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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to Home with Dean Sharp on demand from

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<v Speaker 1>KFI AM six forty, PMFI AM six.

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<v Speaker 2>Forty and live everywhere on the iHeart Radio app. Welcome

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<v Speaker 2>to Home, where every week we help you better understand

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<v Speaker 2>that place where you live. I'm Dean Sharp, the house whisperers,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're talking fences and walls and hedges today. We're

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<v Speaker 2>going to get back to that in just a bit.

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<v Speaker 2>But right now, top of the hour, we're still taking calls.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's talk to Gloria. Hey, Gloria, welcome home.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a wooden fence on slope that needs to

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<v Speaker 3>be replaced. My neighbor would like to replace it with

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<v Speaker 3>a block wall with stuckle on it. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>She has it on the other side and she has

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<v Speaker 3>it on top. But when I look at the friends

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<v Speaker 3>at the top my wood fence or our wood fence,

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<v Speaker 3>the stucco is peeling off of her block wall on top.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm not convinced that's the way I want to go.

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<v Speaker 3>I know it's going to cost more.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, it's going to cost more. It's going to

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<v Speaker 2>cost a lot more. This is one of those areas

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<v Speaker 2>where having a conversation with your neighbor can get tricky

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<v Speaker 2>because of sharing this one thing, right, I think you

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<v Speaker 2>just have to be honest with her and say, listen,

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<v Speaker 2>I get it. I understand it matches all of your

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<v Speaker 2>other stuff. I'm not opposed to the block wall. If

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<v Speaker 2>that's something that you want to pay for, I would

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<v Speaker 2>be willing to, you know, chip in my half of

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<v Speaker 2>the wood fence cost towards your block wall. But honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not on my budget to do that, so you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I wouldn't I wouldn't judge. I wouldn't personally,

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't approach her and say, look, your block wall's

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<v Speaker 2>peeling stucco, and I would just just the straight numbers.

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<v Speaker 2>People can't argue with the fact that, you know, if

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<v Speaker 2>you're not in a position to afford the fancier thing,

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<v Speaker 2>everybody's got to understand that. And it is Gloria going

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<v Speaker 2>to be way, way more expensive. Not only is a

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<v Speaker 2>block wall more expensive to build than a fence on

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<v Speaker 2>a flat ground, but it is considerably more expensive to

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<v Speaker 2>build a block wall down a sloped backyard because a

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<v Speaker 2>block wall, unlike a fence, actually doesn't go at an

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<v Speaker 2>angle down a slope. A block wall still, all the

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<v Speaker 2>blocks have to be horizontally set, which means that the

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<v Speaker 2>footing for that block wall has to be set at angles.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean not at angles, but to set as a

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<v Speaker 2>stepped footing down the wall. And a lot of the

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<v Speaker 2>block that goes into that block wall is therefore going

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<v Speaker 2>to be hidden underneath the soil, so it has to

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<v Speaker 2>be dug deeper. I mean, it's just a whole thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not against them at all. Sometimes I've designed one

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<v Speaker 2>into a property because it's exactly the thing that I

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<v Speaker 2>want to see there at that point. But yeah, it's expensive,

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<v Speaker 2>and so I'm all for fences where fences will get

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<v Speaker 2>the job done, because why spend the extra money? What?

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<v Speaker 2>What do we need the block wall for? What are

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<v Speaker 2>we protecting ourselves from? Okay, so there you go, Gloria,

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<v Speaker 2>great question. Hope that helped. I wouldn't, you know, don't

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<v Speaker 2>don't critique somebody else's block wall like it's failing. I

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<v Speaker 2>would just tell them, you know, the simple fact is,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I don't have a budget for it, and

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<v Speaker 2>so I'll give you what I can on the wood

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<v Speaker 2>fence there, but you know, leave the rest of it there. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>does that sound good? Thank you, great question. Great call.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me squeeze one more in here. Let's talk to Arthur. Hey, Arthur, welcome.

