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<v Speaker 1>Oh hey, everybody, Welcome to Pink Shade. What's up, Keisha?

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<v Speaker 1>What happened?

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<v Speaker 2>Do we need to stop to change I forgot to

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<v Speaker 2>change shirts. We've done two recordings today and I kept

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<v Speaker 2>on the same shirt.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's okay. Not one person in the world is

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<v Speaker 1>going to.

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<v Speaker 2>Notice that except you. Nope, because I don't watch it.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, welcome to Pink Shade, and you like screamed

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<v Speaker 1>in the microphones. That's not a great way.

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<v Speaker 2>To start the recording.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I thought like a ghost had come

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<v Speaker 1>up behind you or something like yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, I'd be like, have a seat, join the pod.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you a ghost virgin?

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<v Speaker 1>Since you saw me earlier today when we recorded match

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<v Speaker 1>me abroad.

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<v Speaker 2>You look like a different person.

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<v Speaker 1>I've showered, I put on some act, will make up.

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<v Speaker 1>I fell on. Yeah, joy the whole thing. And there's

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<v Speaker 1>really no reason for it, because I'm just home for

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<v Speaker 1>dinner tonight. But like I said on the match, we

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<v Speaker 1>have broad bonus episode. My son's girlfriend's in town, so

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<v Speaker 1>I just need her to think that I look halfway decent.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I got it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I remember doing that with Scholar's boyfriend. I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I need to look presentable and nice. Now, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>give two ships. He has seen me with pajamas and

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<v Speaker 2>a bonnet on.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, I was, Yeah, I was in pajamas this morning

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<v Speaker 1>when I was recording with you, and she had been

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<v Speaker 1>seeing me. But what am I gonna do?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, you've been around for over a year.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, not this girl. But she's really cute and

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<v Speaker 1>really nice. And they went today to do a capital

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<v Speaker 1>tour and they went to the Spy Museum, so they're

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<v Speaker 1>having fun.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Shit here, it's so hot here. It can't

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<v Speaker 2>be hotter than it is here.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's compare. I'm gonna look at my look, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>look at my temperature. But you gotta do the temperature

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<v Speaker 1>and then you have to do the feels like, because

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<v Speaker 1>the feels like is the problem.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the part that matters.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So currently it's ninety and let's get to the

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<v Speaker 1>air quality is forty three. Uh, it feels ninety two, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>How about you? Okay, well it's it's ninety one here.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna lose.

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<v Speaker 2>If it feels ninety four, you win by two degrees.

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<v Speaker 2>And the humidity is sixty percent.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, let me look at the humidity. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you something. When I left Baldhead on Wednesday

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<v Speaker 1>to fly to La I walked out of the door

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<v Speaker 1>at six fifteen am, it was eighty eight degrees and

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<v Speaker 1>it hit me in the face like a brick, the humidity.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, it's when is that early? And you think, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna get a little breeze, it's nice to take

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<v Speaker 1>a little No, no, no, no, no no. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to look and see what my humidity is here. Sixty

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<v Speaker 1>four percent okay, yeah, dwo point seventy seven degrees. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have any.

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<v Speaker 2>Clue what that means. I don't know what that means either.

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<v Speaker 1>All I know is hot as shit. And I walked

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<v Speaker 1>outside to like take the dogs, and they just started

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<v Speaker 1>running around like trying to have fun. I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>not playing out here. Let's go come back inside, do

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<v Speaker 1>your business. We're going in.

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<v Speaker 2>This is heat stroke kind of weather. Sure, els is terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>That was fun. That was weather talk. We are here

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<v Speaker 1>to chat about virgins.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh huh uh huh.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to say it out loud over and over

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<v Speaker 1>because we're covering so many she shows I can't remember

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<v Speaker 1>what we're talking about So I finally did get my

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<v Speaker 1>streamer to work. After about halfway through piche it sort

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<v Speaker 1>of picked up and started working properly.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's so weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it wasn't. So then I tried to like, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, well, I'll just watch it on my phone,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was doing the same thing as glitching for

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<v Speaker 1>the whole first twenty two minutes. It wou stop and

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<v Speaker 1>then I would have to go back and then yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but then it started working. So let's talk about these people.

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<v Speaker 1>And I didn't even have to look at the name

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<v Speaker 1>of the episode because I knew it was going to

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<v Speaker 1>be third Base.

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<v Speaker 2>You you said it last week, yep, yep. All. Let's

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<v Speaker 2>she's kinda because no one's getting to.

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<v Speaker 1>Their base thus far. No, not even close. Not even

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<v Speaker 1>nobody's even gotten too first base, not even a kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>So we start with Russia, who's forty two, as we know,

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<v Speaker 1>from Jacksonville, Florida. She shows us her outfit. She's going

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<v Speaker 1>to the selfie show room. Now, first we should show

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<v Speaker 1>the outfit. I was like, Hesh's gonna have to say

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<v Speaker 1>something about the lack of undergarments.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because I don't get it, like we have spanks,

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<v Speaker 2>in different sizes, different colors, different price ranges. Like they

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<v Speaker 2>are available to you, but some people just don't wear them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and it's not so much like you can't change

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<v Speaker 1>what your size is, but you could just sort of

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<v Speaker 1>make your clothes move.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like, I hate the fact that I saw her

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<v Speaker 2>in distress and then I saw Amy Slayton from a

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<v Speaker 2>thousand pounds sisters and they look the same right in

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<v Speaker 2>the middle section, both of them. Neither one of them

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<v Speaker 2>had on any kind of undergarment or anything. Just smooth

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<v Speaker 2>that smooth that I'm not going to tell you what

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<v Speaker 2>one of my listeners how she described heem looked, She's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>and so I think that if she would just do that,

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<v Speaker 2>she looked a lot nicer. Yeah, I said, she has to.

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<v Speaker 1>Look nice, but just you know, listen, I feel that

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<v Speaker 1>she's like overconfident and under confident at the same time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, yes, perfectly stated I agree one hun and

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<v Speaker 2>she needs someone to tell her how to dress because

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<v Speaker 2>she has lost weight because when you get to a

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<v Speaker 2>certain size, there's not that much out there. So I

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<v Speaker 2>had to teach myself how to dress. I'm like, look,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have to be frumpy anymore. I've lost weight.

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<v Speaker 2>But when you're you're trained to think I gotta do

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<v Speaker 2>this is then you're like, oh wait, I can fit

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<v Speaker 2>in that. Even though it doesn't look good on me,

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<v Speaker 2>you're like, when I fit in it? So it's weird. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that's kind of where she is right

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<v Speaker 2>now with the process. Girl call me Rasha you.

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<v Speaker 1>So she is going to go to the selfie showroom

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<v Speaker 1>that she wanted to go to with that other guy,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's a guy named Jeremy, and then she's talking

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<v Speaker 1>to the The producers probably have the best time with

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<v Speaker 1>her because she is so funny and so out there.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, they're like, who's going to talk to Rasia today?

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<v Speaker 1>And they're like me, I want to go, And somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else is like, who's going to talk to Sonali? And

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<v Speaker 1>everybody's like, not it, not it.

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<v Speaker 2>They literally have to pull straws to see who's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>talk to Sonali.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So the producer is asking her like how she

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<v Speaker 1>gets ready and said, she goes, I've pit perfume between

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<v Speaker 1>my lest because you don't know what's going to be

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<v Speaker 1>down there. She just laughs and laughs. So she meets

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<v Speaker 1>him and says she knows she already knew there was

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<v Speaker 1>a height difference, and she's upkay with it because she

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<v Speaker 1>likes a rugged, manly type and she thinks he's cute,

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<v Speaker 1>and on his description he said he's open to new experiences,

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<v Speaker 1>and so she goes, maybe I'll tell him I'm a virgin.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I want What we have learned on this show

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<v Speaker 1>over and over and over again is you don't tell

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<v Speaker 1>somebody on the first date.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no reason to even really unless you're going to

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<v Speaker 2>have sex on the first date. I don't even think

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<v Speaker 2>there's a reason to talk about sex on a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you need to talk about being a

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<v Speaker 1>virgin until you get to that point in your relationship

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<v Speaker 1>where you're going, hey, it could lead to sex.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like they almost use it like a conversation conversation starter. Yeah, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>there's so many other things to talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>Like Harold on Master Beer Proud, would you like a beverage?

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<v Speaker 1>I like milk.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm jealous of Haribal Carol because I have ibas. I

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<v Speaker 2>can't drink regular milk anymore, so a little bit it

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<v Speaker 2>was like jealousy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I've tried to drink milk in a long time,

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<v Speaker 1>but I used to love it.

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<v Speaker 2>I did too. I used to love it in cereal,

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<v Speaker 2>but all the milk and cereal is not quite the same.

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<v Speaker 2>But to that, that's what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>So a selfie show room worker approaches them and explains

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<v Speaker 1>how it works. Now, I like this because I've never

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<v Speaker 1>been to one of these. Obviously, I guess we have

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<v Speaker 1>one around here. But I didn't know that, like the

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<v Speaker 1>ring light and the camera angle was set for you,

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<v Speaker 1>so the selfie would be perfect. I thought you were

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<v Speaker 1>literally just with your phone, like yeah. So I liked

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<v Speaker 1>that it was all set up exactly how it would

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<v Speaker 1>look good.

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<v Speaker 2>I liked it.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe we should go find one next time we're together.

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<v Speaker 2>I would love that. We need to make sure there's

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<v Speaker 2>a next time together soon.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I have to figure that out. Next time

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<v Speaker 1>you go to New York, I'll come and then you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna really do it. You're gonna really do it. You

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<v Speaker 1>do that, You'll be a big yeah. So uh And

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<v Speaker 1>then talking head Jeremy standing there and he goes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I saw her profile on the dating side. She seems interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>She's super cute. She said she likes to try new things,

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<v Speaker 1>and so do I. Now here is where I'm thinking

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<v Speaker 1>Jeremy thinks new things are like I've never had sushi,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go try it. I've never been ziplining, Let's go

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<v Speaker 1>try that. That's how I'm getting the feeling that he

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<v Speaker 1>thinks try new things are.

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<v Speaker 2>Mary paynt nowadays. I don't know what that means. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if you like to on Sunday evening stroll

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<v Speaker 2>around on a horse bare back. People are so out

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<v Speaker 2>there now, Okay, I don't know. He could have said

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<v Speaker 2>I like to fock to the sound of frogs. I

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<v Speaker 2>put nothing past people nowadays. So, like literally, when he

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<v Speaker 2>said that, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was like, oh boy, well is he into Luckily, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's into her same shit. So and the talking head

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<v Speaker 1>she goes, here's the thing about Jeremy. He has his

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<v Speaker 1>own place, his own car, and a job. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>the bar is low, very low. The bar is low.

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<v Speaker 1>If all you need is fun, somebody have an apartment,

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<v Speaker 1>a car, and a job.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's what they all put in their dating profile

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<v Speaker 2>thing too. Like the guy was like, I have my

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<v Speaker 2>own job, I have my own apartment, I have my

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<v Speaker 2>own car. It's like, yeah, you should like these are

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<v Speaker 2>things that you shouldn't have to shout out there like, yeah, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Shouldn't be you should not be on a dating profile

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't have those things.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to get your life together and then you

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<v Speaker 1>can be on a dating profile.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>So she says that's good because she hopes, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they have a spark and a connection. She says, he's

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<v Speaker 1>funny and he's going along with all the stealthy stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>which she likes. And she's like, oh, we look cute together.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's funny because the one picture, like she's in

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<v Speaker 1>the front, he's in the back. Like, now, wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>I look too short. So the next one he's like

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<v Speaker 2>It's not like that. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>now what he's talking about. He goes, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>different theme, right, And she goes, they're talking to She goes,

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<v Speaker 1>never talk sexual at all, and it is just like,

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<v Speaker 1>are you sure, and she goes, it's completely I think

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<v Speaker 1>you know. And they're like, we didn't even tell them

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<v Speaker 1>to say that, you know. Yeah, And so she goes,

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<v Speaker 1>funny story, I just went to a place like that,

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<v Speaker 1>and he goes, for real, uh huh. He says, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been in that lifestyle for about fifteen years. She's like what,

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<v Speaker 1>and he says, yeah, really a lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 2>Like do people say that's like their lifestyle? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I think so, because yeah, if you're dating a guy

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<v Speaker 1>for a while and all of a sudden he goes, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I've got a whole leather case full

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<v Speaker 1>of spanking utensils, I would say we are not living

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<v Speaker 1>the same lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, wouldn't it be that we are just not on

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<v Speaker 2>the same level sexually? It is I think the rest

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<v Speaker 2>of everything, we're.

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<v Speaker 1>Not sexually compatible. I think if he needs that in

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<v Speaker 1>a sexual aspect, which seems like he does, And so

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<v Speaker 1>he goes, yeah, I like my MiG thing. I really

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<v Speaker 1>like spanking, I really like role playing. So then she

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<v Speaker 1>and the producer, like, look at his profile again, and

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<v Speaker 1>she goes, it doesn't say anything on here about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It does say non vanilla. So I guess that was

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<v Speaker 1>his way of saying, like, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Not side in the box, I'm not your average guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because he definitely looks like your average guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>So she tells him that she got spanked with a flogger,

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<v Speaker 1>and she tells.

