WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.440 --> 00:00:03.120 It's so funny because Jenny said, let's do the Minnesota goodbye, 2 00:00:03.560 --> 00:00:05.839 and then she promptly disappeared, and I think she went 3 00:00:05.879 --> 00:00:08.320 to go pee, And so Bailey and I will kick 4 00:00:08.359 --> 00:00:13.320 off the Minnesota goodbye. Yeah, and let's get started right now. 5 00:00:13.320 --> 00:00:17.120 You're ready, Yes, I'm ready? Oh okay. The door keeps opening, 6 00:00:17.160 --> 00:00:19.280 and I keep wondering whether it's Jenny or not. Let's 7 00:00:19.280 --> 00:00:21.160 get started. Emails are the heart and soul of the 8 00:00:21.199 --> 00:00:25.600 Minnesota Goodbye, Renee writes in am I the jerk? I 9 00:00:25.760 --> 00:00:28.719 recently discovered our joint account. I'm gonna guess her and 10 00:00:28.760 --> 00:00:33.479 her partner had almost eight thousand dollars taken out of 11 00:00:33.520 --> 00:00:39.920 it since June Firstly, crap, almost fourteen thousand since January first. 12 00:00:40.719 --> 00:00:43.560 My fiance says it's his money, so what does it matter? Well, 13 00:00:43.600 --> 00:00:46.719 I stick my money in there too to pay bills 14 00:00:46.799 --> 00:00:49.079 fifty percent of the bills. And I'm finding out that 15 00:00:49.159 --> 00:00:51.960 we've also been charged six hundred dollars in overdraft fees 16 00:00:52.000 --> 00:00:54.799 in twenty twenty four. Am I the jerk for yelling 17 00:00:54.840 --> 00:00:56.880 at him all day the day I found out? 18 00:00:56.960 --> 00:00:59.079 No, no, no, I wouldn't. 19 00:00:59.439 --> 00:01:04.040 There's so much any reasons why that's trash. That is trash. 20 00:01:04.200 --> 00:01:06.239 You you don't even need to ask, are you with 21 00:01:06.280 --> 00:01:08.719 the jerk? And what frightens me about or concerns me 22 00:01:08.760 --> 00:01:12.480 about this is that you have been manipulated to think 23 00:01:12.519 --> 00:01:16.200 that you're the one that's wrong, right, Jenny, you just 24 00:01:16.200 --> 00:01:16.519 missed this. 25 00:01:16.599 --> 00:01:18.560 Jenny was peen who did something wrong. 26 00:01:18.879 --> 00:01:20.920 A woman says that she's with a guy. I don't 27 00:01:20.920 --> 00:01:23.640 know if they're married or not, but she recently discovered 28 00:01:23.680 --> 00:01:25.959 their joint account has eight thousand taken out of it 29 00:01:26.000 --> 00:01:30.640 since June first, fourteen thousand since January first. My fiance 30 00:01:30.760 --> 00:01:33.120 says it's my money, it's his money, so it doesn't matter, 31 00:01:33.840 --> 00:01:36.519 she says. I stick my money in there, though, to 32 00:01:36.599 --> 00:01:38.760 pay fifty percent of the bills. And I'm finding out 33 00:01:38.799 --> 00:01:41.120 that we've also been charged six hundred dollars in overdraft 34 00:01:41.120 --> 00:01:43.359 fees in twenty twenty four. Am I the jerk for 35 00:01:43.480 --> 00:01:45.879 yelling at him all day the day I found out 36 00:01:46.120 --> 00:01:49.159 you need to leave? Yeah? I don't. 37 00:01:49.439 --> 00:01:51.079 And I know your own bank account. 38 00:01:51.200 --> 00:01:54.079 No, no, no, no, I'm gonna tell you why. Okay, if 39 00:01:54.079 --> 00:01:57.879 he is so fucking deceitful that he will take eight 40 00:01:57.959 --> 00:02:02.280 thousand dollars out and then say it's my money. Yeah, 41 00:02:02.319 --> 00:02:06.159 and then fourteen thousand dollars out and also so irresponsible. 42 00:02:06.200 --> 00:02:08.560 There's been six hundred dollars in overdraft fees in this 43 00:02:08.680 --> 00:02:12.199 year alone. You need to leave because he is never 44 00:02:12.319 --> 00:02:15.240 going to be honest with you. You will suffer through 45 00:02:15.280 --> 00:02:19.360 this guy for however long you suffer until you finally 46 00:02:19.479 --> 00:02:21.919 leave or he cheats on you or he gets thrown 47 00:02:21.960 --> 00:02:25.840 in prison. Yeah, you need to leave. There's nothing more 48 00:02:25.840 --> 00:02:26.360 I can say. 49 00:02:26.479 --> 00:02:29.479 I think the and also him saying, oh, it's my money, 50 00:02:29.479 --> 00:02:32.000 so it doesn't even matter, like prove it, prove that 51 00:02:32.000 --> 00:02:34.639 that's your money and not mine. I that's why I 52 00:02:34.719 --> 00:02:37.639 would if even if I was married, I don't think 53 00:02:37.639 --> 00:02:39.479 I would ever have a joint bank account. 