Speaker 1: Is there anything better in life than a great server?
Speaker 1: I mean when you go into a restaurant and they
Speaker 1: greet you promptly and they bring over your water, and
Speaker 1: they're like, hey, how you folks doing. My name is Bailey.
Speaker 1: I'll be taking care of you tonight. Can I get
Speaker 1: you started with some bread? Can you get you the
Speaker 1: mushroom caps with a cocktail? Anything like that, And they're
Speaker 1: prompt and they come back and they're energetic. Is there
Speaker 1: anything better than a good server?
Speaker 2: I like the servers who are good looking men who
Speaker 2: then like flirt with like a table full of like
Speaker 2: fifty year old women. They're like, Oh, someone's having fun tonight,
Speaker 2: and then all the women are like I like those
Speaker 2: servers a lot. I think those are cute and fun experiences.
Speaker 1: I just love what It's just the joy of a
Speaker 1: great server. And I would say most servers are pretty good.
Speaker 1: We were at I'm not gonna plug them because I
Speaker 1: don't want to sound like it was a plug, but
Speaker 1: we were at a like a nice dinner place on
Speaker 1: Saturday night after the movie, and the guy was just
Speaker 1: so enthusiastic and helpful, and you know, like I don't know,
Speaker 1: just he was great and he was fast, And there's
Speaker 1: nothing worse than a bad server or slow service. Because
Speaker 1: you go to a restaurant and you're there to like
Speaker 1: have a good time and enjoy your meal, and you
Speaker 1: sit down. The first thing you notice is nobody has
Speaker 1: paid any attention to you, and it's been fifteen minutes,
Speaker 1: and you're like, oh God, well is this the way
Speaker 1: the night's going to go. So then they come by
Speaker 1: and they're like, oh guy, hi folks. Yeah, my name's Bailey,
Speaker 1: me taking carry you whatever? Can I get you something
Speaker 1: from the bar? Okay, Y'll have a Cosmo and a
Speaker 1: Gin and Tonic. And they take forever, and you're like god.
Speaker 1: And then they finally amble by and they're like, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: you guys ready to order? Well, fuck yeah, we're ready
Speaker 1: to order. Been sitting here since the Reagan administration. So
Speaker 1: you order and they're like okay, they write it down
Speaker 1: and they disappear, and then they know takes forever, So
Speaker 1: it's nothing. There's the joy of a great server, shout
Speaker 1: out great servers, and then the disappointment of a bad
Speaker 1: server with slow service.
Speaker 2: I saw a TikTok over the weekend that kind of
Speaker 2: went viral of this man who went to Red Lobster
Speaker 2: just like on his lunch break from work because he
Speaker 2: wanted this like fancy crab boil that they have, and
Speaker 2: he said he never had crab before. And his server
Speaker 2: like stood by him and like taught him how to
Speaker 2: like crack open all the legs and like get all
Speaker 2: of the meat out and like every single little thing,
Speaker 2: not just like oh, you just crack it. And then
Speaker 2: she was like, Okay, then you take this part off
Speaker 2: and there's meeting here, and then you take this part
Speaker 2: off and there's meeting here, and.
Speaker 3: Like whatever else you need, let me know.
Speaker 2: And he kept like stopping her and being like, wait,
Speaker 2: I don't know exactly how to do this, but she
Speaker 2: like walked him through this crab boil and he's like
Speaker 2: this serf like server of the year over here, because
Speaker 2: she was just this like nice middle aged lady who
Speaker 2: was the waitress at Red Lobster.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's awesome, Like we.
Speaker 2: Need to tell Red Lobster how do we get a
Speaker 2: hold of Red Lobster Corporate or whatever?
Speaker 3: But that that would be nice be one of those
Speaker 3: kinds of servers.
Speaker 1: I never had any seafood, even shrimp, until I was
Speaker 1: probably twenty years old. Really never had crab legs, never
Speaker 1: had anything, but you know, trout and flounder, halibu or whatever.
Speaker 1: And now I love the fishy or the bet. The
Speaker 1: more disgustingly fishy it is, the more I like it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, as a kid, I used to say I didn't
Speaker 2: like it, but I think I was just trying to
Speaker 2: be like quirky and different. I love seafood because I
Speaker 2: and I have a reason too. There's never a weird
Speaker 2: part in seafood as far as I'm concerned, like fish,
Speaker 2: usually because calamari is all like a weird part. But
Speaker 2: you know how like you eat steak and you get
Speaker 2: a like gristle or something, yeah, or a weird fatty
Speaker 2: part and you're like, I can't eat this anymore.
Speaker 3: Fish like a piece of salmon. There's never a bad part,
Speaker 3: never a bad part.
