WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.200 --> 00:00:03.919 You know everything in between. Welcome, Joshua, pleased to have you. 2 00:00:04.000 --> 00:00:05.679 I'm excited to talk about your product. 3 00:00:05.839 --> 00:00:08.080 We've been talking about this for a very long time, 4 00:00:08.519 --> 00:00:11.279 and I just love your approach about your whole medical field. 5 00:00:11.279 --> 00:00:12.919 That only are you a doctor, but you give a 6 00:00:12.919 --> 00:00:17.039 fun aspect and playful way. I'm kind of educating society. 7 00:00:17.199 --> 00:00:20.120 So let's talk about how you even developed your product. 8 00:00:19.800 --> 00:00:21.800 And how you got into making it so fun and 9 00:00:21.839 --> 00:00:23.039 exciting for everyone to enjoy. 10 00:00:23.359 --> 00:00:23.640 Yeah. 11 00:00:23.679 --> 00:00:28.039 So pop Star is the company that my co founder 12 00:00:28.079 --> 00:00:30.839 of Brian Stichser, and I started sort of as like 13 00:00:30.879 --> 00:00:35.799 a pandemic project. Early in the pandemic, when our practices 14 00:00:36.119 --> 00:00:37.560 kind of shut down because no one was going to 15 00:00:37.560 --> 00:00:40.399 the doctor. He and I were chatting about this idea 16 00:00:40.439 --> 00:00:43.200 that I had to develop a supplement to make men 17 00:00:44.359 --> 00:00:47.960 essentially increase their ejaculatory volume. And it was really born 18 00:00:48.000 --> 00:00:50.960 out of a need that we were seeing from patients 19 00:00:51.000 --> 00:00:54.479 coming into our office asking us about this problem and saying, 20 00:00:54.479 --> 00:00:55.240 you know, what can I do? 21 00:00:55.320 --> 00:00:58.039 What can I take to make my loads bigger? And 22 00:00:58.079 --> 00:01:00.920 there's some medicines that we prescribed for this issue, mostly 23 00:01:01.000 --> 00:01:01.479 related to. 24 00:01:01.439 --> 00:01:04.000 Reproductive health, but a lot of people don't want to 25 00:01:04.040 --> 00:01:05.879 take the medication for something like that, right, They just 26 00:01:05.920 --> 00:01:06.920 want to do. 27 00:01:06.959 --> 00:01:10.120 Something more natural to kind of enhance their load size 28 00:01:10.159 --> 00:01:11.599 so that sex is more pleasurable. 29 00:01:11.680 --> 00:01:13.560 So we spent a couple of months kind of putting 30 00:01:13.599 --> 00:01:16.120 together the formula. 31 00:01:16.719 --> 00:01:20.200 This is our signature sort of hero product, a. 32 00:01:20.200 --> 00:01:24.560 Volume and taste enhancer, and it's got zinc, l arginine 33 00:01:24.599 --> 00:01:26.480 pigm all which have. 34 00:01:26.480 --> 00:01:29.359 Been shown to increase ejaculatory volume. And when we were 35 00:01:29.359 --> 00:01:32.200 putting together the product, we thought, well, what other big. 36 00:01:31.959 --> 00:01:35.280 Aspect related to ejaculation to people kind of prinkling about 37 00:01:35.319 --> 00:01:38.519 the other thing's taste. So we added some bromoland, which 38 00:01:38.560 --> 00:01:41.959 is a pineapple extract to kind of neutralize or sweet 39 00:01:42.000 --> 00:01:44.840 in the flavor, and we launched it in twenty twenty one. 40 00:01:45.040 --> 00:01:48.319 It's done exceptionally well, you know, my patients take it, 41 00:01:48.480 --> 00:01:49.680 my friends take it, I. 42 00:01:49.760 --> 00:01:52.599 Take it, And so were you like the guinea pig 43 00:01:52.640 --> 00:01:55.959 of like this whole like experiment a thing is because 44 00:01:56.000 --> 00:01:58.079 in the beginning, it's you know, you think about is 45 00:01:58.120 --> 00:02:00.439 it like something just actually where it's like who wants 46 00:02:00.480 --> 00:02:02.480 their loads bigger? Like that's something O the hows be 47 00:02:02.480 --> 00:02:04.760 in the adult industry and they close is a big thing. 48 00:02:04.799 --> 00:02:07.879 But is that something that inhibits the sexual like wellness 49 00:02:07.879 --> 00:02:10.120 and like health wise or is it just because of 50 00:02:10.199 --> 00:02:12.080 like you want a big load and be like that 51 00:02:12.120 --> 00:02:14.000 big you know, macho man. 52 00:02:14.199 --> 00:02:17.879 Yeah, I mean I think we get customers looking for both, right. 