Speaker 1: From Workhouse Connect and aj Benza Fame Uh he'd liked
to be walked on a leash and play really dirty
kinky sex games. Is uh the guy put the cock
in the Peacock Network. Okay, bitch, Hey, everybody aj Benzi
here with Fame is a bitch. This is your daily,
not weekly, not monthly, You're daily Unfiltered podcast. And boy
do we have a lot to talk about today Earlier
this morning or afternoon? I uh did Relationships Is a
Bitch with Mike Agavino and Irena Wood the Relationship Expert. Listen.
If you're not want listening to that show or watching it,
I think you should give it a try, because you
know what I've found out over the last I know,
a couple of years. I'm listening to podcasts regularly. It
begins with, oh, I like the information these people are
talking about. I like the comedy, I like the insight,
I like the passion, et cetera. But then, as you
get to know the people better, whether it's Tom Sigor
or Jason Bateman, Dax Shephard, I mean, you name it, Megan, Carole, whoever,
you start to just like to hear what they have
to say about life in general, about their husbands, wives, families,
their vacations, their mothers, whatever, you start to become a
fan of them. I think that's what has happened with
this podcast as well. Yeah, I break news. I have
very strong opinions about Hollywood and many other things. But
I think in the long run, because you've known, you've
found out so much about my family, or I've opened
up and told you so much about my family, my upbringing,
that you've become um, you know, you've become.
Speaker 2: What's the word, just like to hear about my life,
the people in my life, the idiosyncresies, the drama, unfortunately,
the death, the illness, is the perseverance, what have you,
because all of us are the same when it comes
to having to get through fucking life.
Speaker 1: One of our longest patrons, jo Leone, went through some
shit on top of his cancer. He got I had
such a convoluted story that I'm not even sure Joe understands,
but he did get involved with this girl online. And
he's not gonna be upset that I'm telling you this
because he more or less came on the podcast of
Says page with a post to say I'm back. I
was lost for a minute. This girl or girls plural
did a number on him. And he had just lost
his dog, Paulie, which we all know what that's like.
And he got lost. He got lost in believing in somebody.
He got lost in having to deal with his his sadness.
And and you know, some of us drink, some of
us take drugs, some of us do other stupid crazy shit.
I don't know what Joe did, but he was shot,
and Andrew and I and others on this on our
page got to him and kind of pulled him out
of that bullshit, and now he's he's more or less back.
I forget how this even began. While I was saying this,
What was I saying? To top the show lost? We
just get to like each other. We get to like
what each podcast host brings in addition to their expertise,
and I think that's wonderful. So this this morning, I'm
talking to Mike and Arena about the crazy situation where
I got punched by the big black guy and maced
or Peppa sprayed in my face Saturday night, and I
saved this story. I didn't tell them what happened because
I knew if I told them they would be a guest.
Mike was just he couldn't believe it because Mike is
is never and has never been in situations like that
because he doesn't let his emotions get the best of them.
And I do and I always have. And I also,
you know, brought up the fact that I've told you guys,
my father always told me, if you see it wrong,
have the balls to make it right. And my mother
called me, why you want to be the policeman of
the world, blah blah blah, And I just have to
work on that. It is something, you know, like walking
into a store and I see two young people with
COVID masks on. That begins to drive me crazy. And
I told Mike and Arena, you know, I'm not blaming
the show for my anger, because that's been with me
a lot longer than this last seven years. But I
do tend to let things bother me that I should
just let slot off my back, like run off my
duck's ass, let it go, shake your fucking feathers and
lose it. But I gotta get mad at two young
people wearing COVID masks. That begins to set me off.
And I said to those guys, I said, you know what,
what part of it is All day long, I'm putting
together things for the show. I'm living a life in
a certain way that I want it to be entertaining
to my listeners. And maybe we can learn something together
and we can laugh together at the insanity of it all,
or maybe it's the sadness of it all on some occasions. Whatever,
it is the joy because we've all been through all
those emotions together in seven and a half years. And
sometimes I build the show in my head, not sometimes
every day, And I guess sometimes I jump on a
situation and think this is gonna be good for the show,
and I take it a step or two or three
too far and I end up getting punched and maced
in the parking lot. But anyhow, I gotta work on it.
