Speaker 1: That's not the same scenarios. Why I said context, context
Speaker 1: is everything.
Speaker 2: Well, ladies, I love the spirit of debate. Natalia, did
Speaker 2: you want to weigh in on this or can I
Speaker 2: go out in the next question? All right, you brought
Speaker 2: up the term breadwinner, so let's talk money for a
Speaker 2: second here. Are you typically the breadwinner in your relationship? No,
Speaker 2: you're not, so you only date guys that are wealthier
Speaker 2: than you.
Speaker 3: It's been the same or above from my last relationships.
Speaker 2: Okay, would you ever date a guy that makes way
Speaker 2: less than you?
Speaker 3: I wouldn't be opposed to it. I don't know money.
Speaker 1: Money doesn't if I like an individual, money isn't going
Speaker 1: to thrive like it doesn't make it any more enticing
Speaker 1: of a situation.
Speaker 2: Not at all. No, really do.
Speaker 4: You think that.
Speaker 2: Does that?
Speaker 4: Do you think them makes them a little like less
Speaker 4: in that alpha?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: I think for men that's a big problem is that
Speaker 1: they're intimidated off the bat because of who I am,
Speaker 1: And I think that there's a lot of assumptions to
Speaker 1: things as well. Again, a conversation is everything these days.
Speaker 2: If you met a really wealthy guy, nice guy, great guy, gentleman,
Speaker 2: and he's like listen, baby, no more working. You're gonna
Speaker 2: be You're gonna be my housewife. You're gonna stay home.
Speaker 2: You're gonna you're gonna you're gonna look good. You're gonna cook,
Speaker 2: you're gonna clean, do all the housewife type stuff. You know.
Speaker 2: You can still have your passions and your hobbies, but
Speaker 2: you're now gonna be taken care of Alexis. You're gonna
Speaker 2: have a good life. You're gonna stay home. You're gonna
Speaker 2: take care of the family. Do you want to Are
Speaker 2: you in or are you in?
Speaker 3: So it depends on the situation.
Speaker 1: If I was in love with this person and I
Speaker 1: like saw like growth and whatever, I don't plan. You know,
Speaker 1: in my I'm an entrepreneur again. I was in the
Speaker 1: adult entertainment for ten plus years. I have a podcast
Speaker 1: that's very successful. I have other branding things that are
Speaker 1: under my belt, you know, and so you know I'm
Speaker 1: a working woman.
Speaker 2: But he's gonna say to you, Alexis, listen, I respect
Speaker 2: everything you've done in the past. We have. I have
Speaker 2: no issue with that. But now you're with me, You're
Speaker 2: in my world. You're living in my house, my beautiful house.
Speaker 2: You're gonna drive one of my amazing supercars. No, we're
Speaker 2: gonna have kids.
Speaker 3: We're dressing this.
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, this is what like if you wanted
Speaker 2: like a guy, like a bread winner type of guy,
Speaker 2: compared to what you make. Because you've got some money.
Speaker 2: I've googled your net worth. It's upwards of three million dollars.
Speaker 2: I'm not sure if that's accurate or not. By the
Speaker 2: way you're nodding, it's pretty accurate. However, you gave me
Speaker 2: one of those I feel like. However, I love on
Speaker 2: the screen right now. Yeah. But however, if the man said, listen, man,
Speaker 2: I got you now, I was in love with the man.
Speaker 1: If I was in love with the man and in
Speaker 1: the right situation, and I saw a future with this
Speaker 1: person to have a family and do those things in
Speaker 1: the right situation, yes I would do those things because
Speaker 1: I would compromise you enough to make us be okay.
Speaker 3: I am not there yet.
Speaker 1: So when you say things like that, and when you
Speaker 1: put those things, it's very triggering because of the way
Speaker 1: that you say it. It's like the man's dictating everything
Speaker 1: I do. I'm about a partnership. I need a partner.
Speaker 1: I don't need a hierarchy. I don't need someone to
Speaker 1: do that for me that it doesn't work for me.
Speaker 1: So if a partner were to be as forward and
Speaker 1: saying those things and it wasn't and we weren't in
Speaker 1: that level of whatever, I would be absolutely not well
Speaker 1: because for me, it's because well.
Speaker 3: You're not doing this. You're not doing this, You're not you're.
Speaker 1: Telling me rules, you're not giving me options, you're telling
Speaker 1: me your rules. And we're a partner, we're a partnership.
Speaker 2: Well, man, was like, listen, I understand who you've been,
Speaker 2: but now we're about to start a family. I want
Speaker 2: you to be the lady of the house. You have
Speaker 2: the option to live your best life, take care of
Speaker 2: the house. I'm the bread winner. There's no more shooting
Speaker 2: more content, there's no more adult film, there's no more
Speaker 2: only fans. You're going to be a good housewife and
Speaker 2: a good mother and a good wife. Is that like,
Speaker 2: is that something that triggers you conversation from the housewife?
Speaker 3: Because I sign myself up for these are great.
Speaker 2: Here's the less you are gonna You're gonna find the
Speaker 2: man you'r d. This is gonna be drunk.
Speaker 3: I need more champagne for that. Definitely not drunk.
Speaker 5: But here's the thing.
Speaker 6: I think that, uh, especially stay at home wives stay
Speaker 6: at home moms get a bad rep because you think that,
Speaker 6: like all we're doing is just sitting at home doing nothing.
Speaker 3: And I know that that's not that's not.
Speaker 6: Particularly I'm saying men in general, Like it's this idea.
Speaker 6: It's like, oh, she's just lounging like blah blah blah, she's.
Speaker 3: Getting her nats one every day, she's getting this that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I so I do YouTube. I'm uh, I do YouTube.
Speaker 6: Part time, right, I have a channel. It's fairly successful.
Speaker 6: I also do options trading. My husband funds my options trading.
Speaker 3: But you're being allowed.
Speaker 1: To say to have something of your own for me
Speaker 1: to say, like again, it's those things that like you
Speaker 1: have to just like that's the part I don't like
Speaker 1: because I'm a business woman and I'm an entrepreneur, so
Speaker 1: that'll never leave my body regardless of what it does exactly.
Speaker 6: And that's the same here, like I have to feel creative.
Speaker 6: But however, the differences is that my family comes first
Speaker 6: and then everything else for sure, And that's how I
Speaker 6: think that that's to me, that's not stifling myself.
Speaker 5: That's not and I don't.
Speaker 3: Think so either.
Speaker 1: And that's why I say, And if I was, if
Speaker 1: I felt passionate about my partner enough to be like that,
Speaker 1: and I was in we had a conversation about hey,
Speaker 1: like I don't want you doing this, but you know,
Speaker 1: I don't care. If you want to do your own
Speaker 1: thing whatever it is, and things that are like exactly,
Speaker 1: then that works. But for me to be told that
Speaker 1: I have to stay at home and I have to
Speaker 1: do these, that doesn't.
Speaker 3: That's the triggering part is because.
Speaker 1: I don't think that in any relationship the rules and
Speaker 1: the have tos and whatever it's it should be a
Speaker 1: community like what you talk about and compromise. And if
Speaker 1: what you said is like for you to be a
Speaker 1: better a mom and a housewife and all these you know,
Speaker 1: a wife is for you to be creative, for you.
Speaker 3: To do you know what I mean? It is those
Speaker 3: things and that's what drives you.
Speaker 1: You know, it may not be the companies and whatever before,
Speaker 1: but this is who you're new you. And that's why
Speaker 1: for me is I'm not opposed to that, but I
Speaker 1: don't have that option in my face right now. So
Speaker 1: for me is like, that's why I would want a
Speaker 1: partner to be on board with. You're not telling me
Speaker 1: what to do as far as like no, like stay
Speaker 1: at home, do this, do that?
Speaker 3: You here's your money? Like that doesn't work for me,
Speaker 3: alexis no, I'm a revel with chaos.
Speaker 4: But would you be opposed to maybe like making changes.
Speaker 1: Facts and that's a light or way of saying things
Speaker 1: or whatever, because I don't think that in some things.
Speaker 3: My way is the right way and everything.
Speaker 1: It works for me right now in my life because
Speaker 1: I'm a single female, but I know that if I
Speaker 1: want it to get to the level we're being married
Speaker 1: and having kids, there has.
Speaker 3: To be changes.
Speaker 1: But for me, there's no one in my life that's
Speaker 1: making me want to do those changes, so therefore hard No.
Speaker 4: Do you think the changes would be harder to make
Speaker 4: now based on your past no versus maybe at the
Speaker 4: beginning before you made certain decisions.
Speaker 1: I don't think so, only because of I do things on.
Speaker 3: The like of what feels good for me.
Speaker 1: So if that's really something like the change I want
Speaker 1: to do, it would have to be a big decision
Speaker 1: of me wanting to do this with this person and
Speaker 1: seeing where that goes and all those things. And don't
Speaker 1: get me wrong, I've stopped the industry for a partner
Speaker 1: before in the past, you know, and things like that,
Speaker 1: and nobody knew. It wasn't a big telling thing, but
Speaker 1: it was for me and it was right for my
Speaker 1: relationship at the time, and I supported that and I
Speaker 1: did those things.
Speaker 3: So I've done both, Rebecca.
Speaker 2: Question for you, and maybe this is something that Alexis
Speaker 2: can learn from. Oh, not that we're here to educate her,
Speaker 2: because she's killing it right now, Lexis. We're loving that.