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<v Speaker 2>Him, wait, what non vanilla. That could mean a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of things.

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<v Speaker 1>It could mean s he likes black girls.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Now did I think about it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I see, I would think it meant non

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<v Speaker 1>vanilla sexually or like I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Not I would never think said, I would never think

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<v Speaker 2>put the sex. I wouldn't put the sex in there.

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't even think to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, either one. It applies here both ways, it does.

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<v Speaker 2>So there there we go. So she tells him about

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<v Speaker 2>the flogger and she's like start with Then he's like, flogger, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he knew, and.

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<v Speaker 1>She goes in there there was these ropes and things

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<v Speaker 1>and it is talking it. He goes, I'm really excited

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<v Speaker 1>to find this out about her because this is great

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<v Speaker 1>because now when I meet somebody, I don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>like ease him into it. I could really beat myself.

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<v Speaker 1>So he says to her, like, take a seat, young lady, and.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, oh, I like it what he tells me

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<v Speaker 2>to take a seat, young lady. It was kind of hot.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't like normally, I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I tell you every time there's a rassia scene, I know,

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<v Speaker 2>I get.

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<v Speaker 1>Tingly you're very into it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't. And it's I think I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>let producer James do one of those things, okay James her, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like the flogger. Yeah, I think I might. I think

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<v Speaker 2>we're going on vacation this week.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. All right, so they tell you about it.

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<v Speaker 1>No you're not recording.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it will still be pe PG just like this. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>that's your personal bedroom business. Okay, I share it.

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<v Speaker 1>So the face they talk more about it. He said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>tell me about the club. And it wasn't really a club.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess he thought she would like a full on club.

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<v Speaker 1>And she goes it, really liked it, you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was like my first time.

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<v Speaker 2>I really liked it.

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<v Speaker 1>And she goes, but I have another secret to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you why why she was doing so good? And she

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<v Speaker 1>says I'm actually still a virgin, and he goes, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>well good for you.

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<v Speaker 2>That just doesn't go together at all, because how do

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<v Speaker 2>you go to this extreme to this extreme like I'm okay,

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<v Speaker 2>which one is a lie? Is it? Like? You know,

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<v Speaker 2>right lie? Like what is right? Right? Isn't?

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<v Speaker 1>And he goes, okay, well, good for you. Great, and

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<v Speaker 1>he says I don't have a problem with it. But

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<v Speaker 1>in the talking head outside he goes, well, this is interesting, right.

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<v Speaker 1>He goes, I have to be careful with how I

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<v Speaker 1>approached this, especially if she's into BDSM, but she's still

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<v Speaker 1>a virgin. I mean I want to respect your boundaries.

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<v Speaker 1>And then he says to her, yeah, I'll be glad

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<v Speaker 1>to show you how I spank naughty little girls like you,

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<v Speaker 1>young lady.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, oh, she likes it. I mean I mean

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<v Speaker 2>it has He's right, like he's got to really think

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<v Speaker 2>about this, like, yeah, she likes all of this stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>but she's a virgin. So you're like, okay, I can't

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<v Speaker 2>use like a butt plug the first time she fucking

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<v Speaker 2>does it? Like we got to work into these things.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think so do. And I kind of feel

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<v Speaker 1>like he's such a nice, easy going guy. That this

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<v Speaker 1>maybe have been the perfect guy for herd his right

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<v Speaker 1>with you know.

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<v Speaker 2>This would have been perfect even if like there's no

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<v Speaker 2>relationship came from it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he should be.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, what is her sexual surrogate? What is the sexual Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's what he should be for her. Just

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<v Speaker 2>get it out nothing else.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, so I'm talking head, he says, I got

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<v Speaker 1>a respect her boundaries. So the next day, two weeks later,

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<v Speaker 1>a month, we're not sure, Rasha says they don't live

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<v Speaker 1>close together. So she goes over to Jeremy's and the

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<v Speaker 1>talking head the producer says, so you're going over to

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<v Speaker 1>Jeremy saying, you know what i'd be DSM means and

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<v Speaker 1>she goes, uh huh, And the producer says, what does

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<v Speaker 1>it mean? And she goes, yeah, I know. Produces Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what does the B stand for? And she goes booty?

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<v Speaker 1>And what does D stand for?

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<v Speaker 2>She says, dick?

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<v Speaker 1>What does the S stand for sex? What does the

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<v Speaker 1>M stand for? Moaning? And of course they put on

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<v Speaker 1>the screen bondage domination say it because of ascoism.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, I would have totally bought the definition

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<v Speaker 2>she gave because I didn't know what it meant till

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<v Speaker 2>last week when you told me. I'm like, I know

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<v Speaker 2>it has something to do with spaky, but I have

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<v Speaker 2>no idea what the letters. I mean if you hadn't

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<v Speaker 2>told me. And she said that, I'm like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it makes perfect sense. I'm into a booty dick

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<v Speaker 1>seximoning sounds like a great night. And then she says

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<v Speaker 1>big Puri is trying to get fed, and she is laughing,

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<v Speaker 1>and the producer goes, you are wild, and then she

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<v Speaker 1>compares her to vagina. There's that big plant in the

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<v Speaker 1>movie that has feed me.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, wait a minute, girl, it ain't there yet. I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's like a very small baby plant, saying it

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<v Speaker 2>like yeah, Like she's she's hungry, She's totally hungry for

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<v Speaker 2>for for for dick.

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<v Speaker 1>She just is maybe it's little shop of hers with

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<v Speaker 1>the plant at the time, Yeah it is, yea more.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So now he's made her dinner right, and it's awkward

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<v Speaker 1>and they're kind of sitting there. It's awkward, and she goes.

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<v Speaker 2>It's awkward. How how well done that steak was or

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<v Speaker 2>how draw that potato was? Because you potato looking.

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking at the potato too. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you need some sour cream, some butter, some bacon bits.

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<v Speaker 1>There's sometimes yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, and that that steak was all the way

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<v Speaker 2>well done.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I like a medium.

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<v Speaker 2>Medium or yeah that's where I'm at. Medium well, I

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<v Speaker 2>like it medium. Well, you like medium?

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<v Speaker 1>Were?

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<v Speaker 2>No? I think medium well because I get cooked tomorrow

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit more because if I see too much

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<v Speaker 2>red or pink.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't eat.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't do it. I can't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>So she was like, yeah, this is my third date

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<v Speaker 1>ever and I don't even know if I have the

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<v Speaker 1>flirting down. And then she's trying to show the producer.

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<v Speaker 1>She goes, you have to do the.

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<v Speaker 2>Blinking of a winking and the bridger like, please stop.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a blinking baby doll from the age it

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<v Speaker 2>was like she couldn't go again, has like yeah, like no,

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<v Speaker 2>that's not how it goes.

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<v Speaker 1>And she says I like your meat and he goes,

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<v Speaker 1>oh really, and they start laughing because she's trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be funny, and he says, oh, you're making my cheeks red,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he says, maybe I'll make your other cheeks

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<v Speaker 1>read later, and she.

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<v Speaker 2>Says to the producer. Producer says, do you want Jeremy to.

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<v Speaker 1>Spank you or kiss you, or which would you want first,

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<v Speaker 1>And she says, I would rather him spank me before

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<v Speaker 1>he kisses me, because I think kissing is too intimate.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is a little bit again where she's got

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<v Speaker 1>it a little bit flipped. She really should have some

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<v Speaker 1>intimy with somebody before. She's like, I agree, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>put her bear vagina out to get spanked, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, look as for later on in marriage, where

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<v Speaker 2>you've been married fifty years, you just kind of do

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<v Speaker 2>a boom in the middle of the night and you

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<v Speaker 2>just look the personnel does just do it. No kissing,

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<v Speaker 2>no rubbing, let's just yeah, straight to the point, not

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<v Speaker 2>the first time. You need some yeah, Roman, Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So she tells Jeremy, yeah, I'd be interested in healthily

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<v Speaker 2>exploring it. And she goes, let me see your choys.

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<v Speaker 1>He goes, oh, you want to see So he brings

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<v Speaker 1>out like a it's like a leather box. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's like his ottoman the storage.

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<v Speaker 2>And oh, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what it seemed like to me that now.

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<v Speaker 2>That's weird to keep all that shit right there in

424
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<v Speaker 2>the living room.

425
00:20:14.000 --> 00:20:15.960
<v Speaker 1>That's where I thought, but maybe maybe it's a special

426
00:20:16.039 --> 00:20:19.279
<v Speaker 1>leather box and I just don't know about it. And

427
00:20:19.279 --> 00:20:21.319
<v Speaker 1>then talking, Eddy goes, yeah, I'm okay with this, but

428
00:20:21.319 --> 00:20:23.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to be sure there's like clear communication, like

429
00:20:23.880 --> 00:20:25.960
<v Speaker 1>I really want to take things slowly, like I can't

430
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<v Speaker 1>just want So he shows her all his various spankers.

431
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<v Speaker 1>One of them is like a fire hose piece.

432
00:20:32.359 --> 00:20:34.480
<v Speaker 2>I know. I was like, I bet that show will hurt.

433
00:20:35.279 --> 00:20:38.319
<v Speaker 2>That's a lot I like people. I don't want that.

434
00:20:40.160 --> 00:20:44.960
<v Speaker 1>And she leans over and is like, do it, and

435
00:20:45.000 --> 00:20:48.240
<v Speaker 1>so he spanks her with one of the things and

436
00:20:48.279 --> 00:20:52.400
<v Speaker 1>she's like, oh my god. So she didn't want that part.

437
00:20:52.440 --> 00:20:53.279
<v Speaker 1>She didn't want it to hurt.

438
00:20:54.160 --> 00:20:58.559
<v Speaker 2>She needs to sick with Scarecrow and the flogger, I

439
00:20:58.599 --> 00:21:02.839
<v Speaker 2>think her level. Yeah, he is very experienced. The simple

440
00:21:02.839 --> 00:21:05.160
<v Speaker 2>fact that he has a box of this shit. Yeah,

441
00:21:05.279 --> 00:21:08.039
<v Speaker 2>let you know, he's not playing around at all.

442
00:21:08.319 --> 00:21:11.200
<v Speaker 1>And one of the fire hose I mean, yeah.

443
00:21:11.400 --> 00:21:14.880
<v Speaker 2>That's no, no, thank you, nothing.

444
00:21:15.559 --> 00:21:17.200
<v Speaker 1>So he's showing her all the different ones and she's

445
00:21:17.240 --> 00:21:20.440
<v Speaker 1>like rolling around like whoa. I mean, she's loving it, right,

446
00:21:20.519 --> 00:21:22.000
<v Speaker 1>even though she said one of them kind of her

447
00:21:22.039 --> 00:21:24.680
<v Speaker 1>a little bit. And she's like well that was interesting,

448
00:21:25.240 --> 00:21:32.079
<v Speaker 1>thank you. So now, she says in the talking Head,

449
00:21:32.160 --> 00:21:35.880
<v Speaker 1>she goes it with Jeremy, it didn't seem sexy like

450
00:21:35.960 --> 00:21:40.000
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't porn. It just seemed more friendly and mentally

451
00:21:40.039 --> 00:21:43.200
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't there because in porn the guys are dominant

452
00:21:43.200 --> 00:21:45.599
<v Speaker 1>and they take what they want and I didn't feel

453
00:21:45.640 --> 00:21:48.640
<v Speaker 1>that with him. And maybe I'm not sexually attracted to him.

454
00:21:49.079 --> 00:21:50.400
<v Speaker 1>So here in life is her problem?

455
00:21:50.480 --> 00:21:53.720
<v Speaker 2>Pisha, Yeah, a fantasy world.

456
00:21:54.400 --> 00:21:58.400
<v Speaker 1>Her problem is she's watched like big world up guys

457
00:21:58.480 --> 00:22:00.599
<v Speaker 1>with like uriuses and stuff.

458
00:22:00.799 --> 00:22:02.680
<v Speaker 2>Who get paid to do this.

459
00:22:03.000 --> 00:22:05.680
<v Speaker 1>And also probably the girls are all in some sort

460
00:22:05.720 --> 00:22:10.559
<v Speaker 1>of like sexy leather lingerie. She's on somebody's catching her

461
00:22:10.559 --> 00:22:13.400
<v Speaker 1>sweatpants with a film crew. Do you know what I mean?

462
00:22:14.680 --> 00:22:17.480
<v Speaker 2>I mean? And that's so one of the things that,

463
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<v Speaker 2>like you if people, when people talk about porn, people

464
00:22:20.680 --> 00:22:23.720
<v Speaker 2>always say, porn is not real. Porn is a fantasy.

465
00:22:23.799 --> 00:22:26.400
<v Speaker 2>It is a production. That's why they always say, Man,

466
00:22:26.519 --> 00:22:29.519
<v Speaker 2>don't expect for your girl to be like the porn star.