We all got things to work on. We're not none
of us are perfect. And you guys know my situation.
Because I've always been honest with you, I'm not gonna
stop now. And just to really tighten the screw from
yesterday's show, which I was really hyped up on, I
knew that show felt good. Matter of fact, last night,
after I finished the show on the Riverside. It wouldn't
go past ninety seven percent, which meant I couldn't see
the show I just did. Or more importantly, hear the
volume in my ears, and we have to do that
at the end of each show, at the beginning and end.
We have to make sure the audio is right. But
it wouldn't go to one hundred percent. And I let
the computers stay on for two three hours. I come back,
it's still ninety seven percent. So I write Mike the
ar the show page. Hey, here's what it's about. Here's
what I mentioned. Here's the picture of Joy Taylor, the
sports talk host and Mike. Last night goes, hey, man,
the show didn't process. You got to go back on
the Riverside site and I said, Mike, it still says
ninety But then it finally processed. Mike got it to work.
So now when I do the show, I'm not looking
at my face talking to you. I'm just looking at
a blank screen. But it is it has audio. The
video I've never shown you guys, if you want to
see video, you could look at relationships as a bitch.
The three of us are on camera, and but I
will do shows that I want you to see video.
But on the course of me talking every day, who
cares look at my ugly face? But speaking of always
wanting to tighten this girl and getting it right, I
always told you Joy Taylor, that hot to trot hosts
from Fox Sports, who has now been named in this
sexual harassment suit by a hairstylist who claims that she
was banging the head executive at Fox. Also a co host,
a former NFL player named Emmanuel at show, and she
was also possibly you know, having fun. I mean this
girl was having fun. Basically, she you know, she slept
her way to the top, which I always figured by
the way she dressed with her tits out every day. Well,
today we uncovered a Instagram post of her talking to women.
I'm not sure when this was out, when this came out,
but she says, and sheack's so cool saying this, Can
we just keep it a buck? Which is a very black,
ghetto way of saying, can we keep it real? Can
we keep it a buck? She goes, if the guy
you like is fine, and he's funny and he has
fucking money, fine, funny and fucking money, throwing all boundaries
and standards away, throw them out the window. All that
shit you guys talk about on Instagram. You're gonna move
forward with that person for being fine, funny and having
fucking money. This is her own words. Okay, So I'm so.
I mean, look, I'm just glad that I was right,
Glad that the intuition and the spider sense is firing
on all cylinders. And it was this morning too. Actually,
this this afternoon, I'm watching Donald Trump take questions right
from the White House Press well, not White House, it was.
They were at Mara Lago, so it's the White House
Press call. But they're down there and they're firing questions
of Trump. First of all, was so nice to see
a man just sit there and take questions and answer
it back. What a pleasure to watch and listen to
a leader who has all his wits about him, a
strong determination, a toughness, and a grit we haven't seen
since the last time he was running things. I love it.
I love how he goes right to the meat on
the bone. We're going to rename the Gulf of Mexico
the Gulf of America. Sounds beautiful, got a great ring
to it, the Gulf of America. And that's what we're doing.
Fucking check love it. What's next? We want the Panama
Canal back. Okay, because listen, Jimmy Carter sold it for
a dollar. That was a mistake, a very bad mistake.
We lost thirty eight thousand men. Thirty eight thousand brave
men went down there to build a Panama canal. They
died of malaria in the jungle. Okay, they all died
in malaria. What a terrible way to go, just awful.
So we want that back to fucking love the guy
never has the phrase a man, a plan a canal
Panama been better. One of the best palindromes, by the way,
a sentence that reads the same forward and backwards. It's
one of my favorite things. A man, a plant, canal
Panama is the same thing backwards. My other favorites are
mister owl ate, my metal worm, do Geese? See God?
And finally, was it a car or a cat? I
saw God? I love that words are fun, aren't they?
I love that I'm in the business of words. We're
gonna buy Greenland for defense. That depends for defense purposes.
Biden would have bought it for depends purposes, for defense purposes.
