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Speaker 1: Made a decision.

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Speaker 2: Please Sunny Sue on Idasion night, let's have everybody welcome

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to for crying out loud. What's going on? Anything?

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Speaker 1: Nothing, nothing really big going on and nothing in the news.

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Speaker 2: No, not by a week.

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Speaker 1: I know, I know, it's just so calm and everybody

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nobody's on edge.

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Speaker 2: No, no, it's not much, very slow news cycle.

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Speaker 1: If you're listening to this in the morning, please go vote, Please,

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please make a plan to go vote and not let

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our country be taken over by fascism. And that's all

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not to be political or anything, but just like seriously

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protect out right. Oh and go and vote, and now

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listen to the rest of the show, which we'll have

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nothing to do with.

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Speaker 3: With that.

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Speaker 1: Imagine you're listening to an episode on election day. That's right,

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it's a big important day. Elbie just voted the very

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first presidential election. She keeps making jokes. She's like, I'm

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I was so excited to vote for Trump. It's like

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my first time and I'm always like stop, Elbe like

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it's not funny. She's like, it's kind of funny.

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Speaker 2: I know it's funny. Natalia, she I was like, I

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read Sonny wanted to register I registered for Sonny, but

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he's out of state. Oh right, So and we could

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have planned it better where I maybe got the ballot

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in time brought it to him when I just went there,

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but I didn't get it in time. Natalia was like

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first she was like, yeah, register me, you know. And

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then she was like and then I said, okay, I

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need your driver's license and she's like, yeah, I'll wait

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till next time. Like really, yeah, yeah, but it was

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we did.

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Speaker 1: We did now Albie a little bit, yeah, yeah, but

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you know it's their first election.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, she was excited once. Also, I think she was

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confused by the ballot and all. There's a lot of

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stuff on there is. But I have a friend who

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really does her research. This is the same as me,

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you know, with like the pediatrician. Yeah, it's like, find

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somebody who cares a lot about a good pediatrician, absolutely,

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and then do what they do. Yeah. So I have

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a friend who really I'm very aligned with politically, and

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she is very versed in all who are all the judges,

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and who are all the superintendents, and who is all

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the state measures and all the county measures, And she

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just does a very comprehensive voting guide with every single

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person right, And so I just did what she did.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Susanne and I did basically the same thing with

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her boyfriend because we were both on the same page.

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So we sat over the phone. She just moved in

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with her boyfriend. That's so exciting for her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he has been a few years.

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Speaker 2: He has, Yeah, and there she's enjoying it. It's a little,

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you know, kind of a different you know, it's when

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you're you get to the age where you're used to

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being on your own and living on your own for

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so long after you like divorce, your first divorce or whatever,

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and then you meet somebody on their second marriage who's

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also used to being alone and being a bachelor, and

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now you now they're like living together. It's a little

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bit of an adjustment. But but they get along so well.

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He's so sweet, he's so good to her. They get

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along great. They met on match.

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Speaker 1: What's the adjustment. Are they like bickering or is she

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are they just getting annoyed? No.

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Speaker 2: The one adjustment, and it's really ridiculous, is she Suzanne's

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got a little dog, Frankie, so cute, and he's like

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a Boston terror mix. He's not or she Frankie. She's

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a girl, not very big.

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Speaker 1: You can if you just misgendered somebody.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, Wow, Frankie, he could be a boy or a girl.

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I love that name.

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Speaker 1: He's c and I also love boys' names for girls.

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Speaker 2: Yes, so so so Frankie is so her boyfriend raised

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four kids. They're all off to college and grown. He's

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had dogs, you know, so he's been there. He's done that.

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doesn't want to, you know, have another responsibility of a dog.

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have a little bit of quirks. So he's getting used

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Speaker 1: That's it. That's it, like and it's stupid, I mean that,

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But that's what they're bickering about, is the dog. I

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don't love that they're he's having a problem with a dog.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 2: No, he he loves Frankie and everything, but he has

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to be with the dog, sometimes alone all day while

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she's at work. And and so the bargain that they

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made a deal where Suzanne was going to get a

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dog trainer to break her some of the habits and

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she relaxed on that. So he's you know, he's been like, Okay,

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it's been months now, where's the dog trainer? And she's

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like all right, you know. So they're bickering about that. Okay,

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that's about it. He's like, they get along. He's just

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he's such a great guy. He's a good man. He's

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a kind man. And and I'm yeah, I'm happy for them. Yeah,

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it's good that they live together now. Nice. I mean,

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Speaker 1: Doing this podcast a long time. I remember when they

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first met. I remember when they were just kind of

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dating and she kind of met someone. I remember when

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she was like single for so long, single for a yeah,

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for a long time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. And also for her, you know,

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she had her own place. Now it's like she's moved

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into his place. So it's like a guy's house. You know,

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it's got all the guy furniture kind of thing. And

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she softened it up a little bit, but she still

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sometimes feels like I don't feel like i'm at home

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home yet, you know.

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Speaker 1: And I told I think it's going to take.

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Speaker 2: Time, especially when you're used to being on your own.

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a year probably to you really feel like that's your home,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think for some women remember that scene

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and when Harry met Sally, remember the wagon wheel table

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where h what's her name, Meg, Meg, the actress, know

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it was it was the other couple. It was.

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Speaker 2: Berne Bruno Kirby.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it was his friend and her friend got a

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play date. We're dating, Like they met each other and

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they were supposed to be setting each other up on dates.

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Beg Rian was supposed to be with Bruno Kirby and

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he was supposed to be who's the other at the

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big actress? Yeah, but it was Carrie Fisher you so,

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and then uh, Bruno Kirby and Carrie Fisher ended up

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like loving each other on the double date that right,

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and they like we're like bye, and they got in

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a car and left and then so they have like

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a very quick courtship. But remember that he was total

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bachelor pad and she was like oh hell no, and

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made him throw away this like weet this the old

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coffee table and he was like that's my coffee table

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and she was like it's gotta go. And that was

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like a big fight they had. Yeah, I feel like

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you have to kind of go into it like right,

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you ever see anything before? Like we've been together for

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a long time and this is the first you're bringing

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it up that you hate my place. Yeah, well, she

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she likes it.

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Speaker 2: It just doesn't feel like it doesn't it's it's you know,

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it's new when you move into somebody else's house, you

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know that he's lived in for so long and raise

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his kids in, you know. But she loves it though

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she's you know, her daughter is at school in New York,

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I know, but he's got kids that are out of

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college that come over on Sunday nights. So and she's

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close with her kid with his kids, so she feels like,

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you know, there's still a family. You know, they have

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bless you say, Sundays and Sunday dinners and stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: All right, Kaylen taking over the show. So do you

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anyway are they Do you think they're going to get

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married or is there no real point? Or I think so,

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I don't know, and you'll be going to a wedding.

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Speaker 2: I don't think they're gonna have a wedding. Wedding. They'll

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probably Elpe. Oh they're very practical. Okay, yeah, that's right.

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I'm happy for her. Yeah. Nice. Yeah. So Halloween. How

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how was Halloween?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we that's that's something that just happened. So my

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kids had a great Halloween. They're so funny. As we

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talked about last time, it's just the Halloween is such

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a big holiday in the way of like you see

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it progress from when your kids are little. It's like

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a big parent kid holiday, like you take your kid's

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trigger treating, you know, and then there's a lot to

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do about the costume and you sometimes like when I

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was little, my mom would make my costume. Yes, we've

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talked about how I would just pray for one of

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those like six dollars costumes in the pod with the

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mask and the snappy thing around the head.

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Speaker 2: I just wanted one so bad.

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Speaker 1: I why can I have that?

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Speaker 2: My mom was like, why would you?

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Speaker 1: My life my childhood was very much in line with

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like Eddie Murphy, like with that house House Burgers, say,

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anything that you could do that wasn't a store like

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that would save you money. So I had I remember

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one year I was a wizard and I basically was

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wearing a black sweatshirt where my mom had like pinned,

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like made paper cutouts of like stars and moons and.

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Speaker 2: Stuff and just like pin them.

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Speaker 1: There was a thing.

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foam court, you know, board painted it like the Ace

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of Diamonds or whatever. And then my other friend was

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like the Ace of Queen, the Queen of Aces or whatever,

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and we were like playing cards stupid when everybody else's Yeah,

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would make your everybody kind of made their own costumes

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Speaker 1: See now, I feel like that's when they're a little Yeah, maybe.

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Speaker 2: When when you were younger, younger, you wanted that like, yes,

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that fresh pretty.

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Speaker 1: Frush out of the box party City, Go get in

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lineup Party City and get whatever's leftover. My kids wanted

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the store bought when they were young. Then as they've

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gotten older, they got more into like, let's figure out

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our costumes there. It involves a lot of trips to

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Spirit of Halloween. You know, first there's browsing, then there's

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just getting ideas, and then there's going back for this,

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and then I forgot this, and then there's fake blood,

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a lot of trips to spirit of Halloween. But then

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you hit the year where like you don't have anything

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Speaker 2: Uh huh. And they even ask you.

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Speaker 1: They don't even consult you.

