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Speaker 1: I made a decision pay sunny sun on. I had

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a vision nice what's up party, people in the house, wooooo,

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happy birthday and all the geminis out there.

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Speaker 2: When is your birthday? Wait? Oh my god, is today? No,

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Speaker 1: Yesterday was Sunday, Natali, Yeah, it was yesterday, and Sunday.

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Speaker 2: Today's eighth Yesterday yesterday. Got happy birthday, Corolla tweet Lucky

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number seven. Natalia as I like to pronounce it.

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Speaker 1: All her friends, a lot of them call her Natalia.

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She says Natalia sunny and I say Natale.

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Speaker 2: Ever get over the person who is like, you pretend

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that you're friends with Linette and you can't even pronounce

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her daughter?

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Speaker 1: What his thing? Italian?

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Speaker 2: Nataliyah as I again said, I was like, I think

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that's because she has that Cleveland accent.

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Speaker 1: It is. I know, I have a twang, and everybody

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says that.

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Speaker 2: So I always assumed that her name's actually Natalia and

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you pronounce it Natalia.

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Speaker 1: It's probably right because she says Natalia. Her friends actually

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they all call her nat Not a big fan of that,

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but it's cute. I call her t t Yeah. So

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they had their birthday yesterday. The thing was is like,

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so I was talking to Sonny because he was a

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he's an Oregon she's at home, and I was like,

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he's never asks for anything. He's like, I'll let you

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what do you want for your birthday? I'll let you know. Well,

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I'm going to get him a car eventually for the summer.

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have to get him a car because he's going to

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need it for work.

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Speaker 2: But just a car for the summer.

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Speaker 1: No, a car. I'm going to get him a car

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this yeah, not just he'll take it to Oregon. He'll

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probably drive it, yeah, back to Oregon.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, are you going to use Adam?

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Speaker 1: Oh, Adam Lerner's got a car for sure? You crazy?

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Of course I am. So I'm going to get him

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a car. But you know, it was his birthday and

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I was like, what are you doing? And he's like,

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I don't really have a lot of plants because Monday's

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Monday's finals and all my friends are like, you know,

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hunkered down and we're all studying for finals. And he's like,

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I got work to do. But I was like, but

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you got to get out and do something. So he

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did go to his friends in the evening, but I

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wanted to send him something, so I sent him my cheesecake.

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Then I Ali sent him and he loved it. Yeah,

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like you.

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Speaker 2: Made a cheesecake and sent no, sent different cheesecake.

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Speaker 1: Have you met me seventy?

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Speaker 2: Is there just a service that does cheesecake. Yeah, there's

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a cheesecake factory by him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So I sent him his blueberry cheesecake that he likes. O.

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I know, I know. So he brought it with him

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to his friends in the evening and they hung out

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and watched some sports and stuff. But like Natalia, you know,

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Natalia was like birthday weekend starting Friday, oh yeah, all

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through Sunday. Yeah, so they went out, they went to

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the beach.

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Speaker 2: Some people think you this Pride month. Other people know

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it better as Natalia's person.

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Speaker 1: Italian's birthday month. Yeah, so she went to the beach.

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Her boyfriend's in town and all her old school friends

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were there, Olivia, who I love since second grade her.

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Olivia is at Penn State. Wow. Yeah yeah, and I'll

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tell you this, like they the story she was telling

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me that they were in a she was in a

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she was in a lecture hall with like a whole

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like the whole place was filled, the teacher's lecturing. It's quiet.

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right now. Then Natalia calls her and her laptop starts

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ringing and she's like, bitch, I told you. And Natalia's like,

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I will not be ignored. She's like, that's an Italian.

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I love nutshell. They have such a cute, like sweet relationship.

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I love her parents. Her younger brother graduated high school

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will and went to the graduation party over the weekend.

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Speaker 2: I'll never forget that she likes doubled eggs.

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Speaker 1: She does that. Oh that was Cammy.

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Speaker 2: Oh that was Cammy.

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Speaker 1: Cammy's still in the picture, but she moved. But yeah,

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she was like, we would go to dinner and Adam

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and Cammy had dinner with us, and she's like, oh,

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mister Corolla, I love deviled eggs, mister Corolla. That beard

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looks good on you, mister Corolla. That was sweet Cammy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I forgot that was a different yeah, because it

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Speaker 1: It was the three of them. Yeah, and they're still

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they're still close.

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Speaker 2: But is Cammy in college too?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's I don't know where she is, but she moved,

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you know, she moved to Denver. Yeah, but yeah, it

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all her like little buddies that she grew up with.

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and then they I when they came back, I had uh,

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all chocolate, like Natalian loves chocolate. So I got her

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that saying happy Birthday, and then watched Love Island. I didn't,

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but they did. And that was our birthday weekend. And

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now I have to go to Oregon, like maybe on

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Wednesday because he has to move out deep by the

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end of this week he's done.

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Speaker 2: I think it's the same exact schedule as UCLA now LB,

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so maybe last day of Crosses is Wednesday. Yeah, Elbie

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has finals and then she graduates Saturday morning.

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Speaker 1: Oh this Saturday is their graduation wow. Yeah yeah, so

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I'll be packing it up for sunny and getting him out.

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Speaker 2: And then so how are you going to do that?

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Are you going to put stuff in? Story?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's like student storage places. They you know, you

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just pack everything, they come, they pick it up, his

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TV and stuff, put it into He doesn't have much,

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he doesn't like the bed's already there, like. And then

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the new place he's moving into has a kitchen and

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has everything, has a bed. So I'll be going back

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in September to do that, and I'll be going back

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in August with Natalia to move her into a new place. Oh,

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they're both moving into a new place. Okay, yeah, so yeah,

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so I'll be moving. I'll be out there this week

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market a lot.

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Speaker 2: And then do you want to tell us about Yeah,

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I feel like I'm going to end up crying on

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this episode because I don't know. I think both of

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us are so much transition.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you had a busy week too.

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Speaker 2: I did. I had a really busy week. But I

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feel like we're both have things ending and things beginning

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and hot on our poor psychees. It is it's too

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old to be going through this much change.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's toll. You know, when you go to the

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graduation of your daughter's best friend's little brother, Like I

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remember he was like a little kid. Now he's like

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this tall senior just graduated high school. I feel so old.

