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Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons throwing some ice

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mix in some vodka.

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Speaker 2: Color a podcast from the Mac of All Trade Studio

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in Fairport and driven by Victor Chrysler Dods jeep Ram.

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It's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello and welcome. Thanks for getting your pun on. Thank

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you for telling her friend. That's how we spread the word.

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Have I got some lasagna? Homemade lazagna from the bumpaa

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boop babita Booope.

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Speaker 2: Well that's not Italian so but yeah, she's not.

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Speaker 3: No, not at all. This is like English and Welsh

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and JOm.

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Speaker 1: Or some stuff. Okay, yeah, that's the English.

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Speaker 3: One, not an Italian menicon.

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Speaker 1: Well how does she do with the Yeah, there you go, excellent. Uh.

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The reason there's lasagna, I I know, I gotta think

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this past week deeply personal and profound for you. For Beth, Uh,

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you stood a role that most of us never imagine

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being in. I would think until we're in it, right,

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you really almost can't imagine it till you're in there.

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And for lack of a better term, and I hope

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I'm not saying something incorrectly, but you were more or

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less the MC for.

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Speaker 2: Your father's father and law service memorial service yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Is that fair to say that that way dandy or

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is that wrong? Well?

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Speaker 2: It was and it wasn't because like the pastor that

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they brought in who to eulogize him, we all really

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eulogized him. But I was kind of the MC but

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that he kind of took over at the halfway point,

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you know, so I kind of like kicked it off

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and led it. And uh, I got like emotional like

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right off the hop and people like, oh really really.

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Speaker 3: Oh but I pulled it together. Yeah, But yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Mean, or what's something let me get a little personal,

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if you know, mind, since you say it, since you're

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being so open, what is something that you said or

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maybe didn't say that keeps echoing in your mind today?

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Speaker 2: Well, I want to make sure that God gets glorified

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first for anything. And as I'm praying, you know, I

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got caught up in, you know, my past and my

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mistakes that I've made at the same time that I'm

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forgiven for idiot. So no, it's just it's just I

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was just praying, praying for gratitude, you know, and so

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that's and then after that I got through that, I

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started making a couple of jokes and we did all right,

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So it kind of went through through there and I,

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you know, I eulogize my father in laws, did my

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wife and her brother and uh his grandson, and then

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afterwards the pastor came up and did the same thing.

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So it went well. But I got more emotional than

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I did for my father. My father, we knew he was.

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We had three years to get ready. I I mean,

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I I played this whole thing. I got to keep

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it cool for everybody else. Sometimes that day with my sister,

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it was a little bit more more emotional because she's

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a peer. Ye like you expect to bury your parents. Unfortunately,

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it's just how life goes. If life goes the way

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it's supposed to, you will bury your parents. Your parents

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won't bury you, and you won't bury a sibling. But

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things happen, you know. And but this it was it

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was weird because it got more personal with me for

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some reason, you know. And it was a packed church.

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And it's when I get my buddy Joe called, like

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right before, hey, I'm about to go do a wake

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or I'm sorry, I'm about to do a memorial service.

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I thought that was weeks ago. I go, well, it was.

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Speaker 3: All right, all right, give Beth my love again.

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Speaker 1: I go, yeah, sure, was there a moment where you

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kind of realize something about your father in law or

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yourself that hadn't clicked before. Sometimes in these moments, things clicked.

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Speaker 2: He was one of those people who just gave of

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himself all the time, to the point where he didn't

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even take care of himself. And we didn't mention this part.

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It was kind of there, like the part of the

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he ended up having a stroke, like fifteen years ago.

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he never took care of himself because he was too

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busy taking care of everybody else, Like he took so

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much joy and helping everybody else do everything else. And

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so I think that when he had his stroke, like

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his life was really taken away from him. I mean

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there was. He was part of a stroke victims support

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group and a lot of those people were there and

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they were like fully recovered, and he never got to

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experience that full recovery. I mean, there was a story

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about him, like about a few weeks after his stroke,

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he tried getting back on his motorcycle and going for

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a ride. Right, and his uncle found him, you know,

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on the side of the road kind of like lost,

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I guess, and brought him home and like they'd check

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him out, and he was dehydrated to kind of you

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know that point. I think he realized that I can't.

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I can't do this stuff anymore. And that's the hard part.

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about the supplements and stuff. I tried to take as

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good as care of myself as possible because I don't

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want to end up in that situation, nor does anybody.

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could just come out of the blue for no reason.

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I went to the hospital thinking I was having a stroke.

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migraine with aura or what it is. Like, Oh, okay, so.

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Speaker 3: I'm not like stroking out here like no.

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Speaker 1: I don't mean the laugh, but I get it. And

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I've been so stressed myself. I'm sitting here now, I

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can feel it like in my shoulders and things, and

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I know it's not good for me. Oh yeah, yeah,

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it's not good. And it worries me a little bit,

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but you know.

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Speaker 2: Well, okay, so this morning, you know, we're a fitbit.

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We've talked about it and discovered a fib a couple

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of years ago, and fitbit could play games on you, right, Like,

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I've been doing my like exercises, like hardcourt, like high

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intensity interval training exercises five six days a week, and

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I don't know if the fit bit adjust for that

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and says, okay, you've been under training and need to

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train more, which is ridiculous because I'm I'm burning it

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out right, But the last few days. Today was the

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first day it said, hey, you mayn't need to take

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it easy for a while. And I have an exercise

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in three days. And I think the stress of the

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memorial service and the fact that, you know, my grandmother's situation.

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into effect last last night. And yes, and I think

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the watch is telling me, all right, today I wants

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you to take a day off.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, well, I have an exercise in two days.

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Speaker 2: So maybe I really was really like stressed yesterday if

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my body needed to recover, because I didn't. Apparently I

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didn't sleep well. I mean I didn't wake up or nothing,

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but I didn't sleep incredibly well either.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Do we do it wrong with these things? Should

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we be doing living tributes? You know how like at

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the Oscars they give a Lifetime Achievement award, get like that.

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Speaker 2: Throw the flowers to the living. Yes, we do it wrong. Yeah,

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I'm at my funeral done before I die. Yeah, like

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you ever seen like Welcome to America too or Coming to

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America too? Should they are going to die? And so

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he's in the casket watching his funeral and then James

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earld Joes Okay, then he dies? Yeah, we do it wrong?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just you know, like I think it would

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be awkward and uncomfortable, and if it's someone who's dying,

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you know, But I guess I guess you could call

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it like somebody's birthday party in their later years, Yes,

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eighty something birthday party and celebrate because I guess it

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would be like we say things after they're gone, things

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we probably should say now. And I don't know what

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would be something small and meaningful that would kind of

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prove that or or what would that be that that

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you could express love now, like to somebody.

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Speaker 2: I think, you know, maybe at a fiftieth birthday party,

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or maybe at a seventy fifth birthday party, or maybe

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at an anniversary, or maybe at one of those milestone moments,

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so that it doesn't come off as this is a

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funeral for a living person. But we we take those moments.

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Speaker 1: That's the thing is, Like, I think it would be

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creepy to do a living memorial to somebody.

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Speaker 2: You want to honor Bill before he goes the thing,

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but when he will no longer be laughing with the phone,

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you could be You could do that at like at

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a roast, yes, right, and yeah, say almost that at

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a roast. Well, we know people who threw themselves roast

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because they wanted to feel appreciated. Remember, yeah, a comic

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kind of looks like Peter Griffin in town. Uh okay,

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that's a joke about Dominos. Guys. Uh used to come

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on our show once in a while. Yeah yeah, yeah,

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and he threw himself a roast.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah you did. We made funny, Yeah we did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, oh okay, Because.

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Speaker 2: Why did he throw himself a roast? Because he wanted

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to feel roasted? He wanted to feel appreciated. He wanted

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to feel loved. Yeah, so he threw himself.

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Speaker 1: Well, see the roast, that's just did. Like I always

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think that we pick on the ones we love, and

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I go, there's a great living memorial, a roast of someone,

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or like a big birthday party where you're celebrating the person,

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and we often save the best things to say after.

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My grandfather used to say, yah, at once he dies,

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everybody's a saint. He was a pain here what he

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was a saint?

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Speaker 2: A holes don't die, right, that's the expression.

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Speaker 1: And so you think that they're gone. On. What's something

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you could say now to someone that you love? What

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should you be saying now? And I don't I don't

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know what it is because sometimes it comes off too sappy,

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or it comes off too weird, or or if.

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Speaker 3: You say it, am I dying? You guys know something?

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Speaker 2: So so here's here's an interesting story.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I have neighbors who I believe they're they're Indian okay, okay,

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from India, yes, And they have an elderly person in

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the home who I believe is in their final stages

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of life. We all got a letter in the mail saying,

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please pardon all of our parking in front of our

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house because we I said, you could put up a

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hotel my boost our economy locally. I don't care what

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you do. But yeah, no problem to here. I get it.

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I mean, we've just watched people in our lives die recently,

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and but it's been a month and people are still

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covered to the house and this person's hanging on but

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they don't want her to know she's dying. But I'm like,

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you mean to tell us she doesn't already know.

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Speaker 1: It's a parade of people right the.

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Speaker 2: World wearing masks in the house. Why you know, and

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so because they're coming to say their last respects. Yeah,

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it's like it's like does she know? Of course she

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probably knows, right, you know, like does she Hey, why

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is every coming to see me? I think she probably knows,

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the Italian culture gesh. My father like almost died three

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different times. People from rushed to the hospital say your

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goodbyes now, right, no false start, We gotta come back

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and do this in two more weeks.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a.

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Speaker 2: I think I think the best way to do that

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is from this point forward. June first, twenty twenty five.

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If you're listening to this podcast, yes, yes, or whatever?

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We air this from now on. Any time you throw

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someone a a surprise party, a birthday party, an anniversary party,

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a roast, whatever, tell them how you feel about them

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in that moment, so they know that you know, when

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they go, they know how you felt about them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we.

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Speaker 2: Don't have to wait until the about to die.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's for the person that's dying. You

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think it's for the person who's who's not dying. I

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think it's more for the person to say it and

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express that. I think they actually get maybe more out

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many people can't receive a compliment or can't really receive

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kind words like that, that it would be awkward.

