Speaker 1: Made a decision a face sunny summer on I had
vision night.
Speaker 2: Hey, welcome for crying out loud.
Speaker 1: You know that that Hi? You know that that real
housewife that went bound Chica. But she said it wrong?
Do you know what I'm talking about? Or is that
was I dreaming about that?
Speaker 2: No, that happened. I think it was Heather.
Speaker 1: Heather, not Heather to blow. No, bro, No, it was
a dumb housewife. She's the stamera. No, it was like
a dumb one that was bound chickau Brown.
Speaker 2: It was Lydia. Oh, Lydia that I Lydia.
Speaker 3: You said it was one of the dumb ones. Isn't
that not narrowing it down?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: Right, isn't the guy you guys were talking about last week?
Didn't you just get indicted for your boyfriend?
Speaker 2: What?
Speaker 1: Juicy Joe, don't tell me he's going to jail.
Speaker 3: He is going to get what it's not a US citizen.
They're part of these charges. They're threatening to deport him.
Speaker 2: Apparently he came here as an infant, but they never
filed papers. He never got a green card, he never so.
Uh yeah, so they're indicted on like thirty charges.
Speaker 1: Who's they and his wife, Theresa Jidechi. Yeah, they they're
going to jail.
Speaker 2: Uh, it's very possible.
Speaker 3: They're in some serious trouble.
Speaker 1: Really, Oh my god, See, I haven't.
Speaker 4: I haven't.
Speaker 1: I haven't seen any.
Speaker 2: Dembelzament check fraud, tax evasion, misrepresenting their income on loan applications.
It's like a bunch of.
Speaker 1: Federal Well you know, they're Italian. What do you want
from them? The Italians do?
Speaker 2: Oh, we're gonna get letters.
Speaker 1: I'm Italian.
Speaker 2: I hate letters.
Speaker 1: I want I know, right, mm hmm, yeah, No, that's
why I like, no I have I'm a lot. I'm
obsessed with them.
Speaker 4: Now.
Speaker 1: I love the Jersey Housewives. I didn't watch them before,
but now I love them because they're my kind of people.
But Stephanie, at the end of the show, will you
stand in front of me and fall back and I'll
catch you? Do you know what I'm talking about? Okay,
apparently you're not watching the real honest, I's a new
Jersey I'm not.
Speaker 2: Did they go on a trust Yeah they did a
trust trust retreat.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they did a retreat. They went on a retreat.
Speaker 2: What does every show, every version of the show, do
all the same things.
Speaker 1: I know, I don't know what's going on today.
Speaker 2: I'm obsessed a little bit with the Orange County ones,
though me too. They're all such train wrecks. I hate
them all. I know, you know it's bad when i've
Tom Alexis these days.
Speaker 1: I know she does seem like she's the only normal one.
She irritates the shit out of me, though I don't
know why.
Speaker 2: She's literally had the least plastic surgery of any of them.
I think I can't look at Gretchen anymore.
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say I was just I was
just watching it and the other day and I froze
it on scenes for next week when one of the
many every other epiccene where Vicky screaming like a mad
woman into Gretchen's face and her eyes are about the
bulge out of her head. I freezed it on Tam,
I mean on Gretchen, because Gretchen's you can see the filler.
Speaker 2: You can see it.
Speaker 1: I know you can see the outline of the filler,
not the outline in her lip.
Speaker 2: I know what you're talking about, exactly, going.
Speaker 1: Up into her, into her skin above the lip. Yes,
you can see the line of it.
Speaker 2: I know exactly what you're talking about, because you know
the you're those lines that you get the filler in
the ones that go for the parentheses hurt. She had
so much filler that it created a different crease. Yes,
like a little bit further back. So it's like she
has like the little so her mouth doesn't move right,
and she's got.
Speaker 1: Like a weird extra crist right terrible.
Speaker 2: On the last episode she was complaining about how.
Speaker 1: Much had I was just gonna say, it's lad, I'm.
Speaker 2: Never gonna have plastic surgery.
Speaker 1: You've had, a bitch, Yeah, you love me because I've
never had I never had plastic surgery before.
Speaker 2: I mean, look, okay, so she's never had a facelift,
if that's what she wants to call it, I probably
had more botox and filler than any of the other
girls combined.
Speaker 1: Looking at needs to take a page out of Slade's
brother's book. Okay.
Speaker 2: I can't believe that she referred to Slade's brother as
like the swamp People version of Slade. Does she think
he doesn't have a TV?
Speaker 1: I know, right, it was a couple of times they
said that.
Speaker 2: So, so you're proposing to his brother to I mean
to you know, Slade and you know he's going to
be in your family.
Speaker 1: Now, oh my god, he's not gonna be in the family.
But you know he's told all his friends to watch
because he's going to be on TV on you know,
Monday night at nine Bravo. Oh my god, the poor guy.
Can you pull up a picture of Slay Just google
Slade's brother and you'll see it. Did you guys have
to know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 2: We had a whole thing about like about that. They
maybe it was that the sixty second act where they
were talking about cutting off his ponytail so he wouldn't
have a bullet.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought, Now you stepped on it for Gary.
Now he spoiled it because he hasn't seen a picture
of it. But you had to say the m word. Well,
we have producer Gary's here today, but then we also
have a little a little mini producer Gary in it. Yeah,
kaylin hy Kalen, Hello, there's such a proud Yeah, yeah, Kayalen.
Don't you hate it when she says yeah, yeah, I
mean did you dude? Oh there he is like that
you that you can't see him very good?
Speaker 2: There the truth, that's a pretty good thing.
Speaker 1: That's a good picture. Did you see that fur ball
that's like on the like perched on his shoulder on
to the to the left. That's his hair, that's that's
his pony ail. That's his party in the back, business
in the front.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, boy.
Speaker 1: So anyway, I'm losing my voice. Feeling good, I'm feeling fine.
I'm just tired, tired.
Speaker 2: So do you want to hear a little? I did
something that's I don't we can hear you there. Let's
keep the technical stuff to a minimum, okay, because this
is a seamless show and.
Speaker 1: You're not what's your excuse? Just kidding, god, this is
just a well okay.
Speaker 2: So Sadie, my little my little nugget has her ah
really really that was an inappropriate doing that because of me.
Speaker 1: Sadie got cross and the cross the crossfire Sadie.
Speaker 2: So you know how Sadie is really tiny? Yes, I
don't know if I've ever mentioned that before. Yeah, yeah,
uh so she is seen by a hospital, children's hospital
or LA and I've been trying to get her appointment.
She needs to be seen for song, but she have
to go all the time. I mean she has to
be seen like every six months to keep track of
her growth in case she in case her growth falls off,
you know, in case she stalls out or something. You know,
she has to be kept up with. It's not an emergency,
So I don't freak out if I have trouble getting
an appointment. I just you know, I wait. And plus
we took her for a second opinion somewhere else, you know, yeah,
you parents know how it is. So after she had
had a second opinion at a different office, we decided
we needed to take her back to Children's because she
hadn't been seen in over six months. So I've been
trying to make an appointment for her, and I cannot
get anybody to get back to me at this hospital.