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is when your kids graduate, but then to see their

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siblings of their friends graduate high school and then see

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other mothers yet you haven't seen a long time, You're like, wow,

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you got a lot of botox going on.

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Speaker 2: I went to this girls. I went to somebody's a thing,

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an event for somebody, and her mom was there. So

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this girl's like she's young, she's like twenty nine, but

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her mom was like looked older, you know, like more grandma, right,

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And then she said she was sixty two and I

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was like, oh, that's like only a few years away

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from me, isn't. And then I was like, oh, no,

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I know, I'm within three years of this person, right right,

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How is that possible?

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Speaker 1: I'm not an old lady.

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Speaker 2: I'm just not, I know.

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Speaker 1: And it's it's also funny too when my kids tell me,

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like I remember they were telling like their teacher is like,

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there's we have a teacher that's like ten years younger

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than you, mom, and like she looks like she's ten

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years older than you. That that you know, then there's

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that too, right, you know? Yeah, I feel like you

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and I are still hip. I like your shoes. Oh

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you got your didas. Yeah, we're both you see, we're hip.

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We're hipsters. No, we're hip.

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Speaker 2: I get told a lot that I look a lot

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younger you do. But I'm always like, that's just because

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I'm hip. That has nothing to do with my face,

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because I'm super wrinkly. It's just that I try to

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keep it, try to keep my hair cue. Yeah, yeah,

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you know. But then I'm like, can't be bothered to

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like wear makeup that often? You know, neither.

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Speaker 1: I barely wear makeup anymore, but I did for Natalia

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on Sunday. I got, you know, looked cute. I put

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on jeans instead of yoga pants, cute shirt, did my

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because she likes you know, she likes me look nice

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instead of walking around my hair and I look right now.

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Speaker 2: Take your hair out of a ponytail.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, Before she could even speak, she was in

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the car seat behind me pulling my hair out of

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the ponytail, trying to make me look pretty. That's Helen Paradise,

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by the way, she's to do that to me.

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Speaker 2: So okay. So Sunny's going to come home and then

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he's going to look for a job.

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Speaker 1: I think he's got some he's trying. He's trying to

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line up a couple of things.

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Speaker 2: Yeakay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And then Natalia is going to come back here and

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spend the summer here, but then she's going abroad. Is

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there a date for it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's going like the just staying one semester here

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and then and then the second semester they go abroad

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for semester.

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Speaker 2: Oh, so what does she do for a semester?

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Speaker 1: She's going she's taking classes. So she's starting the year

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Speaker 2: First semester Santa Barbara's community. Yeah, but hasn't she already

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done two years? Didn't Charity get a degree?

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think she still needs some credits, Okay. And then she's

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doing like what her roommates did last night, because they're

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year ahead. So she she's got it all figured out,

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and you know, she's got her plan, got it? Yeah,

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and Sonny too. Sonny's excited. He's he's going to be

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applying to the university, and I guess during the winter

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is when he's going to apply. November, Yeah was when

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the application. Yeah, well, I guess he could apply like

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inn October. Yeah, then he's going to apply for spring

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admission or for the following year. I think, I don't know.

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I don't know. He they you know, I they figure

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it out. But I just know that they did really well.

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finishing her five classes, and Sonny got all well, he's

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in his you know, his thing, but he's doing really well.

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He said, he's all his tests, he's done. He comes

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home and he shows me his his like you know,

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uh presentation he had to do for like a film class.

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Did really well on that. So he's he's, you know,

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doing his finals this week.

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another semester? Like what's he going to do while he's

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waiting to apply to you know, because he's already done

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Speaker 1: I think he's gonna Yeah. So I think he said

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he did say he's going to be applying in the

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winter for the new right, But so what would you

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is he going to stay it here? I don't know. No,

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he's going to be going back in the fall. I

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think he needs another I don't know. I think he

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needs more credits for him I should find out.

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Speaker 2: I would just be curious. Yeah, what they're doing. What

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like that that's my path, that's what I want to do.

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I want to see it out. I want to transfer,

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go to the new university.

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Speaker 2: So it's just like, will he take because he now

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he'd be in his third year year of community college, right.

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Speaker 1: If he goes back and stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but he only needed a few more credits, you said.

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Speaker 1: To yeah, be so he might be taking classes during

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the winter. Actually I don't know, got it because she's

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doing a class during the summer. She's doing a summer

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class as well online. Probably yeah, online. She said it's

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like four weeks. So yeah, oh they're they're working.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Sadie's trying to go to Pierce. But of course

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she we she applied and then I was like, okay,

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so what's next. Do you have your student number? Like

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we have to apply to this thing. Called the Promise Program,

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which makes community college in California free, and she's like,

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well I don't have somehow She's like I don't. They

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didn't send me a thing, a letter saying what my

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student number is. And I'm like, really, did you check

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your spam? You know? She's like no, they didn't. Then,

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like you know, I just start getting frustrated because I'm like,

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why can't anything just be like yep, I enrolled right,

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Like why I have to say in for everything? And

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I'm like, let me let me see I look through

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her email. I can't freaking figure it out. It's so

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complicated and like when you had to go into the

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portal and understand the okay, So we try to go

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into the portal and then it keeps saying that her

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thing is invalid and she's like I'm telling you here's

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my password, and I'm like, well, something's fucked up, right.

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So then we're like, okay, if you want to get

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help at Pierce College, you can go into this virtual

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lobby for help and it's like your number twenty three

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in line. So she's like laying on my bed. Time

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goes by. I'm like, where are you now? She's like

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still twenty three. I'm like, what, I look at it.

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Sure enough, Yeah, she's still literally, like thirty minutes go by,

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she's still number twenty three. I'm like, well, something's wrong.

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So I emailed this friend that we have that works

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at the school, and she was like, well, did she

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try going into the virtual thing? And I'm like yes,

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So we're just going to go in in person, bring

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her computer and go. Please help me get enrolled at school, right,

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somebody should be able to help.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to go in person. It's the only

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way to get it done. Yeah, so we're going to

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do that. But this week is the last week of school. Okay,

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So today's Monday when we're recording, So the kids have

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this is their last full day of classes. Then tomorrow

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they have some senior like paintball pizza party for two hours.

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The next day is grad night, so Xander is going

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to be at Disneyland from seven am until two in

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the morning. Then the next day they graduate.

