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Speaker 1: Made a decision.

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Speaker 2: Oh peace, sunny Sun on Ihad a vision nice lie.

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Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, welcome to for Crying Out Loud. Another great edition.

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Where am I?

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Speaker 3: We have so many podcasts it's like which one is this?

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 1: I know, Adam Field, I I had to do?

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Speaker 3: Are done?

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Speaker 1: Seven podcasts today? Must be nice? Must be nice? Yeah,

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must be nice.

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Speaker 4: We're doing a lot of podcasts today. So, uh, you

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told me all.

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Speaker 1: About your vacation, lost my son in the jungle yesterday.

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Speaker 3: What happened? What happened?

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Speaker 1: Happened? Nice?

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Speaker 3: You know what? You must be slap happy today?

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Speaker 1: I am. I am exhausted. So you know, when you

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go on to a family vacation and it's not a vacation,

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not a vacation for the mom. It is for everybody else,

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but not for the mom because the mom's got to

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pay attention to boarding passes. What are you packing? Where's

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your toothbrush? Did you bring your toothbrush? Where's your socks?

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Did you change your socks? Anyways?

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Speaker 3: So have you had a shower in the past month?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: That would be the question for me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So the last the last four days, we were

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in beautiful Washugo, Washington, which is like Portland, Washington border beautiful, lush,

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just wet, green, just serene, beautiful, and Natalia's a little bff,

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little little Buddha. Cami and her family invited us up

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and so we spent the few days with them, and

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they're so so hospitable and hospitable, hospitable. I like hospitable, hospitable.

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It makes you sound like a.

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Speaker 3: Little medical I know to it. I like that hospitable.

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Speaker 4: They have a lot of bandages, a lot in case.

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I charge a lot for an auspren Right, I got.

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Speaker 1: A switch chairs. This thing's gonna fall anyways. So the

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I mean, like, mister sample, as soon as you walk

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in the door, can I get you? Can I get

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you a beer? Can I get you a water?

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Speaker 3: You send them sticks?

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Speaker 1: I'm you know, I'm glad I didn't. I'm going to

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send them to their home instead of their house out

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there because there was so much food. And you know,

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Adam with the food, like he's packing like salmon collars

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into my suitcase. And salmon collars are these things they

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sell in Washington only, which you're delicious. It's like the

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fatty part of the salmon and it's so good. But uh,

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wat So anyway, I'm going to send them to my home.

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Speaker 4: But.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get rid of it is sorry. And so

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the last day was yesterday. The Samples leave early. Why

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the Corollas are booked on a late flight, I have

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no idea. Usually Adams like the first one out.

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Speaker 3: But were you staying at a a cabin at there?

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Speaker 1: The they have a it's it's like a cabin, but

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it's a it's their little vacation because they travel. They

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love to travel.

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Speaker 3: And can I just.

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Speaker 4: Say that I don't understand people that love to travel,

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especially when you're the mom traveling. Is I like to

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stay home, meet with my TV and my Apple, my

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Apple TV, Apple, my Netflix, uh, my couch, my bed,

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my dog, yeah, my stuff, oh our dog.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 3: So what'd you do with Phil?

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Speaker 1: Who?

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Speaker 3: Who?

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Speaker 1: Phil? Phil went on a fucking yacht, sorry, on a

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yacht over with his stepdad Rob, where Rob lives on

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a boat.

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Speaker 3: Rob kept it for you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Rob's is a surrogate daddy, so he goes there

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when we're out of town, which is rare.

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Speaker 3: Nice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So we stayed with them in their house. So anyway,

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they they're leaving early. So we decide to go on

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an adventure and go to Lateral Falls, Portland. And it

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was a beautiful drive from where you were. Yeah, everything's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is he the one that thought of this.

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Speaker 1: They well, they're that family that gets up and goes,

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you know, like I'm still waking up and you wake

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up and they get the bacon and they're already good morning.

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They get the coffee going. Like I said, they're very hospitable,

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and they're you know, like especially the dad. The dad's

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the one that likes to grill the steaks and cook

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like you take these like Jimmy like takes pride and

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cooking and and I love that he works hard. He's

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a hard working guy and he deserves it. So he

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deserves his time off. And he likes to entertain, which

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I appreciate. And uh so they they they leave. We

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they tell us where to go.

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Speaker 3: There's like screen and goers though.

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Speaker 1: I know there's this great hike with waterfalls. It's beautiful,

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you guys should go check it out. So they tell

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us how to get there. Of course GPS doesn't. It's in,

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it's out, it's in, it's out. It's like where you are, like,

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you know, it's it's no network. And next thing you know,

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you're going in the wrong direction. And then Adam and

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I are arguing the whole way. Are you said to

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go left? You didn't tell me anyway? But no, we

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had a nice time. We had a great morning. And

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you know what's so funny is after so the samples,

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the dad is mister Sample is, his mom is Armenian,

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and his father is like, you know, was raised on

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a ranch, you know, and the wife is Japanese, like

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She's so cute because she her and Adam are are

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simpatico that little Cama, Like she loves the deviled eggs.

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She's nice to her dad. And the funniest thing was

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one of my favorite movies, mister Corolla is Master and Commander.

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Have you seen it. Adam like threw his fork down,

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got up, walked around the table, hugged her because it's

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his favorite movie, Master and Commander. It's the movie with

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Russell Crowe on a ship, right, yeah, Russell Crowe, Jude Law. Yeah,

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a storm, you know, in batting down the hatches and

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kind of a survival kind of Master and Commander, and

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Speaker 3: What's wrong with this kid?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god? Those two they read and read. They're

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two voracious readers, both with them, especially the oldest one.

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She reminds me a lot of LB. She's so sweet

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and she loves to read and she's just so all right.

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So first of all, they mister Sample, uh he decides

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that he well, he doesn't decide. He offers, you guys

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want to go on the whitewater rafting again like we

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did last year. Sunny and I both at the same

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time say no, Adam gonna tell you both at the

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same time say hell yes. So he we said, all right, well,

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well all we're all gonna go. Time comes and Sonny

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and I don't want to go, and uh they all

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everybody else wants to go. And then Sonny and I

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are like, do we have to go? And then Adam

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came up like a day after we got there, and

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mister Sample already bought the tickets.

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Speaker 3: And good white water rafting tickets.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he bought him for everybody for all of us

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and all eight of us and he I said to

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missus Sample, I said, is there any no way that

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we can like bow two of us bow out? And

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she asked him and he said, well you can, but

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you know, you just don't get your money back. But

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that's fine, like you know, and uh, we're like Dad,

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because he's not gonna want to waste two tickets and

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blah blah blah because it's okay, it's expensive. And then

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Adam got to town and uh he next morning we

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wake up and I say to him, Sonny and I

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really don't really want to go today to the White

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like Sonny and I have been dreading it. And actually Taleene,

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the oldest sister, she doesn't want to go either. The

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elb want. She doesn't really want to go either. And

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and I was like, it's fine, you guys don't have

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to go, I said, Billy, He's like, hey, I'm paying

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for the I want to give mister Sample money. I

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give them money for all eight tickets. And I said,

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but they don't refund too. They won't refund our tickets.

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He said that's fine. I was like, oh thank god.

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we went first. We went hiking in caves first before

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the white water rafting, so we went on that and

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then we said goodbye and took our two separate Laurental cars.

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Speaker 5: Well.

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Speaker 1: I went and helped to Natalia get dressed in her

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wet suit because that's a huge pain in the ass.

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her you know, like when anything is tight on her.

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stuck in the back of my Tesla when I first

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got it in Betwens seats and she got freaking like

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she So I knew she'd be I knew she would

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need help, and Adam is useless, and I don't want

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to make missus sample have to do it, so I

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stayed with her and got her dress, and of course

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she's free. She's crying, she can't doesn't feel good. I

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want to get it off of me, but I I'm like,

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but you can't get it off you. You have to

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wear a wetsuit. You have to, but it's so tight.

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Speaker 3: Have chest is feeling tight right hearing about.

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Speaker 1: It or you know, because they like they don't like

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Speaker 4: Ever since my weird Ninja experience.

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Speaker 3: I thought about her because I thought, go back to.

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Speaker 4: Magic Mountain, which I'll tell you about in a few minutes.

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can't go on that ride. I start getting like a hurt,

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like your chest, like somebody sitting on your chest. Well,

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like just thinking about that, having had that feeling is

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giving me a bad feeling.

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life vest on her and they can you know, and

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they're they're pulling and they're strapping in there, put the

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helmet and they're fixing it, and she's just like And

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Speaker 3: Like, why is she crying?

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Speaker 1: What's the matter? And he comes over and he talks

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to her and he says, like Daddy, when he goes

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in the race car, I have to be I feel

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the same way. I know how you feel.

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Speaker 4: Worst feeling the worst feeling because by the way, he's

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car have you been in a RASUW you did it? Yes?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, and I freaked the fuck out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. They strap your ass in.

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Speaker 4: You're strapped and you're in and the helmet is on

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you and clipped down and you're just like, oh my god,

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I think I can't breathe.

