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Speaker 1: Made a decision a face sunny summer on I had

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vision night.

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Speaker 2: Hey, welcome for crying out loud.

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Speaker 1: You know that that Hi? You know that that real

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housewife that went bound Chica. But she said it wrong?

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Do you know what I'm talking about? Or is that

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was I dreaming about that?

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Speaker 2: No, that happened. I think it was Heather.

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Speaker 1: Heather, not Heather to blow. No, bro, No, it was

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a dumb housewife. She's the stamera. No, it was like

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a dumb one that was bound chickau Brown.

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Speaker 2: It was Lydia. Oh, Lydia that I Lydia.

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Speaker 3: You said it was one of the dumb ones. Isn't

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that not narrowing it down?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Right, isn't the guy you guys were talking about last week?

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Didn't you just get indicted for your boyfriend?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: Juicy Joe, don't tell me he's going to jail.

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Speaker 3: He is going to get what it's not a US citizen.

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They're part of these charges. They're threatening to deport him.

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Speaker 2: Apparently he came here as an infant, but they never

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filed papers. He never got a green card, he never so.

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Uh yeah, so they're indicted on like thirty charges.

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Speaker 1: Who's they and his wife, Theresa Jidechi. Yeah, they they're

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going to jail.

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Speaker 2: Uh, it's very possible.

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Speaker 3: They're in some serious trouble.

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Speaker 1: Really, Oh my god, See, I haven't.

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen any.

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Speaker 2: Dembelzament check fraud, tax evasion, misrepresenting their income on loan applications.

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It's like a bunch of.

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Speaker 1: Federal Well you know, they're Italian. What do you want

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from them? The Italians do?

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Speaker 2: Oh, we're gonna get letters.

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Speaker 1: I'm Italian.

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Speaker 2: I hate letters.

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Speaker 1: I want I know, right, mm hmm, yeah, No, that's

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why I like, no I have I'm a lot. I'm

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obsessed with them.

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 1: I love the Jersey Housewives. I didn't watch them before,

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but now I love them because they're my kind of people.

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But Stephanie, at the end of the show, will you

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stand in front of me and fall back and I'll

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catch you? Do you know what I'm talking about? Okay,

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apparently you're not watching the real honest, I's a new

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Jersey I'm not.

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Speaker 2: Did they go on a trust Yeah they did a

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trust trust retreat.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they did a retreat. They went on a retreat.

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Speaker 2: What does every show, every version of the show, do

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all the same things.

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Speaker 1: I know, I don't know what's going on today.

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Speaker 2: I'm obsessed a little bit with the Orange County ones,

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though me too. They're all such train wrecks. I hate

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them all. I know, you know it's bad when i've

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Speaker 1: I know she does seem like she's the only normal one.

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She irritates the shit out of me, though I don't

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know why.

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Speaker 2: She's literally had the least plastic surgery of any of them.

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I think I can't look at Gretchen anymore.

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just watching it and the other day and I froze

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it on scenes for next week when one of the

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many every other epiccene where Vicky screaming like a mad

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woman into Gretchen's face and her eyes are about the

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bulge out of her head. I freezed it on Tam,

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I mean on Gretchen, because Gretchen's you can see the filler.

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Speaker 1: I know you can see the outline of the filler,

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not the outline in her lip.

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Speaker 1: Up into her, into her skin above the lip. Yes,

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you can see the line of it.

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so much filler that it created a different crease. Yes,

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like a little bit further back. So it's like she

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Speaker 2: Never gonna have plastic surgery.

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never had I never had plastic surgery before.

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if that's what she wants to call it, I probably

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had more botox and filler than any of the other

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girls combined.

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Speaker 1: Looking at needs to take a page out of Slade's

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brother's book. Okay.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe that she referred to Slade's brother as

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like the swamp People version of Slade. Does she think

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he doesn't have a TV?

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Speaker 1: I know, right, it was a couple of times they

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Speaker 2: So, so you're proposing to his brother to I mean

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to you know, Slade and you know he's going to

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Speaker 1: Now, oh my god, he's not gonna be in the family.

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because he's going to be on TV on you know,

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Monday night at nine Bravo. Oh my god, the poor guy.

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to know what I'm talking about.

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maybe it was that the sixty second act where they

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were talking about cutting off his ponytail so he wouldn't

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought, Now you stepped on it for Gary.

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of it. But you had to say the m word. Well,

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we have producer Gary's here today, but then we also

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have a little a little mini producer Gary in it. Yeah,

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kaylin hy Kalen, Hello, there's such a proud Yeah, yeah, Kayalen.

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mean did you dude? Oh there he is like that

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you that you can't see him very good?

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Speaker 2: There the truth, that's a pretty good thing.

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Speaker 1: That's a good picture. Did you see that fur ball

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that's like on the like perched on his shoulder on

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his pony ail. That's his party in the back, business

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in the front.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, boy.

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Speaker 1: So anyway, I'm losing my voice. Feeling good, I'm feeling fine.

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Speaker 2: So do you want to hear a little? I did

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something that's I don't we can hear you there. Let's

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keep the technical stuff to a minimum, okay, because this

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Speaker 1: You're not what's your excuse? Just kidding, god, this is

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just a well okay.

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really really that was an inappropriate doing that because of me.

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Speaker 2: So you know how Sadie is really tiny? Yes, I

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don't know if I've ever mentioned that before. Yeah, yeah,

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uh so she is seen by a hospital, children's hospital

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or LA and I've been trying to get her appointment.

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her growth in case she in case her growth falls off,

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she has to be kept up with. It's not an emergency,

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an appointment. I just you know, I wait. And plus

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we took her for a second opinion somewhere else, you know, yeah,

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trying to make an appointment for her, and I cannot

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get anybody to get back to me at this hospital.

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then they're like, if you want to talk to this

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physician's assistant, press one, okay. So every time I go

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to press for the doctor we see doctor Kim at

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Children's Hospital, I have to go through her assistant. So

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I've left messages. John's left messages. Now this is over

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a peer and then you know how this happens. You

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call you back within twenty four hours or something. Then

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no one calls us back. But then I forget about

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it for a little while. So recently it's come to

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my attention and John's attention that they're not calling us back.

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then he left a message, then I left a message.

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Speaker 2: Yesterday I started getting really frustrated and I called. I

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called every single there's like six physicians. I called every

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single one of their assistants until I got somebody on

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the phone and I said, I've been trying to leave

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messages for this one assistant and no one's calling me back.

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her on the phone and I said, Hi, I left

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you a message earlier. Today, I've left you messages. This

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for our daughter. So so long story short, I'm on

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the phone like twenty minutes of her just going now

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let me see, because apparently she's a newer. In the

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past year, she's been the assistant. They'd switch him around.

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doctor for years. Sadie was like eighteen months old. Anyway,

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she's on the phone with me. All of a sudden

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she starts laughing, and she's like, oh, there's it's so funny.

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through for he hasn't been able to get an appointment

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with doctor Kim for a year. And she was there

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chuckling about it. So, I don't know if this has

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ever happened to you, But oh, I started getting mad,

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gotten through. I mean, I felt like it was pretty unprofessional.

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I couldn't get someone on the phone for months and

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months and months. And these are people, this is pediatric

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you know, endochronology. You know, these are our kids. It's

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not like it's me. If it was me, i'd be

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your rotated, but probably not as irritated. But this is

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something So I said, Oh, I go, I don't find

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it really that funny, not that funny, not so much

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kind of a connoisseur of comedy what too, And I'm

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not getting like the why you're like loling at the

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fact that somebody's been waiting a year, hasn't been able

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to get a bit talking for a year. So she says, oh, well,

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it's just I just thought it was interesting that, you know,

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a lot of people have been trying to get appointments.

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And I said, well, yeah, because it's really hard to

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get anybody to call us back. In fact, like I said,

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I've left you several messages. She's like, yeah, I don't know.

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We're just we don't get the messages. And I one thing,

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I said, well, I left messages with you on your

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personal voicemail. I've left messages with other physician assistants to

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give you the message. You're really telling me that you

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don't get the messages?

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Speaker 1: And what does she say?

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Speaker 2: She's just like, yeah, we just don't. Uh yeah, our system,

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it's just like our systems. And I said the system

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so okay, Well, uh, I don't know what to tell you.

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I said, I need an appointment. So she says, well,

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we don't have any appointments now for until she goes, hm,

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I'm not even seeing anything here till November.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: So I said, She's like, but I'll email, I'll check

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with the doctor and see if I can get you

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in earlier. She goes, do you want me to do that?

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Speaker 1: Oh that's the how old is she?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but I said that's yeah, I do.

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So she's like, okay, So I'm still sitting there on

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the phone for the longest time. It's so unprofessional. I

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was on the phone for, you know, at least twenty

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minutes just waiting for her. So she says, okay, I

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sent an email to the doctor and I see seed

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you so like an hour later or so, because obviously

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my doctor returns her emails immediately. She says, how's okay?

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So this is how it's written. How's one zero eight

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slash twenty four? At one point thirty one zero eight.

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Speaker 1: Slash, I write it slash twenty I.

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Speaker 2: Was one hundred and eight slash. I'm like, was that

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a blood pressure? When is that? And then, honestly, it's

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not like you can tell what the mistake is because

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it could have been to forget the one and you're

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asking me if I'm available August twenty fourth, or it

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could have been October twenty four with an eight thrown

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in there. So I write back immediately one eight slash

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twenty four. Question mark never writes me back. So this

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morning I write back again. The best thing in the morning,

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I write back, can you please clarify the date for

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the appointment? Doesn't write me back. So I wrote a

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letter to the doctor. And I never do this because

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it gives me too much agita. But I never do this.

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But I wrote a letter to the doctor and I

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told her I recounted my experience with her assistant, and

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I made sure to say, you're an awesome doctor, and

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it's worth the frustration of trying to get an appointment

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with you, because she is. I said, but this is

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just unprofessional and not acceptable. And then right after that,

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I just got an email back saying, oh sorry October

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twenty fourth, which by the way, is not that much

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sooner than November.

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Speaker 1: Now, let me ask you something. Why didn't you immediately say, like,

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can I talk to somebody else other than your dumb

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ass when you were talking to.

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Speaker 2: Her, Because there's no one else to talk to.

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Speaker 1: If there's somebody sitting next together, let me talk to

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somebody else. Let me talk to a manager, Let me

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tuk to test no managers. This is like anybody each

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is getting talked to a janitor talk let me anybody,

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but you.

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Speaker 2: You're right, I probably should have done that.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, because I can. I don't know. How

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can you imagine somebody.

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Speaker 2: Those were laughing, laughing out loud, laughing and then saying,

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oh the reason I'm laughing is because somebody else has

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been trying to get through.

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Speaker 1: For a year, a children at a children's hospital, at

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a children's hospital.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to punch her in the face.

