Speaker 1: Oh hey, everybody, Welcome to Pink Shade. What's up, Keisha?
Speaker 1: What happened?
Speaker 2: Do we need to stop to change I forgot to
Speaker 2: change shirts. We've done two recordings today and I kept
Speaker 2: on the same shirt.
Speaker 1: Oh that's okay. Not one person in the world is
Speaker 1: going to.
Speaker 2: Notice that except you. Nope, because I don't watch it.
Speaker 1: I said, welcome to Pink Shade, and you like screamed
Speaker 1: in the microphones. That's not a great way.
Speaker 2: To start the recording.
Speaker 1: I was like, I thought like a ghost had come
Speaker 1: up behind you or something like yeah.
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'd be like, have a seat, join the pod.
Speaker 2: Are you a ghost virgin?
Speaker 1: Since you saw me earlier today when we recorded match
Speaker 1: me abroad.
Speaker 2: You look like a different person.
Speaker 1: I've showered, I put on some act, will make up.
Speaker 1: I fell on. Yeah, joy the whole thing. And there's
Speaker 1: really no reason for it, because I'm just home for
Speaker 1: dinner tonight. But like I said on the match, we
Speaker 1: have broad bonus episode. My son's girlfriend's in town, so
Speaker 1: I just need her to think that I look halfway decent.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I got it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember doing that with Scholar's boyfriend. I was like, Okay,
Speaker 2: I need to look presentable and nice. Now, I don't
Speaker 2: give two ships. He has seen me with pajamas and
Speaker 2: a bonnet on.
Speaker 1: Yep, I was, Yeah, I was in pajamas this morning
Speaker 1: when I was recording with you, and she had been
Speaker 1: seeing me. But what am I gonna do?
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, you've been around for over a year.
Speaker 1: So yeah, not this girl. But she's really cute and
Speaker 1: really nice. And they went today to do a capital
Speaker 1: tour and they went to the Spy Museum, so they're
Speaker 1: having fun.
Speaker 2: All right, Shit here, it's so hot here. It can't
Speaker 2: be hotter than it is here.
Speaker 1: Let's compare. I'm gonna look at my look, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: look at my temperature. But you gotta do the temperature
Speaker 1: and then you have to do the feels like, because
Speaker 1: the feels like is the problem.
Speaker 2: That's the part that matters.
Speaker 1: Okay, So currently it's ninety and let's get to the
Speaker 1: air quality is forty three. Uh, it feels ninety two, Okay.
Speaker 2: How about you? Okay, well it's it's ninety one here.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna lose.
Speaker 2: If it feels ninety four, you win by two degrees.
Speaker 2: And the humidity is sixty percent.
Speaker 1: Oh well, let me look at the humidity. I'm going
Speaker 1: to tell you something. When I left Baldhead on Wednesday
Speaker 1: to fly to La I walked out of the door
Speaker 1: at six fifteen am, it was eighty eight degrees and
Speaker 1: it hit me in the face like a brick, the humidity.
Speaker 1: I was like, it's when is that early? And you think, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get a little breeze, it's nice to take
Speaker 1: a little No, no, no, no, no no. I'm going
Speaker 1: to look and see what my humidity is here. Sixty
Speaker 1: four percent okay, yeah, dwo point seventy seven degrees. Now
Speaker 1: I don't have any.
Speaker 2: Clue what that means. I don't know what that means either.
Speaker 1: All I know is hot as shit. And I walked
Speaker 1: outside to like take the dogs, and they just started
Speaker 1: running around like trying to have fun. I was like, no,
Speaker 1: not playing out here. Let's go come back inside, do
Speaker 1: your business. We're going in.
Speaker 2: This is heat stroke kind of weather. Sure, els is terrible.
Speaker 1: That was fun. That was weather talk. We are here
Speaker 1: to chat about virgins.
Speaker 2: Uh huh uh huh.
Speaker 1: I have to say it out loud over and over
Speaker 1: because we're covering so many she shows I can't remember
Speaker 1: what we're talking about So I finally did get my
Speaker 1: streamer to work. After about halfway through piche it sort
Speaker 1: of picked up and started working properly.
Speaker 2: But that's so weird.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it wasn't. So then I tried to like, I
Speaker 1: was like, well, I'll just watch it on my phone,
Speaker 1: but it was doing the same thing as glitching for
Speaker 1: the whole first twenty two minutes. It wou stop and
Speaker 1: then I would have to go back and then yeah,
Speaker 1: but then it started working. So let's talk about these people.
Speaker 1: And I didn't even have to look at the name
Speaker 1: of the episode because I knew it was going to
Speaker 1: be third Base.
Speaker 2: You you said it last week, yep, yep. All. Let's
Speaker 2: she's kinda because no one's getting to.
Speaker 1: Their base thus far. No, not even close. Not even
Speaker 1: nobody's even gotten too first base, not even a kiss.
Speaker 1: So we start with Russia, who's forty two, as we know,
Speaker 1: from Jacksonville, Florida. She shows us her outfit. She's going
Speaker 1: to the selfie show room. Now, first we should show
Speaker 1: the outfit. I was like, Hesh's gonna have to say
Speaker 1: something about the lack of undergarments.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I don't get it, like we have spanks,
Speaker 2: in different sizes, different colors, different price ranges. Like they
Speaker 2: are available to you, but some people just don't wear them.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's not so much like you can't change
Speaker 1: what your size is, but you could just sort of
Speaker 1: make your clothes move.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, I hate the fact that I saw her
Speaker 2: in distress and then I saw Amy Slayton from a
Speaker 2: thousand pounds sisters and they look the same right in
Speaker 2: the middle section, both of them. Neither one of them
Speaker 2: had on any kind of undergarment or anything. Just smooth
Speaker 2: that smooth that I'm not going to tell you what
Speaker 2: one of my listeners how she described heem looked, She's like, oh,
Speaker 2: and so I think that if she would just do that,
Speaker 2: she looked a lot nicer. Yeah, I said, she has to.
Speaker 1: Look nice, but just you know, listen, I feel that
Speaker 1: she's like overconfident and under confident at the same time.
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, yes, perfectly stated I agree one hun and
Speaker 2: she needs someone to tell her how to dress because
Speaker 2: she has lost weight because when you get to a
Speaker 2: certain size, there's not that much out there. So I
Speaker 2: had to teach myself how to dress. I'm like, look,
Speaker 2: I don't have to be frumpy anymore. I've lost weight.
Speaker 2: But when you're you're trained to think I gotta do
Speaker 2: this is then you're like, oh wait, I can fit
Speaker 2: in that. Even though it doesn't look good on me,
Speaker 2: you're like, when I fit in it? So it's weird. Yeah,
Speaker 2: And I think that's kind of where she is right
Speaker 2: now with the process. Girl call me Rasha you.
Speaker 1: So she is going to go to the selfie showroom
Speaker 1: that she wanted to go to with that other guy,
Speaker 1: and it's a guy named Jeremy, and then she's talking
Speaker 1: to the The producers probably have the best time with
Speaker 1: her because she is so funny and so out there.
Speaker 1: They're like, they're like, who's going to talk to Rasia today?
Speaker 1: And they're like me, I want to go, And somebody
Speaker 1: else is like, who's going to talk to Sonali? And
Speaker 1: everybody's like, not it, not it.
Speaker 2: They literally have to pull straws to see who's gonna
Speaker 2: talk to Sonali.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So the producer is asking her like how she
Speaker 1: gets ready and said, she goes, I've pit perfume between
Speaker 1: my lest because you don't know what's going to be
Speaker 1: down there. She just laughs and laughs. So she meets
Speaker 1: him and says she knows she already knew there was
Speaker 1: a height difference, and she's upkay with it because she
Speaker 1: likes a rugged, manly type and she thinks he's cute,
Speaker 1: and on his description he said he's open to new experiences,
Speaker 1: and so she goes, maybe I'll tell him I'm a virgin.
Speaker 1: Maybe I want What we have learned on this show
Speaker 1: over and over and over again is you don't tell
Speaker 1: somebody on the first date.
