WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.280 --> 00:00:17.600 And energy cancert So high ecstasy cancertor it's not Sorryenogy? 2 00:00:19.239 --> 00:00:21.960 What's up? Positive bitches? How are we doing today? If 3 00:00:22.000 --> 00:00:24.160 you're hearing this episode, then you are meant to be here, 4 00:00:24.280 --> 00:00:28.280 So keep listening on that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we 5 00:00:28.320 --> 00:00:32.439 will laugh. Other times, Baby, we're gonna cry, but we 6 00:00:32.520 --> 00:00:37.079 will always walk away feeling our most empowered positive bitch self. 7 00:00:37.479 --> 00:00:41.560 That is Babe in true connection with herself. On this podcast, 8 00:00:41.640 --> 00:00:44.240 we unbecome who we are not so we can fully 9 00:00:44.280 --> 00:00:48.159 step into exactly who we came here to be. Today, 10 00:00:48.320 --> 00:00:52.920 I'm here to remind you that you are the love spell. 11 00:00:53.520 --> 00:00:56.960 There is nothing out there that you need to do. 12 00:00:57.640 --> 00:01:04.680 You are the love spell. It is you. I recently 13 00:01:04.799 --> 00:01:07.599 had my partner literally say to me, what did you 14 00:01:07.719 --> 00:01:10.000 do to me? What did you did? You put me 15 00:01:10.079 --> 00:01:12.560 under some sort of spell? Now, I did tell him 16 00:01:12.920 --> 00:01:17.280 warning before he ever met me. I said, when you're 17 00:01:17.359 --> 00:01:21.599 not with me, prepare yourself. You will have withdrawal symptoms 18 00:01:21.680 --> 00:01:24.000 and it's simply not my fault. And I did ask 19 00:01:24.079 --> 00:01:26.159 him about that. Now, what did you think when I 20 00:01:26.280 --> 00:01:30.840 said that? He thought I was just guessing myself up. 21 00:01:31.040 --> 00:01:34.680 And now he realizes no, you're absolutely telling the truth. 22 00:01:34.719 --> 00:01:39.719 I should have listened, correct I find myself frequently being 23 00:01:40.120 --> 00:01:43.640 right anyway. You don't need to pay someone on Etsy 24 00:01:43.799 --> 00:01:46.840 to do some sort of spell. You don't need to 25 00:01:46.959 --> 00:01:49.959 try to do anything to anyone else. All you need 26 00:01:50.120 --> 00:01:53.959 to do is simply be, because the truth is you 27 00:01:54.120 --> 00:02:01.439 are a walking, living, breathing love spell. That's who you 28 00:02:01.680 --> 00:02:07.200 actually are. Your presence alone has the power to shift 29 00:02:07.400 --> 00:02:11.319 rooms that you walk into. Your presence alone has the 30 00:02:11.439 --> 00:02:17.240 power to attract your divine counterpart. Your presence alone is 31 00:02:17.520 --> 00:02:24.000 casting the spell that is your reality. Your presence creates 32 00:02:24.120 --> 00:02:29.199 a ripple effect. People don't just see you, they feel you. 33 00:02:30.439 --> 00:02:34.199 And that is why just walking into a room some 34 00:02:34.360 --> 00:02:37.800 people will always have all eyes on them. That is 35 00:02:37.919 --> 00:02:42.240 why just being on a dating app some person will 36 00:02:42.280 --> 00:02:46.520 have all of these great matches. It's about the energy 37 00:02:46.960 --> 00:02:51.039 that you are embodying. If you are thinking of doing 38 00:02:51.120 --> 00:02:54.800 some sort of quote unquote love spell, just understand that's 39 00:02:54.840 --> 00:02:58.879 a really low level of existence. If you are trying 40 00:02:58.919 --> 00:03:02.599 to infringe on someone else's free will, you will get 41 00:03:02.680 --> 00:03:06.199 the negative karma. You don't want the person who's not 42 00:03:06.360 --> 00:03:10.599 yours under your divine right, because even if you successfully 43 00:03:10.919 --> 00:03:15.000 manifest a relationship with them. If they're not actually your person, 44 00:03:15.240 --> 00:03:18.400 you're not gonna be happy anyway, and now you waste 45 00:03:18.439 --> 00:03:22.120 it potentially your money, your time, your focus, your energy. 46 00:03:22.800 --> 00:03:28.120 That is not a high level love. It is a waste. 47 00:03:28.800 --> 00:03:31.560 You want to respect not only the divinity within you, 48 00:03:32.199 --> 00:03:37.120 but the divinity within other people, because if you don't, 49 00:03:37.639 --> 00:03:43.199 you just make your own life harder. It's not worth it. 50 00:03:43.919 --> 00:03:46.000 If you know what it is, you want another person, 51 00:03:46.319 --> 00:03:49.759 write it down so it can solidify into your reality. 