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Speaker 2: A lot of them are very very humble. Yeah, my

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father in law was humble. He wouldn't take a compliment.

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Speaker 1: Not Yeah, but you don't know what to say. And really,

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when you think about it, how good does it feel

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for you to tell somebody you know how much you

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love them, or to talk about them sometimes in certain ways.

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memorial a roast or whatever. I mean, I guess you

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want but you also you want laughter, but you want

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reflection and a little respect too. No, I would think

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a little bit.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't want anybody our little reflection, Yeah,

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a little respect, you know. You know, I want God

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to be glorified first. I want people to hear the gospel,

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and then you can make fun of me all you

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want after that, you know, honestly, Like, like one of

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my favorite scenes in every movie, and I know it's

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it's a movie that everybody talks about. It's Happy Killmore

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where Chubbs looks happy because don't feel bad about me.

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Speaker 3: Happy I got my hand back.

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Speaker 2: And at the very end, you see the alligator who

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just died recently in real life, the alligator Chubbs at

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Abraham Lincoln waving back to happy like everything's okay. You know,

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thing's okay, you know, And that's what I want people

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to know. Hey, look, everything's okay. Everything's okay, everything's okay.

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Speaker 1: You know, we will take a moment. I'm sure that

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was heavy though yesterday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, do you think like I hope that

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when I go, like I remember when my uncle Joe

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died a few years ago and his funeral was very small,

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and I told my wife, I said, you know, I

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I that's it. That he was a great man. That's

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the tribute, that's the send off. I make sure when I,

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when I like and I and I actually am seed

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that one too. I want to make sure that everybody

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knows how important this person was. That is their final

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going away, that is their graduation. You know, like let's

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talk about their accomplishments. Unless they were a jackass, but

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if they were a great person or had an influence

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on your life, everybody should acknowledge that and be part

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of that. They shouldn't just send them off at just

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like a cookie cutter funeral. I think that everyone should

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get if they're if it's if they're worth it, they've

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lived a life worth a send off like that.

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Speaker 3: I think they should all be paid tribute to.

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Speaker 2: And I hope that I live my life, you know,

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like backwards in other words, like what do you want

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people to say at your funeral? And live it that way?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay, that's it. That's good advice. That's good advice.

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I almost think that I hope it's small, and I

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hope I live I live. Everybody, no one, it's a

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lie and and anybody else is too big needs to

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know me because it's just your funerals.

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Speaker 3: Just Batman, Robin and Alfred.

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Speaker 1: You know, like, all right, we will uh, we'll take

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a moment. A lot of nakedness lately in the news,

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a lot of people stripping down naked and not a lot.

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It seems like there's more more off more than usual.

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Speaker 5: One three inch of the fun Snoop Doggy Doggan doctor

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drinking ETI zone ready, I'll make an insurance so quick.

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Speaker 1: Don't look.

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Speaker 5: A bucking bust like a bubblem happening in Loan Beach

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together and they know you with trouble because they ain't

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nothing but a cheap things to low G so craz.

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Speaker 1: Why did I always think a G thing was like

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a G string?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I thought in my mind, I don't even know

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if I know what the thing is as a kid,

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a gangster thing.

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Speaker 1: I figures against the gangster thing from But I always

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heard g String have to find the contraceptive.

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Speaker 5: But she could be earning them and learning them.

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Speaker 2: I didn't realize that, like Doctor Dre and that like

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n w A. I realized that they were in there,

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but at the time that the Snoop Dog and Doctor

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Dre and Ice Cube made it big, and they were

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coming out of n w A, which had just broken up,

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and I didn't realize the impact that n w A had.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought these guys just always were around.

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Speaker 2: It's like this and like that, like this, it's like this,

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like this, then like that, it's like this, like that

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and like this.

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Speaker 5: Up drink creaked like a.

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Speaker 1: Wo wow, good morning.

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Speaker 2: Plus, it's time to roll.

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Speaker 1: Let's find a seat, high five.

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Speaker 2: Come on, we got box a lot gap in one.

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Speaker 1: It's all aboard the bus. Let's hit the class. He's

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gone so light.

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Speaker 5: Dogland to me would be a three D animated cartoon

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series design for kids.

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Speaker 1: That's what he did, and he did it. He did

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it good for him. I don't actually I'm going to

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bring that up again later because there's something that I

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don't know. You and I you and I can discuss

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I think in a way I might not be able

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to discuss it with other people. Oh okay, yeah, nothing bad. Yeah,

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but to the lighter things. You had a heavy day yesterday,

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you did, but.

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Speaker 2: You know what, and you did it well that my

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father in law is with the Lord Jesus in heaven.

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Everything's good.

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Speaker 1: Good. I'm very glad for you to hear that. What's

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the worst thing you did while drunk? Do you ever

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do anything like really bad while drunk? Did you really? Wait?

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You did?

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Speaker 3: Just in general?

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Speaker 1: I mean just I just because I'm kind of dumb

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and yeah, I get too close to people's persons, hugging

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people saying generality, general, laity, you're a beautiful lady.

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Speaker 2: Oh, yes, here, I gotta start going Joe Namath on everybody.

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It's been years, it's been I mean it's been a

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long time. But yeah.

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Speaker 1: The problem now, I think with some people is as

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they get older.

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Speaker 2: The worst is when you're drunking on medication. I was

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just going on, Okay, how did you know?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because like, no, you're working so hard to not

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be on medication.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember, like it was back when we were

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in radio. That's how long ago it was. I was

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on and my psychiatrist said, you cannot take that. You

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cannot drink alcohol on this, No problem. I don't really

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drink much anyway. It was a drug called Symbalta, and

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uh at a Christmas party, I would, you know, start

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drinking on the Smbalta, and all of a sudden, h

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you know, like not that I acted up, but I

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was starting to like say things and do things that

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I normally wouldn't do, like are you all right?

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Speaker 1: I don't remember any of this?

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Speaker 2: And then we deduced we went backwards with dan, are

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you taking this medication, Simbalta. It's it's recommended for people

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with fibromyalgia. Yeah, but what's one of the usage is

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anxiety is an off label usage. Okay, so that's my

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depression anxiety. And then they had to give me another

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one called Ambilify, right, so now you got ambilified, yeah exactly,

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so now yeah, yeah, it was it was predictive programming, Bill.

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So now so now about these two medications.

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Speaker 3: And drinking alcoholic?

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Speaker 2: Dude, you don't remember this last night? No? Yeah, I

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don't remember at all.

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Speaker 1: Well, there's a guy named James Rondeau. James rondo is

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the director of the Art Institute of Chicago. Okay, okay,

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it makes about a million dollars a year as the

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art director. He was detained in Germany last month for

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being nude. Well, he drunkenly stripped naked during a United

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Airlines fly from Chicago to munich.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, that'll do it.

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Speaker 1: Uh, He allegedly caught. This was caused by a mix

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of alcohol and prescription meds. That's what they're saying. He

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voluntarily took a leave of absence while the museum launched

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an independent investigation. What are you going to find? Like? Honestly,

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despite the embarrassment, the investigation concluded with a green light

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for Rondo to return his director. He'll resume his post, uh,

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continuing a twenty seven year career at the museum, where

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he earns over a million bucks annually.

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Speaker 2: Can you imagine the statement they've read, well, we have

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conducted a turtle turtle. They get they get the paper, right,

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they get this that the pr lady gets the sheet

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and they're reading off the sheet, which is always like

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a dead giveaway that they that you know, a lawyer

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crafted this dead giveaway. Yeah, dead giveaway. Uh we have

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This company has conducted an internal investigation and we have

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found that while some disciplinary measures have been taken, wholesale

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changes do not need to be made. And our friend,

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the director of the museum, I will return to work

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as scheduled. Danny upon completing his therapy.

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Speaker 1: He was just simply creating new art. Flight of the nude, right,

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reclining man with cocktail.

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Speaker 2: Being fitted for wings.

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Speaker 1: Yes, being fitted for wings, a turbulent soul. Right, all

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these things that could have been it, that have been perfect.

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But it's like, where do you draw the line between

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personal mistakes and professional consequences? And I understand that you

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don't like So the world of social media, many companies

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now say don't post that, or what you post could

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get you fired. It could.

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Speaker 2: It depends on whom or what is in power?

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Speaker 1: Oh what do you mean by in other words, what is.

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Speaker 2: The sentiment of the offended?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: In other words, if enough people are offended and your

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boss is weak, you'll probably get fired. Or if your

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boss is so powerful, screwed. I don't care what people think.

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If he's strong enough to do that, then you know

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you might have to have some internal consequences, but nothing

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really major. Okay, it all depends like okay, when I'll

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use both sides. Presidents Clinton and Trump have both had

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their issues with women, public issues, but their sides have

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always said, so what, he does a hell of a job.

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I don't care who he screws, right, but if we

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don't like the guy, or if the economy's going in

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the crap, or like imagine if George W. Bush had

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had an affair, Oh god, dude, ye right right, because

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the media is lean's left.

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Speaker 1: Well, look, even prior to that, I mean, you had

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a guy who I think would have been President of

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the United States. I think Gary Ryart he probably would

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have become President of the United Stately believe that, and

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it may have been a solid president. I have no idea,

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We'll never know, but an affair brought that down. Then

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there was another guy who had an affair, and I

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think people to look the other way, except his wife

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was undergoing treatment for breast cancer while he had these

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John Edwards, John Edwards and man because ladies loved John Edwards. Ladies,

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he was a good looking dude.

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Speaker 2: He was the VP candidate under Jack carry this guy,

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this guy because where they're rumoring Dick, they're rumoring Dick

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f Hart, Dick Dick Geffhart to be the VP.

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Speaker 3: Were like, yeah, that's kind of a tired choice.

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00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:27,759
Speaker 2: And then they bring in this young, good looking mid

471
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:31,200
forties dude with a tan, Southern charm. This is the

472
00:23:31,319 --> 00:23:34,880
next Bill Clinton. Yeah he was a lawyer, he was smooth,

473
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:36,319
and his wife has cancer.

474
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:39,799
Speaker 1: All family so relatable. True.

475
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:43,240
Speaker 2: And then he's all of a sudden he's playing games

476
00:23:43,279 --> 00:23:43,920
a real hunter.

477
00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:46,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, now we know who real hunter is.

