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Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons throwing some ice

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mix in some vodka.

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Speaker 2: We call it a podcast from the Mac of All

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Trade Studio in Fairport and driven by Victor Chrysler, Dots

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Jeep Rahm.

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Speaker 1: It's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast. Well, hello and welcome.

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Thank you for getting your pot on. Thank you for

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telling a friend. That's how we spread the word about

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the pirate ship. Danny's here, lots of things to talk.

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Speaker 3: About with Danny, Laura's here.

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Speaker 1: And I think there's been a new record set in

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Uh I think I do. I think a new record Okay,

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because I used to do this on the radio. Whose

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kids already in trouble at school? Whose kid's already in

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trouble at school, Whose wife's already in trouble at school?

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Oh no, I'm just checking everything's good.

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Speaker 3: Principal wanted a paddle her.

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Speaker 4: No, she comes hold today? Ago?

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Speaker 1: How you doing? I go only one hundred and seventy

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nine more days ago.

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Speaker 3: But that's it.

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Speaker 1: I'm so tired.

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Speaker 5: That was my reaction around eleven am this morning when

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I got a call from the principal's office that my

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seven year old punched another kid in the back.

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Speaker 6: Second day of second grade?

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Speaker 1: Oh man in the back raised it was a hour.

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It's his father's side, right, wow, yep, already what was

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a kid doing? Was there reason? Why did?

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Speaker 6: I talked to Cam? And I was like, how was

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how was school today? It was good? Mommy. I was like,

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did you get in trouble?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 6: I was like, did you not hit someone? Who's like?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 6: It was light?

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Speaker 5: But then I got it out of him and I

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was like why. I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I was mad, Oh.

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Speaker 3: Kid had more stylish clothes.

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Speaker 1: What's the problem.

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Speaker 5: No, I mean Cam has impulse control behavior issues, so

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I think he probably was frustrated in a moment and

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found the nearest kid next to him and punched him.

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Then I just found out as I was pulling in

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that it's one of his best friends in his class.

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Speaker 1: All right, wow, boys, this is what happens with boys.

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Speaker 3: Come on.

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Speaker 6: Just had to apologize to the monk.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, yeah, that thing. Yeah. I remember once because

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I always figured like boys getting little scraps and stuff.

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Speaker 3: And I remember being.

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Speaker 1: A young guy and I was playing with my buddy

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up the street and he and I got into it

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and he swung at me. Or something, and I grabbed

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them and I flipped them over my back into a stream.

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He was all wet and he's crying and he went inside.

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So I was crying because I didn't want to be

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in trouble for hurting him and all adrenaline. Yeah, well

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the adrenaline, but it was like I didn't want to

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be in trouble too. And he's like, your mom's in here,

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and I'm like fuck. And then uh, fast forward a

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bunch of years and and this mom, I mean, she

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had five kids, four boys, and she's like, well, you know, basically,

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rub some dirt, nkuld go outside and play. Uh. We

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were up at a camp once and there was a

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little scrap between one of my guys and neighbors who

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lived across the street. We were at a third neighbor

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had a cottage up on Salmon River, and we were

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all up there and this mom and I are talking.

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She was and I said, uh, I had you know Jackson,

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that's my kid, and her kid got into it.

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Speaker 3: And then she goes, oh, I didn't know about this.

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Speaker 1: I go, yeah, I guess Jackson like, uh, you know,

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her kid like either swung at him or something. So

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Jackson shoved him and he went down and into the water.

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That mom wouldn't talk to us for probably the better

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part of a couple months because I because I basically went,

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it's boys. Yeah, you know what I mean, like, give

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it five minutes. It's like a it's like a Florida

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thunderstorm with little boys. There's a fight, and then there's

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nothing and world that did not that did not Yeah,

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that didn't.

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Speaker 3: Fly with that.

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Speaker 5: I already asked him and he said like, oh yeah,

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me and his friend Anthony, we were fine the rest

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Speaker 6: I was like, okay, but I mean in.

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Speaker 5: Kindergarten, this kid, he is, he gets a little frustrated.

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In kindergarten, he punched a fourth grader in the face.

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Your kid, yeah, well no, he stole he stole his

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winter hat on the playgrounds. I was like, okay, well

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that's a little validated. You still can't punch people. But

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like you know, but second day of school, Yeah, already

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going to be labeled the naughty kid.

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Speaker 1: Wow. I love it. I love it because Jamison today

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started at Minerve of de Land.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 1: He's home sleeping currently, so I've been trying to make

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it so we have dinner and so I read home

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made dinner. We sat at the table and then he

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went right back crashing on the CA. I cleaned up

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and came back here and he, uh, but he had

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to have his right drip today. So we wound up

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going to the plug where he bought. And he's very

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into rap culture, yes and deep. If you listened to

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yesterday's podcast, you know he and I got into it

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a little bit about rap culture. And I was trying

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to just say that because he was telling me that

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the Doctor Dre is trash and could Doctor Drake come

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up with a beat like this? And I said, it

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doesn't matter. Doctor Dre paved the way, like the Space Program,

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we don't have Elon Musk flying shit to the moon

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and the space station if we didn't have the program

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prior the Pioneers, the guys you did at first, same

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thing with music, saying everything builds, everything evolves. Can't call

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those guys trash, they are the godfathers. He didn't like

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that the original, so he and I took a series

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of pictures. He wanted me to take a series of pictures,

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just keep hitting the thing as he moves around. He

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does this whole thing, and he bought this combination at

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the plug in the Eastview Mall that he loved. And

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it's like a sweatshirt but very weird design. I mean

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it was picked out for days. We had to get

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the right jeans. Then there was a problem with the shoes.

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He had decorated shoes. Then it was different ones and

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we're back to these. I mean it was like a

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whole thing. And I go drip when I was in

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school was something you tried to avoid if somebody's yeah,

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i was talking about their not even post nasal, I'm

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talking about I go taking anything. I just back to

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school drip. It was.

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Speaker 3: It was on point for Jamison.

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Speaker 1: But I'm like, man back in my day, man, something

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different entirely, you know, than it is now.

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Speaker 3: But he was he was all extream too.

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Speaker 1: Too. Yes, stream, Yes, tell you what all the words

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that we have now that had completely different meanings, ten different.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you did a bit about that the other day. Yeah,

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I and I would have got a lot of them.

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Speaker 1: Wrong.

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Speaker 4: Stream is one, that content is one. Oh gosh, there's

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so many different things that. Yeah, app what's an app?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's an appliance, right, you know, well right, you

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were thinking, yeah, right, isn't it like refrigerator. No, I mean,

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there's so many different things now. Something else I didn't

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have to deal with back in the day is what

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happened in Georgia.

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Speaker 7: But multiple law enforcement sources saw tell ABC News that

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four people were killed in the shooting at the high

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school there in Georgia. Another twenty or so have been injured,

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and the severity of those injuries and the types of

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those injuries are not immediately clear. It's not certain that

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these are all gunshot wounds. There could have been trampling

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injuries or you know, people cut or hit by different objects.

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give us at least an indication now, Kira, about the

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seriousness of what went on, Starting at about nine thirty

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in the morning Eastern time, that's when the sheriff says

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that the first nine to one to one call came

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in for an active shooter at this high school in

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winder Georgia. From there, were now told by multiple law

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enforcement sources that four people were killed, approximately twenty or

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so injured, and again the severity of the types of

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those injuries are not immediately clear, Kira.

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Speaker 1: So that kid was not on his first or second

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day of school because it's Georgia, yep. Otherwise he would

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have been in way more trouble than your kid, and

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probably faster than anybody. But I mean, holy shit, fourteen

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year old, fourteen year old kid. I think there's a

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math teacher who had its hip shattered by the bullet

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and shoulder injury and four people who are dead and

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I haven't heard any more about it. I don't even

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like really paying attention to that stuff, but I go,

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that is shit we never had to deal with when

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I was in school.

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Speaker 6: Never.

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Speaker 1: And there was a gun incident in my school. There

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was a gun incident. My really good friends dad was

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a I think he was a Duchess County sheriff. He

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worked for the Sheriff's department, lived in the northern part

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and this kid brought a gun into school and he

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had it in his bag. And one we had something

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called commons where you could sit in the cafeteria. It

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was basically study hall for Bill Moran. It was a

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fucking comedy show and you could eat and they, you know,

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the cafeteria was open so you could eat. What's the

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deal with me, law? Well, you know what I'm saying

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like it wasn't a comedy show. But I just I

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was not doing homework. It's my point. I was not

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doing anything anything constructive at all. And my friend Chris

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Brenner saw in this kid's bag a gun, and he

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went up to the person in charge and said, hey,

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there's a gun in you know, so and so's bag.

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So that person got on the little gray phone anybody

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remember the little gray phone that would buzz into the

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main office. And they said, hey, he's got a gun.

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it was a divider that went across those cheap dividers

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that would separate like the cafeteria, and there was a

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door in the middle, and so they called Nate. I

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don't want to say the kid's name. They called him

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down to the main office. Like he got like his

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mom's there or something, and so they he went down

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to the main office. This other person came through the door,

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got his bag, took his gun. He was going to

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commit suicide. He wasn't gonna shoot anybody. Jesus. Yeah. It's

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a terrible, really good friend of mine, such a good

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friend that he broke his leg and he was on crutches,

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and so my buddy and I took the bottoms of

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his crutches off, and then I started to feel really guilty.

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The rubber bottoms aren't there, aren't there? So now it's

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just wood on tile. It's like Bambi on ice. And

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so I remember standing up and he put his weight down,

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and my buddy's starting to laugh, and I jumped up

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behind him. And this kid was a big kid, and

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I caught him like I had a I was like, no, no, no,

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he went right now, like they shot right out.

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Speaker 6: How old was he when this happened?

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Speaker 1: We were seniors. We were seniors in high school. So

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but that's the only gun incident I ever remember. And

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then after that, I think it was Combine and that was.

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Speaker 4: Nine.

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Speaker 1: Were you still in high school? I was in college

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my first year of college.

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Speaker 4: We were watching on College and we just gotten back

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from dinner and we were watching TV and Littleton, Colorado.

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I have cousins who live in Littleton. They didn't go

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to that school. They went to a school called JFK,

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one of many schools called JFK, and they so I

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was like I called my mother immediately, like, Mom, I

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don't know if you know this, but breaking news CNN.

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And she called my aunt Martha and she said, no, no, no,

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the girls go to this school.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, that's the that's the story.

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Speaker 4: Right now, everyone's panicking and we don't know what to

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what to think of all this. And yeah, I mean

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now all of a sudden, it's bec I don't want

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to say it's become routine, but we've been exposed to it,

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like there's there's there's shootings.

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Speaker 1: Now, we don't even hear about it anymore.

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Speaker 4: Right, that happened all the time now, and it's ridiculous.

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Speaker 3: It's it's pretty scary. I mean, the problem is we're large.

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Speaker 1: I'm afraid for like anybody who's a teacher or student. Yeah,

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because this is where it happens.

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Speaker 5: They said that this was I think the fifty fourth

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school shooting in twenty twenty four.

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Speaker 1: I mean, oh, in the twenty twenty shirts that we

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remember back that, yeah, starting January. But yeah, you're right,

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it's pretty horrible. And I mean from what I read

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they got it's Appalachi High School, which sounds really redneck,

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but it's about forty five minutes outside of Atlanta, so

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uh a phone call.

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Speaker 3: They received a phone call.

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Speaker 1: This morning warning.

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Speaker 3: About multiple school shootings. Law enforcement officials still seeing it.

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Speaker 1: The high school received a call stating there would be

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shootings at five schools, with Appalachi being the first. It's

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not knowing who originally placed the call, yep. And that's

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freaky because they take you know, you have to be overly.

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I don't know what they did with that. Nobody's saying

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maybe they tried to do something. I don't know. I

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have no one.

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Speaker 5: I would think that school would immediately be shut down

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because if there's a bomb threat at any school or yeah,

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Speaker 1: We should get bomb threats all the time. When I

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was a kid and that rural broke, but it was

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like somebody in the went to the payphone in the lobby,

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right there's a bob and locker four fifty two and

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there was no four to fifty two. But they went

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running all through and you know what I mean, Like

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I'm thinking, like fourth floor. We only had two floors.

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Speaker 4: So after I remember, after column buying all the schools

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and from where I'm from, like all of a sudden,

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like different bomb threats. Right, it's your school's Turnea, then

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it's our school's turn.

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Speaker 1: Because people are, oh this is great. Then we could

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can't school and it.

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Speaker 4: Was awful, But like, I want a free day off.

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I got a test today, right, you know, and.

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Speaker 1: Back then you couldn't really track the ball away, like okay,

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my free day off was a snow day back in

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the day. And even then I didn't study for the

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test they would have had, yeah, and I had more

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time to use it. I didn't do anything. The same

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thing with these people they called in. They're just dicking

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around doing something. But this is tragic and sad, and

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I go, you know, what do you think when this happens.

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Do we think that it's a kid who was bullied?

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Speaker 3: Is it? You know?

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Speaker 1: What is the thinking and why does it go to

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this extreme at such a young age that I got

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to go get my revenge this way? I mean, I

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think a lot of people have pictured in their heads.

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I think, first of all, I think everybody at some

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point has contemplated their own demise, like killing themselves. I

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think that's fairly normal for people at some point in

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your life. And I think that it to have like

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I would love to beat that guy up. You know,

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we've all had it in our head, this argument or

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this fight, or you know, maybe I'm in second grade

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and I want to punch somebody in the back of

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the head. Well, I'm just saying, like I think that

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everybody's had or you know, shoot that guy. But you

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would never do it. Ye, it's called big Italian. If

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that was me, that's how we ever do it. No,

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you wouldn't.

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Speaker 4: And the thing is like remember Friday, the movie Friday

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where uh where Craig goes to it it was ice Cube.

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Craig goes to pick up a gun. His father goes,

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what do you guys? Your kids are nothing but punks.

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Speaker 1: This is like nineteen like ninety five, right, in other.

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Speaker 4: Words, like, well, the heck was going my fist because

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this guy's a bigger bully than me. I'm just gonna

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pull out a gun. And this has never changed. It's

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never it's never changed. No, and you are the ultimate avenge.

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Speaker 1: But you even hear the kids in the city they

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feel like they need a gun for safety, you know,

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and that's a very scary thought process. I've never felt

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like I needed a gun for my safety, which I

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don't know if I live in a bubble or or

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a super naive. But I've never felt like I need.

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Speaker 4: I have friends who live in the South and they're like, yeah,

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you gotta have a gun down here I go. You

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mean you what do you mean you have to have

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a gun. Oh yeah, it's the South. You have to

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have a gun.

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Speaker 1: Can you expand on this? Maybe everybody has one so

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you feel like you're better off. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: The other thing, too, is like in like an Jamison,

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you know, you have ties to the South.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how true this is, but I've been

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told that you don't, like, if you're from an outsider,

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you don't go walk on somebody's porch and knock on

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their door or ring their doorbell in the South, like

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you don't like they could stock a gun in your face.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how true that is, but it's like.

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Speaker 3: I don't really I don't think that I've ever heard.

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Speaker 5: I feel like that's it's like a stereotypical.

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Speaker 1: But these are from like people who have like relocated. No,

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I think that there may be like they're uptight believe

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what happened to Southern hospitality? Ing?

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Speaker 4: Hello?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know right, bless your heart. It's like I don't.

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I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what.

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Speaker 5: I don't really know anyone around here who has a

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gun or rarely a few people, but it's not common.

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But in January I went down to visit a friend

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who lives in Dallas, and I mean, she's a cop,

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so she's always caring. But she's like, yeah, everyone in Dallas.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: We went out to brunch and she was like, oh,

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like driving through a weirders, it's like, don't worry, I

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have my gun.

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Speaker 4: I know people on both sides of the ledger, actually

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more people on the left side of the ledger that

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own guns, Like, oh, yeah, I'm not messing around.

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Speaker 1: I still like my guns. Yeah, well, I mean you

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have and they are fun to shoot, but.

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Speaker 4: I don't think they're But I don't think there's the

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type of people who would go, like to a shooting range.

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I think they just want to have a gun to

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protect themselves. I don't think it's because they like to shoot. Yeah,

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like I love to learn how to shoot and stuff.

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But I mean, like, you know, I don't.

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Speaker 3: What do you think of you know, as a mom,

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do you.

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Speaker 1: Worry about this with your kids? Absolutely, you do worry

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about it. Do you talk to them about it. No,

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do they talk in school about what to do?

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Speaker 6: Or that's what's so sad.

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Speaker 1: And the thing is that kid's seven. Yeah, how young

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you are.

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Speaker 5: They already have school shooting drills. They have like terrorist drills.

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I mean it's disgusting, like.

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Speaker 1: We should have fire drills.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean they have fire else too.

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Speaker 5: But like I was thinking, you know, Columbine, I was

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in eighth grade, so my senior year we did do

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like the bomb the bomb drills, but never I don't

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think we even went to school shooting drills. But now

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like it's commonplace, like you can look, I just bought

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new backpacks for the boys. You can find like bulletproof backpacks.

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Speaker 1: It's why service level protection.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to even put that in their mind

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that it's something that they should be scared of.

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Speaker 1: Exactly because I think I like to say this, and

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I'm sure I'll get a lot of pushback, but how

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many schools around the country were in session today and one,

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which is one too many had a shooting? Had a

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shooting that I do think, and maybe we'll find out

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there were other gun incidents.

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Speaker 3: You know, I don't know, but shit.

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Speaker 1: Man, I grew up in a rural area. Kids had

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the rifle in the gun rack of their car because

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they were going hunting in deer season after school. That

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was not uncommon.

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Speaker 4: Like the day like that's why they moved up beginning

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a dear season to a Saturday because.

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Speaker 1: Were sipping school. Half the school was missing. The absent

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tee list was like twelve pages long.

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Speaker 5: I mean, and there's a difference between elementary versus high school, Like,

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you know, elementary is locked down to go and visit,

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you have to buzz through the door, have a QR code,

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and I'm sure that that's how high school is too.

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But now you have the kids, like, you know, a

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fourth grader is that going to bring a gun to

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school and be like I was getting bullied.

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna go you.

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Speaker 3: Would hope not. I haven't heard of it. I haven't

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heard it.

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Speaker 6: Well fuck if that day comes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think there was a kid like in first

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like that brought a gun to school, but only for

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showing to Oh yeah, like look at my dad and

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guess what.

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Speaker 5: Florida are the kids who bring like marijuana to school

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Like this is my mommy's medicine.

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Speaker 1: Tools. Uh, what do you do? You feel for the parent.

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I've heard people say that the parents should be held

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accountable if their kid does this.

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Speaker 5: That just happened for the first time this past year. Yeah,

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and it's sad because of how many shootings there are

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that I can't even recall what shooting it was. I

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want to say. The kid's name was Ethan actually tracks,

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but his parents got indicted because they brought the gun

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for him, like the day he turned thirteen and everything.

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Speaker 3: So and then he went.

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Speaker 4: And you think, it's like, though, that's if that is legal,

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then like how can you kill the parents for the

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intentions of the child, even though like if they did

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everything the.

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Speaker 1: Right way and they didn't realize he should have gone.

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I mean that's a very I don't know, because I

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always think like with the parents, it's one of these

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things where you would hope that you'd be on top

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of your kid. Yeah, but I got to tell you, like,

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you know, Jamison's been with me for a week and

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his headphones are in all the time, and it's always

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some video, some something, you know, whether it's family guy

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or something else.

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Speaker 3: Or he sat in.

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Speaker 1: Here and we watched a guy go through Europe with

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no money, so he would sketch people outside Paris to

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raise money and get a bus ticket to the next

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city where he cleaned windows, where he did, dishes where

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he did and he kept going around to different countries too.

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So there's that that seems fairly positive. And then there's

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some kind of rap that's talking about a whole story

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of I need to get revenge on people, and I

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never you just never know what's going in their heads, right,

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like you can't you can't monitor anymore twenty four to seven. No,

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you know what I'm saying, And you almost don't want

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to because you don't want to create that. It's a

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real fine line to walk. I will say this. I

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do know somebody who was falsely accused of being a

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school shooter, and there was a whole big to do

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about this, and you know, a thread against the community

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and blah blah blah. But I would say, if that happens, well,

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then the community owes an apology to that person. Oh yeah,

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And you know, you can't all of a sudden like

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that if it's not true. And and I would say this,

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and I've I believe this in my heart. The police

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are trained to do these investigations.