52 00:03:50.159 --> 00:03:54.560 But that's all you need to actually physically do. The 53 00:03:54.680 --> 00:03:59.520 rest has to do with embodying has to do with energy. 54 00:04:00.039 --> 00:04:04.120 I've heard countless stories where someone had a specific person 55 00:04:04.199 --> 00:04:08.120 that they wanted to manifest, and they did manifest this person, 56 00:04:08.199 --> 00:04:12.439 but when they were actually in relation, they found out WHOA. 57 00:04:13.199 --> 00:04:15.800 I don't want to be treated like this. I don't 58 00:04:15.800 --> 00:04:19.000 want to be seen like this. I'm not being respected 59 00:04:19.680 --> 00:04:23.800 because they thought they knew what was best for them keyword. 60 00:04:23.920 --> 00:04:28.439 Thought they were using their ego egoic desires. Oh they 61 00:04:28.519 --> 00:04:30.519 have this, they have that, I want that person. They're 62 00:04:30.560 --> 00:04:33.279 going to make me feel better about myself. No, when 63 00:04:33.319 --> 00:04:38.000 it comes to attracting love, you'll definitely get intuitive hits. 64 00:04:38.160 --> 00:04:40.360 This person's for you, this person is not for you. 65 00:04:40.879 --> 00:04:43.439 But you want to make sure that you're manifesting from 66 00:04:43.519 --> 00:04:46.839 a point of love, not a point of My ego 67 00:04:46.920 --> 00:04:50.040 wants this to make me feel less insecure. If you 68 00:04:50.160 --> 00:04:52.439 want someone just because of their height or what they have, 69 00:04:52.639 --> 00:04:56.199 that's egoic desires. If you want to manifest divine union, 70 00:04:56.319 --> 00:05:00.560 that means tapping in to a love frequency. You have 71 00:05:00.759 --> 00:05:04.800 to broadcast what it is you wish to receive, become 72 00:05:04.879 --> 00:05:07.720 the energy you wish to attract. If you want to 73 00:05:07.759 --> 00:05:10.839 attract a love you have to enter into a love frequency. 74 00:05:11.279 --> 00:05:13.519 And the way to do that is simply become your 75 00:05:13.720 --> 00:05:18.279 own love spell. Become the embodiment of love. And that 76 00:05:18.480 --> 00:05:21.319 is what we're going to talk about today. But before 77 00:05:21.360 --> 00:05:23.600 we get into it, if you have not gotten your 78 00:05:23.639 --> 00:05:26.079 copy of Show Up as Her, be sure to grab that. 79 00:05:26.199 --> 00:05:28.279 The link will be in the show notes. Also, I 80 00:05:28.439 --> 00:05:31.360 literally just had a client today tell me that she's 81 00:05:31.399 --> 00:05:34.000 been using her eight eight eight abundance mug and she 82 00:05:34.120 --> 00:05:39.279 cannot believe how many random sources of income she's been attracting, 83 00:05:39.680 --> 00:05:42.160 and she was so happy. She couldn't believe it actually works. 84 00:05:42.279 --> 00:05:44.439 But this is the thing. In the same way that 85 00:05:44.519 --> 00:05:47.240 you become your own love spell, you can also become 86 00:05:47.279 --> 00:05:50.240 your own abundance spell. Because at the end of the day, 87 00:05:50.759 --> 00:05:54.600 you are the point of attraction for your own reality. 88 00:05:55.040 --> 00:05:57.120 So you have to be asking yourself, what am I 89 00:05:57.240 --> 00:06:01.680 pulling into my reality? What kind of invitational pull am 90 00:06:01.800 --> 00:06:06.720 I broadcasting? Because that is going to affect what I attract. 91 00:06:07.160 --> 00:06:09.759 If you want to get your very own magnetic mug, 92 00:06:09.879 --> 00:06:13.519 I have mugs for love, abundance, alignment, and so much more. 93 00:06:13.920 --> 00:06:16.319 That link will also be in the show notes. Also 94 00:06:16.639 --> 00:06:18.839 be sure to do the shadow work. You can join 95 00:06:19.000 --> 00:06:22.639 my Shadow Alchemy course, the Art of Alchemy course, and 96 00:06:23.000 --> 00:06:26.040 the Pedestal Path the twenty one Day Breakup Glow Up Challenge. 