because the ability of buying things we

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<v Speaker 1>don't need with money we don't have to impress people

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<v Speaker 1>we don't like, and thinking we can have it all.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me just tell you right now, you can't have

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<v Speaker 1>it all. That is a myth that advertisers will tell

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<v Speaker 1>you can't have it all. Life is about choices. You

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<v Speaker 1>have to make choices in life and go, Okay, what's

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<v Speaker 1>the best for me, what's right for me? What does

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<v Speaker 1>God want for me, and so best intentions are not

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<v Speaker 1>good enough. And the truth is the battle for you

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<v Speaker 1>inside you. Much of your unhappiness, in fact, I would

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<v Speaker 1>say it this way, most of your unhappiness in life,

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<v Speaker 1>Most of your unhappiness in life is because you listen

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<v Speaker 1>to you instead of God. And when you do that,

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<v Speaker 1>you tell your self stuff all the time that isn't true.

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<v Speaker 1>Just because you have a thought doesn't mean it's accurate,

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't mean it's true, doesn't mean it's correct. A lot

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<v Speaker 1>of things you think of are not right, they're not correct.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of things I think of aren't right, aren't correct.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, a lot of things I think are actually

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<v Speaker 1>lying to myself. Rationalizing where we tell rational lies to ourself. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>what I want us to do this weekend is look

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<v Speaker 1>at how to overcome the six weapons of self destruction.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you've heard of the weapons of mass destruction, but

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<v Speaker 1>I want to talk to you about what the Bible

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<v Speaker 1>teaches about the weapons of self destruction. There are things

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<v Speaker 1>that you do to yourself all the time that dammage you,

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<v Speaker 1>that hurts you, that cause you to self destruct, that

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<v Speaker 1>cause you enormous stress, enormous pain, enormous unhappiness and unneeded

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<v Speaker 1>pressure in your life. And then I'm going to show

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<v Speaker 1>you from God's word in Romans chapter eight, how the

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<v Speaker 1>Bible tells us that the spirit of God living within

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<v Speaker 1>you can give you the antidote to every one of

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<v Speaker 1>these weapons. Now, before we even get into the text,

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to write these seven things down. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not on your outline, so you're just gonna have to

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<v Speaker 1>write it somewhere, scribble it over on the side. These

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<v Speaker 1>are the seven weapons of self destruction. You can talk

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<v Speaker 1>to any psychologist and they'll tell you that these are

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<v Speaker 1>the seven things that mess up people's lives more than

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<v Speaker 1>anything else. And we're going to look at the cure

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<v Speaker 1>for these weapons of self destruction. The first weapon of

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<v Speaker 1>self destruction is shame. Shame. You cannot be happy and

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<v Speaker 1>feel ashamed at the same time. When you feel ashamed,

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<v Speaker 1>when you feel guilty, when you feel regrets, that just

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<v Speaker 1>robs all your happiness. God doesn't want you to walk

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<v Speaker 1>around feeling guilty. God doesn't want you walking around feeling exhamed.

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<v Speaker 1>God doesn't want you walking around with regrets. In fact,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I send Jesus on the cross to die

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<v Speaker 1>for all of your sins, but shame is the first

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<v Speaker 1>number one destroyer of happiness. The second weapon of self

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<v Speaker 1>destruction is uncontrolled thoughts. If you don't learn how to

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<v Speaker 1>control your thoughts, your thoughts will ruin your life because

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<v Speaker 1>you say to stuff to yourself that causes unhappiness, causes grief,

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<v Speaker 1>causes pressure. You must learn how to control your thoughts.

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<v Speaker 1>The third weapon of self destruction is compulsions. Compulsions are

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<v Speaker 1>those inner drives, inner desires. You can call them less

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<v Speaker 1>you can call them habits, you can call them impulses,

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<v Speaker 1>but they are those things in your life you feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like I just had to do it, even

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<v Speaker 1>though you knew it was wrong. I just had to

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<v Speaker 1>do it. And those compulsions. You got to learn how

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<v Speaker 1>to deal with those and how to fight that weapon

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<v Speaker 1>of self destruction, because if you do things by your compulsions,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll mess up your life. The fourth weapon of self

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<v Speaker 1>destruction is fear, and fear is an enormous destroyer of happiness,

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<v Speaker 1>of potential, of God's purpose for your life. It will

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<v Speaker 1>limit your life. You got to learn how to master

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<v Speaker 1>your fears. The fifth weapon of self destruction is hopelessness.

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<v Speaker 1>Hopelessness keeps you from keeping on. When you start to

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<v Speaker 1>feel hopeless about anything, you get discouraged and want to

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<v Speaker 1>give up. If you feel hopeless about your marriage, if

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<v Speaker 1>you feel hopeless about ever getting married, if you feel

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<v Speaker 1>hopeless about your finances, or you feel hopeless about your health.

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<v Speaker 1>Hopelessness is a self destructive weapon that you use on you,

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<v Speaker 1>and when you turn it inward, it robs you of

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<v Speaker 1>God's plan for your life. Number six. Bitterness is a

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<v Speaker 1>huge weapon of self destruction because life is unfair and

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<v Speaker 1>we don't all get the same thing, and life is

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<v Speaker 1>broken and we're stuck, and some people get better than you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you get jealous and you get envious, and some

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<v Speaker 1>people hurt you. You can either get better or bitter,

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<v Speaker 1>And bitterness is a cancer that will eat you alive

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<v Speaker 1>and will It's a poison that will eat you on

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<v Speaker 1>the inside. You never hurt other people with your bitterness

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<v Speaker 1>like you hurt yourself. You always hurt you the most.

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<v Speaker 1>It is a self destructive emotion. There is no value

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<v Speaker 1>to bitterness in your life. There's no value to holding

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<v Speaker 1>onto a grudge. All it does is make you miserable.

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<v Speaker 1>And the seventh weapon of self destruction is insecurity. You

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<v Speaker 1>gotta deal with this one because if you don't learn

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<v Speaker 1>how to deal with insecurity in your life, it's going

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<v Speaker 1>to cause you to do foolish things. When you're insecure

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<v Speaker 1>and you're trying to show everybody else as you're very confident,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll say stupid things, you'll do stupid things, you'll pose

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<v Speaker 1>And the only people impressed by posers are other posers. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody sees through it. The only people are impressed by

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<v Speaker 1>fakes are other fakes. So you know, when you're insecure,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't hide it. You have to deal with it. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>The classic passage on dealing with these weapons of self

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<v Speaker 1>destruction is Roman seven and Romans eight. If you miss

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<v Speaker 1>the last two weeks, you need to run, not walk,

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<v Speaker 1>out to the patio and buy the CDs from the

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<v Speaker 1>last two weeks so you'll be caught up, or you

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<v Speaker 1>need to watch them online on MP three's or on video.

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<v Speaker 1>But Roman seven explains what these seven things do in

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<v Speaker 1>your life, and Romans eight gives us the answer. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of Romans seven, Paul says, this look

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<v Speaker 1>up here on the screen. He's outlined the battle going

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<v Speaker 1>on inside himself, and he says What a miserable person

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<v Speaker 1>I am? Hecaes, I'm miserable. You know, as I said,

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<v Speaker 1>all those things I want to do that I know

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<v Speaker 1>are good, I end up not doing, and all those

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<v Speaker 1>things that I don't want to do, I end up doing,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm really messing up my life. What a miserable

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<v Speaker 1>person I am. I've tried everything and nothing helps. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I've watched Oprah, I've been to Tony Robbins seminar, I've read

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<v Speaker 1>a Doctor phil book. You know, I've done all these

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<v Speaker 1>different things. He has. None of this stuff really works

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<v Speaker 1>and getting me into shape? He says, who will free

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<v Speaker 1>me from this life? Dominated by saying now, he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>say what will free me? Because the answer to you,

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<v Speaker 1>the problem inside you, the mess ups in your life

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<v Speaker 1>that you'd like to change. The answer is not a pill.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a program, it's not a book, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>a it's not a seminar, it's not hypnosis. The answer

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<v Speaker 1>is a person. It is Jesus Christ and his spirit

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<v Speaker 1>inside you. And Romans eight is the answer to Romans seven,

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<v Speaker 1>that the spirit of God inside you gives you the

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<v Speaker 1>at this is the truths of Romans eight. I have

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<v Speaker 1>great truths of Romans eight. Romans eight is the greatest

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<v Speaker 1>They once stood to study of of Bible scholars and said,

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<v Speaker 1>And the first step is you've got to remind yourself

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<v Speaker 1>what Jesus actually did for you. And this is how

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<v Speaker 1>the Holy Spirit sets me free from shame. Let's look

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<v Speaker 1>at these verses Romans eight one to four. First, he says,

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<v Speaker 1>to Jesus Christ. And let me stop there before we

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<v Speaker 1>He took your wrap, he paid your penalty, he did

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<v Speaker 1>your time for you. Now, the Bible says that if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a believer, I belong to Christ. Look at that verse.

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<v Speaker 1>There is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus circle the phrase belong to Christ Jesus. This old

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<v Speaker 1>This doesn't apply to you if you haven't made that

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<v Speaker 1>the Bible says you're under no condemnation. I means God

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<v Speaker 1>hear that God does not get mad at you when

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<v Speaker 1>you sin if you belong to Jesus Christ, because he's

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<v Speaker 1>already taken the payment. Now, notice it doesn't say that

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<v Speaker 1>after I become a Christian, I won't sin, You're still

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<v Speaker 1>gonna fail and look stupid. You're gonna fail and look stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>It just says you're under no condemnation. In other words,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to walk around with shame. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to walk around with guilt, because when Jesus Christ

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<v Speaker 1>of the sins you committed last week, last year, and

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<v Speaker 1>your entire life he committed. He's already paid for the

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<v Speaker 1>sins that you're gonna commit tomorrow, next week, and the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of your life. They're already paid for. That's good news.

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<v Speaker 1>of my sins. He already knew before I was born,

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<v Speaker 1>every sin I was going to do, and he paid

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<v Speaker 1>for it. Now, the next part of that verse says,

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<v Speaker 1>for the power of the life giving spirit, that's the

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<v Speaker 1>I have a new power in my life, greater than willpower.

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<v Speaker 1>You see, before you became a Christian, the only thing

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<v Speaker 1>you had to use against your bad habits was sheer willpower.

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<v Speaker 1>And how long does that work? Now? Very long, he says,

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<v Speaker 1>Now there's a new power in you. Unfortunately, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of Christians are still simply relying on willpower to change.

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<v Speaker 1>They've never figured out how to connect into spiritual power,

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<v Speaker 1>into the power of the Holy Spirit, into the power

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<v Speaker 1>of Jesus inside you. He says, there's a new power

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<v Speaker 1>in you. There's a new sheriff in town. And when

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<v Speaker 1>you want to change things in your life, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>just if it's to be, it's up to me. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not just my own willpower. It is God's power in me.