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Speaker 3: The school is not.

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Speaker 1: They are trained to be educators. They are not trained

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to be investigators. They're never going to do ass throw

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a job. So when the police come back and say

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there was no threat and a fucking story, but for

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the school to carry on and be a bunch of

475
00:22:28,759 --> 00:22:31,440
pansies over this shit and not stand up and go,

476
00:22:31,839 --> 00:22:33,839
hey man, we're not turning on one of our own.

477
00:22:34,079 --> 00:22:36,640
This was a false accusation. And oh, by the way,

478
00:22:36,839 --> 00:22:39,880
you certainly do a whole lot of bitching about bullying,

479
00:22:40,519 --> 00:22:43,359
so now we could call this bullying. And why aren't

480
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:44,319
we standing up to that.

481
00:22:44,599 --> 00:22:45,960
Speaker 6: It's like the game of telephone.

482
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:51,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, the parents spread rumors more than the kids.

483
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:56,440
Speaker 1: Do, so we do exactly and and I and it

484
00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:58,880
annoys me. And when I see that in the school,

485
00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:00,599
you go, well, hang on a second, this is bullying,

486
00:23:00,599 --> 00:23:03,079
and we have an anti bullying policy, then therefore that

487
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:05,799
should fall under this. Yep, and we need to stop.

488
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:07,720
But all of a sudden, well, we need to do

489
00:23:07,759 --> 00:23:10,519
our own investigation. You're not trained. I don't give a

490
00:23:10,559 --> 00:23:12,720
shit what you think. You know, you're not as good

491
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:16,279
as the cops. They spent years doing this. They went

492
00:23:16,319 --> 00:23:19,319
to something called the police academy. I know you've got

493
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:22,480
all these degrees and stuff, but I guarantee it was

494
00:23:22,599 --> 00:23:25,799
not an investigation. And you know that those are the

495
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:28,960
things that I always feel bad, and I feel I

496
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,559
don't even know this family of the kid who's a shooter.

497
00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:36,119
You gotta move, Oh God, yeah, who knows.

498
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,839
Speaker 6: You're never gonna you can't be in that community anymore.

499
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:40,559
Speaker 1: I would think, I don't know that I could go

500
00:23:40,599 --> 00:23:44,880
on living myself knowing that you understand what I'm saying, Like,

501
00:23:45,759 --> 00:23:47,599
how did I miss this? What did I miss? What

502
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:50,279
did I do? Or was I aware and trying to

503
00:23:50,279 --> 00:23:51,880
get the kid help? But never thought it would go

504
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:52,720
to this extreme.

505
00:23:53,319 --> 00:23:55,359
Speaker 5: I like you hear about the parents turning in their

506
00:23:55,359 --> 00:24:00,000
own children. That's gotta be the best thing ever. But like, yeah,

507
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:03,200
I did find it. It said the first parents to

508
00:24:03,319 --> 00:24:06,559
ever be charged then convicted in their child's mass shooting

509
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,920
at a US school were sentenced to ten to fifteen

510
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:14,200
years in prison. So it was a shooter named Ethan

511
00:24:14,279 --> 00:24:17,720
Crumbley who shot up a Michigan school in twenty twenty one,

512
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:21,000
and they just got charged in April twenty four. Mom

513
00:24:21,039 --> 00:24:22,759
and dad, Yeah, both parents.

514
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:25,839
Speaker 1: But were they together? I don't know if the parents

515
00:24:25,839 --> 00:24:27,480
were under the same roof. I don't know.

516
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:30,519
Speaker 5: I don't remember, but yeah, it's yeah, it says and

517
00:24:30,559 --> 00:24:31,079
his wife.

518
00:24:31,319 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so.

519
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:38,920
Speaker 1: Interesting we either way, right, Danny, I mean, what do

520
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:41,279
you do? What do you do? I don't know, what

521
00:24:41,319 --> 00:24:42,279
do you do? Say a prayer?

522
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:45,279
Speaker 6: And it's horrible that it's part.

523
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,359
Speaker 1: Of mainstream, Yeah it is. And that and how many

524
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:49,319
people were shocked?

525
00:24:49,319 --> 00:24:51,720
Speaker 6: I know people, you weren't shocked today. You were like, God,

526
00:24:51,759 --> 00:24:53,400
this sucks, but you're not shocked.

527
00:24:54,279 --> 00:24:57,519
Speaker 1: Uh. Yeah, that's a fair point. But I was thinking

528
00:24:57,519 --> 00:25:00,880
of the kids, you know where I'm going drip men

529
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:03,599
a whole different thing when I was in school. But

530
00:25:03,599 --> 00:25:05,839
but there was no such thing as mass shootings like this.

531
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:06,640
There just wasn't.

532
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:10,079
Speaker 4: No, it's it's awful, and there is There is no solution.

533
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,359
You know, let's band guns. No, that's not the solution either.

534
00:25:13,599 --> 00:25:17,279
Speaker 1: It's you can't because most are the people who own

535
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:18,640
majority of the guns.

536
00:25:18,319 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 4: Are abiding citizens who we see those videos like, you know,

537
00:25:23,279 --> 00:25:25,079
we don't talk about them that often, but the videos

538
00:25:25,079 --> 00:25:27,720
of the big hero at the grocery store who got

539
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:30,880
Robert comes in and here comes the citizen with the

540
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:32,319
gun takes them out.

541
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:34,279
Speaker 1: You know, I mean we don't. You know, we don't

542
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:40,759
celebrate that. We should, we should, We'll take them moment,

543
00:25:41,279 --> 00:25:44,200
you know, with all the kids going back to school,

544
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,960
I wanted to see if Deputy Hurley in the Monroe

545
00:25:48,039 --> 00:25:52,640
County Sheriffs up their patrols for the moms that would

546
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Speaker 5: To know the even news sung oh Man Interviews don't.

559
00:26:56,240 --> 00:27:05,200
Speaker 1: Ad a hundred asked him, what's the secret love? He

560
00:27:05,279 --> 00:27:07,319
looked up from his old.

561
00:27:07,079 --> 00:27:16,400
Speaker 2: Pah left to say it all out to say, just.

562
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:20,279
Speaker 1: Like that six years old, and you take. I always think,

563
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,559
like to me, kids are a marker in time. And

564
00:27:22,599 --> 00:27:26,640
when you see your Facebook or your social media flooded

565
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:30,680
with all these pictures, you know and as uh, you

566
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,920
know my niece and nephew hold the board, your kids

567
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:37,759
do that too, So James, he said, He goes, I didn't.

568
00:27:37,599 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 3: Think they were that kind of family.

569
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,359
Speaker 1: I go, what do you mean a family that loves

570
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,160
that loves their kids?

571
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,119
Speaker 3: He goes, no, no, no, I just mean like the

572
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:47,680
boards and.

573
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:51,640
Speaker 1: All that leaves. I'm like, okay, well, you know what,

574
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:55,839
look back someday and it'll be great. And uh, but yeah,

575
00:27:56,559 --> 00:28:01,240
the back to school stuff is been fun. I haven't

576
00:28:01,559 --> 00:28:03,920
I haven't had that a whole lot of that in

577
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:05,839
my world for the past couple of years. So it

578
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:08,319
was a lot of fun to see him and walk

579
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:11,880
to school with him and very excited. Seems to seems

580
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:15,000
to really love it. And then today after school, I said,

581
00:28:15,039 --> 00:28:17,279
walk over to the studio because it's really close to

582
00:28:17,319 --> 00:28:20,480
where we do the podcast, and I said, but I

583
00:28:20,519 --> 00:28:23,039
have a meeting. I had a meeting at too, So

584
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,279
I called the person. I go, can we just so

585
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:27,799
one o'clock? But it was like an hour long? So

586
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:30,680
I called him and he goes, hey, man where he said,

587
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,680
I'm walking? I said, you know what, I'll scoop. I'll

588
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:34,400
pick you up. We'll go there. And I said, then

589
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,359
we're going to go for ice cream. So he goes,

590
00:28:36,599 --> 00:28:39,519
how about gelato? And I said, great, there's the gelata place.

591
00:28:39,519 --> 00:28:41,200
He goes, I'm not sure if I'm going to like it.

592
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:44,839
So we go there and you can get the different

593
00:28:44,839 --> 00:28:45,480
sized dishes.

594
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 6: Have you gone a long time ago? It's called royally, Yeah.

595
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: Right over here, so you can get gelatto Danny, and

596
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,960
you can get in your dishes. They'll give you like one,

597
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:59,599
I'll give you two I want'll give you like two

598
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:03,880
scoop of it, and another will give you five different scoops.

599
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:06,119
But you can get different flavors. Because he couldn't decide

600
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,359
to the ladies get five flavors, so he got five

601
00:29:08,359 --> 00:29:10,720
flavors in hits. Let me just answer this because Chief

602
00:29:10,759 --> 00:29:12,960
Barnes is on the line, and I'll tell you what

603
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:15,200
he said about the gelato in a minute, Chief Barnes,

604
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:19,200
we were on the podcast, Sir okay, so I just

605
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:24,359
wanted to learn more about it. Looked like Clint Howard

606
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:29,559
walked into the Fairport Police station. You know, Clinton, it's.

607
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:32,599
Speaker 3: An old reference. It's an old reference. But Clint Howard is.

608
00:29:32,559 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 1: Like this ugly. He was the ugly other Howard. Right,

609
00:29:36,079 --> 00:29:39,480
You had Richie Cunningham is his brother, Yeah, Ron Howard,

610
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:41,720
and then there was Clint Howard who and Clint was

611
00:29:41,759 --> 00:29:43,160
just kind of ugly. There was a guy that looked

612
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,079
like Clint Howard that walked into the police the Fairport

613
00:29:46,079 --> 00:29:49,440
Police station directly across from where we recorded this podcast

614
00:29:49,799 --> 00:29:53,559
with a cast role, and in the cast role was

615
00:29:54,000 --> 00:30:01,079
shit grapes, live ammunition, and some other stuff dog food,

616
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:04,759
dog food. And then he said, uh, hey eat this

617
00:30:05,079 --> 00:30:09,880
and you're off duty. Now, I'm assuming that when people

618
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:12,599
drop stuff off at the police station, you're not eating it.

619
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,279
Speaker 8: You would assume, correct, William, Yes.

620
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 1: No matter what it is, right, no matter what it is,

621
00:30:18,799 --> 00:30:21,559
I would assume. I wouldn't need it. I wouldn't trust anybody.

622
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:25,519
But this guy's a career guy. What do you do

623
00:30:25,599 --> 00:30:29,359
in a situation like this on air? Off there.

624
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 3: Well, we're on right now.

625
00:30:32,799 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 8: It was a joke, will you Oh yeah, you're you're

626
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,440
exactly right though, you pretty much your summation was a

627
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,440
little off, but we'll take it. You know, people drop

628
00:30:42,519 --> 00:30:44,119
stuff off to the sleep all the time, right our

629
00:30:44,119 --> 00:30:46,640
police department. You know, there's great citizens out there that

630
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:48,960
are very thankful for what we do. You know, to

631
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:51,839
bake the cookies will drop off, you know, bread cakes, pies.

632
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,279
They really are. The public or the community is very

633
00:30:54,319 --> 00:30:57,079
very good with us. And this uh and this instant,

634
00:30:57,759 --> 00:30:59,519
the guy I didn't appreciate us too much. He did

635
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,559
drop off what we described as a cast role, I

636
00:31:02,599 --> 00:31:05,960
guess for lack of better title. And inside the cast role,

637
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:10,839
you know, with dog peces with a cluster of items

638
00:31:10,839 --> 00:31:14,640
to include, you know, some noodles, some chicken nuggets, some

639
00:31:14,799 --> 00:31:19,720
Blo pads, Brillo pads. There was live two two three

640
00:31:19,839 --> 00:31:22,000
rounds which is an M four five five six round

641
00:31:22,079 --> 00:31:26,000
which is an assault rifle round, and air fifteen round

642
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:28,319
with a little note. And he dropped it off and

643
00:31:28,319 --> 00:31:29,839
he said, make sure you eat the stuff duty has

644
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:32,440
been laced with I think it was th H nine

645
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:34,720
and some other chemicals.

646
00:31:35,359 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 1: Is that what the note said, yeah.

647
00:31:37,759 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 8: And that's what he said. Also, he sold one of

648
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:44,200
our officers at so all right, so the guy got

649
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:49,960
multiple he's got multiple convictions, William, multiple convictions. Uh, obviously,

650
00:31:50,039 --> 00:31:54,640
he's got sony charges, he's got misdemeanor charges, he's been

651
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:56,920
convicted on so on and so forth. So he's very

652
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,799
well known to us, well known to metro Rochster policing.

653
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:04,279
And matter of fact, I believe, and I could be

654
00:32:04,279 --> 00:32:06,400
wrong in this, but I believe he had a most

655
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:11,680
recent arrest this past weekend. Yeah, and he I think

656
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:14,440
he fought a cap this weekend and injured a cap

657
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:14,960
this weekend.

658
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,599
Speaker 1: Oh really, So this guy, if.

659
00:32:17,519 --> 00:32:20,519
Speaker 8: I got my if I got my information correct, another

660
00:32:20,559 --> 00:32:25,279
agency picked him up for some charges that he was

661
00:32:25,319 --> 00:32:27,680
currently in the act of doing and he fought one

662
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:28,920
of the police officers there.

663
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 1: So so it sounds like this guy's nuts.

664
00:32:34,839 --> 00:32:37,519
Speaker 8: I guess. I'm not a clinical psychologist, so I'll let

665
00:32:37,559 --> 00:32:39,640
you make the determination there. But I don't think he

666
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:40,559
actual like you and I.

667
00:32:42,759 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 1: Vas go all the way to the top. Yeah, well,

668
00:32:47,319 --> 00:32:49,359
I mean you see the guy's picture. You look like

669
00:32:49,519 --> 00:32:51,240
this is a guy you would want to just like

670
00:32:51,279 --> 00:32:54,599
if he's coming down picture, have a word wanted on

671
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,880
top of it now, but well it didn't. But if

672
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,960
you were, if you were walking right the beautiful main street,

673
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:04,440
yeah yeah. Let's say you're abouts across the canal and yes, yeah,

674
00:33:04,519 --> 00:33:06,720
and you're on the side of Gelatto and you look

675
00:33:06,839 --> 00:33:09,480
up and you see this guy walking towards you. You're

676
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:11,200
crossing the street and walking on the other side. Did

677
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,400
you have a mustache with like handlebars and a cowboy Hell?

678
00:33:13,559 --> 00:33:17,200
He didn't know, he did not, But that's uh, so

679
00:33:17,279 --> 00:33:19,519
what happens to a guy like this with you know,

680
00:33:19,799 --> 00:33:20,880
so you.

681
00:33:20,839 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 8: Know, me being me? You know, there are federal charges

682
00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:30,039
for this, you know charge the statute for as someone

683
00:33:30,039 --> 00:33:33,279
who's been convicted of felonies they can apposes animal right.

684
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,920
So we checked with our our partners here at the

685
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:39,160
state level prosecution. Uh, they didn't seem to think there

686
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,960
was any charges, and so we checked at the federal

687
00:33:42,039 --> 00:33:46,279
level prosecution and either they were unaware of those particular

688
00:33:46,359 --> 00:33:49,319
charges or they weren't comfortable prosecuting them. But right now

689
00:33:49,319 --> 00:33:52,920
we are currently looking into ourselves in a federal agency

690
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,000
of bringing charges. I don't know what's going to come

691
00:33:55,039 --> 00:33:57,039
of that, but we worked on them a little bit today,

692
00:33:57,079 --> 00:33:57,599
So we'll see.

693
00:33:58,359 --> 00:34:00,559
Speaker 3: Wow, So what happens with that.

694
00:34:00,839 --> 00:34:04,599
Speaker 1: You're if you're on parole, you are not allowed to

695
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,279
possess ammunition, not even if.

696
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 8: You're on parole, if if you have sony convictions under

697
00:34:12,079 --> 00:34:14,840
federal guidelines. You know, there's certain nuances to the law.

698
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:18,440
But I'm giving you kind of the overview. I think

699
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:22,320
it's Title eighteen, like ninth section nine twenty two, but

700
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:23,679
they're gonna I don't have it in front of me.

701
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:27,000
I'm literally, you know, working on my truck right now,

702
00:34:27,079 --> 00:34:29,760
so I'm just caught off, not mad, but I think

703
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:34,440
it's I think that's the title eighteen US US Code

704
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:37,400
nineteen twenty two G maybe or something like that. So,

705
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:41,880
but there are there are, there are violations that occur.

706
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,280
So we're just gonna say, we're gonna see what we're

707
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:46,159
comfortable cross scooting and see if we can make the

708
00:34:46,199 --> 00:34:47,679
case of it. We'll take Yeah.

709
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 3: Wow, that's uh.

710
00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 1: Stuff goes yeah, and uh, I mean obviously no one's

711
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:53,480
gonna eat it.

712
00:34:53,559 --> 00:34:54,679
Speaker 3: That had to smell hard.

713
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 5: I was gonna say it was there bodily fluids of it,

714
00:34:58,039 --> 00:34:59,440
you know, and I and I always say that, and

715
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,400
you know me, I'm pretty light hearted and I'll joke

716
00:35:01,599 --> 00:35:03,079
around with the best of them.

717
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 8: But when a guy like this has the we'll stay

718
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:10,079
in testinal fortitude to come into a police department and

719
00:35:10,159 --> 00:35:11,679
sit there and look at cop in the face and

720
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:13,559
do this. Can you imagine what he would do to.

721
00:35:13,559 --> 00:35:14,199
Speaker 3: You or.

722
00:35:15,679 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 8: Any any of the listeners or any much family or

723
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:18,480
anything like that.

724
00:35:18,639 --> 00:35:19,119
Speaker 1: Exactly.

725
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:20,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's my thing.

726
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:23,559
Speaker 8: I'll joke right alongside you when it comes to this.

727
00:35:24,159 --> 00:35:25,599
Now that's where the joking ends with me.

728
00:35:26,639 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 1: Okay, good, yea, it does.

729
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 8: But yeah, but I will say this, Phil, if you'd

730
00:35:33,119 --> 00:35:35,320
like to taste tests, we can bring you next sword.

731
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:36,199
You guys can dig in.

732
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:39,079
Speaker 3: No, I would I would like. I would not like

733
00:35:39,159 --> 00:35:39,920
to taste tests.

734
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 1: But what I would like is that side by side

735
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:46,039
that the Fairport Police have decked out and all the

736
00:35:46,079 --> 00:35:50,960
Fairport police colors and insignias. That looks bad ass.

737
00:35:52,559 --> 00:35:56,559
Speaker 8: So that's something that's about your project. It took us forever.

738
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:59,920
One of our guys, you know, I asked him to

739
00:36:00,199 --> 00:36:02,559
up the plate and obviously do more work for the

740
00:36:02,559 --> 00:36:05,679
same day, but he was going to research it and

741
00:36:05,679 --> 00:36:08,119
he wrote, he wrote some grants and uh, we got

742
00:36:08,159 --> 00:36:10,800
some grants awarded to us, so we were able to

743
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:15,000
purchase that, uh you know, side by side is that

744
00:36:15,159 --> 00:36:17,760
the can m But it does look pretty good. I

745
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:18,760
appreciate saying.

746
00:36:18,519 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 1: That so good, and I think it's great for things

747
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:23,159
like music fest.

748
00:36:24,199 --> 00:36:26,679
Speaker 8: It worked out great, great for music Grass, right for

749
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:29,480
Canal Days, right for October Fest. Yeah, great for all

750
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:31,960
the festivals we have. We've already used it to look

751
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,760
for a missing person up through the woods at the school.

752
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:36,559
So stuff like that that people never think.

753
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:40,119
Speaker 1: Of, exactly. It's all the stuff that's off road. Yeah, yeah,

754
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:41,760
what what kind of truck are very nice?