97 00:06:26.360 --> 00:06:29.079 I have a multitude of courses and workbooks to help 98 00:06:29.120 --> 00:06:32.160 you on your journey. I already learn this shit, Okay, 99 00:06:32.279 --> 00:06:34.160 I put it all together so you can learn it 100 00:06:34.240 --> 00:06:39.040 too and attract better results. I also offer one on 101 00:06:39.240 --> 00:06:44.399 one coaching sessions, and I'm currently reopening my Magnetic Mastery program, 102 00:06:44.759 --> 00:06:47.560 which is twelve weeks one on one over Zoom. We 103 00:06:47.680 --> 00:06:51.519 work on everything from divine feminine energy, attachment system, healing, 104 00:06:51.639 --> 00:06:55.439 self concept work, energy work, and so much more so, 105 00:06:55.519 --> 00:06:58.279 if you're interested, dm me on Instagram and I can 106 00:06:58.319 --> 00:07:00.839 tell you more about my Magnetic Masters program as well 107 00:07:00.879 --> 00:07:04.720 as the other offerings that I'm currently putting out there 108 00:07:05.160 --> 00:07:07.879 so you can align with your most magnetic timeline. The 109 00:07:08.000 --> 00:07:10.720 first thing you have to understand about becoming your very 110 00:07:10.839 --> 00:07:14.560 own love spell is that you are the gravitational pull 111 00:07:14.720 --> 00:07:19.279 in your own reality. Now, your energetic signature, what is 112 00:07:19.519 --> 00:07:22.600 actually your point of attraction, is made up of your 113 00:07:22.639 --> 00:07:27.639 dominant thoughts and your dominant feelings. So your internal script, 114 00:07:27.800 --> 00:07:30.600 the words you're saying to yourself, that's all affecting you, 115 00:07:31.000 --> 00:07:35.839 and it's affecting your gravitational pull. Your internal script equals 116 00:07:36.000 --> 00:07:40.279 your reality. The words you're whispering to yourself are encoding 117 00:07:40.439 --> 00:07:43.959 how you're feeling, which is then encoding your reality. That 118 00:07:44.240 --> 00:07:48.240 is how your internal dialogue, which then becomes your energy, 119 00:07:48.800 --> 00:07:52.519 cast your reality. That is what's casting the spell of 120 00:07:52.639 --> 00:07:56.439 what it is your receiving. Your dominant thoughts and emotions 121 00:07:56.560 --> 00:07:59.319 are what is creating your energy, which is then pulling 122 00:07:59.399 --> 00:08:02.680 in your real That is how you are the spell. 123 00:08:03.240 --> 00:08:06.360 So what are you currently the spell for in your life? 124 00:08:06.439 --> 00:08:09.360 The spell of catastrophe, because we don't love that the 125 00:08:09.439 --> 00:08:12.680 spell of unfortunate events because we don't love that, the 126 00:08:12.759 --> 00:08:16.399 spell of attracting narcissists, because we don't love that. Whatever 127 00:08:16.680 --> 00:08:21.160 you are broadcasting, you're going to attract the equivalent in 128 00:08:21.439 --> 00:08:24.399 your reality. And you can tell what type of spell 129 00:08:24.519 --> 00:08:29.079 you're currently embodying by looking at your reality based on 130 00:08:29.199 --> 00:08:31.759 what you're receiving. It's going to give you information about 131 00:08:31.839 --> 00:08:36.200 what you're broadcasting. Every day that I look in the mirror, 132 00:08:36.840 --> 00:08:39.320 I don't even tell myself I'm beautiful. At this point, 133 00:08:39.440 --> 00:08:44.279 I say, no, I'm something much stranger. I have an 134 00:08:44.399 --> 00:08:48.919 other worldly beauty that no one can even quite comprehend. 135 00:08:49.480 --> 00:08:51.919 I actually don't even want to look human. I personally 136 00:08:52.039 --> 00:08:53.759 want to look like an alien because I feel like 137 00:08:53.840 --> 00:08:58.960 that's closer to my authentic self, to me being human. Nah, 138 00:08:59.120 --> 00:09:01.320 why do that when you can literally look like an alien. 139 00:09:01.639 --> 00:09:05.240 I like an other worldly type of beauty. I like 140 00:09:05.279 --> 00:09:12.240 an ethereal feeling, a look, an angelic, weird, nostalgic phenomena. 141 00:09:12.960 --> 00:09:15.799 That's what I personally am into. So every day when 142 00:09:15.799 --> 00:09:18.840 I'm looking at myself in the mirror, that's what I'm 143 00:09:18.919 --> 00:09:22.440 telling myself. When I'm doing my makeup, I'm not just 144 00:09:22.559 --> 00:09:26.799 doing my makeup. I'm doing incantations. I am saying I 145 00:09:27.039 --> 00:09:32.120 have this other worldly beauty. I have that X factor. 