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Speaker 1: Is Sadie going to grad night?

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Speaker 2: Deal? She had no interest in being at Disneyland from

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seven am to two am The following morning, She's like

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saying hell to the no, Yeah, yeah, she'd be done

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after two hours, right, right, this is a kid who's

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never done that well at Disneyland. She can't drive herself,

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like they do not let the kids. You absolutely cannot

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drive yourself and you can't leave early.

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Speaker 1: What the fuck?

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Speaker 2: So what it really is is seven am. They meet

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at school. Yeah, they don't really get to Disneyland until

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let's say nine am, right, realistically, Yeah, by the time

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they get in to Disneyland, right, it's nine thirty right,

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then at midnight, so it's kind of like a regular

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day for like super huge disney fans. Yeah, and really

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they're from like nine thirty am to like midnight, midnight.

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They all meet and then they go get on the

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buses and then they come back to school.

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Speaker 1: Do they at least get to go to California Adventure. Yes,

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they have Park Hopper. Oh that's good. Yeah, well, which

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we paid for. It wasn't free, right yeah, right, but

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at least they get to.

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Speaker 2: Go to the like I can't imagine to do both,

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and then there's a little party for them at the

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end of the night. Did your kids have grad night?

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Speaker 1: They did? They they went to Yeah, they went to Disneyland,

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same thing they could. They had to go on the bus.

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It was a whole day. But my kids loved it,

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both of them. Yeah, yeah, yeah, those are the days.

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Speaker 2: I think. For middle school grad night, they went to

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Magic Mountain and I do remember that Sadie was pretty done.

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I remember, yeah, yeah, yeah, we're coming back right, and

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I was getting texts going, mom, I'm done. I was like, well,

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go sleep on a bench.

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Speaker 1: I remember that. Yeah. But good for her for going, like,

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you know, participating.

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Speaker 2: Ye yes, yes. I think she was trying to force

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herself and this time she's like, I know myself, Yeah,

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it's not for me pass Yeah. Hey, speaking of something

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Speaker 1: Boom nice. Yeah, so I did go and look at

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houses this weekend? Yeah. Valentia, Suzanne and her boyfriend moved

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into their house, which is really cute, and I wanted

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them to come look at the new developments with me

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to ask them what they think. So when that happened,

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I also got a listing that came up of a

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new house that just came on the market like five

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days ago. And it's exactly like my price point, a

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little smidge higher than what I would like, but we

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can We're actually so okay. So looked in the pictures,

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looked great, has mostly everything I like, except there's just

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one bathroom between the kids rooms. So I wanted to

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see if, like maybe I can add a bathroom whatever

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other than that perfect it is two story, but whatever,

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how do you so?

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Speaker 2: How many bathrooms does it up there?

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Speaker 1: There's three bathrooms, so there's a guest bathroom downstairs, there's

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a bathroom in the primary, and then there's a bathroom

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between the two bedrooms upstairs to share. And it's pretty small,

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but there's a laundry room, huh up there, And I

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wanted to see if we could put the laundy washer

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dryer in the garage and make that laundry room a

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bathroom to attach to one of the bedrooms. And my

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realtor and Suzanne's boyfriend who knows a lot about that stuff.

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Think it should be easy to do, no problem, no problem.

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So okay, So I then I took them to see

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the new development. And then you look at the new

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development and it's like, okay, but you got to you

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get it at this price. But then you got to

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pay for the you know, the landscaping, you got to

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pay for all the extras because they're not done, so

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you have to pick out the tile. Blah blah blah.

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So what's that price going to be after all said

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and done? You know, So we're trying to still figure

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that it'll probably be around We could probably negotiate it

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to around my budget, but that's going to be you know,

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a lot of extra work. And also it seems to

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be in a big fire area. There's a lot of

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brush around these houses, so how much is fire insurance

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going to cost? And blah blah blah. You know, whereas

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this house, this other house that I really like, is

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not and the new development is like nine minutes off

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the it's really high. It's away from Suzanne's house. It's

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about ten minutes from her house, so it's you know

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where there's the new listing that came up is really close.

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It's like five minutes from her house. It's right, it's

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pretty close to the free day not too close, but

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you know, right, yeah, you know. So it's just moving.

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It's read at Mountain Magic Mountain Parkway.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's just there's not much to do except

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maybe add bathroom.

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Speaker 2: So I was like, okay, honestly, even if you didn't

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add a bathroom right.

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Speaker 1: Now, how yeah, when are they going to be home

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around the same time?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, So it's not something I would need to

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do right away, but I would would like to do it.

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I know, Sonny and Natalia, they're not going to like

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to share a bathroom. He's not going to want to

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share a bathroom all that spray tanning all over the

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towels and shit like, you know, But how often are

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they going to be there at the same time, you

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know too? I don't know. But I so I really

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like this house. I was like, Okay, let you know

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what's going going on.

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Speaker 2: Is there a room for a pool?

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Speaker 1: It has a pool?

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Speaker 2: Oh, it has a pool.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it has a pool. The backyard is awesome. It's

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got like a built in barbecue. It's great. It's really great,

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I know, but I don't want to. So they said

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that they were going to have an offer. They said

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over the weekend. Well, so then my.

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Speaker 2: Plan was, so when did you see this Saturday? Saturday,

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so two days ago.

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Speaker 1: Yes, so they said they expected an offer to come in, so.

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Speaker 2: From somebody who had already seen it, right.

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Speaker 1: So then okay, So then I wanted to My plan

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was is to take Ray. Because Ray reached out to

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me after he saw my kids at the you know,

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Star unveiling, and he was like, yes, this is so great.

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So I started talking to Ray and I was like,

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you know, I could use your help to look at

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some of these houses. Maybe. He's like, I'll totally help

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you talked my ear off for an hour and a

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half about other shit, like he's still a little same Ray,

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but you know he's like, no, i'll help you. So

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I was going to go up there on tomorrow to

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look at it with him, and then my realtor called

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me this morning and it was like they are expecting

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an offer today and they are not, and he wanted

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them to hold off and they said, no, we're not

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going to hold off. And so now he my realtor

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is like, I think we need to come up with

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an offer and present them with an offer. So he

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was going through comps and stuff. And then I had

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a call into my accountant anyway.

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Speaker 2: Cause you couldn't find out what that offer was going

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to be.