I don't think Denmark is doing anything with it. Okay,
we need it for national defense, and that's good for
the whole world, not just America. Then he comes with
this doozy, which someone had to fucking say. Hamas has
one hundred and one hostages, seven Americans, three of whom
we think are dead. And Trump has always threatened a
lot of repercussions, a lot of bad shit f from
US if it fails to release them. And today he
said again it will not be good forms and will
it will not be good frankly for anyone. All hell
will break out, mister president. Can you tell us what
kind of military? No, I would not do that because
that would ruin the strategy of our military. I will say, Oh,
hell will break out. I don't have to say anymore,
but that's what it is. How do people not love this?
For fuck's sake? When you have the world's most powerful
military and you never use it, what good is it?
Get the hostages back to the United States on our
soil alive where they belong, which Biden couldn't fucking do,
and neither could Jimmy Carter until Ronald Reagan was sworn
in that day. We should take Canada as our fifty
first state. Can you imagine, I mean, I love it.
I love this because, first of all, just to hear
Trump go, can you imagine how powerful we'd be if
we erase that invisible border. Excuse me, excuse me? How
powerful we be in terms of national defense. It's very important.
It's a very important strategy. I love a guy coming
in and just kicking shit over and rearranging the furniture
and telling you how it's gonna be from here on in.
I like bosses like that, I like coaches like that,
and I like leaders like that because I'm not a leader.
I like to be led by a strong man. Yeah,
a woman. Linda Stacey, my editor, was one of the
best leaders I've ever had in my life, and she
took me to terrific heights. Man or a woman, Just
be strong. It's gonna be so much fun. And look
at all the pussy's running away and resigning and quitting
their posts and their jobs. Justin Trudeau, who The New
York Post said as the wokest man to ever wear
black faced, tremendous comment. He got the hell out of
dog because he can't even process the thought of an
American president telling him to shut the fuck up, do this,
do that? Your country's a mess. Listen to me, I'm
gonna put Tyroffs up your ass. He couldn't take it.
He knew he's no match. So just know guys like
him and the FBI leaders and that the people in
the DOJ they knew there were punks and pussies and frauds,
and for four years they ran a muck And now
we got a new boss Daddy's home, and all this
shit stops and they're running for the exits. We also
saw Jeff Bezos make the trip to mar A Lago
to kiss the ring. Good. Guess what, he's smart. There's
no such thing as a stupid billionaire. You can't be
the first or second or third richest man in the
world and be dumb. Bezos went down there with his
hot ass girlfriend, which Trump loves. Now, what do you know?
Malania got herself a mammoth deal for her uh with
his company Amazon Prime to produce a documentry on her life.
Big money too. Brett Ratner is going to direct that part.
I don't get Brett Rattner is a pig. The guy
in the beginning of his career did some miraculous things
he came from shit. He did all this kind of trickery,
bullshit at NYU and film school to get where he got.
He spent years being Russell Simmons coffee boy. I was
there for those days, so I remember how Brett Ratner
began always wanting to bang pretty girls, but he had
no shot because he was Russell Simmons, you know, a
little like schlubby guy getting coffee for him. And then
Brett Rattner began to step away from that and direct
MTV music videos. And at the time, I was dating
this black chick who was the kind of check you
put in a hip hop video. Put it that way.
She just was in Playboy Karen Taylor June ninety six. Yeah,
and she's like hanging out one night and she goes,
I said, what is that? She did a really sexy
music video for some group I can't remember. It was
a sexy song. She looked great, and I said, what
did you ever MAKEE? Like, what do they pay you
for that? I don't know? What do you mean? Don't know?
I never got paid, You never got paid. No, when
did you shoot this? About three months ago? Hold it,
it's on MTV and you're not you didn't get no.
Who directed it? Brett Rattner? I know, Brett, you want
your money. How much are you gonna pay you? Two
thousand dollars? Oh okay, you know what. I'm gonna call you.
Gotta get your money. No, no, don't, I said, don't.
You worked all day? I want to call him. I
call him up. I had everybody's phone of him back there,
Brett aj Ben, Hey, man, what's going on? How are
you tell me? What do you mean? Can you talk? Yeah?
I'm on mister Charles and I having dinner. Okay, well,
put your fork down. We've gotta discuss something. What you
ran a video with the such and such band? Right, yeah, yeah, okay.
The girl in that video, oh yeah, she's great, hot
as hell. Yeah, I know she's my girlfriend. She is. Yeah,
Oh that's great. But she never got paid from you.