53 00:02:17.919 --> 00:02:21.520 We get customers who just like when they come and 54 00:02:21.599 --> 00:02:23.879 they or their partners like when they have bigger loads. 55 00:02:24.400 --> 00:02:26.240 But we were also seeing a lot of patients and 56 00:02:26.240 --> 00:02:29.400 we hear this from our customers too, complaining about how 57 00:02:29.639 --> 00:02:34.280 sex doesn't feel as good, the words less intense because 58 00:02:34.280 --> 00:02:36.400 they don't ejaculate as much as they used to. So 59 00:02:37.080 --> 00:02:39.639 a lot of our patients and customers buy this product 60 00:02:39.680 --> 00:02:41.919 because they want to get that back, okay, And then 61 00:02:42.039 --> 00:02:44.240 you know, we hear back from them reporting, in fact, 62 00:02:44.319 --> 00:02:45.039 that's true that. 63 00:02:44.960 --> 00:02:47.599 There all feel more powerful, feel more intense. 64 00:02:47.919 --> 00:02:50.719 That increases sexual pleasure and just you know, enhances their 65 00:02:50.719 --> 00:02:51.360 sexual experience. 66 00:02:51.400 --> 00:02:53.520 So it's a study group of you know, pop star 67 00:02:53.560 --> 00:02:57.840 out there loads bigger, that's right. How many capsules do 68 00:02:57.879 --> 00:02:59.960 you have to take to increase this libido? 69 00:03:00.639 --> 00:03:04.400 So it's four capsules a day, Okay, we try to 70 00:03:04.719 --> 00:03:05.280 We kind of. 71 00:03:05.280 --> 00:03:08.159 Experimented with delivery systems in the beginning. We really wanted 72 00:03:08.199 --> 00:03:10.560 to like try to put it, put it a gummy together. 73 00:03:11.000 --> 00:03:13.159 But more important than that, we wanted to get the 74 00:03:13.199 --> 00:03:17.319 concentrations of each of the ingredients correct and the amount 75 00:03:17.520 --> 00:03:19.159 of ingredients that we had to put in in the 76 00:03:19.240 --> 00:03:23.840 right amount required a council and four capsules. 77 00:03:23.439 --> 00:03:25.319 So daily daily, yep. 78 00:03:25.400 --> 00:03:27.080 So it it's meant to be taken as a daily 79 00:03:27.120 --> 00:03:29.000 supplement with sixteen ounces. 80 00:03:28.680 --> 00:03:30.159 Of water every day. 81 00:03:30.759 --> 00:03:34.840 I do have friends who use it more sparingly if 82 00:03:34.840 --> 00:03:36.039 they're gonna have a big weekend. 83 00:03:36.080 --> 00:03:37.759 They know they've got to go to a sex party or. 84 00:03:37.680 --> 00:03:40.879 They know that they're gonna have so they like, that's right, Yeah, 85 00:03:41.120 --> 00:03:42.240 can you take too much? 86 00:03:42.280 --> 00:03:44.000 Can you overdose on the too much? 87 00:03:44.840 --> 00:03:46.840 Zinc is the limiting factor in this, So we've put 88 00:03:46.840 --> 00:03:49.680 the maximum daily recommended amount of zinc in this product. 89 00:03:50.240 --> 00:03:52.199 So that's something that we tell all of our customers 90 00:03:52.199 --> 00:03:54.560 and patients who use this that they shouldn't be taking 91 00:03:54.599 --> 00:03:57.319 any other products that have zinc in it. So technically 92 00:03:57.360 --> 00:03:59.639 you should not be taking more than four capsules a day. 93 00:04:00.159 --> 00:04:02.400 But what I mean is its no, especially because nowadays 94 00:04:02.400 --> 00:04:06.000 people an even more health conscious with you know, bis vitamins. 95 00:04:05.520 --> 00:04:07.360 And like those things of who wouldn't know that you 96 00:04:07.400 --> 00:04:09.000 might kind of trigger something out. 97 00:04:09.159 --> 00:04:10.319 Yeah, so we always tell people. 98 00:04:10.240 --> 00:04:12.120 You know, if you're taking this in addition with other supplements, 99 00:04:12.159 --> 00:04:15.439 you definitely want to discuss with your healthcare provider whether 100 00:04:15.479 --> 00:04:17.000 it's safe. You want to make sure that there's not 101 00:04:17.079 --> 00:04:19.240 seeing any other supplements that you're taking. 