Speaker 5: I love the accountability, that's for sure.
Speaker 2: I appreciate what my question to you, Rebecca is, because
Speaker 2: we started this conversation with can you be both? And
Speaker 2: you're about balanced. Don't tell me what to do options.
Speaker 2: I'm an entrepreneur, but I do understand that I might
Speaker 2: need to have changes. What percentage of your time are
Speaker 2: you delegating towards being more of the housewife mother?
Speaker 5: It's the eighty twenty eighty twenty rule.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, eighty.
Speaker 6: Percent of the time. Actually, when i'm in it, like
Speaker 6: when I'm with my baby, when I'm with my husband,
Speaker 6: it's one hundred percent. I'm not thinking about work I'm
Speaker 6: not thinking about any I'm not thinking about content.
Speaker 5: I'm not thinking a lot.
Speaker 6: I'm in there right when I'm in online, right when
Speaker 6: I'm talking to the camera, I'm not thinking about like
Speaker 6: right now my husband.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like I love you. I love you James, but.
Speaker 2: Sorry, James, it's not your time. This is our time.
Speaker 5: But so that's how I see how.
Speaker 6: That's also how I look at polarity too, because what
Speaker 6: you're talking about masculine feminine. I we all have masculine
Speaker 6: and feminine traits. However in women it's higher femininity and
Speaker 6: lower masculinity, and it's the eighty twenty rule applies there
Speaker 6: as well. But I feel like women have been operating
Speaker 6: too much in their masculinity to where I believe that
Speaker 6: it takes a lot to get us to a point
Speaker 6: where it's like, Okay, I can chill out, like I
Speaker 6: can relax.
Speaker 1: I agree with that, but that also goes with like again,
Speaker 1: your environment, your programs, past relationships, all the like, the
Speaker 1: scenarios of things like that.
Speaker 3: Because there is a.
Speaker 1: Time that even me being a Lexis Texas and this
Speaker 1: like sexual like icon, I didn't feel feminine at all,
Speaker 1: Like I couldn't express myself, and it is because I
Speaker 1: didn't really understand what I was seeking or searching. Is
Speaker 1: because I really had to look within to find the
Speaker 1: balance of the two and to have this one come.
Speaker 3: Here and to be like, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: But again, it's not a.
Speaker 1: Great trait sometimes, but I thrive and accelerate more in
Speaker 1: my masculinity. So for me, it's like sometimes that is
Speaker 1: a standoff for men I am single. There are obviously
Speaker 1: reasons and the accountability of why I know that I
Speaker 1: haven't been attracting those partners because I also didn't know
Speaker 1: what those things were. But until you find that balance
Speaker 1: is when you could really be fullheartedly open and be
Speaker 1: like I'm ready for Is that.
Speaker 2: A switch you need to turn on and turn off?
Speaker 2: All right? Masculine time right now?
Speaker 3: It's just how it operates.
Speaker 1: It's because of the programs that I've been for the
Speaker 1: last thirteen plus years in my business where I've had
Speaker 1: to operate or I've felt that i had to operate
Speaker 1: from those levels to get where I have been successfully.
Speaker 2: How feminine Like back up twenty one years old, you
Speaker 2: said you started the industry if there's a scale, like
Speaker 2: there's this masculine feminine scale. You seem to be a
Speaker 2: good balance of that. What were you at twenty one
Speaker 2: versus thirty seven?
Speaker 3: I definitely was way more high femininity.
Speaker 1: So like, because I was eighty eight twenty okay, and
Speaker 1: now now sixty forty sixty forty, which direction mass we.
Speaker 2: Got to get you to fifty to fifty?
Speaker 3: Like I said, it's awesome work.
Speaker 1: And things take time, and things take like active practice,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Again, Like I said, I
Speaker 1: I am rightfully single for a lot of reasons, not
Speaker 1: just my own fault of doing things, but how I've
Speaker 1: attracted certain partners in the past that weren't fulfilling for me.
Speaker 1: So it's like you have to navigate the waters, and
Speaker 1: it's not easy. There's not a book to it. Nobody
Speaker 1: taught me how to do anything, but you just do
Speaker 1: what's going for you.
Speaker 2: Let's let's shift gears into this more of a topic
Speaker 2: of being a housewife, or even some call it a
Speaker 2: trophy wife. Have you ever heard this terminology before? I
Speaker 2: really think he's getting triggered a lot. Stop at Alexis.
Speaker 2: You've dealt with way worse than this. We're just having conversations,
Speaker 2: you're having fun, I'm not.
Speaker 3: Trigger to the point that I can't speak my mind.
Speaker 2: But tell me, if you're familiar with this girl, do
Speaker 2: you know who Lana Rhoads is. Okay, So here's a
Speaker 2: little quick, quick clip. Shout out to rich Cooper entrepreneurs
Speaker 2: and cars. Don't get upset with us. We play this clip.
Speaker 2: We're giving you a shout out. Brota this.
Speaker 3: Let us have your content.
Speaker 7: Atlanta Roads is a porn star sitting here lecturing on
Speaker 7: what trophy wife training looks like with her two other friends.
Speaker 8: All in all, a trophy wife is high value woman
Speaker 8: in our eyes. She works on bettering herself every single day,
Speaker 8: whether it's physically mentally educating herself. She dresses for herself,
Speaker 8: not for other people, and she just loves herself and
Speaker 8: puts all her energy and effort into building herself.
Speaker 7: She talks about what trophy or wife training looks like
Speaker 7: from the perspective of hypergamage. She completely butchers what hypergamy is.
Speaker 7: They also talk throughout this cast about this term bad bitch.
Speaker 7: You're real, men don't care about being around women that
Speaker 7: have bad attitudes. They don't want to be around, you know,
Speaker 7: miserable women that think that they're bad bitches. Why are
Speaker 7: they not showing, you know, women how to make a sandwich?
Speaker 7: It's just them talking about her past and poorn, her
Speaker 7: giant notch camp, which she suspects guys should look away from.
Speaker 7: It's pretty gross if I'm being honest.
Speaker 2: Okay, so Lona wrote a friend of yours.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't say, I mean, I know her, would you?
Speaker 2: What are your thoughts on her concept of being a
Speaker 2: trophy wife and even a bad bitch, and your thoughts
Speaker 2: on hey, listen, nobody cares about you being a bad
Speaker 2: bitch and having a bad attitude. Go make a sandwich.
Speaker 2: That was essentially the context of that clip. Well why
Speaker 2: are you.
Speaker 3: Watching her podcast in the first place? Sorry?
Speaker 2: Rich? But like what like this is what he does,
Speaker 2: He watches these types of intersexual dynamics.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think what she said in the
Speaker 1: beginning part. I don't know what she said the whole
Speaker 1: bad bitch thing other than what he emulated kind of
Speaker 1: thing of her. I don't think what she's saying is wrong.
Speaker 1: I don't know if the whole context of saying trophy
Speaker 1: wi righte or trophy wife whatever, what was she trying
Speaker 1: to say?
Speaker 3: That was the like the standards. I don't really in
Speaker 3: the context.
Speaker 6: Yeah, she's trying to say that that's what that's what, Yes, like,
Speaker 6: that's the characteristics.
Speaker 3: I don't think what she's saying is wrong. I don't
Speaker 3: know the whole rest.
Speaker 1: Of the context of certain things, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like I said the bad bitch thing, but I mean
Speaker 1: the sandwich parts very sexist, you know, I mean.
Speaker 3: It is what it is.
Speaker 1: I think everybody has her own opinion at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, everybody has their opinion about what a
Speaker 1: trophy wife is. How triggering the word trophy ribe even
Speaker 1: says to me, because I mean, since you're like up
Speaker 1: here on some pedestal, you know, you're doing all these things,
Speaker 1: Like I just don't like you.
Speaker 2: Would you not want to be put on a pedestal
Speaker 2: and big a trophy I.
Speaker 1: Maybe that's no, I wouldn't I want to be on
Speaker 1: a pedestal, But like trophy wife, Like, what is that?
Speaker 2: You don't like that terminology?
Speaker 4: Right now?
Speaker 2: If your husband boyfriend was like, Babe, I'm hungry, would
Speaker 2: you make me a sandwich? You would do it? Yeah, Okay,
Speaker 2: I'm getting kind of hungry by that.
Speaker 3: I'm not sure wife. Yeah, I'm not twenty either.
Speaker 2: So that's true that if your husband asked you to
Speaker 2: make a sandwich, would you make him a sandwich?
Speaker 5: Sandwich?
Speaker 2: Oh, you cut off the crust.
Speaker 5: No, he likes the crowd.
Speaker 1: Okay, But that's the thing, is like, the whole thing
Speaker 1: is that she's saying is like she talked about like
Speaker 1: I feel like it was as a woman of things
Speaker 1: that you do.
Speaker 3: I think that that's part of.
Speaker 1: Being a woman in general, you know, and being a
Speaker 1: wife adds on responsibilities if that's what you're you know,
Speaker 1: thinking is if it's making a sandwich, having the kids,
Speaker 1: supporting working roles, or whatever it may be.
Speaker 3: I just don't think it needs to be. It's not
Speaker 3: like that's not the end all, be all.
Speaker 2: Definition of the problem.
