WEBVTT 1 00:00:03.480 --> 00:00:07.040 Welcome to the Parenting Roundabout podcast. I'm Terry Morrow. 2 00:00:06.799 --> 00:00:08.000 And I'm Catherine Jileco. 3 00:00:08.320 --> 00:00:11.839 Every Thursday, we're bringing you a library find, a pick 4 00:00:11.880 --> 00:00:15.000 from our archives, and a parenting or pop culture tidbit 5 00:00:15.199 --> 00:00:20.120 or two. Let's start with Catherine's library find of the week. 6 00:00:20.399 --> 00:00:25.559 So this week's library find is connected to the segment 7 00:00:25.600 --> 00:00:28.480 to follow, which is Dancing with the Stars. Because did 8 00:00:28.519 --> 00:00:33.200 you know that Julianne Huff, oh my gosh, has written 9 00:00:33.960 --> 00:00:38.320 a novel, has written in air quotes a novel because 10 00:00:38.359 --> 00:00:42.280 it's her and somebody else gets their name on the cover, 11 00:00:42.520 --> 00:00:45.799 so you know, uh huh, all it is is her name, 12 00:00:46.119 --> 00:00:50.320 and this is why normal people can't write books and 13 00:00:50.479 --> 00:00:54.880 sell books, because we have this happening, yes, Julianne Huff, 14 00:00:55.079 --> 00:00:58.039 you know, putting her name on a book called Everything 15 00:00:58.200 --> 00:01:03.960 We Never Knew, which is a very generic title, co 16 00:01:04.040 --> 00:01:08.239 written with someone named Ellen Goodlett who probably is an 17 00:01:08.280 --> 00:01:10.519 actual real author. 18 00:01:10.959 --> 00:01:13.319 So did she just come up with the idea and 19 00:01:13.319 --> 00:01:14.359 say go write this or what? 20 00:01:14.719 --> 00:01:17.799 I don't know, but I do know that that is 21 00:01:17.840 --> 00:01:21.840 what happened with Millie Bobby Brown, who has her name 22 00:01:21.879 --> 00:01:25.439 on a book as well, that she sort of had 23 00:01:25.480 --> 00:01:29.159 a vague idea and told it to an actual writer, 24 00:01:29.319 --> 00:01:32.840 and that writer wrote it down and it was published 25 00:01:32.840 --> 00:01:36.680 with Millie Bobby Brown listed as one of the authors. 26 00:01:36.959 --> 00:01:40.640 And again I say to you, this is not fair. 27 00:01:41.359 --> 00:01:42.200 Stop it. 28 00:01:42.680 --> 00:01:45.280 I have mixed emotions about it, because, yes, it's why 29 00:01:45.359 --> 00:01:47.680 real writers can't get published. But on the other hand, 30 00:01:48.239 --> 00:01:51.040 real writers are making a nice living as ghostwriters. And 31 00:01:51.319 --> 00:01:54.400 that's not terrible that I did in the early days 32 00:01:54.400 --> 00:01:57.799 of my writing career do some ghosting, not for anybody famous, 33 00:01:57.840 --> 00:01:59.599 and not for anything that I would actually want my 34 00:01:59.640 --> 00:02:03.200 name on it. But you know, it's it's a it's 35 00:02:03.239 --> 00:02:05.159 a gig. These people got a gig, and they've got 36 00:02:05.319 --> 00:02:06.719 their name on the front of a book, and they've 37 00:02:06.719 --> 00:02:09.919 got something to point to that's gonna be much more 38 00:02:10.280 --> 00:02:13.039 famous than something that had only their name on it. 39 00:02:13.280 --> 00:02:13.360 Right. 40 00:02:14.319 --> 00:02:17.960 You know, we make our compromises, right, and we cash 41 00:02:17.960 --> 00:02:20.280 our paychecks and we pay bills. 42 00:02:20.039 --> 00:02:24.159 And we get three out of five stars on Goodreads. 43 00:02:24.319 --> 00:02:29.439 So yeah, well, and you get talked about on a podcast. Yes, 44 00:02:30.080 --> 00:02:31.960 it's just like a writer's name again. 45 00:02:32.039 --> 00:02:34.280 What was that name, Ellen good Lit? 46 00:02:34.840 --> 00:02:36.680 Ellen Goodlett, We salute you, babe. 47 00:02:36.759 --> 00:02:39.159 Yeah, let's see what else she's she's. 48 00:02:39.039 --> 00:02:42.759 Written down payment on a living arrangement or a car, 49 00:02:43.039 --> 00:02:44.840 or got your kid into a good school. 