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<v Speaker 1>Austin's eighty station on three point one.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the Sandy Show, brought to you by our Bank

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<v Speaker 2>with eight locations throughout Central Texas and online at www.

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<v Speaker 2>The letter r dot Bank member fdi C lots to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about. Even for people that aren't big sports fans,

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<v Speaker 2>they get roped into the Olympics because of the great

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<v Speaker 2>storytelling that they do in the Olympics. And it's been

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<v Speaker 2>it's been good so far. I've been like sat down

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<v Speaker 2>and just watched the Olympics. I've had it on with

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<v Speaker 2>watching it with one eye. And for those of you

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<v Speaker 2>just joined the show, my longtime radio partner and my

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<v Speaker 2>buddy JB.

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<v Speaker 1>Hager is joining us.

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<v Speaker 2>Hilling in Patricia and a little late to the party,

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<v Speaker 2>but she's here. Our friend in Hollywood, Cecily Noblers join us.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, Hello, you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a tight, a bit of a technical nightmare,

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<v Speaker 2>but we got got Cecily here.

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<v Speaker 1>Sister.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, she's technically consistent since she has been since

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<v Speaker 4>the mid nineties.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not it's not not true.

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<v Speaker 2>The Olympics, I mean, how great has been bringing Snoop

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<v Speaker 2>into the Olympics is kind of the ambassador for the Olympics.

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<v Speaker 1>On NBC.

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<v Speaker 2>He is everywhere right now, and I've enjoyed that part

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<v Speaker 2>of it. You know, they make it entertaining along with

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<v Speaker 2>the competitions of course, the gymnastics and the swimming and

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<v Speaker 2>all that kind of stuff. But but Snoop's been killing

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<v Speaker 2>it at the Olympics.

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<v Speaker 5>No, it's a choice, you know, to bring Snoop. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>I think I think it's great. I think we're elevating

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<v Speaker 5>to the Olympics to a new place. I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 5>make like a pot joke, like it's it's high now.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean the big joke was when he was carrying

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<v Speaker 2>the flame and everyone was like, you know, he's going

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<v Speaker 2>to light up with that flame. But I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>I thought Swoop's been pretty entertaining.

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<v Speaker 4>Now it's I don't know if you guys caught it,

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<v Speaker 4>but my wife and I watched through the Peacock Gap

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<v Speaker 4>some of the cutaways they were doing with.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it.

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<v Speaker 4>It was Keenan Thompson and Kevin Hart hysterical stuff. So

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<v Speaker 4>this is NBC has figured out that having this is

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<v Speaker 4>just my opinion, having traditional journalists just talk about, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>the vibe and the mood and the Olympic, like people

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<v Speaker 4>are interested in a much lighter perspective of things, and

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<v Speaker 4>so that's why they I think they did a lot

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<v Speaker 4>with Snoop Dogg and then of course you see Martha

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<v Speaker 4>Stewart popping up because of him. But then the stuff

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<v Speaker 4>with Kevin Hart and Keenan Thompson was hysterical. I work

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<v Speaker 4>with Lance Armstrong, who, if you don't know, somewhat controversial figure.

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<v Speaker 6>We did stuff with peacock for Twitter France.

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<v Speaker 4>They're they're taking some chances on making some of these

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<v Speaker 4>sports more entertaining that are hard to grasp, like and

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<v Speaker 4>I'll say cycling is definitely one of them.

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<v Speaker 1>So they need to bring in personality to it, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, yeah, I was watching I was watching badminton today.

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<v Speaker 4>It was a Chinese women's final, and it's so funny,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, like that's where I could have used Kevin

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<v Speaker 4>Hart or something talking about it, but I was with him.

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<v Speaker 4>I was watching it, and they're like, you know, this

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<v Speaker 4>is the fastest ball sport in the Olympics. They said

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<v Speaker 4>at at times the what was it called a poppycock,

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<v Speaker 4>the shuttlecock, shuttlecock.

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<v Speaker 6>What's the difference between a shuttlecock and a poppycock. I

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<v Speaker 6>don't think I want to know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you made poppy cock cock. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>Shuttlecock.