Speaker 6: That I have with that video is I've heard I
Speaker 6: heard myself more than any other word in it. It
Speaker 6: was like myself, myself, myself, myself, if your trophy wife
Speaker 6: or trophy mom. Right, let's just add that your focus
Speaker 6: is not on yourself.
Speaker 1: It's on but you're also looking at someone who's not
Speaker 1: a wife. So therefore the context, that's what her own
Speaker 1: opinion is is why I think it's everybody's standards are different.
Speaker 1: Where in yourself is you have a partner who you
Speaker 1: include both of you and those things where I feel
Speaker 1: like it's like, okays, she's not wrong all the way off,
Speaker 1: but she's not a wife.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and you have to better yourself like I better
Speaker 6: myself every single day, but it's to serve my relationship
Speaker 6: and my family, and that's that. I think that's where
Speaker 6: there's issues with what she says, because I've seen a
Speaker 6: couple of clips about it too, and it's like myself,
Speaker 6: like I have to do everything for myself right, And
Speaker 6: that's an issue that I feel is is happening with women.
Speaker 6: It's all about the self, whereas like in a relationship,
Speaker 6: we have to give. I give one hundred and fifty
Speaker 6: percent of myself to my family and then I focus
Speaker 6: and then I see what I need to do for myself.
Speaker 1: Again, I'm not married, I can't and again that works
Speaker 1: for you. But again, like I don't think that it
Speaker 1: depends on where you want to like, each individual is different.
Speaker 1: So some people may have to focus on themselves first
Speaker 1: to be the better partner, to be the better whatever be,
Speaker 1: to fulfill those things you don't need that and that
Speaker 1: could be fine, but some people maybe, like with myself,
Speaker 1: how I talked about me doing inner work for myself,
Speaker 1: I personally had to turn in because I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: if I'm like certain, something has to be accountable, right,
Speaker 1: Like obviously I'm the only one left standing here, so
Speaker 1: it's me, So it's like, what what am I doing wrong?
Speaker 3: Or what am I doing whatever?
Speaker 1: So until I got to the core of those real answers,
Speaker 1: was I really and before I was saying I wanted
Speaker 1: a date two years ago, I wasn't really ready to
Speaker 1: date because I had such high walls, because I couldn't
Speaker 1: serve myself any justice because I didn't know what was
Speaker 1: wrong internally. So therefore I would make a horrible partner
Speaker 1: because I couldn't really give you my whole being.
Speaker 3: So some people need.
Speaker 5: To so you have to do beforehand before you.
Speaker 3: But also insulationships.
Speaker 1: I think that that's you know myself, When I was married,
Speaker 1: I lost who I was as a person because I
Speaker 1: was bettering him. It was all about him. It wasn't
Speaker 1: now again, it wasn't the us, it was him. So
Speaker 1: that's wrong as well too. It's to figuring out the
Speaker 1: balance of what works for you is why I always say, like,
Speaker 1: what works for you may not work for me. What
Speaker 1: works for you may not work for you, know, vice versa.
Speaker 1: This whole idea of like what's supposed to be, Like
Speaker 1: you're supposed to have married and two point five kids whatever,
Speaker 1: it's unrealistic.
Speaker 3: Not everybody does those things.
Speaker 1: That everybody goes into relationships the same, people don't stay
Speaker 1: in relationships the same. And it's just I feel like
Speaker 1: people are too judge of what the dictative, what a
Speaker 1: trophy wife is, or what we're supposed to do, like
Speaker 1: let people be people, Let people live their own life,
Speaker 1: Like why does it have to be so stigmatized of like,
Speaker 1: oh she said something bad. The girls aren't even married,
Speaker 1: she just had a baby, she just had a whatever,
Speaker 1: like she knew on her podcast, like she moves, she
Speaker 1: doesn't know how to talk to people certain times, or
Speaker 1: like word how to say like it's growth, like as
Speaker 1: long as there's room for growth and accountability, and then
Speaker 1: I feel like good for you.
Speaker 5: I agree.
Speaker 6: But in the where I have pushback is where we
Speaker 6: have been letting people do, like people do whatever they
Speaker 6: want to do, if like I don't dictate whatever, like
Speaker 6: whatever you want to do, I don't.
Speaker 3: Care, but you have a judgment about it.
Speaker 5: I have an opinion about it, okay.
Speaker 1: And but the thing, you don't think that's slightly a
Speaker 1: judgment though from your point of view, because it's different
Speaker 1: for you.
Speaker 6: Sure I could be a judgment, right, but I don't
Speaker 6: believe that judgment is necessarily a bad thing. I didn't
Speaker 6: say that, And well, I'm glad that that's the case.
Speaker 6: And so but I think that statistically, and if we
Speaker 6: look at the collective group, because the problem is is
Speaker 6: that we're always talking about the individual. When you look
Speaker 6: at the collective group, women are becoming more depressed statistically. Okay,
Speaker 6: depression is two to one for men or for women
Speaker 6: than it is for men.
Speaker 1: Really, But is that because women are actually seeking help
Speaker 1: and men aren't getting statistically spoken about because we're.
Speaker 3: Not allowed to cry and we're not allowed to do
Speaker 3: all these things.
Speaker 6: No, because women have been taking on more in society.
Speaker 6: Look at how we like as as feminism has shifted
Speaker 6: and changed, women are doing more and more and more
Speaker 6: and more and more and more and more, and to
Speaker 6: the point where like for me in my personal life,
Speaker 6: I got to a wall myself that I was like, damn,
Speaker 6: I've done all of this stuff. I've done everything that
Speaker 6: I wanted to do, and I'm still single, and I'm
Speaker 6: still I like lonely and upset like this. You would
Speaker 6: think that I would have like the pinnacle husband at
Speaker 6: that point, when my career was at the at the
Speaker 6: forefront and I was at the top, right, you would think, Oh,
Speaker 6: she's gonna find this like awesome husband, that's gonna be
Speaker 6: a like power couple.
Speaker 1: And that's just like why that's my thing is But why,
Speaker 1: but why should we expect that?
Speaker 6: That's what That's literally what we've told women who we.
Speaker 1: Like, who may like media, but that's society is because
Speaker 1: you're living for the media and society.
Speaker 3: I don't live for those things, so I live people do.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well that's I did poorn? You think most people
Speaker 1: do poorn?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 5: No, but more women are getting into porn.
Speaker 1: Now why because yourself libricated, because you're you're financially independent,
Speaker 1: you have no one telling you all these things you're
Speaker 1: if you're people.
Speaker 3: Let's be honest, I've been. I was important for a
Speaker 3: long time.
Speaker 1: People would talk about me, all the kinds of things
Speaker 1: women from outside looking in, all kinds of stuff, they're
Speaker 1: doing the worst stuff than I was. I was just
Speaker 1: honest about it and doing it upfront and in a
Speaker 1: safe environment. But why am I and he looked about
Speaker 1: worse because I'm honest about it.
Speaker 3: It's the same thing.
Speaker 1: It's just like what works for me and my sexuality
Speaker 1: was great. I have no qualms, I have no RESI revations,
Speaker 1: I have no regrets. But someone else may one of
Speaker 1: these only fangirls may be cool for it for two
Speaker 1: months because she makes good money, and then she realizes that, hey,
Speaker 1: this is a long term thing and it's actually work.
Speaker 3: It's not just free money, it's work. So it's like it's.
Speaker 1: All what you put into it and you get out
Speaker 1: of it what you put into it.
Speaker 2: Rebecca, how old were you when you had this epiphany
Speaker 2: that it's things weren't working at You were twenty eight? Okay,
Speaker 2: So I think ultimately what we're establishing here is this, like, look,
Speaker 2: you've created your old rules. You're you want choices, you
Speaker 2: want options, respect one hundred percent For most women, like
Speaker 2: we discussed earlier, let's say eighty percent want to have kids,
Speaker 2: want to get married. So at some point a woman,
Speaker 2: let's say at age twenty eight, if they're working, if
Speaker 2: they're a boss or a female has to say, you
Speaker 2: know what, I want to get married, I want to
Speaker 2: have kids. I need to be able to in order
Speaker 2: to do that, I need to shift my focus and
Speaker 2: change my priorities. Now, if the answer kind of like
Speaker 2: Alexis who got married earlier and wanted to focus on
Speaker 2: her career respect, do that, and she's cool with that.
Speaker 2: She's thirty seven, she's worth millions, she's good with that.
Speaker 2: But for most women, they're not making millions. Most people
Speaker 2: make fifty sixty grand a year.
Speaker 5: Most women are working jobs.
Speaker 2: Working jobs. A job.
Speaker 1: I work hard hours, I sat my own hours, but
Speaker 1: I'm still still a job.
Speaker 3: You can't say that.
Speaker 5: I'm saying career. It's different than her career.
Speaker 3: Is a job, But I mean it's both.
Speaker 2: But for most women, they're gonna have to look in
Speaker 2: the mirror at some point, let's say at age thirty,
Speaker 2: and say what do you want? And if the answer
Speaker 2: is getting married and having kids, You're gonna have to
Speaker 2: change your focus.
Speaker 6: You're gonna have to shift. You're eventually gonna have to
Speaker 6: shift because if you've been doing this for ten plus years,
Speaker 6: a decade, the same thing. That's insanity. You think you're
Speaker 6: expecting a different result with.
