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<v Speaker 2>It beats listening to nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>My goodness, Being Frank, where the only way to be

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<v Speaker 1>is Frank. Hello everyone, and welcome to Being Frank, where

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<v Speaker 1>the only way to be is well, Frank. I'm your host,

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<v Speaker 1>Frank Wereborne, and I'd like to thank you for joining

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<v Speaker 1>us on what we like to call the Intelligent Conversation podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>where no conversations out of bounds and all points of

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<v Speaker 1>view are welcome. We record live to tape, and I

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<v Speaker 1>always give you the date so you have some context

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<v Speaker 1>and relevance. It's the fifteenth of May, when my guest

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<v Speaker 1>applied for and was granted permission to attend Congressman Mike

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<v Speaker 1>Lawler's town hall meeting on May third and somers New York.

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<v Speaker 1>She knew was bound to be contentious, of course, just

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<v Speaker 1>how much so couldn't have been predicted by her or

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<v Speaker 1>anyone else for that matter. Lawler, a Republican, represents the

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<v Speaker 1>area's seventeenth congressional district and is currently running for reelection.

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<v Speaker 1>Is considered by both parties as one of the most

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<v Speaker 1>important elections on the national stage, as the seat will

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<v Speaker 1>be key on who will control Congress. In the previous election,

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<v Speaker 1>Lawler staged an upset with a win in a traditionally

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<v Speaker 1>blue area. However, since then he has been dogged by

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<v Speaker 1>criticism that he talks one way and votes another. Despite

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<v Speaker 1>presenting himself as the GOP's moderate voice of reason, his

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<v Speaker 1>votes tend to be very much along party lines, citing

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<v Speaker 1>most often with President Donald J. Trump. His constituents regularly

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<v Speaker 1>made requests for a public town hall style meeting where

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<v Speaker 1>they could ask the congressman questions in real time. However,

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<v Speaker 1>despite promising them, Laura did not schedule any until recently,

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<v Speaker 1>and that turned out to be a disaster. During that

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<v Speaker 1>first meeting in late April, held in Rockland County, Lawler

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<v Speaker 1>was roundly booed and frequently in interrupted by the crowd,

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<v Speaker 1>who found his responses to questions as evasive and therefore unacceptable.

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<v Speaker 1>They came for answers and felt that they got none.

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<v Speaker 1>With that in mind, Lawler's camp dug in and instituted

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<v Speaker 1>strict rules in additional security measures for the Somers meeting.

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<v Speaker 1>Registrations and IDAs would be required, amongst other things, Questions

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<v Speaker 1>would have to be submitted in advance, and follow ups

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<v Speaker 1>would be limited. As my guests observed during the meeting,

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<v Speaker 1>Lawler had no real interest in addressing their actual concerns

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<v Speaker 1>by directly answering the questions. Instead, he treated it more

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<v Speaker 1>like a campaign rally. So when my guest's frustration reached

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<v Speaker 1>the breaking point, she pressed the congressman by blurting out

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<v Speaker 1>from her chair, I'm paraphrasing where you draw your red

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<v Speaker 1>line when it comes to President Trump's agenda? A completely

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<v Speaker 1>legitimate question and one that many others in the crowd

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<v Speaker 1>wants it answered as well. But instead of diffusing the

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<v Speaker 1>situation by simply answering the question, lawless people doubled down

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<v Speaker 1>and used five burly New York State troopers to forcibly

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<v Speaker 1>remove my guest when she refused to leave for disrupting

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<v Speaker 1>the meeting. Now, if you could see just how diminutive

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<v Speaker 1>she is, you would understand the absurdity of using that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of brute force. It was obviously designed to send

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<v Speaker 1>a message that descent to us approved would be crushed.

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<v Speaker 1>The backlash was swift and overwhelming, with My guests becoming

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<v Speaker 1>an overnight celebrity, granting interviews to multiple news outlets around

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<v Speaker 1>the country and world. The feedback has been both positive,

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<v Speaker 1>with many praising her for what the late John Lewis

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<v Speaker 1>what she deserved for not following the rules. One thing

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<v Speaker 1>is for certain, the Act changed her life forever. So

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<v Speaker 1>that any further ado, Let's meet the latest defender of

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<v Speaker 1>the First Amendment, Emily Finer. Emily, thanks so much for

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<v Speaker 1>joining us, and I met what I said. You're a

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<v Speaker 1>busy lady right now. You're very much in demand.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, fortunately my fifteen minutes is starting to wayne, so

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<v Speaker 2>it's getting a little less hectic. But thank you. It's

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<v Speaker 2>nice to be here, Frank, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to talk a little bit about that the

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<v Speaker 1>effects that instant overnight fame, especially in today's social media world,

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<v Speaker 1>can mean for you. And we'll get to that, but

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<v Speaker 1>first let's talk a little bit about Emily Feiner. You

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<v Speaker 1>have a long biography, impressive as a social worker, But

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you tell us what you think is most

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<v Speaker 1>important that people should know about you in your background?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my goodness, I don't know what's most important. I

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<v Speaker 2>think that what people don't know is that I grew

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<v Speaker 2>jail at the end of that court case. That's widely

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<v Speaker 2>held up as a as a real mistake and an

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<v Speaker 2>example of McCarthyism and the evils it brought to this country.

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<v Speaker 1>What just what year was that, Emily, I might do

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<v Speaker 2>Decided in nineteen fifty. He was arrested in nineteen forty

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<v Speaker 2>nine for making a street corner speech in defense of

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<v Speaker 1>It gives thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So I grew up in a family that, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>on the weekends we were often protesting. I grew up

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<v Speaker 2>protesting the Vietnam War. I grew up marching for the

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<v Speaker 2>rights of working people to organize. I grew up marching

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<v Speaker 2>for civil rights. So being an active member of my

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<v Speaker 2>was raised to do that. But I had never encounter

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<v Speaker 2>the kind of sort of state sponsored violence and state

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<v Speaker 2>sponsored restriction of my rights like I did that night

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<v Speaker 2>at the Lawlertown Hall.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to talk about that, obviously in much more

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<v Speaker 1>detail as our conversation continues, But you know what I knew,

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<v Speaker 1>your father, Irving Finer I was kind of a trusted friend.

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<v Speaker 1>I was in media, so he would often come to

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<v Speaker 1>me for advice, media advice about certain things in his platform.

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<v Speaker 1>And I always found him brilliant, but to be completely transparent,

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<v Speaker 1>he could be irascible, let's say, at times, because he

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<v Speaker 1>say that, you know, politics is a complicated thing. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>people have to like the message, but they also have

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<v Speaker 1>to like the person delivering the message. What did you

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<v Speaker 1>take from him in his role? As I said, he

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<v Speaker 1>was very strong, He was a hardcore social and he

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<v Speaker 1>was brilliant. I mean I loved to talk to him,

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<v Speaker 1>but he could also this is be intimidating, partially because

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<v Speaker 1>of his brilliance and he was, but also, as I said,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you take from that?

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<v Speaker 1>Boy?

