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Speaker 1: Made a decision a pace Sunny Sun on Ihadasion night.

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So what's up, everybody, It's me. It's no, it's not Patreon,

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it's for kind of.

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Speaker 2: No, it's regular regular show. Well you know what for

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our Patreon people. They are listening to this through Patreon

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to get the ad free version.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's thank you, guys.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, So hello to everybody, Hello peeps, Hello people.

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I'm so excited. I don't know what because I just

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feel like I cannot wait. You had a very big

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thing happened this week. Yes, should we say hello to

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our people real quick? Let's say hi to Okay, we

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got Dick, who's frolicking? Ashley? She Kelly is, Oh, Lottie

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dash fancy, Katie's rolling on e Aaron, What is yup? Nikki?

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Call your girls? Uh, Leslie's Coast to coast. Uh, Jacob

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is Growley, Rita's rocking the basinette. Oh, Jacob's moved to

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our business shout out anyway. But Elizabeth Williamson's got a

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lot of kids, kids tons, and they're so cute. Athena

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is a great dancer and where it's always wears a

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she's got lipstick. Yeah, Holly, we love your pancakes. Valerie,

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Bubba Fenwick hits out of the park. Katerina, please check

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your moler. Also, I'm having a crown fitted today, so

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don't be me, Katerina. Gabby and Missy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I got something to say about them, but I'll

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do it after the shout out, okay, e.

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Speaker 2: Sean Rebecca Lupin is so cute. Kelly Brandt, She's will

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take you to you know, listen to our Patreon because

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we talked about aunt shit. Alicia, Stephen Steve el Monte

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Leslie's still coughing. Uh. Stephan Stinker Rinker thinks she's still

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giving her shout out to planned parents. Sephany Sarah Stefano,

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she's your Paisano. Aaron is a dirty Sanchez. Jennifer, please

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get up, stand up, Sandra. It's not easy being Green

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and Chris to get the.

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Speaker 1: Strap Missy and Gabby. So apparently Missy has gone rogue

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on Gabby and is pitching a tent over at the

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Tower Records Parking lot, oh on sunset, waiting for tickets

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for Taylor Swift to go on sale, because then she

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might not be able to come if we do do

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our Phoenix show. She might not be able to come

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to that because apparently Taylor Swift is more important than us.

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Speaker 2: Wow, we're going to be competing with Taylor safe now.

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Speaker 1: But Gabby wants me to tell her to come and

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because I need her there, which, yes, Missy, come, we

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need you there.

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Speaker 2: I think we're doing it.

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Speaker 1: You think so.

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Speaker 2: I think we should just commit to it and then like,

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let people are getting their tickets. All right, let's do it. Okay,

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December seventh, we said, right, better be there. Yeah, December seventh.

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It's like a Saturday night.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I believe, so why not?

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Speaker 2: What's the worst the going to happen?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 2: They charge us, they cancel us. I feel like people

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will come listen. There are lesser podcasts than us who

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are touring the country. Where are they getting people?

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Speaker 1: Wow? I know we need to get out. We need

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to get out anyway, like you know, get out there

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and see us friends exactly, exactly, totally okay, Yeah, we're

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gonna do it.

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Speaker 2: Hmm.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we'll see about getting Teresa. Yes, that would

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be fun. Yeah, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 2: We'll bring books. It's gonna be fun. It'll be a

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total event. I was gonna say shit show for reason

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and then I was like, why am I putting us down?

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It's gonna be horrible, guys.

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Speaker 1: Get your tickets. Shit show. So okay, speaking a shit

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show now I'm kidding. Yeah. So yeah, last week I

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moved Natalia into her apartment.

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Speaker 2: Are you feeling? You know?

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Speaker 1: It was. I thought I was gonna be more upset

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about it when I left. But she's so close, you know,

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she's really like a couple, like maybe two and a

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half hours of driving. It's not that far.

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Speaker 2: Isn't a full two and a half hours? Isn't it less?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's facetiming me right now, that's weird. No, it was, well,

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we had to get there at nine am, so there

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was a lot of like heavy morning travels. Okay, yeah yeah,

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a friend's house, you know, for the weekend or something.

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And she's like, i'll be home, you know, i'll get

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you know, i'll come visit, and I think she will, So.

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Speaker 2: Tell tell me everything. Okay, tell me everything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So the so Roberto and Alvarro show up in their truck.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they come, they load up their truck and yeah,

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so we caravan. Natalie's gotta drive her car. Her roommate

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was at our house that night before. She's driving her car.

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I'm driving my car and we caravan down there. And

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so we get there and we're like the first family,

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I think, to get there. She's got four other roommates

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and it's in this kind of old apartment building, but

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it's really industrial, you know those kind of buildings where

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there you can see the the air vent you know

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up up top, the the the vents, the silver you know,

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right air even though there's no AC and the floors

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are like in the no A C in the apartment.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, Santa Barbara, Okay, in Santa Monica for years,

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never use the AC or the heat, right, it's kind

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of temperate.

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Speaker 1: Yep. My friends that live down in Manhattan Beach, they don't.

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you know, the second to the top floor. So it

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was a little warm up there. But she has these

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two sliding glass windows. You open them up, there's a

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balcony and you can feel the air coming. And but

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there's cement floors in the apartment all cement. Oh yeah,

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so do they are they going to get rugs. They

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got she got an area rug in her area in

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her little space. So she's got one side of the

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house are the apartment. There's a huge long room with

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this divider in between, so she's sharing that room with

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one of her friends, that's her roommate. Okay. Then across

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from her is the another big long room divided in three,

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and one girl has to go through the other girl's

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room to get to her side. Oh hell, and there's like,

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so there's two dividers dividing all three girls. Yeah, so

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that kind of sucks for them, but that's the two

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girls they don't they don't know. And then Natalia's other

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friend is at the very end, so on the end

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of that three. And then there's two bathrooms. One's a

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little smaller than the other, so Natalian her two friends

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are sharing the bigger bathroom and the other two girls.

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through social media and talk to them and whatnot, so

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they already kind of knew who they were going to

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be meeting. And one of the girls came in when

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she first got there, she seems kind of a loner,

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like she didn't have any family, with her. Oh, she

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just brought her stuff in, set her stuff up and

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was called a day, like within an hour and a half.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: And she's a freshman, oh man. Yeah, And Natalia says,

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you know, she she's very outdoorsy. She goes camping a

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lot and stuff, which you know, and seems to me

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like a lot of her stuff, like she's not with

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the friends. Maybe with one person Natalia couldn't tell, but.

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Speaker 2: Who goes to school. It broke my heart, no one,

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it broke my heart.

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Speaker 1: I know. I kept asking her, do you want help?

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Can I help you? You know, she was saying no,

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I'm good, I'm good, and I'm all set up, and

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she was just you know, she was done. And then

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she was just on her bed on her laptop while

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all of us were coming and going. So then the

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other two then Natalia's other roommate that drove with us,

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her parents are in Oregon. They weren't able to come out.

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her stuff too, which was nice. So she had us

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to help her. And also it's our second year, so

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she's already been there. Then the other roommate that she's

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friends with that's her second year as well. But her

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parents came great people, really sweet, love them. And then

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the other girl is from Newport Beach. Parents could not

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be nicer, just kind of like dad seems kind of

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like a surfer dude, but like older, you know, super sweet.

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Mom's great. Uh was. We were chatting it up the

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whole time, and her parents were helping Natalia, like if

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she needed help putting together the side table or whatever.

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get Like they had a big truck, so there was

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a lot of like pulling up, unloading, moving the car.

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a lot of and then I went to Target a

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bunch of times. We need this, we need that. It

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was a big bummer when they found out there was

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no AC. They were like wait what but it's like

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you guys, it's you're by the beach. Open the doors

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and they're like, yeah, we'll be fine. They all have fans,

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you know. So Natalia, so we put her rug down,

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I should put pictures up. We put her rug down.

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She hung her pictures up on her little divider. She's

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got her little desk that we had to put together

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her end table, and oh, and there's no lights in

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the place. What. Yeah, you walk in and there's an

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entry light, but there's no like can lights or any other.