Speaker 2: This saying if you want to get married and have kids? Correct, Okay,
Speaker 2: So give advice to the women out there. What does
Speaker 2: it Do you stop paying attention to your work, it's
Speaker 2: not your job. No, do you just start spending all
Speaker 2: your time dating? What do you actually have to do?
Speaker 6: You actually have to invest time into dating. I think
Speaker 6: a lot of women think that it's just going to
Speaker 6: pop up in front of their door, like the UPS
Speaker 6: guy or the FedEx guy.
Speaker 3: Like, sorry, I knocking on your door to go out there.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and you can't.
Speaker 6: And we have to work on ourselves in that. In
Speaker 6: that point in time, right, you see women letting themselves go,
Speaker 6: expecting men to fall to say that this is acceptable,
Speaker 6: that they want this. And I think that a lot
Speaker 6: of women have to come to the realization that in
Speaker 6: order to get the man that you want, you have
Speaker 6: to put effort into doing that.
Speaker 2: You're talking about time allocation.
Speaker 5: Time allocation. Yeah, if you're.
Speaker 2: Exactly if you're grinding, if your house and if you're
Speaker 2: working your fifteen hour days, yeah, you need to maybe
Speaker 2: you say, hey, look I'm gonna burn myself out like
Speaker 2: this let me just get a job. I work eight
Speaker 2: ten hours a day and spend another five hours a
Speaker 2: day focused on more familiar type.
Speaker 3: Right on tender, and I don't.
Speaker 5: I don't, I don't.
Speaker 3: I don't think I can. I'm allowed to be. I
Speaker 3: think people think I was catfish.
Speaker 5: And I don't think.
Speaker 6: I don't think the dating apps is where it is.
Speaker 6: I think these things have to be in person mm hmm.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean for me personally, like not only because
Speaker 1: of like who I am was why I couldn't really
Speaker 1: be on dating apps because they would think they're catfish.
Speaker 1: But I am very old school, like I like the
Speaker 1: meeting somebody by chance or through friends or whatever, Like
Speaker 1: I need the interaction from someone and not that like,
Speaker 1: oh you googled all my shit about me before I
Speaker 1: get here, like it's an interview or and things like that.
Speaker 3: I like the.
Speaker 1: I'm about energy, I'm about like good, like good vibes,
Speaker 1: all those things. So it's like it has to be
Speaker 1: a personal connection with me in person, in school R
Speaker 1: and B love you know I need that slow love.
Speaker 2: R and B. Okay, do you know it? We got
Speaker 2: a couple more topics here before we wrap up, So
Speaker 2: let's just kind of power through these things. They familiar with.
Speaker 2: Charlie Sheen, the actor, Okay, you know he used to
Speaker 2: date a couple of porn stars. I heard that Brie
Speaker 2: Olsen I believe was one of them. I don't know
Speaker 2: the other one, do you know? I remember he was
Speaker 2: one of his vixen's. But now he's getting into a
Speaker 2: lot of heat with his wife or ex wife, Denise Richards.
Speaker 2: You remember her from multiple movies. But apparently here's the story,
Speaker 2: and I want to get your thoughts on the other
Speaker 2: side of this. So Charlie Sheen blames his ex wife
Speaker 2: Denise Richards after his daughter joins OnlyFans and says, quote
Speaker 2: unquote it's because she's living with her mother. Charlie Sheen
Speaker 2: isn't happy that his daughter, her name is Sammy, signed
Speaker 2: up for OnlyFans. She's eighteen years old. By the way,
Speaker 2: she's eighteen and now lives with her mother. This did
Speaker 2: not occur under my roof. By the way, Charlie Sheen
Speaker 2: was a human wrecking ball? What was he winning? That
Speaker 2: was he's known for? He said, I do not condone this,
Speaker 2: but since I'm unable to prevent it, I urged her
Speaker 2: to keep a classy creative and not sacrifice her integrity.
Speaker 2: He goes on to say, Denise seemingly claps back, saying
Speaker 2: this is now Denise saying, Sammy's eighteen, and this decision
Speaker 2: wasn't based on whose house she lives in. She whoever
Speaker 2: remains supportive of her daughter. All I want, all I
Speaker 2: can do is a parent, is guide her and trust
Speaker 2: her judgment. But she makes her own choices. So you
Speaker 2: got Charlie Sheen, famous actor, Denise Richards, famous actress, daughter eighteen,
Speaker 2: Sammy doing OnlyFans lovey girl. But he says that he
Speaker 2: does not want her sacrificing her integrity. If you could
Speaker 2: speak to Charlie Sheen who made this quote, is doing
Speaker 2: only fans or this type of adult word is sacrificing?
Speaker 2: Quote your integrity?
Speaker 3: Do we know this is actually a quote?
Speaker 2: This is actually the quote.
Speaker 3: Yes, and there's a lot of.
Speaker 1: Media stuff that isn't Ye, this is a real it's
Speaker 1: a real story.
Speaker 3: Actually said that.
Speaker 2: They said I urged her to keep a classy creative
Speaker 2: and not sacrifice her integrity. So do you think she's
Speaker 2: sacrificing her integrity by so this.
Speaker 1: Is what I have to say. So he's not wrong
Speaker 1: in being a father and saying all those things.
Speaker 3: The problem that I have is that jest.
Speaker 1: With anything, And if I was a parent, I don't
Speaker 1: know if I would defer what he always says. But
Speaker 1: OnlyFans isn't only a sexual platform.
Speaker 3: The adult entertainment made.
Speaker 1: That platform what it was, and it was popular before
Speaker 1: the pandemic. When the pandemic started, it gave other people
Speaker 1: an avenue to create money, to be content creators. So
Speaker 1: there's people on there that do workout videos, cooking videos,
Speaker 1: all kinds of things, like pictures like that picture she
Speaker 1: that was on there. She has that on Instagram. I'm
Speaker 1: sure that's something that people every day. She's not showing
Speaker 1: anything whatever. So if you're sending even not already on
Speaker 1: Instagram and you can make money off of it, why not.
Speaker 1: I think Only Fans gets a bad rep because there's
Speaker 1: adult entertainment on it. Again, on my step, I'm not
Speaker 1: doing sex scenes with other people like them doing other things.
Speaker 1: There's a way to differ and avenues and things that
Speaker 1: I feel like people kind of misinterpret. Really what OnlyFans is,
Speaker 1: it's a platform for creators to create whatever kind of
Speaker 1: lane you want to. If I was you know, like
Speaker 1: in the situation where that was my daughter, Obviously, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna have reservations because you don't know what's on it,
Speaker 1: and you don't want to go on it and see
Speaker 1: what's on it because you don't know what she's doing.
Speaker 3: So I think his quote is correct.
Speaker 2: If you had a younger sister eighteen years old, let's say,
Speaker 2: and she said, hey, Alexis, I'm thinking about doing only
Speaker 2: fans or even porn.
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, nobody could have stopped me.
Speaker 1: At twenty one years old, I didn't ask anybody. I
Speaker 1: didn't ask even my family.
Speaker 5: Whatever.
Speaker 1: I wanted the approval because I didn't want to be
Speaker 1: shunn from my family and did this whatever. But at
Speaker 1: that age, look, maybe if you were that no one
Speaker 1: could tell you no, You're gonna do what she would
Speaker 1: want to do. So you either support it and you'd
Speaker 1: be a part of your kid's life, or you don't
Speaker 1: and they make the options that you may not be
Speaker 1: a part of their life.
Speaker 6: But do you But would you look at yourself now,
Speaker 6: knowing what you know, going back or telling your sister,
Speaker 6: would you tell her some of the pitfalls or some
Speaker 6: of the things to look out for.
Speaker 1: I definitely would tell her, you know, give her advice.
Speaker 1: But for me, like I in my career, personally, not
Speaker 1: everybody is the same way. I haven't had a bad
Speaker 1: situations happened to me. Everything there's growth or whatever, but
Speaker 1: I don't. I had a great career.
Speaker 6: I know that many women don't like Lana and what's
Speaker 6: her name? The one who did, she I was like
Speaker 6: a paralegal Miya Khalifa.
Speaker 1: Again, some people get in the business for different reasons.
Speaker 1: Some people do whatever I you know, I wasn't that
Speaker 1: way like I. For me, I said, like sex is
Speaker 1: like art to me, It's how I expressed myself. I've
Speaker 1: always felt comfortable naked. I never like I just owned
Speaker 1: my sexuality in that sense. So I was just I
Speaker 1: did what I wanted to do. Some people feel or
Speaker 1: fall into like situations where they're told.
Speaker 3: What to do.
Speaker 1: That wasn't my scenario, so I can't speak on that.
Speaker 1: But I have heard stories and I had heard those things.
Speaker 1: So if it was someone that was in my immediate
Speaker 1: circle or asking for advice, I definitely would give advice
Speaker 1: on all levels. But I wouldn't I would let them
Speaker 1: do and make the choice that they wanted.
Speaker 5: To make.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't deter on whatever level because at the end
Speaker 1: of day, they're still going to do what you want
Speaker 1: to do.
Speaker 5: Mm hmmm.
Speaker 6: Is that?
Speaker 5: Is that?
Speaker 6: What your podcast is too, is that you guys talk,
Speaker 6: You talk about the industry and stuff like that.
