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<v Speaker 1>Welcome, Welcome to the podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Still Fun is the name of the podcast, and

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<v Speaker 2>we are your host for the afternoon. We are evening

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<v Speaker 2>whenever you're listening. Fallon and Jenny are names.

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<v Speaker 3>When you listen at one am, one Fallon because it's posted,

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<v Speaker 3>or it's it two am.

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<v Speaker 1>I do it at one am.

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<v Speaker 2>For all of the mothers out there getting up in

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<v Speaker 2>the middle of the night with their children.

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<v Speaker 3>You think that's this is what they want to listen to.

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<v Speaker 2>Or the overnight worker. Yes, because they're like delirious and

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<v Speaker 2>they're tired. That's extra funny. Yes, that idea that you're

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<v Speaker 2>driving home from a wackado shift, because like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>those night shifts are crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I could never.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I know I couldn't either. But thanks for listening

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<v Speaker 3>at whatever time of the day that you do listen.

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<v Speaker 3>We appreciate you.

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<v Speaker 2>This weekend, we both had big weekends. I went to

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<v Speaker 2>Disney World without children, which is glorious. Might I recommend

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<v Speaker 2>so you went with the Jason Show.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was so.

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<v Speaker 2>Jason goes very They're like season past people. They're Disney adults,

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<v Speaker 2>and they are Disney adults. They love Disney. They know

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<v Speaker 2>the ins and outs. They know bartenders all throughout all

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<v Speaker 2>the parks and stuff, and Jason was kind enough he

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<v Speaker 2>paid for the VIP experience for us on Saturday, so

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<v Speaker 2>we went. A lot of them went Thursday afternoon, but

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to take off of work Thursday, so

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<v Speaker 2>I worked and I flew in super early Friday and

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<v Speaker 2>just hit the ground running. We went straight to Epcot

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff. So we rode some rides on Friday, and

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<v Speaker 2>it was like the hottest of all time. But because

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<v Speaker 2>it was so hot and it's like the weird transition

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<v Speaker 2>before Memorial Day weekend in summer, it was much slower

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<v Speaker 2>than normal, which was nice. So I'm trying to focus

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<v Speaker 2>on the positive there. And then, so the VIP tour

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<v Speaker 2>how that works because I didn't even really know about this,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's like what celebrities do, and it's it's not

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<v Speaker 2>cheap obviously, so you have to pay for your park

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<v Speaker 2>ticket still, but then the person will pay for a

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<v Speaker 2>VIP tour and you can split up your however you want.

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<v Speaker 2>You can you have to do at least seven hours,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think you can do ten as the max maybe,

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<v Speaker 2>so I think we did ten and basically a Disney

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<v Speaker 2>Park expert takes you around and you go to any

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<v Speaker 2>ride you want, and you.

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<v Speaker 1>Go to the front ish of the line.

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<v Speaker 2>So how Disney they have like they call them lightning

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<v Speaker 2>lanes kind of like and you usually pay for that

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<v Speaker 2>or like I think when you part tickets, you get

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<v Speaker 2>like two lightning lanes a day, and then once you

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<v Speaker 2>use one, you could try to get another one, but

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<v Speaker 2>you just basically get put in the lightning lane. So

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<v Speaker 2>you get pretty much ride on every ride you don't wait.

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<v Speaker 2>They take you behind behind the park to get into

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<v Speaker 2>different entrances.

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<v Speaker 1>When you get off the ride, she'll have like waters.

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<v Speaker 2>You get like unlimited Mickey ice cream bars if you

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<v Speaker 2>want them, you get like two. Each person gets like

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<v Speaker 2>two like advanced snacks included. Like when we arrived in

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<v Speaker 2>our van to Epcot, there were people waiting out front

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<v Speaker 2>with like snacks for us. And so it's really really

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<v Speaker 2>really really luxurious and nice and so you get to

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<v Speaker 2>ride ever, I told Jake, I'm like I would, and

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<v Speaker 2>you get to have ten people in your group for

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<v Speaker 2>that price. Okay, I told Jake, I'm like I would

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<v Speaker 2>legit if I could find a couple of other families.

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<v Speaker 1>That would split this. It is worth it.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you could knock out all four parks in one day,

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<v Speaker 2>so you're saving money on daily park tickets, get to

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<v Speaker 2>the front of the line for like the ride you want,

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<v Speaker 2>and then be done with it. And will you save money,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, but you would save mental capacity. And

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<v Speaker 2>it is so expensive you wouldn't be paying for food

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<v Speaker 2>every single day in the parks and the park tickets

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<v Speaker 2>every day, so I think it could almost balance out, honestly.

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<v Speaker 2>So my favorite ride is Guardians of the Galaxy. It's

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<v Speaker 2>a newer one. It's at Epcot, and we wrote it

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<v Speaker 2>three times. You can only ride a ride on your

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<v Speaker 2>tour twice, so you can do it two times in

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<v Speaker 2>a row if you want, so we did that one

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<v Speaker 2>two times. We had already done that on Friday. Also,

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<v Speaker 2>it is epic. It is so good.

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<v Speaker 3>What is it? Is it a roller coaster?

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<v Speaker 1>You ride?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so it's kind of it's like a roller coaster

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<v Speaker 2>and you get one of six songs. You don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what you're gonna get until it takes off, and so

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<v Speaker 2>the song choices are I ran Everybody wants to Roll

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<v Speaker 2>the World Conga September Disco Inferno, and then I can't

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<v Speaker 2>think of the other one, which Jason's favorite, is Conga.

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted September, so we of course got all the

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<v Speaker 2>other three, but we didn't double up, which was nice.

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<v Speaker 2>And my favorite of the three was Everybody Wants to

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<v Speaker 2>Roll the World, I think because it gives a very

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<v Speaker 2>different vibe than the other ones. The other ones are

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<v Speaker 2>like fast, upbeat, fun and Everybody wants to Roll the World.

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<v Speaker 2>It's kind of like, I don't know, it's one of

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<v Speaker 2>those weird songs that makes me kind of emotional.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So you go, You basically go.

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<v Speaker 2>In and then there's a there's an explosion, and then

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<v Speaker 2>your car goes backwards sixty miles an hour, and then

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<v Speaker 2>it's inside, so it's dark and you're it's a roller

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<v Speaker 2>coaster inside and then like the car turns and you

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<v Speaker 2>like rotate around the Moon and Earth.

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<v Speaker 1>You can like see them. It's fucking cool.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so cool.

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<v Speaker 2>So that was like my top ride. I wanted to ride,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was sick, and we sweat a lot and

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<v Speaker 2>we had a lot of fun. And so memory.

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<v Speaker 3>Im thigh shaven on her boobswat, so I always want

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<v Speaker 3>a sweat.

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<v Speaker 2>I wore these like little thin kind of track pants

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<v Speaker 2>things I get like the athletic pants, and everyone thought

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<v Speaker 2>I was psycho, but I'm like I if I were shorts,

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be pulling them down all day, I'd be so miserable.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'd rather have a little sweat and these pants.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone else was in shorts and stuff like a normal,

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<v Speaker 2>normal people, but I just don't. I'm not a shorts person.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate them. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I probably would have gone like leggings

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<v Speaker 3>shorts if I've done before, but those just collect sweat

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<v Speaker 3>on like my crotch, and I didn't want it.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want it.