Speaker 1: Well that's kind of true. Yeah. Have you ever eaten
Speaker 1: fish and then realize you turned it over and you've
Speaker 1: been eating the skin of the fish as well.
Speaker 3: I thought you could eat the.
Speaker 1: Well, I think you can, but it's better to not.
Speaker 3: Oh no, well, I've eaten it plenty of time.
Speaker 1: It's up to you, so let us know. Great server stories,
Speaker 1: horrible server stories. Did you ever get up and walk
Speaker 1: out of a restaurant because the service was so bad?
Speaker 1: We were at seven one time downtown. We love seven seven,
Speaker 1: and they lost our reservation, so we met a reservation.
Speaker 1: We show up. They're like, we don't have you in here,
Speaker 1: but we can and seat you at a bar table.
Speaker 1: So they sat us at a table which was the
Speaker 1: most awkward table right inside the entrance. It was like
Speaker 1: by the coat rack and it was like and they
Speaker 1: brought us our drinks and they never came back.
Speaker 3: What the heck?
Speaker 1: So we ordered, you know, fifteen or twenty dollars drinks
Speaker 1: each and they never came back. And I said, we're
Speaker 1: fucking leaving. Yeah, And I said, if they call me
Speaker 1: and complain and say they try, I want to, you know,
Speaker 1: arrest me or whatever. I'll pay it, but I'm not
Speaker 1: going to sit here and wait because they never came back.
Speaker 1: So we drank some of our drinks and we you
Speaker 1: know what we did. I think we went to like
Speaker 1: the Macaroni Grill.
Speaker 3: Or somebody sings so Delicious?
Speaker 1: All right, emails here we go. This one says, I'm
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Speaker 1: I regularly hear recommendations on Netflix exclusive shows and movies,
Speaker 1: but I rarely hear from other services like Hulu, Max,
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Speaker 1: Been a handful of times when Dave has hyped up
Speaker 1: something for me, only to be disappointed after watching it.
Speaker 1: Yet I feel like Dave and I have the same
Speaker 1: sense of humor, and ninety percent of the time I
Speaker 1: do like what he recommends. I love the show and
Speaker 1: listen every day. Honestly, I'm, of course not sponsored by
Speaker 1: Netflix Race.
Speaker 3: We were sponsored by Netflix.
Speaker 1: We create because that's my first I don't turn on
Speaker 1: local TV, I don't turn on Hulu, I don't turn
Speaker 1: on Max or Prime. My button, I turn on Power,
Speaker 1: which you don't even have to do. You can actually
Speaker 1: just push the Netflix button. That's my go to, that
Speaker 1: is my home screen, and you know, for me, to
Speaker 1: switch to Max or Hulu. I have to hear something
Speaker 1: recommended by you, So not you, Bailey, but somebody listening.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I feel the same way like Netflix. In
Speaker 2: my little like list on my Roku of different streaming services,
Speaker 2: Netflix is just the first one, but like right now
Speaker 2: I'm watching The Bear and the Bear is on Hulu.
Speaker 2: So like sometimes if I am scrolling, like especially if
Speaker 2: I want to watch a movie or something, I'll go
Speaker 2: to Hulu or Prime because they have movies as well.
Speaker 2: But like, I don't know, I think it's the interface
Speaker 2: of Netflix. It's just so much I don't know, more
Speaker 2: like inviting and easy to maneuver.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's categorized. Yeah, it's got little previews at the top,
Speaker 1: which is nice.
Speaker 2: Yeah, versus Prime, which feels like I open up Prime
Speaker 2: and it's like, do you want to watch Shark Nato four?
Speaker 2: Like no, I don't want to watch Shark Nato four.
Speaker 2: So I feel like the algorithm of Netflix just gets
Speaker 2: me more and it just seems more inviting.
Speaker 1: I think they've done it right. They really have next
Speaker 1: one please don't say. My name's kind of long. And
Speaker 1: we'll see how this goes. I have not pre read it.
Speaker 1: I've been listening since I've been riding the bus in
Speaker 1: middle school. I'm thirty five now. I currently listen to
Speaker 1: every minute of the show and the Minnesota Goodbye via
Speaker 1: the app when I'm going about my day. Needs some help.
Speaker 1: I've been with my boyfriend for over a year. He
Speaker 1: is also early thirties. Love of my life. It's the
Speaker 1: healthiest relationship I've ever been in, and I've truly never
Speaker 1: been happier. The other day, he told me that he
Speaker 1: wants to sleep with other people, not now, but someday.
Speaker 1: He says, it's just something that he needs to do.
Speaker 1: I didn't know how to respond, at which he told
Speaker 1: me to take my time to think about it. We
Speaker 1: talked about it a little. He said it's not something
Speaker 1: he would like to do all the time, but maybe
Speaker 1: once or twice a year. He said threesomes are an option. Again,
Speaker 1: I don't know how I feel about that, and he's
Speaker 1: stressed that he had no timeline on this for himself.