478
00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:46,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

479
00:23:46,839 --> 00:23:47,079
Speaker 1: Real.

480
00:23:48,519 --> 00:23:51,759
Speaker 2: And then she goes and tell her story People Magazine. Yeah,

481
00:23:51,799 --> 00:23:53,799
and she's like, all, I don't want to use this

482
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:55,400
term like derogatorily.

483
00:23:55,599 --> 00:23:56,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, well you already are.

484
00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:00,400
Speaker 2: He's kind of stuted out. Okay, all right, I didn't

485
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,000
know they were gonna do that. Oh when you put

486
00:24:02,039 --> 00:24:04,559
the dresses on, stared like doing these like weird poses.

487
00:24:04,599 --> 00:24:07,000
You didn't fake. The People Magazine was gonna like try

488
00:24:07,039 --> 00:24:09,480
to quote slut you up a little bit. But this article,

489
00:24:09,759 --> 00:24:10,680
I'm a victim.

490
00:24:10,839 --> 00:24:15,799
Speaker 1: Well see, okay, people. Moral choices that people make, and

491
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:19,000
there are and sometimes you have to you wind up.

492
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,240
Sometimes you wind up in a situation something went too

493
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:26,559
far and maybe it's alcohol induced or even with prescription

494
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:29,160
meds and alcohol. But you get to a point where

495
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:33,240
it's like, oh, this could really damage. It's not what

496
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:36,079
I want, right, right, I really like, I'm sure I

497
00:24:36,079 --> 00:24:37,960
would love to be with that person, but no one,

498
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:40,559
I'm not available, They're not available. It's not what I want.

499
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,759
And you gotta kind of step back. And it is.

500
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:48,240
But I sometimes wonder, like, well, I wonder think yeah,

501
00:24:48,559 --> 00:24:52,839
and I wonder sometimes too how much are should the

502
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:56,720
bedroom play into people's perception? Now there are people that'll

503
00:24:56,759 --> 00:24:58,359
tell you that it gives you a.

504
00:24:58,599 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 2: Depends on which side of the legit, Oh yeah, but

505
00:25:00,519 --> 00:25:00,799
I mean it.

506
00:25:00,839 --> 00:25:04,799
Speaker 1: Gives you kind of a look into the moral consciousness

507
00:25:04,839 --> 00:25:07,519
of that person, right, you know what, what are they

508
00:25:07,559 --> 00:25:10,880
willing to put up with? Not put it by? Or

509
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:15,079
who are they secretive? Dirty, shady kind of thing. It's

510
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:17,400
very hard when you've got a lot of power and

511
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:19,319
people are sort of throwing themselves at you. You got

512
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:20,960
to be a very disciplined individual.

513
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:22,519
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's why the Bible so is you got

514
00:25:22,599 --> 00:25:23,240
to kill your flesh.

515
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,759
Speaker 2: You have to kill it, kill it so because because like,

516
00:25:25,839 --> 00:25:28,079
let's put it this way, I mean, I'll make everything

517
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:31,079
biblical but King David, King Solomon, and Samson, who was

518
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:35,039
a judge most one of the strongest men, all were

519
00:25:35,079 --> 00:25:36,839
brought down because of one thing.

520
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:40,799
Speaker 1: Sorry I had to put it bluntly, but yes, yes.

521
00:25:40,839 --> 00:25:43,759
Speaker 2: You're making the point though. No, that then become the

522
00:25:43,839 --> 00:25:44,440
men at best.

523
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, it's a weird hey, ladies, Yeah, it's a

524
00:25:49,559 --> 00:25:50,079
weird thing.

525
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,640
Speaker 2: Girls are batting your eyes at you all of a sudden.

526
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:54,559
I mean, I know, sorry to believe, Billy, but I

527
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:56,039
was a little bit of a geek in high school

528
00:25:56,079 --> 00:25:57,880
or an elementary school. In high school, I kind of

529
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,440
came into mass yeah, you know. And time I got

530
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:02,400
to college, all of a sudden, I wasn't that geek anymore.

531
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:04,759
I was a good looking guy. Then I joined a band.

532
00:26:04,839 --> 00:26:06,079
All of a sudden, I'm gonna get touch that I

533
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:08,799
never got before. All of a sudden, I become a

534
00:26:08,799 --> 00:26:09,759
sheriff of Nottingham.

535
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 1: Uh huh yeah, no bad right, not good? Yeah, I

536
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:18,839
don't know, I you know, back to the uh. I'll

537
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:23,599
say this, I do wonder for a lot of these

538
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:29,319
people how much we talk a lot about mental health,

539
00:26:29,599 --> 00:26:31,680
and we could kind of take this two ways too.

540
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:35,839
With the guy at the art museum, right and blown

541
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,319
off steam where you've had too much and you think

542
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:40,240
you're funny. I don't know what this guy was thinking.

543
00:26:40,319 --> 00:26:42,880
I don't know that he did anything. I don't know

544
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,880
if he got a story or he just felt too hot.

545
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:47,799
Yeah right, and he just thought he was home. I

546
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:49,880
have no idea. Well, well, it doesn't really give you that.

547
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,599
Speaker 2: There's this dream analyst, the sleep analyst. I've got his name,

548
00:26:52,759 --> 00:26:55,400
and he's well renowned. He is a master class on sleep,

549
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:58,039
and he says and Andrew Huberman also says, this doctor Huberman.

550
00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:00,720
When you drink alcohol, when you get three or four

551
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:04,880
five classes in or servings of alcohol in, you start daydreaming.

552
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,000
And I don't mean like daydreaming like you're bored. I

553
00:27:07,079 --> 00:27:10,680
mean like you're sleeping, but you're awake. And that's what happens.

554
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:13,240
All your actions now are dream like actions. And you

555
00:27:13,319 --> 00:27:15,359
know your dreams could go a lot of different directions.

556
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:18,680
Oh yeah, but you're actually acting them out because you're awake.

557
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:23,079
That's what alcohol and now say. Oh yeah, I have

558
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:24,960
not Oh yeah, I got I gotta look it up.

559
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:26,680
Speaker 1: I gotta look it up. We do have to look that.

560
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:30,920
It's probably true. I'm not denying that, but you do

561
00:27:31,079 --> 00:27:35,400
wonder like the pressure rite a million dollar job at

562
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:38,079
an art institute. There's probably a lot of pressure.

563
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because can you get my kid in? I

564
00:27:39,799 --> 00:27:40,279
did this favor?

565
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,359
Speaker 1: Well no, but okay, but it's just that's just one example. Yes,

566
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:48,440
well this is a museum, not not Oh it's a museum.

567
00:27:48,519 --> 00:27:51,519
But either way, I'm just saying, like the pressure, the pressure.

568
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:53,200
Speaker 2: We had relations last Tuesday, Are you gonna put my

569
00:27:53,279 --> 00:27:55,160
rooster picture in there yet?

570
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,839
Speaker 1: The uh? And the pressures of being a politician, and

571
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:01,640
all of a sudden you're just blown off steam. You've

572
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,440
been working a lot, you have a couple of cocktails.

573
00:28:03,519 --> 00:28:05,240
This woman keeps making a pass to you. Who's going

574
00:28:05,279 --> 00:28:06,079
to find out you get?

575
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:08,160
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying you, The five more pressurized

576
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,960
jobs in the world are the five piece I call them.

577
00:28:10,839 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 1: The five five piece pressurized jobs.

578
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:14,559
Speaker 3: You're gonna hear this first, ladies and gentleman.

579
00:28:14,599 --> 00:28:20,279
Speaker 1: You can politician, pee, policeman, yes, two? Uh, pilot, I

580
00:28:20,319 --> 00:28:20,599
don't know.

581
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:23,319
Speaker 2: I think consider that we could throw him in there. Okay,

582
00:28:23,599 --> 00:28:25,920
but they like to drink after a flight. Okay, put

583
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:26,839
him in there, pilots.

584
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:31,400
Speaker 1: I'm just saying pilots because souls. Yes, right, if you

585
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:35,720
mess up pilots, I'm assuming these all begin with people

586
00:28:36,079 --> 00:28:39,000
with billy yeah laughs.

587
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:41,839
Speaker 2: Priest or pastor, Oh, priest or pastor.

588
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 1: Sure?

589
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,599
Speaker 2: Why because you're in charge of a flock of people.

590
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:46,559
People look to you as the is the example.

591
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: All right, what's the last one? Uh?

592
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:53,160
Speaker 2: You can all say physician? Oh sure, okay, a NFL passer. Oh,

593
00:28:53,359 --> 00:28:54,240
think about quarterbacks?

594
00:28:54,319 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah you are.

595
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:58,839
Speaker 2: I mean, like there is there is no job in

596
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:03,920
sports more pressure quarterbacks. So think about a police you know, uh,

597
00:29:04,759 --> 00:29:09,880
priest or pastor, h president or politician, physician, pilots, pastors?

598
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, what about living in three and five pressure?

599
00:29:12,559 --> 00:29:14,799
Speaker 2: I think there's pressure all right? For the times away accounted,

600
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:16,359
I gotta hit deadlines, bro.

601
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 1: Just in terms of nakedness being a more popular thing,

602
00:29:22,279 --> 00:29:24,000
I did see a story in the Times Wayne County

603
00:29:24,039 --> 00:29:26,480
about a thirty seven year old guy from Owasco who

604
00:29:26,599 --> 00:29:30,359
stripped naked. His name is Timothy Church. He was taking

605
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:32,960
him to church on a Sunday morning, running around. Uh,

606
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,160
and then I guess he kept exposing himself to three

607
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:39,440
kids under sixteen. So he's in trouble for that. Yeah,

608
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:42,920
he'd redefined an open house in his neighborhood. And then

609
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,720
there was some somebody got arrested. I think a flight

610
00:29:45,759 --> 00:29:49,240
attendant on a British Airways flight going back to Britain

611
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:52,200
stripped naked and was dancing in the bathroom. I don't

612
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:54,200
know what's going on with all this nakedness, but that

613
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:58,200
that's I you really wonder, like we talked so much

614
00:29:58,279 --> 00:30:03,640
about mental health and I don't know if we pay

615
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:06,880
attention enough. And I don't even say it for myself.

