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<v Speaker 1>Pain is a warning light that something is wrong. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what pain is. Pain is a warning light that

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<v Speaker 1>something is wrong in your life, in the economy, in

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<v Speaker 1>your family, in your business, whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Pain is always a warning light.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, let me ask you, if a warning light goes

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<v Speaker 1>off in your car and you ignore that warning light,

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<v Speaker 1>does that make the problem go away? Of course, not

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<v Speaker 1>ignoring pain will not make it go away. It won't

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<v Speaker 1>fix the cause of your pain. And to ignore pain

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<v Speaker 1>in your life is literally one of the dumbest things

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<v Speaker 1>you can do. Pain is a warning light that something's wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>There is purpose in pain. Now, today, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>show you five ways that God can use any pain

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<v Speaker 1>in your life for your own good, regardless of the source. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>did you hear what I just said? Regardless of the source,

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<v Speaker 1>regardless of whether your pain came to you from something

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<v Speaker 1>good or something bad, whether you brought the pain on

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<v Speaker 1>yourself from poor choices or other people cause pain in

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<v Speaker 1>your life and you're innocent, or Satan's trying to attack

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<v Speaker 1>you with pain and tear you down. You know, we're

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<v Speaker 1>always worried about the source. No matter what the source

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<v Speaker 1>of your pain is, God can use it for good

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<v Speaker 1>in your life We're gonna look at right now. Five

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<v Speaker 1>ways that God can use pain for good in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's what God's word says. Five ways God can use

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<v Speaker 1>pain for good in my life. Number one, God uses

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<v Speaker 1>pain to guide and direct me. Proverb sixteen to nine

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<v Speaker 1>says this. A person may plan his own journey, but

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<v Speaker 1>the Lord directs is steps.

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<v Speaker 2>The Lord direct circle.

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<v Speaker 1>That word directs so much the time we're not aware

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<v Speaker 1>of this, But behind the scenes, God is using even

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<v Speaker 1>our choices, both the good ones and the bad ones,

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<v Speaker 1>to direct our steps. God is directing your life. Job

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<v Speaker 1>thirty six point fifteen says this. God teaches people through

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<v Speaker 1>suffering and uses distress to open their eyes. Does that

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<v Speaker 1>ever happened to you? Oh, of course it has. God

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<v Speaker 1>teaches people through suffering, uses distress to open their eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>He guides and directs us through pain. You ever thought

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<v Speaker 1>about why horse riders put a bit in a horse's mouth?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it for the horse's comfort? Of course not.

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<v Speaker 1>The rider actually uses discomfort to point the horse in

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<v Speaker 1>a different direction. It's the rudder like on a ship,

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<v Speaker 1>like a tiny rudder on a boat. Sometimes it only

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<v Speaker 1>takes a little bit of pain to guide and direct us.

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<v Speaker 2>Or to read diirect this.

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<v Speaker 1>Paul had this to say, the believers of Corinth who

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<v Speaker 1>we're experiencing some discomfort and pain. Two Corinthians seventy nine.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, now I'm glad, not because it hurts you.

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<v Speaker 1>He's talking about some pain they were going through. Paul says,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad. I'm not glad because it hurts you, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad because the pain turns you to God. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the first thing pain does. Guides and directs us. It

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<v Speaker 1>often turns us in a new direction. You know, when

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<v Speaker 1>King David realized that God was using the pain in

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<v Speaker 1>his life that he was experience to guide in directive,

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<v Speaker 1>David was actually grateful for his pain, and in Psia

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<v Speaker 1>one nineteen, verse seventy one, he says this, You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was the best thing that could have happened to me,

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<v Speaker 1>for it taught me to pay attention to your laws.

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<v Speaker 1>It is good for me to be afflicted, David says,

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<v Speaker 1>so that I might learn your laws, I might learn

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<v Speaker 1>your statutes. Let me ask you a personal question. Has

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<v Speaker 1>God ever used pain to get your attention?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Has God ever used pain to me to guide you?