50 00:02:45.360 --> 00:02:50.000 Right, she's written a couple of other looks like sort 51 00:02:50.000 --> 00:02:56.479 of fantasy type books. Those get more stars than her Julienne. 52 00:02:56.039 --> 00:02:59.800 Huffshow they're better. Do they get more dollar signs? Away? 53 00:03:00.400 --> 00:03:01.400 Yeah? Probably not. 54 00:03:05.639 --> 00:03:09.439 You know, it's just like, we don't live in a 55 00:03:09.439 --> 00:03:13.840 perfect world. Sometimes you make your you make your compromises, 56 00:03:13.879 --> 00:03:15.000 and you make your peace with them. 57 00:03:15.319 --> 00:03:21.879 Yeah. It's just you know, isn't she doing It's it's like, 58 00:03:22.000 --> 00:03:26.360 isn't she doing enough? You know, like why do these 59 00:03:26.439 --> 00:03:31.400 tough enough? Yeah? Why why do these celebrities want to 60 00:03:31.479 --> 00:03:32.319 do these things? 61 00:03:33.560 --> 00:03:33.719 Like? 62 00:03:33.759 --> 00:03:34.599 That's my question. 63 00:03:35.039 --> 00:03:37.680 I am cynical enough to think that probably a publisher 64 00:03:37.759 --> 00:03:39.879 comes to their agent and says, would she like to 65 00:03:39.879 --> 00:03:40.479 write a book? 66 00:03:40.560 --> 00:03:42.520 Yeah? That makes me think putting her name. 67 00:03:42.400 --> 00:03:45.360 On a book will make us dollar sign Right, it's 68 00:03:45.400 --> 00:03:48.280 all you know, if you don't like it, go to 69 00:03:48.400 --> 00:03:51.680 the back shelves of bookstore and pick out an unpromising 70 00:03:51.719 --> 00:03:53.800 looking book by somebody you've never heard of, and go 71 00:03:53.879 --> 00:03:56.919 pay for it and feel like you're doing something good. 72 00:03:56.919 --> 00:03:59.800 But we all, I mean, we're all attracted to shiny objects. 73 00:04:00.639 --> 00:04:05.599 I have no interest in reading Julianne Huff's dazzling and 74 00:04:05.719 --> 00:04:06.960 heartwarming novel. 75 00:04:08.400 --> 00:04:11.240 So Katherine's library find this Week is just about shaming. 76 00:04:13.960 --> 00:04:17.639 It's just like me breathing about it, and she's putting 77 00:04:17.639 --> 00:04:18.120 it back. 78 00:04:18.079 --> 00:04:23.000 A big sigh. So Everything We Never Knew. It's just 79 00:04:23.079 --> 00:04:26.040 one of those titles that you'd never remember it, like, 80 00:04:26.240 --> 00:04:30.079 you know, you'd be like it was called something we 81 00:04:30.240 --> 00:04:35.519 always knew, or it was called everything we used to think, 82 00:04:35.680 --> 00:04:38.000 or it's a very generic title. 83 00:04:39.800 --> 00:04:43.160 It is very much fiction of the day. You know 84 00:04:43.639 --> 00:04:47.079 that there's probably you could just throw like twenty five 85 00:04:47.120 --> 00:04:49.160 words in a bag and pull out five of them 86 00:04:49.160 --> 00:05:02.399 and put them on your book cover. Yes for four everything, never, perfect, couple, lie, truth, Yeah, yeah, 87 00:05:02.480 --> 00:05:04.920 those would be some of the important ones around. And 88 00:05:04.920 --> 00:05:07.279 look at the new fiction and go, there's a very 89 00:05:07.279 --> 00:05:13.720 small range here. If only we had a book by 90 00:05:13.720 --> 00:05:17.920 a famous dancer, Yeah, and somebody we've never heard of it, 91 00:05:19.600 --> 00:05:22.959 although it does refer to her here as rule author 92 00:05:23.040 --> 00:05:23.759 Ellen Goodlett. 93 00:05:23.959 --> 00:05:26.439 So that's her other. Yeah, that's her other. 94 00:05:26.720 --> 00:05:29.920 She's got some something that some people would know her name, 95 00:05:30.160 --> 00:05:33.360 I guess. But then it just is about the author 96 00:05:33.439 --> 00:05:35.439 julian huffposits right. 97 00:05:37.759 --> 00:05:43.759 Emmy Award winner Julianne Huff, please get it right? 98 00:05:43.920 --> 00:05:45.959 Did you read did you read the reviews that go 99 00:05:46.040 --> 00:05:50.279 with the three point ten store stars and find out 100 00:05:50.279 --> 00:05:52.120 if they were mostly saying the same thing you're saying? 