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Speaker 1: This is not good because I raise money for that hospital.

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It's it's your hospital, it's the doctor's great. But it's

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not just one person that you've been trying to get

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a hold of. It's I left messages here. I left messages.

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That's a bad sign.

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Speaker 2: And also if you're if you're say your voicemail tree

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or whatever has been broken for a year, how do

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you not fight? How do you not figure that out?

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How do you tell somebody, oh, well, we haven't gotten

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there's no ability for us to get our messages.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, no for a year?

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Speaker 1: No no no no, no, right, no, you didn't discover

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that there should be an app for something.

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Speaker 2: It's not like an old shutdown. Howard Johnson's en route whatever,

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it's the children's hospital.

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 1: There should be some sort of app, you know, have

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you ever done Uber? You know Uber? You guys know

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you guys rules.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it does amazing, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It does, bro.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Uber is this app that you download and it's like,

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no matter what city you're in, well, I think, well

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New York or LA. I've used it both cities. And

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you if you need a car, if you're drunk and

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need a car to pick you up or a cab,

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you just hit the button and it'll tell you the

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driver's on its way in eleven minutes, and it'll say

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not only the driver will say you know as well,

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those on his way to pick you up in twelve

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point five, you know, and they'll show where he is

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on the map. Here he comes, and you could see

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him moving down the street where he's at. Oh I

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like that, Oh, Stephanie, it's a life changer.

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Speaker 2: You just like waiting. Oh, so that's why it wouldna

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to know where they are.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's amazing because it's like it tells you

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the exact number of minutes and it's not like a

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cab where it's like it's an estimate and you never

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like it's it's exact and you watch the guy on

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GPS getting to you right right, But you can tell

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it a cab.

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Speaker 2: It's like you don't know if they're going to stop

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and take a shower right, Well, probably not not, but

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you can tell it.

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Speaker 1: You can tell it whether it to get a cab.

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You could tell if you want a cab or a

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town car first of all, usually I think, and then

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the other thing is is you.

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Speaker 3: Know or an suv, like if you have to go

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to the airport with your whole family, you request like

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an escalade.

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Speaker 1: It came and picked. When the plane landed in La

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after our Florida trip, I I ubered it. I called

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it and they said, okay, he'll be there. He's there,

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he'll be there in two minutes. And then he calls

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me and he says, I'm going to be circling what

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airline you out of? And then he says, okay, well

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when you get your luggage, call me. I mean, no,

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no waiting ever, And so they get their too.

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Speaker 2: Dispatch. No, it doesn't take you to a dispatch of

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a no cars.

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Speaker 1: No, it'll tell you.

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Speaker 4: It tells you.

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Speaker 1: It says, you know so and so is and it

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has a picture of the driver a picture. Can you go, ah,

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he's not cute enough now, and then you rate him.

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That's why they're good because then you give him a

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rating afterwards and he rates you mm hmm other.

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Speaker 2: He did m m mm hmmm.

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Speaker 1: So they're awesome.

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Speaker 2: They're the best fucking So then people when you make

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a request, people can go look you up and go

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that h did not tip.

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Speaker 1: So that's me Actually business needs to run like that.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's the tipping is included and you never there's

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never a financial exchange. You put your credit card into

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the app and then you just get in the car

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and get out of the car and you don't tip.

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So it's amazing on that sense. But like if you

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happened to get into a car and dump aotonic on

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the driver, they can rate that on your h Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: That gorfy stinks or something like that. But it's like

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the tip is always included. It's not expensive.

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Speaker 3: It's like thirty more than a cab, and if you're

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a good tipper, it's pretty much about the same as

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a cab.

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Speaker 1: Right, It's awesome. You don't have to do anything.

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Speaker 2: It's the best I normally took about two percent, so

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I guess that would be about ouch.

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Speaker 1: Oh, we forgot to say at the top of the hours,

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we have a very special guest today. It took a

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lot of fenangling and booking and rearranging and rebooking, and

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a lot of agents and managers to get through, but backed.

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Speaker 2: By popular, very very very popular demand, we.

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Speaker 1: Have Old Guy.

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Speaker 2: Yay, do we have like a pause?

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Speaker 3: Effects?

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Speaker 1: Gary? Come on, come on, I wish you would just

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hit me. Wow, there's that. So anyways, now that's terror,

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that's frustrating stuff. So is that how your summer's been going.

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By the way, your nail polish matches your iPhone?

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Speaker 2: I know, isn't that funny? Somebody said to me, Oh,

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you must really like hot pink. I said, I got

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three daughters, two and a half daughters, that's true, and

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one sort of son.

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Speaker 1: And when's your summer over, by the way, not.

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Speaker 2: Until September fifth.

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Speaker 1: I know, screw you.

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Speaker 2: I hate you people, but this is not a good thing, Lynnette,

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because you get your kids go back to school.

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Speaker 1: Mine I have to go and works.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but then I have no childcare and no camp.

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Speaker 1: Hi, olga, are we bringing in old Guy now?

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Speaker 2: Sure?

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Speaker 1: Don't we have questions? Do we have questions? Oh? We

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have questions? Okay, yeah, but am I?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 2: My child? Gary? Have you seen her?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Good Sonny. We're not talking to you right now, honey. Sorry,

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we're not talking to kids right now in a little while,

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but we're not done talking about us. Now your kids

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go back?

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Speaker 2: When do you want to talk about Anthony Wiener for

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a second?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 2: Or what about the guy the the guy from San Diego.

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Speaker 1: Which one the one? You know what I've been not

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I'm not anything because I have been in the trenches.

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Speaker 2: Well, there's a mayor of San Diego who's been uh,

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fondling women and asking women deplete it if they would

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mind working with no underwear and all kinds of stuff,

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trying to make out with women like you know, just

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insanely inappropriate. And then he checked himself into he still

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wants to continue with his job, and he checked himself

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into his sex rehab, but only for two weeks behavioral modification.

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He's calling it, and he's trying to charge the taxpayers

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for his what's his name? I forgot what was named? Gary?

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Speaker 1: Speaking of rehab? Yeah, remember the mom that I talked

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about that we were going to approach. Yes, apparently she

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not only been to read, she went to rehab and

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she's back and she's clean and sober, and she's going

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filer yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, Bob, and she's that and

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she's going to her AA's and she takes it very

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seriously and she wants everybody to know so that she

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can have support. And she's not hanging out with the

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other moms that she was hanging out with and she's

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doing great.

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Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah. And her first name off the air, so

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that I can look out for her.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I will. Her name is no Yeah, all right,

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I'll tell you later.

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Speaker 2: Okay, hi oga, Hi, how's it going good? How do

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you feel about all the positive feedback you got? Did

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Lynette read you some of the comments?

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Speaker 4: She did?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we went on, We went on. I read them

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to her because she does not read.

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Speaker 2: Just kidding, what did you think?

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Speaker 4: It feels nice?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: The nice thing about old guy is that she texts.

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You know, she's a she's a texter, and she's good

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with directions better than me. She drives.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's awesome.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's good, like she's not supposed to drive. Her

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text well some time and drives. That's the best part

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about it.

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Speaker 2: I have a friend. I have a friend who's nanny

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doesn't drive, and that sounds so hard because it's like,

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so okay. So she'll tell me, oh, well, I can't

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go do whatever because I have to drive my nanny

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and the kids to the park and then go pick

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them up later. Well, what's the point of having it?

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Speaker 1: Then?

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Speaker 2: If you have time to go drive your kids to

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the park with the nanny, then just stay there at

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that point and watch them play, right, come home.

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Speaker 1: What's the point? Well, we have a we have we

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have a nant. Now we have a friend. The nanny

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doesn't drive, and her and Olga were best friends, but

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now they moved.

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Speaker 2: To Europe, which she always bumping rides.

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Speaker 1: Yeah pretty much. Yeah, yeah. The kid would sit in

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between Sunny and Italian old and would and her would

474
00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:10,680
go to the park.

475
00:22:10,759 --> 00:22:12,440
Speaker 2: I want to hear before we get to we have

476
00:22:12,599 --> 00:22:15,359
listener questions for you. But I'm curious as to what

477
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:20,880
pet peeves you have about other nannies who you know.

478
00:22:22,799 --> 00:22:25,799
Speaker 1: Where to begin? Ah, you know, I don't know.

479
00:22:26,039 --> 00:22:29,519
Speaker 4: I don't like I don't like being gossiping, and I

480
00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:33,599
can feel when somebody's like that if I listen to

481
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,640
them for a little bit and I see that on them,

482
00:22:36,839 --> 00:22:39,640
I go like, mmm, I'm out of here.

483
00:22:40,039 --> 00:22:42,880
Speaker 1: She has been that way, Yeah, she's always been. In fact,

484
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:44,880
there was a bunch of nannies in our neighborhood when

485
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:48,480
all of us started that were gossipers, and then they

486
00:22:48,519 --> 00:22:51,359
would mooch off of you know when you would go

487
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,880
to those those playrooms and you would buy like, you know,

488
00:22:55,039 --> 00:22:58,240
ten visits or whatever. Right, so all the I bought

489
00:22:58,319 --> 00:23:01,759
like ten visits or and then they would they their

490
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:06,960
their bosses bought their visits too, but instead they pocketed

491
00:23:07,039 --> 00:23:10,039
the money and would go off of our visits the

492
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:12,519
first time. And Olga kicked them to the curb after that,

493
00:23:12,759 --> 00:23:15,839
yeah she's good, oh yeah, and ratted them out.

494
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 4: She was like, uh, I don't like that when people

495
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,400
tried to take advantage of the other people good.

496
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,079
Speaker 1: In fact, Olga had to sit down with me last

497
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:32,000
Friday about our she doesn't listen our cleaning lady, and

498
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:34,039
that she's taken a little bit of advantage of us.

499
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 4: She said, really, that's how I feel, That's how I

500
00:23:37,519 --> 00:23:41,279
see it at the home, and I don't like that that.

501
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 1: She could spend extra time sometimes she doesn't have time,

502
00:23:44,559 --> 00:23:46,160
she has to go get her kid. But then sometimes

503
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:49,799
there's times where she can stay extra long and do

504
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:52,720
some things that she should be doing and that she's

505
00:23:52,759 --> 00:23:55,480
not doing. But and I don't notice it, and she

506
00:23:55,640 --> 00:24:00,400
just but Olga does because Olga's a perfectionist, and so

507
00:24:01,039 --> 00:24:04,440
she shratted her out. Yeah, what are you talking about? What?

508
00:24:05,039 --> 00:24:05,799
What are you talking about?

509
00:24:05,839 --> 00:24:07,599
Speaker 3: Gary looks at your screen.

510
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:12,160
Speaker 2: Oh, oh, oh.

511
00:24:14,799 --> 00:24:15,160
Speaker 4: You did.