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Speaker 2: It's just like you see them leave.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you ask them, what are the you guys, what

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are you being for Halloween? Yeah? Yeah, so this Halloween

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and I have this is also going to be a

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little side story too, which is so which is very

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a very cute, uplifting side story, which is that ever

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since Xander made friends with Lyle Lyle Crocodile and Covid.

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As you might recall and for anybody that's newer to

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our show, Xander made a friend at his pool that

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was online named Lyle Lyle Crocodile, that's what we call him,

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and he we found out that they were they were

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currently experiencing homelessness. At the time, I had no idea,

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and they became the best of friends, and our whole

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community basically lifted this lady homelessness. We got her a car,

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we got her safely apart. Yeah, everybody, we all came

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together and then by the way, I want to say

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that last Christmas, for the holidays, everybody wanted. I got

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so many like private messages of people saying like, how

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can we I want to do something for that family holidays.

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So we did a like a collection and we gave

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her two thousand dollars and do you know what she

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did with that money? She got her kids some Christmas gifts,

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but she also got her daughter braces. And with the

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first money that we gave her, we gave her like

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an influx of cash, and she got her son braces

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who'd been bugging for braces. People don't realize that there

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are certain things that your kids don't just get just

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because you're reyless. Like a lot of people think that

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fixing your teeth is cosmetic. So it's like the government

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is not giving you money so that your kids have

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a nice smile and feel good about themselves. So this mom,

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this is just like what a hard worker she is.

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a minimum wage job and still struggles to make ends meet.

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this tradition that the kids do Halloween together. So it's

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just it was really cute. This was our fourth Halloween together.

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I want to do another I'm going to be seeing

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her December sixth, in a month, So if anybody wants

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to do another fund for her Christmas, what about like.

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Speaker 2: An Amazon wish list or something.

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But the problem with it is then she has to

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like it makes her feel weird. I think, Oh, then

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it's like I want it if I surprise her and

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say like, hey, our community came together and we're just

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giving you some money for Christmas so you can have

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a good Christmas, and like that's just as good. That's even.

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Amazon wish list when she moved it when she got

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her apartment, and that was great, but that was like, hey,

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you got an apartment, but of course you can't afford

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to like furnish your apartment. But like you know what

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to just pick stuff for Christmas when she might want

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it for paying a medical bill or what anyway, anyway,

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if anybody wants to do that again, hit me up

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on Facebook. I'll send you my VENMO. But and I've

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sent it already to a bunch of people that have

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asked that want to do it. And I'm going to

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give her the money on December sixth. Oh okay, yeah,

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which is when my kids, which is when any What

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Crocodile is doing so great. So I don't know if

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you remember me telling you, but he had gone to

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a different school than Xander for the first year. And

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then Xander was having a great time at his school

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and Lyle was not making friends. And he's very you know,

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he's a shut down kid. He's had a lot of

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trauma and it was difficult for him to be there

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without like his best friend, you know. So she moved

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him over at the beginning of last year. And by

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all accounts, this kid has had such a change. First

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of all, he got a girlfriend, and he was when

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I tell you that he was shut down, like he

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barely spoke, Like he would talk to Xander, was like

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he talks when it's just the two of us. He

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talks quite a lot and he's funny, but like it's

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hard anyway, He's come out of his shell. He I

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was looking at videos. Sadie was showing me videos. She

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was like, mom, look lyla crocodile dancing. He and his

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little sister learned all these TikTok dances and they, oh, no,

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what's that dance video thing? Like just dance or something.

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These videos they learned all the ones, all the Michael

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Jackson dances. Oh really, he's an insanely good dancer. Wo

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And Sadie told me he dances all the time at school,

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that he's totally out of his shell. He's like a ham.

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He likes attention. Now, Oh my gosh, I'm just talking

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to this girl.

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Speaker 2: He's like so so happy.

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Speaker 1: And his mom, Anna was like telling me at Halloween,

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this is why it's all tied together. She came over

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for Halloween with her kids, and she we were laughing

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about how she anytime I'm with her, she's like, please

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tell everybody, like I'm so grateful, like it's totally obviously

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changed my life. Like, So she came over and their

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whole family loves horror movies. So the kids went out

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trick or treating, which we'll get to And then she

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and I sat on the couch and I'd never seen it,

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but she really likes that horror movie. Oh my god,

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you know what, we watched it together on the couch.

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Did you like it? It was pretty good?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, but but yeah, but.

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Speaker 1: Afterwards, I was just hearing about how Lyle is like

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such a happy, such a happy kid, has changed so much.

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Oh and she was just like, thank you for making

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us come to this school, like it's been amazing for Lyle.

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Speaker 2: And it's like, thank god, I'm just so I almost

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started crying.

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Speaker 1: When I was looking at the videos. I was like,

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this is a different kid, right, yeah, this is four

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years later because he's at a.

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Speaker 2: New school where he probably feels, you know, like he's

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like it's different than the big school he was going.

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Speaker 1: To before, Like it was that anonymous experience.

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Speaker 2: Is like he has a friend group, right, he has.

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Speaker 1: For the first time, like, and he has consistency and

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because they've been living in the same place now, like

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for since we got her in this apartment, she's been

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in the same apartment and like has stability.

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Speaker 2: That's that's yest. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And then the daughter who's like, oh, my god. She's

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the sweetest, like goodest little girl.

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Speaker 2: She's so nice.

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Speaker 1: She's going to be coming to their school next year.

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Speaker 2: Oh she is, yeah, because she's young.

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Speaker 1: He's in eighth grade. Yeah, the next year she'll be

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at the school. So great, and they can all like, look,

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such a great story. I know, and it's you guys,

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it's every you guys literally pulled a person from homelessness

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and like changed her whole life and gave these kids,

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like turn these kids into like happy kids.

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Speaker 2: What a great story for this time of year. Two right, yeah,

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I know, I know, I know.

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Speaker 1: So arm So Halloween, it's have like a few friends

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over and I had no, like did not know what

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costume they were doing, because it's just like they don't.

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Speaker 2: Really talk to me about it. They're like, yeah, a

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few people are coming over. I did my thing.

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Speaker 1: I ordered some pizza, I made a Caesar salad out

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of a bag, and I made some onion dip and

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chips that's like our tradition.

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Speaker 2: And then I put it out.

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Speaker 1: And then but right like literally that afternoon, John goes,

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do we have any candy? And I was like, no,

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and I don't know what any of their costumes really

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were like because things have changed. Yeah, they're they're it's

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all like internet stuff like sad went as as a

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meme basically, which is something like it's a it's somebody

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with a pig face and they're at your door or

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they're calling you. I don't know what it is. Xander's like,

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it's from TikTok. So he made this mask and then

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it was like and then he made his put a

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cell phone buttons like an end call, a call button,

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and then it was like and then he held up

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his Yeah so you looked like a meme on the phone. Yeah, yeah,

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that's cute.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. No, no, we don't know what me is. I

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don't know what it is.

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Speaker 1: He showed it to me and I was like, okay, yeah,

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and then Lyle went as something that like was scary,

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but I didn't know what it was. It's from like

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some Marvel movie or you know something.

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Speaker 2: And then the.

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Speaker 1: His sister went as something again. I was like, I

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don't know what y'all are, but have fun. Then they

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went trigger treating and blamed it on Lyle's kid's sister, right, like, okay,

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because they're older teens. They're about to be seventeen years old,

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and it's good her. They wanted to go triger treating

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and I was like, you know what, you should go

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trigger treating and they're like, yeah, we got Lyle's sister

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with us, right. Even Myles's sister though, is like you know,

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eighth grade, right, like it's already getting but she's kind

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of short. Yeah, so it could sort of look like

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they're yeh yeah taking their kids. So we were saying

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before the show that I think that there's like there's

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some states that are starting.

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Speaker 2: To look at at at an age limit for kids

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trick or treating.

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Speaker 1: It's so funny that anybody thinks they're going to legislate

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like something that's gonna gard him at the door?

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Speaker 2: What the hell?

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Speaker 1: I don't know to Kaylin, did you find out anything? Oh? No,

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he's probably looking into Jamie Fox.

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Speaker 2: Oh he was looking at the Jamie Fox.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's uh the fourteen or something like that. You're gonna do?

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Speaker 1: Are you gonna determine that? No, And let me tell you.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you my Halloween I I We've always

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lived in houses that never got trick or treaters.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: The last house was down at the end of a

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cul de Sade was dark street.

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Speaker 1: Nobody came.

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Speaker 2: So since May of this year, I've been looking forward

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to Halloween for the sheer fact of having trick or

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treaters at my door. Because we moved into a new

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and there's nobody really across an empty lot across the street.

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so okay, but my house is lit up like I

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have all the lights on, and I'm looking forward to

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trick or treaters. I buy four bags of candy, thinking

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I hope I have enough because they see little kids

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in my neighborhood all day every.

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Speaker 1: Day, walking around constantly. So I'm like, okay, here we go.

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I'm excited. So what did I do?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: I made creama mushrooms homemade cream mushroom soup, which is

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really easy to make.

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Speaker 2: I made that.

