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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Hey, Hey, I'm bad. Listen, I gotta talk about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I am tired of hearing men and women crying about

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<v Speaker 2>being single.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm tired of hearing about it. Many people.

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<v Speaker 2>Biggest problem is self, but they want to blame other people.

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<v Speaker 2>If you were a person who really loved yourself, although

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<v Speaker 2>I know you think you do, But if you really

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<v Speaker 2>loved yourself, your focus wouldn't be on whether somebody like

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<v Speaker 2>you or want to be with you. That wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 2>your focus. If you really loved yourself. The truth purence,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's there to make you strong. People spend so

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<v Speaker 2>much time and energy invested in other people. They become

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<v Speaker 2>angry when they don't get what they feel that they

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<v Speaker 2>deserve or that they want it that they desire, they

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<v Speaker 2>become angry.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why women are, you know, the way

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<v Speaker 1>they are. I don't know why men are the way

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<v Speaker 1>they are. Hey, don't worry about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Worry about you, Worry about you, Worry about you. If

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna worry, worry about yourself because you can get

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<v Speaker 2>away from other people, but you can never get away

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<v Speaker 2>from you, and that's where the problem lies. Your mindset

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<v Speaker 2>is your biggest problem being single is not your problem.

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<v Speaker 1>Your mindset is your problem. Just because you are a

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<v Speaker 1>loan does not mean you have to be lonely.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a little piece out of my book, by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>that's going to be coming out here pretty soon, but

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<v Speaker 2>I'll talk about that another time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>People get deep into loneliness and then depression because they focus.

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<v Speaker 1>So much on being lonely.

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<v Speaker 2>That they don't they don't take hold of the opportunity

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<v Speaker 2>of growth and development because they're so focused.

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<v Speaker 1>On being lonely. It becomes something else, meaning they become

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<v Speaker 1>angry and bitter depressed.

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<v Speaker 2>Because of their loneliness because that's all they're fixated on,

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<v Speaker 2>and then it turns into anger at the opposite sex.

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<v Speaker 2>A woman has the right to be single if she

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<v Speaker 2>wants to. A man has the right to be single

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<v Speaker 2>if he wants to. I saw a video clip. Now

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna tell you. I have to be honest. See

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<v Speaker 2>I have a funny bone.

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<v Speaker 1>God knows I have a funny bone, and I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I laugh, I really laugh hard.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw this video clip and I'm about to crack

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<v Speaker 2>up just thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying not to.

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<v Speaker 2>It was of this guy and the guy started off

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<v Speaker 2>real cool, calm and collective, talking about the type of

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<v Speaker 2>guy he is and how he, you know, looking for

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<v Speaker 2>a woman, and laying out the characteristics and things of

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<v Speaker 2>that nature. By the time he was at the end,

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<v Speaker 2>he was screaming and yelling and living. I laughed until

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<v Speaker 2>I cried. You don't wonder you alone, sir, No wonder.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody wants to put up with that. No one.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't want to put up with yourself. No one

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<v Speaker 2>wants to put up with a deranged person. Clearly he

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<v Speaker 2>was deranged or he is deranged. But it was hilarious

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<v Speaker 2>to me. See a lot of people want to blame

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<v Speaker 2>the opposite sex. Look at yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Who are you.

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<v Speaker 2>I've seen people say, oh, I love myself.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not me. I love myself. I'm doing this, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>doing this, doing that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe you are, but you definitely don't love yourself,

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<v Speaker 2>because if you did, you wouldn't be on here whining

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<v Speaker 2>about being alone.

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<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't you.

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<v Speaker 2>You would embrace it, you would build on it. You

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<v Speaker 2>will invest in yourself. You will be whining about being alone.

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<v Speaker 1>If the opportunity comes and it's the right person, you

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<v Speaker 1>will know well. People start their own mental maturity because.

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<v Speaker 2>Of the mindsets that they have, they can't ever develop

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<v Speaker 2>into mature adults. Although they are adults, they are not

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<v Speaker 2>mature adults. And there is a difference in how you

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<v Speaker 2>live your life whether you're mature or immature.

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<v Speaker 1>It is a difference in how you live your life.

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<v Speaker 2>There is a difference in the choices and decisions you make.

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<v Speaker 1>When you have not done that inside work.

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<v Speaker 2>You're always looking outward for what you need to be

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<v Speaker 2>looking inside inside for you're always looking outward. Man, if

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<v Speaker 2>you have all of these things you want in the

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<v Speaker 2>opposite sex when you're none of them, you're absolutely none

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<v Speaker 2>of them. That is unrealistic. You'd be what you're looking

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<v Speaker 2>for first. That way, you will have something to offer.

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<v Speaker 2>If you want someone to bring it to the table,

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<v Speaker 2>you have.