102 00:04:19.360 --> 00:04:20.079 Okay. Yeah. 103 00:04:20.319 --> 00:04:22.720 With your you know your company, you're pushing boundaries and 104 00:04:22.759 --> 00:04:25.240 it's you know, sexual wellness. What sets you apart from 105 00:04:25.279 --> 00:04:27.720 the other company, because you know, now, I'm sure there's 106 00:04:27.800 --> 00:04:29.800 lots of products out there when they're competing and things 107 00:04:29.839 --> 00:04:32.079 like what sets your company apart? 108 00:04:32.199 --> 00:04:34.160 I think the main one is that it's where Doctor founded, 109 00:04:34.199 --> 00:04:37.839 Doctor formulated. So Brian and I are both urologists, we 110 00:04:37.920 --> 00:04:39.959 both are men's sexual health specialists. 111 00:04:40.000 --> 00:04:42.079 So this is something that we do every day in 112 00:04:42.120 --> 00:04:42.920 our practice. 113 00:04:43.279 --> 00:04:45.759 And all of the products, starting with the Volume and 114 00:04:45.759 --> 00:04:48.759 Taste and Answer through our line of lubricants that we've 115 00:04:48.800 --> 00:04:51.439 released we just launched as a lay spray. All of 116 00:04:51.480 --> 00:04:54.519 these have been born out of needs that we're seeing 117 00:04:54.759 --> 00:04:57.360 from our patients specifically, So we take a lot of 118 00:04:57.439 --> 00:05:01.639 pride in doing ton of research before we launch a 119 00:05:01.680 --> 00:05:04.240 product to make sure it's the of the highest quality 120 00:05:04.480 --> 00:05:08.160 that it's science backed, and so we feel very confident 121 00:05:08.160 --> 00:05:10.800 that the products that we have, even when compared to 122 00:05:10.839 --> 00:05:13.639 some of our competitors out there, that there's real science 123 00:05:13.680 --> 00:05:17.120 behind that and we're putting our professional reputations on the line. 124 00:05:17.120 --> 00:05:19.560 So I would say that's probably the biggest distinguishing factor. 125 00:05:19.639 --> 00:05:22.000 How would you say that you balance clinical integrity with 126 00:05:22.079 --> 00:05:23.519 marketable and consumer. 127 00:05:23.160 --> 00:05:24.040 From the products. 128 00:05:24.240 --> 00:05:26.800 It's a good question. I mean, we've put together, I think, 129 00:05:26.800 --> 00:05:27.720 a fantastic team. 130 00:05:28.079 --> 00:05:32.360 We work with someone who does all of our branding, 131 00:05:32.680 --> 00:05:35.199 all of our marketing, all of our advertising, and we 132 00:05:35.319 --> 00:05:38.800 wanted the products when we launched them to be science backed, 133 00:05:39.079 --> 00:05:43.439 doctor formulated, but also fund right and sexy. 134 00:05:43.439 --> 00:05:45.240 And so we're fun and sexy. 135 00:05:45.319 --> 00:05:46.959 Yeah, right, I mean, if you're tis this thing that 136 00:05:47.079 --> 00:05:49.639 and I think it also you know, gets another target 137 00:05:49.680 --> 00:05:52.720 audience that you may not be knowing what your product 138 00:05:52.759 --> 00:05:54.439 is or knowing that they even have that problem or 139 00:05:54.480 --> 00:05:56.360 an issue that you could either enhance those things. 140 00:05:56.399 --> 00:05:58.279 So I think that that kind of draws another kind 141 00:05:58.279 --> 00:05:58.920 of audience. 142 00:05:59.120 --> 00:06:01.279 Yeah, you want to be able to capture someone's attention 143 00:06:01.319 --> 00:06:03.199 if it's sitting on a shelf. Right, One of the 144 00:06:03.240 --> 00:06:06.800 things that we wanted to do with our initial product 145 00:06:06.879 --> 00:06:09.040 was and we talked about this when we were looking 146 00:06:09.079 --> 00:06:09.800 at what. 147 00:06:09.680 --> 00:06:12.000 Color do we want it to be? How do we 148 00:06:12.040 --> 00:06:12.959 want the bottle to look. 149 00:06:13.120 --> 00:06:14.720 We wanted it to be able to sit on your 150 00:06:14.800 --> 00:06:17.600 shelf at home and if someone is using your restroom, 151 00:06:17.639 --> 00:06:21.120 they could see this sexy bottle and not necessarily you know, 152 00:06:21.120 --> 00:06:23.360 know that it's to make you, but just have it 153 00:06:23.439 --> 00:06:25.399 be able to sit on your counter and look good. 154 00:06:25.959 --> 00:06:28.839 So we want to capture people's attention on the shelf. 