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Speaker 1: I You're gonna upset people right now. You realize that

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I know that I never give the recipe. Yeah, people

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00:25:08,759 --> 00:25:11,200
are like, where's this fucking mushroom soup recipe?

472
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:14,319
Speaker 2: And You're like, it's coming. Okay, let me tell you

473
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:18,480
really quick right now. Okay, it's it's uh So what

474
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:21,880
you do is you get the mushrooms. Saute the mushrooms.

475
00:25:22,319 --> 00:25:27,279
I add cut up green onions, chopped up green onions. Uh,

476
00:25:27,559 --> 00:25:31,599
saute the mushrooms in butter, with butter in butter, okay,

477
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:33,480
a lot of butter, a lot of cream in this.

478
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:37,839
So then once the mushrooms are saute, you get the

479
00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,960
can of soup. You dump up, you open up, dump

480
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:44,240
the whole can of creama mushroom Campbell's creama mushroom soup.

481
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:45,480
Speaker 1: Then you take.

482
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:50,519
Speaker 2: Half a cup no no, no, or a cup about

483
00:25:50,559 --> 00:25:54,720
a cup of milk and a cup of cream, dump

484
00:25:54,759 --> 00:26:00,200
it in and you just stir it up and that's out.

485
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:00,799
Speaker 1: Seasonings.

486
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:04,880
Speaker 2: You don't need seasonings. Well, so I would put Then

487
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:07,599
what I would do is put fresh cracked pepper on top.

488
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:11,759
And then I would get those crispy wantons that you

489
00:26:11,839 --> 00:26:15,079
put like on salad, and I would put that on top,

490
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,799
sprinkle crunch it on to give it some crunch. Okay,

491
00:26:18,039 --> 00:26:18,759
and there you go.

492
00:26:19,759 --> 00:26:23,799
Speaker 1: Now do you serve it with anything like a bag get? Yes? Yes, yes,

493
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,839
it feels like you would want to sop up Oh yeah,

494
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:28,240
yes your bread.

495
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's delicious, it's so easy, but it's better than

496
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:36,119
just like a Campbell's creama mushroom soup, right because you

497
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:38,480
have your own like sauteed mushrooms in there and you

498
00:26:38,559 --> 00:26:43,240
have like the green onions in there, and and yeah

499
00:26:43,319 --> 00:26:44,119
it's delicious.

500
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,839
Speaker 1: Okay, so I'm sorry. Okay, anyway, so they made the.

501
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:51,440
Speaker 2: Cream of mushroom soup and I was like, okay, I'm

502
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:54,039
gonna you know, I'm gonna settle in with trigger treaters.

503
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 1: It's gonna get so I'm thinking, right, yeah, and yourself.

504
00:26:59,279 --> 00:27:02,240
So yes, I was by myself and it's like six o'clock.

505
00:27:02,799 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 2: It's starting to get dark, and I'm like, okay, they're

506
00:27:06,039 --> 00:27:07,839
probably gonna come soon because it's start.

507
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,119
Speaker 1: So I get the candy, like jumping.

508
00:27:09,839 --> 00:27:11,400
Speaker 2: Out the window. I'm trying to picture you.

509
00:27:11,519 --> 00:27:13,039
Speaker 1: You're like looking down here they come.

510
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 2: I did, and you know what, I was okay by

511
00:27:15,519 --> 00:27:18,519
nobody came. But then seven o'clock rolls around and I

512
00:27:18,599 --> 00:27:21,039
opened the door and I look out and I see

513
00:27:21,839 --> 00:27:25,519
families walking past my house and they see me open

514
00:27:25,599 --> 00:27:28,640
the door and they were like, h I go, Happy Halloween.

515
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 1: They're like happy Halloween and they're just walking by like hello, hello,

516
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:38,960
Like I got candy. I got such good candy too.

517
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:43,839
I got French bars, I got Trumpet, I got such

518
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:47,680
good candy. I got the kid it's the best candy.

519
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:51,640
I got my my accordion hands going, it's the best.

520
00:27:51,759 --> 00:27:58,079
It's the most terrific, terrific different. They'll millions and millions

521
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:01,359
of pieces of candy and my and my bowl at

522
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:04,200
the front door. Millions the best.

523
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,200
Speaker 2: Full sized candy bars, full.

524
00:28:06,079 --> 00:28:10,039
Speaker 1: Size exactly like get cats. You're like, yeah, I'm gonna

525
00:28:10,039 --> 00:28:13,000
be that family. I was full size candy family.

526
00:28:13,279 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, nothing, Oh my god, not one not so

527
00:28:18,319 --> 00:28:21,000
then I go, okay, what the fuck?

528
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 1: So I was really like upset about it. I was like, god,

529
00:28:24,839 --> 00:28:27,960
damn it. Now it's like eight fifteen. So I'm eating

530
00:28:28,039 --> 00:28:28,680
half the candy.

531
00:28:28,799 --> 00:28:31,319
Speaker 2: I've had a couple of them, sugar person, No, I

532
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:34,000
could care less. I did have a couple of the

533
00:28:34,079 --> 00:28:36,960
butter fingers snick there. No, it's a Snickers, but it's

534
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:41,319
a peanut butter Snickers. Now it's yellow. Yeah, it was good.

535
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:44,920
It had two of those full size mini ones. Okay,

536
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,279
but I did get I did get the bigger crunch

537
00:28:48,359 --> 00:28:50,680
bars because Sonny and I both love crunch bars.

538
00:28:51,359 --> 00:28:52,079
Speaker 1: It's our favorite.

539
00:28:52,079 --> 00:28:53,319
Speaker 2: So I got a bigger one of those.

540
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:53,759
Speaker 1: Okay.

541
00:28:54,079 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 2: Anyway, so around eight fifteen, I was I was bummed.

542
00:28:59,279 --> 00:29:01,160
So I'm like, no, what he's coming. So I put

543
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:04,279
my pajamas on. I put the candy away so Phil

544
00:29:04,359 --> 00:29:05,079
doesn't get to it.

545
00:29:05,319 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 1: I put it up high.

546
00:29:06,759 --> 00:29:10,279
Speaker 2: I call it a night. And then at like eight

547
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:14,720
forty five, there's like a knock at the door and

548
00:29:14,839 --> 00:29:17,240
Phil and I are like what the h And at

549
00:29:17,279 --> 00:29:19,519
first I was like scared, like who's knocking at my door?

550
00:29:19,799 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 1: At eight forty five, I go who is it? And

551
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:29,000
they go trigger treat. I'm like, god, damn, God, damn it.

552
00:29:29,559 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 2: I also had like a cute like Halloween sweater on.

553
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,160
It was like orange and everything that was festive dress.

554
00:29:35,279 --> 00:29:38,200
Now I'm in my bathrobe. Okay, now I have the

555
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:39,119
everything put away.

556
00:29:39,119 --> 00:29:41,359
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, where'd I put it? Which cabinet did

557
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,000
I put it in? Oh it's up here, it's up here.

558
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:48,359
Speaker 2: I get it down and I get the bowl, like yeah,

559
00:29:48,559 --> 00:29:52,519
I opened the door and it's teenagers, like three boys

560
00:29:52,559 --> 00:29:53,119
and two girls.

561
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 1: They were really cute. They were like fourteen or fifteen. Yeah,

562
00:29:57,599 --> 00:30:00,559
and they were that's like three years back, kids who

563
00:30:00,599 --> 00:30:03,000
are still triggered. We're still triggered, right, and it's like

564
00:30:03,119 --> 00:30:04,039
back when they were kids.

565
00:30:04,079 --> 00:30:08,079
Speaker 2: But at least your kids put costumes. These the boys

566
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,839
had no costume. They were just in black. And then

567
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:14,039
the two girls had like bunny ears and like a

568
00:30:14,119 --> 00:30:14,759
bunny nose.

569
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 1: Such a right, you give it some candy exactly. I

570
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:23,599
could not have been happier. I was like, hey, guys, here,

571
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:27,400
and I dumped the whole bowl, which is two bags

572
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:27,839
of candy.

573
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 2: I had it in one bowl. I go, it's a

574
00:30:30,119 --> 00:30:32,519
for nobody else is coming. I still have more bags

575
00:30:32,559 --> 00:30:35,640
of candy here. I jumped it all and he goes,

576
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:37,400
put it into one bag. We'll all split it.

577
00:30:38,319 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 1: Start dictating how I know, right, ma'am the way I

578
00:30:44,799 --> 00:30:48,400
want to give it to you my hollow yeah, And

579
00:30:48,519 --> 00:30:50,720
then like Phil's and then they're talking. They're like, what's

580
00:30:50,839 --> 00:30:51,400
dog's name?

581
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 2: Like Phil? Now making conversation, They're like is there where's

582
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:58,160
the big Like there's there's uh. I said, where do

583
00:30:58,200 --> 00:30:59,680
you do you guys go to high school out here?