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<v Speaker 1>I have been given a power greater than willpower. We're

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<v Speaker 1>Then the next thing. It says, the law of Moses

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<v Speaker 1>could not save us because of our sinful nature. Now laws,

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<v Speaker 1>keeping God's laws cannot save you. Guy says, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>You don't not only not keep the ten commandments. You

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<v Speaker 1>you keep them if you don't even know them all?

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, keeping laws never works, why, it says,

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<v Speaker 1>because of our sinful nature. Laws simply work on outside behavior.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't work on inside change. They don't change you

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<v Speaker 1>on the inside. For instance, if I were to bring

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<v Speaker 1>it all cleaned up, and I brushed the you know,

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<v Speaker 1>their teeth, the pig's teeth. And then I sprinkle some

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<v Speaker 1>And then I put some lipstick on this pig. And

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<v Speaker 1>I bring this pig out and I say, now, what

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<v Speaker 1>up the outside, but the nature has remained unchanged. And

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<v Speaker 1>all the outside looks different, but inside it's still the

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<v Speaker 1>in your life, it's got to change your nature, and

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<v Speaker 1>only God can do that. No self help program can

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<v Speaker 1>change your heart, which, by the way, is why I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not a politician. I have zero faith in politics or

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<v Speaker 1>laws to change human behavior. Why because it's just fixing

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<v Speaker 1>the outside. You can pass a law that says nobody

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<v Speaker 1>to change anybody's heart. No, Only Jesus can change that heart.

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<v Speaker 1>And I have seen people come to Christ and they

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<v Speaker 1>If I thought you could change human behavior by laws,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be a politician, but there's no track record that

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<v Speaker 1>it actually changes people. Only God can change the inside, which,

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<v Speaker 1>time promoting all political laws. You know, there are some

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<v Speaker 1>Christians who think they're going to make the world a

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<v Speaker 1>break it? I mean they want a law against this

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<v Speaker 1>change people. No, people just going to break the law.

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<v Speaker 1>You do. God has given all kinds of laws in

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<v Speaker 1>them all the time. See. One of the things we

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have the power to change. He doesn't have the

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't change our nature. God put into effect notice here,

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<v Speaker 1>so God knew that laws couldn't save us. But God

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<v Speaker 1>except that ours are sinful. God destroyed sins control over

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<v Speaker 1>In other words, he gave us the power to make

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<v Speaker 1>to start where God tells you to start. And God

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<v Speaker 1>be transformed by the renewing of your mind. The Bible

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<v Speaker 1>change a feeling. You cannot force a feeling. A guy says,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't love my wife anymore. So I said, well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So if you do, you know, I don't have any

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<v Speaker 1>into a feeling, and you can think your way into feeling,

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<v Speaker 1>but you can't feel your way into feeling. If you

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<v Speaker 1>start acting loving towards your wife and you start thinking

416
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<v Speaker 1>loving thoughts toward you, right, I'm gonna tell you what,

417
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<v Speaker 1>the feelings will come back. They will return. You act

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<v Speaker 1>your way into a feeling and you think your way

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<v Speaker 1>into feeling, but you don't feel your way into feeling. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>the good thing about this is that now that you're

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<v Speaker 1>a Christian, you have the Holy Spirit inside of you,

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<v Speaker 1>and so you can ask him to help you put

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<v Speaker 1>good thoughts in your mind. So now you're not just

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<v Speaker 1>on your own. You're not just out here trying to

425
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<v Speaker 1>think up stuff by yourself. And what would be a

426
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<v Speaker 1>good thing for me to think about? You can say,

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<v Speaker 1>Holy Spirit, put good thoughts in my mind. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>second thing we learned from Romans eight. Write this down

429
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<v Speaker 1>number two. The second mental habit to defeat the weapons

430
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<v Speaker 1>of self destruction is I ask the Holy Spirit to

431
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<v Speaker 1>give me better thoughts. I ask the Holy Spirit to

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<v Speaker 1>give me better thoughts. And if you ask him to

433
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<v Speaker 1>give you better thoughts, do you think he will? Of course,

434
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<v Speaker 1>he will. Of course, he's going to give you better thoughts.

435
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<v Speaker 1>That's a prayer he's going to answer. I ask the

436
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<v Speaker 1>Holy Spirit to give me better thoughts. This is the

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<v Speaker 1>second key to permanent change your life. Now, this is

438
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<v Speaker 1>what it says in the next two verses, Verses five

439
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<v Speaker 1>and six of Romans eight. Those who live according to

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<v Speaker 1>the sinful nature have their mindset on what the nature

441
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<v Speaker 1>that nature desires. But those who live in accordance with

442
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<v Speaker 1>the Spirit have their mindset on what the Spirit desires. Now,

443
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<v Speaker 1>there's two kinds of mindsets circle the mindsets. There's the

444
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<v Speaker 1>mindset of your old nature, and there's the mindset of

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<v Speaker 1>the Holy Spirit. There's the mindset of the way I

446
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<v Speaker 1>normally think about my life, and there's the mindset of

447
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<v Speaker 1>how the Spirit sees my life. Which one's gonna be

448
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<v Speaker 1>true the one that the Spirit says. So I have

449
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<v Speaker 1>to choose between these mindsets. Am I gonna set my

450
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<v Speaker 1>mind on the way I normally think about my life?

451
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<v Speaker 1>Am I gonna set my mind on the way God

452
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<v Speaker 1>thinks about my life? Now there's a big difference in

453
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<v Speaker 1>choosing these mindsets, because if you choose one, you're gonna

454
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<v Speaker 1>get one response and if you choose the other, that

455
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<v Speaker 1>you're going to get another. And the next part of

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<v Speaker 1>the verse tells us what that is. The mind of

457
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<v Speaker 1>sinful man is what that means. It's self destructive. Thoughts

458
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<v Speaker 1>that you come up with yourself are going to tend

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<v Speaker 1>to be self destructive. The mind of sinful man is death.

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<v Speaker 1>But the mind controlled by the spirit is what life

461
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<v Speaker 1>and peace. Okay, I don't normally do this, but how

462
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<v Speaker 1>many of you would like to have life and peace

463
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<v Speaker 1>this summer? Yeah, me too, I would like to have

464
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<v Speaker 1>life and peace of summer. And it's all about the

465
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<v Speaker 1>mindset you choose. The economy may not change, it probably won't.

466
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<v Speaker 1>Your problems probably won't change those ones that are persistent,

467
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<v Speaker 1>but your mindset can change. And that's the difference between

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<v Speaker 1>a life of self destruction or a life of life

469
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<v Speaker 1>and peace. Now, this is the Holy Spirit's answer to

470
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<v Speaker 1>uncontrolled thoughts. What I do is I ask the Holy

471
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<v Speaker 1>Spirit to give me better thoughts. And this is the

472
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<v Speaker 1>principle of replacement. I want you to write this word down, replacement.

473
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<v Speaker 1>The principle of replacement is anytime you want to change

474
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<v Speaker 1>something in your life and you're serious about changing it,

475
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<v Speaker 1>you don't resist it, you replace it. When you got

476
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<v Speaker 1>something negative in your life, you don't resist it, you

477
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<v Speaker 1>replace it. You say, I want to stop smoking, you

478
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<v Speaker 1>don't smoke. I don't want to stop smoking. I want

479
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<v Speaker 1>to stop smoking. I want to stop smoking. It's like

480
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<v Speaker 1>the frog and towd together, that story we read last week.

481
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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to eat a cookie and I just

482
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<v Speaker 1>ate one. I don't want to eat a cookie and

483
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<v Speaker 1>I just ate one. I don't want to eat a cooking. No,

484
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<v Speaker 1>because the whole time you're focusing on what you don't

485
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<v Speaker 1>want and whatever if you focus on, gets your attention.

486
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<v Speaker 1>Whatever gets your attention gets you. That's why, if you

487
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<v Speaker 1>want to break any bad habit in your life, the

488
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<v Speaker 1>key is not to resist it, but to refocus. Whatever

489
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<v Speaker 1>you resist persists because you keep focusing on it. Now.

490
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<v Speaker 1>It's it's like if I'm flipping TV channels and all

491
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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden there's something on TV that I don't

492
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<v Speaker 1>really want to watch or I shouldn't watch. I don't

493
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<v Speaker 1>sit there and go I don't want to watch it.

494
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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to watch it. I don't want to

495
00:29:15.480 --> 00:29:20.279
<v Speaker 1>watch I just flip the channel, I replace it, and

496
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<v Speaker 1>the moment I replace it. It's gone. It has no

497
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<v Speaker 1>grip on me anymore. So. I mean, if you're standing

498
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<v Speaker 1>in an airport bookstore and they've got all these girly magazines,

499
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<v Speaker 1>and you're standing in front of you saying, I don't

500
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<v Speaker 1>want to look at them. I don't want to look

501
00:29:36.240 --> 00:29:38.000
<v Speaker 1>at them. Up, what do you do? Well, you don't

502
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<v Speaker 1>stand there. You walk away, Okay, you slam the door

503
00:29:43.160 --> 00:29:45.119
<v Speaker 1>if you want, don't want to get stung by the bees.

504
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<v Speaker 1>You just get away from them and you replace it

505
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<v Speaker 1>with something else. Now, let's say I had a big, fat,

506
00:29:54.000 --> 00:29:58.160
<v Speaker 1>juicy doughnut sitting right here, Okay, I mean, and it's

507
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<v Speaker 1>hot and the glaze is just kind of dripping off

508
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<v Speaker 1>the side. Now I'm on the Daniel Plan, okay. And

509
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<v Speaker 1>as I told you last week, our church has lost

510
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<v Speaker 1>over two hundred thousand pounds together, which is amazing. And

511
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<v Speaker 1>it's not too late to join us. We still got

512
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<v Speaker 1>half a year more. It's a one year program, and

513
00:30:24.000 --> 00:30:26.599
<v Speaker 1>you could go to Danielplan dot com and join up

514
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<v Speaker 1>and get your numbers and get all the doctor's help

515
00:30:29.000 --> 00:30:31.240
<v Speaker 1>and stuff like that. Now, if it's sitting here, I

516
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<v Speaker 1>don't go. I don't want that donut. I really really,

517
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<v Speaker 1>I'm just smelling it. Oh baby, old baby, that yeasty smell.