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<v Speaker 1>To guide you in a new direction? To direct you

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<v Speaker 1>in a new direction.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes. C. S.

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<v Speaker 1>Lewis once said, God whispers to us in our pleasure,

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<v Speaker 1>but he shouts to us in our pain. Pain is

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<v Speaker 1>God's megaphone, and it directs you, It guides you. Pain

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<v Speaker 1>never leaves you where it found you. So that's the

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<v Speaker 1>firs benefit of pain that God can use it for good.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't matter how bad the pain is or where it

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<v Speaker 1>came from. God can use pain to guide and direct me. Second,

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<v Speaker 1>God can use pain not only to guide and direct me.

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<v Speaker 1>He can use pain to God and correct me, goad

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<v Speaker 1>and correct me.

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<v Speaker 2>Now what does that mean? What does God mean? What

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<v Speaker 2>means to motivate?

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<v Speaker 1>When somebody goads you on, it means they're spurring you

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<v Speaker 1>onto action. Pain is a catalyst. Pain catalyzes in action

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<v Speaker 1>like nothing else. One of the most obvious verses in

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<v Speaker 1>the Bible is Proverbs twenty thirty that says this, sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>it takes a painful experience to make us change our ways. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>anybody want to give a testimony on that? Every one

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<v Speaker 1>of you could think of a personal example right now

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<v Speaker 1>in your own life where you can give a testimony

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<v Speaker 1>of the truth of this verse that sometimes it takes

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<v Speaker 1>a painful situation to make exchange our ways. Pain prompts

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<v Speaker 1>us to do things we'd rather put off. It prods us,

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<v Speaker 1>It pushes us. It goads us, It goads and it motivates.

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<v Speaker 1>It not just guides and directs. It goads us and

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<v Speaker 1>pushes us in the right direction.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. Typically we don't change when we see the light.

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<v Speaker 1>We think we do. We don't change when you see

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<v Speaker 1>the light. We change when we feel the heat. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just get real honest here. When was the last

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<v Speaker 1>time you decided to go to the dentist? When did

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<v Speaker 1>you finally go to your dentist? Was it when you

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<v Speaker 1>had free time?

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<v Speaker 2>No? Is, when you were in pain and.

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<v Speaker 1>The pain finally got so bad you couldn't no longer

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<v Speaker 1>delay or postpone or procrastinate to do something about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it takes a painful situation to make us change

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<v Speaker 1>our ways. Now, pain not only guides and directs, it

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<v Speaker 1>gods and corrects. Do you know the difference between correction

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<v Speaker 1>and punishment? If you're a parent, I want you to

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<v Speaker 1>listen to this, particularly the difference between punishment and correction.

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<v Speaker 1>You shouldn't punish your kids. The Bible as you should

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<v Speaker 1>correct them. Why punishment is a penalty for the past.

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<v Speaker 1>Correction is training for the future. It's discipline is not punishment.

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<v Speaker 1>Discipline is training. Discipline is correction. Sometimes in life, something

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<v Speaker 1>bad happens, we think God is punishing us, and actually

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<v Speaker 1>God is just correcting us. Why because God doesn't punish

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<v Speaker 1>his children. Yeah, you heard me right. God doesn't punish

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<v Speaker 1>his children. Why because Jesus has already taken all of

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<v Speaker 1>the punishment for every sin on the cross. And if

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus took all that punishment and then God punished you,

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<v Speaker 1>that's double jeopardy. Every sin you ever commit has already

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<v Speaker 1>been paid for. So God doesn't punish you for your sins,

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<v Speaker 1>but he definitely does correct you. And correction is the

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<v Speaker 1>evidence of love. And how does God correct us? Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>through pain? Hebrews twelve eight to ten says this, God

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<v Speaker 1>corrects all of his children, and if he doesn't correct you, then.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't really belong to him. See that verse.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at that version in your outline. If you don't

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<v Speaker 1>ever have any correction in your life, then you're not

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<v Speaker 1>really a believer. Because God corrects his own children. God

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't correct those who aren't his children. I don't worry

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<v Speaker 1>about other people's kids, but I certainly corrected mine. The

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<v Speaker 1>Bible says there God corrects us for our own good

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<v Speaker 1>because he wants us to be holy as he is.

