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Speaker 1: The second date update on kJ three, Roger from Midwest

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City on the second Date Update, Hi Roger, Hey, how

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are you guys doing well?

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Speaker 2: We're trying to get you another date with Aaron.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I would really like that to keep working out.

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So Aaron, what can I say? Well? First off, the

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girl was super hot, honestly I so I met her

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at my friend Trevor's birthday party, and second she walked in,

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I was like whoa who Yeah, I was like who

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is this girl? You know, real like she was the

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hottest person in the room. Didn't act like it at all,

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super humble, really confident, you know, just all of that.

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Uh definitely got her infels hit her up. The next day,

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I stud to grab a smoothie bull at surf Bar.

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Speaker 2: That's good, like healthy to get to know you. First

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date great, Yeah, it was really true.

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Speaker 3: We sat outside, we talked for an hour. I walked

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away thinking I was like, Okay, I think I think

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I got this. This can definitely go somewhere. Texture Later

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that night, you know, I was like, hey, I had

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a great time, and she said same with a little

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smiley face. So I was like okay, okay, yeah, and

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then it just got weird just started getting one word replies,

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and I don't really know what to do with that,

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like like cool, maybe a slow ghost come, Like she

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ghosted me for real.

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Speaker 2: So gradual ghosting.

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Speaker 3: It's well, yeah, it's been six weeks now, so I'm

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kind of like I should only move on.

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Speaker 1: But the rare combination of humble hot, if this was,

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if this was the person that, like, you know, sparks

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your flame instantly, we got to.

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Speaker 2: Get this try. So yeah, let's find out will help

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me to heck out? Yeah, come on, well let's do it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's uh, we'll get Aaron on the phone and

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we'll figure this out for Are you coming up all right?

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Speaker 3: Aaron?

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Speaker 1: Thanks for coming on the second date update. We know

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you're busy, but we're trying to figure out why you

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went from meeting Roger at a party, having a smoothie

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bowl date, and then kind of just slowly ghosting him

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after that.

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Speaker 3: Oh Rogers, he isn't that guy.

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Speaker 1: He's good looking at everything.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, when we were out, you know, like every

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sentence started with when you're my girl?

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Speaker 2: Oh wait wait wait wait when like, yeah, when you're

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my girl, we'll go to Vegas.

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Speaker 3: When you're my girl. You know I hook you up

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with this private chef when you're my girl, you know

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we're gonna go out and go by expensive gifts like Okay, okay,

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I'm being so exact.

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Speaker 2: First of all, Roger Rogers trying to jump in. Yeah,

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I'm curious now I want to know, yes, right.

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Speaker 3: I'm just gonna be honest. I was trying to show

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you how I treat someone like that I care about,

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And I don't know how that's a bad thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's a level of like presumptiveness of like,

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I haven't agreed to be your girl, So why are

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we talking like it's going to happen already?

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Speaker 2: I mean, but but is this Roger?

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you were just saying like, well, I

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mean if if we dated, we would have a lot

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of fun together.

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Speaker 3: Right. What I was trying to say is that I

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would spoil you. I would give you the world. So

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if you're you saying that, you're like mad that I

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wanted to spoil you, because I've been with any woman

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I've ever been with has been all about that. Yeah,

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but if you were getting to know, if you were tening,

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like really get to know me, you might see that

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that wasn't necessarily me there you go.

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Speaker 1: There's an element too of like you don't know me

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well enough to know if you wanted me to be

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your girl.

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Speaker 3: Yet. Really, I'm so sorry. That's That's not really where

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I was trying to go with this, you know, I

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just I want to get to know you and treat

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you like the queen that you are. Yeah, it still

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feels like a pitch, a pitch.

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Speaker 1: Like like he's trying to like he's trying to like

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he's trying to trying to sell you to be his

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What do I gotta do?

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Speaker 3: Like where is the chase and how do I cut

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to it?

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Speaker 1: Aaron Rodger has said, like you walked in and you

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were studying, and you went on the state and everything

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was great, and I'm sure like he was like, Wow,

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this is someone that I would like to, I don't know,

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treat you like the queen that you deserve to be.

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Speaker 2: Is that nice? Awful?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: You just need it to be yourself and let me

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be myself, not like oh, you're my girl, And you know.

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Speaker 2: He seems like he really wants another date though.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean I thought I was being

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a gentleman. I mean, I didn't make you. I didn't

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mean to make you feel any sort of way.

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Speaker 1: Really, last chance, would like, would you like to go

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out with Roger again?

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry? No, okay, we try.

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Speaker 1: Oh sorry Roger, Roger I thought was that was that diabolical?

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Speaker 3: I just like I really did not expect that. Like

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I thought this whole call thing was supposed to be

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that you guys, that we could work this out. I

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just I was just trying to show her that I

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think she's special and different. Really didn't plan to treat

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her that way.

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Speaker 2: But okay, all right, well Aaron, we're gonna let you go.

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Thanks for coming on the second date update. Okay, I

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don't know if you've ever listened to the second date update.

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Speaker 1: Most of the time it doesn't turn up that we

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get to the second day.

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Speaker 3: I wish trying to give it don't usually work out because.

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Speaker 2: We want to work.

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Speaker 1: We try, Roger, it's it's we tried to broke her

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that it obviously has it worked for you. I would

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go out with you again, Roger if it were me,

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but unfortunately it's not me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I should take you on the date.

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Speaker 2: Hey, when she's your girl, how are you going to

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treat Amanda. Okay, Queen Baby, I heard it.

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Speaker 1: All right, Roger, thanks for coming on the second day. Okay, Man,

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sorry this didn't work out for you, but hey, call

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us anytime.

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Speaker 2: We'll do it anytime for you, Okay, all right.

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Speaker 3: M