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<v Speaker 4>The shuttlecock can go as much as over two hundred

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<v Speaker 4>miles an hour they were saying up to, but it

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<v Speaker 4>goes that speed for a second, right, but then it

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<v Speaker 4>just floats like a.

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<v Speaker 1>Flower, right, exactly right.

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<v Speaker 6>This is not like, so, what's a good what's a

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<v Speaker 6>good fastball in baseball?

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<v Speaker 1>Hundred miles an hour fastball?

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<v Speaker 4>It's smoking fast right right, really fast. It can go

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<v Speaker 4>almost three times that, but it's not near.

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<v Speaker 1>You, So I just see what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 4>By the time it gets you, it's just this little

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<v Speaker 4>floating forest gump, like.

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<v Speaker 3>Can I please just interject?

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<v Speaker 5>And poppy cock is a brand of candied popcorn.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why I'm here.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm so glad I got my computer to work just

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<v Speaker 5>so I could just chime that kind of stuff in

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<v Speaker 5>because you need it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're coming.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for chiming in though, Cecily, that's great, you got it.

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<v Speaker 1>My kid's new line.

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<v Speaker 2>When you tell them something that's like a boring story,

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<v Speaker 2>my daughter will go, that's great, Dad, who's going to

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<v Speaker 2>play you in the movie?

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<v Speaker 1>Good Morning?

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<v Speaker 2>It's The Sandy Show being brought to you by our bank,

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<v Speaker 1>Member Fdi s.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, if you're just joining us, Tricia is out today,

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<v Speaker 2>but my buddy JB Is hanging out with us, and

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<v Speaker 2>my other friend, Cecily Nobler is filling in the cracks

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<v Speaker 2>here or there. We got her through her technical nightmares,

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<v Speaker 2>and Cecily, I got something just for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you still single?

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<v Speaker 6>It's sort of what do you means?

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<v Speaker 4>God?

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<v Speaker 6>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Sort of?

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<v Speaker 6>The dog doesn't count, Monroad does not.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh if Monroe doesn't count, then yes, I'm still single.

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<v Speaker 1>You are single?

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<v Speaker 3>I guess why I who's asking?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you been out with? Are you dating anybody?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm dating?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, So I just thought of you because

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<v Speaker 2>this therapist is saying that if you want a long

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<v Speaker 2>term relationship, you're going to need to date a whole

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<v Speaker 2>lot more. You got to date all the time, like

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<v Speaker 2>at least two or three dates a week if you

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<v Speaker 2>want to find mister, if you want to find your

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<v Speaker 2>signalant other, because she says it's just a numbers gain.

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<v Speaker 2>The more you get out there, the more likely you

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<v Speaker 2>are to find to find me your person.

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<v Speaker 5>Your person, and this therapist gets paid for this. This

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<v Speaker 5>person wrote a book about that, like no, dull like

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<v Speaker 5>you think no, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I disagree with that. Tell me, I just think that you.

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<v Speaker 2>I think when you try really really hard to date

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<v Speaker 2>or to find that significant other, you never find them.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's just life just happens, you know what

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<v Speaker 2>I mean. You just it's very organic. It's not a

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<v Speaker 2>thing that you're out there. I'm going to go out

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<v Speaker 2>tonight and I'm going to find my future husband or wife.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you just got to chill about it and

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<v Speaker 1>let it, let life happen.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll be honest with you on this.

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<v Speaker 5>I've done a lot of looking into this because I

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<v Speaker 5>was in a lot of long term relationships for like

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<v Speaker 5>fifteen years off and then I thought, I'll.

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<v Speaker 6>Just float and I'll just date a lot. For sh

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<v Speaker 6>I was in.

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<v Speaker 5>Three different for fifteen years, so one was like seven years,

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<v Speaker 5>and three years and five years.

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<v Speaker 3>But I say this, if you want to get serious.

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<v Speaker 5>And I know this is a very light show, but

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<v Speaker 5>there's like a lot of people, there's new books about

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<v Speaker 5>sort of attachment theory. People talk about so an issue

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<v Speaker 5>that I have now even I've always had this, and

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<v Speaker 5>I have this now, which is that if someone's two

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<v Speaker 5>icked out, and I'm just like, if someone's there they're

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<v Speaker 5>kind of anxious around me and they like me too much,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, what the hell is wrong with them? And

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<v Speaker 5>then if they're hard to get and called avoidant in

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<v Speaker 5>their dating attachment, I'm all in which you know, keeps you,

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<v Speaker 5>keeps it pretty alone or in these kind of ridiculous,

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<v Speaker 5>really short term love bombing relationships.