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Speaker 1: We don't know yet. Yeah, So after what we're done recording,

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I'm going to be on the phone with him and

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we're going to be submitting an offer from us. I

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don't know how much yet. He's working that out and

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we'll see, you know. But it's only been on the

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market like five days and already they have an offer.

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And like I said, every two days a week, I

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would get listings of you know, houses in Valencia. Nothing

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new pop. It was the same listings. There was no

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new houses. This one just popped up. So and it's

468
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a really great house.

469
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:10,599
Speaker 2: I think you can get it, I hope. So I

470
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:12,000
feel good about your chances.

471
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:16,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel Yeah, he does. My realtor does too.

472
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:18,279
But we don't know what this other I don't know,

473
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,720
you know, we'll see.

474
00:24:20,839 --> 00:24:24,680
Speaker 2: So what if it was at him fitting against it,

475
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:27,400
He's just like, no, I don't want you in Santa Clarita.

476
00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:32,559
Speaker 1: Saw there, Yeah, I know. Well, now he's got his

477
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:37,119
house out here and where we live in Lakenyata, and

478
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:39,200
it looks like it's pretty much ready from what the

479
00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:43,000
kids tell me. So they can stay there too. Oh true,

480
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,160
they have a place to stay. Yeah, and they want

481
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,960
to be around their friends. So yeah, so it's it's perfect.

482
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:50,920
It's really great. I don't want to get my hopes up.

483
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:54,920
But you know, my realtor said, even if this house

484
00:24:55,079 --> 00:24:59,960
doesn't work out, things will eventually, especially during the summer,

485
00:25:00,079 --> 00:25:02,640
we'll start popping up more. There'll be more listing. So

486
00:25:03,519 --> 00:25:06,480
just you know, it's really it's perfect.

487
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:09,839
Speaker 2: That's exciting. So did you have that feeling tell me

488
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,039
about Like, so you went out there, did you see

489
00:25:12,079 --> 00:25:13,920
from the listing that you were already going to like it?

490
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,440
Speaker 1: Well? Yeah, I when I sent the listing, I sent

491
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:18,519
it to Suzanne, I sent it to Wendy and they

492
00:25:18,559 --> 00:25:20,279
were like, oh my god, this house is I could

493
00:25:20,319 --> 00:25:22,079
see you in this house perfect for you. To me,

494
00:25:22,599 --> 00:25:24,599
I was going to on my way in here so

495
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,079
you could see it. I was, I was going to

496
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:29,319
send it to you, but I was like texting, driving

497
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:34,559
pulling over. Uh so yeah, so I but but I

498
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:36,519
was like I want to wait to see it. You know,

499
00:25:36,519 --> 00:25:38,160
I wasn't getting I was like, I don't want to

500
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,400
get over my skis the last time I got excited.

501
00:25:40,519 --> 00:25:42,279
You look at pictures and you think, oh, this is

502
00:25:42,279 --> 00:25:44,880
going to be great and then it turns out but no,

503
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:48,119
it was. It was. It was beautiful, and it was

504
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,440
the same people that have lived there since it was

505
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:53,599
built in ninety nine, so they took really good care

506
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:57,519
of it. Okay, yeah, really good. And it's staged so

507
00:25:57,559 --> 00:26:02,000
you see, like with the furniture, how good it looks. Yeah, yeah,

508
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:03,000
i'll send it to you.

509
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:04,400
Speaker 2: How many square feet?

510
00:26:05,559 --> 00:26:07,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not I think it's like I

511
00:26:07,519 --> 00:26:10,759
don't know in the twenty twenty twenty seven, I don't know.

512
00:26:10,799 --> 00:26:11,559
Speaker 2: Oh that's big.

513
00:26:11,839 --> 00:26:16,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's two stories, two bedrooms or no, four bedrooms,

514
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:19,039
oh my god? Three bathroom? Yeah wow. I want a

515
00:26:19,079 --> 00:26:22,319
guest room, you know, for Dawn when she spends the night.

516
00:26:22,519 --> 00:26:28,319
Speaker 2: Yeah's your own room, bitch, Yeah yeah, go snore down

517
00:26:28,319 --> 00:26:30,079
the hall right exactly.

518
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,480
Speaker 1: It's nice to have a guest room, you know. And

519
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:37,160
uh so well, and it's a great price, and it's

520
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:39,680
got everything I want except for that bathroom.

521
00:26:40,039 --> 00:26:44,119
Speaker 2: And we'll see, okay, fingers crossed. Yeah, after the offer

522
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:44,759
goes in today.

523
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I got to call him as soon as

524
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:48,839
we're done.

525
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:51,680
Speaker 2: How long will your s Scroby?

526
00:26:52,279 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I'm guessing by the time I

527
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:03,920
might be moving in after Natalia moves to Santa Barbara,

528
00:27:04,519 --> 00:27:10,000
and then Sonny might have another month with us, and yeah,

529
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:13,279
so I don't know, we'll see. It'll be great to

530
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:16,839
just move when they're both gone. You know, I don't

531
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:21,480
need them, I'll I'll pack everything up. You know, they

532
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:22,480
don't do much help.

533
00:27:23,599 --> 00:27:25,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, but they probably need to pack up their stuff.

534
00:27:25,799 --> 00:27:28,359
Well they did just move, not that long. Yeah, we

535
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:32,359
need to have acquired that much stuff. No, No, Sonny,

536
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:34,519
they only live in the house you're in now for

537
00:27:34,559 --> 00:27:37,799
like one year after high school. Two years we've been there,

538
00:27:38,599 --> 00:27:41,960
right so yeah, so no years after then they they

539
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:45,759
moved in and then they went to college, right right, Yeah,

540
00:27:45,799 --> 00:27:48,240
so they can't have acquired that much stuff after they

541
00:27:48,319 --> 00:27:49,240
moved from the last time.

542
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:52,519
Speaker 1: And Natalia she just did a day where she gutted

543
00:27:52,599 --> 00:27:55,839
her closet. She got rid of a ton of stuff.

544
00:27:56,079 --> 00:27:59,039
She like send the herd out a lot, which was great.

545
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:02,359
She had a million and bathing suit with these girls.

546
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,880
Oh my god, So what are you going to so

547
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:09,640
so she so, Lbie's graduating this weekend, but she's does

548
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:11,759
she move out for the for the summer?