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<v Speaker 4>Home, Aban. I've got a problem with a kitchen sink.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a a Bonty brand installed under granted, and even

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<v Speaker 4>though the countertop is completely level, the sink slops away

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<v Speaker 4>from the drain, so no custom size. I can't find

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<v Speaker 4>seventeen by thirty.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So the sink is sloping away from the drain.

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<v Speaker 2>So I mean, is the sink delaminating from the bottom

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<v Speaker 2>of the granite countertop? Is that the problem? Or is

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<v Speaker 2>it always been this way? Or is it is it

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<v Speaker 2>just starting to fail? In other words, for some reason,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, if this is an undermount sink, are the

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<v Speaker 2>clamps or whatever is supporting this sink in the countertop

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<v Speaker 2>failing and is that the problem? Or is there just

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<v Speaker 2>something weird about the sink.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's installed correctly, everything's level, it's a sink itself,

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<v Speaker 4>and Bonky is China. I can't even get a hold

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<v Speaker 4>of anybody, and I was able to find another brand

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<v Speaker 4>new one at the same supplier, but it was the

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<v Speaker 4>same thing. So unless I can there's some way to

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<v Speaker 4>re to you know, remake that bottom to make it

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<v Speaker 4>slope in. I have to replace it, and I can't

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<v Speaker 4>find a step seventeen by thirty sink ready to go

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<v Speaker 4>at So one a few es years ago you had

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<v Speaker 4>you were talking about sinks. It's a one big, nice

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<v Speaker 4>one piece sc.

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<v Speaker 2>Right right right, okay, all right, well yeah, okay. So

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<v Speaker 2>here is where we utilize the resources of the Internet

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<v Speaker 2>and a couple of specialists along the way, and I'll

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<v Speaker 2>give you one quick piece of advice here. So number one,

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<v Speaker 2>I would research the heck out of it. Maybe you

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<v Speaker 2>already have, but I would research the heck out of

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<v Speaker 2>this proportion of sinc across the interweb and see if

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<v Speaker 2>you can get anything that's even close. Now, unlike the

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<v Speaker 2>Showcase Showdown with Bob Barker that everybody's talking about today,

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<v Speaker 2>here's the situation with an undermount sink where you can

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<v Speaker 2>actually afford to go slightly over and be a winner. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>as long as we can get a new underneath inside

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<v Speaker 2>your cabinet. Okay, since it's an under mount sink, and

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<v Speaker 2>since the edge of your granite countertop is really forming

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<v Speaker 2>that edge, we could actually put in if we need

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<v Speaker 2>to a slightly slightly not ridiculously, but slightly larger sink.

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<v Speaker 2>And all it means is that the granite countertop hangs

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<v Speaker 2>over it just a smidge more. Okay, So you might

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<v Speaker 2>be able to fit an eighteen by thirty sink in

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<v Speaker 2>there without a problem and just accept the fact that

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<v Speaker 2>the granite's going to overhang it a little bit further

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<v Speaker 2>and that may open up your sink choices quite a bit.

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<v Speaker 2>So Number one, I would research this sink size thoroughly.

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<v Speaker 2>Number two I would see if just a smidge a

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<v Speaker 2>deeper eighteen by thirty sink would work. And then third

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<v Speaker 2>uh is call your local fixture warehouses, whether it's a

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<v Speaker 2>WDC in your area. If you're down in where you're

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<v Speaker 2>at in Coasta, Mesa, oh, you could go down to

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<v Speaker 2>the Collection and Coast to make and talk to the

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<v Speaker 2>guys at Perch and see if they are aware of

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<v Speaker 2>anything that will get you fit in that situation. But

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<v Speaker 2>my guess is that there is a solution to this

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<v Speaker 2>without tearing out that ground at countertop that will end

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<v Speaker 2>up working even if it's a slightly oversized sink than