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<v Speaker 2>So I think you know, in my younger years, I

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<v Speaker 2>was sort of embarrassed by my father's presentation and harascibility.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I have a very clear memory of being

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<v Speaker 2>at a political you know, a night where the election

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<v Speaker 2>returns were coming in and my father, who must have

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<v Speaker 2>been in his sixties at that point, charging you know,

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<v Speaker 2>was mortified. It's really funny, though, over the last couple

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<v Speaker 2>of years, I've understood my father so much better because

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I remember one saying to him, why do

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<v Speaker 2>you do this? Like why so over the top, And

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<v Speaker 2>he would say, because it gets their attention when you

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<v Speaker 2>do it politely, it doesn't. And you know, my dad

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<v Speaker 2>developed his style in many ways as a reflection of

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<v Speaker 2>one of his great heroes, Vito Marcantonio, who was a

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<v Speaker 2>belief openly. I think he was elected as an open

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<v Speaker 2>socialist to the United States Congress. And Vito Marcantonio he

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<v Speaker 2>wrote a book called I Vote My Conscience. He's a

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<v Speaker 2>really wonderful historical figure and spoke the truth at a

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<v Speaker 2>time when people weren't. And he apparently had the same

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<v Speaker 2>style as speaking. And I think my father really gloned

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<v Speaker 2>on too that. He also, as a boy, knew Feararella LaGuardia.

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<v Speaker 2>His parents owned his candy shop in Harlem and then

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<v Speaker 2>in the Bronx, and Fiarella LaGuardia would come to the

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<v Speaker 2>candy shop when he demanded that all the little slot

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<v Speaker 2>pop shops across the city because they were bankrupting working people.

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<v Speaker 2>My grandfather made a deal with Varela LaGuardia that he

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<v Speaker 2>height of the depression. He could keep the slot machine

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<v Speaker 2>long enough to pay for his daughter, Regina, to complete

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<v Speaker 2>her degree at NYU in music, and LaGuardia agreed and

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<v Speaker 2>then came to the shop when my aunt graduated college,

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<v Speaker 2>had a drink with my grandfather and they chopped up

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<v Speaker 2>was emulating these folks. For me, that's not exactly my style.

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<v Speaker 2>But I can also be pretty heed it and passionate

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<v Speaker 2>for him to control himself. When you see people around

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<v Speaker 2>you ignoring evil and promoting evil, and you see people dying,

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<v Speaker 2>you see people suffering, you see families touring apart. If

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<v Speaker 2>you're not really angry, I think there's something wrong with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, And with perfect segue, and so let's

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<v Speaker 1>get into some detail about what happened that day in

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<v Speaker 1>somers it's all leading to that. You know, the mindset,

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<v Speaker 1>your background, et cetera. So lead Obviously we've spoken in

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<v Speaker 1>you know, pre programming interviews, et cetera, and I gather

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't in your mind necessarily directly to be disruptive.

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<v Speaker 1>I think people have to understand that, because some of

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<v Speaker 1>the negative comments have printed to you as an agitator,

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<v Speaker 1>that you went in there with the attitude that you

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<v Speaker 1>are going to break up the meat no matter what.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't get that from you. So lead us

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<v Speaker 1>in what was your mindset going into the meeting in

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<v Speaker 1>the first place, and then we'll go through what happened

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<v Speaker 1>as the meeting went along. But what kind of mindset

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so let me just say I am a five

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<v Speaker 2>pretty assertive and I have no problem speaking up when

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<v Speaker 2>I am in a large group of people, that's almost

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<v Speaker 2>the last thing I want to do. I really want

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<v Speaker 2>to just sort of blend in. And while I have

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<v Speaker 2>been really active in both electoral and issue oriented politics,

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<v Speaker 2>I've always supported other people. It's not like I want

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<v Speaker 2>to be the spot by I was elected twice to

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<v Speaker 2>public office, and then in a third run, I was

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<v Speaker 2>defeated for a higher I've never put myself out there again.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like not my thing. So let me just say

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<v Speaker 2>that I went there not even prepared to ask a

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<v Speaker 2>question because I didn't know what the process would be,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was sort of I thought, oh, they'll never

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<v Speaker 2>call it me, you know, like there's hundreds of people.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was there because I wanted to see for

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<v Speaker 2>myself and hear for myself how the congressman would answer questions.

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<v Speaker 2>And I wanted to be supportive of my neighbors who

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<v Speaker 2>are you know, we are all really concerned about what's

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<v Speaker 2>happening in our country. And so I was there to

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<v Speaker 2>lend my presence to this cause, to be part of

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<v Speaker 2>a group of people seeking answers and trying to sway

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<v Speaker 2>their congressperson to do the work that they were elected

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<v Speaker 2>to do. I did not go there with any intention

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<v Speaker 2>of disrupting anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think it's important to make that point because

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<v Speaker 1>there have been again false accusations of paid prose testers

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<v Speaker 1>coming to these meetings. I mean, Indivisible Rockland has been

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<v Speaker 1>running some of them, and you've seen what I put

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<v Speaker 1>the promo out for your appearance, some of the comments

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<v Speaker 1>of it's part of an organized plan by individual Rockland

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<v Speaker 1>to disrupt and damage, et cetera. And I have no

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<v Speaker 1>I have no evidence of that, and no one else

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<v Speaker 1>has been able to produce any evidence of that. So

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<v Speaker 1>talk to that a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know. So one of the things that's really

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<v Speaker 2>been fascinating about this for me is what happens when

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<v Speaker 2>that everybody projects onto you what they want you to be.

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<v Speaker 2>You lose your individuality, which is why I really appreciate

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<v Speaker 2>the opportunity to talk to you and speak for myself

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<v Speaker 2>because I have seeing things said about me, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>by people who support me that just aren't true. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I would never claim to be a moderate. I have

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<v Speaker 2>seen that I am a moderate who has supported both

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<v Speaker 2>Republicans and Democrats, because in one interview I was asked,

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<v Speaker 2>have you ever voted Republican? And I answered truthfully, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I have. Twice, nobody asked me who those Republicans were,

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<v Speaker 2>when or why, so they assumed I was a moderate.

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<v Speaker 2>I think if you know, if they had asked, they

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<v Speaker 2>But also this notion that I went with Indivisible Rockland,

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<v Speaker 2>of all of all groups to disrupt this event is

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<v Speaker 2>really ironic because I have had some real problems with

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<v Speaker 2>Indivisible nationally as well as locally. I have real concerns

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<v Speaker 2>about that group and that movement, and then the leaders

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<v Speaker 2>locally I've had some disagreements with, and I've been really

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<v Speaker 2>reticent to join with them. So I have been going

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<v Speaker 2>to Tesla takedowns that have nothing to do with Indivisible Rockland,

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<v Speaker 2>and I went to a couple of their events. That

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<v Speaker 2>is true, But to think that I would be working

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<v Speaker 2>with them behind the scenes to have this happen is

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<v Speaker 2>really silly and really indicates that somebody doesn't know me

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<v Speaker 2>and and sort of the internal workings of Rockland County politics.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just sort of weird Fox News o an news

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<v Speaker 2>talking points that don't at all speak to the reality.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about those talking points and reality, because you

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned social media, and even before then, we tend to

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<v Speaker 1>live in a SoundBite world, segmented, and I think mostly

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<v Speaker 1>everybody has seen the segment of you being carried out,

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<v Speaker 1>but it doesn't really provide all the context of what

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<v Speaker 1>led up to it. So if you could walk us

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<v Speaker 1>through exactly what happened, what you did to quote unquote

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<v Speaker 1>provoke this response, your response to their response, et cetera.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's begin setting up what was going down before

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<v Speaker 1>you were literally removed from the meeting. If you could,

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<v Speaker 1>it helps us with some context of exactly what went on.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So I've been to a lot of meetings with

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of different public elected officials. I have never

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<v Speaker 2>ever seen anything like this. This was you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>visited the White House. I think it was easier than

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<v Speaker 2>this getting in. You know, when you when you drove

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<v Speaker 2>into the venue, you were stopped at the entrance by

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<v Speaker 2>one of Lawler's staff members who required that you produced

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<v Speaker 2>the QR code that was sent to us to get in.