755
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:43,480
Speaker 3: What kind of truck you're working on right now?

756
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 8: I have an old nineteen uh forties.

757
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:53,320
Speaker 1: Jeep nineteen forty jeep wow, because you know, so it's

758
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:57,519
the one that got hitler Bill ran them over. No,

759
00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:01,280
the preserve freedom so gee it comes from.

760
00:37:02,119 --> 00:37:03,199
Speaker 3: It was an army vehicle.

761
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:06,760
Speaker 1: It was general purpose a GP, and then they called

762
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:09,000
it jeep because it was GP, and it became jeep

763
00:37:09,079 --> 00:37:12,800
J yes, and that's how it became. But man, that's

764
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,360
gotta be where'd you get this? That's beautiful?

765
00:37:16,199 --> 00:37:18,760
Speaker 8: So long story attection Willies, But I didn't know if

766
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:20,280
people would know what a Willies.

767
00:37:20,039 --> 00:37:24,639
Speaker 1: Was well, they so Jeep itself is releasing the Willies

768
00:37:24,679 --> 00:37:25,239
line again.

769
00:37:26,119 --> 00:37:26,840
Speaker 8: Yeah, I got you.

770
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 1: Yeah.

771
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:30,639
Speaker 8: So I took a break from the Baja car right

772
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:36,159
for two years and we built this truck. So it's done.

773
00:37:36,199 --> 00:37:38,239
I'm just should make the car wash right now, just

774
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:41,000
trying to wash it up. But that's about it. So

775
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:42,559
I'll bring it by some time and show you.

776
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:44,639
Speaker 3: Wow, very impressive. Well, thank you, and I.

777
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 8: Leave the car wash. I will come by your window

778
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:49,119
and beautiful.

779
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 3: I can't wait.

780
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:52,920
Speaker 1: All right, all right, don't need any cast roles that

781
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:53,519
are dropped off.

782
00:37:53,559 --> 00:37:55,880
Speaker 8: All right, thank you guys, good chatting with you.

783
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:58,639
Speaker 3: See you later. There he goes Chief Barnes.

784
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:04,119
Speaker 1: Uh wow, yeah, and that unbelievable, like you would have

785
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:07,360
the balls, like the intestinal fortitude as he said.

786
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:10,559
Speaker 6: To drugs or something.

787
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:13,039
Speaker 1: Well, you saw the guy. He looks like Clint Howard's

788
00:38:13,079 --> 00:38:17,800
like a deranged How did you see him on Channel

789
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:19,960
tenn okay, oh I thought you met. Like he's walking by.

790
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:26,480
He's got a knack of me box of stuff. He's

791
00:38:26,519 --> 00:38:28,480
looking for a he's looking for a road runner. He's

792
00:38:28,519 --> 00:38:30,320
got a cigarette hanging out of his mouth.

793
00:38:31,159 --> 00:38:32,679
Speaker 3: It's unfreaking believable.

794
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:34,519
Speaker 4: I mean, well, I don't want to bring it back

795
00:38:34,519 --> 00:38:37,599
to catch and release laws or not the laws, but

796
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:40,039
the I don't know the fact that like you know,

797
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:41,760
I mean like people keep getting you know.

798
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:45,280
Speaker 1: Caught and released. Right, So that's going to only embolden

799
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:48,840
a career criminal. I'm not sure this one. Well, I'm

800
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:50,760
not going to say that you're wrong. Okay, I don't know.

801
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:52,679
Speaker 3: I don't know that that's the case.

802
00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:54,519
Speaker 1: But you don't do rest me and send me back.

803
00:38:55,639 --> 00:38:58,800
I'm just simply looking at the person in the picture.

804
00:38:59,039 --> 00:39:02,320
And I know we're not suppose you'll be told don't judge, No,

805
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:07,039
I'm blank. But let me tell you something. As I said,

806
00:39:07,119 --> 00:39:09,519
if you were walking down one side of the street,

807
00:39:09,599 --> 00:39:12,559
you would cross to the other. That's judging, and that's

808
00:39:12,679 --> 00:39:15,960
called safety. Yes, right, doesn't that make you it's safety.

809
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:19,320
There's good judges. So when I looked at this guy,

810
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:22,320
I go, he looks deranged.

811
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:23,400
Speaker 6: He looks criminal.

812
00:39:23,559 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 1: He just looks like somebody who needs help. He looks

813
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:27,880
like he's a mess. A guy.

814
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:31,159
Speaker 5: If I had my kids a playground and walking by,

815
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:31,960
I would leave.

816
00:39:32,079 --> 00:39:38,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, don't blank. Exactly, that's it. Exactly. Do you

817
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:43,159
want to live to one hundred and one. Speaking of Fairport,

818
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:46,400
all lots of things happening at our friend Tommy Burnett's

819
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:50,679
Iron Smoke Distillery. Just a great American Thursday, September fifth,

820
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:54,119
that's the day you're probably listening to this Iron Smoke

821
00:39:54,159 --> 00:39:58,480
Distillery has another vice. Another vice will be taking the

822
00:39:58,519 --> 00:40:02,400
stage at seven thirty play until ten thirty. It's uh,

823
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:06,880
rock and country hits spans the decades rock and country.

824
00:40:07,519 --> 00:40:09,360
So now I don't a lot of people do old

825
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:12,679
country Dan. I know somebody who used to know a

826
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:16,519
lot about classic Cronchy Thursdays quite a bit. Yeah, Friday

827
00:40:16,599 --> 00:40:18,760
Night Becaustic sunset sessions are back. You can go over

828
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:22,159
there and listen to the Monica Hall duo. And alcohol

829
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:22,920
is very talented.

830
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:24,639
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't know Monica Hall.

831
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:27,280
Speaker 1: Molcohol's very talented. Well, here's the cool thing you get yourself,

832
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:31,400
a beautiful cocktail made with those iron smoke distilled spirits.

833
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:34,559
I recommend the Peacemaker, but they have a variety to

834
00:40:34,679 --> 00:40:38,599
choose from. Maybe you want something else, Maybe you're into

835
00:40:38,639 --> 00:40:39,920
one of those Harvey wallbangers.

836
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:44,920
Speaker 3: I don't know. You could sit back and enjoy. I

837
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,920
was trying to think of the oldest cocktail I could come.

838
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:50,719
Speaker 1: Up with, but that was the nick Nave of the

839
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:54,840
Milwaukee brewers come up with. That was the oldest one

840
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:59,000
I could come up with, because well, anyway, the Moscow mules,

841
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,760
they do mules, mules, not old. Everybody loves mules, and

842
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:05,239
they make great mules over there distillery, really good mules.

843
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:07,800
But then it's mud Creek. So if you're a fan

844
00:41:08,119 --> 00:41:12,320
of the Grateful Dead, come out Friday night. Mud Creek

845
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:15,199
is back doing all your grateful favorites and it'll be

846
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:20,639
a whole four songs in three hours. Stop it Dead.

847
00:41:20,679 --> 00:41:22,360
So Dead songs are like ten minutes of BA.

848
00:41:22,519 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 3: They are, but it's nice and and they do a

849
00:41:24,519 --> 00:41:25,840
really great job mud Creek.

850
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:29,440
Speaker 1: It's all happened in Iron Smoke Distillery in Fairport, New York,

851
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:31,599
where I was walking around with Jamison earlier today, and

852
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:32,800
we went to the Gelatapace.

853
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:35,360
Speaker 3: As I started to tell you, so we sit down

854
00:41:36,039 --> 00:41:38,920
and I, I don't know.

855
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 1: If it's the age. He's very into who's got what,

856
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:48,239
and uh, how much things cost and trying to look

857
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:50,639
as good as he can, and you know how much

858
00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:53,199
money he needs to have and all this stuff. So

859
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:57,960
he says to me how much was this And I said,

860
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:00,559
don't worry about it, and he goes, no, no, no,

861
00:42:01,079 --> 00:42:03,719
in case I bring a girl here, And I thought, oh,

862
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:07,039
how cute. Like I didn't have well, I guess you

863
00:42:07,119 --> 00:42:09,239
could have in Pine Plains, but I didn't live in

864
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:12,320
pine Plains. I lived twelve miles away. It took forty

865
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:14,400
five minutes on a fucking school bus to get there.

866
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:18,519
But if you they had like the old soda fountain

867
00:42:18,559 --> 00:42:21,320
in my town, like where they still squirted the syrup

868
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:24,519
and the yeah. And then it was in the drug store,

869
00:42:24,519 --> 00:42:26,199
and then it was put into the ice cream parlor

870
00:42:26,199 --> 00:42:28,159
because they didn't want it to go away completely. It

871
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:30,360
was kind of unique, and I was like, that's a

872
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:32,760
great idea. What a cool thing that you could walk

873
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:36,320
around and take a girl for gelato and no big deal.

874
00:42:37,079 --> 00:42:39,559
So I told him that it was seventy five dollars.

875
00:42:41,559 --> 00:42:42,239
Speaker 3: Good fucking luck.

876
00:42:42,559 --> 00:42:44,199
Speaker 6: The other ice cream place right here too.

877
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:46,719
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, there's another ice cream place. But the gelato

878
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:48,639
was a little different than we thought we would.

879
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:52,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just switch it up a little bit and

880
00:42:52,519 --> 00:42:55,840
see what was happening. I think this is going to

881
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:58,679
be I don't know right, because I could say it's

882
00:42:58,679 --> 00:42:59,199
gonna be great.

883
00:42:59,239 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 3: It's early.

884
00:43:00,159 --> 00:43:02,840
Speaker 6: We're early in the early stages, in the early.

885
00:43:02,639 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 1: Stages, but so far, so good. I think it's uh,

886
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:09,840
I think I'm hoping we were sleeping. New rule, Dan,

887
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:13,760
new rule tonight. No phones. He and I when we

888
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:15,679
go to bed, I have to find a place to

889
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:17,840
put the phones. But the phones go there. Well, get

890
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:20,000
a fish bowl and I will use my uh the

891
00:43:20,039 --> 00:43:22,440
Derek Jeter rule. If you walked into Derek Jeter's house,

892
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:24,039
you had to put the fell phone in a fishbowl?

893
00:43:24,559 --> 00:43:26,719
Is that real? That was the story? All right? Well

894
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:29,119
let me ask you. Okay, here's an interesting one. You

895
00:43:29,199 --> 00:43:30,840
never heard about anything coming out of Derek Jeers.

896
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:33,360
Speaker 3: I ever did. And we heard that he had partying

897
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:34,280
kids for the girls.

898
00:43:34,559 --> 00:43:36,239
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know if that's true either. Did you

899
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:36,800
hear about that?

900
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:37,039
Speaker 9: No?

901
00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,599
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, he slept with Derek Jeter. You got a

902
00:43:39,639 --> 00:43:43,119
gift basket and a ride home. Yeah, that's not true.

903
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:46,360
An autograph Derek Jeter baseball. I'm not choking.

904
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:47,519
Speaker 3: This was the story.

905
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:51,880
Speaker 1: Flowers, candies and stuff. See, now here's the I mean,

906
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:56,079
that's really arrogant to do. But I'm telling you these things.

907
00:43:56,119 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 4: And again that's never that's never been like proven, No,

908
00:43:58,480 --> 00:43:59,960
it's not been proved. If somebody would take it a

909
00:44:00,079 --> 00:44:01,519
pictures I banged Derek g.

910
00:44:04,159 --> 00:44:05,840
Speaker 6: A da to go back to his house.

911
00:44:06,199 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 5: I don't know, because I mean, but if it's fresh flowers,

912
00:44:09,599 --> 00:44:11,480
does he have fresh flowers on call?

913
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:15,599
Speaker 1: Or is it just like every time, Derek, you what

914
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:17,920
you want? All right? I know, maybe this is a

915
00:44:18,039 --> 00:44:21,599
case of the story got greater later, but there were

916
00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:25,920
parting gifts. Yeah, Like maybe could be he's like, hey, listen,

917
00:44:26,079 --> 00:44:29,320
you know, because maybe it was like, uh, you know,

918
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:31,719
you're making out. Oh my god, my dad's going to

919
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:35,599
be so blown away, but my brother's gonna go nuts.

920
00:44:35,639 --> 00:44:37,639
I can't believe it. And you sleep with her, you

921
00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:40,760
feel guilty, and you go, hey, you're never touching my

922
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:44,559
balls again. But here's a ball for your dad, here's

923
00:44:44,599 --> 00:44:46,239
a ball for your brother, you know what I mean?

924
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,920
And I wonder if something like because there has to

925
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:51,519
be a grain of truth in this, that's all I'm saying,

926
00:44:51,679 --> 00:44:53,960
Just a little bit of truth somewhere.

927
00:44:53,679 --> 00:44:56,559
Speaker 6: Don't you think I mean it has to come from somewhere.

928
00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:57,679
Speaker 1: Yes, I mean there was a story.

929
00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 4: Okay, So in four or five, Derek, she was in

930
00:45:00,519 --> 00:45:03,239
town for a teammate named Already Long's wedding who he

931
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:05,440
played with. I think an Oneonta albody. Already Long was

932
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:08,599
from Webster and so Jeter was in town, so high

933
00:45:08,679 --> 00:45:12,400
Falls was hopping them with bars back then. And so

934
00:45:12,519 --> 00:45:16,079
when word got out where Jeter was going, about a

935
00:45:16,159 --> 00:45:18,960
thousand people showed up, old people, young people. They just

936
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:21,519
wanted to see Jeer touched Derek Jeter everything. I had

937
00:45:21,519 --> 00:45:23,400
a couple of friends who actually met him and stuff,

938
00:45:23,519 --> 00:45:25,840
and there were stories about girls who were with Jeter

939
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:29,360
then that night too. You know, I'm like, how many

940
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:33,480
women did he was he with in one night? I'm like,

941
00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:35,039
this is this is ridiculous.

942
00:45:37,079 --> 00:45:39,079
Speaker 6: It's like he went three for four to that.

943
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:46,840
Speaker 1: Laura, Yes, that's great. What happened in the fourth? Yeah,

944
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:51,039
but I always think those stories shortstops, that stories have

945
00:45:51,119 --> 00:45:52,239
to start from somewhere, don't.

946
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:54,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's there's a modicum of truth. That's why you

947
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:56,559
always got to be beware. Yeah, which is probably why

948
00:45:56,599 --> 00:45:59,000
he had the fish bowl for the cell phones.

949
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:01,679
Speaker 1: Okay, So what I was starting to say, thank you

950
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:04,000
for reminding me full circle. Now I'm so glad he did,

951
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:09,360
because how old is your oldest kid? Nine nine has

952
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:13,239
his own phone or huh no, he has friends who do. Yeah,

953
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:16,800
I think like in our house and we're going back

954
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:19,400
because Jackson is going to be twenty four. So in

955
00:46:19,519 --> 00:46:21,960
two thousand and I think we made it so you

956
00:46:22,039 --> 00:46:24,440
had to be thirteen to get a phone, and so

957
00:46:24,559 --> 00:46:27,480
then he got it, and Jordan is sixteen months later,

958
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:29,760
and those had to be the hardest sixteen months to

959
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:32,639
see your brother with this smartphone and then you finally

960
00:46:32,679 --> 00:46:36,480
get it. Jamison comes along, he's eight years younger. As

961
00:46:36,559 --> 00:46:38,719
he gets to be three or four, he's stealing their

962
00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:40,960
devices and playing with him and.

963
00:46:41,119 --> 00:46:44,159
Speaker 3: Lose it and scream. He would just scream and like

964
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:45,280
you know, you're at the end.

965
00:46:45,199 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 1: Of the day just saying give him whatever he watch

966
00:46:47,599 --> 00:46:51,159
shut And so then he got a phone at like ten,

967
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:54,159
and Jordan lost his shit. Oh it is so unfair.

968
00:46:54,519 --> 00:46:55,400
That's ridiculous.

969
00:46:55,599 --> 00:47:00,280
Speaker 2: I had to wait and he has said, like eleven, okay,

970
00:47:00,639 --> 00:47:04,480
well either way, but the problem is in schools now

971
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:05,920
phones what do you do?

972
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:09,559
Speaker 1: So sometimes you go to a comedy show, if you

973
00:47:09,599 --> 00:47:11,960
go see Dave Chappelle and he's working on new material

974
00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:15,039
or some of the other big comics, maybe even rock

975
00:47:15,079 --> 00:47:16,880
when he was getting ready for the special after the

976
00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:20,679
slap by Will Smith. I forget the name of the bag.

977
00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:22,719
There's a name for this bag. You drop your phone

978
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:25,280
in it, you hold it up by advice, and it

979
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:28,440
gets magnetized. But it's so strong you can't open it.

980
00:47:29,039 --> 00:47:31,360
And then when you leave, you open it there, but

981
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:33,960
your phone never leaves you. So they're not holding your phone.

982
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:35,400
Your phone just happens to be in this bag and

983
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:36,360
you can't get it out. Yeah.

984
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:38,199
Speaker 4: Jack White came to town and they had that at

985
00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:41,719
the oh gosh, the Dome Marina. Really same thing, yeah, okay,

986
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:42,559
or something similar.

987
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:47,519
Speaker 1: So my niece has it in her school down in Alexandria, Virginia.

988
00:47:48,159 --> 00:47:50,440
And I brought this up to somebody and they go,

989
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,840
what happens in the case of an emergency? Yeah, And

990
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:58,079
I go, I don't know, call the main office. I mean,

991
00:47:58,119 --> 00:47:59,960
I don't know what kind of emergency you're talking about.

992
00:48:00,559 --> 00:48:04,320
This was actually the Does that would that bother you?

993
00:48:04,519 --> 00:48:07,480
Like if they put the kid's phone in? Like, I

994
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:11,400
don't know, because to here's I have been accused of.

995
00:48:13,639 --> 00:48:16,119
Speaker 3: Just being a dick. I guess I guess that's the

996
00:48:16,159 --> 00:48:16,800
only way to put it.

997
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,079
Speaker 1: But to me, like if the kids phones locked up,

998
00:48:19,119 --> 00:48:20,880
if I needed to get a message to the kid,

999
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:22,920
like there was an emergency, I'm thinking, I don't know

1000
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:24,880
what emergency I would have to drag you out of

1001
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:28,119
school for. But let's say I wound up in the hospital,

1002
00:48:28,159 --> 00:48:31,159
I would call the main office and say, can you

1003
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:34,119
do this and so and so I was going to

1004
00:48:34,159 --> 00:48:36,440
come pick them up or whatever, right and then let

1005
00:48:36,519 --> 00:48:38,840
them handle it because the phones are locked up, just

1006
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:40,920
like they used to do in the olden age.

1007
00:48:41,079 --> 00:48:45,480
Speaker 6: This was the topic of the Dailies podcast yesterday.

1008
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:48,119
Speaker 5: I listened to the Daily every morning and it actually,

1009
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:51,079
I'm so antiphones in school.

1010
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:52,280
Speaker 6: I think it's horrible.

1011
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:55,480
Speaker 5: But they talked about the magnetic bags and that some

1012
00:48:55,679 --> 00:48:58,199
kids are putting a fake phone in the magnetic bags

1013
00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:00,320
and then still carrying around their real phone.

1014
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:01,079
Speaker 1: This is great.

1015
00:49:01,199 --> 00:49:02,679
Speaker 9: And the only like.

1016
00:49:04,199 --> 00:49:09,599
Speaker 5: One that I said. Their only comment that I was like, oh, okay.

1017
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:15,280
It made me think is if you say, Danny had

1018
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:19,079
a job at a restaurant and the restaurant called you

1019
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:22,039
to ask if you could switch shifts, like or texted you,

1020
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:25,119
like if it's a work related and you need to

1021
00:49:25,199 --> 00:49:27,679
respond during the middle of the day. I was like, Okay,

1022
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:31,599
like that's you're a kid. No, But I was what

1023
00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:34,280
you're saying, you know, at seventeen.

1024
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:36,239
Speaker 1: Parents had asked them. My father used to volunteer me

1025
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:38,239
to work all the time, drove me freaking like you

1026
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:41,480
know what, what did they know?

1027
00:49:41,559 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 6: My soccer schedule? Like everything was on me.

1028
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:44,920
Speaker 1: I mean, but.