584
00:31:00,119 --> 00:31:01,920
And they said, no, we go to the they're from

585
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:04,720
the other town over. Oh they come over yeah, And

586
00:31:04,839 --> 00:31:07,480
I was like okay. And then they said, what isn't

587
00:31:07,519 --> 00:31:10,680
there like a street? Because There is a huge street

588
00:31:10,799 --> 00:31:13,799
that's like candy Cane Lane in my neighborhood that gets

589
00:31:13,839 --> 00:31:16,440
shut down and everybody it's just a big cashah. And

590
00:31:16,559 --> 00:31:18,279
I told them the name of the street and it's

591
00:31:18,319 --> 00:31:21,039
two blocks that way, and they were like, oh great,

592
00:31:21,119 --> 00:31:23,279
thank you. We've been looking for them, Like, no problem,

593
00:31:23,559 --> 00:31:25,680
have you want more? I go, I mad more candy

594
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:27,920
and they're like no, we're good. Like nobody wants to

595
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:31,200
carry this thing. That's like they're dragging it on the

596
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:32,880
ground now because it's so heavy.

597
00:31:32,759 --> 00:31:34,759
Speaker 1: Right, But you're like, you don't need to go get

598
00:31:34,799 --> 00:31:37,119
more candy now because you just got all the candy. Yeah,

599
00:31:37,119 --> 00:31:39,799
I'll give you more. You don't need to go there. Yeah. No,

600
00:31:40,119 --> 00:31:42,559
they they were cute. They were talking to Phil for

601
00:31:42,599 --> 00:31:45,000
a little bit, and you know, it's like stay as

602
00:31:45,039 --> 00:31:48,519
long as you want, you want some cream, unless you

603
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:52,039
though to go at eight forty five, Yes, too late,

604
00:31:52,559 --> 00:31:55,400
we're doing that. There's like a window, Yes, I think

605
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:58,519
the window you get little kids at like five forty five,

606
00:31:59,079 --> 00:32:01,759
and it really should be over by like seven thirty.

607
00:32:02,079 --> 00:32:04,400
That's what I would focket the latest, that's the latest.

608
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:09,000
Speaker 2: That's what I would think. Yeah, but no, not one

609
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:12,240
knock not only one knock, they might as well flipped

610
00:32:12,359 --> 00:32:15,200
me off as they were walking past the house going

611
00:32:15,279 --> 00:32:18,960
Happy Halloween, Happy Halloween with little kids. And now I

612
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:23,000
was looking forward to tricker treaters this year. Now, so

613
00:32:23,279 --> 00:32:25,720
I was looking forward to tricker treaters as well.

614
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:28,759
Speaker 1: And as I was telling you before, in the afternoon,

615
00:32:28,839 --> 00:32:31,039
I was like, oh, we forgot to buy candy. Well,

616
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,319
there's no you would think that on the day of

617
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:35,839
Halloween they would start putting it on sale. Uh huh.

618
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:38,599
So but and Xander, right before I left, I was like,

619
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:40,200
what kind of Oh I texted him what kind of

620
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:42,000
candy do you do you want? And he was like, oh,

621
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,839
I like anything that has like little mini packets of

622
00:32:44,839 --> 00:32:48,400
gummy bears. So then I go to Ralph's. Nothing, They're

623
00:32:48,519 --> 00:32:50,680
like cleaned out of most stuff. So then I go

624
00:32:50,759 --> 00:32:55,039
to CVS and I find it Highway robbery right now.

625
00:32:55,279 --> 00:32:58,359
They wanted like thirty seven dollars for like a big

626
00:32:58,480 --> 00:32:59,440
bag of candy, and I.

627
00:32:59,519 --> 00:33:04,039
Speaker 2: Was like, no, I bought my candy way in advance

628
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,119
at house, like like I don't know, two weeks before

629
00:33:07,359 --> 00:33:07,720
that's what I.

630
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 1: Should have done, because it was like very full priced.

631
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,359
And I was like, I had no idea. Candy was

632
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,079
this expense. Are the tariffs already?

633
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 3: I do.

634
00:33:18,839 --> 00:33:20,519
Speaker 2: Chocolate tariffs? What's going on here?

635
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:25,599
Speaker 1: Tariffs? So I buy all this candy and I know

636
00:33:25,759 --> 00:33:29,440
that my neighborhood is situated so that there's a main

637
00:33:29,599 --> 00:33:31,960
We have a main drag that's basically like a candy

638
00:33:32,039 --> 00:33:36,519
cane lane for Halloween. That's like what it's basically like

639
00:33:37,319 --> 00:33:40,839
one two blocks over, so similar to you, and it's

640
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,799
not shut down, but it's like mobbed with people on

641
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:47,440
this one big main drag. So usually we just hardly

642
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:52,160
get anybody, but you never know, because lots more kids.

643
00:33:52,039 --> 00:33:52,839
Speaker 2: Are in the neighborhood.

644
00:33:52,839 --> 00:33:54,599
Speaker 1: I'm like, maybe they're going to veer off. We're not

645
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:59,119
that far off anyway, long story short, we Xander grabbed

646
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,759
a bag of candy and their whole first order of

647
00:34:01,839 --> 00:34:05,039
business was like flagging people down. They brought all the

648
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:09,280
kids over, uh huh, their milkshake, brought all the boys

649
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:10,000
into the yard.

650
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:12,599
Speaker 2: Anyway, they were Then.

651
00:34:12,639 --> 00:34:14,199
Speaker 1: Xander comes back and he's like, I hope we have

652
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:14,800
more candy.

653
00:34:15,159 --> 00:34:17,199
Speaker 2: I was like, we do, but you don't. Don't.

654
00:34:17,519 --> 00:34:20,119
Speaker 1: Don't try to get people get the candy.

655
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,280
Speaker 2: That so he was flagging people down, like basically, yeah,

656
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:25,639
we didn't really decorate.

657
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:29,800
Speaker 1: So Xander made print outs of like spiders and like

658
00:34:31,199 --> 00:34:34,159
skull and crossbones, and he put them on the trees

659
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:37,360
by our house and on our garage and on the car.

660
00:34:38,159 --> 00:34:40,400
So and then they all stood out in the street

661
00:34:40,559 --> 00:34:43,960
and like, wait, they have out candy. I needed them. Yeah,

662
00:34:44,119 --> 00:34:45,800
that would have been great. So I didn't see a

663
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:46,760
single trigger treater.

664
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:50,079
Speaker 2: Maybe I should have went outside with Phil and just

665
00:34:50,159 --> 00:34:53,639
sat out there. Maybe that's done.

666
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, but Kaylin, should we let's take a quick break.

667
00:34:58,599 --> 00:35:02,400
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668
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669
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670
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671
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:12,440
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672
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689
00:36:01,039 --> 00:36:03,239
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Speaker 2: And now we're back, Kaylin.

696
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it was nice, it was fun. It was

697
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:30,800
you know, nothing crazy happened. Took the girls out of

698
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:35,440
at six thirty. I think six thirty went about like

699
00:36:35,599 --> 00:36:38,880
four blocks, you know, and like that's pretty good. Yeah,

700
00:36:39,039 --> 00:36:41,320
and then you know they they were tired and ready

701
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:44,599
to come home by like eight thirty, so we just

702
00:36:44,679 --> 00:36:46,880
came back. They dumped out all their candy. I stole

703
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:48,840
some of it and then uh, yeah, that was it.

704
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:49,400
Speaker 2: They had fun.

705
00:36:51,159 --> 00:36:54,119
Speaker 1: Now they're too young to really keep track and know

706
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:58,039
what candy they had, so like once once Halloween's over,

707
00:36:58,159 --> 00:36:59,920
they probably aren't, like, where's our candy?

708
00:37:00,079 --> 00:37:03,039
Speaker 3: They had so much candy too, from like other places,

709
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:05,599
and you know, we had gotten a bunch of candy

710
00:37:05,639 --> 00:37:07,280
to hand out trick or treaters, so there was just

711
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:08,199
candy everywhere.

712
00:37:09,079 --> 00:37:10,119
Speaker 1: See, it's it's fun.

713
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:12,679
Speaker 2: It was fun back then when they were young, because

714
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,599
you'd take them trick or treating and then they'd eat

715
00:37:15,679 --> 00:37:18,440
candy that night, and then I would take the candy

716
00:37:18,519 --> 00:37:21,239
and just hide it and they would never ask again,

717
00:37:21,559 --> 00:37:24,639
Like they wouldn't know, like oh wait, it keeps going,

718
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:27,320
you know, like they were so young that they never

719
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:30,360
really asked. It was like one or two years of that.

720
00:37:31,599 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 1: My kids got a bunch of candy, which they don't need.

721
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:39,519
But and also what's really funny is how it changes.

722
00:37:39,559 --> 00:37:42,159
Where when they were young, they had like a plastic

723
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,320
pumpkin to walk around and get their candy, or then

724
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:48,360
you'd get those plastic bags the with Halloween, you know,

725
00:37:48,519 --> 00:37:52,320
themed plastic goodie bags and stuff. Now my kids will

726
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:56,280
literally get a Ralph's plastic bag, reasable bag, a Trader

727
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:59,559
Joe's bag, a pillowcase. So they don't care. They have

728
00:37:59,639 --> 00:38:02,480
no shape. They're just like Sadie walked around with one

729
00:38:02,519 --> 00:38:06,840
of our good pillowcases, one of our Brooklynen pillowcases.