467
00:22:29.640 --> 00:22:33.119
<v Speaker 2>She's a porn stars paid to do this. And now

468
00:22:33.160 --> 00:22:35.720
<v Speaker 2>this is what she has done. This was the perfect

469
00:22:35.759 --> 00:22:41.039
<v Speaker 2>opportunity with this guy for her to get it done

470
00:22:41.200 --> 00:22:43.559
<v Speaker 2>and get it I agree he would have been very

471
00:22:44.039 --> 00:22:49.039
<v Speaker 2>respectful towards her and also pleasurable for her as well.

472
00:22:49.079 --> 00:22:51.519
<v Speaker 1>I think so too. And I think also her like

473
00:22:51.599 --> 00:22:54.200
<v Speaker 1>having sweatpants on and him having like this little khaki

474
00:22:54.240 --> 00:22:56.200
<v Speaker 1>shorts on, know that all that's not going to be sexy.

475
00:22:56.359 --> 00:22:58.480
<v Speaker 1>Anything sexy is gonna happen when the cameras aren't there,

476
00:22:58.920 --> 00:22:59.200
<v Speaker 1>you know.

477
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like, I'm sure neither Like I don't know. I'm

478
00:23:04.119 --> 00:23:05.759
<v Speaker 2>sure neither one of them thought they were gonna have

479
00:23:05.799 --> 00:23:08.119
<v Speaker 2>sex that night, so of course there's no sexy lingerie,

480
00:23:08.119 --> 00:23:12.480
<v Speaker 2>even though that's them. But no, this wasn't. I don't

481
00:23:12.559 --> 00:23:15.279
<v Speaker 2>like that she so quickly gave up on him.

482
00:23:15.640 --> 00:23:16.720
<v Speaker 1>Me too, Me too.

483
00:23:16.799 --> 00:23:17.440
<v Speaker 2>I didn't. I didn't.

484
00:23:17.640 --> 00:23:20.039
<v Speaker 1>I just needed like kismet, Like it all came together

485
00:23:20.119 --> 00:23:22.200
<v Speaker 1>when she met this guy and she didn't know anything.

486
00:23:22.319 --> 00:23:24.400
<v Speaker 1>That's what he liked, and then he does the exact

487
00:23:24.440 --> 00:23:26.160
<v Speaker 1>thing that she wants, right, and.

488
00:23:26.079 --> 00:23:29.359
<v Speaker 2>He's very sweet to her. He's not going girl like

489
00:23:29.440 --> 00:23:31.960
<v Speaker 2>the other guy was. No. God, it is so bad.

490
00:23:32.799 --> 00:23:35.680
<v Speaker 2>So it was cringey.

491
00:23:36.519 --> 00:23:39.440
<v Speaker 1>So my advice to her is stop watching porn and

492
00:23:39.480 --> 00:23:41.359
<v Speaker 1>get with the real man in the real world and

493
00:23:41.400 --> 00:23:46.119
<v Speaker 1>see like that's totally different, right, yeah, all right, all right,

494
00:23:46.200 --> 00:23:51.240
<v Speaker 1>let's move on to with our favorite friend Dan. I

495
00:23:51.279 --> 00:23:53.720
<v Speaker 1>did get a I did get somebody DM this week

496
00:23:53.759 --> 00:23:55.200
<v Speaker 1>and said, I love y'all covering this show, and I

497
00:23:55.279 --> 00:23:56.359
<v Speaker 1>love how much y'all hate Dan.

498
00:23:57.640 --> 00:24:01.640
<v Speaker 2>She's just zero personality, and then she has all these

499
00:24:01.759 --> 00:24:06.359
<v Speaker 2>expectations of a man, and it's like, girl, you kinda

500
00:24:07.519 --> 00:24:11.000
<v Speaker 2>suck a little bit, like your attitude sucks. You're not funny.

501
00:24:11.880 --> 00:24:15.039
<v Speaker 2>She's better this week, she's better, is better this week?

502
00:24:15.160 --> 00:24:16.799
<v Speaker 2>She is all right.

503
00:24:16.839 --> 00:24:19.680
<v Speaker 1>She's going on this speed dding thing that's called ice Break,

504
00:24:19.960 --> 00:24:23.039
<v Speaker 1>and she says she likes going to things like this

505
00:24:23.240 --> 00:24:26.039
<v Speaker 1>because there's lots of different people there with lots of options.

506
00:24:26.119 --> 00:24:28.680
<v Speaker 1>It's not just like that guy's cute, go talk to him.

507
00:24:28.920 --> 00:24:31.720
<v Speaker 1>So I can see that, you know, and their guys

508
00:24:31.720 --> 00:24:33.839
<v Speaker 1>standing around and they so many of them are cute,

509
00:24:33.839 --> 00:24:36.240
<v Speaker 1>but some are like laid out on, being backs, like

510
00:24:36.240 --> 00:24:37.680
<v Speaker 1>they're getting a past mirror. I was like, what are

511
00:24:37.720 --> 00:24:39.119
<v Speaker 1>you guys doing? Get up?

512
00:24:40.319 --> 00:24:42.039
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're supposed to be kind of such a date.

513
00:24:42.400 --> 00:24:46.160
<v Speaker 1>Two guys laying there. Yeah, So she sees one guy

514
00:24:46.240 --> 00:24:48.720
<v Speaker 1>who is super cute, and there were some of the

515
00:24:48.759 --> 00:24:50.640
<v Speaker 1>other cute guys. They showed there was a lot of

516
00:24:50.720 --> 00:24:53.480
<v Speaker 1>cute guys. And she says she never approaches anybody, but

517
00:24:53.519 --> 00:24:56.759
<v Speaker 1>she sees him and she says, I would never actively

518
00:24:57.039 --> 00:25:00.920
<v Speaker 1>approach someone ever, and the producer goes, then what is

519
00:25:00.960 --> 00:25:05.519
<v Speaker 1>your seduction method? And she goes, proximity. I just I

520
00:25:05.559 --> 00:25:07.240
<v Speaker 1>just stand close to them and hope they noticed me.

521
00:25:08.079 --> 00:25:08.640
<v Speaker 2>Has worked?

522
00:25:08.720 --> 00:25:10.519
<v Speaker 1>Has it worked for you?

523
00:25:10.680 --> 00:25:12.200
<v Speaker 2>Not even close? No?

524
00:25:13.319 --> 00:25:15.759
<v Speaker 1>So this guy comes over Alex. Now you do wonder

525
00:25:15.799 --> 00:25:18.039
<v Speaker 1>if production went over to him because he has to

526
00:25:18.079 --> 00:25:19.799
<v Speaker 1>sign the thing and he has to get miked up.

527
00:25:20.359 --> 00:25:23.160
<v Speaker 2>Yep, he does. He is trying to get that gift card.

528
00:25:23.400 --> 00:25:25.640
<v Speaker 1>So production went over and had him sign the form

529
00:25:25.680 --> 00:25:29.279
<v Speaker 1>to say he'd be on camera, and they talk and

530
00:25:29.359 --> 00:25:32.599
<v Speaker 1>she says she's from Connecticut. Originally he says he's from

531
00:25:32.720 --> 00:25:35.359
<v Speaker 1>Kansas because like nobody in LA, you know, is from LA.

532
00:25:36.720 --> 00:25:39.160
<v Speaker 1>The same with DC. Nobody from DC. Nobody lives in

533
00:25:39.240 --> 00:25:41.640
<v Speaker 1>DC is from DC. And he says, so you want

534
00:25:41.680 --> 00:25:43.279
<v Speaker 1>to like get in this ice best. She's like, Okay,

535
00:25:43.359 --> 00:25:45.799
<v Speaker 1>let's do it. And she says she likes him because

536
00:25:45.799 --> 00:25:49.079
<v Speaker 1>he seems to have like a quiet confidence without seeming cocky.

537
00:25:49.319 --> 00:25:53.480
<v Speaker 1>And I agree, he seems okay, yeah, normal. So in

538
00:25:53.519 --> 00:25:55.880
<v Speaker 1>the talking Dady goes, yeah, I came to this event

539
00:25:55.920 --> 00:25:57.680
<v Speaker 1>out of the blue, and this is not something I

540
00:25:57.759 --> 00:25:59.640
<v Speaker 1>normally do, and I almost like pulled out of it

541
00:25:59.680 --> 00:26:02.400
<v Speaker 1>this morning. But when I got here, I did notice

542
00:26:02.440 --> 00:26:05.880
<v Speaker 1>Dean right away. She's glowing and she's pretty and I'm

543
00:26:05.920 --> 00:26:09.799
<v Speaker 1>into shorter brunettes, and she has a nice smile and

544
00:26:09.880 --> 00:26:10.359
<v Speaker 1>so good.

545
00:26:10.519 --> 00:26:12.240
<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay.

546
00:26:12.400 --> 00:26:14.920
<v Speaker 1>So it's pretty interesting because he did not go there

547
00:26:15.720 --> 00:26:17.640
<v Speaker 1>at all expecting to Now I'm going to be on

548
00:26:17.680 --> 00:26:20.240
<v Speaker 1>a TV show and they and you know, it says

549
00:26:20.359 --> 00:26:22.799
<v Speaker 1>unnamed TLC production, and later he's.

550
00:26:22.759 --> 00:26:24.279
<v Speaker 2>Just going to find out it's called Virgins, but he

551
00:26:24.319 --> 00:26:27.319
<v Speaker 2>already signed it. Well, she's gonna tell him.

552
00:26:27.440 --> 00:26:30.720
<v Speaker 1>She's gonna tell him not on the first day, please, Dan, Please,

553
00:26:30.759 --> 00:26:33.279
<v Speaker 1>it's going to be on the first day. So they

554
00:26:33.319 --> 00:26:36.480
<v Speaker 1>have to get in this ice bath and do ice

555
00:26:36.519 --> 00:26:38.079
<v Speaker 1>breaker questions.

556
00:26:38.480 --> 00:26:41.559
<v Speaker 2>And that didn't even look like a true ice bath

557
00:26:41.599 --> 00:26:43.000
<v Speaker 2>to me, because that's aw no ice.

558
00:26:43.720 --> 00:26:48.599
<v Speaker 1>I think it was just like extremely cold, like extin

559
00:26:49.319 --> 00:26:52.720
<v Speaker 1>like a cold plunge, you know, And so she's just

560
00:26:52.720 --> 00:26:55.480
<v Speaker 1>like perched on the edge. He just gets right in

561
00:26:56.599 --> 00:26:59.200
<v Speaker 1>and they do the questions and you know who would

562
00:26:59.200 --> 00:27:02.279
<v Speaker 1>you have dinner with whatever? And so she says his

563
00:27:02.400 --> 00:27:05.720
<v Speaker 1>confidence is really attractive. And so after they're there, they

564
00:27:05.720 --> 00:27:07.440
<v Speaker 1>ask to the questions. She's like, you want to get

565
00:27:07.440 --> 00:27:09.079
<v Speaker 1>in the all on out? He says yes, So they

566
00:27:09.119 --> 00:27:12.000
<v Speaker 1>run and get into the warm thing and they're talking

567
00:27:12.279 --> 00:27:14.799
<v Speaker 1>and they're sitting next to each other, and he says,

568
00:27:14.799 --> 00:27:16.039
<v Speaker 1>do you do the apps or what do you do

569
00:27:16.079 --> 00:27:18.720
<v Speaker 1>for dating? She goes, I really don't. I don't really

570
00:27:18.799 --> 00:27:20.119
<v Speaker 1>like any of that. I don't date much.

571
00:27:20.839 --> 00:27:23.880
<v Speaker 2>So she really doesn't even like men that much. She

572
00:27:23.960 --> 00:27:27.759
<v Speaker 2>likes people that much. I don't thinks like people in general.

573
00:27:28.200 --> 00:27:31.559
<v Speaker 2>I don't think so either men or women. No, I don't,

574
00:27:31.599 --> 00:27:34.400
<v Speaker 2>I know. I just she's not a people person at all.

575
00:27:34.640 --> 00:27:37.240
<v Speaker 2>She barely likes her two friends.

576
00:27:37.039 --> 00:27:39.160
<v Speaker 1>And she's mad at them already, you know last week

577
00:27:39.200 --> 00:27:41.279
<v Speaker 1>she's mad at them. So he says, so, would you

578
00:27:41.279 --> 00:27:43.240
<v Speaker 1>want to grab a coffee sometime or go to the beach?

579
00:27:43.319 --> 00:27:45.079
<v Speaker 1>And she goes, I don't drink coffee, but I'd love

580
00:27:45.119 --> 00:27:47.319
<v Speaker 1>to go to the beach. Yeah, So she goes, I'm

581
00:27:47.359 --> 00:27:49.680
<v Speaker 1>excited about this, Like, I'm excited about this guy, and

582
00:27:49.720 --> 00:27:51.319
<v Speaker 1>I hope it develops into something more.

583
00:27:52.480 --> 00:27:54.119
<v Speaker 2>Okay, that was it. That was it.

584
00:27:54.160 --> 00:27:57.319
<v Speaker 1>And guess what, we hope it does too, because we

585
00:27:57.359 --> 00:27:58.759
<v Speaker 1>hope it's going to put you in a better.

586
00:27:58.519 --> 00:28:02.240
<v Speaker 2>Mood, because you need something to put you in a

587
00:28:02.240 --> 00:28:05.160
<v Speaker 2>better mood. I don't know if you need to think

588
00:28:05.200 --> 00:28:06.559
<v Speaker 2>on the ass or.