616
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:11,759
Laura came in here and we did a show and

617
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:13,640
I didn't even get it out in time the next

618
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:18,119
day because I drank your wine member birthday, her birthday,

619
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:19,079
And I told see.

620
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 2: If I had money on somebody in the room to

621
00:30:20,559 --> 00:30:22,359
drink the whole bottle, it would have been somebody else

622
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:23,000
in the show.

623
00:30:23,039 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 1: Yes, no, but it was her. And then I had

624
00:30:27,279 --> 00:30:29,440
already brought in a bottle wine and I hadn't eaten

625
00:30:29,599 --> 00:30:30,359
at all that day.

626
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:31,119
Speaker 2: What happened?

627
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,119
Speaker 1: And then I had a couple of beers from the fridge,

628
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:37,119
and you know, then I had to call an uber

629
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:41,000
and Uber back. It's just been but it's like blown

630
00:30:41,039 --> 00:30:42,759
off steam and it's one of those things that goes on,

631
00:30:42,839 --> 00:30:45,160
and I go, boy, you gotta find better ways to

632
00:30:45,759 --> 00:30:48,839
to have outlets, better healthier outlets.

633
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:50,559
Speaker 2: So I tell my wife, if I'm ever stressed out,

634
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:52,440
you'll never see a drink in my hand because you

635
00:30:52,519 --> 00:30:54,559
do not want to make that a crutch. I haven't.

636
00:30:54,759 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 1: No, you don't. I agree with you on that. I've

637
00:30:57,279 --> 00:30:59,920
even said those words to somebody just because you're stressed out.

638
00:31:00,039 --> 00:31:02,799
Don't do that because now it becomes if that becomes

639
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:06,000
psychologically dependent, becomes psychologically.

640
00:31:05,599 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 3: And an association.

641
00:31:06,559 --> 00:31:08,799
Speaker 1: But I do it with food. I do it with

642
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,319
like sugar, m and ms and things like that.

643
00:31:11,839 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 2: I remember that.

644
00:31:12,559 --> 00:31:15,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I still so I've got I'm trying to

645
00:31:15,599 --> 00:31:17,680
find all these things you would think that you know,

646
00:31:17,799 --> 00:31:19,279
by the time you get to my age, it's like

647
00:31:19,359 --> 00:31:21,119
a right life's on an easy street. You know.

648
00:31:21,559 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 2: You know we should try to do I've never done this,

649
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:25,319
but I'm thinking it might work. When you stretched out,

650
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,079
start doing push ups. Yeah, you know why, because you're

651
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,920
you're getting out your aggression and you're tired afterward, and

652
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:32,240
when you're tired, you're relaxed.

653
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:35,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good idea. I would think that exercise

654
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,039
is a great one. Going for a run, taking a walk,

655
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:42,680
doing all these things, not reaching for a reach a microphone. Answer.

656
00:31:44,599 --> 00:31:46,599
Speaker 2: Your answer is never in a bottle, and it's not

657
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:47,920
a bible, not a bottle.

658
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 1: Oh, look at Danny, we'll take them off speak speak.

659
00:31:51,759 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 2: But here's here's my question about this guy in the

660
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:55,720
nude though. Why is it always a bad thing when

661
00:31:55,759 --> 00:31:58,720
people like let out steam? It's always it always seems

662
00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:01,079
to be nobody ever like donate it's money when they're

663
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:02,359
when they're like stressed out.

664
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:08,559
Speaker 1: Oh, sometimes nobody we don't hear about me, you know, Well,

665
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:10,519
you get the drunk who buys around in the bar

666
00:32:11,119 --> 00:32:11,799
for people.

667
00:32:11,599 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 2: After he's drunk.

668
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:16,279
Speaker 1: Though, Yeah, they usually know you're right. And I don't

669
00:32:16,279 --> 00:32:18,759
know the guy stripped naked on a flight doesn't say

670
00:32:18,799 --> 00:32:22,279
he did anything inappropriate, like he might have just stripped

671
00:32:22,279 --> 00:32:24,519
down and gone to sleep, and they go, oh, he's

672
00:32:24,559 --> 00:32:27,720
asleep on the nude. It's the new artwork. I don't

673
00:32:27,759 --> 00:32:31,519
know's you're right. We always hear the bad things when people.

674
00:32:31,519 --> 00:32:34,279
But that's what blown off steam sometimes becomes. You know,

675
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,160
somebody's out going. Yeah, I'm going up to the cabin

676
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,160
this week and we're gonna blow off steam. And somebody

677
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:42,279
comes back with like shotgun pellets or embedded in their

678
00:32:42,319 --> 00:32:46,599
as yea or nine fingers, or they're on the news, yes,

679
00:32:46,839 --> 00:32:47,519
or they're on the news.

680
00:32:47,559 --> 00:32:49,480
Speaker 2: Fourth of July, Ladies and gentlemen, we will have a

681
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:53,599
reel of all the incidents that happened that weekend. Uh

682
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,839
you brought Austin and man passed away today after taking

683
00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:00,519
a firework well pipe.

684
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:03,759
Speaker 1: Well, those are my favorite when I get go on

685
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:06,480
YouTube and they can watch the guys letting off bottle

686
00:33:06,559 --> 00:33:10,920
rockets and from their asshole like they're bent over or

687
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,240
they're laying in the ground and it doesn't go anywhere

688
00:33:13,359 --> 00:33:16,000
and he's screaming in pain and his friends all laughing,

689
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:19,359
and yeah, you'll see like one or two shoot out

690
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:19,920
of his ass and.

691
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:23,519
Speaker 2: Like Jason Pierre Paul the Giant's ruined his career.

692
00:33:23,759 --> 00:33:27,319
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, we'll take them. Moment you brought up one

693
00:33:27,319 --> 00:33:30,839
of the pressure jobs. Quarterback, the beloved quarterback of the

694
00:33:30,839 --> 00:33:35,240
Buffalo Bills, the MVP. Josh Lee is now a married man.

695
00:33:35,359 --> 00:33:35,880
Yes he is.

696
00:33:36,359 --> 00:33:37,319
Speaker 2: I already got married.

697
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 1: We'll get to that right after this. You know what's

698
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,079
coming up his graduation For a lot of people. Leo's

699
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,039
my friends, you know, what makes you know what makes

700
00:33:44,039 --> 00:33:47,799
a nice gift? Honestly, if you're going even to a

701
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,279
picnic or something, you never want to show up empty handed.

702
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:53,480
Why don't you come with some Leo's cookies? Would Why

703
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:55,720
don't you go over there and get some Leo's Canoli's

704
00:33:56,079 --> 00:33:58,720
the Canoe Station, Yes, fill it right up for you.

705
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off season for a Buffalo guy. Well, we say Buffalo,

736
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,000
I would say Buffalo right fairness saying can we call

737
00:35:57,079 --> 00:35:57,239
them that?

738
00:35:57,519 --> 00:36:01,039
Speaker 3: So I thought, yes, an MVP, he is our adopted son.

739
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:04,079
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, By the way, Tim Graham brought up a

740
00:36:04,119 --> 00:36:06,280
great point in The Athletic I think he put it

741
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:08,320
on Twitter. Tim Graham's the athletic writer. We've had him.

742
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:09,679
Speaker 3: I think we tried to have him on the show.

743
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:12,199
Speaker 2: We've had him on. Okay. So Tim Graham is probably

744
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:16,400
the best investigative sports reporter in Western New York media,

745
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:17,239
maybe in America.

746
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 3: He's really really talented, very good. He pulls no punches.

747
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 2: This guy's picked fights, not intentionally picked fights, but he's

748
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,760
drawing fights. I guess with everybody, and he's been right

749
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:28,679
every single time. And he put up a point, and

750
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:30,840
it made me think of what you had to say

751
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:33,079
last week about that's my wedding week, honey, but I

752
00:36:33,119 --> 00:36:37,400
gotta go to work, yes, you said, like, yeah, it's

753
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:39,960
the most stressful time. I know what I got work

754
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:41,760
to do, honey. You take care of the wedding.

755
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:44,360
Speaker 1: You do what you want to do with your friend's babe.

756
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:45,960
I'll pay the whatever you want.

757
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:49,800
Speaker 2: You want to go to the spot, take everybody contract. Baby,

758
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,440
that's it, girl, I gotta go to work if you

759
00:36:52,519 --> 00:36:54,280
want this money to keep rolling in it. I got

760
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:57,760
to be an NFL quarterback. So he wrote how three

761
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:01,639
years ago he blew off the first TAS and nobody cared.

762
00:37:02,159 --> 00:37:04,880
He went to go play golf with Aaron Rodgers and

763
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:06,719
Tom Brady and Patrick Mahomes.

764
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 1: Right.

765
00:37:07,199 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 2: He had a rookie offensive coordinator that year, yep. And

766
00:37:10,559 --> 00:37:12,239
I'm like, oh my gosh, I didn't even think of that.

767
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:15,519
Speaker 3: He's you know, and so he's more matured now.

768
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:17,880
Speaker 2: But I immediately went to your line of thinking, oh,

769
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:19,760
it's my wedding week, I gotta avoid my wife at

770
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:20,239
all costs.

771
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:24,320
Speaker 1: That could that could be? I mean, yeah, it's not

772
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,920
even avoid your wife, right. It sounds horrible growing up.

773
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:31,440
I think it's to me. And that's so funny that

774
00:37:31,519 --> 00:37:33,719
you say that he went and played golf. He was

775
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:36,880
but that was the match or something, right, yeah, something

776
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:38,679
like that. It was the match was on TV. It

777
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:42,239
was a big deals it Actually, I think in terms

778
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:44,199
of PR, I think every coach would go, oh you

779
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,199
you got to go toeah that right? It helps the lead.

780
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 3: Josh All doesn't have to worry about practice.

781
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 2: We're talking about practice.

782
00:37:49,199 --> 00:37:52,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't know. Look, he's fresh off signing

783
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:54,639
a three hundred and thirty million dollar contract plus tip.

784
00:37:54,679 --> 00:37:57,800
He's an Oscar nominee at one point and she's a

785
00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:01,800
singer too, right, and a singer. Yeah, and he does

786
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:05,280
credit Haley for not only supporting him off the field,

787
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,679
but playing a key role in his MVP season.

788
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have to evaporated milk.