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Speaker 1: And when you're a strapped to the seat, you cannot

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move out of the seat. Adam is saying to her, like,

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I know how it feels. I've been in there for

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two hours. I'm strapped in there.

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Speaker 3: For two hours.

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Speaker 1: And he's like, tell you remember last year you felt

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this way. But remember after like we got out and

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we got out into the world and got onto the

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they take you on a bus up to the top

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of the falls. He's like, you remember how much fun

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you had? And she's like next, she was like totally calm,

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him and Cammy. I'm telling you those two, so hey.

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Speaker 3: I think of when I think Adam Carolla just.

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Speaker 1: Buddha, Buddha no, right, because that's what they said to

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him too. That's what Molly, Jimmy's wife said to him,

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or somebody said to him about the oscars, like it's

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good that you were there because you have this calming

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effect with Jimmy. Anyway, then so long Suckers, Sonny, me

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But we were so happy, like so happy. And then

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Speaker 3: An hour out there to help her put her wet

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seat on.

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Then we went the whitewater was right down black. So

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then you came came back. What you guys do? I

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cleaned and then I mean, I you know, they're dishwasher

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was broken. I wanted to make the place look nice

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for when they walked in. I want, you know, they're

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cooking and cleaning, and so I clean and then I

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relaxed and read a magazine and answered it couldn't get

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any reception, so I couldn't like I could answer email.

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Nothing was going out. Everything's stuck in that outbox. I

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hate that anyway. But then and then we went out

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to dinner. So then the day we leave, which was

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yesterday morning, the samples leave early. They tell us there's

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a beautiful waterfalls, like forty five minutes on the way

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to the Portland Airport. You're gonna love it. It's an

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easy hike. You go up, you go, it's a loop.

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You just go all the way up and then you go.

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You see the waterfalls and you come all the way down,

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and it was beautiful. Except Natalia is one of those

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like you know, she's constantly like, let's get out and

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like enjoy the day, like woo. She's like my mom,

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like let's go go go, and she wants to, you know,

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love life and go outside and picnic and blah blah blah,

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and me and Sonny are like bye, you and Adam

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can go do that shit, Sonny and we want to

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go home and be left alone. Sonny's watching the flash

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and what disposition now he's got He's got his mama.

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Uh so then so she's the whole time like let's go,

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go go, And then we get there in a half

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hour into the hike, she's like, I'm done, done, done,

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Can we go back. We're like, you don't go back.

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You go all the way around, like do you ever

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you don't see you're not seeing people walking back, you know,

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next to us, like going back down the hill. They're

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going up and they go around, they go down, and

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it's like it's like a twenty two minute hike or whatever.

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But it's beautiful, beautiful, And we're talking, Adam and I

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are talking, and she does then she starts getting cranky,

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like could you not talk about pod carting, casting, whatever

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you guys talk about? Can you not talk about adults?

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Can we talk about So he's like, all right, let's

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talk about the bridge you and I jumped off of yesterday.

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And they jumped off a bridge when they went white

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water rafting. So he's like, I tell you, don't you

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think that lady that takes the have a picture of

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people that they do the thing where they they jump

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off the bridge and like a magic mounta where you

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go down the roller coaster and they take your picture

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and then you can go buy it.

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Speaker 3: You know, what do you mean jump off a bridge?

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So they went bungee jumping.

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hour whitewater rafting excursion, they pull over a couple times

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they have a snack, you know, and then you pull over.

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Then there's one time where they pull over underneath a

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bridge and it's deep enough where if people want, they

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can go up to the bridge and jump. We have

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a photographered lady that stays there and she takes your

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picture and you can buy it at the shop when

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you're done. And and n Italian Cammi did it last year

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and looking at the two, I mean, it's like a

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I don't know how many feet up it's it's I

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don't know, it's like a twenty story jump. It's pretty high. Wow,

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it's high. It's very high, and the water is forty

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degrees and it's rushing, so not only do you have

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to jump and swim to the boat, but yeah jump

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into the freezing.

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Speaker 3: That sounds really dangerous.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's deep and they let him. Kids do

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it all the time, and last last year an Italian

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Cammi did it. And to look at those little two,

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they're up on top of the bridge. They look like

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little teeny tiny, like five year old stick figures up there,

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and all the adult most adults don't even do it,

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but the kids, like teenagers, and everybody's like, wow, look

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at those two. So this year Adam's like, I'm jumping,

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not only am I jumping, but I'm gonna do a flip.

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And she's like, now, Daddy, you're not gonna do a flip.

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You're not allowed. You're not allowed. He's joking, but so

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he went up and jumped. So then he's now on

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the hike and she's like he's like talking. He's like,

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all right, let's talk about what you want to talk about.

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Remember when we jumped yesterday. Don't you think the lady

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should not be standing where she There's no reason for

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her to stand there because then she only gets the

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like from your forehead up, like she's not getting a

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good shot of you. She could easily stand ten feet

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back and get a nice wide shot of you jumping.

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But there's no reason for her to be standing where she.

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Speaker 3: I get what?

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Speaker 1: And then she's like, all right, bye, I'm gonna go

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catch up with So Sonny is in front and he's

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chugging along the trail in the front of us. This

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trail is just a trail, right, and it's like it's

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three it's two and a half people wide, is what

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it is. So it's not a huge long white but

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it's slippery. It's because it's muddy and it's wet. So

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we get to the waterfalls. Now we're gonna make our

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way back down. Okay. So she gets bored of us,

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and she catches Sonny keeps going, and she keeps yelling

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for him, Sonny, wait, wait for us, Wait, don't keep

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going ahead, so he'd stop, wait, catch up, stop, wait,

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catch up. Finally she goes, I'm going off with Sunny.

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And then I thought we were close to the end

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where we parked the cars. And I said all right,

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and Adam said, just go. You guys could just go,

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just meet us at the bottom, meet us at the bottom,

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and we are not near the bottom. And I said no, no, no, no.

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I said, wait, wait, wait, wait, you guys, if you're

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going to run off, I said, the two of you

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stick together. There's so many people and they're so nice.

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Everybody's sweet. Every Portland's nice, and even the too. I mean,

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everybody's very nice. I mean, I'm sure there could be

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some pervert in the bushes, but for the most part,

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there's families everywhere. So you guys stick together, don't Sonny,

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I said, Sonny, don't run off without your sister. You

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always need to be because he likes to run. I said,

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you stick with her, and I said, and also kind

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of stick with us, like, don't go too far ahead.

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So but I don't think he heard me say that.

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He heard Adam say, stick together, go ahead. Meet at

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the bottom. And they started to run, and I said,

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but don't go too far wait and stick with us.

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Don't get so far ahead. I don't know where we're

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at right now. So they run. They take off. Now,

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Adam and I are talking to my I'm complaining about

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the bridge thing. And a few minutes later she catches up.

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Now she's with us, and she's like, oh, she's like,

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Sonny ran off, blah blah blah, I'm tired. Now she's

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now she's in the complaining moment, like can we go?

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I'm tired, I'm hungry, I'm tired a good Sonny, doesn't

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you guys are boring? Sonny ran off blah blah blah blah.

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She's also got like Cammy withdrawal. I think at this

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point because she just left her best friend she's been

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with for five days and so so then I'm like,

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where is Sonny? And she keeps doing this thing throughout.

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Speaker 3: The whole hike.

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Speaker 1: She's going Sonny and Adams keep going like Natalia, stop

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yelling for Sonny. People are trying to enjoy themselves. They

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don't want to hear you. By the way, it sounds

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like you're saying mommy because somebody said somebody lost looking

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for their mom. And she's like, no, no, that's our

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daughter yelling for her brother named Sonny. Oh it sounds

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like mommy. So okay, like stop, you're alerting people. And

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Adam's always like relax, relax. So she's like yelling. First,

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now I'm going, well, wait, where did how far did

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he go? And I go I thought the parking lot

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was coming up, and I keep Now I'm asking people

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do you know how much further? And they're like you

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got a little ways to go? And now I'm like,

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all right, well where's Sonny? I don't why would son

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he keep going? Like, don't you think he's also a

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little bit of a chicken shit? I would think he

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would like, you know, slow his roll a little bit

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and not go off by himself, by himself on a

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trail like yeah, there's people, but it's not crass on Disneyland.

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Yeah you know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, after I find my son, So what happens?

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Speaker 4: So you're so you're you're starting to So.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm a little concerned, and she's yet, now I'm

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going Sunday, Sunday, And I said, why would I don't

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want to like alert and Italian and she's a when

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you're on a trail, you can't really hear what the

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other you know what I mean. So I'm going, why

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would he? Like, wait, like, I can't believe he went

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this far without us, And he's like, he's fine, he's

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going to be at the bottom. He's going to be

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at the bottom. Well, how does he know where to go?

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And he goes, there's only one way to go, it's down,

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and then there's just a trail and everybody around here

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is very nice. It's fine, he's gonna be at the bottom.