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<v Speaker 1>Another verse that says the same thing as Job Chapter five,

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<v Speaker 1>verse seventeen. Consider yourself fortunate when God, all powerful, chooses

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<v Speaker 1>to correct you, just means that he loves you. So

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<v Speaker 1>God uses pain to go and motivate and correct me

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm messing up.

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<v Speaker 2>You remember the.

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<v Speaker 1>Story in the Bible that Jesus told about the arrogant

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<v Speaker 1>young son who asked for inheritance and advanced it before

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<v Speaker 1>his father had even died, took his money and went

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<v Speaker 1>and spent it everywhere, wasted on wine, women and song,

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<v Speaker 1>and he goes down to Sunset Strip in Jerusalem and

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<v Speaker 1>just blows everything he's gotten. Pretty soon he's bankrupt and

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<v Speaker 1>he's having to feed pigs to to make a living.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's pretty bad if you're jew. And the Bible

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<v Speaker 1>says that he was in a mess. But what was

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<v Speaker 1>it that motivated that young man in that story of

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus to finally go back home to his father. It

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<v Speaker 1>was pain, It was discomfort. Luke Chapter fifteen, verse fourteen

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<v Speaker 1>to eighteen. The story of the Prodigal Sign. It says

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<v Speaker 1>he spent everything he had and then he was hungry.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you know he is being motivated. He's being goaded.

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<v Speaker 1>At last he came to his senses and said, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>go I'll get up and I'll go to my father.

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<v Speaker 1>He came to his sentences. Why did he come to

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<v Speaker 1>a sentence? Why did he come to his senses because

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<v Speaker 1>he was motivated? And why was he motivated because he

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<v Speaker 1>was hungry? Who are the most motivated salesman? Hungry salesman

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<v Speaker 1>made me think of when Josh was a little kid.

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<v Speaker 1>One time he skipped lunch at school and he came

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<v Speaker 1>in complaining to He said, my stomach aches, and Kay said, well.

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<v Speaker 2>It's because there's nothing in it.

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<v Speaker 1>About five minutes later, I walked in and I said

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<v Speaker 1>my headaches and Josh said, Mom says, because there's nothing

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<v Speaker 1>in it. If you want your life to go smoother,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, you want your life to go smoother, just

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<v Speaker 1>start cooperating. When God brings any kind of correction into

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<v Speaker 1>your life. He's not punishing you. God isn't mad at you.

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<v Speaker 2>He loves you.

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<v Speaker 1>He's mad about you, and Hebrews twelve, verse seven says, says,

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<v Speaker 1>let God train you, for he's doing what any loving

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<v Speaker 1>father does for his children. Whoever heard of a child

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<v Speaker 1>who was never corrected? Circle the word train and circle

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<v Speaker 1>the word corrected. They go together. That's the second purpose

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<v Speaker 1>of pain, to correct us, to train us, to go

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<v Speaker 1>to us and correct us. Now, how many of you

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<v Speaker 1>who are parents would rather not have to discipline? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>all of us, but how many of you? Sometimes I

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<v Speaker 1>have to discipline your kids anyway, all of us. God's

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<v Speaker 1>the same way. He'd rather not correct you. He'd rather

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<v Speaker 1>not have to discipline you. He'd rather not have to

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<v Speaker 1>allow pain in your life. But sometimes the only way

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<v Speaker 1>to train is through pain. To you here that sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>the only way to train is through pain. Aristotle once

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<v Speaker 1>said we cannot learn without pain. And I would say

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<v Speaker 1>that some things you learned you learned by being burned.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me give you personal testimony. In all my years

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<v Speaker 1>of walking with the Lord, I can tell you this,

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<v Speaker 1>I have learned absolutely nothing from pleasure. All the important

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<v Speaker 1>stuff I've learned in life I learned through pain. I

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<v Speaker 1>learned nothing through pleasure. I learned nothing from success. Everything

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<v Speaker 1>I learned I learned through pain. The man who's never suffered,

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<v Speaker 1>the woman who's never suffered, they don't know much because

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<v Speaker 1>the greatest insights on life are found at the center

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<v Speaker 1>of pain. You learn things there that you can't learn

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<v Speaker 1>any other way. But when that happens, never doubt God's motive.

