WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.000 --> 00:00:04.480 Welcome to the Sole Wisdom Project, the Living Blueprint of 2 00:00:04.519 --> 00:00:08.560 the Soul, with Me Shakti Botatsi, your host. Do you 3 00:00:08.720 --> 00:00:12.000 ever feel overwhelmed by your daily life as if something 4 00:00:12.080 --> 00:00:16.280 insiu is trying to get your attention? As an international teacher, 5 00:00:16.399 --> 00:00:20.039 shaman and energy healer, I will bring the tools of 6 00:00:20.079 --> 00:00:23.160 a lifetime to guide you to explore how to live 7 00:00:23.199 --> 00:00:29.079 consciously awaken your innate wisdom, integrating the design, development, and 8 00:00:29.320 --> 00:00:34.840 emergence of your divine blueprint. Each episode blends grounded conversation 9 00:00:35.039 --> 00:00:39.359 with multi dimensional insight, guiding you to release old patterns, 10 00:00:39.439 --> 00:00:43.679 align with your higher intelligence, and live awake, aware, and 11 00:00:43.840 --> 00:00:48.520 fully present. The Sole Wisdom Project with Me Shaktibo Tatsi 12 00:00:48.679 --> 00:00:56.880 starts now. Well, Hello everyone, good morning, good evening, depending 13 00:00:56.920 --> 00:01:02.000 upon where you're listening to. I'm shak Tipotatsi, and I 14 00:01:02.159 --> 00:01:05.920 welcome you to another episode of The Soul Wisdom Project. 15 00:01:07.239 --> 00:01:10.719 And today we're doing something a little bit different. But 16 00:01:10.840 --> 00:01:15.239 first I want to ask you what if your intuition 17 00:01:15.959 --> 00:01:21.719 was right and your mind made it wrong? Have you 18 00:01:21.760 --> 00:01:27.560 ever been there? So today what we do is for 19 00:01:27.599 --> 00:01:31.359 the first time, I'm opening the phone lines for a 20 00:01:31.519 --> 00:01:35.840 live call in show. This way it can be real 21 00:01:36.120 --> 00:01:39.879 between you and I a conversation in the now. So 22 00:01:39.920 --> 00:01:42.879 if you're listening to me live, you can call me 23 00:01:43.000 --> 00:01:48.799 now one eight hundred nine three zero two eight one 24 00:01:49.000 --> 00:01:54.400 nine Again one eight hundred nine three zero two eight 25 00:01:54.719 --> 00:01:59.239 one nine. No question is too big or too small, 26 00:01:59.879 --> 00:02:05.560 or or no stupid questions, whether you're navigating a relationship, 27 00:02:05.760 --> 00:02:10.520 a career change, a spiritual awakening, or simply wondering if 28 00:02:10.599 --> 00:02:13.840 you're on the right path. We'd love to hear from you. 29 00:02:14.280 --> 00:02:16.879 I'd love to hear from where you're at. What are 30 00:02:16.919 --> 00:02:22.719 you coming up against in these crazy times of rapid change, 31 00:02:23.039 --> 00:02:27.400 where we are being stretched beyond anything we've ever been before, 32 00:02:27.840 --> 00:02:32.039 no matter what phase of our lives we are all in. 33 00:02:33.719 --> 00:02:38.199 By the end of today's conversation, you will walk away 34 00:02:38.319 --> 00:02:44.360 with greater clarity about how to recognize your intuition, distinguishing 35 00:02:44.400 --> 00:02:51.599 it from fear, conditioning, overthinking, and old programming, so that 36 00:02:51.680 --> 00:02:56.479 you can begin trusting your own inner knowing with greater confidence, 37 00:02:56.800 --> 00:03:01.599 which will translate into a more fulfilling life where you 38 00:03:01.639 --> 00:03:06.439 can see your desires happening manifesting in front of you. 39 00:03:06.960 --> 00:03:10.280 So I invite you to call again one night hundred 40 00:03:10.439 --> 00:03:14.319 nine three, zero to eight, one nine, don't wait until 41 00:03:14.360 --> 00:03:17.879 the end of the show. Will be taking calls throughout 42 00:03:17.919 --> 00:03:21.240 the hour. If for any reason you prefer to send 43 00:03:21.319 --> 00:03:26.520 your message in like you've done before, do that too. Meanwhile, 44 00:03:26.599 --> 00:03:29.840 as you're calling in and Emily is taking in your calls, 45 00:03:30.080 --> 00:03:34.639 let me ask you something. Have you ever been in 46 00:03:34.680 --> 00:03:41.000 a situation where you've looked back at how you navigated 47 00:03:41.080 --> 00:03:46.560 that life situation and the decisions you made, But after 48 00:03:46.960 --> 00:03:52.680 you've lived the situation, you look back and you say, darn, 49 00:03:52.800 --> 00:03:57.319 I knew it. I knew something wasn't right. I knew 50 00:03:57.400 --> 00:04:01.120 I should have made that call, I should have stayed. 