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And so I'm telling the Italian to Talian son. She goes, Mommy,

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I'm getting worried. Now I'm worried. Now I'm starting to worry,

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like where where is he? Where is he? And she

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starts helping dying.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, this would be albe.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Now she's having a nervous breakdown. She

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starts crying. Now she's made a me nervese. I'm like,

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he's fine, he's fine, he's fine. Then we get to

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a fork in the road. Oh no, uh huh, and

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it says loop trail this way, and then nothing this way,

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and we're like, what's the loop trail and he's like,

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it's the loop right, and I go, I guess I

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don't know how many trails. We've never done this trail before.

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We didn't look at it on a map. We just

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pulled up, parked, got out, and maybe there's other trails.

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How do I We don't know, So do we go

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this way? And he goes, no, we don't want the

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loop trail. We want to go to the right, so

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we keep going to the right. He's gonna he's gonna

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be down by the water anyway, so stop yelling for

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him because and I'm like, why is there water by

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the parking lot? I don't know why Adam kept saying that,

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But I'm like, I don't think there's gonna be water.

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I don't hear water. And he's like, he's like, he's fine,

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let's go to the right. So we go to the

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right and we don't see anybody, and now we're going

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away down and I'm like, Adam, this is not right.

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And now I'm getting nervous. Now in Natalia is full

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on hysterical.

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Speaker 3: My chest is hurting. Where is he? Where is he?

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We're lost? How come he's not lost?

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Speaker 1: Like, how do we know he's not lost? He could

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have slipped and fell down a mountain. She's like, oh

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my god. And I's like, he's okay, He's okay. And

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then he's like, yeah, this isn't right. And we got

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to a complete dead end. So he turned around, went back,

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and he goes. And then we asked somebody goes to

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get back down. They said, yeah, no, you want to

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go to the loop. You want that way. And he's like, Now,

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Sonny's not. Sonny's smart. We're the dumb ones. We went

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the wrong way. Sonny's smart. He knows he'll ask if

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he gets stuck, he'll ask. And I'm going like, and

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Natalia's crying. She's like and then she touches something and

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all of a sudden, like welts start. She gets alert,

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some kind of allergic reaction to her hand. I'm like,

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this is just getting worse. This is what I was

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gonna say the beginning of the morning. So the samples,

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this is what I was telling you about how he

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is and she's Japanese. Right. They are the sweetest, nicest family. Like,

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they're so polite to each other because the daughters are

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super they're like two lbie's, you know, they're super sweet

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and super polite, and they're just like yes, my love,

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and they talk qui. You know, they talk blah blah blah.

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The dad is just like Adam though, he's like, tough

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00:22:15,519 --> 00:22:17,440
en up, you're fine, blah blah blah blah blah. You know,

465
00:22:17,519 --> 00:22:20,119
but he's just like, you know, just a dude, normal guy.

466
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:23,640
And but they're so sweet. So I said, let's all

467
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,680
start out the day after we on our four on

468
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:29,079
our trip with just the four of us to the falls.

469
00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:31,559
Let's be like the samples and be nice to each other.

470
00:22:31,599 --> 00:22:33,880
And they're like yeah, okay, and so He's like yeah,

471
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:35,799
and Adam's like yeah, okay, all right, so we're all

472
00:22:35,799 --> 00:22:38,119
gonna be nice and yes, my love, can you pass

473
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:44,920
me water? Sure? I'm passing the water. Then it lasted

474
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:45,839
like a half an hour.

475
00:22:46,079 --> 00:22:48,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would laugh so hard if John talked to

476
00:22:48,319 --> 00:22:48,680
me like that.

477
00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:51,720
Speaker 1: Until like, they don't talk to each other. They talk

478
00:22:51,759 --> 00:22:54,279
to the kids like that. Oh, they're nice to each other,

479
00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:57,559
but they like he's he's you would love jad Jack

480
00:22:57,599 --> 00:22:59,359
Sample has got a great sense of humor, and he

481
00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:01,400
jokes with her all the time. He tells her to

482
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:03,480
it tough enough, like you're too nice all the time

483
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:06,680
because she's Japanese. It's her way, you know. And he's like,

484
00:23:07,039 --> 00:23:08,279
you know, baby, you don't have to be nice to

485
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:13,200
find everybody, you know. Yeah, so she uh so there.

486
00:23:13,319 --> 00:23:15,880
So we're trying to be like the Samples. But now

487
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:18,720
it's like we're arguing with each other. So she tells

488
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:21,599
things start to weld up, and now she's like, no,

489
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:24,880
like this trip is just getting worse and worse. We're

490
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,559
mean to each other. She's got a rash. Sunny's lost.

491
00:23:27,839 --> 00:23:30,559
I'm picturing now, I'm picturing we're gonna have He was

492
00:23:30,559 --> 00:23:35,119
wearing a bright blue long sleeve Nike shirt and I'm thinking,

493
00:23:35,559 --> 00:23:37,279
good thing he's got that shirt on, because now when

494
00:23:37,279 --> 00:23:39,440
the search party goes to look for him, you know.

495
00:23:39,799 --> 00:23:42,319
Speaker 4: At this point, had you made a Facebook post that

496
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:45,039
said that Sunny has been kidnapped into sex trafficking.

497
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:50,640
Speaker 1: I'm just getting there. It's getting there, it's coming. So

498
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:55,519
I'm like, oh my god. Now I'm kind of nervous.

499
00:23:55,599 --> 00:23:57,319
I'm like, Adam, where is how do we know we

500
00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,480
didn't go off another trail? Like, how do we know

501
00:23:59,559 --> 00:24:03,480
he went through right direction? And so so.

502
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:05,799
Speaker 4: Anyway he made at this point, I would be comforting.

503
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:09,039
I would be like, okay, he at some point he

504
00:24:09,039 --> 00:24:10,759
would have just asked, see what he would have seen

505
00:24:10,839 --> 00:24:12,640
somebody and just said which way is down?

506
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:13,319
Speaker 3: Right?

507
00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:16,400
Speaker 1: But Adam is doing his deductive reasoning in his head,

508
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:20,079
and he's going, there's there's four possible he could have

509
00:24:20,079 --> 00:24:24,119
gotten abducted, highly highly unless you're in the IKEA living

510
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:30,359
room area, right, highly impossible. Chances are almost noneall chances.

511
00:24:30,799 --> 00:24:34,119
But two, he went now now, and now you're left

512
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:37,519
with him going in the wrong direction. However, there weren't

513
00:24:37,519 --> 00:24:40,880
that many. There was that only that one juncture there was.

514
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:43,640
Why would Sonny's not in Sunny's not gonna go off

515
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:47,720
into the bushes and you know, make his own trail? Okay,

516
00:24:47,759 --> 00:24:51,480
So that's out. So now you're left with him basically

517
00:24:51,519 --> 00:24:53,720
going down and waiting for us at the bottom of

518
00:24:53,759 --> 00:24:56,519
the mountain, like you said, and I said, but but

519
00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:59,759
why it's like quiet, like, well, I don't think Sonny.

520
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,559
I would think Sonny would stop and wait or come

521
00:25:02,599 --> 00:25:05,279
back or come back or keep going. Yeah, but then

522
00:25:05,759 --> 00:25:07,680
I'm thinking, but what if he starts going back the

523
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:09,519
other way? And then what if he does go on?

524
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:11,920
I don't know. It's just like he's gonna get lost.

525
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:15,440
And I'm thinking search party, Like somebody they're gonna get

526
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,559
me the helicopter. Daddy's gonna have to pay for it

527
00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:20,720
and they're gonna have to do a search party for it.

528
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:25,640
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530
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Speaker 3: And so now.

531
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 1: Right she's hysterically crying with welts on her hand, and

532
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,519
I'm like, she's like, it's hurts, it hurts. I'm like it,

533
00:25:39,599 --> 00:25:41,920
it's fine, it's fine. I'm thinking it's gonna start to

534
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,160
swell up and then her our throat's gonna start to

535
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:44,680
close up.

536
00:25:44,799 --> 00:25:45,359
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

537
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 1: And I'm going we're gonna miss the flight. That was

538
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:50,279
like the last thing she kept saying, We're gonna miss

539
00:25:50,319 --> 00:25:51,839
our flight. We're gonna miss our flight because we're gonna

540
00:25:51,839 --> 00:25:53,680
be looking for Sonny and I want to know where

541
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:55,680
he is, Mommy, Why can't we hear him? Why doesn't

542
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:58,400
he answer us? Why doesn't he answer us? It was

543
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:01,640
this way for what's fine.

544
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:02,119
Speaker 3: Did she ever?

545
00:26:02,519 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 1: Everybody needs to stop stopes he he was like laughing,

546
00:26:07,279 --> 00:26:10,559
like Natalia stop, He's like, she's he's fine, he's fine.

547
00:26:10,559 --> 00:26:14,000
He's at the bottom, like we said, that's yes, he's fine,

548
00:26:14,039 --> 00:26:16,759
he's fine. And uh and he's like and Natalia, stop

549
00:26:16,799 --> 00:26:20,039
screaming for him, because you're ruining it for other people

550
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:23,680
are trying to enjoy nature. And we passed. This is

551
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,359
when five minutes before we get to the bottom, we

552
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:28,960
pass a group of family like that, pulled over under

553
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:31,920
a tree. I said, because I'm starting to ask people,

554
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:33,400
have you seen this little boy? And then when I

555
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:37,359
do that, and starts and and she's to the point

556
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,440
where she's doing the ugly cry loud and doesn't give

557
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:44,079
a fuck who hears her, sees her because she and

558
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:47,279
she's usually like embarrassing frankel ya, he's got.