730
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:06,800
Speaker 3: To do her.

731
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,320
Speaker 1: I was like, isn't that one of our good pillowcases.

732
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:11,760
She's like, well, yeah, but it's just it's candy. It's

733
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:15,119
all in a wrapper, right, all right, But they get

734
00:38:15,199 --> 00:38:17,840
candy now right now.

735
00:38:19,159 --> 00:38:19,639
Speaker 2: I don't know what.

736
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 1: I don't know what today will bring, but I'm I'm

737
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:25,000
supposedly I should be off the sugar as of like

738
00:38:25,079 --> 00:38:27,639
for one day, but I was, I've been hitting the

739
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:31,880
sugar hard. I've been eating my feelings this election season

740
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:36,400
a little bit. It hasn't been good. And Halloween was

741
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:38,880
a bad night for me sugar wise, because it's just

742
00:38:39,039 --> 00:38:42,679
like if you're if you're not not eating sugar, then

743
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:47,039
there's candy everywhere. And then my kids like shame me

744
00:38:47,119 --> 00:38:49,480
a little bit, like because you know, they bring home candy.

745
00:38:49,639 --> 00:38:51,960
I was, I was eating the candy that we were

746
00:38:52,039 --> 00:38:54,880
giving out and then the kids and I'm like, do

747
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:57,960
you guys have any like you got any dots like

748
00:38:58,079 --> 00:39:01,480
kids are like drug pushers, the opposite of drug pushers.

749
00:39:01,519 --> 00:39:04,960
They're not pushing, they're not hoarding the drugs. I'm like,

750
00:39:05,079 --> 00:39:08,480
you got any lemon heads? What I was really looking

751
00:39:08,519 --> 00:39:10,400
for was toot Ze rolls. So I was like, I

752
00:39:10,519 --> 00:39:13,079
really I could really use a tootsyol.

753
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:14,440
Speaker 2: And Xander's like, I thought you're off sugar.

754
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't shame me, Like, no, I haven't

755
00:39:17,519 --> 00:39:19,559
been off sugar in a while. You got any of them?

756
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:21,800
Got any of them tit zy rolls? He's like, I

757
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:24,480
don't think I got any tootsy rolls. Mom. I'm like,

758
00:39:24,559 --> 00:39:27,000
all right, you got any lemon heads? And he's like, no,

759
00:39:27,639 --> 00:39:30,239
I don't. I don't think that's even a thing anymore.

760
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:33,960
I'm like, you got any red hats? Oh my god?

761
00:39:34,119 --> 00:39:36,719
You're like asking about candy from the eighties.

762
00:39:37,519 --> 00:39:39,760
Speaker 2: But dots, remember dots?

763
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:41,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not talking about the ones that look like

764
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:46,320
a sheet of muscal and I'm talking about the what dots? Yeah,

765
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:53,519
they're fruit flavor, like like JUGI fruit called dots. Okay, yeah, okay,

766
00:39:53,519 --> 00:39:55,760
that's what I was looking for. I was because I

767
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:58,159
so Xander's like, Mom, I don't I don't.

768
00:39:58,039 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 3: Know, but like like all the worst candies candy he wants, Yeah,

769
00:40:03,679 --> 00:40:05,320
lemonheads and dot.

770
00:40:06,159 --> 00:40:10,760
Speaker 1: Them, orange circus, peanuts, orange circus, the ones that look

771
00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:13,639
like packing materials. Those are good. I don't know why

772
00:40:13,639 --> 00:40:15,800
I'm giving it a creepy voice, but I think he

773
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:18,119
was making me feel like I was creeping on his candy.

774
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:20,880
I'm like, he goes, Mom, it's all I have a

775
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:22,800
bag of candy. Go ahead and take what you want

776
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:24,639
to look through it. And I was like, all right,

777
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:29,480
I like your cartman, I'm looking. I'm looking in his

778
00:40:29,639 --> 00:40:32,840
pillow case. I'm like pawing around in it. And then

779
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,199
I was like, I'm just gonna take one little candy.

780
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:38,400
Then I become Steve Martin. I just need one one

781
00:40:38,639 --> 00:40:40,800
little mini box of dots and that's it.

782
00:40:41,039 --> 00:40:41,679
Speaker 2: And that's it.

783
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,760
Speaker 1: And these milk duds, but that's after these milk duds

784
00:40:45,159 --> 00:40:47,519
and this and this milky way that I'm gonna put

785
00:40:47,559 --> 00:40:52,559
in the freezer. But that is it. Just these dots

786
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:55,239
and these milk duds and this milky way.

787
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 2: That is all I need.

788
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 1: This candy roof. Well, you know how many times I

789
00:41:02,559 --> 00:41:05,159
went back, when you know he was out with his friends.

790
00:41:05,199 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 2: I was like in his room.

791
00:41:07,639 --> 00:41:09,599
Speaker 1: You think I was looking for drugs the way I

792
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:12,039
was like, you know, or looking for him to have drugs.

793
00:41:12,079 --> 00:41:14,559
Speaker 2: I was like, let me have that candy, you know.

794
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:17,280
Speaker 1: And now my kids have reached an age where they

795
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:20,480
don't care about it anymore. They care about it a lot,

796
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:23,760
maybe around like seven or eight, they start to be

797
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:26,519
more aware of what they have, right, and then they

798
00:41:26,639 --> 00:41:30,159
lose interest again. It's just for getting the candy, not

799
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:33,519
the eating the candy, right, It's right, yeah, it's just yeah,

800
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:38,960
cat uttering the candy, right. The hunt, yeah, hunting, hunting

801
00:41:39,039 --> 00:41:44,320
the candy. Yeah, my studdy and Italian. Well, Santa Barbara

802
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:44,639
has a.

803
00:41:44,679 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 2: Big Halloween ban, which they've had for years, so there's

804
00:41:50,119 --> 00:41:54,719
no nighttime parties allowed from like a couple of days.

805
00:41:55,519 --> 00:41:55,719
Speaker 1: My thing.

806
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:59,559
Speaker 2: It's the weekend before Halloween and then the weekend of Halloween,

807
00:41:59,679 --> 00:42:03,000
so there there's no So Natalia went to Santa Uh

808
00:42:03,519 --> 00:42:08,199
San Diego with her friends to go to parties. So

809
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:12,239
she did that, you know, dressed in whatever, like like

810
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:15,519
I said, what's his face from breaking bad? Walter White?

811
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:18,639
Right in like a bikini. If Walter White was wearing

812
00:42:18,639 --> 00:42:24,559
a bikini, okay, then there's Sonny, if Walter White was

813
00:42:24,599 --> 00:42:28,480
in a sorority exactly, that's what she would have like, yes,

814
00:42:31,199 --> 00:42:36,199
she she did. She had blue Jolly Ranchers crushed up

815
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:37,360
too in a baggie.

816
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 1: Oh okay, because that's yeah, okay, that was her prop.

817
00:42:41,079 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 2: Anyway, Sonny is in Eugene with his friends, and I

818
00:42:46,079 --> 00:42:49,039
asked him, like, how was last night? So he dressed

819
00:42:49,039 --> 00:42:53,079
as Dexter because he's like into Dexter. Now, did you

820
00:42:53,159 --> 00:42:53,920
ever watch Dexter?

821
00:42:54,119 --> 00:42:54,800
Speaker 1: I never did.

822
00:42:55,599 --> 00:42:56,199
Speaker 2: I didn't either.

823
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,159
Speaker 1: I like that actor though, because he was from our

824
00:42:58,199 --> 00:43:02,599
favorite six yea sixteen nine. I know everybody people. Did

825
00:43:02,639 --> 00:43:04,039
you ever watch Dexter? Yeah?

826
00:43:04,199 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 2: Sure, you liked it?

827
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:07,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was really good for like, I think about

828
00:43:07,639 --> 00:43:09,880
four seasons and then it and then it knows dives,

829
00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:11,599
But the first four seasons are really good.

830
00:43:12,119 --> 00:43:14,760
Speaker 1: Okay that's what he's watching, right, Yeah, yeah, yeah, they're

831
00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:16,400
really good. Yeah, that's what he said.

832
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:19,039
Speaker 2: Did you guys see that fight over the weekend in

833
00:43:19,119 --> 00:43:22,519
the college games in the state?

834
00:43:22,679 --> 00:43:25,039
Speaker 1: I heard something about it. Did you see that was

835
00:43:25,119 --> 00:43:25,800
that at Oregon?

836
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:28,719
Speaker 2: It was No, it was the Gators. It was in

837
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:31,599
like Jacksonville was the Gators versus somebody.

838
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:33,119
Speaker 1: And I don't know.

839
00:43:33,199 --> 00:43:35,199
Speaker 2: I saw it on the news this morning. There was

840
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:39,079
like like three or four or five fans getting the

841
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:42,760
shit beat out of them by cops by tops.

842
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:43,119
Speaker 1: Yeah.