549
00:28:12,279 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 2: Dude, my whole life is so in flux. Yeah, she

550
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:22,039
she's moving out. Okay. So her apartment is not a

551
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:25,920
university it's not university housing. Her last apartment, her first

552
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:30,680
year at UCLA, was all part of the tuition included

553
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,519
her housing, and she was in even though the apartment

554
00:28:33,559 --> 00:28:42,440
was off campus. She was in a two bedroom, two bedrooms. No,

555
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:49,359
wasn't it four bedrooms? Right? Eight girls? Right? Yes, a

556
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:54,000
four bedroom, two baths, right, Eight girls lived there, so

557
00:28:54,119 --> 00:28:58,640
two girls per room. Yeah, and it was small. It's

558
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:02,000
just like you go down the hall there like bedroom, bedroom, bedroom, bedroom,

559
00:29:02,039 --> 00:29:06,880
and then yeah, anyway, and then so, but this apartment

560
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:11,079
is a two bedroom, one bath and four girls live there,

561
00:29:11,559 --> 00:29:15,119
so they split up basically all the roommates, but they

562
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:19,799
all live in the same complex. So it's very close

563
00:29:19,839 --> 00:29:22,319
to campus. It's really close to her last apartment. But

564
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:25,319
that none of that matters. The point is that it

565
00:29:25,559 --> 00:29:29,359
is a year long lease because it's not through the school,

566
00:29:29,759 --> 00:29:31,880
so they don't give a fuck. They're not like, Okay,

567
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,119
you can lease it for nine months. They're like, you

568
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:38,480
sign a year lease. So from the beginning, I was like, well,

569
00:29:38,519 --> 00:29:41,039
what are you going to do next summer because I

570
00:29:41,079 --> 00:29:44,240
pay eleven hundred dollars rent for her, right, And she

571
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:48,240
was like, oh, yeah, no, we'll sublet it. So these

572
00:29:48,279 --> 00:29:52,000
other girls, and I don't mean this in a disparaging way,

573
00:29:52,039 --> 00:29:55,839
I really don't, but none of these girls have that

574
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:57,599
I can so far that I can tell now this

575
00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:59,640
is not fair. I'm not going to say none of them,

576
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:02,279
but few of them have never had a job. They

577
00:30:02,319 --> 00:30:05,720
don't pay for any of their own stuff ever, and

578
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:08,519
Albie does not know how they get their money, but

579
00:30:08,559 --> 00:30:10,839
obviously their parents give them a lot of money, and

580
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:14,359
they have no sense of Like a couple of the

581
00:30:14,359 --> 00:30:15,920
girls are like, well, I'm just going to keep the

582
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:19,480
apartment for the summer, right, right, I'll have somewhere to

583
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:23,759
be sometimes. But like these girls live in the valley

584
00:30:23,799 --> 00:30:27,000
like Elbe does. So she's like, okay, well I'm not

585
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,000
going to do that because Elbie's job is in the valley.

586
00:30:30,079 --> 00:30:30,279
Speaker 1: Right.

587
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 2: So she's like, why when I graduate college would I

588
00:30:34,559 --> 00:30:37,440
want my home base to be so far from my job? Yeah,

589
00:30:37,519 --> 00:30:41,319
especially because she's there her job cannot wait for her

590
00:30:41,359 --> 00:30:43,119
to graduate because they want to give her a lot

591
00:30:43,119 --> 00:30:46,920
of hours, which I have mixed feelings about because I'm like,

592
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:48,599
I don't know that you need to be like a

593
00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:53,319
full time restaurant working just because it's the summer, Like

594
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:57,200
I think you should be. This is the hard thing

595
00:30:57,400 --> 00:31:01,079
that I want to talk to you about. Yeah, and

596
00:31:01,119 --> 00:31:05,359
you're not there yet. But like Elbe is graduating college,

597
00:31:05,519 --> 00:31:07,960
but they're still young, Like she's still only twenty one

598
00:31:08,039 --> 00:31:10,839
years old, and I don't she is not in any way,

599
00:31:10,839 --> 00:31:13,680
shape or form, like ready for the real world. Yeah,

600
00:31:13,799 --> 00:31:16,920
she doesn't pay her on bills. You know, she's and

601
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:21,640
she wants to still kind of be a kid. I think, yeah,

602
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:24,000
And just like and on the one hand, and I

603
00:31:24,119 --> 00:31:26,240
know I've been preaching this, I'm like, she should she

604
00:31:26,279 --> 00:31:29,599
should go do fun stuff. What I don't think she

605
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:32,680
should do is continue living like she's in college but

606
00:31:32,799 --> 00:31:37,680
not taking classes. Like just work at a restaurant, make cash,

607
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:39,960
go drinking with her friends, right, Like that's what I

608
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:43,559
don't want her to do. Yeah, either graduate and get

609
00:31:43,599 --> 00:31:46,119
a real job. Oh and then she pitched this to

610
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:48,359
me the other day. She's like one of my friends

611
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:52,680
works part time at a law firm answering phones, and

612
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:56,000
it's really good money. And I was like, well, first

613
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:59,839
of all, that's a that's a trap, yeah, because has

614
00:32:00,079 --> 00:32:02,960
nothing to do with anything you want to do. So

615
00:32:03,359 --> 00:32:05,920
answering phones. You and I both know that that is

616
00:32:06,119 --> 00:32:11,240
soul sucking business. Start being a receptionist, Like, first of all,

617
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:13,599
I did that, but that's because I didn't fucking go

618
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:16,960
to college, right, Like I didn't pay for UCLA tuition

619
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:19,759
for you to go answer phones at a law four

620
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,759
turns out twenty five dollars an hour. It's like, girl,

621
00:32:22,839 --> 00:32:25,640
that is not a lot of money. That's got good money.

622
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: Well, and it's also not in the business she wants

623
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:28,039
to be in.

624
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,039
Speaker 2: That's what I said. Yeah, so you're going to be

625
00:32:30,039 --> 00:32:32,480
paid twenty five dollars an hour, which is not much

626
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:35,759
more than you're making now, probably less to consider that

627
00:32:35,839 --> 00:32:39,240
she's making tips. She's making minimum wage, which is like

628
00:32:40,799 --> 00:32:43,759
out there where she works, it's like six, like seventeen

629
00:32:43,799 --> 00:32:46,599
dollars an hour, let's say, But when you add the

630
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:49,799
tips in there, she's probably making twenty five dollars an hour.