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<v Speaker 2>the one that you've got, So think about that. Because

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<v Speaker 2>it's a single basin, So we might be able to

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<v Speaker 2>find an eighteen by thirty and get that thing creatively

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<v Speaker 2>to work. It may just take a little bit more creativity, Arthur,

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for your call. Great question. All right, when

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<v Speaker 2>we return more of your calls your home with Dean Sharp,

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<v Speaker 2>the house Whisper, Cafi, Dean Sharp, the House Whisper, at

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<v Speaker 2>your service. Thanks for joining us on the program. Here

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<v Speaker 2>we are talking fences, walls, and hedges today, and now

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<v Speaker 2>is time to switch the conversation over from fences to walls.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna talk walls a little bit. Hedges a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit doesn't need as much attention as the others. First

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<v Speaker 2>of all, what I just mentioned I just use two

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<v Speaker 2>names for walls, garden wall and retaining wall. What is

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<v Speaker 2>the most important thing you need to understand between these two?

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<v Speaker 2>They are different. They are different in one particular way.

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<v Speaker 2>A retaining wall is in fact holding back soil on

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<v Speaker 2>one side of it. Okay, it is retaining soil a

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<v Speaker 2>surcharge of earth against it. So a lot of you

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<v Speaker 2>have at times mentioned to me like, oh, well, I've

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<v Speaker 2>got a retaining wall in between my property and my neighbor,

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<v Speaker 2>and you just you're used to using that phrase when

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<v Speaker 2>you see a block wall. Okay, not all block walls

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<v Speaker 2>are retaining walls. In fact, most block walls are not

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<v Speaker 2>retaining walls. They are simply block walls. They could just

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<v Speaker 2>as easily be a fence. There's no pressure up against

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<v Speaker 2>either one side. The ground on both sides is roughly,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, within a foot or so of the same

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<v Speaker 2>height or elevation. That is not a retaining wall. That's

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<v Speaker 2>a garden wall. And even though it's made out of blocks,

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<v Speaker 2>and those blocks are hollow, they are not filled with

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<v Speaker 2>cement all the way to the top because they don't

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<v Speaker 2>need to be. They don't have full mortar or grout

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<v Speaker 2>fill inside or steal inside. In most cases, they're just

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<v Speaker 2>hollow block walls, which is why a lot of them

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<v Speaker 2>you've noticed in your yard. You can walk out of

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<v Speaker 2>two and give them a good shake, and sometimes the

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<v Speaker 2>blocks shift out of place or they crack. And if

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<v Speaker 2>it was a retaining wall, I guarantee you if it

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<v Speaker 2>was just a fully grouded, fully steeled block wall, that

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<v Speaker 2>would not be happening in that same way. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 2>a garden wall that's what we use to describe any

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<v Speaker 2>kind of a wall, masonry wall that is just sticking

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<v Speaker 2>up in your garden for the purpose of privacy or

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<v Speaker 2>dividing the property line, or anything else that you're using

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<v Speaker 2>in your garden. Now, a retaining wall, as I said,

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<v Speaker 2>holding back soil. Two kinds of retaining wall. Engineered and

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<v Speaker 2>non engineered. Okay. The difference is massive, and the difference

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<v Speaker 2>in cost is massive. Under the International Building Code and

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<v Speaker 2>State of California. It holds true here as well. You

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<v Speaker 2>can have a wall that is retaining up to three

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<v Speaker 2>feet thirty six inches of soil okay, without having to

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<v Speaker 2>have it engineered or having a permit for that wall. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>You're allowed to hold back up to thirty six inches

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<v Speaker 2>of soil on the backside of that wall. That still

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<v Speaker 2>should be a strong wall, shouldn't be a hollow wall.