1029
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:51,079
Speaker 5: So that point I thought was valid. But I don't

1030
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:54,000
think phone should be in school. I mean, I have

1031
00:49:54,079 --> 00:49:55,639
a lot of friends who are a teachers. Something they

1032
00:49:55,679 --> 00:49:58,400
say it's it's absolutely horrible. The kids don't pay attention.

1033
00:49:58,639 --> 00:50:00,559
Speaker 1: Well, the kids don't pay attention. And then you would

1034
00:50:00,559 --> 00:50:03,679
have kids like me that would see the guy who's

1035
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:06,000
whose pants road low and he had a lot of

1036
00:50:06,039 --> 00:50:08,199
butt crack, and he was already a fat kid and

1037
00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:10,639
probably had a lot of bad things happening in his

1038
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:13,039
life already. And I would take that picture of that,

1039
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:14,920
and I would have blown it up and hung it

1040
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:16,880
on every locker, you know what I'm saying, Like there

1041
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:19,360
would have been something that I would have done with

1042
00:50:19,559 --> 00:50:22,239
that camera. I would have videoed something. I would have

1043
00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:25,199
you know, tried to get tried to piss somebody off

1044
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:27,440
who I knew was going to give an explosive reaction

1045
00:50:27,599 --> 00:50:29,719
and film them. I mean that that just that's a

1046
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:31,559
extra off the top of my head.

1047
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 5: Talked about is how kids will like text and be like, hey,

1048
00:50:34,599 --> 00:50:36,920
we're going to meet at this part of the hall

1049
00:50:37,559 --> 00:50:38,800
and beat up so and so.

1050
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:42,639
Speaker 1: Look at that. That's the cheap Let me see it's right. Okay,

1051
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:45,559
you see behind Laura, Yeah that is an old school.

1052
00:50:45,679 --> 00:50:49,000
That's the jeep general purpose vehicle. Yeah, he looks like

1053
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:56,840
general propping around in it. Coming back. All right, we'll

1054
00:50:56,880 --> 00:50:59,239
take a moment. We're late for Deputy Hurley. I just

1055
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:02,239
wanted to know if if Monroe County had to patrol

1056
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:06,280
up and we'll even ask them. Record for deweys, especially

1057
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:10,559
in Webster raised a ton of money. Hey, if you

1058
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,280
have some damage at your home, Now that the kids

1059
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:15,079
are back in school, right and now you get a

1060
00:51:15,079 --> 00:51:16,079
little more time, and you look.

1061
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:19,559
Speaker 3: Around and go Jesus, all right, how did that.

1062
00:51:19,679 --> 00:51:22,320
Speaker 1: Hole get in that wall? And why is the paint

1063
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:25,400
got chipped off here? And this got You don't have

1064
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:27,719
time to do it all because now practices are starting

1065
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,440
up again. You've got your own job, and you've got

1066
00:51:31,039 --> 00:51:33,119
all kinds of meetings you have to go to, and

1067
00:51:33,199 --> 00:51:35,400
there's parents' night coming up, and you need Mac of

1068
00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:38,119
All Trades, Yes, say, Mac of All Trades will come

1069
00:51:38,159 --> 00:51:41,320
in and make that whole house look brand new again.

1070
00:51:41,559 --> 00:51:43,519
All the damage that the kids did while on the

1071
00:51:43,599 --> 00:51:46,719
rainy days, the boring days, the snoring days, whatever they

1072
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:48,880
were doing, Mac will come in and fix it. Whether

1073
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:50,519
it be a leaky faucett or you want a whole

1074
00:51:50,559 --> 00:51:52,480
kitchen remodel. They can do all of it right there.

1075
00:51:52,679 --> 00:51:55,440
They can even take the outside light post you know

1076
00:51:55,599 --> 00:51:58,039
that some people have and maybe it fell down or

1077
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:01,440
burned out. Let them work on it. They all that stuff,

1078
00:52:01,559 --> 00:52:04,079
Mac of All Trades. See what they do at macaf

1079
00:52:04,079 --> 00:52:06,760
All Trades dot net. That's Mac of All Trades dot net.

1080
00:52:07,079 --> 00:52:08,840
Or give them a call at five A five two

1081
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:12,239
zero two ninety two eighteen. It's Mac of all Trades.

1082
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:32,360
Speaker 10: Fifty Weignfono sleep pulling the head of time, still a kid.

1083
00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:36,519
Speaker 1: Dance, working like a man like keeping your rip time.

1084
00:52:38,119 --> 00:52:41,239
Speaker 5: Don't see their out of clear or hair and you

1085
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:43,239
bury thirty six years old.

1086
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:45,639
Speaker 6: They enforce it.

1087
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:48,800
Speaker 9: No what to do. Get at the door and you

1088
00:52:49,039 --> 00:52:49,920
get home.

1089
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:55,079
Speaker 6: Clean, cle clean the kitchen wip.

1090
00:52:59,079 --> 00:52:59,239
Speaker 4: Man.

1091
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 1: Now I know what my mama drank. How about that beautiful.

1092
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:22,119
The kids were back at school, there was some drinking

1093
00:53:22,159 --> 00:53:25,800
going on, Yes there was. Yeah, they're popping champagne.

1094
00:53:26,119 --> 00:53:28,639
Speaker 6: Did hey girl put the kids on the bus.

1095
00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:34,039
Speaker 1: This is real, Jamie, this is meantime. Deputy Hurly from

1096
00:53:34,039 --> 00:53:36,280
the Monroe County Sheriff's Department is on the line, and

1097
00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:39,639
we wanted to know if they increased patrol because of

1098
00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:41,559
all the drunk moms after the kids went back to

1099
00:53:41,599 --> 00:53:42,280
school this week.

1100
00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:49,199
Speaker 10: That part is not on our radar. However, now as.

1101
00:53:50,079 --> 00:53:52,280
Speaker 1: I think when they're writing song going how I know

1102
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:54,719
my mama drank? I think we I think it's something

1103
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:55,800
to pay attention to. That's all.

1104
00:53:56,559 --> 00:53:57,320
Speaker 3: That's how I see it.

1105
00:53:57,400 --> 00:54:00,280
Speaker 1: I don't know, by the way I I I want

1106
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:04,119
to apologize to you for being tardy, because I even

1107
00:54:04,159 --> 00:54:06,360
put it on Facebook Live that you were going to

1108
00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:09,400
be on last time. And there was also an incident

1109
00:54:09,559 --> 00:54:12,239
at the Fairport police station last week. Are you familiar

1110
00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:12,440
with that?

1111
00:54:13,679 --> 00:54:15,079
Speaker 10: Oh, I've heard about that.

1112
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:17,079
Speaker 3: Yeah, the shit cast role that came in.

1113
00:54:18,800 --> 00:54:20,679
Speaker 1: And the guy who dropped it off. Don't tell me

1114
00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:23,679
he doesn't look like Clinton Howard, Ron Howard's uglier brother,

1115
00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:31,119
and uh yeah, yeah, he looked like and so I

1116
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:34,639
had talked to Chief Barnes had figured out I would say,

1117
00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:38,079
around six forty five, seven o'clock, six forty five, my

1118
00:54:38,159 --> 00:54:41,239
phone rings. It's him. He's working on his UH nineteen

1119
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:44,519
forties jeep and telling us all about the shit cast

1120
00:54:44,639 --> 00:54:47,039
role has that ever? I mean, I think, just ask

1121
00:54:47,119 --> 00:54:48,639
you this, and I don't mean this in a bad way.

1122
00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:52,880
People have a very big hearts. I think that there's

1123
00:54:53,159 --> 00:54:56,760
oftentimes we see somebody in a uniform and we show

1124
00:54:56,800 --> 00:55:00,800
them a sign of respect. Sometimes people made wrop things off,

1125
00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:04,119
homemade cookies, homaide pies. I would think around the holidays,

1126
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:09,280
there's a whole lot of that. Do you dare even

1127
00:55:09,519 --> 00:55:13,559
sniff when someone drops off homemade anything at the police station?

1128
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:18,719
Speaker 10: Well, you know, we truly appreciate any act of kindness

1129
00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:22,320
from our community. You know, it goes a long way.

1130
00:55:22,639 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 1: And no, I wouldn't even be wary of like store

1131
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:32,400
bought stuff that you know, only because you just never know.

1132
00:55:32,519 --> 00:55:35,440
Somebody puts X lax in there, little marijuana, I don't know.

1133
00:55:35,639 --> 00:55:39,480
Speaker 4: I remember when the West Webster tragedy happened about Christmas, right,

1134
00:55:39,559 --> 00:55:40,719
my wife was close.

1135
00:55:40,519 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 1: To some of those people. She said she was close

1136
00:55:42,039 --> 00:55:44,480
to some of those people at the time, and they

1137
00:55:44,519 --> 00:55:46,800
said that she was she was under them. And what

1138
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:50,760
happened was thank Kevin. And so what happened was.

1139
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:55,519
Speaker 4: The people felt bad, so they kept bringing food because

1140
00:55:55,519 --> 00:55:59,119
it was Christmas. So the police and the fire to propaly.

1141
00:55:59,159 --> 00:56:03,199
Speaker 1: Okay, but we got way too much. It was like

1142
00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:05,480
pilot too much. But it's also the fact that you

1143
00:56:05,679 --> 00:56:08,239
just I would think there you probably got a good chance.

1144
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:11,480
Nine of it's gonna be fine. Yeah, you know, but

1145
00:56:11,559 --> 00:56:13,639
there is that one person that has the cat that

1146
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:17,199
they let walk on the counter and thea and you're

1147
00:56:17,199 --> 00:56:19,519
gonna get it straight hair that's gonna happen.

1148
00:56:20,079 --> 00:56:23,079
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, uh yeah, as my uh.

1149
00:56:23,679 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 10: I'm sorry, as my as my grandmother got older, it

1150
00:56:26,079 --> 00:56:27,960
reminds me that she used to love to make jello.

1151
00:56:28,119 --> 00:56:30,119
And then it was almost at one point like the

1152
00:56:30,159 --> 00:56:34,880
Griswold movie there where oh you can see the jello and.

1153
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:38,880
Speaker 1: You're like, is that a hair tastes like lamb Clark.

1154
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:44,599
Speaker 3: Tastes like, oh god, that is that's nasty.

1155
00:56:45,119 --> 00:56:48,639
Speaker 1: Uh So, as we talked to you about back to school,

1156
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:53,440
what would you say to citizens who are communing, because

1157
00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:55,239
you know, it was nice for a couple of months,

1158
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:57,480
you could breeze through. Now the school buses are in

1159
00:56:57,559 --> 00:57:00,599
the mix, their stops the first cup couple of days.

1160
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:03,559
I think some of the bus drivers are new, they're

1161
00:57:03,639 --> 00:57:06,880
learning the roots. There's you know, all these things. Just

1162
00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:10,360
have a little bit I'm seeing. Danny said he thinks

1163
00:57:10,400 --> 00:57:13,440
people have forgotten how to drive over the summer. I

1164
00:57:13,519 --> 00:57:16,800
don't know about that. I've seen people who are extremely

1165
00:57:17,119 --> 00:57:18,239
impatient lately.

1166
00:57:19,719 --> 00:57:22,119
Speaker 10: Yeah, everybody's a little more on edge lately, and that's

1167
00:57:22,159 --> 00:57:24,400
where it's nice to have this extra time to say, hey,

1168
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:27,679
slow down, have a little patience. You were about to say,

1169
00:57:27,719 --> 00:57:29,880
that's the best thing. Just have a little extra patience.

1170
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:33,360
Remember these are kids we're talking about, right, and for

1171
00:57:33,519 --> 00:57:35,760
most of us we have kids and that could be

1172
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:37,960
your kids on that bus. But just kind of remember

1173
00:57:38,039 --> 00:57:40,360
that stuff. You know, the buses are going to be out,

1174
00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:42,679
like you said, the route to work is going to

1175
00:57:42,719 --> 00:57:45,719
be a little bit slower possibly, and that's okay, So

1176
00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:47,360
you got to leave a little bit earlier. It's just

1177
00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:49,480
like when it snows, give yourself a little more time.

1178
00:57:49,559 --> 00:57:52,159
You know, just just happens every year. Just got to

1179
00:57:52,199 --> 00:57:55,000
be prepared for it. Take a deep breath right.

1180
00:57:55,039 --> 00:57:58,559
Speaker 1: You know, the weather's fine and slop pitching, and you know.

1181
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 3: These are the same people that are complaining.

1182
00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:06,760
Speaker 1: Back in my day, we went to school for eight hours.

1183
00:58:07,159 --> 00:58:10,079
When we went to school, that's right, there were thomas.

1184
00:58:10,199 --> 00:58:13,559
Speaker 10: There were no summers, which brings up another point. Right,

1185
00:58:13,639 --> 00:58:16,039
there's gonna be more kids out. There's gonna be kids walking,

1186
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:20,199
you know, biking with the weather being nice, should just

1187
00:58:20,199 --> 00:58:22,039
slow down a little bit, get your head out of

1188
00:58:22,079 --> 00:58:24,000
your phone, pay attention to do all the things that

1189
00:58:24,039 --> 00:58:26,400
you know you're supposed to do, and make sure everybody

1190
00:58:26,440 --> 00:58:27,159
gets there safe.

1191
00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:29,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree with that.

1192
00:58:30,599 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 1: Tragedy Today, I'm sure you're familiar with the story out

1193
00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:37,440
of Georgia where there was a fourteen year old school

1194
00:58:37,519 --> 00:58:41,000
shooter forty five minutes outside of Atlanta. Four people dead,

1195
00:58:41,119 --> 00:58:43,840
nine injured, and possibly more than that. Some of it

1196
00:58:44,119 --> 00:58:46,960
may just be from sheer panic right to people getting

1197
00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:50,800
trampled or who knows what. But we were talking earlier,

1198
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:54,239
you know, I was in a way joking that my

1199
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:57,079
son now lives with me. He's a ninth grader. His

1200
00:58:57,119 --> 00:59:00,000
first day was today. He wanted to have his quote

1201
00:59:00,159 --> 00:59:05,440
unquote drip right, and I said drip had an entirely different.

1202
00:59:05,559 --> 00:59:08,519
Meaning when I was in school, I would avoid anybody

1203
00:59:09,199 --> 00:59:12,000
who had great drip, you know what I mean. But

1204
00:59:12,239 --> 00:59:17,760
I also don't remember incidents like one unfolded outside of

1205
00:59:17,800 --> 00:59:21,360
Atlanta today. And I think that I know that kids

1206
00:59:21,519 --> 00:59:25,400
and Laura has younger kids who are in elementary school,

1207
00:59:25,519 --> 00:59:27,440
and there are active shooter drills.

1208
00:59:27,519 --> 00:59:31,440
Speaker 10: Now, yeah, it's unfortunately the world we live in now.

1209
00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:33,519
We have, you know, your regular fire drill, and then

1210
00:59:33,519 --> 00:59:36,880
we have to have active shooter drills. And you know what,

1211
00:59:37,119 --> 00:59:40,199
what is different? You know, that's the real thing. I

1212
00:59:40,239 --> 00:59:42,559
was having this conversation with somebody earlier too, and when

1213
00:59:42,599 --> 00:59:45,880
we were kids, and there was never thought of it. No,

1214
00:59:47,039 --> 00:59:49,480
it would never cross your mind that someone would go

1215
00:59:49,559 --> 00:59:52,960
into a school and shoot. And what's different, like why

1216
00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:55,199
is this happening? And if you can figure that out,

1217
00:59:55,880 --> 00:59:58,760
be super rich. But the important part here is just

1218
00:59:59,079 --> 01:00:01,920
is to remind people that, you know, from our end,

1219
01:00:02,159 --> 01:00:05,440
our point of view, we're training constantly, We're constantly doing

1220
01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:07,320
the best we can to be prepared in case something

1221
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:12,119
like this ever happened, you know, to respond, we established

1222
01:00:12,159 --> 01:00:13,960
the Rescue Task Force, which I don't know if you

1223
01:00:14,039 --> 01:00:15,679
know about that. I don't want to bory if you do,

1224
01:00:16,239 --> 01:00:20,920
but it's it's a group of deputies and law enforcement

1225
01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:23,960
officers who now work and train with fire departments in

1226
01:00:24,039 --> 01:00:27,559
ems because what we found is our first thought was

1227
01:00:27,599 --> 01:00:31,280
to go in and stop the killing, right and we

1228
01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:33,760
run in. We do that, that's our main priority. But

1229
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:35,639
who's taking care of the wounded? Who's taking care of

1230
01:00:35,639 --> 01:00:38,679
the people that are, you know, bleeding out while we're

1231
01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:40,840
doing that, And that's the best people do that as

1232
01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:45,360
the fire department, the medical professionals, they need protection as well,

1233
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:48,000
So the next group of deputies that come in are

1234
01:00:48,079 --> 01:00:50,840
tagged with them protecting them and then we're getting people

1235
01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:54,559
assistance faster. And it's sad that we have to think

1236
01:00:54,599 --> 01:00:54,960
about this.

1237
01:00:57,440 --> 01:01:02,440
Speaker 1: You know has happened. Unfortunately only think at schools, but

1238
01:01:02,519 --> 01:01:05,039
certainly there's a fire and then firemen and all of

1239
01:01:05,039 --> 01:01:08,480
a sudden West Webster was a great example of it exactly.

1240
01:01:08,199 --> 01:01:11,880
Speaker 10: That that's one of the ones where this this spawn from.

1241
01:01:12,039 --> 01:01:14,000
So you know, it could be anything. It doesn't have

1242
01:01:14,079 --> 01:01:15,800
to be a school. That's just always what we think

1243
01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:17,960
about because it's kids. When I think is kids, what

1244
01:01:18,480 --> 01:01:21,800
prominently sticks into your brain. But yeah, it's sad we

1245
01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:24,760
have to prepare and we do. Mean it's something that

1246
01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:27,559
we take seriously, but it's overall as a person, it's

1247
01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:30,480
just sad that we live in this world. And that's

1248
01:01:30,519 --> 01:01:30,760
the thing.

1249
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, do you, uh, what advice do would you give

1250
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:34,880
to parents?

1251
01:01:34,960 --> 01:01:38,840
Speaker 1: Let's say something goes down like at a school, right,

1252
01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:41,880
I think then I'll call it the knee jerk, And

1253
01:01:41,920 --> 01:01:45,039
maybe that's not right. Maybe the reflex response is to

1254
01:01:45,719 --> 01:01:49,159
find out if my kid's okay, and if I can't

1255
01:01:49,239 --> 01:01:52,400
get them on their cell phone, maybe there's a school

1256
01:01:52,440 --> 01:01:55,599
policy or whatever. Then my next thing is to get

1257
01:01:55,719 --> 01:01:58,000
up there. And I would always go stay out of

1258
01:01:58,039 --> 01:02:01,639
the way, Stay out of the way, Get out of

1259
01:02:01,679 --> 01:02:01,960
the way.

1260
01:02:04,039 --> 01:02:08,519
Speaker 10: This is the downside to being a parent being an officer,

1261
01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:10,280
you know, seeing both sides of it.

1262
01:02:10,559 --> 01:02:10,679
Speaker 1: Right.

1263
01:02:10,840 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 10: As a parent, right, your first thought is run there,

1264
01:02:13,519 --> 01:02:14,800
savior your babies.

1265
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:16,119
Speaker 8: Ye, do what you can.

1266
01:02:16,679 --> 01:02:22,440
Speaker 10: As a law enforcement it's like, don't because now you're

1267
01:02:22,519 --> 01:02:24,480
in the way. And that sounds terrible. And I don't

1268
01:02:24,760 --> 01:02:26,039
mean to be a jerk about it, but.

1269
01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:28,519
Speaker 1: I've been a jerk because we had an incident at

1270
01:02:28,559 --> 01:02:31,039
my kids elementary school and all the parents wanted to

1271
01:02:31,079 --> 01:02:32,920
go up and I refused, and I was called all

1272
01:02:33,039 --> 01:02:35,639
kinds of names as these people were marching up there,

1273
01:02:35,639 --> 01:02:38,519
and I wouldn't go. I stayed home, and I was.

1274
01:02:38,559 --> 01:02:41,480
Speaker 11: Like, because the other side, are you going to do well?