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<v Speaker 1>He is a loving father. He is not punishing you.

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<v Speaker 1>He is correcting you because he loves you. So let's

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<v Speaker 1>review why how can God use things for good, even

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<v Speaker 1>the pain in my life for good? Well, he uses

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<v Speaker 1>it to guide and direct me. Second, he uses it

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<v Speaker 1>to God and correct me. Number three, God uses pain

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<v Speaker 1>to gauge and inspect me. God uses pain to gauge

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<v Speaker 1>and inspect me, in other words, to find out what's

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<v Speaker 1>really inside of me, to test my character. People are

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<v Speaker 1>to test your commitment. God uses pain to test your faith.

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<v Speaker 1>The Bible often compares suffering to a refining fire, like

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<v Speaker 1>verse two and three. It says God tests and challenges. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>And we know that you get tests and challenges from

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<v Speaker 2>Don't you love that?

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<v Speaker 1>In the message paraphrase, he's saying, pain is a test.

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<v Speaker 1>It exposes the real view for you. It shows what

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<v Speaker 1>you really like inside. You know, image and reputation, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what everybody thinks you are. Character is what you really are.

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<v Speaker 1>Character's what you are in the dark. It's hard to

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<v Speaker 1>nobody can be a philosopher with a toothache. So has

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<v Speaker 1>And so God wants to test you and when it's

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<v Speaker 1>painful when you say, well, I have integrity, but are

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<v Speaker 1>you willing to lower your stand when it's painful? You

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<v Speaker 1>you want to give up and get discouraged when pain

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<v Speaker 1>to pain. Your integrity is measured by your reaction to pain.

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<v Speaker 1>Your christ likeness is determined and shown revealed by how

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<v Speaker 1>you handle pain. Your maturity shows how your pain shows

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<v Speaker 1>how mature you are. What does pressure reveal about your faith?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you more than just a fair weather believer?

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<v Speaker 1>from four hundred years of slavery. You know that story

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<v Speaker 1>What in the world they're doing out there in the

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<v Speaker 1>desert being tested? And God gave them seven major tests,

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<v Speaker 1>and every time they failed to test, he says, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>one more lap around the desert. Deuteronomy eight two. God

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<v Speaker 1>for forty years, humbling you and testing you to find

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<v Speaker 1>would really obey him. These are the tests. And I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>are you going through pain right now? This is a test.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you going through an emotional wilderness. Right now, this

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<v Speaker 1>is a test. God may be guiding and guiding you,

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<v Speaker 1>or God may be goading you, or God may be

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<v Speaker 1>gauging you. He may be seeking to inspect you and

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<v Speaker 1>find out what's really on the inside. Maybe though, your

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<v Speaker 1>pain that you're going through right now is for a

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<v Speaker 1>fourth reason. Number four, God uses pain to God and

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<v Speaker 1>to guide and to guard gauge. But number four God

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<v Speaker 1>uses pain to guard and protect me. God uses pain

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<v Speaker 1>to guard and protect me. And this is a wonderful

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<v Speaker 1>Verse three says this God will save you from hidden traps.

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<v Speaker 2>They're hidden.

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<v Speaker 1>But all around you are hidden traps that Satan has planted,

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<v Speaker 1>and the world is planted, and the flesh is planted,

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<v Speaker 1>and those traps are there. Sometimes God uses you, uses

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<v Speaker 1>pain to keep you from walking into a hidden trap.

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<v Speaker 1>He uses pain to protect you, to guard you and

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<v Speaker 1>protect you Joe thirty six, Verse sixteen, God has led

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<v Speaker 1>you away from danger, giving you freedom. Sometimes a pain

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<v Speaker 1>in one area keeps you from having even worse pain

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<v Speaker 1>in another area, where if you'd walked.