51 00:04:01.360 --> 00:04:07.199 I knew I should have left. And somehow you didn't 52 00:04:07.639 --> 00:04:10.280 see that red flag, or more than see it, you 53 00:04:10.400 --> 00:04:15.479 saw it that you overrid it for me, big rising 54 00:04:15.520 --> 00:04:20.360 off my hand, because I've overridden so many red flags 55 00:04:20.399 --> 00:04:25.720 that were so clear information about my intuition in situations 56 00:04:25.800 --> 00:04:31.360 that became really difficult for me because I didn't listen 57 00:04:31.600 --> 00:04:36.839 to that intuition. So that's why the question of today's 58 00:04:36.879 --> 00:04:41.360 show is what if your intuition was right? What if 59 00:04:42.279 --> 00:04:46.600 those red flags were right on and for some reason 60 00:04:46.839 --> 00:04:50.839 you talked yourself out of it. Sometimes it's not that 61 00:04:50.920 --> 00:04:54.079 you overlook them. It is that you talk yourself out 62 00:04:54.160 --> 00:05:01.439 of them. You second guess yourself, you overthink what you know, 63 00:05:02.399 --> 00:05:06.920 and by the time you've overthunk it so much, you 64 00:05:08.680 --> 00:05:13.560 can't even remember what the truth with capitality is inside 65 00:05:13.560 --> 00:05:20.120 of you. The truth is that in this society that 66 00:05:20.160 --> 00:05:24.920 we grew up for the majority of us, wherever, whatever 67 00:05:25.000 --> 00:05:29.680 country you're in, no matter what it's these years, these 68 00:05:29.959 --> 00:05:33.439 you know, the fifties, the sixties, the forties, the seventies, 69 00:05:33.480 --> 00:05:38.759 the two thousands, we are not taught to listen to 70 00:05:38.800 --> 00:05:46.639 our intuition, and we are not taught to understand the 71 00:05:46.680 --> 00:05:54.519 difference between that inner knowing and the voice of something 72 00:05:54.560 --> 00:05:59.439 else that gets in the middle. Do you know what 73 00:05:59.519 --> 00:06:02.480 it is gets in the middle. Do you have an 74 00:06:02.560 --> 00:06:09.199 understanding of that? Is it fear? Is it wishful thinking? 75 00:06:10.639 --> 00:06:18.480 Is it small playing small thoughts? Is it old programming? 76 00:06:18.680 --> 00:06:24.120 Some of us call it conditioning. No matter what, I'm 77 00:06:24.240 --> 00:06:27.879 hoping that as I'm having this conversation, this is making 78 00:06:27.959 --> 00:06:35.000 you think, think, and revisit this aspect of our lives, 79 00:06:36.360 --> 00:06:42.920 because this is exactly what we are exploring today. And 80 00:06:43.759 --> 00:06:48.120 if one of your questions is really about something specific, 81 00:06:48.560 --> 00:06:54.160 because you need a confirmation because your mind has brought 82 00:06:54.199 --> 00:06:58.480 in so much noise into your intuition that you can't 83 00:06:58.519 --> 00:07:03.839 discern anymore. Or what part is the real intuition and 84 00:07:03.879 --> 00:07:09.759 what part is the noise. I'm here for you. Just 85 00:07:09.839 --> 00:07:13.360 let me know what these crossroads you're in or what 86 00:07:13.519 --> 00:07:18.639 decision you have to make is about. And I'm also 87 00:07:18.639 --> 00:07:21.079 a medium and a channeler and a psychic, so I 88 00:07:21.120 --> 00:07:24.720 can tune into the field for you with your permission. 89 00:07:24.800 --> 00:07:29.480 I would never do something without your permission, and then 90 00:07:29.959 --> 00:07:36.319 help you with confirmation and assist you in gaining clarity 91 00:07:36.360 --> 00:07:40.560 once again about what you're trying to do in your life. Again, 92 00:07:40.600 --> 00:07:44.000 the number to call it's one eight hundred nine three 93 00:07:44.199 --> 00:07:53.319 zero two eight one nine. So what I love about 94 00:07:53.439 --> 00:07:59.480 today's show in particular is that it brings together many 95 00:07:59.600 --> 00:08:03.879 of the verisations we've been having throughout all of the 96 00:08:03.920 --> 00:08:07.560 show episodes and many of the questions that I've been 97 00:08:07.680 --> 00:08:12.680 asked offline as well after people have been watching or 98 00:08:12.839 --> 00:08:19.360 listening to past episodes. And one of the questions that 99 00:08:19.480 --> 00:08:25.399 I am being asked all the time is why do 100 00:08:25.519 --> 00:08:31.959 I keep doubting myself? This is a question that many 101 00:08:32.000 --> 00:08:37.440 many people are living right now, regardless of where they 102 00:08:37.440 --> 00:08:40.960 are in their lives, of how many successes they've achieved, 103 00:08:41.200 --> 00:08:45.120 of where they are in their career, in their financial 104 00:08:45.759 --> 00:08:53.600 success life, and whatever age. This question has come to 105 00:08:53.639 --> 00:09:06.480 me from varied, varied people, and it's not a linear answer. 