Speaker 2: There's no reason to even really unless you're going to
Speaker 2: have sex on the first date. I don't even think
Speaker 2: there's a reason to talk about sex on a first date.
Speaker 1: I don't think you need to talk about being a
Speaker 1: virgin until you get to that point in your relationship
Speaker 1: where you're going, hey, it could lead to sex.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like they almost use it like a conversation conversation starter. Yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 2: there's so many other things to talk about.
Speaker 1: Like Harold on Master Beer Proud, would you like a beverage?
Speaker 1: I like milk.
Speaker 2: I'm jealous of Haribal Carol because I have ibas. I
Speaker 2: can't drink regular milk anymore, so a little bit it
Speaker 2: was like jealousy.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I've tried to drink milk in a long time,
Speaker 1: but I used to love it.
Speaker 2: I did too. I used to love it in cereal,
Speaker 2: but all the milk and cereal is not quite the same.
Speaker 2: But to that, that's what I mean.
Speaker 1: So a selfie show room worker approaches them and explains
Speaker 1: how it works. Now, I like this because I've never
Speaker 1: been to one of these. Obviously, I guess we have
Speaker 1: one around here. But I didn't know that, like the
Speaker 1: ring light and the camera angle was set for you,
Speaker 1: so the selfie would be perfect. I thought you were
Speaker 1: literally just with your phone, like yeah. So I liked
Speaker 1: that it was all set up exactly how it would
Speaker 1: look good.
Speaker 2: I liked it.
Speaker 1: Maybe we should go find one next time we're together.
Speaker 2: I would love that. We need to make sure there's
Speaker 2: a next time together soon.
Speaker 1: I know I have to figure that out. Next time
Speaker 1: you go to New York, I'll come and then you're
Speaker 1: gonna really do it. You're gonna really do it. You
Speaker 1: do that, You'll be a big yeah. So uh And
Speaker 1: then talking head Jeremy standing there and he goes, yeah,
Speaker 1: I saw her profile on the dating side. She seems interesting.
Speaker 1: She's super cute. She said she likes to try new things,
Speaker 1: and so do I. Now here is where I'm thinking
Speaker 1: Jeremy thinks new things are like I've never had sushi,
Speaker 1: Let's go try it. I've never been ziplining, Let's go
Speaker 1: try that. That's how I'm getting the feeling that he
Speaker 1: thinks try new things are.
Speaker 2: Mary paynt nowadays. I don't know what that means. I
Speaker 2: don't know if you like to on Sunday evening stroll
Speaker 2: around on a horse bare back. People are so out
Speaker 2: there now, Okay, I don't know. He could have said
Speaker 2: I like to fock to the sound of frogs. I
Speaker 2: put nothing past people nowadays. So, like literally, when he
Speaker 2: said that, I.
Speaker 1: Was like, oh boy, well is he into Luckily, Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's into her same shit. So and the talking head
Speaker 1: she goes, here's the thing about Jeremy. He has his
Speaker 1: own place, his own car, and a job. I was like,
Speaker 1: the bar is low, very low. The bar is low.
Speaker 1: If all you need is fun, somebody have an apartment,
Speaker 1: a car, and a job.
Speaker 2: Well, that's what they all put in their dating profile
Speaker 2: thing too. Like the guy was like, I have my
Speaker 2: own job, I have my own apartment, I have my
Speaker 2: own car. It's like, yeah, you should like these are
Speaker 2: things that you shouldn't have to shout out there like, yeah, you.
Speaker 1: Shouldn't be you should not be on a dating profile
Speaker 1: if you don't have those things.
Speaker 2: I agree, yes, I agree.
Speaker 1: You need to get your life together and then you
Speaker 1: can be on a dating profile.
Speaker 2: Yep.
Speaker 1: So she says that's good because she hopes, you know,
Speaker 1: they have a spark and a connection. She says, he's
Speaker 1: funny and he's going along with all the stealthy stuff,
Speaker 1: which she likes. And she's like, oh, we look cute together.
Speaker 1: And it's funny because the one picture, like she's in
Speaker 1: the front, he's in the back. Like, now, wait a minute,
Speaker 1: I look too short. So the next one he's like
Speaker 1: doing like that.
Speaker 2: It's not like that. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So they go in one of the rooms and then
Speaker 1: he says, and it has like a fake brick on
Speaker 1: the wall. But then I realized from the preview to
Speaker 1: now what he's talking about. He goes, you know what
Speaker 1: this reminds me of because it's all these different setups
Speaker 1: in all these different rooms. He goes, it's like being
Speaker 1: like a BDSM dungeon, where like every room is a
Speaker 1: different theme, right, And she goes, they're talking to She goes,
Speaker 1: what are the odds we never talked about BDSM. We
Speaker 1: never talk sexual at all, and it is just like,
Speaker 1: are you sure, and she goes, it's completely I think
Speaker 1: she's shocked because normally everything is like a producer plant,
Speaker 1: you know. And they're like, we didn't even tell them
Speaker 1: to say that, you know. Yeah, And so she goes,
Speaker 1: funny story, I just went to a place like that,
Speaker 1: and he goes, for real, uh huh. He says, I've
Speaker 1: been in that lifestyle for about fifteen years. She's like what,
Speaker 1: and he says, yeah, really a lifestyle.
Speaker 2: Like do people say that's like their lifestyle? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I think so, because yeah, if you're dating a guy
Speaker 1: for a while and all of a sudden he goes, hey,
Speaker 1: you know what, I've got a whole leather case full
Speaker 1: of spanking utensils, I would say we are not living
Speaker 1: the same lifestyle.
Speaker 2: Well, wouldn't it be that we are just not on
Speaker 2: the same level sexually? It is I think the rest
Speaker 2: of everything, we're.
Speaker 1: Not sexually compatible. I think if he needs that in
Speaker 1: a sexual aspect, which seems like he does, And so
Speaker 1: he goes, yeah, I like my MiG thing. I really
Speaker 1: like spanking, I really like role playing. So then she
Speaker 1: and the producer, like, look at his profile again, and
Speaker 1: she goes, it doesn't say anything on here about it.
Speaker 1: It does say non vanilla. So I guess that was
Speaker 1: his way of saying, like, I'm.
Speaker 2: Not side in the box, I'm not your average guy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because he definitely looks like your average guy.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 1: So she tells him that she got spanked with a flogger,
Speaker 1: and she tells.
Speaker 2: Him, wait, what non vanilla. That could mean a lot
Speaker 2: of things.
Speaker 1: It could mean s he likes black girls.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Now did I think about it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I see, I would think it meant non
Speaker 1: vanilla sexually or like I'm.
Speaker 2: Not I would never think said, I would never think
Speaker 2: put the sex. I wouldn't put the sex in there.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't even think to do that.
Speaker 1: Well, either one. It applies here both ways, it does.
Speaker 2: So there there we go. So she tells him about
Speaker 2: the flogger and she's like start with Then he's like, flogger, Yeah,
Speaker 2: he knew, and.
Speaker 1: She goes in there there was these ropes and things
Speaker 1: and it is talking it. He goes, I'm really excited
Speaker 1: to find this out about her because this is great
Speaker 1: because now when I meet somebody, I don't have to
Speaker 1: like ease him into it. I could really beat myself.
Speaker 1: So he says to her, like, take a seat, young lady, and.
Speaker 2: She's like, oh, I like it what he tells me
Speaker 2: to take a seat, young lady. It was kind of hot.
Speaker 1: I didn't like normally, I wouldn't.
Speaker 2: I tell you every time there's a rassia scene, I know,
Speaker 2: I get.
Speaker 1: Tingly you're very into it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. And it's I think I'm going to
Speaker 2: let producer James do one of those things, okay James her, Yeah,
Speaker 2: like the flogger. Yeah, I think I might. I think
Speaker 2: we're going on vacation this week.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. All right, so they tell you about it.
Speaker 1: No you're not recording.