155 00:06:28.600 --> 00:06:31.000 And then you know, on social media through our website 156 00:06:31.000 --> 00:06:31.480 and stuff. 157 00:06:31.519 --> 00:06:35.000 We wanted to be able to present these topics in 158 00:06:35.199 --> 00:06:38.399 a easily digestible, fun way because a lot of these 159 00:06:38.439 --> 00:06:39.920 things people may. 160 00:06:39.759 --> 00:06:42.399 Have shame or marasling about, right, and we want. 161 00:06:42.240 --> 00:06:45.519 To be able to capture their attention and make them 162 00:06:45.560 --> 00:06:48.319 feel comfortable and know that they're going to be getting 163 00:06:48.319 --> 00:06:49.720 a good quality product while. 164 00:06:49.519 --> 00:06:51.839 At the same time maybe learning something fun about sex 165 00:06:51.879 --> 00:06:52.319 along the way. 166 00:06:52.480 --> 00:06:53.040 We love that. 167 00:06:53.600 --> 00:06:56.120 What's one myth about sexual health that you wish more 168 00:06:56.160 --> 00:06:57.879 people would unlearned? 169 00:07:00.000 --> 00:07:01.680 Myth? If they would unlearn. 170 00:07:03.399 --> 00:07:06.360 I would say one myth that I deal a lot 171 00:07:06.439 --> 00:07:09.839 with is that people assume that once they get to 172 00:07:09.839 --> 00:07:13.199 be of a certain age that like it stops working exactly, 173 00:07:13.279 --> 00:07:15.480 like that they should just give up, And so it's 174 00:07:15.480 --> 00:07:18.680 a myth. Yeah, I mean it is more common as 175 00:07:18.680 --> 00:07:21.160 we age, right, Like the older men get, they be 176 00:07:21.279 --> 00:07:24.519 more likely they already have a rectile dysfunction. Sometimes as 177 00:07:24.519 --> 00:07:26.920 women age they start to develop pain with sex. But 178 00:07:27.000 --> 00:07:29.279 it doesn't mean because it's more common as we age 179 00:07:29.279 --> 00:07:32.600 that it's normal or that there can't be anything that 180 00:07:32.639 --> 00:07:33.040 we can. 181 00:07:32.920 --> 00:07:33.439 Do about it. 182 00:07:33.920 --> 00:07:36.279 So I always try to, you know, encourage my patients, 183 00:07:36.360 --> 00:07:39.920 encourage my followers, like if you're not having satisfying sex 184 00:07:41.120 --> 00:07:45.480 or the kind of sex that you want, then find a. 185 00:07:44.879 --> 00:07:46.199 Healthcare professional like myself. 186 00:07:46.319 --> 00:07:48.920 Yeah, and that's expertise in this area because there's often 187 00:07:49.199 --> 00:07:50.319 things that can be done. 188 00:07:50.160 --> 00:07:51.399 To get you back where you want to be. 189 00:07:51.680 --> 00:07:53.519 That's where I love, I feel like, especially with myself, 190 00:07:53.519 --> 00:07:55.720 my backgrounding and you know, the adult industry and like 191 00:07:55.800 --> 00:07:58.639 having I think there's so many stigmas around sex and 192 00:07:58.639 --> 00:08:01.160 like even like sexual wellness some partners and all these things. 193 00:08:01.199 --> 00:08:03.720 So I feel like communication is key because I feel 194 00:08:03.759 --> 00:08:06.160 like when we talked about earlier about people have shame 195 00:08:06.199 --> 00:08:09.079 around these things or like things because it doesn't feel good. 196 00:08:09.120 --> 00:08:11.079 But it's like, the more we speak up, the more 197 00:08:11.079 --> 00:08:12.439 that you can find the root of the problem of 198 00:08:12.439 --> 00:08:14.240 what those things really are. And I think like with 199 00:08:14.319 --> 00:08:17.199 your product as well, it's like enhancing those things that 200 00:08:17.519 --> 00:08:19.800 maybe not be a problem, but could enhance that thing 201 00:08:19.839 --> 00:08:22.480 to be a better enjoyable session for each person. 