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<v Speaker 1>To bring it to the table too. People are called

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<v Speaker 1>up in the wrong things.

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<v Speaker 2>Their mindsets are on the wrong things. You're worried about

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<v Speaker 2>the other person when you need to be concerned about yourself, who.

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<v Speaker 1>You are as a person. Do you love yourself? That's

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<v Speaker 1>why many people will never experience true love because they

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<v Speaker 1>are so caught up on trying to find love. They're

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<v Speaker 1>so caught up on trying to find love, never to

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<v Speaker 1>receive it and become angry because of it.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't know love if you don't know yourself. You

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<v Speaker 2>don't know what it looks like. You don't know what

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<v Speaker 2>it is, what it isn't You don't know what it

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<v Speaker 2>feels like, because if you did, you wouldn't be worried about.

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<v Speaker 1>A woman who don't want you.

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<v Speaker 2>You wouldn't be worried about a man who don't want

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<v Speaker 2>you if you loved yourself, If you loved yourself, you

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<v Speaker 2>would be able to see when a person is no

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<v Speaker 2>good for you, when they're trying to get something out

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<v Speaker 2>of you, trying to get your money, when they're trying.

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<v Speaker 1>To ride on your coattail.

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<v Speaker 2>See again, that's the difference between being mature and immature.

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<v Speaker 1>They are not the same.

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<v Speaker 2>And no one gets to mental maturity without some healing

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<v Speaker 2>taking place.

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<v Speaker 1>You, you, me too. We all have.

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<v Speaker 2>To do that inside work in order for things to

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<v Speaker 2>work well on the outside. Many people have gone to

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<v Speaker 2>their grains and will go to their grains without ever

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<v Speaker 2>mentally maturity.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just fact. That's just fact. You're so worried about

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<v Speaker 1>being in love or being with someone, enjoy you, enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>yourself and I know people say, oh, well, single people,

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<v Speaker 1>they get into a mold where you know, they've been

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<v Speaker 1>single so long they don't want to be around people.

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<v Speaker 2>Just because you're single doesn't mean you're isolating yourself. Stop

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<v Speaker 2>getting it twisted. Stop it.

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<v Speaker 1>Just because a person that is single does not mean

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<v Speaker 1>they're isolating their self. A lot of.

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<v Speaker 2>People are mature, They love themselves, They are not settling

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<v Speaker 2>anymore because they've settled in the past and they're good.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop thinking everyone is the same because they are not.

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<v Speaker 1>I promise you, I guarantee you on everything. People are

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<v Speaker 1>not the same.

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<v Speaker 2>You have some people who are single who are doing great,

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<v Speaker 2>but then you have those who are not of the

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<v Speaker 2>right mindsets who are struggling, struggling very hard, and they

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<v Speaker 2>don't understand that men and women are either mature or immature,

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<v Speaker 2>and they.

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<v Speaker 1>Choose differently, they behave differently.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you're a person who have not mentally matured,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Know everybody think they are because people think maturity comes

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<v Speaker 1>with age, but it does not. It does not. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you're worried about someone else not giving you the

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<v Speaker 1>time of day or whatever, you need to look at yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Why you're worried about that. It shouldn't even affect you.

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<v Speaker 2>If someone don't want to be with you, that shouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>affect you at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Life goes on when you know you.

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<v Speaker 2>Love yourself and you got yourself together mentally, it's like

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<v Speaker 2>the old saying, water rolling off your back.

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<v Speaker 1>You just move on because I'm a mature person. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>want someone who don't want them, point blank the end.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't. But many of you are waddling.

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<v Speaker 2>You're waddling and you're whining because you have yet to

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<v Speaker 2>get to that level of maturity. You have yet to

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<v Speaker 2>get to that level of self growth and development.

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<v Speaker 1>Get yourself together. Love, you, deal.

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<v Speaker 2>With your inner issues, know who you are as a person,

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<v Speaker 2>know your worth and your value. When you do that,

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<v Speaker 2>you will think differently. That's stuff that's bothering you, ma'am.

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<v Speaker 2>It won't bother you later.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, some people just struggle because of the mindsets

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<v Speaker 1>that they have unhere hearts and minds. I talk about

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<v Speaker 1>it all the time. It makes it.

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<v Speaker 2>More difficult to maneuver through life.

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<v Speaker 1>Love starts with you loving yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care what your job is, I don't care

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<v Speaker 2>how you look, I don't care what you have none

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<v Speaker 2>of it. None of it heals your inner issues. Your

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<v Speaker 2>inner issues has caused you the mindset that you have,

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<v Speaker 2>and those things come from experiences. Bottom line, what we've

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<v Speaker 2>gone through.