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<v Speaker 2>It was essentially the ticket to show that we had

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<v Speaker 2>in fact been registered for the event. We did that,

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<v Speaker 2>then we parked and we had to stand in a

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<v Speaker 2>line in the rain. They made us wait in the

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<v Speaker 2>rain and then opened the doors, and in order to

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<v Speaker 2>get in, you had to produce that QR code one

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<v Speaker 2>more time and then show an ID that showed that

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<v Speaker 2>you were a resident of the district, and that was

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<v Speaker 2>to also a lawler staffer who also had a list

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<v Speaker 2>of all of us. I think it was checking us off.

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<v Speaker 2>Then you walked into the venue and we were wanded

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<v Speaker 2>as though we were going to a concert. Then we

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<v Speaker 2>had to go to a table and give our name.

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<v Speaker 2>They found us on their list, checked us off, gave

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<v Speaker 2>us like a little raffle ticket, and tore off the

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<v Speaker 2>other piece and put our first initial and our last

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<v Speaker 2>name on that piece and put it in a little

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<v Speaker 2>barrel that was used to pick out the questioners from

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<v Speaker 2>And a member of the press later told me that

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<v Speaker 2>the reason why they did that was the press would

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<v Speaker 2>not be able to contact questioners afterwards because they would

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<v Speaker 2>not have their full names. So I was called as

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<v Speaker 2>e Finer, not Emily Finer. How would they know who

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<v Speaker 2>I was? And then we still are not done yet, Frank,

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<v Speaker 2>because then you had to walk towards the door to

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<v Speaker 2>get into the auditorium, and there was this huge stand

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<v Speaker 2>up sign with rules for the event, and those rules

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<v Speaker 2>were no standing up, no taking pictures, no taking video,

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<v Speaker 2>no taking audio, be polite, no calling out things that

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<v Speaker 2>clearly indicated that Mike, congressperson wasn't there to hear the

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<v Speaker 2>concerns of his constituents. He was there to try to

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<v Speaker 2>have a controlled event that he could use to promote himself.

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<v Speaker 2>Because anybody who's watching the news or looking at social media,

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<v Speaker 2>or or you know, driving down the street, quite frankly

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<v Speaker 2>knows that the electorate is not happy. That people are

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<v Speaker 2>pretty angry, they are frightened, and they need to know

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<v Speaker 2>that Congress is going to do their job of oversight.

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<v Speaker 2>And he didn't want to hear that. That was pretty clear,

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<v Speaker 2>so that there were these there were these rules, and

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<v Speaker 2>you had to verbally say to his staff person, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I agree to the rules, and they would not let

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<v Speaker 2>you in unless you said that.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really people. People can't see my jaw dropp

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<v Speaker 1>It was chilling. The only stream my George just hit

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<v Speaker 1>the floor.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, it was. It was chilling. It was intimidating. It

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<v Speaker 2>was clearly meant to tell.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody you will, you will toe them.

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<v Speaker 2>Are absolutely, then it's not over yet. We were not

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<v Speaker 2>allowed to go find our seats. We had to be

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<v Speaker 2>escorted to seats by another lawlor staffer, so they knew

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<v Speaker 2>exactly where people were seated. People reported to me that

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<v Speaker 2>these staffers, random staffers who they did not know, knew

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<v Speaker 2>their first names. They were clearly sitting people where they

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<v Speaker 2>wanted them and assigning their staffers to keep an eye

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<v Speaker 2>on us. That I mean, I truly believe that. And

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<v Speaker 2>Aaron Crowley was my staffer who was on me from

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<v Speaker 2>the beginning of the eating gave me two warnings right away.

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<v Speaker 2>And I wasn't calling out Frank. I mean, I may

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<v Speaker 2>have had a raised voice, but I kept saying to

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<v Speaker 2>the people around me, my husband, my friend, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, he's not answering the questions. I was

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<v Speaker 2>not screaming and yelling.

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<v Speaker 1>You were involved in effuse, Okay, I was exclaiming, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>as I would be.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, there's four layers of security at this at

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<v Speaker 2>this event. There are the lawlor staffers, There are the

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<v Speaker 2>somers police who were managing the traffic in and out

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<v Speaker 2>of the venue. There were private security, and there were

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<v Speaker 2>the New York State troopers. Mister Lawler is very scared

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<v Speaker 2>of his constituents, that's all I can I can imagine. So,

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<v Speaker 2>and if you're scared of your constituents, you probably don't

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<v Speaker 2>respect them a whole lot. So the event they started

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<v Speaker 2>asking questions. They rolled the little barrel that they had

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<v Speaker 2>put all the little tickets in. The first questioner, surprisingly

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<v Speaker 2>was my husband, and he was not prepared to answer

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<v Speaker 2>your question or ask a question. And he got up

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<v Speaker 2>and he did ask a question, and Congressman Lawler, I

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<v Speaker 2>guess he answered Chris's question, I think. And then there

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<v Speaker 2>were a few other questions, and there was this pattern of,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, him taking the question and then pivoting to

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<v Speaker 2>what he wanted to talk about, so never really quite

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<v Speaker 2>answering the questioner's points, and people were calling him on it,

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<v Speaker 2>and people were yelling and saying, you know, you didn't

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<v Speaker 2>answer the question, or what about the second part, that

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<v Speaker 2>kind of thing, and he stopped at one point and said, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll answer the second part, So you know, he was

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<v Speaker 2>aware that people were upset about that. I was then

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<v Speaker 2>called I was like the fourth or fifth questioner. I

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<v Speaker 2>was called. I stood up, I asked the question. You

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<v Speaker 2>saw the question. I told you I didn't have a

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<v Speaker 2>question prepared, which is true. So when they called my name,

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<v Speaker 2>I turned to my friends and I said I don't

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<v Speaker 2>have a question, and a friend of mine said, I

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<v Speaker 2>have one, you want it? I said yes, So you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it was a great question, but I am not going

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<v Speaker 2>to take responsibility for it because I did not write

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<v Speaker 2>that question, but I asked it, and it was, what's

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<v Speaker 2>your red line? What will it finally take for you

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<v Speaker 2>to exercise your constitutional duty of oversight against a lawless administration?

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<v Speaker 2>And he didn't answer that. He spoke nothing about what

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<v Speaker 2>his red line would be when he would be willing

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<v Speaker 2>to shut this down. He talked about the appropriations process

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<v Speaker 2>because that's what he wanted to talk about. And I

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<v Speaker 2>think that that's about his line that he voted for

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<v Speaker 2>the budget, but it doesn't even mention Medicaid and Social

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<v Speaker 2>Security and he's going to get the salt and you

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<v Speaker 2>know all that stuff. So everybody at that point was

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<v Speaker 2>groaning and exclaiming, including me, and I said, answer the question.

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<v Speaker 2>And I did call out when I said answer the question.