512
00:24:15,279 --> 00:24:19,119
Speaker 1: I didn't even know you had her. Yeah, really, how'd

513
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:19,559
you get her?

514
00:24:20,079 --> 00:24:21,799
Speaker 2: Gary? Fired her? Is what he's trying to say.

515
00:24:22,039 --> 00:24:26,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the same person. It's uh, it's Daniel Daniel right.

516
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 1: No, that's uh, that's Olga's nephew. Oh yeah, we're talking

517
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:33,880
about somebody else. Okay, good, well you fired Olda's nephew.

518
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 3: We did not hurt not him another guy.

519
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:45,839
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah right, this is sounding very what So what

520
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,559
have you ever seen a nanny, you know, when no

521
00:24:49,759 --> 00:24:52,400
parents were around, and it was nanny's be mean to

522
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:52,799
a kid?

523
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:54,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, m.

524
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 1: What do you do say at the park or something

525
00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:02,000
like strange nanny's Yeah that you don't know what they do.

526
00:25:03,279 --> 00:25:08,559
Speaker 4: They're just mean, they're they're just uh, they're not appropriate

527
00:25:08,599 --> 00:25:14,000
the way they they correct their behavior, and do you

528
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:14,640
say anything?

529
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 1: Do you interrupt or say anything? Uh?

530
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 4: If I don't know the nanny, no, I don't want

531
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:24,160
to get involved involved.

532
00:25:25,279 --> 00:25:28,559
Speaker 2: But how can parents be How can parents figure out

533
00:25:28,599 --> 00:25:31,279
though if maybe their nanny is behind their back not

534
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:32,400
being great to their kids.

535
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 4: They gotta see the baby or the kid how it's

536
00:25:37,519 --> 00:25:40,960
behaving when he's at home with the nanny. If they

537
00:25:41,039 --> 00:25:45,480
see that, they don't the baby is always trying to

538
00:25:45,559 --> 00:25:48,200
get away from the nanny and be with the parents,

539
00:25:48,279 --> 00:25:51,640
Like Natalia's with me because I'm strict with her, that

540
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:52,599
I'm mean with her.

541
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:57,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the thing. How can you tell it's just

542
00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:02,000
because you're being stress or if it's because the nanny's

543
00:26:02,039 --> 00:26:03,440
really not being nice to your.

544
00:26:03,519 --> 00:26:06,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm gonna guess nowadays that there's a lot

545
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:11,079
of parents that aren't that don't that don't discipline, But

546
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:13,960
there's a lot of old school nannies that do discipline

547
00:26:14,079 --> 00:26:16,559
in the right correct way. But then when there's an

548
00:26:16,599 --> 00:26:19,160
only child, say, and the child wants to hang out

549
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,759
with the mama all day because mama doesn't discipline and

550
00:26:21,839 --> 00:26:23,680
lets them eat candy all day long, and then the

551
00:26:24,319 --> 00:26:26,640
old school nanny shows up and they are like, I

552
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:28,160
don't want to be with her. I don't want to

553
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:30,200
go with her. And then it's like, well, what is

554
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:34,279
she doing to my daughter? She's not letting me snicker

555
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,400
bars for lunch, you know. How do you know?

556
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 2: That's the thing.

557
00:26:37,839 --> 00:26:42,079
Speaker 4: You know, the thing with Natalia here, it's like she

558
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:48,279
goes with Lenanne and she complains about me, But Lena

559
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:52,039
knows how Natalia is, and she can see how Natalia

560
00:26:52,599 --> 00:26:55,599
loves me and how how I love her too. It's

561
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:59,759
not like always, you know, discipline, discipline all the time.

562
00:27:00,279 --> 00:27:00,960
I would think when.

563
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:05,279
Speaker 2: Sometimes people are fake, what do you mean sometimes nanny's well,

564
00:27:05,279 --> 00:27:09,039
I'm sure when they come over, are like ohh And

565
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:10,799
then when they're with the kid, it's a different story.

566
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,279
They either ignore the kid or I get so upset

567
00:27:14,839 --> 00:27:16,640
because there's been a lot of stories in the news

568
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:22,000
recently about nanny's abusing kids, you know, and you see

569
00:27:22,079 --> 00:27:24,480
kids with bruises and you just go, oh my god,

570
00:27:24,759 --> 00:27:27,240
how like how does that happen? I don't know about it,

571
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:30,440
and people see it on their nanny cam or they

572
00:27:30,519 --> 00:27:35,799
figure it out. I uh, I mean, you know, here's

573
00:27:35,799 --> 00:27:39,799
the thing. I'm not an abuser Okay, do you love

574
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:43,359
anything that's prefaced. I'm not an abuser, but but when

575
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,000
I was a kid and babysitting, you know, it was

576
00:27:46,039 --> 00:27:48,359
a different time. But I can tell you that I

577
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,599
did not like babysitting. I didn't even particularly like kids.

578
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:53,680
It was just like I was thirteen, and you know,

579
00:27:53,799 --> 00:27:55,440
people wanted to pay me a couple of bucks an

580
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,279
hour to watch their little shits is they were, in

581
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:01,119
my opinion, all right, but I'm gonna hurry up and

582
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,039
get them to bed, like do what I need to

583
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,000
do so that I could get on their phone start

584
00:28:05,039 --> 00:28:08,000
making long distance phone calls. Right, you know, there's no

585
00:28:08,519 --> 00:28:13,440
watch eat their snacks like that's what I was interested in.

586
00:28:13,559 --> 00:28:16,079
And I'm not proud of how I was. I didn't

587
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:19,240
hurt anybody's kids, of course, and if I did, I

588
00:28:19,279 --> 00:28:22,480
wouldn't be telling the podcast. Well, no, I did not,

589
00:28:22,799 --> 00:28:26,680
but I certainly didn't enjoy their kids or you know,

590
00:28:26,799 --> 00:28:28,960
but I can read that like if I'm hiring a

591
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,319
babysitter now, like I have such high expectations, like I

592
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:34,400
want them to be doing it because they just love

593
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:36,720
kids and they can't wait to spend the evening with

594
00:28:36,839 --> 00:28:37,480
my three kids.

595
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 4: You know, the thing is that a lot of ninnies

596
00:28:41,119 --> 00:28:43,480
they do it just for the money, not because they

597
00:28:43,599 --> 00:28:48,319
like to be with kids. And that's when you have

598
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:51,839
to be careful. You have to see, especially how your

599
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:56,319
kids behave with them, how they stay with them, and

600
00:28:58,279 --> 00:29:02,720
just you can feel, as mom, you have these sense that,

601
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:07,000
oh I have something meat that is not right. It's

602
00:29:07,279 --> 00:29:09,720
something I feel that is not right. You have to

603
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:14,480
follow that. You have to be you're not curious why

604
00:29:14,559 --> 00:29:17,839
you're feeling that right, especially that you know you can

605
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:21,680
see the nanny, oh my love, my baby, you know,

606
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:25,359
saying all these things, but you can tell if it's

607
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,519
fake or if it's real.

608
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 1: Also, you know, old guy, it goes the other way.

609
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:35,279
There's there's been there's nanny's where they're with their kid

610
00:29:35,599 --> 00:29:39,720
and they're supposed to be either disciplining the kid or

611
00:29:40,039 --> 00:29:42,640
making the kid eat better or healthier choices of food,

612
00:29:43,039 --> 00:29:46,799
but instead they coddle the kid and they let the

613
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:49,119
kid get away with shit, and they let the kid.

614
00:29:49,759 --> 00:29:51,920
You know, it's the other way around too. You know,

615
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:53,799
it's not just like a lot of it is.

616
00:29:54,039 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 4: Most of it is.

617
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 1: It's not abuse, it's the other way. It's letting the

618
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:00,519
kid get away with the with murder, you know, and

619
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:03,680
not no disciplining just because they just don't, you know,

620
00:30:03,799 --> 00:30:06,839
they don't want to discipline the kid or something, right, yeah,

621
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:08,400
or they let the kid eat whatever they want.

622
00:30:08,519 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 6: Yeah.

623
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:10,839
Speaker 2: And I feel like it's got to be such a

624
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:14,920
I was so lucky with my nanny and Lynnette you

625
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,279
have the same thing. But when my twins were little,

626
00:30:17,319 --> 00:30:18,880
I was on a book deadline, so I had a

627
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:22,000
nanny at my house to help me with the twins.

628
00:30:22,039 --> 00:30:24,559
But I was home all the time, so I was

629
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:28,440
around her, and that can be hard. I mean, I'm

630
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:30,440
sure it can be really hard for the nanny to

631
00:30:31,279 --> 00:30:34,880
to have to basically be the stand in parent while

632
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,920
the parents there, you know. And so but we just

633
00:30:38,039 --> 00:30:40,200
tried to work with each other, you know, give each

634
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:43,680
other space. I was very not strict with her, you

635
00:30:43,759 --> 00:30:45,400
know what I mean. I just tried to understand, like

636
00:30:45,519 --> 00:30:47,480
I was never going to be somebody who was like, hey,

637
00:30:47,559 --> 00:30:49,759
time to lean, time to clean, Like when the kids

638
00:30:49,759 --> 00:30:51,880
are napping, you better be doing something. I was like, Liz,

639
00:30:52,559 --> 00:30:55,240
lay on the couch and watch some TV, because guess what,

640
00:30:55,359 --> 00:30:56,200
that's what I would be doing.

641
00:30:56,319 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 4: I tell her to do that.

642
00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 1: I gave up years. I told her to do that.

643
00:30:59,359 --> 00:31:01,920
She doesn't do it. That's why Adam likes her. Olga

644
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:03,319
doesn't sit down at all.

645
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,319
Speaker 2: But especially when my twins were little, it was hard.

646
00:31:07,839 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 1: When they're sleeping and stuff.

647
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:12,359
Speaker 2: It's so constant, you know. Yeah, I'm sure if it

648
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:14,720
was now, it would be it would be different. But

649
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:18,599
I'm just saying. I mean, Liz was amazing, and but

650
00:31:19,039 --> 00:31:20,720
part of the reason I felt so good was because

651
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:23,079
I could see how my kids responded to her. You know,

652
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:24,880
they were so sad. They were sad. At the end

653
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:26,839
of the day when she left, they were at the window,

654
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:31,319
their little faces against the window. Bye Liz, Bye, Nana.

655
00:31:32,559 --> 00:31:33,599
Speaker 4: Yeah bye.