559
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:52,200
Speaker 2: No zero to give, like she's usually yes, she had

560
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:56,119
a few like usually like I don't want to draw

561
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:58,759
attention to me, like like you know, like that in

562
00:26:58,799 --> 00:27:00,400
that way she don't don't care.

563
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:01,880
Speaker 1: I go to tell you, she.

564
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:03,839
Speaker 3: Goes, I don't care. Where's my brother?

565
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, come on, all right, relax, now, come on, relax,

566
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,519
And I say to this group of family, did you

567
00:27:10,599 --> 00:27:13,680
see a little boy with the blue shirt, long sleeves.

568
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:15,759
I said yeah, and they go, yeah, he just ran

569
00:27:15,799 --> 00:27:18,519
by a little like not more than five minutes ago.

570
00:27:18,839 --> 00:27:20,640
And I said okay. And I said the one guy

571
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,480
goes he was on a mission, that little dude. And

572
00:27:22,519 --> 00:27:25,400
I was like, okay. So now Sonny has this little

573
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,640
macho thing sometimes where he feels like he has to

574
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,759
prove to everybody that he can be independent, even though

575
00:27:30,759 --> 00:27:33,759
he can't fucking brush his teeth or forget his toothbrush

576
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:36,000
or plug in his iPad at the end of the night.

577
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:41,079
But so then we start, I start going to Lexander

578
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,400
A Xander I forgot about.

579
00:27:45,079 --> 00:27:46,680
Speaker 3: So we have like the same kids.

580
00:27:46,839 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like yes, right. So then we get to

581
00:27:52,039 --> 00:27:55,240
the we get to the bottom. She's crying and Adam's ahead.

582
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:58,839
Adam goes ahead of us, and at the bottom, now

583
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:01,680
there's a highway now spits us out by a highway,

584
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:03,720
not where the parking lot, not to where I thought

585
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,519
it was gonna take us. But and then I was

586
00:28:05,559 --> 00:28:09,039
like huh, and she's like, where are we? And I

587
00:28:09,039 --> 00:28:11,240
was like, gets to relax. Then she starts crying out

588
00:28:11,279 --> 00:28:14,039
loud again all over. Adam goes, no, to this way

589
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:16,200
is the parking lot. But why isn't he waiting here?

590
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,000
I said, because we're on a highway. He's not gonna

591
00:28:18,039 --> 00:28:20,079
sit on the side of a highway. He sees the

592
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,240
parking lots over there. He's probably walked over to where

593
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,599
the parking lot is. There's a lot of people over

594
00:28:25,599 --> 00:28:29,559
there's picnic tables. He's probably over there. And as we're.

595
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:31,400
Speaker 3: Walking, that's where all the kidnappers are.

596
00:28:31,559 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 1: There's the guy in the white man. As we're walking,

597
00:28:35,279 --> 00:28:39,359
I see this little blue long sleeve boy come running

598
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:42,440
up the stairs up to the sidewalk, and he's like

599
00:28:42,799 --> 00:28:46,000
he just finished it. But he went in a different

600
00:28:46,119 --> 00:28:47,559
like at the end went to the I don't know.

601
00:28:47,599 --> 00:28:50,200
He went a different little direction and went up and

602
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,680
saw Adam, and he saw Dad and then he and

603
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,400
then we saw I see I said, Natalie, I see him,

604
00:28:55,519 --> 00:28:57,440
I see him. Stop crying. I see him. And she couldn't.

605
00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:00,480
Then she can't control her. I like you do, he said, yeah,

606
00:29:00,759 --> 00:29:02,559
She's like where And I go, I can see him,

607
00:29:02,559 --> 00:29:06,799
trust me, And she's like, is it? She's like, and

608
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:09,240
I go, don't even talk to him because I was

609
00:29:09,279 --> 00:29:10,920
mad because I had a walking stick. I go, I'm

610
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:15,599
gonna beat him with this stick, and I said, don't

611
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,680
even talk. I said so, and then I saw him

612
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,480
and he was he was going to cross the street,

613
00:29:20,519 --> 00:29:21,640
but cars were coming because we.

614
00:29:21,599 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 3: Just sat title for this show. He said stop and

615
00:29:24,079 --> 00:29:24,960
beat him with a stick.

616
00:29:25,079 --> 00:29:29,599
Speaker 1: Beat him. I said, stop, don't don't cross, and then

617
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:31,880
he's and then I said, and then I and then

618
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:33,720
he crosses, and I say, I don't even want to

619
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,319
talk to you. And I kept holding us, had my

620
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:38,680
arm around the tie, and I kept walking and he

621
00:29:38,839 --> 00:29:41,839
and uh and uh. He was walking behind us, and

622
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:43,920
I think he was a little nervous, because I think

623
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:47,160
he got he was nervous, he said. At first he

624
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:49,400
said he got nervous because he didn't know where. I said,

625
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:52,400
later on, I said, did you not know where? How

626
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,680
come you were just running off by yourself? And did

627
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:57,279
you not know we weren't like right behind you? And

628
00:29:57,319 --> 00:29:59,519
he said, in the very beginning I first saw him.

629
00:29:59,519 --> 00:30:01,759
He said, he w a little nervous because he didn't

630
00:30:01,759 --> 00:30:05,039
see us. And he ended the hike and didn't know

631
00:30:05,079 --> 00:30:06,559
if he should go to the car, if he should

632
00:30:06,599 --> 00:30:10,960
stay there or what. And anyway, he does the little

633
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:14,000
lip quiver and his eye starts to well up in tears,

634
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:16,559
and I said, do you know why she's crying? Take

635
00:30:16,599 --> 00:30:21,480
a guess, and he's like, I said, don't talk, don't

636
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:23,319
even talk. And then a was like, don't make him

637
00:30:23,319 --> 00:30:24,920
feel worse how he feels about all right, I go,

638
00:30:25,039 --> 00:30:27,200
but he needs to learn his lesson. He can't do that.

639
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:29,039
We get in the car and I'm talking like he's

640
00:30:29,079 --> 00:30:31,759
not there. I go, he is not allowed to do that.

641
00:30:31,839 --> 00:30:35,279
You can't just run off without even though we said

642
00:30:36,079 --> 00:30:39,119
go ahead, but we did say stick with your sister,

643
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:41,680
which you didn't clearly. And the other thing, you didn't

644
00:30:41,759 --> 00:30:44,200
wait for us. You just kept going. You just kept

645
00:30:44,319 --> 00:30:47,039
running ahead of us. And that's not okay in a

646
00:30:47,559 --> 00:30:50,000
forest where you don't know where you are. This is

647
00:30:50,039 --> 00:30:53,400
you know, there's people everywhere, but that doesn't matter one bit.

648
00:30:53,519 --> 00:30:56,359
That's not the point. You cannot do that. That's you're

649
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:59,759
not allowed to do that. And then Adam was like,

650
00:30:59,759 --> 00:31:02,279
why I do agree with mommy. That's she's right, you're

651
00:31:02,319 --> 00:31:05,039
not you shouldn't know. Yeah, and then he's like his

652
00:31:05,119 --> 00:31:07,519
tears are rolling down his face and he's like, I

653
00:31:07,559 --> 00:31:11,519
feel nauseous. And I said you do. And he's like, yeah,

654
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:13,319
do we have any water? He goes, I feel like

655
00:31:13,319 --> 00:31:14,680
I'm gonna throw up. I said why, and he goes,

656
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:20,319
because they've been running so much. That's why he feels nauchious.

657
00:31:20,559 --> 00:31:24,519
He felt nauseous right like you run track. He didn't

658
00:31:24,519 --> 00:31:27,000
feel nauseous because he was running. He felt nauseous because

659
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,079
he was fucking scared out of his wits, because he's

660
00:31:29,079 --> 00:31:31,599
a scaredy cat. And that place was it was a

661
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:35,440
little intimidating if you're by yourself. If I was by myself,

662
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:38,119
I'd be like and I ran off, I would be like,

663
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,799
where is everybody? You know? I mean it, you know,

664
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:43,440
there's people everywhere. But still it was just, you know,

665
00:31:43,599 --> 00:31:47,160
not a good situation. But it was. And then it

666
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,359
was quiet in the car and I was mad at him,

667
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:53,079
and and then Adam goes, well, everybody, I guess the

668
00:31:53,119 --> 00:31:55,599
samp try and be like the samples lasted us no

669
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:57,640
more than about an hour and forty minutes.

670
00:32:00,039 --> 00:32:02,799
Speaker 3: I would be like a record for our family too.