So you know, you get through a phone tree, and
then they're like, if you want to talk to this
physician's assistant, press one, okay. So every time I go
to press for the doctor we see doctor Kim at
Children's Hospital, I have to go through her assistant. So
I've left messages. John's left messages. Now this is over
a peer and then you know how this happens. You
leave a message and then you forget they're supposed to
call you back within twenty four hours or something. Then
no one calls us back. But then I forget about
it for a little while. So recently it's come to
my attention and John's attention that they're not calling us back.
So I realized, didn't we leave them a message? Like
six weeks ago? My husband did, then I left a message,
then he left a message, then I left a message.
Speaker 1: So, oh, that's ridiculous.
Speaker 2: Yesterday I started getting really frustrated and I called. I
called every single there's like six physicians. I called every
single one of their assistants until I got somebody on
the phone and I said, I've been trying to leave
messages for this one assistant and no one's calling me back.
And they're like, oh, she's right here. So they put
her on the phone and I said, Hi, I left
you a message earlier. Today, I've left you messages. This
is like the fifth message I've left you. I don't
understand what's going on. We're trying to get a pointment
for our daughter. So so long story short, I'm on
the phone like twenty minutes of her just going now
let me see, because apparently she's a newer. In the
past year, she's been the assistant. They'd switch him around.
So she's not the one. We've been with the same
doctor for years. Sadie was like eighteen months old. Anyway,
she's on the phone with me. All of a sudden
she starts laughing, and she's like, oh, there's it's so funny.
There's another mom holding that's apparently been trying to get
through for he hasn't been able to get an appointment
with doctor Kim for a year. And she was there
chuckling about it. So, I don't know if this has
ever happened to you, But oh, I started getting mad,
ah because you know, I was already frustrated I hadn't
gotten through. I mean, I felt like it was pretty unprofessional.
I couldn't get someone on the phone for months and
months and months. And these are people, this is pediatric
you know, endochronology. You know, these are our kids. It's
not like it's me. If it was me, i'd be
your rotated, but probably not as irritated. But this is
something So I said, Oh, I go, I don't find
it really that funny, not that funny, not so much
kind of a connoisseur of comedy what too, And I'm
not getting like the why you're like loling at the
fact that somebody's been waiting a year, hasn't been able
to get a bit talking for a year. So she says, oh, well,
it's just I just thought it was interesting that, you know,
a lot of people have been trying to get appointments.
And I said, well, yeah, because it's really hard to
get anybody to call us back. In fact, like I said,
I've left you several messages. She's like, yeah, I don't know.
We're just we don't get the messages. And I one thing,
I said, well, I left messages with you on your
personal voicemail. I've left messages with other physician assistants to
give you the message. You're really telling me that you
don't get the messages?
Speaker 1: And what does she say?
Speaker 2: She's just like, yeah, we just don't. Uh yeah, our system,
it's just like our systems. And I said the system
so okay, Well, uh, I don't know what to tell you.
I said, I need an appointment. So she says, well,
we don't have any appointments now for until she goes, hm,
I'm not even seeing anything here till November.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: So I said, She's like, but I'll email, I'll check
with the doctor and see if I can get you
in earlier. She goes, do you want me to do that?
Speaker 1: Oh that's the how old is she?
Speaker 2: I don't know, but I said that's yeah, I do.
So she's like, okay, So I'm still sitting there on
the phone for the longest time. It's so unprofessional. I
was on the phone for, you know, at least twenty
minutes just waiting for her. So she says, okay, I
sent an email to the doctor and I see seed
you so like an hour later or so, because obviously
my doctor returns her emails immediately. She says, how's okay?
So this is how it's written. How's one zero eight
slash twenty four? At one point thirty one zero eight.
Speaker 1: Slash, I write it slash twenty I.
Speaker 2: Was one hundred and eight slash. I'm like, was that
a blood pressure? When is that? And then, honestly, it's
not like you can tell what the mistake is because
it could have been to forget the one and you're
asking me if I'm available August twenty fourth, or it
could have been October twenty four with an eight thrown
in there. So I write back immediately one eight slash
twenty four. Question mark never writes me back. So this
morning I write back again. The best thing in the morning,
I write back, can you please clarify the date for
the appointment? Doesn't write me back. So I wrote a
letter to the doctor. And I never do this because
it gives me too much agita. But I never do this.
But I wrote a letter to the doctor and I
told her I recounted my experience with her assistant, and
I made sure to say, you're an awesome doctor, and
it's worth the frustration of trying to get an appointment
with you, because she is. I said, but this is
just unprofessional and not acceptable. And then right after that,
I just got an email back saying, oh sorry October
twenty fourth, which by the way, is not that much
sooner than November.
Speaker 1: Now, let me ask you something. Why didn't you immediately say, like,
can I talk to somebody else other than your dumb
ass when you were talking to.
Speaker 2: Her, Because there's no one else to talk to.
Speaker 1: If there's somebody sitting next together, let me talk to
somebody else. Let me talk to a manager, Let me
tuk to test no managers. This is like anybody each
is getting talked to a janitor talk let me anybody,
but you.
Speaker 2: You're right, I probably should have done that.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, because I can. I don't know. How
can you imagine somebody.
Speaker 2: Those were laughing, laughing out loud, laughing and then saying,
oh the reason I'm laughing is because somebody else has
been trying to get through.
Speaker 1: For a year, a children at a children's hospital, at
a children's hospital.
Speaker 2: I wanted to punch her in the face.
Speaker 1: This is not good because I raise money for that hospital.
It's it's your hospital, it's the doctor's great. But it's
not just one person that you've been trying to get
a hold of. It's I left messages here. I left messages.
That's a bad sign.
Speaker 2: And also if you're if you're say your voicemail tree
or whatever has been broken for a year, how do
you not fight? How do you not figure that out?
How do you tell somebody, oh, well, we haven't gotten
there's no ability for us to get our messages.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no for a year?
Speaker 1: No no no no, no, right, no, you didn't discover
that there should be an app for something.
Speaker 2: It's not like an old shutdown. Howard Johnson's en route whatever,
it's the children's hospital.
Speaker 5: Right.
Speaker 1: There should be some sort of app, you know, have
you ever done Uber? You know Uber? You guys know
you guys rules.
Speaker 3: Yeah it does amazing, Yeah.
Speaker 2: It does, bro.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Uber is this app that you download and it's like,
no matter what city you're in, well, I think, well
New York or LA. I've used it both cities. And
you if you need a car, if you're drunk and
need a car to pick you up or a cab,
you just hit the button and it'll tell you the
driver's on its way in eleven minutes, and it'll say
not only the driver will say you know as well,
those on his way to pick you up in twelve
point five, you know, and they'll show where he is
on the map. Here he comes, and you could see
him moving down the street where he's at. Oh I
like that, Oh, Stephanie, it's a life changer.