101 00:05:53.079 --> 00:05:53.480 Go back? 102 00:05:56.079 --> 00:06:00.720 Oh man, the top review that's posted as a one star. 103 00:06:05.120 --> 00:06:08.319 So that person is on my side. 104 00:06:08.839 --> 00:06:10.519 Don't give up the dancing dabe. 105 00:06:10.720 --> 00:06:11.279 That's right. 106 00:06:12.040 --> 00:06:14.279 Yes, this individual calls it a weird mash up between 107 00:06:14.279 --> 00:06:16.000 a Hallmark movie and ghost whisper. 108 00:06:18.920 --> 00:06:23.639 So yeah, so shall we talk about Julianne's real job? 109 00:06:25.120 --> 00:06:28.720 Yes, Actually, we don't like the way she does that. 110 00:06:29.519 --> 00:06:33.560 She's fine, She's fine. You know, She's no Aaron Andrews, 111 00:06:33.560 --> 00:06:34.160 but she's fine. 112 00:06:34.279 --> 00:06:38.079 Yeah, I do miss Aaron do So. 113 00:06:38.399 --> 00:06:42.399 Was Disney Night on Dancing with the Stars, otherwise known 114 00:06:42.439 --> 00:06:45.519 as That's Disney? 115 00:06:45.519 --> 00:06:51.000 How is this? Disney Zombies? Mickey Mouse? Mickey Mouse was 116 00:06:51.040 --> 00:06:55.399 in the disco ball, the mirror ball hanging above it all. 117 00:06:55.839 --> 00:06:58.879 I guess it had mouse ears. 118 00:06:59.399 --> 00:07:02.839 This is see all the properties Disney is acquired night? 119 00:07:03.519 --> 00:07:07.279 Yeah, usually don't they send them to Disneyland? Like nobody 120 00:07:07.319 --> 00:07:08.199 went to Disney. 121 00:07:08.360 --> 00:07:11.399 It was a sort of on Disney E Disney night, 122 00:07:11.800 --> 00:07:13.040 I think. Yeah. 123 00:07:13.120 --> 00:07:16.160 I mean they had Sasha and Jen like paddling around 124 00:07:16.199 --> 00:07:20.000 in some kind of little lagoon, but that wasn't at Disney, 125 00:07:20.240 --> 00:07:24.040 so yeah, usually they take them there, and I. 126 00:07:23.959 --> 00:07:28.120 Feel like the dances that were from a non super 127 00:07:28.160 --> 00:07:32.720 familiar Disney property didn't go over as well. I don't know, 128 00:07:32.800 --> 00:07:35.240 I just didn't feel as excited about them. Although whatever 129 00:07:35.360 --> 00:07:38.879 rendition of I guess somebody there was singing kiss the 130 00:07:38.879 --> 00:07:39.519 Girl live. 131 00:07:40.399 --> 00:07:41.959 Yeah, that was weird, not good. 132 00:07:42.600 --> 00:07:44.879 Yeah, and it just the dance just kind of fell 133 00:07:44.920 --> 00:07:47.680 flat because it's just this guy kind of singing, you know. 134 00:07:48.160 --> 00:07:50.920 It was a very Holy Wishes. It was a very 135 00:07:50.959 --> 00:07:53.240 odd cover of that song. 136 00:07:53.399 --> 00:07:57.079 Yes, agreed, but not as unfortunate as oh my gosh, 137 00:07:57.120 --> 00:08:01.439 they're show mancing them, aren't they. Yeah, they sort of 138 00:08:01.480 --> 00:08:03.879 were hinting at it for a few weeks, but Gleb 139 00:08:04.040 --> 00:08:06.759 was taking the taking the heat on the showmance. And 140 00:08:06.800 --> 00:08:08.680 now they're doing it with the two of them, and 141 00:08:08.720 --> 00:08:11.040 she seems perfectly game with it, and he seems a 142 00:08:11.040 --> 00:08:17.319 little likely. He's like, no, this is her, this is 143 00:08:17.319 --> 00:08:20.680 her bread and butter, you know. Yeah, but she was. 144 00:08:20.759 --> 00:08:23.480 She was on the season of the same season as 145 00:08:23.560 --> 00:08:26.160 joe I guess. She was on Joey's season of The Bachelor. 146 00:08:26.560 --> 00:08:29.759 I guess, and then immediately she was on The Bachelorette. 147 00:08:29.839 --> 00:08:33.960 Right awkward, but I guess again, it's a franchise. They're 148 00:08:34.200 --> 00:08:39.120 just right, you know, they're all actors, so sure. So 149 00:08:39.159 --> 00:08:41.519 she's like, oh, sure, you know, I'll make the little 150 00:08:41.639 --> 00:08:46.399 little bad jokes and so just like, maybe I'm getting 151 00:08:46.399 --> 00:08:49.720 too old for this show. I don't know. Speaking of Sasha, 152 00:08:50.600 --> 00:08:54.480 have we seen Emma since she was eliminated, because all 153 00:08:54.480 --> 00:08:56.879 the eliminated pros have been in group dances. 