WEBVTT 1 00:00:37.880 --> 00:01:48.359 A cartoon bars and wrestling. 2 00:01:48.400 --> 00:01:49.200 I'll go crazy. 3 00:01:49.840 --> 00:01:52.239 Yeah. 4 00:01:52.239 --> 00:01:52.799 Are you done? 5 00:01:53.439 --> 00:01:53.599 Yeah? 6 00:01:53.840 --> 00:01:54.599 Go back like that? 7 00:01:55.079 --> 00:01:57.280 Yeah, very little. 8 00:01:59.079 --> 00:02:02.840 Along sid Well, I'm gonna thank you for tuning into 9 00:02:02.920 --> 00:02:06.239 this week's episode of Holcially Awkward. If this is your 10 00:02:06.280 --> 00:02:08.919 first time joining us, I would like to properly introduce myself. 11 00:02:09.039 --> 00:02:12.199 I am your host and favorite otivational speaker. MEMI me 12 00:02:12.319 --> 00:02:16.960 me some one hundred the former Walker. 13 00:02:18.400 --> 00:02:20.520 Gotta have it, y'all. Wasn't nasty enough? 14 00:02:21.840 --> 00:02:24.680 You know, I really don't even know if I'm performer yet. 15 00:02:24.719 --> 00:02:34.000 We'll see. I gotta look at it like Johnson. No, 16 00:02:35.719 --> 00:02:38.560 I would like to introduce my co host for the 17 00:02:38.800 --> 00:02:40.680 evening we have. 18 00:02:44.280 --> 00:02:45.520 I got introduce myself. 19 00:02:45.639 --> 00:02:49.319 Yeah, I guys, you're. 20 00:02:49.120 --> 00:02:54.319 Gonna like how I do it? No, because you like 21 00:02:54.439 --> 00:02:56.800 are we? Are we back in Heartbreak one season? Like 22 00:02:56.879 --> 00:02:58.439 what we're doing, what we're doing. 23 00:02:59.479 --> 00:03:04.919 I'm just saying you couldn't, like turn it inside out. 24 00:03:06.719 --> 00:03:07.080 Stupid. 25 00:03:08.360 --> 00:03:12.199 I mean it's more red than that, ain't it. I 26 00:03:12.240 --> 00:03:12.479 don't know. 27 00:03:12.840 --> 00:03:15.000 Sweet Sweetest Day is coming up. I don't know you 28 00:03:15.080 --> 00:03:19.319 might be back on your Heartbreak ship. 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He get us together, 36 00:03:49.280 --> 00:03:50.599 and of course we are. 37 00:03:50.680 --> 00:03:53.360 Joined by the lovely. 38 00:03:55.719 --> 00:03:58.319 Melaniazy retailer. 39 00:03:59.280 --> 00:04:04.159 So you. 40 00:04:06.000 --> 00:04:06.400 Are ready. 41 00:04:06.479 --> 00:04:13.280 You weren't ready for the radio boy, We're here now, baby, 42 00:04:15.360 --> 00:04:18.000 I have this weird thing. You sit down this chair. 43 00:04:18.079 --> 00:04:20.639 You approved smile? 44 00:04:21.920 --> 00:04:22.240 What the. 45 00:04:23.959 --> 00:04:24.560 When I smiled? 46 00:04:24.560 --> 00:04:26.279 It's like it hurts here, like at the top of 47 00:04:26.360 --> 00:04:28.959 my ears and like you want to touch it round? 48 00:04:30.160 --> 00:04:33.920 Oh you know I'm black, so I gotta go for 49 00:04:34.040 --> 00:04:34.600 red to pink. 50 00:04:34.800 --> 00:04:35.240 Damn me me. 51 00:04:35.360 --> 00:04:37.040 You actually had a stock of the rose, That's why 52 00:04:37.680 --> 00:04:43.519 the pink. Definitely. Thank you guys for tuning in this week. 53 00:04:44.439 --> 00:04:49.720 You got a stock of the three Way too. Maybe 54 00:04:51.439 --> 00:04:52.360 he look. 55 00:04:54.079 --> 00:04:54.519 My dog. 56 00:05:00.079 --> 00:05:03.160 Hey, hey, hey, shout out to brit London and Sierra 57 00:05:03.279 --> 00:05:04.000 in the comments. 58 00:05:04.839 --> 00:05:11.240 Before we get started on Before before we get started, 59 00:05:11.399 --> 00:05:13.199 you know, we want to take a brief moment of 60 00:05:13.279 --> 00:05:17.279 silence to a member of the Sherman Phoenix family who 61 00:05:17.519 --> 00:05:20.160 passed away tragically while we were off the air. 62 00:05:21.000 --> 00:05:26.519 So rest in peace to Dre. What other than you 63 00:05:26.639 --> 00:05:30.399 know that? What has everybody's weekend been? 64 00:05:30.480 --> 00:05:34.199 Like me and me, Kayla and our other brit not 65 00:05:34.279 --> 00:05:36.920 Brit in the comments. We actually had a friend date 66 00:05:37.040 --> 00:05:41.199 for the much needed soup dumplings like I ain't help mine. 67 00:05:41.120 --> 00:05:41.920 I never felt that. 68 00:05:43.680 --> 00:05:46.199 I ate Look, I finished before the night was over. 69 00:05:47.720 --> 00:05:58.120 I ate mine before we left the restaurant. Okay, I 70 00:05:58.240 --> 00:06:00.279 know that's right, London said she just used free. 71 00:06:00.319 --> 00:06:01.839 Well that's a lot of information. 72 00:06:02.800 --> 00:06:06.959 Watt start selling morning after pills. 73 00:06:07.959 --> 00:06:08.560 That's what's up. 74 00:06:09.600 --> 00:06:12.120 I will and I'll be delivering them. 75 00:06:14.160 --> 00:06:15.240 Thank thank you in advance. 76 00:06:19.519 --> 00:06:20.959 No, look, that's what's gonna say. 77 00:06:21.800 --> 00:06:26.160 No rush, brick as as long as the delay is 78 00:06:26.240 --> 00:06:30.279 because of you and not me, take a time, take 79 00:06:30.319 --> 00:06:30.600 it time. 80 00:06:33.600 --> 00:06:36.439 I just want to say, bringing, bring, bringing the sex. 81 00:06:38.319 --> 00:06:43.399 Well you know how I wrapped it up, bringing in. 82 00:06:47.000 --> 00:06:49.720 That's the only way you can deliver a to friends given. 83 00:06:52.920 --> 00:06:55.759 Absolutely this three and one play pad. 84 00:06:56.519 --> 00:06:59.360 Like when when I show up to any kind of 85 00:06:59.399 --> 00:07:01.040 like pot look thinger like where I have to bring 86 00:07:01.120 --> 00:07:04.040 a dish. Yes, I'm going to bring ship in my 87 00:07:04.160 --> 00:07:06.600 grub hub bag. I want my ship fresh. I don't 88 00:07:06.639 --> 00:07:09.399 want people tasting my ship like who made this? Because 89 00:07:09.439 --> 00:07:11.959 you know it don't got room. Temping is nasty. I 90 00:07:12.079 --> 00:07:14.199 need y'all have my ship fresh and bubbly when. 91 00:07:14.120 --> 00:07:14.879 The cheese is hot. 92 00:07:16.959 --> 00:07:19.680 Man, the three and one playpad is wild and the 93 00:07:19.720 --> 00:07:21.879 fact that it's almost gone is even wilder. 94 00:07:24.000 --> 00:07:24.240 Yeah. 95 00:07:24.279 --> 00:07:28.759 I got a couple of things that are coming, like. 96 00:07:30.439 --> 00:07:34.839 The creature cocks. Like the creature cocks, those will be 97 00:07:35.160 --> 00:07:38.879 special order only. I will not carry those on the hand, 98 00:07:40.600 --> 00:07:42.120 just due to the fact that I know that those 99 00:07:42.199 --> 00:07:44.040 are an acquired tastes and I don't want to have 100 00:07:44.839 --> 00:07:46.600 a bunch of those in inventory. 101 00:07:50.040 --> 00:07:51.720 You gifted two folks the toys. 102 00:07:52.600 --> 00:07:53.920 Maybe I have to win the game to win? 103 00:07:54.560 --> 00:07:59.360 Yeah, yeah, what's a creature cock? Pause? 104 00:08:01.199 --> 00:08:07.800 Creature cock is a deal though, No, p pull it up. 105 00:08:08.240 --> 00:08:10.160 It might be in it might be in a coming soon. 106 00:08:10.240 --> 00:08:12.160 See it isn't if it's thinner coming soon. I don't 107 00:08:12.199 --> 00:08:12.959 know if I added it yet. 108 00:08:13.399 --> 00:08:20.560 No, it's only the contraceptors in the coming son. No, 109 00:08:20.839 --> 00:08:24.040 but that that that fleshlight, that tongue hanging out the 110 00:08:24.120 --> 00:08:25.680 side of the mouth, that was wild. 111 00:08:27.439 --> 00:08:29.279 That was a wild That was a wild toy. 112 00:08:29.959 --> 00:08:30.399 No, but. 113 00:08:32.879 --> 00:08:42.080 Creature cocks are dial those that are shaped like No, 114 00:08:44.240 --> 00:08:47.360 you can have them like their shaped like tentacles. Like 115 00:08:47.480 --> 00:08:50.639 it might be something like it looked like an octopus. No, 116 00:08:51.159 --> 00:08:53.200 it might be like an alien type of thing, like 117 00:08:53.279 --> 00:08:58.200 there are different types of Absolutely not because I'm not 118 00:08:58.360 --> 00:09:04.120 touching them. But I don't give who by no No, No, 119 00:09:05.879 --> 00:09:10.240 well yeah, I mean like like Aliens, not the franchise Aliens. 120 00:09:10.720 --> 00:09:13.679 I mean like it's just like I said, it's it's 121 00:09:13.720 --> 00:09:16.159 shaped like different tentacles. And I know what you're saying, 122 00:09:16.279 --> 00:09:17.720 but i'm Aliens. 123 00:09:17.759 --> 00:09:19.000 Do you got some ship like that? 124 00:09:19.559 --> 00:09:19.600 No? 125 00:09:20.559 --> 00:09:23.279 No, I don't got nothing that I can strap on 126 00:09:23.519 --> 00:09:24.480 and hit all sense. 127 00:09:25.200 --> 00:09:30.120 Look, I mean you sell the tail antal plug yo, imagine. 128 00:09:30.240 --> 00:09:33.600 Yeah, I've been selling those and the ones said that. 129 00:09:33.799 --> 00:09:36.600 I had to make the last couple of for twenty 130 00:09:36.840 --> 00:09:38.879 doobie butt plug that is wild. 131 00:09:39.440 --> 00:09:41.039 I had a whole four twenty collection. 132 00:09:41.240 --> 00:09:42.679 I know some people that may want that. 133 00:09:46.320 --> 00:09:50.879 Four twenty rabbit vibrators for twenty butt plugs. The four 134 00:09:50.960 --> 00:09:53.759 twenty butt plugs actually comes in the three a set 135 00:09:53.799 --> 00:09:55.679 of three, A few of them. 136 00:09:56.879 --> 00:09:58.960 Yeah, the three heart aluminum. 137 00:10:00.399 --> 00:10:03.159 If they would invent a toy, they probably got this 138 00:10:03.879 --> 00:10:04.440 to where. 139 00:10:04.600 --> 00:10:08.039 You can give yourself like the hand job and hit 140 00:10:08.120 --> 00:10:09.799 your buttole at the same time. 141 00:10:10.200 --> 00:10:12.279 It's out there one yeah, that's. 142 00:10:13.919 --> 00:10:14.639 Yeah, see. 143 00:10:16.600 --> 00:10:17.559 That's wild. 144 00:10:18.279 --> 00:10:19.559 Need me sell the lace hoodie? 145 00:10:22.519 --> 00:10:23.120 And there's like. 146 00:10:24.639 --> 00:10:27.759 There are so many different kinds, you know what I'm saying. 147 00:10:27.759 --> 00:10:31.279 It's like reptile penies. 148 00:10:31.039 --> 00:10:39.320 And like, I'm mad that you sell the like though, imagine. 149 00:10:41.200 --> 00:10:42.840 This is the one I'm talking about, like the like 150 00:10:43.159 --> 00:10:44.879 kind of technical kind of thing. 151 00:10:45.320 --> 00:10:48.000 How would you feel still drop their ethicals And that's 152 00:10:48.039 --> 00:10:48.840 what she pulled out. 153 00:10:52.120 --> 00:10:52.279 You know. 154 00:10:52.480 --> 00:10:56.720 I actually just added a steale on Facebook. I was like, damn, 155 00:10:57.159 --> 00:10:59.320 kind of crispy around this motherfucking confirmed. 156 00:11:00.440 --> 00:11:01.320 I mean, how you got dudes? 157 00:11:01.399 --> 00:11:01.919 Go on Twitter? 158 00:11:02.000 --> 00:11:04.240 They be out there hanging out on I mean on Twitter, TikTok, 159 00:11:04.279 --> 00:11:08.759 they be hanging out over there and trying to suck them. 160 00:11:09.279 --> 00:11:09.480 Yeah. 161 00:11:09.519 --> 00:11:14.639 I've seen Yeah, I've definitely seen. 162 00:11:17.000 --> 00:11:17.480 Videos. 163 00:11:20.039 --> 00:11:20.200 Well. 164 00:11:21.759 --> 00:11:25.679 I usually don't jump like right right into the heavy 165 00:11:25.759 --> 00:11:30.000 topics like right away, but I realized that I am 166 00:11:30.360 --> 00:11:33.759 probably the only person who doesn't work until the afternoon. 167 00:11:33.840 --> 00:11:35.559 Everybody else has to work in the morning, and I 168 00:11:35.600 --> 00:11:37.759 don't want to have kalile too late, but. 169 00:11:39.240 --> 00:11:40.320 I've wanted Oh. 170 00:11:40.279 --> 00:11:42.799 You know what, damn it, Tom, I didn't even sing 171 00:11:42.879 --> 00:11:45.080 you these because I was trying to put them together in. 172 00:11:45.159 --> 00:11:49.399 A tastefully packaged No, I was trying to. 173 00:11:49.559 --> 00:11:52.600 Put them together in a like a side by side. 174 00:11:52.679 --> 00:11:54.519 But the picture is the way they are. They're too wide. 175 00:11:54.559 --> 00:11:57.000 So I'm about to send these to you now. 176 00:11:57.360 --> 00:12:00.200 And obviously you know to put the stats side the 177 00:12:00.360 --> 00:12:02.399 stat pick up first, and then we'll put the coming 178 00:12:02.480 --> 00:12:03.000 up after. 179 00:12:05.559 --> 00:12:13.440 The tasteful package is nasty work you sit on the 180 00:12:13.600 --> 00:12:14.120 other side. 181 00:12:14.159 --> 00:12:15.919 Well, in the meantime, we want to tell everybody what 182 00:12:16.000 --> 00:12:19.759 you brought in that you're just snacking on. Yes, I 183 00:12:19.840 --> 00:12:23.240 mean TikTok spaghetti. Well, TikTok pasta. 184 00:12:25.000 --> 00:12:28.759 With the alfredo and the meat sauce, TikTok post food 185 00:12:28.840 --> 00:12:33.480 to share. So you I have discovered that I cook 186 00:12:33.559 --> 00:12:37.240 too much. It's only two of us, and we throw 187 00:12:37.279 --> 00:12:41.360 away so much frog and so I've been more intentional 188 00:12:42.080 --> 00:12:43.440 about shopping. 189 00:12:45.720 --> 00:12:46.320 More intentional. 190 00:12:47.799 --> 00:12:49.279 I can give you the key to the studio so 191 00:12:49.399 --> 00:12:50.639 you can just leave it in the fridge. 192 00:12:51.159 --> 00:12:53.360 No, because it's really been ridiculous, Like even Dylan was 193 00:12:53.399 --> 00:12:55.519 like this is just is too much. 194 00:12:55.639 --> 00:12:58.039 Now, I am a boy, I do not eat that much. 195 00:12:58.559 --> 00:13:04.120 And it's been except because my household is a complete opposite. 196 00:13:04.799 --> 00:13:09.799 I literally make recipes double and triple yeah, and it 197 00:13:10.000 --> 00:13:13.039 doesn't last and then they can you make that again? 198 00:13:13.120 --> 00:13:15.039 So then I end up making ship back to back 199 00:13:15.159 --> 00:13:19.759 because I have to remake it again because they ate 200 00:13:19.799 --> 00:13:22.639 it off even though I fucking doubled and tripled the recipe. 201 00:13:23.159 --> 00:13:26.879 So you know, it just be too much. Yeah, I 202 00:13:27.120 --> 00:13:30.360 pay cash. I wish I had that problem. I pay cash, 203 00:13:30.679 --> 00:13:31.279 and Dylan. 204 00:13:31.080 --> 00:13:33.320 Don't really like left like this here he's gonna eat, 205 00:13:33.320 --> 00:13:35.679 He's gonna eat this, but he don't really eat left over. 206 00:13:35.799 --> 00:13:38.679 So it's like I'll cook one day and then the 207 00:13:38.799 --> 00:13:40.679 next thing a comment, He'll be like, oh I don't 208 00:13:40.720 --> 00:13:42.440 want it, and then it's like it's just me eating 209 00:13:42.480 --> 00:13:44.600 it and I'm not really eating a whole bunch. 210 00:13:44.759 --> 00:13:46.600 So it's just it's been so much. 211 00:13:46.919 --> 00:13:47.919 I had. 212 00:13:49.320 --> 00:13:56.399 Choices many yr Mom, this designer from yesterday, we're not 213 00:13:56.559 --> 00:13:57.559 fucking with it today. 214 00:14:02.919 --> 00:14:04.360 Eat some piece of quiet. 215 00:14:05.799 --> 00:14:07.559 You choose not to eat. He'd be on his own 216 00:14:07.919 --> 00:14:09.480 cooking extra what. 217 00:14:11.720 --> 00:14:12.240 You already. 218 00:14:12.679 --> 00:14:14.360 I'm not one of the moms that make a million. 219 00:14:14.720 --> 00:14:17.120 I'm not. I'm cooking maybe about three four days a week. 220 00:14:17.240 --> 00:14:17.519 That's it. 221 00:14:18.360 --> 00:14:20.960 And I'm a hot breakfast mom now too, so I'm 222 00:14:21.000 --> 00:14:26.559 definitely not. Yes, Sundays, Tuesdays, actually no, three days, Sundays, 223 00:14:26.600 --> 00:14:27.960 Tuesdays and Thursdays. 224 00:14:29.279 --> 00:14:30.120 Yeah, and then we go. 225 00:14:31.080 --> 00:14:33.600 That was Sydney start the weekend. That was Sydney Star. 226 00:14:35.720 --> 00:14:39.720 That was a lot you was a little exciting now 227 00:14:39.799 --> 00:14:41.600 that that that'll come back up because that's part of 228 00:14:42.000 --> 00:14:42.440 Yeah you can. 229 00:14:43.360 --> 00:14:46.600 It's a pasta with the Alfredo sauce and the red 230 00:14:46.679 --> 00:14:50.399 sauce ready see, And I ain't gonna end up making 231 00:14:50.440 --> 00:14:53.639 that because I don't like and then you put the 232 00:14:53.720 --> 00:14:55.320 red meat sauce on top. 233 00:14:55.759 --> 00:14:58.320 And then that sounds like you gotta use your Outfreda 234 00:14:58.480 --> 00:15:00.840 out like definitely made from trash and it only tastes 235 00:15:01.440 --> 00:15:04.159 it's still the same. Yes, I don't use your Afraid. 236 00:15:04.519 --> 00:15:05.039 Yeah, I hate it. 237 00:15:05.600 --> 00:15:05.960 I mean. 238 00:15:09.240 --> 00:15:11.399 To me, it don't take long to make afraid. 239 00:15:12.039 --> 00:15:12.919 It literally didn't it. 240 00:15:13.039 --> 00:15:16.480 Don't it? Just Joe Alfreda. It always has an aftertasting 241 00:15:16.519 --> 00:15:17.080 me no matter. 242 00:15:16.960 --> 00:15:17.399 What the brand. 243 00:15:17.440 --> 00:15:20.879 I like you and I added some boys and cheese. 244 00:15:21.159 --> 00:15:23.799 Why are you coming to friendsgiving? He said, he put 245 00:15:23.840 --> 00:15:26.120 it on the calendar so that they don't forget because 246 00:15:26.159 --> 00:15:27.320 you know, he missed it last time. 247 00:15:27.440 --> 00:15:28.120 That was his point. 248 00:15:28.279 --> 00:15:28.720 We'll see. 249 00:15:28.960 --> 00:15:34.759 We were there, absolutely, and I had a goddamn ball time. Hey, hey, 250 00:15:35.120 --> 00:15:37.080 you need to let me know if giggle juices go 251 00:15:37.200 --> 00:15:37.720 be in the bill. 252 00:15:37.879 --> 00:15:40.480 He put it in the group requesting her to bring it. 253 00:15:41.039 --> 00:15:47.000 I didn't see it. So this is the reason why 254 00:15:47.000 --> 00:15:49.519 I really really really wanted Kayla on the show today. 255 00:15:49.600 --> 00:15:52.159 This this specific topic. So I want to run through 256 00:15:52.200 --> 00:15:52.480 this one. 257 00:15:52.559 --> 00:15:52.799 First. 258 00:15:54.840 --> 00:15:58.399 We know that social media gives people, you know, a 259 00:15:58.519 --> 00:16:03.480 platform to voice the most idiotic opinions on shit, and 260 00:16:03.919 --> 00:16:08.159 it's it's very unfortunate because the fact that you were 261 00:16:08.279 --> 00:16:12.679 posting on the internet means that you have access to 262 00:16:12.799 --> 00:16:15.279 the Internet. So if you have access to the internet, 263 00:16:15.399 --> 00:16:18.600 you have access to the knowledge that is available on 264 00:16:18.799 --> 00:16:22.840 the fucking internet. But instead of accessing this knowledge that 265 00:16:23.000 --> 00:16:26.039 is readily available, you just go and be like, you 266 00:16:26.159 --> 00:16:27.559 know what, I'm a post. 267 00:16:27.399 --> 00:16:28.080 And be an idiot. 268 00:16:29.320 --> 00:16:34.399 I remember, So the person who reposted that a woman? 269 00:16:34.519 --> 00:16:36.279 That is a man behind that page. 270 00:16:36.840 --> 00:16:41.639 No, No, the person who I screenshot at her caption, 271 00:16:42.279 --> 00:16:45.399 that's actually my Facebook friend. She does heir so that's 272 00:16:45.440 --> 00:16:48.759 that's an actual woman. So we're gonna get to that 273 00:16:48.799 --> 00:16:52.519 in a minute. But the original post, you know, because 274 00:16:52.519 --> 00:16:56.159 again not everybody is watching live, it says heavy periods 275 00:16:56.279 --> 00:17:01.080 means dirty and low pH balance. And the quote the 276 00:17:01.159 --> 00:17:03.279 person who shared it in quota, they said, yeah, shout 277 00:17:03.320 --> 00:17:05.880 out God, because mine's be two to three days max 278 00:17:06.000 --> 00:17:08.839 and rarely heavy with the little smiley heart face. 279 00:17:09.200 --> 00:17:17.599 Now let's go on to the comments. Okay, so no, 280 00:17:18.240 --> 00:17:20.519 but it might as well be in because the chicks 281 00:17:20.640 --> 00:17:25.319 is just as ignorant. No, it's not as worse. It's 282 00:17:25.400 --> 00:17:26.119 worse perfectly. 283 00:17:26.480 --> 00:17:29.720 Let you be stupid among yourselves. I don't want no 284 00:17:30.000 --> 00:17:32.799 niggas to hear this topic. 285 00:17:34.880 --> 00:17:37.119 But when you see women doing this, this is why 286 00:17:37.240 --> 00:17:41.640 men think it's okay there because they see ship and 287 00:17:41.759 --> 00:17:43.400 be like, oh, well that's the bitch, so she should 288 00:17:43.480 --> 00:17:45.640 know what it is. And then they go off of 289 00:17:45.720 --> 00:17:48.480 that because they think, all, well, if a woman saying it, no, 290 00:17:49.039 --> 00:17:50.599 they just as they just dump. 291 00:17:52.039 --> 00:17:53.519 You gotta cite your sources. 292 00:17:53.599 --> 00:17:59.480 No, So so okay, so scroll scroll a little bit. 293 00:18:01.160 --> 00:18:05.279 So it said, so someone commented and they said it's wait, no, 294 00:18:05.400 --> 00:18:10.480 you gotta scroll up. So somebody comment and said this 295 00:18:10.720 --> 00:18:13.880 is so inaccurate in laugh and the person who quoted 296 00:18:13.960 --> 00:18:16.319 and said it's not though, google it, so now you 297 00:18:16.400 --> 00:18:18.200 can scroll so we can read that full comment. 298 00:18:19.359 --> 00:18:23.519 Thank you. So that person then said, your period is 299 00:18:23.680 --> 00:18:26.400 caused because your uterus lining is shedding. 300 00:18:26.599 --> 00:18:29.279 If you have a thicker uterus lining, it's gonna take 301 00:18:29.279 --> 00:18:32.759 a minute to break down. Some women have PCOS. There's 302 00:18:32.839 --> 00:18:35.200 times when I was eating pure nasty food in that 303 00:18:35.359 --> 00:18:38.559 my unhealthiest and only blood for two days. I've been 304 00:18:38.599 --> 00:18:41.400 at my healthiest and of blood for seven to scroll down. 305 00:18:42.880 --> 00:18:46.079 So she says, yeah, I know what it is or 306 00:18:46.640 --> 00:18:47.079 what it's for. 307 00:18:47.319 --> 00:18:49.160 I'm a woman. I go through it every month like 308 00:18:49.240 --> 00:18:51.359 what most women do, so you should know better. 309 00:18:53.519 --> 00:18:56.319 It's the fact that a period after use infection or 310 00:18:56.559 --> 00:18:59.759 STD or BB or anything that can change your pH 311 00:19:00.119 --> 00:19:03.200 like your diet or hydration can cause a more painful 312 00:19:03.279 --> 00:19:07.400 and heavier period. And sometimes I bleed longer rarely though 313 00:19:07.519 --> 00:19:10.960 since I've given birth. Since giving birth, PCOS is a 314 00:19:11.039 --> 00:19:14.200 medical disorder that can cause multiple problems with your period, 315 00:19:14.279 --> 00:19:16.200 but that has nothing to do with what I'm saying. 316 00:19:16.680 --> 00:19:21.039 Women with PCOS don't maintain regular vaginal health to begin with. 317 00:19:25.519 --> 00:19:27.759 Miss Kayla Taylor, would you like to give us a 318 00:19:27.880 --> 00:19:31.319 quick little rundown on PCOS. 319 00:19:30.759 --> 00:19:32.880 Police a whole episode about it? 320 00:19:32.880 --> 00:19:34.200 He did, And that's why I wanted hurt. 321 00:19:35.960 --> 00:19:44.200 That's why I needed HERS. 322 00:19:41.240 --> 00:19:46.920 Stands for colycystic over ovary syndrome. So it's basically when 323 00:19:47.559 --> 00:19:51.759 your ovary has cysts on them, right, one or multiple, 324 00:19:52.440 --> 00:19:55.000 So you can go through several different things, not just 325 00:19:55.400 --> 00:19:59.319 it's more than just your cycle. It can be insulin resistance, 326 00:19:59.799 --> 00:20:03.319 it can could be case in point to stick acme 327 00:20:05.200 --> 00:20:08.640 a bunch of different things. Hair grow oh yes, hair 328 00:20:08.720 --> 00:20:11.359 growth yees. So I never know how to say it, 329 00:20:11.359 --> 00:20:14.000 but perutism. So you'll see a lot of women with 330 00:20:14.119 --> 00:20:18.240 PCO west like they actually have like mustache like beards. 331 00:20:18.319 --> 00:20:25.319 They have like issues, right, and so it's a pain 332 00:20:25.440 --> 00:20:26.160 to live with. 333 00:20:27.200 --> 00:20:29.880 So does it mean that you don't take care of 334 00:20:30.039 --> 00:20:35.680 your vaginal health? That definitely does not mean that. 335 00:20:35.880 --> 00:20:41.599 Now for me personally, what I will say is the 336 00:20:41.680 --> 00:20:47.240 opposite of what she said at my Unhealthiest eating horrible food. 337 00:20:47.920 --> 00:20:51.039 My cycle is like three days, no issue. I didn't 338 00:20:51.119 --> 00:20:54.319 drop thirty pounds eating healthier than I ever have. 339 00:20:54.440 --> 00:20:55.200 Don't mind. It's just. 340 00:20:59.799 --> 00:21:01.960 So many mans and different things that I have to 341 00:21:02.039 --> 00:21:06.519 take for the pco as to assist, and she'll tell 342 00:21:06.559 --> 00:21:11.880 you I I will bleed seven days heavy as hell, 343 00:21:12.279 --> 00:21:17.640 like beyond beyond like full disclosure for the for the 344 00:21:17.680 --> 00:21:20.960 month of September. Because I am as healthy as I 345 00:21:21.079 --> 00:21:26.680 am now. My body fought against me and because I 346 00:21:26.799 --> 00:21:29.279 was exercising, because I was stressed out because I've lost 347 00:21:29.319 --> 00:21:32.359 so much weight and stopped my cycle for the first 348 00:21:32.400 --> 00:21:35.559 time ever. So I went two weeks without a cycle, 349 00:21:35.960 --> 00:21:38.480 and then all of a sudden it showed up. She'll 350 00:21:38.519 --> 00:21:41.000 tell you the whole time we were in Vegas, full 351 00:21:41.160 --> 00:21:44.960 blown heavy ass cycle. 352 00:21:44.880 --> 00:21:52.200 Every time between your butchers. What I was just the 353 00:21:52.319 --> 00:21:54.640 fact the fact that it was literally every time I 354 00:21:54.799 --> 00:21:58.400 turned her around, listen closure. I didn't even big Mamas. 355 00:21:58.480 --> 00:21:59.960 I shit got the game from my belly button. 356 00:22:02.319 --> 00:22:03.880 She was just having to be looking at the wrong 357 00:22:03.960 --> 00:22:05.200 time every time. 358 00:22:07.079 --> 00:22:09.799 I don't even go through that. I just I'm I'm 359 00:22:09.839 --> 00:22:13.559 in love with the period Pamper joints now in Vegas. 360 00:22:13.599 --> 00:22:17.079 I can't be like a couple of months ago, like 361 00:22:17.160 --> 00:22:19.279 you look back like me and the girls, like if 362 00:22:19.359 --> 00:22:21.039 you would always know because you just see like a 363 00:22:21.119 --> 00:22:23.480 black camper walking past in the hallway but. 364 00:22:23.559 --> 00:22:27.519 No, like it's extremely stressful. 365 00:22:27.559 --> 00:22:31.400 And this is again being at my healthiest because again 366 00:22:32.400 --> 00:22:36.119 taking care of like your vaginal health, when you have 367 00:22:36.279 --> 00:22:38.759 PCOS or even a woman in general, your body is 368 00:22:38.880 --> 00:22:41.319 going to do what it's going to do, and a lot. 369 00:22:41.240 --> 00:22:44.759 Of times you don't have control over that ship. You 370 00:22:44.839 --> 00:22:47.240 don't have control over it. So imagine me being somebody 371 00:22:47.440 --> 00:22:48.240 with PCOS. 372 00:22:48.359 --> 00:22:51.000 And for the majority of the month of September when 373 00:22:51.039 --> 00:22:53.880 my cycle did come, I was pretty much bleeding heavily 374 00:22:54.240 --> 00:22:58.319 every single day for more than seven days. So I 375 00:22:58.400 --> 00:23:01.079 think it was that's just in since like that, don't 376 00:23:01.480 --> 00:23:03.480 I feel like, if anything, when you have PCOS, you 377 00:23:03.519 --> 00:23:05.799 are more tuned in with your vaginal health because it's 378 00:23:05.799 --> 00:23:09.240 so much going on with your reproductive system, so you're 379 00:23:09.319 --> 00:23:10.759 more tuned in to it. 380 00:23:11.200 --> 00:23:14.799 Like that's right, Casey said, shout out to the period 381 00:23:14.880 --> 00:23:18.519 pampers and period they were to see and and and 382 00:23:18.680 --> 00:23:19.359 that's another thing. 383 00:23:19.400 --> 00:23:24.079 And it's like, we have so many women who are 384 00:23:24.200 --> 00:23:33.960 willing to be idiotic because right baby was living with 385 00:23:34.079 --> 00:23:35.759 me when I was bleeding, we used to put a 386 00:23:35.880 --> 00:23:38.279 towel down, so so don't act brand new, nigga. 387 00:23:38.440 --> 00:23:39.640 We used to put a towel down. 388 00:23:41.039 --> 00:23:45.759 I mean stop, trust me to put some ketch up 389 00:23:45.839 --> 00:23:46.920 on that hot dog nigga. 390 00:23:49.359 --> 00:23:52.920 I'm just saying, don't don't get on here acting brand new, like. 391 00:23:53.720 --> 00:23:56.079 Talking about yeah, but it wasn't you when you was you, 392 00:23:56.799 --> 00:23:58.359 when you were staring in the spaghetti pot. 393 00:23:59.400 --> 00:24:03.519 Men needs you, you out here having. 394 00:24:09.720 --> 00:24:14.960 Nowhere near me. That wasn't different. That is not different. 395 00:24:15.039 --> 00:24:18.720 It's literally the same. But no, that was very number one. 396 00:24:18.799 --> 00:24:21.319 Is that was insensitive and. 397 00:24:22.839 --> 00:24:25.119 Like that because she's my old two three days too, 398 00:24:25.160 --> 00:24:27.079 three days the way karma gonna come around. 399 00:24:27.960 --> 00:24:29.920 Why But and that's the thing. 400 00:24:30.119 --> 00:24:33.680 You know that my peers are very short and I'm 401 00:24:33.680 --> 00:24:38.200 a very light bleeder. Even I'm saying that, that's fucking stupid. 402 00:24:40.200 --> 00:24:42.480 I've never I've never played. 403 00:24:43.480 --> 00:24:47.759 Like that like that's just that's not how my body worked, 404 00:24:47.880 --> 00:24:56.160 like everybody's body is. Really it's different. Yestern spaghetta heavy cycle. 405 00:24:56.200 --> 00:24:59.200 It's like bad enough for somebody to be like, you're dirty, 406 00:24:59.319 --> 00:25:00.920 your pH balance his low. 407 00:25:01.359 --> 00:25:03.160 That's why he still love me. I put that blood 408 00:25:03.240 --> 00:25:03.839 magic on him. 409 00:25:05.359 --> 00:25:08.759 Take care of yourself. You don't, girl, please, we don't 410 00:25:08.799 --> 00:25:10.000 have those issues over here. 411 00:25:11.440 --> 00:25:12.079 Is just fine. 412 00:25:12.359 --> 00:25:12.640 No, but. 413 00:25:16.799 --> 00:25:20.079 No, but it's just funny to me because you have 414 00:25:20.480 --> 00:25:26.160 so many women who are so thirsty to sound better 415 00:25:26.400 --> 00:25:30.400 than other women because at the risk of being just 416 00:25:30.640 --> 00:25:35.839 being so fucking ignorant. And it's like I expect like 417 00:25:36.000 --> 00:25:37.799 why I said, man, I hope we ain't in the comments, 418 00:25:37.880 --> 00:25:41.119 but it's like, I expect men to be ignorant about 419 00:25:41.119 --> 00:25:44.519 stuff like that because it's not your reproductive organs, you 420 00:25:44.599 --> 00:25:47.519 know what I'm saying, Like I don't. I don't see 421 00:25:47.640 --> 00:25:50.680 y'all just sitting here after ninth grade health class. 422 00:25:50.680 --> 00:25:52.160 I'm like, you know what, let me read up on 423 00:25:52.160 --> 00:25:53.680 the pussy a little bit, see what's going on it, 424 00:25:54.319 --> 00:25:56.279 you know what, Like I just I don't expect y'all 425 00:25:56.319 --> 00:26:00.920 to do that. Yeah, I don't think that would be helpful. 426 00:26:01.000 --> 00:26:03.000 If man like I get the like stay out of 427 00:26:03.039 --> 00:26:04.960 women's business, won't need to be a part of conversation. 428 00:26:05.160 --> 00:26:07.880 But they do. They have daughters and ship y'all still 429 00:26:07.960 --> 00:26:10.359 need to know. Yes, you got two of them, bro. 430 00:26:10.519 --> 00:26:14.640 So I paid. I studied. Yeah, I talked to y'all. 431 00:26:16.960 --> 00:26:21.279 From about certain things like, hey, this is a period, 432 00:26:22.480 --> 00:26:24.839 this is this time of month, if I'm doing this, 433 00:26:25.200 --> 00:26:25.920 or if I need that. 434 00:26:26.440 --> 00:26:29.559 Well you you in deals anyway, because he had come 435 00:26:29.640 --> 00:26:30.480 put it right in your face. 436 00:26:30.640 --> 00:26:37.160 Hey, mom, that's nasty work though the joys of being 437 00:26:37.200 --> 00:26:37.480 a mom. 438 00:26:39.079 --> 00:26:42.119 But I also think that is irresponsible because a lot 439 00:26:42.200 --> 00:26:44.839 of people don't realize, even the person that posted that, 440 00:26:45.279 --> 00:26:46.160 there's a lot of women that. 441 00:26:46.200 --> 00:26:47.799 Have PCOS and it is undiagnosed. 442 00:26:47.880 --> 00:26:49.680 We're just now getting to a point where we're starting 443 00:26:49.720 --> 00:26:52.039 to hear more women be diagnosed and open up and 444 00:26:52.079 --> 00:26:56.240 talk about it, talking about but her going on there 445 00:26:56.279 --> 00:26:56.680 and saying that. 446 00:26:56.720 --> 00:26:58.759 I also feel like it's irresponsible, Like. 447 00:27:00.480 --> 00:27:05.319 You just google it to the person, right, and then 448 00:27:05.519 --> 00:27:08.640 like I share stuff from my opinion, and I'm here 449 00:27:08.680 --> 00:27:13.559 to argue, which, okay, right, because you're saying stuff that's incorrect. 450 00:27:13.599 --> 00:27:14.799 Don't her? 451 00:27:14.920 --> 00:27:17.440 And the person she because she shared that post, so her, 452 00:27:17.759 --> 00:27:19.519 the person that originally wrote it. 453 00:27:19.799 --> 00:27:21.880 I was talking about the one who shared it because 454 00:27:21.880 --> 00:27:26.000 that because that was my Facebook frame. What yeah, and. 455 00:27:27.559 --> 00:27:31.359 So so it's the original post that person stupid, right, 456 00:27:32.319 --> 00:27:34.960 and then the person who shared it is also an 457 00:27:35.000 --> 00:27:37.359 ice clown too, right, yes? And then the people that 458 00:27:37.440 --> 00:27:40.119 were in the comments are also a bunch of jackasses. 459 00:27:41.640 --> 00:27:46.599 Everybody, No, not everybody actually seemed like I think I 460 00:27:46.680 --> 00:27:49.319 don't even think I saw I may have seen one 461 00:27:49.359 --> 00:27:52.440 person agree, but everybody else was like no, that's some bullshit, Like. 462 00:27:54.039 --> 00:27:56.519 Yeah, and then you're making this assumption and people don't 463 00:27:56.559 --> 00:27:58.599 take care of their vaginal health, like so you. 464 00:27:58.720 --> 00:28:06.119 Be in and out, like how do you another thing? 465 00:28:06.440 --> 00:28:07.799 But this is another thing? 466 00:28:07.839 --> 00:28:09.799 And it's like we I've talked about this on the 467 00:28:09.839 --> 00:28:12.680 show multiple times, like how females will talk shit about 468 00:28:12.759 --> 00:28:14.200 like things like BV. 469 00:28:14.960 --> 00:28:18.079 BV is not sexually transmitted disease. 