Speaker 2: You just like waiting. Oh, so that's why it wouldna
to know where they are.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's amazing because it's like it tells you
the exact number of minutes and it's not like a
cab where it's like it's an estimate and you never
like it's it's exact and you watch the guy on
GPS getting to you right right, But you can tell
it a cab.
Speaker 2: It's like you don't know if they're going to stop
and take a shower right, Well, probably not not, but
you can tell it.
Speaker 1: You can tell it whether it to get a cab.
You could tell if you want a cab or a
town car first of all, usually I think, and then
the other thing is is you.
Speaker 3: Know or an suv, like if you have to go
to the airport with your whole family, you request like
an escalade.
Speaker 1: It came and picked. When the plane landed in La
after our Florida trip, I I ubered it. I called
it and they said, okay, he'll be there. He's there,
he'll be there in two minutes. And then he calls
me and he says, I'm going to be circling what
airline you out of? And then he says, okay, well
when you get your luggage, call me. I mean, no,
no waiting ever, And so they get their too.
Speaker 2: Dispatch. No, it doesn't take you to a dispatch of
a no cars.
Speaker 1: No, it'll tell you.
Speaker 4: It tells you.
Speaker 1: It says, you know so and so is and it
has a picture of the driver a picture. Can you go, ah,
he's not cute enough now, and then you rate him.
That's why they're good because then you give him a
rating afterwards and he rates you mm hmm other.
Speaker 2: He did m m mm hmmm.
Speaker 1: So they're awesome.
Speaker 2: They're the best fucking So then people when you make
a request, people can go look you up and go
that h did not tip.
Speaker 1: So that's me Actually business needs to run like that.
Speaker 3: Well, it's the tipping is included and you never there's
never a financial exchange. You put your credit card into
the app and then you just get in the car
and get out of the car and you don't tip.
So it's amazing on that sense. But like if you
happened to get into a car and dump aotonic on
the driver, they can rate that on your h Yeah yeah.
Speaker 1: That gorfy stinks or something like that. But it's like
the tip is always included. It's not expensive.
Speaker 3: It's like thirty more than a cab, and if you're
a good tipper, it's pretty much about the same as
a cab.
Speaker 1: Right, It's awesome. You don't have to do anything.
Speaker 2: It's the best I normally took about two percent, so
I guess that would be about ouch.
Speaker 1: Oh, we forgot to say at the top of the hours,
we have a very special guest today. It took a
lot of fenangling and booking and rearranging and rebooking, and
a lot of agents and managers to get through, but backed.
Speaker 2: By popular, very very very popular demand, we.
Speaker 1: Have Old Guy.
Speaker 2: Yay, do we have like a pause?
Speaker 3: Effects?
Speaker 1: Gary? Come on, come on, I wish you would just
hit me. Wow, there's that. So anyways, now that's terror,
that's frustrating stuff. So is that how your summer's been going.
By the way, your nail polish matches your iPhone?
Speaker 2: I know, isn't that funny? Somebody said to me, Oh,
you must really like hot pink. I said, I got
three daughters, two and a half daughters, that's true, and
one sort of son.
Speaker 1: And when's your summer over, by the way, not.
Speaker 2: Until September fifth.
Speaker 1: I know, screw you.
Speaker 2: I hate you people, but this is not a good thing, Lynnette,
because you get your kids go back to school.
Speaker 1: Mine I have to go and works.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but then I have no childcare and no camp.
Speaker 1: Hi, olga, are we bringing in old Guy now?
Speaker 2: Sure?
Speaker 1: Don't we have questions? Do we have questions? Oh? We
have questions? Okay, yeah, but am I?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 2: My child? Gary? Have you seen her?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: Good Sonny. We're not talking to you right now, honey. Sorry,
we're not talking to kids right now in a little while,
but we're not done talking about us. Now your kids
go back?
Speaker 2: When do you want to talk about Anthony Wiener for
a second?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: All right?
Speaker 2: Or what about the guy the the guy from San Diego.
Speaker 1: Which one the one? You know what I've been not
I'm not anything because I have been in the trenches.
Speaker 2: Well, there's a mayor of San Diego who's been uh,
fondling women and asking women deplete it if they would
mind working with no underwear and all kinds of stuff,
trying to make out with women like you know, just
insanely inappropriate. And then he checked himself into he still
wants to continue with his job, and he checked himself
into his sex rehab, but only for two weeks behavioral modification.
He's calling it, and he's trying to charge the taxpayers
for his what's his name? I forgot what was named? Gary?
Speaker 1: Speaking of rehab? Yeah, remember the mom that I talked
about that we were going to approach. Yes, apparently she
not only been to read, she went to rehab and
she's back and she's clean and sober, and she's going
filer yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, Bob, and she's that and
she's going to her AA's and she takes it very
seriously and she wants everybody to know so that she
can have support. And she's not hanging out with the
other moms that she was hanging out with and she's
doing great.
Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah. And her first name off the air, so
that I can look out for her.
Speaker 1: Okay, I will. Her name is no Yeah, all right,
I'll tell you later.
Speaker 2: Okay, hi oga, Hi, how's it going good? How do
you feel about all the positive feedback you got? Did
Lynette read you some of the comments?
Speaker 4: She did?
Speaker 1: Yeah, we went on, We went on. I read them
to her because she does not read.
Speaker 2: Just kidding, what did you think?
Speaker 4: It feels nice?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: The nice thing about old guy is that she texts.
You know, she's a she's a texter, and she's good
with directions better than me. She drives.
Speaker 2: Yeah that's awesome.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's good, like she's not supposed to drive. Her
text well some time and drives. That's the best part
about it.
Speaker 2: I have a friend. I have a friend who's nanny
doesn't drive, and that sounds so hard because it's like,
so okay. So she'll tell me, oh, well, I can't
go do whatever because I have to drive my nanny
and the kids to the park and then go pick
them up later. Well, what's the point of having it?
Speaker 1: Then?
Speaker 2: If you have time to go drive your kids to
the park with the nanny, then just stay there at
that point and watch them play, right, come home.
Speaker 1: What's the point? Well, we have a we have we
have a nant. Now we have a friend. The nanny
doesn't drive, and her and Olga were best friends, but
now they moved.
Speaker 2: To Europe, which she always bumping rides.
Speaker 1: Yeah pretty much. Yeah, yeah. The kid would sit in
between Sunny and Italian old and would and her would
go to the park.
Speaker 2: I want to hear before we get to we have
listener questions for you. But I'm curious as to what
pet peeves you have about other nannies who you know.
Speaker 1: Where to begin? Ah, you know, I don't know.
Speaker 4: I don't like I don't like being gossiping, and I
can feel when somebody's like that if I listen to
them for a little bit and I see that on them,
I go like, mmm, I'm out of here.