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<v Speaker 2>But I want to be really clear. My behavior was

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<v Speaker 2>consistent with the behavior of eighty to ninety percent of

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<v Speaker 2>the people in that hall. And I was not nearly

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<v Speaker 2>as loud as most of them, and I was not

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<v Speaker 2>as profane. I wasn't cursing, I wasn't I wasn't, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, hysterical. It wasn't like a screaming, angry, hysterical voice.

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<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't describe.

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<v Speaker 2>It as he's not answering the question. That's how I

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, right there, Why do you think then you were single?

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<v Speaker 1>We have to find out what happened. But obviously, but

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<v Speaker 1>continuing then, I want to ask that question, why a

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<v Speaker 1>bar of all people, with so many people calling out,

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<v Speaker 1>why you? But but please continue with the process. Then

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<v Speaker 1>what happened?

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<v Speaker 2>So my question was over. He didn't answer it. The

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<v Speaker 2>next person asked a question. It was about terriffs, and

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<v Speaker 2>at that point Congressman Lawler said something to the effect of,

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<v Speaker 2>you need to understand the tariffs only impact the cost

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<v Speaker 2>of imported goods. They don't affect the cost of domestic goods.

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<v Speaker 2>And everybody in the place was like groaning and calling out,

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<v Speaker 2>and I said, oh my god, he doesn't even understand

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<v Speaker 2>basic economics in a voice like that. But Aaron Crowley

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<v Speaker 2>was standing right near me and said, that's it. You've

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<v Speaker 2>been warned twice. This is your third time. You're out

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<v Speaker 2>of here. And I said, you are talking, Why are

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<v Speaker 2>you picking on you? I'm an I'm trying to think

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<v Speaker 2>what I said. There's something to the effect of, why

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<v Speaker 2>are you picking on a Jewish woman? You're a anti

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<v Speaker 2>semon Yeah, yes, yeah, please yes. And I said that

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<v Speaker 2>because two friends of mine, who were older Jewish women,

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<v Speaker 2>were at the Rockland event the week before and told

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<v Speaker 2>me that they had been asked or told to leave

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<v Speaker 2>by a lawler staffer. And they said to the lawler staffer,

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<v Speaker 2>why are you only targeting Jews, Because like they had

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<v Speaker 2>seen who they were carrying, you know, asking to leave,

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<v Speaker 2>and they were mostly Jews. So I thought, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I had that little data point in my head and

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<v Speaker 2>then she was like, you accuse me of being an

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<v Speaker 2>the security people over and she said, she's calling me names,

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<v Speaker 2>all kinds of names. I said, she was an anti Semita.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not call her names, but the private security

420
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<v Speaker 2>folks asked me to and I said no, repeatedly. This happened,

421
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<v Speaker 2>and you see this on the video. They said they

422
00:27:06.279 --> 00:27:08.920
<v Speaker 2>would have to get the police. I said, get the police,

423
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<v Speaker 2>but I'm not leaving. And then the New York State

424
00:27:12.960 --> 00:27:16.480
<v Speaker 2>troopers came and asked me to leave, and I refused

425
00:27:16.519 --> 00:27:22.359
<v Speaker 2>to do that, and then they picked me up and

426
00:27:22.400 --> 00:27:25.720
<v Speaker 2>I went limp, and they carried me out of there,

427
00:27:25.880 --> 00:27:29.400
<v Speaker 2>and I threw up a couple of peace signs.

428
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<v Speaker 1>What was your thinking? If you can remember, what was

429
00:27:32.599 --> 00:27:36.720
<v Speaker 1>your mindset at that moment when you're literally be bodily

430
00:27:36.759 --> 00:27:40.039
<v Speaker 1>removed from this place by five burly guys. What's going

431
00:27:40.079 --> 00:27:40.720
<v Speaker 1>through your head?

432
00:27:41.960 --> 00:27:44.000
<v Speaker 2>Well? You know, as I said to someone else, when

433
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<v Speaker 2>you are an adult, it's never a good thing. When

434
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<v Speaker 2>you're being picked up like it means you've either had

435
00:27:49.440 --> 00:27:53.799
<v Speaker 2>an accident, you know, something bad has happened, and it's

436
00:27:54.720 --> 00:27:58.720
<v Speaker 2>really disconcerting to lose control of your body like that.

437
00:27:58.880 --> 00:28:02.000
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I had no say in what they were

438
00:28:02.039 --> 00:28:06.920
<v Speaker 2>doing to me, so I think what it happened so quickly,

439
00:28:06.960 --> 00:28:09.599
<v Speaker 2>it's really hard to remember what was going through my head.

440
00:28:11.480 --> 00:28:13.759
<v Speaker 2>I think mostly it was disbelief.

441
00:28:14.319 --> 00:28:14.880
<v Speaker 1>And.

442
00:28:16.519 --> 00:28:19.279
<v Speaker 2>You know, I just remember at one point they got

443
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<v Speaker 2>me down to the aisle that went out of the auditorium,

444
00:28:23.960 --> 00:28:28.240
<v Speaker 2>and that's when I saw this huge telephoto lens, you know,

445
00:28:28.799 --> 00:28:32.160
<v Speaker 2>sticking out at me, and I realized that there was

446
00:28:32.200 --> 00:28:36.279
<v Speaker 2>somebody photographing this, and quite frankly, I was mortified at that.

447
00:28:36.799 --> 00:28:38.799
<v Speaker 2>I thought, oh, this is going to be terrible.

448
00:28:41.240 --> 00:28:46.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm not in the best position, literally.

449
00:28:45.279 --> 00:28:51.039
<v Speaker 2>Not at all. It was pretty mortifying. And then and

450
00:28:51.079 --> 00:28:52.880
<v Speaker 2>then they brought me out and they sat me on

451
00:28:52.920 --> 00:28:57.359
<v Speaker 2>the ground and told me to leave the building and that.

452
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<v Speaker 1>It ended there. There was no arrest or anything, no

453
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<v Speaker 1>charges after.

454
00:29:01.519 --> 00:29:07.000
<v Speaker 2>That or well passing, and that I should leave. So

455
00:29:07.079 --> 00:29:10.200
<v Speaker 2>I was really calm inside the thing. Once they got

456
00:29:10.200 --> 00:29:12.039
<v Speaker 2>me out, I got a little more salty, and I was,

457
00:29:12.119 --> 00:29:16.799
<v Speaker 2>you know, exclaiming about Nazis and fascism I think again,

458
00:29:16.920 --> 00:29:23.759
<v Speaker 2>not yelling, but just sort of like yeah, mumbling, and

459
00:29:23.799 --> 00:29:26.960
<v Speaker 2>they told me to leave, that I was trespassing. I

460
00:29:27.079 --> 00:29:31.039
<v Speaker 2>refused to leave a few times. People around me were

461
00:29:31.119 --> 00:29:34.599
<v Speaker 2>clearly hoping I would leave, including my husband, I think,

462
00:29:35.279 --> 00:29:37.920
<v Speaker 2>and a friend of mine was in There is an attorney.

463
00:29:38.000 --> 00:29:40.880
<v Speaker 2>He came out and said, Emily, just leave, like you

464
00:29:40.960 --> 00:29:45.119
<v Speaker 2>made your point. Go So we went to dinner, which

465
00:29:45.160 --> 00:29:47.480
<v Speaker 2>was actually better than going to jail, so good.