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<v Speaker 2>So one conversation we had, and I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 2>say who shared this, we got into the conversation of

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<v Speaker 2>the worst lay you've ever had, okay, and one of

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<v Speaker 2>the people almost like girls, but I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>say exactly who said it. Necessarily, one of the people

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<v Speaker 2>on this trip said they didn't have sex with a person,

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<v Speaker 2>but the person had a Tunican and I go, what

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<v Speaker 2>the fuck's a tunic can? And they go they turned

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<v Speaker 2>around and it looked like a Tunican and the person

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<v Speaker 2>held their hand up like around like a Tunican, and

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<v Speaker 2>I go, oh, like super girthy, and they go, no.

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<v Speaker 2>Every it was identical to a Tunican. I go, wait,

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<v Speaker 2>so as round as a Tunican and as thick, So

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<v Speaker 2>it was like a hockey puck just sitting on their

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<v Speaker 2>grunt and they go yeah, and I what the fuck?

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<v Speaker 1>And they were like yeah, And I'm like, and I'm asking.

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<v Speaker 2>Every cause anyone ever and no one has ever seen

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<v Speaker 2>the person called the person that, like, I don't remember

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<v Speaker 2>the name, I call them Tunican. And they said, I

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<v Speaker 2>have to work, and they left and went to work.

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<v Speaker 2>There they go, I could not wrap my head around

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<v Speaker 2>how that would work? How would that fit within my body?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, oh my god, I would have been my life ever. Man,

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<v Speaker 3>obviously you've heard of like a micrope and things like that,

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<v Speaker 3>and I feel very bad, like I don't, like ever

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<v Speaker 3>want to mock that, Like it's not like someone can

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<v Speaker 3>help being born like that. But man, tunican crazy. Never

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<v Speaker 3>heard of it in my life. I haven't either. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>did you share your worst leg because I think mine

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<v Speaker 3>probably was the fact that this guy thought he was

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<v Speaker 3>having sex with me and he was actually just fucking

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<v Speaker 3>my like thighep. And I also was extremely skinny at

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<v Speaker 3>the time, like I literally probably weighed one hundred and

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<v Speaker 3>thirty pounds top, So there's no reason he should have

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<v Speaker 3>got like it wasn't like my thighs were super thick

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<v Speaker 3>and thought he was doing what he was doing. No,

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<v Speaker 3>he definitely like thought he was having sex with me

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<v Speaker 3>and then realized it and changed. But I immediately was like

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<v Speaker 3>turned off. This is fucking awful. Yeah. I just I

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<v Speaker 3>wanted him out of my bed as quick as I could,

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<v Speaker 3>And of course we were drunk, and so I was like, yeah, whatever,

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<v Speaker 3>you can sleep over, and then I had to give

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<v Speaker 3>him a fucking ride home in the morning, and I

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<v Speaker 3>just wanted to be like, go out, get out.

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<v Speaker 2>So mine is nothing like exceptional like that. Mine was

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<v Speaker 2>just like, you know, really short, really not good. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>nothing was beneficial for me at all in it so quick,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. So mine wasn't like a standout story. It's

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<v Speaker 2>like tale as old as time. Yeah, but with this person,

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<v Speaker 2>it was always like that, Like so that was the problem. Yeah, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that it wasn't because you give people a person a

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<v Speaker 2>pass if it's like a one time thing or an

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<v Speaker 2>occasional thing.

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<v Speaker 3>One of my f buddies that I had when I

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<v Speaker 3>was single last he like would go really quick sometimes. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it happens, and that's whatever, really fine. However, for me

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<v Speaker 3>to get to his house took about twenty minutes because

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<v Speaker 3>he wasn't that far away, but it was just like

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<v Speaker 3>the roads that I had to take to get there,

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<v Speaker 3>it was like a twenty minute drive one way, and

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<v Speaker 3>I got there one time. And I'm telling you, the

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<v Speaker 3>amount of time I spent there between having sex and

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<v Speaker 3>leaving was less time than it took for me to

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<v Speaker 3>just drive one way to his house. And I sat

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<v Speaker 3>there and I'm just like, man, this you. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I I think he did come to me a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of times, but I think that particular time, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I just went to his place. So anyways, after that,

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<v Speaker 3>I just sat there and I was like, if it

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<v Speaker 3>takes me longer to drive to you, then we are

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<v Speaker 3>hooking up. Like I don't need to hook up for

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<v Speaker 3>an hour and a half, but like, like this was

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<v Speaker 3>way too quick and he knew it without a conversation

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<v Speaker 3>needed to be had. Yep, And the next time he

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<v Speaker 3>very much lasted much longer and like did different things

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<v Speaker 3>I think to help him last longer because I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I know he was embarrassed by that time because it

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<v Speaker 3>was particularly short, and I just sat there and yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. He was one of those guys who

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<v Speaker 3>I thought I was going to like date him, and

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<v Speaker 3>then I realized he was a fuck boy huh, and

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<v Speaker 3>so then I was like nope, just kidding. And then

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<v Speaker 3>of course what happens is he like falls in love

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<v Speaker 3>with me like six months later and does want to

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<v Speaker 3>try to actually date me. And I was like, no, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you got put in this category. Yeah, you are not

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<v Speaker 3>D material anymore in my brain. Okay, you are here

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<v Speaker 3>for the pein wa and the poos wah oh Like no,

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<v Speaker 3>this past weekend and did yes and happy belated thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't normally like to go out and like force

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<v Speaker 3>friends to do things for my birthday. However, I did

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<v Speaker 3>not want to be alone on my birthday this year,

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<v Speaker 3>so I did force Fiends to go out with me

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<v Speaker 3>and we went out in the North Loop had a

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<v Speaker 3>really good time. Started at the Hewing Hotel. They were

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<v Speaker 3>told the girls, like five thirty six, let's meet up.

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<v Speaker 3>So we were able to go to the rooftop for

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit, but then we had to get kicked

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<v Speaker 3>out at like seven and forty five, which was fine,

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<v Speaker 3>but I was kind of bummed about that because I

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<v Speaker 3>just really love hanging out there. It's sophisticated and chill,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's not loud, rowdy, clouded. I mean sometimes it's crowded.

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<v Speaker 3>But my friends bought me drink after drink after drink,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's like, I don't Once I had a couple

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<v Speaker 1>Thought you said you weren't going to allow that didn't shot.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, I'm not, I'm not going to do a show. However,

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<v Speaker 3>I did also do a shot. Okay, I get one shot,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm telling you, like, we had all these bougie

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<v Speaker 3>drinks at Hewing, and then we went to Cuzzies, because like,

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<v Speaker 3>you've got to end up at Cuzzi's at some point

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<v Speaker 3>the beer buckets of ns, so someone else had already

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<v Speaker 3>bought me a drink. Then I'm drinking a high noon.

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<v Speaker 3>Then someone's like, let's take a shot, and I'm like, okay, fine,

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<v Speaker 3>Then I'm putting a dollar up on the ceiling.

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<v Speaker 3>And then we're trying to make it to the rabbit Hole,

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<v Speaker 3>which is a newerish bar in North Loop, and some

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<v Speaker 3>shitty cover band was playing there at ten. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 3>we got there a little bit before ten, and that

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<v Speaker 3>was the moment it was time for me to go home.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh I got there and things it started going dark,

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<v Speaker 3>and oh, my friend Tiff was like, Johnny, I think

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<v Speaker 3>and I ubered back to my place used together. I

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<v Speaker 3>of course made a pizza that I burned, not not

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<v Speaker 3>to like an unedible amount, but like I went and

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<v Speaker 3>showered as I always do when and I came out

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<v Speaker 3>too late and the pizza's burnt. I wake up on

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<v Speaker 3>watching at like four in the morning. I have a

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<v Speaker 3>bag of popcorn next to me, just the most classic

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<v Speaker 3>Jenny Drunken Gone Back carries. Yes, I was back at

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<v Speaker 3>my roots and I just sat there and I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, missing a burrito on your bedstand? What did you

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<v Speaker 2>used to lose your phone or your ID or something.