202 00:08:22.639 --> 00:08:24.680 Yeah, and I think you know, with a product like ours, 203 00:08:24.680 --> 00:08:26.959 like you're saying, a lot of times people don't necessarily 204 00:08:27.000 --> 00:08:30.000 think that it is a problem, and then when you 205 00:08:30.240 --> 00:08:34.399 educate them on the importance of ejaculatory health, right, and 206 00:08:34.440 --> 00:08:36.639 then they think, oh, actually, yeah, I have noticed that 207 00:08:36.639 --> 00:08:37.840 that's declined over time. 208 00:08:38.200 --> 00:08:39.240 And yeah, when I was. 209 00:08:39.240 --> 00:08:42.120 Younger and did it the norm because it's like not 210 00:08:42.159 --> 00:08:44.399 really checking up on like or not asking hey did 211 00:08:44.440 --> 00:08:46.799 you come to your friend right, or like what's your 212 00:08:46.879 --> 00:08:47.519 load look like? 213 00:08:47.720 --> 00:08:50.360 Or they've never had a conversation with their partner, right, 214 00:08:50.519 --> 00:08:53.159 maybe their partner did enjoy when they which That's what. 215 00:08:53.159 --> 00:08:55.279 I find the craziest, especially being you know, in the 216 00:08:55.320 --> 00:08:57.720 sex industry background too, where it's like sex is such 217 00:08:57.720 --> 00:09:01.159 an intimate thing, but people don't communicate with their partners. 218 00:09:01.480 --> 00:09:02.720 It's like it's so funny. 219 00:09:02.759 --> 00:09:05.720 It's like you let somebody insert themselves inside of you. 220 00:09:05.799 --> 00:09:07.799 But you can't be like, hey, that hurts or it's 221 00:09:07.840 --> 00:09:10.080 too big, or go harder or go whatever. So that's 222 00:09:10.080 --> 00:09:12.519 why for me, it's like I'm very obviously sex positive 223 00:09:12.519 --> 00:09:14.200 with my background, and like I like to have people 224 00:09:14.200 --> 00:09:16.600 on to educate people as well. It's like you can 225 00:09:16.679 --> 00:09:19.039 find the solution away faster if you just poke up 226 00:09:19.080 --> 00:09:19.759 closed dowse. 227 00:09:19.600 --> 00:09:20.159 Don't get fed. 228 00:09:20.279 --> 00:09:23.279 Yeah, well honestly, and that's one of the reasons why 229 00:09:23.440 --> 00:09:27.240 at pop Start, you know, we have been really embraced 230 00:09:27.279 --> 00:09:29.639 by the adult industry, I think, and have chosen to 231 00:09:29.879 --> 00:09:34.480 selectively work with sex workers and people in the adult industry. 232 00:09:34.159 --> 00:09:37.639 Because they're so used to for the most part. 233 00:09:37.480 --> 00:09:40.480 Talking about these things openly, right, and so they are 234 00:09:40.559 --> 00:09:41.960 some of our biggest educators. 235 00:09:42.000 --> 00:09:43.279 Yeah, because they're meeting people. 236 00:09:44.519 --> 00:09:45.919 We're in the forefront exactly. 237 00:09:46.039 --> 00:09:47.919 Yeah, we're the ones like the facing who's like taking 238 00:09:47.960 --> 00:09:50.639 the product or even having those questions whatever. You know, 239 00:09:50.679 --> 00:09:52.080 I think that it's a good thing, and that's why 240 00:09:52.080 --> 00:09:53.360 I was happy for you to come up the show, 241 00:09:53.440 --> 00:09:55.240 is to kind of explain a little bit more and 242 00:09:55.320 --> 00:09:57.840 also just educate those people out there, because it's like 243 00:09:58.240 --> 00:09:59.840 you're on the doctor's side of it, but I can 244 00:09:59.879 --> 00:10:01.759 just promote it, show you that I've used it with 245 00:10:01.799 --> 00:10:02.480 my partner and. 246 00:10:02.440 --> 00:10:04.000 It tastes good, that the load is bit you know, 247 00:10:04.120 --> 00:10:04.879 all those things. 248 00:10:05.320 --> 00:10:07.440 But he has to tell you know, the scientific background 249 00:10:07.440 --> 00:10:08.759 of it, because I think that's why it would used 250 00:10:08.759 --> 00:10:11.240 to be talking about setting your product aside from everybody else. 251 00:10:11.320 --> 00:10:14.320 Is you don't need a you know, a doctor's recommendation, 252 00:10:14.480 --> 00:10:16.639 but you have a doctor background who backed everything and 253 00:10:16.679 --> 00:10:19.679 kind of checked everything out to see where it's at today. 