470 00:28:18.440 --> 00:28:20.839 Now is there something where if your spouse is messing 471 00:28:20.880 --> 00:28:24.000 with multiple people and coming and mixing up ship, then 472 00:28:24.079 --> 00:28:26.599 yes it can contribute to it. 473 00:28:26.839 --> 00:28:28.839 But you don't even have to be having sex in 474 00:28:28.960 --> 00:28:29.640 order to get BV. 475 00:28:29.680 --> 00:28:33.599 As a woman, I wasn't even sexually active at the time, 476 00:28:33.759 --> 00:28:36.400 Like if you, if you so much is I wake 477 00:28:36.480 --> 00:28:38.720 up in the morning and I fucking turn the wrong 478 00:28:38.759 --> 00:28:40.039 way my body might be like you know what, I 479 00:28:40.079 --> 00:28:40.880 don't like that today. 480 00:28:42.039 --> 00:28:44.559 What let's go hit us a metro DOWNASA like. 481 00:28:44.839 --> 00:28:49.759 It should happen anything, especially because I'm so sensitive. And 482 00:28:50.480 --> 00:28:53.319 that's what's funny because a lot of times when it 483 00:28:53.400 --> 00:28:57.759 comes to BV, other women who like to make them sounds, 484 00:28:58.279 --> 00:29:01.960 themselves sound better, would make it seem like, oh, well, 485 00:29:01.960 --> 00:29:03.880 if you're getting BV, that means that you're dirty and 486 00:29:03.920 --> 00:29:07.200 you blah blah blah blah blah, when actually most of 487 00:29:07.279 --> 00:29:10.160 the women who are getting BB are getting it because 488 00:29:10.240 --> 00:29:12.039 they're cleaning themselves too much. 489 00:29:12.279 --> 00:29:12.920 The products. 490 00:29:13.039 --> 00:29:15.559 Yeah, the products that they're using to clean themselves, whether 491 00:29:15.599 --> 00:29:18.519 they're dousing, they're using the wrong kind of soap or 492 00:29:18.559 --> 00:29:21.200 any of that kind of stuff that will throw them 493 00:29:21.319 --> 00:29:23.440 off and all of a sudden, you have BB. 494 00:29:24.039 --> 00:29:25.400 You can't just go to the store and just be. 495 00:29:25.799 --> 00:29:28.319 You can't wash Big Mama with anything. You got to 496 00:29:28.359 --> 00:29:33.240 make sure everybody, everybody's body is different. What's up, bro experience. 497 00:29:33.279 --> 00:29:34.319 Now that's a filthy nigga. 498 00:29:34.359 --> 00:29:35.680 We know he didn't ran some red lights. 499 00:29:37.279 --> 00:29:41.559 That was such an unnecessary dagger. He came in all 500 00:29:41.720 --> 00:29:43.720 nice and calm and professional. 501 00:29:44.640 --> 00:29:51.240 Some smart evangelists. It was never the dagger was honest. 502 00:29:52.400 --> 00:29:54.000 You don't want everybody know that what he's doing this. 503 00:29:54.160 --> 00:29:57.079 I'm pretty sure he said it that he admits to 504 00:29:57.200 --> 00:29:57.920 his filthiness. 505 00:29:58.119 --> 00:30:00.640 Yeah, we was having a conversation in the group that 506 00:30:00.680 --> 00:30:01.759 I don't never want to have. 507 00:30:03.960 --> 00:30:06.160 But yeah, that I mean, you're in title to your opinion, 508 00:30:06.200 --> 00:30:07.799 but I don't know. I just feel like when women 509 00:30:07.920 --> 00:30:10.799 do stuff like that and it's like women focused, like 510 00:30:10.960 --> 00:30:13.440 why girl were supposed to be it. 511 00:30:15.920 --> 00:30:19.599 Bothers me because like, as a woman to be out 512 00:30:19.680 --> 00:30:22.720 here spreading miss information like that, why don't you know 513 00:30:22.839 --> 00:30:25.680 about our bodies better? You got the same ship we 514 00:30:25.759 --> 00:30:28.440 got and you don't even know how it worked. This 515 00:30:28.599 --> 00:30:31.279 is this is why we got dead beats like Brian 516 00:30:31.359 --> 00:30:33.720 McKnight who thought that they could make a song to say, 517 00:30:33.839 --> 00:30:35.400 let me show you how your pussy work. 518 00:30:35.440 --> 00:30:37.799 Because it's enough bitches that clearly don't know how they. 519 00:30:39.279 --> 00:30:41.720 Came to him that didn't know her pussy work. 520 00:30:44.400 --> 00:30:47.039 We were supposed to play that video from him last week, 521 00:30:47.079 --> 00:30:48.680 So now that you asked me that you still got that, 522 00:30:49.599 --> 00:30:55.119 I mean, okay, no, no, it's it's more than him. 523 00:30:55.000 --> 00:30:56.279 Being a deabbie trying. 524 00:30:56.160 --> 00:30:56.640 To be right. 525 00:30:59.359 --> 00:31:01.839 Mistake, my bad. 526 00:31:02.119 --> 00:31:02.799 I fucked up. 527 00:31:03.119 --> 00:31:05.200 Y'all good though, I guess I don't really know. I 528 00:31:05.240 --> 00:31:07.640 don't even care no more. Y'all are grown. 529 00:31:07.440 --> 00:31:09.319 Ass, bro. You don't get. 530 00:31:11.519 --> 00:31:15.279 Get you don't get there's no eraser where you can 531 00:31:15.400 --> 00:31:18.960 just do like this your kids and redraw new ones. 532 00:31:19.039 --> 00:31:22.880 But I'm just explaining what he's doing. To these people. 533 00:31:23.519 --> 00:31:27.440 He just whatever, however you feeling, and that's not They 534 00:31:27.559 --> 00:31:29.799 had no idea about Brian. I had to bring him 535 00:31:29.920 --> 00:31:31.319 up to speed about Brian. 536 00:31:32.200 --> 00:31:33.160 He didn't know none of that. 537 00:31:33.640 --> 00:31:37.039 He was he was and this was before the whole 538 00:31:37.200 --> 00:31:40.880 podcast thing. So I had to him like, no, this 539 00:31:41.079 --> 00:31:45.079 nigga went. I had a new baby and was like, no, 540 00:31:45.440 --> 00:31:47.880 I don't want the old Brian Jr. So I'm finna 541 00:31:47.920 --> 00:31:49.960 go change my name so I can make a new break. 542 00:31:50.000 --> 00:31:51.559 He was like, you're fucking lying. So I had to 543 00:31:51.559 --> 00:31:53.920 bring him up to speed. He was like, I had 544 00:31:54.039 --> 00:31:56.160 no idea that he was a nigga like this. 545 00:31:57.799 --> 00:31:59.960 Do I ever crushed your mind? 546 00:32:03.039 --> 00:32:06.000 He said, oh my god. He had a video brit. 547 00:32:07.640 --> 00:32:08.480 He definitely. 548 00:32:10.400 --> 00:32:10.680 I am. 549 00:32:10.920 --> 00:32:14.920 Oh my god. He said, the door lock broke, we 550 00:32:15.000 --> 00:32:17.000 can't open it. We trapped in here. He said, start 551 00:32:17.079 --> 00:32:18.079 back at one, and he really did. 552 00:32:18.119 --> 00:32:20.839 I don't know why you asked the fact that not 553 00:32:21.039 --> 00:32:24.559 getting up you know, I'm not like you. Here's the 554 00:32:24.640 --> 00:32:28.039 crazy part. Like anybody who sat in this room with me, 555 00:32:28.319 --> 00:32:32.599 No that to a point when I sit down, not 556 00:32:32.759 --> 00:32:33.440 getting up. 557 00:32:34.559 --> 00:32:34.960 Hey. 558 00:32:36.559 --> 00:32:41.200 Tones sent Kayla to let us get up either. But 559 00:32:41.279 --> 00:32:43.079 he was the one. He was over there working trying 560 00:32:43.119 --> 00:32:45.920 to get stuff set up. No, see, because I knew 561 00:32:45.920 --> 00:32:48.440 about it on Twitter. Oh wait, you you really have 562 00:32:48.559 --> 00:32:50.720 to do I'm not getting I don't open the door 563 00:32:50.759 --> 00:32:51.400 for strangers. 564 00:32:51.440 --> 00:32:58.039 I'm sorry, stranger dangers is not the way. 565 00:33:00.519 --> 00:33:02.279 And we also ain't nobody gonna walk all the way 566 00:33:02.359 --> 00:33:04.599 upstairs open them. No, you better send somebody a picture 567 00:33:04.799 --> 00:33:05.440 proof for life? 568 00:33:07.240 --> 00:33:07.839 You here yet? 569 00:33:08.119 --> 00:33:08.319 Baby? 570 00:33:08.359 --> 00:33:10.440 If I walk up them stairs and they ain't a 571 00:33:10.519 --> 00:33:13.880 nigga at the door, you hadn't take a picture. 572 00:33:14.000 --> 00:33:18.880 Sit into one of them because I have the mother 573 00:33:19.079 --> 00:33:20.240 be like open the door and they will be at 574 00:33:20.240 --> 00:33:21.640 the door yet there. 575 00:33:22.319 --> 00:33:22.759 I hate that. 576 00:33:23.480 --> 00:33:26.960 Okay, send somebody a picture. Then I think about it. 577 00:33:27.519 --> 00:33:31.880 Yes, it's freezing sore because I ain't walking up those steps. 578 00:33:32.119 --> 00:33:35.200 I not even have to do that ship once. Yeah, 579 00:33:35.359 --> 00:33:38.920 sorry about that. It wasn't my funt. I didn't know that. 580 00:33:38.920 --> 00:33:40.559 If I wasn't here yet, he was really working like 581 00:33:40.640 --> 00:33:42.640 he was getting all your stuff up, so I didn't mind. 582 00:33:42.759 --> 00:33:49.880 You got it, bro, You send a pictures anybody get 583 00:33:50.000 --> 00:33:51.000 no takes all right? 584 00:33:52.039 --> 00:33:55.359 I got from from Britain from at the door a. 585 00:33:55.440 --> 00:33:57.880 Picture that you at the door and somebody will come 586 00:33:57.920 --> 00:34:00.279 and open it. I'm not walking up stair. If I 587 00:34:00.359 --> 00:34:02.200 walk up the stairs and it ain't a nigga at 588 00:34:02.240 --> 00:34:06.079 the door business, I'm dumbed at us. 589 00:34:06.839 --> 00:34:10.679 Like bro, I dine went up there once, rotating steps. 590 00:34:10.840 --> 00:34:13.400 Send it to your people, Send it to somebody. Hurry 591 00:34:13.480 --> 00:34:14.639 up because it's cold outside. 592 00:34:15.719 --> 00:34:16.480 I know you cold. 593 00:34:16.760 --> 00:34:20.519 Don't have me waiting. I mean, you know she's paying 594 00:34:20.559 --> 00:34:23.800 it forward because she had to wait. It's crazy because 595 00:34:24.440 --> 00:34:26.639 all right, you're getting ripped. He was gonna do that anyway. 596 00:34:27.320 --> 00:34:29.119 You're gonna easily just FaceTime somebody. 597 00:34:29.239 --> 00:34:32.199 I know, FaceTime somebody was outside. But you know he 598 00:34:32.320 --> 00:34:34.320 didn't not gonna have me looking crazy. 599 00:34:35.960 --> 00:34:37.599 I'm not gonna tell people how to be smart. He 600 00:34:37.679 --> 00:34:39.599 just wants to sit in the comments and keep talking. 601 00:34:41.400 --> 00:34:41.840 Already. 602 00:34:42.159 --> 00:34:44.199 And the mother told he must not be that cold. 603 00:34:44.280 --> 00:34:46.239 And I told you the stipulation of how you could 604 00:34:46.280 --> 00:34:47.199 get in, and he's. 605 00:34:47.079 --> 00:34:51.119 Just in the message and crazy person, I'm gonna go 606 00:34:51.159 --> 00:34:54.079 upstairs ahead. Oh yeah, he had to. 607 00:34:54.119 --> 00:35:00.840 Do motherfucker's crazy people in real time. 608 00:35:03.480 --> 00:35:05.360 Hey no, because I hate that mother, Like, come open 609 00:35:05.400 --> 00:35:07.079 the door, and then I got to sit at the 610 00:35:07.119 --> 00:35:08.519 fucking door and wait for you to go to the car. 611 00:35:11.360 --> 00:35:12.760 She already on her way up. I told her you 612 00:35:12.800 --> 00:35:13.119 sent it. 613 00:35:16.519 --> 00:35:17.960 Then I'm sitting here and there and gotta hurry up 614 00:35:17.960 --> 00:35:19.719 and run down the stairs and hope I don't trip 615 00:35:19.760 --> 00:35:21.679 over my motherfucking feet and shit trying to get back 616 00:35:21.719 --> 00:35:22.119 to the show. 617 00:35:23.840 --> 00:35:24.000 Nah. 618 00:35:24.119 --> 00:35:29.880 But Brian McKnight is really, really fucking terrible. So for 619 00:35:30.000 --> 00:35:32.800 you to sit here and know that you were a 620 00:35:32.960 --> 00:35:36.320 dead beat, right, and then you were like, all right, 621 00:35:36.719 --> 00:35:39.679 so now I have new children. 622 00:35:41.039 --> 00:35:48.119 I am about to go and do a segment. You know, 623 00:35:48.199 --> 00:35:50.599 I didn't even check and see because Friday just passed. 624 00:35:50.639 --> 00:35:52.039 If he kept it going, wait. 625 00:35:53.360 --> 00:35:54.719 Where do he got a second? 626 00:35:55.000 --> 00:35:56.320 I don't know if it was on TikTok or not. 627 00:35:56.480 --> 00:35:59.199 To him, you still ain't got it, nah, Like what 628 00:35:59.360 --> 00:36:04.840 do he be oh bricks in? Well, I don't know 629 00:36:04.880 --> 00:36:08.239 if she's saying. I don't know what she's saying. No, 630 00:36:08.400 --> 00:36:10.519 that must have been how you Pussy work video? 631 00:36:10.559 --> 00:36:12.519 It might be that, well from her, it might be 632 00:36:12.639 --> 00:36:13.280 that he had. 633 00:36:16.800 --> 00:36:17.880 But what is he talking? 634 00:36:20.239 --> 00:36:21.280 Fatherhood Friday? 635 00:36:21.519 --> 00:36:23.119 Well, the initial. 636 00:36:24.679 --> 00:36:30.639 The initial fatherhood Friday was he was talking about to 637 00:36:31.559 --> 00:36:35.360 Ricky smiling a badass. That's why I didn't get up, 638 00:36:35.480 --> 00:36:47.480 letty man, No, but I could have no but he 639 00:36:48.119 --> 00:36:48.719 went in talk. 640 00:36:49.079 --> 00:36:51.320 He was saying something about Ricky Smiley because I guess 641 00:36:51.400 --> 00:36:53.960 Ricky Smiley had common in on them. 642 00:36:55.280 --> 00:36:57.159 He was like, we know, Ricky, you know, since you're 643 00:36:57.519 --> 00:37:00.920 since you're not man enough, you outside. He didn't even 644 00:37:01.119 --> 00:37:01.400 thank you. 645 00:37:07.159 --> 00:37:08.079 It's way cheer. 646 00:37:08.119 --> 00:37:14.719 Don't want to come over here. Okay, okay, sir, that's 647 00:37:14.760 --> 00:37:15.400 the boogie man. 648 00:37:16.079 --> 00:37:16.280 Yeah. 649 00:37:16.320 --> 00:37:18.199 But to be a dead bie and you really going 650 00:37:18.239 --> 00:37:25.159 this mother talking about fatherhood Fridays. That's because he losing money. 651 00:37:26.679 --> 00:37:28.559 Oh yeah, because he had that concert coming up. 652 00:37:28.639 --> 00:37:30.679 And it was like because people was in the comments 653 00:37:30.760 --> 00:37:33.079 like held on and it's like, yeah, you're not making 654 00:37:33.119 --> 00:37:33.800 no money no more. 655 00:37:36.880 --> 00:37:38.760 Those are the ones you was talking about on Facebook. 656 00:37:40.679 --> 00:37:47.599 I thought they were separate, all right. 657 00:37:49.960 --> 00:37:58.800 So moving on to the next segment, right, yeah, no, 658 00:38:03.519 --> 00:38:05.599 you know, remember back in the day when he used 659 00:38:05.599 --> 00:38:07.199 to come and he used to have like fruit and ship. 660 00:38:07.280 --> 00:38:10.920 He used to be useful, Remember them days. I remember, 661 00:38:11.400 --> 00:38:12.480 I know you smell like it. 662 00:38:16.840 --> 00:38:17.159 Okay. 663 00:38:18.440 --> 00:38:22.679 I thought we fired him like a long com ago. Okay, 664 00:38:27.400 --> 00:38:34.119 So what's the special occasion what brings him here? Oh okay, 665 00:38:34.800 --> 00:38:37.880 I don't know, as you were saying. 666 00:38:38.320 --> 00:38:47.440 Him friends, mm hmmm, what is one of the craziest 667 00:38:47.519 --> 00:38:51.079 things you have dealt with or done after breaking up 668 00:38:51.119 --> 00:38:51.800 with somebody. 669 00:38:54.199 --> 00:39:00.000 After you want to go first, wait after breaking up? 670 00:39:00.639 --> 00:39:04.760 Yeah, you're after breaking up either or like the craziest 671 00:39:04.800 --> 00:39:07.039 thing you've had done to you or the craziest thing 672 00:39:07.159 --> 00:39:08.559 you've done as far as. 673 00:39:08.559 --> 00:39:11.000 Like with a breakdown, I've got Facebook stock in. 674 00:39:11.119 --> 00:39:14.280 Public, Facebook stocked in public. 675 00:39:14.480 --> 00:39:15.119 Absolutely. 676 00:39:21.800 --> 00:39:22.000 Oh. 677 00:39:23.239 --> 00:39:24.800 Then then she was uh. 678 00:39:25.920 --> 00:39:28.239 Then she hit me like she was quoting like Panos 679 00:39:28.280 --> 00:39:31.800 bars in my inbox, talking about I was going to 680 00:39:31.880 --> 00:39:32.360 route today. 681 00:39:32.719 --> 00:39:38.840 Let my friends pick on her rooted decade. 682 00:39:42.760 --> 00:39:43.280 Somebody that. 683 00:39:43.840 --> 00:39:47.079 It's like you can see the fish shake with it, bro. 684 00:39:47.679 --> 00:39:59.599 Like the craziest thing flying up. 685 00:40:00.239 --> 00:40:00.639 Let's see. 686 00:40:04.360 --> 00:40:05.400 I think he was cheating. 687 00:40:05.480 --> 00:40:05.920 What did I do? 688 00:40:07.440 --> 00:40:09.280 I knew where the girl lived at because of a 689 00:40:09.360 --> 00:40:12.920 parking ticket, and I kept the address in mind because 690 00:40:12.920 --> 00:40:15.039 I said, what address is this? And I remember the address. 691 00:40:15.559 --> 00:40:18.559 It was six am in the morning. I called my sisters, 692 00:40:19.199 --> 00:40:23.599 I got all I gathered all his stuff. I took 693 00:40:23.639 --> 00:40:26.199 some of it to his mama house. I remember ringing 694 00:40:26.199 --> 00:40:28.199 the doorbell. She opened the door, and I kind of 695 00:40:28.360 --> 00:40:31.639 just threw it in there. Then my sisters made me 696 00:40:31.719 --> 00:40:35.920 in the alley and parked and I took like all 697 00:40:36.000 --> 00:40:39.239 the valuables, all the CDs, the clothes, the shoes, all 698 00:40:39.280 --> 00:40:42.559 of the expensive stuff with like bleach and like a 699 00:40:42.679 --> 00:40:47.000 sledgehammer outside the girl house and went to town. And 700 00:40:47.079 --> 00:40:49.199 my sisters just stood back and made sure anybody touch me. 701 00:40:49.440 --> 00:40:50.559 Don't nobody loved me. 702 00:40:50.800 --> 00:40:52.360 Like it was. 703 00:40:55.280 --> 00:40:55.719 In the morning. 704 00:40:56.159 --> 00:40:59.400 It was so everything had bleeds. 705 00:41:02.199 --> 00:41:02.280 Up. 706 00:41:04.480 --> 00:41:09.039 Yeah, all the music. Look my sisters back and said, 707 00:41:09.280 --> 00:41:15.800 don't nobody, but don't nobody to cloud Drug must have 708 00:41:15.800 --> 00:41:21.960 said something and he ran out. Yeah, I ain't cry nothing. 709 00:41:22.000 --> 00:41:27.119 That's how you know, not tone. You've been around for 710 00:41:27.519 --> 00:41:29.559 a lot of decades. What's your story. 711 00:41:31.360 --> 00:41:41.079 I've only been around four Okay, yeah, I had paid. 712 00:41:41.239 --> 00:41:43.679 That's not really crazy, because that's when the babies comes, 713 00:41:44.119 --> 00:41:49.440 when you're done, when you're done, and and it's when 714 00:41:49.440 --> 00:41:51.880 you're serious about being. It's it's when you when you 715 00:41:52.360 --> 00:41:54.159 not when you're just talking ship, but like when you 716 00:41:54.280 --> 00:41:56.000 be like, bro, I'm over this ship, and you be 717 00:41:56.119 --> 00:41:57.400 and then you be like, damn, I'm pregnant. 718 00:42:01.239 --> 00:42:01.599 M hmm. 719 00:42:03.880 --> 00:42:05.079 I'm just reaching out to let you. 720 00:42:05.159 --> 00:42:10.079 Know my period late. That's on you. You stressing and 721 00:42:10.159 --> 00:42:12.360 I can't I have anything. 722 00:42:13.840 --> 00:42:15.280 The craziest thing I had is I had a chick 723 00:42:15.360 --> 00:42:20.400 try to get me demoted, try to get me demoted. 724 00:42:20.880 --> 00:42:23.719 Job or like in the service, like actually in the service. 725 00:42:23.800 --> 00:42:25.320 They tried to lie and said I went a wall. 726 00:42:32.480 --> 00:42:34.559 Butter did that. I remember that she tried to say 727 00:42:34.559 --> 00:42:39.199 I went a wall. They was like, uh, everyone, Lucky, 728 00:42:39.239 --> 00:42:39.760 where are you at. 729 00:42:39.840 --> 00:42:42.559 It's like, I'm down by the creek. It's like the 730 00:42:42.719 --> 00:42:45.800 rumor is that you are on your way back to Wisconsin. 731 00:42:45.880 --> 00:42:50.760 I was like why, Like yeah, Sergeant Milton and said 732 00:42:50.760 --> 00:42:58.239 that you were on your No, no, no, no, Marshall. 733 00:42:59.679 --> 00:43:03.480 You know you start messing with his money. That's where 734 00:43:03.519 --> 00:43:04.400 it hit right there. 735 00:43:06.280 --> 00:43:08.079 Oh that's nasty work right there. 736 00:43:12.519 --> 00:43:13.960 Everything you got. 737 00:43:14.039 --> 00:43:16.119 You gotta share the story, man, you gotta tell us. 738 00:43:16.159 --> 00:43:18.559 Mike said, who, I only did one crazy thing. 739 00:43:18.719 --> 00:43:19.199 That's when I. 740 00:43:19.239 --> 00:43:22.440 Knew I had to start guarding my heart. That the 741 00:43:22.519 --> 00:43:24.199 nigga ever had me out here that bad? 742 00:43:24.800 --> 00:43:27.320 My heart not bringing that up. It's bringing back to 743 00:43:27.480 --> 00:43:29.719 things that I buried with my eggs. 744 00:43:29.760 --> 00:43:33.320 It was crazy as Yeah, it was a lot of 745 00:43:33.559 --> 00:43:35.840 I remember one time he called himself selling it. 746 00:43:37.320 --> 00:43:37.519 Broke. 747 00:43:38.719 --> 00:43:43.400 No, I ain't telling him this is actually dangerous. No, 748 00:43:43.719 --> 00:43:44.199 I ain't. 749 00:43:46.440 --> 00:43:48.800 Found out where the car was and pulled up. He 750 00:43:48.920 --> 00:43:50.960 always had the doors on like call of that, and 751 00:43:51.440 --> 00:43:54.239 got went basically cleaned everything out the car. 752 00:43:54.840 --> 00:43:57.559 When I say everything, I mean you would and stole 753 00:43:57.639 --> 00:43:58.519 the stash. 754 00:44:02.880 --> 00:44:04.360 I had helped to. I was like me, me on, 755 00:44:04.559 --> 00:44:07.199 me on, and this ten minutes clean. 756 00:44:07.679 --> 00:44:10.159 See how they just take you too far? But but 757 00:44:10.679 --> 00:44:15.239 all I did what happened, but you took it somewhere else. 758 00:44:15.800 --> 00:44:18.800 Love should have brought you home. You want to got 759 00:44:18.880 --> 00:44:19.840 ribes and. 760 00:44:21.960 --> 00:44:29.800 Around. That would have been much, but you took it there. 761 00:44:30.400 --> 00:44:30.599 Yeah. 762 00:44:30.639 --> 00:44:32.920 But when you when your mind, you don't be thinking 763 00:44:32.960 --> 00:44:36.760 about that. It's just should get tricky. Well it means 764 00:44:36.800 --> 00:44:40.760 why I'll be trying to say leave me alone? Then't 765 00:44:40.760 --> 00:44:43.519 even all that? That's the thing I like. It wasn't 766 00:44:43.960 --> 00:44:45.159 crashing out over to me. 767 00:44:45.800 --> 00:44:49.039 Well it was two jelly bean dad. Then they can 768 00:44:49.079 --> 00:44:51.119 play football, but damn all three of them did. But 769 00:44:51.239 --> 00:45:00.639 he was he was kind of quick. Yeah, so okay, 770 00:45:01.400 --> 00:45:02.000 like three minutes. 771 00:45:03.079 --> 00:45:04.920 So thank you. 772 00:45:05.239 --> 00:45:09.559 When a woman set up it ain't nothing, you know, No, 773 00:45:10.000 --> 00:45:11.400 it's like running out of love. 774 00:45:12.360 --> 00:45:15.239 So and when I have to talk about. 775 00:45:15.039 --> 00:45:18.880 It, when I hit him and we we when when 776 00:45:18.920 --> 00:45:21.960 I hit him I had. That's when I had to explore. 777 00:45:22.559 --> 00:45:24.079 Wait, so you hit him and he did one of 778 00:45:24.159 --> 00:45:26.679 those things where he like rolled back on the hood 779 00:45:26.760 --> 00:45:27.320 into the roof. 780 00:45:27.880 --> 00:45:32.159 Get one of those like to leave the weapons ship right. No, 781 00:45:32.360 --> 00:45:39.599 so what happened was, okay, you hit him, so well, 782 00:45:39.679 --> 00:45:43.800 what happened was he tried to jump like Super Mario Brothers. 783 00:45:44.519 --> 00:45:45.840 He thought that he was going to try. 784 00:45:46.440 --> 00:45:49.360 He thought he was gonna clear of the car. Explorer. Yeah, 785 00:45:50.519 --> 00:46:01.840 but you know they go smaller but like true shrink. 786 00:46:02.519 --> 00:46:08.440 But no, so okay, so this so this is the Explorer. 787 00:46:08.119 --> 00:46:13.320 Right, and he tries to jump, but it ends up 788 00:46:13.400 --> 00:46:17.239 and he rolls. So he's rolling. I can hear over 789 00:46:17.360 --> 00:46:19.760 the car and he's rolling at the I can hear 790 00:46:20.639 --> 00:46:23.559 as he's at the top and I'm adjusting my mirror 791 00:46:23.800 --> 00:46:25.840 as he's falling off the back of the truck. 792 00:46:26.719 --> 00:46:30.320 Oh my god, how fast. No, we were in my alley. 793 00:46:32.159 --> 00:46:33.880 I saw the Kobe Bryant video too. 794 00:46:33.960 --> 00:46:36.239 I don't think he jumped over a car, but that 795 00:46:36.320 --> 00:46:38.000 don't mean gonna try that sh it in real life. 796 00:46:38.800 --> 00:46:39.360 What's he hurt? 797 00:46:40.760 --> 00:46:43.639 They arrested me and I had the bruises and shit, 798 00:46:43.719 --> 00:46:52.320 he started it trying to clear. No, So well, I 799 00:46:52.320 --> 00:46:53.840 don't know if he was just trying to like lessen 800 00:46:53.880 --> 00:46:56.320 the impact, like I think like how I think he 801 00:46:56.840 --> 00:46:59.000 he was going to like jump on the hood, so 802 00:46:59.159 --> 00:47:01.639 like the front end missed him so that the impact 803 00:47:01.639 --> 00:47:03.719 wouldn't really hit him because he was like land on 804 00:47:03.800 --> 00:47:07.079 the hood. But what happened was he ended up hitting 805 00:47:07.400 --> 00:47:12.400 because I was still going forward that momentum threw the top. 806 00:47:12.760 --> 00:47:14.159 That gotta be movie. 807 00:47:16.719 --> 00:47:17.199 We have that. 808 00:47:17.559 --> 00:47:20.440 And then we had one of my exes. I hit him. 809 00:47:20.519 --> 00:47:23.199 We was off of Villard somewhere. He was on some 810 00:47:23.320 --> 00:47:25.880 buge and I hit him. I didn't give a fuck 811 00:47:25.920 --> 00:47:27.280 if he got up or not, because he didn't. 812 00:47:28.199 --> 00:47:31.280 Same Explorer, Oh, that explored that mother until I flipped 813 00:47:31.320 --> 00:47:34.039 it over an expressway. That motherfucker didn't have a din 814 00:47:34.119 --> 00:47:39.280 in it. That's why I flipped over that time. Was 815 00:47:39.360 --> 00:47:43.480 your accomplice? Yet, Man, if I ever have to have 816 00:47:43.639 --> 00:47:46.320 like another track vehicle, it would be a ninety six 817 00:47:46.440 --> 00:47:48.800 Explorer because when they say built for it tough, they 818 00:47:48.880 --> 00:47:52.159 fucking mean it because they hit a nigga and keep 819 00:47:52.199 --> 00:47:52.679 on ticking. 820 00:47:53.039 --> 00:47:54.880 I didn't even dent the emblem in the front. 821 00:47:56.320 --> 00:48:00.320 Yeah, that motherfucker was especially if you consider like if 822 00:48:00.360 --> 00:48:02.400 I was to post a picture like after I because 823 00:48:02.440 --> 00:48:06.119 I flipped over three times on the expressway, That motherfucker 824 00:48:06.199 --> 00:48:08.440 should have been a PEPSI can. That's like it was 825 00:48:08.519 --> 00:48:13.039 slightly dinner at the top, but I didn't have tales 826 00:48:13.079 --> 00:48:18.880 from the explorer. Look, but Jellybean dad he he ducked 827 00:48:19.800 --> 00:48:22.079 like well, he jumped off on the curb and between 828 00:48:22.119 --> 00:48:22.960 some garbage cans. 829 00:48:23.000 --> 00:48:25.960 So I missed him. But the other too. Oh they 830 00:48:26.000 --> 00:48:29.159 had that ship coming. Actually everybody did that. 831 00:48:29.239 --> 00:48:29.480 I hear. 832 00:48:29.519 --> 00:48:31.480 I don't just I don't just get made. 833 00:48:32.840 --> 00:48:33.760 You have to do some ship. 834 00:48:34.239 --> 00:48:36.480 You gotta really do some ship. And that's what people missed, 835 00:48:37.199 --> 00:48:39.079 Like what did you do for us to get here? 836 00:48:39.159 --> 00:48:39.920 Something happened? 837 00:48:42.480 --> 00:48:43.199 Yeah, that's. 838 00:48:44.719 --> 00:48:45.440 How did we get there. 839 00:48:47.000 --> 00:48:50.079 The fact that I had I had literal fingerprints, Like 840 00:48:50.199 --> 00:48:53.559 this motherfucker choked me so hard. I had his handprints 841 00:48:53.639 --> 00:48:56.920 and my fucking neck, my knee was my knee looked 842 00:48:56.960 --> 00:48:58.199 like my shit could have been windy. 843 00:48:58.519 --> 00:49:01.360 I'm not I'm just saying based on my frame. You 844 00:49:01.480 --> 00:49:05.159 give what I'm saying, But I'm saying at that time, 845 00:49:05.280 --> 00:49:06.920 I was probably like a I think I was like 846 00:49:07.000 --> 00:49:12.159 a buck fifteen buck, twenty tops no, I needed them 847 00:49:12.199 --> 00:49:13.480 to know how big my ship was. 848 00:49:13.559 --> 00:49:15.880 Like I thought my ship was broken. And as soon 849 00:49:15.920 --> 00:49:19.480 as my X rays cleared, they arrested me. They wheeled 850 00:49:19.559 --> 00:49:22.480 me out, throw me in the fucking batty wagon, bro. 851 00:49:23.440 --> 00:49:25.599 And then it told me, and I'm like, all right, 852 00:49:25.599 --> 00:49:27.920 ain't but you know what, I took my l because 853 00:49:27.960 --> 00:49:30.639 I knew that I you know, I knew we had 854 00:49:30.679 --> 00:49:33.639 the altercation this shit. But I'm like, all right, what 855 00:49:33.840 --> 00:49:35.400 is he being charged with? Because they told me I 856 00:49:35.519 --> 00:49:39.079 was being charge of recklessly and dangerous safety super vehicle. 857 00:49:40.599 --> 00:49:40.960 Nothing. 858 00:49:41.719 --> 00:49:47.400 Gave this nigga a pink victim pamphlet and told him 859 00:49:47.519 --> 00:49:49.599 how to get a restrained in order and press charges 860 00:49:49.679 --> 00:49:52.360 on me. Like he wasn't at my house and attacked me. 861 00:49:53.599 --> 00:49:57.119 I said, who fucking addresses on his ID? This nigga 862 00:49:57.199 --> 00:49:59.480 lived Damnar on the east Side. I live up here 863 00:49:59.559 --> 00:50:00.800 on seventy Rember, the Hampton. 864 00:50:01.079 --> 00:50:01.840 He came here. 865 00:50:04.480 --> 00:50:06.800 They wasn't on that bullshit until they ran my name 866 00:50:06.840 --> 00:50:10.119 and saw that I was on paper. Prior to that, 867 00:50:11.519 --> 00:50:13.599 it was are you okay? They saw the bruises, they 868 00:50:13.639 --> 00:50:16.000 saw my need of you need medical attention. But as 869 00:50:16.039 --> 00:50:18.519 soon as they ran my name and dog came. 870 00:50:18.400 --> 00:50:26.760 Back a fella for I was going excuse me away 871 00:50:26.760 --> 00:50:29.800 from him on one of. 872 00:50:29.840 --> 00:50:33.760 The craziest things that I've had actually, like this one motherfucker. 873 00:50:33.840 --> 00:50:37.880 There's a full list. Joel did thing of Dempsey please 874 00:50:38.000 --> 00:50:42.360 rotten pissed. That's why he looked the way he looked 875 00:50:42.400 --> 00:50:52.199 down because d no d Daniel Daniel. Yeah, his dad 876 00:50:52.360 --> 00:50:57.320 name was nothing. His middle name is did think, Yeah, 877 00:50:59.679 --> 00:51:03.400 just d E T H A N y A I 878 00:51:03.679 --> 00:51:04.320 L or some shit. 879 00:51:05.000 --> 00:51:08.760 But yeah, but anyway, No, but. 880 00:51:10.719 --> 00:51:13.159 This person, when I tell you that, they have done 881 00:51:13.280 --> 00:51:16.519 everything from trying to get me fired from multiple jobs. 882 00:51:17.199 --> 00:51:21.159 Like when I first got home, my very first job 883 00:51:21.440 --> 00:51:22.000 was that was. 884 00:51:22.000 --> 00:51:25.559 Actually where I met Jellybean's dad at It. 885 00:51:25.639 --> 00:51:27.880 Was my very first job when I got out, and 886 00:51:28.960 --> 00:51:32.400 they wanted to hire me permanently because at that point, 887 00:51:32.480 --> 00:51:34.159 like I was trying to build up more of my 888 00:51:34.280 --> 00:51:37.559 experiences shit going through tim agencies, but they fucking loved 889 00:51:37.599 --> 00:51:41.000 me out there. They wanted us to hire me permanently. 890 00:51:41.920 --> 00:51:46.559 This motherfucker calls in to my job and ask them 891 00:51:48.400 --> 00:51:52.440 how they would consider hiring somebody like me who's a 892 00:51:52.519 --> 00:51:56.800 feeling when they're good people like him still looking for 893 00:51:56.960 --> 00:51:59.079 work and they called me in the office to ask 894 00:51:59.119 --> 00:52:01.360 me about Now. I said, I don't know what that 895 00:52:01.440 --> 00:52:03.639 person's because you gotta look at They didn't do background 896 00:52:03.719 --> 00:52:06.239 just because everything went through the temp agency. The temp 897 00:52:06.320 --> 00:52:08.239 agency didn't find none of that shit because what the 898 00:52:08.320 --> 00:52:11.039 most temp agencies look for, they look on seacat. My 899 00:52:11.119 --> 00:52:13.280 shit was federal. So I was still skating on a 900 00:52:13.360 --> 00:52:16.559 lot of things because people weren't thinking. They butn't checking 901 00:52:16.639 --> 00:52:19.199 the federal fucking database to working and work in the warehouse. 902 00:52:21.840 --> 00:52:23.960 But they was like, yeah, we had a call and this, 903 00:52:24.239 --> 00:52:26.239 you know he was. I was like, I said, I 904 00:52:26.320 --> 00:52:28.599 don't know what this person is talking about. I was like, 905 00:52:29.159 --> 00:52:31.280 I had an ex boyfriend and we broke up, and 906 00:52:31.639 --> 00:52:33.840 you know, they was like, oh, say no more, we 907 00:52:33.960 --> 00:52:35.360 get it and they let it go. 908 00:52:36.440 --> 00:52:40.679 So I know the fuck you ain't talking nigga. Have 909 00:52:40.800 --> 00:52:41.760 you ever hit him with a car? 910 00:52:43.480 --> 00:52:45.280 I do have a picture with Ken on the front 911 00:52:45.320 --> 00:52:47.079 of the hood while I was driving, but I didn't 912 00:52:47.159 --> 00:52:51.760 hit him. He put itself there. He was holding on 913 00:52:51.880 --> 00:52:52.320 like this too. 914 00:52:52.360 --> 00:52:55.280 It was so funny. I'm gonna go share it on Facebook. 915 00:52:56.880 --> 00:52:57.480 It's still there. 916 00:52:57.599 --> 00:53:01.519 Sent my memory somewhere. Well, yeah, because you know that 917 00:53:01.679 --> 00:53:08.199 one finger is yeah, but no, you did put yourself there. 918 00:53:13.079 --> 00:53:24.360 His hat was to the back of ship. No, but 919 00:53:25.119 --> 00:53:29.360 that nigga was really fucking mental when he found out 920 00:53:29.559 --> 00:53:31.880 that I was pregnant with jelly Bean. Do you know 921 00:53:31.960 --> 00:53:34.880 how retarded you have to be to come show your 922 00:53:34.960 --> 00:53:37.679 ass and m a TC when the police station is 923 00:53:37.800 --> 00:53:46.599 literally right across the street. So so his sister, well, 924 00:53:46.760 --> 00:53:50.800 he thought that he was basically like untouched. His mom 925 00:53:50.960 --> 00:53:53.400 was white. So while he was in the middle of 926 00:53:53.800 --> 00:54:00.159 violating this restrained order a million times, yes, violating this restrained. 927 00:54:01.440 --> 00:54:05.679 A million times, he's leaving. 928 00:54:06.559 --> 00:54:11.480 It got to a point where my mom disabled like 929 00:54:11.639 --> 00:54:14.760 our actual voicemail feature on the phone and got a 930 00:54:14.840 --> 00:54:18.760 physical answer machine like with the taping ship, so that 931 00:54:18.880 --> 00:54:21.320 she could be able to have the evidence for the police, 932 00:54:21.920 --> 00:54:25.239 because you have a restrained order on you. But yeah, 933 00:54:25.320 --> 00:54:29.000 you were leaving fucking messages, so you were leaving proof 934 00:54:29.079 --> 00:54:32.199 that you were violating this restraining order. And then one 935 00:54:32.239 --> 00:54:35.159 of the one of the messages, he said like I 936 00:54:35.280 --> 00:54:39.960 can kill you and get away with it because I'm 937 00:54:40.039 --> 00:54:42.559 half white and when you white, everything is right. 