466
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<v Speaker 1>Fair enough. We ever frightened, we ever actually frightened at all,

467
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<v Speaker 1>either physically or maybe emotionally, that this could really lead

468
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<v Speaker 1>to serious things? Will you ever frightened dur the event

469
00:30:01.039 --> 00:30:03.920
<v Speaker 1>or after first drawing? And then we'll talk a little

470
00:30:03.920 --> 00:30:05.359
<v Speaker 1>bit about it after. I want to talk about the

471
00:30:05.400 --> 00:30:06.000
<v Speaker 1>after effect.

472
00:30:06.880 --> 00:30:08.960
<v Speaker 2>I think I was frightened when they picked me up,

473
00:30:09.000 --> 00:30:11.440
<v Speaker 2>would they drop me? You know, would they hurt me?

474
00:30:13.799 --> 00:30:14.880
<v Speaker 1>So there was some physical thing.

475
00:30:15.799 --> 00:30:18.319
<v Speaker 2>I don't think I was fearful. I think I was

476
00:30:18.400 --> 00:30:23.160
<v Speaker 2>more like determined. I just knew that I had done

477
00:30:23.200 --> 00:30:26.880
<v Speaker 2>nothing to deserve to be thrown out of there, and

478
00:30:26.920 --> 00:30:29.680
<v Speaker 2>I knew it was wrong. So it wasn't hard to

479
00:30:30.359 --> 00:30:34.119
<v Speaker 2>sort of say, no, let's talk.

480
00:30:33.960 --> 00:30:37.559
<v Speaker 1>Of the after effect now. And you mentioned viral. You

481
00:30:37.680 --> 00:30:40.920
<v Speaker 1>became the definition of viral almost overnight, as I said,

482
00:30:40.960 --> 00:30:45.319
<v Speaker 1>interviews came over, Robert Reich interviewed you, some very heavyweight

483
00:30:45.359 --> 00:30:51.720
<v Speaker 1>people internationally. Was it was seen, it was discussed. Talk

484
00:30:51.759 --> 00:30:55.640
<v Speaker 1>about that as an experience. First, did you expect it?

485
00:30:55.720 --> 00:30:58.400
<v Speaker 1>And then what was it like once it happened?

486
00:31:00.640 --> 00:31:06.400
<v Speaker 2>Boy, No, I didn't expect to go viral like that, no.

487
00:31:07.000 --> 00:31:12.920
<v Speaker 2>I you know, Jennifer Cabrera, who is the person who

488
00:31:13.720 --> 00:31:17.319
<v Speaker 2>was so smart and realized that she needed to video

489
00:31:17.720 --> 00:31:20.680
<v Speaker 2>what they were doing to me, was carried out after me,

490
00:31:21.480 --> 00:31:24.960
<v Speaker 2>and you know, she's gotten like very little media attention.

491
00:31:25.039 --> 00:31:29.480
<v Speaker 2>And that's an interesting thing to me because Jennifer is

492
00:31:29.920 --> 00:31:37.880
<v Speaker 2>a Dominican younger woman who has brown skin. I'm wondering why.

493
00:31:38.359 --> 00:31:42.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm actually not wondering why she wasn't also going viral.

494
00:31:42.880 --> 00:31:46.160
<v Speaker 2>But I think it's really important to mention that this

495
00:31:46.240 --> 00:31:51.839
<v Speaker 2>doesn't happen without Jennifer and her quick thinking. And because

496
00:31:51.880 --> 00:31:55.839
<v Speaker 2>she is the chair of the Westchester Putnam Working Families Party,

497
00:31:55.920 --> 00:31:58.680
<v Speaker 2>she's a co chair, she was able to get that

498
00:31:58.839 --> 00:32:02.599
<v Speaker 2>video to their comms team, who put it out really quick.

499
00:32:02.680 --> 00:32:05.440
<v Speaker 2>So I started getting messages and there were people in

500
00:32:05.440 --> 00:32:10.240
<v Speaker 2>the hall who knew me right. So very early on,

501
00:32:10.240 --> 00:32:15.400
<v Speaker 2>one of the members of the Indivisible Steering Committee texted

502
00:32:15.480 --> 00:32:18.839
<v Speaker 2>to somebody else on the Indivisible Steering Committee, Emily Finer

503
00:32:19.000 --> 00:32:22.160
<v Speaker 2>just got carried out of the Lawlor town Hall. That

504
00:32:22.240 --> 00:32:26.119
<v Speaker 2>person was at an event in Rockland County with one

505
00:32:26.119 --> 00:32:30.319
<v Speaker 2>of my closest friends hands her the phone and so

506
00:32:30.359 --> 00:32:33.039
<v Speaker 2>I got a text when I was still inside the

507
00:32:33.079 --> 00:32:35.839
<v Speaker 2>building that said, oh my god, did you just get

508
00:32:35.839 --> 00:32:37.920
<v Speaker 2>carried out of the Lawlor town Hall.

509
00:32:38.359 --> 00:32:38.720
<v Speaker 3>Wow.

510
00:32:39.160 --> 00:32:42.079
<v Speaker 2>So that's when I sort of knew people are going

511
00:32:42.160 --> 00:32:47.759
<v Speaker 2>to know about this. I knew that it would get press,

512
00:32:48.400 --> 00:32:53.039
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know how much. And while I am mostly retired,

513
00:32:53.079 --> 00:32:57.440
<v Speaker 2>I do maintain a small private psychotherapy practice. So my

514
00:32:57.559 --> 00:33:05.839
<v Speaker 2>immediate concern was for my patients, because you know, therapists

515
00:33:05.839 --> 00:33:09.559
<v Speaker 2>should have some anonymity. It's not about us, it's about

516
00:33:09.599 --> 00:33:13.680
<v Speaker 2>the people we're trying to help, and our personalities and

517
00:33:13.720 --> 00:33:17.960
<v Speaker 2>our political beliefs certainly are not the focus of treatment, right,

518
00:33:18.319 --> 00:33:22.759
<v Speaker 2>So I was concerned about how this would impact them.

519
00:33:23.359 --> 00:33:27.359
<v Speaker 2>I woke up Monday morning to a text from one

520
00:33:27.359 --> 00:33:32.920
<v Speaker 2>of my patients with my picture saying is this you?

521
00:33:34.880 --> 00:33:35.279
<v Speaker 1>Wow?

522
00:33:35.599 --> 00:33:41.359
<v Speaker 2>So I responded with yes thoughts with a question mark,

523
00:33:42.480 --> 00:33:44.680
<v Speaker 2>and the response came back pretty quickly. I am so

524
00:33:44.880 --> 00:33:49.359
<v Speaker 2>proud you are my therapist. The next patient I saw

525
00:33:49.599 --> 00:33:53.880
<v Speaker 2>was on Tuesday morning, and I do my work, you know,

526
00:33:53.920 --> 00:34:00.200
<v Speaker 2>through telehealth, and so it's on video and when and

527
00:34:00.240 --> 00:34:05.559
<v Speaker 2>the next patient came into my room, he said, oh,

528
00:34:05.640 --> 00:34:09.480
<v Speaker 2>you made bail, so I knew he was okay, and

529
00:34:09.519 --> 00:34:12.239
<v Speaker 2>that sort of I don't have many patients, it's really

530
00:34:12.360 --> 00:34:16.440
<v Speaker 2>part time. So that sort of repeated itself over the week.

531
00:34:16.880 --> 00:34:18.679
<v Speaker 2>A couple of people hadn't seen it at all. I

532
00:34:18.719 --> 00:34:20.840
<v Speaker 2>didn't mention it. I mean I assume they didn't see it.