1275
01:02:41,519 --> 01:02:44,039
The other That was what I yelled, What are you going?

1276
01:02:44,440 --> 01:02:46,719
That's what I went, What are you going to do?

1277
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:49,199
You are the red deck who says hold my beer

1278
01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:49,760
and watch?

1279
01:02:50,119 --> 01:02:52,440
Speaker 1: I said, you guys are all nothing but cholesterol. You

1280
01:02:52,599 --> 01:02:55,079
just climb up the works. But I so I got

1281
01:02:55,119 --> 01:02:56,519
in trouble for that. But that was my thinking. And

1282
01:02:56,599 --> 01:03:01,159
the opposite side of that was I also don't want

1283
01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:03,800
my adrenaline up. So when I do see my kids,

1284
01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:07,039
everything's like my hair's on fire and I grab them

1285
01:03:07,079 --> 01:03:11,199
and they may not be fully cognizant because they were

1286
01:03:11,239 --> 01:03:14,679
in elementary school. You know, Laura's kids in elementary may

1287
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:17,920
be fully cognizant of what's going on, and maybe that's

1288
01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:20,400
a good thing. So we try to keep the level down.

1289
01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:22,239
Was my thinking on that.

1290
01:03:22,599 --> 01:03:24,760
Speaker 5: I cannot if I was told that there was a

1291
01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:29,360
school shooting at my kids elementary school, I'm going there,

1292
01:03:29,639 --> 01:03:32,480
Like even if I'm told to stay away, because it's

1293
01:03:32,519 --> 01:03:34,320
not like they have phones so you could reach that.

1294
01:03:34,519 --> 01:03:36,639
Speaker 1: No, you wouldn't be alone in that, but I would

1295
01:03:36,719 --> 01:03:38,880
just go you just you get in the way.

1296
01:03:40,480 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 10: That's part of the planning, right is we prepare for that,

1297
01:03:44,519 --> 01:03:47,000
and here's you know, here's my job to come out

1298
01:03:47,039 --> 01:03:49,039
and say, this is what we have, this is what

1299
01:03:49,119 --> 01:03:51,239
we're doing. This is where I need you to go.

1300
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:53,880
If you're a parent, go to this location and that's

1301
01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:57,239
where the kids because we have to remember, right and

1302
01:03:57,639 --> 01:04:00,519
again I'm I'm sensitive about this because because I don't

1303
01:04:00,519 --> 01:04:03,159
want people to get upset, But you have to understand

1304
01:04:03,559 --> 01:04:07,480
the whole perspective. And one of the worst offenders in

1305
01:04:07,840 --> 01:04:10,519
all of these events when you find out days and

1306
01:04:10,599 --> 01:04:12,800
weeks later, when they do all the investigations and you

1307
01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:14,840
watch the videos and you see it. I've seen too

1308
01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:19,880
many of them are officers, off duty cops going to

1309
01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:21,920
save their kids because I'm a cop and I'm going

1310
01:04:22,000 --> 01:04:24,239
to get in there. But you're in your Bahama shorts

1311
01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:25,880
and your Hawaiian.

1312
01:04:25,559 --> 01:04:31,440
Speaker 1: Shirt, you're your moccasins.

1313
01:04:32,840 --> 01:04:35,320
Speaker 10: But now you have someone running through the school with

1314
01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:35,639
a gun.

1315
01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:37,920
Speaker 1: Now I got my flip flops? How am I gonna

1316
01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:38,440
keep them up?

1317
01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:41,280
Speaker 3: Take those goddamn things off. They're gonna hear you coming.

1318
01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:47,119
Speaker 10: And and as a responding cop, this is probably the

1319
01:04:47,199 --> 01:04:50,519
worst day of your life as well. You have to

1320
01:04:50,559 --> 01:04:53,679
ascertain who's the good guys, who's the bad guys, what's

1321
01:04:53,760 --> 01:04:56,360
going on? And now you have somebody just running through

1322
01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:58,800
dress like that, waving a gun around. That's never a

1323
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:02,199
good day. So so everybody, we tell everybody, just you know,

1324
01:05:02,599 --> 01:05:04,239
here's where we need you to go this and how

1325
01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:07,039
you can help he let us do what we need to.

1326
01:05:07,079 --> 01:05:11,119
Speaker 1: Do it Sometimes and I always think this in life,

1327
01:05:11,239 --> 01:05:14,599
we're so led by our emotions, right that sometimes we

1328
01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:19,440
don't think clearly a rational mind. And I always really

1329
01:05:19,639 --> 01:05:25,599
try in every way to not have that impulsive, knee

1330
01:05:25,639 --> 01:05:29,440
jerk reaction to things. And I always figure, like, like

1331
01:05:29,559 --> 01:05:32,000
I ranted a little while ago, just slightly.

1332
01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:33,760
Speaker 3: I didn't go too bad, but.

1333
01:05:34,039 --> 01:05:36,280
Speaker 1: I was just saying, like, sometimes there have been people

1334
01:05:36,320 --> 01:05:39,440
who have been accused of having a threat against the

1335
01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:42,199
school and it's found to be false, and the police

1336
01:05:42,239 --> 01:05:45,400
do their investigation and there's nothing, and then the school says, well,

1337
01:05:45,519 --> 01:05:47,199
we haven't completed our investigation.

1338
01:05:47,639 --> 01:05:49,480
Speaker 3: And my argument is, you.

1339
01:05:49,519 --> 01:05:53,920
Speaker 1: Don't know how they're trained. You're not you're an educator,

1340
01:05:54,079 --> 01:05:57,480
you're not you're not an investigator, but degree bill. But

1341
01:05:57,559 --> 01:05:59,639
if these guys say it's all clear, and that's where

1342
01:05:59,679 --> 01:06:01,559
I'm like, why why do we have them?

1343
01:06:01,599 --> 01:06:02,920
Speaker 3: Then why don't we have the police?

1344
01:06:02,960 --> 01:06:06,519
Speaker 1: If you're so fucking good, you cowboys, you're not, and

1345
01:06:06,639 --> 01:06:08,079
so let's stop, let's.

1346
01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:09,440
Speaker 3: Leave it to the EXTU would I would.

1347
01:06:09,920 --> 01:06:12,639
Speaker 10: I would say this just to play the other side

1348
01:06:12,639 --> 01:06:15,840
a little bit. They also have different rules and regulations, right.

1349
01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:18,679
Speaker 1: Rules and regulations. But if the cops come back and

1350
01:06:18,679 --> 01:06:21,119
go there was no threat and here's what happened and

1351
01:06:21,159 --> 01:06:25,800
blah blah blah, then shut up. But I'm and I'll

1352
01:06:25,840 --> 01:06:26,400
take it from here.

1353
01:06:28,320 --> 01:06:32,800
Speaker 10: But my point is, there's there's times where in the

1354
01:06:32,880 --> 01:06:36,840
law is very in depth. There's times where there are

1355
01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:40,239
things that we can't do in certain ages. There are

1356
01:06:40,480 --> 01:06:42,960
things that aren't necessarily a crime but could still be

1357
01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:46,840
a little weird. And that's where the school could then,

1358
01:06:47,679 --> 01:06:50,159
you know, because again they have all those kids there, right,

1359
01:06:50,239 --> 01:06:53,239
so they they have different Uh. I guess we'll just

1360
01:06:53,280 --> 01:06:55,840
say abilities different things that they can do that we

1361
01:06:55,960 --> 01:06:58,920
as the law can't do. Right, we we can't. There's

1362
01:06:58,960 --> 01:07:02,039
certain lines we can't across. We can't you know, I

1363
01:07:02,079 --> 01:07:04,719
guess that's the best way I can say.

1364
01:07:04,679 --> 01:07:07,000
Speaker 3: No, I know exactly what you're saying.

1365
01:07:07,119 --> 01:07:11,280
Speaker 1: And uh, and that's true, that is your your I

1366
01:07:11,360 --> 01:07:13,119
mean obviously you're not just making up that there are

1367
01:07:13,199 --> 01:07:16,079
certain The law can only go so far in terms

1368
01:07:16,199 --> 01:07:19,000
of here's what the law says, here's what we can do.

1369
01:07:19,639 --> 01:07:22,199
Anything beyond that, you know, if you want the kid

1370
01:07:22,239 --> 01:07:24,320
out of school or whatever, or how it's going to

1371
01:07:24,360 --> 01:07:27,199
be handled. Uh, that's a little beyond our scope.

1372
01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:28,960
Speaker 6: The law's a lot more black and white.

1373
01:07:30,159 --> 01:07:33,960
Speaker 10: Absolutely, Like a perfect example, right, there's a let's say

1374
01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:36,960
a parent does something but it's not considered threatening for

1375
01:07:37,159 --> 01:07:40,559
the law, but it violates some kind of school regulation.

1376
01:07:40,800 --> 01:07:42,599
Now they can be banned from the property because the

1377
01:07:42,639 --> 01:07:45,719
school owns that property. We don't, right, so they can

1378
01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:49,320
tell you you're no longer allowed there. I can't right, right, right, right,

1379
01:07:49,400 --> 01:07:52,320
such as something like that? Maybe maybe not, I mean,

1380
01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:53,920
you could be right. I'm sure there's plenty of times

1381
01:07:53,960 --> 01:07:55,280
where it's different.

1382
01:07:55,719 --> 01:07:57,400
Speaker 3: No, that that that one I've heard of.

1383
01:07:58,239 --> 01:08:00,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you really do you have do you guys

1384
01:08:00,440 --> 01:08:02,400
have drills and stuff? Were like you have to like

1385
01:08:02,440 --> 01:08:02,800
go over.

1386
01:08:02,800 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 4: These scenarios like do you have like a fake school

1387
01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:07,320
and like fake actors? Will go in and fake actors

1388
01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:09,639
with actors and you rehearse this type of stuff.

1389
01:08:10,599 --> 01:08:14,239
Speaker 10: Absolutely, we've we've done those drills in the past where

1390
01:08:14,320 --> 01:08:16,560
we'll have people do exactly that. We'll go into school

1391
01:08:16,600 --> 01:08:21,199
maybe on a weekend. We did one with the college

1392
01:08:21,239 --> 01:08:23,279
at Brockport a couple of years ago and it was

1393
01:08:23,439 --> 01:08:28,920
really in depth scenario where we even dispatched, you know,

1394
01:08:28,960 --> 01:08:32,079
the Brockport Police, Suoni, Brockport Police, everybody. When we timed

1395
01:08:32,079 --> 01:08:33,920
it out as if this is how long it would

1396
01:08:33,920 --> 01:08:36,119
take you, right, like, obviously the Sunni police will be

1397
01:08:36,159 --> 01:08:38,960
there the quickest because that's their jurisdiction. Then the Brockport

1398
01:08:39,039 --> 01:08:41,880
Village police were there and the ambulance and we ran

1399
01:08:41,960 --> 01:08:45,199
through like it was a real life drill, and it

1400
01:08:45,239 --> 01:08:49,439
was a real life scenario. We had you want to

1401
01:08:49,479 --> 01:08:52,880
gross anybody out, but we had actual wounds that you

1402
01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:55,319
could put on to people that you know, you tie

1403
01:08:55,359 --> 01:08:58,279
it on to them like Hollywood and they would pump

1404
01:08:58,319 --> 01:09:00,439
blood out. And then you have to put a turn and.

1405
01:09:02,640 --> 01:09:04,079
Speaker 1: How do you get to be one of those people?

1406
01:09:04,239 --> 01:09:05,920
Can you sign up? And is there like a do

1407
01:09:06,000 --> 01:09:08,319
you need a SAG card or a bag lunch? Okay,

1408
01:09:08,399 --> 01:09:10,920
so yeah, right, you're thinking, like I want to go

1409
01:09:11,039 --> 01:09:12,840
do No, you know what I want to do. I

1410
01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:15,199
want to I want to find the guy that wants

1411
01:09:15,279 --> 01:09:18,600
to be an actor really bad, and I want to

1412
01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:21,520
send him a letter in the mail that says, Hey,

1413
01:09:21,560 --> 01:09:22,399
you've been selected.

1414
01:09:23,840 --> 01:09:26,000
Speaker 3: Come down to suiting Brock.

1415
01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:29,119
Speaker 1: For This is gonna be a lifelike scenario. Blah blah blah,

1416
01:09:29,199 --> 01:09:29,840
it'll be great.

1417
01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:31,640
Speaker 3: Bring your after card.

1418
01:09:31,800 --> 01:09:33,960
Speaker 4: Make sure then in the middle of the drill, the

1419
01:09:34,000 --> 01:09:36,159
middle the drill, deaf in your hear wait, cut cut,

1420
01:09:36,239 --> 01:09:37,720
Hey can we do this again?

1421
01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:40,159
Speaker 1: Can we do this? I really didn't capture the moment.

1422
01:09:40,720 --> 01:09:47,239
What's my line? But it's interesting to Yeah, oh god,

1423
01:09:47,439 --> 01:09:49,960
that's it. Yeah, maybe you could do Could you do

1424
01:09:50,199 --> 01:09:52,520
that to get out of jury duty? Like yeah, I

1425
01:09:52,560 --> 01:09:54,399
could get out of Yeah, get out of like duty

1426
01:09:54,479 --> 01:09:54,960
free card.

1427
01:09:55,119 --> 01:09:55,319
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1428
01:09:55,520 --> 01:09:57,600
Speaker 1: Like, I don't want to do jury duty, but I

1429
01:09:57,840 --> 01:10:01,319
will be I'll be the tape your dummy for the

1430
01:10:01,399 --> 01:10:05,159
new police, right, yeah, for ten minutes or or just

1431
01:10:05,279 --> 01:10:09,680
wipes out a speeding ticket like service. Yeah. Yeah, I'll

1432
01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:12,000
be the guy that's spurting blood and they gotta come

1433
01:10:12,079 --> 01:10:14,119
over and I gotta wrap it up real tight. Yeah,

1434
01:10:14,199 --> 01:10:16,239
throw your body points off my license.

1435
01:10:16,399 --> 01:10:17,560
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, or.

1436
01:10:17,600 --> 01:10:19,960
Speaker 1: They're gonna they think there's a head injury so they

1437
01:10:20,039 --> 01:10:23,119
have to shave my head. Yeah yeah, but if it

1438
01:10:23,199 --> 01:10:25,399
gets me out of Jerry Judy, I would rather do

1439
01:10:25,520 --> 01:10:26,159
that than take.

1440
01:10:26,039 --> 01:10:28,720
Speaker 4: Those six hour courses to like shave points off my license.

1441
01:10:28,760 --> 01:10:30,720
Speaker 1: Exactly. It's more of an adventure instead of sitting in

1442
01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:31,359
a classroom.

1443
01:10:31,479 --> 01:10:34,079
Speaker 3: Right, yeah, come back, you have to shave there. I

1444
01:10:34,199 --> 01:10:34,600
think we do.

1445
01:10:34,760 --> 01:10:36,720
Speaker 1: I think I think we got to talk to you talk.

1446
01:10:36,760 --> 01:10:37,720
We got to talk to some people.

1447
01:10:38,600 --> 01:10:41,399
Speaker 10: Take a take a six a taser dummy.

1448
01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:43,479
Speaker 3: Yes, it's perfect.

1449
01:10:43,560 --> 01:10:45,279
Speaker 1: I can't. I have a heart condition, but you might be.

1450
01:10:48,319 --> 01:10:49,960
Speaker 3: Well that mean Hurley, was it a good back to

1451
01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:51,039
school in your own home?

1452
01:10:52,159 --> 01:10:52,319
Speaker 1: Oh?

1453
01:10:52,439 --> 01:10:53,359
Speaker 10: Absolutely good.

1454
01:10:53,760 --> 01:10:56,840
Speaker 1: I'm glad to hear that. Well it's been a walk out, yes, sir,

1455
01:10:57,840 --> 01:10:59,279
to go through a circle. Yeah.

1456
01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:01,239
Speaker 10: With what we were talking about in the beginning, you

1457
01:11:01,239 --> 01:11:04,039
were talking about the person who dropped off the food fairport.

1458
01:11:05,520 --> 01:11:07,000
I don't have it in front of me, but a

1459
01:11:07,039 --> 01:11:10,640
couple of days ago we arrested him and Target and Henrietta,

1460
01:11:11,279 --> 01:11:13,920
and because of his predicate selling status, he is now

1461
01:11:14,000 --> 01:11:15,199
in the Monroe County jail.

1462
01:11:15,359 --> 01:11:17,239
Speaker 4: That's what all those cars were there for I was

1463
01:11:17,319 --> 01:11:20,560
wondering what that was about, what target target and Henrietta, Okay,

1464
01:11:20,720 --> 01:11:22,479
that's the big one that like, man, you go into

1465
01:11:22,520 --> 01:11:24,079
that parking lot, you don't know what you're gonna end

1466
01:11:24,159 --> 01:11:24,760
up coming out with.

1467
01:11:26,079 --> 01:11:28,720
Speaker 10: What we got to call for someone's stealing. And when

1468
01:11:28,720 --> 01:11:32,279
the deputies got there, he tried to run. We caught

1469
01:11:32,359 --> 01:11:35,439
him and with him, took him in front of the

1470
01:11:35,520 --> 01:11:37,119
judge and he got remanded.

1471
01:11:37,560 --> 01:11:42,319
Speaker 1: Okay, now I do think that and then maybe you

1472
01:11:42,439 --> 01:11:46,399
can clarify this from what I understood talking or listening

1473
01:11:46,439 --> 01:11:51,600
to Chief Barnes, is that if you are a felon

1474
01:11:52,119 --> 01:11:57,159
of any kind, you can't have ammunition. I'm not saying

1475
01:11:57,199 --> 01:12:00,319
the gun. I'm just saying the ammunition itself. And he

1476
01:12:00,479 --> 01:12:05,039
put an AR fifteen bullet in this ship pie that

1477
01:12:05,159 --> 01:12:10,039
he was delivering or whatever it was, poopy pie. Is

1478
01:12:10,079 --> 01:12:10,520
that yeah?

1479
01:12:10,680 --> 01:12:14,880
Speaker 10: I mean that's my story. I thought, I don't their job,

1480
01:12:14,960 --> 01:12:15,600
it wasn't ours.

1481
01:12:15,840 --> 01:12:18,960
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, well I think that's a so I think

1482
01:12:19,079 --> 01:12:21,079
like on a on a federal level, that's a felony

1483
01:12:21,159 --> 01:12:22,159
and so you can hold them.

1484
01:12:25,079 --> 01:12:29,720
Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean the federal side. Again, not my real

1485
01:12:29,840 --> 01:12:36,199
expertise I got, especially being the predicate fellon. You get

1486
01:12:36,239 --> 01:12:38,840
caught even with a larceny and and you're going to

1487
01:12:38,880 --> 01:12:39,239
be held.

1488
01:12:39,800 --> 01:12:43,119
Speaker 1: I love when I can make Deputy Hurly, Dan Mason,

1489
01:12:43,199 --> 01:12:48,000
Chief anybody uncomfortable. But they're all so perfect as they go. Look, man,

1490
01:12:48,159 --> 01:12:50,600
I don't know, but I'll I'll stay within my scope,

1491
01:12:50,880 --> 01:12:51,800
stay within my scope.

1492
01:12:51,800 --> 01:12:53,079
Speaker 3: But I appreciate that I do.

1493
01:12:53,279 --> 01:12:55,439
Speaker 1: I think that's very smart of you, and I apologize

1494
01:12:55,479 --> 01:12:57,479
for stepping a little out of bouncer, but I wasn't

1495
01:12:57,479 --> 01:13:00,159
sure myself. Well, it's been nice talking to you, been

1496
01:13:00,199 --> 01:13:01,600
a while. We'll have to get you back in the

1497
01:13:01,640 --> 01:13:02,279
studio soon.

1498
01:13:03,279 --> 01:13:03,760
Speaker 10: Sound good?

1499
01:13:03,840 --> 01:13:05,079
Speaker 3: All right? That that would be fun.