154 00:08:56.559 --> 00:08:59.840 And I don't think I've seen her. Yeah, they've been 155 00:09:00.120 --> 00:09:03.919 have the blonde troop girl, And that's a good question. 156 00:09:04.399 --> 00:09:07.320 I feel like I definitely didn't see her at all tonight, 157 00:09:07.600 --> 00:09:11.559 but in the past, like maybe maybe just last week 158 00:09:13.039 --> 00:09:17.200 when they talk about the tour, she's always like front center, yes, 159 00:09:17.360 --> 00:09:21.279 but you're right, you know, either has something else to 160 00:09:21.320 --> 00:09:22.480 do or is just. 161 00:09:24.000 --> 00:09:26.519 I don't know. It's very weird because Ezra and Pasha 162 00:09:26.600 --> 00:09:30.519 have been very front and center and doing stuff on 163 00:09:30.559 --> 00:09:34.559 social media, as has brit So you see them in 164 00:09:34.600 --> 00:09:36.559 all the dances and stuff, and it's kind of fun. 165 00:09:36.639 --> 00:09:41.639 But I wonderful. We didn't really see Gleb either, not 166 00:09:41.720 --> 00:09:43.960 that I care, because I saw Gleb. 167 00:09:44.679 --> 00:09:46.720 I remember seeing him in the opening number. 168 00:09:47.799 --> 00:09:49.679 Yeah, and I think he was in something else later 169 00:09:49.759 --> 00:09:53.519 on too when I noticed him, but there was a 170 00:09:53.519 --> 00:09:57.120 blonde but I don't think it was just hoping that 171 00:09:57.480 --> 00:10:00.279 if they keep it in long enough shot, we'll just assume. 172 00:10:01.720 --> 00:10:01.879 Real. 173 00:10:02.000 --> 00:10:07.480 Well yeah, well yeah, this was I mean getting to 174 00:10:07.519 --> 00:10:08.480 the actual show. 175 00:10:08.360 --> 00:10:11.399 Getting to the actual I did enjoy the opening number, 176 00:10:11.399 --> 00:10:15.639 but yes, the actual show. I mean Steven and Riley 177 00:10:15.720 --> 00:10:21.080 kick it off. They do a really fun Charleston. They 178 00:10:21.120 --> 00:10:23.080 make a big deal about how he got us fray 179 00:10:25.240 --> 00:10:28.919 and then they give him eights, which okay, you know, 180 00:10:29.120 --> 00:10:33.440 I thought it was really cute and good and okay, 181 00:10:33.480 --> 00:10:40.320 but fine, But then they give Phedra and val also ates. 182 00:10:40.720 --> 00:10:44.120 They give Dwight and Danielle eights, which I still enjoy 183 00:10:44.320 --> 00:10:49.120 watching them, but like, no, that wasn't the same. 184 00:10:49.519 --> 00:10:52.240 Scoring this season seems to me that it's been very 185 00:10:52.320 --> 00:10:57.159 high for everybody, and I don't really get it. But yeah, 186 00:10:57.240 --> 00:11:02.559 I mean Fedra well, I mean if she spoiler she 187 00:11:02.639 --> 00:11:04.000 left the show this this week. 188 00:11:04.120 --> 00:11:05.639 Yes, she was elimonade, but. 189 00:11:07.279 --> 00:11:11.240 She has a dance really. Now, you could say maybe 190 00:11:11.279 --> 00:11:13.720 Steven's not dancing as much as he should. He's doing 191 00:11:13.720 --> 00:11:16.159 more tricks and stuff and he's not really getting the 192 00:11:16.240 --> 00:11:19.360 dancing part of it moving. 193 00:11:20.039 --> 00:11:23.000 And that's what Danny's doing. Danny is doing just lyft 194 00:11:23.080 --> 00:11:26.679 after lyft after list exactly. Yes, like come on, so 195 00:11:27.799 --> 00:11:28.519 she's just. 196 00:11:28.679 --> 00:11:32.600 Really standing there while Val dances around her. And you know, 197 00:11:32.759 --> 00:11:38.720 I'm glad the final three was her and Stephen and 198 00:11:38.799 --> 00:11:44.000 Riley and Jen and Sasha, and boy, if it hadn't 199 00:11:44.000 --> 00:11:45.639 gone the way it did, I mean I would have 200 00:11:45.679 --> 00:11:49.240 been I think Jenn is perfectly fine, much