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Speaker 2: Kind of apartment lighting.

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Speaker 1: I know, it was crazy. So I went and got

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a stand lamp. What do you call it?

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Speaker 2: A lamp?

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Speaker 1: A lamp? Yes, that stands yeah, a floor lamp, a

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floor lamp. Yeah. So anyway, so yeah, because there was

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just there's no lights, and the kitchen was really small,

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but it was fine, like they can share. They're gonna

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share the fridge. Then they went grocery shopping and got

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a bunch of stuff. They're gonna be cooking a lot,

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they said. At home, they've already started. So you know,

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I was there nine fifteen too in the morning till

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I left it like seven thirty.

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Speaker 2: So how was like was she did she seem happy?

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she wasn't wanna leave you to try to sleep over?

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Speaker 1: She's like, Mom, I'm gonna call you every day. Don't worry.

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I'm gonna be in touch with it. And she has been.

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Actually she just called me now. So she called me

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the next morning. I asked her how her night was

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She said it was fine. It was a little warm,

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but you know, it was one of the hottest. I

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mean it was very hot.

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Speaker 2: So that's as warm as it's gonna get exactly. Yes,

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that's it, like it's gonna be. I think it'll be

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pretty nice.

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Speaker 1: I think so too. I mean the set, I thought

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it was gonna be cold down there by the beach,

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so I brought sweatshirt. It was unshine, blue skies the

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whole day, and it was pretty warm.

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Speaker 2: I mean, beautiful weather. That's why all we wanted to

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go to Santa Barbara so bad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and Italian sunshine.

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Speaker 2: So when do her classes start today?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, she's got English today, and she's got journalism

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two days a week, and she's got math on Friday.

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Speaker 2: And can she walk to school from where.

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Speaker 1: She is now? Okay, bummer, She will be able to

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and if she stays there and when she goes to

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the university, but for now, she does have a parking pass,

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so she'll have to drive to the to the campus.

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But she's super exciting.

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Speaker 2: Even though, oh so it's not I God, I feel

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like I asked you this so many times. It's not

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Santa Barbara City College Housing. No, it's just it's just

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an apartment departments for for students. Yeah, but it is

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for students.

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Speaker 1: It is for students definitely.

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Speaker 2: So it is Santa Barbara City House College Housing.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess you can call it that, but

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I don't think it's affiliated with the college. It's like

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a chained franchise. I've heard of it in other places.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, because like LB's in an apartment right campus,

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but it's a university affiliated housing. Like they assigned her

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the apartment. She didn't have to go find an apartment. Yeah, no,

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it's different, okay, but it is all students.

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I'm like so excited and so happy, and then I

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see another mom with her daughter. Oh, and like you

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have to have your keyfob every single time you go

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up the elevator. You can't just get in. You have

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to have it to get into the building. You have

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to have to get up in the elevator, which I love.

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That's nice. And they had like balloons, and they had

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donuts that said welcome, like the sign, big sign. They

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had coffee and water, and you know, three students sitting

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out front like signing people in and which was nice.

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this is exciting again. In the elevator, there's a mom

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and another daughter in the elevator and I was like, Hi, like,

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is your first day moving in yet? It's our first day? Well?

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Good luck, good luck, you know. And I was talking

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to everybody that came in. Natalia at one point she's like, Mom,

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you don't have to talk to everybody.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: That was like reel it in. And I was like, okay, god,

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right right, all right, I'm excited, and the other moms

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are excited. We're making eye contact, smiling at each other.

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What do you want me to do?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: You know, give them the hand?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so talk to the hand a listening right of court.

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That's how my kids would be too. Well, Sadie and

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Xander would be like, oh my god, mom's so funny.

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She talks to everybody. And LB would be like, stop

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the fun could you stop?

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Speaker 1: Yes? That was that was Natalia and then uh And

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we went up and down a couple times in the

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elevator and we were walking back in and I go,

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I go oh, Natalia, I said it pretty loud. I go,

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let me get it, picture you in front of the building.

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And she's like, shun, why do you got to say

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that so loud? I was like, I'm excited. Can I

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be excited?

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Speaker 2: And other parents are doing the same thing. They all

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want pictures of their kids in front of the building.

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Speaker 1: Yes, exactly. So the other moms we exchanged, you know,

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phone numbers, so we're on a group text all the

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other moms, well except for the one that didn't have

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any parents there, but uh, but the other moms, you know,

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they were we were like texting the next morning. I

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think the girls had a good night there. The other

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girl that from Newport Beach could, I mean, she fits

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in perfect with these girls, like she it was like

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a long lost friend of theirs, you know. And the

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other girl to the other girl too, and they were

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all bonding and stuff, and they went down, they went outside,

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went for a walk, and went and got pizza, all

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of them together, which was nice. So I think I

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think they have a really good group, which I like.

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Speaker 2: So were you the first to leave or did the

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other parents start leaving at the same time. Were any

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of them from LA What was the story?

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Speaker 1: Well, the Newport Beach parents stayed overnight at a hotel Okay,

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and they then they took her for breakfast next morning,

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and then the other girl's parents. They we left around

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the same time. Yeah, they were wrapping it up.

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Speaker 2: So how did you feel when you left?

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Speaker 1: I mean I was like, I was sad, and I

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took you know, took pictures with her, and I gave

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her my little gifts and stuff.

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Speaker 2: And would you get her?

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Speaker 1: Well, I got her. I got I got a really

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sentimental card and I wrote and then I wrote out

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the philosophies. Oh and uh, I did get her mother

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daughter bracelet, but it's not it didn't show up yet,

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so I had to read the card. And then she

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teared up and she's like, I love this card, thank

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you so much. He hugged me for a long time

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and that made me. That made me choke up. And

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then we were wrapping it up and getting ready to leave,

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and then she's like, okay, we're good, okay bye and

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give her a hug. But it did kind of feel like,

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all right, she's at a friend's house or something. That's

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kind of out because she's so close.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I flew home.

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Speaker 1: By by the time I left, there was no traffic

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so hm didn't take me that long to get home.

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I mean, I remember when I took Lbe to Santa

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Barbara to tour it, and I was thinking, you know,

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this is so close. I was having all kinds of

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fantasies about him, like, Okay, if she goes to Santa Barbara,

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it's kind of perfect because it's not across the country.

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Speaker 2: You don't have to take a plane. It's also not

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even like it's not like northern California because you know,

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Berkeley would be like and it's you know, a seven

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hour drive. So this is like a drive where if

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I just you know, was like, hey, do you want

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to go to lunch? I could just zip up. I

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could decide at ten I want to take her to lunch. Yes,

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go up, pick her up, go have a little nice day,

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have lunch, go shopping a little bit, and come home.

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Speaker 1: Yep, exactly That's what I told her, you know, And

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she was like, I would love that you come up anytime.

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Not too much, but it's all right. But she's like,

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i'll be back. I'll be back, but i'll be home.

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You know, She'll she'll come home for the weekend and stuff.

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So you know, she's gonna be starting. Yeah, today's her

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first day. I can't wait to see how she likes

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her school, her classes and her teachers and so.

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Speaker 2: Have you had any pangs though?

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Speaker 1: Like yes? And then yeah, I noticed like Sonny would

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come out of his room more now, Oh yeah, just

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to come and hang out with me, you know, just

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chit chat and stuff, which he didn't do before. It's

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I don't know. I think maybe he's worried about me

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or something. I don't know, or maybe it's just a coincidence.

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But since she left, like almost every day he comes

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and hangs out with me.

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Speaker 2: I know, nature abhors a vacuum. Yes, that's sweet.

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Speaker 1: It is sweet. And yeah, he helped me a lot

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getting the house ready for Anthony and the kids to

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come visit. Did I talk about that yet?

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Speaker 2: We talked about it on Patreon, so we haven't brought

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it up yet. Should we take it? Yeah, let's talk

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about something that I think is going to be good

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for Natalia. Okay, this is Hungry Root. This is very

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very cool, you guys. This is a subscription meal box,

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but unlike some other subscription meal boxes, this has really

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simple healthy meals to make. But it also has it's

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like your grocery shopping. It has breakfast items, it has

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lunch items, it has like some prepackaged healthy snacks. It's

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kind of perfect sending to the kids at school who

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are in their own apartment, especially if they're if they

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have a kitchen. So you could send this to Natalia.