671
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, So it was. And then he's like, listen and

672
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:08,519
now we have a funny story to tell. Oh yeah,

673
00:32:08,599 --> 00:32:13,119
real funny. So but it wasn't all in all, it

674
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:15,319
was a good trip. It was a good trip except

675
00:32:15,319 --> 00:32:16,440
for Sonny.

676
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:21,279
Speaker 4: I know that feeling where you're like, okay, I'm sure

677
00:32:21,319 --> 00:32:22,200
everything's fine.

678
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 3: But I would have been panicked too.

679
00:32:24,079 --> 00:32:26,799
Speaker 4: When my stomach would I would have been, of course

680
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:30,000
imagining the worst, like, oh my god, I think one

681
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:31,359
can't find him.

682
00:32:31,359 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 3: We're gonna have to.

683
00:32:32,559 --> 00:32:35,559
Speaker 1: I thought maybe he would have slipped because he's he

684
00:32:35,599 --> 00:32:37,839
doesn't have a good balance and there are parts of

685
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:41,599
the trail gets narrow and it's slippery because it's so muddy,

686
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:44,519
and the shoes he had was was kind of slippery.

687
00:32:44,519 --> 00:32:47,279
They weren't good hiking shoes. So I thought, oh, what

688
00:32:47,359 --> 00:32:51,279
if he slipped and fell? And Adam starts laughing, He's like,

689
00:32:51,319 --> 00:32:52,039
what fall into?

690
00:32:52,119 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 5: What?

691
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 1: The weeds on the side of the mountain, Like there's

692
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,000
it wasn't a cliff where he could slip and fall

693
00:32:57,039 --> 00:32:58,599
off a cliff. There was like the side of a

694
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:00,279
mountain where he would have had to like fall into

695
00:33:00,359 --> 00:33:03,920
a bunch of you know, tall grass and trees. So

696
00:33:05,039 --> 00:33:07,519
but I just didn't lie. I don't know. This was

697
00:33:07,559 --> 00:33:10,279
an awful feeling, and Natalia crying.

698
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,839
Speaker 3: And how long did it take her to get over it?

699
00:33:14,119 --> 00:33:15,119
She bounces back kind of.

700
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:18,079
Speaker 1: She bounced. Yes. As soon as I said I can

701
00:33:18,119 --> 00:33:22,039
see him, she she did the thing and then she stopped,

702
00:33:22,039 --> 00:33:23,680
and then she didn't want She didn't talk to him either.

703
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:25,480
She was mad at him. She was pissed.

704
00:33:25,839 --> 00:33:27,359
Speaker 3: She's like that, you ruined my.

705
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 1: Hike too, I go, No, to be fair, your hike

706
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,519
was already room before he took off, because you were

707
00:33:32,519 --> 00:33:36,680
pissed off at us for talking about podcasting. So so there.

708
00:33:39,759 --> 00:33:42,359
Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's a crazy story.

709
00:33:42,599 --> 00:33:46,799
Speaker 1: I know, I know. I did think we were going

710
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:49,960
to have to go get a park ranger and have

711
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:53,000
you know, branch out and go in two to three

712
00:33:53,039 --> 00:33:55,599
different directions and have them tell us, well, there's only

713
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:57,759
one trail, Like I just didn't even want to get

714
00:33:57,759 --> 00:33:58,720
to that point.

715
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 4: One time, years ago, I was just at the park

716
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:06,400
and the kids were young enough where it was definitely

717
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:09,719
a judgment call whether to I was taking one of

718
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,159
them to the bathroom and the other one I was

719
00:34:12,159 --> 00:34:14,519
taking Sadie and needed to go to the bathroom, which

720
00:34:14,639 --> 00:34:19,280
was like not far from the plague the playground at

721
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:22,559
the park, but like just far enough that you couldn't

722
00:34:22,559 --> 00:34:23,960
really see the playground anymore.

723
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 3: And I think the kids were.

724
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:28,960
Speaker 4: Like five, and it was just that border line where

725
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:32,599
you're like, you know where Xander was like I just

726
00:34:32,679 --> 00:34:34,199
want to stay here, and like I don't want to

727
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:35,679
come with you to the bathroom and go wait in

728
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:36,599
line for the bathroom.

729
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,519
Speaker 3: I'm playing, right, I'm fine, leave me alone. Yeah. So

730
00:34:40,159 --> 00:34:42,920
I was like, all right, all right, I'll be right back.

731
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:45,159
Speaker 4: There's a bunch of kids and parents around, and it

732
00:34:45,199 --> 00:34:48,519
was fine, you know, but you still just have that like, okay,

733
00:34:48,519 --> 00:34:50,559
I'm walking leaving my five year old and I am

734
00:34:50,599 --> 00:34:54,360
walking out of sight, which in my mind seemed like

735
00:34:54,599 --> 00:34:57,159
very paranoid of me to even be worried about that.

736
00:34:57,239 --> 00:35:00,519
Speaker 3: It's like, am Sadie.

737
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 4: But then it takes a while because the line was

738
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,960
really long because there's just one one. It's one little stall,

739
00:35:07,159 --> 00:35:09,760
you know. It's not like some parks that have a

740
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,880
bunch of anyway. So it's one at a time where wait,

741
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:15,400
we have to wait in line. It's it takes a while,

742
00:35:16,039 --> 00:35:18,960
and now I'm like, well, I can't go. I can't

743
00:35:19,039 --> 00:35:21,199
leave the line. I don't want to leave her in

744
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:24,800
line for the bathroom by herself. I also don't want

745
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:27,360
to do that. I can't drag her out of line

746
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:28,519
and go back.

747
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:29,280
Speaker 3: Because she has to pee.

748
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:32,119
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I stay with her. I'm like, you know,

749
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:37,719
Xander's fine, I stay with her. She finally peas. Then

750
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:38,400
we go back.

751
00:35:39,039 --> 00:35:41,519
Speaker 3: I can't. I don't see him, and I had that

752
00:35:41,599 --> 00:35:43,519
same thing where I was like, oh my god. Look

753
00:35:44,119 --> 00:35:45,719
and of course I'm like, oh my god.

754
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:49,039
Speaker 4: And then the story when I have to report to

755
00:35:49,079 --> 00:35:50,920
the police that I lost my kid is I'm going

756
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:53,199
to have to say I let well, I left him

757
00:35:53,199 --> 00:35:57,519
here plan by himself, unattended in the park, and I

758
00:35:57,559 --> 00:36:01,320
mean I was freaking out, you know, for like it

759
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:04,440
felt like an hour. I know, it was like ninety

760
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:06,360
seconds of not being able to you know. And then

761
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:08,119
I look around, and then of course I see the

762
00:36:08,159 --> 00:36:10,079
red T shirt and I was like, oh, no, mine,

763
00:36:10,079 --> 00:36:13,159
there is but that feeling just even when you just

764
00:36:13,199 --> 00:36:14,800
can't find them for a minute.

765
00:36:14,559 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 1: Last for a long time, I know, I'm telling you,

766
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,840
Like it seemed like forever until we saw him, I'm like,

767
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:23,840
I'm a fuck. I can't. Like when I hit him

768
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:27,639
with the stick, I didn't, but since I saw him

769
00:36:27,639 --> 00:36:30,719
a little lip quivering as I will, holding up. But

770
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:32,400
it was fine. We had fun.

771
00:36:32,559 --> 00:36:36,360
Speaker 3: Our kids are still like babies. I know, the I

772
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:36,840
don't know.

773
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,079
Speaker 4: It goes back and forth for me, this age this

774
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:43,719
you know, nine and a half for tween years or eleven,

775
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:48,639
but that there's still babies, Like there's still babies. I

776
00:36:48,679 --> 00:36:52,840
mean even Lbie is twelve, but she's still still she's

777
00:36:53,119 --> 00:36:57,639
so innocent, right, She's just so she's just a kid

778
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:02,159
in some ways, And I just just like what, I

779
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:04,599
still feel very protective of all the kids.

780
00:37:04,639 --> 00:37:06,159
Speaker 3: I don't want to be overprotective.

781
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:08,559
Speaker 4: So it's like you have that battle in your mind

782
00:37:08,599 --> 00:37:11,920
where you're like, Okay, they're fine, they're smart people. They

783
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:16,719
should be able to maneuver a trail packed with hikers

784
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:19,840
and just meet us at the bottom. At the same time,

785
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:22,400
I would have felt way more comfortable, like you, if

786
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:23,079
the twins.

787
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:26,519
Speaker 1: Were together, right, if they were together, right, But the

788
00:37:26,599 --> 00:37:31,480
fact that yeah, yeah, like we went the wrong direction, right,

789
00:37:31,559 --> 00:37:35,320
and yeah when pan Adam was like he's smarter than us,

790
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:37,119
he went the right way, because we were like, well

791
00:37:37,159 --> 00:37:38,840
if he went that way, well, if he went that way,

792
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:40,639
he saw that there was a dead end, turn around,

793
00:37:40,679 --> 00:37:42,280
went back the same way we did. I go, but

794
00:37:42,559 --> 00:37:44,960
that trail was empty, there was no people, and what

795
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,480
if there was. I mean, that's like all the stuff

796
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:50,320
I was thinking. And he said he almost got lost.