589
00:28:08.400 --> 00:28:11.559
<v Speaker 1>Speaking of speaking of bad moods, let's go to Sonali,

590
00:28:12.400 --> 00:28:20.920
<v Speaker 1>all right, Poor Sonali's everything's up here. Everything's up here.

591
00:28:20.960 --> 00:28:25.240
<v Speaker 1>I blame her parents. I blame her parents. So you

592
00:28:25.240 --> 00:28:29.279
<v Speaker 1>know what's interesting too about Sonali is I don't know

593
00:28:29.480 --> 00:28:33.960
<v Speaker 1>if in La she could find, like, here's this gorgeous

594
00:28:34.119 --> 00:28:37.559
<v Speaker 1>Indian doctor that understands my culture and would understand where

595
00:28:37.599 --> 00:28:40.839
<v Speaker 1>I came from and understand why I'm a virgin and

596
00:28:40.920 --> 00:28:43.279
<v Speaker 1>maybe even appreciate it and be happy to take it

597
00:28:43.319 --> 00:28:43.839
<v Speaker 1>slow with me.

598
00:28:44.880 --> 00:28:47.880
<v Speaker 2>You cannot tell me there is not a dating website

599
00:28:48.720 --> 00:28:54.119
<v Speaker 2>specifically from for like an Indian matchmaker. Excuse me, Yeah,

600
00:28:54.160 --> 00:28:57.480
<v Speaker 2>like there has. There's a dating website for like every

601
00:28:57.559 --> 00:29:01.480
<v Speaker 2>group of people out there. Yes, I don't think it

602
00:29:01.519 --> 00:29:05.480
<v Speaker 2>would matter if the mand that you just describe. Yeah,

603
00:29:05.599 --> 00:29:07.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't think it would matter to her.

604
00:29:08.119 --> 00:29:10.319
<v Speaker 1>I really don't, because it seems like that would be

605
00:29:10.400 --> 00:29:12.960
<v Speaker 1>culturally perfect because he would understand her. But yet they're

606
00:29:12.960 --> 00:29:15.680
<v Speaker 1>also progressive because they're trying to be their own people,

607
00:29:15.759 --> 00:29:19.200
<v Speaker 1>and he would understand, you know, where she's coming from

608
00:29:19.279 --> 00:29:21.160
<v Speaker 1>kind of a thing. But I don't know.

609
00:29:21.839 --> 00:29:26.039
<v Speaker 2>There's just something there. I think there's something else, more

610
00:29:26.079 --> 00:29:27.480
<v Speaker 2>deep rooted than what we know.

611
00:29:27.920 --> 00:29:28.640
<v Speaker 1>I think so too.

612
00:29:29.319 --> 00:29:30.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm just scared to find out.

613
00:29:30.519 --> 00:29:33.319
<v Speaker 1>So we see her at the doctor office talking to

614
00:29:33.359 --> 00:29:36.519
<v Speaker 1>doctor Kimberly, and doctor Kimberly is telling her about the

615
00:29:36.559 --> 00:29:39.519
<v Speaker 1>sexual surrogate and kind of tells her what it's about.

616
00:29:39.559 --> 00:29:41.240
<v Speaker 1>And she is but we all work as a team,

617
00:29:41.599 --> 00:29:43.079
<v Speaker 1>you know, we don't just like throw you out there

618
00:29:43.079 --> 00:29:44.960
<v Speaker 1>with the stranger. We all work as a team to

619
00:29:45.119 --> 00:29:47.720
<v Speaker 1>track your progress and make sure you're always feeling safe

620
00:29:47.720 --> 00:29:48.160
<v Speaker 1>and heard.

621
00:29:49.200 --> 00:29:51.400
<v Speaker 2>And you're talking heads to all that goes. This is

622
00:29:52.279 --> 00:29:57.200
<v Speaker 2>jaw dropping. I agree this it is.

623
00:29:57.640 --> 00:30:00.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, But she was like, but I'm open, you know,

624
00:30:00.480 --> 00:30:03.519
<v Speaker 1>to talking about it, and they're talking head Kimberly. Doctor

625
00:30:03.599 --> 00:30:06.880
<v Speaker 1>Kimberly says, Sonali is apprehensive and suspicious, and she has

626
00:30:06.920 --> 00:30:09.160
<v Speaker 1>every right to be because it's a weird thing. But

627
00:30:09.880 --> 00:30:14.000
<v Speaker 1>maybe this could help her. So Sally says, Okay, I'm

628
00:30:14.039 --> 00:30:16.559
<v Speaker 1>open to it, and yeah, teamwork makes the dream work.

629
00:30:16.599 --> 00:30:18.480
<v Speaker 2>It takes a village, you know, to get me to

630
00:30:18.519 --> 00:30:20.960
<v Speaker 2>have sex. I don't know you need a village, you

631
00:30:21.039 --> 00:30:23.759
<v Speaker 2>really do, And she says, I have to get out

632
00:30:23.799 --> 00:30:24.519
<v Speaker 2>of my comfort zone.

633
00:30:24.559 --> 00:30:26.319
<v Speaker 1>So what is it hurt to try this?

634
00:30:27.119 --> 00:30:27.400
<v Speaker 2>Sure?

635
00:30:27.880 --> 00:30:30.880
<v Speaker 1>So then we see her doing like a self filmed chat.

636
00:30:31.200 --> 00:30:33.920
<v Speaker 1>Her hair is down, she doesn't have a lot of makeup.

637
00:30:33.960 --> 00:30:38.279
<v Speaker 2>She looks so much better better, yes she does, yes,

638
00:30:38.359 --> 00:30:39.480
<v Speaker 2>almost like a different person.

639
00:30:39.839 --> 00:30:42.960
<v Speaker 1>She looks her age. Yep, she looks so much better

640
00:30:43.000 --> 00:30:46.440
<v Speaker 1>without that be have hairdo and all that heavy eighties makeup.

641
00:30:47.039 --> 00:30:50.079
<v Speaker 2>When she when she's dressed like that, she literally looks

642
00:30:50.119 --> 00:30:52.200
<v Speaker 2>like an old person who's trying to look young.

643
00:30:53.160 --> 00:30:57.480
<v Speaker 1>Mmmm. Sorry, I'm taking this step. That's exactly exactly.

644
00:30:57.559 --> 00:31:00.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yes, I don't. I don't get it. And she

645
00:31:00.200 --> 00:31:02.599
<v Speaker 2>looked fresh faced like she doesn't even need a whole

646
00:31:02.640 --> 00:31:03.359
<v Speaker 2>bunch of makeup.

647
00:31:03.559 --> 00:31:06.960
<v Speaker 1>You know, she's so forgetted. Yeah, she got that beautiful nose.

648
00:31:07.599 --> 00:31:12.640
<v Speaker 1>So okay, so she looks great. So two weeks later

649
00:31:12.720 --> 00:31:15.119
<v Speaker 1>we see her going in to meet with Kimberly and

650
00:31:15.160 --> 00:31:20.880
<v Speaker 1>she meets a guy named Wayne mm hmmmm, and the

651
00:31:20.960 --> 00:31:24.119
<v Speaker 1>talking head Wayne explains what an intimacy partner is what

652
00:31:24.279 --> 00:31:26.759
<v Speaker 1>he's there for I'm like, what kind of training do

653
00:31:26.839 --> 00:31:29.599
<v Speaker 1>you get? Is he a therapist that also is okay

654
00:31:29.640 --> 00:31:30.480
<v Speaker 1>to bang somebody?

655
00:31:30.599 --> 00:31:36.400
<v Speaker 2>Like I just feel like that is not the person

656
00:31:36.400 --> 00:31:38.039
<v Speaker 2>I would want you to pick for me to have

657
00:31:38.160 --> 00:31:40.359
<v Speaker 2>sex with, to teach me about sex at all?

658
00:31:41.119 --> 00:31:44.920
<v Speaker 1>Right, But how many choices are there? You know what

659
00:31:44.960 --> 00:31:45.279
<v Speaker 1>I mean?

660
00:31:47.039 --> 00:31:52.920
<v Speaker 2>It gotta be at least one more choice. I can

661
00:31:53.000 --> 00:31:55.880
<v Speaker 2>not find him attractive at all.

662
00:31:56.599 --> 00:31:59.039
<v Speaker 1>Like, the more we he talked and we saw him

663
00:31:59.039 --> 00:32:02.480
<v Speaker 1>on camera, the more like, Okay, he's not bad, he's okay,

664
00:32:02.839 --> 00:32:04.000
<v Speaker 1>hit pretty eyes and I.

665
00:32:04.039 --> 00:32:06.079
<v Speaker 2>Mean, he's all right and just stop there.

666
00:32:06.640 --> 00:32:11.079
<v Speaker 1>Initially initially I was like, whoa hairline? But then as

667
00:32:11.160 --> 00:32:14.079
<v Speaker 1>he talked more and everything, I was like, okay, all right.

668
00:32:14.160 --> 00:32:15.599
<v Speaker 2>All I've got to say is if that is the

669
00:32:15.640 --> 00:32:18.799
<v Speaker 2>person that they pick, he better be the best sex

670
00:32:18.920 --> 00:32:20.160
<v Speaker 2>partner on planet Earth.

671
00:32:20.880 --> 00:32:26.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, yeah, okay yeah. So he explains what it is,

672
00:32:27.039 --> 00:32:29.960
<v Speaker 1>and so he sits with her and says, tell me, what, like,

673
00:32:30.000 --> 00:32:32.480
<v Speaker 1>what do you really think that you want? And she goes,

674
00:32:32.799 --> 00:32:35.799
<v Speaker 1>I want companionship, of course, I want love and that

675
00:32:35.839 --> 00:32:39.240
<v Speaker 1>could lead to sex. And he says, well, I'll be

676
00:32:39.240 --> 00:32:41.720
<v Speaker 1>glad to work through all of this with you, and

677
00:32:41.759 --> 00:32:44.160
<v Speaker 1>we will work through it as you feel comfortable, and

678
00:32:44.240 --> 00:32:46.920
<v Speaker 1>maybe you could get more relaxed, and if you do,

679
00:32:47.400 --> 00:32:51.480
<v Speaker 1>we could move to physical intimacy after touching whatever is comfortable.

680
00:32:51.519 --> 00:32:55.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm here to make you comfortable. So that's the first meeting.

681
00:32:55.319 --> 00:32:56.720
<v Speaker 1>One week later, he comes back.

682
00:32:56.559 --> 00:32:57.200
<v Speaker 2>To her host house.

683
00:32:57.240 --> 00:32:59.359
<v Speaker 1>It's like every Tuesday at three, Wayne comes over, right,

684
00:32:59.440 --> 00:33:04.200
<v Speaker 1>So he comes up over and no, no, wait, okay,

685
00:33:04.200 --> 00:33:06.759
<v Speaker 1>first she meets him in the office. Okay, second time

686
00:33:06.839 --> 00:33:08.720
<v Speaker 1>is at the house. Okay, sorry, that first time was

687
00:33:08.759 --> 00:33:11.200
<v Speaker 1>in the office. The second time he comes into her

688
00:33:11.240 --> 00:33:13.079
<v Speaker 1>home and she goes, I've never had a boy in

689
00:33:13.119 --> 00:33:13.559
<v Speaker 1>my home.

690
00:33:14.759 --> 00:33:18.599
<v Speaker 2>Oh, dear god, Okay, I mean we are really starting

691
00:33:18.599 --> 00:33:19.400
<v Speaker 2>at ground zero.

692
00:33:20.279 --> 00:33:22.839
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's never even had a boy come into her house.

693
00:33:23.440 --> 00:33:26.039
<v Speaker 1>So he sits and talked to her on the couch

694
00:33:26.160 --> 00:33:30.160
<v Speaker 1>and she says, you know the problem is, Wayne, I'm

695
00:33:30.160 --> 00:33:32.759
<v Speaker 1>thirty seven. I've just accepted that this is the way

696
00:33:32.799 --> 00:33:35.279
<v Speaker 1>I am. And I want to be happy, but I've

697
00:33:35.319 --> 00:33:36.759
<v Speaker 1>accepted that this is the way I am.

698
00:33:37.440 --> 00:33:38.160
<v Speaker 2>So the talking head.

699
00:33:38.200 --> 00:33:41.119
<v Speaker 1>She goes, You know, as far as Wayne goes, I

700
00:33:41.160 --> 00:33:43.839
<v Speaker 1>was expecting like a tall bodybuilder who would like hover

701
00:33:43.960 --> 00:33:47.160
<v Speaker 1>over me. But the sessions with him have been interesting.