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I'm going to send it to Lbie. I'm totally s

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a different roommates. Somebody of those roommates is gonna want

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to make the meal. Delicious meals. You can do seafood,

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you can do whatever you want, you can like curate

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it yourself. But also really great easy to grab snacks

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like you know hummus and you know crackers and a

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yogurt and you know a fruit pouch. It's like fill

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up their little fridge with stuff that's like healthy stuff

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for them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they got fresh produce, high quality meat, seafood, healthy snacks,

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smoothies which Natalia loves, a smooth good smoothie. Yes, they

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got everything that Hungry Root follows a simple standard. It's

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gotta taste good, be quick to make, and contain whole

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trusted ingredients.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I loved my box of stuff so much that

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I ordered another one.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because I was like, this is so great. I

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had this really delicious pasta deal in mine and then

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I had a bunch of snacks and they all win.

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Speaker 1: Yeah nice, So yeah, then okay. So then after that

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of getting Italia off and settled, my nephew Anthony, was

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planning on coming for a visit to California for a

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little while around Labor Day weekend, but his wife's grand

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grandpa passed away, so they're doing services. So now they're coming.

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They came this week, so they're staying with me some

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of the days while they're here. They're going to Disneyland

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on Tuesday and Wednesday, so they'll be gone those two days.

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But I almost had to bring Phil today because they

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got into town last night and already Phil ate one

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of their bagels this morning. I told them, like, you guys,

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you can't leave any He's like a shark. He's like

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a jaws in the water. He will come out of

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nowhere and snatch that bagel. Believe you me, asked son

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He's had many bagels and burgers snatched off of his plate, right,

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so you can't.

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Speaker 2: Sonny shouldn't be eating bagels anywhere.

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Speaker 1: No, that's right. I forgot about that, and now Phil

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is eating them. So I said, like, you gotta you know.

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So I was, so he's gonna go and stay at

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his doggy daycare later in the week, but because they're

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gonna be gone tomorrow and through Thursday basically, so I

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was thinking, Okay, Phil, can you know he can he

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can go to the doggy daycare Thursday night and then

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until they leave on Sunday. But like, yes, they got

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in last night and I'm thinking I can't leave Phil

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alone with them tomorrow morning. Like he's just you gotta

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watch him. And like Wesley is only like three years old,

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you know, he's like jumping on Wesley and stuff. Even

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though those kids are love the dog like they get

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a kick out of him. I just I just don't

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want him to be a menace. So I was like,

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I think I'm gonna have to just take him to work.

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But after he ate the bagel this morning, they were

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getting ready to leave anyway to go visit her grandma.

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So they're gonna be gone this morning, so I just

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left Phil there. Yeah. So anyway, I have, like, you know,

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house full of people this week, which is nice.

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Speaker 2: Well, so how many are there.

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Speaker 1: It's Anthony's wife Sam and their two kids, six year

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old and a three year old.

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Speaker 2: Wow, it's great.

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Speaker 1: I like it, Like it was so fun to have to.

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Speaker 2: Get all those guests in your house.

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Speaker 1: Well, with Natalia gone, now well yeah, they have her

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room and then I have a guest room where the

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kids were slept. Oh wow, okay, and then at five

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this morning it's pitch blackout. Phil wakes me up and

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I'm like, what what do you want? He rarely ever

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wakes up in the middle of the night unless he's

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eight some trash or some shit. And so I opened

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the door and he walks over to the guest room

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and I hear the kids are up in there. They're

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just up giggling and laughing and just playing with each other.

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I could barely hear them, so he wanted to go,

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like say hi to them or something, and I was like, really, Phil,

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go to the bathroom. Let's go back to sleep. So

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those kids are up at five this morning. Oh I know,

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remember those days? Yeah? Yes.

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Speaker 2: So sometimes Penelope is you know, she's just getting older,

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and stuff happens and she wakes up in the middle

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of the night or she has diarrhea, and then I think, ah, like,

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she's wake up in the middle of the night, and

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I can't believe that I survived babies because I have

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no tolerance for it. But then I remember that I

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didn't back then either, and I remember how awful every

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single night is awake up night, Yes, yes, And I've

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forgotten just how traumatic not sleeping is and just the

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threat of it's like constant alarms going off. Kaylin, you

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know you're not far from it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And then even when they do sleep through the night,

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they do wake up at an ungodly hour. It's like,

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00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,240
what are you guys thinking you could be sleeping right now?

469
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 1: I know, enjoy it? Yeah, it's pitch black outside, and

470
00:25:41,799 --> 00:25:44,839
you know they're on Chicago time, so they're you know,

471
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:47,519
they're from two hours or you know, they're waking up

472
00:25:47,559 --> 00:25:48,480
two hours earlier.

473
00:25:48,799 --> 00:25:51,200
Speaker 2: But you know what's funny is that I want to

474
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,920
go like, what is happening with your Why is your

475
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:55,920
body telling you to wake up at five in the morning.

476
00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:59,480
But now now that I'm old, my body's telling me

477
00:25:59,519 --> 00:26:02,079
to wake up, but I can't sleep in anymore to

478
00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:02,839
save my life.

479
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:06,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's crazy. So are you having? Did what time

480
00:26:06,559 --> 00:26:07,400
your kids wake up?

481
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,799
Speaker 3: They got up somewhere between like six thirty and seven thirty.

482
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 1: Oh, that's good, don't.

483
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 3: Every once in a while they'll sleep until about eight

484
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:18,039
eight thirty, but typically around seven, so.

485
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 1: They're good throughout the night. Yeah, yeah, yeah, well I

486
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:27,559
think you know they slept together. They're probably in a room.

487
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:29,680
You know, they wake up and they're like, where are we?

488
00:26:30,039 --> 00:26:32,000
You know? But the nice thing is is they just

489
00:26:32,079 --> 00:26:34,160
they just hung out in the room all morning. They

490
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:36,720
didn't bother. They were in the room together, playing and

491
00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:40,079
giggling and laughing. There's really close the two of them,

492
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:43,000
Like she looks out for him and you know he

493
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:47,240
loves her and it's so cute. I didn't get that

494
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,839
with Sonny and Italia, right, I think because they're the

495
00:26:49,839 --> 00:26:53,920
same age Sonny in Italia and they were totally different kids.

496
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:57,359
But these two, there's three years apart, and she feels

497
00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:59,759
like the big sister, so he loves that. I mean

498
00:26:59,799 --> 00:27:03,440
when they went to bed last night, they were both asleep,

499
00:27:03,559 --> 00:27:06,440
but she had her hand on his belly shed her

500
00:27:06,519 --> 00:27:09,119
she was turned away from him, but she had her

501
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,599
hand stretched out on his belly and she's kind of

502
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:14,119
like tickling it, and she's while she was falling asleep,

503
00:27:14,559 --> 00:27:17,039
and I was like, that's the cutest frickin thing. He's like, yeah,

504
00:27:17,039 --> 00:27:19,480
they do that all the time. It's so cute.

505
00:27:20,079 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 2: My Sadie and Xander are very cute together. And when

506
00:27:23,279 --> 00:27:26,680
they were young. I do remember at a certain point

507
00:27:26,759 --> 00:27:28,920
that even though I was anxious about the fact that

508
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:32,119
they were awake, they would entertain each other and just

509
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:32,880
like hang out.

510
00:27:33,079 --> 00:27:33,279
Speaker 1: Right.

511
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:35,799
Speaker 2: I feel like at a certain point I was like, Okay,

512
00:27:35,839 --> 00:27:39,640
get up whatever time you want, but just hang out.

513
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:41,640
I don't want to hear from you guys until at

514
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,920
a certain time. And it worked. But I was thinking,

515
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,839
they're really they're still really close. They do get on

516
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:50,920
each other's nerves. So they're in a couple of classes

517
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:55,160
together because the school's so small, and the other day

518
00:27:55,240 --> 00:28:00,640
Sadie was like, mom, Xander's in my chemistry class and

519
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,440
it's really annoying because we sit at the same table.