656
00:31:33,759 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 1: Okay, Well you got some Facebook questions for old Guy. Okay, okay,

657
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:45,680
you're ready Oga, All right, let's see. Okay, what's the

658
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,640
What perks does Oga get from being our nanny or

659
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:52,920
being your nanny? Vacations, good car, medical, et cetera. What

660
00:31:53,039 --> 00:31:58,039
perks do you get? Old Gay a lot be the

661
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:06,680
famous nanny in the world and nanny did a Aceman nanberries, Oh,

662
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,559
I'll have What perks do you get? Well? They want

663
00:32:09,599 --> 00:32:10,920
to know, they want to know what do you get

664
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,640
you get? Do you get your Do you get vacations, yes,

665
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:19,400
I do when uh, when I ask, are they paid vacations?

666
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 4: Yeah?

667
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 2: They are nice. Do you get sick days?

668
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 4: Yes?

669
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,759
Speaker 2: Do you get if you need to leave early? Is

670
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,279
the family you work for cool with that? Or do

671
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:28,799
they go?

672
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:29,279
Speaker 6: No?

673
00:32:30,039 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 4: Sometimes I can tell Lene doesn't like it. I'm just kidding. No,

674
00:32:33,599 --> 00:32:36,000
she just goes, go ahead, leave, But I have to

675
00:32:36,039 --> 00:32:37,079
tell her with time.

676
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:40,519
Speaker 1: Oh no, but hold on, how often do you ever

677
00:32:40,599 --> 00:32:41,079
leave early?

678
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 4: A lot of times?

679
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:44,359
Speaker 1: Never?

680
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:45,079
Speaker 3: Never.

681
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:49,759
Speaker 1: Olga's never sick ever. I mean that I can say

682
00:32:49,799 --> 00:32:54,119
that she's never. Really one time, once in a while,

683
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,839
and this ship's going around, she gets sick, and I

684
00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:00,200
hate it too, because then she's sick. But then she's

685
00:33:00,279 --> 00:33:03,119
never sick. She doesn't ever if she asks her occasion,

686
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:04,559
she asks her way in advance.

687
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:05,359
Speaker 2: Uh.

688
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,359
Speaker 1: She The only time of the year that she's gone

689
00:33:08,559 --> 00:33:11,880
is the week between Christmas and New Year's. Otherwise she's around.

690
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:17,400
She's always around, and she's not. She takes longer, she doesn't.

691
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:19,319
She takes her time. She knows, she doesn't. She's not

692
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:22,680
on a clock. She just comes when, you know, whenever

693
00:33:22,799 --> 00:33:25,119
I need her to come. And then she stays until

694
00:33:25,839 --> 00:33:29,319
she's done or whatever. She's not. So anyway, she's salary.

695
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:34,559
She has that, she's paid salary. But what else? What else?

696
00:33:34,759 --> 00:33:36,799
Speaker 2: I have a wait? I have another question for you

697
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:41,920
to Kashee. What kind of a name is Kashi?

698
00:33:42,319 --> 00:33:43,079
Speaker 1: That's an energy.

699
00:33:44,319 --> 00:33:47,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a kind of a rice m. Just

700
00:33:47,319 --> 00:33:51,680
to let you know, Kashi Kashi. Davis uh says what

701
00:33:51,839 --> 00:33:55,880
do you do when your parenting style differs from Lynette's Adams?

702
00:33:56,319 --> 00:33:57,799
Do you always defer to them?

703
00:33:58,400 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 1: Does Adam have a parenting style?

704
00:34:01,319 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 7: Uh?

705
00:34:02,559 --> 00:34:07,599
Speaker 4: Yes, Sometimes when Natalia is not doing what she's supposed

706
00:34:07,599 --> 00:34:12,079
to be doing what she he just talked to her

707
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:13,639
firmly and she does what?

708
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:16,639
Speaker 1: He like what I imitate him? Oh?

709
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:17,280
Speaker 4: I can't.

710
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 2: How does he do it?

711
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:19,519
Speaker 4: Natalia?

712
00:34:20,159 --> 00:34:20,360
Speaker 1: Yeah?

713
00:34:20,599 --> 00:34:21,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, there you go.

714
00:34:21,679 --> 00:34:22,519
Speaker 2: Look at are two girls.

715
00:34:22,559 --> 00:34:28,360
Speaker 1: They look alike. So so he says, Natalia, Natalia, Uh, huh,

716
00:34:29,119 --> 00:34:29,760
stop doing that.

717
00:34:30,199 --> 00:34:32,199
Speaker 4: Listen to all guys. When I'm talking to her, or

718
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:37,079
if Lynette is talking to her, she goes, Natalia, mommy

719
00:34:37,119 --> 00:34:40,360
is saying no, and she listens to her. You know

720
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:41,079
she's Uh.

721
00:34:41,639 --> 00:34:43,599
Speaker 2: But if you have a difference, do you ever have

722
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:46,239
a difference of opinion in how the kids should be

723
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:47,199
parent you know, you.

724
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:50,599
Speaker 4: Know, with Lynette, because we are the ones who work

725
00:34:50,639 --> 00:34:55,360
together with them. Adam is always working, always out, but

726
00:34:55,559 --> 00:35:01,480
with her, with her is uh, it's that I want

727
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:04,400
the one that I talked to her, that I talk

728
00:35:05,199 --> 00:35:09,840
and sometimes we don't agree, but we have to we

729
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,639
have to work. We have to work together and make

730
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:16,519
things work, not because for us but for them.

731
00:35:17,039 --> 00:35:21,280
Speaker 2: Right has lenever has Lynette ever said Olga my way

732
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:21,960
or the highway?

733
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:26,599
Speaker 1: No, no, because I have to ask Olga how to

734
00:35:26,679 --> 00:35:28,199
do it, because I don't know how to do it.

735
00:35:28,599 --> 00:35:31,920
She she says, this way or the highway, Lynette, or

736
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:34,280
You're going to be in big trouble in ten years,

737
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:40,480
so you better listen to me. It's gotta be oh yeah, yeah, yeah.

738
00:35:40,559 --> 00:35:42,840
Well because I'm not paying attention, I don't really notice.

739
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:45,639
And then we'll go, Lynette, we need to talk.

740
00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 2: You cannot let You've made her an old Italian woman, but.

741
00:35:51,199 --> 00:35:52,639
Speaker 4: That's how that's how I talk.

742
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 2: Do you want to compezza?

743
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 1: So she she will tell me that this is not

744
00:35:59,639 --> 00:36:02,320
the you know, you can't let them no, no, no, no, no,

745
00:36:02,519 --> 00:36:05,920
you shouldn't be doing that. You better be you know

746
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:09,639
that kind of stuff. But Olga does have a different style.

747
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:14,920
Olga does believe in spankings. Yeah, I do, yeah, and

748
00:36:15,079 --> 00:36:15,440
we don't.

749
00:36:15,519 --> 00:36:19,079
Speaker 4: I'm not. I'm not saying to spink like killing them

750
00:36:19,559 --> 00:36:20,760
and getting all bruised up.

751
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:21,400
Speaker 2: I hope not.

752
00:36:22,199 --> 00:36:24,639
Speaker 4: You know, I'm not. I'm not saying that would be illegal.

753
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 1: I know, I know, I know, but I do.

754
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 4: I do believe in spanking for when.

755
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:35,599
Speaker 2: When the parents aren't watching, especially that especially at those.

756
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 1: Moments like at all the time or sometimes no no

757
00:36:38,119 --> 00:36:40,280
no no no no no no, not a specific time.

758
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, sometimes skates, sometimes skates needed and some

759
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:46,599
kids don't need any of that.

760
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 2: You know, like when the kids watching the TV and

761
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,599
the volumes a little too loud, spanking.

762
00:36:51,519 --> 00:36:57,760
Speaker 4: No, the chank cloud, the sandal shows, the sandal, so

763
00:36:57,880 --> 00:36:59,920
then the hit. Now you know what happened about.

764
00:37:00,159 --> 00:37:01,360
Speaker 1: Here's here's the listen.

765
00:37:01,679 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 4: Okay.

766
00:37:02,079 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 1: So Natalia was looking forward to going to Raging Waters

767
00:37:05,159 --> 00:37:07,760
on the Thursday right last week, and she was so

768
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,639
looking forward to her and it's all she talked about.

769
00:37:11,079 --> 00:37:14,280
The night before Wednesday night, Olga and the kids went

770
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,679
out for a walk with the dog. They came back

771
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:20,639
in and Olga said, uh, did you Natalia told you?

772
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:22,400
Tell you what happened? I said, no, what happened? And

773
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:25,440
she said she ran into the street without saying anything

774
00:37:25,519 --> 00:37:28,239
to me, and without looking, she just ran across the street.

775
00:37:29,079 --> 00:37:32,719
And I lost. I got pissed off because that's one

776
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:36,000
thing that you just don't that doesn't fly. I get.

777
00:37:36,199 --> 00:37:38,360
I got really mad and I said, and they know that.

778
00:37:38,559 --> 00:37:41,960
And I said, Natalia, what happened? And then then Olga

779
00:37:42,039 --> 00:37:44,239
told me that she said, Mommy says we can do that,

780
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:47,119
and that that threw me on. Then she lied on

781
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:50,400
top of it, and so I basically said, Natalia, And

782
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,119
the first thing that popped in my head was you

783
00:37:52,199 --> 00:37:55,800
know what, no raging waters tomorrow. Well, she lost her shit.

784
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:59,559
She was crying hysterically, you know that feeling like please

785
00:38:00,599 --> 00:38:02,199
but I've never seen her so, I mean, she was

786
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,719
so upset that coming out of your skin anxiety. And

787
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:07,840
this was at bedtime. She was trying. I was putting

788
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:11,000
on the bed and she was crying hysteric. Boase she

789
00:38:11,079 --> 00:38:14,599
put her pillow over. I know I couldn't, but this

790
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:16,719
was she ran and there was a truck coming and

791
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:17,840
she ran into the street.

792
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,320
Speaker 4: Where that was the second time. This was two times

793
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:22,039
she did it on the wall she was trying the

794
00:38:22,119 --> 00:38:24,480
second time to run across the street, and that street

795
00:38:24,639 --> 00:38:27,079
was very busy. The first one wasn't that busy, but

796
00:38:27,599 --> 00:38:29,800
the second one was busy, and I was like, just

797
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:35,000
because she was going to cross, Sonny wasn't one side,

798
00:38:35,119 --> 00:38:37,840
Molly was with me and Tolly was on the other side.

799
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:39,679
Speaker 1: Was like, no, it's hard when you have the three

800
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:42,280
of them the blind dog bumping in the show. So

801
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:46,679
when it happened, so I couldn't. I regretted. I said

802
00:38:46,679 --> 00:38:48,760
that in my head because I'd rather have given her

803
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:51,719
a better punishment, because obviously I was like, I'm not

804
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:54,199
gonna I don't know, I could have taken it away

805
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:55,960
from her. I was going to at that moment. I

806
00:38:56,119 --> 00:38:58,599
was not gonna let her go. And then in my

807
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:01,079
head I was like, and I think of something else.