She never got paid. No, never got paid nothing, not
even a letter, a call, nothing, nothing. She's supposed to
get two grand. Oh that must be an accounting era.
I said it better be, Brent, because if you're holding
back the money and not giving him the money, I'm
gonna come to the fucking restaurant and punch your fucking
head off, get off your ass, and pay the girl.
Two days later she got her money. I like men
like that. Anyhow, that was the morning, and I'm thinking
of all this crazy shit, but I loved watching Trump
be that kind of guy. And then the piece to resistance.
This is the best Trump is gonna be in there
in less than two weeks, right, all of a sudden,
Mark Zuckerberg announces a series of changes in metas content
moderation practices on Facebook Instagram. No more fact checking. A
lot of restrictions are out the window. Zuckerberg and that
stupid fucking Hairdoe said. The recent elections also feel like
a cultural tipping point towards once again prioritizing speech. So
we're gonna back. We're going back to our roots and
focus on reducing mistakes, simplifying our policies, and reducing free
expecial expression on our platforms. Now, I gotta go back
and build my fucking five hundred million dollar bunker in
Hawaii so me and my wife can live forever. This
is what's going on, And I'm so happy because they know,
you know, we fucked up. But here's the thing, guys, Yeah,
I know they're gonna do less fact checking, and some
people are nervous about this. I'm not. I don't I
don't like when I say things on Instagram they go,
you should really undo that. Maybe you should edit calling
somebody a fucking clown. No, I don't think so. When
their video shows them doing something stupid and I go
fucking clown, don't get mad at me. Give me it then.
But no, So all that shit's being handled. You can
say things the way you want to say things, because
you're saying things in a truthful manner. And apparently, according
to Zuckerschmuck, he's not gonna edit those things anymore. They're
gonna work with the Trump administration to quote push back
on governments around the world that are going after American
companies and pushing to censor more. Thank you. What took
you so long? Is it because Trump wasn't in office
and you spent four hundred million dollars on Joe Biden
being elected? You piece of shit? Is that it? Now?
We're gonna focus those tulks on teching, tackling illegal and
highly high severity violations, and for lower severity violations, we're
going to rely on someone reporting an issue before we
take auctionhit. That's what you always should have done, shithead
punk pussy in the schoolyard. When pussy's in the schoolyard
get so powerful, the world changes, you know when it
doesn't change. When schoolyard bullies get power, they tend to
make things better. Case in point, Donald Trump. When a
schoolyard nerd who was picked on gets powered, they fuck
it up for everybody. You could deal with a tough guy.
You could go and sit down and hash things out
with a tough guy. You can't do it with a
pussy because they're scared, they're frightened. A tough guy knows
took a lot of walls to come here and talk
to me. I've talked to you know me. I've been
with gangsters all my life. They respect when you got
a problem. What's your issue? Ajay? Well, look all due respect.
I don't like this. I don't like that. I've been
to sit downs with killers to my right and left.
But if you present your argument in a respectful way,
they're not gonna knock you off and beat you up
in an alley. They're gonna listen. But see, this is
what no one understood when Trump was running and I
kept saying, you don't understand bullies, You don't understand tough
guys on the block. You got to listen to me.
Many of you did, some of you didn't. Now we're
alli exactly where I said we'd be. Mark Zuckerbrook, I'm
sorry for everything you've gone through. My goddess, his tail
between his legs. He could screw himself right now. You know,
my brother in law, Jack was my coach. Not to
mention he was everything to me as a young boy,
growing up, learning sports and becoming more talented at every sport.
But he was my basketball college and coached us to
a championship. And we did not have the team that
deserved to be champions. But we played harder, we looked better,
and we were more disciplined than any other team. And
the two or three of us that could score, you know,
the ball all came to us more often. We work
better as a team. Jack would take us down to
you're doing layup drills like this before the game starts,
while the other team is shooting random jump shots all
over the court. We're gonna run figure eights around the court.
We're gonna run three figure eights. We're gonna have the
same socks, they're gonna be the same height. We're gonna
break in a huddle, we're gonna say a certain phrase.
We're gonna beat them before they know we're beating them.
And Jack would say this, by the way, he turns
eighty one tomorrow, Jesus Christ, he would tell me, the
greatest weapon you can have as your enemy's fear. If
your enemy believes you can overtake them, you're already won
part of the war. And that's what we've done. Now,
let's talk about Aubrey Plaza. Late last night I got
a tip from a very reliable source about that Aubrey
Plaza discussed I don't know if she filed for divorce.
