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<v Speaker 1>It is the Minnesota Goodbye Friday Edition and special edition

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<v Speaker 1>because Bailey's on it.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, that other guy that what's his name that's on

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<v Speaker 2>our show. I think it's Steve Steeeeay.

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<v Speaker 1>No VOD gets to be on it today because Davy

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<v Speaker 1>is on vacation. So okay, first email, this is for Bailey.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a hello.

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<v Speaker 1>I was curious after listening to Bailey's had a vulnerability

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<v Speaker 1>story from Tuesday's show. And if Bailey doesn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about it, you don't have to, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>you'll be willing to. It says since your accident wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to break up when he resigned the lease, was it

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<v Speaker 1>awkward at first living with him like he was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to make the relationship work, or acting like you were

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<v Speaker 1>still dating and you were done with it, or it

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<v Speaker 1>took a while to get used to your new dynamic.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't imagine being in that situation of living with

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<v Speaker 1>someone you've broken up with for another full year. I

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<v Speaker 1>love everyone on the show, but Bailey, I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>a great addition and bring a fun and quirky personality

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<v Speaker 1>that I really enjoy listening to. And this is from Rachel,

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<v Speaker 1>So thanks, you want to talk about it. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>it was really weird.

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<v Speaker 3>So when we when, well, essentially I broke up with

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<v Speaker 3>him because if there is any issue or conflict at

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<v Speaker 3>all in our entire relationship, he would never bring it up.

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<v Speaker 3>So I would have to bring it up, and he'd

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<v Speaker 3>always get super defensive if I brought up any kind

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<v Speaker 3>of conflict to the point where I stopped bringing things up.

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<v Speaker 3>And so when I said I wanted to break up,

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<v Speaker 3>he said he didn't want to. He was like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to, and I said no, I really do.

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<v Speaker 3>He's like, well, we can make it work, like we

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<v Speaker 3>can both like change and for the better or whatever,

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<v Speaker 3>because all of the issues I was bringing up, Like

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<v Speaker 3>He's like, well, we can change, and I said I

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<v Speaker 3>don't think so, and he's like, well, let me let

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<v Speaker 3>me like show like I can change, Like we can

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<v Speaker 3>make at work. Not necessarily I can change. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>think he ever really said I will change. He just

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<v Speaker 3>said we can make this work. And I remember saying, like,

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<v Speaker 3>whatever you do, I can't guarantee that my resolve will

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<v Speaker 3>be any different, because I was like I had made

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<v Speaker 3>up my mind and like I had talked to so

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<v Speaker 3>many of my friends who had like helped me. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>I felt bad because he didn't have anyone to talk

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<v Speaker 3>to about it. I say that like a lot because

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<v Speaker 3>I do feel bad for him, but like I got

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<v Speaker 3>to stop kind of like enabling his sort of behavior

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<v Speaker 3>of like feel bad for me. I'm I'm just a

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<v Speaker 3>little baby kind of thing. Yes, but it's really hard

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<v Speaker 3>because I feel like that's what women do a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>And so then after that, I mentioned in the Hat

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<v Speaker 3>of Vulnerability that I went on a work trip, and

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<v Speaker 3>so on the work trip, I thought he was going

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<v Speaker 3>to be moving out, but like at that time, our

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<v Speaker 3>lease was still like for another month, so I knew

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<v Speaker 3>I would still have to live with him for at

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<v Speaker 3>least another month. And then after my work trip, I

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<v Speaker 3>came home. I was there for a day. He said

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<v Speaker 3>nothing about like us breaking up at all. He said

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<v Speaker 3>nothing about it, which was really really weird. And then

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<v Speaker 3>he went on a trip for like a week, so

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<v Speaker 3>then he was gone for a week, and then when

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<v Speaker 3>he came back, said nothing about it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I would just like stew on my long walks.

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<v Speaker 3>I had like a note in my notes app that

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<v Speaker 3>was just everything that I wanted to say to him,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was just like waiting for the end of

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<v Speaker 3>the lease because I was like, well, he's going to

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<v Speaker 3>move out, because that's what I said to the landlord.