518
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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, No, what do I do? I just look

519
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<v Speaker 1>over it down to you guys, And the moment I

520
00:30:51.599 --> 00:30:55.440
<v Speaker 1>see you guys, I've lost. It's lost its grip on

521
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<v Speaker 1>me because my tension has changed. Now. As long as

522
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<v Speaker 1>I resist the donut, it hadn't work. But the moment

523
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<v Speaker 1>I refocus on something else, I don't even think about

524
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<v Speaker 1>it anymore. Does that make sense? Okay? So I ask

525
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<v Speaker 1>the Holy Spirit to give me better thoughts to replace

526
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<v Speaker 1>the negative ones in my mind. Now, you choose what

527
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<v Speaker 1>you dwell on. Satan gives you ideas. As are called temptations.

528
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<v Speaker 1>Holy Spirit gives you ideas. Those are called inspiration. You

529
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<v Speaker 1>get ideas. But the truth is you choose what you

530
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<v Speaker 1>focus on. But now now that you're a believer, you

531
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<v Speaker 1>have a helper and you can say, Holy Spirit, I

532
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<v Speaker 1>invite you to give me your ideas. And a lot

533
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<v Speaker 1>of times the Holy Spirit, the God's Spirit will say

534
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<v Speaker 1>to me, hey, Rick, why don't you think about this instead?

535
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<v Speaker 1>Good idea and I just change my thoughts. Now I

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<v Speaker 1>would encourage you to invite the Holy Spirit to have

537
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<v Speaker 1>free access to your mind. You say, God, you have

538
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<v Speaker 1>put your spirit in side of me. I give you

539
00:32:02.240 --> 00:32:04.720
<v Speaker 1>free access to my mind twenty four hours a day.

540
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<v Speaker 1>I invite you to suggest good thoughts. Why Because they'll

541
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<v Speaker 1>always be the truth, They'll always be right, they'll always

542
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<v Speaker 1>be helpful, they'll always be pure. Those are the things

543
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<v Speaker 1>we are to think on. So you invite the Holy

544
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<v Speaker 1>Spirit to put thoughts in your mind? Why? Because those

545
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<v Speaker 1>who live according to sinful nature have their mindset on

546
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<v Speaker 1>one thing, but those who live according to the Spirit

547
00:32:24.319 --> 00:32:27.240
<v Speaker 1>have their mindset on another. And the mindset that I

548
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<v Speaker 1>normally have leads to self destruction, and the mindset that

549
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<v Speaker 1>God's Spirit gives me leads to peace. And I want

550
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<v Speaker 1>peace in my life. So, and that's why I said,

551
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<v Speaker 1>you know earlier, we don't expect unbelievers to act like

552
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<v Speaker 1>believers until they are. They don't have the power. Look

553
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<v Speaker 1>at the next verse. The sinful mind is hostile to God.

554
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<v Speaker 1>It does not submit to God's law, nor can it

555
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<v Speaker 1>do so. It can't even do it. Those controlled by

556
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<v Speaker 1>sinful nature cannot please God. So why do you work

557
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<v Speaker 1>on passing the law when they don't have the ability

558
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<v Speaker 1>to change it? To change Only God can change it.

559
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<v Speaker 1>Change comes from the inside out. Third principle, Third mental

560
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<v Speaker 1>habit You're going to need to develop to apply the

561
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<v Speaker 1>truths of Roman's aid in your life, and that is this,

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<v Speaker 1>I realize I have a new ability to say no.

563
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<v Speaker 1>I need to remind myself. I need to remember on

564
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<v Speaker 1>a daily basis. I need to realize that now that

565
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<v Speaker 1>I'm a believer, I have a new ability to say

566
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<v Speaker 1>no to the things that are self destructive in my life.

567
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<v Speaker 1>Now this is very important because before you became a believer,

568
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<v Speaker 1>all you had was will power, and you lost most

569
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<v Speaker 1>of those bad habits because lost to most of them

570
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<v Speaker 1>because you don't willpower wears out. It's not enough. But now,

571
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<v Speaker 1>with the Spirit in your life, you have a new

572
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<v Speaker 1>ability to say no, a new power, and you need

573
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<v Speaker 1>to learn how to tap into that power. I don't

574
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<v Speaker 1>know about you, but I could admit pretty honestly that

575
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<v Speaker 1>before I had the Holy Spirit in my life, there

576
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<v Speaker 1>were some things I just couldn't say no to. I

577
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<v Speaker 1>didn't have the ability to say no to them. And

578
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<v Speaker 1>you can call them compulsions, you can call them habits.

579
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<v Speaker 1>You can call them urges, you can call them lusts,

580
00:34:25.159 --> 00:34:28.519
<v Speaker 1>you can call them impulses. You can call them your

581
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<v Speaker 1>old nature. But the truth is there were some things

582
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<v Speaker 1>in my life I just couldn't say no to. I

583
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<v Speaker 1>had no ability to say no because I didn't have.

584
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<v Speaker 1>All I had was willpower. Now now I have God's power,

585
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<v Speaker 1>and he gives me the ability to say no. Look

586
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<v Speaker 1>at this verse up here on the screen. Galatians five

587
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<v Speaker 1>point sixteen says this, let the Spirit direct your lives,

588
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<v Speaker 1>and you will not satisfy the desires of the old

589
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<v Speaker 1>human nature. Now, if I let the Spirit live through me,

590
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<v Speaker 1>does it say I won't have those desires? Is that

591
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<v Speaker 1>what it said? No, it says I won't what I

592
00:35:14.000 --> 00:35:19.480
<v Speaker 1>won't satisfy those desires? I won't satisfy those desires. In

593
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<v Speaker 1>other words, do I still have the same desires I

594
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<v Speaker 1>had before as a Christian? Yes? Do I still have

595
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<v Speaker 1>the same temptations? Yes? Do I still have the same

596
00:35:29.599 --> 00:35:35.159
<v Speaker 1>urges and compulsions? Yes? Do I fulfill them? No? Why?

597
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<v Speaker 1>Because I have a new power inside of me, and

598
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<v Speaker 1>it's not just will power anymore. Now I've heard people say,

599
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<v Speaker 1>but why should I limit any desire in my life

600
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<v Speaker 1>that seems natural? Why should I rein it in if

601
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<v Speaker 1>it seems if it's a natural desire. Friends, Not everything

602
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<v Speaker 1>natural is good for you. I mean, I might naturally

603
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<v Speaker 1>want to punch you in the nose. That doesn't mean

604
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<v Speaker 1>I should do it. I have a lot of natural

605
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<v Speaker 1>desires that I need to not fulfill. For instance, sometimes

606
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<v Speaker 1>I have a natural desire to cuss people out on

607
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<v Speaker 1>the freeway. Does it mean I should just do it? No.

608
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<v Speaker 1>Just because it's natural doesn't mean it's good. Arsenic is natural,

609
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<v Speaker 1>but you drink it and it'll kill you. A lot

610
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<v Speaker 1>of natural things are poison. So just because it says

611
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<v Speaker 1>natural doesn't mean it's good. There are things in my

612
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<v Speaker 1>old nature that are very natural for me to do,

613
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<v Speaker 1>but they're self destructive. I mean, people say, well, if

614
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<v Speaker 1>I feel this way, why shouldn't I give into it?

615
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<v Speaker 1>Because that's called maturity. Maturity is when you do the

616
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<v Speaker 1>right thing, not what you feel like doing, because what

617
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<v Speaker 1>you feel like doing isn't always the best for you,

618
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<v Speaker 1>the best for somebody else, God's will or whatever. If

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<v Speaker 1>everybody just did what they naturally feel like doing, nobody

620
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<v Speaker 1>go to work tomorrow morning. Nobody would go to work.

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<v Speaker 1>If everybody did what they naturally feel like doing, you know,

622
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<v Speaker 1>you know, every girl would be pregnant. Long before she

623
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<v Speaker 1>got married. You got to realize that I have a

624
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<v Speaker 1>new ability to say no. Now this is the good

625
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<v Speaker 1>news of Romans chapter eight. Look at the next verse,

626
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<v Speaker 1>verse nine. But he says, you are not controlled by

627
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<v Speaker 1>your sinful nature. You are now controlled by the spirit

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<v Speaker 1>if you have the spirit of God living in you.

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<v Speaker 1>Anybody who does not have the Spirit of God living

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<v Speaker 1>in them does not belong to Christ. And let me

631
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<v Speaker 1>stop here and explain this. Some people mistakenly think that

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<v Speaker 1>you get God kind of piece meal, that Jesus comes

633
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<v Speaker 1>into your life at one point in your life, and

634
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<v Speaker 1>then maybe a little bit later, the Holy Spirit comes

635
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<v Speaker 1>into your life, and then maybe a little bit later,

636
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<v Speaker 1>you get the Father into your life. No, God is

637
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<v Speaker 1>a trinity three and one. When you got Jesus, you

638
00:38:09.480 --> 00:38:12.880
<v Speaker 1>got all of God. God doesn't come into your life

639
00:38:12.920 --> 00:38:17.079
<v Speaker 1>piece meal. When Jesus comes into your life, the Spirit

640
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<v Speaker 1>comes into your life. When Jesus comes in your life,

641
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<v Speaker 1>the Father comes into your life. When the Father comes

642
00:38:23.320 --> 00:38:25.599
<v Speaker 1>into your life, the Spirit in Jesus come into your life.

643
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<v Speaker 1>You can't separate him. You can't divide them up like

644
00:38:28.079 --> 00:38:31.320
<v Speaker 1>a piece of pie. So the moment you gave your

645
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<v Speaker 1>life to Christ, Jesus. Christ put his self in your life,

646
00:38:35.280 --> 00:38:38.559
<v Speaker 1>in his spirit, the spirit of God, the spirit of

647
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<v Speaker 1>the Father, the spirit of Jesus. It is the Holy Spirit.

648
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<v Speaker 1>So you don't get God a little bit at a time.