808
00:39:01,639 --> 00:39:04,480
And she was crying, and I look over and Sonny's

809
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:07,159
in his bed and his lip is out and his

810
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:10,639
tears are silently going down his face, and he goes, Mom,

811
00:39:11,079 --> 00:39:13,639
why don't you just discipline me? And I said, what

812
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,199
are you talking about? He goes, You're being too hard

813
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:19,880
on her. Just disciplined me. She really wants to go,

814
00:39:20,119 --> 00:39:22,440
and don't do that to her and Tali got up

815
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,599
and she hugged Sonny, Sonny, thank you, and she hugged

816
00:39:25,639 --> 00:39:27,880
They both were crying and each other so hard.

817
00:39:28,079 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 2: God.

818
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 1: So then I said, all right, all right, all right now, uh,

819
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:38,360
I just tell you I told him, you know, I

820
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:40,920
told her listen, you know, we had a long talk

821
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:42,920
and she knew what she did was wrong. And then

822
00:39:43,039 --> 00:39:46,079
I said, you know, next time you're I'm going to

823
00:39:46,119 --> 00:39:48,840
have a consequence for you, and I'm going to think

824
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:51,199
about what that's going to be. And now she learned

825
00:39:51,199 --> 00:39:52,360
her last than I think I would have.

826
00:39:56,159 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 2: You asked for it.

827
00:39:57,079 --> 00:39:59,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, all right, then you can't. Well he didn't

828
00:39:59,679 --> 00:40:02,880
real didn't want to go to rag, all right, so

829
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:04,519
she will have another question for all.

830
00:40:05,639 --> 00:40:07,079
Speaker 2: I just want to know that did we ask this

831
00:40:07,199 --> 00:40:09,639
last time? If she thinks that parents these days are

832
00:40:09,679 --> 00:40:10,400
just too indulgent?

833
00:40:12,039 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 1: The answer well to the yes, yes.

834
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 4: What do they need?

835
00:40:16,159 --> 00:40:18,079
Speaker 2: More more strict parents?

836
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:19,079
Speaker 7: Less?

837
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:23,079
Speaker 2: I mean less gadgets to play with? What is it

838
00:40:23,159 --> 00:40:23,960
that will help us?

839
00:40:24,599 --> 00:40:24,639
Speaker 1: No?

840
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:27,159
Speaker 2: No, No, more responsibilities, more chores.

841
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:28,360
Speaker 1: No.

842
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 4: You know what parents need now is to be in charge.

843
00:40:34,559 --> 00:40:38,920
Because I see that it's not the parent in charge

844
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:42,039
is the kid. You know, whatever the kids are they

845
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:45,159
go and do it and the parent go no, don't

846
00:40:45,199 --> 00:40:49,000
do that, and they do it anyway. Yeah, they need

847
00:40:49,119 --> 00:40:52,760
to be in charge. You know, they're the adults. They're

848
00:40:53,039 --> 00:40:56,000
the mom and the dad. You know, the kid doesn't.

849
00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:59,360
The kid is not in charge. You have to teach

850
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:01,480
you your key what he can do and what he

851
00:41:01,599 --> 00:41:03,519
can not do. Oh I have followed?

852
00:41:04,679 --> 00:41:08,880
Speaker 2: Is uh are my kids in there? Okay? I have

853
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:14,199
a really quick story for you that kind of illustrates this. So, so, Elbie,

854
00:41:14,519 --> 00:41:18,320
my daughter is here. So this is not really like her,

855
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:20,440
but there is a little girl that she was refusing

856
00:41:20,519 --> 00:41:21,840
to have a play date with. Did I tell you

857
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:24,440
this the last time we were on the podcast? She

858
00:41:24,679 --> 00:41:26,679
there's no good reason. The girl, well, this is a

859
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:31,239
This girl is super sweet. There's nothing wrong with her

860
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:34,159
that I could see. But I asked Albie if she

861
00:41:34,159 --> 00:41:35,320
wanted to have a play date with her, and she

862
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:39,360
said no. And so the and the mom is really

863
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:41,199
cool too. I think I've told you about this. I

864
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:43,880
am anyway, long story short. I was going along with

865
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,000
it because I thought, well, I don't want to force

866
00:41:46,039 --> 00:41:47,599
her to do something she doesn't want to do. And

867
00:41:47,679 --> 00:41:49,199
you know, she has plenty of friends that she can

868
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:51,840
play with. But I was feeling kind of bad because

869
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:53,960
the mom kept texting me saying, how about today, how

870
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,159
about today, and I'd write back, no, we're busy today,

871
00:41:56,239 --> 00:42:01,519
or Elbe's tired. So finally and then I got them together,

872
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,440
her and this little girl with another kid, because I said,

873
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:07,159
maybe if there's someone else there, they can play and

874
00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:08,639
I can kind of keep an eye on it and

875
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,360
see if the girl's doing something that's really wrong. Well,

876
00:42:11,679 --> 00:42:13,760
sure enough, No, she didn't do anything wrong. She was

877
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:16,039
like a sweet kid. I don't know. I think Elbi

878
00:42:16,159 --> 00:42:19,280
had just gotten kind of rigid in like she made

879
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:20,760
a decision I'm not going to play with her, and

880
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:25,400
then she just made herself anxious about it. So the

881
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:29,559
other day the mom texted me and I said, to Elbe,

882
00:42:29,679 --> 00:42:32,039
how about we have a play date and she said, no,

883
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:35,840
I still don't want to. And then I said, you

884
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,199
know what, We're going to have a playdate with her.

885
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:40,960
So I texted the mom back and I said, sure,

886
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:42,519
we're going to get together. And then I said, listen,

887
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:47,360
you just can't make a decision. I said, she's our neighbor.

888
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:50,960
You're also in going to be seeing her a lot

889
00:42:51,199 --> 00:42:53,679
and you know, if there's a problem, then we need

890
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:55,519
to work it out, and you need to You're going

891
00:42:55,599 --> 00:42:57,199
to have to be honest with the girl and tell

892
00:42:57,239 --> 00:43:00,800
her if there's a problem. And because it's just not

893
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:02,519
gonna fly, you just can't avoid her for the right,

894
00:43:02,599 --> 00:43:04,280
you know what I mean. And I thought, if it

895
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:06,480
was a kid that really was not somebody that I

896
00:43:06,679 --> 00:43:11,119
enjoy either, then fine, it's one thing. But there's nothing

897
00:43:11,159 --> 00:43:12,840
wrong with this girl and she can't just do that.

898
00:43:13,039 --> 00:43:17,519
So anyway, we got together. She's sulked, she cried about it.

899
00:43:17,679 --> 00:43:20,320
She said, I don't want to do it, and I said, well,

900
00:43:21,039 --> 00:43:25,639
is happening, So I said, and you know, if anything

901
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:27,559
goes wrong, then you can tell you will talk to

902
00:43:27,599 --> 00:43:29,480
her and tell her what's wrong. If she still doesn't

903
00:43:29,559 --> 00:43:32,760
act right, if that is the problem, then we can

904
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:35,800
have her go home. So sure enough, the girl, uh oh.

905
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:38,360
And I said, let's go to Michael's and get you

906
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:41,000
guys something to do, just so that you have like

907
00:43:41,119 --> 00:43:44,280
a task. So we went to Michael's and then all

908
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,800
of a sudden, once it kind of soaked in that

909
00:43:48,199 --> 00:43:50,480
this was happening, she got kind of in a better

910
00:43:50,559 --> 00:43:52,119
mood about it, and she was like, oh, I'm kind

911
00:43:52,119 --> 00:43:55,400
of happy. It's gonna be fun. Then the girl came over.

912
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:58,760
They had a grand old time all day. She was

913
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:02,400
so happy, and I thought, that's just because I didn't

914
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:05,280
let her make all the decisions, because I actually I

915
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:06,960
felt good about it, like, oh, I stepped up and

916
00:44:07,039 --> 00:44:09,639
parented right. And then I told my a friend of

917
00:44:09,679 --> 00:44:11,679
mine about it, who knows the girl, and she was like,

918
00:44:12,119 --> 00:44:14,880
I just had a similar experience. I realized that my

919
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:17,920
daughter's not in charge. She I get to call the

920
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:21,559
shots something exactly parents, she said, So she did something

921
00:44:21,599 --> 00:44:26,519
where she told her daughter what was happening, and I realized, like, yeah,

922
00:44:26,559 --> 00:44:30,199
I think that without realizing it. Sometimes you're absolutely right.

923
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:32,719
We give them the power to decide what they're going

924
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:34,159
to do, when they're going to do it, who they're

925
00:44:34,159 --> 00:44:36,440
going to hang out with, and like, sometimes they're wrong.

926
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:39,159
Speaker 4: Olga agree some time. Most of the time, most of

927
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:42,000
the time you're teaching them. You have to teach them

928
00:44:43,159 --> 00:44:45,559
instead of letting do it because.

929
00:44:45,519 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 1: They don't want to or they don't like her or whatever. Yeah,

930
00:44:49,159 --> 00:44:52,440
it's true, it's true, and you'd be surprised. I think

931
00:44:52,519 --> 00:44:54,599
we should do that once at least once a week.

932
00:44:55,079 --> 00:44:57,400
Every parent should just say, you know what, I'm making

933
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,920
the decision. I say we are going to do it,

934
00:45:00,199 --> 00:45:03,880
and do it and then see what happens, because yeah,

935
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,440
that's you know what it is at least once because

936
00:45:06,559 --> 00:45:07,840
I think, challenge Stephanie.

937
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 2: It's so funny.

938
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 4: Can you say this?

939
00:45:10,199 --> 00:45:12,880
Speaker 1: Because just yesterday or two days ago, I was at

940
00:45:13,679 --> 00:45:16,079
the house, the new house, and I was working all

941
00:45:16,159 --> 00:45:18,960
day over there, and I was just like sweating and

942
00:45:19,159 --> 00:45:22,280
hot and tired, and it was. I was there from

943
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:25,360
ten thirty eleven until I don't know four o'clock without

944
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:28,639
eating a single thing all day. And Olga and the

945
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:30,760
kids were there, and Adam was there, and everybody was

946
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:32,480
coming and going. But I was there all day and

947
00:45:32,599 --> 00:45:35,000
then Old the kids were there and I said, now

948
00:45:35,039 --> 00:45:36,760
I was done. And I said, okay, well what are

949
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:38,719
we doing? I had Sonny wanted to play basketball. I

950
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:41,920
played basketball with him. Now now I'm starving. I'm going

951
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:42,880
to go get something to eat.

952
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 4: And she says.

953
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,679
Speaker 1: August says, well, these kids are going to go. I said,

954
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:48,280
you guys want to go get something to eat? And

955
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:51,679
they already ate and August says, no, we'll go with you.