54 00:02:39.520 --> 00:02:40.520 I think that's the new Well. 55 00:02:40.520 --> 00:02:42.439 I think a lot of people have some joint bank 56 00:02:42.439 --> 00:02:44.360 accounts to put for bills, but I think a lot 57 00:02:44.400 --> 00:02:45.919 of people keep suver accounts. None. 58 00:02:46.000 --> 00:02:48.919 Yeah, because then I would avoid this kind of fourteen 59 00:02:49.039 --> 00:02:51.159 thousand dollars is so much money. 60 00:02:51.199 --> 00:02:53.080 Well, that's a lot of money. I mean it really is. 61 00:02:53.240 --> 00:02:57.879 And you know, Susan and I have joint ev everything. 62 00:02:58.599 --> 00:03:00.840 But I'll be honest with you. There there's one percent 63 00:03:00.919 --> 00:03:03.280 of my brain that keeps an eye on it to 64 00:03:03.360 --> 00:03:08.560 make sure that she doesn't do anything unusual. Yeah, And 65 00:03:08.800 --> 00:03:12.080 that's just me being cautious because I would never want 66 00:03:12.479 --> 00:03:15.159 to find out after it's too late that Susan had 67 00:03:15.199 --> 00:03:19.120 a gambling problem or something that she was spending you know, 68 00:03:19.319 --> 00:03:23.000 fourteen thousand dollars on without telling me. 69 00:03:23.240 --> 00:03:25.960 I mean, wouldn't you almost be happy though, if she 70 00:03:26.039 --> 00:03:28.080 was spending that money on something, because that might mean 71 00:03:28.120 --> 00:03:30.360 she picked up a hobby. 72 00:03:29.840 --> 00:03:34.080 Yeah, yeah, she loves blackjack. Yeah, yeah, my hobby is blackjack. 73 00:03:34.280 --> 00:03:36.439 At least she's said something. She's not sitting on the 74 00:03:36.479 --> 00:03:37.520 couch on her phone. 75 00:03:37.840 --> 00:03:41.080 I mean, I guess, you know, Jenny, that's z. That's 76 00:03:41.120 --> 00:03:46.360 a sore subject because Susan has really no hobbies. She 77 00:03:46.479 --> 00:03:50.240 does crochane, now that's a hobby. Yeah, but she also 78 00:03:50.400 --> 00:03:52.560 plays on her phone all day. And I said, look 79 00:03:52.639 --> 00:03:54.199 at you. The other day. She had a cat on 80 00:03:54.199 --> 00:03:57.960 her lap. She was crochhane. I said, good god, you're 81 00:03:58.000 --> 00:04:00.840 eighty seven years old, Madge. You got a cat on 82 00:04:00.879 --> 00:04:02.080 your lap and your crochet. 83 00:04:02.199 --> 00:04:04.879 That's again, Yeah, put a cat on my lap and 84 00:04:04.879 --> 00:04:06.639 then give me some cross stitch. That sounds like a 85 00:04:06.639 --> 00:04:07.120 good time. 86 00:04:08.240 --> 00:04:11.520 Okay, Madge, I want somebody who's going to climb mountains, 87 00:04:11.599 --> 00:04:13.280 jump out of airplanes, you know what I mean. 88 00:04:13.360 --> 00:04:15.280 Well, good thing we're not together. 89 00:04:15.439 --> 00:04:18.199 So yeah, No, we were gonna go flying the other 90 00:04:18.240 --> 00:04:20.759 day because I wanted to take a video for Thunderbird 91 00:04:20.800 --> 00:04:24.199 Aviation because you know, I do them, you know, like 92 00:04:24.240 --> 00:04:27.000 a solid, and say hey, go up learn how to 93 00:04:27.000 --> 00:04:30.680 fly with Thunderbird Aviation and it's on my Instagram. So 94 00:04:30.720 --> 00:04:33.160 she was going to go up flying with me and 95 00:04:33.240 --> 00:04:36.279 take video of me behind the yoke as we call it, 96 00:04:36.319 --> 00:04:38.639 of the airplane. And we get to the airport, She's like, 97 00:04:38.720 --> 00:04:41.120 I really don't want to go up. I don't really, 98 00:04:41.240 --> 00:04:42.959 I just I'll just take it from the ground. And 99 00:04:43.000 --> 00:04:48.720 I'm like, I want something. I want adventure, you know 100 00:04:48.759 --> 