1 00:00:08,839 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: Hello, Hello everybody. Welcome back to this Wednesday's episode of 2 00:00:13,919 --> 00:00:18,399 Your Manifesting Bestie Podcast, Season four. I'm your host, Flora, 3 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:21,519 and we are diving into all things mindset and manifestation 4 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:25,839 like we always do. We are actually nearing the end 5 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:28,519 of season four. We have a few more episodes to go, 6 00:00:28,879 --> 00:00:30,679 and I think this episode is going to help us 7 00:00:30,679 --> 00:00:32,840 a lot with the holiday season approach, and because I 8 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:36,679 feel like holiday season we go into like rust and 9 00:00:36,759 --> 00:00:40,079 hermit mode sometimes because we're like, oh, you know, we'll 10 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:42,840 start our new routines in the new year, will become 11 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,079 better in the new year. We'll start this and that 12 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:47,240 in the new year, and then we put everything off. 13 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:49,880 We put off our goals, we put off a lot 14 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:53,000 of our desires, we put off our strategies and all 15 00:00:53,039 --> 00:00:56,439 the things that we were actually working towards. Because holiday 16 00:00:56,479 --> 00:00:59,000 season is near and I want to help you guys 17 00:00:59,079 --> 00:01:02,679 kind of rewire that part of your brain and rewire 18 00:01:02,759 --> 00:01:05,239 that part of your habits and patterns so that this 19 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:10,159 winter season we can make insane progress through really aligned 20 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:14,040 strategic action. And I don't talk too much about action. 21 00:01:14,239 --> 00:01:16,920 I know we had an aligned action podcast episode I 22 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,120 think like over a year ago in the first season, 23 00:01:19,599 --> 00:01:21,879 but I wanted to talk a little bit more and 24 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:25,239 dive deep into what aligned action should look like. There 25 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:29,680 is this misconception with manifestation, like if I do all 26 00:01:29,719 --> 00:01:33,879 the mindset work, I can sit still and everything just 27 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:37,439 comes to me. And there is truth to that statement. 28 00:01:37,519 --> 00:01:39,040 So there is truth to the fact that if you're 29 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:41,560 doing the mindset and energetic work, you begin to attract 30 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:45,239 things very very quickly. You begin to receive more and 31 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:49,439 receive better. But being that we are humans and we 32 00:01:49,599 --> 00:01:52,159 are mobile creatures and we need to be in motion 33 00:01:52,319 --> 00:01:54,920 and our energy flows better and moves better when we 34 00:01:54,959 --> 00:01:58,040 are in motion, I want to talk about the importance 35 00:01:58,159 --> 00:02:02,319 of taking the type of action that really sets you 36 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:05,280 up for success with your desires, so that you're not 37 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:08,000 just kind of sitting there waiting and like meditating. Right, 38 00:02:08,039 --> 00:02:10,240 we don't want to be in the energy of waiting. 39 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:14,759 We want to be in the energy of acting as if. Okay, 40 00:02:14,879 --> 00:02:18,680 acting as if is so important, and manifestation it's like 41 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:22,759 being it until you become it. So acting like the 42 00:02:22,879 --> 00:02:27,039 version of yourself that is living out your fantasy, that's 43 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:29,680 living out your dream, that's living out your manifestation, that's 44 00:02:29,759 --> 00:02:33,680 receiving your desires, and a lot of people are like, well, yeah, 45 00:02:33,719 --> 00:02:36,560 if I had my desires today, like I'd be chilling, 46 00:02:37,159 --> 00:02:40,800 I'd be resting, I'd be going on a vacation, I'd 47 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:43,639 be taking more nabs. Would I would just hang out? 48 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:45,719 You know, if I had the body of my dreams, 49 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:49,680 I would just be happy. But that's so false. Let's 50 00:02:49,719 --> 00:02:52,759 be so fucking real for a second. If you had 51 00:02:52,759 --> 00:02:55,240 the body of your dreams, you would be doing everything 52 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:59,240 to maintain it, right. You would be nourishing it properly, 53 00:02:59,479 --> 00:03:03,319 making sure or it's active, speaking kindly to it, loving it, 54 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:06,520 maybe doing some lymphatic drainage. Right. You wouldn't just have 55 00:03:06,719 --> 00:03:10,960 this beautiful body that you manifested and then not nourish 56 00:03:11,039 --> 00:03:12,879 it and not take care of it. So what I 57 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:15,840 want to talk about in manifestation is acting as if, 58 00:03:15,879 --> 00:03:18,240 acting like you already have these things and what that 59 00:03:18,319 --> 00:03:20,800 should look like. And that goes hand in hand with 60 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:25,080 aligned action, because aligned action with our desires is acting. 61 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:28,639 It's acting as if it's behaving like a brand new identity. 