Speaker 2: No, it will still be pe PG just like this. Okay,
Speaker 2: that's your personal bedroom business. Okay, I share it.
Speaker 1: So the face they talk more about it. He said, well,
Speaker 1: tell me about the club. And it wasn't really a club.
Speaker 1: I guess he thought she would like a full on club.
Speaker 1: And she goes it, really liked it, you know, it
Speaker 1: was like my first time.
Speaker 2: I really liked it.
Speaker 1: And she goes, but I have another secret to tell
Speaker 1: you why why she was doing so good? And she
Speaker 1: says I'm actually still a virgin, and he goes, wow,
Speaker 1: well good for you.
Speaker 2: That just doesn't go together at all, because how do
Speaker 2: you go to this extreme to this extreme like I'm okay,
Speaker 2: which one is a lie? Is it? Like? You know,
Speaker 2: right lie? Like what is right? Right? Isn't?
Speaker 1: And he goes, okay, well, good for you. Great, and
Speaker 1: he says I don't have a problem with it. But
Speaker 1: in the talking head outside he goes, well, this is interesting, right.
Speaker 1: He goes, I have to be careful with how I
Speaker 1: approached this, especially if she's into BDSM, but she's still
Speaker 1: a virgin. I mean I want to respect your boundaries.
Speaker 1: And then he says to her, yeah, I'll be glad
Speaker 1: to show you how I spank naughty little girls like you,
Speaker 1: young lady.
Speaker 2: She's like, oh, she likes it. I mean I mean
Speaker 2: it has He's right, like he's got to really think
Speaker 2: about this, like, yeah, she likes all of this stuff,
Speaker 2: but she's a virgin. So you're like, okay, I can't
Speaker 2: use like a butt plug the first time she fucking
Speaker 2: does it? Like we got to work into these things.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so do. And I kind of feel
Speaker 1: like he's such a nice, easy going guy. That this
Speaker 1: maybe have been the perfect guy for herd his right
Speaker 1: with you know.
Speaker 2: This would have been perfect even if like there's no
Speaker 2: relationship came from it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he should be.
Speaker 2: Like, what is her sexual surrogate? What is the sexual Yes, yes,
Speaker 2: I think that's what he should be for her. Just
Speaker 2: get it out nothing else.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so I'm talking head, he says, I got
Speaker 1: a respect her boundaries. So the next day, two weeks later,
Speaker 1: a month, we're not sure, Rasha says they don't live
Speaker 1: close together. So she goes over to Jeremy's and the
Speaker 1: talking head the producer says, so you're going over to
Speaker 1: Jeremy saying, you know what i'd be DSM means and
Speaker 1: she goes, uh huh, And the producer says, what does
Speaker 1: it mean? And she goes, yeah, I know. Produces Okay,
Speaker 1: what does the B stand for? And she goes booty?
Speaker 1: And what does D stand for?
Speaker 2: She says, dick?
Speaker 1: What does the S stand for sex? What does the
Speaker 1: M stand for? Moaning? And of course they put on
Speaker 1: the screen bondage domination say it because of ascoism.
Speaker 2: And you know, I would have totally bought the definition
Speaker 2: she gave because I didn't know what it meant till
Speaker 2: last week when you told me. I'm like, I know
Speaker 2: it has something to do with spaky, but I have
Speaker 2: no idea what the letters. I mean if you hadn't
Speaker 2: told me. And she said that, I'm like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it makes perfect sense. I'm into a booty dick
Speaker 1: seximoning sounds like a great night. And then she says
Speaker 1: big Puri is trying to get fed, and she is laughing,
Speaker 1: and the producer goes, you are wild, and then she
Speaker 1: compares her to vagina. There's that big plant in the
Speaker 1: movie that has feed me.
Speaker 2: Like, wait a minute, girl, it ain't there yet. I
Speaker 2: think it's like a very small baby plant, saying it
Speaker 2: like yeah, Like she's she's hungry, She's totally hungry for
Speaker 2: for for for dick.
Speaker 1: She just is maybe it's little shop of hers with
Speaker 1: the plant at the time, Yeah it is, yea more.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So now he's made her dinner right, and it's awkward
Speaker 1: and they're kind of sitting there. It's awkward, and she goes.
Speaker 2: It's awkward. How how well done that steak was or
Speaker 2: how draw that potato was? Because you potato looking.
Speaker 1: I was looking at the potato too. I was like,
Speaker 1: you need some sour cream, some butter, some bacon bits.
Speaker 1: There's sometimes yeah.
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, and that that steak was all the way
Speaker 2: well done.
Speaker 1: Well I like a medium.
Speaker 2: Medium or yeah that's where I'm at. Medium well, I
Speaker 2: like it medium. Well, you like medium?
Speaker 1: Were?
Speaker 2: No? I think medium well because I get cooked tomorrow
Speaker 2: a little bit more because if I see too much
Speaker 2: red or pink.
Speaker 1: I can't eat.
Speaker 2: I can't do it. I can't do it.
Speaker 1: So she was like, yeah, this is my third date
Speaker 1: ever and I don't even know if I have the
Speaker 1: flirting down. And then she's trying to show the producer.
Speaker 1: She goes, you have to do the.
Speaker 2: Blinking of a winking and the bridger like, please stop.
Speaker 2: It was a blinking baby doll from the age it
Speaker 2: was like she couldn't go again, has like yeah, like no,
Speaker 2: that's not how it goes.
Speaker 1: And she says I like your meat and he goes,
Speaker 1: oh really, and they start laughing because she's trying to
Speaker 1: be funny, and he says, oh, you're making my cheeks red,
Speaker 1: and then he says, maybe I'll make your other cheeks
Speaker 1: read later, and she.
Speaker 2: Says to the producer. Producer says, do you want Jeremy to.
Speaker 1: Spank you or kiss you, or which would you want first,
Speaker 1: And she says, I would rather him spank me before
Speaker 1: he kisses me, because I think kissing is too intimate.
Speaker 1: So this is a little bit again where she's got
Speaker 1: it a little bit flipped. She really should have some
Speaker 1: intimy with somebody before. She's like, I agree, you're gonna
Speaker 1: put her bear vagina out to get spanked, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean.
Speaker 2: I mean, look as for later on in marriage, where
Speaker 2: you've been married fifty years, you just kind of do
Speaker 2: a boom in the middle of the night and you
Speaker 2: just look the personnel does just do it. No kissing,
Speaker 2: no rubbing, let's just yeah, straight to the point, not
Speaker 2: the first time. You need some yeah, Roman, Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: So she tells Jeremy, yeah, I'd be interested in healthily
Speaker 2: exploring it. And she goes, let me see your choys.
Speaker 1: He goes, oh, you want to see So he brings
Speaker 1: out like a it's like a leather box. But I
Speaker 1: think it's like his ottoman the storage.
Speaker 2: And oh, okay, okay.
Speaker 1: That's what it seemed like to me that now.
Speaker 2: That's weird to keep all that shit right there in
Speaker 2: the living room.
Speaker 1: That's where I thought, but maybe maybe it's a special
Speaker 1: leather box and I just don't know about it. And
Speaker 1: then talking, Eddy goes, yeah, I'm okay with this, but
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be sure there's like clear communication, like
Speaker 1: I really want to take things slowly, like I can't
Speaker 1: just want So he shows her all his various spankers.
Speaker 1: One of them is like a fire hose piece.
Speaker 2: I know. I was like, I bet that show will hurt.
Speaker 2: That's a lot I like people. I don't want that.
Speaker 1: And she leans over and is like, do it, and
Speaker 1: so he spanks her with one of the things and
Speaker 1: she's like, oh my god. So she didn't want that part.
Speaker 1: She didn't want it to hurt.
Speaker 2: She needs to sick with Scarecrow and the flogger, I
Speaker 2: think her level. Yeah, he is very experienced. The simple
Speaker 2: fact that he has a box of this shit. Yeah,
Speaker 2: let you know, he's not playing around at all.
Speaker 1: And one of the fire hose I mean, yeah.
Speaker 2: That's no, no, thank you, nothing.