Speaker 1: She has been that way, Yeah, she's always been. In fact,
there was a bunch of nannies in our neighborhood when
all of us started that were gossipers, and then they
would mooch off of you know when you would go
to those those playrooms and you would buy like, you know,
ten visits or whatever. Right, so all the I bought
like ten visits or and then they would they their
their bosses bought their visits too, but instead they pocketed
the money and would go off of our visits the
first time. And Olga kicked them to the curb after that,
yeah she's good, oh yeah, and ratted them out.
Speaker 4: She was like, uh, I don't like that when people
tried to take advantage of the other people good.
Speaker 1: In fact, Olga had to sit down with me last
Friday about our she doesn't listen our cleaning lady, and
that she's taken a little bit of advantage of us.
Speaker 4: She said, really, that's how I feel, That's how I
see it at the home, and I don't like that that.
Speaker 1: She could spend extra time sometimes she doesn't have time,
she has to go get her kid. But then sometimes
there's times where she can stay extra long and do
some things that she should be doing and that she's
not doing. But and I don't notice it, and she
just but Olga does because Olga's a perfectionist, and so
she shratted her out. Yeah, what are you talking about? What?
What are you talking about?
Speaker 3: Gary looks at your screen.
Speaker 2: Oh, oh, oh.
Speaker 4: You did.
Speaker 1: I didn't even know you had her. Yeah, really, how'd
you get her?
Speaker 2: Gary? Fired her? Is what he's trying to say.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the same person. It's uh, it's Daniel Daniel right.
Speaker 1: No, that's uh, that's Olga's nephew. Oh yeah, we're talking
about somebody else. Okay, good, well you fired Olda's nephew.
Speaker 3: We did not hurt not him another guy.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah right, this is sounding very what So what
have you ever seen a nanny, you know, when no
parents were around, and it was nanny's be mean to
a kid?
Speaker 4: Yeah, m.
Speaker 1: What do you do say at the park or something
like strange nanny's Yeah that you don't know what they do.
Speaker 4: They're just mean, they're they're just uh, they're not appropriate
the way they they correct their behavior, and do you
say anything?
Speaker 1: Do you interrupt or say anything? Uh?
Speaker 4: If I don't know the nanny, no, I don't want
to get involved involved.
Speaker 2: But how can parents be How can parents figure out
though if maybe their nanny is behind their back not
being great to their kids.
Speaker 4: They gotta see the baby or the kid how it's
behaving when he's at home with the nanny. If they
see that, they don't the baby is always trying to
get away from the nanny and be with the parents,
Like Natalia's with me because I'm strict with her, that
I'm mean with her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the thing. How can you tell it's just
because you're being stress or if it's because the nanny's
really not being nice to your.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm gonna guess nowadays that there's a lot
of parents that aren't that don't that don't discipline, But
there's a lot of old school nannies that do discipline
in the right correct way. But then when there's an
only child, say, and the child wants to hang out
with the mama all day because mama doesn't discipline and
lets them eat candy all day long, and then the
old school nanny shows up and they are like, I
don't want to be with her. I don't want to
go with her. And then it's like, well, what is
she doing to my daughter? She's not letting me snicker
bars for lunch, you know. How do you know?
Speaker 2: That's the thing.
Speaker 4: You know, the thing with Natalia here, it's like she
goes with Lenanne and she complains about me, But Lena
knows how Natalia is, and she can see how Natalia
loves me and how how I love her too. It's
not like always, you know, discipline, discipline all the time.
I would think when.
Speaker 2: Sometimes people are fake, what do you mean sometimes nanny's well,
I'm sure when they come over, are like ohh And
then when they're with the kid, it's a different story.
They either ignore the kid or I get so upset
because there's been a lot of stories in the news
recently about nanny's abusing kids, you know, and you see
kids with bruises and you just go, oh my god,
how like how does that happen? I don't know about it,
and people see it on their nanny cam or they
figure it out. I uh, I mean, you know, here's
the thing. I'm not an abuser Okay, do you love
anything that's prefaced. I'm not an abuser, but but when
I was a kid and babysitting, you know, it was
a different time. But I can tell you that I
did not like babysitting. I didn't even particularly like kids.
It was just like I was thirteen, and you know,
people wanted to pay me a couple of bucks an
hour to watch their little shits is they were, in
my opinion, all right, but I'm gonna hurry up and
get them to bed, like do what I need to
do so that I could get on their phone start
making long distance phone calls. Right, you know, there's no
watch eat their snacks like that's what I was interested in.
And I'm not proud of how I was. I didn't
hurt anybody's kids, of course, and if I did, I
wouldn't be telling the podcast. Well, no, I did not,
but I certainly didn't enjoy their kids or you know,
but I can read that like if I'm hiring a
babysitter now, like I have such high expectations, like I
want them to be doing it because they just love
kids and they can't wait to spend the evening with
my three kids.
Speaker 4: You know, the thing is that a lot of ninnies
they do it just for the money, not because they
like to be with kids. And that's when you have
to be careful. You have to see, especially how your
kids behave with them, how they stay with them, and
just you can feel, as mom, you have these sense that,
oh I have something meat that is not right. It's
something I feel that is not right. You have to
follow that. You have to be you're not curious why
you're feeling that right, especially that you know you can
see the nanny, oh my love, my baby, you know,
saying all these things, but you can tell if it's
fake or if it's real.
Speaker 1: Also, you know, old guy, it goes the other way.
There's there's been there's nanny's where they're with their kid
and they're supposed to be either disciplining the kid or
making the kid eat better or healthier choices of food,
but instead they coddle the kid and they let the
kid get away with shit, and they let the kid.
You know, it's the other way around too. You know,
it's not just like a lot of it is.
Speaker 4: Most of it is.
Speaker 1: It's not abuse, it's the other way. It's letting the
kid get away with the with murder, you know, and
not no disciplining just because they just don't, you know,
they don't want to discipline the kid or something, right, yeah,
or they let the kid eat whatever they want.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And I feel like it's got to be such a
I was so lucky with my nanny and Lynnette you
have the same thing. But when my twins were little,
I was on a book deadline, so I had a
nanny at my house to help me with the twins.
But I was home all the time, so I was
around her, and that can be hard. I mean, I'm
sure it can be really hard for the nanny to
to have to basically be the stand in parent while
the parents there, you know. And so but we just
tried to work with each other, you know, give each
other space. I was very not strict with her, you
know what I mean. I just tried to understand, like
I was never going to be somebody who was like, hey,
time to lean, time to clean, Like when the kids
are napping, you better be doing something. I was like, Liz,
lay on the couch and watch some TV, because guess what,
that's what I would be doing.
Speaker 4: I tell her to do that.
Speaker 1: I gave up years. I told her to do that.
She doesn't do it. That's why Adam likes her. Olga
doesn't sit down at all.
Speaker 2: But especially when my twins were little, it was hard.
Speaker 1: When they're sleeping and stuff.