520
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:07,599
And he gets annoyed with me, like he tries to

521
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:11,279
help me, but then if I'm not like understanding it

522
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,640
or whatever he was getting, he got really frustrated with me,

523
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:16,599
and he's very condescending and I hate it. And I

524
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:19,680
was like, oh, well, do you want to move like,

525
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:23,559
and she's like no, she goes, but it's just God,

526
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:25,519
It's just you know how he can be. And I'm

527
00:28:25,559 --> 00:28:28,680
like yeah. But then so then I just I talked

528
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,880
to Xander about it and I was like, hey, Xander,

529
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,039
I go so, so I heard you and Sadie like

530
00:28:34,079 --> 00:28:36,759
are at the same table at you know, in chemistry,

531
00:28:36,759 --> 00:28:41,039
and he goes, yeah, he goes, she's upset with me, right,

532
00:28:41,079 --> 00:28:44,359
And I said, well, she did say that it was

533
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:47,079
a little bit tough because you know, I know, things

534
00:28:47,119 --> 00:28:49,160
come like pretty easily to you, and she said you

535
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:51,160
got kind of got frustrated with her, and he was

536
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:54,519
like yeah, He's like I'm gonna be honest, I wasn't

537
00:28:54,519 --> 00:28:57,880
that nice. And he's like, but he's like, but she

538
00:28:58,119 --> 00:29:02,640
was already in a bad mood. He wasn't like shifting blame. Really,

539
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,759
He's like, she was in a bad mood from the

540
00:29:04,759 --> 00:29:07,240
class she had before. She was annoyed because people were

541
00:29:07,279 --> 00:29:09,680
being really loud in her Spanish class, So she was

542
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:11,880
already in a bad mood. And he's like, so she

543
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:14,680
got testy with me, So I got testy right back,

544
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:17,519
and he goes but he's like, I'm gonna tell her

545
00:29:17,559 --> 00:29:20,359
I'm sorry ah, And I was like oh. And then

546
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:23,119
so later he's like, hey, Sadium, you know I'm really

547
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:25,640
sorry that you know that I got like I was

548
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:27,920
so like growlly with you or whatever, and she was like, oh,

549
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:31,880
it's okay. And then a lot of times, if she's

550
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,119
in a bad mood or whatever, he'll be like I

551
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:38,240
love you, Sadie, yeah, or I'll find them like if

552
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,160
she's having a bad day or if he's having a

553
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:43,079
bad day, they'll be like cuddled in one of their beds,

554
00:29:43,119 --> 00:29:44,960
like with like one of them will have their arm

555
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:46,359
around the other one and I'm like.

556
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:50,759
Speaker 1: That's the cue sixteen. It's so cute. I love that.

557
00:29:51,119 --> 00:29:53,039
Speaker 2: Yeah, they have a pretty good relationships.

558
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 1: See when Sonny and Natalia were little like toddlers, they

559
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,720
were I mean, they kind of just did their own things.

560
00:30:00,039 --> 00:30:02,279
And he always was building and playing with his trains

561
00:30:02,319 --> 00:30:05,240
and you know, making shit and you know then the

562
00:30:05,319 --> 00:30:07,920
title come and kick it over and get a reaction.

563
00:30:08,359 --> 00:30:09,119
Speaker 2: They work together.

564
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:13,400
Speaker 1: They work together exactly. So then then then they got

565
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:16,799
and when they were like, I don't know, seven eight,

566
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:20,319
then they were a little bit close like that. Then

567
00:30:20,519 --> 00:30:23,680
when they hit like junior high, they could not be

568
00:30:23,839 --> 00:30:26,880
more further apart. Didn't people at school didn't even know

569
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,480
they were brother and sister, let alone twins right for

570
00:30:29,519 --> 00:30:31,680
a long time because they never hung out with each other.

571
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:35,839
They had their own friends. Then I would say, I

572
00:30:35,839 --> 00:30:40,119
would say junior year, they got really close, and then

573
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:42,680
they started hanging out together. Friends were hanging out with

574
00:30:43,039 --> 00:30:45,079
you know, Sonny would hang out with her friends. Shere

575
00:30:45,119 --> 00:30:47,319
her friends. She would hang out with his friends. They

576
00:30:47,359 --> 00:30:50,200
all would go to parties together and hang out, and

577
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,240
they would eat with each other at school. They had

578
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:55,839
the same friends and they all got along and and

579
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:58,720
then and then the worst part is whenever I was

580
00:30:58,839 --> 00:31:01,079
arguing with one of them, the other one has to

581
00:31:01,119 --> 00:31:03,319
come in and butt in and stick up for the

582
00:31:03,599 --> 00:31:06,400
for the one I'm arguing with, right right, And it's like,

583
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:09,119
why do you two bitches got a gang up on me?

584
00:31:09,759 --> 00:31:11,480
Let me talk to one of them and then you

585
00:31:11,559 --> 00:31:12,200
stay out of it.

586
00:31:12,519 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 2: Right.

587
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 1: Oh, but he's right, so they would, you know, they

588
00:31:17,119 --> 00:31:20,720
started sticking up for each other. And then Sonny wanted

589
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:22,720
to go on the day we went to take her

590
00:31:22,759 --> 00:31:25,400
to college. He was going to go and drive up

591
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,160
with us and help us, and the tally was excited

592
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:32,480
about that. But the last minute he canceled because a

593
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:35,200
lot of his friends were leaving that day too, so

594
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:37,559
he wanted to say goodbye to them before they left.

595
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:42,480
And then two of his friends are now bros before

596
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:46,440
hose exactly. So now two of his friends are staying

597
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:49,160
in town and going to the community college out here.

598
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,319
Oh they were going to go off to different schools.

599
00:31:52,839 --> 00:31:56,119
I don't know what happened, but now he's got a

600
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:57,599
couple of friends that are still in town.

601
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 2: Interesting, Yeah, are they gonna try? Did they were? They

602
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:04,960
just decided they weren't happy with the school they got

603
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:07,759
into and they're going to do community for well. Reply

604
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:08,559
or it.

605
00:32:08,559 --> 00:32:11,119
Speaker 1: Could be Sonny said he doesn't. He didn't want to

606
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:14,559
pry too much. He thinks that, well, one of them

607
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:21,519
has is lose. He's has this I vision is getting

608
00:32:21,519 --> 00:32:25,400
worse as he gets older, so he might think that

609
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,440
that might have something to do with it. I don't know.

610
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 2: I remember that from when they were playing basketball.

611
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 1: Yes, and they had to look out for him. Yeah,

612
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,079
Stunny still hangs out with them to this day. They

613
00:32:38,119 --> 00:32:39,960
just took their dog, all their dogs for a walk.

614
00:32:40,079 --> 00:32:42,480
Sonny took Phil, he took his dogs for a walk,

615
00:32:43,279 --> 00:32:48,480
you know, around eleven o'clock in the neighborhood. So yeah,

616
00:32:48,599 --> 00:32:51,680
I don't know it's but anyway, I have Sonny for

617
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:52,319
another month.

618
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 2: I know I have for another month too. Yeah, but

619
00:32:57,119 --> 00:33:00,880
she is just living her best life. If I never

620
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:04,400
see her, I mean I see her for like a second,

621
00:33:05,119 --> 00:33:08,359
she can't be bothered with me right now. I think

622
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:12,599
this is what I'm telling myself. I think she's and

623
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:14,359
maybe this has been going on for a while, but

624
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,400
I think she's just getting ready to like she's just

625
00:33:16,519 --> 00:33:20,519
independent and she doesn't want to rely on me very much.

626
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:24,359
So she's just been I'm not gonna say distant, because

627
00:33:24,359 --> 00:33:26,640
that's not true because She's still really sweet when she's

628
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:31,680
with me, and I've been I have okay. She has

629
00:33:31,759 --> 00:33:34,720
been going to certain parties with some friends of hers,

630
00:33:34,799 --> 00:33:38,079
and she's very responsible. She'll be like, well, we're gonna drink,

631
00:33:38,559 --> 00:33:40,920
so can you your dad drive us out to the

632
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:44,039
party and then we'll uber home. I could not be

633
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:47,519
more thrilled with that, Like I am just like I

634
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:51,200
was nothing like that at her age. Oh, not give

635
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:57,079
a fuck. Yeah, didn't think about consequences, drank like always.