Speaker 1: So he's showing her all the different ones and she's
Speaker 1: like rolling around like whoa. I mean, she's loving it, right,
Speaker 1: even though she said one of them kind of her
Speaker 1: a little bit. And she's like well that was interesting,
Speaker 1: thank you. So now, she says in the talking Head,
Speaker 1: she goes it with Jeremy, it didn't seem sexy like
Speaker 1: it doesn't porn. It just seemed more friendly and mentally
Speaker 1: I wasn't there because in porn the guys are dominant
Speaker 1: and they take what they want and I didn't feel
Speaker 1: that with him. And maybe I'm not sexually attracted to him.
Speaker 1: So here in life is her problem?
Speaker 2: Pisha, Yeah, a fantasy world.
Speaker 1: Her problem is she's watched like big world up guys
Speaker 1: with like uriuses and stuff.
Speaker 2: Who get paid to do this.
Speaker 1: And also probably the girls are all in some sort
Speaker 1: of like sexy leather lingerie. She's on somebody's catching her
Speaker 1: sweatpants with a film crew. Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: I mean? And that's so one of the things that,
Speaker 2: like you if people, when people talk about porn, people
Speaker 2: always say, porn is not real. Porn is a fantasy.
Speaker 2: It is a production. That's why they always say, Man,
Speaker 2: don't expect for your girl to be like the porn star.
Speaker 2: She's a porn stars paid to do this. And now
Speaker 2: this is what she has done. This was the perfect
Speaker 2: opportunity with this guy for her to get it done
Speaker 2: and get it I agree he would have been very
Speaker 2: respectful towards her and also pleasurable for her as well.
Speaker 1: I think so too. And I think also her like
Speaker 1: having sweatpants on and him having like this little khaki
Speaker 1: shorts on, know that all that's not going to be sexy.
Speaker 1: Anything sexy is gonna happen when the cameras aren't there,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, I'm sure neither Like I don't know. I'm
Speaker 2: sure neither one of them thought they were gonna have
Speaker 2: sex that night, so of course there's no sexy lingerie,
Speaker 2: even though that's them. But no, this wasn't. I don't
Speaker 2: like that she so quickly gave up on him.
Speaker 1: Me too, Me too.
Speaker 2: I didn't. I didn't.
Speaker 1: I just needed like kismet, Like it all came together
Speaker 1: when she met this guy and she didn't know anything.
Speaker 1: That's what he liked, and then he does the exact
Speaker 1: thing that she wants, right, and.
Speaker 2: He's very sweet to her. He's not going girl like
Speaker 2: the other guy was. No. God, it is so bad.
Speaker 2: So it was cringey.
Speaker 1: So my advice to her is stop watching porn and
Speaker 1: get with the real man in the real world and
Speaker 1: see like that's totally different, right, yeah, all right, all right,
Speaker 1: let's move on to with our favorite friend Dan. I
Speaker 1: did get a I did get somebody DM this week
Speaker 1: and said, I love y'all covering this show, and I
Speaker 1: love how much y'all hate Dan.
Speaker 2: She's just zero personality, and then she has all these
Speaker 2: expectations of a man, and it's like, girl, you kinda
Speaker 2: suck a little bit, like your attitude sucks. You're not funny.
Speaker 2: She's better this week, she's better, is better this week?
Speaker 2: She is all right.
Speaker 1: She's going on this speed dding thing that's called ice Break,
Speaker 1: and she says she likes going to things like this
Speaker 1: because there's lots of different people there with lots of options.
Speaker 1: It's not just like that guy's cute, go talk to him.
Speaker 1: So I can see that, you know, and their guys
Speaker 1: standing around and they so many of them are cute,
Speaker 1: but some are like laid out on, being backs, like
Speaker 1: they're getting a past mirror. I was like, what are
Speaker 1: you guys doing? Get up?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're supposed to be kind of such a date.
Speaker 1: Two guys laying there. Yeah, So she sees one guy
Speaker 1: who is super cute, and there were some of the
Speaker 1: other cute guys. They showed there was a lot of
Speaker 1: cute guys. And she says she never approaches anybody, but
Speaker 1: she sees him and she says, I would never actively
Speaker 1: approach someone ever, and the producer goes, then what is
Speaker 1: your seduction method? And she goes, proximity. I just I
Speaker 1: just stand close to them and hope they noticed me.
Speaker 2: Has worked?
Speaker 1: Has it worked for you?
Speaker 2: Not even close? No?
Speaker 1: So this guy comes over Alex. Now you do wonder
Speaker 1: if production went over to him because he has to
Speaker 1: sign the thing and he has to get miked up.
Speaker 2: Yep, he does. He is trying to get that gift card.
Speaker 1: So production went over and had him sign the form
Speaker 1: to say he'd be on camera, and they talk and
Speaker 1: she says she's from Connecticut. Originally he says he's from
Speaker 1: Kansas because like nobody in LA, you know, is from LA.
Speaker 1: The same with DC. Nobody from DC. Nobody lives in
Speaker 1: DC is from DC. And he says, so you want
Speaker 1: to like get in this ice best. She's like, Okay,
Speaker 1: let's do it. And she says she likes him because
Speaker 1: he seems to have like a quiet confidence without seeming cocky.
Speaker 1: And I agree, he seems okay, yeah, normal. So in
Speaker 1: the talking Dady goes, yeah, I came to this event
Speaker 1: out of the blue, and this is not something I
Speaker 1: normally do, and I almost like pulled out of it
Speaker 1: this morning. But when I got here, I did notice
Speaker 1: Dean right away. She's glowing and she's pretty and I'm
Speaker 1: into shorter brunettes, and she has a nice smile and
Speaker 1: so good.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay.
Speaker 1: So it's pretty interesting because he did not go there
Speaker 1: at all expecting to Now I'm going to be on
Speaker 1: a TV show and they and you know, it says
Speaker 1: unnamed TLC production, and later he's.
Speaker 2: Just going to find out it's called Virgins, but he
Speaker 2: already signed it. Well, she's gonna tell him.
Speaker 1: She's gonna tell him not on the first day, please, Dan, Please,
Speaker 1: it's going to be on the first day. So they
Speaker 1: have to get in this ice bath and do ice
Speaker 1: breaker questions.
Speaker 2: And that didn't even look like a true ice bath
Speaker 2: to me, because that's aw no ice.
Speaker 1: I think it was just like extremely cold, like extin
Speaker 1: like a cold plunge, you know, And so she's just
Speaker 1: like perched on the edge. He just gets right in
Speaker 1: and they do the questions and you know who would
Speaker 1: you have dinner with whatever? And so she says his
Speaker 1: confidence is really attractive. And so after they're there, they
Speaker 1: ask to the questions. She's like, you want to get
Speaker 1: in the all on out? He says yes, So they
Speaker 1: run and get into the warm thing and they're talking
Speaker 1: and they're sitting next to each other, and he says,
Speaker 1: do you do the apps or what do you do
Speaker 1: for dating? She goes, I really don't. I don't really
Speaker 1: like any of that. I don't date much.
Speaker 2: So she really doesn't even like men that much. She
Speaker 2: likes people that much. I don't thinks like people in general.
Speaker 2: I don't think so either men or women. No, I don't,
Speaker 2: I know. I just she's not a people person at all.
Speaker 2: She barely likes her two friends.
Speaker 1: And she's mad at them already, you know last week
Speaker 1: she's mad at them. So he says, so, would you
Speaker 1: want to grab a coffee sometime or go to the beach?
Speaker 1: And she goes, I don't drink coffee, but I'd love
Speaker 1: to go to the beach. Yeah, So she goes, I'm
Speaker 1: excited about this, Like, I'm excited about this guy, and
Speaker 1: I hope it develops into something more.
Speaker 2: Okay, that was it. That was it.
Speaker 1: And guess what, we hope it does too, because we
Speaker 1: hope it's going to put you in a better.
Speaker 2: Mood, because you need something to put you in a
Speaker 2: better mood. I don't know if you need to think
Speaker 2: on the ass or.