Speaker 1: So my podcast is Private Talk with Alexus Texas. I
Speaker 1: have a regular episodes which is like Lifestyle Entertainment that
Speaker 1: I have everybody from people like yourselves, from entertainment people
Speaker 1: to social media people, and then I.
Speaker 3: Have Private Talk after Dark.
Speaker 1: So here we're here this weekend in Miami to do
Speaker 1: the Exotica Convention, and I'm doing the after Dark episodes,
Speaker 1: which is with people who are in the adult entertainment
Speaker 1: industry who have only fans and things like that, and
Speaker 1: so we speak about stuff on scenes, how they've gotten
Speaker 1: into the business, how you know their stories if that
Speaker 1: you know if it's good, bad, or indifferent. And then
Speaker 1: you know, we play a game called Truth of Texas
Speaker 1: that I made up, and we do kind of a
Speaker 1: games of like getting to know people a little bit
Speaker 1: more intimately on levels that it's not questions like oh,
Speaker 1: what's your favorite sexposition?
Speaker 8: Was?
Speaker 1: You know, more in depth. So it's the versati of both.
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's lifestyle and entertainment.
Speaker 2: Okay. By the way, if there's anything we'd taken from Alexis,
Speaker 2: she owns her ship. Yeah, she's not backing down. She's
Speaker 2: not apologizing, live not living with regret. So the haters
Speaker 2: are gonna hate, But Alexis is going to.
Speaker 3: Do what she's got to do, doing something right.
Speaker 2: I respect that, Alexi. There's a couple more questions I
Speaker 2: want to get through, and then we're going to answer
Speaker 2: your questions at home. Put them in the super chap
Speaker 2: Natalia del Valier, she's there. She's on the ones and two.
Speaker 2: She's taking your questions. Yes, I tell you do. We
Speaker 2: got some stuff that we got to talk about.
Speaker 3: I think we can do a lot better.
Speaker 2: Okay, so we can do better.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we can do a lot better.
Speaker 2: Questions And if you want to know, if you want
Speaker 2: your wife to be in a perfect, amazing, elegant, classy housewife,
Speaker 2: Rebecca will answer your questions. Let's get to a couple
Speaker 2: more questions.
Speaker 5: So much pressure.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then if you have listen, if you want
Speaker 2: a little Alatimore here to answer the questions, dating, money, relationships,
Speaker 2: all that, and then some business.
Speaker 3: Dated twenty year olds.
Speaker 2: That's twenty one plus twenty one plus. Come on, you
Speaker 2: have to be legal. I'm a big hip hop fan.
Speaker 2: Are you a hip hop fan? Okay, So forgive me
Speaker 2: in advance for saying this quote. I'm not calling you this,
Speaker 2: but we're familiar with the song. Multiple songs. You can't
Speaker 2: turn a hoe into a housewife. Yeah, you've heard this, Okay,
Speaker 2: Kanye has done it, Biggie Tupac jay Z. He's got
Speaker 2: songs such as money cash Hose, money, cash Hose money.
Speaker 2: You've heard this song before. There's a song money cash Money.
Speaker 2: If I grew up in Miami, Uncle Luke shout out
Speaker 2: to Uncle Luke. They had a song very famous called
Speaker 2: There's Some Hose in There's House, There's some hoes. You
Speaker 2: know this song? Okay? And I googled hose on Apple Music.
Speaker 2: I have that and it's just countless droves of songs
Speaker 2: with hose in it. And then I googled wife or
Speaker 2: wifey and I found one song by next because that's
Speaker 2: because you know my wife. You know that song? No,
Speaker 2: you don't know? Okay, next you want to sing it anymore? Okay?
Speaker 2: Do you think that that is affecting the culture that
Speaker 2: there's so many songs out there about there's some hoes
Speaker 2: in this house and not enough songs about being a
Speaker 2: wifey and the whole. You know, slogan or the context
Speaker 2: of you can't turn a hoe into a housewife. Do
Speaker 2: you think that's affecting society as a whole?
Speaker 3: What are your thoughts mine or the housewife?
Speaker 2: Let's go with you first and then we'll go to
Speaker 2: the housewife. I love it, your name is housewife.
Speaker 5: Just put a banner over me. Just a housewives.
Speaker 2: But can you turn a hoe into a housewife? This
Speaker 2: is what these people constantly say. And I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean I was a housewife mm hmm. Would and
Speaker 1: some if you looked up, I'm sure ho and my
Speaker 1: name were. Some were affiliated in some level.
Speaker 3: I don't really know. I wouldn't consider myself that.
Speaker 2: I would never.
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think songs are people. They rap about too much.
Speaker 1: I mean it's sex, drugs, money, that's that money you
Speaker 1: look at Instagram. It's all about the like people faking
Speaker 1: it for the gram. Most people don't have things. I
Speaker 1: think it's given a false narrative to what society is
Speaker 1: really is. I don't really believe that that's the truth.
Speaker 1: But I mean they'll rap about it all day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess there's not that many hits talking about
Speaker 2: my wife is so pretty and so I mean.
Speaker 1: If you listen to R and B jams, yeah, it's
Speaker 1: more so like it's that again. You listen to like
Speaker 1: Cash Money, House Guns, I was in prison, I was done,
Speaker 1: you know, the more hip hop vibes.
Speaker 2: But it's also R and B.
Speaker 3: There's a post them there too.
Speaker 2: There's there's the.
Speaker 4: One guy like like the nineties, like my R and B.
Speaker 4: You should hear like they're praising women like I am
Speaker 4: traveling these ladies, I love my life more about it exactly.
Speaker 2: But that's my point. There's so many more so these
Speaker 2: days calling women hose, disrespecting women versus the wifey type
Speaker 2: songs and like the Marvin Gaye type songs. But do
Speaker 2: you think anxiety?
Speaker 4: But do you think it's because women are now becoming
Speaker 4: more of that like entrepreneurial type of behavior. So now
Speaker 4: in order to like praise them, it's not so much
Speaker 4: about just like what their natural things like they bring.
Speaker 4: It's more like now women are becoming you know, wealthy
Speaker 4: and business owners, like fuck, these hoes. They become competition.
Speaker 1: You know, they're doing it, they best clothes on and
Speaker 1: they're doing it and they're offended by it, but they.
Speaker 4: Don't become competition with the mandred.
Speaker 1: So I think that because of what the new ideal
Speaker 1: is like in myself, Like.
Speaker 3: You could call me a whole day.
Speaker 1: You don't know my body count. I'm sure you fuck
Speaker 1: more people than me, but you don't know it. So
Speaker 1: why am I a hoe? And what's your definition of
Speaker 1: a hoe?
Speaker 2: Okay? So the but this is exactly my question, by
Speaker 2: the way, because being hot is now monetizable, Okay, whether
Speaker 2: you like it or not, there's gonna be all that
Speaker 2: whole over there? What's it?
Speaker 1: What is that what I'm saying all those things that
Speaker 1: doesn't offend because you're just saying it whatever.
Speaker 2: A classy lady, by the way, by the way, that
Speaker 2: over there, what is that a tot thought? A thought? Apologies,
Speaker 2: my apologies, Oh I got forty years old. It's not
Speaker 2: it's not it's not at it's a thought. That's Have
Speaker 2: you ever been called called the thought?
Speaker 3: Sure, I've been called a lot.
Speaker 2: Of things, But I feel like it's kind of a
Speaker 2: double edged sword. I would like to see women praised
Speaker 2: and you know, be more feminine and and but a
Speaker 2: lot of them are doing more sexual stuff making money.
Speaker 1: We talk about the men who are fucking all these
Speaker 1: horse there's still hose, they call it. But but guys,
Speaker 1: you're glorified because you've had all these women. You're badass,
Speaker 1: You have all these ones, and you're the one who's
Speaker 1: speaking about it, and their album is being sold. But
Speaker 1: why is that cool for you and not for me?
Speaker 1: That's what That's why I say the double stand one thousand.
Speaker 6: So it's like why I should are saying, I'm.
Speaker 5: Going to monetize on you calling me a hoe.
Speaker 3: And you're gonna cheat on your wife sucking a hoe.
Speaker 2: Well, let's let's shift cares here for a second. Is
Speaker 2: it harder to turn a home?
Speaker 1: The songs you're listening to the whole song, that's what
Speaker 1: they're talking about.
Speaker 3: It's not like that. That's just the context of the songs.
Speaker 1: And they're being glorified for it, but not the man's
Speaker 1: being looked upon it. The woman who's talking to the
Speaker 1: song is. So that's what my issue is.
Speaker 2: Facts. Okay, Well, I want to get I want to
Speaker 2: get the housewife perspective you know as a question that
Speaker 2: to miname is like, is it is it harder to
Speaker 2: turn a hoe into a housewife or a housewife into
Speaker 2: a hoe? What's harder to do? Because maybe maybe you
Speaker 2: can give advice, you can give advice to your husband.
Speaker 3: Is basically asking.
Speaker 5: That was my question, I'm my husband's slut.
Speaker 2: You are admitted you should be only for your husband.
Speaker 5: That's your my only fan.
Speaker 3: No pun intended. But if you want to go to
Speaker 3: only fans, go to mind.
Speaker 2: What advice does Alexus Texas have to housewives out there
Speaker 2: to keep their relationships steamy?
Speaker 4: You know what?
Speaker 1: I think that it goes back again to communicate with
Speaker 1: what you want and meet from your partner and deliver.