1500
01:13:05,119 --> 01:13:07,279
Speaker 1: I know that Kevin has probably been bothering you to

1501
01:13:07,439 --> 01:13:11,640
let him get drunk and then do the breathalyzer. But

1502
01:13:11,760 --> 01:13:14,199
I don't know. Maybe around the holidays, Thanksgiving, and don't

1503
01:13:14,199 --> 01:13:16,600
forget biggest barn end of the year is the Wednesday.

1504
01:13:16,600 --> 01:13:19,359
And I believe a bar in Fairport ended up on

1505
01:13:19,560 --> 01:13:22,680
TMZ the Wednesday before Thanksgiving this past year.

1506
01:13:24,520 --> 01:13:26,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, I actually do you have to call him back?

1507
01:13:26,880 --> 01:13:29,720
Speaker 1: Okay? Well, if you do, that may be fun and

1508
01:13:29,840 --> 01:13:30,439
maybe we can do.

1509
01:13:30,520 --> 01:13:32,880
Speaker 4: We should do like an ap top twenty five people

1510
01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:35,800
that Kevin bugs because of this show. I think Deputy

1511
01:13:35,920 --> 01:13:38,399
Hurley would be like in the college football playoff if

1512
01:13:38,439 --> 01:13:38,840
he did that.

1513
01:13:38,920 --> 01:13:42,640
Speaker 3: I already got three with including Hurley, Connor, Laura.

1514
01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:45,720
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, Deputy Hurley might have like a bye week

1515
01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:48,840
in the second round. It maybe comes out four or five.

1516
01:13:48,920 --> 01:13:51,000
It could be yeah, yeah, I know, you know I

1517
01:13:51,079 --> 01:13:54,239
never get a call. Yeah, now you know that this

1518
01:13:54,399 --> 01:13:56,800
is going to come back. He's gonna be very Yeah.

1519
01:13:56,880 --> 01:13:57,960
Speaker 3: Pick on those that we love.

1520
01:13:58,039 --> 01:14:00,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, he picks on me when I'm here, Deputy Hurly.

1521
01:14:00,840 --> 01:14:02,520
I hope you have a great evening, and thanks for

1522
01:14:02,560 --> 01:14:03,399
giving us so much time.

1523
01:14:04,239 --> 01:14:05,119
Speaker 10: Absolutely anytime.

1524
01:14:05,359 --> 01:14:07,760
Speaker 3: All right, we'll talk to you there you go.

1525
01:14:11,840 --> 01:14:14,039
Speaker 1: Uh, you know, if you're looking for a night out,

1526
01:14:14,279 --> 01:14:19,039
may I suggest Trotta? Yeah, Now, I don't know about

1527
01:14:19,079 --> 01:14:21,399
you guys a few times, man, Yeah, I love it.

1528
01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:24,119
Speaker 3: Trota is great. And the rooftop is still open yep,

1529
01:14:24,359 --> 01:14:25,279
so you can get up there.

1530
01:14:25,800 --> 01:14:25,920
Speaker 4: Uh.

1531
01:14:26,159 --> 01:14:28,720
Speaker 1: But they have bar snacks, and I like some bar

1532
01:14:28,840 --> 01:14:31,079
snacks when I'm when I'm sitting around having a couple

1533
01:14:31,119 --> 01:14:34,600
of cocktails, and you can get some quality bar food

1534
01:14:34,680 --> 01:14:37,399
to Trotta. The wings are brind in house and served

1535
01:14:37,439 --> 01:14:41,119
with their signature sauce and creamy blue cheese. The buttermilk

1536
01:14:41,239 --> 01:14:45,359
chicken fingers are fresh, never frozen, and gluten free. Wow, yeah,

1537
01:14:45,720 --> 01:14:47,279
I know you could do that. I would never have

1538
01:14:47,439 --> 01:14:49,399
known that. I would not have known that it wasn't

1539
01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:52,840
it was gluten free. That's a big deal. You got it.

1540
01:14:53,399 --> 01:14:57,319
And uh, don't sleep on the carnitas nachos or the

1541
01:14:57,479 --> 01:14:59,760
duck case of dias which I have had. Have you

1542
01:14:59,840 --> 01:15:00,760
had the ducky is?

1543
01:15:00,920 --> 01:15:03,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're really good. They are very good.

1544
01:15:03,720 --> 01:15:06,159
Speaker 1: Do yourself a favor and come with the group so

1545
01:15:06,239 --> 01:15:09,479
you can try one of everything. That's what I would suggest, verything.

1546
01:15:10,039 --> 01:15:14,399
Trotta the restaurant at the Armory. Uh Dan sent me

1547
01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:16,680
an interesting thing about John Cena. I don't want to

1548
01:15:16,720 --> 01:15:19,640
play the audio associated with it, but I'd like to

1549
01:15:19,920 --> 01:15:22,880
kind of talk about it a little bit and uh

1550
01:15:23,279 --> 01:15:26,880
tell you about my computer mishaps and how I felt

1551
01:15:26,880 --> 01:15:28,600
like I had to reboot my home life.

1552
01:15:29,399 --> 01:15:30,079
Speaker 3: Lose a computer.

1553
01:15:30,199 --> 01:15:31,439
Speaker 1: You had to reboot your own life.

1554
01:15:31,439 --> 01:15:33,079
Speaker 3: We'll get to all that right after this.

1555
01:15:42,560 --> 01:15:51,560
Speaker 1: School appreciate no come up with the trash pea I

1556
01:15:51,600 --> 01:15:59,279
could this comes up. It's a tough thing for me

1557
01:15:59,520 --> 01:16:06,880
right now because I am his dad and I think

1558
01:16:06,920 --> 01:16:09,239
as a parent, you need to have a backbone. Everywhere

1559
01:16:09,439 --> 01:16:11,760
people pissing on the stage, you know, they just don't care.

1560
01:16:12,000 --> 01:16:14,199
I can't take the smell. I can't take the noise.

1561
01:16:14,239 --> 01:16:17,279
Speaker 9: Got no money to the I guess I got raped

1562
01:16:17,319 --> 01:16:19,880
in the just in the back chunk is in the

1563
01:16:19,920 --> 01:16:22,520
alley with the baseball back. I try to get it away,

1564
01:16:22,640 --> 01:16:24,600
but I couldn't get far because a man with the

1565
01:16:24,680 --> 01:16:25,720
touch he possessed my.

1566
01:16:27,880 --> 01:16:38,319
Speaker 1: Because I'm close to the try like some times wonder.

1567
01:16:39,560 --> 01:16:40,680
Speaker 6: I can't ever give you the art.

1568
01:16:41,039 --> 01:16:41,640
Speaker 1: I don't care.

1569
01:16:43,159 --> 01:16:45,840
Speaker 9: Watching all the cogo by Roaring as the business blow, a.

1570
01:16:45,920 --> 01:16:48,920
Speaker 1: Crazy lady living in the bag eating not a garbage

1571
01:16:48,920 --> 01:16:50,840
pill used to be a fag hag such as that's

1572
01:16:50,880 --> 01:16:54,760
the tangle. Hey, look it's a podcast. I'm just saying

1573
01:16:54,840 --> 01:16:57,640
it was back in the day. I don't support that's

1574
01:16:57,680 --> 01:17:00,920
although last night I would stop every song. Oh I well,

1575
01:17:02,239 --> 01:17:06,239
I let it go because it's in the music, and

1576
01:17:06,399 --> 01:17:07,039
that's okay.

1577
01:17:07,359 --> 01:17:09,520
Speaker 3: But I can't say no.

1578
01:17:10,520 --> 01:17:13,720
Speaker 1: This podcasts are not expressed by the podcast. This one

1579
01:17:14,000 --> 01:17:16,199
I go. Look, it's it's a word that was used.

1580
01:17:16,239 --> 01:17:20,199
It's not one. Today we've we've corrected ourselves. We've evolved, right,

1581
01:17:20,319 --> 01:17:22,520
we've evolved. That's the way I know what I bet.

1582
01:17:23,239 --> 01:17:27,840
I bet fag means something completely cigarette and I did

1583
01:17:28,039 --> 01:17:28,680
mean cigarette.

1584
01:17:28,760 --> 01:17:31,520
Speaker 3: Ye, yes, take a drag and a fag.

1585
01:17:32,319 --> 01:17:34,319
Speaker 5: Okay, never smokes, So it.

1586
01:17:34,359 --> 01:17:36,159
Speaker 3: Was always my I think there's one of my early

1587
01:17:36,199 --> 01:17:37,159
stand up in sixth grade.

1588
01:17:38,279 --> 01:17:40,600
Speaker 1: Wow, what's the deal with?

1589
01:17:42,720 --> 01:17:42,760
Speaker 9: That?

1590
01:17:42,880 --> 01:17:46,439
Speaker 3: Was very funny. That's terrible.

1591
01:17:47,079 --> 01:17:51,079
Speaker 1: Uh, so my computer went down. I'm down at my mom's.

1592
01:17:51,159 --> 01:17:53,640
We went down to Rhyinebeck to see U. My mother

1593
01:17:54,359 --> 01:17:57,159
and uh, your parents get a little older. She lives

1594
01:17:57,199 --> 01:17:59,920
by herself. She's moving around, she's doing a ton of stuff.

1595
01:18:00,000 --> 01:18:02,560
She was down in New York City today. My oldest

1596
01:18:02,560 --> 01:18:03,960
son went over to meet her. She was there with

1597
01:18:04,039 --> 01:18:05,920
a friend. They were going to see a play. She

1598
01:18:06,039 --> 01:18:08,319
had been up in Maine, but not to see my brother.

1599
01:18:08,479 --> 01:18:11,880
She was staying at some cottage in Maine. But then,

1600
01:18:12,159 --> 01:18:13,800
my mother has this thing where she likes to go

1601
01:18:13,880 --> 01:18:16,119
and say goodbye to the water when we leave. She

1602
01:18:16,119 --> 01:18:17,520
would always say goodbye to the water.

1603
01:18:18,000 --> 01:18:18,399
Speaker 3: While she.

1604
01:18:19,920 --> 01:18:23,760
Speaker 1: Fell in a hole and she landed on her hip,

1605
01:18:24,079 --> 01:18:28,439
the new hip. She didn't fall it a well goodbye water, no, no.

1606
01:18:29,640 --> 01:18:33,119
She turned to the baby Jessica, what is it Lassie

1607
01:18:33,560 --> 01:18:34,479
Mars is in the well.

1608
01:18:36,720 --> 01:18:39,560
Speaker 6: She just did that story about the Yes.

1609
01:18:39,960 --> 01:18:42,800
Speaker 1: That's right, that fell in the well. So she fell

1610
01:18:43,199 --> 01:18:45,800
saying goodbye to the water. And she was in a

1611
01:18:45,840 --> 01:18:49,680
lot of pain. And there was an incident on I

1612
01:18:49,920 --> 01:18:54,199
ninety five, I think that ran through like the Massachusetts.

1613
01:18:53,560 --> 01:18:54,159
Speaker 3: Or ninety five.

1614
01:18:54,760 --> 01:18:58,760
Speaker 1: One of the bridges was backed up because somebody, I guess,

1615
01:18:58,960 --> 01:19:02,119
like murder suicide in a car and then got out

1616
01:19:02,199 --> 01:19:05,880
and jumped off the bridge. Something terrible that but just

1617
01:19:06,000 --> 01:19:08,159
backed up traffic forever and ever and ever. So my

1618
01:19:08,239 --> 01:19:10,000
mom spent like what would be a four hour trip

1619
01:19:10,039 --> 01:19:11,119
became a seven hour trip.

1620
01:19:11,439 --> 01:19:15,039
Speaker 3: She's very sore. I get down there. The first morning, I.

1621
01:19:15,119 --> 01:19:18,560
Speaker 1: Wake up to Billy, I have to go to the

1622
01:19:18,640 --> 01:19:23,079
hospital and I'm like what, I can't tell I haven't

1623
01:19:23,119 --> 01:19:25,560
slept a bit, and I'm like, all right, hang on.

1624
01:19:25,720 --> 01:19:28,119
So I throw on clothes and I take her up

1625
01:19:28,159 --> 01:19:31,800
to the emergency room and she has like they go

1626
01:19:31,960 --> 01:19:36,760
to deep bruising. But your hip is fine, everything's still intact.

1627
01:19:37,560 --> 01:19:41,359
There's no nothing to worry about. Just very sore. And

1628
01:19:41,640 --> 01:19:43,640
I think the great news the bone, Yeah, it was

1629
01:19:43,720 --> 01:19:45,760
great news. It was great news because I'm like fine.

1630
01:19:46,039 --> 01:19:48,119
Of course I had to call my sister and my brother.

1631
01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:52,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, really, well, why did you have to say that

1632
01:19:53,079 --> 01:19:57,279
there was just a little bit, a little bit gummy.

1633
01:19:57,119 --> 01:19:59,159
Speaker 1: A little bit I should have, you know, And I

1634
01:19:59,239 --> 01:20:01,920
had them I had in my supers. Yeah. But the

1635
01:20:02,159 --> 01:20:05,880
uh so when I was down there that later that day,

1636
01:20:06,000 --> 01:20:08,039
I was all caught up with stuff. I go down.

1637
01:20:08,079 --> 01:20:09,279
Speaker 3: I had the laptop set up.

1638
01:20:10,079 --> 01:20:12,960
Speaker 1: I get down there and the screen is black like

1639
01:20:13,119 --> 01:20:15,079
it would be. It's a sitting idle, and I keep

1640
01:20:15,119 --> 01:20:17,319
moving the mouse, keep moving the mouse. Nothing is going on,

1641
01:20:17,439 --> 01:20:20,239
and I'm like, oh my god, holds the laptop. Oh

1642
01:20:20,359 --> 01:20:23,800
my god. Why I wasn't exactly sure. I wasn't exactly

1643
01:20:23,880 --> 01:20:26,920
sure because I was gifted that basically. And then I

1644
01:20:27,000 --> 01:20:29,399
took it somewhere and put a couple hundred dollars into

1645
01:20:29,439 --> 01:20:31,680
it to boost up its memory and do all this stuff.

1646
01:20:32,159 --> 01:20:35,680
So the laptop had served me wonderfully, right, So, but

1647
01:20:35,880 --> 01:20:40,439
now I'm looking so I decide, well, let me go

1648
01:20:40,520 --> 01:20:43,199
to Best Buy and so we make an appointment for

1649
01:20:43,279 --> 01:20:46,239
the geek squad. I get down there. It's supposed to

1650
01:20:46,279 --> 01:20:49,960
be like thirty forty dollars. I get there and uh,

1651
01:20:50,000 --> 01:20:52,199
we're in line. There's all these people and it's like

1652
01:20:52,279 --> 01:20:54,079
one twenty one, the appointments for one to twenty, and

1653
01:20:54,079 --> 01:20:55,760
I said, I have a one twenty appointment. He goes yeah.

1654
01:20:56,800 --> 01:21:00,560
I go, okay, all right, awesome. So I said, I

1655
01:21:00,640 --> 01:21:02,640
know something happened with my screen. I can't get it

1656
01:21:02,720 --> 01:21:04,479
to come on. I can't do anything.

1657
01:21:04,520 --> 01:21:04,800
Speaker 3: I said.

1658
01:21:04,840 --> 01:21:08,520
Speaker 1: The laptop turns on, but I can't see anything. He goes, yeah,

1659
01:21:08,760 --> 01:21:13,119
nothing we can do. Well, what do you mean nothing?

1660
01:21:13,199 --> 01:21:19,920
Because no? So I'm like, doc, do something. No, why

1661
01:21:20,479 --> 01:21:24,159
can't they just fucking humory take it off my hits,

1662
01:21:24,479 --> 01:21:27,000
walk in the back, go in a circle like a duck,

1663
01:21:27,079 --> 01:21:28,560
and come back and go, hey man, there's nothing we go.

1664
01:21:28,720 --> 01:21:31,720
I would feel so much better, but maybe the honesty

1665
01:21:31,800 --> 01:21:34,680
is better. He's like, he goes, look, it's something. Yeah,

1666
01:21:34,720 --> 01:21:36,680
I don't know it's it's a manufacturing thing. If the

1667
01:21:36,720 --> 01:21:37,279
screen's there.

1668
01:21:37,680 --> 01:21:40,399
Speaker 6: So now he didn't play around with it at all.

1669
01:21:40,560 --> 01:21:42,960
Speaker 1: He didn't even touch it, Laura. He looked at it.

1670
01:21:43,279 --> 01:21:45,119
I go, this is it? He goes, yeah, And there's

1671
01:21:45,119 --> 01:21:47,319
nothing we can do because it's a you'd have to

1672
01:21:47,399 --> 01:21:49,199
go to I think it was an HP, you'd have

1673
01:21:49,279 --> 01:21:52,439
to go to the I'm like, so I'm I've decided

1674
01:21:52,520 --> 01:21:54,720
that I'm not gonna let this ship blow my mind.

1675
01:21:54,800 --> 01:21:57,279
I just need to find a solution because every time

1676
01:21:57,399 --> 01:22:00,239
you get yourself and did just think of your in

1677
01:22:00,279 --> 01:22:04,880
your own life anytime something really frustrating like this happens.

1678
01:22:04,960 --> 01:22:08,239
Now that's sort of my life line and my son

1679
01:22:08,319 --> 01:22:10,439
has come to live with me. It is my communications

1680
01:22:10,439 --> 01:22:13,560
to the school. Yes, I got their app, but there's

1681
01:22:13,600 --> 01:22:15,920
another app that I haven't put on my phone yet

1682
01:22:15,960 --> 01:22:18,279
that I can only access through the computer that has

1683
01:22:18,359 --> 01:22:20,560
this schedule and all that stuff. So I've got all

1684
01:22:20,640 --> 01:22:24,239
that plus every script, every episode, every everything is on

1685
01:22:24,359 --> 01:22:27,520
this freaking laptop and I can't do anything. So you

1686
01:22:27,720 --> 01:22:30,000
start to like, I was like Jesus Christ, I need

1687
01:22:30,079 --> 01:22:33,159
a fucking reboot. It's almost like are we too dependent

1688
01:22:33,239 --> 01:22:38,640
on technology? Way? I know, but but what's the alternative?

1689
01:22:38,680 --> 01:22:41,439
Because I kept thinking like I don't know, right, So

1690
01:22:42,680 --> 01:22:45,880
now I uh so I decide I'm not going to

1691
01:22:45,960 --> 01:22:48,479
let myself flip out because when you do, you start

1692
01:22:48,520 --> 01:22:50,520
to block and you get mad, and now what do

1693
01:22:50,600 --> 01:22:52,920
you do like slam something down and you make everything

1694
01:22:53,000 --> 01:22:55,399
worse and you're never going to find the solution in that.

1695
01:22:55,920 --> 01:22:57,600
It just you know what I mean. It's like trying

1696
01:22:57,640 --> 01:23:00,279
to be created. Think back to college when you had

1697
01:23:00,279 --> 01:23:02,439
to write a turn paper, come up with a damn

1698
01:23:03,199 --> 01:23:05,279
and then you get it. It's just builds and you

1699
01:23:05,399 --> 01:23:08,479
can never think clearly through for the creativity or whatever

1700
01:23:08,560 --> 01:23:12,239
it is. So we drive back to my mom's and

1701
01:23:12,840 --> 01:23:15,680
I'm looking around and I noticed that the caps lock

1702
01:23:17,159 --> 01:23:19,640
button is blinking. So I'm like, well, that's got to

1703
01:23:19,680 --> 01:23:21,680
be some kind of code, because it's almost like Morse code.

1704
01:23:21,720 --> 01:23:26,239
It's going like, you know, three three times long and

1705
01:23:26,279 --> 01:23:28,720
two times short, three times long. So I start looking

1706
01:23:28,880 --> 01:23:30,960
up and I find out it's a it's a RAM issue.

1707
01:23:31,439 --> 01:23:33,880
And I knew that I had so much shit on there,

1708
01:23:33,960 --> 01:23:37,560
and I have an external storage and I actually brought

1709
01:23:37,600 --> 01:23:39,920
it with me to my moms to move shit off

1710
01:23:40,359 --> 01:23:42,960
so something like this wouldn't happen, huh. And it did.

1711
01:23:43,560 --> 01:23:46,399
And now I've got to pay somebody to get everything

1712
01:23:46,479 --> 01:23:49,319
that's on there off there because I need all the

1713
01:23:49,359 --> 01:23:51,760
things that are in that memory, or a lot of it.