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<v Speaker 2>But you could build that wall, let's say, out of

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<v Speaker 2>the interlocking pavers that you find at the garden center

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<v Speaker 2>or at the local nursery or a big box store. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>you've seen those. They are solid concrete blocks. They're usually

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<v Speaker 2>kind of funky wedge shaped, and they've got a little

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<v Speaker 2>lip on the front and they interlock with each other.

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<v Speaker 2>And you can stack that up and you can hold

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<v Speaker 2>back up to thirty six inches of soil, and that's

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<v Speaker 2>totally allowed in almost every situation. You don't need a

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<v Speaker 2>big footing underneath it, and you don't have to have

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<v Speaker 2>an engineer design it for rollover or hydrostatic pressure or

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<v Speaker 2>anything like that. But if you're going to hold back

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<v Speaker 2>more than thirty six inches of soil, now we got

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<v Speaker 2>an engineered wall, which means we're paying an engineer to

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<v Speaker 2>figure out a footing that increases the cost. Grouting and

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<v Speaker 2>mortaring of that wall that increases the cost, and we've

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<v Speaker 2>got a permit involved and inspections and drainage and water

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<v Speaker 2>retention issues and so on. That is a retaining wall

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<v Speaker 2>holding back more than thirty six inches of soil. Another

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<v Speaker 2>kind of masonry wall is just a stack wall, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>especially when it comes to garden walls, something that a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people overlook these days, especially if you have

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<v Speaker 2>a more rustic theme in your yard, you should consider it.

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<v Speaker 2>Now talk about becoming an expert at this. It takes

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<v Speaker 2>a little practice, but that's something realistically that a homeowner

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<v Speaker 2>could actually do, which is, you know, like they do

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<v Speaker 2>in well back east On along the East coast in

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<v Speaker 2>the old colonial farms, where every single time you plow

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<v Speaker 2>your field, you're pulling up old stones. What did the

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<v Speaker 2>in between their properties. These were stacked stone walls. Came

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<v Speaker 2>from Europe the exact same way, came from the UK,

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<v Speaker 2>from Ireland the same way. If you want to take

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<v Speaker 2>just off the coast of Ireland, you will see some

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<v Speaker 2>of the most beautiful old interlocking stacked stone walls. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>it is an art form. It is also absolutely gorgeous,

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<v Speaker 2>especially if the wall in question is what I've been

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<v Speaker 2>talking about from a design perspective, and that is creating

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<v Speaker 2>an area, designating a quote unquote room in the backyard

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<v Speaker 2>or a quote hallway leading to another space. This is

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<v Speaker 2>where we really get creative with walls and fences and

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<v Speaker 2>hedges for that matter. Do you understand that destinations creating

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<v Speaker 2>destinations in the yard and a delineation of a space

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<v Speaker 2>can be something even if it's just twenty four inches tall. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>think about this. If you and I are standing ten

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<v Speaker 2>nothing in between us, then we are standing in the

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<v Speaker 2>same space, right Okay. Now, obviously, if somebody comes along

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<v Speaker 2>and builds a big eight foot wall in between us,

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<v Speaker 2>now we are not standing in the same space because

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<v Speaker 2>I can't even see you. But let's just put some

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<v Speaker 2>plant material, okay, a hedge, a hedge that's only eighteen

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<v Speaker 2>twenty four inches tall, and run it in between us. Amazingly,

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<v Speaker 2>even though I can still see you, and even though

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<v Speaker 2>you can step right over that hedge. Okay, suddenly I

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<v Speaker 2>am here and you are over there. You understand what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying. That is the value of utilizing from a

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<v Speaker 2>design perspective, a wall, a hedge, a fence in a

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<v Speaker 2>garden area, not just on the perimeter, but really dividing

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<v Speaker 2>up and using it to contour and create space in

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<v Speaker 2>your yard. All right, that's walls. Did want to spend

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<v Speaker 2>a whole lot of time on those today, per you know,

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<v Speaker 2>because we've got so many more opportunities to talk about

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<v Speaker 2>these things when we come back. Let's talk plant material

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<v Speaker 2>and the magic of plant material, especially when it comes

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<v Speaker 2>to the edges of your property. What is he talking about, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>there's a whole point when it comes to plant material

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<v Speaker 2>in the edge of your property that makes them invaluable

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<v Speaker 2>discuss that when we return Your Home with Dean Sharp

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<v Speaker 2>The House Whisper.