62 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:31,520 It's behaving like a version of ourselves that is living 63 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:35,039 a completely different reality. So we cannot act like who 64 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:38,879 we are now. The person you are now does not 65 00:03:39,159 --> 00:03:42,719 have your desires. Right, the reason you have desires, you 66 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:44,919 want something is because you do not yet have it. 67 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:47,319 So if I want something I do not yet have 68 00:03:47,759 --> 00:03:49,639 and I want to receive it, then I need to 69 00:03:49,719 --> 00:03:52,599 act like a person who does have it. So a 70 00:03:52,639 --> 00:03:55,400 person who does have it is a different person than me. 71 00:03:56,159 --> 00:03:59,199 They are a completely different identity than who I am 72 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:02,800 in this moment who lacks the desire. Right, So a 73 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:05,400 person who has a desire is has different behaviors, different 74 00:04:05,439 --> 00:04:10,120 personality traits, different different actions, different patterns, different behaviors than 75 00:04:10,199 --> 00:04:13,759 I do. And in order for our reality to successfully shift, 76 00:04:14,039 --> 00:04:16,079 we got to act as if we got to show 77 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:18,720 up as if we gotta be it. We got to 78 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:20,920 have the energy and harness the energy of the person 79 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:24,319 who has it, and we're missing the step. I feel 80 00:04:24,319 --> 00:04:26,639 like we're doing the mindset work, yes, And like a 81 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:29,079 lot of our members in the Academy, they're doing a 82 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,959 great job because they're listening to some of those self 83 00:04:31,959 --> 00:04:34,639 talk rampage tracks that we have and they're actually acting 84 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:36,879 like that version of themselves. And that's the difference. They're 85 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:39,759 not just listening, they start to act like it and 86 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,519 feel like it and behave like it. And that is 87 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:47,040 the secret. That's the energetic difference between lacking energy I 88 00:04:47,079 --> 00:04:51,160 don't have it and fulfilled energy. It's here, it's present, 89 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:54,800 I'm grateful for it. Right. So let's kind of narrow 90 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:57,000 this down to different topics so we can go over 91 00:04:57,120 --> 00:05:00,199 examples on how you today and this whole way inter 92 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:03,920 season can start acting like that version of yourself. So 93 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:07,959 in January and February comes around, you're not starting fresh. 94 00:05:08,199 --> 00:05:12,639 You're already it. You're already her, You're already him. You're 95 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:15,639 in the energy of being it. So things have already 96 00:05:15,639 --> 00:05:18,240 moved for you this holiday season. You're not just sitting 97 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:20,240 on your ass and be like, Oh, it's gonna come, 98 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,839 it's gonna come. I just I really want it, and 99 00:05:23,879 --> 00:05:26,639 it's gonna come soon. I know. Okay, But are you 100 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:29,040 being it? Are you acting like it? Are you acting 101 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:32,079 like her? Are you embracing this new energy? Are you 102 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:35,920 making the energetic shifts and the changes you would be making? 103 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,720 Should your desires already be present? Right? Or would they 104 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:41,920 already be present? So let's talk about it. I had 105 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:46,600 a really really powerful live call yesterday inside of SCMA, 106 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:49,600 and this was all about living in your flow state. 107 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:51,920 And one of the topics we went over like ten 108 00:05:51,959 --> 00:05:54,639 different ways of living in flow state, which is really 109 00:05:54,639 --> 00:05:58,279 really beneficial, and one of them was acting as if 110 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:01,240 And this is an example that I give. Let's say, 111 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:03,680 I know we have a lot of entrepreneurs who listen 112 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:06,720 to this. This is gonna be so fucking helpful. Let's say 113 00:06:06,959 --> 00:06:10,839 you are manifesting a million dollar brand or a multimillion 114 00:06:10,879 --> 00:06:15,319 dollar business. Right if you were manifesting that and you 115 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:19,079 are already living in that reality, for example, how would 116 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:22,279 you be acting Because a lot of people are are 117 00:06:22,319 --> 00:06:25,240 They really are working hard at manifesting their goals, but 118 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:28,040 they do not show up like the new version of themselves. 119 00:06:28,199 --> 00:06:30,879 And the example that I was giving, I'm like, how 120 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:33,120 many times do you think Fashionova reaches out to me? 121 00:06:34,399 --> 00:06:37,279 How many times every hour? Every hour I get either 122 00:06:37,319 --> 00:06:40,680 a text message from Fashionova, an email from Fashionova, or 123 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:44,079 an advertisement on Instagram or TikTok from Fashionova so that 124 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:46,439 they are relevant, so that they are being seen. Why 125 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:51,600 because they are a billion dollar brand, They're rich, rich, 126 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:53,920 bitch energy. You think they give a fuck about what 127 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:57,480 anyone thinks? They sure don't. They don't They have no 128 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:00,879 shame in their game. They're not embarrassed, they're not hiding, 129 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:03,800 they're not sitting back like, oh, I'll do well. I'll 130 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:07,480 show up tomorrow and maybe they'll buy my clothes tomorrow. 