956
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:53,199
Where are you going to go? And I said, I

957
00:45:53,199 --> 00:45:54,440
was just going to go up the street and sit

958
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:56,480
down and have a piece of pizza or something. And

959
00:45:56,599 --> 00:45:58,159
August say is, well, we'll go with you. The kids,

960
00:45:58,199 --> 00:45:59,880
I said, they're not hungry, they already each because so

961
00:46:00,079 --> 00:46:00,960
they can go and sit with you.

962
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 4: And they did.

963
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:06,559
Speaker 1: They sat there with me in a restaurant while I ate,

964
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:10,239
and you know, they fought over the phone and to

965
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:11,920
play with the phone, and they were bored to tears

966
00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:14,119
and itally got a little restless.

967
00:46:14,199 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, but we always get to enjoy every single activity,

968
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:17,800
right not.

969
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,599
Speaker 1: Every day is a freaking commercial for you know, the

970
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:23,960
water park. So they have to do, you know, And

971
00:46:24,039 --> 00:46:25,039
so they said, I love this.

972
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:26,519
Speaker 2: I know it's empowering.

973
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:30,559
Speaker 1: Yes, August has empower yourselves out there and make the decision.

974
00:46:30,639 --> 00:46:33,559
Speaker 2: We spen. We try too hard to make our kids

975
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:36,880
like us and to and to be their friend instead

976
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:40,159
of like the parent. But when you're the parent, they're

977
00:46:40,199 --> 00:46:42,599
gonna like you anyway. Of course, cool, But you know what,

978
00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:44,159
it's also tiring.

979
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:44,880
Speaker 4: It's also.

980
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:50,559
Speaker 1: It's also tiring because parents don't want to do the battle.

981
00:46:50,599 --> 00:46:51,960
They don't want to go you know what you're doing.

982
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:54,320
There's a battle that they have to instead of they

983
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:56,519
just go at fuck it all right, stay home, or.

984
00:46:56,519 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 2: I want to see our kids sulk? Right, yeah, because

985
00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:00,719
it because up until that point that I made that

986
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:03,079
decision that that was something that my daughter needed to do.

987
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:06,320
Of course, I don't want to watch her soul. I

988
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:07,840
don't want to see her be sad and have to

989
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:09,760
play with somebody we want to play with, right, but

990
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:13,480
that never happens. That needed to happen one way or another.

991
00:47:13,519 --> 00:47:16,000
It could have gone badly, but it went it went fine.

992
00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:19,159
But either way we needed to find out, right because

993
00:47:19,519 --> 00:47:22,199
as adults, we have to be around people we don't

994
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:25,119
like sometimes, so we have to deal with you.

995
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 4: You got to teach your kids that too. You know,

996
00:47:28,679 --> 00:47:32,239
this life is not just happy, happy, happy all the time.

997
00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 2: You know that time about depression, just crushing depression and

998
00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:41,320
uh you know prison time. Right, they should all watch

999
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:44,159
Orange Is the New Blacks. I think that's like I

1000
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:44,480
have a.

1001
00:47:44,559 --> 00:47:48,320
Speaker 4: Question for you when your when your daughters came to

1002
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:50,000
you and said I don't want to play with her?

1003
00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:53,360
Was the play date in her house or wasn't your house?

1004
00:47:55,159 --> 00:47:57,559
Speaker 2: Both? First, she said she didn't want to go to

1005
00:47:57,639 --> 00:47:59,679
the other girl's house because it was boring and there

1006
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:02,239
wasn't anything to do there, and she didn't want to

1007
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:07,840
play at my house because she said that the other

1008
00:48:08,039 --> 00:48:11,480
little girl was too bossy and also oftentimes wanted to

1009
00:48:11,519 --> 00:48:18,559
play with her sisters and not her, and that she

1010
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:21,239
the other little girl, didn't listen to her, and when

1011
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:23,119
she tried to tell her she was being bossy, she

1012
00:48:23,159 --> 00:48:24,800
didn't want to. She didn't want to listen. She only

1013
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:25,920
wanted to do what she wanted to do.

1014
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 4: Okay, that's the reason for her for her not to

1015
00:48:30,039 --> 00:48:30,679
want to play.

1016
00:48:30,519 --> 00:48:34,079
Speaker 2: With her, But she'd I'd see I'd been around them

1017
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:36,519
having play dates, and I had not seen that, do

1018
00:48:36,559 --> 00:48:38,599
you know what I mean? And if i'd seen it,

1019
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:41,079
it would be different, Like there have been a couple

1020
00:48:41,119 --> 00:48:44,920
of kids, but she's tolerated much bossier behavior than this girl.

1021
00:48:45,559 --> 00:48:48,480
And I just had a feeling that she just decided

1022
00:48:48,559 --> 00:48:50,159
she didn't want to and then, like I said, got

1023
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:53,480
really rigid about it because I figured the other girl

1024
00:48:53,599 --> 00:48:56,639
she's really sweet, Like I knew that she's the kind

1025
00:48:56,639 --> 00:48:58,840
of girl that if Elbie had just been honest and said,

1026
00:48:59,519 --> 00:49:01,599
I feel like you're being too bossy, that she would

1027
00:49:01,639 --> 00:49:04,559
have it. She would have realized, oh, I'm hurting her

1028
00:49:04,599 --> 00:49:06,599
feelings and this, you know what I mean, This little

1029
00:49:06,599 --> 00:49:08,159
girl really likes her, right.

1030
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:14,760
Speaker 4: Sah, you're gonna talk. You're gonna have figure out, you know,

1031
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:19,679
next time, try to get the truth out of her, like, Okay,

1032
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:24,719
we're gonna do this, and you tell me what's going

1033
00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:28,360
on or we're doing this, give me a reason why.

1034
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 2: Well I did do that, and and at first she

1035
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:34,679
didn't want to tell me, but then she did tell

1036
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:37,079
me the thing about the bossiness and and that, and

1037
00:49:37,199 --> 00:49:41,079
I felt like that's that's a reason. But it's not

1038
00:49:41,199 --> 00:49:43,679
a good enough reason to never see the girl again.

1039
00:49:44,639 --> 00:49:46,719
It's not like she was hitting her. It's not do

1040
00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:48,559
you know what I mean. It's not a good enough

1041
00:49:48,639 --> 00:49:51,199
reason to not try one more time and to be

1042
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:53,760
honest and communicate with her her feelings. She needed to

1043
00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:54,280
practice doing.

1044
00:49:54,559 --> 00:49:56,159
Speaker 4: The thing is that she's fine with her now.

1045
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:58,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, she loved her, she'd had a great time.

1046
00:49:58,480 --> 00:49:59,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go.

1047
00:50:00,079 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 2: Okay, let's give Olga a couple more questions, right, yeah,

1048
00:50:03,079 --> 00:50:09,679
you give her one. Okay, uh okay, Oh, here's one

1049
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:14,880
from Cecilia. She needs your advice. Cecilia Salden Negro, Hi,

1050
00:50:15,039 --> 00:50:18,119
old guy, I'm a fellow nanny struggling with a one

1051
00:50:18,159 --> 00:50:20,679
and a half year old boy whose anger, temper and

1052
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:25,239
tantrums easily exceed any one other child his age, how

1053
00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:28,639
would you recommend approaching the parents about having the child

1054
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:32,719
evaluated by a professional. They have mentioned seeking help before

1055
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:36,039
when the behavior changed for the worst, but they haven't

1056
00:50:36,039 --> 00:50:38,519
brought it up again in months. Grateful for any advice.

1057
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:46,480
Speaker 4: When the key is throwing himself or herself on the ground,

1058
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:52,039
just ignored them because that they doing that because of attention.

1059
00:50:52,639 --> 00:50:56,719
They want attention, okay, And if they want to seek

1060
00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:59,840
for help, go ahead and try to talk to their parents.

1061
00:51:00,119 --> 00:51:03,280
You know what they have to this naney, what she

1062
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:06,960
have to do is uh, I don't know if if

1063
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:10,000
she communicates more with the mom or the dad, but

1064
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:13,519
whoever she communicates more, she gotta go and say, you

1065
00:51:13,599 --> 00:51:16,039
know what, we need to talk. This is getting worse

1066
00:51:16,679 --> 00:51:21,320
and we need we need to do something with him

1067
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:23,039
and be on the same page. Yeah, be on the

1068
00:51:23,079 --> 00:51:26,400
same page, because the problem is, uh, this kid is

1069
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:32,159
gonna get worse every single day because nothing is uh no, no, no,

1070
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:36,400
nothing is stopping him for doing that.

1071
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:37,000
Speaker 3: Right.

1072
00:51:37,119 --> 00:51:40,119
Speaker 4: And the thing is that sometimes kids start hurting hurting

1073
00:51:40,199 --> 00:51:43,920
themselves when they do that, when they fall in the floor,

1074
00:51:44,079 --> 00:51:47,400
they drop themselves on the floor, and they can they

1075
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:50,039
can hurt themselves really bad, especially at that age.

1076
00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:52,519
Speaker 2: Do you find though that, and I'm wondering if this

1077
00:51:52,639 --> 00:51:55,760
woman feels that way that parents get very defensive if

1078
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:58,920
you bring up to them that maybe their kid needs help,

1079
00:51:59,039 --> 00:52:01,679
maybe there's an issue. Lynette and I have found that

1080
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:04,880
it's very difficult, even for us as friends of another

1081
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:08,039
mom to bring up like something that might be wrong

1082
00:52:08,079 --> 00:52:09,719
with someone else's kid, you know what I mean. So

1083
00:52:10,159 --> 00:52:12,519
do you find that parents can tend to be very

1084
00:52:12,559 --> 00:52:13,920
defensive and not want to hear about it?

1085
00:52:14,159 --> 00:52:18,679
Speaker 4: You know, when you're a nanny, you're working for them.

1086
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:22,519
You know that kid a lot, and sometimes more than

1087
00:52:22,599 --> 00:52:24,280
the mom and THEDD because you spend a lot of

1088
00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:28,039
time with them, and if they don't want to listen

1089
00:52:28,119 --> 00:52:33,119
to her, that's a bad news for the kid. Yeah,

1090
00:52:33,559 --> 00:52:36,840
m hmm, because that kid is going to be well the.

1091
00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:41,079
Speaker 1: Parents do they are defensive? There's there are going to

1092
00:52:41,119 --> 00:52:44,119
be times where the parent is defensive. I've been defensive,

1093
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:47,480
but you you have to. I think it's up for

1094
00:52:47,679 --> 00:52:49,400
the nanny. I think it's part of the nanny's job

1095
00:52:49,480 --> 00:52:51,280
to bring it up. It has to, you know. I

1096
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:53,880
don't think that the nanny's a shy away from the parents.