843
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 2: This one cop just was railing on him and railing

844
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:48,920
on him and like, yeah, there's it's it's I saw

845
00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:52,119
it on Good Morning America this morning, and I assumed

846
00:43:52,159 --> 00:43:53,559
everybody have seen it by now.

847
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:54,079
Speaker 3: Wow.

848
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:57,280
Speaker 2: So it wasn't really a fight. It was like a melee.

849
00:43:57,840 --> 00:43:58,039
Speaker 1: Yeah.

850
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:02,519
Speaker 2: I don't know like this the fans, I don't They

851
00:44:02,639 --> 00:44:06,320
just showed the video on good Morning. It was Good

852
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,320
Morning America that today, Joe. Anyway, they just showed the

853
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:13,199
video and uh didn't really explain what why how it

854
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:15,760
broke out, but yeah, I was in Jacksonville and that

855
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:19,360
the Mayers is reviewing the tapes and blah blah blah,

856
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:24,039
like she's involved and I don't know. But anyway, Yeah,

857
00:44:24,159 --> 00:44:28,559
so Sonny dressed as dexter. He and his guy friends

858
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:31,360
did not want to go to it like he did.

859
00:44:31,519 --> 00:44:33,559
He wanted to go to parties and he was like,

860
00:44:33,639 --> 00:44:35,920
it was the lamest night of my life. My two

861
00:44:36,079 --> 00:44:39,480
friends didn't want to do anything. We just walked around

862
00:44:39,519 --> 00:44:41,760
the campus. He was like, well, that you know, there's

863
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:45,920
like I don't know, there's some snap or snapchat a

864
00:44:46,119 --> 00:44:49,639
community that tells you where the parties are and their area.

865
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:51,559
And he's like, let's go to this party this guy

866
00:44:51,599 --> 00:44:53,440
and then like no, they didn't want to go, Like

867
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:54,480
there's gonna.

868
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:56,760
Speaker 1: Be a huge line to get in. And and also

869
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:57,360
I can kind.

870
00:44:57,280 --> 00:45:00,119
Speaker 2: Of understand like being dudes going into a fraternity, if

871
00:45:00,119 --> 00:45:02,199
you're not in the fraternity, you're probably the last ones

872
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:04,400
to be let in. And they were like, you know,

873
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:07,480
we don't want to sit around outside of a fraternity

874
00:45:07,559 --> 00:45:10,760
in a line or whatever, and you know, so Sonny

875
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:12,920
understood that, but he was like, look, you know, let's

876
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:15,920
do something. You know, just ended up he ended up

877
00:45:16,639 --> 00:45:20,239
walking around. They just walked around the neighborhood and he

878
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:21,840
said it was the most lameous night.

879
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

880
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. And then he went to Dave's Hot Chicken, which

881
00:45:28,119 --> 00:45:31,519
is stays open late in their neighborhood, and he was

882
00:45:31,559 --> 00:45:34,000
like it was a it was a big casino and

883
00:45:34,639 --> 00:45:37,960
people were like that the poor kids. He's like, there's

884
00:45:38,039 --> 00:45:40,719
kids that are working, their college students and they're getting

885
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:43,440
yelled at by a bunch of drunken you know. It's

886
00:45:43,519 --> 00:45:45,719
like one o'clock in the morning, and everybody wants their

887
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:47,800
food and everybody wants their hot chicken, and they're like

888
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:50,280
yell getting yelled at, and they're like, now they got

889
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:52,960
an attitude towards us, and they're like, hey, get a

890
00:45:53,039 --> 00:45:55,679
lot like screaming at everybody. Was like it was such

891
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,599
a just a shit show. He's like, I couldn't wait

892
00:45:58,599 --> 00:46:06,320
for it to be over. Sunny's Halloween. Oh yeah, So

893
00:46:06,599 --> 00:46:09,320
but Natalia, did she go to parties or yeah, she went,

894
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:11,880
she went to parties. Did she have fun? Yeah, she

895
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:15,800
had fun. And then I guess it was well, it

896
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:18,320
was parents' weekend over the weekend and Adam came and

897
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:21,840
did stand up at the fraternity Okay, she said yeah,

898
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:24,039
and she said it was fine. She said it was

899
00:46:24,199 --> 00:46:27,360
like the parents knew who he was, students didn't really

900
00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:29,360
know anybody and anything about him.

901
00:46:31,039 --> 00:46:32,559
Speaker 1: But yeah, that was her week is.

902
00:46:32,599 --> 00:46:33,039
Speaker 2: She liked that?

903
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:38,719
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, yeah, I guess yeah.

904
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:42,440
Speaker 2: I mean people paid tickets and she worked with the

905
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:46,960
philanthropy chair, so they gave the money to charity, so

906
00:46:47,039 --> 00:46:50,159
they raised money. So I don't know she was gonna

907
00:46:50,159 --> 00:46:52,000
tell me how much they raised total. She was still

908
00:46:52,039 --> 00:46:54,719
waiting to hear, but yeah, I guess it was a

909
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:55,760
good weekend for her.

910
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:01,199
Speaker 1: Well, LB, this was her first Halloween UCLA and she

911
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:04,440
was could not have been more excited. And I told

912
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:07,719
you last week that she had two costumes. She had

913
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:11,039
a slutty pirate and a slutty kitty and then she

914
00:47:11,639 --> 00:47:15,760
they did multiple parties. I saw it all in her

915
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:19,159
like Instagram stories and there was something posted to Instagram.

916
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:22,039
I can, I can. I don't know if she'll let

917
00:47:22,079 --> 00:47:24,519
me post it to our Instagram, but like she looked

918
00:47:24,599 --> 00:47:31,360
super cute, so and they she's just loving life. And

919
00:47:31,679 --> 00:47:35,079
so they went to parties like on Halloween night, then

920
00:47:35,199 --> 00:47:40,639
Friday night, then Saturday night, and then Sundays. She came

921
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:44,400
home first of all. It's really funny because you know,

922
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:46,000
and I know I said this last week too, but

923
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:48,960
you know, I was so sad when I dropped her off,

924
00:47:49,039 --> 00:47:50,840
and now I'm like, where, why are you as home?

925
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:56,519
Like I saw her so the two days before. I

926
00:47:56,599 --> 00:48:00,280
guess this was after our last show. Yeah, she came

927
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:05,840
home Wednesday, So today's today's Monday. She came home last

928
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:11,199
Wednesday because she wanted to get her brows done. We

929
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:13,719
were going to have lunch anyway, even though I was like,

930
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:15,320
do we need to have lunch now because I just

931
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:17,280
saw you, and she was like, yeah, let's have lunch.

932
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:20,719
So I was going to take her to lunch but

933
00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:24,119
then in Westwood. But then she was like, I really

934
00:48:24,199 --> 00:48:26,519
want my brows done. I haven't had him done in

935
00:48:26,639 --> 00:48:30,800
months and months. And she had a little job interview

936
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:33,519
which I'll tell you about, which is really cute. But

937
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:36,760
so she was like, but the place the brow our

938
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:39,159
brow lady, who I've been going to since I was

939
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:43,679
literally pregnant with her, is near me, so it's near

940
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:47,519
us obviously for convenience reasons. And she was like, her

941
00:48:47,599 --> 00:48:50,920
name's Baby Kim, and she was like, but I don't

942
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:52,360
know if I trust anybody. I was like, well, I

943
00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:54,400
guess we'll find somewhere in Westwood and she's like, mom,

944
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:56,480
I don't trust anybody but baby Kim. She's the only

945
00:48:56,519 --> 00:48:58,679
one who's ever touched my brows. So I was like,

946
00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:01,480
I kind of feel that. So I was like, how

947
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:03,599
about I pick you up. I didn't have anything to

948
00:49:03,679 --> 00:49:06,000
do that day. I'll bring you a Baby Kim, We'll

949
00:49:06,039 --> 00:49:07,920
have some lunch, and then I'll just drop you back off.

950
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:09,039
And she was like thank you.

951
00:49:10,159 --> 00:49:10,840
Speaker 2: So we did that.

952
00:49:11,599 --> 00:49:15,760
Speaker 1: So I saw her then, and then on Sunday, which

953
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:19,599
was yesterday, I get a call. She's like, Mom, I

954
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:21,840
really need my car because I'm going to go visit

955
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:26,000
my friend in Irvine and I want to drive my car.

956
00:49:26,159 --> 00:49:28,000
Is there any way you could like come get me?

957
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:32,400
So I was like okay, So I went and picked

958
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:35,360
her up, brought her back. She took her car, and

959
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:38,199
it's getting to the point where I'm like, okay, I'm

960
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:39,480
going to go record.

961
00:49:39,199 --> 00:49:42,519
Speaker 2: A podcast, like I see soon, and she's like, okay,

962
00:49:42,559 --> 00:49:45,920
by mom. So she woke up this so she came

963
00:49:46,039 --> 00:49:48,280
home last night to our house. Huh.

964
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:52,239
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, it's to the point where I didn't

965
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:53,920
even get out of bed, Like she came home at

966
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:57,320
like eleven thirty or twelve, pulled up and I didn't

967
00:49:57,320 --> 00:49:58,800
even like get out of bed to go like.