938 00:54:44.320 --> 00:54:45.039 The word black. 939 00:54:45.880 --> 00:54:51.800 So one day, so one day, so what happened was 940 00:54:52.679 --> 00:54:54.960 his I saw his I saw one of his sisters 941 00:54:55.199 --> 00:54:59.400 when I was working in MTC and she saw that 942 00:54:59.679 --> 00:55:02.519 I was pregnant, So she must have went back and said, hey, 943 00:55:02.599 --> 00:55:04.440 you know I ran into such and such. You know 944 00:55:04.519 --> 00:55:06.119 she I didn't know she was pregnant, like all this 945 00:55:06.280 --> 00:55:08.920 kind of shit. He ends up coming down n ATC 946 00:55:09.119 --> 00:55:12.639 while I am at work, and he shows his natural 947 00:55:12.719 --> 00:55:15.920 black ass, so they had to cause security cops came 948 00:55:16.000 --> 00:55:16.840 as a bunch of shit. 949 00:55:16.920 --> 00:55:19.559 They you know, carting them off, did whatever with them. 950 00:55:20.920 --> 00:55:27.519 And fast forward. I'm way down the line with my pregnancy. 951 00:55:27.599 --> 00:55:31.000 Now I am on the couch not out. 952 00:55:31.800 --> 00:55:35.400 All of a sudden, you hear do like it sound 953 00:55:35.480 --> 00:55:38.239 like the fucking swat is beating on my door, So 954 00:55:38.519 --> 00:55:42.000 I get up go to the door. They asked him like, 955 00:55:42.000 --> 00:55:44.960 are you to Mika thinkings blah blah blah blah blah. Yeah, 956 00:55:46.159 --> 00:55:48.559 they trying to fucking take me so that they can 957 00:55:48.599 --> 00:55:52.360 commit me to a mental institution because this nigga then 958 00:55:52.480 --> 00:55:56.400 told them that I was trying to kill myself because 959 00:55:56.440 --> 00:56:01.280 he broke up with me. He called CPS on me 960 00:56:01.400 --> 00:56:05.760 twice and told them that it was his baby that 961 00:56:05.840 --> 00:56:08.840 I was pregnant with and I was holding a shotgun 962 00:56:09.119 --> 00:56:11.239 to my stomach, saying that I was gonna kill me 963 00:56:11.400 --> 00:56:14.000 and the baby that I was trying to drown reading 964 00:56:14.079 --> 00:56:16.960 the bathtub and beating her with hair brushes and all 965 00:56:17.079 --> 00:56:19.119 kinds of shit. So I had to deal with this toy, 966 00:56:19.239 --> 00:56:22.079 and you know, and even the second time, like CPS 967 00:56:22.239 --> 00:56:24.239 is like they've already had it in and I was like, 968 00:56:24.320 --> 00:56:27.360 there's no Vius going on with happy kids. You know, 969 00:56:27.760 --> 00:56:29.519 you can tell she's taking care of all of this 970 00:56:29.639 --> 00:56:31.360 kind of shit, but you know, they can't ignore the claims. 971 00:56:31.360 --> 00:56:34.280 They still have to come out and investigate. So it's 972 00:56:34.320 --> 00:56:37.719 like at this point when the second people come like 973 00:56:37.800 --> 00:56:40.679 we're not mad at it because we know that it's protocol, 974 00:56:40.719 --> 00:56:42.440 but it's like how much. 975 00:56:42.760 --> 00:56:46.400 Yes, yes, so Ken is like was that to let 976 00:56:46.480 --> 00:56:50.039 me see my kid? Nigga? Yes, So there was a 977 00:56:50.280 --> 00:56:54.320 letter on my wingshes you don't remember that letter he 978 00:56:54.400 --> 00:56:55.760 left on my windshit when it was like let me 979 00:56:55.800 --> 00:56:57.719 see my son, bro, I don't even have a son, 980 00:57:02.840 --> 00:57:06.920 but it was I was like, maybe he was watching 981 00:57:06.960 --> 00:57:09.079 baby boy. I want to see my son. 982 00:57:09.440 --> 00:57:14.039 When Juddy was at the door. Oh, when he left 983 00:57:14.119 --> 00:57:17.480 that note under my windshield wiper. It came at the 984 00:57:17.559 --> 00:57:22.119 cost of a flat tire and a huge cinder block 985 00:57:22.679 --> 00:57:25.639 that cracked my windshield and was laying on the top 986 00:57:25.719 --> 00:57:28.639 of my hood. I came out of my house to 987 00:57:29.159 --> 00:57:33.840 a full gas can on my porch as a warning 988 00:57:33.920 --> 00:57:36.920 that he was going to burn my house down. It 989 00:57:37.000 --> 00:57:40.239 got to a point where I had an actual officer 990 00:57:40.920 --> 00:57:50.320 assigned to my case, officer Thomas Strick. I still remember 991 00:57:50.400 --> 00:57:54.159 his name, Thomas Strick. He ended up actually being assigned 992 00:57:54.199 --> 00:57:56.360 to the because because I had to keep calling and 993 00:57:56.440 --> 00:57:58.920 he was like like, like that was his area. So 994 00:57:59.119 --> 00:58:03.280 one day I called because I spotted him in the neighborhood. 995 00:58:03.719 --> 00:58:05.480 He was walking around and he had a backpack on. 996 00:58:05.519 --> 00:58:08.320 He was walking like this with his backpack, and I'm like, 997 00:58:09.119 --> 00:58:11.599 you got a half white nigga with a backpack. It's 998 00:58:11.719 --> 00:58:13.039 probably not gonna go well. 999 00:58:13.639 --> 00:58:16.599 And for me being on probation, because I was, you know, 1000 00:58:16.679 --> 00:58:18.599 I'm still on probation and shit at the time, like 1001 00:58:19.199 --> 00:58:21.480 there's nothing that I can really do without getting in 1002 00:58:21.559 --> 00:58:25.599 trouble other than continuously called the police because I need 1003 00:58:25.719 --> 00:58:29.760 a paper trailer to protect myself. So I'm sitting here 1004 00:58:30.119 --> 00:58:35.119 and I'm at the driver's window of the police car 1005 00:58:35.360 --> 00:58:39.840 talking to officer strict. All of a sudden, he seen 1006 00:58:39.920 --> 00:58:41.920 me eat and he see him talking. So here I 1007 00:58:42.000 --> 00:58:43.639 was like, there he go right there, there go right there. 1008 00:58:43.760 --> 00:58:47.079 So I'm saying, he was like he went and he 1009 00:58:47.199 --> 00:58:49.320 stopped me. He threw him in the back of the 1010 00:58:49.360 --> 00:58:50.159 fucking squad car. 1011 00:58:51.280 --> 00:58:51.679 I don't know. 1012 00:58:52.639 --> 00:58:53.880 He took him and he pulled off. 1013 00:58:54.079 --> 00:58:56.880 Like but see, that's why what you just mentioned on 1014 00:58:57.159 --> 00:58:59.360 kind of off topic. But having those police in the 1015 00:58:59.400 --> 00:59:01.639 neighborhood gets to know you, you get to know them. 1016 00:59:01.800 --> 00:59:02.760 He didn't have a choice. 1017 00:59:03.599 --> 00:59:04.880 I had to call him and say he didn't have 1018 00:59:04.960 --> 00:59:08.719 a fucking choice. He might as well have been personally, 1019 00:59:09.280 --> 00:59:11.679 he might as well have in personal fucking security. Because 1020 00:59:12.000 --> 00:59:14.719 now I thought that they were I thought that they 1021 00:59:14.760 --> 00:59:17.599 were going to rest my mom because that day that 1022 00:59:17.719 --> 00:59:21.280 they sent them to the house and they thought that 1023 00:59:21.360 --> 00:59:24.400 they was. Yeah, when I tell you my mama went 1024 00:59:24.480 --> 00:59:28.519 the fuck off, I would too. And and and one 1025 00:59:28.599 --> 00:59:30.559 of them was like a sergeant or some shit, and 1026 00:59:30.679 --> 00:59:32.800 he was a he was a black guy. But when 1027 00:59:32.840 --> 00:59:34.760 I tell you, my mama went the fuck And when 1028 00:59:34.880 --> 00:59:36.239 she was like, get the fuck out of my like, 1029 00:59:36.360 --> 00:59:40.599 she just went the fuck off. And I'm I'm I'm 1030 00:59:40.719 --> 00:59:44.519 pregnant and you already know what that's like. And I'm frustrated, 1031 00:59:44.519 --> 00:59:45.960 and when I tell you, like I was stumped, like 1032 00:59:46.079 --> 00:59:48.719 I was crying, like I was so frustrated and just 1033 00:59:48.840 --> 00:59:51.440 mad because I'm like, this nigga has been harassing me 1034 00:59:51.559 --> 00:59:54.000 for the longest and y'all not doing shit. The restrainer 1035 00:59:54.079 --> 00:59:56.559 order ain't fucking doing nothing. Restrainer orders are a joke 1036 00:59:58.559 --> 01:00:01.159 because as many times as he violated, they let that 1037 01:00:01.280 --> 01:00:04.159 nigga plead down to like three of them, and even 1038 01:00:04.239 --> 01:00:06.360 then they stayed the sentence, so they didn't put him 1039 01:00:06.360 --> 01:00:11.559 in jail right the fuck away. All No, But then 1040 01:00:11.679 --> 01:00:13.800 the moment you pop a motherfucker, then they be mad 1041 01:00:13.880 --> 01:00:16.039 and talking about some Well you should have called the police. 1042 01:00:16.119 --> 01:00:18.480 I did, you bitches, wasn't doing your job. You might 1043 01:00:18.519 --> 01:00:20.320 as well put me on the fucking forest, put me 1044 01:00:20.400 --> 01:00:22.800 on the payroll. I had to kill my own fucking stalker. 1045 01:00:29.280 --> 01:00:32.480 That mine said. She said, they don't help until something happens, 1046 01:00:32.519 --> 01:00:35.159 which is sad, right, and it'd be too late. It'd 1047 01:00:35.199 --> 01:00:37.599 be too fucking late, like they will watch all of 1048 01:00:37.639 --> 01:00:40.360 this ship unfold and do absolutely fucking nothing. 1049 01:00:40.440 --> 01:00:42.920 But yes, this nigga was a fucking minute. He was 1050 01:00:42.960 --> 01:00:48.079 a goddamn terror. I did feel good. Now he dig 1051 01:00:48.079 --> 01:00:55.519 get his ass whooped the uk mm hmm. 1052 01:00:56.719 --> 01:00:59.440 And then when he got beat up, he got beat 1053 01:00:59.519 --> 01:01:04.119 up by younger people like they were miners. We were 1054 01:01:04.159 --> 01:01:08.519 at chante house and now I'm at my cousin house. 1055 01:01:08.719 --> 01:01:12.639 I actually met him through my cousin's baby daddy. So 1056 01:01:12.920 --> 01:01:16.199 I am holding her youngest daughter like it's a baby, 1057 01:01:17.039 --> 01:01:20.159 and he coming there grabbing my fucking hair and shit 1058 01:01:20.639 --> 01:01:21.599 while I have the baby. 1059 01:01:22.079 --> 01:01:23.880 So I had to give the baby to one of them, 1060 01:01:24.000 --> 01:01:24.360 and I gir. 1061 01:01:24.559 --> 01:01:26.800 She had this big ass cast iron scalet on her 1062 01:01:27.039 --> 01:01:29.719 uh stove, and I took it and I hit him 1063 01:01:29.760 --> 01:01:34.440 with it. All of her baby daddy's little brothers like 1064 01:01:34.679 --> 01:01:37.679 they whipped his ass like they literally beat him on 1065 01:01:37.760 --> 01:01:40.280 his shoe in the sock. So by the time the 1066 01:01:40.320 --> 01:01:42.719 police came and arrested him, and shit, he only had 1067 01:01:42.760 --> 01:01:46.199 one shoe and sock on. But my uncle, but my 1068 01:01:46.320 --> 01:01:48.440 uncle shout out to my uncle Carl. My uncle Carl 1069 01:01:48.559 --> 01:01:51.239 came and when I tell you this, nigga was on 1070 01:01:51.480 --> 01:01:55.000 his fucking knees begging my uncle because my uncle's a 1071 01:01:55.039 --> 01:01:57.760 big dude, begging my uncle not to shrad his shit. 1072 01:01:59.119 --> 01:02:00.559 You ain't think about none of that when he was 1073 01:02:00.599 --> 01:02:04.000 wreaking habit. Nope, I'm glad he gonna. 1074 01:02:05.320 --> 01:02:06.280 This story would be a lot. 1075 01:02:07.960 --> 01:02:09.559 I've had a nigga shoot at me because I was 1076 01:02:09.599 --> 01:02:10.760 at a fucking stripper party. 1077 01:02:11.000 --> 01:02:15.559 It's niggas is wild. Now I've set ship on fire though, 1078 01:02:17.760 --> 01:02:21.440 hm hm, So I think. 1079 01:02:21.440 --> 01:02:24.800 When it comes to the stories of who has done 1080 01:02:24.840 --> 01:02:26.559 the craziest things, I think you won. 1081 01:02:27.320 --> 01:02:28.199 So yeah. 1082 01:02:28.960 --> 01:02:32.320 Yeah, but even the crazy ship that I did, it 1083 01:02:32.480 --> 01:02:34.880 wasn't just like because we broke up it was it 1084 01:02:35.000 --> 01:02:37.639 was always something that was attached to it, Like even 1085 01:02:37.760 --> 01:02:39.880 like with the fire ship, like it was std shit 1086 01:02:40.000 --> 01:02:42.039 involved like that was that was what set me the 1087 01:02:42.079 --> 01:02:49.000 fuck off. I've never just did shit crazy to being crazy. Yes, 1088 01:02:49.559 --> 01:03:02.599 you hit me with a car, Yes, shit, everybody know 1089 01:03:02.719 --> 01:03:03.559 the fucking story. 1090 01:03:06.000 --> 01:03:06.239 Yeah. 1091 01:03:06.920 --> 01:03:11.920 But the reason why I asked that is because of 1092 01:03:12.039 --> 01:03:15.079 something that came up on social media. Tone you want 1093 01:03:15.119 --> 01:03:17.360 to play that video the moment to caption the girl 1094 01:03:17.400 --> 01:03:20.960 with our lip gluss that one yep, done in a relationship. 1095 01:03:21.880 --> 01:03:23.719 This is one of my We weren't in the relationship, 1096 01:03:23.760 --> 01:03:27.320 but this is probably one of my favorite crazy Kayla 1097 01:03:27.360 --> 01:03:29.480 stories because I don't have that many, but I'm a 1098 01:03:29.519 --> 01:03:31.960 scorpio and I have that crazy in me though. 1099 01:03:32.000 --> 01:03:33.199 You know what I mean, like it exactly. 1100 01:03:34.639 --> 01:03:34.679 So. 1101 01:03:35.239 --> 01:03:36.119 I was dating a guy. 1102 01:03:36.519 --> 01:03:39.920 Okay, I was dating a guy and he dumped me 1103 01:03:41.000 --> 01:03:43.840 through a text message, and he dumped me for this 1104 01:03:44.599 --> 01:03:48.840 singer slash actress who was famous at the time, dumped 1105 01:03:48.880 --> 01:03:52.159 me for her, lied about it for months, then popped 1106 01:03:52.159 --> 01:03:53.880 out with her, and it became this public thing and 1107 01:03:53.920 --> 01:03:55.360 it was like, oh my god, we love them another, 1108 01:03:55.480 --> 01:03:59.280 like celebrity iconic relationship. And of course little old me, 1109 01:03:59.280 --> 01:04:01.960 I'm devastated. I'm heartbroke, and I just moved to New 1110 01:04:02.079 --> 01:04:03.800 York to like be with this person and move in 1111 01:04:03.920 --> 01:04:04.199 with them. 1112 01:04:04.280 --> 01:04:04.880 It was a whole thing. 1113 01:04:04.960 --> 01:04:05.800 It's not what y'all think. 1114 01:04:06.400 --> 01:04:08.480 Yeah, you guys will not be able to figu this out. Everything, Well, 1115 01:04:08.519 --> 01:04:10.559 who cares, it's not. So he breaks up with me, 1116 01:04:10.679 --> 01:04:14.480 dumps me, moves on, and for Halloween that year, I 1117 01:04:14.599 --> 01:04:15.400 dressed up as her. 1118 01:04:16.360 --> 01:04:18.239 I dressed up as that lady for Halloween. 1119 01:04:18.760 --> 01:04:22.039 And not only they're they're somewhere there on the internet 1120 01:04:22.400 --> 01:04:24.760 and it went by that, it went viral. 1121 01:04:24.920 --> 01:04:26.360 It was everywhere, and it. 1122 01:04:26.400 --> 01:04:29.039 Was before like I was even anything on Instagram, which 1123 01:04:29.039 --> 01:04:30.840 is why it was even funnier because everybody's like, oh 1124 01:04:30.880 --> 01:04:31.239 my god, you. 1125 01:04:31.239 --> 01:04:32.440 Look so goody did he say something? 1126 01:04:32.960 --> 01:04:33.599 Yeah, you call me. 1127 01:04:33.679 --> 01:04:36.079 Crazy, like you're a crazy person. 1128 01:04:40.159 --> 01:04:42.199 I don't know what she thought that she was achieving 1129 01:04:42.239 --> 01:04:44.679 with that, but that that picture that mom was about 1130 01:04:44.719 --> 01:04:46.280 to beat his meat too. Y, go ahead and put 1131 01:04:46.320 --> 01:04:56.079 that on screen, please, so can we see who she dressed? 1132 01:04:56.159 --> 01:05:01.840 Like, yes, so she was talking about Yes, oh. 1133 01:05:03.039 --> 01:05:05.039 Smart move, buddy. I mean, I mean, you're in the 1134 01:05:05.119 --> 01:05:08.159 fucked up boat now, but a one at the moment. 1135 01:05:08.239 --> 01:05:08.960 You're not wrong. 1136 01:05:09.719 --> 01:05:15.239 But yeah, yeah, so I have an opinion about that too. 1137 01:05:15.280 --> 01:05:21.239 It's probably a little unpopular, but yeah, so go ahead 1138 01:05:21.320 --> 01:05:26.639 and put up that next one. I wait after you this. Yep. 1139 01:05:27.000 --> 01:05:31.599 So Tianna now knows, like what's going on. She said, 1140 01:05:31.719 --> 01:05:34.199 it's really crazy that everyone is allowed to bother me 1141 01:05:34.280 --> 01:05:37.519 and be distasteful. Everybody gets to play while I move 1142 01:05:37.599 --> 01:05:40.400 with grace always. But now I want to have a 1143 01:05:40.440 --> 01:05:43.920 little Sagittarius fun too, And it's a problem fucking in 1144 01:05:44.039 --> 01:05:47.119 my part. I'm divorced and happily so. However, her choice 1145 01:05:47.159 --> 01:05:50.000 of words were very distasteful and uncalled for. She knew 1146 01:05:50.039 --> 01:05:52.760 exactly what she was doing. That lady said she was 1147 01:05:52.800 --> 01:05:55.480 famous at the time, also said I don't care who 1148 01:05:55.559 --> 01:05:58.960 see it. It was very distasteful and uncalled for. Most importantly, 1149 01:05:59.119 --> 01:06:02.320 she knew people would so automatically my name was attached 1150 01:06:02.360 --> 01:06:04.039 to the nonsense at that point. 1151 01:06:04.199 --> 01:06:05.400 She didn't need to act me. 1152 01:06:05.840 --> 01:06:09.000 That was very clearly a quick search. My name was 1153 01:06:09.079 --> 01:06:11.639 trending without an act before even saying the word. That's 1154 01:06:11.679 --> 01:06:14.239 how I seen it. On top of the fact that 1155 01:06:14.360 --> 01:06:17.159 the math was in mathing and the facts weren't factor. However, 1156 01:06:17.440 --> 01:06:20.599 the level of cringe factor was. I'm finding out, just 1157 01:06:20.679 --> 01:06:22.920 like the world, that her intentions were ill and petty. 1158 01:06:23.119 --> 01:06:25.599 She pulled the black card when it came to Taylor Swift, 1159 01:06:25.840 --> 01:06:28.000 but in the same circle turned around and tried to 1160 01:06:28.039 --> 01:06:30.719 bully the black woman that was married to her situationship 1161 01:06:30.760 --> 01:06:34.159 because she claimed dumped her for me dressing up like me. 1162 01:06:34.280 --> 01:06:37.079 For what crazy part about all of it is, I 1163 01:06:37.199 --> 01:06:39.519 actually showed love under her pick when she posted it, 1164 01:06:40.039 --> 01:06:42.239 like I did the other million people that dressed up 1165 01:06:42.239 --> 01:06:44.920 as me for Halloween. Whole time, I ain't even know 1166 01:06:45.039 --> 01:06:47.800 she was being shady now I do so in that case, 1167 01:06:48.000 --> 01:06:51.119 Petty Pennies on, I had my little fun, I said 1168 01:06:51.159 --> 01:06:54.599 what I said, and now I'm done and headed back 1169 01:06:54.639 --> 01:07:00.639 to set. How did you think that that you being 1170 01:07:01.199 --> 01:07:02.440 petty to her in any way? 1171 01:07:04.880 --> 01:07:07.800 That's the weirdest place I've ever seen, right, Like, you 1172 01:07:07.920 --> 01:07:11.480 didn't you didn't doing that. He dumbed you for me, 1173 01:07:11.760 --> 01:07:15.039 and then you went and decided to be me like 1174 01:07:15.199 --> 01:07:16.760 that is That's ill, That's ill. 1175 01:07:17.039 --> 01:07:18.960 That's why we think women is fucking tycho. 1176 01:07:19.360 --> 01:07:19.679 They are. 1177 01:07:22.239 --> 01:07:24.360 Like if anything I would, I think I would dressing 1178 01:07:24.440 --> 01:07:27.559 your ap like instead of you. 1179 01:07:27.760 --> 01:07:28.079 You d. 1180 01:07:31.400 --> 01:07:33.800 Here's my thing with it, and I think and it 1181 01:07:34.000 --> 01:07:38.679 kind of is unrelated to what she said. In particular, yo, 1182 01:07:39.199 --> 01:07:46.000 he the energy that she had for this situation when 1183 01:07:46.480 --> 01:07:47.639 a couple of weeks ago. 1184 01:07:48.840 --> 01:07:53.719 And Barros was frolicking on the boat with this nigga 1185 01:07:54.320 --> 01:07:57.599 and was fucking around with him when y'all were still married, 1186 01:07:57.960 --> 01:08:00.880 and that was all over the internet and she said. 1187 01:08:00.920 --> 01:08:02.639 Absolutely nothing about it. 1188 01:08:02.840 --> 01:08:05.519 But then it's like this situation, it's like, oh no, 1189 01:08:06.119 --> 01:08:09.440 I'm wearing And I think a lot of people when 1190 01:08:09.440 --> 01:08:11.079 I was reading the comments had agree with that too. 1191 01:08:11.159 --> 01:08:14.360 It was like okay, like yeah, she did this, but 1192 01:08:14.480 --> 01:08:16.840 it wasn't as serious as all of this other stuff, 1193 01:08:16.840 --> 01:08:20.199 and normally you stay quiet when he's attached to any 1194 01:08:20.279 --> 01:08:22.279 other woman or got anything else going on, and you 1195 01:08:22.399 --> 01:08:24.800 decided to all of a sudden pop out and speak 1196 01:08:24.880 --> 01:08:28.039 now when amberban frollocking with your nigga and your friends 1197 01:08:28.039 --> 01:08:30.199 spoke out, and you didn't say shit like. 1198 01:08:31.680 --> 01:08:31.960 Thank you? 1199 01:08:32.119 --> 01:08:34.760 Mind? She said, will is Amber speaking on her? And 1200 01:08:34.840 --> 01:08:37.159 I think that's my thing. It's like how I have 1201 01:08:37.359 --> 01:08:41.079 always said, I have never beef with a bitch. I 1202 01:08:41.199 --> 01:08:43.159 had a problem with a bitch over a nigga, but 1203 01:08:43.239 --> 01:08:48.079 I have had it over disrespect. In this case, you 1204 01:08:48.319 --> 01:08:51.520 pulled some and then you had me under this motherfucker 1205 01:08:51.600 --> 01:08:53.800 comment and complimenting you and shit because I didn't know 1206 01:08:53.880 --> 01:08:56.800 you was on bullshit like this is something that you. 1207 01:08:56.960 --> 01:08:58.600 Did directly towards me. 1208 01:08:59.039 --> 01:09:01.199 I don't give a fuck about it that nigga, but 1209 01:09:01.359 --> 01:09:03.319 this was some ship that you did towards me and 1210 01:09:03.399 --> 01:09:06.520 bitch for what. So maybe that's why I understand it, 1211 01:09:06.560 --> 01:09:08.439 because I've always felt like, but I'm not gonna be 1212 01:09:08.560 --> 01:09:09.479 with you over no nigga. 1213 01:09:09.800 --> 01:09:11.920 Just keep your just keep your mouth off me. You 1214 01:09:12.000 --> 01:09:14.039 know what I'm saying. Don't don't do no bullshit towards me. 1215 01:09:14.159 --> 01:09:15.560 And I don't. We don't got to worry about it. 1216 01:09:15.640 --> 01:09:19.760 I think, And she look at it like the game 1217 01:09:19.880 --> 01:09:22.279 is the game, this is the circle we hang out, 1218 01:09:22.359 --> 01:09:24.199 and this is the level of people. 1219 01:09:24.279 --> 01:09:25.600 So you're gonna day other famous. 1220 01:09:25.760 --> 01:09:28.760 No, this situation with them was they were it was 1221 01:09:28.880 --> 01:09:31.319 her friends said they were messing around behind Tiana back 1222 01:09:31.319 --> 01:09:33.319 when they were married, and so to all of a 1223 01:09:33.359 --> 01:09:35.680 sudden pop out with her, it's like, yeah, like. 1224 01:09:36.079 --> 01:09:38.159 You was crying to Tiana and saying no, no, no, 1225 01:09:38.239 --> 01:09:40.439 it's not like that. It's not like that, but now 1226 01:09:40.600 --> 01:09:41.840 it looks like that's what it is. 1227 01:09:42.159 --> 01:09:45.159 But the game is the game. She's not speaking on well, 1228 01:09:45.319 --> 01:09:47.520 me and him doing and got nothing to do with you. 1229 01:09:47.640 --> 01:09:50.359 That's why we're cheating. Anybody supposed to know what we're doing. 1230 01:09:50.600 --> 01:09:54.520 I have had out here with the over disrespect. 1231 01:09:55.439 --> 01:09:58.279 I have had family that is going behind my back 1232 01:09:58.359 --> 01:10:00.840 and fuck niggas that I was fucking weird, right. 1233 01:10:02.840 --> 01:10:05.880 I didn't get mad at nobody. I didn't cuss nobody out. 1234 01:10:06.279 --> 01:10:07.119 I didn't do none of that. 1235 01:10:07.680 --> 01:10:10.640 The one time that I spoke was when you felt 1236 01:10:10.720 --> 01:10:13.079 like you was gonna go to this nigga and tell 1237 01:10:13.159 --> 01:10:15.479 him some shit about me, because bitch, if you wanted 1238 01:10:15.520 --> 01:10:18.439 to fucking you do that, keep your mother fucking name, 1239 01:10:18.720 --> 01:10:21.479 keep my motherfucking name out your mouth, do whatever you 1240 01:10:21.600 --> 01:10:23.399 go do. And if you can pull that nigga without 1241 01:10:23.479 --> 01:10:25.159 saying anything about me, then you do that. 1242 01:10:25.800 --> 01:10:27.600 But the moment you get to, oh, well, you know 1243 01:10:27.680 --> 01:10:29.680 she this and you know she that. See now you 1244 01:10:29.800 --> 01:10:31.479 want me to slap the fuck out you. You know 1245 01:10:31.520 --> 01:10:32.000 what I'm saying. 1246 01:10:32.159 --> 01:10:36.760 Like so so for me, I think that's why I 1247 01:10:36.800 --> 01:10:39.479 don't look at it that way, because it's like you 1248 01:10:39.640 --> 01:10:40.640 fucking with that nigga. 1249 01:10:40.760 --> 01:10:41.920 I'm not even with him no more. 1250 01:10:42.000 --> 01:10:44.279 So whatever y'all was doing in it clearly don't matter 1251 01:10:44.399 --> 01:10:48.439 because we divorced anyway, so clearly something about him wasn't shit. 1252 01:10:49.079 --> 01:10:52.960 But the fact that you are talking now, like right 1253 01:10:53.079 --> 01:10:57.399 now on the platform about how you was petty towards me, 1254 01:10:57.439 --> 01:10:59.239 you could have kept that story to yourself. 1255 01:11:01.479 --> 01:11:01.920 Exactly. 1256 01:11:04.840 --> 01:11:09.880 Man, that like that is like you really said, damn 1257 01:11:09.960 --> 01:11:12.840 he left me for her. I'm finna go baby oil 1258 01:11:12.920 --> 01:11:14.840 myself up and go be her on Instagram? 1259 01:11:15.000 --> 01:11:16.000 Like what the fuck. 1260 01:11:16.720 --> 01:11:20.079 Somebody's supposed to the walker gift under that way? 1261 01:11:20.079 --> 01:11:25.680 He just be like, yeah, that man said, And she 1262 01:11:25.760 --> 01:11:27.800 could have told the story without making it known who 1263 01:11:27.880 --> 01:11:30.279 it was or throwing shade who is she? 1264 01:11:31.600 --> 01:11:33.439 She used to date? The chick? 1265 01:11:33.520 --> 01:11:37.399 Who the guy that, Yeah, she's kind of in like 1266 01:11:37.560 --> 01:11:40.039 journalism and like the sports world, and she's also. 1267 01:11:41.359 --> 01:11:42.119 Who is she? 1268 01:11:43.680 --> 01:11:44.479 What is her name? 1269 01:11:44.680 --> 01:11:50.199 Honestly Taylor no joy by future baby sins what I'm. 1270 01:11:50.079 --> 01:11:51.960 Saying, who are these holes? 1271 01:11:52.680 --> 01:11:54.520 And then you're sitting on the couch next to the 1272 01:11:54.560 --> 01:11:57.680 angel reasons should be somewhere in the fucking gym shooting 1273 01:11:57.800 --> 01:12:00.319 fucking free throws or something like, what is it all? 1274 01:12:01.239 --> 01:12:02.000 But what's funny? 1275 01:12:03.640 --> 01:12:03.920 Injury? 1276 01:12:03.920 --> 01:12:06.000 If I'm not mistaken, use your other hand. 1277 01:12:06.279 --> 01:12:11.439 Get it strong, ye y'all letting this white girl come 1278 01:12:11.479 --> 01:12:12.840 in here and watch all y'all. 1279 01:12:14.640 --> 01:12:16.079 Your other hand, get it drunk. 1280 01:12:19.399 --> 01:12:19.720 A break? 1281 01:12:19.880 --> 01:12:22.039 This sounds like advice to give a nigga to masturbate with. 1282 01:12:22.479 --> 01:12:26.000 Oh my god, it did that. 1283 01:12:26.159 --> 01:12:28.920 Mine said, never the dude, It's always a disrespect. And 1284 01:12:29.239 --> 01:12:30.800 I've been in those situations a lot. 1285 01:12:30.840 --> 01:12:32.760 You probably was like, this is gonna be a silent 1286 01:12:32.880 --> 01:12:34.800 like when you see, you gonna know what You're gonna 1287 01:12:34.840 --> 01:12:38.479 know that I know, and it's gonna be a one 1288 01:12:38.520 --> 01:12:41.239 to one thing, which all these years it might have been. 1289 01:12:41.199 --> 01:12:46.079 But Shorty won't walk up and punch you in the face. 1290 01:12:46.159 --> 01:12:50.600 Stop playing with people, and and then it was like 1291 01:12:51.119 --> 01:12:52.920 that was my only thing on top of that, and 1292 01:12:53.039 --> 01:12:56.199 then you and then you're throwing additional shade on top 1293 01:12:56.239 --> 01:12:58.600 of like and she was famous at the time. 1294 01:12:59.319 --> 01:13:03.279 The motherfucker. I still don't know that she's that chicken. 1295 01:13:03.439 --> 01:13:04.359 I love Tiannah Taylor. 1296 01:13:07.159 --> 01:13:09.720 I think now she's she's really really, really focusing on 1297 01:13:09.800 --> 01:13:11.239 her acting. You know, I got to watch one of 1298 01:13:11.319 --> 01:13:13.560 her movies. I forgot the name of it, but people 1299 01:13:13.560 --> 01:13:14.800 say that it was actually really good. 1300 01:13:15.399 --> 01:13:28.439 She's a good actress. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I forgot the 1301 01:13:28.560 --> 01:13:32.239 name of it. Yeah, but I think that was her thing. 1302 01:13:32.279 --> 01:13:35.119 And then people were taking a clique that she had 1303 01:13:35.199 --> 01:13:37.600 on Breakfast Club out of context because they thought that 1304 01:13:38.199 --> 01:13:42.279 she was talking about Emma when she was talking about 1305 01:13:42.640 --> 01:13:43.159 her career. 1306 01:13:43.760 --> 01:13:45.680 She wasn't even talking about him. When she was like 1307 01:13:46.640 --> 01:13:47.319 as far as like. 1308 01:13:47.359 --> 01:13:49.920 We're going where you appreciate it, and she was saying 1309 01:13:50.039 --> 01:13:52.840 like how like we're doing music and stuff, it was 1310 01:13:53.000 --> 01:13:55.399 just it was a lot of hurdles and obstacles and stuff. 1311 01:13:55.399 --> 01:13:58.239 When she wasn't feeling like she didn't have the people 1312 01:13:58.359 --> 01:14:00.439 rallying behind her that she should have have to be 1313 01:14:00.479 --> 01:14:04.359 able to give her that push, and she turned, you 1314 01:14:04.439 --> 01:14:06.760 know into acting like she realized like that's really what 1315 01:14:07.239 --> 01:14:08.720 you know she want to put her focus into. 1316 01:14:08.800 --> 01:14:11.840 And I'm like, damn, I like that. I like that 1317 01:14:11.920 --> 01:14:13.840 ain't but yeah that I ain't never. 1318 01:14:15.199 --> 01:14:17.920 Seeing no, like that's some like that's some single white 1319 01:14:17.960 --> 01:14:25.039 female ship, like because the time I saw motherfuckuld do 1320 01:14:25.119 --> 01:14:27.800 that and they was trying to take take over and 1321 01:14:28.000 --> 01:14:30.000 turn into somebody else, it was some bullshit. 1322 01:14:31.199 --> 01:14:34.920 Damn. I want to watch Face Off Can Eat the 1323 01:14:34.960 --> 01:14:35.920 Peach for hours. 1324 01:14:36.600 --> 01:14:45.199 That movie was cold, Like I just remember mastering the movie. 1325 01:14:48.279 --> 01:14:51.880 You said you gotta go, oh no, because it's funny 1326 01:14:51.920 --> 01:14:54.279 because one of the things I was talking about that 1327 01:14:54.399 --> 01:14:55.119 actually fits you. 1328 01:14:55.920 --> 01:14:59.680 So that's all been good that. 1329 01:15:00.880 --> 01:15:06.359 The second one, Nope, yep, play that. Let's it go. 1330 01:15:07.039 --> 01:15:10.399 I'm gonna say some controversial men need to stop taking 1331 01:15:10.479 --> 01:15:11.520 women on dates. 1332 01:15:17.600 --> 01:15:21.239 Dates, take her out of here. You need to stop 1333 01:15:21.279 --> 01:15:22.159 going on dates. 1334 01:15:22.760 --> 01:15:23.399 Elaborate. 1335 01:15:23.800 --> 01:15:27.079 I'm gonna say why you should never take a woman 1336 01:15:27.159 --> 01:15:27.680 out on a. 1337 01:15:27.840 --> 01:15:30.960 Date that you don't have vested interest in, and that 1338 01:15:31.119 --> 01:15:33.159 you're not sure she has a vested interest in. 1339 01:15:33.279 --> 01:15:33.319 You. 1340 01:15:33.800 --> 01:15:37.600 Stop trying to disillusion her with your money. 1341 01:15:37.800 --> 01:15:40.720 Your resources, your ability to buy her roses and all 1342 01:15:40.800 --> 01:15:41.640 that dumb stuff. 1343 01:15:42.359 --> 01:15:45.720 That's not dumb. Disillusion meet baby all day and where 1344 01:15:45.800 --> 01:15:47.920 have tho? What has that? What has that gotten you? 1345 01:15:48.319 --> 01:15:49.720 Where are that? Exactly? 1346 01:15:49.800 --> 01:15:52.760 So stop doing it. You're wasting your money, you're wasting 1347 01:15:52.840 --> 01:15:55.000 your time. If you need to hold on, I'm not done. 1348 01:15:55.239 --> 01:15:56.920 If you need if you want to know if a 1349 01:15:56.960 --> 01:15:59.439 woman is interested in you for real and wants to 1350 01:15:59.520 --> 01:16:01.960 not just use you as a meal plan, because let 1351 01:16:02.039 --> 01:16:03.399 me tell you, a lot. 1352 01:16:03.319 --> 01:16:06.520 Of my homegirls, a lot of my homegirls. 1353 01:16:06.159 --> 01:16:08.760 Are going out with you because they're bored. 1354 01:16:09.600 --> 01:16:10.479 They don't have nothing to do. 1355 01:16:10.560 --> 01:16:13.520 They're not over the other doing somebody else in Vegas 1356 01:16:13.960 --> 01:16:16.640 or fucking New York hasn't hit her back yet, so 1357 01:16:16.720 --> 01:16:18.159 she's going out with your stupid ass. 1358 01:16:19.239 --> 01:16:19.399 Jen. 1359 01:16:21.319 --> 01:16:23.199 There's a lot of there's a lot of truth. 1360 01:16:24.319 --> 01:16:27.159 I know, there's supercimes. I've been there. So stop taking 1361 01:16:27.199 --> 01:16:28.960 her out on dates. And what do you do to 1362 01:16:29.000 --> 01:16:32.399 get to know? The talk on the phone, because there's 1363 01:16:32.439 --> 01:16:35.560 only so much what you do with coffee that's minimal. 1364 01:16:35.640 --> 01:16:37.960 I wouldn't even mind her coffee. Let me tell you 1365 01:16:38.159 --> 01:16:41.640 that might let me tell you don't buy her anything. 1366 01:16:41.840 --> 01:16:44.000 Don't spend a dime, don't spend a nickel, don't spend 1367 01:16:44.039 --> 01:16:46.359 a penny. Go somewhere that is freaking If she is 1368 01:16:46.479 --> 01:16:48.920 unwilling to go there with you, don't go out with her. 1369 01:16:49.199 --> 01:16:53.920 It's pick me face. I don't care because FaceTime got 1370 01:16:53.960 --> 01:16:55.680 her point. She's FaceTime. 1371 01:16:57.039 --> 01:16:59.560 Talk to her on FaceTime, talk to her on the phone. 1372 01:17:00.399 --> 01:17:04.359 Where if she wants something from you without knowing you, 1373 01:17:04.560 --> 01:17:14.680 she's playing you. Oh my, and and that's so that's 1374 01:17:14.760 --> 01:17:15.279 kind of my thing. 