00:04:51.439 what I mean, while I'm still able bodied enough and 101 00:04:51.759 --> 00:04:53.040 able to get Because I've been reading a lot of 102 00:04:53.079 --> 00:04:55.800 memes lately, you guys, the memes that say, your ninety 103 00:04:55.879 --> 00:04:59.040 year old self would so love to be able to 104 00:04:59.040 --> 00:05:00.839 do the things that you can do it your age, 105 00:05:00.839 --> 00:05:04.319 so go do them. And I think sometimes Susan has 106 00:05:04.360 --> 00:05:07.439 decided that she's too old for certain things. Sure, And 107 00:05:07.480 --> 00:05:10.519 I'm like, God, I just want somebody who wants to 108 00:05:10.560 --> 00:05:14.399 go hiking and somebody who wants to go flying. 109 00:05:15.079 --> 00:05:17.240 Weren't we gonna weren't you gonna take me flying? And 110 00:05:17.279 --> 00:05:17.920 then you never did. 111 00:05:17.959 --> 00:05:19.879 I will anytime, Okay, yeah, anytime. 112 00:05:19.959 --> 00:05:22.079 Now I feel like it's too late in the summer 113 00:05:22.120 --> 00:05:23.560 and I have to wait for like the. 114 00:05:23.439 --> 00:05:26.240 Leaves to change. No, Dave flies, you fly pretty late 115 00:05:26.279 --> 00:05:27.000 into the No. 116 00:05:27.000 --> 00:05:30.240 No, I was in like I like in terms of seasonally, Yeah, totally, 117 00:05:30.480 --> 00:05:32.680 I should wait until like the leaves are orange. 118 00:05:32.759 --> 00:05:34.240 Did it last year? I flew up to like Lake 119 00:05:34.279 --> 00:05:38.079 Malax and flew over the leafy changes. The leafy changes changes. 120 00:05:38.120 --> 00:05:39.560 If you want, Yeah, I totally take you flying. 121 00:05:39.560 --> 00:05:41.199 Okay, cool, absolutely, But you're. 122 00:05:41.079 --> 00:05:43.120 Going to get content for him now, Okay, I can 123 00:05:43.160 --> 00:05:44.560 get content be wrong. 124 00:05:44.800 --> 00:05:47.920 Yeah, Jenny, I emailed that to you so we can 125 00:05:47.959 --> 00:05:49.199 maybe do it on the show because I think it 126 00:05:49.360 --> 00:05:53.439 is that interesting because I am so strongly opinioned, and 127 00:05:53.480 --> 00:05:55.879 I'm going to just say your first initial are that 128 00:05:56.000 --> 00:05:59.240 you absolutely should dump this guy because anybody who is 129 00:05:59.319 --> 00:06:02.879 that shitty money that is a bad thing. Okay, So 130 00:06:03.120 --> 00:06:07.120 yesterday we talked about the Morning Show shirts, and remember 131 00:06:07.319 --> 00:06:10.199 somebody said a funny shirt of the fair would be 132 00:06:10.240 --> 00:06:14.120 pickleball whore, and another one would be I'm calling HR. 133 00:06:14.639 --> 00:06:16.800 And so Naomi writes and she said, you did have 134 00:06:16.879 --> 00:06:19.360 this shirt last year, and she actually sends a picture 135 00:06:19.720 --> 00:06:23.399 of her I'm calling HR shirt. So now you can 136 00:06:23.439 --> 00:06:25.959 buy it on other websites. But I think that somebody 137 00:06:26.000 --> 00:06:30.279 originally it stole. They stole it from us, yeah, and 138 00:06:30.480 --> 00:06:33.319 sold it on their whatever they're on website. 139 00:06:33.199 --> 00:06:33.399 Yeah. 140 00:06:34.279 --> 00:06:37.439 I came up with the shirt idea years ago, twenty 141 00:06:37.480 --> 00:06:41.199 ish years ago. The shirt said I got busted on dateline. 142 00:06:42.000 --> 00:06:44.480 Now it was a joke. Remember they used to have 143 00:06:44.519 --> 00:06:49.519 this guy who would lure guys to the house pretending 144 00:06:49.519 --> 00:06:51.360 to be a fourteen year old or a twelve year 145 00:06:51.360 --> 00:06:55.519 old girl. And his name is Chris Simpson or Samson 146 00:06:55.639 --> 00:06:58.759 or something like that, and he was on Dateline, and 147 00:06:58.800 --> 00:07:01.879 they would have these people all the internet chat rooms, Yeah, 148 00:07:02.040 --> 00:07:05.600 pretending to be a twelve year old girl. They would say, yeah, 149 00:07:05.639 --> 00:07:08.240 I'm over here at one two three Maple Street and 150 00:07:08.399 --> 00:07:10.920 my