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<v Speaker 1>Is what forms the mindsets that we have, and it

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<v Speaker 1>starts from childhood.

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<v Speaker 2>But even if you experience trauma in your childhood.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to carry.

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<v Speaker 2>That into your adulthood, but many people do because it's

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<v Speaker 2>so much easier.

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<v Speaker 1>To hold on to familiar.

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<v Speaker 2>Even if it's something that's causing you further issues in life,

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<v Speaker 2>even if it's making things hard, it's still easier.

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<v Speaker 1>For many people to hold on to.

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<v Speaker 2>The negativity than to let it go and move on.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't let it go if you're holding on to it.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't let it go if you haven't healed from it.

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<v Speaker 2>I really want you to understand this. It starts with you.

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<v Speaker 1>And who you are as a person. Being alone does

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<v Speaker 1>not mean you have to be lonely.

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<v Speaker 2>Being alone does not mean you're isolated, but people with

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<v Speaker 2>certain mindsets think, so, oh, you're in danger. No one

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<v Speaker 2>is meant to be alone, and in the Bible it

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<v Speaker 2>says that to some degree.

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<v Speaker 1>But there is also where pau is talking, and he

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<v Speaker 1>said Hey, it's best to remain alone. I'm not saying

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<v Speaker 1>that's good for everyone, but what I am saying is

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<v Speaker 1>if you are alone, embrace it.

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<v Speaker 2>Come the best you that you can be. Positive, positive,

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<v Speaker 2>and I promise you.

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<v Speaker 1>What's for you is coming.

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<v Speaker 2>Most people don't know that there's a difference between wants

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<v Speaker 2>and needs. A lot of what people desire and wants.

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<v Speaker 1>Not what they need in the first place, but people

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<v Speaker 1>want it.

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<v Speaker 2>Because of the mindsets that they have. So being single

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<v Speaker 2>isn't the problem. The problem is you and the mindset

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<v Speaker 2>that you have. That's the problem, because if it was

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<v Speaker 2>not a problem, you wouldn't be whining and waddling because

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<v Speaker 2>somebody don't want to be with you or because you're single.

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<v Speaker 1>You will embrace and in that you will become the

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<v Speaker 1>best that you can be.

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<v Speaker 2>If you are an individual of a positive mindset, if

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<v Speaker 2>you are an individual who have allowed healing to take

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<v Speaker 2>place in your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Most people haven't look around you.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why we're seeing all of the travesties and tragedies

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<v Speaker 2>because people have not allowed healing to take place in

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<v Speaker 2>their life.

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<v Speaker 1>They're either acting or reacting. I'm just telling.

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<v Speaker 3>You you don't have to listen to me, not a bit,

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<v Speaker 3>but getting on social media and degrading the opposite sex,

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<v Speaker 3>whether it's male or female.

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<v Speaker 2>That does nothing for you. He wants to be with

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<v Speaker 2>someone who's doing that. So you're not making things better

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<v Speaker 2>for yourself. You're making things worse for yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Whining.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not helping you, it's working against you. No matter

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<v Speaker 2>what you think, no.

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<v Speaker 1>Matter what you say, there is some unresolved inside of you.

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<v Speaker 2>When you deal with that and heal from that, let

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<v Speaker 2>me say it again, when you deal with that and

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<v Speaker 2>heal from that.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll be a different person.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the only way mental maturity comes through growth. And

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<v Speaker 2>no one I do mean, no one on the face

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<v Speaker 2>of the earth can ever grow mentally.

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<v Speaker 1>By remaining the same.

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<v Speaker 4>Millions of people in this world, millions up four millions.

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<v Speaker 2>Are blind, brainwashed, and conditioned, and they've chosen to remain

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<v Speaker 2>that way for a lifetime.

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<v Speaker 1>People have adopted and adapted to ill behaviors, never choosing

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<v Speaker 1>change for the better. You have people who are young.

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<v Speaker 2>In their late teens, like nineteen eighteen nineteen, in their.

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<v Speaker 1>Early twenties.

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<v Speaker 2>Whining about being single, and it really doesn't matter what age.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to look at yourself what are you contributing

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<v Speaker 1>in your own life? What are you contributing?

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<v Speaker 4>No one, no one can bring what you need in

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<v Speaker 4>your life until you find that in yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to find love within yourself first. That way, it.

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<v Speaker 2>Opened your eyes to all the game in the bullcrap

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<v Speaker 2>that people will bring you ignored when you see it

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<v Speaker 2>so again for the third or fourth time. Being single

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<v Speaker 2>is not the problem is the mindset that you have.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm leaving it right there.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for listening, Please share much love to eat

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<v Speaker 1>in every one of you, and every episode the same,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope and I pray you do it. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>on it. M