649
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<v Speaker 1>Does that make sense? Okay, God, the Holy Spirit doesn't

650
00:38:48.960 --> 00:38:51.159
<v Speaker 1>come in in the later point. He comes in and

651
00:38:51.480 --> 00:38:53.360
<v Speaker 1>you get all of God when you give your life

652
00:38:53.360 --> 00:38:55.639
<v Speaker 1>to Christ. Now the question is does he have all

653
00:38:55.679 --> 00:38:58.519
<v Speaker 1>of you and the rest of your life. You're going

654
00:38:58.599 --> 00:39:00.320
<v Speaker 1>to be given more and more of your life life

655
00:39:00.360 --> 00:39:02.599
<v Speaker 1>to him, and then the more you give, the more

656
00:39:02.679 --> 00:39:06.280
<v Speaker 1>power you have. But he says, because I have this,

657
00:39:06.440 --> 00:39:08.320
<v Speaker 1>I now have a new ability to say no. Look

658
00:39:08.320 --> 00:39:11.440
<v Speaker 1>at the next verse. So, dear brothers, you have no

659
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<v Speaker 1>obligation anymore to your old sinful nature to do what

660
00:39:16.760 --> 00:39:19.199
<v Speaker 1>it begs you to do. This is how God sets

661
00:39:19.239 --> 00:39:22.719
<v Speaker 1>me free from my compulsions. Before, when I have felt

662
00:39:22.800 --> 00:39:26.320
<v Speaker 1>compulsed to do something, compelled to do something, I didn't

663
00:39:26.320 --> 00:39:29.599
<v Speaker 1>have anything except willpower to stop myself. Now I've got

664
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<v Speaker 1>a new power inside me, and I don't have any

665
00:39:32.119 --> 00:39:35.679
<v Speaker 1>obligation anymore to listen to my old nature. Now I've

666
00:39:35.719 --> 00:39:37.400
<v Speaker 1>heard people tell me, oh, I can't tell me. People

667
00:39:37.400 --> 00:39:40.480
<v Speaker 1>who have had an affair, committed adultery. Who told me

668
00:39:40.559 --> 00:39:44.400
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't stop myself. I couldn't help myself. I just

669
00:39:44.519 --> 00:39:49.039
<v Speaker 1>had to do it. I just felt compelled to do it. Well,

670
00:39:49.079 --> 00:39:52.280
<v Speaker 1>now you have a new help to stop you. And

671
00:39:52.320 --> 00:39:55.400
<v Speaker 1>when somebody says I'm a Christian, but I couldn't stop myself,

672
00:39:55.480 --> 00:40:00.800
<v Speaker 1>they're lying. They're lying because they si the fleet didn't

673
00:40:00.840 --> 00:40:03.679
<v Speaker 1>call on the power that was there available to them,

674
00:40:03.840 --> 00:40:05.960
<v Speaker 1>and they didn't rely on the Holy Spirit in that

675
00:40:06.159 --> 00:40:12.760
<v Speaker 1>moment of temptation compulsions. You know you can ruin an

676
00:40:12.920 --> 00:40:17.840
<v Speaker 1>entire life with one second of compulsion. Just go ask

677
00:40:17.880 --> 00:40:21.079
<v Speaker 1>a bunch of the politicians had scandals this last year,

678
00:40:22.280 --> 00:40:26.079
<v Speaker 1>spent decades building a reputation, and in a moment of compulsion,

679
00:40:26.360 --> 00:40:30.639
<v Speaker 1>lost it all. Stupid, stupid, stupid. But I have a

680
00:40:30.679 --> 00:40:33.760
<v Speaker 1>new power, a new ability to say no. Number four,

681
00:40:34.639 --> 00:40:37.159
<v Speaker 1>the fourth mental habit I need to develop if I

682
00:40:37.199 --> 00:40:39.719
<v Speaker 1>want to change my life is I need to turn

683
00:40:40.079 --> 00:40:46.599
<v Speaker 1>my thoughts to God. Whenever I'm afraid. That's the fourth

684
00:40:47.119 --> 00:40:52.320
<v Speaker 1>antidote to these weapons of self destruction. I remind myself

685
00:40:52.400 --> 00:40:54.840
<v Speaker 1>every day what Jesus did for me. I asked the

686
00:40:54.880 --> 00:40:57.920
<v Speaker 1>Holy Spirit to give me better thoughts. I realize I

687
00:40:58.000 --> 00:41:00.440
<v Speaker 1>now have a new ability to say no. And then

688
00:41:00.519 --> 00:41:06.320
<v Speaker 1>I turned my thoughts to God whenever I'm afraid. Whenever

689
00:41:06.599 --> 00:41:10.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm afraid, And this is how God spirit sets me

690
00:41:10.360 --> 00:41:14.880
<v Speaker 1>free from me with the attitude of fear. Romans eight.

691
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<v Speaker 1>Look at the next verses, verses fourteen to sixteen. For

692
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<v Speaker 1>the spirit God gives you does not make you slaves

693
00:41:24.039 --> 00:41:28.760
<v Speaker 1>and cause you to be afraid. Instead, the spirit makes

694
00:41:28.800 --> 00:41:33.039
<v Speaker 1>you God's children. And by the Spirit's power, we cry

695
00:41:33.039 --> 00:41:35.840
<v Speaker 1>out to God Father, my father. This is actually the

696
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<v Speaker 1>Aramaic word abba. Abba is not the group. It means daddy, papa.

697
00:41:43.280 --> 00:41:46.480
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's dad dad. It's the most basic intimate

698
00:41:46.519 --> 00:41:50.360
<v Speaker 1>form of father, Daddy, Daddy, my daddy. We cry out

699
00:41:50.400 --> 00:41:54.639
<v Speaker 1>to God Daddy, my daddy, Papa, my papa. Ahba my Abba.

700
00:41:55.079 --> 00:42:00.280
<v Speaker 1>God's spirit joins himself to our spirits to declare that

701
00:42:00.360 --> 00:42:05.760
<v Speaker 1>we are God's children. Now, when I was a kid,

702
00:42:07.039 --> 00:42:09.800
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't very fearful at all. I really had almost

703
00:42:09.840 --> 00:42:14.400
<v Speaker 1>no fears as a child and was pretty reckless and

704
00:42:14.639 --> 00:42:18.119
<v Speaker 1>had a lot of fun growing up. But sometimes as

705
00:42:18.159 --> 00:42:22.199
<v Speaker 1>a young child at night, if I heard something that

706
00:42:22.280 --> 00:42:26.159
<v Speaker 1>was kind of scary and I was afraid, I would

707
00:42:26.199 --> 00:42:31.039
<v Speaker 1>always cry out to my father. I'd say Daddy, Daddy,

708
00:42:32.039 --> 00:42:34.840
<v Speaker 1>and he could hear me from my room in our house,

709
00:42:35.320 --> 00:42:37.800
<v Speaker 1>and my dad would come and see me. Now, when

710
00:42:37.840 --> 00:42:40.039
<v Speaker 1>I was afraid, I never called out for my mom.

711
00:42:41.159 --> 00:42:45.400
<v Speaker 1>And the reason why is I knew my dad was stronger. Now,

712
00:42:45.440 --> 00:42:47.760
<v Speaker 1>my dad wasn't a big guy, but he was very

713
00:42:47.800 --> 00:42:50.320
<v Speaker 1>strong because he was a hard worker, and I knew

714
00:42:50.320 --> 00:42:53.440
<v Speaker 1>he could take on anybody. And so I'd say Daddy.

715
00:42:53.519 --> 00:42:55.599
<v Speaker 1>Whenever I was afraid, I would cry out to Daddy.

716
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<v Speaker 1>This is exactly what God tells you to do when

717
00:42:58.079 --> 00:43:02.360
<v Speaker 1>you're afraid. Stop focusing on fear. Start focusing on your father.

718
00:43:03.679 --> 00:43:08.400
<v Speaker 1>That's the antidote. Stop focusing on your fear. Start focusing

719
00:43:08.800 --> 00:43:11.840
<v Speaker 1>on your father. Now, he says, the antidote to fear

720
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<v Speaker 1>is two things. First, he says, the spirit that God

721
00:43:15.440 --> 00:43:19.239
<v Speaker 1>has given you doesn't make you slaves, make you afraid,

722
00:43:19.840 --> 00:43:23.480
<v Speaker 1>but he makes you God's children. Whenever you are afraid,

723
00:43:23.719 --> 00:43:25.559
<v Speaker 1>the first thing you need to do is remember this

724
00:43:26.480 --> 00:43:30.599
<v Speaker 1>whose family you're a part of. I'm a son of God.

725
00:43:31.559 --> 00:43:35.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm a daughter of God. I'm a child of God.

726
00:43:36.199 --> 00:43:40.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm in the family, and families take care of each other,

727
00:43:40.599 --> 00:43:46.800
<v Speaker 1>and there's family protection. Now, Let's say you grew up

728
00:43:46.840 --> 00:43:50.960
<v Speaker 1>in Chicago or New York City and your family was

729
00:43:51.000 --> 00:43:58.920
<v Speaker 1>a part of the family okay, the mafia family. Okay.

730
00:43:59.400 --> 00:44:04.199
<v Speaker 1>And you're walking down the street as a kid, okay,

731
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<v Speaker 1>and somebody starts to assault you and you stop me.

732
00:44:08.159 --> 00:44:10.480
<v Speaker 1>He says, oh, wait, just a minute. Do you know

733
00:44:10.519 --> 00:44:14.719
<v Speaker 1>who I am? Do you know who I am? My

734
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<v Speaker 1>father is Guido, and Guido works for Bruno, and Bruno

735
00:44:23.840 --> 00:44:27.599
<v Speaker 1>is the Copo de capo de Capo de capo. He

736
00:44:27.639 --> 00:44:29.920
<v Speaker 1>will make you an offer you can't refuse. Are you

737
00:44:30.079 --> 00:44:33.880
<v Speaker 1>sure you want to touch me? Because I'm in the family.

738
00:44:35.199 --> 00:44:37.760
<v Speaker 1>And Guy says, well, on second thought, you can have

739
00:44:37.800 --> 00:44:42.280
<v Speaker 1>your money back because the family protects you. Now, when

740
00:44:42.320 --> 00:44:44.760
<v Speaker 1>you start to be afraid, God says the first thing.

741
00:44:44.840 --> 00:44:47.719
<v Speaker 1>He says, wait a minute, do you know who my

742
00:44:47.800 --> 00:44:52.159
<v Speaker 1>father is? My father is the creator of the universe.

743
00:44:53.480 --> 00:44:57.760
<v Speaker 1>My father is God. I'm a child of God. I'm

744
00:44:57.800 --> 00:45:02.079
<v Speaker 1>in the family. God takes care of you kids. And

745
00:45:02.119 --> 00:45:04.559
<v Speaker 1>then I cry out to Father, Father, would you take

746
00:45:04.599 --> 00:45:07.800
<v Speaker 1>care of this fear for me? Will you handle this

747
00:45:07.880 --> 00:45:10.440
<v Speaker 1>one for me and my heaven? The Father says, of course,

748
00:45:10.480 --> 00:45:13.639
<v Speaker 1>I'll handle it. For me, go back to sleep. You

749
00:45:13.639 --> 00:45:15.239
<v Speaker 1>don't have to worry about it. I'll take care of you.

750
00:45:15.719 --> 00:45:18.519
<v Speaker 1>When you were afraid, you remember whose family you're in.