106 00:09:06.639 --> 00:09:12.120 Why I keep doubting myself because there's many reasons and 107 00:09:12.159 --> 00:09:15.320 I'm going to name a few to help you tune 108 00:09:15.399 --> 00:09:22.720 into maybe this is the reason for you, And if so, 109 00:09:23.600 --> 00:09:27.840 you will know because you will get a gut feeling 110 00:09:27.879 --> 00:09:32.200 that what I'm speaking about is truth for you. You 111 00:09:32.320 --> 00:09:39.000 may get goosebumps. Goose Bumps is one of those indications 112 00:09:39.039 --> 00:09:45.360 that you can use at all times because you're somatic being, 113 00:09:45.519 --> 00:09:56.519 your physical being, your tangible touch sensorial system recognizes truth 114 00:09:56.799 --> 00:10:01.320 as a simple part of information comes through as a vibration, 115 00:10:01.960 --> 00:10:06.080 and the goose pumps in the chills are like a 116 00:10:06.159 --> 00:10:10.320 recognition that, oh, yeah, this is truth. And there you go. 117 00:10:10.399 --> 00:10:14.320 I've already given you one insight on you know how 118 00:10:14.399 --> 00:10:17.440 to recognize what's in front of you. But why you 119 00:10:17.519 --> 00:10:21.480 keep doubting yourself is because, as I was saying a 120 00:10:21.480 --> 00:10:27.279 few moments ago, we are growing through years of our 121 00:10:27.320 --> 00:10:34.879 life and rarely we are being supported and recognized for 122 00:10:36.960 --> 00:10:40.720 being who we are, for simply being who we are, 123 00:10:40.960 --> 00:10:46.879 and we are given cues through our own parents and 124 00:10:47.080 --> 00:10:52.639 family and society and school and friends. We're giving cues 125 00:10:52.720 --> 00:10:57.919 that who we are is not okay. There's shame, there's bullying, 126 00:10:58.559 --> 00:11:05.440 there's teachers not necessarily being compassionate with us when we 127 00:11:05.559 --> 00:11:09.519 ask questions, and not only when we ask questions about 128 00:11:09.519 --> 00:11:13.360 something we do not know in class, but also when 129 00:11:13.399 --> 00:11:16.440 we ask questions that maybe are a little bit advanced 130 00:11:16.480 --> 00:11:20.960 for the class, and you get answers from the teachers 131 00:11:20.960 --> 00:11:26.639 that are not supporting that intelligence. They may be belittling 132 00:11:27.000 --> 00:11:32.600 or making fun of you, or having you be ashamed 133 00:11:32.639 --> 00:11:37.120 of being ahead. All of these things that happened in 134 00:11:37.159 --> 00:11:43.840 our lives. Those we're a training in the making to 135 00:11:44.000 --> 00:11:52.480 help us doubt what we know, because they wear chips 136 00:11:52.519 --> 00:12:01.360 in our ability to believe our inner knowing. There were 137 00:12:01.559 --> 00:12:07.960 chips in our self worth. And therefore, when we stop 138 00:12:08.080 --> 00:12:13.600 believing first and foremost, we stop believing in our own worth, 139 00:12:13.799 --> 00:12:19.799 in the fact that what we believe, want, feel, see, 140 00:12:19.919 --> 00:12:26.279 and know is okay, And that's why we second guess 141 00:12:26.279 --> 00:12:32.960 ourselves because we stop believing that that's okay, then we 142 00:12:33.159 --> 00:12:42.039 doubt ourselves, and the truth is that we all have intuition. 143 00:12:42.240 --> 00:12:49.360 We've all been biologically, physically in our bodies wired to 144 00:12:49.519 --> 00:12:55.000 be intuitive. There's several ways in which we are wired, 145 00:12:55.120 --> 00:12:58.200 and this is one of those things in which human 146 00:12:58.279 --> 00:13:03.639 design does a really good job in explaining where that 147 00:13:04.240 --> 00:13:10.159 inner knowing sits in our body. But we have two mechanisms. 