Speaker 1: Speaking of speaking of bad moods, let's go to Sonali,
Speaker 1: all right, Poor Sonali's everything's up here. Everything's up here.
Speaker 1: I blame her parents. I blame her parents. So you
Speaker 1: know what's interesting too about Sonali is I don't know
Speaker 1: if in La she could find, like, here's this gorgeous
Speaker 1: Indian doctor that understands my culture and would understand where
Speaker 1: I came from and understand why I'm a virgin and
Speaker 1: maybe even appreciate it and be happy to take it
Speaker 1: slow with me.
Speaker 2: You cannot tell me there is not a dating website
Speaker 2: specifically from for like an Indian matchmaker. Excuse me, Yeah,
Speaker 2: like there has. There's a dating website for like every
Speaker 2: group of people out there. Yes, I don't think it
Speaker 2: would matter if the mand that you just describe. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't think it would matter to her.
Speaker 1: I really don't, because it seems like that would be
Speaker 1: culturally perfect because he would understand her. But yet they're
Speaker 1: also progressive because they're trying to be their own people,
Speaker 1: and he would understand, you know, where she's coming from
Speaker 1: kind of a thing. But I don't know.
Speaker 2: There's just something there. I think there's something else, more
Speaker 2: deep rooted than what we know.
Speaker 1: I think so too.
Speaker 2: I'm just scared to find out.
Speaker 1: So we see her at the doctor office talking to
Speaker 1: doctor Kimberly, and doctor Kimberly is telling her about the
Speaker 1: sexual surrogate and kind of tells her what it's about.
Speaker 1: And she is but we all work as a team,
Speaker 1: you know, we don't just like throw you out there
Speaker 1: with the stranger. We all work as a team to
Speaker 1: track your progress and make sure you're always feeling safe
Speaker 1: and heard.
Speaker 2: And you're talking heads to all that goes. This is
Speaker 2: jaw dropping. I agree this it is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, But she was like, but I'm open, you know,
Speaker 1: to talking about it, and they're talking head Kimberly. Doctor
Speaker 1: Kimberly says, Sonali is apprehensive and suspicious, and she has
Speaker 1: every right to be because it's a weird thing. But
Speaker 1: maybe this could help her. So Sally says, Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: open to it, and yeah, teamwork makes the dream work.
Speaker 2: It takes a village, you know, to get me to
Speaker 2: have sex. I don't know you need a village, you
Speaker 2: really do, And she says, I have to get out
Speaker 2: of my comfort zone.
Speaker 1: So what is it hurt to try this?
Speaker 2: Sure?
Speaker 1: So then we see her doing like a self filmed chat.
Speaker 1: Her hair is down, she doesn't have a lot of makeup.
Speaker 2: She looks so much better better, yes she does, yes,
Speaker 2: almost like a different person.
Speaker 1: She looks her age. Yep, she looks so much better
Speaker 1: without that be have hairdo and all that heavy eighties makeup.
Speaker 2: When she when she's dressed like that, she literally looks
Speaker 2: like an old person who's trying to look young.
Speaker 1: Mmmm. Sorry, I'm taking this step. That's exactly exactly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, I don't. I don't get it. And she
Speaker 2: looked fresh faced like she doesn't even need a whole
Speaker 2: bunch of makeup.
Speaker 1: You know, she's so forgetted. Yeah, she got that beautiful nose.
Speaker 1: So okay, so she looks great. So two weeks later
Speaker 1: we see her going in to meet with Kimberly and
Speaker 1: she meets a guy named Wayne mm hmmmm, and the
Speaker 1: talking head Wayne explains what an intimacy partner is what
Speaker 1: he's there for I'm like, what kind of training do
Speaker 1: you get? Is he a therapist that also is okay
Speaker 1: to bang somebody?
Speaker 2: Like I just feel like that is not the person
Speaker 2: I would want you to pick for me to have
Speaker 2: sex with, to teach me about sex at all?
Speaker 1: Right, But how many choices are there? You know what
Speaker 1: I mean?
Speaker 2: It gotta be at least one more choice. I can
Speaker 2: not find him attractive at all.
Speaker 1: Like, the more we he talked and we saw him
Speaker 1: on camera, the more like, Okay, he's not bad, he's okay,
Speaker 1: hit pretty eyes and I.
Speaker 2: Mean, he's all right and just stop there.
Speaker 1: Initially initially I was like, whoa hairline? But then as
Speaker 1: he talked more and everything, I was like, okay, all right.
Speaker 2: All I've got to say is if that is the
Speaker 2: person that they pick, he better be the best sex
Speaker 2: partner on planet Earth.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, okay yeah. So he explains what it is,
Speaker 1: and so he sits with her and says, tell me, what, like,
Speaker 1: what do you really think that you want? And she goes,
Speaker 1: I want companionship, of course, I want love and that
Speaker 1: could lead to sex. And he says, well, I'll be
Speaker 1: glad to work through all of this with you, and
Speaker 1: we will work through it as you feel comfortable, and
Speaker 1: maybe you could get more relaxed, and if you do,
Speaker 1: we could move to physical intimacy after touching whatever is comfortable.
Speaker 1: I'm here to make you comfortable. So that's the first meeting.
Speaker 1: One week later, he comes back.
Speaker 2: To her host house.
Speaker 1: It's like every Tuesday at three, Wayne comes over, right,
Speaker 1: So he comes up over and no, no, wait, okay,
Speaker 1: first she meets him in the office. Okay, second time
Speaker 1: is at the house. Okay, sorry, that first time was
Speaker 1: in the office. The second time he comes into her
Speaker 1: home and she goes, I've never had a boy in
Speaker 1: my home.
Speaker 2: Oh, dear god, Okay, I mean we are really starting
Speaker 2: at ground zero.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's never even had a boy come into her house.
Speaker 1: So he sits and talked to her on the couch
Speaker 1: and she says, you know the problem is, Wayne, I'm
Speaker 1: thirty seven. I've just accepted that this is the way
Speaker 1: I am. And I want to be happy, but I've
Speaker 1: accepted that this is the way I am.
Speaker 2: So the talking head.
Speaker 1: She goes, You know, as far as Wayne goes, I
Speaker 1: was expecting like a tall bodybuilder who would like hover
Speaker 1: over me. But the sessions with him have been interesting.
Speaker 1: There's been lots of dialogue, lots of debate. We have
Speaker 1: very different perspectives on very different topics. We've had no
Speaker 1: touching yet, she says, but I feel we're laying the
Speaker 1: groundwork for an in depth session that can flue touching,
Speaker 1: and I'm nervous and scared for that. So then he says,
Speaker 1: what are your goals? And she says companionship and love
Speaker 1: And he says, but do you have a goal of
Speaker 1: being more comfortable around talking about sex and sexuality? And
Speaker 1: she's just like hu, yeah, the talking to head, He says,
Speaker 1: the sessions with Sonali have been difficult. A lot of
Speaker 1: her problems are a narrative she has created around herself.
Speaker 1: She has a fear of men and men's touch. Okay,
Speaker 1: so he says, listen, I want to talk to you
Speaker 1: about touching yourself and she's like, I'm touching my neck
Speaker 1: right now, Like I'm touching my hands. What do you mean?
Speaker 2: It was totally her response was totally immature.
Speaker 1: It was so she's paying, Yeah, she's paying.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she would have done better saying I'm just not
Speaker 2: comfortable about talking about that right now. Yeah. We are
Speaker 2: watching her, yeah, crashing she's about to crash the fuck out.
Speaker 1: He goes, listen, I understand this is a foreign idea
Speaker 1: and it's very uncomfortable for you, but I want to
Speaker 1: talk to you, and she goes, you know, I don't
Speaker 1: want to talk about it. I don't need to talk
Speaker 1: about touching. I don't crave it, even though Indian people
Speaker 1: didn't invent Kama Sutra, and he goes, okay, okay. So
Speaker 1: he goes, so you didn't grow up that way, but
Speaker 1: you are an adult and you can change that. What's
Speaker 1: the worst that can happen? And she goes, I don't know,
Speaker 1: and he goes, but this is something you can do
Speaker 1: for yourself by yourself.