131 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:10,720 But I don't want to bother them today. Get the 132 00:07:10,839 --> 00:07:13,639 fuck out of here. Are you joking? No, they're in 133 00:07:13,759 --> 00:07:16,600 your face. They're bold. They want to be seen, they 134 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:20,240 need to be heard. They project their voice. Okay, they 135 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:23,639 are acting like they are a billion dollar brand, and 136 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:27,279 so they are it. So they became one, they became one. 137 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:31,160 They were relentless. So let's think about that type of 138 00:07:31,319 --> 00:07:34,360 energy in your business. How do you show up? Do 139 00:07:34,439 --> 00:07:36,800 you show up like you already got it? Do you 140 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:40,120 speak like you already got it? Are you consistent like 141 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:42,279 you already got it? Because let me tell you something, 142 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:45,839 if you owned a multimillion dollar business, you are not 143 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:51,160 chillin You're not You're not just gonna relax for a 144 00:07:51,279 --> 00:07:55,120 month and oh, my company's running itself. You want to 145 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:58,120 be seen, you want to be heard. You want to 146 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:01,480 make sure that that multimillion dollar bar brand is consistently 147 00:08:01,519 --> 00:08:05,240 producing the numbers that you like, that you want, that 148 00:08:05,279 --> 00:08:07,600 you're happy with, and that the growth is on the 149 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:09,680 up and up and up and up and up. That's aligned. 150 00:08:09,759 --> 00:08:12,639 Action is showing up as if that those things are 151 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:16,319 already occurring. It's showing up like those things are already happening. 152 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:19,240 It's living in the energy of Oh, it's already, it's 153 00:08:19,279 --> 00:08:21,279 already in the works, it's already developing. I know I 154 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:24,759 got this. I feel it. I'm on fire, I'm fucking 155 00:08:24,839 --> 00:08:28,720 horny for it, I'm turned on. Okay. Do you really 156 00:08:28,759 --> 00:08:31,279 think that if you are a multimillion dollar brand owner, 157 00:08:31,319 --> 00:08:36,320 you'd just be sitting on your ass? Nope, the truth 158 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:41,480 is no. Okay. So yes, we can manifest through mindset 159 00:08:41,519 --> 00:08:44,559 and energy work. It's that's what is required first, that's 160 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:47,720 the first step. But then we have to act like it. 161 00:08:48,279 --> 00:08:52,519 We got to show up like it. Okay. So, when 162 00:08:52,519 --> 00:08:55,799 I was developing my business and my goal was millions, 163 00:08:55,879 --> 00:08:57,720 it always that's always been my goal, no matter what 164 00:08:57,759 --> 00:09:00,440 business I start, it's always been millions. So when I 165 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:04,240 first started my current business, my manifestation coaching business, I 166 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:07,240 was like, I need to be seen. I need to 167 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:11,000 talk with confidence. I need to be so bold even 168 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:13,000 on a bad day, even if no one likes it, 169 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:16,200 no one views it. The algorithm hates me. I still 170 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:18,519 need to keep going because that's what the version of 171 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:22,440 me who is already a multimillion dollar brand owner would 172 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:26,440 be doing. That's the energy she would be projecting and 173 00:09:26,639 --> 00:09:32,919 embodying and living in not sadness and not like, oh 174 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:35,480 no one cares about me, and like I'm just not 175 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:39,159 gonna show up. I've just had enough. Like that's not 176 00:09:39,279 --> 00:09:45,200 aligned action, it's not okay. And I think everyone needs 177 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:47,399 like a little bit of a reality check because we 178 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:50,840 want really really big things, but we are just not 179 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:54,399 changing who we are. We're just acting like the same 180 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:56,159 version of us. But the version of you that doesn't 181 00:09:56,159 --> 00:09:58,600 have those things is not gonna get those things. You 182 00:09:58,639 --> 00:10:01,759 were just acting like you You're like, I don't know, 183 00:10:01,799 --> 00:10:03,960 I'm not really interested in that today. Okay, Cool, then 184 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:07,679 you're not gonna get it. Cool, that's fine, Go go too, 185 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:11,159 that's fine. You think anyone else cares? Nope. You think 186 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:13,559 someone's gonna come and save you. No, you think someone's 187 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:15,720 gonna try to want to help you and boost you up. No, 188 00:10:16,039 --> 00:10:19,639 you're waiting for the right moment for what what are 189 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:24,000 you waiting for? You think perfection is gonna just appear 190 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:27,960 out of thin air, and then you're gonna take action. Nope, Nope, 191 00:10:28,039 --> 00:10:32,360 here's the root awakening. There's no perfect time. There's no 192 00:10:32,519 --> 00:10:35,000 set time of Oh, when I have this, then I'll 193 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:37,440 show up when I when I feel like this, when 194 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:39,559 I maybe lose that ten pounds, then I'll show my 195 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:44,799 face online. Nope, that perfect moment doesn't exist. It's all 196 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:49,360 about taking a messy action that is aligned with the goal. Okay, 197 00:10:49,519 --> 00:10:53,279 there's a big difference between successful people and the unsuccessful. 198 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:57,360 The successful people don't really know what they're doing, but 199 00:10:57,399 --> 00:11:00,679 they're showing up and they're figuring out, and they're like, 200 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:02,080 I'm gonna take action. I'm gonna see if this works. 