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to Home with Dean Sharp on demand from

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<v Speaker 2>Your Home with Dean Sharp the House Whisper. Thanks for

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<v Speaker 2>joining us on the program. Today we've been talking fences

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<v Speaker 2>and walls and hedges, and right now it's time to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about hedges a little bit. First of all, from

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<v Speaker 2>a designer perspective. Okay, I want to be very very

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<v Speaker 2>clear to you, because you know, these words get thrown

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<v Speaker 2>around and they take on a typical connotation, and I

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<v Speaker 2>am anything but a typical designer. So I want to

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<v Speaker 2>be really really clear that you understand what I mean

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<v Speaker 2>when I use a word or term like hedges. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>when I say hedges, now, I might be talking about

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<v Speaker 2>what you typically think of like a tightly pruned you know,

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<v Speaker 2>geometrically shaped Japanese box hedge or something like that. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>the small waxy green leaf all drawn up in tight

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<v Speaker 2>little rows with flat tops. You know, the kind of

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<v Speaker 2>thing that turns into a topiary at some point and

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<v Speaker 2>so on. That's definitely a hedge. Okay, the kind of

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<v Speaker 2>thing that you hedge in a maze with or something

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<v Speaker 2>like that. Definitely a hedge. But that's not the limit

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<v Speaker 2>of my definition of hedges in my book. A hedge

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<v Speaker 2>is are you ready, any low lying plant, virtually any

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<v Speaker 2>plant that is planted in mass that creates some form

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<v Speaker 2>of psychological separation or barrier from one place in your

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<v Speaker 2>yard to the next. Like we were talking about in

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<v Speaker 2>the previous segment, the idea of creating a sense of

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<v Speaker 2>here and over there. And even though yeah, you could

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<v Speaker 2>step over it, you don't really want to. Your brain

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<v Speaker 2>kind of tells you you're not supposed to. You're supposed

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<v Speaker 2>to look for the opening and walk around it to

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<v Speaker 2>the other place. Right. That's a hedge, okay. So a

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<v Speaker 2>hedge can be made out of roses, It can be

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<v Speaker 2>made out of daisies if you want. If it's a

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<v Speaker 2>flower bed that is in mass, that's coming up off

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<v Speaker 2>the ground, okay, And the only real requirement is something

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<v Speaker 2>in mass that rises up off the normal level of

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<v Speaker 2>the ground. So it's not lawn okay, it's not turf

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<v Speaker 2>okay that hugs the ground, it's not ground cover. It

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<v Speaker 2>is a hedge. It rises up. It can be daylilies,

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<v Speaker 2>it can be sage. I mean literally, any plant that

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<v Speaker 2>grows more than six to ten inches off the ground

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<v Speaker 2>planted in mass can form some kind of a hedge

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<v Speaker 2>that gives a three D effect to a yard and

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<v Speaker 2>thereby creates an area of shape and content. Now on

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<v Speaker 2>the perimeter, special circumstances for the perimeter. I promised before

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<v Speaker 2>the break that we would talk about a loophole when

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<v Speaker 2>it comes to perimeter walls and fences, and that is

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<v Speaker 2>simply this. In most places, definitely here in the state

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<v Speaker 2>of California, definitely here in southern California.