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<v Speaker 3>And then he never moved out, okay, And it just

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<v Speaker 3>kind of became like a weird game of Chicken of

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<v Speaker 3>who was going to say something and no one ever

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<v Speaker 3>said anything because I realized like that I'm an I

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<v Speaker 3>was like a coward in this situation, Like I should

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<v Speaker 3>have said something. I should have said something said. But

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<v Speaker 3>it sucks when you're the only one who ever says

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<v Speaker 3>anything and then every time you say something, they get

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<v Speaker 3>super defensive. And I don't want like everyone and their

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<v Speaker 3>mom to hate this guy, because I don't hate him.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I have a lot of love for him,

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<v Speaker 3>and like I thought we were going to get married,

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<v Speaker 3>but a lot of the choices that he made, like

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<v Speaker 3>especially within this last year, have really pissed me off.

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<v Speaker 2>And so it's really like.

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<v Speaker 3>It's easy to be done with it, but like, as

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<v Speaker 3>he's packing stuff up right now, it's really hard to

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<v Speaker 3>like be mourning the life that I thought I was

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<v Speaker 3>going to have. Yeah, and I'm not going to have anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, No, it was really fucking weird. To answer

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<v Speaker 3>your question, it was really.

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<v Speaker 4>Weird, all right, No, it was really weird. I hated it.

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<v Speaker 3>I hated it so much, and I hated going home

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<v Speaker 3>This past year, I hated going home.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's just like, I mean, I have been in

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<v Speaker 1>some situations where I've had bed roommates where I've kind

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<v Speaker 1>of been like that, but like to have to consistently

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<v Speaker 1>go through that for a year in like this space

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<v Speaker 1>that is supposed to be like the space that you

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<v Speaker 1>like get to decompress, you get to relax, and for

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<v Speaker 1>like a year, you're kind of like, oh, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to go home. That is like so unfair to you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's insane. And I don't know. I have a friend

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<v Speaker 1>who I'll keep the details vague. But they got divorced

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<v Speaker 1>and they were like sitting at home one day after

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<v Speaker 1>the divorce went through and her partner wasn't living with

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<v Speaker 1>her anymore, and she was just like super sad thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about it. And then she also thought about how it's

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<v Speaker 1>no different though, than what it was when she was

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<v Speaker 1>married to this person, and so she was like, why

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<v Speaker 1>am I sad? This is the same thing I was

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<v Speaker 1>doing when I was like still married to this person,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, And now she has the freedom to do

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<v Speaker 1>the things she did because essentially their their lives didn't

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<v Speaker 1>end up aligning. She thought it was going to and

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't, you know, they didn't come to realize that

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<v Speaker 1>till after they were married. Yeah, so she also still

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<v Speaker 1>has a lot of love for this person and she

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<v Speaker 1>cares about them and thinks they're a good person. But like,

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<v Speaker 1>in the end, it was better that they were just

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<v Speaker 1>not together.

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<v Speaker 2>Your friend and I have a lot in common week

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<v Speaker 2>you talk.

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<v Speaker 1>So I will just say, like I can imagine the

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<v Speaker 1>range of emotions that you feel about it, because yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard because you did care about this person and

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<v Speaker 1>you saw this full life and now it's about to

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<v Speaker 1>like drastically change.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's a weird one. It's a weird one.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well there's your answer, Rachel. And also, if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to listen to Bailey's Hat of Vulnerability if you

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<v Speaker 1>missed it, she did it on Tuesday, so September third,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's in the seventh.