201 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:03,480 I'm gonna seef this works. I'm gonna see if this 202 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:05,559 feels good. I'm gonna see what the response is to this. 203 00:11:05,919 --> 00:11:08,360 And then the unsuccessful people are like, I don't know 204 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:09,919 what i'm doing, so I'm just not gonna show up. 205 00:11:09,919 --> 00:11:12,639 But both people don't really know what they're doing. The 206 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:16,399 successful person and the unsuccessful person, they both don't really 207 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:19,120 know what they're doing, but one of them still shows up. 208 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:25,080 That's the difference. That's the pattern of success. Okay, you 209 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:28,919 put energy into motion from the alignment of the goal 210 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:31,799 of the desire. It doesn't mean you have it all 211 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:35,200 figured out. It doesn't mean you're perfect. It doesn't mean 212 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:37,480 you get a great response in the very beginning. But 213 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:41,879 you go, you go. You're like, I'm tired of sitting here. 214 00:11:41,879 --> 00:11:44,200 I'm tired of being this version of me. I'm tired. 215 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:48,080 I've had enough. I don't like her, I don't like him. 216 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:49,960 I don't want to be this version of me anymore. 217 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:52,799 They serve their purpose. But I've been this version for 218 00:11:52,879 --> 00:11:55,120 ten years. Let me get the fuck up, Let me 219 00:11:55,159 --> 00:11:57,840 get off my ass and go do it and behave 220 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:03,879 like a different individual, like a new me, a better me. Okay, 221 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:09,000 So what I realized is like procrastination and perfectionism is 222 00:12:09,039 --> 00:12:12,519 really just laziness. That's what it is. It's like, I'm 223 00:12:12,519 --> 00:12:15,159 not inspired enough, so I don't really I'm gonna say, 224 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:17,840 it's not perfect yet, it's not ready yet. I'm not 225 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:21,120 perfect yet, so I'm not gonna show up yet. So 226 00:12:21,279 --> 00:12:24,399 you are unaligned with the desire. There's no aligned action 227 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:28,720 being taken, but you're manifesting things consciously and you're waiting. 228 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:31,440 You're in the energy of waiting. You're not in the 229 00:12:31,519 --> 00:12:37,799 energy of receiving. Okay, aligned action is exciting. It feels passionate, 230 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:41,320 it feels on fire, it feels ooh turned on, it 231 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:44,399 feels ooh, this is juicy, this is creative, this is fun. 232 00:12:44,519 --> 00:12:47,879 Like you feel more upbeat, you feel more inspired. But 233 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:51,399 you need to like put things in motion because remember energy, 234 00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:54,159 and we talked about in the deep Rest episode, and 235 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:57,840 we are energetic beings where electric beings that need to move. 236 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:00,799 We need to move, We need to drew up energy, 237 00:13:00,879 --> 00:13:03,320 We need to create, We need to be in creative expression. 238 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:05,519 That's when we feel our best and that's when things 239 00:13:05,519 --> 00:13:07,519 start to move and we can call in more and 240 00:13:07,519 --> 00:13:11,559 more and we get more excitement and more build up. Okay. So, 241 00:13:11,919 --> 00:13:14,440 and if you're a business owner or you're switching careers, 242 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:18,759 analyze it. Am I acting like a new identity, like 243 00:13:18,759 --> 00:13:22,039 a completely different person? Do I speak like a new version? 244 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:25,399 Do I think like a new version? Do I dress 245 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:28,519 like the new version? From whatever resources I currently have? 246 00:13:29,399 --> 00:13:32,679 Do I respond in a new way? Am I offering 247 00:13:32,759 --> 00:13:35,679 new energetic responses to things? Or am I always flipping 248 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:38,639 the fuck out over every little minor inconvenience and going 249 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:42,440 back into my shell and hiding myself. Does a multimillion 250 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:45,919 dollar business hide itself. Nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope. 251 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:48,519 They can't afford that they're gonna lose everything they work 252 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:51,320 so hard for. They got to maintain their success, so 253 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:54,799 they show up in that energy consistently. Sure, you can 254 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:56,440 have a bad day, you can have a day off, 255 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:59,000 you can take vacations, you can you can hang out 256 00:13:59,039 --> 00:14:02,399 on the weekends, you can do whatever you want. But consistency, 257 00:14:02,759 --> 00:14:05,679 consistently showing up an aligned action and that energy of 258 00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:09,080 being the new you is where the success lives. It's 259 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:13,159 in the unknown, So tap into that. Now. Let's say 260 00:14:13,159 --> 00:14:16,360 you're manifesting something such as health, and we kind of 261 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:19,480 briefly touch on that in the beginning, because I do 262 00:14:19,559 --> 00:14:21,919 have people that I work with and they're very, very 263 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:25,840 focused on manifesting like weight loss and health, and they've 264 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:28,080 tried everything action wise. So that's why we always talk 265 00:14:28,120 --> 00:14:30,759 about manifestation. You need to get into the mindset of it. 266 00:14:30,799 --> 00:14:32,600 You need to speak to your body different. You need 267 00:14:32,639 --> 00:14:35,960 to change your self concept and change your identity right, 268 00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:39,159 change how you treat yourself, how you take care of yourself. 