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<v Speaker 2>Into that it would have been a disaster.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes protects pain protects you from something worse, It prevents

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<v Speaker 1>you from greater harm. Sometimes pain is actually a blessing

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<v Speaker 1>in disguise. For instance, you get a fever. A fever

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<v Speaker 1>warns you of an infection or an inflammation that needs

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<v Speaker 1>to be dealt with. Sometimes a small pain in your

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<v Speaker 1>life can alert you to life threatening the illnesses. And

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<v Speaker 1>when you're pain in pain emotionally, you're sad, you're discouraged,

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<v Speaker 1>you're depressed, you're angry, you're upset, you're irritated, you're frustrated.

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<v Speaker 1>Any kind of emotional pain, painful emotions means something is

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<v Speaker 1>out of order in your relationship to God, or your

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes God will allow pain to keep you from falling

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<v Speaker 1>off in the ditch. You know, the Bible says the

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<v Speaker 1>Lord is my shepherd. Shepherd's in the Middle East. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes if they've got a sheep that has a tendency

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<v Speaker 1>to wander off, and if it wanders off from the flock,

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to get eaten by a wolf pretty quickly,

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<v Speaker 1>And so sometimes a shepherd will intend inntionally break the

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<v Speaker 1>leg of a lamb that is prone to wander, Why

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<v Speaker 1>keep it from getting in trouble. They're guarding that lamb.

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<v Speaker 1>They broke the leg to guard the lamb. They did

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<v Speaker 1>remember the story of Joseph, How everything in his life

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<v Speaker 1>for the first forty years, everything went wrong. He was

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<v Speaker 1>and all kinds of things that just were He was

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<v Speaker 1>thrown in prison for no reason, and he was painfully

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<v Speaker 1>mistreated for year after year after year. But God was

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<v Speaker 1>talking to the people who had brought on the pain,

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<v Speaker 1>the people who sold them in slavery. You intended to

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<v Speaker 1>harm me, but God intended it for good. Now let

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<v Speaker 1>me tell you this, friends, there are people in your

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<v Speaker 1>They don't like you because you're a Christian, or they

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<v Speaker 1>But God intends it for good. And I will tell

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<v Speaker 1>you that in justice. In Joseph's life, there is no

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<v Speaker 1>Later Joseph had two sons, and one he named Manassa

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<v Speaker 1>He said, when that little boy was born, it made

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<v Speaker 1>me forget all my pain. And then he had Ephraim,

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<v Speaker 1>who he said, he is fruitful, and he forgot all

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<v Speaker 2>He looked at those little babies. Here's the problem.

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<v Speaker 1>We can't see what God sees because God can see

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<v Speaker 1>the whole picture, and we don't see it, so we

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<v Speaker 1>get impatient. But I want to encourage you to remember

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<v Speaker 1>this verse John thirteen, verse seven, where Jesus says this,

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<v Speaker 1>understand what an encouraging verse John thirteen seven. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>realize now what I'm doing, but later you understand. Many

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<v Speaker 1>times I have been through pain, and I not say that.

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<v Speaker 1>God was saying to me, Rick, you don't understand now

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<v Speaker 1>why you're going through this, but you will one day.

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to remember that God uses pain to

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<v Speaker 1>guide and direct, to guide and direct me, to go

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<v Speaker 1>and correct me, to gauge and inspect me, and to

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<v Speaker 1>guard and protect me. But there's one more way. God

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<v Speaker 1>uses pain to grow and perfect me. I'd use this

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<v Speaker 1>pain to grow and perfect me. It's possible to grow

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<v Speaker 1>during times of bright fair weather, but you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>you put down the roots and you go deeper during

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<v Speaker 1>the dark days of life. I could read you one hundred,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe one thousand letters where people would say your pastor,

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<v Speaker 1>I have grown more through this separation than whatever. I

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<v Speaker 1>have grown more through this illness. I have grown more

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<v Speaker 1>through losing my job and being unemployed. I have grown

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<v Speaker 1>more through this tragedy than I ever imagined. I have

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<v Speaker 1>grown more through this loss. I have grown more through

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<v Speaker 1>this storm because God uses it to grow and perfect me. James,

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<v Speaker 1>Chapter one, verse four. For when the way is rough,

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<v Speaker 1>your patience has a chance to grow. So let it

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<v Speaker 1>grow and don't try to scorn them out of all

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<v Speaker 1>your problems. Then you'll be ready for anything, strong in character,

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<v Speaker 1>full and complete. My prayer for you is that you

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<v Speaker 1>will be ready for anything strong in character, full, and complete.