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<v Speaker 3>Always would know I would always be nervous that my

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<v Speaker 3>phone was not laying next to me in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>And also, my friends have got me like an actual

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<v Speaker 3>nice present. She got me this big kind of like

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<v Speaker 3>farmer's market bag that's wifey on it, and then a

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<v Speaker 3>cute little like camper van cookbook thing and a few

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<v Speaker 3>other little trinkets of fat. And she didn't really understand

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<v Speaker 3>that like we probably were gonna end up like bar

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<v Speaker 3>hopping and stuff, and so she's like, well, like, I'll

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<v Speaker 3>just take it home with me if I have to.

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<v Speaker 3>And so the one thing I looked for in the

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<v Speaker 3>morning when I was like sober, was like, did the

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<v Speaker 3>wifey bag make it home in me? And it did.

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<v Speaker 3>I came back safe and sound. I probably would have

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<v Speaker 3>she probably would have taken it if she thought there

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<v Speaker 3>was a risk of me not right bringing it home.

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<v Speaker 3>But anyways, it was now mind you, it was fun

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<v Speaker 3>in the moment, but I just I know that I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just not that kind of a drinker anymore. And so

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<v Speaker 3>you know, it's Monday. That was Saturday night. I still

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<v Speaker 3>feel like shit, I still feel anxiety, and it just

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<v Speaker 3>really proves that, like that's not my life anymore. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to go out and get hammered. I wish

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<v Speaker 3>I would have just like had a few drinks and

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<v Speaker 3>had fun and stayed sober enough to watch the cover

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<v Speaker 3>band or some shitty cover band whatever, and I didn't,

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<v Speaker 3>And so I'm a little bit sad about that. But whatever,

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<v Speaker 3>you live and you learn.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean there are certain moments like that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna live it up a little bit. Your friends

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<v Speaker 2>are probably going extra hard to trying to like they

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<v Speaker 2>make sure it was a special one because I knew

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<v Speaker 2>it might be hard.

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<v Speaker 3>For you or whatever. But then yeah, right, it just anyways,

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<v Speaker 3>like I just knew the moment out of hewing because

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<v Speaker 3>I was already two drinks in and then they the

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<v Speaker 3>bartender screwed up a drink or like ordered an extra one,

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<v Speaker 3>and they're like, well, here, this was what you were drinking,

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<v Speaker 3>so you should just have this now too, And I'm

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<v Speaker 3>like those drinks were going down too easily because they

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<v Speaker 3>were spoushy, like fun, nice drinks. So I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>like I don't need all these but whatever, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>In the end, I don't ever want to be out

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<v Speaker 3>super late anyways, So the fact that I went home

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<v Speaker 3>at like ten pm is totally fine with me. I

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<v Speaker 3>just wish I would have stayed more sober so I

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<v Speaker 3>could have like enjoyed more times with my friends because

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<v Speaker 3>I just we had so much fun. And I also

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<v Speaker 3>love the fact that like it was literally five different

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<v Speaker 3>groups of friends practically that were out. Yeah, like said,

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<v Speaker 3>some people kind of knew each other, but like not really,

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<v Speaker 3>and everyone like got along and became friends really easy.

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<v Speaker 1>I love when that happens.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like one of the sales girls here, she's a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit newer to the cities, and she came out

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<v Speaker 3>and she just chatted with everyone. So I was, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>you get stressed when you're the one kind of hosting

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<v Speaker 3>a gathering of sorts. So I'm like, God, I hope

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<v Speaker 3>everyone likes each other. And the sales girl even texted

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<v Speaker 3>me yesterday and was like, your friends are so awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>I got so much fun blah blah blah. So anyways,

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<v Speaker 3>it was a really fun birthday night out. But I

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<v Speaker 3>will not be celebrating in that way. I've got a

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<v Speaker 3>bachelorette party coming up, like a dinner and party bus Vibe, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>in a few weeks, And i just know that I

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<v Speaker 3>know how to drink better now, and I'm just not

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<v Speaker 3>going to be that crazy hammered person anymore. Like it's

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<v Speaker 3>just not me. I have.

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<v Speaker 2>Two bachelorette parties coming up this year. I'm like, what

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<v Speaker 2>is happening with my life? By the way, we have

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<v Speaker 2>obviously Tina's Yep, that one I'm not worried about because

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<v Speaker 2>Tina's been in this situation herself where she's been to

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<v Speaker 2>like a bachelorette party and like people have pressured her

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<v Speaker 2>to drink and it pissed her off. So it's hers

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<v Speaker 2>is like chill cabin vibes, like when it happens or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm not worried about Tina's. Yeah, like I thought

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<v Speaker 2>that's just gonna be like a chill cabin weekend. But

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<v Speaker 2>my friend Abby, she's my college friend, not that, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not an adult and can say no. But I

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<v Speaker 2>hate the feeling when people feel like you feel like

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<v Speaker 2>you're making someone mad or disappointed because you're not getting

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<v Speaker 2>to their drunk level. Yeah, I hate that feeling. Like

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<v Speaker 2>my friends know me well at this point, but I

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<v Speaker 2>think they have the attitude of can't you just for one,

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<v Speaker 2>like one time, for something special And I can't explain

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<v Speaker 2>it because like I could and I do sometimes like

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<v Speaker 2>when we went out like, but I like burn IM

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<v Speaker 2>always say I am a match. I burn bright and

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<v Speaker 2>I burn out very quickly. So like for me, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to be miserable. I'm the only one that

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<v Speaker 2>has to fly on a plane, and I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to be like hungover or sick. And I also, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't hang so I'm like, I'm already just preparing myself.

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<v Speaker 2>She's not doing anything crazy. There's she wants an airbnb

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<v Speaker 2>and she wants to do like a daytime kind of

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<v Speaker 2>adventure like one of those aerial parks or like rafting

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<v Speaker 2>or something, which that's all fine, but then I don't

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<v Speaker 2>even I would. I hope that we just like drink

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<v Speaker 2>at the house that we're renting or whatever and don't

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<v Speaker 2>go to bars.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know what.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to be like, and I just hope that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not made to feel like I'm letting down the

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<v Speaker 2>bachelorette party if i'm because it's only four of us,

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<v Speaker 2>that does.

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<v Speaker 3>Make it a little bit they've done. It's less people.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I was like, I was like, well, then they

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<v Speaker 3>can go out and have their fun and then you

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<v Speaker 3>just irish goodbye. That's what I did when I know.

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<v Speaker 3>I went to Savannah, my girlfriend's party. We had been

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<v Speaker 3>we had done a pedal pub already during the day,

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<v Speaker 3>and then we're out again at night and I was

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<v Speaker 3>just hitting my wall at like eleven thirty, and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, I want to go home, and so I

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<v Speaker 3>started calling myself an uber or some of the other

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<v Speaker 3>girls caught when that I was leaving, so a couple

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<v Speaker 3>other people hopped in with me, whereas the rest of

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<v Speaker 3>the group stayed out, and but we had like ten people.

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<v Speaker 2>So I feel like it's because when you're a bride,

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<v Speaker 2>you've walked movies and stuff for so long, you think

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<v Speaker 2>it's gonna be like this hangover movie crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Night out, and some people do have that, but I think.