If she did, we could find it online. But she
discussed or told her husband, Jeff Faine, as she wants
a divorce. And you know, look, I'll go back. Listen,
there are people out there that want to protect her
because she's you know, you lose her husband. It's horrible.
I understand you people. You know, at the end of
the day, whether she wanted to leave him or not,
she still loved him for many years. It's said. But
you know what, if you're on New Year's Day. Try
not to go showboating. Had a high profile NBA game
with your gay friend's arm around your shoulder all night.
It's poor form. Those are the kind of optics that
I don't think helped whatever her husband was struggling with
when it comes to mental illness. I'm not saying her
saying I want a divorce killed him, but it certainly
put enough weight on the end of this gale that
dropped down and made him think, I'm out. This is
too much to fucking handle. You know, many years ago,
while she was with Jeff apparently she no, they must
have had a time where they were on the outs.
I don't know. But Aubrey Plaza was with Justin Throw,
Jennifer Aniston's ex husband before he met Aniston, and they
were actually, no, I'm sorry. It was while he was
with Anniston and they were seen together in the city.
He was holding a bicycle, which is a weird thing
to do. If you're just gonna have a meeting to
do a project, Why are you walking down the street.
Why is he holding his bicycle? Now, if you have
a meeting, you have a meeting at a restaurant. Whatever
the fuck are you split, you don't like meet someone
and walked down six to a halve of you, always
holding his bicycle. That's not how meetings go. That's a
different kind of meetup. It's not for a project. So
back then twenty eighteen, apparently she was with Justin Throw
and as the story goes, he did all he could
to get her in bed and then he ghosted her.
That's the scuttle butt. Also back in the day, when
Jennifer Aniston and Justin Throw were on the rocks, the
word is Aniston got really pissed off because the story
was that her man, her husband, was seeing Aubrey Plaza
on the side, and word is there was a group
of women led by Jennifer Aniston who wanted to see
Aubrey Plaza. Black ball because Anathon thought she was a
home wrecker and ruined her marriage with Justin. I don't know.
I know Aniston is a Malibu drink smart water all day,
green fucking shake kind of girl, and Justin Throw is
a black jeans, T shirt, no sleeves, motorcycle. I'm a
New York City dude, nice day out all night. So
they didn't really match, but what have you. He's hell
of hell of a talented guy though. But either way,
these two, Aubrey Plaza and Jeff Baina, they had their
troubles in that relationship. And what I broke late last
night was I heard from a very reliable source that
she told them she wanted a divorce and Net may
have been the little extra heavyweight that pulled them over
the edge. And we already established the last show that
he came from a family with a history of mental illness,
and surely he was probably hounded by that as well.
I got you know, can I just say, I gotta
say something right? I really do, And I tell you
right now, the fact that Trump is back, it's made
me speak louder and stronger and more distinctly because I
just feel like I got people on my side. I
didn't have people on my side for four years with
Biden and Harris. Now I got a guy behind me.
I know it sounds crazy, but that's just the way
I feel. I think that's why I went out to
the Supermark at the other with the Trump T shirt
with a little bit of a Gotsen dab and me
ain't got in that fight with the goddamn or whatever.
I don't know. I'm just saying I feel like that.
But can I say something? I don't want to sound shallow,
except I'm aware of some of you already think that.
But look at Jeff Bena. Now look at Aubrey Plaza.
Let's look at their careers. She is beautiful, very popular,
in demand, famous like crazy, as the magazines have said,
a millennial icon. And although Jeff was a successful writer,
director and also made his name in Hollywood, which is
not easy, it just always looked like in the pictures
that he out kicked the coverage when he begged her.
But what I really want to say is this, Jeff
Bana and and other timid guys out there, you were
somehow able to beg this. I don't want to say,
bag to woo this up and coming beautiful movie and
TV star. Then why do you wait like eleven years
to get married? What else were you looking for? Were
you waiting for her to be even more beautiful or
more successful? What was the reason you didn't throw a
ring on her finger and make her yours? Christ I
did that twice in hours. I knew, okay, those relationships
didn't last. I'm still friends with both of them. You
know we tried. First, I was too young. The second
just stop working. After fifteen years, twenty years, it happens.
