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<v Speaker 1>Hi, there, just to say This is a short snippet

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<v Speaker 1>from this week's main episode, which was published on Wednesday.

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<v Speaker 1>As always, if you want the full episode, you can

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<v Speaker 1>find it just below this one. I want to mention

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<v Speaker 1>something about the transition into post conventional just before we

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<v Speaker 1>talk about what post conventional levels look like. Specifically, the

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<v Speaker 1>transition can be very destabilizing because listen, we've got pre

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<v Speaker 1>conventional levels, we've got conventional levels, and we've got post

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<v Speaker 1>conventional levels. So when you're moving into post conventional, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not just that you're changing a stage. You're not just

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<v Speaker 1>moving out of orange rational, a level that we spoke

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<v Speaker 1>about in detail last week. It's not just that you're

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<v Speaker 1>moving out of orange rational. It's that you're actually moving

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<v Speaker 1>out of the conventional metal level of development. And that

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<v Speaker 1>sounds very abstract, but what does it mean it The

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<v Speaker 1>person you are becoming is not a person that is

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<v Speaker 1>supported by your the're conventional surroundings, like your family probably

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<v Speaker 1>won't understand what's happening to you. You're if you've got

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<v Speaker 1>conventional friends, they probably won't understand what's happening to you.

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<v Speaker 1>If you've got conventional colleagues, they won't really understand what's

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<v Speaker 1>happening to you so you can It can be very destabilizing.

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<v Speaker 1>You might even you might, like in severe cases, start

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<v Speaker 1>think that you're going crazy because what happens for a

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<v Speaker 1>while is it's there's a big uprooting of orange rational,

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<v Speaker 1>So you're you're sort of getting stripped of all your

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<v Speaker 1>orange rational stuff or rational achiever we should call it.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you're kind of left. You're you've been stripped,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you're slowly getting installed with post conventional world views, motivations, values,

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<v Speaker 1>and so on. And during that phase of stripping and installing,

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<v Speaker 1>there's not it's not stable yet, so you're not really

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<v Speaker 1>you're not stably at conventional or post conventional. You're short

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<v Speaker 1>of in the limbo. And so it's sort of a

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<v Speaker 1>time where if if you yourself are doubtful about what's

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<v Speaker 1>happening and you're looking for others to help you understand

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<v Speaker 1>what is happening, chances are they're not going to get

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<v Speaker 1>you right. So it can be pretty lonely. It can

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<v Speaker 1>be confusing, it can feel like you've kind of your

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<v Speaker 1>life is like it's taking a turn for the worst. Now, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no there's no guarantee that it will be like

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<v Speaker 1>this for you. Maybe you suddenly move into an environment

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<v Speaker 1>where everyone is post conventional and it's like join the party. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>in that case, be destabilizing, probably, but it might be

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<v Speaker 1>a lot easier than it would be for someone else.

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<v Speaker 1>But just know that these these transitions can be very destabilizing,

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<v Speaker 1>and not to over idealize them, because I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>people do over idealize them. It's like, Oh, I'm moving

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<v Speaker 1>into post conventional. That must be so great and so

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<v Speaker 1>expansive and all of this, But no, what you're actually

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<v Speaker 1>losing your mind in a way and you're gaining a

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<v Speaker 1>new mind. Is like that is literally kind of what's

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<v Speaker 1>happening to you. Hi, there, just to say. This is

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<v Speaker 1>a short snippet from this week's main episode, which was

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<v Speaker 1>published on Wednesday. As always, if you want the full episode,

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<v Speaker 1>you can find it just below this one.