533
00:34:20.880 --> 00:34:23.960
<v Speaker 2>They didn't mention it. I didn't mention it. So I

534
00:34:24.039 --> 00:34:28.360
<v Speaker 2>was somewhat relieved about that, but then the call started

535
00:34:28.400 --> 00:34:33.559
<v Speaker 2>coming and you know, I have no media like experience.

536
00:34:34.320 --> 00:34:36.199
<v Speaker 2>I don't know how to do all this, and that

537
00:34:36.440 --> 00:34:44.880
<v Speaker 2>was really weird. And then the Facebook posts, the Blue Sky, Twitter,

538
00:34:45.039 --> 00:34:47.199
<v Speaker 2>the Instagram.

539
00:34:46.920 --> 00:34:50.320
<v Speaker 1>Overwhelming overwhelming low of information.

540
00:34:50.559 --> 00:34:53.440
<v Speaker 2>Wow, and people can find you, you know, like it's

541
00:34:53.480 --> 00:34:57.320
<v Speaker 2>not hard. People were calling me on my cell phone.

542
00:34:59.320 --> 00:35:02.840
<v Speaker 2>It was crazy, but I've met some wonderful people, like

543
00:35:03.440 --> 00:35:05.760
<v Speaker 2>one of the people who called me was the Yippie

544
00:35:05.840 --> 00:35:09.400
<v Speaker 2>pie thrower, the guy who like pied William F. Buckley

545
00:35:09.440 --> 00:35:10.480
<v Speaker 2>and Anita Bryant.

546
00:35:10.880 --> 00:35:17.559
<v Speaker 1>Wow. Wow, well no, could you? Would you say overall

547
00:35:17.599 --> 00:35:21.159
<v Speaker 1>the feedback has been positive or negative? Can you is

548
00:35:21.199 --> 00:35:25.840
<v Speaker 1>there a percentage? Could you say? Seventy percent positive? Mostly positive?

549
00:35:26.280 --> 00:35:27.599
<v Speaker 1>What do you think.

550
00:35:29.039 --> 00:35:32.440
<v Speaker 2>So you have to seek out I would have to

551
00:35:32.519 --> 00:35:35.599
<v Speaker 2>seek out the negative, I think, you know. So my

552
00:35:36.639 --> 00:35:40.880
<v Speaker 2>direct messages through these platforms have almost uniformly been good.

553
00:35:40.920 --> 00:35:45.800
<v Speaker 2>There was one person who wrote, LOL, You're an a hole. Okay,

554
00:35:45.960 --> 00:35:50.559
<v Speaker 2>that's fine, and I haven't gotten any other messages like

555
00:35:50.599 --> 00:35:57.199
<v Speaker 2>that directly to me. My friends have sometimes sent me

556
00:35:57.360 --> 00:36:01.440
<v Speaker 2>links to things that people have said online that are

557
00:36:01.519 --> 00:36:06.679
<v Speaker 2>really critical, and on Blue Sky they've been very critical

558
00:36:06.719 --> 00:36:08.800
<v Speaker 2>of me because they found some of my old posts,

559
00:36:09.280 --> 00:36:12.440
<v Speaker 2>one of which was that I didn't vote for Kamala

560
00:36:12.480 --> 00:36:15.400
<v Speaker 2>Harris in New York State. I wrote in Hindra jab

561
00:36:16.079 --> 00:36:20.360
<v Speaker 2>for president because I knew I lived in a safe

562
00:36:20.360 --> 00:36:23.039
<v Speaker 2>blue state and I could do that. And so I'm

563
00:36:23.079 --> 00:36:28.840
<v Speaker 2>excotiated there as a racist and having voted, you know,

564
00:36:30.320 --> 00:36:38.119
<v Speaker 2>to advance my ego or something. That's interesting. But somebody

565
00:36:38.199 --> 00:36:42.360
<v Speaker 2>sent me a post to a Rockland County page where

566
00:36:42.400 --> 00:36:46.800
<v Speaker 2>people were being very critical of me, and somebody said,

567
00:36:46.840 --> 00:36:49.440
<v Speaker 2>you don't know her. I do, She's a good person

568
00:36:49.559 --> 00:36:52.559
<v Speaker 2>or whatever. And then somebody who I had known since childhood,

569
00:36:52.599 --> 00:36:56.840
<v Speaker 2>who I knew I did not share political views with,

570
00:36:56.960 --> 00:36:58.880
<v Speaker 2>but who I shared a friendship with and had a

571
00:36:58.880 --> 00:37:03.360
<v Speaker 2>connection with around some similar hardships we had both had

572
00:37:03.599 --> 00:37:08.239
<v Speaker 2>as younger people. And that person said, I've known her

573
00:37:08.239 --> 00:37:11.159
<v Speaker 2>for a long time. She's really problematic. Her father was

574
00:37:11.199 --> 00:37:13.559
<v Speaker 2>not a good person, you know, sort of that kind

575
00:37:13.639 --> 00:37:17.760
<v Speaker 2>of thing. And I was really shocked that, you know,

576
00:37:17.800 --> 00:37:20.239
<v Speaker 2>I never would have done that to her. And I

577
00:37:20.280 --> 00:37:22.840
<v Speaker 2>was shocked as somebody who I considered, again not an

578
00:37:22.880 --> 00:37:26.840
<v Speaker 2>ally politically, but certainly a friend with a long, deep history,

579
00:37:27.159 --> 00:37:30.880
<v Speaker 2>who not good friends, but always interested in how we

580
00:37:30.960 --> 00:37:33.719
<v Speaker 2>were doing, always pleasant to one another when we saw

581
00:37:33.760 --> 00:37:37.760
<v Speaker 2>each other. For someone like that to do that, I realized, Wow,

582
00:37:37.840 --> 00:37:41.960
<v Speaker 2>that's that really says something about our culture and our

583
00:37:42.000 --> 00:37:45.119
<v Speaker 2>society and where we're at now and how we disagree.

584
00:37:45.880 --> 00:37:48.960
<v Speaker 2>And it made me reflect on how I disagree with people,

585
00:37:49.679 --> 00:37:51.760
<v Speaker 2>and I don't ever want to do that to someone,

586
00:37:51.800 --> 00:37:53.719
<v Speaker 2>So I'm going to be really careful in the future.

587
00:37:54.199 --> 00:37:55.960
<v Speaker 1>Interesting, I want to talk about that in a little

588
00:37:56.000 --> 00:37:58.880
<v Speaker 1>bit more detail too, But you mentioned social media and

589
00:37:58.920 --> 00:38:00.920
<v Speaker 1>some of the postings, and I or a local post

590
00:38:01.400 --> 00:38:05.760
<v Speaker 1>from a local citizen too that was a cartoon of

591
00:38:05.800 --> 00:38:08.239
<v Speaker 1>you being carried and the people in the background were

592
00:38:08.239 --> 00:38:12.639
<v Speaker 1>wearing T shirts that said hate on them. Obviously, cartooning

593
00:38:12.719 --> 00:38:16.599
<v Speaker 1>is to be and to push the envelope, but when

594
00:38:16.639 --> 00:38:18.599
<v Speaker 1>you see something like that, how do you respond.