269 00:14:39,639 --> 00:14:42,480 So if I was in this energy, I'm doing the 270 00:14:42,519 --> 00:14:45,360 mindset work, and I'm feeling good. Now, Now what is 271 00:14:45,399 --> 00:14:48,639 the aligned action? How do I show up in the 272 00:14:48,759 --> 00:14:53,360 energy of it? Well, if you had that perfectly healthy, gorgeous, sexy, 273 00:14:53,399 --> 00:14:56,840 fit body today, wouldn't you still be taking care of it. 274 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:02,159 Wouldn't you still be nourishing it? Why don't you try 275 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:06,200 to maintain it? Or would you be sitting on your ass? 276 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:10,000 Get super real with yourself of what aligned action would 277 00:15:10,039 --> 00:15:12,919 look like. You'd be like, oh damn, I love this body. 278 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:16,440 I'm grateful for this body. I have this beautiful fit body. 279 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:19,360 It's healthy. I want to maintain it. So I need 280 00:15:19,399 --> 00:15:22,840 to nourish it and nurture it and move it. I 281 00:15:22,879 --> 00:15:26,120 need to speak to it kindly. I need to love 282 00:15:26,159 --> 00:15:28,360 on my body and not hate it. I need to 283 00:15:28,399 --> 00:15:32,600 show appreciation for it by taking good care of it. Okay, 284 00:15:32,639 --> 00:15:36,279 So again we get into the mindset, the mindset work, 285 00:15:36,559 --> 00:15:39,080 the right frame of mind, the right identity of I 286 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:41,960 could have a healthy body. I'm worthy of a healthy body, 287 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:44,559 a beautiful fit body. I'm worthy of the weight loss, 288 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:46,679 I'm worthy of the healing I I Oh my god, 289 00:15:46,679 --> 00:15:48,399 this is feeling really good. So you start doing the 290 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:51,120 mindset work and then your body is going to feel 291 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:56,000 compelled to move. Don't resist it. Go take your body 292 00:15:56,039 --> 00:15:59,559 on a walk, Go stretch it, Go do some lymphatic 293 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:03,440 drain it, Go lift some weights. Do what you need 294 00:16:03,519 --> 00:16:06,639 to do to maintain that beautiful body if it was 295 00:16:06,759 --> 00:16:11,200 already present. Because when we really love and appreciate something 296 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:14,200 and we're grateful for something, and we have it and 297 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:17,200 we want to keep it, what do we do. We 298 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:21,600 nurture it further, we maintain it, We take the right 299 00:16:21,639 --> 00:16:25,039 action steps. So that is what aligned action would look 300 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:28,600 like physically for your body. So yes, please continue with 301 00:16:28,639 --> 00:16:32,159 the mindset and energy work, but then start acting like 302 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:34,960 the version of you that has that beautiful body, that 303 00:16:35,159 --> 00:16:39,120 loves their health, that values themselves, that puts their health 304 00:16:39,159 --> 00:16:43,360 on a pedestal. It's important it comes first. It's a priority. 305 00:16:43,399 --> 00:16:46,000 I want to pour into myself so I can always 306 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:48,519 feel better, so I can age gracefully, so I can 307 00:16:48,559 --> 00:16:51,000 be fine as fuck everywhere I go, and I don't 308 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:53,159 get to worry too much about what my clothing looks 309 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:55,559 like or getting dressed up, because everything just looks great 310 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:58,960 on me because I maintain it. It feels so good 311 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:02,039 for me. Okay, So that is what acting as if 312 00:17:02,559 --> 00:17:05,759 would look like if you already had that perfect health 313 00:17:06,559 --> 00:17:09,000 and if you were already super confident in your skin, 314 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:11,039 that's how you would be acting. You would want to 315 00:17:11,079 --> 00:17:14,200 maintain it and nourish it and nurture it even further. 316 00:17:14,759 --> 00:17:18,880 So again, getting up and taking aligned action is going 317 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:22,160 to be key here. But the reason I think where 318 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:24,839 people get stuck with like taking action is because they 319 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:28,279 just want to take action from a state of disbelief. 320 00:17:28,559 --> 00:17:31,039 So that's when things go wrong. That's why manifestation is 321 00:17:31,079 --> 00:17:33,559 so important in mindset work and personal development and identity 322 00:17:33,599 --> 00:17:36,119 framework is so important because there's people who do go 323 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:38,160 to the gym, and they go every day and guess what, 324 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:40,920 all year, they don't lose a pound. They don't lose 325 00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:44,359 a single pound because energetically they haven't shifted their mindset yet. 326 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:46,799 So that is always the first step. Step one is 327 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:50,400 energy work. Step two will be your aligned action. So 328 00:17:50,519 --> 00:17:52,720 if things are not moving along the way you want them, 329 00:17:52,759 --> 00:17:55,559 to analyze it, take a step back. Who am I 330 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:58,119 showing up as? Do I show up in the same 331 00:17:58,400 --> 00:18:02,920 energy as the old self? Am I still kind of 332 00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:05,920 showering my body with disapproval and hate? And then I 333 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:08,319 sit on the couch because I don't like my body, 334 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:13,880 and then I reverse engineer my success. I diminish it. Right, 335 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:16,480 So we have to kind of take the right action 336 00:18:16,559 --> 00:18:19,000 steps and act as if. And let's do it all 337 00:18:19,039 --> 00:18:22,599 winter long. Let's keep acting as if, and let's see 338 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:25,240 where it gets us. Let's be delusional and be like, oh, 339 00:18:25,279 --> 00:18:27,440 I already have it. I already got the body, I 340 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:29,440 already got the success, already have the health, I already 341 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:31,759 have the confidence. I'm gonna keep nurturing it and acting 342 00:18:31,839 --> 00:18:36,400 as if. Doesn't that feel better than being stagnant? Doesn't 343 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:40,839 that feel better than sitting and waiting and hoping and wishing. 