better than Edra, 201 00:11:49.440 --> 00:11:51.240 so that would have been bad. But if Stephen had 202 00:11:51.279 --> 00:11:54.600 gone home instead of her, I would have been tipped 203 00:11:54.639 --> 00:12:01.440 and Riley was Riley needs to work on her game face, sweetie, 204 00:12:01.879 --> 00:12:03.879 smile all the time. 205 00:12:04.480 --> 00:12:07.720 This is just the way it is. This is It's okay. 206 00:12:08.879 --> 00:12:12.879 Sasha was looked a little pained too, so I don't know, 207 00:12:13.279 --> 00:12:13.919 I don't know. 208 00:12:13.799 --> 00:12:16.159 Maybe because he's like, oh great, another week of show. 209 00:12:20.320 --> 00:12:21.919 He was ready to be done with that. 210 00:12:23.600 --> 00:12:27.720 Yeah, it's why, why is that necessary at all? I mean, 211 00:12:27.720 --> 00:12:32.240 if it happens organically, okay, But when it's so obvious right, 212 00:12:34.080 --> 00:12:35.080 wig wik. 213 00:12:35.559 --> 00:12:45.320 Yeah. Well, then they had team dances, and I agreed 214 00:12:45.480 --> 00:12:50.320 that the the second team, which was Alona, Joey, Chandler 215 00:12:50.399 --> 00:12:54.039 and Jen, their dance was better and it was fun. 216 00:12:54.480 --> 00:12:56.799 I mean, I thought the Lion King was fine too, but. 217 00:12:57.320 --> 00:12:59.759 I thought they were both okay, And it's it's just 218 00:12:59.840 --> 00:13:02.519 this is the way it works. Every time, whatever team 219 00:13:02.559 --> 00:13:05.919 goes first gets lower scores because they can't score them 220 00:13:05.960 --> 00:13:07.399 high because they don't know what the other team is 221 00:13:07.399 --> 00:13:09.720 going to look like, right, and then the other team 222 00:13:09.759 --> 00:13:13.440 always wins it. So okay, fine. 223 00:13:13.600 --> 00:13:18.679 I just thought they were more coordinated, they were more 224 00:13:19.320 --> 00:13:22.720 seemed like they were dancing as a group better. 225 00:13:23.320 --> 00:13:24.320 I guess. Yeah. 226 00:13:24.679 --> 00:13:24.840 Yeah. 227 00:13:24.879 --> 00:13:27.799 I enjoyed how Alona was filling in as the as 228 00:13:27.840 --> 00:13:32.799 the fourth guy right for lifts and such. 229 00:13:35.519 --> 00:13:36.480 That was fun, but. 230 00:13:38.159 --> 00:13:42.639 Tense times in the Jenna and valehouse, right her team 231 00:13:42.759 --> 00:13:45.320 Media's team, and then he also. 232 00:13:45.200 --> 00:13:46.480 Went and then he got eliminated. 233 00:13:48.039 --> 00:13:54.840 Yes, happy for you, honey, Oh well you. 234 00:13:54.799 --> 00:13:57.080 Can stay home with the baby. Why I go to work? 235 00:14:00.080 --> 00:14:00.840 That seems fair. 236 00:14:03.159 --> 00:14:06.240 Boy. They're pushing the heck out of Chandler, aren't they. Yeah, 237 00:14:06.279 --> 00:14:07.480 you will love her. 238 00:14:08.679 --> 00:14:13.519 Yeah, and guess what she's got immunity now and bonus. 239 00:14:12.919 --> 00:14:19.639 Points find her completely indistinguishable. But uh yeah, they brought 240 00:14:19.720 --> 00:14:22.279 Milo in and it's like, I remember how good Milo was. 241 00:14:22.559 --> 00:14:23.279 That was fun. 242 00:14:23.399 --> 00:14:26.320 Remember that had something that she ain't got. I don't 243 00:14:26.360 --> 00:14:30.120 know if it's if it's partner because because he was 244 00:14:30.159 --> 00:14:33.679 with Whitney and yeah, she gave him some really good choreography. 245 00:14:34.000 --> 00:14:43.000 But hmmm, she just you know, Okay, it's fine. 246 00:14:43.360 --> 00:14:43.559 Right. 247 00:14:44.120 --> 00:14:49.080 But although she's she was said said something, how old 248 00:14:49.240 --> 00:14:50.000 do you think she is? 249 00:14:50.559 --> 00:14:53.240 Oh? I think she's pretty young. I think she's like. 250 00:14:53.279 --> 00:14:56.559 She said something like I did dig deep. I just 251 00:14:56.600 --> 00:15:02.080 didn't externalize it. She's like that lingo. 