1714
01:23:52,479 --> 01:23:54,640
There's even pass codes to things I can't get into,

1715
01:23:54,880 --> 01:23:57,760
like everything all my banking shit's on there, every credit card,

1716
01:23:57,960 --> 01:24:00,279
every everything that you want to get to to make

1717
01:24:00,319 --> 01:24:01,399
your online payments.

1718
01:24:01,840 --> 01:24:03,880
Speaker 3: I can't figure it out, you know.

1719
01:24:04,039 --> 01:24:07,359
Speaker 1: Whether it be your electric company or the water cup,

1720
01:24:07,560 --> 01:24:12,119
every everything. So now I start thinking, well, maybe I'll

1721
01:24:12,159 --> 01:24:13,760
just have it fixed when I get back to Rochester.

1722
01:24:14,359 --> 01:24:16,600
And as the day's going on, I'm like, damn, I

1723
01:24:16,680 --> 01:24:20,640
don't have I need a laptop like immediately because I

1724
01:24:20,800 --> 01:24:23,439
need to get stuff to Jamison, you know, for Jamison

1725
01:24:23,479 --> 01:24:25,720
if nothing else, take the podcast away.

1726
01:24:25,840 --> 01:24:27,760
Speaker 3: But I don't know how we're gonna make that work.

1727
01:24:27,840 --> 01:24:28,359
But I need this.

1728
01:24:29,279 --> 01:24:35,199
Speaker 1: So I somebody, some friend of my mom's she calls, goes, well,

1729
01:24:35,239 --> 01:24:38,079
this lady offered me a laptop, and she said I

1730
01:24:38,119 --> 01:24:40,119
could just have it, So why don't I just call

1731
01:24:40,199 --> 01:24:42,000
her and see if that can be a temporary fix

1732
01:24:42,079 --> 01:24:45,239
for you. So this lovely woman drops off this laptop.

1733
01:24:46,079 --> 01:24:50,159
It's running Windows seven operating system right now, Windows eleven.

1734
01:24:50,560 --> 01:24:53,000
You can't even get this thing to fucking look anything up.

1735
01:24:53,199 --> 01:24:57,600
And you can't increase the hardware right because the software

1736
01:24:57,640 --> 01:24:59,520
can't be supported by the hardware that's in there. In

1737
01:24:59,600 --> 01:25:01,600
other words, you can't even update to Windows ten. Now

1738
01:25:01,640 --> 01:25:04,600
it's over. So now I go, well, maybe I need

1739
01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:07,399
to go back to best Buy, and I talk to

1740
01:25:07,479 --> 01:25:09,920
somebody about what I use the computer for. And I

1741
01:25:10,079 --> 01:25:11,880
just use this as a tip. And I actually said

1742
01:25:11,920 --> 01:25:14,039
it to my son today when I called him. I go,

1743
01:25:14,119 --> 01:25:18,920
how's it going, How's it going? My laptop? My laptop?

1744
01:25:18,960 --> 01:25:21,479
I go, oh, really, I had the similar thing. So

1745
01:25:21,640 --> 01:25:23,800
I start looking on the website and I'm going, all right,

1746
01:25:25,039 --> 01:25:27,079
I don't want to go over this certain price point

1747
01:25:27,359 --> 01:25:30,039
at this right moment today, but I need an answer.

1748
01:25:30,439 --> 01:25:32,520
So if I go with these minimum specs and guy goes,

1749
01:25:32,560 --> 01:25:33,880
you're gonna have to step up a little. So I

1750
01:25:34,000 --> 01:25:39,399
go up, and then I notice that they have this

1751
01:25:39,640 --> 01:25:43,079
is the price of a computer, and then down in

1752
01:25:43,199 --> 01:25:48,159
smaller print on the right open box price. Open box

1753
01:25:48,319 --> 01:25:52,760
price is like one hundred dollars cheaper on some of

1754
01:25:52,840 --> 01:25:56,840
these things. Right, there's like computers there. So I said

1755
01:25:56,840 --> 01:25:59,960
to my mother, come with me. I'm gonna go. Let's

1756
01:25:59,960 --> 01:26:01,760
go back to best Buy. I want to check out

1757
01:26:01,800 --> 01:26:03,640
some of these things. So I get down there, and

1758
01:26:04,239 --> 01:26:09,399
I would say, sometimes maybe not always, maybe not always,

1759
01:26:09,479 --> 01:26:12,560
I could be proven wrong, but there's something about this

1760
01:26:12,680 --> 01:26:15,840
is gonna sound really bad. I'm gonna come off. Somebody's

1761
01:26:15,840 --> 01:26:20,319
gonna say I'm a misogynist. I think that women sometimes

1762
01:26:20,399 --> 01:26:24,960
are better in these situations as salespeople because they're not

1763
01:26:25,279 --> 01:26:27,479
you know what I mean. Sometimes I think that like guys,

1764
01:26:27,880 --> 01:26:29,960
they got to show off through knowledge. No, this is

1765
01:26:30,000 --> 01:26:33,239
what you really need over here. She just listened. I

1766
01:26:33,319 --> 01:26:35,039
said to her, here's what I want. She showed me

1767
01:26:35,079 --> 01:26:37,000
the different things, and I said, what about open Box?

1768
01:26:37,359 --> 01:26:39,079
She goes, we don't have that at this store. Because

1769
01:26:39,079 --> 01:26:40,880
I'm showing her online. She goes, we don't have that

1770
01:26:40,960 --> 01:26:42,239
one at this story around there. She goes, you know what,

1771
01:26:42,439 --> 01:26:44,520
let me look for open box and then she goes,

1772
01:26:44,680 --> 01:26:51,800
said to me, I found She goes, I found one

1773
01:26:51,880 --> 01:26:54,760
that's open box here. Now open box, you're gonna go.

1774
01:26:54,880 --> 01:26:57,239
Sometimes it means they were returned. But what she told

1775
01:26:57,319 --> 01:27:00,880
me again, and maybe I don't know. I've never had

1776
01:27:01,439 --> 01:27:04,279
such great customer service at this at best Buy. I

1777
01:27:04,399 --> 01:27:07,960
just haven't because most of the time it's somebody who's like, hey, man,

1778
01:27:08,039 --> 01:27:09,960
what you really need here? It's like talking to someone

1779
01:27:10,000 --> 01:27:12,840
about a fucking hemy engine, right, you know what I'm saying, Oh,

1780
01:27:12,920 --> 01:27:13,199
I'll just.

1781
01:27:13,159 --> 01:27:16,760
Speaker 4: Start rolling up their sleeves, start talking really loud so

1782
01:27:17,000 --> 01:27:18,279
everybody can hear them.

1783
01:27:18,600 --> 01:27:22,119
Speaker 1: Is that or do they get billy or they just

1784
01:27:22,199 --> 01:27:24,079
look at your computer. Like I swear if that was

1785
01:27:24,079 --> 01:27:26,920
a woman when I first went too, she'd be like, well,

1786
01:27:27,279 --> 01:27:29,239
you know, well here's some solutions. She goes, you know,

1787
01:27:29,800 --> 01:27:32,640
or maybe even try to upsell you and go, this

1788
01:27:32,800 --> 01:27:35,199
probably isn't gonna work. How important is it? Like they

1789
01:27:35,319 --> 01:27:40,279
asked questions, they're they're thoughtful, they're we're not We're fucking Neanderthals.

1790
01:27:40,399 --> 01:27:46,600
And Cliff, yeah, you see, Billy, here's a problem with

1791
01:27:46,640 --> 01:27:50,399
the buffalo bills. So I'm looking at uh. So then

1792
01:27:50,520 --> 01:27:53,760
she comes back and I got a computer I paid.

1793
01:27:54,439 --> 01:27:58,359
She said, there's an open box. It's this Dell computer.

1794
01:27:58,439 --> 01:28:00,760
I go, I love Dell when I had it. She said,

1795
01:28:01,680 --> 01:28:03,960
it's right in the price. She goes, actually below the

1796
01:28:04,000 --> 01:28:08,039
price point you want. She goes, and that's less than half,

1797
01:28:08,119 --> 01:28:09,720
and she goes. The only thing I can see that's

1798
01:28:09,760 --> 01:28:11,720
wrong was it is it doesn't come with a charger,

1799
01:28:11,840 --> 01:28:15,399
she said, But I found one that'll suffice, so I

1800
01:28:15,520 --> 01:28:18,760
have it. So I paid less than half for a

1801
01:28:18,840 --> 01:28:22,720
pretty high quality computer. I'm just saying, if you're looking,

1802
01:28:23,199 --> 01:28:27,119
go open box, man, because why not. How'd you transfer

1803
01:28:27,159 --> 01:28:27,880
your files over?

1804
01:28:28,039 --> 01:28:32,039
Speaker 3: I didn't, so I didn't, so I had to go through.

1805
01:28:32,439 --> 01:28:36,000
Speaker 1: There was no here you a cloud? Uh even the

1806
01:28:36,119 --> 01:28:39,439
even the fucking cloud Dan that I have a cloud

1807
01:28:39,520 --> 01:28:43,399
for Adobe. No, nothing's there. No, So I have to

1808
01:28:43,880 --> 01:28:45,800
pay it for I don't know, because it's a subscription.

1809
01:28:46,000 --> 01:28:48,840
I understand now I'm getting upsets, so I'm right because

1810
01:28:48,880 --> 01:28:49,159
there's a.

1811
01:28:49,159 --> 01:28:49,640
Speaker 3: Lot of money.

1812
01:28:50,000 --> 01:28:53,560
Speaker 1: So I uh, I would just say that this is

1813
01:28:53,640 --> 01:28:58,800
where I'm going to tell you something that every cybersecurity

1814
01:28:58,840 --> 01:29:03,279
person will fucking choke right now. They're gonna they're gonna

1815
01:29:03,399 --> 01:29:07,560
go apoplectic because they're gonna be so upset. I pretty

1816
01:29:07,600 --> 01:29:11,840
much use the same passcode or a very very slight

1817
01:29:12,039 --> 01:29:16,600
variation for exactly this reason, for exactly this reason, a

1818
01:29:16,760 --> 01:29:19,720
very slight variation, and it's not one that I don't

1819
01:29:19,760 --> 01:29:22,359
believe anybody's gonna would ever be able to figure out.

1820
01:29:22,720 --> 01:29:27,079
I really don't. So I use that for pretty much everything.

1821
01:29:27,479 --> 01:29:30,359
So if it's not this one, it's this one. Now.

1822
01:29:30,520 --> 01:29:34,399
I did fool myself because there were some there were

1823
01:29:34,520 --> 01:29:38,880
some that needed twelve characters, but I beautifully moved into

1824
01:29:38,960 --> 01:29:41,800
that one because I figured out all that's the one

1825
01:29:41,840 --> 01:29:44,399
I use for long words, and I keep it really

1826
01:29:44,520 --> 01:29:48,000
simple for exactly this reason, because you know, so I

1827
01:29:48,079 --> 01:29:50,079
got I did a quick podcast with my mom to

1828
01:29:50,159 --> 01:29:53,239
test out that everything was gonna work, which my uncle

1829
01:29:53,319 --> 01:29:55,159
loved because and I asked my mother what it was

1830
01:29:55,239 --> 01:29:57,119
like to hear about me sneaking out of the house.

1831
01:29:56,920 --> 01:29:57,520
Speaker 3: And all that shit.

1832
01:29:59,159 --> 01:30:00,840
Speaker 1: Is it like listen to it character? And all she

1833
01:30:00,920 --> 01:30:03,840
said to me was everyone is alive and doing well.

1834
01:30:05,600 --> 01:30:07,680
I tried to push her on it. She goes, everyone

1835
01:30:07,800 --> 01:30:09,039
is alive and doing well.

1836
01:30:09,319 --> 01:30:11,239
Speaker 4: So that was That's how I started a re conversation

1837
01:30:11,279 --> 01:30:15,239
with my mother. If something's in trouble, everyone, well, now

1838
01:30:15,359 --> 01:30:16,159
go find your son.

1839
01:30:16,279 --> 01:30:19,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought that was kind of funny.

1840
01:30:19,920 --> 01:30:20,000
Speaker 4: Uh.

1841
01:30:20,159 --> 01:30:22,960
Speaker 1: If you're looking for a lawyer, I would recommend Steve

1842
01:30:23,039 --> 01:30:26,880
Circu and Circu law, especially if you find yourself accused

1843
01:30:26,920 --> 01:30:29,960
of a crime he didn't knowingly commit, possibly a DWI.

1844
01:30:30,359 --> 01:30:32,840
I don't know. Maybe you're celebrating over celebrating that your

1845
01:30:32,920 --> 01:30:35,680
kids are back at school, and the next thing you know, whoop, whoop,

1846
01:30:35,680 --> 01:30:37,920
you're getting lit up and you're like, oh, my goodness,

1847
01:30:37,960 --> 01:30:40,800
what am I gonna do now? Steve and his team

1848
01:30:41,159 --> 01:30:45,760
are so fantastic about just preparation and digging deep into

1849
01:30:45,880 --> 01:30:50,079
your case, finding all the nuances and giving you protecting

1850
01:30:50,079 --> 01:30:52,479
your rights and freedoms. That's really what a defense attorney does.

1851
01:30:52,520 --> 01:30:55,159
They protect your rights and freedoms. And I will tell

1852
01:30:55,199 --> 01:30:57,920
you there is nobody better to me. And I'm not

1853
01:30:58,039 --> 01:31:00,479
just saying this because I like the guy and I've

1854
01:31:00,520 --> 01:31:03,399
known him for a number of years. But he could

1855
01:31:03,479 --> 01:31:07,960
be a TV analyst. You see Mark Garragos on television

1856
01:31:08,119 --> 01:31:09,920
all the time, and Mark Arragos was just just on

1857
01:31:10,079 --> 01:31:10,640
for something today.

1858
01:31:10,680 --> 01:31:12,319
Speaker 3: I was I don't even know where I was. I

1859
01:31:12,359 --> 01:31:13,760
look up, I go, oh, that's Cargoes.

1860
01:31:14,520 --> 01:31:17,640
Speaker 1: OJ is still dead. No, But but my point was

1861
01:31:17,760 --> 01:31:21,600
like he's defending somebody in some case, and I go, yeah,

1862
01:31:21,680 --> 01:31:25,039
Circu could he's that good. He could be national, he

1863
01:31:25,119 --> 01:31:27,760
could be all across the country doing what he does.

1864
01:31:28,159 --> 01:31:30,600
But he's right here, And like it's not just Rochester.

1865
01:31:30,720 --> 01:31:33,560
He will go be on Rochester. Five A five three

1866
01:31:33,600 --> 01:31:35,319
A five twenty five ten is the number to Circu

1867
01:31:35,399 --> 01:31:38,199
Law on Pittsford, or you can go to circulaw dot

1868
01:31:38,279 --> 01:31:40,920
com and you can put a confidential.

1869
01:31:40,439 --> 01:31:42,560
Speaker 3: Email in there. They're very secure on all that stuff.

1870
01:31:43,119 --> 01:31:46,000
Speaker 1: But look, if you find yourself committed, not committing, but

1871
01:31:46,159 --> 01:31:48,479
accused of a crime he did knowingly commit or something

1872
01:31:48,520 --> 01:31:51,319
like DWI, Steve circu is the person you want in

1873
01:31:51,359 --> 01:31:53,600
your corner five A five, three, five, twenty five ten

1874
01:31:53,960 --> 01:31:57,479
or circulaw dot com. Danny sent me this thing from

1875
01:31:57,520 --> 01:32:03,880
one of his heroes heroes. Well, what's the name? Well Patrick,

1876
01:32:03,920 --> 01:32:06,920
But David does does a nice podcast. He does. He's

1877
01:32:06,960 --> 01:32:09,840
a self made billionaire or multimillionaire, I should say. And

1878
01:32:10,560 --> 01:32:14,159
he was, ah, who's going to quibble over a couple zeros?

1879
01:32:14,159 --> 01:32:15,800
And when you're in that he and his crew were

1880
01:32:15,840 --> 01:32:18,119
talking about like this is what happens now on YouTube.

1881
01:32:18,159 --> 01:32:20,600
Speaker 4: You're a podcast and you start talking about somebody else's

1882
01:32:20,640 --> 01:32:23,159
podcast when they talk about somebody else. But it was

1883
01:32:23,479 --> 01:32:26,279
it was club Shay Shay Shannon sharp at John Cena

1884
01:32:26,359 --> 01:32:29,199
on and John Cena was asked about, you know, he's

1885
01:32:29,199 --> 01:32:29,920
a really good kids.

1886
01:32:29,960 --> 01:32:31,920
Speaker 1: You know you did to make a Witch foundation. You're

1887
01:32:31,920 --> 01:32:35,279
wrestling hero to so many kids. Do you have kids?

1888
01:32:35,359 --> 01:32:37,800
You plan having kids? And he said no. He says, no,

1889
01:32:37,880 --> 01:32:39,279
I'm forty seven years old.

1890
01:32:39,520 --> 01:32:41,920
Speaker 4: And uh, I'm with a partner who understands that that's

1891
01:32:42,000 --> 01:32:43,840
not something because I don't think I have the capability

1892
01:32:43,880 --> 01:32:45,600
to do that. I don't think I think I'm a

1893
01:32:45,640 --> 01:32:47,920
little too selfish with my time and the things that

1894
01:32:47,960 --> 01:32:48,439
I want to do.

1895
01:32:48,760 --> 01:32:51,119
Speaker 1: I think that's a great answer. Yeah, I think I

1896
01:32:51,600 --> 01:32:53,760
agree with him. So I mean, I mean, I mean

1897
01:32:53,800 --> 01:32:57,920
I was was this a controversial answer? Well, because he

1898
01:32:58,119 --> 01:33:00,560
is such a kid. The big joke about.

1899
01:33:00,439 --> 01:33:03,239
Speaker 4: Sina was once Sina became sena, right because for a while,

1900
01:33:03,279 --> 01:33:05,479
they're gonna cut him. And then he showed everybody that

1901
01:33:05,520 --> 01:33:08,439
he knew how to rap, and the McMahons figured out, hey,

1902
01:33:08,520 --> 01:33:09,800
we could turn this guy into a rapper.

1903
01:33:10,119 --> 01:33:11,399
Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden, the kids really and

1904
01:33:11,439 --> 01:33:14,439
the women got luck like like kids and moms loved him.

1905
01:33:14,880 --> 01:33:17,399
Guys hated him. So it was perfect because now he's

1906
01:33:17,439 --> 01:33:19,560
a foil, but he's still a good guy. And now

1907
01:33:19,640 --> 01:33:21,640
you have another genera get any service when he went

1908
01:33:21,680 --> 01:33:23,520
into the Best Buy unless there was a woman.

1909
01:33:25,000 --> 01:33:27,199
Speaker 4: Completely But the thing was like he he raised the

1910
01:33:27,279 --> 01:33:29,560
generation of kids the way Hall Cogan did. Right, So

1911
01:33:29,720 --> 01:33:31,760
now that that generation of kids going to follow you

1912
01:33:31,800 --> 01:33:34,359
the rest of your career. So now he became their

1913
01:33:34,439 --> 01:33:37,640
next big star, and all of a sudden that led

1914
01:33:37,640 --> 01:33:39,479
into acting, and he wanted to get out of wrestling

1915
01:33:39,560 --> 01:33:41,399
and start doing what the Rock did, be the next

1916
01:33:41,520 --> 01:33:45,119
Rock and it was controversial, I guess because he's so

1917
01:33:45,239 --> 01:33:48,520
good with kids, Like his biggest fans were always kids. Yeah,

1918
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and he's like, well, I really don't want to have kids.

