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<v Speaker 1>The sun doesn't shine every day.

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<v Speaker 2>The storms will come. There are times when the nights

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<v Speaker 2>will be long and dark and you will be alone.

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<v Speaker 2>There will be times when the darkness seems to consume everything,

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<v Speaker 2>But don't let it consume you.

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<v Speaker 3>We all fail, It's okay. What is another care is

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<v Speaker 3>that when you fail, you stay down. Whoever stays down

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<v Speaker 3>is a loser and win. Us will fail and get up,

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<v Speaker 3>fail and get up, fail and get up.

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<v Speaker 4>You always get up.

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<v Speaker 3>That is I went up. I can accept failure.

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<v Speaker 5>Everyone fails at some point I cannot accept not try.

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<v Speaker 2>It is your lostness that will humble you.

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<v Speaker 6>It is that will give you a drive.

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<v Speaker 7>It doesn't matter about what happened yesterday, doesn't matter what

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<v Speaker 7>happens to you.

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<v Speaker 5>The only thing matters what are.

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<v Speaker 1>You gonna do about it?

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<v Speaker 8>As long as you're here, you have a chance to

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<v Speaker 8>transcend yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>You can decide that you're gonna stand up to life.

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<v Speaker 4>That's necessary. You take responsibility for it, that you don't

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<v Speaker 4>give up.

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<v Speaker 8>That you don't take any objection or disappointment or defeats personally.

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<v Speaker 9>So, yes, I'm in charge here.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm going to do something about this situation.

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<v Speaker 4>When you give off this journey. You must know that

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<v Speaker 4>it's gonna go down before it comes up, and when

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<v Speaker 4>it comes up, it's gonna go so much higher than

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<v Speaker 4>you've ever been sacrifice since the David Tomorrow's Betterment. But

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<v Speaker 4>if you didn't know that, you didn't prepare for that,

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<v Speaker 4>think something's wrong. Maybe it's time to stop. No, it's

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<v Speaker 4>time to move for you and further, you have to

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<v Speaker 4>be equipmental to endure this process knowing what you're about

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<v Speaker 4>to go into a step one knowing it's not the battle,

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<v Speaker 4>but a winnable one, and one that's achievable.

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<v Speaker 3>Only those who are willing to risk.

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<v Speaker 4>Going too far can possibly find out how far one

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<v Speaker 4>can go.

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<v Speaker 10>I want to see how far I can go.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to see what I could adopted.

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<v Speaker 10>I want to see what I can do, what I

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<v Speaker 10>can see, what I can have.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to see.

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<v Speaker 10>I don't want to see what I.

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<v Speaker 6>Think I can do.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to see what I think is possible.

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<v Speaker 10>I want to see what my life would look like

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<v Speaker 10>if I didn't count for cost.

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<v Speaker 3>Because if you count the costs and you see how

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<v Speaker 3>much it costs.

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<v Speaker 6>You might quit.

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<v Speaker 7>So you gotta go in knowing that I don't count the.

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<v Speaker 10>Calls I do as many brush up to the take,

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<v Speaker 10>as many sit up to the take, as many reps

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<v Speaker 10>as the take. I pay whatever the price is.

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<v Speaker 4>You'll get to a point when you don't tire.

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<v Speaker 10>If you just do whatever it case to get whatever

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<v Speaker 10>you want. See, you's gotta consider it before you start anything.

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<v Speaker 10>What is the commitment level? And if you commit to something,

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<v Speaker 10>you don't stop until you win. Wake up in the morning.

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<v Speaker 11>You rise and you crying.

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<v Speaker 3>You join an help club.

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<v Speaker 7>Don't quit.

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<v Speaker 4>You started that business.

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<v Speaker 9>Don't quit.

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<v Speaker 10>Your line has got to be stepped fast. Your line's

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<v Speaker 10>got to be locked in. You don't matter what, because

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<v Speaker 10>we are champions.

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<v Speaker 7>You never quit.