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<v Speaker 3>But I've given this a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>Of thought, and it's a fake what you described, and

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<v Speaker 4>you probably know this. It's the old Woody Allen line,

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<v Speaker 4>which you took from Groucho Marx, is that I would

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<v Speaker 4>never want to belong to a club that would have

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<v Speaker 4>someone like me as a member.

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<v Speaker 5>Exactly exactly.

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<v Speaker 6>They are in love with you, You're like, what.

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<v Speaker 3>Not even in love? Like even on a first date.

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<v Speaker 5>I went on a date and the guy, there's nothing

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<v Speaker 5>wrong with him at all, but he just like had

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<v Speaker 5>made a future plan. He was like, oh, well, you

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<v Speaker 5>like that musical, Let's go see it when it comes

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, future you can't control me. It

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<v Speaker 3>was a whole thing.

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<v Speaker 2>And women are so hard to understand because they always

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<v Speaker 2>a plan, and then they don't want anything to do

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<v Speaker 2>with them, right, Yea.

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<v Speaker 6>You gotta be more aloof as a guy. You got

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<v Speaker 6>to keep him guessing. Yeah, but there's that.

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<v Speaker 5>But it's just like and sometimes it's just pheromones. It's

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<v Speaker 5>like a little thing.

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<v Speaker 4>This.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like I can pick up on an avoidance like

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<v Speaker 5>that without them saying. They can say all the right things,

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<v Speaker 5>and I sniff it out and I know that they're

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<v Speaker 5>never going to be into it.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's easier for me than.

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<v Speaker 5>To be like, yeah, yeah, that guy, and then I

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<v Speaker 5>can go, oh, guys, right, Yeah, it's a whole thing.

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<v Speaker 2>JB celebrated twenty five years of marriage back in June.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been married for sixteen years, and I'll tell you this,

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<v Speaker 2>and I beg you, JB, you agree. There's no way

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<v Speaker 2>in the world I would want to be out there

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<v Speaker 2>in the dating world right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't do it. I just would not do it.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what it would be like, Yeah, I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't see myself getting on the apps and all

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<v Speaker 4>that stuff.

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<v Speaker 6>It would be even.

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<v Speaker 4>When my wife's gone for like a week, I fall

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<v Speaker 4>apart pretty fast.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a big movement at school's happening. And believe it

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<v Speaker 1>or not, our daughter goes back to my daughter, but.

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<v Speaker 2>She goes back to school in two weeks, which is

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<v Speaker 2>it just seems really early to me. But there's a

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<v Speaker 2>movement happening across the country when it comes to kids

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<v Speaker 2>in school.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you what that is in just a second.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for being with us today.

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<v Speaker 2>JB is filling in today for Tricia, and Cecily is

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<v Speaker 2>joining us too. Although we're doing this virtually and Cecily

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<v Speaker 2>won't turn her camera on again.

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<v Speaker 3>You said to turn it off. You said you didn't

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<v Speaker 3>like the way I look.

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<v Speaker 2>No, know that it was just it was, yeah, it

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<v Speaker 2>was messing up the recording. That's all right, We know

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<v Speaker 2>that you're there, Cecily. But here's the thing that's happening

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<v Speaker 2>across the country, and i'd love your guys take on it.

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<v Speaker 2>They are banning cell phones in the classroom. Now you

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<v Speaker 2>probably sucked, like, oh they didn't do that already. No,

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<v Speaker 2>it was the Wild West with kids in their phones

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<v Speaker 2>in the classroom. And kids in Michigan, the students are

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<v Speaker 2>actually relieved that they don't have their phones with them

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<v Speaker 2>in the classroom anymore. And my daughter's school district they

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<v Speaker 2>just got rid of that too. Jab was that an

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<v Speaker 6>No, I think she.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, my daughter was born in two thousand and one,

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<v Speaker 4>with this issue. Yeah, they had it, and it was

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<v Speaker 4>always like, oh, it was like this necessity to communicate

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<v Speaker 6>But again, first generation of that so new.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think we knew the long term effects of

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<v Speaker 6>And and I think this is a good thing. This

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<v Speaker 4>More of that, not only at school, but in the workplace.