parents are gone and come by and we can 151 00:07:11.000 --> 00:07:14.680 have sex. So a guy would show up and they 152 00:07:14.720 --> 00:07:18.120 would have an actress that looked like she could possibly 153 00:07:18.279 --> 00:07:21.639 be twelve that was actually eighteen, and she would meet 154 00:07:21.680 --> 00:07:23.920 the guy, and they would have the hidden cameras and 155 00:07:23.959 --> 00:07:26.040 the microphones, and he'd be like, yeah, I brought over 156 00:07:26.079 --> 00:07:29.199 some beer and condoms and let's go hook up. And 157 00:07:29.240 --> 00:07:32.560 she'd be like, yeah, that sounds great, and she'd be like, 158 00:07:32.680 --> 00:07:35.160 I'd be right back. So she would go leave the 159 00:07:35.240 --> 00:07:39.879 kitchen and then Chris Samson or whatever his name was out. 160 00:07:40.000 --> 00:07:41.920 He would come out and go, so, yeah, so you're 161 00:07:41.920 --> 00:07:45.279 here to meet a twelve year old girl. No, huh, 162 00:07:45.319 --> 00:07:48.759 you've been caught. Yeah. Yeah. And so it was like, 163 00:07:49.000 --> 00:07:50.879 I got busted on Dateline. So I came up with 164 00:07:50.920 --> 00:07:54.560 a shirt that said I got busted on Dateline, which 165 00:07:54.639 --> 00:07:58.040 was a very huge pop culture reference back then, and 166 00:07:58.120 --> 00:08:01.519 somebody stole the idea and they arted selling I got busted. 167 00:08:02.360 --> 00:08:04.000 There's really nothing you can do, I don't think. 168 00:08:04.120 --> 00:08:07.480 Yeah, not really. Okay, it's a good story about Dayline, though, 169 00:08:07.519 --> 00:08:08.000 thank you for that. 170 00:08:08.639 --> 00:08:09.600 Did you remember that show? 171 00:08:10.319 --> 00:08:11.120 Eat that show up? 172 00:08:11.279 --> 00:08:14.079 Yeah? What's his name? Chris doesn't matter. 173 00:08:14.079 --> 00:08:17.120 I remember his voice being very judgmental. 174 00:08:17.680 --> 00:08:22.040 Well, I think he was justified. Next one and Christy says, 175 00:08:22.120 --> 00:08:24.839 good morning everybody. The other day, you guys are talking 176 00:08:24.839 --> 00:08:27.079 about when you see your profession in a movie, or TV. 177 00:08:27.720 --> 00:08:30.040 I had to laugh because it's very true how they 178 00:08:30.079 --> 00:08:34.840 portray professions. If I watch anything with truck drivers, she's 179 00:08:34.840 --> 00:08:39.360 a truck driver. I nitpick everything since there's so many flaws. Example, 180 00:08:39.399 --> 00:08:41.799 in this Liam Niesen movie The Ice Road, they show 181 00:08:41.879 --> 00:08:45.679 one scene where he's driving a Kenworth truck but the 182 00:08:45.720 --> 00:08:50.039 outside is a Volvo truck, and then they shift gears wrong, 183 00:08:50.759 --> 00:08:55.440 and how they over dramatize things that aren't a big deal. Now, 184 00:08:55.720 --> 00:08:59.000 smoking the bandit that's some real stuff. Lol. We all 185 00:08:59.039 --> 00:09:01.399 think we're badass and really we're but reality we're a 186 00:09:01.440 --> 00:09:03.519 bunch of softies and we just love what we do. 187 00:09:03.919 --> 00:09:05.960 Have a fabulous day, love y'all from Christy. 188 00:09:06.240 --> 00:09:06.759 That's cool. 189 00:09:07.360 --> 00:09:10.120 And it goes back to if you know of like 190 00:09:10.240 --> 00:09:12.120 you watch movies and you're a doctor and you go, no, 191 00:09:12.200 --> 00:09:13.000 we would never do that. 192 00:09:13.159 --> 00:09:13.399 Yeah. 193 00:09:13.440 --> 00:09:14.960 I love that we have so many truck drivers that 194 00:09:15.039 --> 00:09:16.720 listen to our show. That seems so cool to me. 195 00:09:16.840 --> 00:09:18.399 Yeah it is. We have a lot here that. 196 00:09:18.360 --> 00:09:19.960 They see some weird things. 197 00:09:20.440 --> 00:09:22.440 So she should say, what are some weird things that 198 00:09:22.480 --> 00:09:24.320 you've seen inside of people's cars? 199 00:09:24.600 --> 00:09:27.320 Probably people flat? Well, would you flash a woman truck driver? 