636
00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, this generation they very much like they will. They

637
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:05,519
will chastise one of their friends if they found out

638
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:09,039
they were drinking and driving. You know, they are very

639
00:34:09,079 --> 00:34:11,719
big on you just you have to take an uber.

640
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:15,199
You can't do that. That's all of their friends in

641
00:34:15,199 --> 00:34:17,400
our neighborhood all seem to be that way.

642
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:21,559
Speaker 2: And like, I know, it's hypocritical because you know, I'm

643
00:34:21,559 --> 00:34:25,400
gonna be honest, Like when I was drinking, the last

644
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:28,599
thing I did was drive drunk, you know, even though

645
00:34:28,639 --> 00:34:32,159
nothing happened, and I can't believe. I can't believe I

646
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,880
did that. And then I go, well, that's because I

647
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:38,960
never thought I was drunk. But yet it's a double

648
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:42,039
standard because I'm like, well, there's no you have no

649
00:34:42,159 --> 00:34:44,880
business ever getting behind the wheel if you're gonna if

650
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:48,559
you're gonna drink, there's no excuse exactly. I will say

651
00:34:48,559 --> 00:34:51,440
that ubers weren't a thing back that I was when

652
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:54,000
I was still drinking. There's no such thing as uber.

653
00:34:54,199 --> 00:34:56,519
There's no way to go, Oh, I'm gonna go to

654
00:34:56,599 --> 00:34:58,519
this house and I might have a few drinks. I'll

655
00:34:58,559 --> 00:35:02,039
just uber back now. There was also, though I don't

656
00:35:02,039 --> 00:35:03,400
know if I would have done it, because if I

657
00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:05,480
had two kids with me, like, we're gonna have to

658
00:35:05,519 --> 00:35:07,760
get somebody with car seat, like, I don't know that

659
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,920
I would have. The point is, though, they do have

660
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:14,519
that option, So I'm always like, there's I know that

661
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:18,519
I would be mad out of my mind. I would

662
00:35:18,519 --> 00:35:21,320
not be understanding, Like if I found out that I'll

663
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:24,199
be drove drunk, I would like lose my shit, which

664
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:28,519
is a double standard. Yeah, it's hypocritical, but she absolutely knows.

665
00:35:29,599 --> 00:35:31,760
I would much rather you just be upfront with me.

666
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:35,320
And if you go somewhere and you drove and you

667
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:40,880
decide to drink, leave your car. I will never be

668
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:43,920
mad at you. Leave your car, come home. I will

669
00:35:44,039 --> 00:35:46,199
drive you wherever you need to go to get your

670
00:35:46,199 --> 00:35:48,199
car the next day, and it's not even a no

671
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:52,440
questions asked, like they're fourteen. It's really like you're almost

672
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:56,599
an adult. Like, look, she's almost twenty. The drinking age

673
00:35:56,679 --> 00:35:59,159
is twenty one, so like in another year and a

674
00:35:59,199 --> 00:36:02,440
few months be legal anyway, so what's the difference. I'm like,

675
00:36:02,559 --> 00:36:05,159
I know you drink, I know you go to parties.

676
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:09,199
And the funny thing is she's I told her, I said,

677
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:13,360
you know, please be safe and don't get drunk, you know,

678
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:15,719
and she's always like, mom, I really don't. It's like

679
00:36:16,159 --> 00:36:18,360
it's more the idea of it that's fun that we're

680
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:21,000
all having a few drinks than actually like I just

681
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,079
don't get drunk. And I'm like, oh, I guess you're

682
00:36:23,079 --> 00:36:23,840
not an alcoholic.

683
00:36:24,079 --> 00:36:26,719
Speaker 1: I know, No, that's the good thing. And you know

684
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:31,239
when Natalia, you know, she had that phase in high

685
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,519
school where you know that they were going to parties

686
00:36:33,519 --> 00:36:36,239
and then she would get you know, really like she

687
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:40,880
would come home drunk and stuff. But she learned her lesson,

688
00:36:41,039 --> 00:36:44,719
I think early on after that she had a little

689
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:47,400
bit of a phase there, and now it's like she

690
00:36:47,679 --> 00:36:50,840
like when we went to that concert in Palm springs

691
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:54,199
and stuff. You know, they were drinking there. But then

692
00:36:54,519 --> 00:36:57,079
she was like, you know, she was running the show

693
00:36:57,119 --> 00:37:00,880
when her friend got lost, you know, right. And I've

694
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:03,639
seen her now come home from parties where she's fine,

695
00:37:03,679 --> 00:37:06,239
and she's like, yeah, I don't ever want to ever

696
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:09,719
have that happen again. Like I learned my lesson early on, right,

697
00:37:10,199 --> 00:37:14,239
So I'm kind of grateful for that, you know. And

698
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:16,920
then Sonny, I don't know, Sonny doesn't do anything.

699
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 2: He doesn't I think.

700
00:37:19,079 --> 00:37:21,880
Speaker 1: I asked Natalia. She said, you know, he once in

701
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,360
a while will have a beer at parties and stuff,

702
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,920
but the friends he hangs out with don't really do anything.

703
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:30,679
They don't really drink or they're kind of geeky golfers.

704
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:36,280
So she's like, yeah, there's more boys that just don't

705
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,679
have a vice. Some of them might smoke pot, but

706
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:44,519
Sonny's not really one of those people. Whereas the girls

707
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:48,679
in her school were the ones like partying and you know,

708
00:37:49,079 --> 00:37:52,400
experimenting stuff, the boys not so much. I've heard it

709
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:53,239
from both of them.

710
00:37:53,679 --> 00:37:57,199
Speaker 2: That's so interesting because even though Sadie I know she

711
00:37:57,239 --> 00:38:01,639
doesn't drink, but I see her as being the one

712
00:38:01,639 --> 00:38:05,440
that would experiment more than Xander is very like straight

713
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,320
and narrow, like just like no. I've asked him, have

714
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:12,960
you have you tried drinking? He's like, no, no interest.

715
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:13,599
Speaker 1: Yeah.

716
00:38:13,639 --> 00:38:14,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh okay.

717
00:38:15,119 --> 00:38:17,039
Speaker 1: I've talked to Sonny a little bit about it too,

718
00:38:17,079 --> 00:38:20,840
because he knows that cousin sal is like that. Never

719
00:38:21,519 --> 00:38:23,840
Dreak and Nicholas and Anthony were like that too in

720
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:27,039
high school, like they did not do anything until they

721
00:38:27,119 --> 00:38:30,480
need to smoke pot until after high school. And Sonny's like,

722
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:32,559
I think I'm kind of like them, you know, like

723
00:38:32,639 --> 00:38:36,000
I don't want to be accual. Yeah, it's nice.

724
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:38,679
Speaker 2: Here's something else that's nice. Let's talk about Quints.

725
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:42,119
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you know how much we love Quince. Yeah.

726
00:38:42,199 --> 00:38:45,559
I have a rap dress by them that's olive color,

727
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:48,719
and I freaking love it. I've worn it a bunch

728
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:52,639
of times. Uh, during the summer, I've gotten so many compliments.

729
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:55,599
And Wendy went on there and bought herself a rap dress.

730
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:59,800
But right now it's gonna be winter times, gonna be

731
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:07,079
sweater sweater weather, and that nobody has affordable cashmere sweaters

732
00:39:07,079 --> 00:39:11,400
like Quints. They have sweaters for fifty bucks, pants for

733
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:15,159
every occasion, washable silk tops and so much more.

734
00:39:15,519 --> 00:39:19,320
Speaker 2: And the sweaters come in so many All their clothes

735
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,880
come in so many color options. That's one of my

736
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:24,719
favorite things about quis. If you have a color in

737
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,239
mind that you're like, oh, I would love a lavender,

738
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:34,079
go to Quint's and find your perfect T shirt, sweater, whatever.