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people don't listen to their
Speaker 1: partner ei their ways. Like again, it's her being a
Speaker 1: hoe for her man as she should. She can work
Speaker 1: and dance with what she wants to in her bedroom
Speaker 1: and feel safe in the comfortability of things. But some
Speaker 1: people think, like when you get married, like people.
Speaker 2: Don't have sex.
Speaker 1: They talk about these stories where it's like you don't
Speaker 1: do it like that to me is when you should
Speaker 1: do it the most, because that's that's your partner that
Speaker 1: you found. You should feel more safe and secure to
Speaker 1: try the things that you maybe didn't do before because
Speaker 1: you didn't have that the person too.
Speaker 6: The problem with society is that we're having all the
Speaker 6: sex beforehand, and then you get married and then no
Speaker 6: one wants.
Speaker 3: To have sex because it's easy, except like exactly.
Speaker 2: So, what's the problem with society and how do you
Speaker 2: fix it?
Speaker 5: Stop?
Speaker 2: I will never how dare you like?
Speaker 5: I'm so sorry? But we need to like as when
Speaker 5: when we need to stop close our legs.
Speaker 1: Yes, I think that I think that it needs to
Speaker 1: be a point where it shouldn't be as accessible.
Speaker 3: It should be like it's like quality over quantity.
Speaker 4: But this does not cut out your industry that you were.
Speaker 3: I'm not in it so that.
Speaker 1: You defending sex is always going to sex and alcohol.
Speaker 2: We ain't going anywhere.
Speaker 5: That matter.
Speaker 4: We lessen that wouldn't that lesson the only fans and
Speaker 4: the porn and accessible.
Speaker 1: I think it'll go back to the way that it was.
Speaker 1: I mean porn, I mean only fans and all.
Speaker 3: These other things.
Speaker 1: It's just too much. It's been so wadded down. It's
Speaker 1: waddened down to the point where anybody who has a phone,
Speaker 1: you're a porn star. That to me, don't cut it.
Speaker 1: To me, it's like there's more things to it. There's
Speaker 1: more like it's a business, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: It's a lot, but I just feel like it's watered down.
Speaker 1: So it's like I think it's it's an easy cop out, like, oh,
Speaker 1: well I have an only fans or oh I have
Speaker 1: it whatever, like and again, good on you, like good
Speaker 1: for you.
Speaker 3: I think only I definitely think so.
Speaker 1: I think so on the mass levels, on production companies
Speaker 1: and actual, actual real footage content videos where it's like
Speaker 1: done the right way, not like set up with the
Speaker 1: tripod and someone's holding a phone kind of thing. Yes,
Speaker 1: as far as like the to me, what I liked
Speaker 1: about porn, it was like it was the companies that
Speaker 1: I worked for was more about glory, glorifying the woman's
Speaker 1: sexuality and bringing that out and not just like fucking
Speaker 1: like there's more to porn than just the actual act
Speaker 1: of sex.
Speaker 2: To me at least, Yeah, I mean there's great acting,
Speaker 2: there's there's scenes, there's cinematography.
Speaker 3: Sure, I'm just you have free pornline.
Speaker 2: Save that money, ladies and gentlemen. Something Okay, let's talk. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm not on only fans not pay for that. However,
Speaker 2: let's talk about this. This word offended you earlier, and
Speaker 2: I don't want you to get offended. This is the
Speaker 2: story in the news right now, but it's regarding a milf. Okay,
Speaker 2: if you heard about the New York Jets quarterback this
Speaker 2: young man, have you heard about this is one of
Speaker 2: the most trending stories in the world right now. I'm
Speaker 2: there release pictures as social media debating which of Zach
Speaker 2: Wilson's mom's friends he slept with. So here's this guy.
Speaker 3: Do we know he slept with the friend?
Speaker 1: This is factual talk, but with a circle on her face.
Speaker 1: So people can assume a lot of things that he
Speaker 1: posted a picture with his mom and all her friends
Speaker 1: and be.
Speaker 2: Like, oh, you fucked one of them. Here's the deal.
Speaker 2: Here's the deal. So his ex girlfriend can who we
Speaker 2: scrolled down? So Zach dated this girl for a little while,
Speaker 2: and she's basically being accused of being a homie hopper
Speaker 2: because now she's dating one of his homies. And she goes,
Speaker 2: I'm not the homie hopper. You know who the homieopper is.
Speaker 2: Zach Wilson has banged one of his mom's best friends.
Speaker 2: This is the quarterback for the New York Jets. This
Speaker 2: is one of the most trending topics. It's if you
Speaker 2: go into the sports world, this is number one trending
Speaker 2: topic out there. Here's this rookie, well, this is about
Speaker 2: to be in a second year who basically can you
Speaker 2: scroll in about that? So Zach Wilson's ex girlfriend agrees
Speaker 2: that he has a.
Speaker 3: Dirty what dirty Johnson? If you want my interpret, he
Speaker 3: exposes for.
Speaker 5: Sleeping with his mom should be.
Speaker 3: Best friend commentating on articles?
Speaker 2: Okay, can we scroll a little bit. Zach has scrubbed
Speaker 2: his old girlfriend, Abby Gal from his Instagram account. In
Speaker 2: the return, she has now scrubbed one of his Zack
Speaker 2: Wilson just got booked in bed with his mom's best friend.
Speaker 2: So here's this young man. Okay, that is now allegedly
Speaker 2: let's use the word allegedly allegedly.
Speaker 3: But he's also of age.
Speaker 2: Okay, yes, of course, But now he's instead of going
Speaker 2: after I think he's probably twenty three years old women
Speaker 2: his own age, he's bagging one of his mom's best friends.
Speaker 2: Is that mad? His mom is being very outspoken these days.
Speaker 2: She's taken to Instagram basically saying, there's a lot of
Speaker 2: investigative journalists out there trying to get a hold of
Speaker 2: some information from me. I'm not gonna leak it. But
Speaker 2: you know how they say they're smoke, there's fire, she
Speaker 2: knows what's going on. What do you blame for something
Speaker 2: like this? Is there anything wrong with this? That that
Speaker 2: that he had sex with his mom's best friend is
Speaker 2: like milk porn.
Speaker 1: I would I wouldn't want my son to have sex
Speaker 1: with my friends. But if they're of age and they're
Speaker 1: consenting adults, like I'm not in the bed with them,
Speaker 1: I can't. It's not that I mean, it is what
Speaker 1: it is like. People have different preferences, that's the thing.
Speaker 1: Maybe he likes older women. Maybe he was jerking off
Speaker 1: to the fucking them and who knows, Like, I don't
Speaker 1: know that's his preference. If he doesn't like a twenty
Speaker 1: something year old, then who cares who my thing is is?
Speaker 1: Why does it matter what his dick is doing? Like,
Speaker 1: let him live, he's playing football. Sex is not his occupation.
Speaker 1: Let him play football.
Speaker 8: Well.
Speaker 2: When he's the quarterback of the and he throws more
Speaker 2: interceptions than touchdown, people are going to want to know
Speaker 2: what's going on.
Speaker 1: Not breaking the law, He's not doing anything wrong, Like
Speaker 1: he's not. It's his ex girlfriend who's obviously she's scorned
Speaker 1: about something. Who's gonna come up with the Alusatians of anything?
Speaker 1: So why I mean, is it right? Probably not?
Speaker 3: But is it wrong? Who cares?
Speaker 2: Listen if it's wrong? I don't want to be right.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: I mean, God did what to do? I mean, she
Speaker 3: wouldn't be a friend of mine anymore.
Speaker 1: But I'm but at some point like that's I mean,
Speaker 1: you had sex.
Speaker 2: I've been in my mom's friends not your.
Speaker 3: Mom, but like a friend's mom. Like you know what
Speaker 3: I mean?
Speaker 4: Have you?
Speaker 3: Have you ever had sex with a friend's sibling cousin?
Speaker 4: Are you wrong?
Speaker 3: Or we should put.
Speaker 6: You on.
Speaker 4: Meet people like?
Speaker 2: Hold me?
Speaker 3: Like you meet people from like people homie hopping?
Speaker 4: Like isn't that how you.
Speaker 3: Like meet people?
Speaker 4: It's like I met you and we were out and
Speaker 4: a group of people you cheat on me? Don't me?
Speaker 4: And your friend who is a friend from my damn.
Speaker 2: Them? And this is a mom's friend married. Let me
Speaker 2: throw another let me throw another terminology out your way.
Speaker 2: Maybe something you're a little bit more familiar with not
Speaker 2: making any accusations. But I never really heard homie hopping.
Speaker 2: But I have the word, the term jersey chaser. A
Speaker 2: lot of women out there chase men who play football,
Speaker 2: play bass. You've heard of jersey chasers. What are your
Speaker 2: thoughts on women that you know go after more specifically athletes.
Speaker 3: I mean, they know what they want.
Speaker 1: They usually get pregnant and usually are single afterwards, and
Speaker 1: then it doesn't work out well for them.
Speaker 3: But you know, let me go chasing a life.
Speaker 4: They're chasing a lifestyle they kind of already know. But
Speaker 4: you know, if you're chasing eye with the jersey, you're
Speaker 4: not chasing the perfect marriage where you know your man's
Speaker 4: not going to be wanted by a whole bunch of women.