631
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:52,640
So you're going to supplement that by going three days

632
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:55,240
a week. Far it's going to be far to a

633
00:32:55,359 --> 00:32:58,079
law firm where you will be bored out of your mind.

634
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:04,720
It will be so stimulating. Hi, Terrence, Smick, Millan and

635
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:08,880
Smith exactly, Oh you want to talk to Terrence?

636
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 1: Okay, mister Terrence like line four, Like no, yeah, yeah, yeah.

637
00:33:14,079 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 2: No, You're going to be so bored and you I

638
00:33:16,759 --> 00:33:19,839
want her, I said, I don't think you should do that.

639
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,599
I think you should work at the restaurant. And in

640
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:26,759
the meantime, be sending out your resume for every contact

641
00:33:26,839 --> 00:33:29,839
that we have, for every fun job we can think of, yes,

642
00:33:30,519 --> 00:33:34,000
or taking some money out of the bank that is

643
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:37,039
in her savings account, and go take a couple of trips,

644
00:33:37,079 --> 00:33:40,000
go to Europe with your friends. And if you graduated

645
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,279
from college and have a lot of money, Yeah, what

646
00:33:42,319 --> 00:33:45,119
does she think? What a freaking Italy? Go travel around,

647
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:47,559
go seed some youth hostels, her friends, some of her

648
00:33:47,599 --> 00:33:50,920
friends have done it. That's when you do it right.

649
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:53,839
You do it at twenty one. Go see the world

650
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:58,240
a little bit and then come home and start like yeah,

651
00:33:58,559 --> 00:34:02,039
and then work full time and also send your renumes

652
00:34:02,079 --> 00:34:04,960
out and like I said, I'll help you try to

653
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:08,400
get like work at a casting office or like if

654
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:11,000
you're going to answer phones. Do it somewhere cool, right,

655
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:14,320
for sure? Absolutely? Do it like a music company? What

656
00:34:14,559 --> 00:34:19,400
she is? Yeah, what does she think? She was like, yeah, no,

657
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,519
she thought that was a good idea. I think she's

658
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:26,480
Does she want to travel? I think so? But it's

659
00:34:26,519 --> 00:34:28,679
like she has to figure out who's going to be available.

660
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:32,280
Like it's not as simple in her mind as like, oh,

661
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,480
go just go travel. She's got to figure out who

662
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:39,239
will do it with her. What other people's plans are.

663
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:44,639
You know. One of her really good friends is at Berkeley,

664
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,039
and she did the same thing as Elbie. She she

665
00:34:47,119 --> 00:34:50,559
finished community in one year, went to Berkeley, but she's

666
00:34:50,599 --> 00:34:53,159
doing one. She wasn't ready for college to be over,

667
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:57,679
so she's staying one more semester, right, Okay, she could

668
00:34:57,679 --> 00:35:01,280
have graduated, but she was like, yeah, still having fun.

669
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 1: Does Elbie want to do something like that?

670
00:35:04,079 --> 00:35:07,320
Speaker 2: I want her to do? No, Yeah, no, she's done.

671
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:10,440
She's graduated. You don't need she's a sociology maybe.

672
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Like what's she going to do? Right?

673
00:35:13,079 --> 00:35:16,360
Speaker 2: I mean, if she wanted to take some classes, I

674
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:20,639
wouldn't say like no, but right, no, she needs to

675
00:35:20,679 --> 00:35:22,559
start sending her resume out.

676
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:23,800
Speaker 1: That's the only way.

677
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 2: I mean, I think that she'll be happy knowing my kid.

678
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:33,000
I think either doing something really fun, like I said,

679
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:36,440
with money that she has that's sort of been designated

680
00:35:36,559 --> 00:35:42,840
for her to do someththing that college, or getting an

681
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:47,599
entry level job but in some kind of industry that

682
00:35:47,639 --> 00:35:50,719
would be that's yea Jali, right, which is that's what

683
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:56,880
I did, and we like, I feel like it's not nepotism,

684
00:35:56,960 --> 00:36:00,719
but I have contacts. Yeah, of course, Like I couldn't

685
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:02,880
get myself a job like that, but I can certainly

686
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:05,199
get her an entry I could help her. I can't

687
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:06,880
say I can get her. I might be back here

688
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:10,400
on this podcast, you know in six months going, oh

689
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:13,280
my god, But that's what people will hire her. But

690
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:16,119
I feel like she could get a job answering freaking phoney.

691
00:36:16,199 --> 00:36:19,039
Speaker 1: Of course. Yeah, she just needs her She just needs

692
00:36:19,039 --> 00:36:20,760
to get her foot in the door. Yeah, And that's

693
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:23,079
what a lot of parents do. They use their contacts

694
00:36:23,079 --> 00:36:25,239
for their kids and help them get their foot in

695
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:25,559
the And.

696
00:36:25,559 --> 00:36:27,760
Speaker 2: Then when she does that, with her work ethic and

697
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:31,280
her personality, she'll she'll grow eyes up and grow and

698
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:34,079
like learn the job. And I said, and see if

699
00:36:34,079 --> 00:36:37,199
it's for you let's say I think casting would be

700
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:40,320
a really fun job. That's right up her alley. She's

701
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:45,440
so good with People's very friendly and like welcoming to people,

702
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:49,639
and she also loves TV right like she you know,

703
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:51,840
but she also doesn't want to be an actress, which

704
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:55,400
I think is helpful. Yes, I know a lot of

705
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:57,000
people with casting agencies.

706
00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:00,519
Speaker 1: That's great. So I'm like, casting is a fun job.

707
00:37:00,519 --> 00:37:03,480
I always wanted to work and casts. Yeah. I used

708
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:06,800
to hang out at the casting offices at the CBS

709
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:09,280
Radford Studios and watching all these auditions come.

710
00:37:09,679 --> 00:37:11,840
Speaker 2: It's a fun job, super fun.

711
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:12,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

712
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 2: Whenever I've had a job, and it's been a couple

713
00:37:16,079 --> 00:37:20,639
of times where I've had to hire people four roles

714
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:21,760
on the show.

715
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:23,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, super so fun.