1919
01:33:51,039 --> 01:33:53,119
Not that I don't want kids, but I don't think

1920
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at this point in my life at forty seven years old, Yes,

1921
01:33:55,720 --> 01:33:57,720
it's you know, it would be kind of I'm a

1922
01:33:57,760 --> 01:33:59,800
selfish person with my time. I like to explore, like

1923
01:34:00,119 --> 01:34:02,760
other things and invest and do. That's not something I

1924
01:34:02,840 --> 01:34:05,239
want to do, and neither does my my partner, he said,

1925
01:34:05,279 --> 01:34:07,960
who's a woman. Yeah, So I just don't want to

1926
01:34:07,960 --> 01:34:10,359
confuse anybody. And so that's that's what he said. And

1927
01:34:10,399 --> 01:34:13,920
apparently this this was controversial because well why would you

1928
01:34:14,000 --> 01:34:14,920
not want to have kids?

1929
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Speaker 1: And it's like, I gotta be honest with you. I

1930
01:34:17,119 --> 01:34:20,880
can I could identify with that. No, I yeah, did

1931
01:34:20,920 --> 01:34:21,880
you plan to have kids?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

1933
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Speaker 6: I mean I did.

1934
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Speaker 5: Did you also feel like I ever gone through like

1935
01:34:29,439 --> 01:34:32,199
fertility or whatever? I would have been okay if I did.

1936
01:34:33,239 --> 01:34:36,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. I mean when I say plan, like

1937
01:34:37,159 --> 01:34:40,800
it was almost like just kind of a foregone conclusion

1938
01:34:40,880 --> 01:34:43,039
that you always said yeah yeah, And I mean was

1939
01:34:43,119 --> 01:34:45,560
it for you, like Danny, honestly, was it I mean,

1940
01:34:45,600 --> 01:34:47,840
you come from a big, family oriented group of people.

1941
01:34:48,000 --> 01:34:50,239
Speaker 4: It was something that if it happened, it happened. You

1942
01:34:50,279 --> 01:34:52,079
know what I'm saying, Like, I have Jesus Christ in

1943
01:34:52,119 --> 01:34:53,960
my life, I'm enough without. I know some people who

1944
01:34:54,000 --> 01:34:55,560
feel the need that they have to have kids to

1945
01:34:55,600 --> 01:34:58,279
complete their lives. I think that's a horrible thing to

1946
01:34:58,399 --> 01:34:59,279
put on yourself and.

1947
01:34:59,359 --> 01:35:02,760
Speaker 1: A child love. I think that he does. He does.

1948
01:35:02,840 --> 01:35:05,359
He loves you too, billion he's calling you through your laptop.

1949
01:35:05,560 --> 01:35:07,840
But the thing is, though, is that I when I

1950
01:35:08,079 --> 01:35:10,319
was a kid, I mean I was like, I hope.

1951
01:35:10,159 --> 01:35:12,039
Speaker 4: I can make enough money to be a dad someday

1952
01:35:12,079 --> 01:35:14,159
if that comes up. Because when I was working radio,

1953
01:35:14,199 --> 01:35:16,000
I was broke. But then when I got married to

1954
01:35:16,039 --> 01:35:17,560
my first wife, I'm like, I was in radio, I

1955
01:35:17,640 --> 01:35:21,760
have three kids. Yeah yeah, yeah, I still made you

1956
01:35:21,800 --> 01:35:26,239
didn't make much. I made way less and so but

1957
01:35:26,600 --> 01:35:28,520
you know, the point was, like I want to be

1958
01:35:28,560 --> 01:35:30,640
able to It would have been like a teenager knocking

1959
01:35:30,840 --> 01:35:33,359
somebody up. You know what I'm saying, even at thirty

1960
01:35:33,399 --> 01:35:35,560
four years old, because I was with my dad wife, like,

1961
01:35:35,600 --> 01:35:37,119
there's no way I could have children with this.

1962
01:35:37,159 --> 01:35:39,479
Speaker 3: Woman, you know, sent this to me.

1963
01:35:39,600 --> 01:35:42,720
Speaker 1: I thought, Okay, I don't know, and I've said this

1964
01:35:42,800 --> 01:35:48,319
a lot lately that I feel like now, right now, today,

1965
01:35:48,960 --> 01:35:55,800
September fourth, twenty twenty four, I am finally adulting, right,

1966
01:35:56,159 --> 01:36:00,479
because I don't think I've ever had like a personal budget, right,

1967
01:36:01,000 --> 01:36:03,479
and because I was making enough money that just didn't matter.

1968
01:36:04,920 --> 01:36:08,880
I agreed to pay certain things that I been told

1969
01:36:08,920 --> 01:36:12,520
by many people that I should never have done. But

1970
01:36:12,680 --> 01:36:15,039
it didn't matter. Everything was that I missed a raise.

1971
01:36:15,479 --> 01:36:18,159
I gotten tombed in concrete and came out and they go, hey,

1972
01:36:18,399 --> 01:36:20,159
you forgot your raised at the beginning of the year.

1973
01:36:20,199 --> 01:36:22,880
It's contractual. I wasn't making a lot of money then,

1974
01:36:23,239 --> 01:36:25,399
but that I just floated through. And I don't know

1975
01:36:25,479 --> 01:36:28,039
if that's like I say this, and if my father

1976
01:36:28,119 --> 01:36:29,920
hears this him, I don't know how he'll feel about it.

1977
01:36:30,000 --> 01:36:32,319
But he made you feel like if they paid you

1978
01:36:32,479 --> 01:36:35,800
ten cents to talk into a microphone, you better fucking

1979
01:36:35,840 --> 01:36:37,520
genuine fly who the fuck would want to listen?

1980
01:36:37,760 --> 01:36:37,800
Speaker 9: Like?

1981
01:36:38,159 --> 01:36:39,960
Speaker 1: He didn't say it that way, but when you know

1982
01:36:40,039 --> 01:36:42,239
your old man goes when I hear someone talk on

1983
01:36:42,279 --> 01:36:44,199
the radio, I pushed the button. You think that you

1984
01:36:44,399 --> 01:36:46,640
you know no one should pay you so I was

1985
01:36:46,720 --> 01:36:49,479
never about the money to me, and which I think

1986
01:36:49,520 --> 01:36:51,800
in a way helped make it come. But as for

1987
01:36:51,920 --> 01:36:54,720
the kids and everything in life just kind of happened.

1988
01:36:55,319 --> 01:36:57,359
Glad it did, but it just kind of happened, and

1989
01:36:57,560 --> 01:37:00,760
much like you had it not. I don't know if

1990
01:37:00,800 --> 01:37:04,039
I would have pursued or not, because the past four

1991
01:37:04,119 --> 01:37:06,159
years I haven't really had the kids around at all.

1992
01:37:06,840 --> 01:37:09,680
And if we didn't have Jamison, you know, everybody else

1993
01:37:09,760 --> 01:37:10,600
is gone. Now it's over.

1994
01:37:10,680 --> 01:37:13,119
Speaker 4: Well, I remember the day that you announced in a meeting,

1995
01:37:13,760 --> 01:37:16,319
like with the boss, Hey, my wife's my life is

1996
01:37:16,359 --> 01:37:20,199
going to change significantly in nine months. And I'm like, oh, okay,

1997
01:37:20,760 --> 01:37:23,119
Jamison's covered. I didn't know would be Jamison, but we

1998
01:37:23,199 --> 01:37:25,600
knew somebody was coming. There's could be a fifth more animal.

1999
01:37:26,119 --> 01:37:28,520
And I remember like you going, oh my gosh, but

2000
01:37:28,640 --> 01:37:30,279
I don't think you meant it in terms of money.

2001
01:37:30,319 --> 01:37:30,520
Speaker 1: See.

2002
01:37:30,800 --> 01:37:33,279
Speaker 4: My thought as a kid then I was like thirty

2003
01:37:33,319 --> 01:37:35,359
at the time, was like, oh my gosh, I don't

2004
01:37:35,359 --> 01:37:37,079
know how I can handle one kid, let alone Billy

2005
01:37:37,159 --> 01:37:37,600
have a three.

2006
01:37:37,840 --> 01:37:41,119
Speaker 1: Wow. But you're thinking of it more of like the

2007
01:37:41,239 --> 01:37:44,439
logistical part of it. Yeah, right, The smaller they are,

2008
01:37:44,560 --> 01:37:47,840
the more shit they come with, yeah, I mean this.

2009
01:37:49,039 --> 01:37:51,159
Speaker 4: But the funny thing is on the podcast that that

2010
01:37:51,279 --> 01:37:53,119
you referenced, Pat, they were talking about how much it

2011
01:37:53,279 --> 01:37:55,960
costs by from the age of like conception.

2012
01:37:55,720 --> 01:37:56,359
Speaker 1: To the age stages.

2013
01:37:56,479 --> 01:37:58,359
Speaker 3: Let me guess at that number, because did you hear it?

2014
01:37:58,560 --> 01:38:00,560
Speaker 1: I heard it, but I don't don't. I don't remember it.

2015
01:38:00,680 --> 01:38:03,199
Speaker 4: I thought it was it might be likedred and fifty

2016
01:38:03,239 --> 01:38:04,279
thousand dollars.

2017
01:38:04,159 --> 01:38:07,199
Speaker 6: Just around two hundred per child per child.

2018
01:38:07,319 --> 01:38:08,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, so it's almost like you got to earn a

2019
01:38:08,920 --> 01:38:11,479
million dollars in your life, and like people are.

2020
01:38:11,359 --> 01:38:13,520
Speaker 1: Putting it on plastic. I think most of it is.

2021
01:38:13,720 --> 01:38:17,960
That's that's that's pre college. Yeah, but look, if you're

2022
01:38:18,279 --> 01:38:21,119
smart with stuff, you know, you say no when you

2023
01:38:21,239 --> 01:38:26,159
look at America and it's like America was designed for idiots. No,

2024
01:38:26,319 --> 01:38:28,920
but two hundred and fifty thousand probably is. I would

2025
01:38:28,960 --> 01:38:31,920
have said two hundred, but I probably true. And you know,

2026
01:38:32,000 --> 01:38:34,439
and then if you some kid, it's average, right, so

2027
01:38:34,479 --> 01:38:36,960
there's going to be above, yeah, below, And I've got

2028
01:38:37,039 --> 01:38:40,119
one kid that probably broke that average, and I have

2029
01:38:40,279 --> 01:38:42,560
other guys that were probably below that average.

2030
01:38:42,880 --> 01:38:46,039
Speaker 5: So right ways of that, there's no denying how expensive

2031
01:38:46,079 --> 01:38:48,199
it is to take your kids to do anything.

2032
01:38:49,159 --> 01:38:50,319
Speaker 6: One hundred dollars, no matter.

2033
01:38:50,640 --> 01:38:52,880
Speaker 4: I couldn't even like I remember it like being like

2034
01:38:53,119 --> 01:38:55,159
thirty years old or thirty one years old.

2035
01:38:56,000 --> 01:38:58,119
Speaker 1: Just I didn't have an iPad or an iPod.

2036
01:38:58,199 --> 01:39:00,720
Speaker 4: I had what they called a Sansa right sheep version

2037
01:39:01,239 --> 01:39:04,600
and Kano had gifted me Exile on Main Street as

2038
01:39:04,640 --> 01:39:06,920
a CD. I burned it to my Sansa and I

2039
01:39:07,039 --> 01:39:10,960
was just happy to walk around on Park Avenue with music.

2040
01:39:10,800 --> 01:39:12,439
Speaker 1: New music in my ears.

2041
01:39:12,520 --> 01:39:14,560
Speaker 4: I'm like grateful because I had no other pleasures. I

2042
01:39:14,600 --> 01:39:16,439
couldn't afford to get a drink, I couldn't afford to

2043
01:39:16,479 --> 01:39:18,880
go out to eat. I just literally was like living

2044
01:39:19,000 --> 01:39:20,680
hand to mouth, and I'm like, how could I ever

2045
01:39:20,760 --> 01:39:23,560
raise a child? You know, at this this is like

2046
01:39:24,359 --> 01:39:26,000
I was thirty. But here's the thing, though, that was

2047
01:39:26,039 --> 01:39:28,600
the mentality that I had. You'd be amazed at what

2048
01:39:28,680 --> 01:39:31,439
you can do once you're throwing that situation that you

2049
01:39:31,479 --> 01:39:33,640
didn't know you could be it now now now I

2050
01:39:33,720 --> 01:39:34,479
could have a child.

2051
01:39:34,560 --> 01:39:34,680
Speaker 10: Now.

2052
01:39:34,720 --> 01:39:36,640
Speaker 1: I think my wife and I are a little too

2053
01:39:36,680 --> 01:39:38,319
old to be at that point.

2054
01:39:38,319 --> 01:39:40,039
Speaker 3: Well, I think I don't know how old Beth is.

2055
01:39:40,319 --> 01:39:42,239
Speaker 1: But what we're about the same age. What age do

2056
01:39:42,399 --> 01:39:44,560
they call it a geriatric pregnacy?

2057
01:39:44,640 --> 01:39:45,359
Speaker 6: Thirty five?

2058
01:39:45,560 --> 01:39:48,479
Speaker 1: Thirty five called geriatric pet Yeah, we're.

2059
01:39:48,600 --> 01:39:49,800
Speaker 3: We're way beyond it.

2060
01:39:50,039 --> 01:39:52,920
Speaker 6: I mean I know at fifty.

2061
01:39:52,840 --> 01:39:58,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, like kid has two heads, freak show, travels the country,

2062
01:39:58,960 --> 01:39:59,680
makes tons of money.

2063
01:39:59,720 --> 01:40:04,640
Speaker 5: Though, like John Cena, I understand where he's coming from.

2064
01:40:04,920 --> 01:40:08,560
I I love my children, but some of the funnest

2065
01:40:08,600 --> 01:40:11,640
times in my life was when I just got to

2066
01:40:11,680 --> 01:40:12,359
be an aunt.

2067
01:40:13,079 --> 01:40:16,279
Speaker 1: I mean, well, well you just got to be an aunt.

2068
01:40:16,760 --> 01:40:20,680
Speaker 5: That was just an ant like, and even had I

2069
01:40:21,560 --> 01:40:27,199
never had kids, I would still like be apparent at

2070
01:40:27,319 --> 01:40:29,199
times to my friend's.

2071
01:40:29,000 --> 01:40:29,680
Speaker 6: Kids or whatever.

2072
01:40:29,800 --> 01:40:32,239
Speaker 5: So I'm sure that there's kids in his life that

2073
01:40:32,399 --> 01:40:35,159
he gets to like fulfill that some of those things.

2074
01:40:37,600 --> 01:40:40,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love my wife even more. I watched somebody

2075
01:40:40,640 --> 01:40:42,680
from Kevin calling to me. He's on my peg list,

2076
01:40:43,039 --> 01:40:45,800
John Mayer take his niece to uh the US open.

2077
01:40:46,159 --> 01:40:49,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, like, and I also now, I mean, in the

2078
01:40:49,680 --> 01:40:52,119
past few years, I've gotten to appreciate the times that

2079
01:40:52,239 --> 01:40:53,960
I don't have my kids and I get to go

2080
01:40:54,279 --> 01:40:58,239
and do things and explore and everything. So when he's

2081
01:40:58,279 --> 01:41:01,880
saying he's like wants to be adventurous and wants to.

2082
01:41:02,760 --> 01:41:06,640
I have sometimes been like, how nice would it be

2083
01:41:06,760 --> 01:41:09,359
to not have to worry about like God, Like I

2084
01:41:09,439 --> 01:41:12,000
gotta go home and pack the kid's lunches for tomorrow and.

2085
01:41:12,079 --> 01:41:14,960
Speaker 6: Do this and do that, like just to have the freedom.

2086
01:41:15,279 --> 01:41:19,079
Speaker 1: But I love it. So let me we'll wrap it

2087
01:41:19,159 --> 01:41:21,680
up on this one. Were you here when we talked

2088
01:41:21,840 --> 01:41:24,479
to the woman open marriage Lady?

2089
01:41:25,439 --> 01:41:25,479
Speaker 2: No?

2090
01:41:26,159 --> 01:41:31,319
Speaker 1: Okay, So there's a woman I found on TikTok and

2091
01:41:31,439 --> 01:41:34,000
I contacted her, and she's got millions of followers and

2092
01:41:34,560 --> 01:41:38,439
she's I think she's like getting big product endorsement and stuff.

2093
01:41:39,239 --> 01:41:44,279
Very pretty, very unassuming like that very natural, pretty right, right.

2094
01:41:45,920 --> 01:41:49,720
And she said that she and her husband are in

2095
01:41:49,760 --> 01:41:53,479
an open relationship and that somebody blew her into her

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family about it, so she had to explain to her

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parents and all this stuff. But one of the things

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she said, and I just I'll I forget what episode

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it was and go.

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Speaker 3: Back and listen to that.

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Speaker 1: But she said that one of the things that she

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loves about being in an open relationship and dating is

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that when she goes out on the date, she's not

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mom because when she goes out with her husband, a

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lot of the conversation becomes logistical, yep, right about who's

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01:42:22,520 --> 01:42:24,079
gonna pick up what? And did you hear what this

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kid said? And how are we gonna pay for this?

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And we're saving for this and that and that. When

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you go out with somebody else, you don't have to

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be mom and you can talk about the latest book

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you read and movies you like and music you listen to.

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And so it's kind of that new and we all

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know that relationships when they're new, and she feels recharged

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and she goes home. Now, I don't know the physicality

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of these relationships. That's where I'd be like, you know,

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I'm gonna go into the Petri dish. But the but

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I you can kind of what you're saying. I mean,

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I see it right where you know, what am I

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gonna do for the kids? Lunches and this and that?

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Speaker 6: And one did you sign the kids up for baseball?

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Like or whatever?

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Speaker 1: It was become a checklist.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Towards the end of my marriage, it was very

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much just like a business partnership. And if I think

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about the last like year and a half of our marriage,

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we never went on one on one dates because I

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think we knew that they would be boring, like we.

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Speaker 6: Would do we would do group dates, Like why would.

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Speaker 5: They be boring because I don't want to like sit

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there and talk to you and have like a romantic

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01:43:29,439 --> 01:43:35,279
dinner like we were not in love anymore and I

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don't know, so like we would do we would do

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group dinners and like talk to the other couples or.

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Speaker 6: You know, to make it more excited.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, and then what would you talk about on

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the way home?

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Speaker 1: Did you see.

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Speaker 3: Rachel had something stuck between her two?

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Speaker 1: I just.

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Speaker 6: Rolled out, you're not allowed to say that name.

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Speaker 3: Oh shoot, I forgot I did.

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Speaker 1: It's just that's a simple name, all right, they did

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in Vitro. It's just a weird it was. It sounds weird.

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I don't know if you'd be comfortable. I'm not asking.

2145
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I'm saying I'm not asking if you'd be comfortable doing it.

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I'm just saying, like I think that people wouldn't. A

2147
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majority of people probably aren't comfortable with doing it. But

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everything that woman said, I think really for women it relates.

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And I think one of the things that happens in

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relationships is you stop dating. And I do wonder I

2151
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hear that the divorce rate on second marriages is actually

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higher than the divorce rate on first marriages. They don't

2153
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always work. I don't know the answer to that, but

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I would say sometimes maybe that's the person you were

2155
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always rom you know what I mean, because you don't

2156
01:44:47,399 --> 01:44:50,960
have kids in common, and you don't have that necessarily.

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I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I also think there's a smaller sample size on a

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second marriage than a first marriage, so the number automatically

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goes up.

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Speaker 1: Does that make sense? You get divorced one, you gotta

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get married a second time?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, recycling, Yeah, right, so I.

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Speaker 1: Think it's just natural that that number goes up, that's all. Yeah. Well,

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once you've done it once, you can rip that band

2166
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aid off. It's working out and you can go that way.

2167
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All right, Well we will close it out some good

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stuff tonight. Know about ship pie?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Maybe I wish I could.

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Speaker 5: You'll have to find the picture of the guy and

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pop it up.

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Speaker 3: I will on the videos. I will. Uh, maybe we'll

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just call this episode Casserole or Fairport Castle.

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Speaker 1: I'm not really sure. Yeah, we'll just call it it.

2176
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We'll just call it a for Laura. Who are you

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getting a cold down there?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: My God, I'm sorry. Well, thank you for coming out

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for Dan Barillo. Tomorrow, get ready for them Bubboo Bills

2181
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and the Cardinals. Baby, that's right. I'm Bill Moran. We'll

2182
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see you tomorrow. And then the moment he stayed

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Speaker 10: Yeah,