Speaker 2: It's so constant, you know. Yeah, I'm sure if it
was now, it would be it would be different. But
I'm just saying. I mean, Liz was amazing, and but
part of the reason I felt so good was because
I could see how my kids responded to her. You know,
they were so sad. They were sad. At the end
of the day when she left, they were at the window,
their little faces against the window. Bye Liz, Bye, Nana.
Speaker 4: Yeah bye.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well you got some Facebook questions for old Guy. Okay, okay,
you're ready Oga, All right, let's see. Okay, what's the
What perks does Oga get from being our nanny or
being your nanny? Vacations, good car, medical, et cetera. What
perks do you get? Old Gay a lot be the
famous nanny in the world and nanny did a Aceman nanberries, Oh,
I'll have What perks do you get? Well? They want
to know, they want to know what do you get
you get? Do you get your Do you get vacations, yes,
I do when uh, when I ask, are they paid vacations?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: They are nice. Do you get sick days?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 2: Do you get if you need to leave early? Is
the family you work for cool with that? Or do
they go?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 4: Sometimes I can tell Lene doesn't like it. I'm just kidding. No,
she just goes, go ahead, leave, But I have to
tell her with time.
Speaker 1: Oh no, but hold on, how often do you ever
leave early?
Speaker 4: A lot of times?
Speaker 1: Never?
Speaker 3: Never.
Speaker 1: Olga's never sick ever. I mean that I can say
that she's never. Really one time, once in a while,
and this ship's going around, she gets sick, and I
hate it too, because then she's sick. But then she's
never sick. She doesn't ever if she asks her occasion,
she asks her way in advance.
Speaker 2: Uh.
Speaker 1: She The only time of the year that she's gone
is the week between Christmas and New Year's. Otherwise she's around.
She's always around, and she's not. She takes longer, she doesn't.
She takes her time. She knows, she doesn't. She's not
on a clock. She just comes when, you know, whenever
I need her to come. And then she stays until
she's done or whatever. She's not. So anyway, she's salary.
She has that, she's paid salary. But what else? What else?
Speaker 2: I have a wait? I have another question for you
to Kashee. What kind of a name is Kashi?
Speaker 1: That's an energy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a kind of a rice m. Just
to let you know, Kashi Kashi. Davis uh says what
do you do when your parenting style differs from Lynette's Adams?
Do you always defer to them?
Speaker 1: Does Adam have a parenting style?
Speaker 7: Uh?
Speaker 4: Yes, Sometimes when Natalia is not doing what she's supposed
to be doing what she he just talked to her
firmly and she does what?
Speaker 1: He like what I imitate him? Oh?
Speaker 4: I can't.
Speaker 2: How does he do it?
Speaker 4: Natalia?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, there you go.
Speaker 2: Look at are two girls.
Speaker 1: They look alike. So so he says, Natalia, Natalia, Uh, huh,
stop doing that.
Speaker 4: Listen to all guys. When I'm talking to her, or
if Lynette is talking to her, she goes, Natalia, mommy
is saying no, and she listens to her. You know
she's Uh.
Speaker 2: But if you have a difference, do you ever have
a difference of opinion in how the kids should be
parent you know, you.
Speaker 4: Know, with Lynette, because we are the ones who work
together with them. Adam is always working, always out, but
with her, with her is uh, it's that I want
the one that I talked to her, that I talk
and sometimes we don't agree, but we have to we
have to work. We have to work together and make
things work, not because for us but for them.
Speaker 2: Right has lenever has Lynette ever said Olga my way
or the highway?
Speaker 1: No, no, because I have to ask Olga how to
do it, because I don't know how to do it.
She she says, this way or the highway, Lynette, or
You're going to be in big trouble in ten years,
so you better listen to me. It's gotta be oh yeah, yeah, yeah.
Well because I'm not paying attention, I don't really notice.
And then we'll go, Lynette, we need to talk.
Speaker 2: You cannot let You've made her an old Italian woman, but.
Speaker 4: That's how that's how I talk.
Speaker 2: Do you want to compezza?
Speaker 1: So she she will tell me that this is not
the you know, you can't let them no, no, no, no, no,
you shouldn't be doing that. You better be you know
that kind of stuff. But Olga does have a different style.
Olga does believe in spankings. Yeah, I do, yeah, and
we don't.
Speaker 4: I'm not. I'm not saying to spink like killing them
and getting all bruised up.
Speaker 2: I hope not.
Speaker 4: You know, I'm not. I'm not saying that would be illegal.
Speaker 1: I know, I know, I know, but I do.
Speaker 4: I do believe in spanking for when.
Speaker 2: When the parents aren't watching, especially that especially at those.
Speaker 1: Moments like at all the time or sometimes no no
no no no no no no, not a specific time.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, sometimes skates, sometimes skates needed and some
kids don't need any of that.
Speaker 2: You know, like when the kids watching the TV and
the volumes a little too loud, spanking.
Speaker 4: No, the chank cloud, the sandal shows, the sandal, so
then the hit. Now you know what happened about.
Speaker 1: Here's here's the listen.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 1: So Natalia was looking forward to going to Raging Waters
on the Thursday right last week, and she was so
looking forward to her and it's all she talked about.
The night before Wednesday night, Olga and the kids went
out for a walk with the dog. They came back
in and Olga said, uh, did you Natalia told you?
Tell you what happened? I said, no, what happened? And
she said she ran into the street without saying anything
to me, and without looking, she just ran across the street.
And I lost. I got pissed off because that's one
thing that you just don't that doesn't fly. I get.
I got really mad and I said, and they know that.
And I said, Natalia, what happened? And then then Olga
told me that she said, Mommy says we can do that,
and that that threw me on. Then she lied on
top of it, and so I basically said, Natalia, And
the first thing that popped in my head was you
know what, no raging waters tomorrow. Well, she lost her shit.
She was crying hysterically, you know that feeling like please
but I've never seen her so, I mean, she was
so upset that coming out of your skin anxiety. And
this was at bedtime. She was trying. I was putting
on the bed and she was crying hysteric. Boase she
put her pillow over. I know I couldn't, but this
was she ran and there was a truck coming and
she ran into the street.
Speaker 4: Where that was the second time. This was two times
she did it on the wall she was trying the
second time to run across the street, and that street
was very busy. The first one wasn't that busy, but
the second one was busy, and I was like, just
because she was going to cross, Sonny wasn't one side,
Molly was with me and Tolly was on the other side.
Speaker 1: Was like, no, it's hard when you have the three
of them the blind dog bumping in the show. So
when it happened, so I couldn't. I regretted. I said
that in my head because I'd rather have given her
a better punishment, because obviously I was like, I'm not
gonna I don't know, I could have taken it away
from her. I was going to at that moment. I
was not gonna let her go. And then in my
head I was like, and I think of something else.