200 00:09:27.399 --> 00:09:27.639 Sure? 201 00:09:27.759 --> 00:09:28.080 Why not? 202 00:09:28.240 --> 00:09:29.159 I don't know who knows. 203 00:09:30.799 --> 00:09:32.440 Do you ever do the thing with a truck driver 204 00:09:32.600 --> 00:09:34.039 or have you in your life where you ever went 205 00:09:34.279 --> 00:09:37.679 to go to pool poll pull pole, pull too too 206 00:09:37.720 --> 00:09:38.000 and they go. 207 00:09:38.639 --> 00:09:40.399 We would do that when we were on the bus 208 00:09:40.440 --> 00:09:43.240 to field trips in like middle school, and you'd be 209 00:09:43.240 --> 00:09:46.360 in the back and you'd do the like toot the 210 00:09:46.399 --> 00:09:49.600 horn and they'd be like you kids, Hong Kong. 211 00:09:50.000 --> 00:09:52.480 I'd be like, what I know, Yeah. 212 00:09:52.200 --> 00:09:54.440 I did it, probably down by red Wing within the 213 00:09:54.519 --> 00:09:57.399 last three or five years. Because there's a big valley 214 00:09:57.440 --> 00:09:59.480 with a railroad track in the middle of the valley. 215 00:09:59.480 --> 00:10:01.519 The road run right next to it. I'm on my 216 00:10:01.559 --> 00:10:05.080 motorcycle and I do the pull pull Hong Kong, and 217 00:10:05.120 --> 00:10:07.200 sure enough the train win Hong Kong. And I was like, 218 00:10:07.399 --> 00:10:12.799 fuck yeah, fucking cool. Okay, uh next one, I want 219 00:10:12.799 --> 00:10:16.759 to say, I'm a little upset with Dave. Okay, I 220 00:10:16.799 --> 00:10:19.080 hope this makes you laugh, as I'm not really upset 221 00:10:19.080 --> 00:10:23.600 with Dave. I love going to the fast food place Cookout. 222 00:10:23.679 --> 00:10:26.559 They have my favorite fast food burgers convenient to me. Well. 223 00:10:26.679 --> 00:10:30.399 I always get the Cookout tray burger, cheese kurds and 224 00:10:30.440 --> 00:10:34.200 a corn dog. I've been getting this for years, well, 225 00:10:34.360 --> 00:10:38.879 says Sesna. For the past year, I've heard Dave make 226 00:10:38.879 --> 00:10:42.279 the comments that hot dogs are lips and buttholes, which 227 00:10:42.320 --> 00:10:44.960 is hilarious and also somewhat true. Well, a few weeks ago, 228 00:10:45.000 --> 00:10:46.960 I got my usual order, took a bite out of 229 00:10:46.960 --> 00:10:48.879 my corn dog, and in my head I hear it's 230 00:10:49.000 --> 00:10:51.519 just lips and buttholes. So I had to spit out 231 00:10:51.519 --> 00:10:53.440 my food. I had a little laugh, but I wasn't 232 00:10:53.440 --> 00:10:55.399 able to finish my corn dog. Then last week I 233 00:10:55.440 --> 00:10:57.919 got my usual ordered again, and I wasn't even able 234 00:10:57.919 --> 00:11:00.759 to take a bite. Dave's words in and engraved into 235 00:11:00.759 --> 00:11:03.240 my brain that I can't think of anything else to 236 00:11:03.320 --> 00:11:06.039 try when I try to eat my damn corn dog. 237 00:11:06.480 --> 00:11:08.559 It doesn't make sense because I've had so many hot 238 00:11:08.559 --> 00:11:10.320 dogs and corn dogs since I've heard you say this. 239 00:11:10.840 --> 00:11:13.320 I don't know why I'm suddenly very bothered, but I 240 00:11:13.360 --> 00:11:17.200 am hopefully it'll pass. I know what's in hot dogs 241 00:11:17.200 --> 00:11:19.320 for well over ten years. That's never stopped me before, 242 00:11:19.360 --> 00:11:21.480 But now I hear Dave's little voice whispering lips and 243 00:11:21.480 --> 00:11:24.919 buttholes anytime I think about a hot dog. So thanks Dave, 244 00:11:25.960 --> 00:11:30.559 Love you guys. Shout out to Cap Bailey's Cat's Kiddie. 245 00:11:32.600 --> 00:11:37.360 I read something about dry aged beef one time, and 246 00:11:37.399 --> 00:11:40.320 I didn't eat beef for like six months because dry 247 00:11:40.360 --> 00:11:43.240 age beef is they basically let If you go to 248 00:11:43.279 --> 00:11:45.960 a fancy steakhouse, they go, yeah, we have dry age beef, 249 00:11:46.240 --> 00:11:48.679 which basically they take the beef, they put it in 250 00:11:49.000 --> 00:11:54.120 a mild refrigerator and they let it kind of rot 251 00:11:55.080 --> 00:11:59.480 and it softens the beef up because it rots. They 252 00:11:59.519 --> 00:12:05.240 call it ry aging, but basically it is semi spoiled beef. 253 00:12:05.840 --> 00:12:08.360 And after I heard that, I would not eat beef 254 00:12:08.960 --> 00:12:10.799 for about six months. 