739
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:37,239
Speaker 1: Yes, And the best part about Quints is all Quint's

740
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:40,719
items are priced fifty to eighty percent less than similar brands,

741
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:44,519
which is great. And by partnering directly with the top factories,

742
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:47,400
Quints cuts out the cost of the middleman and passes

743
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,039
the savings onto us, which is what we like. So

744
00:39:50,599 --> 00:39:55,800
make switching seasons a breeze with Quince's high quality closet essentials.

745
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:59,400
Go to quints dot com slash fcl for free shipping

746
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:02,639
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747
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:08,199
That's q U i NC dot com slash fcl to

748
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:10,679
get free shipping in a three hundred and sixty five

749
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:16,920
day returns quins dot com slash fcl. Yeah, sweater weather.

750
00:40:17,639 --> 00:40:20,559
Speaker 2: So so you got sunny for another month, and I

751
00:40:20,639 --> 00:40:24,639
have LB for one more month. But LB is not

752
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:27,800
interested in like doing stuff with the family, So now

753
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:31,679
I'm like probably gonna get over focused on Sadie and Xander.

754
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:34,719
I'm like trying to plan family stuff, like that's what

755
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:37,119
you guys want to go see a comedian at Largo

756
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:40,679
like this month? And they're easy that way. So I'm

757
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:44,039
just trying to pretend like LB's kind of already gone right,

758
00:40:44,159 --> 00:40:46,559
not count on anything with her and not try to

759
00:40:46,559 --> 00:40:51,000
force her into believe me, I'll grab lunches where I can.

760
00:40:51,599 --> 00:40:55,320
But she's not. She's really never been the kid that

761
00:40:55,519 --> 00:40:57,400
it comes out of her room to be like what

762
00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:59,280
are you doing? Like you want to watch a movie?

763
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 1: Never Natalia East same same.

764
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:05,880
Speaker 2: I remember the story of you watching a movie with

765
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:08,719
that Sonny suggested and her going off to watch Pretty

766
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:11,559
Little Liars in her room, mad at her.

767
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:16,679
Speaker 1: I took it so personally, Yeah, we watched Bronx Tale

768
00:41:17,159 --> 00:41:19,360
and Sonny and I loved it, and we're like, Natalia,

769
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:20,960
you gotta watch it. It's a great movie. Watch it

770
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:22,880
with us, watch it with us. And she was like

771
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:25,320
sat there for five minutes and she goes, I'm bored,

772
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:27,920
I'm gonna go watch Pretty Little Liars. And I was like,

773
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:32,079
how dare you? This is a great movie. You know,

774
00:41:33,119 --> 00:41:35,280
our heritage is Italian. It's like you get to see

775
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,039
Italian New York nineteen, you're.

776
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:38,719
Speaker 2: Sixteen, gitting on my ancestry.

777
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:41,719
Speaker 1: Yes, he was just like so mad, and I was like,

778
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:44,840
this is quality, and you're gonna watch some crappy frickin'

779
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:49,840
show about little liar. Come on, I know I did get.

780
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:53,400
I got took it. Very personally, my kids don't enjoy

781
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:56,039
watching TV with me. I'm not sure why it is,

782
00:41:56,679 --> 00:41:59,519
because it's I'm not like annoying. I mean, I'm annoying

783
00:41:59,559 --> 00:42:02,079
in general, but not watching TV. It's not like I'm

784
00:42:02,199 --> 00:42:04,320
gonna be like talking to them through it or whatever.

785
00:42:04,639 --> 00:42:08,239
But Sadie will suggest things to me, like she'll be like, mom,

786
00:42:08,639 --> 00:42:11,280
I know how much you love prisons. You're gonna love

787
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:16,400
this show like ninety sixty Days or whatever, that prison show.

788
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:19,679
But then I'll be like, uh, well, she'll watch certain

789
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:22,039
things with me, but only if she's already seen it,

790
00:42:22,559 --> 00:42:23,800
do you know what I mean? And then it's like

791
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:24,800
just comfort for her.

792
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:27,079
Speaker 2: And then she'll be on her phone and like you know,

793
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:29,159
she'll be like, oh, the next episode is good. You'll

794
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,039
like this next episode. And I'm like, but if you

795
00:42:31,079 --> 00:42:33,960
already saw it I know, but then I'll be like, Sadie,

796
00:42:34,039 --> 00:42:36,480
you would love Love is Blind, like come and watch

797
00:42:36,519 --> 00:42:37,559
it with me, and she'll be.

798
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:40,039
Speaker 1: Like, nah, doesn't it make you mad?

799
00:42:40,119 --> 00:42:42,719
Speaker 2: And then she'll watch something shitty on her own, yes,

800
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:46,079
like for hours in her room. Right, I don't understand it,

801
00:42:46,199 --> 00:42:47,960
Like don't these people want company?

802
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:52,280
Speaker 1: I know? Well I did, I will say, well, Natalian

803
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,880
and I bonded over Jersey Shore, which she started watching

804
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:57,639
it without like she was watching it without me, But

805
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,400
then Love Island came along and then and she was like,

806
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:02,920
you want to watch Love Island tonight? You know? So

807
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:05,719
I did get to before last few weeks of her

808
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:09,000
being home, I did get to watch spend time with her,

809
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:11,480
you know. But she'll never go like you want to

810
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:13,119
take the dog for a walk, or if I say

811
00:43:13,159 --> 00:43:14,440
you want to go for a walk. The only thing

812
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,760
she will do is invite me to go work out

813
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:19,360
with her, right, and I'll go as long as it's

814
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:21,000
not the hot yoga shit. Right.

815
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:24,920
Speaker 2: So, but then how much is that doing something together?

816
00:43:25,039 --> 00:43:28,119
Because right, it's your driving there together, but then you're

817
00:43:28,159 --> 00:43:32,039
both having a workout and then coming home. Huh, Like, Sadie,

818
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:34,920
did I tell you about how I got a gym membership.

819
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,559
I told you this story, right, how I got the

820
00:43:37,559 --> 00:43:39,599
the guest membership. They were trying to sell me the

821
00:43:39,679 --> 00:43:42,119
like six hundred dollars membership and I was like, no thanks,

822
00:43:42,159 --> 00:43:44,119
and then they're like, well, I guess you could have

823
00:43:44,199 --> 00:43:46,039
her as a guest on yours. And I was like,

824
00:43:46,079 --> 00:43:48,559
why didn't you say so? So we've been going to

825
00:43:48,599 --> 00:43:50,760
the gym, but it's the same thing, like I go

826
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,920
to the locker room, put my stuff away, come out,

827
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:55,559
do my own workout, and then sit on a bench

828
00:43:55,599 --> 00:43:56,800
and wait for her to be done, and then we

829
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:57,400
drive home.

830
00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:00,320
Speaker 1: Right, it's not like you're sitting next to me, you know,

831
00:44:00,559 --> 00:44:02,159
doing the treadmill next to each other.

832
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:05,039
Speaker 2: Right, Well, I don't want to do that. I think

833
00:44:05,079 --> 00:44:07,039
my kids would do that. But I'm like, now I'm

834
00:44:07,039 --> 00:44:09,320
listening to a podcast, right, Like, I don't want to

835
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:12,599
chit chat. No, I hate that on the treadmill. Yeah,

836
00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:15,880
I can't. That would make the time go by so slowly.

837
00:44:16,119 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 1: I agree. And also, you can't talk and work out

838
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:20,519
at the same time. It's the world now.

839
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:25,079
Speaker 2: Yeah, although I could if it was like talking on

840
00:44:25,119 --> 00:44:27,159
the phone to somebody. I was really but I can't

841
00:44:27,199 --> 00:44:31,000
make conversation. N get with my kids and try to

842
00:44:31,039 --> 00:44:31,639
work out.

843
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:36,760
Speaker 1: That's too much. It's too much mental gymnastics.