And she was crying, and I look over and Sonny's
in his bed and his lip is out and his
tears are silently going down his face, and he goes, Mom,
why don't you just discipline me? And I said, what
are you talking about? He goes, You're being too hard
on her. Just disciplined me. She really wants to go,
and don't do that to her and Tali got up
and she hugged Sonny, Sonny, thank you, and she hugged
They both were crying and each other so hard.
Speaker 2: God.
Speaker 1: So then I said, all right, all right, all right now, uh,
I just tell you I told him, you know, I
told her listen, you know, we had a long talk
and she knew what she did was wrong. And then
I said, you know, next time you're I'm going to
have a consequence for you, and I'm going to think
about what that's going to be. And now she learned
her last than I think I would have.
Speaker 2: You asked for it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, all right, then you can't. Well he didn't
real didn't want to go to rag, all right, so
she will have another question for all.
Speaker 2: I just want to know that did we ask this
last time? If she thinks that parents these days are
just too indulgent?
Speaker 1: The answer well to the yes, yes.
Speaker 4: What do they need?
Speaker 2: More more strict parents?
Speaker 7: Less?
Speaker 2: I mean less gadgets to play with? What is it
that will help us?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: No, No, more responsibilities, more chores.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 4: You know what parents need now is to be in charge.
Because I see that it's not the parent in charge
is the kid. You know, whatever the kids are they
go and do it and the parent go no, don't
do that, and they do it anyway. Yeah, they need
to be in charge. You know, they're the adults. They're
the mom and the dad. You know, the kid doesn't.
The kid is not in charge. You have to teach
you your key what he can do and what he
can not do. Oh I have followed?
Speaker 2: Is uh are my kids in there? Okay? I have
a really quick story for you that kind of illustrates this. So, so, Elbie,
my daughter is here. So this is not really like her,
but there is a little girl that she was refusing
to have a play date with. Did I tell you
this the last time we were on the podcast? She
there's no good reason. The girl, well, this is a
This girl is super sweet. There's nothing wrong with her
that I could see. But I asked Albie if she
wanted to have a play date with her, and she
said no. And so the and the mom is really
cool too. I think I've told you about this. I
am anyway, long story short. I was going along with
it because I thought, well, I don't want to force
her to do something she doesn't want to do. And
you know, she has plenty of friends that she can
play with. But I was feeling kind of bad because
the mom kept texting me saying, how about today, how
about today, and I'd write back, no, we're busy today,
or Elbe's tired. So finally and then I got them together,
her and this little girl with another kid, because I said,
maybe if there's someone else there, they can play and
I can kind of keep an eye on it and
see if the girl's doing something that's really wrong. Well,
sure enough, No, she didn't do anything wrong. She was
like a sweet kid. I don't know. I think Elbi
had just gotten kind of rigid in like she made
a decision I'm not going to play with her, and
then she just made herself anxious about it. So the
other day the mom texted me and I said, to Elbe,
how about we have a play date and she said, no,
I still don't want to. And then I said, you
know what, We're going to have a playdate with her.
So I texted the mom back and I said, sure,
we're going to get together. And then I said, listen,
you just can't make a decision. I said, she's our neighbor.
You're also in going to be seeing her a lot
and you know, if there's a problem, then we need
to work it out, and you need to You're going
to have to be honest with the girl and tell
her if there's a problem. And because it's just not
gonna fly, you just can't avoid her for the right,
you know what I mean. And I thought, if it
was a kid that really was not somebody that I
enjoy either, then fine, it's one thing. But there's nothing
wrong with this girl and she can't just do that.
So anyway, we got together. She's sulked, she cried about it.
She said, I don't want to do it, and I said, well,
is happening, So I said, and you know, if anything
goes wrong, then you can tell you will talk to
her and tell her what's wrong. If she still doesn't
act right, if that is the problem, then we can
have her go home. So sure enough, the girl, uh oh.
And I said, let's go to Michael's and get you
guys something to do, just so that you have like
a task. So we went to Michael's and then all
of a sudden, once it kind of soaked in that
this was happening, she got kind of in a better
mood about it, and she was like, oh, I'm kind
of happy. It's gonna be fun. Then the girl came over.
They had a grand old time all day. She was
so happy, and I thought, that's just because I didn't
let her make all the decisions, because I actually I
felt good about it, like, oh, I stepped up and
parented right. And then I told my a friend of
mine about it, who knows the girl, and she was like,
I just had a similar experience. I realized that my
daughter's not in charge. She I get to call the
shots something exactly parents, she said, So she did something
where she told her daughter what was happening, and I realized, like, yeah,
I think that without realizing it. Sometimes you're absolutely right.
We give them the power to decide what they're going
to do, when they're going to do it, who they're
going to hang out with, and like, sometimes they're wrong.
Speaker 4: Olga agree some time. Most of the time, most of
the time you're teaching them. You have to teach them
instead of letting do it because.
Speaker 1: They don't want to or they don't like her or whatever. Yeah,
it's true, it's true, and you'd be surprised. I think
we should do that once at least once a week.
Every parent should just say, you know what, I'm making
the decision. I say we are going to do it,
and do it and then see what happens, because yeah,
that's you know what it is at least once because
I think, challenge Stephanie.
Speaker 2: It's so funny.
Speaker 4: Can you say this?
Speaker 1: Because just yesterday or two days ago, I was at
the house, the new house, and I was working all
day over there, and I was just like sweating and
hot and tired, and it was. I was there from
ten thirty eleven until I don't know four o'clock without
eating a single thing all day. And Olga and the
kids were there, and Adam was there, and everybody was
coming and going. But I was there all day and
then Old the kids were there and I said, now
I was done. And I said, okay, well what are
we doing? I had Sonny wanted to play basketball. I
played basketball with him. Now now I'm starving. I'm going
to go get something to eat.
Speaker 4: And she says.
Speaker 1: August says, well, these kids are going to go. I said,
you guys want to go get something to eat? And
they already ate and August says, no, we'll go with you.
Where are you going to go? And I said, I
was just going to go up the street and sit
down and have a piece of pizza or something. And
August say is, well, we'll go with you. The kids,
I said, they're not hungry, they already each because so
they can go and sit with you.
Speaker 4: And they did.
Speaker 1: They sat there with me in a restaurant while I ate,
and you know, they fought over the phone and to
play with the phone, and they were bored to tears
and itally got a little restless.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but we always get to enjoy every single activity,
right not.
Speaker 1: Every day is a freaking commercial for you know, the
water park. So they have to do, you know, And
so they said, I love this.
Speaker 2: I know it's empowering.
Speaker 1: Yes, August has empower yourselves out there and make the decision.
Speaker 2: We spen. We try too hard to make our kids
like us and to and to be their friend instead
of like the parent. But when you're the parent, they're
gonna like you anyway. Of course, cool, But you know what,
it's also tiring.
Speaker 4: It's also.
Speaker 1: It's also tiring because parents don't want to do the battle.
They don't want to go you know what you're doing.
There's a battle that they have to instead of they
just go at fuck it all right, stay home, or.