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<v Speaker 1>Pain is the high cost of growth. And it's cliche,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's true. There is no gain without pain.

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<v Speaker 2>You see.

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<v Speaker 1>The fact is we want the quick solution, We want

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<v Speaker 1>of the book that's going to change everything. Without pain,

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<v Speaker 1>it isn't going to happen. We want the product that's

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<v Speaker 1>maturity without the process, which is pain. You see, the

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<v Speaker 1>very thing that's discouraging you right now is the very

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<v Speaker 2>Right now. What discourages you will develop you if.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll look at it from God's point of view again, James,

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<v Speaker 1>Chapter one, verse four, from the Message, So don't try

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what pain you're going.

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<v Speaker 1>Through, but I will tell you this, if you'll lean

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<v Speaker 1>on the Lord, you'll make it. How was David able

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<v Speaker 1>to write such beautiful, powerful moving psalms.

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<v Speaker 2>Well through all the pain he went through.

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<v Speaker 1>If you look at David's life, it wasn't anything but

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<v Speaker 1>in caves. David wrote his most beautiful words in his

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<v Speaker 1>deepest pain. I come back to this verse one Corinthians,

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<v Speaker 1>Chapter one, verse nine, where Paul says this happened when

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<v Speaker 1>all talked about. He gives a long list of all

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<v Speaker 1>things he had gone through. You know, he said, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been shipwrecked, I've been beaten, I've been tortured, I've been

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<v Speaker 1>in jail. You know, I've died and had you know,

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<v Speaker 1>nearly died three or four times. And he said, this happened.

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<v Speaker 1>All these tough things. He said, we despaired it, even

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<v Speaker 1>life itself. In other words, I was ready to give up.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, this happened so that we might learn to

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<v Speaker 1>trust not in ourselves, but in God. Friends, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know Jesus is all you need. Until Jesus is all

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<v Speaker 1>you've got, where are you wasting your pain? Pain is inevitable.

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<v Speaker 1>Pain is not optional. Pain is a part of life.

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<v Speaker 1>Pain is inevitable. Misery is optional. And question I want

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you is the question Paul asks in Galatians three,

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<v Speaker 1>verse four, Has all your painful experience brought you nowhere?

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<v Speaker 1>You notice that when people go through tragedy and disaster

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<v Speaker 1>and pain, some people turn to God, and some people

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<v Speaker 1>turn away from God.

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<v Speaker 2>Why that happens, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't seem to me to make sense to turn

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<v Speaker 1>away from God when he's offering you the comfort and

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<v Speaker 1>the power you need to make it through the time.

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<v Speaker 1>My plea to you today, friends, is to give your

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<v Speaker 1>hurt and give your heart.

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<v Speaker 2>To Jesus Christ.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Jesus didn't come to explain away your pain.

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<v Speaker 1>He came to share it. And he says, come to me,

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<v Speaker 1>you who are weary and heavy laden, and I will

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<v Speaker 1>give you rest. He enters into our pain. He is

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<v Speaker 1>a God who suffers with us, and he's here to

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<v Speaker 1>walk with you through whatever pain it is. It may

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<v Speaker 1>be physical, you may have a chronic illness. It may

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<v Speaker 1>be emotional. You may have a handicap of some kind

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<v Speaker 1>that bothers you. First Peter chapter four nineteen says this,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're suffering according to God's will, keep on.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me stop right there.

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<v Speaker 1>Notice that verse. If you're suffering according to God's will.