968
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:01,480
Speaker 2: Give her a And I knew I would wake up

969
00:50:01,519 --> 00:50:02,119
before her this.

970
00:50:02,199 --> 00:50:05,400
Speaker 1: Morning and come here. But I'm like, I'm sure i'll

971
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:07,440
see her in a day or two. Well, A, we're

972
00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:11,519
gonna so her birthday is November twelve, so we're gonna

973
00:50:11,519 --> 00:50:13,800
all I'm gonna see her then and then she'll be

974
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:15,480
home for Thanksgiving. Yeah.

975
00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:17,239
Speaker 2: Oh and before that.

976
00:50:17,679 --> 00:50:20,239
Speaker 1: The reason I even brought this up is her parents

977
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:24,719
weekend is next weekend. Okay, I'm gonna have as you

978
00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:29,760
would say an aspha Elba. I'm like, I don't know

979
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:32,320
about doing parents' weekend, like I don't want to pay

980
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:35,360
for like we live here, and she said, oh yeah,

981
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:37,239
I don't worry about it. I said, do you want

982
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:39,199
us to go to the game which is a Friday,

983
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:42,039
which is this Friday night? And she's like, I mean,

984
00:50:42,039 --> 00:50:44,480
if you want to, And I was like, I don't

985
00:50:44,519 --> 00:50:45,000
think I do.

986
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:47,599
Speaker 2: You know, I already went to one.

987
00:50:48,559 --> 00:50:52,920
Speaker 1: But we're doing something. We have a sorority thing for

988
00:50:53,039 --> 00:50:56,760
her on Sunday. So Sunday I'll be at her school

989
00:50:56,800 --> 00:50:59,519
with John and then she'll walk us around to like

990
00:50:59,599 --> 00:51:02,039
the first Nities and like you do a whole thing.

991
00:51:02,159 --> 00:51:04,440
It's like a brunch and a thing. That's cool.

992
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 2: So that's Sunday, and then I.

993
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:09,119
Speaker 1: Believe Tuesday is her birthday. Oh okay.

994
00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:12,599
Speaker 2: Then and then like a week later she'll be like

995
00:51:12,679 --> 00:51:13,960
home for Thanksgiving.

996
00:51:14,559 --> 00:51:16,880
Speaker 1: It's like she never let like seeing her more now

997
00:51:17,079 --> 00:51:19,320
than I think I do see her more now. Yeah.

998
00:51:19,639 --> 00:51:23,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so crazy. Yeah, but she's really happy.

999
00:51:23,599 --> 00:51:26,119
Speaker 1: You must be getting like the hang and driving down

1000
00:51:26,159 --> 00:51:29,800
to Westwood every all the time. Oh yeah, I'm yeah,

1001
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:33,199
I know all the shortcuts. Yeah yeah, that's good.

1002
00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:36,199
Speaker 2: Yeah so that's that's a nice drive.

1003
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:40,679
Speaker 1: Yeah. So it's just funny because you know, like I said,

1004
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:45,039
having never been to college, I I'm you know, it's

1005
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:48,599
I'm kind of living vicariously through her. Like she's having

1006
00:51:48,679 --> 00:51:52,320
so much fun. She loves her classes. But I just

1007
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:55,079
had no desire, YEA in that age.

1008
00:51:55,440 --> 00:51:58,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was different, I guess a different time. Now

1009
00:51:59,039 --> 00:52:01,239
everybody goes to call college or everybody tries to go

1010
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:02,719
to college. Yeah, it's different.

1011
00:52:03,599 --> 00:52:07,559
Speaker 1: I mean I feel like a lot of my high school. Uh.

1012
00:52:08,519 --> 00:52:12,599
It's interesting because my second part of high school was Springfield, Massachusetts.

1013
00:52:12,679 --> 00:52:15,159
It was such a like a blue collar town and

1014
00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:18,960
there was one main college prep, like they made a

1015
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:21,800
big deal of that's the call, that's that's for all

1016
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:23,480
the kids who are going to go to college. Like

1017
00:52:23,559 --> 00:52:25,679
that was the main high school. But then you had

1018
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:29,400
all these other high schools, Like there was a i

1019
00:52:29,559 --> 00:52:31,599
want to say, like almost a whole college for like

1020
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:34,960
home Ech but it's not really it's not really home Ech.

1021
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:37,039
Speaker 2: But like there there was a technical school.

1022
00:52:38,159 --> 00:52:39,119
Speaker 1: I don't know what they did there.

1023
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 2: There was like.

1024
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:45,400
Speaker 1: Like trades, like for for trades. There were different trade schools.

1025
00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:47,679
Speaker 2: There was like a trade motive. Yeah.

1026
00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:51,880
Speaker 1: There were high schools that basically did not prepare you

1027
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:53,480
for kids that are not going to go to high

1028
00:52:53,519 --> 00:52:55,000
school but are learning a trade.

1029
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:57,320
Speaker 2: Right, but different than trade college.

1030
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,079
Speaker 1: This was like a This was like high school. There

1031
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:03,039
was one for like it had kind of good idea

1032
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:06,800
pregnant pregnant teens. Like there's one that that's where you

1033
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:10,599
go to high school if you're a pregnant yeah, or

1034
00:53:10,639 --> 00:53:12,480
if you have kids, if you already have a baby

1035
00:53:12,559 --> 00:53:14,639
and you're in high school. It was just very different.

1036
00:53:15,079 --> 00:53:19,000
Speaker 2: Was different. Yeah, I like the idea of trade Like,

1037
00:53:19,079 --> 00:53:20,760
if you're not going to go to college, here's go

1038
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:25,039
to trade prep school, you know, trade prep.

1039
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:29,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we should start a trade prep. Let's

1040
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:35,000
do it, just Stephanie different, it's trade prep. Tell us

1041
00:53:35,039 --> 00:53:37,119
what you want to learn about, we'll figure it out.

1042
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:40,320
We'll get somebody. We'll help you do baskets for you know,

1043
00:53:40,679 --> 00:53:47,480
for say, let's say you yourself are not going to

1044
00:53:47,519 --> 00:53:49,559
go to college, but you're gonna have kids and they

1045
00:53:49,599 --> 00:53:52,320
will eventually be in school and you're like, how do I.

1046
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:53,199
Speaker 2: Do these off here?

1047
00:53:53,679 --> 00:53:53,880
Speaker 3: Yes?

1048
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:57,360
Speaker 2: Yes, will teach you how to do the template, how

1049
00:53:57,400 --> 00:53:59,800
to print out a template when you when you're doing this,

1050
00:54:00,039 --> 00:54:02,760
I'm an auction. Yes, you know we should do.

1051
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 1: We should do a college that teaches all the ship

1052
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:07,079
that they stop teaching.

1053
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:07,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll do.

1054
00:54:08,039 --> 00:54:11,400
Speaker 1: We'll teach cursive. Yes, here's a skill that you don't

1055
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:15,639
learn anymore, but you will at Stephanie Lenox Trade Prep. Right,

1056
00:54:16,079 --> 00:54:19,800
come to Trade Prep. You're gonna learn handwriting techniques. You're

1057
00:54:19,800 --> 00:54:24,079
gonna learn to type. Learn, yes, touch type. Yes, both

1058
00:54:24,119 --> 00:54:26,079
of us can say you're gonna learn to type without

1059
00:54:26,119 --> 00:54:28,400
looking at the keyboard. How good you're gonna be? Yes,

1060
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:31,559
after one of our courses, Yes, special trade Prep exactly.

1061
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:33,639
You don't learn how to balance a check book.

1062
00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:35,920
Speaker 2: Yep, you're gonna learn how to do laundry.

1063
00:54:37,199 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 1: First, first, folding factory socks, socks. Yeah, you're gonna have

1064
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:44,119
a whole new lease on life.

1065
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:44,960
Speaker 2: You're gonna learn.

1066
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 1: You're gonna understand what that little H is on the detergent,

1067
00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:51,880
Like we're gonna field trip to the grocery sort of

1068
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:53,079
look in the detergent aisle.

1069
00:54:53,239 --> 00:54:55,719
Speaker 2: Yes, Yeah, then we'll take you to the laundry matt,

1070
00:54:56,199 --> 00:54:59,119
uh huh, we'll teach you how what's the difference between

1071
00:54:59,199 --> 00:55:03,239
that little tray of like the fabric softener versus where

1072
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:05,840
you put the bleach versus why you put the liquid? Right?

1073
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:11,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, Unfortunately all probably need to take a quick before

1074
00:55:11,559 --> 00:55:14,760
I start teaching it, because I find like you're standing

1075
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:17,800
in front of the washing machine. Like my washing machine

1076
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:21,440
doesn't have a sheets setting, and it doesn't have permanent press,

1077
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:25,000
which that used to be a setting, old one. Yeah,

1078
00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:26,599
what do you I mean, what do you put it on?

1079
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:32,159
There's here's my choices. I've got whites. My sheets are

1080
00:55:32,199 --> 00:55:35,000
not white, right, but would you put it in white?