751
00:45:18.719 --> 00:45:21.199
<v Speaker 1>You're a child of God. You're not a slave. You're

752
00:45:21.239 --> 00:45:24.639
<v Speaker 1>a child of God and he's going to take care

753
00:45:24.639 --> 00:45:30.320
<v Speaker 1>of you. And second you call out to your father. Now,

754
00:45:30.360 --> 00:45:32.440
<v Speaker 1>what are you most afraid of? What are you most

755
00:45:32.440 --> 00:45:38.440
<v Speaker 1>afraid of? These days? You know the number one fear

756
00:45:38.519 --> 00:45:42.199
<v Speaker 1>people have. I know all the studies people say it's

757
00:45:42.199 --> 00:45:44.039
<v Speaker 1>the fear of speaking in front of others, It's the

758
00:45:44.039 --> 00:45:46.519
<v Speaker 1>fear of heights, or you know, the fear of new

759
00:45:46.719 --> 00:45:49.800
<v Speaker 1>social situations. Actually, what I've found is a pastor talking

760
00:45:49.800 --> 00:45:53.400
<v Speaker 1>to people for thirty years. The number one fear people

761
00:45:53.480 --> 00:45:57.400
<v Speaker 1>have is the fear of being out of control. And

762
00:45:57.440 --> 00:46:00.199
<v Speaker 1>when you feel your life is out of control, it

763
00:46:00.280 --> 00:46:05.679
<v Speaker 1>creates enormous fear in your life. And the longer you

764
00:46:05.719 --> 00:46:09.079
<v Speaker 1>feel it's out of control, you start thinking I'm out

765
00:46:09.079 --> 00:46:13.519
<v Speaker 1>of control, and then you start thinking maybe I'm losing

766
00:46:13.599 --> 00:46:19.519
<v Speaker 1>my mind, and you start feary, maybe I'm going crazy,

767
00:46:20.960 --> 00:46:25.679
<v Speaker 1>maybe I'm going insane. You've all felt this at different

768
00:46:25.760 --> 00:46:28.360
<v Speaker 1>times in your life, so don't act like so self righteous.

769
00:46:29.519 --> 00:46:34.599
<v Speaker 1>Everybody I think I'm losing my mind. I think I'm

770
00:46:34.639 --> 00:46:38.960
<v Speaker 1>going crazy. I'm afraid I'm going nuts. Now, let me

771
00:46:39.039 --> 00:46:42.840
<v Speaker 1>just put you at ease. You're not going crazy because

772
00:46:42.880 --> 00:46:50.320
<v Speaker 1>crazy people don't fear that. Crazy people are very happy

773
00:46:50.320 --> 00:46:54.320
<v Speaker 1>to be crazy and don't care. The very fact that

774
00:46:54.360 --> 00:46:59.119
<v Speaker 1>you are afraid you're going crazy means you're rational, so

775
00:46:59.400 --> 00:47:02.960
<v Speaker 1>you're not You're not going crazy. The fear that you're

776
00:47:03.000 --> 00:47:07.519
<v Speaker 1>going crazy shows that you're very very rational. Crazy people

777
00:47:07.679 --> 00:47:11.800
<v Speaker 1>aren't afraid of being crazy. So I want everybody to

778
00:47:11.840 --> 00:47:16.239
<v Speaker 1>say this. I'm broken, but I'm not crazy. Okay, let's

779
00:47:16.239 --> 00:47:20.239
<v Speaker 1>say it a lout together. I'm broken, but I'm not crazy.

780
00:47:20.320 --> 00:47:24.400
<v Speaker 1>Let's say it again. I'm broken, but I'm not crazy. Now,

781
00:47:24.480 --> 00:47:26.039
<v Speaker 1>some of you are afraid to say it, so let's

782
00:47:26.039 --> 00:47:31.119
<v Speaker 1>say it again. Okay, ready, I'm broken, but I'm not crazy.

783
00:47:32.079 --> 00:47:36.800
<v Speaker 1>Everybody's broken. I'm broken, you're broken. The person sitting next

784
00:47:36.800 --> 00:47:40.800
<v Speaker 1>to you is broken. We're all. Nothing is perfect in

785
00:47:40.880 --> 00:47:45.800
<v Speaker 1>this world. But you're not crazy. Now. The Bible says

786
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<v Speaker 1>that we should not be afraid, but we turned to God.

787
00:47:50.039 --> 00:47:53.920
<v Speaker 1>I remember one time in northern California. It's the year

788
00:47:53.960 --> 00:47:56.719
<v Speaker 1>I got married. At the end of the year, that

789
00:47:56.800 --> 00:48:01.119
<v Speaker 1>I got married thirty six years ago, my health broke

790
00:48:01.559 --> 00:48:05.760
<v Speaker 1>and I began to develop a fear that it's never

791
00:48:05.840 --> 00:48:08.800
<v Speaker 1>going to go away, that my life is over shoot.

792
00:48:08.880 --> 00:48:12.480
<v Speaker 1>My life hadn't even started. I hadn't even started, but

793
00:48:12.559 --> 00:48:14.599
<v Speaker 1>I was afraid, this is the end of my life.

794
00:48:14.639 --> 00:48:16.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm never going to mount anything. Nothing's going to happen

795
00:48:16.840 --> 00:48:18.559
<v Speaker 1>in my life. God isn't going to use me. I'm

796
00:48:18.599 --> 00:48:20.519
<v Speaker 1>going to be an invalid my entire life, and on

797
00:48:20.519 --> 00:48:23.239
<v Speaker 1>and on and on. And I was filled with these fears,

798
00:48:23.639 --> 00:48:26.159
<v Speaker 1>and so we took a month off from work and

799
00:48:26.239 --> 00:48:28.679
<v Speaker 1>Kay and I went to northern California, where my parents

800
00:48:28.719 --> 00:48:33.440
<v Speaker 1>lived out in the country in the redwoods. And while

801
00:48:33.440 --> 00:48:35.119
<v Speaker 1>we were there, one day, I got up in the

802
00:48:35.199 --> 00:48:37.679
<v Speaker 1>morning and I was so depressed because these fears were

803
00:48:37.719 --> 00:48:41.239
<v Speaker 1>just clawing at my mind all the time. And the

804
00:48:41.280 --> 00:48:43.440
<v Speaker 1>phone rang and my mom picked it up and she

805
00:48:43.559 --> 00:48:46.559
<v Speaker 1>handed it to Kay and the man said, is this

806
00:48:46.599 --> 00:48:50.480
<v Speaker 1>where Rick Warren is staying? And they said, yes, Can

807
00:48:50.559 --> 00:48:52.679
<v Speaker 1>I talk to him? She said yes, She hands me

808
00:48:52.719 --> 00:48:56.719
<v Speaker 1>the phone. This guy says, Rick, we've never met. I

809
00:48:56.719 --> 00:48:59.119
<v Speaker 1>don't know you, you don't know me. I'm calling from

810
00:48:59.199 --> 00:49:02.239
<v Speaker 1>San Diego. But I heard that you were going through

811
00:49:02.280 --> 00:49:05.320
<v Speaker 1>a tough time, and I just want to give you

812
00:49:06.000 --> 00:49:10.320
<v Speaker 1>a verse, and it is this, God is two Timothy

813
00:49:10.360 --> 00:49:13.679
<v Speaker 1>one seven. God has not given us a spirit of fear,

814
00:49:14.679 --> 00:49:18.239
<v Speaker 1>but a spirit of power and love and self control.

815
00:49:19.639 --> 00:49:28.159
<v Speaker 1>And he hung up that verse changed my life. Here

816
00:49:28.199 --> 00:49:31.840
<v Speaker 1>it is on the screen. For the spirit that God

817
00:49:31.920 --> 00:49:39.320
<v Speaker 1>has given us does not make us fearful or timid. Instead,

818
00:49:39.679 --> 00:49:46.079
<v Speaker 1>his spirit fills us with power, love and self control.

819
00:49:46.119 --> 00:49:48.480
<v Speaker 1>Now get this, The more controlled you are by the

820
00:49:48.519 --> 00:49:50.960
<v Speaker 1>Holy Spirit, the more self control you've got to have,

821
00:49:52.360 --> 00:49:54.800
<v Speaker 1>you're going to have, you're going to have. Now get this.

822
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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people are afraid of the Holy Spirit.

823
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<v Speaker 1>It's like, I don't want to be filled with the spirit.

824
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<v Speaker 1>Fill the spirit. That'll turn me into some nut. I'm

825
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<v Speaker 1>gonna be some religious fanatic. I'm gonna be like some

826
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<v Speaker 1>of those people on TV saying, babe, you know, out

827
00:50:09.480 --> 00:50:12.920
<v Speaker 1>foul spirit a nicotine, you know, and I'm gonna be

828
00:50:12.960 --> 00:50:15.280
<v Speaker 1>falling over backwards and I'm gonna be you know, I'm

829
00:50:15.320 --> 00:50:21.119
<v Speaker 1>gonna lose control. Actually it's the exact opposite. The more

830
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<v Speaker 1>you have of the Holy Spirit, the more self controlled

831
00:50:23.679 --> 00:50:27.400
<v Speaker 1>you are. In fact, God does not give us it says,

832
00:50:27.400 --> 00:50:30.760
<v Speaker 1>a spirit of fear. So if you are afraid, that's

833
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<v Speaker 1>not from God. That fear is not from God. When

834
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<v Speaker 1>God's Spirit comes into your life, you're filled with love.

835
00:50:38.360 --> 00:50:40.840
<v Speaker 1>I want that you're filled with power. I want that

836
00:50:41.159 --> 00:50:44.280
<v Speaker 1>you're filled with self control. I want that. Okay, Holy Spirit,

837
00:50:44.320 --> 00:50:47.679
<v Speaker 1>I want all you got film me. It doesn't make

838
00:50:47.719 --> 00:50:50.599
<v Speaker 1>me some nut case. It makes me more human, It

839
00:50:50.639 --> 00:50:53.320
<v Speaker 1>makes me more natural, It makes me more loving, It

840
00:50:53.360 --> 00:50:57.280
<v Speaker 1>makes me more in self controlled, mastered by the Master.

841
00:50:57.679 --> 00:51:00.599
<v Speaker 1>I can master anything. Throw it at me, handle it.

842
00:51:01.440 --> 00:51:03.840
<v Speaker 1>Why because I can do all things through Christ, who

843
00:51:03.880 --> 00:51:08.280
<v Speaker 1>strengthens me. So the spirit in me doesn't make me

844
00:51:08.480 --> 00:51:11.519
<v Speaker 1>a lunatic or religious nut. To be filled with the

845
00:51:11.559 --> 00:51:15.199
<v Speaker 1>spirit makes me more self controlled. And believe me, brother,

846
00:51:15.400 --> 00:51:21.199
<v Speaker 1>you need more self control. The more spirit controlled I am,

847
00:51:21.440 --> 00:51:27.599
<v Speaker 1>the more self controlled I am. Number five, the three more.