148 00:13:10.399 --> 00:13:19.120 There's one which is a biological radio antenna made by 149 00:13:19.559 --> 00:13:24.919 our pituitary gland which sits right behind our third eye 150 00:13:25.480 --> 00:13:29.679 in the hypothesis gland, and the pinial gland, which sits 151 00:13:29.759 --> 00:13:33.919 in the intersection of our brain inside the two brain hemispheres, 152 00:13:34.039 --> 00:13:37.440 inside the corpus colossum and the two amygdala that are 153 00:13:37.799 --> 00:13:42.279 two little tiny glands to the side of it. That 154 00:13:42.519 --> 00:13:48.159 whole system acts like a radio antenna, and it's what 155 00:13:48.360 --> 00:13:53.639 allows us to enter into that state of trance of silence, 156 00:13:53.720 --> 00:14:00.679 of inner knowing that helps us separate the witness aspect 157 00:14:01.000 --> 00:14:07.039 of who we are from the actual biological being living 158 00:14:07.120 --> 00:14:13.919 life in three D. And the other aspect is where 159 00:14:14.159 --> 00:14:20.159 are automatic, or more than automatic, that's not the right word, 160 00:14:20.399 --> 00:14:26.679 where our inner authority of decision making sits. So when 161 00:14:26.799 --> 00:14:32.159 these two systems are able to operate together and not 162 00:14:32.279 --> 00:14:41.399 against each other. Then we can really begin to stop 163 00:14:41.480 --> 00:14:50.320 overwriting our decisions and doubting ourselves. And I'm going to 164 00:14:50.360 --> 00:14:54.360 tell you more about the inner authority after we take 165 00:14:54.519 --> 00:15:00.080 in a caller. Her name is Alexandra. Welcome, Alexandra. Are 166 00:15:00.080 --> 00:15:02.240 you calling from Hi? 167 00:15:02.360 --> 00:15:04.159 I'm coming from Connecticut. Can you hear me? 168 00:15:04.960 --> 00:15:09.879 Yes? Hi, Alexandra, and so good to hear you. What 169 00:15:10.120 --> 00:15:13.519 question do you have for us today? 170 00:15:13.960 --> 00:15:18.519 My question is, really, I'm at a point in my 171 00:15:18.639 --> 00:15:23.159 life where I've gained enough clarity on what my path 172 00:15:23.480 --> 00:15:28.799 really should be, my sole path and what you were 173 00:15:28.840 --> 00:15:32.279 talking about just now, just the doubting, the doubting, the doubting, 174 00:15:32.320 --> 00:15:36.840 that is definitely exactly where I am. And what I 175 00:15:36.879 --> 00:15:40.360 am noticing when I, you know, come down to my 176 00:15:40.399 --> 00:15:44.200 heart and get out of my mind, is I'm starting 177 00:15:44.240 --> 00:15:47.759 to be able to pick out some limiting belief that 178 00:15:47.840 --> 00:15:51.320 I know are there. It's this undercurrent of you know, 179 00:15:51.480 --> 00:15:56.440 what's holding me back. My question is how? And I 180 00:15:56.519 --> 00:16:00.440 hear people saying all the time, relief. You know you're 181 00:16:00.639 --> 00:16:04.840 limiting beliefs. How do you actually do that? That's my question? 182 00:16:05.639 --> 00:16:10.120 M Thank you. First of all, let me just verify 183 00:16:10.240 --> 00:16:12.679 what you ask because the sound is not that good. 184 00:16:13.159 --> 00:16:15.840 So I heard you saying you're in a path where 185 00:16:15.879 --> 00:16:19.000 you are tuning into what's your soul's path. Did I 186 00:16:19.039 --> 00:16:19.639 get that right? 187 00:16:20.840 --> 00:16:21.679 Yes? Yes? 188 00:16:22.120 --> 00:16:26.559 And then you said that you are moving through that 189 00:16:28.559 --> 00:16:32.279 path of tapping into your soul's path, but then you 190 00:16:32.519 --> 00:16:35.159 are being stopped by limiting beliefs. 191 00:16:35.200 --> 00:16:39.879 Correct, all right, how to let them go? 192 00:16:40.639 --> 00:16:44.000 Yes? Okay, so that's the million dollar question. But I 193 00:16:44.000 --> 00:16:47.360 will ask you. I love that you brought that question 194 00:16:47.399 --> 00:16:52.120 because it's a huge one and it definitely will help everybody. So, 195 00:16:52.919 --> 00:16:56.080 first of all, let's clarify for others what do we 196 00:16:56.240 --> 00:17:01.120 mean by limiting beliefs? And do you want to tell 197 00:17:01.159 --> 00:17:02.399 me what you intend by that. 198 00:17:03.600 --> 00:17:06.279 I think it has to do with all these doubts 199 00:17:06.319 --> 00:17:09.599 that I can't do it, I won't be able to 200 00:17:09.640 --> 00:17:13.200 do it, I'm not good enough. It's not just worthiness, 201 00:17:13.640 --> 00:17:16.079 it's it's I don't think I can do it? 202 00:17:16.720 --> 00:17:21.200 Yes, yes, awesome. So it's a dialogue that's happening inside 203 00:17:21.200 --> 00:17:25.279 your mind. It's a narrative that's playing in your mind 204 00:17:25.440 --> 00:17:29.160 constantly saying I can't do this, Why would I deserve this? 205 00:17:29.440 --> 00:17:33.440 And and why is this not happening? Yet and all 206 00:17:33.480 --> 00:17:40.319 of these words, right, yes, yes, okay. So the narrative 207 00:17:40.599 --> 00:17:44.960 in fact is a second layer above the limiting beliefs. 