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<v Speaker 1>There are some Christians who think it's never God's will

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<v Speaker 1>for you to suffer, that you should never have any pain,

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<v Speaker 1>and if you don't have any pain in your life,

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<v Speaker 1>it means you don't have enough faith. They are not

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<v Speaker 1>telling you the truth. They're lying because the Bible says

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<v Speaker 1>the exact opposite. First Peter four nineteen says, sometimes suffering

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<v Speaker 1>is the will of God. It's not like you've sinned. No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what Job's friend said.

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<v Speaker 2>Job.

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<v Speaker 1>The reason you're in suffering is because you sin. God said, no,

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<v Speaker 1>he hadn't sinn. He was the most righteous man on

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<v Speaker 1>earth feet Peter four nineteen. If you're suffering according to

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<v Speaker 1>God's will, sometimes you're going to suffer. Sometimes you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to have a pain, and it's God's will. Keep on

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<v Speaker 1>doing what is right and trust yourself to the God

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<v Speaker 1>who made you or he will never fail you. He'll

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<v Speaker 1>never fail you. Now let me close with a little

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<v Speaker 1>self evaluation. Okay, I want you to just think about

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<v Speaker 1>what's hurting you. Think of the pain in your life

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<v Speaker 1>right now. That shouldn't take you very long. You need

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<v Speaker 1>to say this, Father, say this to God. Father, are

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<v Speaker 1>you using this pain to guide me? In a new direction.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you using this pain to goad me and spur

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<v Speaker 1>me into action. Are you using this pain to gauge

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<v Speaker 1>me to show me what I need to work on?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you using this pain to guard me, to guard

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<v Speaker 1>me from something more harmful? Are you using this pain

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<v Speaker 1>to grow me and make me more like you? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you using it to inspect me, to correct me, to

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<v Speaker 1>direct me to perfect me. I close again with First

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<v Speaker 1>Corinthians one nine. This happened so that we might learn

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<v Speaker 1>to trust not in ourselves, but in God. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to challenge you to let whatever pain you're going through

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<v Speaker 1>right now guide you into the caring arms of Jesus Christ.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you bow your head with me right now and

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<v Speaker 1>let me lead you in a prayer. If you've never

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<v Speaker 1>opened your life to Jesus Christ, are you're never sure

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<v Speaker 1>that you've settled this issue of am I in the

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<v Speaker 1>family of God? I want you to pray this prayer.

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<v Speaker 1>Say say this aloud in your heart, in your mind.

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<v Speaker 1>God knows what you're saying. Say God, you know the

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<v Speaker 1>pain I'm going through right now. You know the pain,

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<v Speaker 1>and today I realize that others may mean it for bad,

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<v Speaker 1>but you mean it for good. In my life, to

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<v Speaker 1>direct me and correct me, to perfect me, and inspect me,

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<v Speaker 1>to protect me from something worse. God, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>being such a loving God. Thank you for loving me.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you that you care about my pain. That you're

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<v Speaker 1>not an unsympathetic, un empathetic God. That Jesus you died

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<v Speaker 1>on the cross and carried the pain of my sin,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't have to carry that punishment. Then, just say,

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus Christ, as much as I know how, I open

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<v Speaker 1>my life completely to you, and I give you every

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<v Speaker 1>area of my life, the good, the bad, the ugly,

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<v Speaker 1>the painful, the shameful, and I give it all to you.

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<v Speaker 1>And I ask you to put a new heart in me,

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<v Speaker 1>a new spirit, a new joy, a new purpose, a

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<v Speaker 1>new passion, a new happiness. I want to be connected

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<v Speaker 1>to you, Jesus Christ, for the rest of my life.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to learn to love you and trust you.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I go through problems, and when I go

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<v Speaker 1>through pain that makes no sense, help me to remember

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<v Speaker 1>that you said you don't understand it now, but you

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<v Speaker 1>will later what I'm doing. Help me to trust you.

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<v Speaker 1>And I commit every area of my life to you,

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus Christ. Now I ask you to save me in

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus' name, Amen,