797
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:52,239
He said, because, he said, because it came to that

798
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:55,159
point where there's the trail loop thing. But I just

799
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,119
asked somebody and they said, oh, yeah, you just go

800
00:37:57,199 --> 00:37:59,559
that way and goes down and uh.

801
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:03,360
Speaker 3: Wow, smart kid, Wow, smart cookie.

802
00:38:03,599 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 1: I gotta take my t shirt off because I'm hot.

803
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:07,599
Speaker 3: Oh go ahead, aren't you hot?

804
00:38:07,639 --> 00:38:12,760
Speaker 4: Strip Not really, I don't think I'm wearing anything under

805
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:14,039
this sweatshirt.

806
00:38:14,199 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 1: This tank tap is so thick, it's.

807
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:19,280
Speaker 3: Like it's like a bombus sock.

808
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:19,760
Speaker 1: But a take.

809
00:38:20,199 --> 00:38:24,559
Speaker 3: So Hi Brandon, Hello, how's it going?

810
00:38:25,119 --> 00:38:25,559
Speaker 4: It's going.

811
00:38:26,079 --> 00:38:28,079
Speaker 3: That's a big a plaint about how's your car?

812
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:29,599
Speaker 4: Oh, it's all fixed.

813
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 3: Fixed up, and it looks better than I did before. Actually, nice,

814
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:39,000
very nice. So my kids are still in school.

815
00:38:39,079 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 1: They're still in school.

816
00:38:42,079 --> 00:38:43,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, isn't that insane?

817
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're lot, I mean, so endless.

818
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 3: We're so done. Mentally we are out of school.

819
00:38:49,639 --> 00:38:52,760
Speaker 4: But physically when is their last day? It was painful

820
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:55,159
to wake them up this morning. I know last day

821
00:38:55,280 --> 00:39:00,760
is Thursday and this week of this week. Yes, So

822
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:03,960
when you're listening to this, they're still They're in their

823
00:39:04,199 --> 00:39:08,119
second day of the week in school, and I wanted

824
00:39:08,159 --> 00:39:11,280
to read you something that I thought you would appreciate it.

825
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:18,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, more teacher appreciation, not an appreciating going.

826
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 4: On now I understand. Okay, this is really not that bad.

827
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:29,039
But basically, this is a letter to the third grade parents.

828
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,199
Next week is our last week of school. We can't

829
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:35,440
believe it's here already. Students have worked so hard all

830
00:39:35,519 --> 00:39:37,480
year long, and now it's time to enjoy a well

831
00:39:37,519 --> 00:39:41,840
deserved break sort of, while taking time to relax and

832
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,360
be with family this summer. It is also important to

833
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:48,159
continue good reading habits in order to maintain their level.

834
00:39:48,599 --> 00:39:51,239
Students should find time to read and then in all

835
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:57,840
caps every day they can read nonfiction fiction, comic books, magazines,

836
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:01,920
et cetera. Every year, kids reading levels drop over the

837
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:07,159
summer anywhere from one to three levels. This then means

838
00:40:07,159 --> 00:40:09,039
that they spend the first six to eight weeks of

839
00:40:09,079 --> 00:40:12,599
school making up this summer loss. This is a tremendous

840
00:40:12,599 --> 00:40:15,239
amount of time that doesn't need to be lost. We

841
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,960
recommend that you really work to set goals for their

842
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:21,880
reading the summer. We have spent copious amounts of time

843
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:26,679
getting them on their quote just right. Independent level research

844
00:40:26,679 --> 00:40:28,920
and experience has shown us that the more time they

845
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,840
spend on books they can fully comprehend, the more progress

846
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:34,480
they will make. So we're including a list of leveled

847
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,280
book recommendations to help you with book selection this summer.

848
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:42,480
We're also including a summer reading plan that increases in

849
00:40:42,599 --> 00:40:45,360
minutes as the summer goes on. No pressure to use

850
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:49,679
this plan except pressure. We just thought we would share

851
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,599
it in case you find this helpful. If your child

852
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:57,000
is unmotivated, uh, thank you, yes, both of mine are.

853
00:40:57,639 --> 00:40:59,920
One thing you can try is offering up an incentive

854
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:01,840
at the end of the week if they meet their goals.

855
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:05,559
A small prize might help them stay motivated. Some things

856
00:41:05,599 --> 00:41:09,679
you might do special time with mom or dad, cupcake,

857
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:13,159
trip to the library.

858
00:41:12,159 --> 00:41:15,519
Speaker 1: Every day, my favor time.

859
00:41:15,679 --> 00:41:17,920
Speaker 4: Like what do you think we're doing? You really think

860
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:20,800
they're going to be like, oh, really, a cupcake.

861
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 3: Bitch. You're taking me to froyo every day.

862
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:28,320
Speaker 4: It's summertime, spending time own us at a trip to

863
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:29,000
the library.

864
00:41:29,039 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 3: Is that right?

865
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:33,199
Speaker 4: If you're good, I'll take you to the library. I

866
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,760
would bribe them to go to the library. It takes

867
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:37,239
a cupcake to get them to go.

868
00:41:37,199 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 3: To the library. I know, where's my list of bribes

869
00:41:40,039 --> 00:41:42,960
to get the library? Trip to the park.

870
00:41:43,639 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 4: Okay, now you're smoking cracks, right, Really, a trip to

871
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:50,079
the park is going to motivate my kids. I'll take

872
00:41:50,119 --> 00:41:53,079
it to the box twenty seventeen, and the kids are

873
00:41:53,079 --> 00:41:53,599
not three.

874
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 1: I know, nobody wants to push me on swing.

875
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 4: They're gonna look at me like I'm high. They're going

876
00:41:59,039 --> 00:42:03,480
to be like parks, what are you talking about? Uh,

877
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:06,119
I'll read a book to avoid a trip to the park.

878
00:42:07,079 --> 00:42:10,119
That's what my kids would say. Yeah, frozen yogurt, A

879
00:42:10,159 --> 00:42:16,519
new book. I mean, wait, let's just find let's stop there.

880
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:19,880
A new book. A new book is going to motivate

881
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:20,599
my kids.

882
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:21,519
Speaker 1: To buy a new book.

883
00:42:21,639 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 4: That's all I'm doing is buy n kids books so

884
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:28,480
that they'll read. A trip to the beach. Well we're

885
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:31,400
going to go to the beach anyway. A movie theater, outing,

886
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:35,840
a fidget spinner, a five dollars toy, et cetera. Nothing big,

887
00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:39,079
but just something to keep them going. Listen, I listen,

888
00:42:39,159 --> 00:42:40,800
I gott we dropped them off at your house.

889
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 1: Whoever wrote that letter you read with them? Yeah, I

890
00:42:44,039 --> 00:42:44,599
keep them going.

891
00:42:44,639 --> 00:42:46,559
Speaker 4: We know that when they return to school in August,

892
00:42:46,599 --> 00:42:48,760
their fourth grade teachers are going to be so impressed

893
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:51,320
with they're reading. This summer is also a great time

894
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:54,800
to keep practicing their multiplication and division facts. Oh yeah,

895
00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:58,079
some students need to work on their automaticity. If they

896
00:42:58,119 --> 00:43:00,559
spend five minutes a day practicing, they'll be ready to

897
00:43:00,599 --> 00:43:03,760
go for fourth grade math. Now I get that, I

898
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:07,840
really do. I understand my kids are not thereat in theory.

899
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:10,639
It sounds great, and these are caring teachers. I love,

900
00:43:10,679 --> 00:43:14,000
By the way, I love love both these teachers. I'm

901
00:43:14,039 --> 00:43:16,800
not bagging on the teachers because and I'm not just

902
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:19,280
saying that both of the kids teachers, both these third

903
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:25,360
grade teachers are amazing, dedicated, enthusiastic. The kids both love

904
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:28,440
their teachers and they love each other's teachers. It's just

905
00:43:28,559 --> 00:43:32,280
so like not for my kids, are just not those kids.

906
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:35,599
Here's the and this so here's the plan. Here's the

907
00:43:35,599 --> 00:43:39,280
reading goals. Yeah, okay, June nineteenth to the twenty third,

908
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:41,960
they want them to read every day for twenty five minutes.

909
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:45,880
The twenty sixth through the thirtieth read for thirty minutes.

910
00:43:46,559 --> 00:43:49,880
The third of July through July seventh, thirty minutes. Then

911
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:52,559
July tenth, they bump it up thirty five minutes a day,

912
00:43:53,559 --> 00:43:56,199
then starting on the twenty fourth of July, thirty five minutes,

913
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:58,800
then thirty five minutes the next week. Then August seventh,

914
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:02,519
they want take it up forty minutes a day, August fourteenth,

915
00:44:02,559 --> 00:44:06,840
forty minutes a day, August twenty first four. Okay, by

916
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,960
the way, that doesn't sound maybe the people whose kids

917
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,480
love to read, that probably doesn't sound like a ton

918
00:44:12,559 --> 00:44:14,039
your kids are going into fourth grade.

919
00:44:14,159 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh, but imagine kids.