1097
00:52:55,639 --> 00:52:58,760
I don't think end up having a you know, I

1098
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:00,719
think it's a they're doing more more damage to the

1099
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:03,880
kid than good. You can't that's like you know, I mean,

1100
00:53:03,960 --> 00:53:05,800
if that's like going to work and knowing that you know,

1101
00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:08,840
the company is not performing well, just like not telling

1102
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:12,840
the parents that you know, the uh whatever, the boss

1103
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:14,840
that the you know, the company could be doing better

1104
00:53:15,079 --> 00:53:17,360
if we did this. You know that that's just doing

1105
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:23,960
more harm than good. I think, great, yeah, yes, yes, yeah.

1106
00:53:24,559 --> 00:53:27,280
I hate calling old on nanny because she's not like

1107
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:29,599
and I said that the other day. I said, oh,

1108
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:32,119
my daughter and my nanny or in the other room,

1109
00:53:32,159 --> 00:53:33,840
we're going to be to the guy at the restaurant

1110
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:36,199
when we sat down to eat the other day and

1111
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:38,239
I was like, I want to say, like my sister

1112
00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:40,199
in law and my because.

1113
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:41,639
Speaker 2: I know I hate it too. I always hated it

1114
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:46,000
without friends with my old nanny live like we're friends,

1115
00:53:46,079 --> 00:53:48,760
Like we're always chatting on Facebook, and you know, like

1116
00:53:49,159 --> 00:53:50,960
when she was even when she was working for me,

1117
00:53:51,039 --> 00:53:52,880
it was hard to I didn't like thinking of her as.

1118
00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:55,840
Speaker 1: It's just so yeah, because you know, I don't know

1119
00:53:56,639 --> 00:53:59,639
Old Guy's part of the family. And that's another question.

1120
00:54:00,159 --> 00:54:05,440
Is that question? H Kimberly Fuller says, will she retire

1121
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:09,840
after Italian sonny? What's oh? H and when?

1122
00:54:10,039 --> 00:54:10,199
Speaker 2: Oh?

1123
00:54:11,199 --> 00:54:13,800
Speaker 1: Oh oh? And when her daughter starts a family? Will

1124
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:18,719
she granny nanny? Well, of course she's going to be

1125
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:21,960
a granny to her daughter kid. But what are you

1126
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:23,800
gonna do when that's true?

1127
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:24,199
Speaker 4: Huh?

1128
00:54:24,679 --> 00:54:25,599
Speaker 1: What are you gonna do when.

1129
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:27,519
Speaker 2: Professional this is what I do for a living.

1130
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:28,159
Speaker 4: Exactly?

1131
00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:30,000
Speaker 2: Do you think I should just throw you a freebie

1132
00:54:30,079 --> 00:54:32,559
because you're my daughter? Ridiculous?

1133
00:54:33,519 --> 00:54:35,159
Speaker 1: What are you gonna do, old guy? When sunny and

1134
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:39,159
Italia's too early to tell.

1135
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:41,280
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1136
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:45,639
Speaker 1: She's gonna stay with us, I don't know. Yeah, she's

1137
00:54:45,639 --> 00:54:46,719
gonna take care of me and Adam.

1138
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:49,880
Speaker 4: Like MA told Natalian tanny that I'm going to look

1139
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:51,280
for another baby.

1140
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:53,719
Speaker 1: Oh my god, when we tease with them that I'm

1141
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:58,039
going to fire old guy or something like that. No, no, no,

1142
00:54:58,519 --> 00:55:01,400
don't doubt she's late because of us. Don't blame her.

1143
00:55:01,559 --> 00:55:03,679
She's only like because we made her light. You know,

1144
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:06,639
you guys are supposed to be only a half hour ago,

1145
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:09,079
and I'm firing, and I'm firing old guy.

1146
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:11,639
Speaker 2: No, how was the water park?

1147
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:13,679
Speaker 1: How was the water park?

1148
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:17,719
Speaker 4: That's how I had a lot of fun. Sunny too, Sunny.

1149
00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:20,559
I thought Sunny wasn't going to be going in the

1150
00:55:20,599 --> 00:55:21,360
big rides.

1151
00:55:21,199 --> 00:55:24,599
Speaker 2: And he did. Really because it's water. Like, which water

1152
00:55:24,639 --> 00:55:25,280
park did you go to?

1153
00:55:25,599 --> 00:55:27,119
Speaker 4: Ranging waters Raging?

1154
00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:28,360
Speaker 2: Is that the one in.

1155
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:30,519
Speaker 4: Sadimas?

1156
00:55:30,639 --> 00:55:31,800
Speaker 1: Yeah? Was it good?

1157
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:35,079
Speaker 3: It was fine When I was a kid. I remember

1158
00:55:35,159 --> 00:55:37,039
going back down when I was like fifteen and thinking,

1159
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:39,280
I don't this is not a good place.

1160
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:44,079
Speaker 1: Gary. How was your trip to uh not Berry Farm?

1161
00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:45,239
Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, it was good.

1162
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:46,760
Speaker 1: It was not farm.

1163
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:49,000
Speaker 2: It was good with your nephew eat he.

1164
00:55:49,440 --> 00:55:52,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, like crazy. Uh we got there. I didn't tell

1165
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:54,880
him where we were going, and then we got there

1166
00:55:55,079 --> 00:55:57,599
and he immediately announced all the rides he wouldn't be

1167
00:55:57,599 --> 00:56:01,199
going on, which was Sunny pretty much all of them.

1168
00:56:02,719 --> 00:56:05,360
He seems to have a sixth sense for things that

1169
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:09,800
aren't included in the price of admission. We did everything

1170
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:14,239
that was an extra, but that was fine. We read

1171
00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:17,079
the Calico Mining Train like four times because it was

1172
00:56:17,079 --> 00:56:18,679
the only ride he was really okay with.

1173
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:21,199
Speaker 2: How old is he? Six?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: Seven? He just it was seventh birthday.

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Speaker 2: It's tough that Elvi was like that.

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Speaker 4: It was fun.

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00:56:29,599 --> 00:56:32,119
Speaker 2: She had a tough time. She did not like rides.

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00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:34,559
Speaker 3: We did the ferris wheel, we did we did some

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00:56:34,679 --> 00:56:37,159
of like the kids stuff, you know. We did another

1181
00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:40,800
little train and we played laser tag and he mined

1182
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:41,480
for gold whatever.

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00:56:41,519 --> 00:56:43,039
Speaker 2: It was sure hanging out with.

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00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:47,079
Speaker 3: Oh, it was great. He and before I had budgeted

1185
00:56:47,159 --> 00:56:50,199
like six hours, and at like hour four and a half,

1186
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:51,400
he was like, I'm tired. Can we go?

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00:56:51,639 --> 00:56:51,840
Speaker 4: Yeah?

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00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:54,039
Speaker 3: All right? Yeah. We got into the car and I

1189
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:56,559
took an awesome picture of us with him just totally

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00:56:56,639 --> 00:56:58,719
passed out in the car like three seconds after we

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00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:01,320
got in. It was fund. We had a great time.

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00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:02,199
Speaker 4: That's cute.

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00:57:03,039 --> 00:57:05,519
Speaker 1: That's cute. You have kids anytime soon? Gary?

1194
00:57:05,639 --> 00:57:06,119
Speaker 3: Absolutely not.

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00:57:08,119 --> 00:57:09,719
Speaker 1: All right, Well, so we should we do one or

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00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:13,679
two more questions? We'll do one more, all right, go ahead?

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00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:18,079
Speaker 2: Fun brook Smith wants to know how did you find

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00:57:18,159 --> 00:57:20,599
old guy? Where can I find a great nanny like her?

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00:57:23,639 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 1: The nanny underground mafia ring that they do down in

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00:57:27,719 --> 00:57:28,800
La No, I'm just kidding.

1201
00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:32,119
Speaker 2: I know you have like you're probably on a list, right,

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00:57:32,239 --> 00:57:32,559
did you do?

1203
00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 1: No?

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00:57:33,559 --> 00:57:36,800
Speaker 2: What like a neighborhood mom's list where people are always

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00:57:36,840 --> 00:57:39,880
That's how I found Liz. Somebody on our neighborhood. A

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00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:43,079
neighborhood mom's list. They once a week gen's list.

1207
00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:45,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, I've seen it. I've heard of it.

1208
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:48,079
Speaker 2: They do like a nanny thing like once a week.

1209
00:57:48,119 --> 00:57:52,119
And somebody said, oh, I have a nanny. She's really awesome,

1210
00:57:52,239 --> 00:57:54,039
she really wants to work in And then it was

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00:57:54,119 --> 00:57:57,400
my neighborhood. Oh, and I was like, oh, well talk

1212
00:57:57,480 --> 00:57:57,679
to her.

1213
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:01,679
Speaker 1: Ah, we should put Eddie Go up on that list. Yeah,

1214
00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:03,800
we have a fellow nanny who's looking for a job.

1215
00:58:05,719 --> 00:58:09,519
So how do I find Olga? I when I was

1216
00:58:09,559 --> 00:58:12,239
pregnant with the twins and Adam said, well, you know,

1217
00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:14,599
good luck with that. We're not I'm gonna be busy

1218
00:58:14,679 --> 00:58:17,840
working filming my movie The Hammer and doing my radio show.

1219
00:58:18,199 --> 00:58:22,360
We better hire help, he said, you know. I said,

1220
00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:25,039
well what, I don't know where to begin. And I

1221
00:58:25,199 --> 00:58:27,840
was at ABC. I was working at ABC and they

1222
00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:32,599
there was like this mom's of ABC network and they said,

1223
00:58:33,119 --> 00:58:36,400
call this agency and uh, it's called the Rose Agency

1224
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:39,039
in Los Angeles. And I called them and I said,

1225
00:58:39,039 --> 00:58:41,599
I need a nanny. And then they sent over a

1226
00:58:41,719 --> 00:58:44,440
bunch of different people for me to interview, and I

1227
00:58:44,639 --> 00:58:46,519
told the story last time Olga was like the sec

1228
00:58:46,599 --> 00:58:49,679
the last it was between Olga and another young girl

1229
00:58:50,199 --> 00:58:52,480
and it was either a young girl. I thought Olga

1230
00:58:52,599 --> 00:58:56,159
is old, but or you know, and my sister in law,

1231
00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:59,519
Wendy said over the phone in Chicago, I described him both,

1232
00:58:59,519 --> 00:59:03,519
and she said, go with the Go with Olga because

1233
00:59:03,519 --> 00:59:06,760
she's gonna parent the way you parent. And she's right,

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00:59:07,199 --> 00:59:10,320
you know, parents the way you know, old school Italian's parent.

1235
00:59:11,599 --> 00:59:13,679
And that's I made the best. And then Adam picked

1236
00:59:13,679 --> 00:59:17,159
the Olga too because because she cooks. And Olga was

1237
00:59:17,159 --> 00:59:19,239
the only one that said can I see the babies

1238
00:59:19,679 --> 00:59:22,840
and wanted to hold them. Nobody else asked to see

1239
00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:23,280
the babies.