252 00:15:02.279 --> 00:15:06.559 I missed that, Yeah I did. I mean when they 253 00:15:06.600 --> 00:15:08.919 were saying that to her last week, I was just like, 254 00:15:09.080 --> 00:15:12.919 we are we are reaching for stuff to say, you know, 255 00:15:13.159 --> 00:15:14.799 we are what what now? 256 00:15:17.919 --> 00:15:21.440 I think perfectly fine. It's sums her up pretty well. 257 00:15:22.320 --> 00:15:28.200 And I mean, I guess she could win. I thought 258 00:15:28.240 --> 00:15:34.000 the youngster from last season who won. So she's too 259 00:15:34.039 --> 00:15:37.399 young and too lacking a fan base. But she just 260 00:15:38.039 --> 00:15:39.960 bulldozed right till the winds. 261 00:15:40.240 --> 00:15:44.480 And that was Val. So yep, that's maybe that's why 262 00:15:44.600 --> 00:15:46.759 Val can be like, Okay, I'll set the rest of 263 00:15:46.799 --> 00:15:49.200 this out because I won last time. 264 00:15:50.120 --> 00:15:53.200 Yeah, so I don't know if we'd have no if 265 00:15:53.360 --> 00:15:55.759 Brandon has the chops, but we'll see. There was a 266 00:15:55.879 --> 00:15:58.919 very cute was it on Instagram? I think I'm not 267 00:15:58.960 --> 00:16:01.200 on TikTok, so it must have been on Instagram of 268 00:16:02.360 --> 00:16:10.639 Chandler and Brandon's wife doing a little thing. And actually 269 00:16:10.879 --> 00:16:13.159 she also did something with Steven's girlfriend. 270 00:16:13.279 --> 00:16:15.559 So she's just Chandler. 271 00:16:15.440 --> 00:16:19.039 Just hanging around Brandon's wife. 272 00:16:19.279 --> 00:16:20.799 Oh okay, she's just. 273 00:16:20.720 --> 00:16:24.080 Hanging around the ballroom looking for Instagram opportunities. 274 00:16:25.320 --> 00:16:30.360 I saw the them doing that lift that Whitney did 275 00:16:31.000 --> 00:16:35.639 where she was laying on the floor and she had 276 00:16:35.679 --> 00:16:38.879 her legs stuck out and you know, Danny just lifted 277 00:16:38.879 --> 00:16:41.639 her up by the leg. I saw a bunch of 278 00:16:42.399 --> 00:16:47.639 people trying that. I did too, including Ilona and Alan, 279 00:16:47.720 --> 00:16:56.399 and they did not do it, mostly do it, but yeah, yeah, 280 00:16:56.519 --> 00:16:58.320 Brandon and his wife did pull it off. 281 00:16:59.159 --> 00:17:04.759 So good for them. Mm hmm. But that looks like 282 00:17:04.920 --> 00:17:07.200 if you don't, if you are not a trained professional, 283 00:17:07.279 --> 00:17:10.839 that could be painful. My back hurts just watching it. 284 00:17:13.480 --> 00:17:15.960 Young and lie the people only m. 285 00:17:17.640 --> 00:17:23.559 Yes, So that's look good. It's pretty impressive. Yeah. I mean, 286 00:17:23.839 --> 00:17:26.400 you know, Danny and Whitney, it's it's all about those 287 00:17:27.079 --> 00:17:31.880 those lifts and yep, and yeah, I don't necessarily associate 288 00:17:32.039 --> 00:17:41.359 Deadpool with Disney Night. But okay, yeah, so good for you. 289 00:17:42.240 --> 00:17:50.200 Yeah, football guy, Okay. 290 00:17:48.839 --> 00:17:49.319 Well. 291 00:17:50.680 --> 00:17:52.400 You know, this is what we have. This is what 292 00:17:52.480 --> 00:17:58.000 always comes down to. Yes, football guy, the bachelor. The oh, 293 00:17:58.160 --> 00:18:01.079 speaking of bachelor, Yes, do we know if that guy 294 00:18:01.119 --> 00:18:04.799 has dance experience? I don't know, but he's good dance experience. 295 00:18:05.160 --> 00:18:07.240 It's pretty good. I don't think he's learning how to 296 00:18:07.319 --> 00:18:12.680 dance right now, because like with the bachelorettes, usually they've 297 00:18:12.720 --> 00:18:15.640 been like cheerleaders or some other dances. They have like 298 00:18:15.759 --> 00:18:21.319 extensive dance experience or experience or stunt experience. He's got 299 00:18:21.319 --> 00:18:24.359 to have some mm hmm. But I don't think they've 300 00:18:24.400 --> 00:18:25.000 said anything. 