255 00:12:11.120 --> 00:12:11.519 Yeah. 256 00:12:11.600 --> 00:12:14.200 Is there anything, Jenny, that you will not eat? 257 00:12:14.399 --> 00:12:14.639 Yes? 258 00:12:14.759 --> 00:12:18.279 I do not do Coleslaw because I ate it once 259 00:12:18.320 --> 00:12:20.960 when I was in first grade and I was like 260 00:12:21.080 --> 00:12:23.720 puking my brains out and probably just had the flu, 261 00:12:23.840 --> 00:12:27.120 but I associated it with Coleslaw, and so I forever 262 00:12:27.159 --> 00:12:28.720 have never liked Coleslaw since then. 263 00:12:28.840 --> 00:12:30.799 Yeah, same with I had grape soda. 264 00:12:30.879 --> 00:12:33.399 My dad used to mix medicine with grape soda so 265 00:12:33.440 --> 00:12:36.519 it would be more palatable. And now all grape soda 266 00:12:36.559 --> 00:12:37.519 tastes like medicine. 267 00:12:37.759 --> 00:12:39.799 Yeah, so gross. 268 00:12:40.080 --> 00:12:42.360 No grape soda does taste like medicine. It really does. 269 00:12:42.399 --> 00:12:43.600 In general, it really kind of does. 270 00:12:43.679 --> 00:12:46.200 Yeah, it does for the most part. Okay, sugar and 271 00:12:46.519 --> 00:12:47.679 I still am like, it's soda. 272 00:12:47.720 --> 00:12:48.159 Baby. 273 00:12:48.799 --> 00:12:51.840 Do you remember Bear? You don't because I don't think 274 00:12:51.840 --> 00:12:55.360 they have any more. Bear Aspirin for children. Yes, okay, 275 00:12:55.440 --> 00:13:00.200 they were little orange tablets. They were so good to 276 00:13:01.200 --> 00:13:04.000 used to get into my mom's medicine cabinet. And I 277 00:13:04.159 --> 00:13:06.559 was not stupid enough to have the whole bottle, but 278 00:13:06.639 --> 00:13:10.039 I'd have like five or six little orange flavored Bayer 279 00:13:10.120 --> 00:13:11.120 Aspirin for children. 280 00:13:11.320 --> 00:13:13.480 Yes, we did that with thumbs. Me and my sister 281 00:13:13.519 --> 00:13:16.440 would hide behind our really big chair in the living 282 00:13:16.519 --> 00:13:19.360 room and eat tombs like it was candy. We got 283 00:13:19.440 --> 00:13:21.279 in so much trouble my grandma caught us once. 284 00:13:21.360 --> 00:13:24.279 I think tombs are pretty benign. Yeah, they're not really harmful. 285 00:13:24.480 --> 00:13:27.360 Technically, it's like a vitamin. It's like a calcium vitamin. 286 00:13:27.360 --> 00:13:29.360 I think, so, yeah, yeah, you're pretty harmless. 287 00:13:29.360 --> 00:13:32.519 We were. We were on top with calcium. I guess. 288 00:13:33.240 --> 00:13:36.159 Let me know, or was it Saint Joseph Asford for Children. 289 00:13:37.279 --> 00:13:37.639 I don't know. 290 00:13:38.639 --> 00:13:42.240 Joseph Aspirin for children And see if it like if 291 00:13:42.279 --> 00:13:45.960 there's a picture of a little bottle, probably glass back then. 292 00:13:46.279 --> 00:13:47.039 Picture of aim. 293 00:13:47.840 --> 00:13:50.559 Okay, but I got in a box that I'm seeing 294 00:13:50.600 --> 00:13:52.320 right now. Let me see if there's one that shows 295 00:13:52.360 --> 00:13:52.919 like the bottle. 296 00:13:54.720 --> 00:13:57.720 That's okay, not that important, Yeah, not that important. Okay, 297 00:13:57.759 --> 00:14:01.559 next one, do not use my name instead of asking 298 00:14:01.639 --> 00:14:05.000 my the asshole? Am I too sensitive? Backstory? I've been 299 00:14:05.039 --> 00:14:08.039 skinny all my life until I had a child, and 300 00:14:08.120 --> 00:14:10.200 since then my weight has been up and down all 301 00:14:10.240 --> 00:14:12.600 the time. When I say skinny, I was about ninety 302 00:14:12.639 --> 00:14:14.639 to one hundred pounds. This is from a woman, by 303 00:14:14.679 --> 00:14:17.919 the way. Fast forward to today, I am the heaviest 304 00:14:17.960 --> 00:14:20.399 I've ever been tried, doing the shots, taking the pill, 305 00:14:20.480 --> 00:14:24.200 currently working out, count my macro smaller portions, I'm still heavy. 