789
00:38:12,519 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 1: I saw the article. I saw the pictures. It looks

790
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,360
like everything's so intrusive. They was in California. I think

791
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:20,000
it was very private and you didn't see any pictures

792
00:38:20,039 --> 00:38:22,559
from the ground. It was all like aerial shots.

793
00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:26,760
Speaker 2: Oh sure you know what Ron Star Wars movie in

794
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:27,159
the sky.

795
00:38:27,559 --> 00:38:31,559
Speaker 1: But I love reading the comments to the articles. And

796
00:38:31,639 --> 00:38:35,480
I'll just share two comments, maybe three with you. A

797
00:38:35,599 --> 00:38:39,920
comment from Margie mcc that's her name on the commenting thing, Margie.

798
00:38:40,199 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 2: How old do you think she is? Margie?

799
00:38:42,039 --> 00:38:45,079
Speaker 1: Her name is Margie. My mother's name is Margie. This

800
00:38:45,199 --> 00:38:48,079
friend of mine's mom. So I'm gonna say seventy something.

801
00:38:48,119 --> 00:38:49,760
Speaker 2: Ok I'm gonna say fifty five is the floor?

802
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:54,119
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay. So I have no idea, but I don't

803
00:38:54,119 --> 00:38:54,920
know how to find that out.

804
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:56,760
Speaker 2: But here's what say, let's judge.

805
00:38:56,960 --> 00:39:01,360
Speaker 1: So good to see normal heterosexual people get mad and

806
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:05,039
we're right. I hope they have many I hope they

807
00:39:05,119 --> 00:39:08,599
have many children. So good to see normal, how those

808
00:39:08,639 --> 00:39:11,039
actual people get married. I go, boy, this is gonna

809
00:39:11,039 --> 00:39:14,519
be a bad month for margin NCC, right, isn't it?

810
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 2: You know? Oh yeah, right, isn't funny? How pride about

811
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:20,159
this longer than Black History Month?

812
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:23,519
Speaker 1: No? But still I just and then somebody else says

813
00:39:23,679 --> 00:39:26,719
she'll bang a co star in the future. Okay, yeah,

814
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:28,719
and so there you go. Those are the com you watch.

815
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,320
Speaker 2: You watch, you will she'll leave him.

816
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:32,039
Speaker 1: But you know, let me ask you.

817
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:33,760
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that I'm making fun of somebody who

818
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:34,199
would say.

819
00:39:34,119 --> 00:39:38,519
Speaker 1: That you're married. Can relationships really boost your career success?

820
00:39:38,599 --> 00:39:41,639
And I think, yeah, yeah, of course. I think when

821
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,519
you feel very settled in parts of your life, yea,

822
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:48,800
and things are going well or whatever, or that end

823
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:50,840
is there and you've got that person, you know, you

824
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:54,920
can rely on it, you can kind of focus.

825
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:59,079
Speaker 2: Yeah, you have somebody to balance you longer. Yeah, when

826
00:39:59,119 --> 00:40:02,599
they're with somebody, then without somebody, you know, like we

827
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:05,000
start knowing, like, no, I know that, like you you

828
00:40:05,159 --> 00:40:07,440
were married, you know, maybe someday again you may be

829
00:40:07,559 --> 00:40:09,559
who knows. But I mean, like I think we know

830
00:40:09,679 --> 00:40:11,880
some people who as they get older and more single,

831
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,599
they start to get a little weird. Yeah, you know,

832
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:16,280
you start to get a little out there. They don't

833
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:18,800
have somebody there to check them, right, right, right, Like

834
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:21,800
what I between marriages for me a relationship, I was

835
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,159
kind of out there too, yeah, you know, but I

836
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:28,079
have my wife now who keeps me balanced, you know, like, okay, no, honey, no, no.

837
00:40:28,679 --> 00:40:30,519
It's like when we're walking through the streets of Austin,

838
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:32,960
I was like a I was like the untrained dog.

839
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 3: No, no, don't cross now, No, no, traffic's coming, traffic. No, okay,

840
00:40:38,559 --> 00:40:40,639
now cross see now we cross.

841
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:41,119
Speaker 2: Uh.

842
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:43,840
Speaker 1: But it is interesting, right you do you feel like

843
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:45,760
you're a little more settled. And if it's somebody who

844
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:48,480
does support your career, you can talk about your career,

845
00:40:48,679 --> 00:40:51,519
you can bounce things off of. I mean, the saying

846
00:40:51,599 --> 00:40:54,360
of behind every great man, there's a great woman, uh,

847
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:58,079
seems sort of diminishing to women who could probably do

848
00:40:58,199 --> 00:41:00,519
the man's job. But when you look even back through history,

849
00:41:01,039 --> 00:41:04,840
there were strong women in some of our historical leaders.

850
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:07,679
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Andrew Wilson's wife basically was president.

851
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:09,559
Speaker 2: Yeah when he was here. And I'm not saying he

852
00:41:09,599 --> 00:41:11,559
was a good president of bad president, but I don't know.

853
00:41:11,599 --> 00:41:14,119
He was running the Free world while World War One

854
00:41:14,199 --> 00:41:15,400
was going on. I think it was kind of a part,

855
00:41:15,599 --> 00:41:18,519
right it was, Yeah, it was so Josh, that's just

856
00:41:18,559 --> 00:41:19,159
one example.

857
00:41:19,639 --> 00:41:21,159
Speaker 1: OTA is still going on right now.

858
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:23,800
Speaker 2: They are Yeah, they think there's like several weeks of them. Yeah,

859
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:26,239
so and then they wrap up. I think then there's

860
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:28,199
then there's mandatory mini camp, and then they go away

861
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:30,400
for like a few weeks or about a month, and

862
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:32,280
then they come back to training camp and then it

863
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:33,320
is all business.

864
00:41:33,679 --> 00:41:37,360
Speaker 1: Well, so I see reports on OTAs and I don't

865
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:42,880
think you can take seven on seven with no sacking

866
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:45,480
the quarterback or anything. It's kind of I mean, it's

867
00:41:45,519 --> 00:41:48,599
like glorified flag football. Yes it is, that's exactly what

868
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:49,280
right I mean.

869
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:52,719
Speaker 2: But these guys compete though. No, they're going hard, but yeah,

870
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:54,199
you're right. They don't want you getting hurt.

871
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:57,559
Speaker 1: No, of course not. And and as I'm thinking about that,

872
00:41:57,679 --> 00:42:00,639
I go, I'm reading about Shador Sanders and he had

873
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:04,159
a grete seven on seven. I may be the only

874
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:08,719
one person in America right now that actually has feel

875
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:12,800
bad for Shador Sanders. I feel like Shador Sanders because

876
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:18,280
of his dad and because and and and maybe himself

877
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:25,000
as well. But having that opulent expression of life, right,

878
00:42:25,119 --> 00:42:28,039
and it's opulent, and the millions of dollars in nil

879
00:42:28,159 --> 00:42:31,119
deals and things, and you know, I I the n

880
00:42:31,159 --> 00:42:34,239
ideal nil deals name him. Its likeness or seemed to

881
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:37,280
be so much out of control that I think Cooper Flag,

882
00:42:37,519 --> 00:42:39,960
who's going to come out and possibly be the number

883
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:40,719
one overall.

884
00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:43,639
Speaker 3: Will be the number one overall pick to the Mavericks, is.

885
00:42:43,639 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 1: Probably going to sign a deal that will make him

886
00:42:46,639 --> 00:42:49,800
significantly less than he made last year with nil deals.

887
00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:52,920
Now not to say that you know he won't continue

888
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:54,239
on to make more, but I.

889
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 3: Mean got a rookie cap. So does all sports people do.

890
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,679
Speaker 1: So it's funny. But I'm watching the shad Or Sanders

891
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:03,039
thing and I go, boy, how hard is this. It's

892
00:43:03,159 --> 00:43:06,440
almost like you were climbing up the side of a

893
00:43:06,559 --> 00:43:12,840
cliff and you got close and somebody kicked some rocks

894
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:16,559
in your face and you just slid down, holding onto

895
00:43:16,599 --> 00:43:18,400
your rope and now you've got to climb back. He

896
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:21,880
may be the fourth string guy. The mentality it takes

897
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:25,440
to go from fourth string to the starting job is

898
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:29,440
you know, unbelievable. And while he looks good, he's not

899
00:43:29,559 --> 00:43:31,599
going against the first I don't think he's gotten any

900
00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:35,119
snaps with the first team for Cleveland. Okay, yeah, it starters.

901
00:43:35,119 --> 00:43:36,800
I don't think he's gotten any so I.

902
00:43:37,519 --> 00:43:39,639
Speaker 2: Don't believe he would. I mean, I think he the

903
00:43:39,679 --> 00:43:41,920
pick was forced by the owner because if you remember

904
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:43,599
when he was drafted or he was kind of like

905
00:43:44,039 --> 00:43:45,800
they show all the draft rooms and these guys got

906
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:46,280
their cues.

907
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:47,679
Speaker 3: It's a television show, all.

908
00:43:47,639 --> 00:43:52,800
Speaker 2: Right, show excitement three two, and they're all like, well,

909
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:54,960
I mean because like the general manager of the head

910
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:57,000
coach did not want to make this pick. They already

911
00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:59,840
took a quarterback two rounds early, who was one I think,

912
00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:02,760
the second most prolific quarterback in college football history. And now, folks,

913
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:05,119
for those like Tim Tebow is considered the greatest college

914
00:44:05,159 --> 00:44:07,960
football player ever. College is different, like, don't go you

915
00:44:08,039 --> 00:44:09,800
can't go by stats, you can't go by any of

916
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:12,800
that stuff. It's about winning national championships and stats don't mean.

917
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:14,840
It doesn't mean you're going to translate to the NFL, right,

918
00:44:15,679 --> 00:44:19,039
I think that I will say this, Shador has probably

919
00:44:19,159 --> 00:44:21,679
the easiest pathway to his starting job in the NFL

920
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:24,400
because Joe Flacco, the starter, has been around since I

921
00:44:24,599 --> 00:44:27,000
six he's but he's ancient at this point, and they're

922
00:44:27,039 --> 00:44:28,639
gonna want to he eventually is going to have to

923
00:44:28,679 --> 00:44:29,199
turn it over.

924
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 1: Kenny Pickett.