254 00:10:19.759 --> 00:10:21.200 Yeah, exactly, how has. 255 00:10:21.080 --> 00:10:24.879 The conversation around sexual wellness evolved, especially post pandemic? He said, 256 00:10:24.879 --> 00:10:27.039 this kind of evolved during the pandemic and knowing that 257 00:10:27.039 --> 00:10:27.960 there was a need for it. 258 00:10:28.000 --> 00:10:30.759 Like, how did that conversation kind of evolve? 259 00:10:30.960 --> 00:10:33.080 I mean, I think it's it's a slowly evolving thing. 260 00:10:33.080 --> 00:10:36.200 I think it started before the pandemic. I think there's 261 00:10:36.240 --> 00:10:36.840 a lot of things. 262 00:10:36.720 --> 00:10:37.320 That have influenced. 263 00:10:37.320 --> 00:10:41.840 I think in popular media, it's becoming more acceptable to 264 00:10:41.879 --> 00:10:44.600 talk about sex. You saw a lot of people kind 265 00:10:44.600 --> 00:10:48.279 of go into sex work through the pandemic, right, like 266 00:10:48.399 --> 00:10:50.279 doing only fans and that kind of stuff. So I 267 00:10:50.320 --> 00:10:53.759 feel like even from five ten years ago, like it's 268 00:10:54.039 --> 00:10:56.679 not uncommon for you to hear you know, so and 269 00:10:56.720 --> 00:10:59.440 so histartic and only fans there, and they're. 270 00:10:59.120 --> 00:11:01.720 Doing sex work now, and it's not the same sort 271 00:11:01.720 --> 00:11:03.840 of like why are they doing that? 272 00:11:03.879 --> 00:11:06.399 What's you know, are they like thinking that there's something 273 00:11:06.480 --> 00:11:07.879 defective with that person because of. 274 00:11:07.879 --> 00:11:11.120 The work that they do. I'm sure. Yeah. So I 275 00:11:11.159 --> 00:11:13.600 think I think that's been helpful because. 276 00:11:13.360 --> 00:11:16.679 It sort of helps to normalize that And and some 277 00:11:16.759 --> 00:11:19.000 of the creators that we worked with who do only 278 00:11:19.039 --> 00:11:21.559 fans or do you know, studio horn, like a lot 279 00:11:21.600 --> 00:11:24.639 of them also have you know, more traditional jobs also 280 00:11:24.639 --> 00:11:26.559 when they just do this as a side project or 281 00:11:26.559 --> 00:11:29.159 because they enjoy doing that work. And so I think 282 00:11:29.759 --> 00:11:32.559 that change has really shifted the narrative to where people 283 00:11:32.600 --> 00:11:34.159 are more willing to talk about sex. 284 00:11:34.399 --> 00:11:35.639 And then you're also seeing. 285 00:11:35.360 --> 00:11:38.879 A lot more in popular media about things like hairy 286 00:11:38.879 --> 00:11:42.480 menopause and menopause and a rectile dysfunction, where it's becoming 287 00:11:43.080 --> 00:11:45.120 you know, commonplace to talk about these things on d 288 00:11:45.240 --> 00:11:47.399 and varying more show or Oprah is having a special 289 00:11:47.440 --> 00:11:50.759 about menopause, and these sorts of things are becoming part 290 00:11:50.799 --> 00:11:52.519 of ours. 291 00:11:53.519 --> 00:11:55.120 But I think that that's a beautiful thing is because 292 00:11:55.159 --> 00:11:55.720 like it should be. 293 00:11:55.759 --> 00:11:59.039 Why should it be like women have these issues, men 294 00:11:59.080 --> 00:12:01.879 have issues, and it's like, like, I don't why be taboo, 295 00:12:02.279 --> 00:12:04.399 open the door up and let it all come out. 296 00:12:05.279 --> 00:12:07.840 Everybody has sex, right for the most part. Most people 297 00:12:07.919 --> 00:12:10.360 have sex. Most people enjoy sex. It's one of the 298 00:12:10.440 --> 00:12:13.679 few things in life that we can all enjoy, especially 299 00:12:13.720 --> 00:12:16.399 when crazy stuff is happening all around us all the time, 300 00:12:16.879 --> 00:12:18.879 and the fact that everybody's doing. 