I know she may have maybe not wanted to get hitched.
That's always a possibility. She looks like one of those
chicks who just has to things her way. But we'll
never know unless she says it. I don't think she will.
But I just know when you find that special someone
that gives you butterflies in your ass, put down the
camera or whatever the hell else you do for a
living and fucking marry her. That never sits. Right When
a guy waits, when they know they got the girl
who was way more beautiful than they are handsome guys,
that's the time to make it happen. Matter of fact,
Empty from Crazy Days and Nights ran this blind item
back in twenty eighteen. This former a minus B plus
mostly television actress from a now defunct very hit network
show which would be Parks and Red, learn very quickly
that the writer actor all of you know will cheat
in a second. She thought he wanted something serious and
went by his place. The next day he was with
another woman naked. He didn't even bother covering up. I
don't know how much of that is true or how
much of that is just for entertainment purposes, now that
we know what Empties deal is. But Aubrey and Jeff
began dating in twenty ten, so this is eight years
into their relationship. I never heard that they split for
a time. Maybe they did. I don't know. So I'm
not sure if this justin throw angle is true or not.
But it's suddenly something to think about. It's out there.
And finally, speaking of relationships that don't make any sense
to me, well, apparently there's no bad blood between Kate
Beckinsale and the comedian Matt Rife. Have you seen Matt Rife.
He's on Instagram a lot. He really just exploded. In fact,
I think he's the father of Whitney Cummings. Baby. I
don't know if you'll love and know this. I just
feel like he is. All these women got weak in
the knees when Matt Rife came around. Matt Rife with
his new chin implant and boat tooks and crowd work,
and suddenly he's the hottest comic in it. I can't
so at the Golden Globes day were together. Now the
guy's twenty nine Kate Beckham Sale's fifty one, and they
were kissing at Spago at a Golden Globes party. People
say they were being very affectionate. They were kissing, very romantic,
big makeout session. When you make out it's Spago, you
might that's like killing yourself on the roof of the
White House. Everybody's gonna know you want people to see.
If you don't want people to see, go make out
at the Dude drop in or the Alibi or some
other little stupid place that no one knows about. Do
it there not At Spago, she had her arms around
his neck and his arms and hands are around her waist.
They're very close. They kissed a bunch of times. Make
it out. Are they friendly xes or are they looking
to have more fun again? Because Kate certainly seems like
a girl that's got a revolving door on her front
the front of her house. I don't think it's locked.
I think you can just walk in and leave when
you want. They did date back in twenty seventeen. They
dated in twenty seventeen when she was forty three and
he was twenty one. I can only imagine what Matt
Riich felt like. Banging Kate Beckinsale eight years ago because look,
I mean to me, she's one of the tippy top
hottest women in Hollywood. I know lately she's looking a
little crazy. She's got some work done. She's a little
loopy with the bows on her head and the wearing pajama.
I know, I know. But he did at one point
in twenty nineteen have a little fun at becan sales
exs fence when she was dating Pete Davidson, and he
told TMZ that his relationship with her was very complicated,
and he advertised or he advised Pete. He advised Pete
to run man to man. He said, run enjoy it
while you can. I hope they're both happy. Then he said,
I shouldn't have said that. I'm sorry. You know, we
were complicated, a lot of ups and downs. I'm a store,
she's happy. I'm glad she's moved on and she's thrilled.
So he had to cover it up. He didn't like
dissing her in public like that, and he said, on
being a petty asshole. Okay, but Kate Beckinsale has shown
us with the Pete Davidson thing. Dan she also was
she had a flame with machine gun Kelly five years ago?