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<v Speaker 2>The more realistic is two or three people get really

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<v Speaker 2>drunk and they're puking, and everyone else is kind of

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<v Speaker 2>like in the same vibe of like, I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to be sloppy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>So not that anyone has already pretexted me and saying

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<v Speaker 2>get your shit ready or anything like that. I just

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<v Speaker 2>am used to my lovely group of friends, So I

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<v Speaker 2>love very much. If you're listening, by the way, I

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<v Speaker 2>just don't want anyone to feel like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>am letting the party down if I'm not drunk or something.

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<v Speaker 3>So we'll see how it goes. I don't don't you

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<v Speaker 3>think that they know you well enough to know that, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it never fails, right, it never fails. I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>but that makes me.

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<v Speaker 2>It makes me sad because I can still stubborn about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm always like, you know who I am, and I'll

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<v Speaker 2>like leave the room.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I've definitely probably been the friend before when

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<v Speaker 3>people didn't want to like drink as much, but that's

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<v Speaker 3>because that's who they were to and so then when

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<v Speaker 3>suddenly they didn't want to, I was like, what the fuck?

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<v Speaker 3>But like with you, I would never ever expect you

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<v Speaker 3>to come to if I was having a bachelorette party,

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<v Speaker 3>to like come out and be out with me all night,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I would literally not expect that. Yeah, I don't know. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if this person listens to the podcast,

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<v Speaker 3>but I do need to break up with someone and

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<v Speaker 3>that is my therapist. Oh my god, why because I

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<v Speaker 3>don't think so. I started therapy again after Andrew and

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<v Speaker 3>I broke up, and this is a new therapist from

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<v Speaker 3>who I used to go to and she's very sweet

420
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<v Speaker 3>and kind. However, I feel like our sessions have been

421
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<v Speaker 3>a lot of just me explaining my feelings, my thoughts,

422
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<v Speaker 3>what I'm dealing with and stuff, and not really like

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<v Speaker 3>any sort of tools, any sort of like she's very

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<v Speaker 3>comforting in the fact that I have the feelings that

425
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<v Speaker 3>I have, but I'm not getting any tools to help

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<v Speaker 3>me out, I don't think. I also feel like the

427
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<v Speaker 3>last session or two I've had with her, I've been

428
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<v Speaker 3>kind of pointless because I don't really feel like I

429
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<v Speaker 3>need to talk about anything I don't know. So there's that,

430
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<v Speaker 3>But then there's the fact that I understand that I

431
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<v Speaker 3>work in radio. I get that, and I understand that

432
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<v Speaker 3>people are curious about things because my relationship was very public.

433
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<v Speaker 3>But she straight up told me that she went online

434
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<v Speaker 3>to like look at things about me, and she doesn't

435
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<v Speaker 3>really like listen to the show as much because like

436
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<v Speaker 3>she has listened to the show before, she knows I

437
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<v Speaker 3>work in radio, she knows of me from the show.

438
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<v Speaker 3>But it felt like there was like this line crossed

439
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<v Speaker 3>when she said that she had gone online to look

440
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<v Speaker 3>at stuff. That like made me feel like I'm your

441
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<v Speaker 3>patient and you should be like only paying attention to me,

442
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<v Speaker 3>you shouldn't be looking at online chatter. Yeah, And she

443
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<v Speaker 3>said she did it in a way to like understand

444
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<v Speaker 3>what I could potentially be going through since it is

445
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<v Speaker 3>like a public breakup pretty much. But that really put

446
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<v Speaker 3>me off with her at the last session I had,

447
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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, I don't know that I'm getting

448
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<v Speaker 3>anything at this point anyways, And so that was kind

449
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<v Speaker 3>of probably the line in the sand for me to

450
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<v Speaker 3>be like, I don't think that this is working for me.

451
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<v Speaker 1>That's so wild.

452
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<v Speaker 2>I have never I've heard of like kind of therapist

453
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<v Speaker 2>like when you're in a public thing, kind of crossing

454
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<v Speaker 2>a line a little bit. Like there's a podcast I

455
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<v Speaker 2>listened to and the guy like has merch and he

456
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<v Speaker 2>got an order from his therapist and that made him

457
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<v Speaker 2>like super uncomfortable, Like oh god no. And he's like

458
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<v Speaker 2>maybe she was just trying to be supportive, but also

459
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<v Speaker 2>like it's kind of the same as they usually tell

460
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<v Speaker 2>you if I see you in public, I will not

461
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<v Speaker 2>acknowledge you. If you say hi to me, I'll say hi,

462
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<v Speaker 2>because you just don't. They don't talk about you in public.

463
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<v Speaker 1>You don't.

464
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so it feels like it would be kind of

465
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<v Speaker 2>a mutual thing. My therapist was like, I don't listen

466
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<v Speaker 2>to Top forty radio. I mean, I'm sure I've heard

467
00:21:56.599 --> 00:21:58.440
<v Speaker 2>of your station, but I don't care. And I'm like, yeah,

468
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<v Speaker 2>so that is and not to pile on and I

469
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<v Speaker 2>also not to share information that is in min I

470
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<v Speaker 2>know you and my radio partner call go to the

471
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<v Speaker 2>same person. Yes, he also just ended thanks to really

472
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<v Speaker 2>yeah for other reasons, right, and him and I have

473
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<v Speaker 2>talked about things ourselves like that we understand.

474
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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I don't know. It's it's not that she

475
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<v Speaker 3>wasn't good at the beginning, Like I think she was

476
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<v Speaker 3>what I sort of needed at the beginning. But like,

477
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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I think as a therapist, you've got

478
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<v Speaker 3>to be so careful of what you say.

479
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<v Speaker 2>I'm just careful. The tools are very important. I've like

480
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<v Speaker 2>action like points are really important for maybe not for everyone.

481
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<v Speaker 2>Maybe some people do need to just like each week

482
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<v Speaker 2>cry and get something out for a while. But for me, yeah,

483
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<v Speaker 2>I'm like I to feel like I'm like making progress

484
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<v Speaker 2>and making changes. I need actionable tools here. And that

485
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<v Speaker 2>was one thing my person gave me, and like almost

486
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<v Speaker 2>an assignment or a book recommendation or this recommendation and

487
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<v Speaker 2>every single time, and then she'd email like a follow

488
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<v Speaker 2>up with that information. And that's why she was my

489
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<v Speaker 2>favorite I had, because I had some who hads been

490
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<v Speaker 2>the first like ten or fifteen minutes having me fill

491
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<v Speaker 2>in a fucking questionnaire of one to ten? How am

492
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<v Speaker 2>I feeling on these? And I'm like, don't waste my

493
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<v Speaker 2>god dang time with this. This is such what is this?

494
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<v Speaker 2>Is this to fill ten minutes of our session?

495
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<v Speaker 3>I'm just.

496
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<v Speaker 2>Every time and I stopped going very quickly to that person.

497
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<v Speaker 3>Yeah no, I mean I did. I've done like those

498
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<v Speaker 3>surveys before, but it was always like ahead of time

499
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<v Speaker 3>of the session, so the therapist could see where I was.

500
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<v Speaker 2>A normal intake paperwork, which is always a little annoying too,

501
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<v Speaker 2>because you finally get the courage to go. I know

502
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<v Speaker 2>they have to do it, but I'm like, I don't

503
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<v Speaker 2>want to use my first session doing intake and for

504
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<v Speaker 2>like paperwork. But I know that's part of it, but

505
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<v Speaker 2>I think you're just like so ready to start therapy.