344 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:44,640 I think it does because we do like movement, and 345 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:48,119 the more energy we use, like to move, the more 346 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:51,440 energy we start to create. So like or not create, 347 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:53,359 because you can't create energy, but the more energy we 348 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:55,559 start to have throughout the day. Right, So, like a 349 00:18:55,599 --> 00:18:57,680 person who works up and takes a walk in the morning, 350 00:18:57,680 --> 00:18:59,640 they have more energy throughout the day than a person 351 00:19:00,039 --> 00:19:02,000 who wakes up. And then they're like in that self 352 00:19:02,039 --> 00:19:04,160 loathing energy of like, oh my god, I'm gonna go 353 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:07,599 to work like they have less energy, They feel drowsy, 354 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:10,880 they feel lousy. So it's a completely different frame of 355 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:13,279 mind and a different energetic say that that person operates 356 00:19:13,279 --> 00:19:15,279 throughout their entire day because they got their movement in 357 00:19:15,319 --> 00:19:17,960 that day. So these things are really important. Aligned action 358 00:19:18,079 --> 00:19:22,319 shouldn't be skipped on. Acting as if is crucial on 359 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:28,799 your manifestation journey. Let's say your other desire is wanting 360 00:19:28,799 --> 00:19:34,240 to manifest a beautiful relationship. Let's be super fucking real 361 00:19:34,319 --> 00:19:37,960 here again. Okay, if you were in a relationship with 362 00:19:38,519 --> 00:19:42,839 a loving partner who valued you, who respected you, who 363 00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:46,759 was attracted to you, how would you be behaving to 364 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:50,759 maintain that, to maintain their attraction and their love and 365 00:19:50,799 --> 00:19:54,839 their kindness in you. You would be someone who loves 366 00:19:54,880 --> 00:20:01,640 to poort into themselves. You would take care of your appearances, everything, hair, body, skin, 367 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:05,079 nails right. You would want to always look your best 368 00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:09,079 to represent your partner well. You would pour into your 369 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:12,119 personal development. You would read the books and listen to 370 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:16,880 the podcast, and you would feel good about yourself emotionally, spiritually. 371 00:20:17,079 --> 00:20:20,200 You would be on a self growth journey because your 372 00:20:20,319 --> 00:20:23,400 partner is so attracted to the person they met, the 373 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:26,039 one who was always taking care of themselves, the one 374 00:20:26,079 --> 00:20:29,200 who loved him or herself, the one who has their 375 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:32,039 own identity and their own life. That is how you 376 00:20:32,079 --> 00:20:34,079 would be showing up and you would go. You would 377 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:37,000 be going to the places that you like to go. 378 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:39,000 You would go on the hikes, and you'd go to 379 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:41,119 the bookstores, and you would go to the fun lounges 380 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:44,480 and maybe to a nice restaurant. Okay, you would go 381 00:20:44,519 --> 00:20:47,319 to the places you naturally enjoy being at. That's where 382 00:20:47,319 --> 00:20:50,160 you're going to meet your partner anyway, because you want 383 00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:52,039 to be aligned. You want to meet people in the 384 00:20:52,039 --> 00:20:56,279 places you enjoy going. Right, So you want to analyze 385 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:59,319 how would that version of me act as if to 386 00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:06,079 maintain a healthy, loving, successful, romantic, passionate relationship, you would 387 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:09,319 always be taking care of yourself. I think that one 388 00:21:09,319 --> 00:21:12,880 of the biggest disconnects in relationships and why relationships fail 389 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:16,480 is because one of the parties, like either the man 390 00:21:16,559 --> 00:21:20,559 or the woman or whomever, they stop taking care of 391 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:23,960 themselves and they lose their identity. And we see this 392 00:21:24,039 --> 00:21:29,599 happen frequently. Right, Let's say a woman settles down with 393 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:33,599 their man and then they have kids together, and then 394 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:37,680 all the responsibility of the families on the woman, Right, 395 00:21:37,839 --> 00:21:40,799 she does the cooking, she does the cleaning, She raises 396 00:21:40,839 --> 00:21:44,279 the children, she maintains the household, she holds all the 397 00:21:44,279 --> 00:21:48,960 emotional labor of the family. And in that role that 398 00:21:49,039 --> 00:21:52,000 she has to play in that she takes on, she 399 00:21:52,079 --> 00:21:56,880 loses herself. She loses her identity. She doesn't pour much 400 00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,839 into herself anymore, she doesn't have the time. She's drained. 401 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:02,720 And then that's when we see a disconnect in the relationship. 402 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:08,480 Then the man can step out right. The interests, the 403 00:22:08,519 --> 00:22:12,039 magnetic interests, the attraction is lost because one of the 404 00:22:12,079 --> 00:22:16,839 parties lost their identity. So what we want to do 405 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:20,039 to maintain how they relationships and act as if and 406 00:22:20,079 --> 00:22:25,200 be it is maintain our identity, maintain our passions, continue 407 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:27,720 forth in our passions. Even if if I have a family, 408 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:30,799 I still need to love myself. I still need to 409 00:22:30,839 --> 00:22:33,839 take care of myself. I need to feel good about myself. 