920
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 4: Imagine the powers power struggle that goes into when your

921
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:23,800
kids do not want to read and every day.

922
00:44:24,639 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 3: So right now, we're still doing those book goals where they.

923
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:30,519
Speaker 4: Read three yesterday, I must have told my kids to

924
00:44:30,559 --> 00:44:36,079
read forty times for I'm feel you for every minute

925
00:44:36,079 --> 00:44:39,000
that they were supposed to read. Was me going, guys,

926
00:44:39,079 --> 00:44:41,960
remember this is the last push. This is the last

927
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:43,760
week that you had to do these book goals. I

928
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:45,920
really want you to finish the three books. Are you reading?

929
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:47,480
Did you start reading? Why are you reading?

930
00:44:47,519 --> 00:44:49,360
Speaker 3: Why is the shower running? When I just told you

931
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:52,239
to start? Now? You didn't want to read. You didn't

932
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:54,119
want to tak a shower for the last month.

933
00:44:54,199 --> 00:44:57,119
Speaker 4: But suddenly, when I'm really forcing the reading, suddenly now

934
00:44:57,199 --> 00:44:59,960
is the perfect time for a shower. No, turn off

935
00:45:00,119 --> 00:45:02,400
the shower, sit your butt on the can. And then

936
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:04,880
I turn into this like the reading gestapo. And I

937
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:11,719
don't appreciate my role, and don't say feel your pain.

938
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:14,320
Speaker 3: Anybody who will find them a book they really like.

939
00:45:14,639 --> 00:45:17,280
Speaker 4: There are no books that Sadie really likes. I don't

940
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:20,199
care if it's the easiest, most fun. I'm trying graphic

941
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:23,280
novels at cartoons. I don't care what you read. Just

942
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:26,519
read something I don't like that. That's boring? What about

943
00:45:26,559 --> 00:45:28,880
this book? This is about a fucking middle schooler? How

944
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:31,719
could you not this is I don't it's boring.

945
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,400
Speaker 1: Oh and they judge it by the cover too.

946
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:41,199
Speaker 4: Every looks boring. I know there's Elbe. Almost anything I

947
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:42,199
show her, she's like.

948
00:45:42,119 --> 00:45:42,920
Speaker 3: All right, I'll try that.

949
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:44,679
Speaker 1: Isn't that crazy?

950
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:46,800
Speaker 3: She just wants to read, So I never had to

951
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:48,960
deal with it with her. I didn't have to.

952
00:45:49,199 --> 00:45:51,559
Speaker 4: I mean, for those of you who have been listening

953
00:45:51,599 --> 00:45:54,840
to the podcast a long time, yes, when Elbe was

954
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:58,599
in fourth grade, there was my problem with the reading.

955
00:45:58,639 --> 00:46:00,840
Back then for her was that they're just so focused

956
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:01,840
on the number.

957
00:46:01,599 --> 00:46:03,639
Speaker 1: Of books and not on the page none.

958
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:05,360
Speaker 4: So Albi was like, I want to read a book

959
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,000
that's three hundred pages, and I was like, go for it.

960
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:09,519
Speaker 3: Read what you're interested in.

961
00:46:09,559 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 4: If you want to read that book, you should, Yeah,

962
00:46:11,519 --> 00:46:14,280
but I can't finish three. I can't read nine hundred pages.

963
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:17,079
That's in five days. So I'd be like, you know what,

964
00:46:17,159 --> 00:46:19,199
then you should be exempt from that, and I'll talk

965
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:19,599
to your.

966
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:21,440
Speaker 3: Teacher and just read three. Just read the three hundred

967
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:21,920
page book.

968
00:46:22,599 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 4: But the teachers would be like, well, that's just not

969
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:26,440
how we do it. So then I would be like,

970
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:27,639
just do what you want, Alb.

971
00:46:28,199 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 3: You're reading.

972
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:29,760
Speaker 1: Who cares?

973
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:33,039
Speaker 3: And by the way, Albi's a fabulous student.

974
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 1: Of course, of course. I mean it's so super hard

975
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:40,840
to get them to motivate while they're in school. You

976
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:43,239
want us to motivate them while they're out of school.

977
00:46:43,639 --> 00:46:46,400
And like we went on the vacation, I'm like, don't

978
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:49,199
forget to break in your books because we're going to

979
00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:52,480
an Asian family. They don't they don't read. They're all reading,

980
00:46:52,679 --> 00:46:55,199
so don't look like the dumb two twins that come

981
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:58,159
around with no books. And Natalie's like, no, no, I am,

982
00:46:58,199 --> 00:47:00,199
I'm bringing our workbooks. And I go, you are, and

983
00:47:00,199 --> 00:47:02,000
she goes, yeah, mister sample said to bring him to

984
00:47:02,039 --> 00:47:04,159
put him in the fire, so when we do our schmores,

985
00:47:04,199 --> 00:47:08,159
we can we can burn the fire. I was like, no, no,

986
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:10,800
you're missing the points, bitch.

987
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:14,840
Speaker 3: Your own were bringing kindling, Yeah, I'm not.

988
00:47:15,079 --> 00:47:17,360
Speaker 1: By the way, I'm not carrying those. You're gonna put

989
00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:19,480
them in your backpack. I'm not gonna carry that shit.

990
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:25,960
But then they bring the book. Did they read? Not once? No. Tolleen,

991
00:47:26,039 --> 00:47:29,360
the oldest sister, she read Nicholas Sparks books too, by

992
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:33,599
the way, Wow, she's Louise. But the other three, I mean,

993
00:47:34,039 --> 00:47:36,719
Cammy loves to watch TV, and so do my kids,

994
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:40,320
especially on a vacation. So those three were down watching

995
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:43,360
TV forever every minute they could chance. They again, I'm like,

996
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:45,760
can you guys just read for a few minutes or

997
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,400
Sonny since we're not going white water rafting, And he's like,

998
00:47:48,559 --> 00:47:51,039
don't even don't even say it, because he knew what

999
00:47:51,079 --> 00:47:52,320
I was gonna say. We're gonna go back to the

1000
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:54,679
house and read. Because I kept saying that to Tolleen's

1001
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:56,760
I knew that's what she wanted to do, right, and

1002
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:58,800
that's what I want to do. And I said, so

1003
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:02,800
that's what you're gonna No, No, sat underneath a blanket

1004
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:04,760
and watched Flash.

1005
00:48:05,039 --> 00:48:08,679
Speaker 3: See that's the thing, it's that I have okay with Elbe?

1006
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:10,159
All right?

1007
00:48:10,199 --> 00:48:12,880
Speaker 4: So Elbe is not unless she's really into a book.

1008
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:15,960
She isn't necessarily a kid. She's not a bookworm. She's

1009
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:16,440
not like me.

1010
00:48:16,519 --> 00:48:18,039
Speaker 3: You're not going to just find her curled up on

1011
00:48:18,079 --> 00:48:20,599
a chair reading her book. It's just not going to happen.

1012
00:48:21,079 --> 00:48:23,400
Speaker 4: But she does love to read, and when she gets

1013
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:25,719
into a book, she doesn't want to stop reading. So

1014
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:27,559
she'll read it night before she goes to bed, and

1015
00:48:27,599 --> 00:48:29,599
she'll be the kid that's like up till eleven because

1016
00:48:29,639 --> 00:48:31,800
I just wanted just a few more pages, mom, Can.

1017
00:48:31,639 --> 00:48:33,920
Speaker 3: I just read five more minutes? So, once you get

1018
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:34,719
her into it.

1019
00:48:34,679 --> 00:48:37,079
Speaker 4: And there's nothing else that's trying to capture her attention,

1020
00:48:38,119 --> 00:48:44,000
she reads. Sadie and Xander No matter what are all about,

1021
00:48:44,039 --> 00:48:47,639
Like you have to they're very goal oriented. Sadie will

1022
00:48:47,679 --> 00:48:49,800
read okay, so to say her book goal is three

1023
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:51,320
in the week and she's on the last one. She

1024
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:54,639
will read like Okay, to finish this book, I've got

1025
00:48:54,679 --> 00:48:56,599
to read half of it today and half of it tomorrow.

1026
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:59,119
So let's just say the book is one hundred pages.

1027
00:48:59,519 --> 00:49:01,639
Then she's to be like, okay, I'm at page fifty.

1028
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:04,880
If you go like, well, why if you're liking the book,

1029
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:06,360
why don't you just keep going and then you'll have

1030
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:07,239
less street tomorrow.

1031
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:11,519
Speaker 3: Nope, that's fine. No, I'm done fifty. I'm on page fifty.