146 00:09:32.720 --> 00:09:36.799 When I walk into a room, I easily attract all 147 00:09:37.120 --> 00:09:39.639 that is for me under my divine right. Because the 148 00:09:39.720 --> 00:09:42.799 thing is, so many of us want to attract everyone 149 00:09:42.879 --> 00:09:45.919 in the room. I personally don't. I like to be 150 00:09:46.159 --> 00:09:51.039 selective with who I encounter. I love human beings, but 151 00:09:51.120 --> 00:09:54.519 I don't want to attract every bread and Chad, Absolutely not. 152 00:09:55.320 --> 00:09:58.960 I want to make sure I'm attracting the right conversations, 153 00:09:59.279 --> 00:10:04.639 the right peace people, the right opportunities, the right energetic exchanges. 154 00:10:05.360 --> 00:10:09.600 I'm not thinking about myself in a desperate manner. Oh 155 00:10:10.039 --> 00:10:11.840 I need people to come up to me. I need 156 00:10:11.919 --> 00:10:14.159 them to like me. I hope they think I'm beautiful. 157 00:10:14.320 --> 00:10:17.120 I don't care what you think. I've worked on myself 158 00:10:17.360 --> 00:10:21.000 so much for so long, and when I tell myself 159 00:10:21.039 --> 00:10:24.480 I have that X factor, I actually believe it. I 160 00:10:24.639 --> 00:10:27.440 really do believe it now because I've worked on myself 161 00:10:27.480 --> 00:10:30.399 to the point that my internal vision of myself, my 162 00:10:30.639 --> 00:10:35.639 words are now something I can perceive in my external reality. 163 00:10:36.360 --> 00:10:39.519 If you want to become that love spell, that magnetic spell, 164 00:10:39.600 --> 00:10:43.240 that walking living breathing spell. You gotta be speaking life 165 00:10:43.399 --> 00:10:47.519 over your life. You need to be telling yourself positive 166 00:10:47.720 --> 00:10:51.559 things about you that you want to feel and you 167 00:10:51.679 --> 00:10:55.879 want to experience. And the funny thing is, as you 168 00:10:55.960 --> 00:10:59.840 start telling yourself, I am magnetic. With every single step 169 00:11:00.080 --> 00:11:02.639 that I take, I attract the right people at the 170 00:11:02.759 --> 00:11:07.720 right time. You're gonna start to attract those experiences just 171 00:11:07.879 --> 00:11:10.960 by speaking them, and then you're gonna see your three 172 00:11:11.080 --> 00:11:14.360 D reality is affirming your word, and then you're gonna 173 00:11:14.399 --> 00:11:19.440 start to believe your affirmations, and then it's going to build. 174 00:11:19.840 --> 00:11:21.759 It takes a little bit of time to build up 175 00:11:21.799 --> 00:11:25.480 momentum to build up belief, but it will happen. You 176 00:11:25.600 --> 00:11:29.360 need consistency and you need repetition. So when I'm doing 177 00:11:29.440 --> 00:11:31.879 my makeup, when I'm doing my skincare, I'm not just 178 00:11:32.000 --> 00:11:34.919 doing it all willy nilly, I'm really looking into my 179 00:11:35.039 --> 00:11:39.000 eyes and I'm telling myself, I have this other worldly beauty. 180 00:11:39.639 --> 00:11:43.720 I have something that nobody else has. My unique energetic 181 00:11:43.799 --> 00:11:49.159 signature pulls in the best possible experiences for me. I 182 00:11:49.399 --> 00:11:52.440 really like to focus on the energy of it. So 183 00:11:52.639 --> 00:11:57.519 my X factor, my energetic signature, my specific code that 184 00:11:57.679 --> 00:12:02.600 I'm broadcasting. I will literally I'm a walking, living, breathing 185 00:12:03.320 --> 00:12:07.360 love spell. Everywhere I go people can feel my energy. 186 00:12:07.799 --> 00:12:10.840 And because I've said it so much to myself, I 187 00:12:11.039 --> 00:12:14.120 started to see results over years and years and years, 188 00:12:14.440 --> 00:12:17.320 and now I fully and fundamentally just believe it. I 189 00:12:17.519 --> 00:12:20.639 know it. It is me. There's no distinction between me 190 00:12:20.720 --> 00:12:24.679 and my affirmations because I believe these words. I want 191 00:12:24.720 --> 00:12:28.200 to talk about the Marilyn Monroe effects, which we've talked 192 00:12:28.200 --> 00:12:31.840 about before, but I really think it's important to retouch 193 00:12:31.960 --> 00:12:35.440 on this subject every couple of months because every time 194 00:12:35.519 --> 00:12:38.039 you hear my podcast, you are never the same person. 