848
00:51:27.679 --> 00:51:30.400
<v Speaker 1>Let's move these real quickly. The fifth thing we learned

849
00:51:30.400 --> 00:51:35.119
<v Speaker 1>from Romans eight is about the antidote the hopelessness, and

850
00:51:35.159 --> 00:51:40.280
<v Speaker 1>that's verses seventeen and eighteen. And the habit I want

851
00:51:40.320 --> 00:51:42.679
<v Speaker 1>you to learn to develop is to focus on the

852
00:51:42.800 --> 00:51:48.960
<v Speaker 1>long term, not the short term. Focus on the long term,

853
00:51:49.639 --> 00:51:54.639
<v Speaker 1>not the short term. You know, there's a very famous

854
00:51:54.760 --> 00:51:58.400
<v Speaker 1>study done by Harvard University, very very famous study that

855
00:51:58.599 --> 00:52:02.239
<v Speaker 1>found out that figured out that the more long term

856
00:52:02.280 --> 00:52:06.400
<v Speaker 1>you're thinking is the more successful you're going to be

857
00:52:06.440 --> 00:52:11.440
<v Speaker 1>in life. The shorter term you're thinking is the more

858
00:52:11.559 --> 00:52:15.559
<v Speaker 1>failure you're going to be in life. People who fail

859
00:52:15.599 --> 00:52:18.760
<v Speaker 1>at life have short term thinking. They're only thinking about today.

860
00:52:18.760 --> 00:52:20.599
<v Speaker 1>They're only thing about here and now, the only thing

861
00:52:20.599 --> 00:52:23.800
<v Speaker 1>about what feels good to me right now. But the

862
00:52:23.960 --> 00:52:28.400
<v Speaker 1>longer term you think, the more successful you'll be in life.

863
00:52:28.519 --> 00:52:32.559
<v Speaker 1>In fact, the longest term thinkers are those who are

864
00:52:32.679 --> 00:52:37.119
<v Speaker 1>most successful in life. Now, as a Christian, we can

865
00:52:37.159 --> 00:52:39.440
<v Speaker 1>win this one hands down because when we think in

866
00:52:39.880 --> 00:52:45.800
<v Speaker 1>terms of long term thinking, we call it eternity, because

867
00:52:45.800 --> 00:52:48.000
<v Speaker 1>we're not just thinking about life here on this earth.

868
00:52:48.400 --> 00:52:51.360
<v Speaker 1>We're not thinking about forty fifty years ahead. We're thinking

869
00:52:51.360 --> 00:52:54.599
<v Speaker 1>about trillions and trillions and trillions of years ahead. And

870
00:52:54.679 --> 00:52:57.280
<v Speaker 1>living in light of eternity is the key to being

871
00:52:57.320 --> 00:53:02.119
<v Speaker 1>the most successful you could possibly be thinking in long term. Now,

872
00:53:02.159 --> 00:53:04.960
<v Speaker 1>when you think in long term, you're able to handle

873
00:53:05.039 --> 00:53:08.719
<v Speaker 1>short term pain a whole lot better. You're able to

874
00:53:08.760 --> 00:53:14.599
<v Speaker 1>handle short term losses, short term failures, short term hindrances

875
00:53:14.800 --> 00:53:18.639
<v Speaker 1>because you're thinking long term. Here at Saddleback, we went

876
00:53:18.800 --> 00:53:22.559
<v Speaker 1>fifteen years without a building. A lot of pastors would

877
00:53:22.559 --> 00:53:25.800
<v Speaker 1>have given up not having a building for fifteen years.

878
00:53:25.800 --> 00:53:29.400
<v Speaker 1>Saddleback groot over ten thousand people before we built this building.

879
00:53:31.119 --> 00:53:33.679
<v Speaker 1>But it didn't bother me because I was thinking long

880
00:53:33.760 --> 00:53:36.800
<v Speaker 1>term of in spending my entire life as a pastor

881
00:53:36.840 --> 00:53:39.480
<v Speaker 1>of one church. So fifteen years, so what that's just

882
00:53:39.519 --> 00:53:44.800
<v Speaker 1>fifteen years. I was thinking long term. And while you're

883
00:53:44.840 --> 00:53:47.840
<v Speaker 1>thinking about today and this week for your life as

884
00:53:47.880 --> 00:53:50.760
<v Speaker 1>your pastor who loves you, I'm always thinking ahead for

885
00:53:50.800 --> 00:53:52.639
<v Speaker 1>your life. I'm thinking about what are you going to

886
00:53:52.679 --> 00:53:54.440
<v Speaker 1>be at the end of the year, What are you

887
00:53:54.480 --> 00:53:56.159
<v Speaker 1>going to be at the end of five years, What

888
00:53:56.199 --> 00:53:57.679
<v Speaker 1>are you going to be at the end of ten years.

889
00:53:57.800 --> 00:54:01.119
<v Speaker 1>It's called decade of destiny, and that's why I'm thinking

890
00:54:01.119 --> 00:54:04.239
<v Speaker 1>about how to help you become all God wants you

891
00:54:04.280 --> 00:54:06.639
<v Speaker 1>to be. I'm doing some long term thinking for your

892
00:54:06.679 --> 00:54:08.679
<v Speaker 1>life and going where do I need to take you

893
00:54:09.039 --> 00:54:11.000
<v Speaker 1>so that you'll be what you want to be and

894
00:54:11.039 --> 00:54:14.360
<v Speaker 1>what God wants you to be in ten years. Most

895
00:54:14.400 --> 00:54:17.519
<v Speaker 1>people aren't thinking that. The whole society teaches you to

896
00:54:17.559 --> 00:54:19.679
<v Speaker 1>think short term, and we'll look at that when we

897
00:54:19.679 --> 00:54:25.639
<v Speaker 1>get to the world. Now. Romans Chapter eight, verses seventeen

898
00:54:25.679 --> 00:54:29.440
<v Speaker 1>and eighteen talks about focusing on the long term, and

899
00:54:29.480 --> 00:54:32.559
<v Speaker 1>it talks about the promises of God the next few verses.

900
00:54:33.199 --> 00:54:37.960
<v Speaker 1>Since we are his children, we will possess circle the

901
00:54:37.960 --> 00:54:40.440
<v Speaker 1>word will. That's a promise that's in the future. It's

902
00:54:40.519 --> 00:54:43.360
<v Speaker 1>not now. Doesn't say we do possess, we will. It's

903
00:54:43.440 --> 00:54:47.159
<v Speaker 1>long term. Since we are his children, we will possess

904
00:54:47.280 --> 00:54:51.920
<v Speaker 1>the blessings He keeps for his family, and we will

905
00:54:52.039 --> 00:54:55.639
<v Speaker 1>also possess this is really cool. We will also possess

906
00:54:56.519 --> 00:55:00.800
<v Speaker 1>with Christ what God has kept for him. Did you

907
00:55:00.920 --> 00:55:03.920
<v Speaker 1>know that The Bible says that when you get to heaven,

908
00:55:04.559 --> 00:55:07.519
<v Speaker 1>you're going to get rewarded. You will be rewarded for

909
00:55:07.679 --> 00:55:10.760
<v Speaker 1>how well you did with what you were given. What

910
00:55:10.880 --> 00:55:12.760
<v Speaker 1>did you do with your time? What did you do

911
00:55:12.840 --> 00:55:15.360
<v Speaker 1>with your money? What did you do with your influence?

912
00:55:15.920 --> 00:55:18.760
<v Speaker 1>What did you do with your talents, your time, your talents,

913
00:55:18.800 --> 00:55:22.559
<v Speaker 1>your treasure. This is called the stewardship of life. And

914
00:55:22.679 --> 00:55:24.559
<v Speaker 1>God has put stuff in your hands, and your steward

915
00:55:24.559 --> 00:55:28.119
<v Speaker 1>of you're going to be evaluated on that in heaven

916
00:55:28.159 --> 00:55:31.280
<v Speaker 1>and your rewards will be based on that, and you're

917
00:55:31.320 --> 00:55:33.599
<v Speaker 1>going to be rewarded. But not only that. The Bible

918
00:55:33.639 --> 00:55:36.360
<v Speaker 1>says you're going to be rewarded not just for how

919
00:55:36.760 --> 00:55:39.239
<v Speaker 1>well a steward you were. You're going to be rewarded

920
00:55:39.360 --> 00:55:42.199
<v Speaker 1>for what Jesus did. Did you know that? Look at

921
00:55:42.199 --> 00:55:46.480
<v Speaker 1>that verse again, it says, and also we will possess

922
00:55:46.800 --> 00:55:52.639
<v Speaker 1>with Christ what God has kept for him. Did you

923
00:55:52.719 --> 00:55:55.119
<v Speaker 1>know that? The Bible says that in heaven we are

924
00:55:55.119 --> 00:55:59.039
<v Speaker 1>going to co reign with Christ. We're going to be

925
00:55:59.119 --> 00:56:01.679
<v Speaker 1>heirs with Christ from the Father. We're going to co

926
00:56:01.760 --> 00:56:04.039
<v Speaker 1>reign with Christ. The easiest way for me to explain

927
00:56:04.119 --> 00:56:07.800
<v Speaker 1>that is, imagine in heaven this giant theater sign, like

928
00:56:07.840 --> 00:56:11.519
<v Speaker 1>a big Vegas sign that's flashing that says, now starring

929
00:56:11.679 --> 00:56:20.800
<v Speaker 1>for eternity Jesus Christ, co starring your name. That's what

930
00:56:20.800 --> 00:56:24.199
<v Speaker 1>it means to share in Christ's glory. You're going to

931
00:56:24.280 --> 00:56:27.519
<v Speaker 1>do that in heaven. So you need to focus not

932
00:56:27.679 --> 00:56:31.639
<v Speaker 1>on your little pity, petty pain right now, but on

933
00:56:31.719 --> 00:56:34.760
<v Speaker 1>the long term benefits of doing the right thing and

934
00:56:34.800 --> 00:56:38.360
<v Speaker 1>sharing in glory forever. Notice it says the rest of

935
00:56:38.360 --> 00:56:42.039
<v Speaker 1>that verse, for if we share Christ's suffering, we will

936
00:56:42.079 --> 00:56:46.639
<v Speaker 1>also share his glory. I consider that what we suffer

937
00:56:46.679 --> 00:56:49.559
<v Speaker 1>at this present time cannot be compared, in other words,

938
00:56:49.559 --> 00:56:53.039
<v Speaker 1>of small potatoes, with all the glory that is going

939
00:56:53.079 --> 00:56:58.800
<v Speaker 1>to be revealed in us. To us, he said, Yeah,

940
00:56:58.880 --> 00:57:01.960
<v Speaker 1>you know what, it's not always easy living for Christ.