506
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<v Speaker 2>You want to start talking so quickly. I'm like, let's

507
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<v Speaker 2>let's dive in. Yeah know that one person did every

508
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<v Speaker 2>time it was. It was weird, So you gotta find, yeah,

509
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<v Speaker 2>like the right one that works for you. So maybe

510
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<v Speaker 2>you just need to find like a different one. Yeah,

511
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<v Speaker 2>and it just sucks to restart. It does suck to restart.

512
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<v Speaker 2>And it's not that she was like bad or anything.

513
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<v Speaker 2>I just I felt like it wasn't the right match.

514
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<v Speaker 2>And they say finding therapist is like dating, so I

515
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<v Speaker 2>get it. I got really lucky with the girl that

516
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<v Speaker 2>I used to go to, and I probably can go

517
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<v Speaker 2>back to her, honestly, because it's through the same company.

518
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<v Speaker 3>At least I would assume I could go back to her.

519
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<v Speaker 3>But I really did like her. She gave me tools whatever.

520
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<v Speaker 3>I also know that I need a very empathetic person

521
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<v Speaker 3>and that was who this current therapist was. She was

522
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<v Speaker 3>so empathetic, but it was almost like it was almost

523
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<v Speaker 3>too much of like, yes, your feelings are warranted, Yes

524
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<v Speaker 3>you should feel this way, blah blah blah, and like

525
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<v Speaker 3>not enough reality almost. It was almost like I was

526
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<v Speaker 3>just crying to a friend for my sessions, right, and

527
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<v Speaker 3>that was all it was. And yes, like you said,

528
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<v Speaker 3>some people might that might be all right they need

529
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<v Speaker 3>but I needed something else. So anyways, yeah, probably breaking

530
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<v Speaker 3>up and maybe she'll hear this. She does seem to

531
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<v Speaker 3>follow along my life.

532
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<v Speaker 2>You know, they're like I think that therapists are people. Yeah,

533
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<v Speaker 2>and they probably learn things through their process too, So

534
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<v Speaker 2>this will probably just be if she does listen, Like again,

535
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<v Speaker 2>doesn't mean that like, you're a bad therapist. It just

536
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<v Speaker 2>didn't work out for you to And I from what

537
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<v Speaker 2>I hear from most therapists, they they truly want you

538
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<v Speaker 2>to find the right person, Like they don't like being

539
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<v Speaker 2>stuck with someone they don't fill as the right match either,

540
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<v Speaker 2>But they can't they can't really fire you as easily

541
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<v Speaker 2>they can, but they won't necessarily as easily as you

542
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<v Speaker 2>can fire them if you will. So she'll probably be like, oh,

543
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<v Speaker 2>lesson learned there and won't make that mistake again in

544
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<v Speaker 2>the future, and it's not like a big deal or whatever.

545
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<v Speaker 3>She also won't have half the Katiewb's staff as her client.

546
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<v Speaker 1>I know, my god, I'll call this should I call

547
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<v Speaker 1>this episode? Jenny?

548
00:25:48.119 --> 00:25:54.279
<v Speaker 2>Jenny has another breakup too soon, too okay, too much

549
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<v Speaker 2>of a click baby bullshit headlines.

550
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<v Speaker 3>So you're saying I should for the listens, Okay, I

551
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<v Speaker 3>don't know.

552
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<v Speaker 2>We have a couple of emails let me pull this

553
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<v Speaker 2>bad boy open.

554
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<v Speaker 1>How many do you have?

555
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<v Speaker 3>I have two?

556
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<v Speaker 2>Okay, do you want me to read one first? I

557
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<v Speaker 2>can have three because one just came in this morning.

558
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<v Speaker 3>Okay. Well, this first one that I have was sent

559
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<v Speaker 3>to both of us and says hello, I have an

560
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<v Speaker 3>issue i'd like your assistance with. But first, two things. One, Jenny,

561
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<v Speaker 3>it's my b day this weekend too well, happy, belated.

562
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<v Speaker 3>I also feel victimized by the drastic change in the

563
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<v Speaker 3>weather and my office. Yes, it was not fun. And two,

564
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<v Speaker 3>thank you both for being vulnerable with your relationships. My

565
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<v Speaker 3>daughter is potentially on the verge of a breakup with

566
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<v Speaker 3>a man she currently lives with and has been with

567
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<v Speaker 3>for four years. As her mother, it has been heartbreaking

568
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<v Speaker 3>to watch her go through this. It's her path and

569
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<v Speaker 3>she needs to walk it. Jenny, your recent life events

570
00:26:46.000 --> 00:26:48.160
<v Speaker 3>have been helpful to me to know that she will

571
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<v Speaker 3>get through this. Thank you for sharing. Now on to

572
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<v Speaker 3>the issue. My daughter has a dog that she will

573
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<v Speaker 3>be taking with her if flush when the breakup happens.

574
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<v Speaker 3>She works twelve hour shifts as a nurse. Being a

575
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<v Speaker 3>first time dog owner, she is concerned about what to

576
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<v Speaker 3>do with her dog while she is away for long

577
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<v Speaker 3>periods of time during her shift. Also, these shifts are

578
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<v Speaker 3>often three days in a row, so it's not just

579
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<v Speaker 3>a day here or there. Her dad and I will

580
00:27:11.480 --> 00:27:14.279
<v Speaker 3>absolutely help when we can, but we are out here

581
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<v Speaker 3>living our best lives and going and doing all the

582
00:27:17.640 --> 00:27:20.119
<v Speaker 3>things we will not always be able to help. I

583
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<v Speaker 3>know Jenny dog sits and Fallon has two dogs. Wondering

584
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<v Speaker 3>what advice and recommendations you may have for a single

585
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<v Speaker 3>gal in this situation where she may need assistance with

586
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<v Speaker 3>dog sitting or walking slash feeding while she is at work.

587
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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if this is if my issue is

588
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<v Speaker 3>podcast worthy, but if you do share, please use my

589
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<v Speaker 3>code name, which is Lolita. Thanks to advance from this

590
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<v Speaker 3>Worried Mama love the podcast. You discussed so many relatable

591
00:27:45.400 --> 00:27:48.000
<v Speaker 3>girlfriend topics and let me know that I'm not the

592
00:27:48.079 --> 00:27:51.319
<v Speaker 3>only one who deals with some of this stuff in life.

593
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<v Speaker 3>So thank you, Lolita. Lolita.

594
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<v Speaker 1>Jenny, do you want to pop in with this first?

595
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<v Speaker 3>I would say, I know not everyone has the spear

596
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<v Speaker 3>money to do this, but what you could have your

597
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<v Speaker 3>daughter do is have someone come do either a dog

598
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<v Speaker 3>visit through Rover or wag throughout the day to give

599
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<v Speaker 3>the dog a break. You can hire them for walks. Usually,

600
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<v Speaker 3>I mean Rover and Wig take a portion of it,

601
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<v Speaker 3>but I think it's like twelve dollars for a thirty

602
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<v Speaker 3>minute walk or something, and like the dog walker, I

603
00:28:23.359 --> 00:28:25.119
<v Speaker 3>don't know, makes ten bucks off of it or something

604
00:28:25.160 --> 00:28:29.119
<v Speaker 3>like that. So that's like one way that's not overly

605
00:28:29.200 --> 00:28:32.599
<v Speaker 3>expensive and could be really helpful with just hiring someone

606
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<v Speaker 3>out to come every day. There's one couple that I've

607
00:28:35.759 --> 00:28:38.039
<v Speaker 3>watched her their dog quite a few times, but then

608
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<v Speaker 3>they also ask me to walk her every once in

609
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<v Speaker 3>a while and it's honestly the only dog that I

610
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<v Speaker 3>go walk. But I have a few days coming up

611
00:28:44.119 --> 00:28:45.519
<v Speaker 3>next week that I'm going to go help them out

612
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<v Speaker 3>because they have long days at work, and it's cheaper

613
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<v Speaker 3>to do that than like hire someone to be like

614
00:28:51.960 --> 00:28:55.359
<v Speaker 3>dog sitting for the day or doing overnight stuff. So

615
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<v Speaker 3>I would say look into options of having someone stop in.