844
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, but Xander is like hanging out with this girlfriend

845
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:46,760
a lot and Sadie like they have their own friends,

846
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:50,760
they have their own lives and it's really cute. But

847
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:54,840
of course I am already like missing how it was

848
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:58,079
even like five, I don't know five years ago, but

849
00:44:58,119 --> 00:45:01,559
then I think, but it was something really super excited,

850
00:45:01,599 --> 00:45:04,760
Like there's a complaint for every age, and there's also

851
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:06,480
things that you love about every age.

852
00:45:06,679 --> 00:45:07,760
Speaker 1: Oh, you know, absolutely.

853
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 2: I would say there were definitely a lot more complaints

854
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:13,800
when they were really little. Then they go through kind

855
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:16,960
of a sweet spot where you're really feeling like, oh,

856
00:45:17,039 --> 00:45:19,679
this is family time, like they want to do stuff

857
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:20,920
with you.

858
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 1: Age you can.

859
00:45:21,199 --> 00:45:24,559
Speaker 2: Give them experiences and they're not jaded, you know, like

860
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:28,559
my kids would hate, like they would complain about it

861
00:45:28,559 --> 00:45:30,840
doesn't matter what we would, they would complain, Like if

862
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:34,119
I took them to Disneyland, they would be full of complaints.

863
00:45:34,199 --> 00:45:36,639
Too much walking, the lines are too long. You know.

864
00:45:36,679 --> 00:45:39,480
There's this sweet spot when they're young that it doesn't

865
00:45:39,519 --> 00:45:41,559
matter you're standing in line. It's like, oh my god,

866
00:45:41,679 --> 00:45:44,719
it's a small world. Like they're excited about everything. Then

867
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:46,679
they get to a certain age where you have to

868
00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:49,880
step it up with the experiences. And I know that

869
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:53,960
even like when John took Sadie and Xander to New York, well,

870
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:57,039
you know, there was a lot of like, oh my god,

871
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:58,960
the walk, can we just can we take the subway?

872
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:01,559
Can we take a cat? You know, you deal with that.

873
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:05,639
And as you remember when I took LB, she loved

874
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:10,400
the trip in retrospect. In retrospect, she had an amazing

875
00:46:10,519 --> 00:46:12,840
time and like could now see herself living in New

876
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:17,000
York at the time, there was a lot of grumpiness

877
00:46:17,199 --> 00:46:17,960
right right.

878
00:46:18,199 --> 00:46:22,559
Speaker 1: You know, there is so many different stages of you

879
00:46:22,679 --> 00:46:26,280
go through ups and downs, and I just remember, like

880
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:30,519
I feel like it's seven, eight, nine, ten, eleve like

881
00:46:30,599 --> 00:46:33,480
those were the that was that sweet spot where you

882
00:46:33,519 --> 00:46:36,000
could take them to the movies and enjoy the same movie,

883
00:46:36,199 --> 00:46:38,639
or you know, you can take them with you to

884
00:46:39,519 --> 00:46:42,280
run errands and they'll just be happy to be able

885
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:47,159
to go. I remember, though, having trying to spend alone

886
00:46:47,199 --> 00:46:51,320
time with each one. Yes, okay, now it's now it's

887
00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:54,079
Sunny's but when it was sunny started to stay home

888
00:46:54,119 --> 00:46:57,559
and n tally came with me, no problem. Oh but

889
00:46:58,119 --> 00:47:03,440
when it was okay, your turn to stay home sunny, no, no, no,

890
00:47:03,679 --> 00:47:07,239
like you would think I was abandoning her for life.

891
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:10,119
You know, she would be beg please, I want to

892
00:47:10,119 --> 00:47:12,519
go please, Like she would feel like she had fomo.

893
00:47:13,159 --> 00:47:15,079
And then as she got older, I could see she

894
00:47:15,159 --> 00:47:17,360
still has fomo, Like she's got this fear of missing

895
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:19,960
out with her friends and stuff, so that it is

896
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:24,679
who she is. It's it's interesting. But and then you know,

897
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:27,159
then in high school they get older and then it's

898
00:47:27,199 --> 00:47:31,000
a different kind of hang right yeah, yeah, but I yeah,

899
00:47:31,039 --> 00:47:34,360
the most complaints were during toddler years because it was

900
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:35,159
so tough.

901
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:38,519
Speaker 2: What Kaitlin's going through right now, are you having is

902
00:47:38,519 --> 00:47:39,320
it overwhelming?

903
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,519
Speaker 3: It hasn't quite gotten there yet. It's probably about too

904
00:47:43,519 --> 00:47:46,719
now that we're doing soccer in school, Like Blake's just

905
00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:48,840
starting to go back to school, So give it another

906
00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:51,840
week and it'll probably be significantly overwhelmed by then.

907
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 2: But like when you're home and their home, do you

908
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:58,880
feel a pressure to like entertain like to you know,

909
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:01,159
I don't know, play game with them or take them

910
00:48:01,199 --> 00:48:04,800
somewhere or I mean because kids, your kids age can't

911
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:06,360
just hang right.

912
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:07,599
Speaker 3: I mean, we like to get them out of the

913
00:48:07,599 --> 00:48:10,039
house when they're home all day, for sure, we like

914
00:48:10,079 --> 00:48:12,320
to do something with them. But otherwise they have each other.

915
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:14,079
They're so close in age they can just play with

916
00:48:14,119 --> 00:48:17,039
each other, and they do. They do it all day long,

917
00:48:17,079 --> 00:48:19,079
to the point where I'm like, oh, well on board,

918
00:48:19,119 --> 00:48:20,519
now I'm gonna go bug them. So I go try

919
00:48:20,559 --> 00:48:21,920
and bug them for a little while until they tell

920
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:22,599
me to get lost.

921
00:48:23,519 --> 00:48:27,440
Speaker 2: Do they watch TV? How are you handling like screen time? Yeah?

922
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:28,519
I kids watched a lot of time.

923
00:48:28,639 --> 00:48:30,760
Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean now it's different because I was waking

924
00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:32,239
up early to go to school, so no more TV

925
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:35,840
in the morning. But it's typically yeah, morning TV off

926
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:39,800
by about nine after breakfast, and then maybe like a

927
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:41,960
little bit more around like three or four, kind of

928
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:45,199
around nap time, and then just again right before they

929
00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:47,800
go to bed. And then you know, if they're playing

930
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:49,199
together all day and they come and say, go, like

931
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:50,800
I want to play some games on the iPad, let

932
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:52,639
them play on the iPad for about half hour forty

933
00:48:52,639 --> 00:48:54,880
five minutes, and then they usually get tired of that

934
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:55,760
and go to something else.

935
00:48:55,840 --> 00:48:59,760
Speaker 1: So that sounds like Anthony's kids like just spending time

936
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:02,679
with and there they entertain each other. You know, they're

937
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:05,880
pretty good and they don't need TV. You know, like

938
00:49:06,039 --> 00:49:09,000
they put them to bed the other night and you

939
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:12,760
know this morning they were having breakfast, no TV. You know,

940
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:15,079
they're just like happy to just play with each other.

941
00:49:16,119 --> 00:49:18,760
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I have did not have the experience.

942
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:20,920
I don't have that because my kids watched a lot

943
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:23,239
of They loved it. Oh yeah, it was a full

944
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:26,800
on drug and they love they especially when they were little.

945
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:31,039
Elbie loved TV. M Oh my gosh. And I love

946
00:49:31,159 --> 00:49:34,920
TV for her because I was busy with the twins

947
00:49:35,519 --> 00:49:38,559
and I was like, thank god. I mean remember that

948
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:43,400
story of the twins screaming they the twins had when

949
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:46,480
they were Calligy as infants, and Elbe was just like,

950
00:49:47,079 --> 00:49:52,800
please they stop. I can't hear Franklin because we didn't

951
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:54,760
have TV in the bedroom, so it was just like

952
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:57,000
one TV in the living room. And I was just like,

953
00:49:57,079 --> 00:49:59,760
I'm crying, and she's just concerned that she can't hear

954
00:49:59,800 --> 00:50:03,760
her Franklin show. And I was like, I've got bigger

955
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:07,719
fish to fry LB and like I'm sorry, it's loud.

956
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:12,559
Like I just remember the TV yeah, exactly. Yeah, but

957
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:14,440
oh my god, I don't know where I would have

958
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:15,480
been without TV.