716
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, I had this one job, Okay, I worked

717
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:31,920
for this hidden camera show. So we were hiring. So

718
00:37:32,039 --> 00:37:35,519
one of the jokes that we did, I feel like

719
00:37:35,519 --> 00:37:38,960
I've told you this before. So we were hiring people

720
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:42,639
to be actors on the Hidden Camera show, right right.

721
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,039
So one of the way we auditioned them to do

722
00:37:45,079 --> 00:37:48,840
it was we had people come in for a different

723
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:52,280
project where they were going to be like reading copy,

724
00:37:52,559 --> 00:37:55,360
like almost kind of news copy. So you had two

725
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:57,960
people reading copy to each other. But one of the

726
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:02,960
people we secretly to side and said, okay, so what

727
00:38:03,039 --> 00:38:05,159
this actually is is you're going to fuck with the

728
00:38:05,199 --> 00:38:08,000
other person, like you're going to be the crazy person.

729
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:12,480
Don't care what you do. But we want to push

730
00:38:12,519 --> 00:38:15,079
them to the point that they just go, what are

731
00:38:15,159 --> 00:38:16,960
you doing? Like you're going to try to knock them

732
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:20,320
off their game either be being really bad, right, like

733
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:24,400
a practical jokers kind of thing, exactly like that. Yeah,

734
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:27,239
so then the person so then the person has to

735
00:38:28,159 --> 00:38:32,079
it's like person A who's doing the joke. Person B

736
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:34,760
so would have to do it. And it was so

737
00:38:35,199 --> 00:38:38,159
funny and we I mean they would do stuff like

738
00:38:38,159 --> 00:38:41,880
like interrupt or just start acting weird and the other person

739
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,519
thinks they're on a serious audition, so they're trying to

740
00:38:44,559 --> 00:38:47,719
hold it together. Yes, it was so hard not to

741
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:52,239
laugh as the person hiring them. Right, And then when

742
00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:55,239
the joke's done, when we got it, then we in

743
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:59,320
the room, Person B becomes person A. Now they find

744
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,800
out it was a joke, and then we send the

745
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:05,239
next person in and then then that first race the

746
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:08,119
next person. It was the best day of my life.

747
00:39:08,159 --> 00:39:09,039
Speaker 1: I bet I got.

748
00:39:09,559 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 2: I like, I'll never get tired of this. It's so

749
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:15,039
fun and some of the people were so funny, and

750
00:39:15,079 --> 00:39:17,800
I was like, if this is what casting is, like, yeah,

751
00:39:18,039 --> 00:39:18,639
sign me up.

752
00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:23,800
Speaker 1: My niece just got a job in casting recently. Really, yeah,

753
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:26,760
I can ask her. She's just yeah, she didn't have

754
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:32,440
any experience, and she's she loved it. She loves it.

755
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:36,079
She's like casting for are you smarter than a second grade?

756
00:39:36,039 --> 00:39:37,199
I guess they're bringing that back.

757
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:38,679
Speaker 2: Are you smarter than a fifth grader?

758
00:39:38,679 --> 00:39:41,159
Speaker 1: Fifth grader? Yeah, it was about a year ago she

759
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:43,880
was doing it. Oh yeah, so I should I could

760
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:45,039
reach out there and ask her.

761
00:39:46,599 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I mean I literally probably know like six

762
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:54,440
different Sure you did that. Our casting directors, I don't

763
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:56,719
know if they have big offices or if it's a

764
00:39:56,760 --> 00:40:01,480
small operation. One of my friends was the casting person.

765
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:05,679
We had her. We had her on Sword and Scale

766
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:09,840
rewind Maybe you weren't there anymore, but her name is

767
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:14,880
Robin Cass and she's with casting because we had some

768
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:18,840
somebody who was on a show like I don't know,

769
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:24,199
committed some crime I can't remember. But she books or

770
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:28,599
cast squid games, the oh yeah game challenge. Yeah, yeah,

771
00:40:28,639 --> 00:40:31,760
and she did. She was the casting director for Big Brother.

772
00:40:32,199 --> 00:40:36,519
Wow twenty years Wow, that's a cool gig. I met

773
00:40:36,519 --> 00:40:41,079
her on The Big Date, which was hosted by Mark

774
00:40:41,079 --> 00:40:44,280
Wallber right, right, So we became like that was my

775
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,199
very first job in TV, right, And that was her

776
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:50,719
first job in TV. And she was the casting like assistant,

777
00:40:51,199 --> 00:40:53,800
right yeah. And she and I became really good friends.

778
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:56,320
So she and I went on fen Fenn together.

779
00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:58,400
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I remember that.

780
00:40:59,519 --> 00:41:02,760
Speaker 2: Neither of us were like fat, right I was. It's

781
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:06,519
similar story to like me going on GLP.

782
00:41:06,599 --> 00:41:06,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

783
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:10,880
Speaker 2: I was like in the one forties. I just been

784
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:16,079
very sedentary, gained some weight. She had to, we were,

785
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:18,320
And so we went to one of those fen Fenn

786
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:20,199
pop up places.

787
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:23,159
Speaker 1: My friend Donned, my friend Don was. I would never

788
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:25,920
I never wanted to touch it with a ten football

789
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:29,079
because she was My friend Don was on it, and

790
00:41:29,199 --> 00:41:32,119
I remember I just remember it made her feel speedy.

791
00:41:33,079 --> 00:41:35,760
Speaker 2: Well, I was only like, you know, eight years out

792
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:39,239
of doing cocaine, so I wasn't that scared. But I

793
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:43,960
was also like, as you know, we talked about hated

794
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:47,280
DEXATM tried it in high school and was like, this

795
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:49,519
is the worst feeling. I've ever had in my life. Yeah,

796
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:53,360
terrible jittery. So I was really scared of that. But

797
00:41:53,599 --> 00:41:57,559
fenn fenn, the fen. First fen was the part that

798
00:41:57,639 --> 00:41:59,800
makes you speedy, but then the.

799
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:01,800
Speaker 1: Other fen they came up. Yeah.

800
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 2: Right, So the problem was I think I did lose

801
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:09,360
some weight, but I didn't love how I felt on it, right,

802
00:42:09,679 --> 00:42:11,360
And then I saw I only was on it for

803
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:15,440
a few months, and so is she. But we were

804
00:42:15,519 --> 00:42:18,239
laughing so hard. We left work. We did like an

805
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:21,360
errand together and we went down to like Culver City.