Speaker 2: I want to see our kids sulk? Right, yeah, because
it because up until that point that I made that
decision that that was something that my daughter needed to do.
Of course, I don't want to watch her soul. I
don't want to see her be sad and have to
play with somebody we want to play with, right, but
that never happens. That needed to happen one way or another.
It could have gone badly, but it went it went fine.
But either way we needed to find out, right because
as adults, we have to be around people we don't
like sometimes, so we have to deal with you.
Speaker 4: You got to teach your kids that too. You know,
this life is not just happy, happy, happy all the time.
Speaker 2: You know that time about depression, just crushing depression and
uh you know prison time. Right, they should all watch
Orange Is the New Blacks. I think that's like I
have a.
Speaker 4: Question for you when your when your daughters came to
you and said I don't want to play with her?
Was the play date in her house or wasn't your house?
Speaker 2: Both? First, she said she didn't want to go to
the other girl's house because it was boring and there
wasn't anything to do there, and she didn't want to
play at my house because she said that the other
little girl was too bossy and also oftentimes wanted to
play with her sisters and not her, and that she
the other little girl, didn't listen to her, and when
she tried to tell her she was being bossy, she
didn't want to. She didn't want to listen. She only
wanted to do what she wanted to do.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's the reason for her for her not to
want to play.
Speaker 2: With her, But she'd I'd see I'd been around them
having play dates, and I had not seen that, do
you know what I mean? And if i'd seen it,
it would be different, Like there have been a couple
of kids, but she's tolerated much bossier behavior than this girl.
And I just had a feeling that she just decided
she didn't want to and then, like I said, got
really rigid about it because I figured the other girl
she's really sweet, Like I knew that she's the kind
of girl that if Elbie had just been honest and said,
I feel like you're being too bossy, that she would
have it. She would have realized, oh, I'm hurting her
feelings and this, you know what I mean, This little
girl really likes her, right.
Speaker 4: Sah, you're gonna talk. You're gonna have figure out, you know,
next time, try to get the truth out of her, like, Okay,
we're gonna do this, and you tell me what's going
on or we're doing this, give me a reason why.
Speaker 2: Well I did do that, and and at first she
didn't want to tell me, but then she did tell
me the thing about the bossiness and and that, and
I felt like that's that's a reason. But it's not
a good enough reason to never see the girl again.
It's not like she was hitting her. It's not do
you know what I mean. It's not a good enough
reason to not try one more time and to be
honest and communicate with her her feelings. She needed to
practice doing.
Speaker 4: The thing is that she's fine with her now.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she loved her, she'd had a great time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go.
Speaker 2: Okay, let's give Olga a couple more questions, right, yeah,
you give her one. Okay, uh okay, Oh, here's one
from Cecilia. She needs your advice. Cecilia Salden Negro, Hi,
old guy, I'm a fellow nanny struggling with a one
and a half year old boy whose anger, temper and
tantrums easily exceed any one other child his age, how
would you recommend approaching the parents about having the child
evaluated by a professional. They have mentioned seeking help before
when the behavior changed for the worst, but they haven't
brought it up again in months. Grateful for any advice.
Speaker 4: When the key is throwing himself or herself on the ground,
just ignored them because that they doing that because of attention.
They want attention, okay, And if they want to seek
for help, go ahead and try to talk to their parents.
You know what they have to this naney, what she
have to do is uh, I don't know if if
she communicates more with the mom or the dad, but
whoever she communicates more, she gotta go and say, you
know what, we need to talk. This is getting worse
and we need we need to do something with him
and be on the same page. Yeah, be on the
same page, because the problem is, uh, this kid is
gonna get worse every single day because nothing is uh no, no, no,
nothing is stopping him for doing that.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 4: And the thing is that sometimes kids start hurting hurting
themselves when they do that, when they fall in the floor,
they drop themselves on the floor, and they can they
can hurt themselves really bad, especially at that age.
Speaker 2: Do you find though that, and I'm wondering if this
woman feels that way that parents get very defensive if
you bring up to them that maybe their kid needs help,
maybe there's an issue. Lynette and I have found that
it's very difficult, even for us as friends of another
mom to bring up like something that might be wrong
with someone else's kid, you know what I mean. So
do you find that parents can tend to be very
defensive and not want to hear about it?
Speaker 4: You know, when you're a nanny, you're working for them.
You know that kid a lot, and sometimes more than
the mom and THEDD because you spend a lot of
time with them, and if they don't want to listen
to her, that's a bad news for the kid. Yeah,
m hmm, because that kid is going to be well the.
Speaker 1: Parents do they are defensive? There's there are going to
be times where the parent is defensive. I've been defensive,
but you you have to. I think it's up for
the nanny. I think it's part of the nanny's job
to bring it up. It has to, you know. I
don't think that the nanny's a shy away from the parents.
I don't think end up having a you know, I
think it's a they're doing more more damage to the
kid than good. You can't that's like you know, I mean,
if that's like going to work and knowing that you know,
the company is not performing well, just like not telling
the parents that you know, the uh whatever, the boss
that the you know, the company could be doing better
if we did this. You know that that's just doing
more harm than good. I think, great, yeah, yes, yes, yeah.
I hate calling old on nanny because she's not like
and I said that the other day. I said, oh,
my daughter and my nanny or in the other room,
we're going to be to the guy at the restaurant
when we sat down to eat the other day and
I was like, I want to say, like my sister
in law and my because.
Speaker 2: I know I hate it too. I always hated it
without friends with my old nanny live like we're friends,
Like we're always chatting on Facebook, and you know, like
when she was even when she was working for me,
it was hard to I didn't like thinking of her as.
Speaker 1: It's just so yeah, because you know, I don't know
Old Guy's part of the family. And that's another question.
Is that question? H Kimberly Fuller says, will she retire
after Italian sonny? What's oh? H and when?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: Oh oh? And when her daughter starts a family? Will
she granny nanny? Well, of course she's going to be
a granny to her daughter kid. But what are you
gonna do when that's true?
Speaker 4: Huh?
Speaker 1: What are you gonna do when.
Speaker 2: Professional this is what I do for a living.
Speaker 4: Exactly?
Speaker 2: Do you think I should just throw you a freebie
because you're my daughter? Ridiculous?
Speaker 1: What are you gonna do, old guy? When sunny and
Italia's too early to tell.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 1: She's gonna stay with us, I don't know. Yeah, she's
gonna take care of me and Adam.
Speaker 4: Like MA told Natalian tanny that I'm going to look
for another baby.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, when we tease with them that I'm
going to fire old guy or something like that. No, no, no,
don't doubt she's late because of us. Don't blame her.
She's only like because we made her light. You know,
you guys are supposed to be only a half hour ago,
and I'm firing, and I'm firing old guy.
Speaker 2: No, how was the water park?
Speaker 1: How was the water park?
Speaker 4: That's how I had a lot of fun. Sunny too, Sunny.