195 00:12:38.919 --> 00:12:42.559 You are never vibrating at the same frequency. Even if 196 00:12:42.639 --> 00:12:45.919 your life looks somewhat similar, you are not the same. 197 00:12:46.440 --> 00:12:48.480 That's why we can read the same book three different 198 00:12:48.559 --> 00:12:51.879 times and pick out different meanings and notice different things, 199 00:12:52.240 --> 00:12:56.039 because even though the book is the same, we are not. 200 00:12:56.960 --> 00:13:01.799 So this energetic code that I am gifting to you 201 00:13:02.799 --> 00:13:06.360 is for you to harness your magnetic energy in a 202 00:13:06.480 --> 00:13:09.519 new way that you've never done before. This isn't just 203 00:13:09.679 --> 00:13:13.200 a podcast, It's a vibrational experience, and that's really what 204 00:13:13.279 --> 00:13:16.679 you need to understand. Just by listening to this you're 205 00:13:16.799 --> 00:13:21.440 elevating your frequency. You're stepping into your own love spell 206 00:13:21.600 --> 00:13:26.279 embodiment just by listening. Let me tell you the story 207 00:13:26.320 --> 00:13:29.919 about Marilyn Monroe. This was from a journalist who met 208 00:13:30.000 --> 00:13:33.159 up with Marilyn in New York City. I'll never forget 209 00:13:33.200 --> 00:13:36.039 the day Marilyn and I were walking around New York City, 210 00:13:36.320 --> 00:13:39.440 just having a stroll on a nice day. She loved 211 00:13:39.559 --> 00:13:41.919 New York because no one bothered her there like they 212 00:13:42.000 --> 00:13:45.000 did in Hollywood. She could put on her Plane Jane 213 00:13:45.080 --> 00:13:48.799 clothes and no one would notice her. She loved that. 214 00:13:49.639 --> 00:13:52.519 So as we are walking down Broadway, she turns to 215 00:13:52.639 --> 00:13:56.120 me and says, do you want to see me become her? 216 00:13:57.519 --> 00:14:01.120 I didn't know what she meant, but I said yes, 217 00:14:02.240 --> 00:14:06.960 And then oh I saw it. I saw it. Okay. 218 00:14:07.600 --> 00:14:10.200 I don't know how to explain what she did because 219 00:14:10.279 --> 00:14:14.120 it was so very subtle, but she turned something on 220 00:14:14.320 --> 00:14:20.240 within herself that was almost like magic. And suddenly cars 221 00:14:20.320 --> 00:14:25.559 were slowing, people were turning their heads and stopping to stare. 222 00:14:26.799 --> 00:14:32.120 They were recognizing that this, this person who was standing 223 00:14:32.200 --> 00:14:36.320 next to me was actually Marilyn Monroe. As if she 224 00:14:36.440 --> 00:14:38.960 pulls off a mask or something, even though a second 225 00:14:38.960 --> 00:14:45.440 ago no one noticed her. What did Marilyn Monroe do? 226 00:14:45.960 --> 00:14:48.759 If you want to become this walking love spell, not 227 00:14:48.879 --> 00:14:52.440 relying on random people from Etsy, you want to attract 228 00:14:52.519 --> 00:14:57.919 the best results with no negative karma, you have to 229 00:14:58.120 --> 00:15:01.039 decide that this is who you want now. You need 230 00:15:01.120 --> 00:15:05.080 to make a fundamental decision about who you are. This 231 00:15:05.240 --> 00:15:06.879 is why I call my book show up as Her. 232 00:15:07.639 --> 00:15:11.679 The first step to shifting your self concept, which Marilyn knew, 233 00:15:12.600 --> 00:15:18.759 was to decide who you are. When you decide who 234 00:15:18.840 --> 00:15:23.000 you are, you shift what you broadcast. When you decide 235 00:15:23.039 --> 00:15:26.919 who you are and you show up as her, other 236 00:15:27.039 --> 00:15:31.440 people are going to see you as that too. Because 237 00:15:31.480 --> 00:15:34.919 I see myself as the star, because I see myself 238 00:15:34.960 --> 00:15:38.159 as this et living among humans. Because I see myself 239 00:15:38.200 --> 00:15:42.279 as this other worldly, strange phenomena, this angelic force, other 240 00:15:42.399 --> 00:15:44.799 people see me as that too. I was out the 241 00:15:44.879 --> 00:15:47.559 other night and two women came up to me and 242 00:15:47.759 --> 00:15:49.960 literally said to me, you're the most beautiful human being 243 00:15:49.960 --> 00:15:52.360 I've ever seen in my life. You are so beautiful. 244 00:15:52.559 --> 00:15:54.639 One girl told me she thinks I would smell like Vanilla. 