702
00:33:47.200 --> 00:33:50.440
<v Speaker 1>There's been lots of dialogue, lots of debate. We have

703
00:33:50.839 --> 00:33:54.359
<v Speaker 1>very different perspectives on very different topics. We've had no

704
00:33:54.519 --> 00:33:57.160
<v Speaker 1>touching yet, she says, but I feel we're laying the

705
00:33:57.200 --> 00:34:01.079
<v Speaker 1>groundwork for an in depth session that can flue touching,

706
00:34:01.799 --> 00:34:05.680
<v Speaker 1>and I'm nervous and scared for that. So then he says,

707
00:34:06.119 --> 00:34:08.719
<v Speaker 1>what are your goals? And she says companionship and love

708
00:34:08.920 --> 00:34:11.559
<v Speaker 1>And he says, but do you have a goal of

709
00:34:11.599 --> 00:34:16.199
<v Speaker 1>being more comfortable around talking about sex and sexuality? And

710
00:34:16.280 --> 00:34:20.039
<v Speaker 1>she's just like hu, yeah, the talking to head, He says,

711
00:34:20.079 --> 00:34:23.880
<v Speaker 1>the sessions with Sonali have been difficult. A lot of

712
00:34:23.920 --> 00:34:27.320
<v Speaker 1>her problems are a narrative she has created around herself.

713
00:34:28.079 --> 00:34:31.719
<v Speaker 1>She has a fear of men and men's touch. Okay,

714
00:34:33.159 --> 00:34:36.000
<v Speaker 1>so he says, listen, I want to talk to you

715
00:34:36.280 --> 00:34:39.199
<v Speaker 1>about touching yourself and she's like, I'm touching my neck

716
00:34:39.280 --> 00:34:41.000
<v Speaker 1>right now, Like I'm touching my hands. What do you mean?

717
00:34:41.880 --> 00:34:44.199
<v Speaker 2>It was totally her response was totally immature.

718
00:34:44.920 --> 00:34:47.559
<v Speaker 1>It was so she's paying, Yeah, she's paying.

719
00:34:47.960 --> 00:34:51.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she would have done better saying I'm just not

720
00:34:51.280 --> 00:34:54.719
<v Speaker 2>comfortable about talking about that right now. Yeah. We are

721
00:34:54.760 --> 00:34:58.280
<v Speaker 2>watching her, yeah, crashing she's about to crash the fuck out.

722
00:34:59.400 --> 00:35:01.400
<v Speaker 1>He goes, listen, I understand this is a foreign idea

723
00:35:01.440 --> 00:35:03.440
<v Speaker 1>and it's very uncomfortable for you, but I want to

724
00:35:03.480 --> 00:35:06.639
<v Speaker 1>talk to you, and she goes, you know, I don't

725
00:35:06.800 --> 00:35:08.679
<v Speaker 1>want to talk about it. I don't need to talk

726
00:35:08.719 --> 00:35:12.679
<v Speaker 1>about touching. I don't crave it, even though Indian people

727
00:35:12.719 --> 00:35:17.880
<v Speaker 1>didn't invent Kama Sutra, and he goes, okay, okay. So

728
00:35:17.920 --> 00:35:19.840
<v Speaker 1>he goes, so you didn't grow up that way, but

729
00:35:20.000 --> 00:35:23.480
<v Speaker 1>you are an adult and you can change that. What's

730
00:35:23.519 --> 00:35:26.119
<v Speaker 1>the worst that can happen? And she goes, I don't know,

731
00:35:26.360 --> 00:35:28.320
<v Speaker 1>and he goes, but this is something you can do

732
00:35:28.480 --> 00:35:30.840
<v Speaker 1>for yourself by yourself.

733
00:35:31.639 --> 00:35:34.880
<v Speaker 2>Right soonat we're talking, you know exactly how far to go,

734
00:35:35.519 --> 00:35:38.079
<v Speaker 2>what makes you comfortable, where to stop, Like you're in

735
00:35:38.159 --> 00:35:43.880
<v Speaker 2>total control of yourself right now. She cannot progress to

736
00:35:44.000 --> 00:35:46.480
<v Speaker 2>having sex with the man until she does this, I know.

737
00:35:47.320 --> 00:35:49.480
<v Speaker 1>And so when they're talking to it, she goes, I

738
00:35:49.480 --> 00:35:52.679
<v Speaker 1>feel very uncomfortable about the M word, and if other

739
00:35:52.719 --> 00:35:55.440
<v Speaker 1>people do it, it's fine, but he needs to respect that.

740
00:35:55.639 --> 00:35:58.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't like talking about this. He needs to respect it.

741
00:35:58.719 --> 00:36:02.039
<v Speaker 1>It goes against what I believe. And if the dilators

742
00:36:02.039 --> 00:36:06.679
<v Speaker 1>are painful. I can't imagine what this is. She doesn't understand.

743
00:36:06.880 --> 00:36:09.800
<v Speaker 2>She doesn't understand masturbation because she was talking about finger

744
00:36:09.840 --> 00:36:11.519
<v Speaker 2>and social media. You don't have to even do all

745
00:36:11.519 --> 00:36:13.320
<v Speaker 2>of that. She doesn't know.

746
00:36:14.280 --> 00:36:17.760
<v Speaker 1>She said no, so he says okay. He says, look,

747
00:36:17.960 --> 00:36:20.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm truly here just to talk to you, to help you,

748
00:36:20.480 --> 00:36:24.239
<v Speaker 1>to empower you. You could like create a whole night

749
00:36:24.280 --> 00:36:26.760
<v Speaker 1>for yourself, make yourself a meal, get some candles, just

750
00:36:26.760 --> 00:36:30.960
<v Speaker 1>like test everything out. She goes like this, like two

751
00:36:31.000 --> 00:36:32.639
<v Speaker 1>thumbs up with like a mean face.

752
00:36:33.440 --> 00:36:36.920
<v Speaker 2>Super fuck you, It's what she's telling him. Yeah, fuck you.

753
00:36:37.199 --> 00:36:40.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And she goes, where's this going? You know what

754
00:36:40.960 --> 00:36:43.519
<v Speaker 1>we're we're doing. We're from different cultures and from different genders,

755
00:36:43.960 --> 00:36:46.440
<v Speaker 1>and we're going back and forth. There's no solution.

756
00:36:46.719 --> 00:36:51.239
<v Speaker 2>I've had enough. She walks off. He's like, wow, this

757
00:36:51.280 --> 00:36:54.679
<v Speaker 2>had nothing to do with cultures, said, nothing to do

758
00:36:54.719 --> 00:36:58.079
<v Speaker 2>with genders. What does she think he was coming over

759
00:36:58.119 --> 00:36:58.719
<v Speaker 2>there to do?

760
00:36:59.679 --> 00:37:01.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think it's been a couple of times

761
00:37:01.920 --> 00:37:05.519
<v Speaker 1>since they've had these meetings, and she said, like, I

762
00:37:05.639 --> 00:37:08.519
<v Speaker 1>might be willing to go into handholding or something. But

763
00:37:08.559 --> 00:37:11.199
<v Speaker 1>then when he brought this up, she's like, shut it down. No,

764
00:37:12.159 --> 00:37:13.719
<v Speaker 1>just can't even hold our own damn hand. And she

765
00:37:13.719 --> 00:37:15.000
<v Speaker 1>ain't gonna hold a man's hand.

766
00:37:16.239 --> 00:37:19.360
<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, it's sad. She needs to get rid

767
00:37:19.400 --> 00:37:19.880
<v Speaker 2>of Russia.

768
00:37:22.920 --> 00:37:25.280
<v Speaker 1>Russia needs to get with Wayne. That's what needs to happen.

769
00:37:25.960 --> 00:37:27.519
<v Speaker 2>They would have fucked right there on that couch.

770
00:37:29.400 --> 00:37:31.119
<v Speaker 1>He's like, let me, let me. He's like, I bet,

771
00:37:31.519 --> 00:37:33.480
<v Speaker 1>I bet Sanila's got a spatula.

772
00:37:33.480 --> 00:37:36.039
<v Speaker 2>I'll be right back. That would have been it.

773
00:37:37.239 --> 00:37:41.920
<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's move on to finally, Alex and poor.

774
00:37:41.719 --> 00:37:45.599
<v Speaker 2>Sweet I didn't like this at all.

775
00:37:45.840 --> 00:37:51.039
<v Speaker 1>Poor sweet baby Alex. So he said, it's been a

776
00:37:51.039 --> 00:37:53.000
<v Speaker 1>little bit of time. I can't remember, a couple of weeks,

777
00:37:53.039 --> 00:37:55.800
<v Speaker 1>maybe since his date with Andrea. But the sin is

778
00:37:55.920 --> 00:37:57.920
<v Speaker 1>they don't live close to each other. They don't They

779
00:37:57.960 --> 00:37:59.400
<v Speaker 1>text all the time, but they don't get to see

780
00:37:59.440 --> 00:38:03.880
<v Speaker 1>each other. So today Andrea is coming to visit him

781
00:38:03.920 --> 00:38:04.960
<v Speaker 1>and coming to his room.

782
00:38:06.320 --> 00:38:08.480
<v Speaker 2>Why is she coming to his house? Why are they

783
00:38:08.480 --> 00:38:10.280
<v Speaker 2>not going somewhere on a date.

784
00:38:11.679 --> 00:38:13.679
<v Speaker 1>And so he says, I beg my parents to leave

785
00:38:13.679 --> 00:38:15.760
<v Speaker 1>the house so I can bring a date over. And

786
00:38:15.800 --> 00:38:17.440
<v Speaker 1>he goes, I don't know how to act, you know,

787
00:38:17.760 --> 00:38:20.760
<v Speaker 1>maybe I'll get a kiss. I don't know, and he says,

788
00:38:20.800 --> 00:38:23.280
<v Speaker 1>but maybe she knows once she finds out I'm a

789
00:38:23.320 --> 00:38:26.039
<v Speaker 1>virgin and I live at home, maybe that will alleviate

790
00:38:26.119 --> 00:38:27.719
<v Speaker 1>the stress, Like it's out there and I don't have

791
00:38:27.760 --> 00:38:28.800
<v Speaker 1>to worry about it anymore.

792
00:38:29.280 --> 00:38:29.920
<v Speaker 2>Oh boy.

793
00:38:30.079 --> 00:38:32.679
<v Speaker 1>So she walks in and she's immediately looking around and

794
00:38:32.719 --> 00:38:36.039
<v Speaker 1>seeing pictures of his siblings in him and it's obviously

795
00:38:36.039 --> 00:38:39.119
<v Speaker 1>a family home, but.

796
00:38:39.119 --> 00:38:41.679
<v Speaker 2>She's not clocking that it's a family home. I'm like, girl,

797
00:38:41.719 --> 00:38:43.960
<v Speaker 2>do you not see all these old lady nick knacks

798
00:38:44.039 --> 00:38:47.280
<v Speaker 2>and who wilt's all over the place, like there's an

799
00:38:47.280 --> 00:38:48.480
<v Speaker 2>older woman who lives here.

800
00:38:48.880 --> 00:38:51.119
<v Speaker 1>And she says, oh, your house is filled with family.

801
00:38:51.280 --> 00:38:55.039
<v Speaker 1>That's nice, okay, But what's interesting is he immediately goes,

802
00:38:55.079 --> 00:38:57.679
<v Speaker 1>you want to see my room. Room. Now, if you

803
00:38:57.760 --> 00:38:59.559
<v Speaker 1>had just gone to somebody's house for the first time,

804
00:38:59.599 --> 00:39:00.840
<v Speaker 1>you would not be like, do you want to see

805
00:39:00.880 --> 00:39:03.400
<v Speaker 1>my bedroom? You'd be like, hey, can I get you

806
00:39:03.440 --> 00:39:04.559
<v Speaker 1>a beer? You want a Netflix?

807
00:39:04.599 --> 00:39:07.679
<v Speaker 2>And chill like yeah, or I mean even it would

808
00:39:07.719 --> 00:39:10.039
<v Speaker 2>make more sense to say do you want a tour

809
00:39:10.280 --> 00:39:12.960
<v Speaker 2>of the house, right, not just do you want to

810
00:39:12.960 --> 00:39:15.760
<v Speaker 2>see my room? Right?

811
00:39:16.679 --> 00:39:19.480
<v Speaker 1>So then they go in and they see his August

812
00:39:19.559 --> 00:39:22.760
<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty four bikini girl calendar, and she it's obviously

813
00:39:22.840 --> 00:39:26.719
<v Speaker 1>winter now, right because they were big coats. And he goes, yeah,

814
00:39:26.760 --> 00:39:29.639
<v Speaker 1>there's a calendar. If I didn't flip, that's embarrassing. And

815
00:39:29.639 --> 00:39:31.960
<v Speaker 1>he goes, there's the guitar. I don't play. It's hard,

816
00:39:31.960 --> 00:39:36.880
<v Speaker 1>it hurts my hands, and it's uh, it's awkward. It's awkward,

817
00:39:36.960 --> 00:39:38.480
<v Speaker 1>and there's cameras there. But he's like, but you like

818
00:39:38.519 --> 00:39:40.280
<v Speaker 1>to sit on my bed. He never had a girl

819
00:39:40.280 --> 00:39:41.360
<v Speaker 1>in my bed before.

820
00:39:41.599 --> 00:39:44.280
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, he says, like twelve year old boy.

821
00:39:44.920 --> 00:39:47.840
<v Speaker 1>So he says, so this is my childhood home and

822
00:39:47.880 --> 00:39:49.039
<v Speaker 1>she goes, yeah.