I thought Sunny wasn't going to be going in the
big rides.
Speaker 2: And he did. Really because it's water. Like, which water
park did you go to?
Speaker 4: Ranging waters Raging?
Speaker 2: Is that the one in.
Speaker 4: Sadimas?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Was it good?
Speaker 3: It was fine When I was a kid. I remember
going back down when I was like fifteen and thinking,
I don't this is not a good place.
Speaker 1: Gary. How was your trip to uh not Berry Farm?
Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, it was good.
Speaker 1: It was not farm.
Speaker 2: It was good with your nephew eat he.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like crazy. Uh we got there. I didn't tell
him where we were going, and then we got there
and he immediately announced all the rides he wouldn't be
going on, which was Sunny pretty much all of them.
He seems to have a sixth sense for things that
aren't included in the price of admission. We did everything
that was an extra, but that was fine. We read
the Calico Mining Train like four times because it was
the only ride he was really okay with.
Speaker 2: How old is he? Six?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 3: Seven? He just it was seventh birthday.
Speaker 2: It's tough that Elvi was like that.
Speaker 4: It was fun.
Speaker 2: She had a tough time. She did not like rides.
Speaker 3: We did the ferris wheel, we did we did some
of like the kids stuff, you know. We did another
little train and we played laser tag and he mined
for gold whatever.
Speaker 2: It was sure hanging out with.
Speaker 3: Oh, it was great. He and before I had budgeted
like six hours, and at like hour four and a half,
he was like, I'm tired. Can we go?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: All right? Yeah. We got into the car and I
took an awesome picture of us with him just totally
passed out in the car like three seconds after we
got in. It was fund. We had a great time.
Speaker 4: That's cute.
Speaker 1: That's cute. You have kids anytime soon? Gary?
Speaker 3: Absolutely not.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, so we should we do one or
two more questions? We'll do one more, all right, go ahead?
Speaker 2: Fun brook Smith wants to know how did you find
old guy? Where can I find a great nanny like her?
Speaker 1: The nanny underground mafia ring that they do down in
La No, I'm just kidding.
Speaker 2: I know you have like you're probably on a list, right,
did you do?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: What like a neighborhood mom's list where people are always
That's how I found Liz. Somebody on our neighborhood. A
neighborhood mom's list. They once a week gen's list.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, I've seen it. I've heard of it.
Speaker 2: They do like a nanny thing like once a week.
And somebody said, oh, I have a nanny. She's really awesome,
she really wants to work in And then it was
my neighborhood. Oh, and I was like, oh, well talk
to her.
Speaker 1: Ah, we should put Eddie Go up on that list. Yeah,
we have a fellow nanny who's looking for a job.
So how do I find Olga? I when I was
pregnant with the twins and Adam said, well, you know,
good luck with that. We're not I'm gonna be busy
working filming my movie The Hammer and doing my radio show.
We better hire help, he said, you know. I said,
well what, I don't know where to begin. And I
was at ABC. I was working at ABC and they
there was like this mom's of ABC network and they said,
call this agency and uh, it's called the Rose Agency
in Los Angeles. And I called them and I said,
I need a nanny. And then they sent over a
bunch of different people for me to interview, and I
told the story last time Olga was like the sec
the last it was between Olga and another young girl
and it was either a young girl. I thought Olga
is old, but or you know, and my sister in law,
Wendy said over the phone in Chicago, I described him both,
and she said, go with the Go with Olga because
she's gonna parent the way you parent. And she's right,
you know, parents the way you know, old school Italian's parent.
And that's I made the best. And then Adam picked
the Olga too because because she cooks. And Olga was
the only one that said can I see the babies
and wanted to hold them. Nobody else asked to see
the babies.
Speaker 2: Isn't that interesting? I'm we're these are not sponsors, but uh,
sittercity dot com. I don't know if you've ever heard
of that. I love sitter City. I've found babysitters there, yeah,
I've and they are not sponsors. I have paid for
my membership at sitter City, but I it's there. It's
really great because you can look at their they background check.
You can see all their availability. They show you exactly
what days their will work, with their price ranges, and
what their experiences. You can check their references and anyway.
I interviewed a bunch of people a couple of different times.
Times when I was when I had to do parental
discretion off that website, and the first one I interviewed,
I hired one of the girls that I met that day,
and then that girl ended up having to quit because
she got a job in her field before I was
done with her, and I went back to the first
person i'd interviewed that day who was still available, who
ended up also being great. So yeah, wow, that's the
way you can find people. Find full time nanny's. You
can find part time babysitters. Yeah, yeah, I love them.
I'm gonna call them and tell them that I just
gave them a big play. Yeah, and see if they'll
renew my membership for free. And I had to hire
somebody else.
Speaker 1: Can they say that we're referred to anywhere? If they
sign up, they can say they were referred by crying
out loud.
Speaker 2: Yeah, do that. If you go to sittercity dot com. Yeah,
tell them and I don't know. I'll just tell them
that I said, see what I referred from our podcast.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I love it anyway.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that was a good show.
Speaker 2: Yeah for being Thanks for coming back, Old guy. Will
you come again?
Speaker 4: Sure?
Speaker 1: Old guy? Where can we find you? Any plugs.
Speaker 3: On Twitter?
Speaker 1: Yeah, old guy? And we should put her on Twitter? Amazing,
all right, and I'll get you on. I'm gonna put
you on.
Speaker 3: We put Ray on Twitter and it's been one of
the greatest things ever.
Speaker 1: Yeah. You can text, you can do Twitter, you can
tweet or put oga than Nanny. She's gonna sit there
and tweet Nanny Corona. Old guy, No, just do at,
Old guy, try to do O O L g U
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Speaker 2: We'll find you something. We'll find you and then we'll
plug you.
Speaker 4: Yes on our next show. Yeah, it's gonna be you
fault if you find me just sticks.
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Speaker 1: Know this. You're a parent now, don't f it up.
I should make Olga say it.
Speaker 3: Say it Okay.
Speaker 1: So so Stephanie's going to say you're a parent.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we should get this on a drop so she
could end a couple of our shows just say you're
a parent, now, don't fuck it up.
Speaker 4: I'd say, okay, up your parent now, don't giff it up?
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on me because I knew you were trouble when you
walk down, So shame on me.
Speaker 6: Now I'll blue me two.
Speaker 7: Places I've ever been till you put me down. Oh,
I knew you were trouble when you walk down, So
shame on me. Now I'll bloom me two places and
never been.
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Speaker 2: So you put me down.
Speaker 4: Oh I knew you.
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Speaker 4: The blame is on me.
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ever been?
Speaker 6: So you put me down?
Speaker 4: Oh?
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never ben now lying.
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And now you let her love me?
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were trouble, and you walked in shame on me now,
olomy two places.
Speaker 6: And never been so you put me down.
Speaker 4: Oh, I knew you were.
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you were trouble when you walked in trouble, Trouble, trouble.
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