595
00:38:21.760 --> 00:38:30.679
<v Speaker 2>Well, that particular cartoon was so over the top outrageous, Like,

596
00:38:30.800 --> 00:38:34.880
<v Speaker 2>you know, they have this picture carrying me out, they

597
00:38:34.920 --> 00:38:38.480
<v Speaker 2>age me quite a bit, and they put a crown

598
00:38:38.719 --> 00:38:46.280
<v Speaker 2>of thorns around my head. You know. Really, that to

599
00:38:46.320 --> 00:38:49.000
<v Speaker 2>me was so hyperbolic, And of course the hate lawler

600
00:38:49.480 --> 00:38:53.039
<v Speaker 2>T shirts were hyperbolic. I don't think that the crowd

601
00:38:53.159 --> 00:38:57.679
<v Speaker 2>came there because of some visceral hate for Lawler. I

602
00:38:57.719 --> 00:39:02.239
<v Speaker 2>think the crowd came there because they wanted to implore

603
00:39:02.360 --> 00:39:07.480
<v Speaker 2>him to do his job to protect them from from

604
00:39:07.639 --> 00:39:13.679
<v Speaker 2>Musk and Trump and all the harm they're doing to

605
00:39:13.880 --> 00:39:18.199
<v Speaker 2>our country. And you know, it was really reductive and

606
00:39:18.239 --> 00:39:23.280
<v Speaker 2>it was clearly meant to incite. And I think that's

607
00:39:23.400 --> 00:39:26.719
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's a playbook from Trump at all, and

608
00:39:26.760 --> 00:39:28.039
<v Speaker 2>they've all learned it really well.

609
00:39:30.079 --> 00:39:33.920
<v Speaker 1>How can we make this a so called positive i e.

610
00:39:34.039 --> 00:39:39.800
<v Speaker 1>Learning experience? What positive can we ultimately take out of

611
00:39:39.840 --> 00:39:40.360
<v Speaker 1>this action?

612
00:39:43.840 --> 00:39:50.320
<v Speaker 2>I think I think the most important thing that people

613
00:39:50.400 --> 00:39:54.880
<v Speaker 2>got from this was that even normal, everyday people who

614
00:39:54.920 --> 00:39:57.880
<v Speaker 2>have no power. I have no power, I have no platform,

615
00:39:58.960 --> 00:40:02.000
<v Speaker 2>can make a difference if you stand up. You know,

616
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<v Speaker 2>I've gotten so many messages that said, you know, thank

617
00:40:05.079 --> 00:40:07.280
<v Speaker 2>you for what you did, and now I realized that

618
00:40:07.320 --> 00:40:12.280
<v Speaker 2>I could be doing more. I am. Probably the best

619
00:40:12.320 --> 00:40:16.000
<v Speaker 2>experience after this was yesterday I showed up to work

620
00:40:16.079 --> 00:40:18.920
<v Speaker 2>my shift at sup Angels, the local soup kitchen and

621
00:40:19.039 --> 00:40:20.159
<v Speaker 2>Nayak and.

622
00:40:20.119 --> 00:40:22.679
<v Speaker 1>They, I'm a terrible person. Now you're even volunteering to

623
00:40:22.679 --> 00:40:24.159
<v Speaker 1>feed hungry people. How awful?

624
00:40:24.760 --> 00:40:30.039
<v Speaker 2>I know. I'm the worst, just the worst. So there

625
00:40:30.360 --> 00:40:32.199
<v Speaker 2>I walk in and this woman comes up to me

626
00:40:32.199 --> 00:40:34.159
<v Speaker 2>who I do not know. I've never seen there before,

627
00:40:34.199 --> 00:40:37.119
<v Speaker 2>seen her there before, because you know, the volunteers changed

628
00:40:37.119 --> 00:40:40.760
<v Speaker 2>depending on the day and availability and stuff. And she goes,

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<v Speaker 2>are you the woman who you know? And I said, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I am, and she said thank you very much. And

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<v Speaker 2>then this younger woman came up who looked like she

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<v Speaker 2>was probably in high school to me, and the first

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<v Speaker 2>woman says to me, this is my daughter. And she

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<v Speaker 2>saw you too, and she recognized you when you came in.

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<v Speaker 2>And this young woman, I think she must have been

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<v Speaker 2>like sixteen, seventeen eighteen, I don't know how old she was,

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<v Speaker 2>she said thank you. You really were an inspiration to me.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, well, you know, my work here

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<v Speaker 2>is done. That to me was the best response I

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<v Speaker 2>had gotten, that this young woman could gain inspiration from

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<v Speaker 2>my act.

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<v Speaker 1>Has it changed your life? And if so, this event

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<v Speaker 1>house up you hinted at it just now with your

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<v Speaker 1>new empathy, a new found empathy. Expand on that a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. How has it changed your life?

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<v Speaker 2>It reminded me of community. I would say, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I have lived in Nyak most of my life and

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<v Speaker 2>Nike's a really small community in Rockland County is really small.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody knows everybody. I've been around a long time. There

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<v Speaker 2>are times I think that I get frustrated with and

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<v Speaker 2>sort of you know, I'm just over it, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I often say about when people say how wonderful it is, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I've been too long at the fair, you know, I've

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<v Speaker 2>just seen so much. My mother owned a business here

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<v Speaker 2>for fifty years, you know. But it was great that

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<v Speaker 2>my community had my back, including people who I had

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<v Speaker 2>been sort of at onced with, you know, Indivisible Rockland.

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<v Speaker 2>They certainly did me there, but once I went there

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<v Speaker 2>and did that, they had my back. They were really supportive.

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<v Speaker 2>So we can disagree on some things, but we all

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<v Speaker 2>know that we have to stand together against this kind

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<v Speaker 2>of tyranny. And we all know that it's not okay

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<v Speaker 2>to have our fellow community members dragged out of a

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<v Speaker 2>town hall for asking questions of their elected officials. And

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<v Speaker 2>I really appreciate my community. It's always sort of interesting

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<v Speaker 2>to me how time brings around a reminder that you

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<v Speaker 2>know what, this is your community, and they're pretty awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>So that was good. It also made me think about

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<v Speaker 2>how I have responded to people I don't really know,

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<v Speaker 2>and how I've made assumptions about them and who they

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<v Speaker 2>are and what they believe. And you know, I know

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<v Speaker 2>that everybody has a story and you can always find

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<v Speaker 2>a path to empathy for anybody, and I need to

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<v Speaker 2>be more open to that, and I'm going to work

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<v Speaker 2>on that because that's certainly what I wished people had

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<v Speaker 2>held for me, more space to know who I was

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<v Speaker 2>and what motivated me.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, this has been fascinating, Emily find it. Really we

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<v Speaker 1>had a little bit more to go. Were going to

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<v Speaker 1>take a quick break. I'm sure what he is enjoying it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a little bit more to go. So I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want anybody to go anywhere just yet. This is Being

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<v Speaker 1>We're back with more right after these brief commercial messages.

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<v Speaker 1>the icon, click and you're there. Right back to our

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<v Speaker 1>conversation with Emily Finer. I've been calling her the new

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<v Speaker 1>voice of for Nack's First Amendment rights, and we've had

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<v Speaker 1>a wonderful conversation. I want to continue it, Emily, and

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<v Speaker 1>you've mentioned some of it going up to this point,

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<v Speaker 1>But what are your most serious concerns going forward?