245 00:15:56.240 --> 00:16:00.799 I was not dressed in a certain way. I did 246 00:16:00.879 --> 00:16:03.279 not do my hair or makeup specifically, in a certain 247 00:16:03.279 --> 00:16:08.039 way that night. It's my embodiment of energy. It's my 248 00:16:08.240 --> 00:16:14.919 decision about who I am that affects other people. Because 249 00:16:15.159 --> 00:16:20.639 I see myself as this other worldly being. Other people 250 00:16:20.840 --> 00:16:23.200 notice it about me too, and they'll always say, there's 251 00:16:23.440 --> 00:16:28.360 just something different about you. There's just something. I can't 252 00:16:28.399 --> 00:16:30.559 put my finger on it, but there's just something different 253 00:16:30.600 --> 00:16:32.919 about you. You know why they think that, Because I 254 00:16:33.120 --> 00:16:37.759 think that because I've had so many isolation seasons, so 255 00:16:37.960 --> 00:16:41.240 many moments with myself screaming, crying to the divine, so 256 00:16:41.360 --> 00:16:43.360 many times I thought I was breaking down, that I 257 00:16:43.519 --> 00:16:46.759 was actually breaking open, that I had enough space and 258 00:16:46.919 --> 00:16:49.080 energy to say, you know what, I'm not like all 259 00:16:49.159 --> 00:16:52.960 you people. I'm not like the average person around me. No, 260 00:16:53.120 --> 00:16:55.919 I'm not, And you know what. To prove it to myself, 261 00:16:56.240 --> 00:17:00.360 I'm gonna take non average action. I'm gonna run the 262 00:17:00.440 --> 00:17:02.840 extra mile. I'm going to do the six am workout. 263 00:17:03.320 --> 00:17:05.640 I'm going to spend time not just looking at myself 264 00:17:05.680 --> 00:17:09.400 in the mirror, but lifting myself up through word. I'm 265 00:17:09.440 --> 00:17:15.759 gonna start going the extra mile metaphorically, figuratively, energetically to 266 00:17:16.000 --> 00:17:19.680 work on myself, and I'm going to embody through making 267 00:17:19.759 --> 00:17:22.799 a decision about who I am so I can get 268 00:17:22.839 --> 00:17:27.519 the results that I want from my reality. A key 269 00:17:28.440 --> 00:17:33.640 factor of becoming your own love spell is saying focused 270 00:17:34.279 --> 00:17:38.000 on you. To be honest, that wasn't even a choice 271 00:17:38.039 --> 00:17:41.359 for me. I went through an isolation season. People just 272 00:17:41.400 --> 00:17:43.279 didn't want to be my friend during the season. It 273 00:17:43.440 --> 00:17:46.160 was what it was. I had no other choice but 274 00:17:46.279 --> 00:17:48.680 to focus on me and build myself up. Don't get 275 00:17:48.720 --> 00:17:51.680 to that point. You don't need to unless you want 276 00:17:51.720 --> 00:17:53.440 to go ahead. But you don't need to get to 277 00:17:53.559 --> 00:17:56.640 that point. Make a decision that you are going to 278 00:17:56.799 --> 00:18:00.000 focus on you. You want to have the Marilyn Monroe act. 279 00:18:00.759 --> 00:18:02.680 She knew she had to focus on herself and make 280 00:18:02.720 --> 00:18:05.240 a decision about how she wanted to show up. She 281 00:18:05.519 --> 00:18:08.519 knew that she needed to be more internally focused and 282 00:18:08.640 --> 00:18:12.480 externally focused in order to become her. When you focus 283 00:18:12.640 --> 00:18:16.519 on you, you expand your aura. And this is something 284 00:18:16.559 --> 00:18:20.519 I call big aura energy. The more energy you are, 285 00:18:20.880 --> 00:18:24.960 the more attractive people are to you, the more madder 286 00:18:25.119 --> 00:18:29.440 you are, and the less energy, the less magnetic you are. 287 00:18:30.240 --> 00:18:32.279 How do you have big aura energy? How do you 288 00:18:32.359 --> 00:18:35.359 expand your field? How do you become more energy less matter? 289 00:18:35.799 --> 00:18:39.599 You focus on you. You ask yourself, Am I enjoying 290 00:18:39.640 --> 00:18:42.079 my night? Am I having fun? Is this what I 291 00:18:42.319 --> 00:18:46.799 want to do? You follow your joy When you're worried 292 00:18:46.799 --> 00:18:49.319 about how are people perceiving me? Do they think I'm pretty? 293 00:18:50.400 --> 00:18:53.240 All that does is send out all your energy. It's 294 00:18:53.400 --> 00:18:56.680 like a vacuum is sucking up your energy. You're becoming 295 00:18:56.759 --> 00:19:00.240 less energetic, you have a smaller or field, and you're 296 00:19:00.240 --> 00:19:03.680 becoming more madd When you send out your energy, anything 297 00:19:03.720 --> 00:19:05.920 we chase, whether it's a bug or boy, will run away. 298 00:19:06.039 --> 00:19:08.480 When you're so consumed about how other people are perceiving you, 299 00:19:08.759 --> 00:19:11.160 you're sending out all of your energy. You're depleting yourself, 300 00:19:11.200 --> 00:19:13.480 your or it feels as smaller and you will not 301 00:19:13.599 --> 00:19:15.720 get the results you want. You're not a love spell. 