410 00:22:34,079 --> 00:22:38,039 I need to still see my friends. I still have hobbies. Right, 411 00:22:39,039 --> 00:22:43,720 So don't lose your identity to maintain the attraction, to 412 00:22:43,799 --> 00:22:47,000 maintain the relationship in a healthy way, you still have 413 00:22:47,039 --> 00:22:50,279 to have your own identity that we both parties are 414 00:22:50,319 --> 00:22:53,759 always going to be magnetic and ooh damn, they're so fun, 415 00:22:53,799 --> 00:22:55,880 there's so sexy, there's so a DRAGONI look at them 416 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:58,920 doing their own thing, like, oh my god, I'm so 417 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:02,519 into them. So we keep that attraction alive. So that's 418 00:23:02,559 --> 00:23:04,759 the version of you you want to show up as now. 419 00:23:04,799 --> 00:23:09,880 If you're single, if you want to have that beautiful relationship, Okay, 420 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:12,359 you gotta have your own thing. You gotta be pouring 421 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:15,359 into you and following the things that turn you on, 422 00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:17,359 that get you on fire, that make you happy, that 423 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:19,519 bring joy to your life, that put a smile on 424 00:23:19,559 --> 00:23:22,359 your face. You are in your magnetic energy, and that 425 00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:25,960 is how you will start to attract magnetic people too. 426 00:23:26,799 --> 00:23:29,880 You're gonna be so irresistible to them. You're gonna be 427 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:33,000 so attractive to them. You're gonna get approached everywhere you go, 428 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:37,400 at the restaurant, at the bookstore, at publics, wherever you're 429 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,680 gonna be, everyone's gonna be drawn to your light. Because 430 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:44,880 you maintain a healthy light, you maintain a vibrance to you, 431 00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:49,519 You maintain your beauty, you maintain your health, you maintain 432 00:23:49,559 --> 00:23:53,000 your spirit, your heart. Okay, So that is how you're 433 00:23:53,039 --> 00:23:57,279 gonna act as if you were already in this beautiful relationship. 434 00:23:57,279 --> 00:24:00,599 So that when that person shows up, they are nothing 435 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:04,240 but an addition to your life. You do not depend 436 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:06,920 on them for your happiness because you have your own. 437 00:24:07,319 --> 00:24:10,559 You've created your own joy, your own fulfillment, So all 438 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,799 they can be is an addition to your joy and 439 00:24:13,839 --> 00:24:18,960 to your fulfillment. And if they leave, you're good, you're sustained, 440 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,039 you're health happy, you're healthy. But guess well, they're not 441 00:24:21,039 --> 00:24:23,319 gonna want to leave because when a person is in 442 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:26,839 a relationship with someone who maintains a very bright light, 443 00:24:27,039 --> 00:24:31,200 a vibrance to them, magnetism, that person never wants to 444 00:24:31,279 --> 00:24:34,519 leave because now they know your light, they never want 445 00:24:34,559 --> 00:24:37,079 to be without it. It brings brightness, it brings love, 446 00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:40,039 it brings warmth into their life. You will maintain that 447 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:43,400 relationship by keeping your own light. So it's important for 448 00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:46,920 you to do these things now to create your inner light, 449 00:24:47,079 --> 00:24:51,160 create your inner magnetism, your inner love, your happiness, your fulfillment. 450 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:56,359 If you are craving a relationship, so first date yourself right, 451 00:24:56,519 --> 00:24:59,599 First create that harmony internally, and then you're gonna be 452 00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:02,920 a fucking magnet to love, a magnet because you started 453 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:06,920 with self love. Self love attracts more love, more love, 454 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,119 more love, more love. Don't be surprised if you have 455 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:12,519 multiple people falling in love with you, because you're just it. 456 00:25:13,039 --> 00:25:16,359 You are the light, you are the beauty, you are 457 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,799 the attraction factor. Okay, you are it. You are the 458 00:25:19,839 --> 00:25:23,359 it girl. You are that guy. And that's the difference 459 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,920 between sitting around and waiting. Oh I want to be married, 460 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:29,400 I want to have a family, Flora, I don't know 461 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,839 what to do. Where do I go? What do you mean? 462 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:33,839 Where do you go? You go to the places you love. 463 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:38,359 You show up in your own feeling of love. You 464 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:40,720 don't need to wait. You don't need to wait. There's 465 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,119 nothing to wait for you. Pour You have so much 466 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:44,960 love to give, so you need to first give it 467 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:47,920 to yourself, and then the right person will come along 468 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:49,799 who's an addition to that, who doesn't want to strip 469 00:25:49,799 --> 00:25:50,920 it away from you, but they want to be an 470 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,519 addition to your love. Okay. So that is how we're 471 00:25:53,559 --> 00:25:56,960 going to start acting as if we are going to 472 00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,519 become it before we have it, so that it can 473 00:26:00,599 --> 00:26:03,720 show up, it can present itself, it can start to 474 00:26:03,799 --> 00:26:06,640 reveal itself, reveal its beauty in our life, and we're like, 475 00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:08,920 oh my god, this is this is all it took. 476 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,960 It took an energetic shift inside of me instead of 477 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:15,960 my being to be a totally different individual, the best 478 00:26:16,039 --> 00:26:18,599 version of myself that I could conjure up in my mind, 479 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,839 for me to live the best life that I can 480 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:25,480 conjure up in my mind. Because universal laws do nothing 481 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:30,720 but respond to who you are being energetically, that's the 482 00:26:30,799 --> 00:26:33,440 power that they hold. They are holding up a mirror 483 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,880 in your face. So everywhere you look, there's a mirror. 