1240
00:59:23,519 --> 00:59:29,039
Speaker 2: Isn't that interesting? I'm we're these are not sponsors, but uh,

1241
00:59:29,119 --> 00:59:31,760
sittercity dot com. I don't know if you've ever heard

1242
00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:35,519
of that. I love sitter City. I've found babysitters there, yeah,

1243
00:59:36,199 --> 00:59:38,920
I've and they are not sponsors. I have paid for

1244
00:59:39,039 --> 00:59:42,599
my membership at sitter City, but I it's there. It's

1245
00:59:42,639 --> 00:59:45,559
really great because you can look at their they background check.

1246
00:59:46,679 --> 00:59:50,239
You can see all their availability. They show you exactly

1247
00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:53,079
what days their will work, with their price ranges, and

1248
00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:56,320
what their experiences. You can check their references and anyway.

1249
00:59:56,480 --> 01:00:00,000
I interviewed a bunch of people a couple of different times.

1250
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:01,599
Times when I was when I had to do parental

1251
01:00:01,679 --> 01:00:05,079
discretion off that website, and the first one I interviewed,

1252
01:00:05,159 --> 01:00:08,639
I hired one of the girls that I met that day,

1253
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:11,400
and then that girl ended up having to quit because

1254
01:00:11,440 --> 01:00:14,079
she got a job in her field before I was

1255
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:16,519
done with her, and I went back to the first

1256
01:00:16,559 --> 01:00:18,880
person i'd interviewed that day who was still available, who

1257
01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:21,840
ended up also being great. So yeah, wow, that's the

1258
01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:25,199
way you can find people. Find full time nanny's. You

1259
01:00:25,239 --> 01:00:28,639
can find part time babysitters. Yeah, yeah, I love them.

1260
01:00:28,639 --> 01:00:30,280
I'm gonna call them and tell them that I just

1261
01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:32,480
gave them a big play. Yeah, and see if they'll

1262
01:00:32,599 --> 01:00:35,320
renew my membership for free. And I had to hire

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01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:35,840
somebody else.

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01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:38,320
Speaker 1: Can they say that we're referred to anywhere? If they

1265
01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:41,079
sign up, they can say they were referred by crying

1266
01:00:41,079 --> 01:00:41,519
out loud.

1267
01:00:42,039 --> 01:00:44,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, do that. If you go to sittercity dot com. Yeah,

1268
01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:46,920
tell them and I don't know. I'll just tell them

1269
01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:49,760
that I said, see what I referred from our podcast.

1270
01:00:50,039 --> 01:00:50,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

1271
01:00:51,119 --> 01:00:52,400
Speaker 2: I love it anyway.

1272
01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:55,079
Speaker 4: Yeah, that was a good show.

1273
01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:58,440
Speaker 2: Yeah for being Thanks for coming back, Old guy. Will

1274
01:00:58,480 --> 01:00:59,119
you come again?

1275
01:00:59,679 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 4: Sure?

1276
01:01:00,239 --> 01:01:03,320
Speaker 1: Old guy? Where can we find you? Any plugs.

1277
01:01:04,679 --> 01:01:05,119
Speaker 3: On Twitter?

1278
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:11,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, old guy? And we should put her on Twitter? Amazing,

1279
01:01:11,719 --> 01:01:13,199
all right, and I'll get you on. I'm gonna put

1280
01:01:13,199 --> 01:01:13,280
you on.

1281
01:01:13,480 --> 01:01:15,599
Speaker 3: We put Ray on Twitter and it's been one of

1282
01:01:15,599 --> 01:01:16,360
the greatest things ever.

1283
01:01:16,519 --> 01:01:19,199
Speaker 1: Yeah. You can text, you can do Twitter, you can

1284
01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:22,199
tweet or put oga than Nanny. She's gonna sit there

1285
01:01:22,239 --> 01:01:26,079
and tweet Nanny Corona. Old guy, No, just do at,

1286
01:01:26,159 --> 01:01:29,679
Old guy, try to do O O L g U

1287
01:01:30,239 --> 01:01:32,239
y Old Guy TROLLI taken.

1288
01:01:32,639 --> 01:01:34,599
Speaker 2: We'll find you something. We'll find you and then we'll

1289
01:01:34,880 --> 01:01:35,320
plug you.

1290
01:01:35,719 --> 01:01:37,880
Speaker 4: Yes on our next show. Yeah, it's gonna be you

1291
01:01:38,079 --> 01:01:39,599
fault if you find me just sticks.

1292
01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:45,199
Speaker 2: Okay, so hey, subscribe on Subscribe and rate us on iTunes.

1293
01:01:45,239 --> 01:01:49,239
Subscribe to us, yes, and buy stuff on Amazon by

1294
01:01:49,320 --> 01:01:51,280
going to Crying Out Loud Show dot com.

1295
01:01:51,599 --> 01:01:54,880
Speaker 1: Click They're talking on Amazon and go get Stephanie's book.

1296
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:58,400
Speaker 2: Sippy cups are not for Chardonay people get it for

1297
01:01:58,599 --> 01:02:00,760
people that are having a baby. It's a really good

1298
01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:01,880
baby shower gift.

1299
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:05,239
Speaker 3: And go like the Facebook page for Parental Discretion. There

1300
01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:06,639
was a question on there we didn't get to you

1301
01:02:06,679 --> 01:02:09,280
today about how big of a fan somebody is that show.

1302
01:02:09,559 --> 01:02:13,960
Speaker 1: Oh they're off light breastfeeding, uh and watching for parental discretion.

1303
01:02:14,559 --> 01:02:16,960
Speaker 3: So go like that Facebook page and make sure that

1304
01:02:17,039 --> 01:02:19,079
they know that you guys like that show and off

1305
01:02:19,159 --> 01:02:19,800
stuff on the air.

1306
01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:23,719
Speaker 1: Know this. You're a parent now, don't f it up.

1307
01:02:24,159 --> 01:02:25,320
I should make Olga say it.

1308
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:27,239
Speaker 3: Say it Okay.

1309
01:02:28,440 --> 01:02:30,239
Speaker 1: So so Stephanie's going to say you're a parent.

1310
01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:32,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, we should get this on a drop so she

1311
01:02:32,199 --> 01:02:33,960
could end a couple of our shows just say you're

1312
01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:35,599
a parent, now, don't fuck it up.

1313
01:02:37,199 --> 01:02:41,400
Speaker 4: I'd say, okay, up your parent now, don't giff it up?

1314
01:02:43,559 --> 01:02:48,360
Speaker 7: Perfect two, three, four, Once upon a time, A few

1315
01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:50,920
mistakes ago, I was in his sights.

1316
01:02:51,280 --> 01:02:53,519
Speaker 5: You got me out Reach the show on Twitter at

1317
01:02:53,599 --> 01:02:56,679
ace Moms and like us on Facebook by going to

1318
01:02:56,760 --> 01:03:00,599
facebook dot com slash ace moms. Follow the on Twitter

1319
01:03:00,679 --> 01:03:05,559
at Lynette Corolla, Follow Stephanie on Twitter at s Wilder Taylor.

1320
01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:09,679
Speaker 4: With down me with thou me with thout me.

1321
01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:15,320
Speaker 6: It's line gone.

1322
01:03:16,000 --> 01:03:22,599
Speaker 7: When he met me and I realized the blame is

1323
01:03:22,719 --> 01:03:26,440
on me because I knew you were trouble when you

1324
01:03:26,599 --> 01:03:29,599
walk down, So shame on me.

1325
01:03:29,920 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 6: Now I'll blue me two.

1326
01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:36,400
Speaker 7: Places I've ever been till you put me down. Oh,

1327
01:03:36,679 --> 01:03:41,199
I knew you were trouble when you walk down, So

1328
01:03:41,480 --> 01:03:45,480
shame on me. Now I'll bloom me two places and

1329
01:03:45,599 --> 01:03:46,239
never been.

1330
01:03:47,519 --> 01:03:49,559
Speaker 4: So you put me john oh on?

1331
01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 2: So you put me down.

1332
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:53,079
Speaker 4: Oh I knew you.

1333
01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:57,480
Speaker 7: Were trouble when he walked in, So shame on me.

1334
01:03:57,800 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 4: Now I flew me to play.

1335
01:04:00,400 --> 01:04:02,039
Speaker 7: I've never been and.

1336
01:04:02,119 --> 01:04:16,480
Speaker 6: I'm lying on the court hard grounds. Oh oh, trouble, trouble, trouble, ah, oh, trouble, trouble, trouble.

1337
01:04:16,400 --> 01:04:20,440
Speaker 7: New apologies. Never see him cry, but time he doesn't know.

1338
01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:28,000
But he's the reason why you're drowning. You're downing, you're downing.

1339
01:04:27,559 --> 01:04:32,920
Speaker 3: It and it's long gone.

1340
01:04:33,639 --> 01:04:40,599
Speaker 7: When he made me and I readalized.

1341
01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:41,039
Speaker 4: The blame is on me.

1342
01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:45,599
Speaker 7: Yeah, because I knew you were trouble when he walked in.

1343
01:04:47,119 --> 01:04:51,280
To shame on me, now, oklew me two places have

1344
01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:52,000
ever been?

1345
01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:54,880
Speaker 6: So you put me down?

1346
01:04:55,039 --> 01:04:55,199
Speaker 4: Oh?

1347
01:04:55,519 --> 01:04:58,400
Speaker 6: I knew you were trouble when you walked in.

1348
01:05:00,280 --> 01:05:04,119
Speaker 7: Shame on me now and bloom me two places I

1349
01:05:04,280 --> 01:05:06,800
never ben now lying.

1350
01:05:06,639 --> 01:05:13,800
Speaker 6: On the coal hard ground. Oh oh, trouble, trouble, trouble,

1351
01:05:15,119 --> 01:05:23,800
Oh oh, trouble, trouble, trouble on your side, feared come screeping,

1352
01:05:25,079 --> 01:05:26,559
And now you let her love me?

1353
01:05:27,559 --> 01:05:34,719
Speaker 7: Oh her or anyone or anything. Yeah, I knew you

1354
01:05:35,119 --> 01:05:39,880
were trouble, and you walked in shame on me now,

1355
01:05:40,199 --> 01:05:42,760
olomy two places.

1356
01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:45,719
Speaker 6: And never been so you put me down.

1357
01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:47,760
Speaker 4: Oh, I knew you were.

1358
01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:53,079
Speaker 7: Trouble when you walked in trouble, trouble, trouble. I knew

1359
01:05:53,199 --> 01:05:58,320
you were trouble when you walked in trouble, Trouble, trouble.

1360
01:06:00,800 --> 01:06:01,039
Speaker 1: Four