1375 01:17:15.640 --> 01:17:18.600 So I feel like. 1376 01:17:21.159 --> 01:17:23.520 I feel like and and and and this is something 1377 01:17:23.640 --> 01:17:27.039 like like one of the only men who's always been 1378 01:17:27.159 --> 01:17:30.760 like one hundred percent upfront with me about you know, 1379 01:17:30.840 --> 01:17:33.199 how men are, and like how to handle them and 1380 01:17:33.239 --> 01:17:36.359 shit like that, like my uncle Carl. But I feel 1381 01:17:36.439 --> 01:17:40.600 like whatever standard is set in the beginning is what 1382 01:17:40.720 --> 01:17:43.119 they really go roll with. And we see niggas all 1383 01:17:43.159 --> 01:17:47.439 the time, including this nigga. They will post all the time, 1384 01:17:47.640 --> 01:17:49.319 oh I had her doing this and didn't even have 1385 01:17:49.439 --> 01:17:52.800 to do that, And then once they get to that point, 1386 01:17:52.960 --> 01:17:55.159 they're like, well, shit, I ain't got to do nothing, period, 1387 01:17:55.239 --> 01:17:58.960 no matter how much you know what I'm saying, Like whatever, whatever, 1388 01:17:59.079 --> 01:18:01.960 we go from this point, You've already showed me that 1389 01:18:02.000 --> 01:18:03.439 I don't have to do nothing for you, so I'm 1390 01:18:03.479 --> 01:18:04.000 not gonna do it. 1391 01:18:04.479 --> 01:18:08.039 Bro says this all the time, all the time. 1392 01:18:08.479 --> 01:18:11.640 So it's not just us, Like, there are men who 1393 01:18:11.720 --> 01:18:13.159 look at that just as much as we do, and 1394 01:18:13.239 --> 01:18:15.439 once they realize that they don't have to do anything, 1395 01:18:15.520 --> 01:18:16.880 they're not going to fucking do it. 1396 01:18:17.239 --> 01:18:19.920 You become a free lunch. Now. 1397 01:18:20.039 --> 01:18:22.760 I'm not saying that you got to break the bank, Dayton, 1398 01:18:23.199 --> 01:18:25.880 you gotta take bitches out to the most expensive places, 1399 01:18:25.960 --> 01:18:29.920 none of that. But I'm not with the you don't 1400 01:18:29.960 --> 01:18:33.560 have to do anything. Yeah, I'm not with you. You 1401 01:18:33.600 --> 01:18:34.720 don't have to do anything like. 1402 01:18:36.199 --> 01:18:39.560 Women like don't be a well I don't require much 1403 01:18:42.079 --> 01:18:43.880 because then it's like, oh, well you don't require much. 1404 01:18:43.880 --> 01:18:44.920 Seta do shit. 1405 01:18:53.359 --> 01:18:53.600 Team. 1406 01:18:56.039 --> 01:18:56.239 Yeah. 1407 01:18:56.399 --> 01:18:59.840 And it's like, I'm not saying that, you know, you 1408 01:19:00.039 --> 01:19:03.439 should be making all this extravagant effort for people without 1409 01:19:03.479 --> 01:19:05.680 getting to know them first, because I agree with the 1410 01:19:05.800 --> 01:19:10.159 initial part that she said, We're like before you know that, 1411 01:19:10.399 --> 01:19:15.039 there's a real vested interest both you know on both sides. 1412 01:19:18.479 --> 01:19:21.399 Time I'm surprised you still want it. You need to 1413 01:19:21.439 --> 01:19:21.880 heat it up. 1414 01:19:21.920 --> 01:19:23.479 It looks like it got cold and stiff a little bit. 1415 01:19:27.960 --> 01:19:35.720 Should we eat on the show all the time? Oh uh, 1416 01:19:37.119 --> 01:19:38.760 Fritz said, give him a mic. I can't hear with 1417 01:19:38.840 --> 01:19:42.079 the man and saying he don't need one, he don't 1418 01:19:42.119 --> 01:19:45.199 need one. He's actually on his way out the door. 1419 01:19:45.199 --> 01:19:46.640 I want to thank you for coming in, brother. I 1420 01:19:46.640 --> 01:19:47.600 appreciate your presence. 1421 01:19:49.199 --> 01:19:57.800 No, I mean you heard she hit people with cards. 1422 01:19:58.399 --> 01:19:58.640 Hand you. 1423 01:20:00.000 --> 01:20:01.880 I said that if. 1424 01:20:03.279 --> 01:20:05.359 I said, you better get a date before you take 1425 01:20:05.399 --> 01:20:07.680 your draws off, because if you take your draws off first, 1426 01:20:07.720 --> 01:20:09.359 you take and ship after that. 1427 01:20:10.239 --> 01:20:14.119 So right, which is what? Which is what? I just said? 1428 01:20:14.159 --> 01:20:14.199 That? 1429 01:20:14.279 --> 01:20:17.880 He says all the fucking time, So I feel like 1430 01:20:19.079 --> 01:20:20.239 you have to find. 1431 01:20:26.640 --> 01:20:29.279 Let me see, she don't deserve it. 1432 01:20:29.359 --> 01:20:30.680 She just can't get it from the here. 1433 01:20:32.479 --> 01:20:33.920 You can have whatever you want. 1434 01:20:34.199 --> 01:20:36.439 But but he talks about the niggas who do give 1435 01:20:36.479 --> 01:20:36.840 it to him. 1436 01:20:37.119 --> 01:20:38.960 Oh see, and you doing this And I fucked the 1437 01:20:39.000 --> 01:20:41.279 bitch for a motherfucking four piece nugget. 1438 01:20:41.000 --> 01:20:43.520 Like why is that they business? Because you didn't do it. 1439 01:20:43.600 --> 01:20:46.479 That don't mean to say all this shit really be situation, 1440 01:20:47.199 --> 01:20:51.560 So like she may run. I'm just saying, for like 1441 01:20:51.680 --> 01:20:54.199 one nigga may stand on that bitch head and be like, well, 1442 01:20:54.279 --> 01:20:56.520 I fucked you already so all that day ship So 1443 01:20:57.119 --> 01:20:58.760 so she's not gonna get no date out of you, 1444 01:20:59.720 --> 01:21:01.880 which you might talk the next nigga and giving her 1445 01:21:01.960 --> 01:21:04.760 a date and spending money because the nigga that she 1446 01:21:04.840 --> 01:21:05.920 actually liked not doing that. 1447 01:21:06.319 --> 01:21:09.720 I say, it's really. 1448 01:21:11.600 --> 01:21:15.920 It'd be funny. I see some easy work. Say I 1449 01:21:15.960 --> 01:21:16.760 ain't settling for. 1450 01:21:19.119 --> 01:21:22.960 What you did already already like nigga. 1451 01:21:23.840 --> 01:21:27.720 Less than me but nothing And I'm saying a lot y'all. 1452 01:21:28.399 --> 01:21:31.800 Yeah, but just because she can't, you know, stun on 1453 01:21:31.920 --> 01:21:33.159 you or home mee. 1454 01:21:33.279 --> 01:21:35.479 But if she gonna stand on something. 1455 01:21:36.520 --> 01:21:39.279 Think about it. Be seeing nigga stressing out about this 1456 01:21:40.279 --> 01:21:40.640 mm hmm. 1457 01:21:41.520 --> 01:21:46.079 Absolutely like you like me? This getting huge, the run around, the. 1458 01:21:47.680 --> 01:21:48.960 Runner around, and. 1459 01:21:49.680 --> 01:21:54.079 I don't know, times is just changing. That is my 1460 01:21:54.199 --> 01:21:54.800 business though. 1461 01:21:54.880 --> 01:21:56.199 I just be laughing about. 1462 01:21:58.199 --> 01:21:59.079 Uh said. 1463 01:21:59.199 --> 01:22:01.800 Folks be saying little maintenance because they don't believe they're 1464 01:22:01.840 --> 01:22:07.079 worth the effort maintain me. The fuck can't la Ken said, No, 1465 01:22:07.279 --> 01:22:09.880 bro got a point. How you fuck him and want 1466 01:22:09.920 --> 01:22:11.479 to date me? I don't want to date. I want 1467 01:22:11.520 --> 01:22:12.119 to fuck. 1468 01:22:19.520 --> 01:22:19.960 This time. 1469 01:22:21.000 --> 01:22:21.119 Right. 1470 01:22:21.319 --> 01:22:23.880 I was a side chicken. He was dating me, he 1471 01:22:24.039 --> 01:22:25.880 was taking me on dates, we was going out. 1472 01:22:29.640 --> 01:22:30.239 A conversation. 1473 01:22:33.720 --> 01:22:38.600 You can leave now. Only God told me you was 1474 01:22:38.800 --> 01:22:44.920 salid and now you can bad place. 1475 01:22:48.159 --> 01:22:48.960 You might still be there. 1476 01:22:50.199 --> 01:22:50.640 No, But. 1477 01:22:52.119 --> 01:22:55.840 So I don't one hundred percent disagree with her, like 1478 01:22:55.920 --> 01:22:58.039 because I do agree that when you were dating people, 1479 01:22:58.680 --> 01:23:01.399 you need to date people that you know are interested 1480 01:23:01.439 --> 01:23:04.079 in you. That is why we have so many niggas 1481 01:23:04.079 --> 01:23:07.439 who are always online crying and talking about. 1482 01:23:07.560 --> 01:23:09.840 Me, and these bitches just won't free meals and they 1483 01:23:09.960 --> 01:23:10.640 just won't free. 1484 01:23:10.880 --> 01:23:15.520 You are in her inbox from January to August, talking 1485 01:23:15.600 --> 01:23:18.119 to yourself. She finally agreed to go on the day 1486 01:23:19.039 --> 01:23:20.760 you take her out for dinner, and then she don't 1487 01:23:20.800 --> 01:23:21.399 call you again. 1488 01:23:21.720 --> 01:23:24.479 You set yourself up for that. Big facts, little like 1489 01:23:25.199 --> 01:23:25.960 huge facts. 1490 01:23:35.319 --> 01:23:36.479 This this is facts. 1491 01:23:37.239 --> 01:23:41.079 Yeah, because some niggas' you just fuckable, but I might 1492 01:23:41.159 --> 01:23:44.520 want to date you though that that's very it's very true. 1493 01:23:44.560 --> 01:23:51.640 It's very true. I feel like I've definitely had sex 1494 01:23:51.720 --> 01:23:53.560 with Ninglas that I had no desire. 1495 01:23:54.279 --> 01:23:57.359 Oh yeah, Lee said, but sometimes the girls just want 1496 01:23:57.399 --> 01:23:59.199 to fuck too when we're in date Monk. That's different, 1497 01:23:59.359 --> 01:24:01.800 which is true because there are niggas who I might 1498 01:24:01.840 --> 01:24:04.520 be like, you know what, I'm sexually attracted, but I 1499 01:24:04.560 --> 01:24:06.920 don't see nothing else with them. He can he can 1500 01:24:07.000 --> 01:24:09.600 go on this only fans camera, and then other than that, 1501 01:24:10.079 --> 01:24:11.399 it's something completely different. 1502 01:24:11.720 --> 01:24:12.239 So it's like. 1503 01:24:17.960 --> 01:24:20.399 You're being what we'd be a day mom. That's cool, 1504 01:24:20.800 --> 01:24:22.680 go on days. I'm just not trying to take you. 1505 01:24:27.920 --> 01:24:29.159 We actually talked about that. 1506 01:24:31.159 --> 01:24:33.720 But the motherfucker coming in lust out the gate because 1507 01:24:33.880 --> 01:24:36.159 I and I tell me in this because I know 1508 01:24:36.600 --> 01:24:38.840 I'm around pieces of ship like y'all all the time. 1509 01:24:40.319 --> 01:24:44.920 So when so when when niggas would approach me in 1510 01:24:45.000 --> 01:24:48.640 a certain way and I tell them like, I don't 1511 01:24:48.680 --> 01:24:49.800 just fuck with random niggas. 1512 01:24:49.840 --> 01:24:51.840 That ain't my thing. Oh you know, let's go out, 1513 01:24:51.920 --> 01:24:54.640 let's get to know, because you've already showed you. I 1514 01:24:54.800 --> 01:24:56.880 know what you because if. 1515 01:24:56.840 --> 01:24:59.359 If if you really had the intent of getting to 1516 01:24:59.439 --> 01:25:01.079 know me and day didn't mean you would have lived 1517 01:25:01.119 --> 01:25:01.279 with that. 1518 01:25:01.760 --> 01:25:03.880 So I already know what it is. No, I'm not interested, 1519 01:25:04.520 --> 01:25:15.800 right mm hmm. So it's you know, well, you know 1520 01:25:15.840 --> 01:25:16.600 what's funny. 1521 01:25:18.000 --> 01:25:19.359 Want to spend money and date. 1522 01:25:23.279 --> 01:25:26.800 What's just funny. But when they do do that, then 1523 01:25:26.880 --> 01:25:29.079 you have niggas who are not minded it. You have 1524 01:25:29.279 --> 01:25:36.600 niggas who are not mine. So I find a perfect example. 1525 01:25:36.680 --> 01:25:40.560 So everybody knows with me and doing only fans. You 1526 01:25:40.680 --> 01:25:43.119 may have some guys who feel like I am not 1527 01:25:43.279 --> 01:25:47.399 worth dating because I was doing poor. That is perfectly 1528 01:25:47.479 --> 01:25:51.640 fine for them to feel that way about about dating. Now, 1529 01:25:56.520 --> 01:25:59.039 I will not take slander from a nigga with syphilis. 1530 01:25:59.800 --> 01:25:59.960 Huh. 1531 01:26:03.039 --> 01:26:05.439 Thank you for tuning in to this episode of Holy 1532 01:26:05.479 --> 01:26:06.079 Awkward it is. 1533 01:26:06.520 --> 01:26:06.840 I'm just. 1534 01:26:08.640 --> 01:26:11.399 Always go do appreciate you for tuning in. 1535 01:26:12.000 --> 01:26:14.680 It's just like, but what I'm saying is all you 1536 01:26:14.800 --> 01:26:18.359 did was called you must you can wash your arm fists. Bro, 1537 01:26:18.479 --> 01:26:22.319 you put something you gotta get shot for it, Like 1538 01:26:22.479 --> 01:26:23.479 that's crazy. 1539 01:26:25.000 --> 01:26:27.800 Him having simphilis is like the running joke. 1540 01:26:31.079 --> 01:26:33.920 I'm just telling you how women takes you too far? 1541 01:26:35.439 --> 01:26:37.560 How did you out you and your mama? 1542 01:26:37.680 --> 01:26:37.720 Like? 1543 01:26:37.760 --> 01:26:38.000 Why do? 1544 01:26:39.640 --> 01:26:40.920 But this this is different. 1545 01:26:41.000 --> 01:26:43.439 This is not a woman taking stuff too far. This 1546 01:26:43.520 --> 01:26:46.079 is sibling rivalry. Siblings always takes you. 1547 01:26:48.199 --> 01:26:48.520 Barely. 1548 01:26:49.119 --> 01:26:49.840 Let y'all tell it. 1549 01:26:51.319 --> 01:26:55.119 Like wine and mine, Yes, way too far? 1550 01:26:57.840 --> 01:27:02.800 No, just like you got what's what? 1551 01:27:02.920 --> 01:27:07.079 Wait? That was old country buffet and we had the waitress. 1552 01:27:06.840 --> 01:27:11.319 Taking waitress ship and like we're still having to turn around. 1553 01:27:11.359 --> 01:27:13.359 And she was in the booth telling her. 1554 01:27:15.079 --> 01:27:19.720 You see how fast traveling. Now, that's how fast mono traveling. 1555 01:27:20.119 --> 01:27:28.880 A LEXI gave it to him. Tell me you got 1556 01:27:28.920 --> 01:27:34.399 Bell's palsy. This is a sick bunch, myno. 1557 01:27:34.760 --> 01:27:38.560 Bell's the funny thing is Caleb be funny shot out and. 1558 01:27:41.199 --> 01:27:43.960 It's a sorry from Herbie and musty this is a. 1559 01:27:45.840 --> 01:27:47.239 Dress a lie. 1560 01:27:50.000 --> 01:27:50.840 How did we get here? 1561 01:27:54.880 --> 01:27:55.000 Bro? 1562 01:27:55.159 --> 01:27:58.199 Let me tell you, bro hospital because you have myno, 1563 01:27:59.199 --> 01:28:00.520 and you know what? Why did you? 1564 01:28:01.159 --> 01:28:04.800 But listen, Taylor Tayler and it's so bad? Have you 1565 01:28:05.039 --> 01:28:08.079 have you noticed that wine immune system been sucked up? 1566 01:28:08.279 --> 01:28:11.279 Ever since then? Remember why never got sick that one 1567 01:28:11.399 --> 01:28:13.199 time when that bitch gave him mine? Then all of 1568 01:28:13.239 --> 01:28:14.520 a sudden he got a call out? 1569 01:28:17.079 --> 01:28:17.399 Why you. 1570 01:28:18.880 --> 01:28:18.920 No? 1571 01:28:19.079 --> 01:28:21.560 Because ever since then your am system but not a wack? 1572 01:28:26.439 --> 01:28:33.079 How did you? Oh my jo, I don't need to. 1573 01:28:34.560 --> 01:28:38.359 My mind, I never had no motherfucking. 1574 01:28:40.960 --> 01:28:42.399 But yet you sit next. 1575 01:28:45.199 --> 01:28:45.439 You have. 1576 01:28:47.560 --> 01:29:00.119 Right yeah, when I okay, you gotta go home to 1577 01:29:00.159 --> 01:29:08.920 take a shot. So so you have Bell's palsy, let 1578 01:29:09.000 --> 01:29:14.039 it go. That's that's the only that's not connecting. How 1579 01:29:14.119 --> 01:29:14.640 he had. 1580 01:29:16.399 --> 01:29:20.640 This is this the last time we tell story telling? 1581 01:29:22.479 --> 01:29:27.880 I like, let. 1582 01:29:30.640 --> 01:29:31.439 But let them. 1583 01:29:33.039 --> 01:29:34.720 Okay, so how does that tie into him? 1584 01:29:35.520 --> 01:29:38.960 I asked to to give me a ride to the hospital. Okay, 1585 01:29:39.399 --> 01:29:41.920 that's all tone did. When I got in the car, 1586 01:29:42.039 --> 01:29:43.199 Ton was perfectly fine. 1587 01:29:43.520 --> 01:29:44.039 I was cool. 1588 01:29:44.079 --> 01:29:44.840 I just couldn't talk. 1589 01:29:46.079 --> 01:29:47.960 Then Tom said that the next. 1590 01:29:47.960 --> 01:29:51.520 Was the next day was very next day. The next 1591 01:29:51.680 --> 01:29:57.039 morning he said, couldn't put the left side of my face. 1592 01:29:58.560 --> 01:30:01.000 And yours is having a stroke, that. 1593 01:30:01.119 --> 01:30:02.680 Is and I couldn't want to live. 1594 01:30:02.840 --> 01:30:04.680 But like as soon as he was soon as he 1595 01:30:04.760 --> 01:30:07.199 wrote it in like the group chat, I just automatically 1596 01:30:07.239 --> 01:30:09.039 thought it Jim rows, Yeah. 1597 01:30:09.439 --> 01:30:11.319 And you know what's funny, that's the first thing that 1598 01:30:11.439 --> 01:30:12.199 came to my head. 1599 01:30:15.319 --> 01:30:20.439 The hospital when somebody said somebody somebody said, drop you 1600 01:30:20.479 --> 01:30:22.199 off at the hospital. I'm thinking declined. 1601 01:30:23.159 --> 01:30:26.880 I was last on New Year's where my leg was 1602 01:30:26.920 --> 01:30:28.319 by someone's going on with my leg? 1603 01:30:30.920 --> 01:30:34.760 Family, Leo said, I thought Bell's palsy comes from like 1604 01:30:34.840 --> 01:30:36.600 a doctor making the air during birth. 1605 01:30:36.680 --> 01:30:40.239 That's crazy. Can it can? It can actually be a 1606 01:30:40.319 --> 01:30:43.119 reaction to a viral infection, which. 1607 01:30:42.960 --> 01:30:44.479 Is why we keep saying he had money. 1608 01:30:45.399 --> 01:30:48.319 Now, it couldn't That's why I always keep saying he 1609 01:30:48.439 --> 01:30:51.800 had mino, because because the only person I talked to 1610 01:30:52.840 --> 01:30:54.640 this nigga in my and I had a Toyota at 1611 01:30:54.640 --> 01:30:56.000 the time, so it was a car. 1612 01:30:57.800 --> 01:31:00.279 No, it was cold. It was when there. 1613 01:31:02.720 --> 01:31:02.960 Like this. 1614 01:31:05.880 --> 01:31:07.800 Tones out here looking like two facemen batman. 1615 01:31:10.439 --> 01:31:13.600 This whole shot, this face wasn't moving, like I'm having 1616 01:31:13.720 --> 01:31:17.079 whole conversations on this side, but this one's still staying in. 1617 01:31:17.159 --> 01:31:22.159 Place, Todd said, mana was so much conviction, so your 1618 01:31:22.199 --> 01:31:23.439 face was just confused. 1619 01:31:23.520 --> 01:31:27.479 You know what's Ah, that's a lot going on in months, damn. 1620 01:31:27.680 --> 01:31:29.159 Okay, But see now it makes sense. 1621 01:31:29.720 --> 01:31:31.359 I was mad at that nigga for a good three 1622 01:31:31.439 --> 01:31:35.159 months because I couldn't be mad at her because whatever 1623 01:31:35.239 --> 01:31:36.439 you had you got from her. 1624 01:31:36.880 --> 01:31:38.159 How long did you have that for it? 1625 01:31:38.359 --> 01:31:39.600 It's like not even the whole week. 1626 01:31:40.960 --> 01:31:42.079 Your faces messed up for a week. 1627 01:31:42.119 --> 01:31:44.920 You just couldn't move, just. 1628 01:31:48.119 --> 01:31:48.359 Damn. 1629 01:31:49.079 --> 01:31:50.920 I don't know, maybe a cramp that from that tremendous 1630 01:31:50.960 --> 01:31:52.399 head he was offering bitches on Twitter. 1631 01:31:53.439 --> 01:31:56.760 I never had to complain about that either, saying. 1632 01:31:56.600 --> 01:31:59.560 Like, why are you going in the archives of our. 1633 01:31:59.600 --> 01:32:04.520 Line because our lives are funny? To her when she's depressed. 1634 01:32:04.560 --> 01:32:08.399 She laughs at us, put the found thing up and 1635 01:32:08.520 --> 01:32:10.560 like it because I found out. 1636 01:32:12.600 --> 01:32:13.199 What they said. 1637 01:32:13.840 --> 01:32:19.359 I'm telling this sphilis. The moral of the story is 1638 01:32:21.399 --> 01:32:23.119 kids said, damn it me me. I was just about 1639 01:32:23.159 --> 01:32:25.600 to say that. So the moral of the story is 1640 01:32:26.199 --> 01:32:32.479 for the fellas stop dating women that don't like you. 1641 01:32:33.720 --> 01:32:37.439 Y'all won't be bitter and all on social media women 1642 01:32:38.399 --> 01:32:41.720 crying about being used for dates and women is just 1643 01:32:41.880 --> 01:32:44.159 gold diggers and all, and they just looking for free 1644 01:32:44.239 --> 01:32:47.479 meal and all this ship. You know, when the motherfucker 1645 01:32:47.600 --> 01:32:52.920 is not interested. Okay, you're getting dry conversations. She's barely 1646 01:32:53.359 --> 01:32:56.079 responding to you. Like I said, there there's somebody. There 1647 01:32:56.159 --> 01:32:59.680 is somebody in my dn Actually there's a couple of people. 1648 01:33:00.039 --> 01:33:01.800 There are a couple of guys in my DMS I 1649 01:33:01.880 --> 01:33:04.960 could very well use if I wanted to. I'm just 1650 01:33:05.479 --> 01:33:08.479 it's not worth the fucking headache because all of this 1651 01:33:08.680 --> 01:33:11.000 time that I've been telling y'all that I'm not interested 1652 01:33:11.079 --> 01:33:14.439 in going out. I'm not interested in dating. I don't 1653 01:33:14.479 --> 01:33:16.159 want to come kick it with you, I don't want 1654 01:33:16.199 --> 01:33:17.640 to meet you out. I don't want to do any 1655 01:33:17.680 --> 01:33:20.439 of these things. But then I randomly get bored one day, 1656 01:33:20.760 --> 01:33:22.680 or maybe I'm mad at Baity's my band. I'm like, 1657 01:33:22.720 --> 01:33:25.800 you know what, Damn, I could go for some motherfucking 1658 01:33:25.800 --> 01:33:30.479 buffalo wings today. Well, what you're doing and then I go. 1659 01:33:30.840 --> 01:33:33.079 You set yourself up for that because I've been telling 1660 01:33:33.119 --> 01:33:35.359 you for the last few years. It's not even just 1661 01:33:35.399 --> 01:33:37.520 a couple of weeks or even a couple of months. 1662 01:33:37.680 --> 01:33:40.479 I've been telling you for the last few years that 1663 01:33:40.640 --> 01:33:45.079 I am not interested in dating you, and nothing clicks 1664 01:33:45.359 --> 01:33:47.000 for you to be like, Damn, all of a sudden, 1665 01:33:47.039 --> 01:33:47.960 this bitch want to go out? 1666 01:33:48.199 --> 01:33:48.840 Man, what's she on? 1667 01:33:49.359 --> 01:33:52.600 No, you think that you're now all of a sudden exactly? 1668 01:33:52.800 --> 01:33:55.119 You think that you thene bore me down. Oh yeah, 1669 01:33:55.479 --> 01:33:56.520 I'm finally finna get that. 1670 01:33:57.760 --> 01:34:01.159 See that's why I stay out to having unboxer exactly 1671 01:34:01.239 --> 01:34:02.920 why I just feel like it's. 1672 01:34:02.880 --> 01:34:03.600 All I mean. 1673 01:34:03.680 --> 01:34:05.520 And I'm not even saying that you should stay out, 1674 01:34:05.640 --> 01:34:08.600 but I think that at a certain point, if you're like, 1675 01:34:08.640 --> 01:34:11.399 all right, this interaction ain't really going. You know how 1676 01:34:11.920 --> 01:34:14.119 I wanted it to go. You see you at the 1677 01:34:14.199 --> 01:34:19.760 stage left, but you just keep it going. You keep 1678 01:34:19.800 --> 01:34:22.920 it going, and then you're mad at us. The rest 1679 01:34:23.000 --> 01:34:26.079 of us who didn't use you because you didn't use 1680 01:34:26.199 --> 01:34:28.119 any type of discernment. You was like, hey, you know what, 1681 01:34:28.640 --> 01:34:31.560 I'm gonna take this bitch out who never responds to 1682 01:34:31.680 --> 01:34:35.479 me ever unless she's hungry screenshot ship. 1683 01:34:35.560 --> 01:34:37.680 So once you stop talking to me in the mbox, 1684 01:34:38.039 --> 01:34:39.680 I'm not here and talk to myself. 1685 01:34:40.880 --> 01:34:44.079 It's all just so confusing and so just like. 1686 01:34:45.560 --> 01:34:50.079 So that's the lesson like this because I mean I 1687 01:34:50.119 --> 01:34:53.079 haven't really given too much of my opinion about it. 1688 01:34:53.199 --> 01:34:53.279 But. 1689 01:34:57.560 --> 01:35:01.000 Give you scared scared one he should go to the doctor. 1690 01:35:03.840 --> 01:35:05.960 I feel like it's it's confusing because it's like I said, 1691 01:35:06.000 --> 01:35:09.199 on one hand, it's like, oh, don't be the woman 1692 01:35:09.279 --> 01:35:12.439 that says you don't require too much, you know, ask 1693 01:35:12.560 --> 01:35:13.800 for stuff, expect stuff, and. 1694 01:35:13.840 --> 01:35:15.279 Can they take you out, make me give you money. 1695 01:35:15.319 --> 01:35:18.399 And then on the other end, with the men, it's like, oh, 1696 01:35:18.600 --> 01:35:20.359 you all go there and all you want is money 1697 01:35:20.479 --> 01:35:20.920 you don't want. 1698 01:35:22.079 --> 01:35:23.560 But then say, for instance, like. 1699 01:35:23.840 --> 01:35:26.079 When I watched that clip, I said, I could get 1700 01:35:26.119 --> 01:35:28.159 what I agree with what she's saying, and I mean, 1701 01:35:28.199 --> 01:35:29.520 you know, we talking about it all the time. 1702 01:35:29.920 --> 01:35:33.880 But you have somebody like me who's genuinely like a 1703 01:35:33.960 --> 01:35:37.199 good person. I have a good heart, nurturing, caring. It 1704 01:35:37.319 --> 01:35:38.880 comes with the terrors for you. 1705 01:35:39.159 --> 01:35:45.439 But also because like she said, I don't. 1706 01:35:46.079 --> 01:35:50.680 I've never been a person to have my handout. I don't. 1707 01:35:50.800 --> 01:35:52.800 I don't be asking niggas for nothing. I don't need 1708 01:35:52.840 --> 01:35:53.239 no cash. 1709 01:35:53.319 --> 01:35:55.319 App she's talking about all you want to go have 1710 01:35:55.359 --> 01:35:58.439 a coffee, go do something free, even buy the coffee. 1711 01:35:58.600 --> 01:35:59.199 Cool. Cool. 1712 01:35:59.399 --> 01:36:01.279 I just want to spend time with you. You don't 1713 01:36:01.279 --> 01:36:03.039 got to spend money to do that. It's free. But 1714 01:36:04.800 --> 01:36:08.079 being like this in this world, it just gets confusing 1715 01:36:08.159 --> 01:36:10.359 because it's like, do you asking in the summer? Do 1716 01:36:10.439 --> 01:36:10.640 you not? 1717 01:36:10.920 --> 01:36:11.119 Do you? 1718 01:36:11.520 --> 01:36:11.760 Do you. 1719 01:36:13.279 --> 01:36:15.960 Do I care about you because I genuinely do, or 1720 01:36:16.000 --> 01:36:17.520 do I have to pretend like I don't. It's like 1721 01:36:18.520 --> 01:36:21.119 your mind just gets so confusing to the point where 1722 01:36:21.239 --> 01:36:21.640 I'm just like. 1723 01:36:21.680 --> 01:36:22.079 No, you know what. 1724 01:36:22.199 --> 01:36:25.760 Never my mother told me something never mind a long 1725 01:36:25.880 --> 01:36:29.439 time ago, a very long time ago, and she said, 1726 01:36:30.239 --> 01:36:35.399 the moment you go and your like in those early stages, 1727 01:36:35.479 --> 01:36:41.399 the moment you go in your purse, he is going 1728 01:36:41.439 --> 01:36:42.399 to get accustomed to that. 1729 01:36:43.119 --> 01:36:44.720 He is never going to treat you the same again. 1730 01:36:45.560 --> 01:36:50.760 And yeah, and I can tell you that that is not. 1731 01:36:52.279 --> 01:36:59.159 Then a lie like I updated, Yeah, I updated two 1732 01:36:59.399 --> 01:37:03.239 different times of dudes. And it's like, it's like I said, 1733 01:37:04.000 --> 01:37:06.600 if you are dealing with somebody and you are not 1734 01:37:06.800 --> 01:37:11.159 requiring them to do anything, that is the standard that 1735 01:37:11.279 --> 01:37:14.039 you were setting. So then as much as you, oh well, 1736 01:37:14.079 --> 01:37:16.479 I'm just simple, I just like you know, you to 1737 01:37:16.520 --> 01:37:18.079 show up with You don't even have to get me 1738 01:37:18.119 --> 01:37:19.880 a bouquet of roses. You can just show up with 1739 01:37:19.960 --> 01:37:21.359 some raggedy dandelions. 1740 01:37:21.520 --> 01:37:22.720 They don't even have to be a food. 1741 01:37:22.800 --> 01:37:24.640 Dandelions that could be the ones that you can just 1742 01:37:24.680 --> 01:37:27.279 get ready to blow they already dead the. 1743 01:37:27.399 --> 01:37:28.479 Hell and now. 1744 01:37:30.479 --> 01:37:33.279 Down the line, you in this relationship with this man 1745 01:37:34.359 --> 01:37:37.079 and he don't never do this. He don't never like 1746 01:37:37.239 --> 01:37:39.600 because you told him that he didn't have to. You 1747 01:37:39.800 --> 01:37:43.439 showed him that your bar was in the fucking basement, 1748 01:37:43.800 --> 01:37:45.079 a flooded basement at that. 1749 01:37:51.520 --> 01:37:55.000 I mean, she's being honest, And like I said, I 1750 01:37:55.600 --> 01:37:57.159 don't have a problem taking a koind of building. 1751 01:37:57.159 --> 01:37:59.239 I mean, in general, I don't ask people for shit. 1752 01:38:00.079 --> 01:38:02.760 So me coming into contact with a nigga that is 1753 01:38:02.960 --> 01:38:06.000 gonna be given by and paying do this and do that, 1754 01:38:06.199 --> 01:38:08.119 that's a different world for me because in general, I 1755 01:38:08.159 --> 01:38:10.399 don't ask people for shit. I don't know how to 1756 01:38:10.640 --> 01:38:15.199 accept when somebody's like here or trying to do something 1757 01:38:15.319 --> 01:38:16.079 like That's just not. 1758 01:38:16.479 --> 01:38:19.560 The way my mind works, not even with just a nigga. 1759 01:38:19.640 --> 01:38:21.079 This is what people in general like it. 1760 01:38:21.279 --> 01:38:25.159 Just but it's like, but I know just how many 1761 01:38:25.279 --> 01:38:27.600 niggas are like the nigga that was just sitting here, 1762 01:38:27.800 --> 01:38:30.800 and it's like the moment they see that they can 1763 01:38:30.960 --> 01:38:35.039 get whatever with the bare minimum, you will never get 1764 01:38:35.119 --> 01:38:35.800 anything over that. 1765 01:38:38.479 --> 01:38:41.439 Yeah, And the only reason, the only way. 1766 01:38:41.319 --> 01:38:44.680 That I'm going to put myself in that situation is 1767 01:38:44.760 --> 01:38:48.560 if I'm not looking for anything with you, Like if 1768 01:38:48.600 --> 01:38:50.479 I know, like, oh, I'm just gonna treat this nigga 1769 01:38:50.520 --> 01:38:52.920 like a prop. He's just gonna be some dick, or 1770 01:38:53.039 --> 01:38:56.079 he's just gonna be a path to income like for 1771 01:38:56.239 --> 01:38:57.199 my videos. 1772 01:38:57.720 --> 01:38:59.560 Different where depending on who. 1773 01:38:59.720 --> 01:39:01.920 If like you said earlier, if you don't have no 1774 01:39:02.039 --> 01:39:05.359 emotional ties, you don't see yourself dating him. You barely 1775 01:39:05.640 --> 01:39:07.800 even like the nigga as a person. You are literally 1776 01:39:08.359 --> 01:39:12.079 just a prop. Were just about to be fucking and 1777 01:39:12.319 --> 01:39:16.039 that is it. I don't need shadows. I halfway even 1778 01:39:16.119 --> 01:39:18.600 like you, like, this is just what it is. It's 1779 01:39:18.720 --> 01:39:22.000 nothing else. Yeah, when it's cutting dry. 1780 01:39:22.000 --> 01:39:23.359 Like that, it's like, okay, that's. 1781 01:39:25.800 --> 01:39:26.239 To stay away. 1782 01:39:26.319 --> 01:39:29.079 Sometimes no, and there's nothing wrong with that. It's just 1783 01:39:29.279 --> 01:39:32.359 you need to know me to you. 1784 01:39:32.960 --> 01:39:34.960 You see, you see how there's a split right in 1785 01:39:35.000 --> 01:39:38.239 the middle of this table. It's this side and it's 1786 01:39:38.279 --> 01:39:38.760 this side. 1787 01:39:39.319 --> 01:39:41.800 You need to know what you want. 1788 01:39:42.439 --> 01:39:44.479 And I think a lot of people when they're dating 1789 01:39:45.439 --> 01:39:55.840 than can't talking to you, mom. I think a lot 1790 01:39:55.920 --> 01:40:00.560 of people when they are dealing with people, they don't 1791 01:40:00.720 --> 01:40:05.640 set the standard for how they're going to date. They 1792 01:40:05.880 --> 01:40:10.399 allow the person that they're dealing with to set the standard. 1793 01:40:12.479 --> 01:40:14.119 So instead of saying. 1794 01:40:16.000 --> 01:40:19.359 So, instead of saying, well, this is what I want 1795 01:40:19.439 --> 01:40:22.600 going into this situation, or this is what I'm looking for, 1796 01:40:22.840 --> 01:40:25.600 this is what I require, is just like, well, you 1797 01:40:25.720 --> 01:40:27.439 lead the way and I'll take whatever you give me. 1798 01:40:28.239 --> 01:40:30.000 And now you're in a situation that you didn't want 1799 01:40:30.000 --> 01:40:33.720 to be in because you didn't put forth what you 1800 01:40:33.840 --> 01:40:36.760 wanted from them. So now they're like, oh, ship just 1801 01:40:36.880 --> 01:40:39.119 all I'm gonna give you. So now you're on Aaron. 1802 01:40:39.319 --> 01:40:41.319 You're sitting here with Aaron Hall, and he talking about 1803 01:40:41.319 --> 01:40:42.560 I'm gonna give you a piece of my love and 1804 01:40:42.640 --> 01:40:44.359 that's all you got is a fucking piece a. 1805 01:40:44.399 --> 01:40:48.840 Piece of foottom that's what that's what you get called. 1806 01:40:48.880 --> 01:40:50.520 When you tell bitch is what you is and what 1807 01:40:50.640 --> 01:40:53.640 you ain't gonna do, Well, we're gonna talk about it. 1808 01:40:53.680 --> 01:40:55.239 What we're not gonna talk about what we do and 1809 01:40:55.319 --> 01:40:56.159 what we're not gonna do. 1810 01:40:56.840 --> 01:40:58.159 Use a sensitivedviced nigga. 1811 01:40:58.279 --> 01:41:02.880 No, it's called communication. 1812 01:41:02.960 --> 01:41:05.039 Why are you listening to a ball headed nigga who 1813 01:41:05.079 --> 01:41:06.560 wants a podcast him? 1814 01:41:06.640 --> 01:41:09.159 But that's how some women feel when you expressed like, look, 1815 01:41:09.239 --> 01:41:11.039 this is, this is how it is, is how it's 1816 01:41:11.079 --> 01:41:14.319 gonna be, this is then then you leave her alone. 1817 01:41:16.000 --> 01:41:16.600 That's what I'm saying. 1818 01:41:16.680 --> 01:41:17.359 That's what she said. 1819 01:41:17.560 --> 01:41:18.920 But like she said, you got to know what you 1820 01:41:19.000 --> 01:41:20.439 want people. 1821 01:41:20.720 --> 01:41:24.119 Once I tell you, if you don't know what, if 1822 01:41:24.159 --> 01:41:26.880 you don't know what you want for yourself, then how 1823 01:41:27.119 --> 01:41:29.119 you were somebody? You are never going to have a 1824 01:41:29.159 --> 01:41:31.119 successful day of life because if you don't know what 1825 01:41:31.239 --> 01:41:35.239 you want, you just collecting whatever people give me around 1826 01:41:35.279 --> 01:41:35.800 the way, like. 1827 01:41:36.199 --> 01:41:37.760 An honest conversation about myself. 1828 01:41:37.800 --> 01:41:39.720 I know this, I know this is what I want, 1829 01:41:40.359 --> 01:41:42.439 but because I haven't had it or I feel like 1830 01:41:42.520 --> 01:41:45.880 I'm not gonna get it. It's like you training your 1831 01:41:45.920 --> 01:41:48.199 mind to just accept other ship that you know you 1832 01:41:48.319 --> 01:41:51.239 really don't want, and it to come into the realization 1833 01:41:51.479 --> 01:41:53.640 like this is not what you want. You need to 1834 01:41:53.680 --> 01:41:56.319 be honest about what you want and start aligning yourself 1835 01:41:56.439 --> 01:42:00.119 with those types of situations. And once I came to 1836 01:42:00.239 --> 01:42:05.439 that realization, phone dry. Everybody fall off because none of 1837 01:42:05.479 --> 01:42:08.359 this is what I want at all. None of this 1838 01:42:08.479 --> 01:42:10.800 a line, none of this is intentional. It's all the 1839 01:42:10.840 --> 01:42:13.279 waste my time because now I'm being honest with myself 1840 01:42:13.680 --> 01:42:14.800 and there's nothing wrong with that. 1841 01:42:14.960 --> 01:42:18.680 Because and a lot of people. 