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<v Speaker 5>The official definition of self discipline is the ability to

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<v Speaker 5>control one's feelings and overcome one's weaknesses. Also, it's the

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<v Speaker 5>ability to pursue what one thinks is right despite temptations

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<v Speaker 5>to abandon it. See, the problem with you is you

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<v Speaker 5>rarely exercise your self disciplined muscle. You just go with

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<v Speaker 5>the flow, no backbone whatsoever. And that's perfectly fine until

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<v Speaker 5>you start whining and complaining about your lack of success,

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<v Speaker 5>whining and complaining about your lack of progress, whining and

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<v Speaker 5>complaining that you're not gaining any momental and you can't

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<v Speaker 5>seem to get ahead in life.

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<v Speaker 11>You're wasting them unch of percentage. Here we have eighty

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<v Speaker 11>more percent that we're not tapping into because in this

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<v Speaker 11>other eighty percent it's suffering, pain, failure, failure, failure, self doubt, darkness.

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<v Speaker 8>And then a whole bunch of lights. But to get

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<v Speaker 8>to this light, we got to go through all of this.

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<v Speaker 8>So a lot of us know that I can get

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<v Speaker 8>over here. But over here, man, this is much better

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<v Speaker 8>because I gotta go through this journey that is not fun.

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<v Speaker 8>This from twenty to one hundred percent, this shit in

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<v Speaker 8>between is not fun. So we decide to live over here.

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<v Speaker 8>So everybody was, how do you do that? You know

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<v Speaker 8>exactly how, you know exactly. It's not a magic trip.

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<v Speaker 8>There's nothing I talking about that's a magic trip. It's

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<v Speaker 8>all back down to a very remitive.

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<v Speaker 1>Mindset.

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<v Speaker 11>A week as happy.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like reading reading becomes normal, like.

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<v Speaker 8>We don't know the debt that would do it. That's

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<v Speaker 8>how you have to live your life.

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<v Speaker 12>The truth of the matter is is that you have

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<v Speaker 12>a lot of potential as a child, but none of

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<v Speaker 12>that is capable of manifesting itself as freedom before you

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<v Speaker 12>become disciplined, and discipline is a matter of the imposition

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<v Speaker 12>of order, and the order is necessary, especially for people

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<v Speaker 12>who are hopeless and nihilistic.

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<v Speaker 6>And what does it mean, Well, it doesn't mean geez,

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<v Speaker 6>I hate getting up at eight o'clock in the morning

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<v Speaker 6>to get ready for work. That's just means that you're

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<v Speaker 6>not very disciplined, you know, or or maybe that it

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<v Speaker 6>might mean something deeper. But I'd start with lack of

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<v Speaker 6>discipline before you know, rearranging your whole life, because you

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<v Speaker 6>might say, well, I hate getting up at o'clock in

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<v Speaker 6>the morning no matter what I'm doing, and then it's

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<v Speaker 6>not your job. I don't mean don't do difficult things.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean watch yourself. And if you see that you're

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<v Speaker 6>doing things that make you hate yourself, then consider the

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<v Speaker 6>cost of continuing.

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<v Speaker 13>You know, if something's valuable, you'll make sacrifices to attain it.

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<v Speaker 13>That discovery of sacrifice, I think that's what separates human

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<v Speaker 13>It's one of the primary factors separating human beings from animals.

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<v Speaker 13>Because we discovered that we could let go of something

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<v Speaker 13>we value in the present and we would gain something

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<v Speaker 13>we value even more in the future.

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<v Speaker 1>And that long clock goes off at four or five

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, your mind says, no, you say, this

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<v Speaker 1>is what we do, is what we do now, because

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<v Speaker 1>to get to where you want to go, the amount

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<v Speaker 1>of pain involved. I'm not saying physical, I'm not saying

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<v Speaker 1>you got to break yourself off. The amount of mental

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<v Speaker 1>pain of how many times you're gonna have to do

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<v Speaker 1>something that you don't want to do to get to

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<v Speaker 1>where you want to go. When I was tours in

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<v Speaker 1>ninety seven pounds and I was fat as hell trying

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<v Speaker 1>to be a Navy seal, the scariest thing in the

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<v Speaker 1>world to me, even to this day, was that that

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<v Speaker 1>could have been the rest of my life.

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<v Speaker 11>I thought then I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was trying hard. That's the scariest thing in the world.

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<v Speaker 8>I thought then.

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<v Speaker 1>Tours at ninety seven pounds, working for Eco Labs, praying

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<v Speaker 1>for cockroaches, making one thousand dollars a month, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>that was me at my one hundred percent potential. Come

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<v Speaker 1>to find out, a few years later, I wasn't evenere

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<v Speaker 1>near that one hundred and six pounds less, graduating Navy

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<v Speaker 1>steel training, went on to do all these other things.