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<v Speaker 4>Can you imagine just checking your phone all day?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>And then they I've seen videos and stuff of kids

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<v Speaker 2>in schools where the teacher takes their phone and they're like,

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<v Speaker 2>you can't take that from me. That's not yours, that's mine, right,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. And I we told our daughter's teachers, you

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<v Speaker 2>can take the phone anytime you'll want, if it's a problem,

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<v Speaker 2>take it from her. And you know, have her come

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<v Speaker 2>back and get it after school, whatever you need to do.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's a lot of you know, a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>parents out there. It's never the kid, it's always the teacher, right, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>They're just looking for something. I mean they would take

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<v Speaker 2>Did you ever play the little football game with a

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<v Speaker 2>little with a little triangle football game and then you

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<v Speaker 2>kick it through the uprights and you put your thumbs

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<v Speaker 2>together for the uprights?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and even after the This is really dating ourselves,

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<v Speaker 4>but the football version.

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<v Speaker 6>Do you remember like Calico head to head?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, this was before we had like a you know,

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<v Speaker 4>a smartphone and a computer. But they were little portable

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<v Speaker 4>games and we were obsessed with them. We'd be on

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<v Speaker 6>Over playing the game.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, yep, like it.

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<v Speaker 6>Was a it was a problem.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, yeah, devices just don't belong like I mean, I

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<v Speaker 4>would be the opposite if I was a kid today,

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<v Speaker 4>I'd be wanting it.

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<v Speaker 6>But yeah, if they could undo that, that would be huge.

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>It's amazing how much you've tied you I've gotten. JB

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<v Speaker 2>told me, I don't know, probably a couple of years

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<v Speaker 2>ago that you didn't. Don't keep your cell phone in

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<v Speaker 2>your bedroom, you put it away.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, which is a tough one because I will

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<v Speaker 4>sleep with an Apple Watch in case it's an emergency call,

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<v Speaker 4>which when you have a daughter a child, you'll do that. Otherwise, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I try to stay away from the device.

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<v Speaker 2>It's they recommend my looking at your phone for like

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<v Speaker 2>up to two hours before you go to sleep because

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<v Speaker 2>all the blue stuff or something in the screen, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, the white light. Yeah, this is your circadian rhythm.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because it projects like it's sunlight, I think, is

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<v Speaker 2>what they said, right.

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<v Speaker 4>It totally messes up your sleep. Then your kids are

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<v Speaker 4>up all night looking at their device. Then they're tired

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<v Speaker 4>at school, Like, yeah, it's a problem. Can you imagine now,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I remember back in the day trying to get

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<v Speaker 4>your kid reset for school hours. But now you throw

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<v Speaker 4>on top of it all these devices and all that, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>that's a whole different animal.

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<v Speaker 1>It is.

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<v Speaker 2>JV and Cicely are sitting in on the show today

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<v Speaker 2>as Tricia is out, let me ask you guys a question.

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<v Speaker 2>When you guys were kids at Halloween time, did your

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<v Speaker 2>mother ever take you to the Halloween store.

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<v Speaker 6>No, that was that was for fancy rich people.

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<v Speaker 1>That was for we never went. But you're right, JB.

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<v Speaker 1>Go ahead.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry, they were always homemade for me growing up, it

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<v Speaker 4>was always homemade. Yeah, it was like that, the kind

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<v Speaker 4>where the cost and a max mask and a theme

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<v Speaker 4>and yes, that was fancy kids stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>And a pillowcase was my candy bag. I never had

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<v Speaker 2>like a reflective one or anything. No one cared if

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<v Speaker 6>Momk Yeah, yeah, I never had that either.

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<v Speaker 2>I never had one of those. But Halloween stores are

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<v Speaker 2>already starting to open up. Spirit Halloween stores are opening

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<v Speaker 2>up across the country and it's only mid August, I

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<v Speaker 2>mean the beginning of August. So that's for the really

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<v Speaker 2>well prepared. Right, you're going to get your Halloween costume.