1842 01:42:19.000 --> 01:42:20.560 I'm gonna bring up a post that I made in 1843 01:42:20.640 --> 01:42:22.640 some of the comments because this nigga's kind of slow. 1844 01:42:24.760 --> 01:42:27.680 You can read it out loud because but you know, 1845 01:42:28.199 --> 01:42:30.239 gotta remember, everybody don't watch life. 1846 01:42:30.399 --> 01:42:32.600 You gotta show people. Leelo said, you got to show 1847 01:42:32.600 --> 01:42:33.399 people how to love you. 1848 01:42:33.479 --> 01:42:35.600 If you're in a relationship with me, please believe you're 1849 01:42:35.600 --> 01:42:38.560 packing my car up for these vending events and supporting 1850 01:42:38.640 --> 01:42:39.159 my business. 1851 01:42:39.520 --> 01:42:41.640 That's my love language, make my life easier. 1852 01:42:42.479 --> 01:42:44.680 And I agree, I agree, but I got to know 1853 01:42:44.800 --> 01:42:45.640 a caveat on that. 1854 01:42:46.119 --> 01:42:47.920 But you also got to make sure you show up 1855 01:42:47.920 --> 01:42:50.319 for him the same way that he needs for his 1856 01:42:50.479 --> 01:42:53.000 love language, because a lot of times people will want 1857 01:42:53.079 --> 01:42:55.840 that person to do that, but then they'll only show 1858 01:42:55.960 --> 01:42:58.960 up the way that they want to show up, not 1859 01:42:59.079 --> 01:43:01.880 the way that person wants them to show up. They're 1860 01:43:01.880 --> 01:43:04.600 not reciprocating it in the way to make that person 1861 01:43:04.720 --> 01:43:08.159 feel just the same way that he's making you feel. 1862 01:43:08.199 --> 01:43:10.079 It makes it feel like you're a helpmate not someone 1863 01:43:10.159 --> 01:43:10.520 you love. 1864 01:43:11.199 --> 01:43:13.720 That's true, but that was a huge problem when me 1865 01:43:13.800 --> 01:43:17.039 and Cam were together. That was a huge, huge problem, 1866 01:43:17.359 --> 01:43:23.239 Like he would do things that he felt like he 1867 01:43:23.439 --> 01:43:26.319 wanted to do and it would seem like I was 1868 01:43:26.439 --> 01:43:30.359 being unappreciative, which you know, I I've admitted this, like 1869 01:43:30.439 --> 01:43:32.239 when me and Kim had an episode on the Pot. 1870 01:43:32.279 --> 01:43:34.520 But it's like realizing, like. 1871 01:43:36.199 --> 01:43:40.439 Doing things that you want to do versus the things 1872 01:43:40.560 --> 01:43:44.880 that make me feel loved, they're not the same. And 1873 01:43:45.000 --> 01:43:47.039 it's like, no matter how much you do, if it's 1874 01:43:47.119 --> 01:43:51.359 not within my love language, it's gonna be a disconnect 1875 01:43:51.840 --> 01:43:53.880 and it's always gonna be something whether you feel like 1876 01:43:53.960 --> 01:43:56.880 I'm being ungrateful or I'm being bitchy or I'm never happy, 1877 01:43:56.920 --> 01:43:59.880 and it's like because you're not showing me what I 1878 01:44:00.239 --> 01:44:02.439 need in order to fill luck, and it goes the 1879 01:44:02.520 --> 01:44:05.800 same way for me. So that actually brings me to 1880 01:44:05.840 --> 01:44:09.359 say there was a post, I saved it and mis see, 1881 01:44:11.720 --> 01:44:16.760 so there was a chicken and she was she was 1882 01:44:16.840 --> 01:44:20.319 I messages somebody and she was like, so my husband 1883 01:44:20.640 --> 01:44:22.840 bought me a fridge because I had been complaining but 1884 01:44:22.920 --> 01:44:25.279 he didn't get the right one. And I'm sad, but 1885 01:44:25.399 --> 01:44:27.840 I gotta be happy and said, oh man, did you 1886 01:44:27.920 --> 01:44:30.000 tell him which one you want it? She sent a 1887 01:44:30.119 --> 01:44:32.279 sad face and said, yes, I did, but he thought 1888 01:44:32.319 --> 01:44:33.159 he was getting. 1889 01:44:32.960 --> 01:44:33.640 Some kind of deal. 1890 01:44:34.680 --> 01:44:38.239 Now you have a lot of people who half and 1891 01:44:38.359 --> 01:44:41.560 half they're half who understand and they're a half who 1892 01:44:41.880 --> 01:44:44.039 oh man, and that's ungrateful and that's whatever. And it's 1893 01:44:44.119 --> 01:44:47.439 like she's not complaining to him about it. She's like, 1894 01:44:47.520 --> 01:44:49.880 you know, I gotta, you know, be put on a 1895 01:44:49.960 --> 01:44:54.359 smiley face for her. But I feel like with us 1896 01:44:54.439 --> 01:44:58.319 talking about stop doing stuff that you want for people, 1897 01:44:58.399 --> 01:44:59.880 like if you're not gonna get me what I asked for, 1898 01:45:00.039 --> 01:45:01.479 or I would rather you just not do it, Okay. 1899 01:45:01.600 --> 01:45:04.680 So I'm gonna play Devil's advocate on that one because 1900 01:45:04.760 --> 01:45:06.640 I don't think it's not that he didn't get what 1901 01:45:06.800 --> 01:45:07.399 he asks for. 1902 01:45:08.079 --> 01:45:10.640 She didn't give the importancy of why she needed that 1903 01:45:10.880 --> 01:45:11.840 specific model. 1904 01:45:12.960 --> 01:45:16.640 She just said, I wanted a fridge because I want 1905 01:45:16.800 --> 01:45:19.560 to put my wine in it. But she told him 1906 01:45:19.560 --> 01:45:21.600 the exact one that she wanted. But like I said, 1907 01:45:21.640 --> 01:45:23.359 he's saying, hey, I'm getting a deal. 1908 01:45:23.760 --> 01:45:24.159 He went. 1909 01:45:24.720 --> 01:45:28.000 Because that's why I said, sometimes not knowing the importancy 1910 01:45:28.079 --> 01:45:30.760 of why you want this particular one, because I can say, hey, 1911 01:45:30.800 --> 01:45:33.239 I want a fridge for the studio because I like 1912 01:45:33.319 --> 01:45:34.880 to keep the water in here cool. 1913 01:45:35.399 --> 01:45:37.920 But there's a particular well you know what, what does 1914 01:45:37.960 --> 01:45:38.359 it look like? 1915 01:45:38.439 --> 01:45:40.279 And I seen you one and you thinking I only 1916 01:45:40.399 --> 01:45:42.720 want that one because of the size of it, not 1917 01:45:42.840 --> 01:45:45.840 that I want this particular one because it has a 1918 01:45:45.920 --> 01:45:48.319 warm side and the cold side so when I put 1919 01:45:48.359 --> 01:45:50.159 food in, there's still good. You don't know that that's 1920 01:45:50.199 --> 01:45:51.880 the reason why I want that particular one. 1921 01:45:52.079 --> 01:45:53.960 But if he did know that, would it have changed 1922 01:45:54.000 --> 01:45:57.039 because and he would have been like, well, I know you. 1923 01:45:57.079 --> 01:45:58.720 Know this, but I got to deal with what I'm saying. 1924 01:45:58.760 --> 01:46:00.600 If he knew that and he's steel wing and got 1925 01:46:00.600 --> 01:46:03.359 a different one because it was cheaper, then yeah, my nigga, 1926 01:46:03.399 --> 01:46:06.079 you fucked up. But if you said I need a fridge, 1927 01:46:06.199 --> 01:46:08.199 it's this is the this is the type of fridge 1928 01:46:08.239 --> 01:46:11.079 I need, and that's all you said. I'm gonna go 1929 01:46:11.199 --> 01:46:13.680 find a fridge of that type. And if I see 1930 01:46:13.800 --> 01:46:17.039 Best Buy got this same fridge for one hundred dollars less, 1931 01:46:17.119 --> 01:46:19.000 I'm buying this because I just think you need a 1932 01:46:19.039 --> 01:46:22.039 fridge of this size, not that you want this particular 1933 01:46:22.159 --> 01:46:24.640 one with tablet built into it so you can know 1934 01:46:24.760 --> 01:46:27.840 what's going on when you at work. It sometimes just 1935 01:46:28.000 --> 01:46:31.000 conveyed little details like that can make a big difference 1936 01:46:31.039 --> 01:46:31.800 for some people. 1937 01:46:31.960 --> 01:46:34.159 But I feel like that wouldn't matter because it feels 1938 01:46:34.279 --> 01:46:36.159 based off of what she just read. It seemed like 1939 01:46:36.239 --> 01:46:40.119 you in inn you saw that it costs too much 1940 01:46:40.720 --> 01:46:44.640 or possibly and you found a deal. So in the 1941 01:46:44.680 --> 01:46:45.920 top of your mind, it was the price. 1942 01:46:46.439 --> 01:46:48.439 So the details was because we didn't know the level 1943 01:46:48.479 --> 01:46:49.039 of importance. 1944 01:46:49.399 --> 01:46:51.479 He didn't put in the effort because okay, it costs 1945 01:46:51.520 --> 01:46:53.640 this much here, But did you go to other stories 1946 01:46:53.680 --> 01:46:55.399 to check, like how much effort did you put in 1947 01:46:55.520 --> 01:46:57.760 to get her the one that she acts. 1948 01:46:57.520 --> 01:47:00.000 For all of those details. 1949 01:47:02.359 --> 01:47:06.560 Jelly Bean is a child, Yes, jelly Bean don't got 1950 01:47:06.600 --> 01:47:10.439 no fucking job. Jelly Bean is in a position where 1951 01:47:10.520 --> 01:47:13.000 you get what the fuck I buy you because she's 1952 01:47:13.039 --> 01:47:14.279 a child with no job. 1953 01:47:14.399 --> 01:47:14.520 Right. 1954 01:47:16.319 --> 01:47:19.079 I just had jelly Bean pick out a new bed. 1955 01:47:19.840 --> 01:47:22.279 I told her, I said, going Amazon, because it was 1956 01:47:22.560 --> 01:47:28.279 like prime days. I said, go on Amazon. Fine, a 1957 01:47:28.359 --> 01:47:31.239 bed that you like, now you can get it, like 1958 01:47:31.359 --> 01:47:33.159 put a couple of options in the cart and stuff 1959 01:47:33.359 --> 01:47:38.159 like whatever little features or you know whatever. If whatever 1960 01:47:38.279 --> 01:47:41.680 you choose is too much, I'll try to find something 1961 01:47:42.000 --> 01:47:44.359 like I community. And she's a child, and I communicated 1962 01:47:44.399 --> 01:47:47.479 that with her. So when I found a bed, that 1963 01:47:47.640 --> 01:47:50.159 was it. You know, as as much as I want 1964 01:47:50.239 --> 01:47:53.159 to say no, I was actually about to say, Ken, 1965 01:47:53.199 --> 01:47:54.399 I'm gonna need your assistance. 1966 01:47:54.439 --> 01:47:57.439 I'm gonna need you to come to you, mister half handyman. 1967 01:48:00.279 --> 01:48:04.359 It gets stuck in that. That's still funny, No. 1968 01:48:04.439 --> 01:48:06.960 Because still going strong, kid. 1969 01:48:07.600 --> 01:48:09.760 You know what, First of all, shout out to kle 1970 01:48:09.800 --> 01:48:13.760 I'm gonna give Kylla her flower because somebody was really 1971 01:48:13.760 --> 01:48:15.880 about to be like, fuck that, I'm not talking to 1972 01:48:15.920 --> 01:48:18.039 that nigga. That nigga was never putting nothing in my house. 1973 01:48:18.319 --> 01:48:20.399 And she was like, uh, he came in, he did 1974 01:48:20.479 --> 01:48:21.439 this and it's still working. 1975 01:48:21.479 --> 01:48:22.000 Everything good. 1976 01:48:22.319 --> 01:48:23.880 Oh okay, well, I guess I'll let him to fix 1977 01:48:23.960 --> 01:48:27.640 my house all my still kid was about to get 1978 01:48:27.760 --> 01:48:30.319 a bad Yelp review for something Kayla King. 1979 01:48:32.079 --> 01:48:37.680 Yeah, but before I purchased a bed, so I looked 1980 01:48:37.680 --> 01:48:41.039 at him, like, Okay, this is what you want. I 1981 01:48:41.239 --> 01:48:44.880 found a bed in line with what she was looking 1982 01:48:44.960 --> 01:48:48.720 for for a lower price. I called her into my 1983 01:48:48.840 --> 01:48:51.920 room and I said, Jelly, look at this bed. Tell 1984 01:48:51.960 --> 01:48:54.279 me if this is close enough to you know, the 1985 01:48:54.359 --> 01:48:56.479 one that you picked hers. And she looked and she 1986 01:48:56.680 --> 01:48:58.800 was like, it pretty much got all the same stuff. 1987 01:48:58.920 --> 01:49:02.039 Like I'm fine with this, and she's a kid who 1988 01:49:02.119 --> 01:49:04.600 didn't have a choice, and I still communicated with her. 1989 01:49:04.840 --> 01:49:07.199 Okay, first of all, we can only go based off 1990 01:49:07.199 --> 01:49:09.600 of her posts, so we don't know if he didn't 1991 01:49:09.640 --> 01:49:11.079 try to call her and she didn't answer. 1992 01:49:11.199 --> 01:49:14.079 She was at work, you know, he didn't respond. He 1993 01:49:14.279 --> 01:49:15.800 right here in the moment making the person. 1994 01:49:15.880 --> 01:49:16.479 We don't know that. 1995 01:49:16.640 --> 01:49:19.920 Unfortunately, it's the one sided conversation. But at the same time, 1996 01:49:20.399 --> 01:49:23.479 you were considerate enough and you look to see if 1997 01:49:23.520 --> 01:49:28.079 it had all the same features. Okay, she may not 1998 01:49:28.239 --> 01:49:33.000 have insinuated that these features are very important she did. 1999 01:49:33.119 --> 01:49:36.359 She wanted the one with the charging you know how 2000 01:49:36.720 --> 01:49:41.479 they have like the different charger connected into the headboard 2001 01:49:41.600 --> 01:49:42.520 and the led. 2002 01:49:43.800 --> 01:49:44.600 Im talking about the chicken. 2003 01:49:45.920 --> 01:49:46.760 The chicken, the fridge. 2004 01:49:47.119 --> 01:49:49.000 So you didn't tell me what the importance he of 2005 01:49:49.079 --> 01:49:51.520 this fridge was. So just like you did. 2006 01:49:51.680 --> 01:49:54.439 You've seen a fridge that was cheaper, that checked all 2007 01:49:54.520 --> 01:49:56.680 the normal boxes of what a fridge needs to have. 2008 01:49:57.640 --> 01:50:00.760 You bought that fridge going to business. 2009 01:50:01.439 --> 01:50:04.079 I think he told you what she wanted just go by. 2010 01:50:04.760 --> 01:50:08.000 It was very simple for you. Just go and get 2011 01:50:08.039 --> 01:50:09.079 this is what she wants. 2012 01:50:11.359 --> 01:50:11.399 Me. 2013 01:50:11.600 --> 01:50:13.279 That reason of this. 2014 01:50:13.439 --> 01:50:16.359 Post is why if my girlfriend in the future is 2015 01:50:16.399 --> 01:50:17.920 not a sneakerhead, do. 2016 01:50:18.199 --> 01:50:21.239 Not make no attempt to buy me no shoes Because 2017 01:50:21.279 --> 01:50:22.680 as much as I would. 2018 01:50:22.960 --> 01:50:25.560 Be appreciative that you went out and you thought it 2019 01:50:25.680 --> 01:50:27.479 was cute and you brought it home, I know what 2020 01:50:27.600 --> 01:50:28.560 kind of shoes I like. 2021 01:50:29.159 --> 01:50:31.439 If you bring me some bullshit home, you're. 2022 01:50:31.319 --> 01:50:33.479 Gonna be upset because you're like, bag, why you don't 2023 01:50:33.479 --> 01:50:34.319 want the shoes I bought you? 2024 01:50:35.920 --> 01:50:36.399 I don't like it. 2025 01:50:38.920 --> 01:50:40.920 They don't matter. I got in this closet, which is 2026 01:50:41.000 --> 01:50:42.479 fucking crazy because we lived. 2027 01:50:42.359 --> 01:50:46.239 Together, which is why I be so disturbed when my 2028 01:50:46.520 --> 01:50:49.600 kids buy me shoes for my birthday or whatnot, because 2029 01:50:49.640 --> 01:50:51.479 it's like, it's my kids, so I can't be mad. 2030 01:50:51.720 --> 01:50:53.199 But then I look at the shoes you bought me, 2031 01:50:53.279 --> 01:50:54.680 It's like I would never wear these. 2032 01:50:55.560 --> 01:50:57.199 But I mean we had I had a situation like that, 2033 01:50:57.239 --> 01:50:58.319 were dealing with back to school. 2034 01:50:58.560 --> 01:51:00.159 There were some new Balances he wanted to and they 2035 01:51:00.199 --> 01:51:02.199 were one fifty and I'm like, I can't bring myself 2036 01:51:02.239 --> 01:51:05.039 to spend one fifty for some shoes. So I'm like, Okay, 2037 01:51:05.079 --> 01:51:06.600 we're gonna go into the store and say he look 2038 01:51:07.239 --> 01:51:09.000 ended up finding a pair of new Balance with a 2039 01:51:09.159 --> 01:51:12.840 different color way on sale for one hundred dollars. So 2040 01:51:12.920 --> 01:51:14.840 I'm like, okay, well and I and I plead in 2041 01:51:14.920 --> 01:51:17.920 my case, this one is a different color and my 2042 01:51:18.119 --> 01:51:21.039 natural a little more, but it's cheaper and we made 2043 01:51:21.399 --> 01:51:21.840 But at. 2044 01:51:21.760 --> 01:51:23.680 That point, if you was gonna spend a. 2045 01:51:23.720 --> 01:51:29.600 Honey, you could, because he definitely would have cared a 2046 01:51:29.640 --> 01:51:31.000 lot more about them shoes can. 2047 01:51:32.479 --> 01:51:34.520 He loves them. He actually likes them better than the 2048 01:51:34.600 --> 01:51:35.680 ones that he was gonna get. 2049 01:51:35.800 --> 01:51:39.399 But getting back to thay, no, my child, he would. 2050 01:51:41.439 --> 01:51:45.439 The fridge if it was me, I honestly would have 2051 01:51:45.479 --> 01:51:48.239 bought the exact pig, the picture, the fridge and the picture. 2052 01:51:48.600 --> 01:51:49.319 It would not have it. 2053 01:51:49.359 --> 01:51:51.600 Gave a damn because you want to know why, I 2054 01:51:51.760 --> 01:51:53.279 don't want to hear your damn mouth. 2055 01:51:55.600 --> 01:51:57.960 I'm sorry, but this is such a man response to 2056 01:51:58.039 --> 01:52:00.439 this situation. If you know your partner, you should know 2057 01:52:00.520 --> 01:52:02.399 when something is important to them. Why should they have 2058 01:52:02.479 --> 01:52:03.000 to stress that. 2059 01:52:03.199 --> 01:52:06.279 First of all, I initially start the conversation by saying, 2060 01:52:06.359 --> 01:52:07.680 I'm playing Devil's advocate. 2061 01:52:09.159 --> 01:52:10.520 But that's a response to the devil. 2062 01:52:10.880 --> 01:52:13.439 Okay, I'm playing devil because we have in a conversation 2063 01:52:13.560 --> 01:52:15.319 we all agree he fucked up. 2064 01:52:15.680 --> 01:52:17.680 Be up at nine am on the sniggers. 2065 01:52:18.560 --> 01:52:19.119 That's how you do. 2066 01:52:19.720 --> 01:52:23.000 I would you send me a picture normally like you 2067 01:52:23.119 --> 01:52:27.760 send me a picture, detail oriented and just like all 2068 01:52:27.800 --> 01:52:28.279 of the Steffs. 2069 01:52:28.319 --> 01:52:30.479 You said that if she would have told him boom, 2070 01:52:30.640 --> 01:52:31.800 he would have forgot that ship. 2071 01:52:31.640 --> 01:52:34.119 By the time he got I see that we build 2072 01:52:34.159 --> 01:52:35.439 different our military details. 2073 01:52:36.560 --> 01:52:38.720 You can't even you really can't even send a nigga 2074 01:52:38.720 --> 01:52:39.359 to the grocery store. 2075 01:52:39.399 --> 01:52:41.600 He gonna get what he wants because we're hungry when 2076 01:52:41.600 --> 01:52:42.680 you sent it to the store. 2077 01:52:44.199 --> 01:52:46.560 Right though, Because I watch when like when I be 2078 01:52:46.640 --> 01:52:49.319 at work and I be like customer watching. I watch 2079 01:52:49.399 --> 01:52:52.199 how women's shop versus me versus when it's just a 2080 01:52:52.359 --> 01:52:56.960 dude in their bombs versus when it's you and your wife. 2081 01:52:58.680 --> 01:53:00.359 You either live alone or. 2082 01:53:00.399 --> 01:53:02.800 You were just because you got to them with a 2083 01:53:02.920 --> 01:53:07.159 list that has pictures on it, quantities and yes, because 2084 01:53:07.239 --> 01:53:09.680 why are there's so many different variations of bread? 2085 01:53:09.960 --> 01:53:10.920 Because they gonna be like, you know. 2086 01:53:10.920 --> 01:53:14.520 What, it's mad ship that just like why is there 2087 01:53:14.560 --> 01:53:14.920 so much? 2088 01:53:15.199 --> 01:53:17.039 He can't say y'all got to cheer with the me 2089 01:53:20.960 --> 01:53:22.800 you don't even by mehul that go together? 2090 01:53:25.000 --> 01:53:28.199 Yo. And one thing dudes like they don't never get 2091 01:53:28.279 --> 01:53:32.000 no car, no basket. He's got seventy things in his 2092 01:53:32.159 --> 01:53:35.920 head because I need to. 2093 01:53:36.359 --> 01:53:38.359 But I'm like to carry. 2094 01:53:39.840 --> 01:53:43.319 Because they came in just to get bread. Thought about it. 2095 01:53:45.720 --> 01:53:46.359 Can suit. 2096 01:53:46.800 --> 01:53:48.920 It's not one because it's just. 2097 01:53:51.920 --> 01:53:55.960 Washing that recently and I promise it just made me it. 2098 01:53:56.119 --> 01:53:58.079 I wanted to be like, please go put that back, please. 2099 01:53:59.319 --> 01:53:59.800 Three and one. 2100 01:54:02.880 --> 01:54:03.840 I don't know if it's. 2101 01:54:05.279 --> 01:54:06.399 Gotta look at it because. 2102 01:54:09.279 --> 01:54:12.520 Like washing their hair with it, right, like the body 2103 01:54:12.720 --> 01:54:14.880 washing the body wash my hair. 2104 01:54:15.000 --> 01:54:17.680 I got a completely three and one man. 2105 01:54:18.359 --> 01:54:20.359 People three and one is bad. 2106 01:54:21.159 --> 01:54:23.560 I won't because my bathroom body watched some of that. 2107 01:54:24.560 --> 01:54:27.439 I didn't know what Maybe, ladies, you see how we 2108 01:54:27.560 --> 01:54:30.039 started the show talking about p H balance and ship. 2109 01:54:30.159 --> 01:54:32.600 Maybe your pH not off because he's cheating. Maybe it's 2110 01:54:32.600 --> 01:54:35.760 because he was three and one on his dick three 2111 01:54:35.960 --> 01:54:45.720 one on the Yeah, yeah, I was like, yeah, SOAPRS 2112 01:54:46.720 --> 01:54:49.720 man is INSTACR shoppers are the fucking worst, and that's 2113 01:54:49.760 --> 01:54:52.600 your job. What I asked for is literally right fucking there. 2114 01:54:54.279 --> 01:54:55.479 The substitutions that. 2115 01:54:55.520 --> 01:54:56.239 I have seen. 2116 01:54:57.560 --> 01:54:59.920 Why I never do never. 2117 01:55:00.319 --> 01:55:05.119 Okay, now now you're asking for a cabbage and then 2118 01:55:05.199 --> 01:55:07.960 bringing the lettuce, even though it's wrong. 2119 01:55:08.920 --> 01:55:11.439 That is way more reasonable than the ship that I 2120 01:55:11.560 --> 01:55:12.880 have seen. Did you see the post? 2121 01:55:13.159 --> 01:55:15.439 I think the lady had actually tampions or something and 2122 01:55:15.600 --> 01:55:19.319 they had like did a substitute for like mushrooms, chicken 2123 01:55:19.359 --> 01:55:21.079 feed or crazy. 2124 01:55:25.319 --> 01:55:27.119 This nigga said, if you got such a preference, go 2125 01:55:27.199 --> 01:55:29.439 get it yourself. Motherfucker you getting paid to do it. 2126 01:55:29.840 --> 01:55:32.000 Let me trying out you an instacart. One of the 2127 01:55:32.119 --> 01:55:32.520 men in. 2128 01:55:34.600 --> 01:55:38.840 Biktok and and the girlfriend or the wife was like, 2129 01:55:39.079 --> 01:55:40.840 I need my husband and boyfriend and get me some 2130 01:55:40.920 --> 01:55:42.640 pass with the wings and. 2131 01:55:46.119 --> 01:55:47.359 This is not that slow. 2132 01:55:47.720 --> 01:55:48.159 I saw that. 2133 01:55:48.359 --> 01:55:53.399 I was like, I'm saying, he brought. 2134 01:55:53.239 --> 01:55:57.880 What they wanted past with the wings. He broke past 2135 01:55:58.000 --> 01:55:59.439 and then like the sixties, he. 2136 01:55:59.560 --> 01:56:03.920 Bre like car pads, no, like like GOLs. 2137 01:56:04.399 --> 01:56:04.479 Like. 2138 01:56:06.039 --> 01:56:09.479 Minstrel pads. But instead of getting the pads with. 2139 01:56:09.520 --> 01:56:12.640 The wings that wrap around the pennies, they got wings 2140 01:56:13.119 --> 01:56:14.159 as in chicken wings. 2141 01:56:15.079 --> 01:56:16.640 Like how do you not get the ones that got 2142 01:56:16.720 --> 01:56:19.920 the flat bos? You got the you got pass, you 2143 01:56:20.000 --> 01:56:21.159 went and got a butt. 2144 01:56:22.159 --> 01:56:25.600 They heard pads with wings and thought pads and wings. 2145 01:56:26.399 --> 01:56:30.680 In his defense, he thought they need sometimes y'all need 2146 01:56:30.800 --> 01:56:32.680 chocolate when y'all going through y'all things. 2147 01:56:32.720 --> 01:56:35.199 So he probably thought they maybe want some some. 2148 01:56:35.399 --> 01:56:42.079 Assistan can't can't say, okay now that that guy might 2149 01:56:42.119 --> 01:56:43.560 be retarded. No, it was the thing. 2150 01:56:43.760 --> 01:56:46.560 It was multiple women doing it to their spouses, you 2151 01:56:46.640 --> 01:56:49.920 know how, like when they show like when people text 2152 01:56:50.119 --> 01:56:51.239 and show people response. 2153 01:56:51.359 --> 01:56:55.399 No, it was multiple women who uploaded their men coming 2154 01:56:55.439 --> 01:56:57.319 in with pads and wins. 2155 01:56:59.439 --> 01:57:01.840 Give them a little grace because, first of all, if 2156 01:57:01.880 --> 01:57:04.760 they don't, if they never had to deal with the 2157 01:57:04.880 --> 01:57:06.600 shopping for y'all, they don't a lot of them don't 2158 01:57:06.640 --> 01:57:07.600 know that there's. 2159 01:57:10.119 --> 01:57:11.760 Right, no speaking of. 2160 01:57:11.800 --> 01:57:16.880 Pictures, comment on the machine on the monitor. I mean 2161 01:57:16.920 --> 01:57:20.039 it's technically machine, and she said, it's when they take 2162 01:57:20.119 --> 01:57:22.279 the picture to show you what you're asking for, isn't 2163 01:57:22.319 --> 01:57:24.560 there when the fucking thing is fully present in the 2164 01:57:24.640 --> 01:57:25.279 fucking picture. 2165 01:57:25.760 --> 01:57:29.680 Just look, make it make sense. Kim Kim just posted 2166 01:57:29.720 --> 01:57:30.279 a picture of that. 2167 01:57:30.720 --> 01:57:33.439 She was making something and it was a cheese that 2168 01:57:33.560 --> 01:57:36.239 she wanted and they sent the picture and was like, 2169 01:57:36.840 --> 01:57:38.720 they don't have that, and she was like, it's literally 2170 01:57:38.840 --> 01:57:41.640 right there next to the such and such like, so 2171 01:57:41.800 --> 01:57:45.119 the cheese that she wanted, it was just a. 2172 01:57:45.199 --> 01:57:50.800 Back a little bit further the look. Okay, I can't say. 2173 01:57:51.279 --> 01:57:54.800 So, I gotta say that maybe the men shoppers that 2174 01:57:54.880 --> 01:57:57.520 I had grew up with single moms or something, because 2175 01:57:58.079 --> 01:58:01.079 they don't miss the ones that I've had. Dave actually 2176 01:58:01.159 --> 01:58:03.359 like the last one that I had, like and he 2177 01:58:03.600 --> 01:58:09.439 was out at at Woodman's, like he took his time, 2178 01:58:10.119 --> 01:58:13.239 like because I wanted certain like tortillas and shit, like, 2179 01:58:13.319 --> 01:58:15.960 he actually took his time, and then when they didn't 2180 01:58:16.039 --> 01:58:19.039 have them, he got the right substitution and everything. 2181 01:58:19.239 --> 01:58:22.319 Okay, So can I ask you'all ladies a question, including 2182 01:58:22.319 --> 01:58:26.359 the ones in the comments too, Would y'all consider grocery 2183 01:58:26.359 --> 01:58:30.279 shopping just to make sure everything is done right the 2184 01:58:30.359 --> 01:58:33.359 woman's job while we taking out garbages and stuff like that, 2185 01:58:33.840 --> 01:58:36.079 because apparently if we go do it, we do it wrong. 2186 01:58:36.920 --> 01:58:38.920 So if you in a relationship, will you take that 2187 01:58:39.399 --> 01:58:42.760 as the woman's responsibility because apparently were not gonna do 2188 01:58:42.840 --> 01:58:43.279 shit right. 2189 01:58:44.159 --> 01:58:47.279 Okay, So for me personally, go on grocery shopping because 2190 01:58:47.399 --> 01:58:50.720 I know how I cook and I know certain ingredients 2191 01:58:50.760 --> 01:58:53.760 of highlight things to go. I don't mind grocery shopping, 2192 01:58:53.960 --> 01:58:58.000 but if there's any a situation that arises, then I 2193 01:58:58.119 --> 01:59:01.119 can't go to the grocery store. You should be able 2194 01:59:01.199 --> 01:59:04.119 to step up and go to the grocery store efficiently 2195 01:59:04.560 --> 01:59:05.399 for this household. 2196 01:59:05.479 --> 01:59:09.359 I feel like you, regardless as an adult, you shouldn't 2197 01:59:09.359 --> 01:59:15.680 be a fucking idiot. If I tell you, if I 2198 01:59:15.840 --> 01:59:19.279 tell you, if I tell you to bring me a 2199 01:59:19.600 --> 01:59:22.600 I need pickle onions and you go and bring me 2200 01:59:22.720 --> 01:59:24.920 pickles and an onion, I'm gonna be pissed because I 2201 01:59:25.000 --> 01:59:26.560 know how I wrote it right. 2202 01:59:28.000 --> 01:59:29.199 You didn't even that. 2203 01:59:34.840 --> 01:59:37.960 No nigga can talking about some gender roles exist for 2204 01:59:38.039 --> 01:59:39.720 a reason. You should have thought of that ship when 2205 01:59:39.720 --> 01:59:41.680 I was working two jobs while you was at home. 2206 01:59:41.720 --> 01:59:42.560 Don't piss me off. 2207 01:59:42.800 --> 01:59:46.359 God damn, I was didn't fast quick. 2208 01:59:48.560 --> 01:59:50.520 Because no, I know what you said too. 2209 01:59:50.640 --> 01:59:53.039 It's like, you're not about to keep finding stuff and 2210 01:59:53.199 --> 01:59:57.479 doing the wrong on purpose because weaponized incompetence. 2211 01:59:57.600 --> 02:00:01.199 Ladies and gentlemen, old men who do that too. 2212 02:00:02.239 --> 02:00:02.479 Let me. 2213 02:00:04.000 --> 02:00:12.239 Don't forget something if you take a list, I really, 2214 02:00:12.319 --> 02:00:14.479 I really regret that you weren't one of the ones 2215 02:00:14.520 --> 02:00:15.319 that I hit with my car. 2216 02:00:16.159 --> 02:00:17.720 Now I had to be with then it was newer. 2217 02:00:18.439 --> 02:00:19.479 If you're dating back when I. 2218 02:00:19.640 --> 02:00:22.760 Yeah significant other like send me to the grocery store, 2219 02:00:22.800 --> 02:00:25.399 were like, no list, She's gonna understand that I was 2220 02:00:25.560 --> 02:00:27.439 one of the kids that grew up in their parents 2221 02:00:27.479 --> 02:00:28.279 work second shift. 2222 02:00:28.600 --> 02:00:30.039 You're gonna be all kind of microwaving. 2223 02:00:31.760 --> 02:00:33.520 You weren't. That's actually Lelo said. 2224 02:00:33.560 --> 02:00:37.640 You will not grocer, thank Youlelo said. Leo said, you 2225 02:00:37.720 --> 02:00:41.199 will not depart, You will not weaponized. Hold on, put 2226 02:00:41.279 --> 02:00:46.079 Lelo on the screen. That is, Lelo said, you will 2227 02:00:46.159 --> 02:00:48.720 not weaponize your incompetence. Figure it the funk out, or 2228 02:00:48.760 --> 02:00:50.439 you will be paying for a door dash that night. 2229 02:00:51.239 --> 02:00:52.840 How about get all of this ship and we went 2230 02:00:52.960 --> 02:00:54.840 back to the grocery store because I'm trying to figure 2231 02:00:54.840 --> 02:00:56.880 out how to hell this happened, like there is no 2232 02:00:57.920 --> 02:00:59.880 but okay, what if I just had a damn baby? 2233 02:01:00.000 --> 02:01:01.640 I can't leave and go to the grocery store. You 2234 02:01:01.680 --> 02:01:03.720 gotta go to the store. Why are you stressing me 2235 02:01:03.840 --> 02:01:04.279 out with this. 2236 02:01:06.039 --> 02:01:08.560 Attention? Here's the thing too, if you're paying attention, we 2237 02:01:08.760 --> 02:01:12.039 live together. I'm cooking. We're a household. You know how 2238 02:01:12.119 --> 02:01:15.439 I shine. You know what I buy. So if you're 2239 02:01:15.479 --> 02:01:17.079 at the store and you come back with some bull 2240 02:01:17.159 --> 02:01:18.520 you know that I don't buy this ship. 2241 02:01:18.640 --> 02:01:19.479 You know that I don't. 2242 02:01:19.720 --> 02:01:22.079 You don't even eat this. But it's and I will 2243 02:01:22.119 --> 02:01:27.000 be honest, it's not just men. My mom don't cook. 2244 02:01:29.199 --> 02:01:33.359 In the room telling you how changed like ares from. 2245 02:01:36.399 --> 02:01:37.600 I feel like she's experienced. 2246 02:01:37.960 --> 02:01:40.840 My mom doesn't cook. But you know what my mom does. 2247 02:01:41.399 --> 02:01:44.279 My mom don't just wing it and bring home when 2248 02:01:44.359 --> 02:01:47.479 she thinks I mean, Mama, if it take her extra 2249 02:01:47.560 --> 02:01:49.600 twenty minutes in that fucking store, you know what she does. 2250 02:01:50.239 --> 02:01:53.159 She takes a picture of it and sends it and says, 2251 02:01:53.720 --> 02:01:54.239 is this it? 2252 02:01:54.640 --> 02:01:56.880 If it's something that I know that she's not familiar 2253 02:01:56.960 --> 02:01:58.880 with and she's not gonna know what I'm talking about. 2254 02:01:59.239 --> 02:02:02.079 I will scream shot it from Meyer app or whatever 2255 02:02:02.159 --> 02:02:04.399 store she going to and said, this is what you're getting. 2256 02:02:04.640 --> 02:02:08.840 The funny thing is I actually grocery shop better because 2257 02:02:08.880 --> 02:02:11.960 my mom used to send me the centuries on my 2258 02:02:12.119 --> 02:02:15.239 own with a list and dared me to come home 2259 02:02:15.279 --> 02:02:15.640 with something. 2260 02:02:15.640 --> 02:02:16.319 You know, it's crazy. 2261 02:02:16.399 --> 02:02:18.560 Century is so high, and Centry seemed like a dump. 2262 02:02:18.680 --> 02:02:20.319 I don't think I've been in the Cyria. That's like 2263 02:02:20.680 --> 02:02:23.680 a billion where he can sat back the same. Century 2264 02:02:23.840 --> 02:02:26.359 is like a step up from the hood Pickley Wiggly, 2265 02:02:26.479 --> 02:02:28.680 not the one, not the pickly be out there, but 2266 02:02:28.800 --> 02:02:29.319 like the good. 2267 02:02:32.000 --> 02:02:33.880 But we have the point with Dylan where he's able 2268 02:02:33.920 --> 02:02:35.880 to stop at the store on the way home. And 2269 02:02:35.920 --> 02:02:37.560 there are times where I will go on the pick 2270 02:02:37.640 --> 02:02:39.800 and Save app and I'll pull up a screenshot and 2271 02:02:39.840 --> 02:02:41.439 I'll say, hey, I need you to go get this 2272 02:02:42.079 --> 02:02:43.760 and the pick and Save all show you the picture. 2273 02:02:43.920 --> 02:02:44.920 He will show you the eye. 2274 02:02:45.359 --> 02:02:46.359 It will show you the price. 2275 02:02:46.920 --> 02:02:49.560 And he's able to go in and with through that 2276 02:02:49.680 --> 02:02:52.199 store because we don't been in there enough times and 2277 02:02:52.319 --> 02:02:54.079 he know like, okay, I'm not gonna. 2278 02:02:53.800 --> 02:02:57.000 Get pickled Oprah because he asks for a jar pickles. 2279 02:02:56.640 --> 02:02:59.319 And I don't, I know see at that point them 2280 02:02:59.399 --> 02:03:03.359 just niggas being dumb because you know read it's fundamental. 2281 02:03:03.560 --> 02:03:07.760 I'm trying to help his future to the grocery store. 2282 02:03:07.800 --> 02:03:12.119 And but I think another thing that really frustrates you 2283 02:03:12.239 --> 02:03:14.600 when you were sending somebody to the grocery stoes because 2284 02:03:14.640 --> 02:03:17.520 it's like I already have to do the cooking. 2285 02:03:18.359 --> 02:03:19.800 You not about to cook this shit. 2286 02:03:20.840 --> 02:03:22.680 I don't want to have to go spend my time 2287 02:03:23.359 --> 02:03:25.600 in the grocery store because you act like you don't 2288 02:03:25.600 --> 02:03:28.079 know what the fuck to do. Have to come home, 2289 02:03:28.640 --> 02:03:32.319 prep this ship, cook it, and you're not doing absolutely 2290 02:03:32.439 --> 02:03:35.880 fucking nothing. No, if you want to fucking eat, take 2291 02:03:35.960 --> 02:03:38.159 your musty ass to the grocery store and go get 2292 02:03:38.199 --> 02:03:40.159 this ship that I told you to get. Like I said, 2293 02:03:40.239 --> 02:03:42.479 my mom, if she don't know, she will send me 2294 02:03:42.560 --> 02:03:44.720 a picture or she will video chat me from the 2295 02:03:44.800 --> 02:03:47.279 store and say, hey, is this what you was talking about? 