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<v Speaker 5>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>You may dream of privacy between you and your neighbor,

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<v Speaker 2>you can dream it all day long. But and you

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<v Speaker 2>may think of if I could only build, if I

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<v Speaker 2>could only afford to build a twenty foot wall in

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<v Speaker 2>between me and the neighbor, then when I would really

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<v Speaker 2>be happy so that their second floor bedroom window doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>look down into our backyard. Okay, I get you, I

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<v Speaker 2>feel you, all right. But here's the thing. The city

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<v Speaker 2>is not going to be feeling you on that. In

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<v Speaker 2>most places, five to six feet is the limit that

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<v Speaker 2>zoning will allow you to build a fence. Even if

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<v Speaker 2>you could afford to build it higher, which it would

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<v Speaker 2>be incredibly ugly and incredibly expensive. So there are codes

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<v Speaker 2>restricting the height of the fence that you put on

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<v Speaker 2>your property line to provide privacy between you and your neighbor.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're lucky, you've got a super wide property and

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<v Speaker 2>you live in la county or city, and they would

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<v Speaker 2>allow in that situation a maximum of eight feet of fence. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>that's not enough either, is it. No, it's not, But

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<v Speaker 2>here we go. That's a built structure. Guess what the

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<v Speaker 2>code has no bearing upon whatsoever. Plants. That's right, And

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<v Speaker 2>therefore we have the hedges. Specifically the kind of hedge

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<v Speaker 2>that we in the custom home and a state industry

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<v Speaker 2>call the Hollywood hedge. Hollywood hedges is just a catchphrase

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<v Speaker 2>for any kind of plant material that we utilize on

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<v Speaker 2>day one to take a celebrity estate and hedge them

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<v Speaker 2>in so that nobody gets to see in and they

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<v Speaker 2>get all the privacy in the world. We're talking about

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<v Speaker 2>plants that will grow together and form a green wall

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<v Speaker 2>that can grow anywhere from fifteen to twenty five feet tall,

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<v Speaker 2>sound proof your property, essentially visually give you all the

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<v Speaker 2>privacy that you need. Now, if we do this on

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<v Speaker 2>day one for your house with mature products, which we

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<v Speaker 2>can do and have done, yeah, you're going to break

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<v Speaker 2>the bank bringing in you know, fifty or sixty eighteen

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<v Speaker 2>foot tall hedges. Those are available, by the way, and

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<v Speaker 2>if you'd like that, I'll bring you that tomorrow. However,

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<v Speaker 2>you can achieve the same thing by planting the exact

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<v Speaker 2>same materials in their junior form at six and seven

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<v Speaker 2>foot tall versions of these same materials and planting them,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, between three and four feet apart from each other,

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<v Speaker 2>and patiently wait, give yourself three or four seasons, and

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<v Speaker 2>they will grow in and form the exact same wall. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>these hedges are and I'm going to list them very

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<v Speaker 2>quickly here. These are the most typical ones. They're not

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<v Speaker 2>the only ones that you can use, but there are

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<v Speaker 2>usually five or six that we use. Ficus natida, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>fastest and tallest growing twenty feet tall. Wax leaf privet

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<v Speaker 2>or what's sometimes called Texas privet potocarpus my personal favorite

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<v Speaker 2>situations some this is the lacier version. Some goldest goddess,

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<v Speaker 2>Golden Goddess bamboo. All right, So there you go the

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<v Speaker 2>Hollywood hedges. And yeah, you don't have to obey the

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<v Speaker 2>zoning codes when it comes to that, because it's a

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<v Speaker 2>plant that you're growing, and the code doesn't have anything

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<v Speaker 2>to tell you about the height of plants, only the

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<v Speaker 2>height of the fence that you can put between you

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<v Speaker 2>And more yards than they exist right now, I'll tell

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<v Speaker 2>you right now should be using privacy hedging just to

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<v Speaker 2>create the kind of ambiance and feel in the backyard

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<v Speaker 2>that you're actually looking for. Usually, when I get called

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<v Speaker 2>out for a landscaping consult in a troubled yard, the

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<v Speaker 2>one thing I normally end up suggesting is on the perimeter,

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<v Speaker 2>let's get some more hedging. If we don't have a