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do, and I have no
Speaker 1: one in my life I can talk to about this.
Speaker 1: I want to be supportive of him, but how do
Speaker 1: I become okay with this? He and I have always
Speaker 1: had incredible communications. In fact, he said he was stressed
Speaker 1: for weeks about telling me. I'm absolutely certain he has
Speaker 1: never and would never cheat on me. I might sound naive,
Speaker 1: but I'm not. He truly such an amazing guy. I
Speaker 1: don't feel like he is pressuring me to be okay
Speaker 1: with this. I already told him that if it's between
Speaker 1: him being okay with this or breaking up, I would
Speaker 1: absolutely want to be with him. I never thought i'd
Speaker 1: be the kind of person that would consider this, but
Speaker 1: he has helped me grow and experience new things sexually.
Speaker 1: I know this lifestyle is for some people, but no
Speaker 1: one I know of personally, and I just can't get
Speaker 1: over him thinking of him making someone else feel the
Speaker 1: way he makes me feel. I don't know which is worse,
Speaker 1: if he becomes emotionally attached to someone else or just
Speaker 1: them for sex. Any insight you or the listeners might
Speaker 1: have would be great. What kind of questions or boundaries
Speaker 1: do I need to bring up with him? Thank you
Speaker 1: and dart lickety lick the girl with nonation. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I think that if you ask some people
Speaker 1: who have an open relationship, they'd be like, yes, it's
Speaker 1: the healthiest thing ever. And I think other people just
Speaker 1: as many people or more would say yes, that led
Speaker 1: to unhappiness, mistrust, discussed, cheating, that type of thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think if that's like a route you want
Speaker 2: to go on, it definitely requires like a lot more
Speaker 2: you know, communication, conversation then, especially like communication wise, Like
Speaker 2: if that is a thing that you guys are doing,
Speaker 2: you'll have to like communicate constantly, because I think the
Speaker 2: thing that really does kind of kill it in the
Speaker 2: end is having an open relationship but not being honest
Speaker 2: about what it is that you're doing or what it
Speaker 2: is that you want. And I'm sure like a therapist would,
Speaker 2: like a couple's therapy would be helpful in any situation
Speaker 2: regardless if this is the path you're going down, but
Speaker 2: even more so because I think we're not like raise,
Speaker 2: like all people like raised in a world where that's
Speaker 2: a normal thing. So in your brain, your brain's like
Speaker 2: hardwired to be like this isn't normal, this is weird
Speaker 2: and different and wrong.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So going.
Speaker 2: Through like therapy to like help you through it will
Speaker 2: I think make it easier to confront.
Speaker 1: I don't know, and I'm against it if you I
Speaker 1: have to go through therapy to be okay with it,
Speaker 1: then you're not going to be okay with it, right.
Speaker 1: That's just kind of what my conclusion would be.
Speaker 2: Though I do think therapy would would be an avenue
Speaker 2: to teach yourself about it. So maybe like becoming wiser
Speaker 2: to it will help you be more comfortable with it,
Speaker 2: because again, if we're not, like, if we don't come
Speaker 2: up in a world where it's a normal thing, then
Speaker 2: of course we're going to be like, I'm not okay
Speaker 2: with this, But it's probably just because we don't know
Speaker 2: about it, we're not informed.
Speaker 1: If I really loved someone intimately and I love that
Speaker 1: person and they are my person, and they came home
Speaker 1: from a weekend of banging some guy in still Water
Speaker 1: at the Lowell End and having a great lot of
Speaker 1: hot sex, I couldn't deal with that. I would be like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm sorry, but I would not want
Speaker 1: to be like, and it's not a physical repulsion thing
Speaker 1: like oh, I'm kissing you where he had just been,
Speaker 1: you know, having said whatever, it's just like it's just
Speaker 1: kind of repulsive to me.
Speaker 3: What if you're getting it too with somebody else.
Speaker 1: I had not thought about that one, but I would
Speaker 1: not expect her to be okay with that either. Let's
Speaker 1: say I said to Susan, Yeah, I want to have
Speaker 1: an open marriage, and I'm going to go to Stillwater
Speaker 1: and hang out all the weekend with Carrie at the
Speaker 1: Lowell End, and I'm going to come home and act
Speaker 1: like everything's okay, and you're supposed to ask me, how
Speaker 1: is dinner? Did Carrie have a good time? Right? No,
Speaker 1: I would not expect And that's just me. I don't
Speaker 1: know how it works. Maybe you have an insight on it,
Speaker 1: maybe you know something about it. I don't know any
Speaker 1: couples that have an open relationship that I know.