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<v Speaker 4>Now that's a bit psycho if you're planning this far ahead.

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<v Speaker 5>I have my thing with costumes, which I kind of

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<v Speaker 5>do love. For a while, I would just go as

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<v Speaker 5>myself and say I was a Lanis Morissett.

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<v Speaker 6>And it was just that was it.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, And I didn't have to sometimes I put on

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<v Speaker 5>a little wig, but then sometimes I go real deep

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<v Speaker 5>cut and people don't like it. People want like sexy

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<v Speaker 5>witch sexy nurse. This is the time to wear a

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<v Speaker 5>short skirt and whatever. And one year I want a contest,

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<v Speaker 5>but I had to explain. I went as Scooter Libby.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you guys remember who Scooter Libby was?

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<v Speaker 1>I remember that names.

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<v Speaker 5>He worked for Dick Cheney under GW and I guess

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<v Speaker 5>he outed a source that he like he had, like

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<v Speaker 5>there was a CIA source or something and he outed them.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I don't know why whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>So I had like a very elaborate costume, like he

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<v Speaker 5>had crutches for a while. So I went as that

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<v Speaker 5>and my little T shirt that said she's with the CIA.

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<v Speaker 5>And one guy it's why I'm single. One guy at

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<v Speaker 5>the party got it like I could have just been

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<v Speaker 5>a sexy cowgirl. Yeah, but nope, I had to be

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<v Speaker 5>the aid to Dick Cheney.

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<v Speaker 3>And but I I love that stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>I think that's what Halloween's for is you've got to

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<v Speaker 5>make people think, yeah, but.

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<v Speaker 2>The woke police has kind of killed this fun in Halloween, boy,

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<v Speaker 2>you wear the wrong thing and you're done right.

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<v Speaker 4>It's more like the Halloween the chicks who want to

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<v Speaker 4>be sluts or get to be sluts.

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<v Speaker 3>For a day or the rest of their lives, and.

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<v Speaker 4>The guys who really want to be women are afraid

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<v Speaker 4>to be women get to be women.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, day they get to cross dress. They get a

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<v Speaker 2>free cross dressing pass on Halloween.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, yes, right, right, And it's a great day. It's

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<v Speaker 5>a great day for everybody. You get to just be

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<v Speaker 5>whoever you want to be, and that it's a lesson.

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<v Speaker 3>We should just do it all the time.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think I want to be a sexy nurse

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<v Speaker 5>all day right now, I'm a sexy No. That's why

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<v Speaker 1>So, I mean, I haven't even thought.

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<v Speaker 2>And the funniest costume, the most response my daughter ever

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<v Speaker 2>gotten a Halloween costume was the most simple one ever.

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<v Speaker 1>She was a banana.

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<v Speaker 2>A banana, a big yellow banana with a hole with

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<v Speaker 2>her face to come out and the thing else. She

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<v Speaker 2>got more reaction from that costume, which is a simple

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<v Speaker 2>little banana costume, and now every year she wants to

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<v Speaker 2>be a banana.

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<v Speaker 6>So yeah, my daughter had a home run as ketchup

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<v Speaker 6>for more than it's like sometimes we overthink.

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<v Speaker 2>It exactly exactly, but JB, I don't know if you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to back out on your spirit Halloween store take

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<v Speaker 2>and property values.

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<v Speaker 1>But here's your chance.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 4>I've just always had a theory that if your your

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<v Speaker 4>neighborhood shopping center is the land of the pop up

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<v Speaker 4>store whatever's trending Halloween, and then a month later it's

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<v Speaker 4>the Christmas store fourth of July, then it's the tax store, it's.

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<v Speaker 6>Things are not going good in your neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 4>If you're the temporary store neighborhood neighborhood, Yeah, it's I

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<v Speaker 4>feel you.

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<v Speaker 6>It's just a little red flag, you know, just a

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<v Speaker 6>little little.

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<v Speaker 4>Red flag of like time to move on, because you're

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<v Speaker 4>better than that, and I got your back.

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<v Speaker 2>The Spirit Halloween Store just opened up three blocks from

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<v Speaker 2>my house.