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<v Speaker 2>view lot, then what we want to do is close

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<v Speaker 2>in your yard like a stage. Don't have the glory

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<v Speaker 2>of your yard dependent upon whether your neighbor is keeping

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<v Speaker 2>the paint up on their house. How's that sound? There

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<v Speaker 2>you go. That's the point, all right, And in your

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<v Speaker 2>pearls this morning, more to come your home with Dean

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<v Speaker 2>sharp the house Whisper pre Fine, Dean Sharp, the house Whisper,

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome home. All of this information about fences and walls

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<v Speaker 2>and hedges. I know a lot of you are thinking

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<v Speaker 2>hedges right now. You're like, Okay, we're gonna get our

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<v Speaker 2>hands on some of that plant material because I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to see my neighbor anymore, and I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>my neighbor seeing me. Good fences make good neighbors. That's

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<v Speaker 2>just a quote. If you're interested, you should read this poem.

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<v Speaker 2>You should. It's not a long poem. You should totally

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<v Speaker 2>read it. And you need more poetry in your life.

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<v Speaker 2>You do. Robert Frost the mending Wall, Okay, and yes

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<v Speaker 2>it's a wall, not a fence, but it's a quote

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<v Speaker 2>and it gets thrown around out of context all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>People use it, you know, like you only say good

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<v Speaker 2>fences make good neighbors. Literally. The point of the poem

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<v Speaker 2>that he's trying to make is that he's having a

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<v Speaker 2>conversation with his neighbor and he keeps saying, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we probably don't need this separating us here on our property,

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<v Speaker 2>and the neighbor keeps kind of like doing the screwge

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<v Speaker 2>bug things saying good fences make good neighbors, that the

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<v Speaker 2>neighbor is not having it. The neighbor wants the fence up,

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<v Speaker 2>he wants the fence, and Frost is basically trying to say, listen,

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<v Speaker 2>we really don't need a fence in between us most

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<v Speaker 2>of the time. Anyway, it is so worth reading, you

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<v Speaker 2>should go do that. All right, there you go, Let's

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<v Speaker 2>go to the phones. We got time for one tony

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<v Speaker 5>We're doing a complete kitchen remodel with cabinets, floors, and appliances.

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<v Speaker 5>And my question is do the cabinets should those sit

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<v Speaker 5>the wood floors first? And the part that seems the

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<v Speaker 5>most trickiest from what I've read, is how to handle

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<v Speaker 2>It depends. And I say that in all sincerity because

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. Maybe I would say maybe seventy five

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<v Speaker 2>percent of the time. Typically we will not install on

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<v Speaker 2>top of the floors, on top of the hardwood floor

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<v Speaker 2>or the tile sometimes just purely from the practicality that

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<v Speaker 2>you know, why do you want to run the expense

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<v Speaker 2>of hardwood all the way underneath cabinet kicks where it

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<v Speaker 2>will never be seen again, so simply to save square footage. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>when it comes to the dishwasher, whatever the flooring is

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<v Speaker 2>dishwasher is just an area avoid area, So we go

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<v Speaker 2>ahead and run that material into the dishwasher area so

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<v Speaker 2>that the dishwasher doesn't get trapped behind flooring material down

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<v Speaker 2>in the recess there. And I know some people are like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I want to run hardwood in there,

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<v Speaker 2>because what if the dishwasher leaks. I guarantee you, if

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<v Speaker 2>the dishwasher leaks and you've got hardwood in your kitchen,

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<v Speaker 2>it's going to go way beyond just the wood that's

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<v Speaker 2>directly underneath. It's going to affect you know, wood in

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<v Speaker 2>the whole area there. So it's kind of a moot

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<v Speaker 2>point when it comes to that argument. I just prefer

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<v Speaker 2>the idea that we can easily slide the dishwasher in

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<v Speaker 2>and out for installation or service or what have you.