823
00:39:49.719 --> 00:39:50.679
<v Speaker 2>He goes, but like.

824
00:39:51.159 --> 00:39:53.920
<v Speaker 1>My parents they live here still, like I didn't buy

825
00:39:54.000 --> 00:39:57.400
<v Speaker 1>the childhood home for my parents, Like I live here.

826
00:39:57.400 --> 00:40:01.400
<v Speaker 1>And she goes, okay, wow, and he goes, it has

827
00:40:01.400 --> 00:40:04.079
<v Speaker 1>his perks. Yeah, But you know, I don't know. I

828
00:40:04.079 --> 00:40:06.440
<v Speaker 1>feel like sometimes that's why I don't ever date anybody.

829
00:40:06.639 --> 00:40:09.679
<v Speaker 1>And I don't have as much experience as a lot

830
00:40:09.679 --> 00:40:11.800
<v Speaker 1>of guys. So I don't know if you know, here

831
00:40:11.840 --> 00:40:15.280
<v Speaker 1>we go, I don't understand that. She just looks at him.

832
00:40:15.440 --> 00:40:17.639
<v Speaker 1>They're holding hands, and she.

833
00:40:17.679 --> 00:40:20.679
<v Speaker 2>Just she's trying to comfort him because she's like, she

834
00:40:20.719 --> 00:40:22.880
<v Speaker 2>doesn't know if this guy's about to say he has cancer,

835
00:40:23.400 --> 00:40:27.800
<v Speaker 2>he's got little kids, Like it is real theatrical right now,

836
00:40:28.000 --> 00:40:31.840
<v Speaker 2>Like she doesn't know what he is going to say.

837
00:40:31.920 --> 00:40:34.480
<v Speaker 2>So she's like, it's okay, come on, you can let

838
00:40:34.519 --> 00:40:40.320
<v Speaker 2>it out or this, this, this, yeah.

839
00:40:38.480 --> 00:40:40.079
<v Speaker 1>And she just looks at him and goes, can you

840
00:40:40.119 --> 00:40:42.239
<v Speaker 1>give me more details of what you're talking about? And

841
00:40:42.280 --> 00:40:46.320
<v Speaker 1>he says, well, uh, I've never really had sex with

842
00:40:46.400 --> 00:40:49.440
<v Speaker 1>a woman, and she goes, I don't like that. I

843
00:40:49.440 --> 00:40:52.079
<v Speaker 1>don't like it's part yeah.

844
00:40:52.079 --> 00:40:54.639
<v Speaker 2>I like you should have just said I've never had sex,

845
00:40:54.719 --> 00:41:00.199
<v Speaker 2>because now in her head she's wondering, okay sexual yeah

846
00:41:00.519 --> 00:41:02.960
<v Speaker 2>with men, but he is not stuck with the one. Yeah.

847
00:41:03.000 --> 00:41:06.199
<v Speaker 2>The wording was way it let It can lead to

848
00:41:06.199 --> 00:41:09.039
<v Speaker 2>a lot of questions. I didn't even a woman before.

849
00:41:09.320 --> 00:41:11.480
<v Speaker 2>I didn't even think that. I didn't even think.

850
00:41:14.360 --> 00:41:17.239
<v Speaker 1>And he goes, yeah, I mean it's rough because honestly,

851
00:41:17.320 --> 00:41:19.199
<v Speaker 1>like most people hook up in college a lot, but

852
00:41:19.239 --> 00:41:21.039
<v Speaker 1>I never really wanted to do that. I wanted to

853
00:41:21.079 --> 00:41:24.679
<v Speaker 1>always have a connection with somebody. And she says, you

854
00:41:24.719 --> 00:41:27.639
<v Speaker 1>know what, everybody has quirks and this is not something

855
00:41:27.679 --> 00:41:30.119
<v Speaker 1>that you need to hide or feel ashamed of. And

856
00:41:30.159 --> 00:41:32.760
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate the courage it took for you to share

857
00:41:32.760 --> 00:41:36.760
<v Speaker 1>that with me despite feeling really nervous about it, and

858
00:41:36.800 --> 00:41:38.480
<v Speaker 1>they're like holding hands, and she goes, can I give

859
00:41:38.480 --> 00:41:40.400
<v Speaker 1>you a hug, which is really sweet?

860
00:41:40.920 --> 00:41:41.559
<v Speaker 2>I was talking head.

861
00:41:41.599 --> 00:41:43.960
<v Speaker 1>She goes, I remember how that felt to be the

862
00:41:44.000 --> 00:41:46.360
<v Speaker 1>only one that was like still a version, like I

863
00:41:46.360 --> 00:41:48.199
<v Speaker 1>could remember how bad that felt.

864
00:41:48.199 --> 00:41:49.679
<v Speaker 2>It's a sore spot for a lot of people.

865
00:41:49.840 --> 00:41:51.239
<v Speaker 1>So I have a lot of compassion for him, and

866
00:41:51.280 --> 00:41:53.159
<v Speaker 1>I really I'm glad that he told me that.

867
00:41:53.559 --> 00:41:56.199
<v Speaker 2>So you're like, I was sixteen when it was going on,

868
00:41:56.360 --> 00:41:58.239
<v Speaker 2>but uh.

869
00:41:57.639 --> 00:42:00.840
<v Speaker 1>I was nineteen and it was embarrassing. So he's hum sick.

870
00:42:00.960 --> 00:42:01.679
<v Speaker 1>This is terrible.

871
00:42:01.760 --> 00:42:02.639
<v Speaker 2>Uh huh uh huh.

872
00:42:03.280 --> 00:42:07.519
<v Speaker 1>So he tells her you're an awesome person and I

873
00:42:07.559 --> 00:42:09.679
<v Speaker 1>hope we can continue to go out and stuff again,

874
00:42:09.760 --> 00:42:12.559
<v Speaker 1>and she goes yeah. He goes, oh, I really like

875
00:42:12.599 --> 00:42:15.519
<v Speaker 1>you a lot, and she smiles and laughs and they hug,

876
00:42:16.000 --> 00:42:17.800
<v Speaker 1>and then in the talking to he goes, I felt like,

877
00:42:18.239 --> 00:42:20.239
<v Speaker 1>now this would be the perfect time to kiss her,

878
00:42:20.239 --> 00:42:22.760
<v Speaker 1>and he's right, I think it would be right too,

879
00:42:23.559 --> 00:42:25.639
<v Speaker 1>So he tries to kiss her and she gives him

880
00:42:25.639 --> 00:42:29.559
<v Speaker 1>the full Heimlich hand to the mouth and he puts

881
00:42:29.559 --> 00:42:32.159
<v Speaker 1>his head down, and she goes, let's just take it slow.

882
00:42:32.840 --> 00:42:35.079
<v Speaker 1>Let's just let's just take this slow. And then he

883
00:42:35.159 --> 00:42:37.159
<v Speaker 1>and then she goes the best things are worth waiting for,

884
00:42:37.800 --> 00:42:39.280
<v Speaker 1>and he goes, okay, that's right.

885
00:42:39.440 --> 00:42:42.440
<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh god, Now there was no reason

886
00:42:42.519 --> 00:42:47.960
<v Speaker 2>for her not to kiss him. I mean, the boy's

887
00:42:48.000 --> 00:42:50.119
<v Speaker 2>a virgin. He probably would have busted a load just

888
00:42:50.119 --> 00:42:51.880
<v Speaker 2>from a peck on the lips. You know what I mean.

889
00:42:55.599 --> 00:42:57.920
<v Speaker 2>You're in his bedroom, you sat on his bed, and

890
00:42:57.960 --> 00:42:59.280
<v Speaker 2>now you're giving him a peck.

891
00:43:00.320 --> 00:43:05.679
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's got an xbo he's got an Xbox controller pillow.

892
00:43:05.719 --> 00:43:07.639
<v Speaker 1>And he didn't even try to hide it, and.

893
00:43:08.079 --> 00:43:10.119
<v Speaker 2>No, he propped it up so she could see it.

894
00:43:10.199 --> 00:43:12.920
<v Speaker 2>Like she's got to see this. This is the best

895
00:43:12.960 --> 00:43:18.599
<v Speaker 2>part of the room. So yeah, I felt so bad

896
00:43:18.679 --> 00:43:19.119
<v Speaker 2>for him.

897
00:43:19.320 --> 00:43:19.679
<v Speaker 1>Me too.

898
00:43:19.960 --> 00:43:21.920
<v Speaker 2>I felt terrible for him.

899
00:43:21.599 --> 00:43:23.519
<v Speaker 1>That she she could have just gave him a little pick,

900
00:43:23.639 --> 00:43:26.719
<v Speaker 1>just to be a tongue kiss, just like a kiss.

901
00:43:26.760 --> 00:43:32.920
<v Speaker 2>Oh oh, she knows, doesn't did he did.

902
00:43:32.760 --> 00:43:34.840
<v Speaker 1>The whole makeover for her and everything?

903
00:43:35.480 --> 00:43:38.960
<v Speaker 2>Well, how about she just told him? He just told

904
00:43:39.000 --> 00:43:43.239
<v Speaker 2>her how he's been like not able to do this

905
00:43:43.480 --> 00:43:47.840
<v Speaker 2>no relationships. He wants connections. He's got zero experience and

906
00:43:47.880 --> 00:43:49.920
<v Speaker 2>the one time he's about to get just a little

907
00:43:49.920 --> 00:43:55.960
<v Speaker 2>bit of experience. Yeah, she doesn't cop block him. She

908
00:43:55.960 --> 00:44:00.639
<v Speaker 2>she looks gave me doing a hand and it just

909
00:44:00.679 --> 00:44:03.000
<v Speaker 2>made it worse, like she would have better than store

910
00:44:03.039 --> 00:44:05.519
<v Speaker 2>herself all the way back. Well, then he might have

911
00:44:05.519 --> 00:44:08.320
<v Speaker 2>thought she wanted to get on the bed. That is true.

912
00:44:08.880 --> 00:44:12.039
<v Speaker 1>This is in the talking. Dady says, Yeah, getting rejected

913
00:44:12.199 --> 00:44:15.320
<v Speaker 1>sucks and I feel embarrassed. And now I wonder was

914
00:44:15.320 --> 00:44:17.000
<v Speaker 1>that the right time? Was that the wrong time to

915
00:44:17.079 --> 00:44:20.039
<v Speaker 1>kiss her? And maybe I was overthinking it? And if

916
00:44:20.039 --> 00:44:22.880
<v Speaker 1>I can't get a girl to kiss me, how will

917
00:44:22.920 --> 00:44:26.840
<v Speaker 1>I ever lose my virginity? The back of Craig's lists,

918
00:44:27.400 --> 00:44:29.280
<v Speaker 1>she's gonna have to just go to the bar and

919
00:44:30.000 --> 00:44:31.639
<v Speaker 1>get drunk and pick up a drunk girl and get

920
00:44:31.639 --> 00:44:34.280
<v Speaker 1>it done and don't tell her and just do it.

921
00:44:35.719 --> 00:44:36.400
<v Speaker 2>She's gonna know.

922
00:44:37.199 --> 00:44:43.159
<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, so he says, it's been a few days

923
00:44:43.320 --> 00:44:45.039
<v Speaker 1>and I've played it back in my mind over and

924
00:44:45.079 --> 00:44:47.599
<v Speaker 1>over and getting denied the kiss. You know, I wonder

925
00:44:47.679 --> 00:44:50.440
<v Speaker 1>what I did wrong because I thought everything was goring toight. Yeah,

926
00:44:50.440 --> 00:44:53.159
<v Speaker 1>we've been texting, but we're gonna catch up on a

927
00:44:53.199 --> 00:44:55.599
<v Speaker 1>video call. So they do the call. She looks like

928
00:44:55.639 --> 00:44:59.639
<v Speaker 1>she's in like a motel lobby, doesn't she.

929
00:44:58.559 --> 00:45:01.480
<v Speaker 2>She's weird, like I don't know where the hell she is.

930
00:45:02.320 --> 00:45:06.159
<v Speaker 1>So they do the call, the video call, and she says, listen,

931
00:45:06.719 --> 00:45:08.719
<v Speaker 1>it's so great to see you. I want to be

932
00:45:08.840 --> 00:45:12.480
<v Speaker 1>transparent and honest. I'm going to Egypt for a month.

933
00:45:12.719 --> 00:45:16.880
<v Speaker 2>Wow, this has never come up before. She's going to

934
00:45:17.039 --> 00:45:20.039
<v Speaker 2>Egypt for a month and a half, So tell me this.

935
00:45:20.599 --> 00:45:23.159
<v Speaker 2>If she knows she was going to go to Egypt

936
00:45:23.199 --> 00:45:24.639
<v Speaker 2>for a month, why does she even go on the

937
00:45:24.719 --> 00:45:26.840
<v Speaker 2>dating thing? Yeah.