208 00:17:45.039 --> 00:17:50.559 So underneath that narrative there is a feeling, an emotion, 209 00:17:51.119 --> 00:17:58.279 a trained felt experience as a child, that what you 210 00:17:58.480 --> 00:18:03.839 desire you don't deserve. That's at the bottom of it. 211 00:18:04.039 --> 00:18:06.799 And that's not just for you, Alexandra, and thank you 212 00:18:06.839 --> 00:18:10.599 for calling in with this question, but it's for almost 213 00:18:10.640 --> 00:18:14.680 everybody that has something similar going on, because what you're 214 00:18:15.039 --> 00:18:19.559 talking about is common to almost every human on earth 215 00:18:19.680 --> 00:18:23.839 at this time, at one level or another. And so 216 00:18:24.000 --> 00:18:29.519 that belief comes tied in with your own experience of life, 217 00:18:29.559 --> 00:18:34.599 which creates the narrative that makes sense to you in 218 00:18:34.680 --> 00:18:37.839 this case is the one you shared. But we all 219 00:18:37.839 --> 00:18:44.559 have these type of narratives of very subtly putting a limit, 220 00:18:44.799 --> 00:18:49.559 putting a maximum expression that we believe we can have. 221 00:18:50.200 --> 00:18:54.039 I can't have a house that's bigger than this. Tangibles, right, 222 00:18:54.319 --> 00:18:57.200 I'm doing some experiences of tangibles. I can't have a 223 00:18:57.240 --> 00:19:03.039 business that I live off all. I can't have clients 224 00:19:03.079 --> 00:19:06.960 that pay me high tickets. I can't have All of 225 00:19:07.359 --> 00:19:12.000 these are narratives that come at a second moment, that 226 00:19:12.160 --> 00:19:16.720 first is what's underlying, and you say, how do I 227 00:19:16.799 --> 00:19:20.880 get over the limiting beliefs. So there's a two step 228 00:19:20.960 --> 00:19:25.799 process because you can do affirmations until you know the 229 00:19:26.000 --> 00:19:30.759 end of the world to counteract that narrative. But unless 230 00:19:30.839 --> 00:19:39.920 you work on releasing, removing, reframing that underlying feeling, felt, 231 00:19:40.079 --> 00:19:45.599 emotion that embedded in your biology, in yourselves, in your 232 00:19:45.880 --> 00:19:51.000 energetic bodies, that you are less than, not enough, and 233 00:19:51.119 --> 00:19:57.880 don't deserve or any similar feelings or emotions that relate 234 00:19:57.920 --> 00:20:02.880 to that, there's no information that can override that. It's 235 00:20:02.920 --> 00:20:06.160 almost like first the work to be done is the 236 00:20:06.200 --> 00:20:11.240 work energetically to hear, to heal. This is called trauma, 237 00:20:11.319 --> 00:20:13.599 by the way, But certain people when I say the 238 00:20:13.640 --> 00:20:16.240 word trauma, they don't quite understand what I'm talking about. 239 00:20:16.279 --> 00:20:19.519 This is what I'm talking about. I'm talking about growing 240 00:20:19.640 --> 00:20:23.839 up and living normal lives like we all do, and 241 00:20:24.359 --> 00:20:29.240 receiving information from the outset, from our mom, from our parents, 242 00:20:29.240 --> 00:20:34.839 from those that care for us that we interpret as 243 00:20:35.000 --> 00:20:39.359 meaning that we are not important enough. Not that they 244 00:20:39.480 --> 00:20:42.720 meant that, but that we interpret that. One of the 245 00:20:42.799 --> 00:20:46.839 examples I give in my book Remembering Her a Soul 246 00:20:47.720 --> 00:20:52.839 embodiment Journey, which if this is a topic that interests you, 247 00:20:53.400 --> 00:20:56.200 the book is probably a resource you want to access. 