301 00:12:18.720 --> 00:12:20.960 It but like we don't feel comfortable talking about it. 302 00:12:20.919 --> 00:12:23.559 Openly is a shame and I think that hopefully is 303 00:12:23.559 --> 00:12:24.919 starting to slowly shift. 304 00:12:25.120 --> 00:12:26.039 Well with this episode. 305 00:12:26.039 --> 00:12:28.200 I think it's definitely a shift because we're glad you're 306 00:12:28.200 --> 00:12:29.960 here and then I'm talking about all of this. 307 00:12:30.440 --> 00:12:32.360 Are there any key differences that you would say. 308 00:12:32.200 --> 00:12:34.879 Between men and women and how they approach their or 309 00:12:34.919 --> 00:12:36.120 ignore their sexual health. 310 00:12:37.240 --> 00:12:40.799 I think historically, at least in my practice and my experience, 311 00:12:41.080 --> 00:12:46.559 men are often more motivated to seek help, but often 312 00:12:46.679 --> 00:12:50.399 wait until it's like a really big problem. So men 313 00:12:50.440 --> 00:12:53.360 are just terrible patients in general. They like ignore things 314 00:12:53.639 --> 00:12:56.440 until it's breaking up their relationship, until it's you know, 315 00:12:56.519 --> 00:12:58.879 causing really low self esteem or depression and all that 316 00:12:58.960 --> 00:12:59.480 kind of stuff. 317 00:13:00.960 --> 00:13:04.480 So I think they're worse about seeking help. 318 00:13:04.320 --> 00:13:10.039 Sometimes, whereas women often discuss these issues with their friends, 319 00:13:10.320 --> 00:13:14.840 you know, their colleagues, so they're more educated. I find 320 00:13:15.159 --> 00:13:17.120 when they come to see me and have a lot 321 00:13:17.159 --> 00:13:20.840 more questions, and so I think that's probably the main 322 00:13:20.879 --> 00:13:23.799 difference is that women generally have at least one other 323 00:13:23.840 --> 00:13:25.960 person that they're talking to about these things outside of 324 00:13:25.960 --> 00:13:30.080 my office. Men often come alone, come in isolation these. 325 00:13:29.919 --> 00:13:31.480 Problems, asking for problem. 326 00:13:31.639 --> 00:13:34.159 Okay, yeah, so we talked about your number one I 327 00:13:34.159 --> 00:13:36.159 would assume seller that you have with pop Star. 328 00:13:36.480 --> 00:13:38.559 What other products do you have in line that you 329 00:13:38.679 --> 00:13:40.200 have with us today that we can talk about. 330 00:13:40.480 --> 00:13:43.200 Yeah, so volume and taste the initial product. 331 00:13:43.279 --> 00:13:45.960 Then after that we launched a line of lubricants, so 332 00:13:46.000 --> 00:13:48.399 we have both a silicone and a water based lubricant. 333 00:13:49.440 --> 00:13:53.000 And as a avid user of lubricants myself, even before 334 00:13:53.000 --> 00:13:55.799 we launched ours, I can attest to. 335 00:13:55.799 --> 00:13:58.039 Like our silicone group is one of the best I 336 00:13:58.120 --> 00:13:58.759 ever try. 337 00:13:58.639 --> 00:14:01.000 Because it's being a sex performer. Silicon is something that 338 00:14:01.000 --> 00:14:02.799 they say that is not typically good. 339 00:14:02.639 --> 00:14:04.360 To use, So why would you say that you would 340 00:14:04.480 --> 00:14:08.480 rather or that's kind of like your go to then others. 341 00:14:07.279 --> 00:14:12.120 So it's often better because it doesn't dry out as quickly. Okay, 342 00:14:12.200 --> 00:14:14.000 So you have to do you don't have to reapply 343 00:14:14.080 --> 00:14:18.320 it as often. Sometimes using silicone with sex can be 344 00:14:18.399 --> 00:14:24.279 irritating for some women, but it just provides silkier you know, 345 00:14:24.639 --> 00:14:29.000 rye essentially, Yeah, you don't have to it, you don't 346 00:14:29.000 --> 00:14:30.960 have to apply it as often. It's also silicon is 347 00:14:30.960 --> 00:14:33.320 also great for water plants, So if you're having sex 348 00:14:33.440 --> 00:14:35.799 in a shower in a bath, you. 349 00:14:35.759 --> 00:14:37.159 Can't really use water based lube. 350 00:14:37.159 --> 00:14:40.679 Okay, makes sense. I would say The downside the silicone 351 00:14:40.720 --> 00:14:43.360 is that silicone can stain sheets, so you have to 352 00:14:43.399 --> 00:14:47.559 be careful and you can't use silicone with other silicone products. 