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<v Speaker 2>Hour on the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so you can listen to that if you missed

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<v Speaker 1>that entire story. So, okay, here's the next email. Says

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<v Speaker 1>I have event about recycling. I really wish we could

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<v Speaker 1>have recycling pick up every single week? Am I the

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<v Speaker 1>only one who has a full slash overflowing recycling bin

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<v Speaker 1>because it only gets picked up every other week? With

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<v Speaker 1>all of the bubbly cans my husband drinks the Amazon

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<v Speaker 1>package cardboard milk, jug sauce, and soup cans, it ends

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<v Speaker 1>up being so much recycling. Since recycling is supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be good, why can't we have it picked up every week? Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>our garbage can is only ever half full, so we

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<v Speaker 1>could wait to have garbage picked up every other week. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>wondering if anyone else is in our boat and would

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<v Speaker 1>really love to have recycling picked up every week. Compost

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<v Speaker 1>yard waists and garbage is picked up weekly, so odd

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<v Speaker 1>that recycling is the one that isn't. I'll likely send

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<v Speaker 1>an email to the city and ask if that's an option.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'm just clueless, and I don't know if this

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<v Speaker 1>person wants us to say their name, so I won't

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<v Speaker 1>say it. But I'm going to have a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a hot take on this, and you might not

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<v Speaker 1>like what I have to say. We don't have issues

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<v Speaker 1>with recycling every two weeks. Every once in a while,

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<v Speaker 1>sure like around Christmas, time, but I will say that

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<v Speaker 1>you might have like too much waste and you might

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<v Speaker 1>be doing too much online shopping if you're recycling, is

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<v Speaker 1>that full constantly? Oh and I just personally we've called

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<v Speaker 1>Dave out on this on the show before, so I

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<v Speaker 1>don't I'm not like talking shit right now. And Susan

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<v Speaker 1>get things on like like scheduled deliveries from Amazon, things

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<v Speaker 1>like floss and like stuff you can go get from Target,

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<v Speaker 1>which builds up so much waste. Yeah, And I just

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<v Speaker 1>I try my best to only buy things online like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I can only get online. I go

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<v Speaker 1>to Target for most things that I would need that

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<v Speaker 1>you can get I would never buy flows Amazon.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So like or I am guilty every once in a

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<v Speaker 1>while of being like influenced for something that maybe Target

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<v Speaker 1>might have, like this mosquito thing that's called Thermoicelle. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>they have that at Target, but I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>saw it on Amazon and I love it. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>mosquito repellent. So yes, that's something I bought on Amazon,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe I could have found it somewhere else.

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<v Speaker 2>But I will say, maybe just.

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<v Speaker 1>Look into some of the things you're buying and if

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<v Speaker 1>you're able to not buy it online, so you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have so much building up in your recycling. But also

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time, maybe it differs with how many bubbly.

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<v Speaker 2>Cans you said your husband try. Can you crush them? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I would crush them.

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<v Speaker 3>That'd be a fun activity of smashing cans to take

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<v Speaker 3>up less space.

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<v Speaker 1>But do you guys have anything to say about recycling

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<v Speaker 1>every week?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, I know. I also have an apartment.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I have a lot of I feel the

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<v Speaker 3>same way as this person, like I have a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of recycling in general, but a lot of it is

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<v Speaker 3>like cans of like diet coke, or like the boxes too,

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<v Speaker 3>like a cereal and whatever. But it does like accumulate

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<v Speaker 3>a lot. But then I'm just like, oh, I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>breaking down things right enough so they take up less space.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I doubt you're fulling or throwing full boxes with the

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<v Speaker 3>tape still on of Amazon boxes into the recycling bin.

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<v Speaker 3>But if so, use some sage advice break those down

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<v Speaker 3>to take them up less space.

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<v Speaker 1>And I do want to say I understand that recycling

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<v Speaker 1>is good and so like it can be reused in whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>So I get where you're coming from. I'm not saying

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<v Speaker 1>like it's awful that your garbage is like so full, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Please can you recycling yet?

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe try to consider if you're able to cut

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<v Speaker 1>down some of the boxes that you get because you

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<v Speaker 1>could buy them without having to order online.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe just maybe look into that.

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<v Speaker 1>like eggshells, food scraps, yeah, like banana peels, stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 2>It was so disgusting now that I looked back at it.