2296 02:03:47.319 --> 02:03:48.079 Is this what you need? 2297 02:03:48.239 --> 02:03:48.399 Is this? 2298 02:03:48.680 --> 02:03:50.600 And she paying the cart? Is this enough? Do I 2299 02:03:50.720 --> 02:03:51.600 need to get more like that? 2300 02:03:52.680 --> 02:03:52.840 Now? 2301 02:03:53.000 --> 02:03:55.479 Like back in our days when telephones and have a 2302 02:03:55.560 --> 02:03:56.760 camera on it, Yes, but. 2303 02:03:56.920 --> 02:03:59.159 Now, even back then, they used to write on the 2304 02:03:59.239 --> 02:04:02.119 fucking would tear. I was gonna set the back of 2305 02:04:02.159 --> 02:04:04.920 the envelope they tear and tell you exactly what you need. 2306 02:04:05.279 --> 02:04:06.920 My mom and when my stepdad had to go to 2307 02:04:07.039 --> 02:04:09.600 the store, my mom will always send me and my 2308 02:04:09.720 --> 02:04:12.199 sister with her because she takes us a grocery shop. 2309 02:04:12.239 --> 02:04:14.359 And we would go to the store with him because 2310 02:04:14.399 --> 02:04:17.199 if he gets something that we know she don't normally buy, 2311 02:04:17.680 --> 02:04:19.600 we can call it out while we at the store. Hey, 2312 02:04:19.680 --> 02:04:22.279 she don't normally buy that, she usually get this one. Now, 2313 02:04:22.359 --> 02:04:24.600 with my ex boyfriend, if there were ever times where 2314 02:04:25.119 --> 02:04:26.439 I had to work and I couldn't make it to 2315 02:04:26.520 --> 02:04:29.039 the grocery store, he don't know how to grocery shop, 2316 02:04:29.119 --> 02:04:31.720 but yes, what he'll do, my mom will go right 2317 02:04:31.800 --> 02:04:33.319 the list time and my mama go do it. And 2318 02:04:33.399 --> 02:04:35.000 by the time I would get off work, the groceries 2319 02:04:35.039 --> 02:04:36.760 to be there because he sent his mama to the store. 2320 02:04:37.239 --> 02:04:39.319 You can't do it, but you figured out somebody that 2321 02:04:39.439 --> 02:04:40.279 you knew could go. 2322 02:04:40.359 --> 02:04:40.680 And do it. 2323 02:04:40.760 --> 02:04:44.760 Because no girl, man that lives by himself should not 2324 02:04:44.960 --> 02:04:47.680 not have a grocery shop. You can't just keep having 2325 02:04:47.720 --> 02:04:49.760 two dollars pop pyees in the freezer on the top 2326 02:04:50.520 --> 02:04:51.239 all the time. 2327 02:04:51.840 --> 02:04:55.560 But niggas really be I don't know what you are 2328 02:04:55.640 --> 02:04:59.880 talking about. I'm a Canadian farmer, so you don't have 2329 02:05:00.079 --> 02:05:02.399 to go to the grocery store then paint over driving. 2330 02:05:02.560 --> 02:05:05.760 I'm jealous you grow your food. Yeah, that's actually pretty dope. 2331 02:05:06.520 --> 02:05:08.520 I actually love the fact that you are a farmer 2332 02:05:08.600 --> 02:05:11.800 because that means that you have food that don't have 2333 02:05:12.079 --> 02:05:20.479 all of our our Why if I wasn't extremely terrified 2334 02:05:20.680 --> 02:05:24.920 of bugs and nature, and I wasn't allergic to everything, 2335 02:05:25.479 --> 02:05:27.840 I would totally try to save my money to get 2336 02:05:27.880 --> 02:05:29.239 me a farm and do my own thing. 2337 02:05:29.600 --> 02:05:31.560 I would try to be police out here. You see 2338 02:05:31.600 --> 02:05:33.920 how fine the ladies are to have their farms. Have 2339 02:05:34.000 --> 02:05:34.840 you paid attention to that. 2340 02:05:35.720 --> 02:05:40.119 I don't love the white women. They white women. I 2341 02:05:40.159 --> 02:05:46.479 can't look at him that way. That's really not That's 2342 02:05:46.520 --> 02:05:47.239 not what I want. 2343 02:05:49.640 --> 02:05:50.600 Doing the tik tik challenge. 2344 02:05:51.000 --> 02:05:53.680 See that said, I'm triggered in the bitch tone even 2345 02:05:53.760 --> 02:05:55.520 when I'm fucking with hi nigga. I learn him by 2346 02:05:55.560 --> 02:05:58.239 asking questions. So if he had my place, there are 2347 02:05:58.319 --> 02:06:00.399 drinks that he likes, so he won't be him my ship. 2348 02:06:00.520 --> 02:06:02.319 Here are your snacks, so you ain't in my ship, 2349 02:06:04.239 --> 02:06:07.680 folks said, if it's just me and that's my favorite, 2350 02:06:07.800 --> 02:06:08.560 what the problem is. 2351 02:06:08.680 --> 02:06:11.199 I didn't say you couldn't have pop pies in your 2352 02:06:11.279 --> 02:06:12.479 free I said you need to know how to buy 2353 02:06:12.560 --> 02:06:13.760 other stuff besides just that. 2354 02:06:13.960 --> 02:06:18.079 Nigga, I'm just fascinated by black culture in the States. 2355 02:06:18.359 --> 02:06:23.680 What's that, lady man, I'll give you a path. Oh okay, 2356 02:06:23.760 --> 02:06:26.239 that was the green dots on difficult. 2357 02:06:27.479 --> 02:06:29.119 Talking about you talking about Marie Calendar. 2358 02:06:29.359 --> 02:06:36.079 Yeah, yeah, those are That's a different story I'm talking about. 2359 02:06:37.119 --> 02:06:38.880 That's what I'm talking about talking about. I got you 2360 02:06:38.960 --> 02:06:42.960 talking about the little red boe No, no green box. Now, 2361 02:06:43.039 --> 02:06:47.960 I'm like, okay, calendar box, yes, okay, at least. 2362 02:06:47.840 --> 02:06:48.760 You care a little bit. 2363 02:06:48.920 --> 02:06:51.600 The green Boy's got loved you was talking about the banquet, 2364 02:06:51.720 --> 02:06:54.479 the little red box with the pip pie and. 2365 02:06:54.479 --> 02:06:57.640 The South, the one that get all sought like the 2366 02:06:57.720 --> 02:06:59.039 one that gets soggy at the bottom. 2367 02:06:59.840 --> 02:07:05.119 I love that crust Scooper, No, the bank was scoop 2368 02:07:05.119 --> 02:07:09.359 around the bottom and eat and eat the crust. Who 2369 02:07:09.479 --> 02:07:11.000 used to have good? Have y'all ever had the pop 2370 02:07:11.039 --> 02:07:12.800 Hobaby from KOC Yeah? 2371 02:07:13.039 --> 02:07:17.960 First, I haven't had. I haven't had them recently. I 2372 02:07:18.039 --> 02:07:20.800 haven't had them recently, but like when they first first 2373 02:07:20.960 --> 02:07:23.560 first drop, Oh my god, I. 2374 02:07:23.640 --> 02:07:25.359 Used to take the corners off and kind of put 2375 02:07:25.399 --> 02:07:25.880 them in there. 2376 02:07:25.760 --> 02:07:27.880 Because the chicken used to like they used to because 2377 02:07:27.880 --> 02:07:29.439 I don't know about now, Like I said, it's I 2378 02:07:29.920 --> 02:07:32.359 haven't had them in all these years I was a kid. 2379 02:07:32.840 --> 02:07:35.640 But when I used to eat them, okay, they had 2380 02:07:35.720 --> 02:07:37.680 the biggest, juiciest pieces of chicken. 2381 02:07:38.039 --> 02:07:39.399 Okay, I'm gonna do a quick call back. 2382 02:07:39.479 --> 02:07:40.840 So you know when we were talking about the fridge 2383 02:07:40.880 --> 02:07:43.159 earlier and how she said, you see how specifics are 2384 02:07:43.159 --> 02:07:45.760 fucking important. Had she told them specifically why she want 2385 02:07:45.840 --> 02:07:48.159 that fridge, he wouldn't have mattered. It was one hundred 2386 02:07:48.159 --> 02:07:51.199 dollars cheaper. He would have bought the fridge she wanted that, 2387 02:07:51.479 --> 02:07:52.840 you know, exactly on. 2388 02:07:52.920 --> 02:07:55.600 The list of things that were important. Her specifics wouldn't 2389 02:07:55.600 --> 02:07:55.880 have mattered. 2390 02:07:55.880 --> 02:07:55.920 That. 2391 02:07:56.000 --> 02:07:58.199 You want to know why, because he would have said, 2392 02:07:58.279 --> 02:08:00.520 that costs too much, and this one is she So 2393 02:08:00.680 --> 02:08:01.880 let's just get this one. 2394 02:08:02.600 --> 02:08:03.640 Ain't that what you just did? 2395 02:08:04.560 --> 02:08:08.079 I buy the one that I want in the picture. 2396 02:08:08.520 --> 02:08:10.399 You didn't actual for one hundred dollars new balance. The 2397 02:08:10.439 --> 02:08:11.319 actual ones I want. 2398 02:08:11.840 --> 02:08:18.119 That's true, you did you No, that's still that same 2399 02:08:18.800 --> 02:08:19.680 same dynamics. 2400 02:08:19.880 --> 02:08:20.560 That's a child. 2401 02:08:22.960 --> 02:08:25.880 That's kind of like she was saying, what the bed, 2402 02:08:26.119 --> 02:08:27.880 the shoes still have to say your feature there was 2403 02:08:27.880 --> 02:08:30.199 a different color, but you still need new balances. 2404 02:08:30.720 --> 02:08:33.840 It's a different color comfort. And now they won his 2405 02:08:33.960 --> 02:08:34.880 favorite pair of shoes. 2406 02:08:36.000 --> 02:08:38.199 You just got lucky that that's his favorite pair of shoes. 2407 02:08:39.479 --> 02:08:40.359 You infrigerator. 2408 02:08:41.279 --> 02:08:44.399 There was also communication there. There was no communication for 2409 02:08:44.520 --> 02:08:46.520 him to say, hey, and that's what do you think? 2410 02:08:47.760 --> 02:08:48.199 What do you think? 2411 02:08:48.439 --> 02:08:49.800 What do you think about this fridge? 2412 02:08:49.960 --> 02:08:51.560 We don't know if he tried to call and she 2413 02:08:51.680 --> 02:08:53.000 just didn't answer whatever. 2414 02:08:53.399 --> 02:08:56.800 I feel like also gave she gave I don't. 2415 02:08:56.640 --> 02:08:59.039 Know she gave a victim answer. 2416 02:08:59.359 --> 02:09:01.640 I think my problem is this, I didn't like the 2417 02:09:01.720 --> 02:09:02.640 responses to it. 2418 02:09:02.840 --> 02:09:04.439 I give you that because some of the responses do 2419 02:09:05.239 --> 02:09:05.760 I didn't like those. 2420 02:09:05.760 --> 02:09:07.520 Spons was saying that she was ungrateful, and. 2421 02:09:09.479 --> 02:09:14.920 I feel like people need to understand that it is 2422 02:09:15.199 --> 02:09:19.600 okay to be grateful for a gesture but disappointed with 2423 02:09:19.680 --> 02:09:20.439 the execution. 2424 02:09:21.119 --> 02:09:23.119 Two things can be true at once. 2425 02:09:23.800 --> 02:09:26.880 I can be grateful that you did something, but disappointed 2426 02:09:26.960 --> 02:09:27.680 with the outcome. 2427 02:09:27.800 --> 02:09:29.600 Because this isn't what I asked for. 2428 02:09:29.800 --> 02:09:32.279 I don't like flowers, but you're You're bringing me flowers, 2429 02:09:32.319 --> 02:09:33.960 and I'm telling you I don't like flowers, and you 2430 02:09:34.079 --> 02:09:34.880 keep bringing them to me. 2431 02:09:35.199 --> 02:09:37.600 I'm so grateful that I was grate the flowers you 2432 02:09:37.680 --> 02:09:40.000 bought me. But we know that I am fucking allergic 2433 02:09:40.079 --> 02:09:40.640 to everything. 2434 02:09:40.960 --> 02:09:43.039 You are an asshole for that tried to kill her. 2435 02:09:43.159 --> 02:09:46.119 No, I was being actual. I was actually being very genuine. 2436 02:09:46.199 --> 02:09:48.479 But you forgot in my mind, I was like, oh, 2437 02:09:48.600 --> 02:09:50.479 this would make her dead. It wasn't oh this is 2438 02:09:50.520 --> 02:09:52.600 gonna kill her, because if I was thinking it was 2439 02:09:52.760 --> 02:09:54.359 a killer, then that wouldn't right. 2440 02:09:54.920 --> 02:09:56.319 But for me. 2441 02:09:57.000 --> 02:09:59.640 But for me, the most important part of her gesture 2442 02:09:59.760 --> 02:10:01.520 was the handwritten note that she left me. 2443 02:10:02.520 --> 02:10:07.399 I still have that. You did that, Yeah, and you 2444 02:10:07.760 --> 02:10:11.079 and you even you even signed it. Melan and Hitler. 2445 02:10:12.279 --> 02:10:14.159 You even signed it Melani and Hitler. 2446 02:10:14.520 --> 02:10:15.399 Melani and Hitler. 2447 02:10:18.039 --> 02:10:21.279 Yeah, you've known way more along to tell me about it. 2448 02:10:25.920 --> 02:10:26.479 What did he say? 2449 02:10:28.000 --> 02:10:31.600 I feel like it said Okay, as a white German 2450 02:10:31.720 --> 02:10:35.000 Canadian with she with three generations of farmers, I am 2451 02:10:35.039 --> 02:10:37.560 fascinated by black Americans Americans. 2452 02:10:37.640 --> 02:10:39.239 Are you African or American? 2453 02:10:39.359 --> 02:10:40.159 That's a great question. 2454 02:10:40.520 --> 02:10:42.720 Either way, they don't want us here. 2455 02:10:43.159 --> 02:10:47.439 You're right, how do we get into Canada? 2456 02:10:47.479 --> 02:10:48.760 I love Canada? It's so clean. 2457 02:10:49.279 --> 02:10:52.680 How do we Either way, we're not welcome in America. 2458 02:10:52.920 --> 02:10:56.920 We just surviving here, you know, wen't actually be here. 2459 02:10:59.319 --> 02:10:59.880 Brought us over. 2460 02:11:00.239 --> 02:11:04.159 That is a lot. He is white, German and Canadian 2461 02:11:06.640 --> 02:11:07.359 and a farmer. 2462 02:11:07.760 --> 02:11:14.199 You know, a man named Damien there. I mean, I 2463 02:11:14.199 --> 02:11:14.760 don't know man. 2464 02:11:15.239 --> 02:11:18.319 You never know. It could be him farmer. 2465 02:11:19.920 --> 02:11:23.439 I can't stand flowers, but I'll accept them and given 2466 02:11:23.960 --> 02:11:25.359 just don't expect me to keep them. 2467 02:11:25.399 --> 02:11:27.399 Holes a lot nobody expect. 2468 02:11:29.159 --> 02:11:31.239 He's coming in from YouTube YouTube. 2469 02:11:31.800 --> 02:11:33.520 My algorithm is kind of open now. 2470 02:11:34.479 --> 02:11:37.840 But like I tend to take the road of gratitude. 2471 02:11:40.880 --> 02:11:43.000 I don't like hurting people feelings. So I feel like 2472 02:11:43.039 --> 02:11:46.479 it's definitely been times for No, it's actually bad because 2473 02:11:46.520 --> 02:11:48.119 I don't say half of the stuff that I should. 2474 02:11:50.199 --> 02:11:53.079 I can can actually vouch for me that as much 2475 02:11:53.119 --> 02:11:55.199 as people think I'm an asshole, there is a lot 2476 02:11:55.319 --> 02:11:59.159 that I don't say a lot, but. 2477 02:11:59.199 --> 02:12:01.399 I'll definitely be I'm so grateful. I'm so grateful, and 2478 02:12:01.479 --> 02:12:03.760 it's stuff that I'm like, I really don't care. 2479 02:12:03.640 --> 02:12:07.159 For this and said, they brought us here without her permission. 2480 02:12:08.479 --> 02:12:12.199 Own business, and by they, I mean my parents because 2481 02:12:12.199 --> 02:12:14.199 I didn't ask to be here paying bills because y'all 2482 02:12:14.279 --> 02:12:15.079 wanted to get busy. 2483 02:12:15.479 --> 02:12:18.760 Can be in a sack, but no. 2484 02:12:20.279 --> 02:12:23.159 And so I was really upset with the comments because 2485 02:12:23.439 --> 02:12:27.079 I hate how people automatically feel like if you were 2486 02:12:27.159 --> 02:12:30.760 disappointed with something, it means that you were ungrateful. Now, 2487 02:12:31.319 --> 02:12:34.840 if I go to a restaurant because I have a 2488 02:12:35.000 --> 02:12:40.239 taste for steak, I want steak, I order steak, and 2489 02:12:40.359 --> 02:12:43.159 they decide, you know what, we want to give you 2490 02:12:43.279 --> 02:12:43.720 a burger. 2491 02:12:44.119 --> 02:12:45.880 It's still beef. So what does it matter? 2492 02:12:46.720 --> 02:12:48.920 Am I supposed to just sit here smile and grinting 2493 02:12:49.000 --> 02:12:50.880 like a fucking idiot, like, well, it's still beef. 2494 02:12:51.319 --> 02:12:54.319 I gotta be, you know, happy that some guys still 2495 02:12:54.359 --> 02:12:55.239 took you out on the date. 2496 02:12:55.479 --> 02:12:56.680 And you know what that reminded me of. 2497 02:12:56.800 --> 02:12:58.760 That just reminded me of a conversation this lady at 2498 02:12:58.800 --> 02:13:02.479 work was having her birthday is coming up soon. She 2499 02:13:02.640 --> 02:13:05.800 told her husband that she wanted to go to Belize. 2500 02:13:06.399 --> 02:13:07.800 She said, I want to take a vacation and I 2501 02:13:07.880 --> 02:13:11.600 want to go to Belize. And then she said he 2502 02:13:11.720 --> 02:13:13.279 was like, Okay, we're going on vacation. And she's like, 2503 02:13:13.319 --> 02:13:15.000 oh my god, we're going to Belieze for my birthday. 2504 02:13:15.000 --> 02:13:17.119 And he was like, no, we're actually going to go 2505 02:13:17.159 --> 02:13:20.520 to London and so, and you can see the disappointment. Now, 2506 02:13:20.600 --> 02:13:23.520 she didn't really express it to him, like oh, that's 2507 02:13:23.560 --> 02:13:25.359 not what I asked for, but when she was describing 2508 02:13:25.439 --> 02:13:27.399 it to us, she was like, I told him that 2509 02:13:27.439 --> 02:13:29.159 I wanted to go to L's like we've been in 2510 02:13:29.199 --> 02:13:30.119 London so many times. 2511 02:13:30.159 --> 02:13:31.520 I want to go to London. 2512 02:13:31.680 --> 02:13:34.560 But what stopped him. What stopped her from telling that was. 2513 02:13:34.560 --> 02:13:35.800 No money, It's not an issue. 2514 02:13:35.960 --> 02:13:39.239 But that's what I'm saying. What stopped her from telling him, Nigga, 2515 02:13:39.239 --> 02:13:40.680 I don't want to go to London. I want to 2516 02:13:40.680 --> 02:13:41.760 go to Believe she. 2517 02:13:41.840 --> 02:13:45.520 Might have mentioned it, but it wasn't likely. But you 2518 02:13:45.600 --> 02:13:48.520 can clearly see the disappointment. Like she told him exactly, 2519 02:13:48.680 --> 02:13:51.399 they travel all the time, so you taking me here 2520 02:13:51.760 --> 02:13:52.680 should not be issue. 2521 02:13:52.680 --> 02:13:55.439 The money is not a problem. Traveling is not a problem. 2522 02:13:55.479 --> 02:13:56.079 I don't like her. 2523 02:13:56.560 --> 02:13:58.560 He literally was like, yeah, so we're gonna we're gonna 2524 02:13:58.560 --> 02:13:59.279 go to London. 2525 02:13:59.039 --> 02:14:01.920 And she's like, I asked to go the Belieze but okay, 2526 02:14:01.960 --> 02:14:03.479 And I remember asking her, I said, well, are you 2527 02:14:03.520 --> 02:14:03.840 gonna go? 2528 02:14:03.880 --> 02:14:06.000 And she said, well, that's what he planned, so we're 2529 02:14:06.039 --> 02:14:08.720 gonna go. And I'm just like, you ain't gotta go. 2530 02:14:09.840 --> 02:14:13.960 You can stay home, but you can say on your own. 2531 02:14:14.000 --> 02:14:15.520 I feel back at her because when she was just 2532 02:14:15.680 --> 02:14:19.039 you can tell the disappointment, like that's not where she 2533 02:14:19.359 --> 02:14:21.760 They've been there before. She wanted to go somewhere that 2534 02:14:21.880 --> 02:14:24.079 she didn't want, didn't go before she wanted to go 2535 02:14:24.159 --> 02:14:26.039 to believe, So how we end up in London? 2536 02:14:28.520 --> 02:14:28.640 All? 2537 02:14:29.319 --> 02:14:31.800 Do black folks have my back on the demons attack? 2538 02:14:32.039 --> 02:14:34.720 I really hate to want to tell you, but here 2539 02:14:34.880 --> 02:14:36.880 for us, white folks are the demons. 2540 02:14:37.279 --> 02:14:41.199 Yeah, I'm just need we actually need you more than 2541 02:14:41.239 --> 02:14:45.359 you need us. We needed folks are the demons, right, 2542 02:14:45.640 --> 02:14:48.800 I'm sorry, but I'll try a couple. 2543 02:14:49.439 --> 02:14:53.960 They really don't like us here. But yeah, I didn't 2544 02:14:54.039 --> 02:14:55.199 like that you too much. 2545 02:14:55.279 --> 02:14:58.520 Now, I didn't like that at all to white Germany 2546 02:14:58.560 --> 02:15:02.840 and all caps feel like a micro that's not like. 2547 02:15:04.680 --> 02:15:05.279 Who it's from. 2548 02:15:05.680 --> 02:15:07.920 Yeah, but what But that brings up a good point 2549 02:15:07.920 --> 02:15:13.039 because I do remember talking to like older generations when 2550 02:15:13.159 --> 02:15:15.319 me and Teresa person had got married and he was 2551 02:15:15.359 --> 02:15:17.439 telling me the story about how he bought his wife 2552 02:15:17.520 --> 02:15:20.560 a coat, and she didn't never say that she didn't 2553 02:15:20.640 --> 02:15:22.920 like the coach. She just left it in the closet 2554 02:15:22.960 --> 02:15:25.399 and never wore it. And he said, I'll never buy 2555 02:15:25.520 --> 02:15:26.520 nothing again for her. 2556 02:15:27.960 --> 02:15:29.520 She didn't, that's not what she asked for. 2557 02:15:29.760 --> 02:15:31.680 But and and and then now, y'all, I said, I 2558 02:15:31.720 --> 02:15:33.840 actually thought about that, said maybe you just didn't buy 2559 02:15:33.920 --> 02:15:36.520 her the coach she wanted. But she didn't want to 2560 02:15:36.560 --> 02:15:38.880 hurt your feelings by saying, nigga, that is the wrong coat. 2561 02:15:41.680 --> 02:15:43.000 And that's what I said too. He wanted to go 2562 02:15:43.039 --> 02:15:46.880 to lon. Like I said, I think about that. 2563 02:15:46.920 --> 02:15:48.279 I think that's a lot of thing is we don't 2564 02:15:48.439 --> 02:15:51.920 actually communicate with comprehension when something. 2565 02:15:52.319 --> 02:15:55.079 Is not what we like. Because, like you said, he 2566 02:15:55.199 --> 02:15:55.960 tried to be nice. 2567 02:15:56.159 --> 02:15:58.159 So I don't want to hurt nobody's feelings, but sometimes 2568 02:15:58.319 --> 02:15:59.800 hurt their feelings so it sticks. 2569 02:15:59.800 --> 02:16:03.000 And head to not make this type of mistake ever again. 2570 02:16:03.279 --> 02:16:06.039 So my ex boyfriend got a fur coat as collateral 2571 02:16:06.079 --> 02:16:07.319 from a crackhead. 2572 02:16:08.640 --> 02:16:09.640 And I ended up with it. 2573 02:16:11.600 --> 02:16:13.960 You got she got two more videos, so we used 2574 02:16:13.960 --> 02:16:18.000 to and yeah, no more stories. 2575 02:16:18.279 --> 02:16:18.920 I was a fur. 2576 02:16:20.560 --> 02:16:21.279 Coat ain't cheap. 2577 02:16:21.680 --> 02:16:23.199 You get at least a good two rock and a 2578 02:16:23.279 --> 02:16:28.920 long story short, the coat was gifted to me and 2579 02:16:29.039 --> 02:16:30.079 I never wore the coat. 2580 02:16:30.960 --> 02:16:32.479 I wouldn't wear it either because I don't know where 2581 02:16:32.479 --> 02:16:34.799 that coke being. But it's you put it on and 2582 02:16:34.879 --> 02:16:37.159 somebody seeing it's like that's my mama coat. Next thing 2583 02:16:37.200 --> 02:16:39.159 you know it they spraying up the joint. 2584 02:16:39.600 --> 02:16:42.799 So it's like it was just haying and he. 2585 02:16:42.840 --> 02:16:44.319 Thought it was like mono. 2586 02:16:44.879 --> 02:16:47.079 And then it's like, I don't pal and if you 2587 02:16:47.440 --> 02:16:50.399 and if you're asking me, I will go with rabbit 2588 02:16:50.479 --> 02:16:50.920 fur coat. 2589 02:16:51.200 --> 02:16:53.200 Never get if you get siblings from a fur coat, 2590 02:16:53.280 --> 02:16:54.680 that is a wild world you live. 2591 02:16:55.879 --> 02:16:59.000 The co came from a crackhead, Yes, in a wild world. 2592 02:16:59.600 --> 02:17:00.280 But yeah, I just. 2593 02:17:02.559 --> 02:17:06.559 I really, I really think that we need to start 2594 02:17:07.639 --> 02:17:11.719 admitting that there are limits on it's the thought that counts, 2595 02:17:15.120 --> 02:17:18.200 because a lot of those it's the thought that counts. 2596 02:17:18.760 --> 02:17:20.079 It really don't be that much thought. 2597 02:17:20.200 --> 02:17:20.920 It don't be thought. 2598 02:17:22.319 --> 02:17:26.639 It don't be thought to me, to me, to me, 2599 02:17:26.840 --> 02:17:30.200 when it's you can tell when it's really a thought, 2600 02:17:31.159 --> 02:17:33.399 you know what I'm saying, a lot of times I don't. 2601 02:17:33.200 --> 02:17:36.559 Feel like it's a thought that counts. It was convenience. 2602 02:17:36.959 --> 02:17:40.760 A thought that counts is when you produce something that 2603 02:17:40.920 --> 02:17:43.159 you know they like that they did not expect you 2604 02:17:43.280 --> 02:17:46.319 to get. Like if you know that the girl you 2605 02:17:46.479 --> 02:17:49.600 talking to likes care bears, but y'all ain't talked about 2606 02:17:49.639 --> 02:17:51.159 care bear since the very first time. 2607 02:17:51.280 --> 02:17:53.680 She said she used to have one when she was little. 2608 02:17:54.079 --> 02:17:56.200 So you happen to be on Amazon and you go 2609 02:17:56.440 --> 02:17:59.559 buy her a care bear. That's a thought that counts. 2610 02:18:00.200 --> 02:18:02.920 You just bought a fucking bear at the store. You 2611 02:18:03.079 --> 02:18:04.879 just bought a fucking bear at the store because it 2612 02:18:04.959 --> 02:18:05.680 came with the beer. 2613 02:18:08.079 --> 02:18:09.920 If it came with the beer, you didn't even bite it. 2614 02:18:15.840 --> 02:18:17.239 When you told her to shut it down. 2615 02:18:17.319 --> 02:18:21.520 No more stories, no, because but that's like and so 2616 02:18:21.680 --> 02:18:25.760 like recently, like I am I am a very like 2617 02:18:26.520 --> 02:18:29.360 when it comes to the thought that counts type person, 2618 02:18:29.479 --> 02:18:30.719 like that's really how it moved. 2619 02:18:31.040 --> 02:18:31.559 Yeah, so. 2620 02:18:33.200 --> 02:18:38.319 If it's something small or simple, it still means a 2621 02:18:38.360 --> 02:18:40.639 lot because it's like, damn, you was really paying attention, 2622 02:18:40.879 --> 02:18:41.479 you know what I mean? 2623 02:18:42.120 --> 02:18:44.040 So even like but it's not bad. 2624 02:18:44.399 --> 02:18:47.079 I like that nigga just get on my nerves because 2625 02:18:47.079 --> 02:18:47.879 he know you too well. 2626 02:18:48.680 --> 02:18:50.360 Yeah, but it's like he can't. 2627 02:18:51.360 --> 02:18:53.920 He can't pull up with bullshit because we we all 2628 02:18:54.040 --> 02:18:55.600 have high expectations with him. 2629 02:18:57.079 --> 02:18:59.399 But he but he knows me though, That's what I'm saying. 2630 02:18:59.479 --> 02:19:02.040 He can't come up with bullshit. He can't pull up 2631 02:19:02.079 --> 02:19:06.959 with a fur coat he got from I don't care 2632 02:19:07.000 --> 02:19:07.360 where you go. 2633 02:19:10.000 --> 02:19:13.479 But he but knowing him, he would buy you a 2634 02:19:13.559 --> 02:19:16.559 wrestling T shirt or some ship like that, and he 2635 02:19:16.600 --> 02:19:18.360 will buy the wrestler that you He would buy you 2636 02:19:18.479 --> 02:19:20.639 a yeak shirt and that would mean more to you 2637 02:19:21.079 --> 02:19:21.959 than anything else. 2638 02:19:22.440 --> 02:19:24.920 Sometimes it's hard to shot for people that you. 2639 02:19:25.040 --> 02:19:27.440 Do know your order one already. I wasn't go, I 2640 02:19:27.479 --> 02:19:28.000 was gonna wait. 2641 02:19:27.920 --> 02:19:38.879 That knows you that you can know them very well, 2642 02:19:38.959 --> 02:19:41.200 and you just like damn, Like, I don't know if 2643 02:19:41.319 --> 02:19:44.040 the gift hard is hard some people. 2644 02:19:44.159 --> 02:19:45.200 It is hard. 2645 02:19:47.600 --> 02:19:49.040 To figure out what It was hard for me to 2646 02:19:49.079 --> 02:19:52.120 shot for Teresa. It's always been hard for me to 2647 02:19:52.159 --> 02:19:52.639 shot for her. 2648 02:19:54.559 --> 02:19:56.639 Well, we were still in that stage like of me 2649 02:19:56.799 --> 02:20:00.120 learning you, so I didn't know, like I didn't know 2650 02:20:00.159 --> 02:20:00.799 what you needed. 2651 02:20:01.520 --> 02:20:04.360 The people that did know me that you was asking. Yeah. 2652 02:20:04.639 --> 02:20:09.360 So it's like but me, I'm observant, but but see 2653 02:20:09.399 --> 02:20:11.559 I'm one of those Yeah. 2654 02:20:12.079 --> 02:20:14.559 But I'm one of those people where you don't you 2655 02:20:14.680 --> 02:20:17.680 don't have to ask me because I observe. 2656 02:20:18.879 --> 02:20:21.639 And that's like with him, like going the past couple 2657 02:20:21.639 --> 02:20:24.239 of times that I went over and I'm like, this 2658 02:20:24.399 --> 02:20:26.719 nigga need a new garbage can. That's what I do. 2659 02:20:27.000 --> 02:20:29.760 I'm the target and buy him a brand new garbage camp. 2660 02:20:30.200 --> 02:20:32.440 And as simple as it was, it's just like, man, 2661 02:20:32.760 --> 02:20:34.280 I love this garbage. 2662 02:20:33.959 --> 02:20:35.559 Camp like it is it the kind where you just 2663 02:20:35.639 --> 02:20:37.479 wave his hand across and open up on his own. 2664 02:20:38.079 --> 02:20:40.079 It got like the older control all the ship. 2665 02:20:40.280 --> 02:20:42.639 You know what I'm saying, Hey, that's a great that's 2666 02:20:42.639 --> 02:20:44.399 a great gift if you ever want to buy something. 2667 02:20:44.280 --> 02:20:44.799 For the studio. 2668 02:20:46.159 --> 02:20:46.360 Yeah. 2669 02:20:46.559 --> 02:20:48.959 So it's like you know, little Ship like that, or 2670 02:20:49.040 --> 02:20:53.040 noticing like bruh, example, one day you go go to 2671 02:20:53.120 --> 02:20:55.239 climbing your truck and your lunch is go fall off 2672 02:20:55.280 --> 02:20:57.520 the bottom of that bag. So going on Amazon and 2673 02:20:57.559 --> 02:21:00.360 getting them one of the lunch boxes that keep like 2674 02:21:00.799 --> 02:21:03.079 little ship, or even like back when I was fucking 2675 02:21:03.120 --> 02:21:05.000 with one of my little Yamians. You know what I'm saying, 2676 02:21:05.079 --> 02:21:06.680 Like I got tired of every time we went somewhere. 2677 02:21:06.680 --> 02:21:10.479 I'm like, bro, that wallet is ass so I went 2678 02:21:10.600 --> 02:21:12.479 on Amazon. It cost me ten dollars. 2679 02:21:13.000 --> 02:21:13.879 He was so happy. 2680 02:21:16.959 --> 02:21:19.639 No, he's s we like our wallets. 2681 02:21:20.079 --> 02:21:22.959 He needed it, and he just kept forgetting to get 2682 02:21:23.000 --> 02:21:23.280 him one. 2683 02:21:23.680 --> 02:21:25.440 And I finally got him and he was like man 2684 02:21:25.600 --> 02:21:29.719 like and he appreciated it just because he's like, you're 2685 02:21:29.799 --> 02:21:33.559 paying attention, like because he wasn't even saying it, like damn, 2686 02:21:33.559 --> 02:21:34.360 can you give me a wallet? 2687 02:21:34.520 --> 02:21:35.840 Was just like, damn, man, I gotta give me a 2688 02:21:35.879 --> 02:21:36.559 new wallet. 2689 02:21:36.319 --> 02:21:37.639 This month, paying attention. 2690 02:21:38.680 --> 02:21:39.319 You know what I'm saying. 2691 02:21:39.520 --> 02:21:43.959 The white German Canadian guy, if we ever knew him 2692 02:21:44.000 --> 02:21:45.280 and it was his birthday, I would buy him a 2693 02:21:45.360 --> 02:21:48.559 chest set because he likes playing chess paying attention. 2694 02:21:49.479 --> 02:21:50.719 Why you keep captitalized? 2695 02:21:50.840 --> 02:21:51.159 I don't know. 2696 02:21:51.399 --> 02:21:54.159 And that's what they keep pointing out, like why are 2697 02:21:54.200 --> 02:21:57.280 you like he's trying to I think he's trying to 2698 02:21:57.399 --> 02:21:59.559 troll us and make us get upset that he's doing. 2699 02:22:00.079 --> 02:22:06.600 He just doesn't say we don't care, like he's inspasizing 2700 02:22:06.920 --> 02:22:09.120 raise like it's supposed to, but we don't care. 2701 02:22:14.959 --> 02:22:16.559 He just wanted to. He just wanted to riles out 2702 02:22:16.559 --> 02:22:19.319 of somebody. We don't care, We'll run with it. 2703 02:22:20.559 --> 02:22:28.360 So I still got two more videos to go. We're 2704 02:22:28.440 --> 02:22:30.680 actually gonna go with the last video first. 2705 02:22:32.399 --> 02:22:34.479 Yep, I'm a mother. 2706 02:22:34.760 --> 02:22:37.079 So when a guy's like, oh, let me go over, like, 2707 02:22:37.159 --> 02:22:38.719 I don't care if your kid's there, like all way 2708 02:22:38.799 --> 02:22:41.680 till they're asleep, dude. 2709 02:22:41.520 --> 02:22:42.799 I'll tell you what. I'm a mother. 2710 02:22:43.040 --> 02:22:45.280 So when a guy's like, oh, let me go over, like, 2711 02:22:45.319 --> 02:22:46.920 I don't care if your kid's there, like all way 2712 02:22:47.000 --> 02:22:49.399 till they're asleep, blocked. 2713 02:22:49.920 --> 02:22:52.000 Done, Like what you mean go away for my kid 2714 02:22:52.079 --> 02:22:55.520 to be asleep? Hell yeah, that's a that's an instant 2715 02:22:55.559 --> 02:22:55.920 turn off. 2716 02:22:57.559 --> 02:23:08.440 So so, no, I love you, He's all that. I 2717 02:23:08.559 --> 02:23:08.799 love you. 2718 02:23:09.639 --> 02:23:12.000 There need to be more love in this world. I 2719 02:23:12.040 --> 02:23:14.719 don't know what white, Germany Canadian love looks like. That 2720 02:23:14.840 --> 02:23:25.280 is a wild combination. So she said, So, Kayla, would 2721 02:23:25.280 --> 02:23:27.000 you have a problem with a man who was like, 2722 02:23:27.399 --> 02:23:28.920 I wait till my I wait for your kids to 2723 02:23:28.920 --> 02:23:30.760 go to sleep the slide through? 2724 02:23:31.120 --> 02:23:33.280 Is it a man that I just like start dealing 2725 02:23:33.280 --> 02:23:35.559 with or one that we got history. 2726 02:23:36.239 --> 02:23:39.559 Based on the way she told that on the video. 2727 02:23:40.440 --> 02:23:42.000 Based on the video, it has to be less than 2728 02:23:42.040 --> 02:23:42.559 three weeks. 2729 02:23:43.079 --> 02:23:43.959 It's a hell no for me. 2730 02:23:44.079 --> 02:23:45.840 That's no, I don't want to go. 2731 02:23:47.879 --> 02:23:50.600 You'll been surprised how many how many men are like 2732 02:23:51.079 --> 02:23:54.680 comfortable saying that, Like I had a guy even be like, oh, 2733 02:23:54.840 --> 02:23:56.120 you know, I want to hang out on to see you, 2734 02:23:56.120 --> 02:23:57.920 and I'm like, no, Like I spend time with my son, like, oh, 2735 02:23:57.959 --> 02:23:59.639 I'll come spend time with you. All know you won't 2736 02:24:00.319 --> 02:24:05.079 a lot of what no, Like I don't just let 2737 02:24:05.280 --> 02:24:07.280 random men in my home, Like I don't let men 2738 02:24:07.360 --> 02:24:08.200 in my home at all. 2739 02:24:09.760 --> 02:24:11.760 That I know a lot of women that will not. 2740 02:24:12.280 --> 02:24:14.319 They could be dating to do for almost a year 2741 02:24:14.399 --> 02:24:16.319 and he has never been over by the house. 2742 02:24:16.879 --> 02:24:18.440 I mean, it's especially not upfront. 2743 02:24:18.520 --> 02:24:22.840 If we got history and I trust you, Like yeah, 2744 02:24:22.959 --> 02:24:26.079 but if he if my child is up moving around, 2745 02:24:26.440 --> 02:24:28.159 he can't tell you that he's seen a man in 2746 02:24:28.239 --> 02:24:28.799 my house at all? 2747 02:24:28.840 --> 02:24:29.520 How long will you now? 2748 02:24:29.559 --> 02:24:30.200 Once he goes to. 2749 02:24:30.200 --> 02:24:35.040 Sleep grown, you gotta grown as man. 2750 02:24:35.799 --> 02:24:37.719 But I also feel like at his age, it also 2751 02:24:37.840 --> 02:24:39.920 gets it also gets harder. 2752 02:24:39.760 --> 02:24:41.559 Right I was saying, you gotta grown as man. 2753 02:24:41.799 --> 02:24:44.040 It's no, you can't come over here, but I can 2754 02:24:44.079 --> 02:24:44.440 go over there. 2755 02:24:44.479 --> 02:24:44.639 I can. 2756 02:24:46.200 --> 02:24:49.840 But it's also kind of weird too because it's like 2757 02:24:49.920 --> 02:24:51.600 then you got to come home with that walk of shame. 2758 02:24:53.879 --> 02:24:56.639 It's only shame if it was bad, how are. 2759 02:24:56.559 --> 02:25:02.040 You You gotta realize out here somehow my mom. 2760 02:25:02.000 --> 02:25:03.479 Is fucking It's also weird. 