248 00:20:56.279 --> 00:21:00.160 It's everywhere. By the way, I'll add the link to 249 00:21:00.200 --> 00:21:02.119 the description of this call as well. 250 00:21:02.920 --> 00:21:03.519 Is when. 251 00:21:05.319 --> 00:21:07.880 This client of mind, she was a little girl and 252 00:21:07.960 --> 00:21:11.920 she loved singing, and she was singing all the time. 253 00:21:12.240 --> 00:21:14.480 She was such a cutie. I met her as an 254 00:21:14.519 --> 00:21:19.720 adult and she had a beautiful voice and wanted to 255 00:21:19.759 --> 00:21:24.160 have a career about it. But when she was a child, 256 00:21:24.759 --> 00:21:29.480 her mom worked really hard hours and came home from 257 00:21:29.559 --> 00:21:32.440 work one time. We narrowed it down to this time, 258 00:21:33.200 --> 00:21:38.160 and this woman, who was a girl at the time, 259 00:21:38.319 --> 00:21:41.960 was dancing in the kitchen and singing, and the mom 260 00:21:42.200 --> 00:21:45.640 just yelled at her and said, enough, please, I can't 261 00:21:45.640 --> 00:21:49.480 stand this nowise, just go to your room. And this girl, 262 00:21:49.559 --> 00:21:53.960 this woman that became a woman, interpreted, if I sing, 263 00:21:54.039 --> 00:21:57.119 it's not okay. I'm going to be sent to my room, 264 00:21:57.359 --> 00:22:02.279 and forever closed that voice. For like thirty years, she 265 00:22:02.359 --> 00:22:06.559 closed that voice until closing that voice was giving her 266 00:22:06.799 --> 00:22:10.200 a big disease, big illness on her throat. I mean, 267 00:22:10.240 --> 00:22:14.359 it had a big correlation. And she remembered this and 268 00:22:14.519 --> 00:22:16.799 the mother didn't intend to say, I don't like it 269 00:22:16.839 --> 00:22:19.440 when you sing. Actually, the mother loved when the girls 270 00:22:19.480 --> 00:22:24.960 sing sung, but that day the mother was so overwhelmed 271 00:22:25.039 --> 00:22:28.039 that she just had a reaction. Well, this is a 272 00:22:28.160 --> 00:22:30.720 very extreme and clear case that I've dealt with. But 273 00:22:30.920 --> 00:22:34.680 this happens in subtler ways when it is not as 274 00:22:34.799 --> 00:22:39.720 evident the correlation. But we are told in different ways 275 00:22:39.799 --> 00:22:44.880 and different actions and different attitudes, in silences, in things 276 00:22:45.000 --> 00:22:49.279 not said, that we are not worth whatever it is 277 00:22:49.640 --> 00:22:53.279 that we desire, which when we're children is simply love. 278 00:22:53.920 --> 00:22:57.519 Parents can be too distracted, parents could have their own 279 00:22:57.599 --> 00:23:01.200 trauma and their own inability to express love, and therefore 280 00:23:01.240 --> 00:23:04.799 they don't say how beautiful and amazing you are and 281 00:23:04.880 --> 00:23:08.400 I love you. And so we keep trying to match 282 00:23:08.880 --> 00:23:13.400 an internalized idea of who we need to be in 283 00:23:13.519 --> 00:23:16.960 order to be loved, which is unreachable because we never 284 00:23:17.039 --> 00:23:19.880 get there, because we never get the answer that we're expecting. 285 00:23:20.720 --> 00:23:23.119 Is this making sense, Alexandra, Are you still there? 286 00:23:24.160 --> 00:23:26.440 Yes? Yes, yes, I'm sure here. Yes? 287 00:23:27.119 --> 00:23:28.079 Is this landing with you? 288 00:23:29.279 --> 00:23:30.720 Yes? Definitely yes? 289 00:23:31.359 --> 00:23:36.880 Yeah. So first, is this layer that I'm talking about, 290 00:23:37.400 --> 00:23:41.240 And what's beautiful about the work that can be done 291 00:23:41.480 --> 00:23:45.920 in this earth of the areage of aquarias that we 292 00:23:46.119 --> 00:23:51.079 are in this energetics of ascensions that yes they are chaotic, 293 00:23:51.119 --> 00:23:54.640 but they also allow for really fast reframing and shifting. 294 00:23:55.279 --> 00:23:59.839 Is that we can go and work on this under 295 00:24:00.400 --> 00:24:07.400 layer of trauma and then the narrative above simply shifts 296 00:24:07.480 --> 00:24:11.200 and goes away. It's not a forced thing that you 297 00:24:11.279 --> 00:24:16.200 do is a release. It's first before releasing you, I 298 00:24:16.240 --> 00:24:19.440 have to see it is a seeing and understanding of 299 00:24:20.519 --> 00:24:27.720 how you stopped believing in yourself or began believing limiting beliefs. 