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<v Speaker 8>Looking back on that, that was me trying hard.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why people got to understand what is in us.

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<v Speaker 1>We have no idea until we start trying hard, and

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<v Speaker 1>I mean.

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<v Speaker 11>Really trying hard. When you're obsessed with hey, this is.

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<v Speaker 6>My new norm.

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<v Speaker 1>My new norm is that wow, this is always fun

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<v Speaker 1>is not always meant to be fun. And that's when

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<v Speaker 1>you're your try hard. As C. S.

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<v Speaker 9>Lewis said, hardships often prepare ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny.

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<v Speaker 9>People look at their past to decide who they are.

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<v Speaker 9>People look at their past to decide who they can be.

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<v Speaker 9>But the problem is oftentimes people mistake difficulties, suffering, pain

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<v Speaker 9>for being bad, being less than being broken, and it

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<v Speaker 9>erodes their sense of self esteem, it erodes their sense

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<v Speaker 9>of self worth. But nothing could be more opposite from

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<v Speaker 9>the truth, because in reality, no matter what you've gone through,

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<v Speaker 9>no matter how hard it was, all of it was

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<v Speaker 9>shaping you into the person that you can become. The hardships,

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<v Speaker 9>the difficulties, the pain, the suffering, all of that makes

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<v Speaker 9>you tougher. It is literally in the difficulties that you

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<v Speaker 9>begin to find just how much you're capable of. It's

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<v Speaker 9>in the suffering that you find out how resilient you are.

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<v Speaker 9>It's in the pain that you can rise up and

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<v Speaker 9>get tough and all of that. It's going to serve

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<v Speaker 9>you as you move forward. But you have to know

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<v Speaker 9>how to frame it. You have to know how to

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<v Speaker 9>think about it. You have to know that whatever you've

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<v Speaker 9>been through, that all of it is an opportunity to learn.

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<v Speaker 9>All of it is an opportunity to grow, All of

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<v Speaker 9>it is an opportunity to get better. But you have

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<v Speaker 9>to use it to shape yourself. You have to lean

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<v Speaker 9>into it. You have to know that the pain and

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<v Speaker 9>the suffering, all of it is serving you. But if

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<v Speaker 9>you're telling yourself a story that diminishes you, if you're

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<v Speaker 9>telling yourself a story that bad things have happened to me,

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<v Speaker 9>or I have done bad things and that makes me

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<v Speaker 9>a bad person, then none of it is going to

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<v Speaker 9>help you. And you're always going to move backwards, and

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<v Speaker 9>it's going to be this stress and this pressure that's

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<v Speaker 9>pushing you backwards. Instead, if you could put it behind

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<v Speaker 9>you said, it pushes you forward, it propels you to

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<v Speaker 9>be more. Then no matter what's happened to you, you

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<v Speaker 9>can become something truly extraordinary. And as David Livingstone said,

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<v Speaker 9>I'll go anywhere, provide it it be forward.

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<v Speaker 14>You can't wait for somebody else to make your life better.

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<v Speaker 14>You got to make your life better. You got to

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<v Speaker 14>focus on you.

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<v Speaker 11>Now.

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<v Speaker 9>I'm not saying.

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<v Speaker 14>Forget the rest of the people, but I'm telling you

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<v Speaker 14>to get rid of the things that are not making

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<v Speaker 14>you strong. God, are not making you better, GOT not

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<v Speaker 14>making you efficient, GOT not putting you in a better place.

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<v Speaker 7>That's not giving you the strength that.

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<v Speaker 14>You need to keep living the life that you have

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<v Speaker 14>been gigging. Don't you give up on life, because once

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<v Speaker 14>your life is over, you can't come back. Leave your mark.

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<v Speaker 7>Help someone lift someone up when they're down, Be the

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<v Speaker 7>strength for others when they're weak, And maybe when you're

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<v Speaker 7>at the weakest point in your life, someone will lift

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<v Speaker 7>you up.

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<v Speaker 3>Because we all struggle.

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<v Speaker 2>No one is immune to it.

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<v Speaker 14>So keep fighting for it.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't give up.