Speaker 2: Right soonat we're talking, you know exactly how far to go,
Speaker 2: what makes you comfortable, where to stop, Like you're in
Speaker 2: total control of yourself right now. She cannot progress to
Speaker 2: having sex with the man until she does this, I know.
Speaker 1: And so when they're talking to it, she goes, I
Speaker 1: feel very uncomfortable about the M word, and if other
Speaker 1: people do it, it's fine, but he needs to respect that.
Speaker 1: I don't like talking about this. He needs to respect it.
Speaker 1: It goes against what I believe. And if the dilators
Speaker 1: are painful. I can't imagine what this is. She doesn't understand.
Speaker 2: She doesn't understand masturbation because she was talking about finger
Speaker 2: and social media. You don't have to even do all
Speaker 2: of that. She doesn't know.
Speaker 1: She said no, so he says okay. He says, look,
Speaker 1: I'm truly here just to talk to you, to help you,
Speaker 1: to empower you. You could like create a whole night
Speaker 1: for yourself, make yourself a meal, get some candles, just
Speaker 1: like test everything out. She goes like this, like two
Speaker 1: thumbs up with like a mean face.
Speaker 2: Super fuck you, It's what she's telling him. Yeah, fuck you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And she goes, where's this going? You know what
Speaker 1: we're we're doing. We're from different cultures and from different genders,
Speaker 1: and we're going back and forth. There's no solution.
Speaker 2: I've had enough. She walks off. He's like, wow, this
Speaker 2: had nothing to do with cultures, said, nothing to do
Speaker 2: with genders. What does she think he was coming over
Speaker 2: there to do?
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's been a couple of times
Speaker 1: since they've had these meetings, and she said, like, I
Speaker 1: might be willing to go into handholding or something. But
Speaker 1: then when he brought this up, she's like, shut it down. No,
Speaker 1: just can't even hold our own damn hand. And she
Speaker 1: ain't gonna hold a man's hand.
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, it's sad. She needs to get rid
Speaker 2: of Russia.
Speaker 1: Russia needs to get with Wayne. That's what needs to happen.
Speaker 2: They would have fucked right there on that couch.
Speaker 1: He's like, let me, let me. He's like, I bet,
Speaker 1: I bet Sanila's got a spatula.
Speaker 2: I'll be right back. That would have been it.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's move on to finally, Alex and poor.
Speaker 2: Sweet I didn't like this at all.
Speaker 1: Poor sweet baby Alex. So he said, it's been a
Speaker 1: little bit of time. I can't remember, a couple of weeks,
Speaker 1: maybe since his date with Andrea. But the sin is
Speaker 1: they don't live close to each other. They don't They
Speaker 1: text all the time, but they don't get to see
Speaker 1: each other. So today Andrea is coming to visit him
Speaker 1: and coming to his room.
Speaker 2: Why is she coming to his house? Why are they
Speaker 2: not going somewhere on a date.
Speaker 1: And so he says, I beg my parents to leave
Speaker 1: the house so I can bring a date over. And
Speaker 1: he goes, I don't know how to act, you know,
Speaker 1: maybe I'll get a kiss. I don't know, and he says,
Speaker 1: but maybe she knows once she finds out I'm a
Speaker 1: virgin and I live at home, maybe that will alleviate
Speaker 1: the stress, Like it's out there and I don't have
Speaker 1: to worry about it anymore.
Speaker 2: Oh boy.
Speaker 1: So she walks in and she's immediately looking around and
Speaker 1: seeing pictures of his siblings in him and it's obviously
Speaker 1: a family home, but.
Speaker 2: She's not clocking that it's a family home. I'm like, girl,
Speaker 2: do you not see all these old lady nick knacks
Speaker 2: and who wilt's all over the place, like there's an
Speaker 2: older woman who lives here.
Speaker 1: And she says, oh, your house is filled with family.
Speaker 1: That's nice, okay, But what's interesting is he immediately goes,
Speaker 1: you want to see my room. Room. Now, if you
Speaker 1: had just gone to somebody's house for the first time,
Speaker 1: you would not be like, do you want to see
Speaker 1: my bedroom? You'd be like, hey, can I get you
Speaker 1: a beer? You want a Netflix?
Speaker 2: And chill like yeah, or I mean even it would
Speaker 2: make more sense to say do you want a tour
Speaker 2: of the house, right, not just do you want to
Speaker 2: see my room? Right?
Speaker 1: So then they go in and they see his August
Speaker 1: twenty twenty four bikini girl calendar, and she it's obviously
Speaker 1: winter now, right because they were big coats. And he goes, yeah,
Speaker 1: there's a calendar. If I didn't flip, that's embarrassing. And
Speaker 1: he goes, there's the guitar. I don't play. It's hard,
Speaker 1: it hurts my hands, and it's uh, it's awkward. It's awkward,
Speaker 1: and there's cameras there. But he's like, but you like
Speaker 1: to sit on my bed. He never had a girl
Speaker 1: in my bed before.
Speaker 2: So yeah, he says, like twelve year old boy.
Speaker 1: So he says, so this is my childhood home and
Speaker 1: she goes, yeah.
Speaker 2: He goes, but like.
Speaker 1: My parents they live here still, like I didn't buy
Speaker 1: the childhood home for my parents, Like I live here.
Speaker 1: And she goes, okay, wow, and he goes, it has
Speaker 1: his perks. Yeah, But you know, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: feel like sometimes that's why I don't ever date anybody.
Speaker 1: And I don't have as much experience as a lot
Speaker 1: of guys. So I don't know if you know, here
Speaker 1: we go, I don't understand that. She just looks at him.
Speaker 1: They're holding hands, and she.
Speaker 2: Just she's trying to comfort him because she's like, she
Speaker 2: doesn't know if this guy's about to say he has cancer,
Speaker 2: he's got little kids, Like it is real theatrical right now,
Speaker 2: Like she doesn't know what he is going to say.
Speaker 2: So she's like, it's okay, come on, you can let
Speaker 2: it out or this, this, this, yeah.
Speaker 1: And she just looks at him and goes, can you
Speaker 1: give me more details of what you're talking about? And
Speaker 1: he says, well, uh, I've never really had sex with
Speaker 1: a woman, and she goes, I don't like that. I
Speaker 1: don't like it's part yeah.
Speaker 2: I like you should have just said I've never had sex,
Speaker 2: because now in her head she's wondering, okay sexual yeah
Speaker 2: with men, but he is not stuck with the one. Yeah.
Speaker 2: The wording was way it let It can lead to
Speaker 2: a lot of questions. I didn't even a woman before.
Speaker 2: I didn't even think that. I didn't even think.
Speaker 1: And he goes, yeah, I mean it's rough because honestly,
Speaker 1: like most people hook up in college a lot, but
Speaker 1: I never really wanted to do that. I wanted to
Speaker 1: always have a connection with somebody. And she says, you
Speaker 1: know what, everybody has quirks and this is not something
Speaker 1: that you need to hide or feel ashamed of. And
Speaker 1: I appreciate the courage it took for you to share
Speaker 1: that with me despite feeling really nervous about it, and
Speaker 1: they're like holding hands, and she goes, can I give
Speaker 1: you a hug, which is really sweet?
Speaker 2: I was talking head.
Speaker 1: She goes, I remember how that felt to be the
Speaker 1: only one that was like still a version, like I
Speaker 1: could remember how bad that felt.
Speaker 2: It's a sore spot for a lot of people.
Speaker 1: So I have a lot of compassion for him, and
Speaker 1: I really I'm glad that he told me that.
Speaker 2: So you're like, I was sixteen when it was going on,
Speaker 2: but uh.
Speaker 1: I was nineteen and it was embarrassing. So he's hum sick.
Speaker 1: This is terrible.
Speaker 2: Uh huh uh huh.