301 00:18:25.359 --> 00:18:27.039 Yeah. I mean at one point they were like, oh, 302 00:18:27.079 --> 00:18:29.839 he was a cheerleader, and he was like, well it 303 00:18:29.960 --> 00:18:35.599 was you know, powder puff cheerleading, so that's not really 304 00:18:35.640 --> 00:18:39.160 anything up. Yeah, exactly, you. 305 00:18:39.160 --> 00:18:45.119 Were on the dance. You call him, We won't think 306 00:18:45.240 --> 00:18:48.200 less of you. You're already a bachelor. We were about 307 00:18:48.200 --> 00:18:49.200 as low as we could go. 308 00:18:49.319 --> 00:18:53.359 Yeah. Yeah, we'll have to maybe do a little research 309 00:18:54.000 --> 00:18:55.799 into that. Just the way he moves. 310 00:18:55.799 --> 00:18:58.319 He moves very well in addition to you know, and 311 00:18:58.359 --> 00:19:03.880 certainly learns choreography very well. So I suspect it would 312 00:19:03.880 --> 00:19:06.880 be nothing new for that franchise. But Jen, on the 313 00:19:06.880 --> 00:19:11.400 other hand, Yeah, sorry, babe, Yeah, I wasn't her saying like, 314 00:19:11.640 --> 00:19:13.519 I think you're not getting a music either. 315 00:19:13.880 --> 00:19:16.960 Yeah, I think I think it was music. 316 00:19:17.079 --> 00:19:22.200 But yeah, oh well, oh well, so another exciting week, 317 00:19:22.519 --> 00:19:22.960 I'm sorry. 318 00:19:23.079 --> 00:19:24.160 Next week is Halloween. 319 00:19:25.000 --> 00:19:32.359 Yep, yep, they certainly make a meal of that. So 320 00:19:32.519 --> 00:19:34.400 what do we have from the archive this week? 321 00:19:34.680 --> 00:19:38.960 We are going back to twenty twenty one. We at 322 00:19:38.960 --> 00:19:42.039 that time were obsessing about what we would put on 323 00:19:42.079 --> 00:19:48.759 a wish list at this stage in our parenting life, 324 00:19:49.240 --> 00:19:49.519 you know. 325 00:19:49.759 --> 00:19:54.880 Along the lines of you know, wish lists for newlyweds 326 00:19:54.920 --> 00:19:57.480 and wish lists for people having their first baby. These 327 00:19:57.519 --> 00:20:01.160 were like what we would want to at our particular stage, 328 00:20:01.440 --> 00:20:05.279 right right, just the Amazon wish lists people put up 329 00:20:05.279 --> 00:20:06.519 for no particular. 330 00:20:08.400 --> 00:20:10.759 Yeah. Some of the things that we had mentioned back 331 00:20:10.799 --> 00:20:17.160 then were noise canceling headphones so that when we retreat 332 00:20:17.559 --> 00:20:22.559 to our to our room to work or sulk or 333 00:20:22.559 --> 00:20:25.519 whatever it is, we do not want to also be 334 00:20:25.880 --> 00:20:29.440 listening to whatever is going on around us. I would 335 00:20:29.519 --> 00:20:32.759 still like these even though my children don't live in 336 00:20:32.799 --> 00:20:35.720 my house anymore, because I still have a human living 337 00:20:35.759 --> 00:20:42.079 in the house who's whenever they are on the phone, 338 00:20:43.000 --> 00:20:47.880 we all get to get to hear that conversation. And 339 00:20:48.039 --> 00:20:53.680 if it's with you know, customers, like please spare me. 340 00:20:53.920 --> 00:20:56.720 That's that is when I put on the headphones and 341 00:20:57.039 --> 00:21:06.480 crank up post alone because nice stuff. Yep, yes for that. 342 00:21:06.839 --> 00:21:10.720 We wanted snacks and treats that are only for us. Yes, 343 00:21:11.359 --> 00:21:14.000 that is a little more achievable for me now because 344 00:21:14.720 --> 00:21:17.079 like I said, the children are not in the house. 345 00:21:18.480 --> 00:21:21.400 In my case, I'm mostly stealing other people's treats. I'm 346 00:21:21.400 --> 00:21:24.880 fine with that. Oh look, who, somebody has crackers here 347 00:21:24.880 --> 00:21:25.559 in the closet. 348 00:21:25.640 --> 00:21:27.480 Isn't that nice? Give me a handful? 