938
00:45:26.880 --> 00:45:29.000
<v Speaker 1>A lot of people think she's like a production plant,

939
00:45:29.079 --> 00:45:31.840
<v Speaker 1>and she's not. She was never into it. She was

940
00:45:31.880 --> 00:45:38.559
<v Speaker 1>just like a girl to be nice to him. And

941
00:45:38.639 --> 00:45:40.400
<v Speaker 1>she goes, but I want to make sure we stay

942
00:45:40.440 --> 00:45:42.440
<v Speaker 1>in touch. I want to make sure we're continuing to

943
00:45:42.480 --> 00:45:45.760
<v Speaker 1>cultivate our friendship because I'm not really sure when we'll

944
00:45:45.800 --> 00:45:47.239
<v Speaker 1>be able to see each other, getting someone to be

945
00:45:47.280 --> 00:45:50.159
<v Speaker 1>gone for so long, and he goes, yeah, I agree, Yeah,

946
00:45:50.159 --> 00:45:53.400
<v Speaker 1>I agree. I definitely would want to keep up the friendship.

947
00:45:54.079 --> 00:45:56.840
<v Speaker 1>And she goes, that makes me so happy. Really, I'm

948
00:45:56.880 --> 00:46:01.360
<v Speaker 1>just send to hug your way goodbye, and he never

949
00:46:01.440 --> 00:46:04.039
<v Speaker 1>needs to talk to her again. Ever, they don't need

950
00:46:04.079 --> 00:46:04.880
<v Speaker 1>to stay friends.

951
00:46:05.280 --> 00:46:07.360
<v Speaker 2>Nope, nope, nope, nope. He does not need her as

952
00:46:07.360 --> 00:46:10.519
<v Speaker 2>a friend. All the good qualities that we saw in

953
00:46:10.599 --> 00:46:14.000
<v Speaker 2>her at first have just gone down the drain inclining

954
00:46:14.880 --> 00:46:15.519
<v Speaker 2>good story.

955
00:46:15.760 --> 00:46:17.880
<v Speaker 1>She doesn't like him. She doesn't like him, you know,

956
00:46:17.920 --> 00:46:18.280
<v Speaker 1>And she.

957
00:46:18.440 --> 00:46:21.480
<v Speaker 2>Just said that she just let him. Yeah, you can't

958
00:46:21.480 --> 00:46:24.239
<v Speaker 2>be friends. Why does she wants to be friends with

959
00:46:24.320 --> 00:46:27.239
<v Speaker 2>him knowing that he has these feelings for her. Yeah,

960
00:46:27.280 --> 00:46:30.840
<v Speaker 2>it's just cruel. And how she's got this makes me

961
00:46:30.840 --> 00:46:33.119
<v Speaker 2>feel happy. Bitch. We all care about you, We learn

962
00:46:33.159 --> 00:46:34.159
<v Speaker 2>about alets.

963
00:46:35.159 --> 00:46:38.039
<v Speaker 1>So the producer said. He closed the computer, and the

964
00:46:38.039 --> 00:46:40.079
<v Speaker 1>producer says, producer says, how are you feeling?

965
00:46:40.639 --> 00:46:42.320
<v Speaker 2>I think he's like tearing up a little bit.

966
00:46:42.679 --> 00:46:47.599
<v Speaker 1>He is, I'm so sad for him, And he says, well,

967
00:46:48.920 --> 00:46:52.559
<v Speaker 1>I'm hurt. I opened up to her. I told her

968
00:46:52.719 --> 00:46:54.679
<v Speaker 1>the two biggest things in my life. I live at

969
00:46:54.679 --> 00:46:58.440
<v Speaker 1>home and I'm a virgin. And so was this the

970
00:46:58.519 --> 00:47:02.079
<v Speaker 1>real issue that she's going got a town? Or is

971
00:47:02.079 --> 00:47:04.519
<v Speaker 1>it these things? And she doesn't want to say it, like,

972
00:47:04.679 --> 00:47:08.400
<v Speaker 1>is it me? Am I doing something wrong? He says, finally,

973
00:47:08.559 --> 00:47:11.440
<v Speaker 1>after ten years, I get a date and then I

974
00:47:11.480 --> 00:47:13.400
<v Speaker 1>get friend zoned. And why even try?

975
00:47:13.559 --> 00:47:17.199
<v Speaker 2>Why even try? He is so good, even cute looking

976
00:47:17.239 --> 00:47:20.599
<v Speaker 2>guy he is. And I think he's very very sweet.

977
00:47:20.760 --> 00:47:23.239
<v Speaker 2>I think he's like a big bear. Yeah, he's gonna

978
00:47:23.280 --> 00:47:26.400
<v Speaker 2>make someone really happy. Yes, we just but he but

979
00:47:26.679 --> 00:47:28.880
<v Speaker 2>she's not gonna want to live in his parents' addicts.

980
00:47:28.880 --> 00:47:31.480
<v Speaker 2>So he's got to fix that right there. Yeah, but here,

981
00:47:31.599 --> 00:47:34.559
<v Speaker 2>So here's the thing. But some women he could just say, Hey,

982
00:47:34.599 --> 00:47:37.760
<v Speaker 2>I was in between jobs and I moved home. You know,

983
00:47:39.159 --> 00:47:41.320
<v Speaker 2>some people still just live at home. They just do.

984
00:47:41.639 --> 00:47:44.480
<v Speaker 2>They just they do like it's not a problem for

985
00:47:44.519 --> 00:47:46.519
<v Speaker 2>their parents. It's not a problem. It's not like he's

986
00:47:46.519 --> 00:47:48.760
<v Speaker 2>been having girlfriends in the first place, you know what

987
00:47:48.800 --> 00:47:51.280
<v Speaker 2>I mean. So and some girl will be like, Okay,

988
00:47:51.360 --> 00:47:54.639
<v Speaker 2>that's cool, we could start dating and move in together

989
00:47:54.800 --> 00:47:57.000
<v Speaker 2>or something. Yeah, he doesn't need this girl.

990
00:47:57.559 --> 00:48:00.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, we've got Joan and Greg on ninety Days.

991
00:48:00.239 --> 00:48:03.039
<v Speaker 1>Greg's Elizabeth's mom, and then we've got just a guy

992
00:48:03.079 --> 00:48:04.960
<v Speaker 1>that was just on mashing me abroad, that Irish guy.

993
00:48:04.960 --> 00:48:06.159
<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, I live with my parents and

994
00:48:06.199 --> 00:48:07.079
<v Speaker 1>my grandparents and my sister.

995
00:48:07.159 --> 00:48:09.280
<v Speaker 2>I was like, that's a lot of people. Well more

996
00:48:09.320 --> 00:48:13.159
<v Speaker 2>people are actually doing that now, They really really are that,

997
00:48:13.320 --> 00:48:16.400
<v Speaker 2>Like they've been doing studies on it, and they actually

998
00:48:16.480 --> 00:48:19.880
<v Speaker 2>say that people that live at home longer have less

999
00:48:19.920 --> 00:48:22.599
<v Speaker 2>financial debt than people that try to even move out.

1000
00:48:22.880 --> 00:48:25.159
<v Speaker 1>He could he could have gotten himself into terrible debt

1001
00:48:25.639 --> 00:48:27.000
<v Speaker 1>and it's going to live with this FIRS for two

1002
00:48:27.039 --> 00:48:28.920
<v Speaker 1>years to save money. But you know, again, we just

1003
00:48:28.960 --> 00:48:31.360
<v Speaker 1>don't know. We just don't That is not.

1004
00:48:31.719 --> 00:48:33.599
<v Speaker 2>That has yet too. We know he has a job

1005
00:48:33.639 --> 00:48:37.400
<v Speaker 2>because he did mention that he works. Yes, right, we

1006
00:48:37.519 --> 00:48:39.000
<v Speaker 2>just don't know. We don't know what it is.

1007
00:48:39.280 --> 00:48:44.360
<v Speaker 1>What Next week, Dianne is going on some kind of

1008
00:48:44.440 --> 00:48:47.159
<v Speaker 1>dating show where she's on the stage and she admits

1009
00:48:47.199 --> 00:48:49.639
<v Speaker 1>that she's a thirty five year old version on the stage.

1010
00:48:50.400 --> 00:48:52.840
<v Speaker 2>Why. I don't know why.

1011
00:48:53.440 --> 00:48:57.679
<v Speaker 1>Well, that'll be interesting. The sex therapist that Rasha sees

1012
00:48:58.159 --> 00:49:01.199
<v Speaker 1>tells her, you need to have more intimacy with partners

1013
00:49:01.280 --> 00:49:02.159
<v Speaker 1>and your friends.

1014
00:49:02.920 --> 00:49:07.599
<v Speaker 2>I don't know what that means. H Oh, she needs

1015
00:49:07.639 --> 00:49:12.280
<v Speaker 2>more experienced relationship experiences, I think is what she's triting.

1016
00:49:12.360 --> 00:49:14.519
<v Speaker 1>More more friendships. She needs more friendships.

1017
00:49:14.599 --> 00:49:18.840
<v Speaker 2>Friendship's like she seems kind of like she's a loner. Yeah,

1018
00:49:19.000 --> 00:49:20.840
<v Speaker 2>if you kind of think about it, she's kind of

1019
00:49:21.119 --> 00:49:24.599
<v Speaker 2>a loner. I don't think she knows what intimacy really is. Yeah.

1020
00:49:25.039 --> 00:49:26.960
<v Speaker 1>So then she says she tells her mom and her

1021
00:49:26.960 --> 00:49:30.039
<v Speaker 1>sister she's going to an adult resort, and we see

1022
00:49:30.320 --> 00:49:34.039
<v Speaker 1>secret tidedaway resort, which I looked up is in Florida

1023
00:49:34.119 --> 00:49:35.840
<v Speaker 1>and does look sketchy as fuck.

1024
00:49:36.599 --> 00:49:37.679
<v Speaker 2>Why does it look sketchy?

1025
00:49:37.960 --> 00:49:41.199
<v Speaker 1>It just looks like it literally says Florida's number one

1026
00:49:41.239 --> 00:49:43.039
<v Speaker 1>swingers hotel as the description.

1027
00:49:43.920 --> 00:49:45.280
<v Speaker 2>That's where her ass needs to be.

1028
00:49:45.840 --> 00:49:48.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so good for her. She looks like she's going

1029
00:49:48.440 --> 00:49:49.719
<v Speaker 1>there with a friend. I couldn't tell if it's her

1030
00:49:49.719 --> 00:49:53.079
<v Speaker 1>friend her sister, So good luck. And then she's like

1031
00:49:53.159 --> 00:49:54.599
<v Speaker 1>laying on the bed, Tael, and some got to give

1032
00:49:54.599 --> 00:50:00.199
<v Speaker 1>it to her, okay, Alex. Alex talked to his mom

1033
00:50:00.239 --> 00:50:02.199
<v Speaker 1>and his sisters and was like, yeah, I like that girl,

1034
00:50:02.199 --> 00:50:04.960
<v Speaker 1>but I got friend zoned. And they're all like, who cares,

1035
00:50:05.400 --> 00:50:07.639
<v Speaker 1>that's fine, you went on a couple of days. Good

1036
00:50:07.679 --> 00:50:09.719
<v Speaker 1>for you. The next one is out there, don't worry

1037
00:50:09.760 --> 00:50:12.400
<v Speaker 1>about it. Sure, And then and then we see he's

1038
00:50:12.440 --> 00:50:14.599
<v Speaker 1>at a bar and he's looking at his phone she's

1039
00:50:14.599 --> 00:50:17.400
<v Speaker 1>on her way, she's coming, and some girls coming to

1040
00:50:17.400 --> 00:50:20.239
<v Speaker 1>meet him at the bar. So is it Andrea? Has

1041
00:50:20.239 --> 00:50:21.639
<v Speaker 1>she been got back?

1042
00:50:21.719 --> 00:50:24.079
<v Speaker 2>I don't even know, but it looks like he's there

1043
00:50:24.079 --> 00:50:27.840
<v Speaker 2>with another girl though I think it's his sister. Do

1044
00:50:27.920 --> 00:50:28.599
<v Speaker 2>you think it's his sister.

1045
00:50:28.719 --> 00:50:30.159
<v Speaker 1>I think it's a sister. He's like, oh, the girl,

1046
00:50:30.239 --> 00:50:33.960
<v Speaker 1>she's coming, she's coming, that's what I think. Okay, he

1047
00:50:34.000 --> 00:50:36.159
<v Speaker 1>definitely didn't become a player who has two girls in

1048
00:50:36.199 --> 00:50:37.880
<v Speaker 1>one episode. That that didn't happen.

1049
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<v Speaker 2>No, that's true, that's true. I think we're a long

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<v Speaker 2>ways off for him being a player.

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00:50:44.920 --> 00:50:49.039
<v Speaker 1>Rassha talks to production and it's no, No, that is

1052
00:50:49.039 --> 00:50:53.239
<v Speaker 1>completely wrong. Sonali talks to production and it's like in

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<v Speaker 1>her bedroom, like it looks like they're set up in

1054
00:50:55.119 --> 00:50:58.079
<v Speaker 1>her bedroom like production. She's in there fighting. She's like,

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00:50:58.159 --> 00:51:01.559
<v Speaker 1>I have values and very choose and I'm never going

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<v Speaker 1>to be able to imagine myself being any other way.

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<v Speaker 1>And they're all like, okay, just can you just you

1058
00:51:08.719 --> 00:51:10.719
<v Speaker 1>agreed to the guy's in your house, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, she is her own worst enemy.