925
00:44:30,079 --> 00:44:32,639
Speaker 2: Kenny Pickett who is pretty much flamed out at Pittsburgh.

926
00:44:32,639 --> 00:44:34,559
Speaker 1: And I remember the big thing on Kenny Pickett was

927
00:44:34,599 --> 00:44:35,960
his hands or too hands.

928
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:37,199
Speaker 2: Were too small. But I don't think that he just

929
00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:39,440
he's just not an NFL quarterback. And then you've got

930
00:44:40,519 --> 00:44:43,000
Dylan Gabriel who was drafted. Yeah, I think there's another

931
00:44:43,079 --> 00:44:44,960
quarterback in the mix too, but there's like five quarterbacks

932
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:45,480
on the roster.

933
00:44:46,119 --> 00:44:48,719
Speaker 1: Oh well, the other one would be uh, Deshaun Watson,

934
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:51,719
who they expects we forgot about this Sean watch. Shawn

935
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:55,840
Watson is done. He's done, but he just I think

936
00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:59,159
is just got engaged. And she has a two million

937
00:44:59,199 --> 00:45:01,199
dollar rock in her hand. No good, how do you walk?

938
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 2: We got two hundred and thirty two million dollars guaranteed,

939
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:07,000
fucking you know for all those handy dandies. He's got

940
00:45:07,119 --> 00:45:09,079
to pay out a lot of people. But I think,

941
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:10,920
like Sodorth Sanders came out and said, I think ninety

942
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:13,480
nine percent of the problem was my dad. In some ways,

943
00:45:13,519 --> 00:45:16,119
he's right, but it also doesn't help when you walk

944
00:45:16,159 --> 00:45:19,159
into I mean, the giants really like this kid and

945
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:22,360
he took completely like pissed them off in the meetings.

946
00:45:22,559 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 1: Can you can he escape the shadow of prime?

947
00:45:26,039 --> 00:45:26,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, he can escape it.

948
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:30,039
Speaker 1: Play well yeah, yeah that's it right, Yeah, you play well.

949
00:45:30,079 --> 00:45:33,880
Speaker 2: I don't matter who your father is. Talent outweighs everything. Yeah,

950
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:38,079
toe talent over everything. Yeah, once the talent is gone,

951
00:45:38,559 --> 00:45:40,239
Like look at cam Newton, he was great when he

952
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:42,199
was talented. They starts getting hurt now. I said, we

953
00:45:42,199 --> 00:45:44,920
don't want to put up with you putting rags over

954
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:46,280
your head and dressing like a grandmother.

955
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:49,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, see, the thing is, you could go and

956
00:45:49,559 --> 00:45:52,280
carve out your own legacy. And we think of father sons,

957
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,559
And the first one that pops into my mind of

958
00:45:55,159 --> 00:45:58,000
a son who carved out a better legacy than his

959
00:45:58,159 --> 00:46:02,199
dad is baseball with the Griffies and Ken griff and

960
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:04,639
cal Ripan Jr. But both of them, yeah, they carved

961
00:46:04,639 --> 00:46:08,199
out better than their than their old man. And I'm

962
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:11,440
not sure that I've seen it necessarily. In the NFL,

963
00:46:12,039 --> 00:46:14,000
Peyton and Peyton and.

964
00:46:14,679 --> 00:46:16,559
Speaker 2: Archie was drafted by the Saints when at a time

965
00:46:16,559 --> 00:46:18,440
where like they didn't have something else. Draft they were awful,

966
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:21,280
but I mean, yeah, yeah, I mean they did, they did.

967
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:22,679
There have been a few players who've been able to

968
00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:26,360
do that. Barry Bonds and Rhythm, his father Bobby, you know,

969
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:28,840
I mean that that does happen often. And then there's

970
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:30,960
also like the times where like more often than not,

971
00:46:31,039 --> 00:46:32,519
you don't hear about this. There's the dads who did

972
00:46:32,559 --> 00:46:35,280
better than the kids. Yogi Berra was a Hall of Famer.

973
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:36,679
His son Alan really didn't do much.

974
00:46:37,119 --> 00:46:39,559
Speaker 1: Or even Michael Jordan's kids trying to play, and I

975
00:46:39,599 --> 00:46:41,559
couldn't even get to like, yeah, you know, and we'll

976
00:46:41,559 --> 00:46:43,920
see with Lebron's kids, right, what happens there.

977
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:46,119
Speaker 3: We'll find out. Yeah, there's more of them.

978
00:46:46,599 --> 00:46:50,159
Speaker 2: It's not just broddy, but I mean it. I think

979
00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:53,840
that as long as shdure, like, look, man, we do

980
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:55,239
a lot of stupid things in college.

981
00:46:55,519 --> 00:46:57,719
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, I hope he could grow up.

982
00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:00,519
Speaker 1: And I don't think he did anything out really, he

983
00:47:00,679 --> 00:47:01,599
was never in trouble.

984
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:05,800
Speaker 2: It's just he had a bit of an attitude and

985
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:07,320
he didn't treat people real well.

986
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 1: And is it possible that you're misread You've always had

987
00:47:11,519 --> 00:47:15,679
this dominating figure in your life. In just in the

988
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:19,360
mere presence of Prime, and we've all seen him. They did, like,

989
00:47:20,199 --> 00:47:23,519
I think Prime did a thing on Prime. The Amazon

990
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:28,400
Network did something on coach Prime. And you see him

991
00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:31,920
rallying the troops. What he says, You got to think

992
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:35,159
that that guy's probably that guy all the time he

993
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:39,000
wakes up, he's ready fired. Yeah, but you know what

994
00:47:39,039 --> 00:47:40,880
I'm saying. But he's firing off and he's got and

995
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:43,880
that's a lot of pressure for any kid. So you

996
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:46,119
start to buy into it, You start to buy into

997
00:47:46,159 --> 00:47:47,960
the opulence of it, and the next thing you know,

998
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:50,840
you don't know any other way, and the rest of

999
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:52,920
the world just wants to kind of squash you like

1000
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:53,320
a bug.

1001
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:56,639
Speaker 2: Should always only had one coach his entire life. Yeah, Prime, Yeah,

1002
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:03,440
Junior high, senior high College. Now he's got to answer

1003
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:06,840
to Kevin Stefanski. And Kevin Stefanski has been a Coach

1004
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:08,119
of the Year two different occasions.

1005
00:48:08,119 --> 00:48:08,840
Speaker 3: It's very hard for a.

1006
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:11,880
Speaker 2: Guy who's won one, maybe two playoff games his entire

1007
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:14,119
career to be a Coach of the Year candidate.

1008
00:48:14,159 --> 00:48:14,719
Speaker 3: And why is that?

1009
00:48:15,039 --> 00:48:18,880
Speaker 2: Because you know, his team has been so bad that

1010
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:21,719
he's been able to get them to be competitive and

1011
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:26,880
we're talking about Cleveland here. They've been ever even longer

1012
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:29,559
than the Bills were, and yet he was He got

1013
00:48:29,599 --> 00:48:31,440
them to be a playoff team a couple of times

1014
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:35,280
with spare parts. And so now all of a sudden,

1015
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:37,639
it's gonna if he could get Prime to play foot

1016
00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:40,719
or a young Prime Chador to play football and get

1017
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:42,840
to the playoffs. This dude, man, he could write his

1018
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:46,239
own ticket. He can write his own ticket, and Chador

1019
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:47,239
is gonna be hot property.

1020
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 1: And I'm I'm I'm roving for me too. I'm reading

1021
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:54,159
about like the seven on sevens and I go, seven

1022
00:48:54,199 --> 00:48:57,400
on seven is mirage moments to me in terms of

1023
00:48:57,519 --> 00:49:00,519
football because of everything we said. When I'm reading it,

1024
00:49:00,639 --> 00:49:02,760
I'm like, yeah, he was seven and nine, the three

1025
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:06,440
or four touchdowns, whatever, And I go, this is like

1026
00:49:06,599 --> 00:49:11,800
winning karaoke in a well in a hospice.

1027
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:16,920
Speaker 3: Ward Once upon right, once a hey, Once upon a time.

1028
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:20,320
Speaker 2: The Buffalo Bills had a quarterback named Nathan Peterman, and

1029
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:23,360
Nathan Peterman's claim to fame coming out of college was

1030
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:27,159
that he beat Clemson after they won the national championship

1031
00:49:27,159 --> 00:49:30,239
with Pittsburgh, and Pittsburgh is an a mediocre college football program,

1032
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:31,960
and he threw for th over three hundred yards and

1033
00:49:32,079 --> 00:49:34,679
beat them and then they go to the Remember like

1034
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:37,119
John Gruden used to have the QB camps, right, I

1035
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:39,639
want you to break down this play for me, Nathan.

1036
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:42,360
I love Nathan, and Nate could break it down. And

1037
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:44,559
he goes, I think this guy might be the next

1038
00:49:44,679 --> 00:49:46,920
Tom Brady. So when the Bills drafted him in the

1039
00:49:47,000 --> 00:49:50,840
fifth round, every Bills fan dug out except me dug

1040
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:53,920
out that quote. And he had a decent preseason everything.

1041
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:55,840
Oh this guy, I'm like, I'm telling you, this is the.

1042
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:59,400
Speaker 1: Story he told us Nathan Peterman about the Rocks his

1043
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:01,360
dad would up rocks. We interviewed him.

1044
00:50:01,599 --> 00:50:03,039
Speaker 3: No, no, we didn't interview Nathan Peterman.

1045
00:50:03,079 --> 00:50:03,400
Speaker 1: We didn't.

1046
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:06,199
Speaker 2: You and I were long We interviewed Nathaniel Hackett, the

1047
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:07,280
offensive cordinator.

1048
00:50:07,599 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 1: Nathan Peterman. Oh no, no, no, no, no.

1049
00:50:09,159 --> 00:50:12,599
Speaker 2: Nathan Peterman was quarterback like long after you and I

1050
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:14,480
worked together. I don't know.

1051
00:50:14,599 --> 00:50:16,719
Speaker 1: Maybe you interviewed him, but I never interviewed him. Think

1052
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:18,760
there was something about the rock anyway, it doesn't matter.

1053
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:19,039
I don't know.