302 00:19:15.799 --> 00:19:20.519 You're a repellent spray. At that point, if you want 303 00:19:20.920 --> 00:19:23.839 other people to focus on you, if you want to 304 00:19:23.880 --> 00:19:26.039 become the love spell, and you just are thinking, you know, 305 00:19:26.119 --> 00:19:30.000 I just want better results, that's fine. You have to 306 00:19:30.079 --> 00:19:34.920 focus on you so that it pulls other people towards you. Also, really, 307 00:19:35.160 --> 00:19:37.799 this is just for you to feel better. It's just 308 00:19:37.920 --> 00:19:41.640 for you to feel better. Before I go into a meeting, 309 00:19:41.880 --> 00:19:46.440 a podcast a bar, I'm telling myself, I'm segment intending 310 00:19:46.480 --> 00:19:49.160 about how this night is going to go. I see 311 00:19:49.240 --> 00:19:51.599 myself as beautiful. I know that when I walk into 312 00:19:51.680 --> 00:19:54.440 the room, I'm an energetic gift to that room. And 313 00:19:54.559 --> 00:19:57.160 some people might say, whoa whoa, whoa whoa whoa whoa 314 00:19:57.200 --> 00:20:00.480 whoa CEC, you're not sounding so humble. Oh yeah, I 315 00:20:00.559 --> 00:20:03.279 didn't incarnate. I'm Planet Earth to be humble. I came 316 00:20:03.359 --> 00:20:06.440 here to disrupt, to make noise, and too elevate consciousness. 317 00:20:06.799 --> 00:20:10.160 If you want to be humble, be my fing guest. 318 00:20:10.599 --> 00:20:13.039 That's not what I came here to do. When I 319 00:20:13.200 --> 00:20:16.279 did my twenty twenty five ins and outs, my first 320 00:20:16.359 --> 00:20:18.680 in was turning into Kanye West. Okay, that didn't age 321 00:20:18.759 --> 00:20:24.720 well right now, I obviously whatever so old Kanye damn it. Anyway. 322 00:20:25.839 --> 00:20:29.839 My point is I'm going to do what makes me happy. 323 00:20:30.079 --> 00:20:33.279 No harm to others, but taking no shit and doing 324 00:20:33.319 --> 00:20:37.240 what makes me genuinely happy. I am focused on myself. 325 00:20:37.319 --> 00:20:39.920 I'm not looking over over my shoulder, who's looking at me, 326 00:20:39.960 --> 00:20:43.039 who's doing this? Who's l l Nope, no, no, no, 327 00:20:43.279 --> 00:20:46.559 no no. My question is am I having fun? Because 328 00:20:46.640 --> 00:20:49.319 my fun is my responsibility how are you viewing yourself? 329 00:20:49.440 --> 00:20:51.720 Not just even on a daily basis, but how are 330 00:20:51.799 --> 00:20:54.440 you viewing yourself right before you walk into that bar, 331 00:20:54.680 --> 00:20:58.200 that restaurant, whatever it may be. When you segment intend, 332 00:20:58.400 --> 00:21:01.000 meaning right before you walk in, you're telling yourself, I 333 00:21:01.240 --> 00:21:05.359 am on my own pedestal, I am living in my 334 00:21:05.480 --> 00:21:08.240 own energy, I'm self focused, I'm gonna have a good night. 335 00:21:08.440 --> 00:21:10.799 When you're doing that, it's like you're drinking up your energy, 336 00:21:10.839 --> 00:21:13.279 drinking up your energy, drinking up your energy. But if 337 00:21:13.319 --> 00:21:15.720 before you walk into a room, you're worried, Oh, who's 338 00:21:15.759 --> 00:21:17.160 gonna be there? What are they gonna think of me? 339 00:21:17.319 --> 00:21:21.160 You're just depleting yourself, but depleting yourself, and that is repellent. 340 00:21:21.640 --> 00:21:23.960 You want to be asking yourself, how do I view myself? 341 00:21:24.400 --> 00:21:28.119 Does my self concept? Does my self image need an upgrade? 342 00:21:28.440 --> 00:21:31.160 How do I upgrade it? Just decide? How does someone 343 00:21:31.200 --> 00:21:34.960 become vegan and change their whole entire diet and self concept? 344 00:21:35.319 --> 00:21:40.480 They just decide, just make the decision, and it's yours. 345 00:21:41.680 --> 00:21:44.839 I literally walk into every single room like God himself 346 00:21:44.920 --> 00:21:48.359 sent me. You know why, because he did. I believe 347 00:21:48.480 --> 00:21:50.319 I'm always at the right place at the right time. 348 00:21:50.400 --> 00:21:53.079 So if I'm in that room, that means God wanted 349 00:21:53.160 --> 00:21:56.000 me in that room. That means that God himself sent 350 00:21:56.079 --> 00:21:58.519 me here. You need to have this as a ringtone. 