353 00:14:47.600 --> 00:14:50.000 So like toys, if they have silicone in them, if 354 00:14:50.000 --> 00:14:51.840 you put silicone. 355 00:14:51.399 --> 00:14:52.879 Lube on them, it can degrade the product. 356 00:14:53.039 --> 00:14:55.279 So if you're using yeah, exactly, So if you're using 357 00:14:55.320 --> 00:14:57.919 a silicone toy, you're gonna want to stick to water 358 00:14:57.960 --> 00:14:58.399 based lubes. 359 00:14:58.559 --> 00:14:58.879 Okay. 360 00:14:59.000 --> 00:15:01.279 Yeah, So what other of those all the products? Do 361 00:15:01.279 --> 00:15:02.480 you have anything for females? 362 00:15:02.679 --> 00:15:05.360 So what if what if I took some pills? 363 00:15:05.360 --> 00:15:07.679 What would it do to this Texas? Is my load 364 00:15:07.720 --> 00:15:08.279 going to be bigger? 365 00:15:08.399 --> 00:15:10.240 That's a good question we've had. 366 00:15:10.320 --> 00:15:13.080 We've had people ask about that we've We've not obviously 367 00:15:13.240 --> 00:15:15.600 marketed it towards women. I can tell you that there 368 00:15:15.639 --> 00:15:18.639 are some products in the pipeline and up here that 369 00:15:18.720 --> 00:15:23.960 you have ideas about, yes, to specifically address female concerns. 370 00:15:24.480 --> 00:15:28.279 We did just launch a delay spray. So one of 371 00:15:28.279 --> 00:15:29.519 the biggest problems we see in. 372 00:15:29.440 --> 00:15:33.440 Our office is premature ejaculation or guys who have difficulty 373 00:15:33.519 --> 00:15:38.919 controlling they're ejaculate, right, And this is a spray. 374 00:15:39.080 --> 00:15:41.960 It's a topical product that you've applied that has. 375 00:15:41.879 --> 00:15:44.000 Ten percent light of caing in it, so it's gonna 376 00:15:44.519 --> 00:15:47.840 partially numb the nerve. End isn't just have better control 377 00:15:48.320 --> 00:15:54.000 that while not directly you know, marketed or geared towards females, 378 00:15:54.639 --> 00:15:59.080 does and can help improve female sexual function because if 379 00:15:59.120 --> 00:16:01.919 your man can last longer and continue to have sex, 380 00:16:02.320 --> 00:16:05.440 then your you know, sexual experience will be that much more. 381 00:16:05.519 --> 00:16:09.519 Because it's sprayed on the the tip of the whatever 382 00:16:09.559 --> 00:16:12.320 and then inserting the female. Is there any effects for 383 00:16:12.480 --> 00:16:15.080 where that she gets from the numbing sensation of good question? 384 00:16:15.120 --> 00:16:17.440 So ours has an anti transfer technology. So if you 385 00:16:17.759 --> 00:16:20.360 apply it the way we instruct you to, let it 386 00:16:20.440 --> 00:16:24.240 kind of absorb. You know, a couple of minutes, it 387 00:16:24.279 --> 00:16:26.000 should not transfer or so that's. 388 00:16:25.879 --> 00:16:27.679 The correct So if I'm if I'm trying to buy 389 00:16:27.720 --> 00:16:30.879 your product and I am saying that I have, and 390 00:16:30.919 --> 00:16:32.120 you're gonna tell me, like what would be. 391 00:16:32.039 --> 00:16:33.000 The steps of doing that? 392 00:16:33.080 --> 00:16:35.480 Yeah, so you're gonna spray it on your just a 393 00:16:35.480 --> 00:16:37.120 couple of sprays. What we use? 394 00:16:37.559 --> 00:16:39.960 How long before the actual sexual act is Like, it's 395 00:16:39.960 --> 00:16:43.120 something if I have someone coming over and then do 396 00:16:43.159 --> 00:16:44.759 I have to like prep before like an hour? 397 00:16:44.879 --> 00:16:45.399 It's like. 398 00:16:47.600 --> 00:16:50.279 Depending on how poor your control is. 399 00:16:50.519 --> 00:16:52.759 Right, if it's something that is only a problem when 400 00:16:52.759 --> 00:16:55.519 you have penetrative sex, then I would encourage someone to 401 00:16:55.559 --> 00:16:57.879