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<v Speaker 1>It would sit on our counter and she'd fill it up,

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<v Speaker 1>she like tills that up and uses it for soil

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff. So I grew up around having composts and

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I wouldn't put a banana piel and a garbage

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<v Speaker 1>for like soil purposes and maybe biale. You can correct

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<v Speaker 1>me if I'm wrong. There's probably other stuff you can

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, yeah, I would say mostly like soil stuff,

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<v Speaker 3>which now you say that, man, I should get a

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<v Speaker 4>But I just whatever, people are coming for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they're like your soil sucks. And I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Why as I saying that, that's where I look at it.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's because the soil does suck, and my garden's

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<v Speaker 4>I st have enough time in my data analyze your

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<v Speaker 2>But anyway, I should start composting.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we are going to get a little serious

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<v Speaker 1>for one email here Vaunt. You weren't here, but yesterday

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<v Speaker 1>we did talk on the Minnesota Goodbye about the awful

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<v Speaker 1>tragedy that happened at Park Tavern and killed two people

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<v Speaker 1>because the drunk driver drove into the patio And someone

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<v Speaker 1>emailed and says, just chiming in, I did hear that

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<v Speaker 1>the drunk driver that drove into the patrons at the

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<v Speaker 1>Park Tavern did have a valid license. His last DWI

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<v Speaker 1>was back in twenty fifteen. He has had his license revoked, suspended,

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<v Speaker 1>slash suspended four or five times since the nineteen eighties.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree he should have had his He should have

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<v Speaker 1>had his license taken away. But after a second one,

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<v Speaker 1>you get one. Okay, you get a second one, you

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<v Speaker 1>are done. But like we said, I think we said

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<v Speaker 1>this on the podcast, it's not going to stop someone,

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<v Speaker 1>right Like, whether you have a license or not, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not going to stop someone. And I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>a fucking idiot and don't risk taking someone's life and

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<v Speaker 1>order a goddamn uber ruber.

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<v Speaker 2>I just it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I get very upset about. I don't have a

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<v Speaker 1>But it's just a disgusting thing when like you can

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<v Speaker 1>leave your car somewhere if you accidentally ended up drinking

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<v Speaker 1>too much and pay for an uber like I know

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<v Speaker 1>that ubers can get to be expensive, but like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>it's much better to maybe be in a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of debt than do what this fucking guy did. So okay,

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<v Speaker 1>moving on, we're gonna keep it more light hearted. Now

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<v Speaker 1>this looks like a press release, so we'll get that one.

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<v Speaker 1>This one says, can Bailey please do a daily Bailey

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<v Speaker 1>on what she ideally would like for her birthday now

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe even back in the day, and then promote

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<v Speaker 1>the birthday party could be fun if people bring her

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<v Speaker 1>gifts to her party or send things to the station

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<v Speaker 1>an idea. So we could do that on the Daily, Bailey.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you want to speak about it on the

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<v Speaker 1>podcast too, yeah, let's do that.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a question about Charter real quick. I wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>ask you this yesterday. Yeah, why did Mama Ronda and

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<v Speaker 4>or your dad throw your sister Madison a birthday once?

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<v Speaker 4>But not you?

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<v Speaker 2>So my mom I don't think she listens to the

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<v Speaker 2>Minnesota Goodbye.

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<v Speaker 3>But like my mom said that we both got one

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<v Speaker 3>birthday party and we got to choose when our birthday

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<v Speaker 3>party was. And so my sister like, we each got

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<v Speaker 3>one birthday party like in our childhood, and you had

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<v Speaker 3>to choose when you wanted it. And she said, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>Bailey never chose one, So that's why she never got one.

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<v Speaker 2>But like, in my humble defense, I'm a child. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a kid.

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<v Speaker 3>How am I supposed to choose when to have it?

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<v Speaker 3>And also like her telling us that because I think

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<v Speaker 3>she said it to Dave on air at some point.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, when like her saying that was news to me.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't remember having to choose my own birthday party,

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<v Speaker 3>so clearly my sister chose it when she was eight,

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<v Speaker 3>and I remember she invited like, I don't know, ten

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<v Speaker 3>twelve girls, and my mom was pissed because she had

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<v Speaker 3>told her she could invite like four or whatever, and

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<v Speaker 3>so my sister invited a butt ton of girls.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, we just it.