959
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Speaker 1: It totally helped me too, especially with twins. You know,

960
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:21,920
when you just you're trying to take care of one thing,

961
00:50:22,039 --> 00:50:24,159
trying to put out a fire, you need one's you know,

962
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:27,599
you just got to It was a big help, you know.

963
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:30,880
Speaker 2: And I will say for anybody out there that's just like,

964
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:32,960
oh my god, that's terrible and it's going to ruin

965
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:35,159
their minds. My kids are not that into TV at

966
00:50:35,159 --> 00:50:38,760
all anymore. They are not on screen. Xander's constantly. Xander

967
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:42,440
was really into TV as a kid. He would rather

968
00:50:42,559 --> 00:50:45,440
go play tennis. Like he gets outside, He goes and

969
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:49,320
plays in the street with his friends. They go walk around.

970
00:50:49,599 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, like Sony does. Like same thing. Like Natalia's. She

971
00:50:54,039 --> 00:50:56,280
doesn't watch a lot of TV at all. The only

972
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:59,000
time she watches is when she comes home from work

973
00:50:59,039 --> 00:51:03,159
and she's you know, winding down, like she's on the go.

974
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:07,320
She's out out of the house all day. Funny is, well,

975
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:10,239
he watches a lot of sports, that's what he likes.

976
00:51:11,599 --> 00:51:14,480
And then but he's he doesn't like he doesn't sit

977
00:51:14,519 --> 00:51:17,800
and play video games all day. Yeah, and my kids

978
00:51:18,119 --> 00:51:21,280
no my kids never did that, and on.

979
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:24,679
Speaker 2: My phone more than my kids are probably, yeah, checking emails,

980
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:27,639
playing little games, looking at my podcast. Look, well don't

981
00:51:27,639 --> 00:51:29,119
you don't look at a podcast, but you know what

982
00:51:29,159 --> 00:51:32,800
I mean, looking at like videos. I mean they also

983
00:51:34,079 --> 00:51:37,679
this is interesting the my kids school, well all of

984
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:41,960
la USD. You just missed this. They've instituted a phone band.

985
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:43,159
Speaker 1: I heard about this.

986
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:47,039
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it is a big deal at my kids

987
00:51:47,039 --> 00:51:50,679
school because even though my kids go to a charter school, uh,

988
00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:54,760
it's it's still, you know, a public school, and they

989
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:57,440
do things the way the union that not the union,

990
00:51:57,480 --> 00:52:02,760
the way the la School District does. So they have

991
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:05,400
to do every class they have to put their phones

992
00:52:05,599 --> 00:52:08,639
in what looks like a shoe rack, like at the door.

993
00:52:08,679 --> 00:52:11,119
They check their phones in at the door and then

994
00:52:11,159 --> 00:52:14,840
they and at first they were all like, oh no,

995
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:19,079
it's going to be horrible. And Xander told me it's

996
00:52:19,159 --> 00:52:22,039
much better, and so did Sadie. She's like, it's better

997
00:52:22,199 --> 00:52:25,320
because kids are forced to like do their work or

998
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:27,639
if they're doing a group project, they have to interact

999
00:52:27,639 --> 00:52:30,880
with each other. She goes, before people would just be

1000
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:31,480
on their phone.

1001
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:35,760
Speaker 1: Why they didn't do it sooner? I know, it makes sense. Yeah,

1002
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:38,000
I can't believe. Like when my kids started going to

1003
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:41,360
school they were able to have their phones on them.

1004
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:43,679
I thought there would be some kind of band like

1005
00:52:44,119 --> 00:52:45,679
we could want you know, don't want to see your

1006
00:52:45,679 --> 00:52:47,440
phone out. If you get your phone out, you're gonna

1007
00:52:47,519 --> 00:52:48,920
you know, have Well.

1008
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:52,199
Speaker 2: The's interesting thing is that my kids said that it's

1009
00:52:52,199 --> 00:52:54,679
not that different than it was before. It's just that

1010
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:57,360
I guess some teachers were real strict about it and

1011
00:52:57,440 --> 00:52:59,599
would be I don't want to see your phone, so

1012
00:52:59,639 --> 00:53:01,920
they'd have to keep it in their backpack anyway. But

1013
00:53:02,159 --> 00:53:07,000
other teachers like didn't care. So the only bad thing

1014
00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:11,760
is that some kids and one of mine included, felt

1015
00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:14,800
like they needed to be listening to music to concentrate,

1016
00:53:15,639 --> 00:53:20,519
and they won't let them. So they can't have their

1017
00:53:20,519 --> 00:53:22,920
air they can't have their phone too, they can't play music,

1018
00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:24,679
and they can't have their airpipe. They can't have their

1019
00:53:24,679 --> 00:53:28,119
phone right, So that kind of sucks if they really

1020
00:53:28,119 --> 00:53:29,280
felt like they needed it.

1021
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:32,360
Speaker 1: But I don't know, maybe they'll get used to it.

1022
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:36,400
But yeah, it makes sense. So it's a whole district

1023
00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:37,119
wide band.

1024
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:40,840
Speaker 2: Yeah wow, yeah, but so far, so good.

1025
00:53:41,079 --> 00:53:41,559
Speaker 1: That's good.

1026
00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:43,559
Speaker 2: The only reason I bring that up is because like

1027
00:53:43,639 --> 00:53:45,960
sort of talking about the kids getting addicted to like

1028
00:53:46,119 --> 00:53:48,960
screen their phones and their screens and their TV, and like,

1029
00:53:49,159 --> 00:53:52,159
I don't know, it's not it didn't have a lasting.

1030
00:53:53,519 --> 00:53:55,639
I watched a lot of TV as a kid, and

1031
00:53:55,800 --> 00:54:00,239
I don't really care that. I mean, I don't. I mean,

1032
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:03,079
like sometimes I'll be like, oh, I want to I

1033
00:54:03,119 --> 00:54:05,159
want to relax and watch something, but a lot of

1034
00:54:05,199 --> 00:54:07,480
things I have to watch for work, I and so,

1035
00:54:07,599 --> 00:54:10,039
and then I'm just like, okay, let me get through this, right.

1036
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:13,639
Speaker 1: I never watch TV during the day. I always watch

1037
00:54:13,679 --> 00:54:16,679
TV when I'm getting to bed at night. That's why

1038
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:20,000
it takes me forever to finish a documentary because I'm out,

1039
00:54:20,159 --> 00:54:25,360
you know. Yeah, but yeah, like never, the TV's never

1040
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:26,239
on during the day.

1041
00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:29,559
Speaker 2: So John and I have been listening to books together,

1042
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:33,360
but I fall asleep immediately. I have The books are

1043
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:36,159
so boring and it seems good in the moment, like

1044
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:39,599
I don't know. We were listening to the some like

1045
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:43,199
biography about Aaron Rodgers, and John was like, yeah, this

1046
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:46,159
should be kind of juicy there. They're like going into

1047
00:54:46,159 --> 00:54:48,199
a whole bunch of stuff about the backstory, and you know,

1048
00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:50,880
he doesn't speak to his family, and I was like, yeah,

1049
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:54,079
that sounds good. I fall asleep every single time he

1050
00:54:54,119 --> 00:54:56,679
starts playing it. I'm like, I don't understand what's going on.

1051
00:54:56,800 --> 00:54:59,639
Like it's all football talk, like they literally talk about

1052
00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:01,960
and and then this play and then on the second down,

1053
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:07,440
and I'm like, darted bar. It's like, yeah, it's better

1054
00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:10,440
than Benadryl for me. And he's always like, did you

1055
00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:12,239
get to the part where I'm like, stop right, I'm

1056
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:14,239
gonna stop it right there. I didn't get to any part.

1057
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:17,599
As soon as I heard the narrator's voice, I was asleep.

1058
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:19,000
Speaker 1: Gazing at the inside of my eyelids.

1059
00:55:21,039 --> 00:55:25,880
Speaker 2: Do you know this book I'm talking about? No, okay, anyway, okay,

1060
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a bunch of our listeners as well.

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