2761 02:25:03.600 --> 02:25:07.399 It's an eventually no no, you're gonna start fucking no. 2762 02:25:07.559 --> 02:25:10.000 But why why let's let's keep let's keep it the butt. 2763 02:25:10.399 --> 02:25:11.760 Do you want to have to get him and go 2764 02:25:11.799 --> 02:25:13.920 to the bathroom in here? Your mom getting cracked like 2765 02:25:13.959 --> 02:25:14.159 a bro? 2766 02:25:14.399 --> 02:25:17.000 He got a sister, that's how old he knows what's going. 2767 02:25:17.360 --> 02:25:21.239 But do you want to hear it? You see what 2768 02:25:21.239 --> 02:25:22.879 I'm saying? You put that over there? 2769 02:25:26.879 --> 02:25:29.440 If your brother beating his meat while your mom is 2770 02:25:29.479 --> 02:25:31.959 getting their cheek beat, I really need you to check 2771 02:25:32.040 --> 02:25:33.040 that nigga into something. 2772 02:25:36.319 --> 02:25:38.200 Why why is the mom and dad now on the 2773 02:25:38.239 --> 02:25:40.440 first floor anyway? Why are you up on the top 2774 02:25:40.520 --> 02:25:43.040 floor with everybody else? Look, I. 2775 02:25:44.520 --> 02:25:52.319 I have been traumatized on multiple occasions. I feel like, honestly, 2776 02:25:52.639 --> 02:25:56.520 a woman should he said, first of all, goofy ass 2777 02:25:56.600 --> 02:25:57.879 over here, bro, you will get shot. 2778 02:25:58.719 --> 02:26:00.319 I always feel like the woman should be one who 2779 02:26:00.360 --> 02:26:02.559 initiate you coming to crack her taco, no matter where 2780 02:26:02.600 --> 02:26:02.840 it's at. 2781 02:26:04.719 --> 02:26:08.799 So the video itself is not the problem because there's 2782 02:26:08.879 --> 02:26:12.280 nothing wrong with what she said it was the comments always, always, 2783 02:26:12.360 --> 02:26:20.000 the comments there are so there are so many men 2784 02:26:20.639 --> 02:26:25.840 in these comments who are attacking. They're attacking her looks, 2785 02:26:25.879 --> 02:26:28.399 they're attacking her for being a single mom, they're attacking 2786 02:26:28.440 --> 02:26:32.559 her weight. All of this because she said, and don't 2787 02:26:32.600 --> 02:26:35.000 come over here. Don't come over here talking about some 2788 02:26:35.120 --> 02:26:35.920 youthinna come. 2789 02:26:42.399 --> 02:26:45.600 Oh yeah, only because I forgot the order. 2790 02:26:45.559 --> 02:26:46.600 And then you have something. 2791 02:26:47.000 --> 02:26:49.280 Some they be so thirsty to say shit about women 2792 02:26:49.319 --> 02:26:52.079 that they completely missed the point of the video. Once say, 2793 02:26:52.159 --> 02:26:54.159 if you were a real mother, you wouldn't want any 2794 02:26:54.239 --> 02:26:55.600 random guy to meet your kids. 2795 02:26:56.120 --> 02:27:01.079 What you just say, gardless if the kid go to 2796 02:27:01.159 --> 02:27:04.159 sleep or now you don't want no in the grocery 2797 02:27:04.200 --> 02:27:05.559 store because clearly you don't read. 2798 02:27:07.040 --> 02:27:08.959 I don't want niggas to be a part of the 2799 02:27:09.040 --> 02:27:11.760 first topic when women get to talking. 2800 02:27:11.840 --> 02:27:15.600 Bro, even if there is no child, I did not 2801 02:27:15.719 --> 02:27:18.000 invite you. I'm about to just be like, hey, you 2802 02:27:18.040 --> 02:27:18.600 want to come over. 2803 02:27:18.959 --> 02:27:20.440 No, you don't need niggas. 2804 02:27:20.440 --> 02:27:22.040 Don't niggas don't think with nothing. 2805 02:27:22.079 --> 02:27:24.799 But they didn't, especially in the world that we live 2806 02:27:24.840 --> 02:27:27.319 in today. As a man, that just would not be 2807 02:27:27.440 --> 02:27:30.959 how the conversation leads for me and as a man't 2808 02:27:30.959 --> 02:27:34.479 want to go about your in the world that we 2809 02:27:34.600 --> 02:27:35.360 live in today. 2810 02:27:35.840 --> 02:27:40.399 I am going to automatically think sorry that you're trying 2811 02:27:40.440 --> 02:27:40.879 to murder me. 2812 02:27:41.000 --> 02:27:43.120 Probably you have to think that. 2813 02:27:43.200 --> 02:27:45.120 But at the same time, as a man, you should 2814 02:27:45.200 --> 02:27:47.719 not want to go over by someone's house that you 2815 02:27:47.840 --> 02:27:51.280 haven't gotten to know better because you can get set up. 2816 02:27:51.799 --> 02:27:54.319 I might actually rob you so exactly you don't know. 2817 02:27:54.479 --> 02:27:56.799 You don't know how many brothers uncle she got. 2818 02:27:58.079 --> 02:28:01.639 They might rob you, you say, yo, But it is 2819 02:28:01.760 --> 02:28:02.520 scary times. 2820 02:28:03.239 --> 02:28:06.479 You really have to vet people and be very you 2821 02:28:06.559 --> 02:28:09.559 don't know what, and careful about who you let know 2822 02:28:09.799 --> 02:28:14.399 where you lay your head, especially when there are children. 2823 02:28:14.159 --> 02:28:16.879 Involved, especially when the kids involved. 2824 02:28:16.680 --> 02:28:19.200 Especially like, no, you not know, you can't come over here. 2825 02:28:19.239 --> 02:28:19.799 You don't need snow. 2826 02:28:21.280 --> 02:28:23.079 I'm a big nigga. She can't take me. It's not her. 2827 02:28:23.120 --> 02:28:24.319 You gotta worry about my guy. 2828 02:28:24.920 --> 02:28:27.719 Okay, she rejected a guy just because he wanted to 2829 02:28:27.799 --> 02:28:29.799 be with her after the kids are asleep. I see 2830 02:28:29.840 --> 02:28:32.719 nothing wrong with that. She's a red flag anyway, because 2831 02:28:32.719 --> 02:28:34.479 she can't get out of her own way. When it 2832 02:28:34.559 --> 02:28:37.440 comes down to finding and keeping a new man to 2833 02:28:37.479 --> 02:28:37.920 do with that. 2834 02:28:38.159 --> 02:28:39.440 He get all of that. 2835 02:28:39.840 --> 02:28:42.079 How did that last part come from? This short clip? 2836 02:28:42.399 --> 02:28:43.200 Was this longer? 2837 02:28:43.399 --> 02:28:44.120 It couldn't have been. 2838 02:28:45.159 --> 02:28:46.479 How did you get single? 2839 02:28:46.559 --> 02:28:49.120 Moms always have the highest standards because she don't want 2840 02:28:49.120 --> 02:28:49.879 you around her kids. 2841 02:28:50.000 --> 02:28:51.120 She got a lot to lose. 2842 02:28:52.120 --> 02:28:54.680 I don't this single mom if I the highest when 2843 02:28:54.719 --> 02:28:56.159 it comes to my kids. 2844 02:28:56.200 --> 02:29:06.559 You damn right, Like at the end of the day, want. 2845 02:29:08.719 --> 02:29:10.840 You have people like well, like she have options like 2846 02:29:10.920 --> 02:29:16.079 attacking her. It's like y'all feel like y'all get mad. 2847 02:29:16.559 --> 02:29:20.399 And and that's why, because y'all know me, and I commented, 2848 02:29:20.399 --> 02:29:22.559 and I said, the comments are exactly why I preach 2849 02:29:22.639 --> 02:29:25.319 to women that men's opinions are not to be taken seriously. 2850 02:29:25.639 --> 02:29:28.479 They contradict themselves at every turn, and it will always 2851 02:29:28.520 --> 02:29:31.719 be a double edged swords with them. They constantly attacking 2852 02:29:31.760 --> 02:29:34.120 her now for not wanting to entertain men in her 2853 02:29:34.200 --> 02:29:36.360 home while her kids are there, but if she did 2854 02:29:36.520 --> 02:29:39.159 have him over, they call her trifling and a bad mom. 2855 02:29:39.479 --> 02:29:41.840 They continuously get on these apps and tell women the 2856 02:29:41.959 --> 02:29:44.360 so called choose and pick better, but when they see 2857 02:29:44.440 --> 02:29:46.959 her doing that, they attack her for having a standard. 2858 02:29:47.159 --> 02:29:49.399 They don't truly want women to choose better men because 2859 02:29:49.399 --> 02:29:51.920 it would exclude them. They only say that when they 2860 02:29:52.000 --> 02:29:54.399 want to attempt to shame a woman for something the 2861 02:29:54.479 --> 02:29:57.159 guy has done to her. Stay safe, ladies, and praises 2862 02:29:57.280 --> 02:29:59.840 to the men who are nothing like what I just described. 2863 02:30:00.079 --> 02:30:02.159 The comments are the reason why she don't hold them 2864 02:30:02.200 --> 02:30:02.799 at her house. 2865 02:30:03.319 --> 02:30:05.319 Now I'm like that person said everything that I was 2866 02:30:05.399 --> 02:30:08.079 I was getting ready to say for the reason that 2867 02:30:08.239 --> 02:30:11.079 was my comment. Okay, so my sister, you think like me. 2868 02:30:11.159 --> 02:30:13.719 That's fine, see, and this is why I am. I 2869 02:30:13.799 --> 02:30:15.159 am sad. I have two daughters. 2870 02:30:15.360 --> 02:30:19.239 But when I tell you like the majority of the 2871 02:30:19.399 --> 02:30:23.520 comments is like it is ridiculous, Like how are y'all 2872 02:30:23.680 --> 02:30:24.639 mad at her about this? 2873 02:30:25.040 --> 02:30:25.159 How? 2874 02:30:25.479 --> 02:30:26.360 How is what she said? 2875 02:30:27.000 --> 02:30:27.440 He said? 2876 02:30:27.600 --> 02:30:31.799 Because that excludes them by her having standards. It takes 2877 02:30:31.840 --> 02:30:35.360 you off the table, and now you feel like you 2878 02:30:35.479 --> 02:30:38.120 are less of a man because someone who doesn't want 2879 02:30:38.200 --> 02:30:40.200 you to begin with is now not. 2880 02:30:40.319 --> 02:30:42.319 Even considering you as a possible option. 2881 02:30:42.680 --> 02:30:44.840 These are the same niggas who got highly upset and 2882 02:30:44.920 --> 02:30:47.520 getting their chest when women started using the road and 2883 02:30:47.600 --> 02:30:49.200 didn't need you fuck niggas to come up over by 2884 02:30:49.280 --> 02:30:50.879 their house at two o'clock in the morning. 2885 02:30:50.959 --> 02:30:56.319 No more, with mediocre dig she'll be fifty five years 2886 02:30:56.360 --> 02:30:57.120 old and single. 2887 02:30:57.680 --> 02:31:00.520 She's probably got a boyfriend now, and what's so wrong 2888 02:31:00.559 --> 02:31:00.760 with that? 2889 02:31:01.079 --> 02:31:04.239 I just don't understand why niggas just like why y'all 2890 02:31:04.319 --> 02:31:05.559 want to be wearing like y'all not. 2891 02:31:07.079 --> 02:31:07.280 Right? 2892 02:31:08.000 --> 02:31:11.680 Like if you looking for a specific if you're looking 2893 02:31:11.760 --> 02:31:12.440 for the hose. 2894 02:31:13.680 --> 02:31:18.200 There's a section of life where they're just hos, just hoes. Now, 2895 02:31:18.520 --> 02:31:19.680 once you get to. 2896 02:31:19.799 --> 02:31:23.559 The battlefield of holes, you have to realize that these 2897 02:31:23.680 --> 02:31:26.319 holes still women at the end of the day, which 2898 02:31:26.399 --> 02:31:29.280 means they still gonna be picking and choosing. 2899 02:31:30.159 --> 02:31:33.000 Because they given out pussy don't mean they giving it 2900 02:31:33.079 --> 02:31:33.239 to you. 2901 02:31:34.040 --> 02:31:36.680 And part about it all that I feel like they're 2902 02:31:36.719 --> 02:31:39.000 looking over is the fact that this is a mother 2903 02:31:40.200 --> 02:31:41.239 protecting her child. 2904 02:31:41.399 --> 02:31:42.280 I don't want to be no. 2905 02:31:42.719 --> 02:31:45.600 Shout out to Ray, Ray Ruie, shout out to me. 2906 02:31:45.840 --> 02:31:48.680 He said, you know, men, they get super triggered whenever 2907 02:31:48.719 --> 02:31:51.559 a woman says boundaries, won't bend them and isn't afraid 2908 02:31:51.600 --> 02:31:54.120 to kick a dude to the curve that doesn't respect that. 2909 02:31:54.559 --> 02:31:58.520 Many men want traditional or feminine women and women who 2910 02:31:58.559 --> 02:32:01.200 says boundaries and calls out guys for being a dick 2911 02:32:01.239 --> 02:32:04.280 does not fit their idea. But I raised my daughters 2912 02:32:04.319 --> 02:32:06.760 to not give a crap with insecure guys find appeeling. 2913 02:32:07.120 --> 02:32:09.360 If guys like that weakness, they can just hook up 2914 02:32:09.399 --> 02:32:11.120 with each other shout out to you, and. 2915 02:32:11.200 --> 02:32:11.760 A lot of them do. 2916 02:32:12.440 --> 02:32:14.680 I shared a video in the group about niggas looking 2917 02:32:14.680 --> 02:32:19.920 out with each other. I read that has nasty work. 2918 02:32:21.280 --> 02:32:22.520 How you got a group chat? 2919 02:32:23.319 --> 02:32:27.479 Finished even finished the video. Your homeboys in this group 2920 02:32:27.639 --> 02:32:29.319 chat and everybody got HIV. 2921 02:32:33.159 --> 02:32:34.440 When you came back clean? 2922 02:32:36.520 --> 02:32:38.360 What I started watching? 2923 02:32:38.399 --> 02:32:41.840 When she said he not, he broke her jaw and 2924 02:32:42.040 --> 02:32:45.079 she woke up in the house. After that, I turned 2925 02:32:45.120 --> 02:32:45.280 it on. 2926 02:32:45.520 --> 02:32:49.799 That wasn't funny, like your girl, your baby mama cat 2927 02:32:51.120 --> 02:32:53.040 and she to being gay and. 2928 02:32:53.159 --> 02:32:57.120 The first thing you thought, let me crack and then 2929 02:32:57.879 --> 02:32:59.799 house and she woke up on the bathroom floor with 2930 02:32:59.879 --> 02:33:02.600 a broke y'await what yeah, you have to watch? 2931 02:33:02.639 --> 02:33:03.680 It was a video. 2932 02:33:05.040 --> 02:33:05.639 She was like. 2933 02:33:06.239 --> 02:33:09.239 She found out that not only was her baby daddy 2934 02:33:09.760 --> 02:33:13.239 gay or bisexual everyone phrasy, but he had as because 2935 02:33:13.280 --> 02:33:15.079 he had a secret group chat of him. 2936 02:33:15.000 --> 02:33:19.639 And his friends friends they were sucking each other. 2937 02:33:20.959 --> 02:33:29.760 And that's nasty work. Yeah, literally, like he you know? 2938 02:33:30.000 --> 02:33:34.479 So she she said, she started throwing up and ran streaming. 2939 02:33:36.719 --> 02:33:40.879 He noticed that she had his phone and he fired her, 2940 02:33:41.520 --> 02:33:43.360 broke her jaw back and forth. 2941 02:33:43.959 --> 02:33:45.600 And you've been laughing the entire time. 2942 02:33:45.680 --> 02:33:47.520 Like that destroyed her. 2943 02:33:47.879 --> 02:33:48.799 Destroyed the house. 2944 02:33:49.200 --> 02:33:50.639 Horrible, not funny. 2945 02:33:50.719 --> 02:33:53.040 But it's just like the thought of like most niggas 2946 02:33:53.079 --> 02:33:56.399 gonna please, you know, you go to beg and some 2947 02:33:56.520 --> 02:33:58.840 ship in his first instance was like knock. 2948 02:33:58.680 --> 02:34:01.559 All this ship over, and like he knocks her unconsciously 2949 02:34:02.280 --> 02:34:07.399 he was that what I'm saying, like thought she was 2950 02:34:07.520 --> 02:34:08.479 I think she was pregnant. 2951 02:34:08.639 --> 02:34:13.600 It reminds me of that clip with like like Andy 2952 02:34:13.840 --> 02:34:17.280 in the office, he just knock everything. I will show 2953 02:34:17.280 --> 02:34:17.639 you to gain. 2954 02:34:18.399 --> 02:34:20.360 But that's what I thought when he went to court 2955 02:34:20.399 --> 02:34:23.719 and he had to get away real quick. That's why 2956 02:34:23.799 --> 02:34:26.399 where do you find these videos at brouh. I need 2957 02:34:26.520 --> 02:34:28.479 you to reset your algorithm. 2958 02:34:28.959 --> 02:34:32.440 The longest and yes, like it was before. 2959 02:34:34.000 --> 02:34:39.239 Shamed to the comments, that's din Lelo said, it just 2960 02:34:39.399 --> 02:34:41.680 gives creepy to invite yourself to my crib and we 2961 02:34:41.840 --> 02:34:46.120 just started talking. Move Britt said, even if there is 2962 02:34:46.239 --> 02:34:50.079 no child, I did not invite you period. Most of 2963 02:34:50.159 --> 02:34:52.200 the men folks don't even have a pot to piss in. 2964 02:34:53.200 --> 02:34:55.600 That's their own. That's why they want to tiptoe towards 2965 02:34:55.600 --> 02:34:56.319 your stability. 2966 02:34:56.680 --> 02:34:58.000 It's hobo sexual season. 2967 02:34:58.399 --> 02:34:59.079 Uh it is. 2968 02:35:00.040 --> 02:35:02.040 It says they would slammer her if she proclaims she 2969 02:35:02.120 --> 02:35:03.520 had no problem with a man coming over. 2970 02:35:03.639 --> 02:35:05.760 Damned if you do, damned if you don't. These comments 2971 02:35:05.760 --> 02:35:06.440 as are pathetic. 2972 02:35:06.559 --> 02:35:14.559 Yeah, it's like it's really really really bad, Like it's 2973 02:35:14.760 --> 02:35:16.600 it's crazy now again. 2974 02:35:19.840 --> 02:35:26.360 Probably we cook when we won't to always allowed us 2975 02:35:26.399 --> 02:35:26.760 to talk. 2976 02:35:27.280 --> 02:35:28.000 Can you cook? 2977 02:35:29.239 --> 02:35:29.719 Yeah? I can? 2978 02:35:30.719 --> 02:35:31.879 Can you? Yeah? 2979 02:35:31.920 --> 02:35:33.559 I just don't because I don't. 2980 02:35:33.719 --> 02:35:36.680 I'm not talking about the Popeye's not required of me 2981 02:35:36.959 --> 02:35:37.520 to cook. 2982 02:35:37.799 --> 02:35:40.879 No, I've never known you to do anything like deep friar, yeah, 2983 02:35:40.920 --> 02:35:43.479 but like to actually cook, I've never I've literally never 2984 02:35:43.600 --> 02:35:43.920 known that. 2985 02:35:44.079 --> 02:35:47.760 So I was legitimately asking, yeah I cook. I just 2986 02:35:47.879 --> 02:35:50.280 chose not to because like my mom, like we. 2987 02:35:50.399 --> 02:35:52.840 Know, like my mom, the only thing that she would 2988 02:35:52.879 --> 02:35:57.559 like cook it is like lasagn you're like like chicken 2989 02:35:57.639 --> 02:35:58.719 or pork chops like she like that. 2990 02:35:59.280 --> 02:36:05.120 Everything else is just heating. My Mom's a heater. She 2991 02:36:05.319 --> 02:36:09.280 peels that corner of film back on whatever little dinner 2992 02:36:09.760 --> 02:36:10.520 is going in the oven. 2993 02:36:15.479 --> 02:36:18.000 She do that to go with the peel back dinner. 2994 02:36:18.200 --> 02:36:24.840 So like Salisbury's steak and potatoes. I'm not shaming Salisbury. 2995 02:36:25.239 --> 02:36:28.440 I'm just saying talking about my mom is not my mind. 2996 02:36:29.840 --> 02:36:32.559 It's the level of It's her skill set. 2997 02:36:33.120 --> 02:36:35.840 It's the fact that my mom will go in the 2998 02:36:35.959 --> 02:36:39.120 kitchen and put on her green apron like she's really 2999 02:36:39.159 --> 02:36:41.280 about to cook some ship and get herself dirty when 3000 02:36:41.280 --> 02:36:43.799 it's just a banquet dinner. She's level two on the 3001 02:36:43.879 --> 02:36:47.959 sim Meanwhile, Thanksgivings in a couple of weeks, Who's going 3002 02:36:48.040 --> 02:36:50.639 to be making Thanksgiving dinner? It is going to be me. 3003 02:36:51.079 --> 02:36:53.040 I'm going to have to make dressing. I'm gonna have 3004 02:36:53.159 --> 02:36:55.159 to make turkey breasts, I'm gonna have to make ham 3005 02:36:55.360 --> 02:36:58.399 and yams and roast and everything else. 3006 02:36:58.959 --> 02:37:02.200 But what she is, But what she's gonna. 3007 02:37:02.000 --> 02:37:09.479 Do everything, I'm usually in charge, just like it's a 3008 02:37:09.520 --> 02:37:13.399 skill set for him. Absolutely, Chi on the same. 3009 02:37:15.200 --> 02:37:18.399 On the you know what, I will forever, I will 3010 02:37:18.440 --> 02:37:21.520 forever give this nigga grace on frying chicken because he 3011 02:37:22.000 --> 02:37:27.479 was in the back picking save and everybody know how 3012 02:37:27.559 --> 02:37:29.959 good pick and saved chicken is. So this was a 3013 02:37:30.040 --> 02:37:31.280 nigga maker big chicken. 3014 02:37:33.520 --> 02:37:34.079 Yeah, he was. 3015 02:37:34.719 --> 02:37:36.840 He's the reason why seventy six, was on and popping 3016 02:37:36.879 --> 02:37:37.360 for years. 3017 02:37:38.440 --> 02:37:40.799 Hey who got you fired? Because I still want to 3018 02:37:40.799 --> 02:37:45.799 fail him. She can catch this work too. I'm forty now, 3019 02:37:45.920 --> 02:37:48.120 so technically I'm an old black lady, so I feel. 3020 02:37:47.959 --> 02:37:49.920 Like I'm ala, so I feel so I. 3021 02:37:49.959 --> 02:37:52.079 Feel like she can catch his hands like. 3022 02:37:52.760 --> 02:37:55.639 Because she was doing Yeah, so she took you out 3023 02:37:55.680 --> 02:37:56.559 to get the heat off of her. 3024 02:37:57.280 --> 02:37:59.079 You gotta stitch on somebody else. 3025 02:38:00.399 --> 02:38:03.760 That's always how you get fired somebody else. 3026 02:38:04.000 --> 02:38:07.399 Every job that you get fired from, somebody got caught 3027 02:38:07.559 --> 02:38:09.399 doing the same ship and told on you. 3028 02:38:09.719 --> 02:38:11.440 Have you not noticed that pattern. 3029 02:38:12.680 --> 02:38:15.559 Every time? I didn't know work alone. 3030 02:38:16.920 --> 02:38:20.200 But he's crazy, bro Lie, I wasn't in cohoota with 3031 02:38:20.319 --> 02:38:20.840 this bitch. 3032 02:38:21.559 --> 02:38:24.760 You don't have to be like I gotta if I 3033 02:38:25.280 --> 02:38:28.120 get in trouble for doing it. He was doing it too, 3034 02:38:29.319 --> 02:38:30.959 but we wasn't doing the same ship. 3035 02:38:31.760 --> 02:38:33.200 So she just dined you out. 3036 02:38:33.360 --> 02:38:35.600 You're like for her to snick like, I don't even 3037 02:38:35.639 --> 02:38:38.280 know what she actually told on me about. 3038 02:38:39.280 --> 02:38:40.079 To take you out and. 3039 02:38:40.520 --> 02:38:43.319 Explain that they just told me what they like had on, 3040 02:38:43.959 --> 02:38:46.319 which was basically ship. I knew I was eventually gonna 3041 02:38:46.319 --> 02:38:47.360 get fired for I'm still in town. 3042 02:38:48.000 --> 02:38:50.639 Oh that's yeah. I was gonna let you go for that. Yeah, 3043 02:38:50.680 --> 02:38:51.239 that's different. 3044 02:38:51.920 --> 02:38:52.719 I got off work. 3045 02:38:52.920 --> 02:38:56.520 I don't, and I like, I stopped working at nine 3046 02:38:56.520 --> 02:38:59.280 o'clock and I'm riding the fucking motor cart around the 3047 02:38:59.319 --> 02:39:02.079 store four an hour until it's time to out. 3048 02:39:02.440 --> 02:39:04.159 I knew I was going down eventually. 3049 02:39:04.319 --> 02:39:06.520 Oh, no, your time. She just didn't add up, That's 3050 02:39:06.520 --> 02:39:06.959 all it was. 3051 02:39:08.600 --> 02:39:10.680 They were probably getting ready to redo the schedule and 3052 02:39:10.840 --> 02:39:13.120 realize that you was on the schedule for ten to 3053 02:39:13.239 --> 02:39:15.159 ten and you wasn't doing nothing. 3054 02:39:17.639 --> 02:39:18.440 Yeah, but I don't. 3055 02:39:19.319 --> 02:39:20.360 Maybe she didn't snitch in. 3056 02:39:22.360 --> 02:39:24.239 And it's funny because it's like I do know men 3057 02:39:24.360 --> 02:39:26.920 that cook, but honestly, men who cook are annoying. 3058 02:39:27.319 --> 02:39:29.559 Because they think that because they cooked, they on a 3059 02:39:29.639 --> 02:39:32.879 whole other levels. They think they better. It's like then 3060 02:39:32.920 --> 02:39:33.920 they were backwards for them. 3061 02:39:34.520 --> 02:39:40.079 Because you will have my brothers, like like my pops. 3062 02:39:40.559 --> 02:39:45.520 But it's like when you have men who cook, it's 3063 02:39:45.559 --> 02:39:48.079 annoying because no, it's not sad, So it's just annoying 3064 02:39:48.159 --> 02:39:51.479 because it's like when you have people, well people in general, 3065 02:39:51.520 --> 02:39:53.639 who think that they cook better than everybody. 3066 02:39:54.280 --> 02:39:56.920 It makes it difficult because it's like if you. 3067 02:39:57.040 --> 02:40:00.360 Cook, They complaining because they always feel like they could 3068 02:40:00.399 --> 02:40:02.559 have done it better. They don't want to go out 3069 02:40:02.639 --> 02:40:04.600 to eat because they feel like they cook better than 3070 02:40:04.639 --> 02:40:05.399 all the restaurants. 3071 02:40:05.440 --> 02:40:08.159 So it's like it's really annoying to deal with. So 3072 02:40:08.440 --> 02:40:10.760 if I would never date a guy. 3073 02:40:10.719 --> 02:40:14.079 Who his profession or even a hobby is for him 3074 02:40:14.120 --> 02:40:16.000 to be a chef, because I already know what kind 3075 02:40:16.000 --> 02:40:18.040 of attitude you gonna have, and that's that's gonna piss 3076 02:40:18.079 --> 02:40:20.879 me off, because it's like like. 3077 02:40:20.959 --> 02:40:23.920 With my pops, it's like he gets he get offended, 3078 02:40:25.079 --> 02:40:26.559 Like he get offended. 3079 02:40:28.040 --> 02:40:30.959 When it's certain shit that the girls or my mom 3080 02:40:31.040 --> 02:40:33.920 are like that they might like better of mine or 3081 02:40:34.239 --> 02:40:37.440 of moms or whoever better than his. Because he feels 3082 02:40:37.479 --> 02:40:41.360 like he's the cook of the house. Everybody's supposed to 3083 02:40:41.399 --> 02:40:43.120 think that all of his shit is number one, and 3084 02:40:43.159 --> 02:40:43.440 it is not. 3085 02:40:43.799 --> 02:40:45.520 See, my uncle is not like that. The only thing 3086 02:40:45.600 --> 02:40:47.319 that he's gonna get offended by. 3087 02:40:47.559 --> 02:40:50.719 Is if you go to if we go out to 3088 02:40:50.760 --> 02:40:52.639 a restaurant and you order a steak and you ask 3089 02:40:52.680 --> 02:40:55.319 for steak sauce, all you'll hear is like. 3090 02:40:55.760 --> 02:40:57.879 Excuse me, would you just ask for That's when he's 3091 02:40:57.879 --> 02:41:00.639 gonna get offended. Other than that, not gonna say. 3092 02:41:00.559 --> 02:41:04.520 That's the only time you'll ever see him get offend 3093 02:41:04.600 --> 02:41:05.040 anything else. 3094 02:41:05.040 --> 02:41:05.799 He ain't gonna say nothing. 3095 02:41:08.040 --> 02:41:08.600 Would you call. 3096 02:41:11.239 --> 02:41:11.399 Good? 3097 02:41:11.440 --> 02:41:14.040 But you know, I like, I used to love a 3098 02:41:14.200 --> 02:41:16.040 one as a kid, but now I don't eat any 3099 02:41:16.120 --> 02:41:19.559 sauce on mysteak because I don't need to back then her, 3100 02:41:19.760 --> 02:41:20.399 she judged. 3101 02:41:23.840 --> 02:41:25.600 When we went to the steakhouse on the cruise ship, 3102 02:41:25.639 --> 02:41:29.440 I feel like I was disclosed. That was like, would 3103 02:41:29.440 --> 02:41:31.879 you like any whatever? Whatever? The eye ride went up 3104 02:41:31.920 --> 02:41:34.040 and I glared across the table like don't. 3105 02:41:33.840 --> 02:41:34.840 You say no? 3106 02:41:36.159 --> 02:41:38.520 You ended up coming with some kind of like Jimmy. 3107 02:41:38.280 --> 02:41:41.639 Cherry, like definitely dirty, like well. 3108 02:41:41.520 --> 02:41:44.479 Done, but now your life changed. 3109 02:41:48.239 --> 02:41:52.600 Well done. It's so just disrespect for no reason. 3110 02:41:53.079 --> 02:41:56.079 And I'm actually probably gonna start going down even even 3111 02:41:56.159 --> 02:42:01.799 lower one lower, maybe even a medium. It depends on 3112 02:42:01.840 --> 02:42:04.879 who cook it. The medium is perfect depending on where. 3113 02:42:04.719 --> 02:42:07.360 You are, like some people is you know, medium is tricky. 3114 02:42:07.600 --> 02:42:14.639 But and it also depends on how thick the steak is. 3115 02:42:15.159 --> 02:42:18.399 So like if you going y'all drunk, like how when 3116 02:42:18.440 --> 02:42:20.600 we used to come from mixing ship and we end 3117 02:42:20.680 --> 02:42:22.760 up at the George web somewhere and I order a 3118 02:42:22.799 --> 02:42:25.559 steak and eggs. I can't tell this motherfucker give me 3119 02:42:25.639 --> 02:42:28.719 a steak medium because the motherfucker cooking two minutes because 3120 02:42:28.719 --> 02:42:31.799 it's so fucking thin, it's always gonna be well done. 3121 02:42:33.120 --> 02:42:37.840 Because it's too thin anywhere, because I like steaking eggs 3122 02:42:37.840 --> 02:42:39.360 when I've been in the morning. 3123 02:42:39.479 --> 02:42:41.120 I asked the medium, well, but I honestly think it 3124 02:42:41.239 --> 02:42:42.159 was a little under. 3125 02:42:44.200 --> 02:42:47.680 Yeah, because and that hurt, because that steak was fucking amazing, 3126 02:42:47.760 --> 02:42:50.079 but you know, I wasn't feeling so my appetite and. 3127 02:42:50.079 --> 02:42:53.000 Ship with one of those cuts of meat that they 3128 02:42:53.079 --> 02:42:55.280 give you is like damn, they're still moving. And that 3129 02:42:55.440 --> 02:42:57.639 was the one that I didn't like, not because it 3130 02:42:57.799 --> 02:42:58.479 just didn't taste. 3131 02:42:58.479 --> 02:43:01.719 It didn't have no flavor. It was like red red, 3132 02:43:02.040 --> 02:43:03.680 and my mind was just playing tricks on me. 3133 02:43:07.479 --> 02:43:10.479 More cook side they ask you, because they asked you 3134 02:43:10.520 --> 02:43:12.159 beside you one you want. 3135 02:43:12.200 --> 02:43:13.479 I think they only gave to me once, and I 3136 02:43:13.559 --> 02:43:15.760 didn't want it again because that's how my mom. If 3137 02:43:15.799 --> 02:43:17.120 I had knew that, I would have got it again, 3138 02:43:17.159 --> 02:43:18.719 but I just tried to once I didn't. 3139 02:43:18.479 --> 02:43:21.600 Get it because that's how my mom is. Because they 3140 02:43:21.639 --> 02:43:23.360 know everybody don't eat. They meat the same. So my 3141 02:43:23.440 --> 02:43:26.079 mom she always gets the more done side, and me 3142 02:43:26.280 --> 02:43:27.840 and the girls we get the media. 3143 02:43:28.280 --> 02:43:30.239 Yeah, I'm good with a median will. But that was 3144 02:43:30.799 --> 02:43:31.079 that was. 3145 02:43:32.680 --> 02:43:32.840 Yeah. 3146 02:43:32.959 --> 02:43:41.159 But but speaking of speaking of niggas being niggas and comments, yes, 3147 02:43:42.639 --> 02:43:44.479 but speaking of me and being men in comments, We're 3148 02:43:44.520 --> 02:43:46.760 going to get on our last video and topic for 3149 02:43:46.840 --> 02:43:47.120 the night. 3150 02:43:48.479 --> 02:43:50.520 The reason why I popped your blown and it was 3151 02:43:50.559 --> 02:43:54.840 because you say that you have a history of domestic. 3152 02:43:54.559 --> 02:43:58.399 Violence, and that is it's not okay for me. So 3153 02:43:58.680 --> 02:44:01.399 I just had a popular learning for that reason. 3154 02:44:01.680 --> 02:44:05.079 I'm working on it and that you know, I have 3155 02:44:05.239 --> 02:44:08.959 different methods of dealing with situations. But it wasn't like 3156 02:44:09.520 --> 02:44:12.600 physical with a woman is just like I said, I said, 3157 02:44:12.639 --> 02:44:17.360 break things, said things. 3158 02:44:17.639 --> 02:44:19.799 Yeah, stop right there, he said he meet Wait wait 3159 02:44:19.959 --> 02:44:22.159 you said he said me? He said I break things? 3160 02:44:22.559 --> 02:44:22.760 Yeah? 3161 02:44:23.120 --> 02:44:24.280 Or did he say I mean. 3162 02:44:25.639 --> 02:44:27.559 Probably breaks things breaks? 3163 02:44:27.600 --> 02:44:29.520 You could play it one more time. It wasn't that long. 3164 02:44:30.360 --> 02:44:32.440 The reason why I popped your balloon and it was 3165 02:44:32.479 --> 02:44:36.719 because you say that you have a history of domestic. 3166 02:44:36.399 --> 02:44:40.239 Violence, and that is it's not okay for me. So 3167 02:44:40.520 --> 02:44:43.239 I just had a popular learning for that reason. 3168 02:44:43.520 --> 02:44:46.920 I'm working on it and that you know, I have 3169 02:44:47.079 --> 02:44:50.600 different methods of dealing with situations, but it wasn't like 3170 02:44:51.159 --> 02:44:54.000 physical with a woman is just like I said, I 3171 02:44:54.079 --> 02:44:55.200 said break things. 3172 02:44:56.440 --> 02:44:57.399 You said I break things. 3173 02:44:59.399 --> 02:45:03.159 I feel like that opening chuck. Yeah, so you have 3174 02:45:03.360 --> 02:45:06.280 men in the comments like so do women change the order? 3175 02:45:06.639 --> 02:45:07.799 Just the so called checklist? 3176 02:45:08.159 --> 02:45:11.000 He told the truth as well as show his vulnerable side, 3177 02:45:11.040 --> 02:45:13.360 which is what I hear many women say they want. 3178 02:45:15.879 --> 02:45:18.680 I feel like there are huge deal breakers. 3179 02:45:19.319 --> 02:45:22.079 Why y'all worried about the past not being insecure? It 3180 02:45:22.239 --> 02:45:24.200 was his past that had nothing to do with you. 3181 02:45:25.479 --> 02:45:27.559 Because but here's the thing. 3182 02:45:27.840 --> 02:45:30.920 What I'm listening to is that I've never been in 3183 02:45:31.040 --> 02:45:34.040 This topic is always tricky for me. What I hear 3184 02:45:34.120 --> 02:45:36.120 you say is that, oh, I've never been physical with 3185 02:45:36.239 --> 02:45:40.399 the woman I break things. Oh okay, So that sounds 3186 02:45:40.440 --> 02:45:43.680 like to me, this is the beginning. So in my mind, 3187 02:45:44.399 --> 02:45:46.200 abody gonna be the woman that you're gonna decide to 3188 02:45:46.280 --> 02:45:47.280 finally get physical with. 3189 02:45:48.440 --> 02:45:50.559 You don't have your emotions and check my god. 3190 02:45:50.959 --> 02:45:54.120 Like and then that I'm just supposed to take that risk, 3191 02:45:54.319 --> 02:45:59.000 Like no, sorry, not doing it. Yes, kudos to you 3192 02:45:59.159 --> 02:46:01.760 for being honest. That's a problem. 3193 02:46:02.200 --> 02:46:05.200 We started to show talking about I'm glad that men 3194 02:46:05.280 --> 02:46:08.639 are not in the comments as these women have conversations 3195 02:46:08.680 --> 02:46:11.280 about women and in the rest of the damn show 3196 02:46:12.159 --> 02:46:13.680 is men being dumb. 3197 02:46:16.040 --> 02:46:19.959 She set us up. Let's be honest here, feel safe. 3198 02:46:20.079 --> 02:46:21.000 Let's be honest here. 3199 02:46:21.120 --> 02:46:24.399 We never give black men grace on admitting to being 3200 02:46:24.559 --> 02:46:28.879 something such as abusive, verbal, physical, non physical, etc. The 3201 02:46:28.959 --> 02:46:32.600 fact that he expressed that it's growth on his part. Women, yes, 3202 02:46:32.719 --> 02:46:35.520 protect yourselves at all times, but from someone like this. 3203 02:46:35.879 --> 02:46:37.840 But the fact that he put it out there is 3204 02:46:37.879 --> 02:46:40.079 what it's supposed to happen more often so that women 3205 02:46:40.159 --> 02:46:41.920 can decide if they want a rocker brow or not. 3206 02:46:42.559 --> 02:46:44.799 I do pray and also know God will send him 3207 02:46:44.799 --> 02:46:46.840 the right one. Just keep working on you, bro, and 3208 02:46:46.959 --> 02:46:50.120 keep elevating to become better as a community. Even though 3209 02:46:50.200 --> 02:46:53.040 Shody said no, I do encourage us to uplift brothers 3210 02:46:53.079 --> 02:46:55.520 that are honest about their lives, especially in this space, 3211 02:46:55.840 --> 02:46:58.200 so that we nurture our people and not downplay them 3212 02:46:58.239 --> 02:47:00.760 for growing up no matter the past, if they show 3213 02:47:00.840 --> 02:47:03.120 signs of growth, give grace to that because you would 3214 02:47:03.120 --> 02:47:03.840 want it done to you. 3215 02:47:04.760 --> 02:47:06.719 Okay, I love How. 3216 02:47:08.840 --> 02:47:13.079 I Love How, a show that is basically speed dating 3217 02:47:13.159 --> 02:47:17.879 on crack now somehow turned into a ted talk. She 3218 02:47:18.159 --> 02:47:21.079 clearly said, you had a history with domestic violence. 