349 00:21:27.839 --> 00:21:29.799 Sometimes they do it when my kids are walking around, 350 00:21:30.000 --> 00:21:32.240 Like my son will be walking around with the box 351 00:21:32.279 --> 00:21:37.839 of crackers shoving in his mouth right like some for me? Please? Yep, mom, 352 00:21:38.039 --> 00:21:41.119 tacks still applies, see way more than I wanted. And 353 00:21:41.160 --> 00:21:48.039 that's fine, generous boy, loving generous boy. I'll just my 354 00:21:48.440 --> 00:21:50.559 husband will be sitting on the couch eating a pop tart, and. 355 00:21:50.519 --> 00:21:53.640 I'll be like, could I have a bit tart? 356 00:21:55.759 --> 00:21:59.839 So you know, I don't buy the bad stuff. I 357 00:22:00.079 --> 00:22:03.680 don't bring it into the home, but once it's here, 358 00:22:04.960 --> 00:22:06.440 I can eat some of you. 359 00:22:06.400 --> 00:22:07.519 You are entitled to. 360 00:22:08.039 --> 00:22:13.480 I am entitled. I'm defenseless against this. This is the 361 00:22:13.480 --> 00:22:16.759 best way to like, not eat things that you shouldn't 362 00:22:16.759 --> 00:22:19.079 eat is to not bring them into the house. Somebody 363 00:22:19.119 --> 00:22:21.720 else brings them in the house. You're you know, what, 364 00:22:21.720 --> 00:22:23.200 what could I do? I didn't do it. 365 00:22:23.759 --> 00:22:28.480 I don't Probably the calories are are negligible if you 366 00:22:28.519 --> 00:22:28.759 do that. 367 00:22:29.279 --> 00:22:32.839 They certainly ought to be. And you know, I am 368 00:22:32.960 --> 00:22:37.039 just as with Halloween candy. You know, I'm sacrificing myself 369 00:22:37.039 --> 00:22:40.400 for my family. Let me throw myself on this stuff 370 00:22:40.640 --> 00:22:43.519 and consume it so that my children will be spared 371 00:22:45.640 --> 00:22:50.119 the things we do. But uh yeah, I wouldn't mind 372 00:22:50.119 --> 00:22:53.119 having you know, my own snack cash here in my 373 00:22:53.160 --> 00:23:01.079 office along with my increasingly elaborate coffee set. I got tired. 374 00:23:01.119 --> 00:23:06.279 I have this These reusable filters metal and you don't 375 00:23:06.279 --> 00:23:08.920 have to put a you know, pull to filter in them. 376 00:23:08.960 --> 00:23:09.880 You just wash them out. 377 00:23:10.119 --> 00:23:10.960 Have some difficulty. 378 00:23:11.119 --> 00:23:12.920 I got tired of washing it out three times a 379 00:23:13.000 --> 00:23:14.519 day to make myself a cup of coffee. So I 380 00:23:14.559 --> 00:23:15.720 just bought three filters. 381 00:23:15.759 --> 00:23:16.160 There you go. 382 00:23:16.599 --> 00:23:20.119 I have three, most of them dirty, just sitting here. 383 00:23:20.319 --> 00:23:23.000 But my office is more and more looking like a 384 00:23:23.200 --> 00:23:24.400 back room of a Starbucks. 385 00:23:25.480 --> 00:23:27.359 I would like to work in the back room of 386 00:23:27.359 --> 00:23:31.640 a Starbucks. That's okay. I don't drink coffee, but I 387 00:23:31.720 --> 00:23:34.319 drink other things that Starbucks. 388 00:23:33.960 --> 00:23:41.599 Coffee half just right now, Yes, some Moores flavored coffee. Oh, 389 00:23:41.640 --> 00:23:43.480 and it does not taste anything like some wares. But 390 00:23:43.480 --> 00:23:46.599 it tastes vaguely coconuty, which is fine, hmmm, as long 391 00:23:46.640 --> 00:23:47.440 as it tastes good. 392 00:23:47.519 --> 00:23:49.599 I don't understand what that would have to do with. 393 00:23:49.759 --> 00:23:53.039 I don't know, because there's no coconut and some wars. No, 394 00:23:53.480 --> 00:23:55.880 maybe that's a marshmallow flavor and I'm just mistaking it. 395 00:23:55.960 --> 00:23:59.599 I don't know. But as I've discussed before, I get 396 00:23:59.599 --> 00:24:02.279 this flatavored Coffee of the Month club from Blackout Coffee, 397 00:24:02.319 --> 00:24:07.799 and they're always really ambitious flavors, you know, and sometimes 398 00:24:07.799 --> 00:24:09.359 it hits, sometimes it doesn't. 399 00:24:09.680 --> 00:24:09.920 Right. 400 00:24:10.240 --> 00:24:14.160 The weirdness was chicken and waffles, what, which was actually 401 00:24:14.839 --> 00:24:15.559