616
00:29:00.000 --> 00:29:01.440
<v Speaker 3>I could just be a check in too. It doesn't

617
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<v Speaker 3>have to be a walk. You can literally like hire

618
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<v Speaker 3>someone to come in for like thirty minutes to hang

619
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<v Speaker 3>out at the apartment or house and feed the dog

620
00:29:08.319 --> 00:29:09.759
<v Speaker 3>and let them out and stuff.

621
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know how I guess I would need

622
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<v Speaker 2>more details on the dog because obviously if it's a puppy,

623
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<v Speaker 2>it's very different than if the dog is like four

624
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<v Speaker 2>years old, because like a four year old doesn't need

625
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<v Speaker 2>to go out every couple of hours, whereas puppy does.

626
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<v Speaker 2>So I was going to suggest the same thing. I mean,

627
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<v Speaker 2>we used to do doggy daycare, but I don't know

628
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<v Speaker 2>about a twelve hour shift. Yeah, I don't know that

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<v Speaker 2>they do that, Like, I don't know if.

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<v Speaker 1>It feels like they wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean we maybe could if it's like, it depends

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<v Speaker 2>on what her twelve hours are, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>If it's like six to six, then that probably is

634
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<v Speaker 2>fine because you could do a drop off and then

635
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<v Speaker 2>you pick them up and then it's just three days

636
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<v Speaker 2>of that. But if not, then I would, yeah, suggest

637
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<v Speaker 2>what Jenny said, I don't know where she's going to

638
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<v Speaker 2>be living. Like my neighborhood, we have like a group email,

639
00:30:03.200 --> 00:30:05.359
<v Speaker 2>and sometimes you know, you could send out, like if

640
00:30:05.400 --> 00:30:08.440
<v Speaker 2>it's a small neighborhood, a group email, like does anyone

641
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<v Speaker 2>have like a teen looking for a little extra work?

642
00:30:12.160 --> 00:30:14.559
<v Speaker 2>And you could have the teen come over and like,

643
00:30:14.799 --> 00:30:16.519
<v Speaker 2>because like we have like a couple of teens that

644
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<v Speaker 2>always will you know, do the law and mowing service

645
00:30:19.160 --> 00:30:21.319
<v Speaker 2>or different things. They're like trying to get that side hustle,

646
00:30:22.039 --> 00:30:23.759
<v Speaker 2>just like or we have one girl who like went

647
00:30:23.799 --> 00:30:26.359
<v Speaker 2>and got her babysitter's license and the mom will post like, hey,

648
00:30:26.880 --> 00:30:29.400
<v Speaker 2>my daughter certified if anyone needs a babysitter kind of thing.

649
00:30:29.720 --> 00:30:32.160
<v Speaker 2>But it depends on the neighborhood you're in, and you

650
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<v Speaker 2>still would want to obviously do research and talk to

651
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<v Speaker 2>like the parents and different things to make sure that

652
00:30:37.640 --> 00:30:40.960
<v Speaker 2>your dog is in safe hands. Those are just a

653
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<v Speaker 2>few of suggestions. I don't know if those are the

654
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<v Speaker 2>greatest though, but I think they're probably the top ones

655
00:30:44.880 --> 00:30:45.920
<v Speaker 2>you could go for.

656
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<v Speaker 3>And here's what I'll say, as someone selfishly who is

657
00:30:49.519 --> 00:30:52.039
<v Speaker 3>obviously went through a breakup myself, I don't have a

658
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<v Speaker 3>dog I need to like have help with. But maybe

659
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<v Speaker 3>if you and your husband can be there for her

660
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<v Speaker 3>for the beginning part with the dog, that's one less

661
00:31:00.480 --> 00:31:03.079
<v Speaker 3>stressor in her life. I know you're out living your

662
00:31:03.079 --> 00:31:05.440
<v Speaker 3>best life too, but maybe it just helped her out

663
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<v Speaker 3>for a little bit, because I'm sure she's gonna be

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<v Speaker 3>going through obviously a lot. Yeah, and then to add

665
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<v Speaker 3>in the stress of what to do with the dog

666
00:31:12.640 --> 00:31:13.720
<v Speaker 3>is just really gonna suck.

667
00:31:13.839 --> 00:31:15.319
<v Speaker 2>I know part of me hopes that she has like

668
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<v Speaker 2>a nursing job where it's so busy for those twelve

669
00:31:17.759 --> 00:31:20.960
<v Speaker 2>hours she can't think about it, because that's a really

670
00:31:21.000 --> 00:31:23.400
<v Speaker 2>long shift to work, to try to keep it together,

671
00:31:23.519 --> 00:31:25.720
<v Speaker 2>to be a friendly nurse to people when you're going

672
00:31:25.759 --> 00:31:30.799
<v Speaker 2>through it. So I feel so bad for Here we go, hey, ladies,

673
00:31:30.839 --> 00:31:33.319
<v Speaker 2>sending much love as usual. I binge the four seasons

674
00:31:33.319 --> 00:31:35.559
<v Speaker 2>this weekend. Well really in one and a half sittings.

675
00:31:35.599 --> 00:31:37.680
<v Speaker 2>Not sure if you're done yet, so if not, I

676
00:31:37.720 --> 00:31:40.440
<v Speaker 2>won't spoil anything. Oh my god, can we talk about it?

677
00:31:40.519 --> 00:31:42.279
<v Speaker 2>Jenny's not watching it right? No?

678
00:31:42.319 --> 00:31:44.720
<v Speaker 3>I actually am on. I did start, but I'm only

679
00:31:44.720 --> 00:31:47.039
<v Speaker 3>on episode four or five. I think I think nowhere

680
00:31:47.039 --> 00:31:50.119
<v Speaker 3>near You're nowhere near? What the there's only like eight episodes.

681
00:31:50.680 --> 00:31:51.599
<v Speaker 1>I don't even think there are eight?

682
00:31:52.559 --> 00:31:54.839
<v Speaker 3>Okay, well, are there even eight? I think there's eight

683
00:31:54.880 --> 00:31:57.400
<v Speaker 3>because I think I I'd like fell asleep during one

684
00:31:57.440 --> 00:31:58.880
<v Speaker 3>of them, and it went up to like six, and

685
00:31:58.880 --> 00:32:01.200
<v Speaker 3>I think there was still it's like eight episodes total,

686
00:32:01.279 --> 00:32:02.279
<v Speaker 3>so I had to like go back.

687
00:32:02.400 --> 00:32:04.480
<v Speaker 2>We cannot talk about it, though, okay, because I know

688
00:32:04.519 --> 00:32:05.480
<v Speaker 2>what she wants to talk about.