Speaker 1: So he tells her you're an awesome person and I
Speaker 1: hope we can continue to go out and stuff again,
Speaker 1: and she goes yeah. He goes, oh, I really like
Speaker 1: you a lot, and she smiles and laughs and they hug,
Speaker 1: and then in the talking to he goes, I felt like,
Speaker 1: now this would be the perfect time to kiss her,
Speaker 1: and he's right, I think it would be right too,
Speaker 1: So he tries to kiss her and she gives him
Speaker 1: the full Heimlich hand to the mouth and he puts
Speaker 1: his head down, and she goes, let's just take it slow.
Speaker 1: Let's just let's just take this slow. And then he
Speaker 1: and then she goes the best things are worth waiting for,
Speaker 1: and he goes, okay, that's right.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh god, Now there was no reason
Speaker 2: for her not to kiss him. I mean, the boy's
Speaker 2: a virgin. He probably would have busted a load just
Speaker 2: from a peck on the lips. You know what I mean.
Speaker 2: You're in his bedroom, you sat on his bed, and
Speaker 2: now you're giving him a peck.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's got an xbo he's got an Xbox controller pillow.
Speaker 1: And he didn't even try to hide it, and.
Speaker 2: No, he propped it up so she could see it.
Speaker 2: Like she's got to see this. This is the best
Speaker 2: part of the room. So yeah, I felt so bad
Speaker 2: for him.
Speaker 1: Me too.
Speaker 2: I felt terrible for him.
Speaker 1: That she she could have just gave him a little pick,
Speaker 1: just to be a tongue kiss, just like a kiss.
Speaker 2: Oh oh, she knows, doesn't did he did.
Speaker 1: The whole makeover for her and everything?
Speaker 2: Well, how about she just told him? He just told
Speaker 2: her how he's been like not able to do this
Speaker 2: no relationships. He wants connections. He's got zero experience and
Speaker 2: the one time he's about to get just a little
Speaker 2: bit of experience. Yeah, she doesn't cop block him. She
Speaker 2: she looks gave me doing a hand and it just
Speaker 2: made it worse, like she would have better than store
Speaker 2: herself all the way back. Well, then he might have
Speaker 2: thought she wanted to get on the bed. That is true.
Speaker 1: This is in the talking. Dady says, Yeah, getting rejected
Speaker 1: sucks and I feel embarrassed. And now I wonder was
Speaker 1: that the right time? Was that the wrong time to
Speaker 1: kiss her? And maybe I was overthinking it? And if
Speaker 1: I can't get a girl to kiss me, how will
Speaker 1: I ever lose my virginity? The back of Craig's lists,
Speaker 1: she's gonna have to just go to the bar and
Speaker 1: get drunk and pick up a drunk girl and get
Speaker 1: it done and don't tell her and just do it.
Speaker 2: She's gonna know.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, so he says, it's been a few days
Speaker 1: and I've played it back in my mind over and
Speaker 1: over and getting denied the kiss. You know, I wonder
Speaker 1: what I did wrong because I thought everything was goring toight. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we've been texting, but we're gonna catch up on a
Speaker 1: video call. So they do the call. She looks like
Speaker 1: she's in like a motel lobby, doesn't she.
Speaker 2: She's weird, like I don't know where the hell she is.
Speaker 1: So they do the call, the video call, and she says, listen,
Speaker 1: it's so great to see you. I want to be
Speaker 1: transparent and honest. I'm going to Egypt for a month.
Speaker 2: Wow, this has never come up before. She's going to
Speaker 2: Egypt for a month and a half, So tell me this.
Speaker 2: If she knows she was going to go to Egypt
Speaker 2: for a month, why does she even go on the
Speaker 2: dating thing? Yeah.
Speaker 1: A lot of people think she's like a production plant,
Speaker 1: and she's not. She was never into it. She was
Speaker 1: just like a girl to be nice to him. And
Speaker 1: she goes, but I want to make sure we stay
Speaker 1: in touch. I want to make sure we're continuing to
Speaker 1: cultivate our friendship because I'm not really sure when we'll
Speaker 1: be able to see each other, getting someone to be
Speaker 1: gone for so long, and he goes, yeah, I agree, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I agree. I definitely would want to keep up the friendship.
Speaker 1: And she goes, that makes me so happy. Really, I'm
Speaker 1: just send to hug your way goodbye, and he never
Speaker 1: needs to talk to her again. Ever, they don't need
Speaker 1: to stay friends.
Speaker 2: Nope, nope, nope, nope. He does not need her as
Speaker 2: a friend. All the good qualities that we saw in
Speaker 2: her at first have just gone down the drain inclining
Speaker 2: good story.
Speaker 1: She doesn't like him. She doesn't like him, you know,
Speaker 1: And she.
Speaker 2: Just said that she just let him. Yeah, you can't
Speaker 2: be friends. Why does she wants to be friends with
Speaker 2: him knowing that he has these feelings for her. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's just cruel. And how she's got this makes me
Speaker 2: feel happy. Bitch. We all care about you, We learn
Speaker 2: about alets.
Speaker 1: So the producer said. He closed the computer, and the
Speaker 1: producer says, producer says, how are you feeling?
Speaker 2: I think he's like tearing up a little bit.
Speaker 1: He is, I'm so sad for him, And he says, well,
Speaker 1: I'm hurt. I opened up to her. I told her
Speaker 1: the two biggest things in my life. I live at
Speaker 1: home and I'm a virgin. And so was this the
Speaker 1: real issue that she's going got a town? Or is
Speaker 1: it these things? And she doesn't want to say it, like,
Speaker 1: is it me? Am I doing something wrong? He says, finally,
Speaker 1: after ten years, I get a date and then I
Speaker 1: get friend zoned. And why even try?
Speaker 2: Why even try? He is so good, even cute looking
Speaker 2: guy he is. And I think he's very very sweet.
Speaker 2: I think he's like a big bear. Yeah, he's gonna
Speaker 2: make someone really happy. Yes, we just but he but
Speaker 2: she's not gonna want to live in his parents' addicts.
Speaker 2: So he's got to fix that right there. Yeah, but here,
Speaker 2: So here's the thing. But some women he could just say, Hey,
Speaker 2: I was in between jobs and I moved home. You know,
Speaker 2: some people still just live at home. They just do.
Speaker 2: They just they do like it's not a problem for
Speaker 2: their parents. It's not a problem. It's not like he's
Speaker 2: been having girlfriends in the first place, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean. So and some girl will be like, Okay,
Speaker 2: that's cool, we could start dating and move in together
Speaker 2: or something. Yeah, he doesn't need this girl.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, we've got Joan and Greg on ninety Days.
Speaker 1: Greg's Elizabeth's mom, and then we've got just a guy
Speaker 1: that was just on mashing me abroad, that Irish guy.
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, I live with my parents and
Speaker 1: my grandparents and my sister.
Speaker 2: I was like, that's a lot of people. Well more
Speaker 2: people are actually doing that now, They really really are that,
Speaker 2: Like they've been doing studies on it, and they actually
Speaker 2: say that people that live at home longer have less
Speaker 2: financial debt than people that try to even move out.
Speaker 1: He could he could have gotten himself into terrible debt
Speaker 1: and it's going to live with this FIRS for two
Speaker 1: years to save money. But you know, again, we just
Speaker 1: don't know. We just don't That is not.
Speaker 2: That has yet too. We know he has a job
Speaker 2: because he did mention that he works. Yes, right, we
Speaker 2: just don't know. We don't know what it is.
Speaker 1: What Next week, Dianne is going on some kind of
Speaker 1: dating show where she's on the stage and she admits
Speaker 1: that she's a thirty five year old version on the stage.
Speaker 2: Why. I don't know why.
Speaker 1: Well, that'll be interesting. The sex therapist that Rasha sees
Speaker 1: tells her, you need to have more intimacy with partners
Speaker 1: and your friends.
Speaker 2: I don't know what that means. H Oh, she needs
Speaker 2: more experienced relationship experiences, I think is what she's triting.