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<v Speaker 2>So my recommendation is typically save the money on the

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<v Speaker 2>extra flooring material. Does it matter though not really, it's

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<v Speaker 2>not really going to change the install much. Always account

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<v Speaker 2>for the height of the hardwood floor though, so don't

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<v Speaker 2>set yourself up for a thirty six inch tall countertop,

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<v Speaker 2>then put in, you know, five eighths or three quarters

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<v Speaker 2>of an inch of hardwood, and find yourself with shorter cabinets,

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<v Speaker 2>so the kicks have to be taller if they're going

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<v Speaker 2>to go in before the hardwood. Thanks for the question, Tony. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I have a closing thought for you today, Sure I do.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not a long one, but here we go. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna leave you with this thought today. I think we

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<v Speaker 2>live such presumptuously insulated lives, such prosperous and entitled lives,

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<v Speaker 2>that we usually have nothing better to do than sit

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<v Speaker 2>around and obsess about the slightest inconveniences, the smallest bumps

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<v Speaker 2>in the road, the most trivial of offenses. It's as

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<v Speaker 2>if fair weather and clear skies gives us permission to

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<v Speaker 2>descend into selfish pettiness and become the worst versions of ourselves.

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<v Speaker 2>So yes, I like it when nature steps in and

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<v Speaker 2>occasionally serves up a good dose of reality, when the

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<v Speaker 2>wind blows hard enough, or the rain on the roof

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<v Speaker 2>gets loud enough to make us take our eyes off

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<v Speaker 2>our screens and actually look outside. I like it when

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<v Speaker 2>nature overwhelms our numbness and punctures the thin facades of

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<v Speaker 2>our quote unquote deeply held beliefs. I like it when

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<v Speaker 2>nature calls us all to account and doesn't give us

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<v Speaker 2>enough time to hate. When somebody needs to be rescued

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<v Speaker 2>from a burning building or a flooded river or a

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<v Speaker 2>small up car, thank god, there is no time to

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<v Speaker 2>check if they are rich or poor, red, or blue, straight,

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<v Speaker 2>or gay, or any number of the million other idiotic

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<v Speaker 2>issues we use to separate ourselves from one another when

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<v Speaker 2>the sun is shining. So so I don't get any

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<v Speaker 2>hate mail about this, let me be crystal clear. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't like natural disasters. I don't want anyone to be

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<v Speaker 2>put in harm's way. I just like how we are

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<v Speaker 2>when they happen. It's as if it takes a storm

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<v Speaker 2>outside of us to quiet the storm that's raging inside us.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever it is, it brings out in most of us

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<v Speaker 2>the better angels of our nature, if not for just

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<v Speaker 2>a short time, angels that I would like to see

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<v Speaker 2>far more often. Today, the sun is shining here in

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<v Speaker 2>southern California. It's going to be a warm one, nothing

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<v Speaker 2>much to contend with, So I guess that means we're

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<v Speaker 2>all free to return to being the petty, squabbling and

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<v Speaker 2>thoroughly annoying, lesser versions of ourselves. Or we could remember

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<v Speaker 2>that even on sunny days, life is still short and difficult,

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<v Speaker 2>and in their own unique way, everyone you meet is

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<v Speaker 2>fighting their own epic battle. So today, even in the sunlight,

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<v Speaker 2>we could if we wanted to choose to be a

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<v Speaker 2>first responder to the human condition, we could choose not

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<v Speaker 2>to judge, not to lit misstest, not to hate, and

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<v Speaker 2>instead just be kind. I wish that was everyone's greatest

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<v Speaker 2>aspiration in life. Of all the things in the world,

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<v Speaker 2>you can be be kind. Just think of what a

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<v Speaker 2>world we would live in would be like if the

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<v Speaker 2>one thing we were always trying out was to be kind.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, my friend, get out there, get busy building

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<v Speaker 2>yourself a beautiful life. This has been Home with Dean Sharp,

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