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00:51:13.639 --> 00:51:15.639
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and then she's talking in she goes, you know,

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00:51:15.679 --> 00:51:17.559
<v Speaker 1>I have to try this or I'm gonna always wonder

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00:51:17.559 --> 00:51:20.159
<v Speaker 1>what could have happened. But she's gonna have to go

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00:51:20.199 --> 00:51:22.199
<v Speaker 1>back out there and apologize to Wayne.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but she's like one of those people who doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>think she's wrong.

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00:51:28.320 --> 00:51:31.239
<v Speaker 1>Oh that's for sure. When when he was saying that

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<v Speaker 1>stuff to her and she was doing that like two

1068
00:51:33.119 --> 00:51:35.360
<v Speaker 1>thumbs up with that mean face, it was really rude.

1069
00:51:35.639 --> 00:51:38.000
<v Speaker 1>I was like that, now you're being haful. She was

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00:51:38.079 --> 00:51:40.840
<v Speaker 1>being very nasty towards him. She really really was.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't know if you noticed, Wayne does is Mary.

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<v Speaker 2>He has on a wedding band.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh good for him. He's out there doing the lord's

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00:51:47.000 --> 00:51:50.239
<v Speaker 1>work for a non married woman or married women who

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00:51:50.519 --> 00:51:52.920
<v Speaker 1>have sexual hang ups, or he's a swinger, or he

1076
00:51:52.920 --> 00:51:54.880
<v Speaker 1>goes to hideaway secrets in Florida.

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<v Speaker 2>God bless his wife, or being accepting of all that.

1078
00:51:59.199 --> 00:52:01.920
<v Speaker 1>Maybe she's the a sexual surrogate as well for men.

1079
00:52:02.079 --> 00:52:02.840
<v Speaker 1>Maybe she helps me.

1080
00:52:02.960 --> 00:52:05.079
<v Speaker 2>Maybe they make a lot of money doing it.

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00:52:08.119 --> 00:52:09.599
<v Speaker 1>Now he's just thinking about doing it.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting. How far is ready where alex Is helped him out?

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<v Speaker 1>Alex all right, well, I hope listen. What did we say?

1084
00:52:22.639 --> 00:52:26.599
<v Speaker 1>We say the show has six episodes. This is episode four,

1085
00:52:26.960 --> 00:52:29.679
<v Speaker 1>so we have two more episodes. Somebody better get laid

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00:52:29.679 --> 00:52:30.719
<v Speaker 1>in the next two episodes.

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00:52:31.599 --> 00:52:34.239
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to be very disappointed if no one has

1088
00:52:34.280 --> 00:52:39.400
<v Speaker 2>sex me too. We have four people it I and

1089
00:52:39.559 --> 00:52:41.840
<v Speaker 2>you have to be honest. I want for Russia and

1090
00:52:41.960 --> 00:52:44.199
<v Speaker 2>Alex to have six more than anybody else.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean too. I think Sonali needs serious therapy

1092
00:52:52.119 --> 00:52:56.760
<v Speaker 1>and treatment. Yes, she's got so many roapeblocks set up,

1093
00:52:56.760 --> 00:52:58.920
<v Speaker 1>and Deane's just got to be a little bit nicer.

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00:52:59.039 --> 00:53:01.039
<v Speaker 1>So hopefully this guy will like her, and hopefully she

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00:53:01.039 --> 00:53:02.559
<v Speaker 1>doesn't say she's a virgin on the first date.

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00:53:04.440 --> 00:53:07.559
<v Speaker 2>She's probably once that guy like talks to her, she's

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00:53:07.599 --> 00:53:10.400
<v Speaker 2>gonna no, he's not for me. I looked that off.

1098
00:53:10.679 --> 00:53:12.440
<v Speaker 2>I looked at him from the left and I didn't

1099
00:53:12.480 --> 00:53:17.880
<v Speaker 2>see Liam. So my man, Liam, my man, and my man,

1100
00:53:18.000 --> 00:53:20.920
<v Speaker 2>my man, my man, my man. You guys.

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00:53:21.360 --> 00:53:23.960
<v Speaker 1>Love after lock Up is coming about OZ for August first,

1102
00:53:24.079 --> 00:53:28.079
<v Speaker 1>So we will be August first, August first. Yes, it

1103
00:53:28.159 --> 00:53:31.000
<v Speaker 1>comes out Friday, August first, and then our episode will

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00:53:31.000 --> 00:53:34.000
<v Speaker 1>come out on the following Monday. It will switch there

1105
00:53:34.000 --> 00:53:37.320
<v Speaker 1>and then ninety day. Happily, ever after we'll be then

1106
00:53:37.360 --> 00:53:40.320
<v Speaker 1>switching over to tuesdays. So that's what's happening here with

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00:53:40.360 --> 00:53:43.199
<v Speaker 1>the calendar, Keisha and I will have another episode Out

1108
00:53:43.239 --> 00:53:46.119
<v Speaker 1>of the Valley over on ten dollar Pink Shade Prime

1109
00:53:46.159 --> 00:53:51.039
<v Speaker 1>tomorrow Wednesday, and then I'll be talking about Hunt for

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00:53:51.079 --> 00:53:53.880
<v Speaker 1>Love over on the five dollars level of Prime with

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00:53:54.119 --> 00:53:56.960
<v Speaker 1>Amy soon Welcome to Plattsville. We'll also come to that

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00:53:57.079 --> 00:54:01.039
<v Speaker 1>level as a standalone show, and ninety Day UK will

1113
00:54:01.079 --> 00:54:03.400
<v Speaker 1>also become his that level as a standalone show. And

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00:54:03.440 --> 00:54:05.519
<v Speaker 1>then if they give us Love his Blind, I'm going

1115
00:54:05.559 --> 00:54:08.320
<v Speaker 1>to put that there too. So everybody just pray for

1116
00:54:08.400 --> 00:54:08.840
<v Speaker 1>my throat.

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00:54:08.960 --> 00:54:10.280
<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's what's happening.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's what's happening. I really was going to skip

1119
00:54:13.039 --> 00:54:14.920
<v Speaker 1>ninety Day UK and just tell people to lend to

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00:54:15.480 --> 00:54:18.599
<v Speaker 1>and then I got bullied into it so many, so

1121
00:54:18.960 --> 00:54:20.079
<v Speaker 1>many people wrote me.

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00:54:20.760 --> 00:54:22.800
<v Speaker 2>And I'm glad you used those first, because I said

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00:54:22.800 --> 00:54:24.599
<v Speaker 2>she let them bully her into doing it.

1124
00:54:24.760 --> 00:54:27.119
<v Speaker 1>I got bullied. One girl even wrote me and was like,

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00:54:27.199 --> 00:54:28.440
<v Speaker 1>I'll write the notes for you.

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00:54:29.599 --> 00:54:30.840
<v Speaker 2>It's like wow.

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00:54:31.320 --> 00:54:32.960
<v Speaker 1>It's like wow, But I mean I could never give

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00:54:33.039 --> 00:54:35.559
<v Speaker 1>up that much control to have somebody write all the notes,

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00:54:35.679 --> 00:54:36.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, I could not.

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<v Speaker 2>No. I was like, okay, all right, all right, everybody,

1131
00:54:40.199 --> 00:54:40.679
<v Speaker 2>you get.

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<v Speaker 1>What you wanted. You got to join that ten dollars

1133
00:54:43.000 --> 00:54:43.679
<v Speaker 1>level though, and.

1134
00:54:44.800 --> 00:54:48.880
<v Speaker 2>You should bump it up to twenty just for that show.

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00:54:49.199 --> 00:54:52.360
<v Speaker 1>No, yes, no, no, there isn't twenty dollars level.

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00:54:52.360 --> 00:54:53.280
<v Speaker 2>There are a few people on.

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00:54:53.280 --> 00:54:57.920
<v Speaker 1>It, everybody. Keisha has the podcasts The Libert Lounge with Kisho.

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00:54:57.960 --> 00:54:59.119
<v Speaker 1>What's happening over there, Kisha?

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00:55:00.320 --> 00:55:06.360
<v Speaker 2>Uh, what day is it? Today's Tuesday. There's a new

1140
00:55:06.400 --> 00:55:07.320
<v Speaker 2>show out right now?

1141
00:55:07.519 --> 00:55:10.760
<v Speaker 1>Okay, great, I have to think.

1142
00:55:10.639 --> 00:55:14.400
<v Speaker 2>Of like which day because we just recorded today, two

1143
00:55:14.480 --> 00:55:16.199
<v Speaker 2>shows for two different days.

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00:55:16.559 --> 00:55:19.199
<v Speaker 1>Wow, okay, all right, and then you've got questions with

1145
00:55:19.280 --> 00:55:20.760
<v Speaker 1>Kisha and does that come on Thursdays?

1146
00:55:22.119 --> 00:55:23.360
<v Speaker 2>I don't have a regular day.

1147
00:55:23.480 --> 00:55:25.360
<v Speaker 1>Okay, but you gotta do that. We're gonna We're gonna

1148
00:55:25.719 --> 00:55:26.280
<v Speaker 1>gotta do that.

1149
00:55:26.960 --> 00:55:28.639
<v Speaker 2>I'm about a year away from doing that.

1150
00:55:29.039 --> 00:55:34.440
<v Speaker 1>No, Keisha, that's podcasting one on one. You have to

1151
00:55:34.440 --> 00:55:34.920
<v Speaker 1>be consistent.

1152
00:55:35.880 --> 00:55:39.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know. And I'm still like podcasting point zero

1153
00:55:39.639 --> 00:55:42.880
<v Speaker 2>zero one. I'm not on podcasting one on one yet.

1154
00:55:44.199 --> 00:55:46.760
<v Speaker 2>You're so funny, all right, everybody.

1155
00:55:46.760 --> 00:55:48.559
<v Speaker 1>She generally will put out two episodes a week, So

1156
00:55:48.599 --> 00:55:50.480
<v Speaker 1>go listen to them whenever they pop up on your feet.

1157
00:55:50.519 --> 00:55:52.960
<v Speaker 1>If you if you subscribe, then they'll always pop up,

1158
00:55:53.119 --> 00:55:57.159
<v Speaker 1>so make sure you're following, and as always, please follow

1159
00:55:57.239 --> 00:56:01.159
<v Speaker 1>me over on Instagram at pink Shade Pod, Pink Shape

1160
00:56:01.159 --> 00:56:04.880
<v Speaker 1>Podcast on TikTok. If you send me a message on TikTok, guys, I.

1161
00:56:04.840 --> 00:56:06.480
<v Speaker 2>Will see it.

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00:56:05.440 --> 00:56:09.239
<v Speaker 1>It's been the thin a week, but it's usually I

1163
00:56:09.280 --> 00:56:11.840
<v Speaker 1>barely look at it because when I go to TikTok,

1164
00:56:11.880 --> 00:56:14.239
<v Speaker 1>I get sucked into that hole and I have to

1165
00:56:14.280 --> 00:56:15.920
<v Speaker 1>be able to put it down. I don't get sucked

1166
00:56:15.920 --> 00:56:18.760
<v Speaker 1>into Instagram as easily, so I check those messages a

1167
00:56:18.760 --> 00:56:21.159
<v Speaker 1>couple of times a day. Yeah, you need to get me.

1168
00:56:21.480 --> 00:56:23.440
<v Speaker 1>And also, as if you're trying to send me a DM,

1169
00:56:23.519 --> 00:56:25.559
<v Speaker 1>please send it to pink Shade Pod, don't send it

1170
00:56:25.599 --> 00:56:28.559
<v Speaker 1>to Mary pay two my personal Instagram. It's great if

1171
00:56:28.559 --> 00:56:30.039
<v Speaker 1>you want to follow me there or whatever, but I

1172
00:56:30.119 --> 00:56:33.239
<v Speaker 1>never check those dms. Never. I'll go in there and

1173
00:56:33.239 --> 00:56:35.239
<v Speaker 1>be like, oh god, I got twenty dms because people

1174
00:56:35.599 --> 00:56:37.840
<v Speaker 1>send it to me. There's peak Shape Pod I checked

1175
00:56:37.960 --> 00:56:40.000
<v Speaker 1>several times a day. I want to make sure we'll

1176
00:56:40.039 --> 00:56:44.360
<v Speaker 1>keeping up. We must prefer to get messages on our

1177
00:56:45.960 --> 00:56:49.800
<v Speaker 1>podcasting pages. Yes, it's in our personal pages. It's just

1178
00:56:49.840 --> 00:56:50.360
<v Speaker 1>it's easier.

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00:56:50.639 --> 00:56:52.440
<v Speaker 2>It's easier. Yeah, if it's.

1180
00:56:52.320 --> 00:56:56.159
<v Speaker 1>Regarding the podcast, DM there or you can email me

1181
00:56:56.519 --> 00:56:59.840
<v Speaker 1>mp P shape podcast. All right, that's it.

1182
00:57:00.119 --> 00:57:03.239
<v Speaker 2>Shall see you tomorrow for the valley. Bye bye yeah

1183
00:57:03.320 --> 00:57:08.000
<v Speaker 2>bye h