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<v Speaker 2>Democracy? I mean, I truly believe American democracy is gone

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<v Speaker 2>at this point. I mean, I wonder can we put

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<v Speaker 2>Humpty Dumpty back together again? Even if we were able

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<v Speaker 2>to end this unconstitutional mess we're in. I worry about

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<v Speaker 2>the future of this. I worry about my children living

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<v Speaker 2>under a totalitarian dictatorship, an anti democratic regime, and what

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<v Speaker 2>will happen to them, and what will happen to the

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<v Speaker 2>world when when the United States is no longer the

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<v Speaker 2>leading power proposing a sort of ideal of liberal democracy.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, we we've never lived up to our promise,

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<v Speaker 2>but we've always tried to evolve in that direction, and

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<v Speaker 2>now we are no longer evolving in that direction. Now

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<v Speaker 2>we've got an administration that believes in the unitary executive,

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<v Speaker 2>and we've got a Congress that is unwilling to check that,

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<v Speaker 2>even though that is a you know, a made up

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<v Speaker 2>legal doctrine by the Heritage Foundation lawyers who made it

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<v Speaker 2>up so they could they could impose their will on America.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm frightened of Christian nationalism, and certainly my congressman has

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<v Speaker 2>adopted many of the tactics of Christian nationalism, including, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>hijacking my identity as a Jewish woman, so that he

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<v Speaker 2>talks a great game about anti Semitism, but in so

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<v Speaker 2>doing exposes his own anti semitism as he sort of

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<v Speaker 2>just makes Jews into one indistinguishable mound of people who

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<v Speaker 2>all believe the same thing. We are not. We are

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<v Speaker 2>a diverse people and there are you know, in the

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<v Speaker 2>diaspora in America. You know, there are many Jews like

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<v Speaker 2>myself who are unhappy be with what Israel is doing,

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<v Speaker 2>who don't support Israel, who are crying out for peace

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<v Speaker 2>in Gaza, in the West Bank and Palestinian liberation. And

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<v Speaker 2>mister Lawler wants to make it illegal for people to

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<v Speaker 2>do that. That to me is incredibly anti Semitic. And

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's really important that people be allowed to

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<v Speaker 2>advocate for peace of all things, without being accused of

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<v Speaker 2>being a terrorist or supporting terrorists.

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<v Speaker 1>Emily, and we've discussed it during the break too. You

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<v Speaker 1>know how natural conversation can flow when you have respect

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<v Speaker 1>for one another in each other's opinions. Ours tend to

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<v Speaker 1>be like minded. One of the criticisms I get is

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<v Speaker 1>most of my guests tend to be like minded. That

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<v Speaker 1>is what it is. I'm willing to have an open

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<v Speaker 1>conversation with anyone who's will to have it. But how

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<v Speaker 1>do we get to it. We've becoming more fractured by

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<v Speaker 1>the day, not less. How will we overcome that you

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<v Speaker 1>have any thoughts. I know it's cut maybe a rhetorical question,

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<v Speaker 1>but what are your thoughts on that? How can it

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<v Speaker 1>be done?

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<v Speaker 2>You know there are people who are doing this. I

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<v Speaker 2>can't remember the name of the organization, but here in Rockland,

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<v Speaker 2>I know that. I think it's Allan Stein and Hutter

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<v Speaker 2>Humr I think is his last name. They've been going

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<v Speaker 2>around as a Palestinian and a Jew talking about how

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<v Speaker 2>we talk to one another. I think, you know, there

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<v Speaker 2>are The New York Times has that thing they do

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<v Speaker 2>where they have all their columnists of different points of

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<v Speaker 2>view addressing one thing and talking to one another. So

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<v Speaker 2>people are modeling how to disagree without being disagreeable. I

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<v Speaker 2>guess I think tensions and passions are so high right

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<v Speaker 2>now that's really hard. But I also think it's a

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<v Speaker 2>lot easier to be respectful to someone when they're right

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<v Speaker 2>in front of you and you're talking to them and

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<v Speaker 2>you're looking in their eyes. I think that when you're

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<v Speaker 2>doing this over social media, it is much easier to

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<v Speaker 2>be really rude and say terrible things to people. And

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<v Speaker 2>you know, somebody said, you know, never say anything on

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<v Speaker 2>social media you wouldn't say to someone's face. And I

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<v Speaker 2>think that's probably a pretty good rule. You know, if

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<v Speaker 2>you wouldn't say it to my face, don't say it

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<v Speaker 2>on social media either.

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<v Speaker 1>Fair enough? Yeah, what is the future for Emily fire Hoole?

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<v Speaker 1>What does it look like for you? Now that's your

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<v Speaker 1>media celebrity. You've been on being Frank. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>what else is there?

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<v Speaker 2>I've reached the pinnacle.

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<v Speaker 1>Honest question. What does your future look like? What do

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<v Speaker 1>you plan on doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Certainly, you know, I plan on continuing to work for

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<v Speaker 2>the country that I want to be in. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I will continue to organize, I will continue to show up,

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<v Speaker 2>I will continue to speak out. I will fade back

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<v Speaker 2>into obscurity and no longer will my phone ring and

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<v Speaker 2>ring and ring, and I'll be able to enjoy my

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<v Speaker 2>family and maybe travel a little and continue my work

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<v Speaker 2>with my patients. I don't think that this will I

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<v Speaker 2>think this will be something I'll look back on fondly,

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<v Speaker 2>and I hope my kids will look back on it fondly,

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<v Speaker 2>and I will just be here to be a part

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<v Speaker 2>of the movement that shuts down fascism in America.

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<v Speaker 1>And we find we want to thank you for being Frank.

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<v Speaker 1>Right here with your intelligent conversation. Really appreciate it. This

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<v Speaker 1>was great. I can't wait to hear the whole thing again.

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<v Speaker 1>This is great.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much, thank you, it was a pleasure.

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<v Speaker 2>And thank you Neil.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course you are for special thanks to our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>who take time to go so voice in their lives.

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<v Speaker 1>Catch us wherever and whenever you get your favorite podcasts

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<v Speaker 1>always give you two last little treats at the end,

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<v Speaker 1>the slogan that we think is appropriate, and some good

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<v Speaker 1>local music from some great local musicians. First, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>we've got to go. We talked about making good trouble,

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<v Speaker 1>so we got to go to John Lewis and he said,

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<v Speaker 1>do not get lost in the sea of despair. Be hopeful,

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<v Speaker 1>be optimistic. Our struggles not the struggle of a day,

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<v Speaker 1>a week, a month, or a year. It's the struggle

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<v Speaker 1>of a lifetime. Never ever be afraid to make some

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<v Speaker 1>noise and get in good trouble. Necessary trouble I think

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<v Speaker 1>Emily Finder understands that word for word. Okay, here's some

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<v Speaker 1>closing music. It's from the Scoop. They're absolutely terrific and

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<v Speaker 1>very appropriate music called raise your hands for Engineer and

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<v Speaker 1>Neil Rictor. I'm your host, Frank Lopono. We hope to

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<v Speaker 1>have you join us on the next being. Frank, We're

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<v Speaker 1>the only way to be is Frank.

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<v Speaker 4>Thanks everybody, and tell you why.

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<v Speaker 3>J sz be can GESSI.

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<v Speaker 2>Raise your handsle.

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<v Speaker 3>Praise your handso raise, y'all said, yeah me raiseel said

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<v Speaker 3>the strain may where is day? And don't speaker? Let

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<v Speaker 3>me when they come. Rachel ansle, ratel ansle RASI raid yalla,

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<v Speaker 3>raise hand, raise j'allad mais y'all handle?

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