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<v Speaker 3>Like at the time, it wasn't weird to me because

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<v Speaker 3>I never considered having one, because no one ever threw

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<v Speaker 3>me one. Like the closest I had to a birthday

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<v Speaker 3>party was when I turned one and my family was

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<v Speaker 3>around to watch me eat a cupcake.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. Yeah, and that's kind of it.

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<v Speaker 3>And like my parents were divorced and my mom had custody,

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<v Speaker 3>so like my dad wouldn't throw me a birthday party either,

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<v Speaker 3>because I probably wasn't at my dad's house on my birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, like we would just probably make a cake.

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<v Speaker 3>Like me and my dad have birthdays one day apart

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<v Speaker 3>from each other, so we'd just make two cakes and

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<v Speaker 3>we would eat the cakes together. That's kind of like it, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>but yeah, it's I don't want to like poop on

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<v Speaker 3>my mom because I love my mom's so much.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, that's why your birthday.

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<v Speaker 4>So now my birthday sleep of demands.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, I can start talking about it next week

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<v Speaker 3>on Daily Bailey probably, But first of all, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>need anything. You don't need to bring me anything that's

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<v Speaker 3>really sweet because now I'm old now, like I'm in

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<v Speaker 3>my thirties.

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<v Speaker 2>The stuff that I want is like.

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<v Speaker 3>Mid century modern furniture, and you're not going to go

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<v Speaker 2>That as soone brings a dresser, like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>It's such a beautiful, like atomic design.

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<v Speaker 2>So no, I don't need anything.

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<v Speaker 3>I consider it at one point in time it would

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<v Speaker 3>be kind of cool to like buy gifts that you

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<v Speaker 3>would buy for kids, and then I could donate all

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<v Speaker 3>of them to like some kind of charity. That would

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<v Speaker 3>be sort of fun. I don't know, I'm it's still

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<v Speaker 3>like kind of new the whole idea that I'm having

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<v Speaker 3>a birthday party in the first place, so like, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not sure exactly what it looks like, but I know

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<v Speaker 3>that we're giving out like T shirts and stuff, so

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<v Speaker 3>we're giving you gifts at my birthday party. Please come

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<v Speaker 3>to my birthday party. I have a fear that.

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<v Speaker 2>No one will be there. Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 3>So I know people will come, but like I don't

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<v Speaker 3>want it to be like six people in a giant

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<v Speaker 3>room that it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not gonna be that. I promise people are gonna

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<v Speaker 1>come out. We've been talking about having a birthday party

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<v Speaker 1>for you since like before you were on the show,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously like officially on the show, I should say. And

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<v Speaker 1>I just think like people are hyped to get like

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<v Speaker 1>give you this joy that you didn't like I guess

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't get as a child. I don't even honestly remember.

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<v Speaker 1>I think my parents threw me birthday parties when I

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<v Speaker 1>was younger. I don't even remember anymore because I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I was so young. But yeah, birthday parties are

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<v Speaker 1>just like a staple.

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<v Speaker 2>Of I don't know, the childhood.

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<v Speaker 1>But also, like you get to a point I think, like, Bailly,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll be happy to have this, and maybe you'll be

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<v Speaker 1>different than me, But like, I have no desire for

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<v Speaker 1>anyone to celebrate my age anymore, because now I'm at

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<v Speaker 1>a point where I'm like, nah, I kind of want

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<v Speaker 1>to forget about my birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>How old are you, Jenny, I'm thirty four.

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<v Speaker 3>That nor Yes, Yeah, I gotta find the actual sound

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<v Speaker 3>so I can play the sound.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Bailey, we'll get into that on the Daily Bailey,

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<v Speaker 1>but we got to wrap up the Minnesota goodbye. Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for your emails today, but send emails in Ryan Show

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<v Speaker 1>at KDIWB dot com and Dave will be back on Monday.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll talk to you in three years.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for listening.