351 00:21:58.559 --> 00:22:00.400 You need to replay this over and over and over 352 00:22:00.440 --> 00:22:04.519 again until it sticks into your mind. Before I start 353 00:22:04.599 --> 00:22:06.519 my day, I make it a point to call my 354 00:22:06.640 --> 00:22:09.359 power back to me. Now that I'm in a relationship. 355 00:22:09.440 --> 00:22:12.079 I absolutely love love, love, love, blah blah love love 356 00:22:12.799 --> 00:22:15.519 my boyfriend. I hate calling him boyfriend because he's so 357 00:22:15.599 --> 00:22:17.960 much more than that to me. I'll just call him sulmate. 358 00:22:18.000 --> 00:22:21.519 But I love my little soulmate. But I still have 359 00:22:21.640 --> 00:22:24.440 to call my energy back from him because I'm a woman, 360 00:22:24.960 --> 00:22:28.079 and as a woman, you're fundamentally giving so much of 361 00:22:28.200 --> 00:22:31.440 your energy just by being next to that masculine energy 362 00:22:31.799 --> 00:22:34.480 that it's imperative that you call it back. Me calling 363 00:22:34.559 --> 00:22:36.880 my energy back does not harm him. In fact, it 364 00:22:37.079 --> 00:22:40.039 allows him to elevate through his own masculine energy. It 365 00:22:40.200 --> 00:22:43.519 helps a relationship, and it helps me maintain my spot 366 00:22:43.680 --> 00:22:48.960 on my pedestal. As someone who has been through codependent patterns, 367 00:22:49.039 --> 00:22:52.119 I will never allow that to be a part of 368 00:22:52.200 --> 00:22:56.079 my reality ever again. So it's really important that as 369 00:22:56.119 --> 00:22:59.880 a woman I maintain a high self esteem and a 370 00:23:00.200 --> 00:23:05.160 very positive self concept, a positive egoic state. So that 371 00:23:05.599 --> 00:23:09.319 means that I need to be seeing myself as that goddess, 372 00:23:09.400 --> 00:23:12.920 that star, as that positive energy. When I do that, 373 00:23:13.599 --> 00:23:16.839 I'm able to show up as my best self because 374 00:23:16.880 --> 00:23:19.079 it's closer to the truth than thinking I'm a piece 375 00:23:19.119 --> 00:23:22.200 of shit, because that's not truthful. That is the devil. 376 00:23:22.640 --> 00:23:25.559 And also when I do that, he then sees me 377 00:23:25.720 --> 00:23:29.079 as that star, as that goddess too. It helps the 378 00:23:29.200 --> 00:23:33.160 relationship flourish. Remember what we've been talking about in this 379 00:23:33.359 --> 00:23:36.559 month of February. We've been talking about how a man 380 00:23:36.720 --> 00:23:40.519 steps into his power when he gives up his ego, 381 00:23:41.000 --> 00:23:43.519 when he puts it aside and realizes that he's the 382 00:23:43.640 --> 00:23:46.640 giver and it's his job to protect and provide for 383 00:23:46.839 --> 00:23:50.680 this feminine energy. But a feminine energy, she steps into 384 00:23:50.759 --> 00:23:54.440 her power when she claims her ego, when she says, no, 385 00:23:54.680 --> 00:23:57.079 I need boundaries, I need my time to just be 386 00:23:57.240 --> 00:24:00.839 with me. I need time to do my feminine things, 387 00:24:00.960 --> 00:24:05.960 to create. So it's so imperative that you call your 388 00:24:06.039 --> 00:24:08.279 power back, and how do you do that. I have 389 00:24:08.359 --> 00:24:11.519 a whole entire workbook on how to call your power back. 390 00:24:11.920 --> 00:24:13.839 If you have the book, show up as her. There's 391 00:24:13.880 --> 00:24:17.079 also a QR code to get a meditation that's free 392 00:24:17.200 --> 00:24:19.640 on YouTube, so you can see all that. In the 393 00:24:19.720 --> 00:24:23.759 show notes, I say, I lovingly and peacefully call all 394 00:24:23.839 --> 00:24:26.279 of my power back to me. Now that's it, And 395 00:24:26.359 --> 00:24:28.839 I just think of him and I see my energy 396 00:24:28.920 --> 00:24:31.640 leaving his body and going back into mine. I say 397 00:24:31.759 --> 00:24:33.880 lovingly and peacefully, because I don't want it to hurt 398 00:24:34.000 --> 00:24:36.160 either vessel. I want it to be done in the 399 00:24:36.279 --> 00:24:40.240 most peaceful way. And I really feel that shift when 400 00:24:40.279 --> 00:24:42.880 I call my power back. Try it with me. Think 401 00:24:42.960 --> 00:24:44.640