484 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:40,640 This circumstance, it's a mere image of you. That relationship, 485 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,920 it's a mere image of you. The success or the 486 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:46,400 failure of your business is a mere image of you. 487 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:48,400 Your level of confidence is a mere image of you. 488 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:50,480 The way people treat you, it's a mere image of you. 489 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:52,799 The way that you treat yourself and your health, the 490 00:26:52,799 --> 00:26:55,519 way that you maintain your body is a mere image 491 00:26:55,519 --> 00:26:58,759 of your own self respect and self love. So every 492 00:26:58,799 --> 00:27:01,480 direction you look, it as oh, the universe is holding 493 00:27:01,559 --> 00:27:04,119 up a mirror to show me parts of myself. So 494 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:06,240 if I'm looking in a mirror and I don't like 495 00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:09,240 what I see, I cannot get mad at the mirror. 496 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,440 I cannot get mad at God. I cannot get mad 497 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,359 at the creator. I don't even need to get mad 498 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,480 at myself. I need to just understand that I need 499 00:27:17,519 --> 00:27:20,200 to change energetically so that the mirror that's being held 500 00:27:20,279 --> 00:27:23,160 up is the one I want to see. It's the 501 00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:24,680 one I want to feel, it's the one I want 502 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:26,920 to experience, it's the one that I'm in love with. 503 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:31,240 So I can do all the energy work internally. But 504 00:27:31,279 --> 00:27:34,240 then I need to act as if I need to 505 00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:37,160 act like a new identity. I need to become a 506 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,720 completely new individual who has been reborn in the mind, 507 00:27:40,759 --> 00:27:43,559 who has resurrected themselves in the mind to achieve their 508 00:27:43,559 --> 00:27:47,599 own salvation to their problems. Believe it or not, that 509 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,000 is what religious scripture is all about. It's about you 510 00:27:50,079 --> 00:27:54,000 achieving your salvation and understanding that God lives within and 511 00:27:54,039 --> 00:27:58,079 create creates through you, creates internally through you through your 512 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:04,519 energetic state of consciousness. Okay, so analyze yourself. Who am 513 00:28:04,559 --> 00:28:07,519 I showing up ast How do I act every day? 514 00:28:08,079 --> 00:28:10,880 Is it the old me who I don't like, who 515 00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:14,279 I don't prefer, who keeps manifesting the things I do 516 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:18,119 not enjoy that are not pleasant to me? Or have 517 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,039 I been doing a great job? But I'm showing up 518 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:24,160 energetically as the new version of myself. I'm speaking like them, 519 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:27,359 I'm thinking like them, I'm acting like them, I'm behaving 520 00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:30,559 like them. I'm offering responses like them. I hold my 521 00:28:30,599 --> 00:28:34,079 head up high like them. I appreciate myself like them. 522 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:38,160 I love on me like them. Who am I showing 523 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:43,200 up as energetically? How am I acting? What is my behavior? 524 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,440 Don't miss out on this aligned action step on your journey. 525 00:28:47,519 --> 00:28:52,599 It's crucial. It's so so important with everything that you're doing. Okay, 526 00:28:52,599 --> 00:28:56,039 if you're trying to manifest a job promotion, are you 527 00:28:56,279 --> 00:29:00,319 acting like the promoted version of yourself? Or are you 528 00:29:00,559 --> 00:29:03,519 resentful that you haven't gotten the promotion yet and you're 529 00:29:03,559 --> 00:29:07,359 acting like the old self? What are you acting like? 530 00:29:08,279 --> 00:29:11,640 Let's do self analysis today, Okay, write down your actions, 531 00:29:12,359 --> 00:29:15,359 write down your energetic state, write down your behaviors, write 532 00:29:15,359 --> 00:29:18,079 down the patterns that you have every day and analyze it. 533 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,559 Be like, what do I need to change here? What 534 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:24,880 parts of myself are not aligned for my desire or 535 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:28,240 with my desire? What parts of me are unaligned? Only? 536 00:29:28,279 --> 00:29:31,559 I know this because I know myself better than anybody, 537 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:35,480 and I'm a self aware being Okay, so through this 538 00:29:35,559 --> 00:29:39,599 self analysis, we can change everything. We don't have to 539 00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:42,759 be stuck anymore. We can get off the hamster wheel. 540 00:29:42,799 --> 00:29:46,240 We can jump right off exit and start new and 541 00:29:46,279 --> 00:29:49,720 start fresh. No one is asking me to stay the same. 542 00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,400 There is no gun being held to my head saying 543 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:55,000 you better stay the same, you better. I mean, maybe 544 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,000 if I turn on the fucking news, I'll feel like 545 00:29:57,039 --> 00:29:58,599 there's a gun to my head. But other than that, 546 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,279 keep the news off. Than that, no one is holding 547 00:30:01,279 --> 00:30:03,880 a gun to my head telling me how I need 548 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:08,559 to act. It's all on me. I am responsible, I 549 00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:11,200 hold the power. I am the problem, and I am 550 00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:14,799 also the solution. Thank you guys so much for tuning 551 00:30:14,799 --> 00:30:18,039 in to this week's episode of your Manifesting Bestie podcast, 552 00:30:18,359 --> 00:30:23,160 and we will be back again next Wednesday.