3219 02:47:21.440 --> 02:47:24.440 I can't rock with that. Cool move on. But all 3220 02:47:24.440 --> 02:47:27.120 of a sudden we're supposed to like get mad at 3221 02:47:27.159 --> 02:47:30.559 her for not choosing them. That's stupid. It's a fucking 3222 02:47:30.760 --> 02:47:33.120 show where it's just like, hey, I don't like the 3223 02:47:33.159 --> 02:47:39.040 color of your shoes. I'm out. It was about of deep. 3224 02:47:39.120 --> 02:47:42.000 That was a tad talk. That was a deep think tank. 3225 02:47:42.520 --> 02:47:42.959 We quick. 3226 02:47:45.360 --> 02:47:48.000 But my thing is that also shows to me it's 3227 02:47:48.200 --> 02:47:51.280 your priorities probably should be a little bit more in 3228 02:47:51.360 --> 02:47:52.360 check because. 3229 02:47:54.319 --> 02:47:59.760 I just you shouldn't be here like you shouldn't be there. 3230 02:48:00.040 --> 02:48:02.079 Don't also know how long ago that was he didn't 3231 02:48:02.079 --> 02:48:03.520 get I don't think he got a chance to say 3232 02:48:03.559 --> 02:48:06.239 if he even goes to therapy about it, Like, we 3233 02:48:06.280 --> 02:48:07.959 don't know how in depth it went. But at the 3234 02:48:08.040 --> 02:48:10.000 same time, he already got his balloon pop. 3235 02:48:10.040 --> 02:48:10.399 We don't care. 3236 02:48:10.440 --> 02:48:13.600 He never give black Man grace on admitting to being 3237 02:48:13.719 --> 02:48:16.680 something such as abusive. That's the part that's tripping me 3238 02:48:16.799 --> 02:48:20.000 up that that part could have been left out because 3239 02:48:21.319 --> 02:48:25.840 he admits that he and says, oh, I'm working on 3240 02:48:26.000 --> 02:48:29.239 myself on whatever. And then he decides later on down 3241 02:48:29.319 --> 02:48:32.040 the line the busser and her ship, who is everybody 3242 02:48:32.120 --> 02:48:34.760 gonna jump on about forgiving him. 3243 02:48:35.040 --> 02:48:37.319 Because she knew already that he had a history. 3244 02:48:37.479 --> 02:48:40.760 So my ex who I told y'all all of that 3245 02:48:40.840 --> 02:48:44.440 ship about earlier at the beginning of the show, I 3246 02:48:44.760 --> 02:48:49.920 was the first in line. Every person who he has 3247 02:48:50.040 --> 02:48:52.399 dated after me has needed a restrain. 3248 02:48:52.120 --> 02:48:55.200 And order on that man. Damn you know what, same 3249 02:48:55.360 --> 02:49:04.680 story yep. And I relationship with my with the DV situation. Yeah, 3250 02:49:04.760 --> 02:49:08.200 now that you say that every person after me has 3251 02:49:08.280 --> 02:49:09.879 needed a restrain and order on him. 3252 02:49:10.399 --> 02:49:15.760 And I feel like for me because the police guilt 3253 02:49:15.799 --> 02:49:20.719 tripped me about calling the police well you know, you know, 3254 02:49:20.920 --> 02:49:23.200 and it's black men because it was a black cop. 3255 02:49:23.799 --> 02:49:26.000 It's black men or whatever. And because what he did 3256 02:49:26.159 --> 02:49:29.959 was technically strong armed robbery, like he assaulted me and 3257 02:49:30.280 --> 02:49:34.959 he took my wallet from me, and he talked to 3258 02:49:35.040 --> 02:49:38.559 me out of pressing charges against him because he's like, well, 3259 02:49:38.600 --> 02:49:40.440 you know, and this will always follow him and this 3260 02:49:40.520 --> 02:49:42.280 will be this and this that, and it's just whatever. 3261 02:49:42.760 --> 02:49:45.719 And now these white people in my son business. 3262 02:49:45.440 --> 02:49:49.559 And now, and I regret that because giving him that 3263 02:49:49.879 --> 02:49:53.600 pass left a path up and for him to terrorize 3264 02:49:53.840 --> 02:49:54.680 every woman after you. 3265 02:49:55.239 --> 02:49:58.079 See that, they can get away with it and there's 3266 02:49:58.159 --> 02:50:01.319 no punishment for it. It's literally going to continue. 3267 02:50:01.440 --> 02:50:05.159 So now every case he has always has a domestic 3268 02:50:05.280 --> 02:50:08.280 abuse repeater modifier, added Tode. 3269 02:50:08.440 --> 02:50:09.680 Yes, I noticed that. 3270 02:50:10.399 --> 02:50:11.680 I feel like back when I went through what I 3271 02:50:11.760 --> 02:50:13.760 was going through, I didn't. I didn't see that back then. 3272 02:50:14.440 --> 02:50:16.239 So I don't know if that's like a it's some 3273 02:50:16.399 --> 02:50:18.520 type of different charge or some type of way that 3274 02:50:18.600 --> 02:50:21.799 they but mine was twenty ten. Mine was twenty ten. 3275 02:50:23.879 --> 02:50:28.239 But yeah, so now every time he does something there's 3276 02:50:28.280 --> 02:50:33.520 a domestic abuse repeater as a modifier to the charges 3277 02:50:33.559 --> 02:50:34.000 that he had. 3278 02:50:37.520 --> 02:50:39.319 Em I don't know. 3279 02:50:40.920 --> 02:50:43.600 So it's like, yeah, you were honest. Great, thanks because 3280 02:50:43.639 --> 02:50:45.600 that let me know that I'm not gonna deal with you. 3281 02:50:46.000 --> 02:50:49.120 But as far as giving you grace, and I don't 3282 02:50:49.239 --> 02:50:52.479 and I don't feel like she was penalizing him for 3283 02:50:52.600 --> 02:50:53.079 being honest. 3284 02:50:53.159 --> 02:50:54.040 She had a preference. 3285 02:50:54.280 --> 02:50:56.239 He could very well meet a woman that's like, oh, okay, 3286 02:50:56.280 --> 02:50:58.079 well you didn't actually hit nobody, so we can try 3287 02:50:58.120 --> 02:51:00.520 it out as cool. He might meet somebody that's cool 3288 02:51:00.559 --> 02:51:02.799 with that, But she had a preference and her preference 3289 02:51:02.920 --> 02:51:05.360 was to not deal with a nigga that have that 3290 02:51:05.479 --> 02:51:07.000 has a domestic violence. 3291 02:51:06.680 --> 02:51:10.000 In history, and people are like, that's not domestic violence. 3292 02:51:10.000 --> 02:51:15.840 According to the court systems, Yes, it is breaking breaking property, 3293 02:51:15.879 --> 02:51:19.360 and all of that shit still counts under domestic violence. 3294 02:51:19.120 --> 02:51:22.399 Because once breaking property don't do shit for you, then 3295 02:51:22.559 --> 02:51:25.479 that's when the hand's gonna get the going and yeah, 3296 02:51:25.719 --> 02:51:27.680 like it's it's gonna escalate from there. 3297 02:51:28.000 --> 02:51:29.120 That's usually how it goes. 3298 02:51:30.239 --> 02:51:33.600 Look the very next comment, he was honest, But when 3299 02:51:33.680 --> 02:51:36.239 breaking things isn't enough, it'll be breaking a woman. 3300 02:51:36.440 --> 02:51:37.520 That was the very next comment. 3301 02:51:41.200 --> 02:51:45.239 I feel like when it comes to domestic violence, at 3302 02:51:45.319 --> 02:51:49.280 least in my experience, it always it starts somewhere at 3303 02:51:49.319 --> 02:51:52.520 the at the lower end, and it escalates. 3304 02:51:53.319 --> 02:51:56.040 It's like I'm gonna start verbally. I might start. 3305 02:51:55.879 --> 02:52:01.200 Mentally, i might start breaking things. I might start messing 3306 02:52:01.239 --> 02:52:03.440 stuff up around the house. And then when that's not enough, 3307 02:52:03.520 --> 02:52:05.639 now I'm finna start putting my hands on you. Like 3308 02:52:05.760 --> 02:52:06.840 it's it's going. 3309 02:52:06.799 --> 02:52:07.840 To escalate, y'all. 3310 02:52:07.920 --> 02:52:13.360 Tell us to stop ignoring red flags and then try 3311 02:52:13.440 --> 02:52:16.959 to tell us that this red flag is yellow. 3312 02:52:18.040 --> 02:52:19.959 If it was anything higher than red, that's what that 3313 02:52:20.000 --> 02:52:22.280 would have been and she literally was like, no, no 3314 02:52:22.399 --> 02:52:25.079 six flags for me. I'm going on to the next person. 3315 02:52:25.440 --> 02:52:28.319 And y'all like, see give him you ain't giving him 3316 02:52:28.360 --> 02:52:31.520 no grades. Okay, So she might have just saved her life. 3317 02:52:31.639 --> 02:52:31.879 You know. 3318 02:52:34.319 --> 02:52:38.120 The craziness how about put me in the ground. Honestly, 3319 02:52:38.440 --> 02:52:39.879 the craziest. 3320 02:52:39.319 --> 02:52:42.520 Part are the men in the comments who are trying 3321 02:52:42.600 --> 02:52:45.239 to compare domestic violence to body count. 3322 02:52:51.360 --> 02:52:54.639 Battleper But honestly, this is not even funny. 3323 02:52:54.639 --> 02:52:58.840 It's sad as hell because it really shows how our society. 3324 02:53:00.280 --> 02:53:05.719 They don't take domestic violence serious enough until somebody. 3325 02:53:05.520 --> 02:53:09.879 Until it's too late. It's laughable as oh he just 3326 02:53:09.959 --> 02:53:12.079 did it one time. It's just it's cool. That's just 3327 02:53:12.159 --> 02:53:15.000 how we like. No, that ship is not cool. And 3328 02:53:15.079 --> 02:53:18.319 these comments just show how unseerious people are about a 3329 02:53:18.559 --> 02:53:20.239 very serious thing. 3330 02:53:20.520 --> 02:53:22.520 Little one time my daughter come home. 3331 02:53:22.479 --> 02:53:24.040 So I mean shout out to her, sound like she 3332 02:53:24.159 --> 02:53:29.280 chose herself in her life. Hey, I mean best of 3333 02:53:29.399 --> 02:53:33.319 luck to you and your journey. But no, no, not 3334 02:53:33.440 --> 02:53:35.479 talking about him. No, no, I'm talking about him, like, 3335 02:53:35.600 --> 02:53:37.120 best of luck to you and your journey. But this 3336 02:53:37.159 --> 02:53:37.799 should not for me. 3337 02:53:37.959 --> 02:53:38.680 I thought about it. 3338 02:53:41.479 --> 02:53:45.639 Yeah, that just bro, Why are you there, like you 3339 02:53:46.120 --> 02:53:50.520 did what I'm saying, Like you said so that means 3340 02:53:50.680 --> 02:53:52.239 that you were still at a point. 3341 02:53:52.079 --> 02:53:54.399 Where you can be triggered. That's what I was saying 3342 02:53:54.399 --> 02:53:56.239 about the priorities. You should not be here. 3343 02:53:57.799 --> 02:54:02.760 His bro was like speed you want to get down? 3344 02:54:03.239 --> 02:54:05.879 He was like, yeah, cool, I'm always down to girls. 3345 02:54:05.920 --> 02:54:07.600 But I want to know how that. 3346 02:54:07.799 --> 02:54:11.840 Didn't wasn't like nobody probably would have. God, do you hear? 3347 02:54:12.920 --> 02:54:14.760 I wonder what led up to that? Like what led 3348 02:54:14.840 --> 02:54:16.120 up to him admitting to that? 3349 02:54:16.479 --> 02:54:19.040 Like that doesn't sound like a conversation. 3350 02:54:19.440 --> 02:54:22.440 Where did I come from with the opportunity? It could 3351 02:54:22.479 --> 02:54:25.520 have been a question she could have asked. 3352 02:54:26.639 --> 02:54:28.280 I think that this was gonna be a part of 3353 02:54:28.440 --> 02:54:29.600 the screening process. 3354 02:54:31.040 --> 02:54:33.799 Like I give him credit for yeah, like you were 3355 02:54:33.840 --> 02:54:35.879 honest screen girls. 3356 02:54:36.760 --> 02:54:37.879 So his boy set them up? 3357 02:54:39.200 --> 02:54:41.000 Me is a valid question? Do you have a history 3358 02:54:41.000 --> 02:54:42.559 of that? Would that would be? 3359 02:54:42.719 --> 02:54:44.399 That would be that would be something that I would 3360 02:54:44.440 --> 02:54:46.600 have to ask just because of my history. Yes, I 3361 02:54:46.639 --> 02:54:49.559 would have to ask, like do you have a history 3362 02:54:49.600 --> 02:54:50.639 of domestic violence? 3363 02:54:51.280 --> 02:54:54.000 Oh? I have to ask that question because I need 3364 02:54:54.079 --> 02:54:56.479 to know is you nuts? Do you leave gas cans 3365 02:54:56.520 --> 02:54:59.280 on bitches porches? Do you do you buzz out they 3366 02:54:59.639 --> 02:55:07.799 win flatten their tires, then you harassed him. You know, 3367 02:55:08.040 --> 02:55:10.360 it's a valid question because then you. 3368 02:55:10.440 --> 02:55:14.799 Catch these hands. If my dinner not done. 3369 02:55:14.840 --> 02:55:17.879 Too much, I like, I like, no, I'm done, thanks, 3370 02:55:18.239 --> 02:55:21.319 because I'm not gonna be the next one. Sorry, And 3371 02:55:21.479 --> 02:55:23.959 it's like it and then it ain't pray nobody else's 3372 02:55:24.120 --> 02:55:26.360 but no, I don't. 3373 02:55:26.200 --> 02:55:27.280 Think I can get that, maud. 3374 02:55:28.079 --> 02:55:30.840 Yeah, it's like, and here's the thing. You see how 3375 02:55:31.079 --> 02:55:34.159 how how we see cat people? Right, mm hmm. 3376 02:55:35.600 --> 02:55:38.600 It's not it's not an indicator that I was the 3377 02:55:38.639 --> 02:55:41.920 first person that he was abusive towards. I was probably 3378 02:55:42.040 --> 02:55:43.719 just the first person that went to the cops about 3379 02:55:43.760 --> 02:55:47.200 it because I was on probation and I couldn't take 3380 02:55:47.280 --> 02:55:47.719 that risk. 3381 02:55:47.799 --> 02:55:48.799 I had to have a paper trip. 3382 02:55:49.840 --> 02:55:53.079 So because I don't, I don't feel like this behavior 3383 02:55:53.200 --> 02:55:56.000 just came out of nowhere, especially because it continued long 3384 02:55:56.079 --> 02:55:56.440 after me. 3385 02:55:56.639 --> 02:55:59.079 That's how I found out that it was. It continued 3386 02:55:59.239 --> 02:56:02.799 after me. Yeah, it keeps happening, so clearly this is 3387 02:56:02.840 --> 02:56:03.520 the problem here. 3388 02:56:04.879 --> 02:56:05.079 Yeah. 3389 02:56:05.559 --> 02:56:10.879 So it just kills me that there are always angry 3390 02:56:11.040 --> 02:56:16.360 men in the comments of women making wise decisions, because 3391 02:56:16.600 --> 02:56:20.040 when they don't make wise decisions. All y'all do is 3392 02:56:20.159 --> 02:56:22.479 criticize them and say y'all should have chose better and 3393 02:56:22.559 --> 02:56:24.600 y'all should have picked better. But then when they do 3394 02:56:24.799 --> 02:56:27.319 that is y'all, y'all don't give y'all don't give me 3395 02:56:27.399 --> 02:56:27.840 in grace. 3396 02:56:28.159 --> 02:56:28.719 Oh you don't. 3397 02:56:28.760 --> 02:56:32.319 You don't deserve to make no no, no, no choice 3398 02:56:32.360 --> 02:56:34.559 and have a standard because you look like this, or 3399 02:56:34.639 --> 02:56:36.920 you weigh as much or shout yokes. 3400 02:56:38.479 --> 02:56:42.319 Up, I give him grace. We move forward together. And 3401 02:56:42.520 --> 02:56:44.760 then the domestic violance. 3402 02:56:46.040 --> 02:56:49.639 Literally, I'm literally. 3403 02:56:49.920 --> 02:56:54.200 Now what y'all saying in the comments. Now, he told 3404 02:56:54.239 --> 02:56:58.040 you that that was your fault, but no, he no, 3405 02:56:58.319 --> 02:57:00.639 he didn't. He didn't say he hit people. He said 3406 02:57:00.680 --> 02:57:02.479 he broke stuff. And what the fuck did you think 3407 02:57:02.520 --> 02:57:05.719 he was gonna break this? That was your fault? You 3408 02:57:05.799 --> 02:57:06.000 know what? 3409 02:57:06.079 --> 02:57:08.680 It's all it's never the same type of nigga on 3410 02:57:08.840 --> 02:57:12.760 both sides of those conversations. It always be like a 3411 02:57:12.879 --> 02:57:15.639 completely different batch of niggas that be complaining. 3412 02:57:17.239 --> 02:57:17.280 It. 3413 02:57:17.440 --> 02:57:20.000 Don't that be the crazy part? It'd be the same. 3414 02:57:20.159 --> 02:57:22.440 That's why I'm saying it'd be a double ed sword 3415 02:57:22.520 --> 02:57:25.959 because and I have watched this, especially if anybody is 3416 02:57:26.040 --> 02:57:31.159 in the rain Report podcast group. I will watch, I 3417 02:57:31.239 --> 02:57:39.319 will watch, I will watch. Who's coming, Yes, all the time, 3418 02:57:41.079 --> 02:57:46.079 all the time, It'll be Marshall Duke, Aris Garner, Robert 3419 02:57:46.360 --> 02:57:51.959 claybrooksm It Real, Marquis or Marcus Claiborne. I know who's coming. 3420 02:57:54.280 --> 02:57:58.799 I know who's coming. And on my page is gonna 3421 02:57:58.799 --> 02:58:02.520 be the Markwan Baker. And he don't he we're not 3422 02:58:02.639 --> 02:58:05.280 even friends. He just follows that is weird to me 3423 02:58:07.879 --> 02:58:09.959 and acts like that because they didn't choose better. But 3424 02:58:10.040 --> 02:58:12.559 they always telling motherfucker to choose better, because had they 3425 02:58:12.680 --> 02:58:15.360 chose better, then we wouldn't have this issue. 3426 02:58:15.879 --> 02:58:18.319 Because I actually I made a post about. 3427 02:58:18.079 --> 02:58:23.319 That, like all we gotta do is just sit back 3428 02:58:23.360 --> 02:58:26.920 and just be us and we win, because niggas out 3429 02:58:27.000 --> 02:58:30.399 here is we ain't gotta do no work, big girls. 3430 02:58:31.479 --> 02:58:35.079 I'm afraid of tell me out here what because. 3431 02:58:35.600 --> 02:58:38.559 I would be so afraid that, like, yeah, like if 3432 02:58:38.600 --> 02:58:40.399 I got on some bully shit trying to punch it 3433 02:58:40.479 --> 02:58:42.680 and then it don't go my way, and now I 3434 02:58:42.760 --> 02:58:45.239 gotta explain not only to like my family that I 3435 02:58:45.360 --> 02:58:47.719 was being a fuck nigga and beating on my girl, 3436 02:58:47.799 --> 02:58:50.639 but my girl and whooped my eyes. I don't want 3437 02:58:50.639 --> 02:58:53.360 to have to have that conversation with in my life. 3438 02:58:53.440 --> 02:58:54.360 You get tired enough. 3439 02:58:54.479 --> 02:58:58.559 Oh yeah, I don't want to have that conversation with nobody. 3440 02:58:58.680 --> 02:59:00.639 So I made a post a couple of days ago, 3441 02:59:00.840 --> 02:59:09.399 and I said, fellas as unwebbed men. Fellas as unwebbed 3442 02:59:09.479 --> 02:59:12.399 men who regularly tell women you should have picked your 3443 02:59:12.440 --> 02:59:14.840 chosen better and that men control marriage. 3444 02:59:15.200 --> 02:59:17.360 Why aren't you married to any of the women you 3445 02:59:17.559 --> 02:59:20.639 chose prior to now? Or why are you divorced from 3446 02:59:20.680 --> 02:59:23.399 the woman you did choose from marriage? I feel, as 3447 02:59:23.559 --> 02:59:25.959 experts and may choosing, you all should have picked the 3448 02:59:26.000 --> 02:59:28.760 perfect women to be married to. So I'm curious as 3449 02:59:28.799 --> 02:59:30.840 to what the issue is and how it's possible you 3450 02:59:30.959 --> 02:59:33.079 didn't know those women weren't right for you out the 3451 02:59:33.120 --> 02:59:40.559 gate because oh so people change? Is that what you're 3452 02:59:40.559 --> 02:59:45.200 saying supposed to? Because they make it seem like what 3453 02:59:45.600 --> 02:59:48.520 will they make it seem like when we pick people? 3454 02:59:49.159 --> 02:59:52.840 They don't change. They're automatically like that from the beginning. 3455 02:59:53.239 --> 02:59:56.920 There's no possible way that once we date someone that 3456 02:59:57.000 --> 02:59:59.760 they can change into some bullshit later on down the line. 3457 03:00:00.079 --> 03:00:01.200 That must only apply to y'all. 3458 03:00:01.239 --> 03:00:04.600 In I think every rocky said, everybody changes. 3459 03:00:06.159 --> 03:00:09.280 After you be I even d so someone come in it, 3460 03:00:10.280 --> 03:00:15.239 he said, and he said, he said marriage isn't a 3461 03:00:15.360 --> 03:00:18.319 man's goal in general. I said, if marriage isn't a 3462 03:00:18.440 --> 03:00:21.040 man's goal in general, then why would he constantly be 3463 03:00:21.159 --> 03:00:23.719 speaking on why women are married as if a woman's 3464 03:00:23.760 --> 03:00:26.479 work rest on marriage, why would they care and try 3465 03:00:26.520 --> 03:00:28.840 to shame women for not being married while not wanting 3466 03:00:28.879 --> 03:00:30.040 to be married to women anyway? 3467 03:00:30.159 --> 03:00:30.840 That makes no sense. 3468 03:00:30.959 --> 03:00:34.639 That's gay, you know, like it's some conversations. Nigga should 3469 03:00:34.639 --> 03:00:35.840 really mind their business. 3470 03:00:37.559 --> 03:00:38.040 If you not. 3471 03:00:38.600 --> 03:00:41.399 That's why when I see niggas talking about girlfriends and 3472 03:00:41.680 --> 03:00:44.159 having significant I don't even speak because I don't. 3473 03:00:44.040 --> 03:00:46.319 Ain't no, but not even like me. Why you need 3474 03:00:46.360 --> 03:00:47.959 to cut the internet off every Tuesday? 3475 03:00:48.399 --> 03:00:49.600 Like I just watched it and see it. 3476 03:00:49.639 --> 03:00:53.600 I'll be like, okay, social media needs to deactivate every 3477 03:00:53.639 --> 03:00:54.479 Tuesday and Thursday. 3478 03:00:55.680 --> 03:00:59.799 Just cut off man every Tuesday Thursday for longer. But 3479 03:01:00.040 --> 03:01:02.879 I see y'all in January, No on. 3480 03:01:02.920 --> 03:01:05.399 Tuesday and Thursday because I need Wednesday in the weekends 3481 03:01:05.520 --> 03:01:07.799 from a podcast stuff, but and Thursday. 3482 03:01:10.239 --> 03:01:12.120 But I went on to say, I said, okay, we 3483 03:01:12.639 --> 03:01:15.680 can go live. So if college is not my goal. 3484 03:01:15.920 --> 03:01:18.959 Imagine me telling another motherfucker that they're not smart enough 3485 03:01:19.440 --> 03:01:22.040 because they're not a college graduate. I'm basing their worth 3486 03:01:22.079 --> 03:01:23.959 off of something that I didn't even want for myself. 3487 03:01:24.040 --> 03:01:26.000 That sounds like I'm just full of shit and looking 3488 03:01:26.040 --> 03:01:28.479 for any reason to say something negative to him. His 3489 03:01:28.639 --> 03:01:31.879 response was, it's sex the main priority for women one day, 3490 03:01:31.879 --> 03:01:33.000 and yes or no that had. 3491 03:01:32.920 --> 03:01:34.719 Shit to do with whatever, because that's all he could 3492 03:01:34.760 --> 03:01:38.639 talk about. He can he can control the rhetoric of 3493 03:01:38.799 --> 03:01:40.639 how I said. 3494 03:01:40.680 --> 03:01:42.399 That isn't a yes or no question because it can 3495 03:01:42.440 --> 03:01:44.120 be a priority for me and not for other women 3496 03:01:44.200 --> 03:01:46.840 and vice versa. Just like if you're speaking and saying 3497 03:01:46.920 --> 03:01:49.159 marriage isn't a man's goal, but I know several men 3498 03:01:49.200 --> 03:01:51.920 who disagree. That's why I ask men who say these 3499 03:01:51.959 --> 03:01:53.440 things to respond personally. 3500 03:01:53.879 --> 03:01:56.159 What we're wrong with? Your own choices? Since you're the 3501 03:01:56.280 --> 03:01:57.600 experts on Tuesday. 3502 03:01:57.280 --> 03:02:00.479 The right may but from there it's just I could 3503 03:02:00.479 --> 03:02:02.559 be talking about apples in this nigga, I'm talking about. 3504 03:02:02.399 --> 03:02:02.879 A food plate. 3505 03:02:03.079 --> 03:02:04.559 It just he he. 3506 03:02:06.879 --> 03:02:08.040 Just always goes. 3507 03:02:08.920 --> 03:02:11.840 It depends on who make it, because I've seen apples 3508 03:02:11.879 --> 03:02:18.559 on the chacouterie board. That's what It's a lot of 3509 03:02:18.639 --> 03:02:25.120 melons on a lot of melons on those tray myself, right, 3510 03:02:25.239 --> 03:02:26.000 That's what I'm saying. 3511 03:02:27.159 --> 03:02:29.319 But then another guy came, ain't got no problem with 3512 03:02:29.399 --> 03:02:31.760 dipping my apple, and he said, we do pick the 3513 03:02:31.879 --> 03:02:34.360 right one when we're ready. I said, so, is that 3514 03:02:34.559 --> 03:02:36.559 like the men's version of him? Single by choice? And 3515 03:02:36.639 --> 03:02:37.799 I never got a response to that. 3516 03:02:38.719 --> 03:02:44.719 I get that too, That's why they won't say it. 3517 03:02:45.719 --> 03:02:46.840 That's good, but that's what it is. 3518 03:02:47.559 --> 03:02:50.920 If you're gonna sit here and picking and complain about 3519 03:02:50.959 --> 03:02:53.760 every single woman who may have even opted to show you. 3520 03:02:54.000 --> 03:02:54.639 And that's another thing. 3521 03:02:54.760 --> 03:02:57.479 Most of these niggas don't no woman, won't them or 3522 03:02:57.559 --> 03:02:58.239 just date each other. 3523 03:02:59.159 --> 03:03:02.239 They don't all have what each other needs ate each other. 3524 03:03:03.280 --> 03:03:06.639 But I know fromat. 3525 03:03:08.000 --> 03:03:09.399 I don't understand. 3526 03:03:11.360 --> 03:03:17.639 But I and I've said this, I don't understand men 3527 03:03:17.719 --> 03:03:21.840 who are homophobes that have a problem with women, because 3528 03:03:21.879 --> 03:03:26.120 it's like y'all spend every single day on social media 3529 03:03:26.319 --> 03:03:29.520 and every platform you can get your hands on, telling 3530 03:03:29.600 --> 03:03:32.559 women why no man wants them, why no men should 3531 03:03:32.680 --> 03:03:36.239 want them, and why they are unworthy and why they 3532 03:03:36.280 --> 03:03:37.799 are unworthy of any men. 3533 03:03:38.159 --> 03:03:39.120 But then you're mad. 3534 03:03:39.319 --> 03:03:41.159 First of all, do not ever use the word bang 3535 03:03:41.280 --> 03:03:45.520 bro again because that is one of my favorite But then. 3536 03:03:46.559 --> 03:03:48.959 But you, but you, you have all of these reasons 3537 03:03:49.079 --> 03:03:52.840 on why women are not datable and why men shouldn't 3538 03:03:52.920 --> 03:03:55.520 date them, but then you mad when they dating fuck 3539 03:03:55.559 --> 03:03:55.879 each other. 3540 03:03:56.799 --> 03:03:59.040 So you don't want men to want us, but you 3541 03:03:59.079 --> 03:04:01.920 don't want men to want other men either. What? 3542 03:04:02.959 --> 03:04:03.079 Oh? 3543 03:04:03.159 --> 03:04:10.639 Because that's because y'all kept talking over me talking about 3544 03:04:10.719 --> 03:04:14.520 bang brothers and ship. I said, if you spend every 3545 03:04:14.600 --> 03:04:17.360 single day, day in and day out, on social media 3546 03:04:17.399 --> 03:04:19.520 and every platform that you can get your hands on, 3547 03:04:20.159 --> 03:04:24.639 talking about how no men will want us, no men 3548 03:04:24.680 --> 03:04:27.799 will date us, ain't no man gonna marry us. We're 3549 03:04:28.000 --> 03:04:33.120 unworthy of any man ever doing anything of any value 3550 03:04:33.200 --> 03:04:33.479 with us. 3551 03:04:33.879 --> 03:04:36.520 We are basically worthless and useless too men. 3552 03:04:37.879 --> 03:04:41.600 But then you are now mad at men who date 3553 03:04:41.680 --> 03:04:45.200 other men because you are also a homophobe. How are 3554 03:04:45.280 --> 03:04:49.000 you mad at men that don't want to date women 3555 03:04:49.120 --> 03:04:51.520 when all you do is spend all your time telling 3556 03:04:51.600 --> 03:04:52.000 them why. 3557 03:04:51.879 --> 03:04:52.760 They shouldn't want us? 3558 03:04:53.719 --> 03:04:57.879 Okay, I don't know what child, I don't know what 3559 03:04:58.000 --> 03:04:58.239 it is. 3560 03:04:58.920 --> 03:05:04.440 Because women my offering myself at this. 3561 03:05:05.799 --> 03:05:07.280 But no, because they mad at gay. 3562 03:05:07.159 --> 03:05:13.000 People, but they don't. 3563 03:05:12.639 --> 03:05:15.719 They don't want men to want women, but they don't 3564 03:05:15.760 --> 03:05:17.840 want men to want men, So what the fuck do 3565 03:05:17.959 --> 03:05:25.840 y'all want to happen here? And on that note, we're 3566 03:05:25.879 --> 03:05:27.600 gonna go ahead and wrap this show up because I 3567 03:05:27.680 --> 03:05:30.959 know that Kayla has to get out of here. I 3568 03:05:31.200 --> 03:05:34.440 want to thank everyone for tuning into this week's episode, 3569 03:05:34.520 --> 03:05:37.399 and I want to thank Kayla for ignoring her bed 3570 03:05:37.479 --> 03:05:38.840 time schedule and coming. 3571 03:05:38.639 --> 03:05:40.040 And chilling with us today. 3572 03:05:43.079 --> 03:05:44.760 Happy and Negro Dad. 3573 03:05:44.799 --> 03:05:46.959 Whatever, I will, I write you. 3574 03:05:49.120 --> 03:05:50.000 Serious question. 3575 03:05:51.360 --> 03:05:54.680 Brust Chans is still a thing, right yes, And I 3576 03:05:54.719 --> 03:05:58.120 feel like I've seen nobody say nothing about saving First of. 3577 03:05:58.120 --> 03:05:58.719 All, you haven't. 3578 03:05:59.520 --> 03:06:01.840 You haven't paid attention to Patrice his page because that's 3579 03:06:01.959 --> 03:06:03.200 all she's been talking about. 3580 03:06:03.799 --> 03:06:05.200 I've been seeing breast cancer stuff. 3581 03:06:05.319 --> 03:06:07.879 All Wine is saying is what happened when they used 3582 03:06:07.879 --> 03:06:10.520 to show their titties on Twitter to breast cancer. 3583 03:06:12.639 --> 03:06:15.440 Twitter is just I'm talking about some real ship. 3584 03:06:16.840 --> 03:06:22.000 Serious question, cause your algorithm is trash. I'm no one. 3585 03:06:22.079 --> 03:06:23.920 Your algorithm is the same way. 3586 03:06:23.799 --> 03:06:25.440 I feel about certain STDs. 3587 03:06:25.479 --> 03:06:27.799 I feel like they're just supposed to show me the time. 3588 03:06:28.680 --> 03:06:31.280 I'm a has tds that. 3589 03:06:31.360 --> 03:06:32.760 You used to hear about as a kid, Do you 3590 03:06:32.799 --> 03:06:36.360 hear about now as an adult everything except for crabs. 3591 03:06:37.120 --> 03:06:38.479 And that's because everybody's changed. 3592 03:06:38.520 --> 03:06:40.239 The still got symphlis outside of the mall. 3593 03:06:40.719 --> 03:06:43.879 I love a lot of people that I have. I 3594 03:06:44.000 --> 03:06:45.600 have to do a full panel workup. 3595 03:06:45.639 --> 03:06:48.440 They do all blood work up, simphlis and Gunn area 3596 03:06:48.600 --> 03:06:50.479 is running rampant down at Marquette. 3597 03:06:52.120 --> 03:06:55.399 A lot of those tests them test syphilis garneria. 3598 03:06:55.159 --> 03:06:55.920 I do have. 3599 03:06:57.360 --> 03:06:59.959 I told you this time when Teresa had to say 3600 03:07:00.280 --> 03:07:04.239 being at the Walgreens over there right by Marquette, and 3601 03:07:04.319 --> 03:07:08.280 she said she spent the whole eight hour shift feeling 3602 03:07:08.399 --> 03:07:11.000 simplest and Gunna read prescriptions. 3603 03:07:12.840 --> 03:07:13.280 Nasty. 3604 03:07:13.639 --> 03:07:16.200 I thought it was just a simplest outbreak here. Not 3605 03:07:16.280 --> 03:07:16.799 too long ago. 3606 03:07:16.959 --> 03:07:22.760 It might have been still that too, because women are 3607 03:07:22.799 --> 03:07:25.120 shaving more now, you know. 3608 03:07:25.280 --> 03:07:29.600 And I think I think that that is actually what 3609 03:07:29.959 --> 03:07:33.559 brought on the craze of just fully removing hair. 3610 03:07:33.840 --> 03:07:36.440 Yeah, craps get rid of crabs. 3611 03:07:36.639 --> 03:07:40.079 So I don't think I don't think that it started 3612 03:07:40.159 --> 03:07:43.120 as a fashion thing. I think that people was tired 3613 03:07:43.120 --> 03:07:45.200 of getting crabs and then it. 3614 03:07:45.319 --> 03:07:47.440 Was just like, oh okay, this is kind of neat. 3615 03:07:48.000 --> 03:07:51.239 Or maybe somebody who had crabs took all their hair 3616 03:07:51.319 --> 03:07:53.479 off and to not look suspicious. 3617 03:07:53.760 --> 03:07:55.120 It was like, oh, I'm trying something new. 3618 03:07:56.040 --> 03:07:58.200 No, I think niggas started cutting it could have get 3619 03:07:58.280 --> 03:08:03.040 rid of it. I mean, you had to try something 3620 03:08:03.040 --> 03:08:05.000 new if you went hairless down there, because you gotta 3621 03:08:05.000 --> 03:08:08.399 remember the time, the seventies day, the bush wasn't hairy. 3622 03:08:08.440 --> 03:08:10.120 They't I knew, I wasn't crazy. 3623 03:08:10.200 --> 03:08:13.559 Milwaukee saw its highest citizens case total in two decades 3624 03:08:13.680 --> 03:08:13.959 back in. 3625 03:08:14.000 --> 03:08:16.639 Twenty and twenty one. That was just a couple years ago. 3626 03:08:16.799 --> 03:08:19.399 I remember hearing we had a big syphilis outbreak because 3627 03:08:19.760 --> 03:08:25.079 after cod damn dodging COVID because they what it probably 3628 03:08:25.159 --> 03:08:27.040 was outbreak because everybody was inside. 3629 03:08:27.079 --> 03:08:29.079 Everybody was inside, so that y'all. 3630 03:08:29.040 --> 03:08:32.879 Was supposed to be social distancing, not catching fucking syphilis. Listen, 3631 03:08:33.000 --> 03:08:36.000 I was sing a pandemic. That was the best bodies 3632 03:08:36.399 --> 03:08:38.840 like I was, like, you knew she was on the 3633 03:08:38.920 --> 03:08:39.600 second risk. 3634 03:08:39.760 --> 03:08:40.799 Okay home. 3635 03:08:41.200 --> 03:08:47.000 Well, recently twenty twenty two, cases of syphilis increased nineteen percent. Damn, 3636 03:08:47.079 --> 03:08:49.399 so you win twenty twenty one to twenty twenty two, 3637 03:08:49.479 --> 03:08:51.040 so they went up even more age. 3638 03:08:52.799 --> 03:08:54.559 It's the twenty year olds gotta be. 3639 03:08:56.639 --> 03:08:57.600 Yeah, I believe that. 3640 03:08:58.520 --> 03:09:02.239 Well, it was a combination including high school students that 3641 03:09:02.399 --> 03:09:04.559 contract the HIV, syphilis or both. 3642 03:09:06.200 --> 03:09:06.639 You got. 3643 03:09:09.120 --> 03:09:10.840 Just say including some high school students. 3644 03:09:12.559 --> 03:09:14.920 No, no, getting a's and syphiless. 3645 03:09:15.000 --> 03:09:16.719 Because it was because you know it's bad. 3646 03:09:16.799 --> 03:09:20.040 It hit the city in Milwaukee website and and all 3647 03:09:20.239 --> 03:09:22.159 caps Syphiliss strikes Milwaukee. 3648 03:09:23.440 --> 03:09:28.079 Damn you ma, don't put that on my man's jackets. 3649 03:09:29.920 --> 03:09:34.040 Coming, Oh my god, affecting babies, teens because. 3650 03:09:33.799 --> 03:09:38.120 You got team Mama's being born with. Who got simplists kids. 3651 03:09:39.159 --> 03:09:40.959 Y'all wrap it up, so y'all don't keep giving out 3652 03:09:41.000 --> 03:09:42.159 syphilis ship on that. 3653 03:09:42.319 --> 03:09:43.760 No, thank you for tuning into this episode. 3654 03:09:43.879 --> 03:09:45.360 Hopefully, I'm gonna make sure you check us out on 3655 03:09:45.399 --> 03:09:47.760 all strimming platform that's Freak, Spotify. 3656 03:09:47.920 --> 03:09:48.799 IHeart Radio. 3657 03:09:49.520 --> 03:09:52.479 Make sure you go looking for the episode on every 3658 03:09:52.600 --> 03:09:55.680 Tuesdays where the audio will be released at. 3659 03:09:55.600 --> 03:09:58.319 Ten am, and make sure you check out conversations with 3660 03:09:58.399 --> 03:10:01.079 Coco and if you can about see look up the 3661 03:10:01.200 --> 03:10:02.879 episode about pc O S. 3662 03:10:04.399 --> 03:10:09.479 You're coming back on Friday, Come. 3663 03:10:07.799 --> 03:10:11.719 On back to TDR. He did bully me to take 3664 03:10:11.760 --> 03:10:14.600 you back though we had a nice little groove going on, 3665 03:10:14.760 --> 03:10:19.399 and he came back. What that means said, we got 3666 03:10:19.479 --> 03:10:20.280 to hear people peace,