What can I say? I mean, Kate Beckinsale to me
is gorgeous. Matt Rife looks like a lesbian to me,
he just does. And I've always liked her look. And
I'm not even a fan of that crazy movie, those
movies she did the Actually, I don't even care about
those movies. I just love how she looks. But enough
with the ozempic. It's getting scary now. There are women
who have never been fat who are using this, and
like I said yesterday, they're losing their kids and their
faces are becoming distorted. Look no further than Kate Perry,
Katy Perry, and look at Kate Beckins said, Look at
both Kates. They look different and not better. But I
will say this, I'll say this before I leave. I
gotta tell you, and men understand what I'm gonna say. Men,
don't buckle under pressure if your girl or your wife
is going is what AJ's saying. True, tell me the truth, Tommy,
tell me the truth. Pete. Okay, Kate Becansall has the
worst taste to men, and she also looks slightly like
a hot mess who goes for guys that are just
not handsome or sexy. But that makes all of us
think we have a shot at her. As stupid as
it sounds, I mean, I'm in LA, a considerable amount
of miles away from her, but I guess I have
a shot. I don't, but I'm just saying at least
I'm in the same state. There are other men in
different states and countries who think, after the way she's acted,
I might have a shot bang in her. That's the
way guys think. I know it's twisted, but this is
how a lot of men's heads are arranged, just like
This is gonna upset some of you, But I don't
mean to make light of this at all. But whenever
we hear of a girl who grew up with trauma
either unfortunately being sexually molested at some point, what have you,
guys immediately think she's gotta be good in bed. This
was always a topic on Howard Stern. Howard Stern made
no bones about mentioning that, really, so did you have
an uncle who abused you? Oh, you must be so
hot in bed, you must be a killer. And the
girls would laugh. The audience loved it. This is when
America could say what they want and what we wanted,
and no one got put in jail or canceled. But
I know it doesn't sound right, but I hate to
tell you it's true. And I can say this from
extensive research in the field women who either claim or
were abused, molested, et cetera, they tend to be more sexual.
And I just heard Tyler Perry on Dax Shepherd's podcast. Honestly,
I really don't care about Tyler Perry. I have my
own feelings about him, but I gave it a good
listen and I came away really having a lot of
empathy for him and understanding his plight and where he
came from and what happened to him. And there's a
great documentary on Amazon called Maxine's Boy. It's about Tyler
Perry's life. He had a film crew follow him for
ten years because he had his the mother of his child,
be the person that was in charge, because he knew
she wouldn't let anything bad happen to him. And he
talks about being molested as a kid and knowing the
guy who his mother said was his biological father was not.
He just felt it. He felt it, and his mother,
on a deathbed said no I wish you were wrong,
but that is your dad. He found out fifteen years
ago that that wasn't his dad. The paternity test him
and his brother took. The brother was that man's son,
not Tyler Perry. And he talked about I forget the phrase,
but between I might get these ages wrong. Let's just
say between five and nine is when boys and girls
have this kind of I'm gonna get this wrong. I
should just listen to him say it again. You can't
on your free time. It's like there's some kind of
sexual bridge or a span of time in your young
years where you begin to feel what turns you on sexually,
and even though you can't do anything about it, you
tend to feel it. Like my ex producer boss at E,
who felt that plumber pinch his cheek when he was
in a play pen as a three year old boy,
and knew he liked that feeling more than a woman
touching him. I know I come down hard on gays
and transgenders, and I really sometimes my heart just goes
out to these people who are fucked with and don't
know their real sexual identity, and they've all been fucked
up as kids because from three to eight nine. We're
like little fucking pink little squirrels in a nest up
a tree. We don't know shit. We just hope we're
handled by people who love us and don't hurt us.
But Tyler Perry explain that that in that time span,
that's what happened, and Dak Sheppard was molested as well.
Count your lucky stars if that didn't happen to you.
But unfortunately, in my experience, when it happened to girls,
women that I've dated, it has this thing a fits
to them that makes them more sexual boys and girls.
It sucks, but it's Look, I'm sure Kate Beckhamsale is loopy,
probably very high maintenance, and she seems to be more
and more desperate for attention with every year that goes
by as she gets older, all of her insecurities are
becoming very evident, and even that makes a guy think
she's attainable. I'm not saying us guys as smart. I'm
just giving you insight as to who we are and
or else are you going to go, ladies. We're the
only game in town, guys, unless you want to go
lesbian on us, and that is really tragic to us.
But I bet there isn't a guy listening right now
who doesn't think Ellen DeGeneres makes Porschia de Rossi as
happy as we could. Guys, Am I right? Even if
I'm wrong, Just let us believe it's true. I'm aj Benz.
So that was your daily Unfiltered podcast for January eighth,
twenty twenty five. Happy birthday, Jack, Talk East tomorrow