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Speaker 1: Creativity is an addiction unplugged because we will always say

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yes to creativity, totally uncut because we all make mistakes.

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So turn it into a tool. This is arrow unplugged. Okay.

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The first thing that we need to do today is

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we need to clear up the idea that I am

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not a dream expert, but I am willing to talk

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about dreams because we all have dreams, and we all

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sit back going huh, I wonder if that had any

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meaning to it? What did that mean? Or we go

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we're talking about that, We're not going there. That dream

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was evil. That dream a dream last night about losing

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my memory for some reason, for some reason, how I

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reacted in the dream is still with me this morning.

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I remember struggling in the dream. I knew absolutely nobody

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and couldn't figure out what we were even talking about.

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Of course, I've done some research here about losing the

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memory while dreaming, in the moment of reality or while away.

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What pressing matters are we facing When your daily schedule

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is too full with expectation, the fear of forgetting to

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do something is carried with you into your dreams. So

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the goal needs to budget your time while you're awake.

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Another reason why we dream of memory loss is having

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a sense of not belonging. Come on, we're creatures that

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need connection. When that need isn't being met, it begins

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to affect the heart and we carry it right into

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our dreams. But it feels like an oxymoron, a dream

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about having memory lost, and yet I'm remembering it right

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now during these awake hours, just making myself aware of

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how the mind continues to evolve as we age. Hey, serow,

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this is the daily mess, a chronological walk through in

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everyday world. I am a daily writer. It's stuff like this.

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This is how you learn When people say I don't

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hear anything coming from the universe. Ah, that's all hogwash?

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Is it? Is it? The thoughts are planted, but if

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you don't do anything with the thoughts, you're just basically

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letting something go when you could have grown. This is

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the daily mess. I'm not good when there are no

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set plans. Yet I'm that guy that would always ask

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business leaders all they do is set up meetings to

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set up another meeting, what is their problem? People get

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lost when they have no plans, often accused of being

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a creature of habit. My daily disciplines include plans set

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by week by week expectations, and if something new is

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added unexpectedly. The first steps are to protect what has

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been planned. I start asking the questions, can it be

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moved to a different time, does it affect other people's time?

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Will it put me behind when dealing with due dates.

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I was asked to do a lecture tonight. Their plans

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were interrupted by some one who backed out, so they

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reached out to me. Because I'm usually that guy that says, yeah,

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I'll be there. I like sharing the word. Sadly, I

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couldn't accept my set plans have me at one of

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my other jobs. I'm at a movie premiere tonight working it.

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Where I find peace in all of this is not

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inside the guilt trip that I'm putting into my heart,

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because I feel like I should have said yes to

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the lecture. If by chance I would have been open,

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I would have said yes to the lecture. So we

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teach in the way of saying, don't just reach out,

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we need to reach through. Don't just reach out, we

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need to reach through. In other words, when you face

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something unexpectedly and you can't deliver a yes, instead of

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sitting in a pity pool or a guilt trip, because

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it's like, man, I'm always there for them, and I

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couldn't do it. Man, oh my god. Because we have

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set plans. We have set plans. Because if we don't

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have set plans, what do we do? We sit around

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binge watching, We go to the mall and buy things

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we don't need. We sit there and we just skim

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across the internet looking for things to do. When we

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don't have set plans, we're out of control with doing nothing.

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And then you talk about a guilt trip and feeling

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bad because you didn't do anything even around the house.

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You could have picked something up. I love what Mark

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Maron says. He says he has a lot of shelves

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in his house because if he goes over and he

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rearranges a few things on the shelves, he did something today. God,

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I love that plan. Just move something around, put something

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in your heart that says I got it done. Like,

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for instance, go out and do something on the lawn,

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Go out and trim or prune some trees, take a

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walk and have a conversation with neighbors two and three

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blocks away, just so that they know you. That connection thing.

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We have to have it, and if we don't have it, it

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affects the way we dream. I'm ERW and that's the

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daily mess.