Speaker 3: Of, and I know plenty and they all see you
Speaker 3: really Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well, I have one friend and she's married, and they're
Speaker 2: both like dating other people and they talk openly about
Speaker 2: dates that they're going to go on okay, which again
Speaker 2: feels weird to me because that's not like a life
Speaker 2: that I have come up in. So it always feels
Speaker 2: so awkward when one of them she goes like, oh,
Speaker 2: I have a date tonight, and her husband's sitting right there,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, he's right there.
Speaker 1: To me, that seems like it's unsustainable. I don't they
Speaker 1: even do.
Speaker 3: It for like a year. He married for about like
Speaker 3: seven Okay.
Speaker 1: It's been a year. I don't know. To me, it
Speaker 1: seems unsustainable.
Speaker 3: Because it doesn't because it's not normal for you.
Speaker 1: But it is not normal for me. I don't know.
Speaker 1: But but I don't think that humans are naturally monogamous.
Speaker 1: They're like, oh, geese date for life. Well, yeah, because
Speaker 1: they're geese. They don't have the thought systems that there's
Speaker 1: no geese porn. There's no gees.
Speaker 3: He's a body of sexy geese.
Speaker 1: Hees live about four years, we live seventy five years.
Speaker 1: We get tired of the same old sex. Okay, next one.
Speaker 1: Not sure, Angelique, right, it's not sure. If you can
Speaker 1: talk about it in the podcast are online because I
Speaker 1: was not sure what company Carson works for. I know
Speaker 1: he works in the music industry, but I don't know
Speaker 1: if he works for Live Nation. I will be listening
Speaker 1: as I always do, to the Morning show and the
Speaker 1: Minnesota Goodbye for any comments, Angelique, he does not work
Speaker 1: for Live Nation. He's basically an independent person. Right now,
Speaker 1: at this very moment, he is in Lithuania. He is
Speaker 1: touring with David Kushner, and it is I think coming
Speaker 1: up on the night time. It's they're about twelve ish
Speaker 1: hours ahead, maybe eight or ten whatever, so it's night
Speaker 1: when he's over there they do the show. I think
Speaker 1: today was their day off, so they went sight seeing
Speaker 1: and then cool. Yeah, it look cool. It's like old
Speaker 1: churches and castles or whatever. And then they usually go out.
Speaker 1: They go out to get you know, food and drinks
Speaker 1: and whatever. They don't go clubbing. And then tomorrow is
Speaker 1: a work day and then they get ready all day
Speaker 1: with sound check and food and hotels. And Carson is
Speaker 1: so funny. He's working with David Kushner. David Kushner loves golf.
Speaker 1: So Carson on his own volition made a tea time
Speaker 1: in every city they are in with David Kushner to
Speaker 1: play golf.
Speaker 3: Smart smart move.
Speaker 1: And I said, Carson, that is how you That is
Speaker 1: why you do so well, because a lot of people
Speaker 1: would have never thought about that one. And I said,
Speaker 1: will he play all of them? He's like, yeah, probably not,
Speaker 1: but I want to give the option. That is David
Speaker 1: stre release. He loves to play golf. So Carson looked
Speaker 1: up Lithuanian fucking golf courses.
Speaker 3: And who knew they were there too? Who knew they're everywhere?
Speaker 3: That's cool?
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, let me see if I got time for
Speaker 1: one week, I might have time for one more. Hold on,
Speaker 1: let's see. No, actually I'm out of time because the
Speaker 1: dog bit longer. I want to take my electric bike
Speaker 1: from Eric's bike shop out. I haven't ritten it in
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks because I've been either out of
Speaker 1: town or way too busy doing other things. So I
Speaker 1: want to take that out for a ride. What about you?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Nothing, really, Probably go on a walk if it's not
Speaker 2: too like disgustingly hot.
Speaker 3: Probably are we going in the plane this weekend?
Speaker 1: We might? Do you want to go on the plane
Speaker 1: this weekend?
Speaker 3: I got nothing going on this weekend? Okay, I might.
Speaker 1: I might well look at a time and see what's
Speaker 1: good time for us to go on the plane. I'm
Speaker 1: taking my friend Kelly, who is a cop, and her
Speaker 1: two rugrats up for a flight tomorrow, meet him up
Speaker 1: in a Noka. She's got two little kids. They've both
Speaker 1: been flying with me before, and so they are like, when.
Speaker 3: Is Dave going to take us up in his airplane?
Speaker 1: So we're going to do that speaking of airplane pictures,
Speaker 1: if you have not seen it, go check out the
Speaker 1: video of me and Alison flying every year annually for
Speaker 1: twenty nine years. I would have never ever thought it
Speaker 1: would last this long, but sure enough it has. That
Speaker 1: is it for the Minnesota Goodbye. Send those emails server stories.
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