Speaker 1: More more friendships. She needs more friendships.
Speaker 2: Friendship's like she seems kind of like she's a loner. Yeah,
Speaker 2: if you kind of think about it, she's kind of
Speaker 2: a loner. I don't think she knows what intimacy really is. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So then she says she tells her mom and her
Speaker 1: sister she's going to an adult resort, and we see
Speaker 1: secret tidedaway resort, which I looked up is in Florida
Speaker 1: and does look sketchy as fuck.
Speaker 2: Why does it look sketchy?
Speaker 1: It just looks like it literally says Florida's number one
Speaker 1: swingers hotel as the description.
Speaker 2: That's where her ass needs to be.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so good for her. She looks like she's going
Speaker 1: there with a friend. I couldn't tell if it's her
Speaker 1: friend her sister, So good luck. And then she's like
Speaker 1: laying on the bed, Tael, and some got to give
Speaker 1: it to her, okay, Alex. Alex talked to his mom
Speaker 1: and his sisters and was like, yeah, I like that girl,
Speaker 1: but I got friend zoned. And they're all like, who cares,
Speaker 1: that's fine, you went on a couple of days. Good
Speaker 1: for you. The next one is out there, don't worry
Speaker 1: about it. Sure, And then and then we see he's
Speaker 1: at a bar and he's looking at his phone she's
Speaker 1: on her way, she's coming, and some girls coming to
Speaker 1: meet him at the bar. So is it Andrea? Has
Speaker 1: she been got back?
Speaker 2: I don't even know, but it looks like he's there
Speaker 2: with another girl though I think it's his sister. Do
Speaker 2: you think it's his sister.
Speaker 1: I think it's a sister. He's like, oh, the girl,
Speaker 1: she's coming, she's coming, that's what I think. Okay, he
Speaker 1: definitely didn't become a player who has two girls in
Speaker 1: one episode. That that didn't happen.
Speaker 2: No, that's true, that's true. I think we're a long
Speaker 2: ways off for him being a player.
Speaker 1: Rassha talks to production and it's no, No, that is
Speaker 1: completely wrong. Sonali talks to production and it's like in
Speaker 1: her bedroom, like it looks like they're set up in
Speaker 1: her bedroom like production. She's in there fighting. She's like,
Speaker 1: I have values and very choose and I'm never going
Speaker 1: to be able to imagine myself being any other way.
Speaker 1: And they're all like, okay, just can you just you
Speaker 1: agreed to the guy's in your house, you know.
Speaker 2: I mean, she is her own worst enemy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then she's talking in she goes, you know,
Speaker 1: I have to try this or I'm gonna always wonder
Speaker 1: what could have happened. But she's gonna have to go
Speaker 1: back out there and apologize to Wayne.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but she's like one of those people who doesn't
Speaker 2: think she's wrong.
Speaker 1: Oh that's for sure. When when he was saying that
Speaker 1: stuff to her and she was doing that like two
Speaker 1: thumbs up with that mean face, it was really rude.
Speaker 1: I was like that, now you're being haful. She was
Speaker 1: being very nasty towards him. She really really was.
Speaker 2: And I don't know if you noticed, Wayne does is Mary.
Speaker 2: He has on a wedding band.
Speaker 1: Oh good for him. He's out there doing the lord's
Speaker 1: work for a non married woman or married women who
Speaker 1: have sexual hang ups, or he's a swinger, or he
Speaker 1: goes to hideaway secrets in Florida.
Speaker 2: God bless his wife, or being accepting of all that.
Speaker 1: Maybe she's the a sexual surrogate as well for men.
Speaker 1: Maybe she helps me.
Speaker 2: Maybe they make a lot of money doing it.
Speaker 1: Now he's just thinking about doing it.
Speaker 2: Interesting. How far is ready where alex Is helped him out?
Speaker 1: Alex all right, well, I hope listen. What did we say?
Speaker 1: We say the show has six episodes. This is episode four,
Speaker 1: so we have two more episodes. Somebody better get laid
Speaker 1: in the next two episodes.
Speaker 2: I'm going to be very disappointed if no one has
Speaker 2: sex me too. We have four people it I and
Speaker 2: you have to be honest. I want for Russia and
Speaker 2: Alex to have six more than anybody else.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean too. I think Sonali needs serious therapy
Speaker 1: and treatment. Yes, she's got so many roapeblocks set up,
Speaker 1: and Deane's just got to be a little bit nicer.
Speaker 1: So hopefully this guy will like her, and hopefully she
Speaker 1: doesn't say she's a virgin on the first date.
Speaker 2: She's probably once that guy like talks to her, she's
Speaker 2: gonna no, he's not for me. I looked that off.
Speaker 2: I looked at him from the left and I didn't
Speaker 2: see Liam. So my man, Liam, my man, and my man,
Speaker 2: my man, my man, my man. You guys.
Speaker 1: Love after lock Up is coming about OZ for August first,
Speaker 1: So we will be August first, August first. Yes, it
Speaker 1: comes out Friday, August first, and then our episode will
Speaker 1: come out on the following Monday. It will switch there
Speaker 1: and then ninety day. Happily, ever after we'll be then
Speaker 1: switching over to tuesdays. So that's what's happening here with
Speaker 1: the calendar, Keisha and I will have another episode Out
Speaker 1: of the Valley over on ten dollar Pink Shade Prime
Speaker 1: tomorrow Wednesday, and then I'll be talking about Hunt for
Speaker 1: Love over on the five dollars level of Prime with
Speaker 1: Amy soon Welcome to Plattsville. We'll also come to that
Speaker 1: level as a standalone show, and ninety Day UK will
Speaker 1: also become his that level as a standalone show. And
Speaker 1: then if they give us Love his Blind, I'm going
Speaker 1: to put that there too. So everybody just pray for
Speaker 1: my throat.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's what's happening.
Speaker 1: Well, that's what's happening. I really was going to skip
Speaker 1: ninety Day UK and just tell people to lend to
Speaker 1: and then I got bullied into it so many, so
Speaker 1: many people wrote me.
Speaker 2: And I'm glad you used those first, because I said
Speaker 2: she let them bully her into doing it.
Speaker 1: I got bullied. One girl even wrote me and was like,
Speaker 1: I'll write the notes for you.
Speaker 2: It's like wow.
Speaker 1: It's like wow, But I mean I could never give
Speaker 1: up that much control to have somebody write all the notes,
Speaker 1: you know, I could not.
Speaker 2: No. I was like, okay, all right, all right, everybody,
Speaker 2: you get.
Speaker 1: What you wanted. You got to join that ten dollars
Speaker 1: level though, and.
Speaker 2: You should bump it up to twenty just for that show.
Speaker 1: No, yes, no, no, there isn't twenty dollars level.
Speaker 2: There are a few people on.
Speaker 1: It, everybody. Keisha has the podcasts The Libert Lounge with Kisho.
Speaker 1: What's happening over there, Kisha?
Speaker 2: Uh, what day is it? Today's Tuesday. There's a new
Speaker 2: show out right now?
Speaker 1: Okay, great, I have to think.
Speaker 2: Of like which day because we just recorded today, two
Speaker 2: shows for two different days.
Speaker 1: Wow, okay, all right, and then you've got questions with
Speaker 1: Kisha and does that come on Thursdays?
Speaker 2: I don't have a regular day.
Speaker 1: Okay, but you gotta do that. We're gonna We're gonna
Speaker 1: gotta do that.
Speaker 2: I'm about a year away from doing that.
Speaker 1: No, Keisha, that's podcasting one on one. You have to
Speaker 1: be consistent.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know. And I'm still like podcasting point zero
Speaker 2: zero one. I'm not on podcasting one on one yet.
Speaker 2: You're so funny, all right, everybody.
Speaker 1: She generally will put out two episodes a week, So
Speaker 1: go listen to them whenever they pop up on your feet.
Speaker 1: If you if you subscribe, then they'll always pop up,
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Speaker 2: Shall see you tomorrow for the valley. Bye bye yeah
Speaker 2: bye h