1081
00:55:35,079 --> 00:55:38,039
I've got active wear, that's the same issue. I have

1082
00:55:38,159 --> 00:55:46,920
got color mm hmmm. Yeah, I've got delegates and I'm

1083
00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:51,039
I don't I'm not sure what else for What would

1084
00:55:51,039 --> 00:55:52,079
you put for colored sheet?

1085
00:55:52,079 --> 00:55:52,360
Speaker 2: Would you?

1086
00:55:52,559 --> 00:55:53,760
Speaker 1: Yeah? What would you put your sheets in?

1087
00:55:55,119 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 2: I would put maybe, I guess what is it white color?

1088
00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:04,719
I guess I would just put it under colors. I guess,

1089
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:06,679
so that's we're whites or white.

1090
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:08,519
Speaker 1: So what I do is I put it under active

1091
00:56:08,559 --> 00:56:10,960
wear and then I hit I put it I changed

1092
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:15,719
the tempt to hot. Okay, so yeah, you can change

1093
00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:17,079
the temperature and you can change.

1094
00:56:17,519 --> 00:56:23,039
Speaker 2: We need a school, I know, maybe Missy and Gabby

1095
00:56:23,199 --> 00:56:26,480
can go to school for us so that we can

1096
00:56:26,519 --> 00:56:28,000
get our credentials from them.

1097
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:33,559
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, they do credentials. Yeah they we're not We're

1098
00:56:33,639 --> 00:56:35,840
not credential if that's right.

1099
00:56:36,119 --> 00:56:38,159
Speaker 2: So we'll have to go to like Gabby and Missy's

1100
00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:42,960
School of Credentials for Trade for Portray for prep trade prep.

1101
00:56:43,079 --> 00:56:43,480
Trade prep.

1102
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:48,079
Speaker 1: Trade prep is not going to be trade it's we're

1103
00:56:48,199 --> 00:56:49,800
going to do what we want and pay people what

1104
00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:53,719
we want to pay them. They're worth meritocracy. If you

1105
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:57,400
want to teach at our school, listen what bottom line

1106
00:56:57,400 --> 00:57:01,840
were accepting applications? If you want to work at trade Prep, yeah,

1107
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:06,360
you gotta write an essay. Though, you got to write

1108
00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:09,760
an essay. We will teach you essay writing. But our

1109
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:12,719
way not like there's it's not some like high school

1110
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:15,000
way with like an opening. So like I'm gonna teach

1111
00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:19,000
you to write like a hooky, like a better essay. Yes, yeah,

1112
00:57:19,199 --> 00:57:21,800
there you go. Better essays that are going to be

1113
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:26,719
called that's the class, not your shitty high school essays.

1114
00:57:27,320 --> 00:57:28,679
Speaker 2: Better essay, better essay.

1115
00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if these are essays that will

1116
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:32,280
get you into college.

1117
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:34,920
Speaker 2: Like this is not for that, right, it's not. We're

1118
00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:36,199
not a college.

1119
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:41,320
Speaker 1: And we're not a college prep school, trade.

1120
00:57:40,679 --> 00:57:46,639
Speaker 2: Pep all right. I will say dads too, by the way,

1121
00:57:47,039 --> 00:57:49,320
especially the males that are going to be dads like

1122
00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:50,519
Kaitlin's of the world.

1123
00:57:51,079 --> 00:57:53,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, to teach them how how to volunteer at the

1124
00:57:54,039 --> 00:57:59,159
school and if there's something Kaylan, if you if you

1125
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:02,800
want to attend, honestly, if there's something you're interested in learning,

1126
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:06,079
like this is for people that also want to change careers, right,

1127
00:58:06,559 --> 00:58:08,760
they could come to us like, hey, I would like

1128
00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:09,599
to be a lawyer.

1129
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:11,679
Speaker 2: Okay, well, we're gonna.

1130
00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:18,480
Speaker 1: Introduce you to lawyer concepts instead of a podcast producer.

1131
00:58:19,639 --> 00:58:20,400
He's gonna learn.

1132
00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:23,199
Speaker 2: We're gonna bring Mark geragoson to just talk to you,

1133
00:58:23,639 --> 00:58:24,360
like he's not.

1134
00:58:24,599 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 1: Like, again, it's not law school, okay, it's it's.

1135
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:31,599
Speaker 2: It's trade, it's trade prep.

1136
00:58:31,760 --> 00:58:34,320
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, you're not going to pass the bar if

1137
00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:36,559
that's what you're trying to do. But maybe if you

1138
00:58:36,679 --> 00:58:38,440
want to do like what I do and be a

1139
00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:40,079
consultant for me, the issue.

1140
00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:45,119
Speaker 2: Exactly it's just about it. You know, if you look

1141
00:58:45,159 --> 00:58:47,480
at listen to my Patreon this week, you could it

1142
00:58:47,599 --> 00:58:50,400
could be you know, somebody that wants to give me advice. Yes,

1143
00:58:50,599 --> 00:58:53,480
they go through this, you know, then they are they're

1144
00:58:53,559 --> 00:58:57,760
qualified to give advice. Yes, they're not necessarily lawyers.

1145
00:58:58,559 --> 00:59:02,639
Speaker 1: Right, you guys need to sign up for a Patreon

1146
00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:08,159
because Lynette, oh my god, it was a good Calin

1147
00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:11,000
was a good Patriot. That was pretty good.

1148
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:11,679
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1149
00:59:12,639 --> 00:59:15,320
Speaker 1: But before we totally wrap, let's say hi to our peeps.

1150
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:19,159
Jacob is Growley, Sandra, it's not easy being green, but

1151
00:59:19,280 --> 00:59:23,079
you do it. Jennifer, stand up. Aaron, you're a dirty Sanchez,

1152
00:59:23,159 --> 00:59:26,760
Sarah Stefano, she's our Paisano. Stephanie's a stinker wrinker, Leslie

1153
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:30,400
with the coughing Alicia Kelly.

1154
00:59:30,239 --> 00:59:35,440
Speaker 2: Brandt, She's yeah yeah, Rebecca, No, it's so cute. Oh

1155
00:59:35,719 --> 00:59:36,400
she's so cute.

1156
00:59:38,639 --> 00:59:43,199
Speaker 1: Hello, Rebecca, we said, Rebecca Luin, Missy and Gabby, you

1157
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:45,320
have heard about them already. We already gave you your

1158
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:47,960
black Valerie, Bubba Fenwick's out of the park. Polly, we

1159
00:59:48,039 --> 00:59:51,320
love your pancakes. Athena, we just love your whole style. Girl,

1160
00:59:51,639 --> 00:59:56,239
You're killing it. Rita's rocking, Elizabeth Williamson's kids in her bassiet,

1161
00:59:56,719 --> 01:00:00,559
Nikki caught your girl Katie's rolling on e Kelly and

1162
01:00:00,719 --> 01:00:06,840
Dick is frolicking. Also, Christa get distracted distract is talking

1163
01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:13,159
about her friend Sarah her Son died by suicide. It's very,

1164
01:00:13,280 --> 01:00:15,559
very sad and she wanted to do something so that

1165
01:00:15,639 --> 01:00:17,599
her grief didn't consume her. And she went on a

1166
01:00:17,679 --> 01:00:20,400
mission to break the stigma surrounding suicide and help fill

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in the gaps in her community in Ohio where mental

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health needs aren't being met. So go to Chase Haley

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and check it out. Also, our friend Jen Posner can

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help you with your business, getting your taxes ready, saving,

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helping you with like your accounting. If you have a business,

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why not use one of our listeners. So amazing at this.

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to schedule a consultation. Also, our friend Laurie Bishop her

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act guide that he designed himself because he got a

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thirty five on the exam when he trained himself on

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this guide, so you too can get it. It's something

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that you can It's a curated YouTube playlist for each section.

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it's test taking tips. It's bit dot l y slash

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all lowercase better test prep. Okay, bit dot l y

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slash better test Prep. Also, a friend of mine who

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I can't say her name, has a Medium account. Go

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to medium dot com slash at unbecoming stories and you

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will read about a fucked up, shitty marriage. She spills

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talks and it's beautiful writing and like I said, it's

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really juicy, it's really honest. So check her out. That's cool. Also,

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The Family Skeptical is a podcast about raising kids without religion.

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So it's it's by a listener of our show. You

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should check it out, give it a download, give it

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a subscribe Family Skeptical. Also, our friend Samantha Cruz says,

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do you know someone in North Carolina, South Carolina or

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Speaker 2: Her husband.

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Speaker 1: Helps with a Medicare advantage plan, which can provide extra

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money for things like groceries and even pet food. It

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works right alongside your Medicare plan. So the review is free,

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our friend Kelsey. She makes her own candles. They're made

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of soy wax. It's sustainable, they last longer, they smell delicious,

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they have sense like tobacco sage. They make great gifts

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for the holidays. Go to at Ferncandle on Instagram, Orferncandle

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dot com. And last, but not least, our friend Adam

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Speaker 2: You know about him.

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to Adams goot acar dot com and let a car

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used him, Kaly talked him.

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Speaker 3: Yea, yeah, I talked to him. He is very helpful.

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Speaker 2: Okay, thanks everybody.

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Speaker 2: Let angle