306 00:14:24.759 --> 00:14:26.799 I was married to someone who always looked at other 307 00:14:26.840 --> 00:14:29.279 women no matter how skinny I was, so since then 308 00:14:29.799 --> 00:14:31.960 I've been very sensitive about my weight. I felt I 309 00:14:32.000 --> 00:14:34.559 was never pretty enough or skinny enough. Now I met 310 00:14:34.559 --> 00:14:37.840 my heaviest. It is a hot topic. Any time I 311 00:14:37.879 --> 00:14:41.279 see friends and family, they indicate that they are concerned 312 00:14:41.320 --> 00:14:44.159 about my weight or never thought I would gain so 313 00:14:44.240 --> 00:14:46.600 much weight. And when I get these comments, it takes 314 00:14:46.720 --> 00:14:49.000 everything in me not to blow up. On them or 315 00:14:49.039 --> 00:14:53.080 start crying. When did it become okay for others to 316 00:14:53.120 --> 00:14:55.639 talk about one's weight? Every time I hear comments, I 317 00:14:55.679 --> 00:14:58.000 literally want to stay in my home and never leave 318 00:14:58.039 --> 00:15:00.559 the house. And when I do, I wear all black 319 00:15:00.600 --> 00:15:02.879 and really baggy clothes to hide everything. I try to 320 00:15:02.879 --> 00:15:05.120 make light of it when somebody says something like yeah, 321 00:15:05.200 --> 00:15:07.960 I'm the fat girl with the pretty hair, but it 322 00:15:08.039 --> 00:15:10.759 still hurts am I being too sensitive? Or they just 323 00:15:10.799 --> 00:15:12.919 tell them to fuck off and look at themselves before 324 00:15:13.000 --> 00:15:15.639 judging me. Damn, this is long. Thanks for being the 325 00:15:15.679 --> 00:15:18.799 best morning show crew and always bringing laughter to our lives. 326 00:15:20.159 --> 00:15:23.279 I think that I'm going to say this. I know 327 00:15:23.720 --> 00:15:26.080 this person. They are a regular supporter of the show. 328 00:15:26.480 --> 00:15:31.320 They're probably forty eight or fifty ish. They're at that 329 00:15:31.399 --> 00:15:37.519 age menopause hits weight comes on. It's very tough to 330 00:15:37.600 --> 00:15:40.759 keep weight off. Sure, so I think that's probably part 331 00:15:40.799 --> 00:15:43.600 of what is happening. But no, there's no way that 332 00:15:43.679 --> 00:15:46.399 anybody has the right to make comments, whether they're family 333 00:15:46.480 --> 00:15:47.399 or friends or whatever. 334 00:15:47.600 --> 00:15:49.159 Yeah, especially family. 335 00:15:49.240 --> 00:15:51.480 Honestly, I'd be like, shouldn't you care more about me 336 00:15:51.600 --> 00:15:54.840 than what you're doing right now? Because if all they're 337 00:15:54.879 --> 00:15:58.480 saying is like you're getting fat, Like, come on, you're supposed. 338 00:15:58.120 --> 00:16:01.000 To like love me unconditional family talks about their weight 339 00:16:01.080 --> 00:16:04.519 in a negative way. I say, you look great, I 340 00:16:04.519 --> 00:16:07.480 would I U. That makes me very sad that your 341 00:16:07.519 --> 00:16:09.159 family is talking about your weight. 342 00:16:09.240 --> 00:16:09.360 Now. 343 00:16:09.879 --> 00:16:11.639 I want to be real honest and you guys, be 344 00:16:11.720 --> 00:16:14.279 honest because I know the correct thing would be to 345 00:16:14.320 --> 00:16:16.320 answer one way. But I want you to be really honest. 346 00:16:16.960 --> 00:16:20.279 If your partner, if you are into like healthy people 347 00:16:20.320 --> 00:16:22.720 who are active, and your partner all of a sudden 348 00:16:22.759 --> 00:16:24.279 put on not all of a sudden, but over a 349 00:16:24.320 --> 00:16:28.519 couple of years, put on one hundred pounds, would you 350 00:16:28.600 --> 00:16:30.240 have a right to be like you know what, I 351 00:16:30.279 --> 00:16:32.919 don't like you this way. I love you no matter what, 352 00:16:33.399 --> 00:16:37.519 but I don't like this version of you that is 353 00:16:38.519 --> 00:16:41.440 morbidly obese. I don't like the fact that you sit 354 00:16:41.440 --> 00:16:43.679 on the couch. I don't like the fact that you overeat. 