300 00:24:27.759 --> 00:24:30.799 That's why we call them that believing that you don't 301 00:24:30.880 --> 00:24:34.759 deserve to follow your soul's path, You deserve to only 302 00:24:34.839 --> 00:24:38.799 follow some traditional path that the family has followed. Sometimes 303 00:24:38.839 --> 00:24:42.880 in fact, this comes down through the lineage, even not 304 00:24:43.119 --> 00:24:47.480 just through your childhood, but a whole lineage that goes 305 00:24:47.519 --> 00:24:51.519 through that. Whoop, Sorry, my glasses fell, and I can't 306 00:24:51.559 --> 00:24:55.880 read the questions without the nuts, okay, And there's another 307 00:24:56.400 --> 00:24:59.000 color will deal without in a moment. So just to 308 00:24:59.039 --> 00:25:03.880 wrap this up, for this can be coming also through 309 00:25:03.960 --> 00:25:06.359 your lineage. It could be karmic, It could not just 310 00:25:06.440 --> 00:25:12.960 be from this lifetime. So I invite you to become 311 00:25:13.319 --> 00:25:20.680 curious and to journal at some creation for everybody listening, Okay, 312 00:25:20.799 --> 00:25:25.319 that has similar situations to Alexandra. To create in the 313 00:25:25.359 --> 00:25:28.200 morning or in the evening, whatever time is more apt 314 00:25:28.279 --> 00:25:31.359 for you. To have some space on your own, Light 315 00:25:31.440 --> 00:25:35.720 a candle, put some beautiful crystal or a flower or 316 00:25:35.759 --> 00:25:39.160 something by your side that makes you feel expanded and 317 00:25:39.359 --> 00:25:44.640 self loved. Attend to your own beauty and grab a 318 00:25:44.759 --> 00:25:50.559 journal and ask yourself the question that relates to whatever 319 00:25:50.599 --> 00:25:54.920 it is that is stopping you and begin going in layers. 320 00:25:55.119 --> 00:26:00.519 What is stopping me from xyz? Why am I thinking 321 00:26:00.720 --> 00:26:04.279 these thoughts that are stopping me from going forward? What 322 00:26:04.599 --> 00:26:08.119 happens to me when I want to take action? And 323 00:26:08.200 --> 00:26:10.480 this is a big one, what happens to you when 324 00:26:10.519 --> 00:26:13.279 you want to take action? Literally? Tune into your body. 325 00:26:13.599 --> 00:26:16.839 Do you get your gut that becomes tight? Do you 326 00:26:16.920 --> 00:26:19.960 get a headache? Do you get faint? What is happening 327 00:26:20.000 --> 00:26:23.359 to you that will give you information? And go deeper 328 00:26:23.400 --> 00:26:29.519 and deeper asking yourself questions about what is it at 329 00:26:29.559 --> 00:26:32.279 the bottom of it all that is stopping you, and 330 00:26:32.480 --> 00:26:37.240 you will get profound insights. And once you have those, 331 00:26:38.000 --> 00:26:41.839 then you can work with those. Okay, thank you. 332 00:26:41.960 --> 00:26:48.079 That's beautiful deep dives into yes exactly. 333 00:26:48.480 --> 00:26:52.960 Yeah, yeah, thank you for that question. It was beautiful question. Okay, Emily, 334 00:26:53.000 --> 00:27:00.240 who's next? Up? Next? We have Ron from Colorado. Oh wonderfull. 335 00:27:00.480 --> 00:27:07.799 Hi Ron from Clorado. Good to have you. Ron. Is 336 00:27:08.240 --> 00:27:12.799 he still on the line. You might have stepped away 337 00:27:12.799 --> 00:27:14.559 for a second. Ron, Are you still there? You're on 338 00:27:14.759 --> 00:27:18.799 the air. If he comes back, let me know, we'll 339 00:27:18.839 --> 00:27:22.759 get him through immediately. Meanwhile, I'll finish answering what I 340 00:27:22.799 --> 00:27:28.000 was talking about before Alexandra came on. Okay, okay, So 341 00:27:29.400 --> 00:27:32.400 when I let Alexandra in, I was about to give 342 00:27:32.400 --> 00:27:37.079 you a tip about your way in which you make 343 00:27:37.160 --> 00:27:42.000 decisions that goes first the intuitive hit and then the 344 00:27:42.359 --> 00:27:47.079 decision part. And the decision part is not the same 345 00:27:47.400 --> 00:27:51.160 for all of us, and this I'm tapping into human 346 00:27:51.279 --> 00:27:56.039 design here, and some of us make decisions very easily, 347 00:27:56.119 --> 00:28:01.960 simply and rapidly through the gut feel. And that's those 348 00:28:02.000 --> 00:28:04.599 of you that in human design we call generators or 349 00:28:04.680 --> 00:28:09.079 manifesting generators. Not all of them, but for the most part, 350 00:28:09.599 --> 00:28:13.920 you will have that ability to have that gut feel. 351 00:28:14.119 --> 00:28:18.279 For others, you have what's known as a splining authority, 352 00:28:18.319 --> 00:28:24.200 and that is literally instinctive like animals. You know how 353 00:28:24.319 --> 00:28:27.799 animals know instinctly if they are in danger or if 354 00:28:27.839 --> 00:28:32.480 they're safe. And that's even faster than the gut. That's 355 00:28:32.599 --> 00:28:34.720 just a thing you know that you know that you 356 00:28:34.799 --> 00:28:37.359 know when you enter a room this is safe, this 357 00:28:37.440 --> 00:28:44.240 is not safe. That's like an in it's instinctive, it's 358 00:28:44.279 --> 00:28:49.599 not necessarily intuitive. It's faster than intuition. Others have what's 359 00:28:49.720 --> 00:28:53.519 known as an emotional authority, and I'm one of those, 360 00:28:53.559 --> 00:29:00.559 and I need to allow my whole emotional flow, the 361 00:29:00.599 --> 00:29:04.480 emotional curve, to move up and down and up and 362 00:29:04.559 --> 00:29:07.519 down until it settles for me to be able to 363 00:29:07.599 --> 00:29:13.519 have clarity about what is a clear yes and what 364 00:29:13.680 --> 00:29:16.200 is a clear no. And sometimes it takes a few minutes, 365 00:29:16.200 --> 00:29:22.279 and sometimes it takes days. Some people have what's known 366 00:29:22.440 --> 00:29:30.119 as a self directed authority, and they need to take 367 00:29:30.160 --> 00:29:35.720 the time to tune into that I am center and 368 00:29:36.640 --> 00:29:40.839 get clarity about what is their decision making. Others need 369 00:29:40.960 --> 00:29:44.119 a full twenty eight and a half days of a 370 00:29:44.279 --> 00:29:47.680 moon cycle to be able to make a decision. And 371 00:29:47.759 --> 00:29:51.480 I'm hoping that what I'm speaking about is opening your 372 00:29:51.559 --> 00:29:58.240 mind with the understanding that wow. For some of us, 373 00:29:58.519 --> 00:30:03.200 takes more than a moment to make a decision. To 374 00:30:03.279 --> 00:30:07.400 make an aligned decision is what I'm talking about, to 375 00:30:07.440 --> 00:30:14.839 make a decision that really taps into the universal knowing 376 00:30:15.200 --> 00:30:20.400 with capital K of what is for your highest and best. 377 00:30:21.400 --> 00:30:27.000 Because what happens to us when we second guess our decisions, 378 00:30:27.079 --> 00:30:35.920 When we make hasty decisions without allowing for clarity in 379 00:30:36.000 --> 00:30:43.839 our decision making, then we live projects and things in 380 00:30:43.920 --> 00:30:48.119 life that are not aligned with what is for our 381 00:30:48.200 --> 00:30:56.599 highest and best, and therefore we become exhausted, drained, unfulfilled, sad, tired, 382 00:30:56.960 --> 00:31:00.640 et cetera. Are you picking up what a putting down? 383 00:31:00.720 --> 00:31:04.559 Because this is very important. Again, we are not trained 384 00:31:04.759 --> 00:31:10.720 in society to understand that we can and should take 385 00:31:10.799 --> 00:31:16.960 time to make decisions. We are told that fast decisions 386 00:31:17.039 --> 00:31:18.960 is the way to do it, and that if we 387 00:31:19.079 --> 00:31:22.279 doubt our decisions, then we're of the game. And here 388 00:31:22.359 --> 00:31:25.480 I am telling you, no, it's not always like that. 389 00:31:25.920 --> 00:31:29.279 Some of us are wired for fast decisions, and for 390 00:31:29.440 --> 00:31:35.799 those of us with that sacral, sacred, sacral inner authority, 391 00:31:35.839 --> 00:31:39.440 which is the fast intuitive gut feeling, is the other 392 00:31:39.480 --> 00:31:42.240 way around. If you begin doubting yourself you have the 393 00:31:42.240 --> 00:31:47.200 big head and you override it, then you lose that information. 394 00:31:48.799 --> 00:31:51.759 And for us who are not wired for that fast 395 00:31:52.440 --> 00:31:55.039 and decision is the other way around. It's like we 396 00:31:55.119 --> 00:32:00.440 try to override the process of the inner authority and 397 00:32:00.640 --> 00:32:04.480 we are making a decision based on what we think 398 00:32:05.200 --> 00:32:09.200 I should do, what we think others want me to do, 399 00:32:09.319 --> 00:32:12.720 what we think is best, because if I don't do this, 400 00:32:12.799 --> 00:32:15.920 I will let somebody down, et cetera, et cetera. So 401 00:32:16.000 --> 00:32:20.680