689
00:32:05.519 --> 00:32:06.839
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

690
00:32:06.880 --> 00:32:09.519
<v Speaker 2>Also, is it me or is Steve Carrell just getting

691
00:32:09.640 --> 00:32:13.000
<v Speaker 2>our just one gorgeous man? Yes, Oh my gosh, this

692
00:32:13.039 --> 00:32:16.000
<v Speaker 2>is so funny because he's gotten hotter. I think rere

693
00:32:16.160 --> 00:32:18.279
<v Speaker 2>email then on the Minnesota Goodbye Today too, and so

694
00:32:18.319 --> 00:32:20.559
<v Speaker 2>we kind of talked about Steve Carell on there. I'm

695
00:32:20.599 --> 00:32:23.799
<v Speaker 2>like so put off by his character in this show. Well,

696
00:32:24.440 --> 00:32:28.000
<v Speaker 2>to me, I find him repulsive. So in the show,

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<v Speaker 2>this isn't like a huge spoiler because I think you

698
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<v Speaker 2>can piece it together because it happens basically in like

699
00:32:33.359 --> 00:32:37.599
<v Speaker 2>the firstsh episode they've it's like multiple couples that have

700
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<v Speaker 2>been married for like twenty something years, and he's unhappy

701
00:32:41.480 --> 00:32:43.559
<v Speaker 2>because his wife, he says, doesn't.

702
00:32:43.279 --> 00:32:45.039
<v Speaker 1>Do anything blah blah blah.

703
00:32:45.240 --> 00:32:49.920
<v Speaker 2>So he ends it and he gets with a younger woman. Yeah,

704
00:32:50.119 --> 00:32:53.359
<v Speaker 2>that's basically the gist of it. But as an outsider,

705
00:32:53.519 --> 00:32:55.400
<v Speaker 2>just a fan of Steve Corrella, do you think he's attractive?

706
00:32:56.000 --> 00:32:57.799
<v Speaker 2>So she says, I mean, he really pulled a reverse

707
00:32:57.839 --> 00:33:00.440
<v Speaker 2>Benjamin Button went from awkward forty year old virgin energy

708
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<v Speaker 2>to four seasons Silver Fox and now I'm over here,

709
00:33:02.599 --> 00:33:06.359
<v Speaker 2>like I'll be your thirty something year old girl, Jenny.

710
00:33:07.799 --> 00:33:09.960
<v Speaker 2>I blinked, and suddenly I'm thirstying over a man who

711
00:33:10.039 --> 00:33:13.759
<v Speaker 2>used to struggle describing Taters. Wait, is that what it is?

712
00:33:13.880 --> 00:33:14.759
<v Speaker 3>Tatas?

713
00:33:15.000 --> 00:33:17.119
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's an R there, but I think she meant tatas,

714
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<v Speaker 2>so that's what I think I was saying.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry. I know I have the email too, so

716
00:33:20.880 --> 00:33:22.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm pretty Suretas auto corrected you.

717
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<v Speaker 1>So I'm sorry.

718
00:33:23.799 --> 00:33:24.440
<v Speaker 3>That's my fault.

719
00:33:24.480 --> 00:33:25.119
<v Speaker 1>What happened to me?

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00:33:25.160 --> 00:33:28.039
<v Speaker 2>I signed up for comedy, not a midlife crush crisis.

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<v Speaker 2>And PS, Jenny, hope you had an amazing birthday, Thanks

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<v Speaker 2>b Yeah, it was pretty fun. They've already been confirmed

723
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<v Speaker 2>for a season two. By the way, Oh nice, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>one more Ques.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I guess whatever it is that we'll talk about,

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00:33:39.720 --> 00:33:41.160
<v Speaker 3>we can probably talk about next week.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Fallon and Jenny.

728
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<v Speaker 2>I'm someone who hasn't ever really had a lot of friends,

729
00:33:45.319 --> 00:33:47.759
<v Speaker 2>but recently had a huge friend group, and over the

730
00:33:47.799 --> 00:33:50.240
<v Speaker 2>past five years we've all kind of drifted apart. Some

731
00:33:50.319 --> 00:33:52.559
<v Speaker 2>I'm super close with, others we catch up every few months.

732
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<v Speaker 2>The one I'm super close with has a new bestie

733
00:33:54.759 --> 00:33:56.839
<v Speaker 2>who she spends a lot of her time with and,

734
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<v Speaker 2>much to my dismay, I'm jealous. How do you handle

735
00:34:00.119 --> 00:34:02.599
<v Speaker 2>friendship jealousy and not being jealous when one of your

736
00:34:02.599 --> 00:34:05.279
<v Speaker 2>friends is hanging out and you don't get an invite?

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<v Speaker 2>Any tips on making more friends? My job is very lonely.

738
00:34:08.360 --> 00:34:10.679
<v Speaker 2>I work from home, and my hobbies I enjoy don't

739
00:34:10.719 --> 00:34:13.480
<v Speaker 2>really have events that I'm aware of. I'd like board games,

740
00:34:13.519 --> 00:34:14.440
<v Speaker 2>watching sports, etc.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a tough one. I've definitely been jealous of friendships before.

743
00:34:22.920 --> 00:34:25.079
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if there's any way to deal with

744
00:34:25.119 --> 00:34:27.519
<v Speaker 2>it because it's kind of like watching your crush hit

745
00:34:27.599 --> 00:34:31.079
<v Speaker 2>on someone else, but it's like totally worse because it's

746
00:34:31.079 --> 00:34:33.639
<v Speaker 2>like your person you hang out with, is it something?

747
00:34:33.719 --> 00:34:36.039
<v Speaker 2>Where do you get along with the other person? Can

748
00:34:36.079 --> 00:34:36.960
<v Speaker 2>the three of you hang out?

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<v Speaker 3>I was gonna ask about two like friends with other persons.

750
00:34:39.840 --> 00:34:41.880
<v Speaker 2>If you're not getting invited, that's weird. But I would

751
00:34:41.920 --> 00:34:43.559
<v Speaker 2>say then you have to almost put it on yourself

752
00:34:43.559 --> 00:34:46.079
<v Speaker 2>and invite both of them, and maybe that increases the

753
00:34:46.079 --> 00:34:48.679
<v Speaker 2>odds of you getting the invite hang out with them.

754
00:34:49.000 --> 00:34:52.119
<v Speaker 2>I know I've had this happen too, though, where it's like, yeah,

755
00:34:52.119 --> 00:34:53.880
<v Speaker 2>but I wanted to spend one on one time with

756
00:34:53.960 --> 00:34:55.679
<v Speaker 2>my best friend. I don't want like the other person

757
00:34:55.719 --> 00:34:59.639
<v Speaker 2>around all the time. I think guild just have to

758
00:34:59.679 --> 00:35:02.760
<v Speaker 2>have a lo a little bit less of that. As

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<v Speaker 2>far as making friends, that is, it is really hard.

760
00:35:07.760 --> 00:35:10.599
<v Speaker 2>But I do think you could go because in the

761
00:35:10.599 --> 00:35:12.159
<v Speaker 2>past she said she doesn't do that. In the past,

762
00:35:12.159 --> 00:35:13.840
<v Speaker 2>we'd said, oh, you could join like a kickball, you

763
00:35:13.840 --> 00:35:15.760
<v Speaker 2>can join this, but that's not what you're into. But

764
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<v Speaker 2>I think there are lots of Facebook groups, so many

765
00:35:19.280 --> 00:35:23.800
<v Speaker 2>for the things you're actually interested in, and I think

766
00:35:23.840 --> 00:35:27.599
<v Speaker 2>you start commenting on there and maybe those groups have meetups.