1054
00:50:19,079 --> 00:50:21,119
Speaker 2: But the point is, though, is that Peterman like had

1055
00:50:21,199 --> 00:50:23,400
the weakest arm in college football, according to.

1056
00:50:25,159 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 3: Sharp Football Analysis, he just like it was awful.

1057
00:50:28,119 --> 00:50:29,719
Speaker 2: He couldn't throw the he couldn't throw the five or

1058
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:32,199
ten yard out, which is an important throw to make.

1059
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:34,679
And they decide, you know what, you know what we're

1060
00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:38,000
gonna do. We're gonna let him replace Tyrod Taylor because

1061
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:39,639
we think we got something in this kid. Because the

1062
00:50:39,639 --> 00:50:41,599
week before, in garbage time against the Saints after they

1063
00:50:41,639 --> 00:50:43,880
crushed the Bills, he let him out a touchdown drive.

1064
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:44,400
Speaker 1: What happened?

1065
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:45,719
Speaker 3: We found out about Nathan Peterman?

1066
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:47,840
Speaker 1: Yeah right, oh god, most quarterbacks.

1067
00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:50,880
Speaker 2: So when you hear about the hey they did well,

1068
00:50:51,199 --> 00:50:53,599
yeah in preseason, Oh they did well at seven on sevens,

1069
00:50:53,639 --> 00:50:57,440
doesn't matter, doesn't mean a damn thing, right, all right?

1070
00:50:57,519 --> 00:50:59,760
Speaker 1: Well, uh, we'll take a moment. I want to bring

1071
00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:03,000
some up with you and I it's a fear because

1072
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:06,199
I always go fears like your drunk friend at a party, loud,

1073
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:08,519
obnoxious and trying to get home early. You know what

1074
00:51:08,559 --> 00:51:10,800
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Speaker 4: Okay, we need told you na good, We need told gah.

1114
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:34,159
Speaker 6: We need told you you're not strong enough too up

1115
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:38,719
a good fight. We need told you you know worth.

1116
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:45,119
We need told you you loved, we need told g W.

1117
00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:47,679
Speaker 2: You'll never be.

1118
00:53:49,079 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 1: There is a silent boss of your life. I don't

1119
00:53:51,519 --> 00:53:53,840
know this artist Zach Williams, but I saw the song

1120
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:54,880
furious a Liar.

1121
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:57,920
Speaker 3: It's a Christian song, is it really?

1122
00:53:58,039 --> 00:53:58,159
Speaker 2: Yes?

1123
00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 1: I've heard this, Yeah I know, but I go, it's

1124
00:54:03,039 --> 00:54:04,519
the silent boss of your life?

1125
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:05,199
Speaker 2: You know?

1126
00:54:06,199 --> 00:54:09,039
Speaker 1: And what would you do if you weren't afraid? And

1127
00:54:09,119 --> 00:54:11,400
I don't mean, like, you know, jumping out an airplane.

1128
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:13,880
I'm not talking about things that would risk your life,

1129
00:54:14,199 --> 00:54:16,239
but things that would literally take you out of your

1130
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:19,039
comfort zone. You could fall on your face, you could

1131
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:19,800
do whatever.

1132
00:54:20,079 --> 00:54:20,719
Speaker 2: What is it?

1133
00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:25,360
Speaker 1: And I have been spending the past couple of days

1134
00:54:27,119 --> 00:54:32,039
doing some real nuttie. It sounds n even like deep

1135
00:54:32,559 --> 00:54:36,159
reflection to go what is it inside of me that

1136
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:39,480
I'm starting to think this? I'm starting to think that

1137
00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:44,840
life is a mirror and everything you, everything that you're

1138
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:47,800
dealing with, is some part of you. If someone's pushing

1139
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:50,960
buttons inside of you, if they're always a certain way,

1140
00:54:51,679 --> 00:54:54,039
what is it in? What is that representing? What is

1141
00:54:54,079 --> 00:54:57,920
that reflecting back in yourself? You know what I mean?

1142
00:54:58,199 --> 00:55:00,320
And it's weird and how.

1143
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:00,800
Speaker 2: To treat us.

1144
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:01,159
Speaker 1: Huh.

1145
00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 2: We teach people how to treat ye.

1146
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:06,800
Speaker 1: Sure, And I go, man, what is fear really? It's

1147
00:55:06,840 --> 00:55:08,639
a biological thing. I mean people will tell you like

1148
00:55:09,079 --> 00:55:12,679
it's a great we need to pay attention to fear.

1149
00:55:13,159 --> 00:55:20,320
But procrastination, overthinking, perfectionism. I know you've dealt with it,

1150
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:21,519
you know what I mean.

1151
00:55:21,679 --> 00:55:24,079
Speaker 3: And I go, it's like the chihuahua.

1152
00:55:24,159 --> 00:55:24,800
Speaker 2: Come on, we gotta go.

1153
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:25,079
Speaker 1: Come on.

1154
00:55:25,159 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 2: No, you can't do that. Come on, No, you can't

1155
00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:28,840
do this. No, stay away, stay away, don't do don't

1156
00:55:28,840 --> 00:55:29,039
do that.

1157
00:55:30,159 --> 00:55:33,440
Speaker 1: And I go, Man, you think about people what fear

1158
00:55:33,519 --> 00:55:37,840
has done for people. It's missed opportunities, it's relationships, it's promotions,

1159
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:39,719
it's life changes, it's all this stuff.

1160
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:40,480
Speaker 2: It's on your head.

1161
00:55:40,639 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's all on your head.

1162
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:44,400
Speaker 3: It could be your greatest ally or your biggest enemy,

1163
00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:44,960
pick one.

1164
00:55:45,039 --> 00:55:48,159
Speaker 1: Right, And I think like Jack Canfield is a motivational speaker,

1165
00:55:48,199 --> 00:55:52,119
and I think it's the guy behind the job chicken

1166
00:55:52,400 --> 00:55:54,000
Soup for the soul chicken.

1167
00:55:57,400 --> 00:55:59,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's about thirty years.

1168
00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:01,440
Speaker 1: Everything you want is on the other side of fear.

1169
00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:03,639
Everything you want is on the other side of fear,

1170
00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:08,199
and you get, but you regret not trying. Yeah, you

1171
00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:11,039
know what I mean, And it usually the pain of

1172
00:56:11,159 --> 00:56:13,840
failing back of all the things that you wish you'd done.

1173
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:16,119
Speaker 2: Man, I could have done that. Well, stop do it?

1174
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:19,039
I go through it every day, I know exactly.

1175
00:56:19,199 --> 00:56:20,320
Speaker 1: What do you mean? You go through it every day?

1176
00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:20,440
Speaker 2: Oh?

1177
00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:22,719
Speaker 3: Gosh, like I don't. I don't want to get like.

1178
00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:24,920
Speaker 2: I don't know who might hear this, but there's some

1179
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:28,039
things that I'm working on right now that I'm afraid

1180
00:56:28,039 --> 00:56:31,280
to pull the trigger on necessarily, But eventually the pain

1181
00:56:31,639 --> 00:56:33,639
to not change has to be greater than the pain

1182
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:34,639
to stay the same.

1183
00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:38,800
Speaker 1: Only unwillingness to not yeah, to stay there right exactly. Oh,

1184
00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:41,079
I'm curious as to what these things are. I don't

1185
00:56:41,119 --> 00:56:41,639
want to say now.

1186
00:56:41,639 --> 00:56:43,719
Speaker 2: I'll tell you afterward. There's nothing major, something we all do.

1187
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:45,920
It's just like at some point you got to feel like, Okay,

1188
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:48,039
if I if I done all I can here, is

1189
00:56:48,119 --> 00:56:48,880
it time to move on?

1190
00:56:49,119 --> 00:56:49,360
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1191
00:56:49,599 --> 00:56:51,840
Speaker 2: Right, right right? I got a great wife at home.

1192
00:56:52,719 --> 00:56:54,440
Does she deserve better? And I'm not talking about me

1193
00:56:54,639 --> 00:56:56,320
like more if that makes.

1194
00:56:56,159 --> 00:56:59,840
Speaker 1: Sense, you know, does she deserve better than me? Yeah?

1195
00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:02,519
Speaker 3: I want you to date my friend Bill and Stiff.

1196
00:57:02,559 --> 00:57:05,559
Speaker 1: No, that's not what I mean, yeah, because it's usually

1197
00:57:05,679 --> 00:57:07,679
the regret outweighs the pain. And I have a lot

1198
00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:10,840
of things that I feel like I have held back

1199
00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:14,199
from doing because I'm afraid and are one of them

1200
00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:19,440
is just different aspects of things. And I still can't

1201
00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:21,239
get over that. And I started to go back and

1202
00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:25,159
I remember why. There's reasons why I don't do it,

1203
00:57:25,599 --> 00:57:28,880
Like there's things that have been said to me many, many,

1204
00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:31,760
many years ago when I was a kid that I

1205
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:35,159
have held onto and made a belief and it's probably

1206
00:57:35,239 --> 00:57:37,960
not true, right, It's probably bullshit, And you just got

1207
00:57:38,079 --> 00:57:40,599
to go, that's bullshit. And I could do that so

1208
00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:43,440
well with so many things like this, except this, I

1209
00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:44,920
get it, and I don't know why I get it.

1210
00:57:45,559 --> 00:57:47,599
And now I'm faced with this thing, and I go,

1211
00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:50,199
this could be like life changing if you did it

1212
00:57:50,599 --> 00:57:53,119
and it works, it could be life changing, could be amazing.

1213
00:57:53,559 --> 00:57:55,280
But if you don't do it, you never know.

1214
00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:57,679
Speaker 2: You'll never find out. And that's been ten years from now,

1215
00:57:57,760 --> 00:57:59,440
you'll be in the same boat that you are right now,

1216
00:58:00,199 --> 00:58:00,880
being in that boat.

1217
00:58:01,039 --> 00:58:03,960
Speaker 1: No, that's the thing. And I and I it's funny

1218
00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:07,679
because I see guys who just do things they just

1219
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:11,719
do it, and it's a I find that to be

1220
00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:15,280
an amazing trait. And I don't know, Like when you're younger,

1221
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:19,000
it's almost like you don't understand what the consequences could be.