Speaker 4: Like you have to know, like this individual I'm chasing
Speaker 4: is going to be I want.
Speaker 2: To it's going to be.
Speaker 5: And yeah, they just want the mode of the games.
Speaker 2: I just want the money, the facade, money, cash, post money,
Speaker 2: cash security.
Speaker 4: Maybe they're chasing that security from jersey, like you would
Speaker 4: see an athlete and you're like, there's guarantee security there
Speaker 4: rather than maybe this guy that I just met at
Speaker 4: public well.
Speaker 5: That's what women are doing. That's there. It's called hypergam.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was going to say, this is hyper This is.
Speaker 6: Hypergam in the masses, like one group of women chasing
Speaker 6: one guy. And of course he's going to exercise his
Speaker 6: options because he has the options right there ma her today, tomorrow, and.
Speaker 1: There's about one hundred people in his DMS. He can
Speaker 1: ciphon when he's bored, all kinds of thing. He's going
Speaker 1: to different states all the time. There's a girl in
Speaker 1: every place. He's got two phones.
Speaker 2: That's it sounds like you exactly how often do check
Speaker 2: slide in your DM blue checks?
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't check myself.
Speaker 6: But that's where guys have to be careful with their
Speaker 6: seed too, because you're going to get like a Drake situation.
Speaker 5: He's putting hot sauce in it.
Speaker 2: I'm like, that's a smart Really, no, that happens. You.
Speaker 2: You are a conspiracy theorist.
Speaker 4: Have you been there?
Speaker 3: You are a conspiracy I don't believe.
Speaker 2: He just doesn't believe.
Speaker 5: I don't.
Speaker 1: I've been I've had stories about me that are not
Speaker 1: believable and people believe. So therefore, it's not a far
Speaker 1: fetched goal of reality that some things. That's why it's
Speaker 1: like is it really a quote or is it something
Speaker 1: that someone's talking about.
Speaker 2: It's like fas, Okay, there you go, last question and
Speaker 2: then we're going to take your questions out there. What
Speaker 2: I want to talk about is and this is a
Speaker 2: group discussion here, so we'll reel it back in. We're
Speaker 2: going to lose the sex conversation. We'll talk more money
Speaker 2: in business right now, but.
Speaker 3: Much more time. We have to pee.
Speaker 2: Can you can you spend ten more minutes?
Speaker 5: I'll try.
Speaker 2: Okay, I want to talk about backup plans. Can can
Speaker 2: you go from being a housewife and let's say, God,
Speaker 2: I'm going down to dark conspiracy theory right here. Okay,
Speaker 2: Let's say you don't have a career and you just
Speaker 2: want to be a housewife and that's your goal. But
Speaker 2: you get divorced and you're fifty years old. Can you
Speaker 2: go back to the workplace? Is that a concern of
Speaker 2: being a housewife?
Speaker 6: My mom went back after my dad passed. She works
Speaker 6: a job.
Speaker 5: She didn't work a single day in her entire life.
Speaker 2: Really, yes.
Speaker 6: My mom immigrated here from Brazil, met my dad, who
Speaker 6: was also Brazilian. My dad was the provider. My mom
Speaker 6: never worked a day in her life. Now she works.
Speaker 2: How hard was that transition?
Speaker 5: Very hard?
Speaker 6: Yeah, But that's the thing too, housewives. We're not sitting
Speaker 6: there just like doing whatever.
Speaker 1: Like she was already had a twenty four to seven
Speaker 1: job for years. It just she had to go in
Speaker 1: the workforld and do an actual night.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 6: And that's the thing is like the skills that you
Speaker 6: take in the home, you can translate that outside of
Speaker 6: the home as well. You you groom your dog at home,
Speaker 6: you can be a dog groomer, like you can get
Speaker 6: your license for that.
Speaker 5: They're literally the world is your oyster. You can't like.
Speaker 6: Of course, you can complain and make excuses all the time,
Speaker 6: but if you need to put money, if you need
Speaker 6: to put food on your table, you're gonna work. You're
Speaker 6: gonna hustle, and you're gonna make it happen regardless.
Speaker 5: Of the fact.
Speaker 6: And that's why I tell and that's why I tell
Speaker 6: women like this is a fear tactic. They want you
Speaker 6: to be like, oh, like, what she's gonna do when
Speaker 6: she doesn't have You'll figure it out, because that's what
Speaker 6: women do.
Speaker 5: We figure it out. We figure it out.
Speaker 6: And the hardest times, we can make it happen. Trust me,
Speaker 6: if that word happened, if my husband passes away before me,
Speaker 6: I'm gonna make it work.
Speaker 2: We wish them a long healthy Yeah, me too. How
Speaker 2: about for adult film actresses? Is it hard to transition
Speaker 2: into the working world when you want to leave that career?
Speaker 2: I mean it's Can adult actresses just go get a
Speaker 2: job and you know, work in office and sales and retail?
Speaker 2: They have a hard transition.
Speaker 3: I don't know, because I haven't done it.
Speaker 5: For me?
Speaker 1: Is i've because I've been blessed and I have you know,
Speaker 1: I'm very grateful to have fans that support what I do. Again,
Speaker 1: like I said, I transition from being an adult to
Speaker 1: doing my you know, podcast and doing media and things
Speaker 1: like that. So it's the active followers that have followed
Speaker 1: me would have just kind of done.
Speaker 3: I mean, it's just different.
Speaker 1: I think that if I had to do a nine
Speaker 1: to five job, like I said, like we could do anything.
Speaker 1: I don't want to because I've you know, become my
Speaker 1: own boss and I'm an entrepreneur and I know that
Speaker 1: anything I do now that I can make a business
Speaker 1: and do something because I have skills to.
Speaker 2: Do that being a boss and be running.
Speaker 3: I just wouldn't want to work for somebody else.
Speaker 2: Would you say, are you good with money management? Are
Speaker 2: you a spender? Are you a saver? You an investor?
Speaker 2: What's your tactics?
Speaker 3: I'm both.
Speaker 1: I'm getting more into the investing the last couple of
Speaker 1: years of my life because it's like I never had
Speaker 1: anybody that had knowledgeable information and accurate information to give
Speaker 1: me to go by because I can let me doing
Speaker 1: it by myself. So you know, I've had bad investments,
Speaker 1: I've had this and that, But I mean I feel
Speaker 1: like I'm I'm fair on both sides. I could do
Speaker 1: better at certain levels.
Speaker 2: What's your like portfolio look like? Are you more into stocks,
Speaker 2: You're more into real estate? You more into crypto, You're
Speaker 2: more into catch saving stocks?
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I have very little crypto, been more into
Speaker 1: kind of that's a little only because of doing n
Speaker 1: F Team, Marketplace and things like that.
Speaker 3: Nature.
Speaker 1: I'm looking into real estate stuff for my portfolio, but.
Speaker 3: I haven't jumped full. I have my toe in it.
Speaker 3: I don't have all the way in yet, but.
Speaker 2: Can't see your toe.
Speaker 3: They're pretty look great monetized. I got a foot fetish.
Speaker 2: Do you really I do? What does that mean? Like
Speaker 2: you like guy's feet, women's feet?
Speaker 1: I want feet in general. I like pretty feet. I
Speaker 1: like well mannered feet. I like the arches and people's
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't think this is going to work out. I
Speaker 2: don't think I got the hairy feet. No, no, no,
Speaker 2: the sasquatch over here.
Speaker 8: No.
Speaker 2: But anyway, so we we we know that that's one
Speaker 2: of your check marks, that no twenty year olds and
Speaker 2: you got to have nice feet. Yes, and hopefully you're
Speaker 2: making some money.
Speaker 3: I mean yes, you will be making many You can't
Speaker 3: not have a job.
Speaker 2: All right, we're wrapping up. Let's turn it over to
Speaker 2: our amazing valutating audience out there, the valutators out there,
Speaker 2: do they have questions for anyone on the panel. Let's
Speaker 2: take some super chats and we'll wrap this thing up.
Speaker 2: Because Alexis, Texas has to peak.
Speaker 4: I do. So we actually have a question by mannix t.
Speaker 4: He says, question for miss alexis, do you think you
Speaker 4: have become the man you want to marry?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 3: I haven't.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm looking for an actual man. I can't
Speaker 1: be all of those things.
Speaker 3: I don't have a dick. I'm sorry again.
Speaker 4: And what would be aside from a dick, what would
Speaker 4: be like some of the qualities that.
Speaker 1: You again for me, I really for me, I need
Speaker 1: someone who's in a space that can hold space for me,
Speaker 1: who's very like emotionally.
Speaker 3: In tune to my needs.
Speaker 4: Say you are that for the other person, yes, but
Speaker 4: what are qualities that you are looking for in a
Speaker 4: man that you don't offer?
Speaker 1: Oh, that I don't offer. I don't think that I
Speaker 1: don't have anything. I have everything to offer. I just
Speaker 1: haven't met my match to like cost.
Speaker 4: But what would be something like a man would give
Speaker 4: like show you that you're like wow, Like that's something
Speaker 4: that I struggle with and I'm attracted that and I
Speaker 4: want that in my man.
Speaker 1: For me, I would say, I'm not a very good
Speaker 1: planner of things.
Speaker 3: I kind of do things like I fly by the
Speaker 3: seat of my pants.