806
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:23,840
Speaker 1: Oh my god, on shack right.

807
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,559
Speaker 2: I went there. They put you on a scale and

808
00:42:26,559 --> 00:42:29,280
then they go all right, here you go, Oh my gosh,

809
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:31,840
you're fat enough, check the box. Here you go, here's

810
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:33,559
your friends. Like cool.

811
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 1: How do you find out about fen fenn back in

812
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,280
the day, like it was it ads in the magazines and.

813
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:42,039
Speaker 2: Everybody was talking about fen fen yeah, and we were like,

814
00:42:42,079 --> 00:42:43,320
well we want some of that. Yeah.

815
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:46,400
Speaker 1: I remember seeing ads for it and like magazines back then.

816
00:42:46,639 --> 00:42:49,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you're back then. Your doctor wouldn't give it

817
00:42:49,199 --> 00:42:50,880
to you. You had to go to like a fen

818
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:54,920
fin clinic. You see ads and you'd be like okay, whatever,

819
00:42:55,079 --> 00:42:58,039
phone boah, yeah, I don't know. I don't think. We

820
00:42:58,079 --> 00:43:00,519
couldn't look it up online. So it was the thing

821
00:43:00,599 --> 00:43:02,840
like you just called them up and said, Okay, I

822
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:04,400
want to come in and get fen fend. They're like,

823
00:43:04,559 --> 00:43:07,199
come on down, down, and it was like a little

824
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:11,599
like down call. Yeah, literally got on the scale, here's

825
00:43:11,599 --> 00:43:14,519
your fen Fen. And we both thought we were so cool.

826
00:43:16,199 --> 00:43:18,159
Like it went back to work and we're like, yeah,

827
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:21,239
on fen fen, like gonna get so fucking skinny.

828
00:43:22,559 --> 00:43:24,440
Speaker 1: Did it work or you ll it?

829
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 2: Did it? Did? I lost some.

830
00:43:26,639 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 1: Weight, but like, yeah, it wasn't worth it.

831
00:43:29,199 --> 00:43:31,360
Speaker 2: I mean, then we found out that it causes like

832
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:34,679
heart valve issues and stuff, and I was like I

833
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:37,159
was already off it by that point, right, right, But

834
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:39,800
now I didn't do it for that long, right. I

835
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,760
think we started hearing warnings about it like pretty fast.

836
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,440
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. I kind of feel like it came and

837
00:43:45,519 --> 00:43:48,599
went quick and it was like gone, yeah.

838
00:43:48,639 --> 00:43:51,119
Speaker 2: But we became like this little family, you know how

839
00:43:51,119 --> 00:43:54,559
it is. Yeah, of course, because you're working hard, you

840
00:43:54,639 --> 00:43:57,559
work really late. We were in the office till like

841
00:43:57,679 --> 00:44:00,719
midnight some nights. Ye. You go do tape and then

842
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:04,480
you come back to the office and brainstorm material. For

843
00:44:04,519 --> 00:44:09,199
the next day, so we spent a lot of time together. Yeah,

844
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:10,079
you developed that.

845
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:12,599
Speaker 1: I still have friendships to this day from people I

846
00:44:12,679 --> 00:44:14,519
used to work with back at when I worked at

847
00:44:14,559 --> 00:44:17,760
Genesis Entertainment, which was the syndication company. That was the

848
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:20,639
first job I had in the entertainment world, and I

849
00:44:20,679 --> 00:44:23,280
started as a receptionist and then I worked into the

850
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:26,880
sales department, and I'm still friends the woman that ran

851
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:30,719
the promotions department that like the HR woman, I still

852
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:33,000
see each other on Facebook. In fact, the one from

853
00:44:33,039 --> 00:44:36,280
the promotions department had boy girl twins back in the

854
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:39,000
day when I was there, and I was like, oh

855
00:44:39,079 --> 00:44:42,000
my god, she's carrying twins, Like, oh, I hope that

856
00:44:42,079 --> 00:44:43,880
never happens to me. I don't know if I could

857
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:45,920
add I don't even know if I could addle one pregnancy.

858
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,320
I was like scared. I was like, good for you.

859
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:50,199
And then I went and visited her when they were

860
00:44:50,199 --> 00:44:52,760
babies and I had pictures of them. And now they

861
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:55,280
just turned twenty eight years old. I just saw on Facebook.

862
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:58,639
Oh my god, they're they're so they're adults now. Yeah,

863
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:02,920
So it's yeah, you become a family. So it's good

864
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:05,119
to have those connections. You know, yeah, I.

865
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:07,119
Speaker 2: Feel like, I mean, listen, do I talk to her

866
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:09,480
very often? No, but every once in a while. I

867
00:45:09,559 --> 00:45:11,719
hit her up on Facebook and like asked her to

868
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:14,440
come to Sword and Scale rewind. She was like, yeah right.

869
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:18,199
And then my other friend, who was already kind of

870
00:45:18,199 --> 00:45:21,079
big and casting at that point, was also at the

871
00:45:21,079 --> 00:45:24,880
big date, and I ran into her at Ralph's, like,

872
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:27,159
I don't know a few years ago. She was happy

873
00:45:27,159 --> 00:45:33,039
to see me. I wouldn't mind just emailing and going, hey, well,

874
00:45:33,199 --> 00:45:37,599
my kid just graduated UCLA's really the level would you consider?

875
00:45:37,679 --> 00:45:38,599
Do you need anybody?

876
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:41,800
Speaker 1: Right? Like, I don't know, Yeah, why not? Well, I

877
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:43,920
mean it's not like she's just a kid or whatever.

878
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:48,840
She just graduated UCLA. That says something, you know, an

879
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:53,159
entry level position. She could find something like that. I agree.

880
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 2: I think I think somebody will talk to her at

881
00:45:57,559 --> 00:46:03,719
least I don't know. Yah. Yeah, anyway, so that's LB. Yeah,

882
00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:06,119
oh my god, I feel like it's already forty five minutes,

883
00:46:06,119 --> 00:46:08,119
so we should we can. I can tell you this

884
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:10,639
on the Friday Show. I had so much more, I know,

885
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:16,880
I know because the Twins graduation prom. Yeah, save I'll

886
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:22,519
save prom stories for Friday okay and and okay, okay,

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