355 00:16:44.000 --> 00:16:45.840 I don't like the fact that we can't enjoy the 356 00:16:45.879 --> 00:16:49.519 things we used to do. If Susan got that way, 357 00:16:50.200 --> 00:16:53.720 I don't. We don't talk about each other's weight. If 358 00:16:53.759 --> 00:16:55.919 it's like, you know, twenty pounds up, twenty pounds down, 359 00:16:56.720 --> 00:16:59.320 will compliment the twenty pounds down, but we don't say 360 00:16:59.360 --> 00:17:02.039 you look like put on twenty pounds. But I'm going 361 00:17:02.080 --> 00:17:04.319 to be honest with you. If Susan put on one 362 00:17:04.400 --> 00:17:07.680 hundred pounds, I'd be pissed. I'd be like, who are you? 363 00:17:08.200 --> 00:17:11.079 This is not what I expect out of you. You 364 00:17:11.119 --> 00:17:14.599 don't have to look perfect, but one hundred pounds. I'm sorry, 365 00:17:14.920 --> 00:17:15.759 what do you guys think? 366 00:17:16.079 --> 00:17:18.720 I'm I'm pretty much the same as you, just because 367 00:17:18.880 --> 00:17:21.119 Andrew and I live like active lifestyles, and I know 368 00:17:21.160 --> 00:17:23.279 one hundred pounds would take away from so many things 369 00:17:23.319 --> 00:17:25.759 that we do between pick a ball, hiking, whatever it is. 370 00:17:26.319 --> 00:17:29.160 So I would probably be like, all right, baby, let's 371 00:17:29.640 --> 00:17:32.279 get to the gym, Like come on, come along with me. 372 00:17:33.680 --> 00:17:35.759 But I would probably be the same with way as you. 373 00:17:35.960 --> 00:17:38.039 I think, especially if somebody puts on a lot of 374 00:17:38.039 --> 00:17:40.880 weight and you see the way they eat and you go, 375 00:17:41.200 --> 00:17:44.599 there's a correlation between you eat and a bag of 376 00:17:44.720 --> 00:17:46.839 M and ms every night and the fact that you 377 00:17:46.880 --> 00:17:49.880 put on one hundred pounds. So yeah, get to the gym. Sure, 378 00:17:50.000 --> 00:17:55.400 absolutely be active, But also I'd be like, you can't 379 00:17:55.440 --> 00:17:57.759 eat that way, Bailey, what do you think? 380 00:17:58.039 --> 00:17:58.279 See? 381 00:17:58.319 --> 00:18:03.400 I'm going to slightly disagree because I think that just 382 00:18:03.440 --> 00:18:07.279 because you're big or quote unquote fat, doesn't mean you 383 00:18:07.319 --> 00:18:11.480 are unfit or unhealthy. It just is a different body type. 384 00:18:11.839 --> 00:18:15.319 So if you can still maintain the same lifestyle, So 385 00:18:15.359 --> 00:18:17.960 like if Andrew gained one hundred pounds, but he can 386 00:18:18.000 --> 00:18:20.880 still play pickleball and he can still go hiking, then 387 00:18:21.400 --> 00:18:25.039 he just looks different. And like I think you could say, like, 388 00:18:25.799 --> 00:18:28.039 I mean, you could potentially bring up that you are 389 00:18:28.240 --> 00:18:31.319 concerned about, like his weight gain, but if he's still 390 00:18:31.519 --> 00:18:35.480 active and like living the same way that you were together, 391 00:18:35.640 --> 00:18:38.359 then like we all change over time, we all look 392 00:18:38.400 --> 00:18:41.000 different over time. So like I don't know, maybe I'll 393 00:18:41.000 --> 00:18:44.920 get like hideous wrinkles, But do I want someone to say, like, God, 394 00:18:44.960 --> 00:18:48.160 you look freaking old, get some botox because this isn't 395 00:18:48.160 --> 00:18:49.200 what I signed up for. 396 00:18:49.440 --> 00:18:51.480 I think age, though, is a little bit different than 397 00:18:51.519 --> 00:18:54.359 weight gain, Like aging is just what has to happen 398 00:18:54.519 --> 00:18:56.920 weight gain, And I understand that, like as we get older, 399 00:18:56.960 --> 00:19:00.000 it is so much harder to stay at a certain self. 400 00:19:00.279 --> 00:19:03.000 I totally get that, But like one hundred pounds, that's 401 00:19:03.079 --> 00:19:05.839