1032
00:49:11,559 --> 00:49:15,599
Speaker 4: She will never read a minute over what she's supposed

1033
00:49:15,639 --> 00:49:19,039
to be reading. It sucks because I let you know, like,

1034
00:49:19,679 --> 00:49:22,840
and then it just becomes bossing into it. Now do

1035
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:26,119
you think it's because there's so many other things in

1036
00:49:26,199 --> 00:49:30,599
their sphere these days than there was an r Like

1037
00:49:30,639 --> 00:49:33,320
there's just well a phone talking on a phone, or

1038
00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:36,519
an iPad, or even just each other. Like I had

1039
00:49:36,559 --> 00:49:39,119
no brother and sister to play with, a two older

1040
00:49:39,159 --> 00:49:43,719
brother that you know, like I think I was, Yeah,

1041
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:46,239
I agree. I wasn't allowed to watch much TV at all,

1042
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:52,719
and I came My mother was a big reader and

1043
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:55,480
she really stressed the importance of reading. And I was

1044
00:49:55,599 --> 00:49:58,840
read to a tony as a kid, so I just

1045
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:01,079
developed and it was a such an escape for me.

1046
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:02,559
Speaker 3: I really enjoyed it.

1047
00:50:02,679 --> 00:50:06,360
Speaker 4: I loved a good book, and then it definitely was

1048
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:08,719
like a drug, Like it was the thing that I.

1049
00:50:08,639 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 3: Did before I discovered overeating or drugs or alcohol. That

1050
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:16,000
was like a thing to get like addicted to, like into.

1051
00:50:16,159 --> 00:50:17,360
Speaker 1: I would just love to.

1052
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:21,480
Speaker 3: Be lost in a good book. I think a couple things.

1053
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 4: I think that there's so much emphasis on reading now

1054
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:28,840
that it has taken some of the fun out of it.

1055
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:29,800
Speaker 3: Because I don't.

1056
00:50:29,599 --> 00:50:32,119
Speaker 4: Remember there being all these like book goals and you

1057
00:50:32,199 --> 00:50:33,840
have to read this many pages a day or you

1058
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:35,440
have to read this many books. I think it was

1059
00:50:35,559 --> 00:50:38,440
just like loving good stories when I was a kid,

1060
00:50:39,119 --> 00:50:42,119
and it was like a thing that we I like doing.

1061
00:50:42,599 --> 00:50:45,800
Speaker 3: Then I think for Maddie or Xander trying to get.

1062
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:49,519
Speaker 4: Used to calling e Xander, I think if he was

1063
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:51,960
really allowed to read what he wants to read and

1064
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:54,519
at the pace he wants to read, he would like

1065
00:50:54,559 --> 00:50:55,159
reading more.

1066
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:57,400
Speaker 3: I think being forced to.

1067
00:50:57,519 --> 00:50:59,599
Speaker 4: Like you have to read only books that we have

1068
00:51:00,199 --> 00:51:04,199
that are at this level, this level, I think it

1069
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:05,960
takes some of the fun out for him. And then

1070
00:51:06,039 --> 00:51:09,920
for Sadie, I feel like her her she has more

1071
00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:12,239
trouble reading, so it's harder for it to be, it

1072
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:14,000
still feels like work for her brain.

1073
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:15,519
Speaker 3: So it still feels like a chore.

1074
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:17,960
Speaker 4: So even when she's read, even when a book is

1075
00:51:18,039 --> 00:51:21,320
kind of funny, I think her brain is not. It's

1076
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:25,239
not so automatic. The reading still isn't automatic. So it's

1077
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:27,199
not like she just gets lost in the book.

1078
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:28,159
Speaker 3: It's still work.

1079
00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 1: Do you think the more she does it, though, the

1080
00:51:31,039 --> 00:51:32,719
more the I mean.

1081
00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:36,559
Speaker 4: Yeah, it gets easier, but she's it's still not easy

1082
00:51:36,599 --> 00:51:38,400
for her to read the type of book she likes

1083
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:38,840
to read.

1084
00:51:39,559 --> 00:51:40,519
Speaker 1: What is she reading?

1085
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:42,119
Speaker 3: Well, left to her.

1086
00:51:42,079 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 4: Own devices, she would want to read just dork Diary.

1087
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:47,639
And I told her, okay, as soon as school's out,

1088
00:51:48,159 --> 00:51:50,159
I don't care that dork Diary is not on your level.

1089
00:51:50,159 --> 00:51:52,320
As soon as schools out, start with book one and

1090
00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:54,960
read for the summer, read dork Diaries. That's all you

1091
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:58,119
have to read, book after book. Just read that every day.

1092
00:51:58,599 --> 00:51:59,079
I don't care.

1093
00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:00,199
Speaker 1: That's a good idea.

1094
00:52:00,679 --> 00:52:05,280
Speaker 3: And she was okay with that. She likes that's all

1095
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:09,000
she likes. She likes. Uh, I'm forcing her to read

1096
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:10,800
this bad Kittie book?

1097
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:12,800
Speaker 1: Im that?

1098
00:52:13,480 --> 00:52:17,280
Speaker 3: Andane Zane Xander likes bad kitty.

1099
00:52:18,639 --> 00:52:19,800
Speaker 1: What does he reading?

1100
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:23,440
Speaker 4: He's also likes this series called Teddy Mars, which is

1101
00:52:23,519 --> 00:52:24,480
just the book about a kid.

1102
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:27,320
Speaker 1: What was that Olga book? You said?

1103
00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:32,119
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Olga something it was. It's really cute. It's

1104
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:33,199
a new release.

1105
00:52:33,519 --> 00:52:34,760
Speaker 3: Like Harper Collins.

1106
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:38,559
Speaker 4: Sends me books sometimes, and this Olga look it up.

1107
00:52:38,599 --> 00:52:41,679
It's got like a red cover. Oh loved it. Was

1108
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:45,159
laughing out loud, stopping at every page. And my friend

1109
00:52:45,199 --> 00:52:50,320
Megan uh tweeted me or texted me and was like,

1110
00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:52,719
oh my god, my daughter. I got it from my

1111
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:55,239
daughter and she's read it like three times already. It's

1112
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:56,119
really cute book.

1113
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:58,400
Speaker 1: Noah, it's funny. It's because you told me about it.

1114
00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:01,960
I wrote Olga book and on my notes and then

1115
00:53:02,039 --> 00:53:04,559
I remember, like like a week later, I'm looking through

1116
00:53:04,639 --> 00:53:07,400
my notes, I'm like, oh, the book, Oh the book book.

1117
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:09,639
What am I trying to tell Olga? I gotta tell

1118
00:53:09,639 --> 00:53:11,599
her to go shop? Is there a book that she

1119
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:14,599
needs to get for the kids? I couldn't figure out

1120
00:53:14,599 --> 00:53:18,039
what it said, Olga book. Oh you told me nuts.

1121
00:53:18,039 --> 00:53:19,599
I'm like, Olga, are you supposed to get a book

1122
00:53:19,639 --> 00:53:21,199
for the kids or do you have a book that

1123
00:53:21,199 --> 00:53:23,519
I'm supposed to O's like no, I don't know what

1124
00:53:23,559 --> 00:53:24,199
you're talking about.

1125
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:29,000
Speaker 4: Here's here's the book found it. It's called Olga and

1126
00:53:29,039 --> 00:53:30,480
the Smelly Thing from Nowhere.

1127
00:53:31,199 --> 00:53:32,679
Speaker 1: So it's called Okay, it's.

1128
00:53:32,559 --> 00:53:35,559
Speaker 4: Got little like cartoon, it's got drawings and graphs and

1129
00:53:35,599 --> 00:53:39,239
funny and it's really like laugh out loud funny, like

1130
00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:41,719
I'm telling you. Xander was like every page was like,

1131
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:44,760
can I just read you one funny thing from this page?

1132
00:53:45,119 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 1: Sonny would like that.

1133
00:53:46,199 --> 00:53:49,159
Speaker 4: Yeah, he would love it. He will laugh out loud.

1134
00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:51,239
Olga and the Smelly Thing from Nowhere.

1135
00:53:51,559 --> 00:53:51,960
Speaker 1: Awesome.

1136
00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:54,679
Speaker 4: I wonder if she's done other books. If there's a series,

1137
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:57,519
I don't think so. I think it's her first one. Also,

1138
00:53:57,719 --> 00:54:01,159
Stick Cat and Stick Dog they like. I think there

1139
00:54:01,199 --> 00:54:03,440
might be more in that series two. That's a fun

1140
00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:05,760
one for them. Oh. Also I think this is written

1141
00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:08,639
down the Tapper Twins. Yeah, because that'll be got two

1142
00:54:08,679 --> 00:54:13,320
more of those. Okay, Before we wrap, thank you to

1143
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:18,039
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1145
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00:54:59,199 --> 00:55:01,400
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1158
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:02,079
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00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:04,840
Speaker 3: Out for your biz. Wow, Yeah, think about how that

1160
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breaks down.

1161
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know how much it's a cost for us, less.

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Speaker 4: Than fifteen bucks a week, because every week we will

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mention your business.

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Speaker 3: And that's our show today.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Thanks Klein, Thank you, you're a parent. Now,

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don't f it up.

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Speaker 6: Boom Budda boom Budda boom Buddida boom Buddie boom Budda

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boom buddied boom budd.

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Speaker 1: Who cares about.

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Speaker 5: The clowns when we're to kill? Just sing a song

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and thing bouts sunny hap you somebo did up able

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did

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Speaker 3: Bum bum