Speaker 1: So I like structure, but I don't always know how
Speaker 1: to obtain that structure.
Speaker 3: So I need someone. That's why for me like the alpha.
Speaker 1: Man of being like like I like having someone the
Speaker 1: hierarchy level of being, like you take care of certain things,
Speaker 1: like you'll make either reservations or trips or you know
Speaker 1: things that like you listen to what I'm telling you
Speaker 1: that I need.
Speaker 3: Or take I don't have to tell you what.
Speaker 4: I need, so like something like more take charge type
Speaker 4: of yeah, gotcha.
Speaker 2: Strong man. Yeah, but also a good planner. She wants
Speaker 2: like a big strong bodybuilder. But that's all so an executive.
Speaker 3: It has to be a good cuddle art too. I
Speaker 3: like to cuttle cuddle Texas.
Speaker 5: Okay, so many things. Is there a man out there.
Speaker 3: For Alexis, don't you get the negative?
Speaker 1: There is beautiful a man out there that right around
Speaker 1: the corner, because I can feel it, I've been manifesting it.
Speaker 3: I'm in the right space.
Speaker 1: I am in the right like level in my life,
Speaker 1: in the place in my life where I'm ready to
Speaker 1: embrace the next chapter.
Speaker 5: He might be sitting right next to you.
Speaker 3: I'm not twenty something years old, though. That's our only.
Speaker 2: Problem, no offense. I don't think we're I don't think that.
Speaker 1: I think I'm too opinionated for you, and I think
Speaker 1: I'm way too alpha?
Speaker 2: Are you really?
Speaker 3: I think so?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want a feminine woman.
Speaker 3: I am feminine sometimes sixty forty very true.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm looking for one hundred percent. But we're having
Speaker 2: crucial conversations right here. We're just friends. That's it. We're
Speaker 2: cool with friends. Yeah, we're done. We're friends. Adam and
Speaker 2: Alexis friends BFF forever. Next question for Alexis.
Speaker 4: Next question is for Alexis, and someone asked, would you
Speaker 4: start dancing?
Speaker 2: Would you?
Speaker 1: I've already danced, I featured danced for over ten years
Speaker 1: across the world.
Speaker 2: Are you still people in the snapchat?
Speaker 4: Are you still?
Speaker 5: Are not?
Speaker 2: Super?
Speaker 1: I haven't because of the pandemic, the world changed and
Speaker 1: I no longer dance.
Speaker 4: I haven't danced now, Okay, awesome. Next question and then
Speaker 4: the rest of them are just comments.
Speaker 2: Okay, any nice comments.
Speaker 4: There's some decent comments. Somebody sent two hundred and fifty
Speaker 4: and they just sent a little emoji saying you're amazing.
Speaker 2: So hold on someone hello, give them a shout out?
Speaker 4: Who's the person, Sarah?
Speaker 2: I'll subscribers, that's amazing.
Speaker 4: Thank you even said you're amazing.
Speaker 2: Any other final comments before we wrap up. I think
Speaker 2: if someone's going to spend that kind of money, got
Speaker 2: to give them a shout out. Someone spend money like that,
Speaker 2: give them a shout out. Would you give a shout
Speaker 2: out to this next sier.
Speaker 1: Thank you for the two hundred fifty dollars that I
Speaker 1: will not be receiving. But these lovely people service because
Speaker 1: they work hard.
Speaker 2: They have a.
Speaker 1: Number one show here on podcasts, and I appreciate that
Speaker 1: they invited me to be We're going to I like
Speaker 1: it this year. Thank you so much for being a
Speaker 1: subscriber to her because you know she has AIA And by.
Speaker 2: The way, you are getting some from this. Make sure
Speaker 2: everyone here where can we tell them to find you?
Speaker 2: What do you want them to describe to? Where do
Speaker 2: you want them to find you?
Speaker 3: I want you to.
Speaker 1: Go to subscribe to my YouTube channel. It's Private Talk
Speaker 1: with Alexus Texas.
Speaker 3: It's my podcast.
Speaker 1: I'm on season three and I think it's like ninety
Speaker 1: one episodes so far.
Speaker 2: Can we put the link below?
Speaker 4: Yes, it's a Texas Descriptions.
Speaker 1: I have my Instagram which is Why Girl Politicking, which
Speaker 1: we saw earlier. I have my Only Fans which is
Speaker 1: a Lexus Underscore Texas And yeah, if you guys are
Speaker 1: local in Miami, I'll be at Exotica Convention Center Friday, Saturday, Sunday.
Speaker 1: I have a booth there that I'll have my podcast there.
Speaker 1: I'm all so hosting a toork contest and also signing
Speaker 1: autographs and taking pictures of fims.
Speaker 2: Hold on hosting contest, so I will. So I've been doing.
Speaker 5: I haven't been.
Speaker 1: To Exotica in three years because of the pandemic and everything.
Speaker 1: So I for four, probably four or five years, I
Speaker 1: hosted a tork contest all over the five places that
Speaker 1: they have them through the year, and it's a lot
Speaker 1: of fun. It's a crowd participation. You win money, you
Speaker 1: have a good time, and get to check your booty.
Speaker 2: Something tells me that we're going to talk about that
Speaker 2: after the show, and maybe we can collaborate and value taters.
Speaker 2: If you want to get a sleep preview of what's
Speaker 2: going on here, there's millions of gentlemen out there that
Speaker 2: might want to see who wins this tork contest. So
Speaker 2: Alexis and I will talk about that. Any other comments
Speaker 2: before we wrap up.
Speaker 4: On other comments, they're not very nice comments.
Speaker 2: No, no, you're not. I will get out, okay, be nice,
Speaker 2: be nice. Anyway, this has been a pleasure. If there's
Speaker 2: anything I've learned about you is that you own who
Speaker 2: you are. There's no apologizing here. There's no second guessing,
Speaker 2: there's no, I don't really there's like, listen, I'm a
Speaker 2: mother from Alexis, Texas Hall.
Speaker 1: Of Famers in German Norwegian, I'm a Gemini, have a
Speaker 1: lot of you know, spice.
Speaker 2: Got a lot of spice's sugar and spice. Maybe not
Speaker 2: everything nice.
Speaker 3: Things bigger in Texas?
Speaker 2: Can we get a twirrel?
Speaker 3: Can I.
Speaker 2: Does?
Speaker 6: Just?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Move that everything's bigger.
Speaker 5: Take off the headphone.
Speaker 2: You're gonna take off the headset. Let's let's get one
Speaker 2: twirl from Alexis for your wallet. Right there, guys, I
Speaker 2: can confirm it is bigger in Texas, Lexus, thank you?
Speaker 2: Any final words that you want people? What do you
Speaker 2: want your legacy to be? If you can just leave
Speaker 2: us with some final words from Alexis my.
Speaker 1: Legacy to be, you know, I think again it's just
Speaker 1: being unapologetically selfish.
Speaker 3: If you if it makes you feel good, do it.
Speaker 1: Why second guess that you know your intuition, Everything is
Speaker 1: already set in stone for you.
Speaker 3: Just follow your path and it will be okay.
Speaker 2: Unapologetically selfish. Oh that we might have to revisit that. Rebecca,
Speaker 2: thank you for coming down here again. It's been a
Speaker 2: pleasure as always our sidekick for today? Where can we
Speaker 2: find you? What do you want people to understand about
Speaker 2: being Rebecca Barrett being a supportive housewife who has a name.
Speaker 2: By the way, thank you James for letting her be here.
Speaker 2: What would you like to say?
Speaker 6: Well, you can find me on YouTube at Rebecca Barrett
Speaker 6: on Instagram at I am Rebecca Barrett, and I just
Speaker 6: I want women to take accountability and responsibility for their actions.
Speaker 6: I'm so happy that we had a constructive conversation because
Speaker 6: it sounds like you are doing a lot of self
Speaker 6: work and there's a lot of women that can take that.
Speaker 5: And apply that. Right. Yeah, I'm just happy to be.
Speaker 2: We love having you. No tell ya, you've been a
Speaker 2: little more quiet today than usual, but I think it's
Speaker 2: just because we're just having a dynamic conversation. Final thoughts
Speaker 2: on your end.
Speaker 4: Final thoughts, I think everybody's story is different. Everybody has
Speaker 4: a different life that they choose, and each choice has
Speaker 4: a I guess like consequence or outcome of it. But
Speaker 4: I think it's important that you whatever choice you do make,
Speaker 4: you stand by it.
Speaker 3: You know, you don't you own up to ten toes down?
Speaker 4: Baby, Yeah, I think that's really this's gonna be a
Speaker 4: determining factor for people's Like happiness is like making decisions
Speaker 4: and their outcome of life and accepting it. So that
Speaker 4: would be mine.
Speaker 2: You said, happiness, happiness. Well, I'll leave you with this.
Speaker 2: I believe in the big three tenants of life, health, wealth,
Speaker 2: and happiness. Right. If you don't have health, you've got nothing, right,
Speaker 2: you said, ten toes down. I like to stretch every morning.
Speaker 2: If I'm not feeling the inside of a box, I'm
Speaker 2: doing okay right there, So just have some gratitude exactly.
Speaker 2: I have some gratitude with that number two wealth. If
Speaker 2: people don't think that wealth makes life easier, you got
Speaker 2: the wrong thing going on. Okay, look at the smile
Speaker 2: on my