941
00:57:02.000 --> 00:57:04.559
<v Speaker 1>It's not always easy doing the right thing. It's not

942
00:57:04.599 --> 00:57:09.000
<v Speaker 1>always easy making the moral decision. But the benefit long

943
00:57:09.119 --> 00:57:13.559
<v Speaker 1>term is going to far outlast the pain. You need

944
00:57:13.599 --> 00:57:18.559
<v Speaker 1>to focus long term, not short term. Now practical example,

945
00:57:18.639 --> 00:57:22.360
<v Speaker 1>Daniel plan. Daniel Plan means you put up with short

946
00:57:22.440 --> 00:57:26.800
<v Speaker 1>term pain and exercise and eating and things like that

947
00:57:27.000 --> 00:57:31.119
<v Speaker 1>for long term benefits, and you don't give up. Same

948
00:57:31.119 --> 00:57:34.880
<v Speaker 1>thing with Bible study, same thing with witnessing, same thing

949
00:57:34.920 --> 00:57:39.360
<v Speaker 1>with tithing giving of your money. You put up with

950
00:57:39.480 --> 00:57:44.639
<v Speaker 1>short term pain for long term benefit. Focus on the

951
00:57:44.679 --> 00:57:47.559
<v Speaker 1>long term. Not sure if you're focusing all in short term.

952
00:57:47.559 --> 00:57:51.559
<v Speaker 1>There's a one word for it. It's foolish. It's foolish.

953
00:57:51.760 --> 00:57:54.519
<v Speaker 1>If you're a college student, I beg you to not

954
00:57:54.679 --> 00:57:58.159
<v Speaker 1>focus on the here and now, the parties and the

955
00:57:58.159 --> 00:58:00.599
<v Speaker 1>fund and all that stuff, but focus on the long

956
00:58:00.679 --> 00:58:05.320
<v Speaker 1>term where you want to be. Number six. The sixth

957
00:58:05.360 --> 00:58:11.760
<v Speaker 1>habit is to remind myself that God is good and

958
00:58:11.840 --> 00:58:16.239
<v Speaker 1>in control. This is an application of what the Bible

959
00:58:16.320 --> 00:58:21.480
<v Speaker 1>teaches in Romans chapter eight. This is how God sets

960
00:58:21.559 --> 00:58:26.840
<v Speaker 1>us free from the self destructive weapon of bitterness. Remind

961
00:58:26.880 --> 00:58:30.039
<v Speaker 1>myself that God is good and in control, and you

962
00:58:30.079 --> 00:58:32.159
<v Speaker 1>are mean to remind yourself of that over and over

963
00:58:32.199 --> 00:58:35.880
<v Speaker 1>and over and over and over every single day. Now,

964
00:58:35.920 --> 00:58:38.679
<v Speaker 1>I don't have time to get into this, but in

965
00:58:38.800 --> 00:58:43.079
<v Speaker 1>verses nineteen to twenty five of Romans chapter eight, Paul

966
00:58:43.159 --> 00:58:47.280
<v Speaker 1>describes how sin has damaged the world. If I got

967
00:58:47.280 --> 00:58:49.559
<v Speaker 1>into this, the sermon would be twice as long. We

968
00:58:49.599 --> 00:58:51.199
<v Speaker 1>don't have time to get into it, so let me

969
00:58:51.239 --> 00:58:54.559
<v Speaker 1>just summarize. In verses nineteen to twenty five, Paul says,

970
00:58:55.079 --> 00:59:00.159
<v Speaker 1>everything in the world is broken. Everything in the world

971
00:59:00.280 --> 00:59:05.920
<v Speaker 1>has lost its original purpose. Everything in the world is suffering.

972
00:59:06.760 --> 00:59:10.679
<v Speaker 1>Everything in the world is in pain, and everything in

973
00:59:10.719 --> 00:59:15.239
<v Speaker 1>the world is frustrated because Sin broke it all down.

974
00:59:16.840 --> 00:59:18.800
<v Speaker 1>Everything is frustrated. The fact, look at this verse on

975
00:59:18.840 --> 00:59:23.159
<v Speaker 1>the screen, verse twenty. Everything created is subject to frustration,

976
00:59:24.320 --> 00:59:27.840
<v Speaker 1>waiting to be liberated, set free from me, waiting to

977
00:59:27.880 --> 00:59:32.000
<v Speaker 1>be liberated from its bondage to decay. All of creation

978
00:59:32.599 --> 00:59:39.920
<v Speaker 1>groans in pain, like childbirth, and we groan inwardly. We're going,

979
00:59:40.000 --> 00:59:43.000
<v Speaker 1>oh man, this is tough. This is hard, this is difficult.

980
00:59:43.199 --> 00:59:46.559
<v Speaker 1>Why is life so hard? Says the environment is groaning.

981
00:59:46.760 --> 00:59:50.079
<v Speaker 1>I think earthquakes, and I think you know, hurricanes, and

982
00:59:50.159 --> 00:59:52.760
<v Speaker 1>I think all the wacky weathers. There is the environment

983
00:59:52.880 --> 00:59:57.159
<v Speaker 1>groaning because it's broken. And we grown in pain because

984
00:59:57.199 --> 00:59:59.440
<v Speaker 1>relationships are broken. And later you're going to find out

985
00:59:59.480 --> 01:00:02.559
<v Speaker 1>that this Holy Spirit groans in pain for you. There

986
01:00:02.559 --> 01:00:06.119
<v Speaker 1>are three growns in this chapter. Now. He says that

987
01:00:06.159 --> 01:00:08.760
<v Speaker 1>the result of living in a broken world is pain,

988
01:00:09.039 --> 01:00:13.199
<v Speaker 1>and the result of pain is bitterness. And that's a

989
01:00:13.199 --> 01:00:16.400
<v Speaker 1>self destructive weapon. When I look out and I go,

990
01:00:17.400 --> 01:00:20.400
<v Speaker 1>he's got a nicer house than I do, she's got

991
01:00:20.440 --> 01:00:23.159
<v Speaker 1>a better job than I do. How come her kids

992
01:00:23.159 --> 01:00:26.320
<v Speaker 1>are like that? How come my? And you start comparing

993
01:00:26.559 --> 01:00:29.119
<v Speaker 1>and you start getting envious and you start getting jealous,

994
01:00:29.199 --> 01:00:32.039
<v Speaker 1>and then people hurt you and you get bitter and

995
01:00:32.079 --> 01:00:37.039
<v Speaker 1>you get grudges and you get resentful. That's a pain

996
01:00:37.079 --> 01:00:38.960
<v Speaker 1>that's going to eat you up. You got to learn

997
01:00:39.000 --> 01:00:41.679
<v Speaker 1>how to deal with that weapon of self destruction. And

998
01:00:41.760 --> 01:00:44.440
<v Speaker 1>the way you do it is remind yourself that God

999
01:00:44.519 --> 01:00:47.880
<v Speaker 1>is good and in control that God is good, is

1000
01:00:47.880 --> 01:00:50.719
<v Speaker 1>in control. The result of living in a broken world

1001
01:00:50.760 --> 01:00:56.199
<v Speaker 1>is pain, and the result of pain is bitterness. And

1002
01:00:56.239 --> 01:00:59.960
<v Speaker 1>as a result, we get bitter inside and we start

1003
01:01:00.079 --> 01:01:02.880
<v Speaker 1>getting resentful and lea fair life is unfair? Well, yeah,

1004
01:01:02.920 --> 01:01:06.480
<v Speaker 1>what else is new? Life is unfair? It's because it's broken.

1005
01:01:07.440 --> 01:01:10.079
<v Speaker 1>But the Bible says in Romans eight that there are

1006
01:01:10.119 --> 01:01:14.119
<v Speaker 1>four things you need to remember to get over bitterness.

1007
01:01:14.159 --> 01:01:19.079
<v Speaker 1>Now listen, pain in your life is not optional. But

1008
01:01:19.239 --> 01:01:25.639
<v Speaker 1>misery is pain in your life is You're going to

1009
01:01:25.679 --> 01:01:29.360
<v Speaker 1>have pain in your life. It's called life. Suffering in

1010
01:01:29.400 --> 01:01:33.159
<v Speaker 1>your life is not optional. You're going to suffer. Misery is.

1011
01:01:33.719 --> 01:01:40.599
<v Speaker 1>Moaning is optional. Bitterness is optional, and you overcome bitterness

1012
01:01:40.840 --> 01:01:45.800
<v Speaker 1>by remembering four magnificent truths. In Romans eight, Verse twenty

1013
01:01:45.840 --> 01:01:49.719
<v Speaker 1>six and twenty seven says this, the Holy Spirit is

1014
01:01:49.800 --> 01:01:52.719
<v Speaker 1>praying for me. You write write that down. The Holy

1015
01:01:52.800 --> 01:01:56.679
<v Speaker 1>Spirit is praying for me. That helps me overcome bitterness

1016
01:01:56.679 --> 01:01:58.679
<v Speaker 1>because no matter what I'm going through, I know God's

1017
01:01:58.679 --> 01:02:01.639
<v Speaker 1>on my side. He's praying for me. It says here

1018
01:02:01.800 --> 01:02:05.440
<v Speaker 1>the Spirit helps us with our weakness. And we don't

1019
01:02:05.440 --> 01:02:08.800
<v Speaker 1>know how to pray as we should, but the Spirit

1020
01:02:09.039 --> 01:02:14.800
<v Speaker 1>himself speaks to God for us. God's praying to himself.

1021
01:02:14.840 --> 01:02:17.400
<v Speaker 1>He's talking to himself about you. He said, how does

1022
01:02:17.440 --> 01:02:19.760
<v Speaker 1>God talk to himself? Oh, you don't ever do that.

1023
01:02:22.239 --> 01:02:25.119
<v Speaker 1>You talk to yourself all the time. When God talks

1024
01:02:25.159 --> 01:02:29.599
<v Speaker 1>to himself about you, that's called prayer. Okay. The Spirit

1025
01:02:29.639 --> 01:02:33.079
<v Speaker 1>of God, it says, prays for us and even begs

1026
01:02:33.119 --> 01:02:37.119
<v Speaker 1>God for us with deep feelings that words cannot explain.

1027
01:02:38.119 --> 01:02:41.199
<v Speaker 1>God sees what's in our hearts, and the spirit speaks

1028
01:02:41.239 --> 01:02:43.760
<v Speaker 1>to God for his people in the way that God wants.