1222
00:58:19,159 --> 00:58:22,639
So you're just that being naive is a gift and

1223
00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:26,000
you just go and do whatever it is. And then

1224
00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:28,320
you get older and you go, oh, I can't do that.

1225
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:31,679
This one will happen, and this will happen, and I

1226
00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:33,880
watch other guys and I'm like, oh, fuck, they're just

1227
00:58:34,159 --> 00:58:36,519
they're just out there doing it. They don't they don't

1228
00:58:36,559 --> 00:58:38,280
care if it doesn't work, it doesn't work, and they.

1229
00:58:38,239 --> 00:58:39,039
Speaker 2: Move whatever.

1230
00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:43,079
Speaker 1: It's hard it is because why what the fuck did

1231
00:58:43,119 --> 00:58:44,119
we do as human beings?

1232
00:58:44,199 --> 00:58:47,119
Speaker 2: Danny, I don't know, because I really truly believe there's.

1233
00:58:47,039 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 1: No meaning to anything other than the meaning you apply.

1234
00:58:49,639 --> 00:58:51,880
Speaker 2: To it, right, So the whole thing. Right as a

1235
00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:55,199
kid like to this, like I didn't know what it

1236
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:57,519
was at the time. I was not a good athlete

1237
00:58:57,519 --> 00:58:58,880
at all, but I wanted to be such a great

1238
00:58:58,920 --> 00:59:01,159
baseball player. My father to Rotator Cuff throwing me fly

1239
00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:03,079
balls in the back. I learned how to catch the ball.

1240
00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:05,800
My biggest issue though, in baseball was I was afraid

1241
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:07,400
of the ball. I didn't realize it until about five

1242
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,920
years ago. I'm not joking. I got hit by a

1243
00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:12,199
pitch when I was eleven years old or ten years old,

1244
00:59:12,559 --> 00:59:14,400
and it hurts so bad that I never wanted to

1245
00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:15,840
get back in that batter's box again.

1246
00:59:17,039 --> 00:59:20,039
Speaker 3: And so I was just scared at that point. And

1247
00:59:20,119 --> 00:59:21,280
it was like bouncing balls.

1248
00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:23,519
Speaker 2: But that ball's not gonna hurt you. It ain't gonna

1249
00:59:23,559 --> 00:59:25,840
hurt you. That at twelve I hit again knocks the

1250
00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:28,880
wind out of me, right, So it became a protective mechanism.

1251
00:59:29,239 --> 00:59:31,840
So I never, like, you know that that fear of

1252
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:34,159
getting hurt outweighed the fact that it's just go after

1253
00:59:34,239 --> 00:59:34,559
the ball.

1254
00:59:35,119 --> 00:59:38,159
Speaker 3: And it became like a kind of a metaphor for life.

1255
00:59:38,199 --> 00:59:39,960
Speaker 2: And what I didn't know is I had this inherent

1256
00:59:40,119 --> 00:59:43,440
like anxiety in my life that I let rule me to.

1257
00:59:43,519 --> 00:59:46,320
Speaker 1: Protect me from getting hurt. Dude, like a nervous mom

1258
00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:48,360
who won't let her kid go outside. The same thing

1259
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:50,239
I wouldn't try out for. I had never gotten cut

1260
00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:52,400
from a sports team ever in my life. I never

1261
00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:54,639
got cut. Every team I tried out for, I made it.

1262
00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:58,039
I wouldn't try out for basketball because I was certain

1263
00:59:58,039 --> 00:59:59,639
I would get cut and I didn't think I could

1264
00:59:59,679 --> 01:00:03,079
handle and I so wish that I did and I

1265
01:00:03,239 --> 01:00:05,679
did get cut, so I could learn how to handle it,

1266
01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:07,639
because there's a lesson in there. Yes, And then I

1267
01:00:07,719 --> 01:00:11,320
wish I could have proven to myself resilience and come

1268
01:00:11,400 --> 01:00:14,000
back and make it. I love the game of basketball.

1269
01:00:14,239 --> 01:00:17,559
I'm awful at it. Jamison laughs his ass off. He

1270
01:00:17,639 --> 01:00:19,960
can cross over, do all things. He's up and under

1271
01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:22,480
the back. I'm standing there. I look like I've got

1272
01:00:22,639 --> 01:00:23,360
two left feet.

1273
01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:25,480
Speaker 2: I remember that one time where he brought somebody in

1274
01:00:25,519 --> 01:00:27,960
to take pictures him posterizing you dunking so he could

1275
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:28,679
put it on his wall.

1276
01:00:28,760 --> 01:00:30,559
Speaker 3: I mean I thought that was a little extreme.

1277
01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:32,920
Speaker 1: It's a fathead. Yeah right, yeah, well, you know what

1278
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:34,880
I'm saying. The only thing and I don't want to

1279
01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:36,920
go we don't need to go too far on this,

1280
01:00:37,119 --> 01:00:39,519
but I would just say this, as you start your

1281
01:00:39,599 --> 01:00:43,760
week and do things, I feel like it's a compass.

1282
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:49,400
Use it as a compass to do exactly that whatever

1283
01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:51,079
you're most afraid of accomplish.

1284
01:00:51,239 --> 01:00:54,519
Speaker 3: A compass A compass Okay, did I say a compass twice?

1285
01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:56,480
Speaker 1: A compass or something like a compass.

1286
01:00:56,519 --> 01:00:58,000
Speaker 3: Here's another word earlier I never heard of before.

1287
01:00:58,280 --> 01:01:02,480
Speaker 2: What was that? Obliteration? Optim optimization optimization? No, no, you're

1288
01:01:02,559 --> 01:01:03,119
like opt.

1289
01:01:04,000 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 1: It might be my stupid downstate accent.

1290
01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:07,280
Speaker 2: But no, no, no, no, you used to word earlier

1291
01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:08,800
that I'd never heard of before, but made a lot

1292
01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:10,199
of sense. I didn't say anything. I don't want to

1293
01:01:10,239 --> 01:01:12,679
sound dumb here I am revealing that now you used

1294
01:01:12,679 --> 01:01:15,719
to like opt to something. But the point is, though,

1295
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:16,960
is that, okay, your compass. Go.

1296
01:01:17,039 --> 01:01:19,639
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is the thing you're most afraid to

1297
01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:21,159
do is the thing you need to do.

1298
01:01:21,320 --> 01:01:23,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, face first to do It's easier said that done.

1299
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:25,480
Speaker 1: Yes, it's the one you most need to do.

1300
01:01:25,639 --> 01:01:26,199
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

1301
01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:26,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1302
01:01:26,679 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1303
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:29,760
Speaker 3: You got to expose yourself. It's called exposure therapy.

1304
01:01:30,159 --> 01:01:30,719
Speaker 2: Go and do it.

1305
01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, go and do it.

1306
01:01:32,519 --> 01:01:34,920
Speaker 2: Here's the thing. If you associate, like Tony Robbins talks

1307
01:01:34,920 --> 01:01:39,320
about pain versus pleasure, if you associate massive pain to

1308
01:01:39,440 --> 01:01:42,239
the thing you want to get away from and reinforce

1309
01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:44,559
that you'll get away from that. And if you associate

1310
01:01:44,639 --> 01:01:47,400
massive pleasure to the thing you want to do, you

1311
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:49,559
go out and do that and then reward yourself and

1312
01:01:49,679 --> 01:01:53,000
you reinforce, rewarding yourself for the things that you did

1313
01:01:53,079 --> 01:01:55,639
that you didn't think you could do, and create pleasure.

1314
01:01:55,760 --> 01:01:59,000
Out of that, you will build momentum, and in that momentum,

1315
01:01:59,039 --> 01:02:01,519
you will then go exceed even you will fail along

1316
01:02:01,559 --> 01:02:04,039
the way, but you're like the success. The taste of

1317
01:02:04,119 --> 01:02:08,239
that pleasure will override any fear or pain that you

1318
01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:10,639
once had. But you got to be able to use

1319
01:02:10,679 --> 01:02:12,320
both of them, and you got to use them wisely.

1320
01:02:12,599 --> 01:02:14,519
Speaker 1: But fear is like your drunk friend to depart.

1321
01:02:14,639 --> 01:02:16,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta start applying pain to fear.

1322
01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:18,960
Speaker 1: That's that's interesting.

1323
01:02:19,239 --> 01:02:20,320
Speaker 3: Use pain to your advantage.

1324
01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:22,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, I don't want to like you don't want

1325
01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:23,480
to be there again. I don't want to go back

1326
01:02:23,559 --> 01:02:24,400
like like I remember what it was.

1327
01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:26,039
Speaker 2: Like to be broke in radio. I don't want to

1328
01:02:26,079 --> 01:02:26,800
go back to that again.

1329
01:02:26,920 --> 01:02:27,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. Never.

1330
01:02:27,679 --> 01:02:29,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I work so hard.

1331
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:32,559
Speaker 3: I work three jobs plus I do this podcast with Billy.

1332
01:02:36,280 --> 01:02:38,119
Speaker 1: All Right, we will close it out.

1333
01:02:38,719 --> 01:02:40,440
Speaker 2: It's a pretty deep episode of that. Well, I mean

1334
01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:41,280
it gets a little deep.

1335
01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:47,320
Speaker 1: Nudity, dude, well nudity quarterbacks, quarterback, that kind of thing.

1336
01:02:47,559 --> 01:02:51,679
All right, we learned today, Oh yeah, we learned a lot.

1337
01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:55,079
We learned a lot, uh with fear. Push through it, ye,

1338
01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:57,159
find a way. What you want is on the other side.

1339
01:02:57,239 --> 01:02:57,880
Speaker 2: Rewarded.

1340
01:02:58,199 --> 01:02:58,960
Speaker 1: I need to say that.

1341
01:02:59,159 --> 01:03:02,400
Speaker 2: Reward your self for overcoming fear and you'll like it.

1342
01:03:02,679 --> 01:03:04,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, well not withoutcohol.

1343
01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:06,039
Speaker 3: Yeah okay, cool with the ice cream and.

1344
01:03:06,119 --> 01:03:11,159
Speaker 1: The ice for Dan Burrello. Bill Moran will see you tomorrow,

1345
01:03:13,639 --> 01:03:15,679
see if they were looking borrow. Kind of night with

1346
01:03:15,840 --> 01:03:16,280
Tennessee