767
00:35:27.639 --> 00:35:29.679
<v Speaker 2>Like I think it's more common to have like board

768
00:35:29.719 --> 00:35:33.000
<v Speaker 2>game nights at different like places or different things, and

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<v Speaker 2>then maybe you meet a person through that who's a

770
00:35:36.159 --> 00:35:39.440
<v Speaker 2>one off person or you just meet them through the

771
00:35:39.480 --> 00:35:41.119
<v Speaker 2>Facebook group and you're like, hey, would.

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<v Speaker 1>You ever want to like not in a weird way,

773
00:35:43.920 --> 00:35:44.599
<v Speaker 1>you know, like.

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00:35:44.559 --> 00:35:46.320
<v Speaker 2>I just like, you know, I think a lot of

775
00:35:46.360 --> 00:35:52.679
<v Speaker 2>people are seeking friendship, so not people aren't necessarily going

776
00:35:52.760 --> 00:35:55.000
<v Speaker 2>to just jump to what a weirdo. And if they are,

777
00:35:55.000 --> 00:35:57.559
<v Speaker 2>then maybe they're not your person. But it does take

778
00:35:57.599 --> 00:36:00.679
<v Speaker 2>a lot of courage, Yeah, initiate that.

779
00:36:01.000 --> 00:36:03.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I would say, I mean I know you're looking

780
00:36:03.400 --> 00:36:05.039
<v Speaker 3>for friends, so maybe you don't even have people to

781
00:36:05.159 --> 00:36:07.559
<v Speaker 3>like message about this. But I mean I have people

782
00:36:07.599 --> 00:36:09.760
<v Speaker 3>message me sometimes like hey, let's get a coffee or

783
00:36:09.760 --> 00:36:14.199
<v Speaker 3>whatever and like talk, and I'm always down for it,

784
00:36:14.360 --> 00:36:18.840
<v Speaker 3>like I just I really am, usually because I'm also like,

785
00:36:18.960 --> 00:36:20.599
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm at a very different phase in life

786
00:36:20.679 --> 00:36:23.079
<v Speaker 3>right now, so I am down to do like more

787
00:36:23.239 --> 00:36:26.480
<v Speaker 3>things than I would have if I wasn't single. Yeah,

788
00:36:26.480 --> 00:36:29.880
<v Speaker 3>but I don't know, I think just asking someone for coffee,

789
00:36:29.960 --> 00:36:32.840
<v Speaker 3>if you did meet them somehow, is a very chill,

790
00:36:33.559 --> 00:36:36.960
<v Speaker 3>like non invasive kind of hang seck.

791
00:36:37.079 --> 00:36:39.360
<v Speaker 1>Yes, agreed, So agreed.

792
00:36:39.400 --> 00:36:41.440
<v Speaker 2>The beginning parts of the friendship are always awkward though,

793
00:36:41.519 --> 00:36:43.119
<v Speaker 2>or you're like trying to get to that comfort level

794
00:36:43.159 --> 00:36:45.159
<v Speaker 2>with people and is like you're on a first date.

795
00:36:45.760 --> 00:36:50.079
<v Speaker 2>But also maybe you can just have a vulnerable conversation

796
00:36:50.159 --> 00:36:52.400
<v Speaker 2>with your bestie of like, hey, I miss you and

797
00:36:52.440 --> 00:36:54.599
<v Speaker 2>I miss us, and I'm totally down to hang out

798
00:36:54.639 --> 00:36:58.719
<v Speaker 2>with this other person. And if they're really your best friend,

799
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<v Speaker 2>I would hope that they would be like, dude, I

800
00:37:00.440 --> 00:37:02.800
<v Speaker 2>don't want to leave you out. Like that doesn't mean

801
00:37:02.800 --> 00:37:04.400
<v Speaker 2>that they're not going to do stuff with the other person.

802
00:37:04.400 --> 00:37:07.159
<v Speaker 2>Without you obviously, but I would hope that if they

803
00:37:07.159 --> 00:37:09.599
<v Speaker 2>were your best friend too, they would like be understanding

804
00:37:09.679 --> 00:37:13.320
<v Speaker 2>and and I know that that's also a hard conversation

805
00:37:13.400 --> 00:37:13.719
<v Speaker 2>to have.

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00:37:14.199 --> 00:37:17.800
<v Speaker 3>I know it is. It's like communication is key, they

807
00:37:17.800 --> 00:37:19.719
<v Speaker 3>always say. I say, it's like you're in a relationship

808
00:37:19.719 --> 00:37:22.679
<v Speaker 3>but you're not, and it's yeah, I don't I don't know,

809
00:37:22.719 --> 00:37:24.960
<v Speaker 3>but I mean, good luck and let us know. Yeah,

810
00:37:25.079 --> 00:37:28.480
<v Speaker 3>let us know goes before we end today. Can I

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<v Speaker 3>just do my creepy DM of the week?

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00:37:30.079 --> 00:37:30.639
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely?

813
00:37:30.679 --> 00:37:34.079
<v Speaker 3>Okay. It came from someone who the first message they

814
00:37:34.079 --> 00:37:37.320
<v Speaker 3>ever sent is Jenny from katiewb is hot. That's nice.

815
00:37:37.719 --> 00:37:39.719
<v Speaker 3>Now this is to me, so they're like talking to

816
00:37:39.760 --> 00:37:40.079
<v Speaker 3>me and like.

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00:37:40.119 --> 00:37:43.719
<v Speaker 2>Thirdird person here or kind of well that's our third

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<v Speaker 2>I don't remember, it's one of the persons. Third person

819
00:37:46.440 --> 00:37:48.400
<v Speaker 2>maybe if you were saying it about yourself.

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00:37:48.519 --> 00:37:51.760
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, But then immediately followed up with you missed one

821
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<v Speaker 3>hundred percent of the shots you don't take yep. So

822
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<v Speaker 3>there's that. And then the next message came in when

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<v Speaker 3>I had a video of me cuddling with a dog,

824
00:37:58.480 --> 00:38:00.599
<v Speaker 3>and it said can I come cuddle with two finger

825
00:38:00.639 --> 00:38:03.880
<v Speaker 3>emojis that point to each other like awkward whatever. Yep,

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<v Speaker 3>So that is my creepy DM of the week that

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<v Speaker 3>comes from Actually, I don't think i'll say names. Do

828
00:38:10.440 --> 00:38:11.199
<v Speaker 3>you just too much?

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00:38:11.199 --> 00:38:12.400
<v Speaker 1>Are you gonna let them come cuddle?

830
00:38:12.599 --> 00:38:16.280
<v Speaker 3>No? Okay, all right, I don't even open these messages

831
00:38:16.280 --> 00:38:17.880
<v Speaker 3>so that they can see it. But I just want

832
00:38:17.920 --> 00:38:20.719
<v Speaker 3>you all to know that I do see every message

833
00:38:20.760 --> 00:38:23.559
<v Speaker 3>that comes in. It's not a matter. And like, if

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00:38:23.599 --> 00:38:27.039
<v Speaker 3>I accepted it, it will show as scene, right, but

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<v Speaker 3>if I do not accept it, it will still shown

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<v Speaker 3>as unseen. However, I've seen it. Okay, so I've seen it.

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<v Speaker 3>I've screenshotted it, and it is now in a folder

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<v Speaker 3>called creepy dim on my phone. So thank you for

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<v Speaker 3>that one. That's the creepy DM of the week.

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<v Speaker 1>But thank you. Have a great week, Thanks for listening.