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<v Speaker 1>So when you're no matter what you're going through, the

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<v Speaker 1>first thing, he goes, you know what, right now, the

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<v Speaker 1>Holy Spirit is praying for me. That's cool. Second thing,

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<v Speaker 1>God is using it all for good. That second thing,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember, God is using everything in my life for good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not all good good, but he's using it all

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<v Speaker 1>for good. The next verse says this, and we know

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<v Speaker 1>that in all things God works for the good of

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<v Speaker 1>those who love Him who've been called according to his purpose.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not all good, but God is using it all

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<v Speaker 1>for good. God is greater than my problems. God is

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<v Speaker 1>greater than my enemies. God is greater than my critics

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<v Speaker 1>and God is using it all for good in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Number three, God wants me to succeed. Did you know that?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you know that God wants you to succeed. He

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't want you to fail in your life. He wants

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<v Speaker 1>you to succeed in your life. God is not against

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<v Speaker 1>you if you're a Christian, if you're a believer, God

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<v Speaker 1>is for you. The Bible says in verse thirty one,

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<v Speaker 1>So what can we say against such wonderful things, about

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<v Speaker 1>such wonderful things, all the stuff we've talked about, What

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<v Speaker 1>do we say about all these wonderful things? If God

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<v Speaker 1>is for us, who can be against us? Remember, I'm

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01:04:08.840 --> 01:04:13.800
<v Speaker 1>in the family. My father is God, and so God

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<v Speaker 1>wants me to succeed. And finally, number four, God will

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<v Speaker 1>give me what I need. When I'm feeling blue and

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01:04:22.639 --> 01:04:26.239
<v Speaker 1>when I'm feeling bitter, I need to rememb mind myself

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<v Speaker 1>that God is good, He's in control, his spirit is

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<v Speaker 1>praying for me. He's using everything for good in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants me to succeed, and He's going to give

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<v Speaker 1>me what I need Verse thirty two. Since God did

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<v Speaker 1>not spare even his own son, but gave him up

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<v Speaker 1>for us, all won't God give us. Won't God who

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<v Speaker 1>gave us Christ give us everything else? Wow? He said,

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<v Speaker 1>If God loves you enough to let Jesus die on

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<v Speaker 1>the cross for you, don't you think he loves you

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<v Speaker 1>enough to help you with your debt? Don't you think

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<v Speaker 1>he cares enough to help you with your health? Elth

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01:05:00.760 --> 01:05:02.960
<v Speaker 1>don't you think he cares about you when your face

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01:05:03.039 --> 01:05:07.719
<v Speaker 1>breaks out? There is nothing in your life that God

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01:05:07.800 --> 01:05:10.599
<v Speaker 1>doesn't care about. I threw that one in because it

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01:05:10.639 --> 01:05:16.559
<v Speaker 1>seems so ridiculous. There is nothing in your life that

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01:05:16.719 --> 01:05:20.719
<v Speaker 1>God doesn't care about. You got set upset tummy. God

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01:05:20.719 --> 01:05:23.199
<v Speaker 1>cares about it. He knows every hair on your head.

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<v Speaker 1>God will give me what I need. If God didn't

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<v Speaker 1>spare his sun to solve my biggest problem, everything else

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<v Speaker 1>is small potatoes. It's all minor to him. There is

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<v Speaker 1>no big problem in your life. They're all small problems

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<v Speaker 1>to God. Now, finally we come to the last habit

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01:05:41.079 --> 01:05:43.559
<v Speaker 1>you need to develop. These are all mental habits. You

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<v Speaker 1>need to take this home, write it down, put it

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<v Speaker 1>on your windshield, of that windshield so you can't see

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01:05:49.320 --> 01:05:52.679
<v Speaker 1>it right, Put it on your mirror and you in

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01:05:52.719 --> 01:05:55.199
<v Speaker 1>your bathroom. Put it on your refrigerator. Put it on

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01:05:55.280 --> 01:05:58.119
<v Speaker 1>your visor in your car. So every day you can

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<v Speaker 1>remind yourself to practice these habits that defeat the habits

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<v Speaker 1>of self destruction. And the seventh habit destroys the seventh enemy,

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<v Speaker 1>which is insecurity. Now, the fact is, when you feel insecure,

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01:06:13.159 --> 01:06:16.920
<v Speaker 1>it really messes up your life. And the worst fear

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<v Speaker 1>that we have in insecurity is the rejection. Many of

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01:06:20.639 --> 01:06:25.199
<v Speaker 1>you have experienced rejection. You felt it from your parents.

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<v Speaker 1>Why can't you be like your sister or your brother?

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<v Speaker 1>You felt rejected by kids on the playground and they

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01:06:32.559 --> 01:06:35.440
<v Speaker 1>made fun of you and they made up names. You

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01:06:35.519 --> 01:06:39.280
<v Speaker 1>felt rejected by a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Maybe you've

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01:06:39.320 --> 01:06:44.960
<v Speaker 1>been rejected by a spouse. And nothing hurts more than rejection.

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<v Speaker 1>But one thing I can tell you this is God's

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<v Speaker 1>never going to reject you. And the seventh habit is

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<v Speaker 1>this trust that God will never stop loving me. Trust

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<v Speaker 1>that God will never never stop loving me. I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>the family. He cannot not love his family. He will

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<v Speaker 1>never stop loving me Romans eight thirty eight and thirty

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<v Speaker 1>nine in the chapter Now, I'm convinced that nothing ever

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<v Speaker 1>can ever separate us from His love. Death can't life can't.

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<v Speaker 1>The angels can't, demons can't. Satan can't separate you from God.

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<v Speaker 1>Our fears for today are worries about tomorrow. Even the

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<v Speaker 1>powers of hell can't keep God's love away. Whether we're

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<v Speaker 1>high above the sky or in the deepest ocean, nothing

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<v Speaker 1>in all creation will ever be able to separate us

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<v Speaker 1>from the love of God that is revealed in Christ.

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus our Lord. I may lose a lot of things

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<v Speaker 1>in life, but I'll never lose my salvation. You can't

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01:07:47.400 --> 01:07:51.719
<v Speaker 1>lose it because nothing. Once you're in God's hand. He's

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<v Speaker 1>not letting go of you. You may want to let go,

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01:07:54.400 --> 01:07:57.559
<v Speaker 1>but He's not letting go of you. You cannot lose

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01:07:57.800 --> 01:08:01.199
<v Speaker 1>your salvation. Now, my question is this, do you belong

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01:08:01.280 --> 01:08:04.159
<v Speaker 1>to Christ? Because none of these things are true in

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<v Speaker 1>your life unless you belong to Christ. Do you have

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<v Speaker 1>the Holy Spirit in your life? You say, well, I

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01:08:09.679 --> 01:08:12.639
<v Speaker 1>don't know. Well let's make certain of it right now.

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<v Speaker 1>That's bow our heads and I'm going to pray a

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<v Speaker 1>prayer as we close, and I'm going to ask you

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<v Speaker 1>to pray it. Say this in your heart, Dear Jesus Christ,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for all that you did for me. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you that there's no condemnation in my life. For all

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<v Speaker 1>the sin I've done, you took that condemnation. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>that you did what the law couldn't do. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>that you destroyed sins control. Thank you that you accomplished

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<v Speaker 1>the law in my life. And my righteousness is nothing,

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<v Speaker 1>but your righteousness is what ticket I get into heaven on.

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<v Speaker 1>Help me to never forget what you did for me.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I feel ashamed me, remember what you did

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<v Speaker 1>on the cross for me, Holy Spirit, I ask you

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<v Speaker 1>to give me better thoughts. I want to switch mindsets.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want the mindset of self destruction. I want

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<v Speaker 1>the mindset of life and peace. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>think my old ways. I want to think your new ways.

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<v Speaker 1>I invite you to put thoughts in my mind all

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<v Speaker 1>the time, for they are the truth. And help me

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<v Speaker 1>to remember and realize that I have a new ability

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<v Speaker 1>to say no. Lord. I used to just have willpower,

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<v Speaker 1>but now I've got spirit power. I'm not obligated to

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<v Speaker 1>give into those compulsions anymore. That if I ask you

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<v Speaker 1>for help, you'll help me and give me the strength

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<v Speaker 1>to say no. Thank you, that no temptation is too strong,

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<v Speaker 1>and when I'm afraid. Help me to turn my thoughts

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Help me to reme remember that I'm your child,

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01:10:02.479 --> 01:10:04.920
<v Speaker 1>and help me to cry out to you, Father, Daddy,

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01:10:05.359 --> 01:10:10.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm afraid to focus on my father, not my fears.

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<v Speaker 1>And help me to focus on the long term, not

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<v Speaker 1>the short term. You know the pain in my life,

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01:10:18.840 --> 01:10:22.119
<v Speaker 1>you know the suffering. I want you to use it

1151
01:10:22.159 --> 01:10:25.319
<v Speaker 1>for good and I want you to use it for

1152
01:10:25.399 --> 01:10:29.239
<v Speaker 1>your glory. And I want to look and focus long

1153
01:10:29.359 --> 01:10:32.760
<v Speaker 1>term on eternity, not just to hearing now. I want

1154
01:10:32.800 --> 01:10:37.279
<v Speaker 1>to do the right thing, not the easy thing. And

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<v Speaker 1>when I start to get bitter and I feel life

1156
01:10:40.399 --> 01:10:43.560
<v Speaker 1>is unfair, and when I feel hurt, help me to

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<v Speaker 1>remember that you God are good and you're in control,

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<v Speaker 1>that you are praying for me. Thank you for doing that,

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01:10:52.640 --> 01:10:55.159
<v Speaker 1>that you are working all things for good. Thank you

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01:10:55.199 --> 01:10:59.560
<v Speaker 1>for doing that. That you are for me, not against me.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for that, And that you didn't spare Jesus

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01:11:03.640 --> 01:11:06.840
<v Speaker 1>and so you'll give us whatever we need. Thank you

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01:11:06.880 --> 01:11:11.640
<v Speaker 1>for that. Most of all, I thank you that you

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<v Speaker 1>will never let go of me, You'll never stop loving me,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll never reject me. Thank you that I cannot lose

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<v Speaker 1>my salvation, No matter what else I lose on this planet,

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01:11:23.840 --> 01:11:26.560
<v Speaker 1>that you will never stop loving me. If you've never

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01:11:26.600 --> 01:11:29.680
<v Speaker 1>invited Jesus Christ in your heart, Jesus say, I want

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01:11:29.720 --> 01:11:33.079
<v Speaker 1>you to be my lord, my savior. I want you

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01:11:33.119 --> 01:11:35.279
<v Speaker 1>to be the manager of my life. I don't understand

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01:11:35.359 --> 01:11:40.039
<v Speaker 1>it all, but I want to trust in you completely.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for your grace to me. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>love you for the rest of my life, and I

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<v Speaker 1>ask you to accept me into your family by faith.

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<v Speaker 1>In your name, I pray Amen.
