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Speaker 4: Are you done?
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Speaker 5: Go back like that?
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Speaker 3: You got a stock of the three Way too. Maybe
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Speaker 4: Hey, hey, hey, shout out to brit London and Sierra
Speaker 4: in the comments.
Speaker 6: Before we get started on Before before we get started,
Speaker 6: you know, we want to take a brief moment of
Speaker 6: silence to a member of the Sherman Phoenix family who
Speaker 6: passed away tragically while we were off the air.
Speaker 4: So rest in peace to Dre. What other than you
Speaker 4: know that? What has everybody's weekend been?
Speaker 6: Like me and me, Kayla and our other brit not
Speaker 6: Brit in the comments. We actually had a friend date
Speaker 6: for the much needed soup dumplings like I ain't help mine.
Speaker 4: I never felt that.
Speaker 6: I ate Look, I finished before the night was over.
Speaker 6: I ate mine before we left the restaurant. Okay, I
Speaker 6: know that's right, London said she just used free.
Speaker 2: Well that's a lot of information.
Speaker 10: Watt start selling morning after pills.
Speaker 3: That's what's up.
Speaker 4: I will and I'll be delivering them.
Speaker 3: Thank thank you in advance.
Speaker 4: No, look, that's what's gonna say.
Speaker 6: No rush, brick as as long as the delay is
Speaker 6: because of you and not me, take a time, take
Speaker 6: it time.
Speaker 3: I just want to say, bringing, bring, bringing the sex.
Speaker 4: Well you know how I wrapped it up, bringing in.
Speaker 7: That's the only way you can deliver a to friends given.
Speaker 3: Absolutely this three and one play pad.
Speaker 6: Like when when I show up to any kind of
Speaker 6: like pot look thinger like where I have to bring
Speaker 6: a dish. Yes, I'm going to bring ship in my
Speaker 6: grub hub bag. I want my ship fresh. I don't
Speaker 6: want people tasting my ship like who made this? Because
Speaker 6: you know it don't got room. Temping is nasty. I
Speaker 6: need y'all have my ship fresh and bubbly when.
Speaker 4: The cheese is hot.
Speaker 10: Man, the three and one playpad is wild and the
Speaker 10: fact that it's almost gone is even wilder.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I got a couple of things that are coming, like.
Speaker 6: The creature cocks. Like the creature cocks, those will be
Speaker 6: special order only. I will not carry those on the hand,
Speaker 6: just due to the fact that I know that those
Speaker 6: are an acquired tastes and I don't want to have
Speaker 6: a bunch of those in inventory.
Speaker 3: You gifted two folks the toys.
Speaker 4: Maybe I have to win the game to win?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, what's a creature cock? Pause?
Speaker 4: Creature cock is a deal though, No, p pull it up.
Speaker 6: It might be in it might be in a coming soon.
Speaker 6: See it isn't if it's thinner coming soon. I don't
Speaker 6: know if I added it yet.
Speaker 10: No, it's only the contraceptors in the coming son. No,
Speaker 10: but that that that fleshlight, that tongue hanging out the
Speaker 10: side of the mouth, that was wild.
Speaker 3: That was a wild That was a wild toy.
Speaker 1: No, but.
Speaker 6: Creature cocks are dial those that are shaped like No,
Speaker 6: you can have them like their shaped like tentacles. Like
Speaker 6: it might be something like it looked like an octopus. No,
Speaker 6: it might be like an alien type of thing, like
Speaker 6: there are different types of Absolutely not because I'm not
Speaker 6: touching them. But I don't give who by no No, No,
Speaker 6: well yeah, I mean like like Aliens, not the franchise Aliens.
Speaker 4: I mean like it's just like I said, it's it's
Speaker 4: shaped like different tentacles. And I know what you're saying,
Speaker 4: but i'm Aliens.
Speaker 2: Do you got some ship like that?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 2: No, I don't got nothing that I can strap on
Speaker 2: and hit all sense.
Speaker 3: Look, I mean you sell the tail antal plug yo, imagine.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've been selling those and the ones said that.
Speaker 3: I had to make the last couple of for twenty
Speaker 3: doobie butt plug that is wild.
Speaker 4: I had a whole four twenty collection.
Speaker 3: I know some people that may want that.
Speaker 6: Four twenty rabbit vibrators for twenty butt plugs. The four
Speaker 6: twenty butt plugs actually comes in the three a set
Speaker 6: of three, A few of them.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the three heart aluminum.
Speaker 7: If they would invent a toy, they probably got this
Speaker 7: to where.
Speaker 11: You can give yourself like the hand job and hit
Speaker 11: your buttole at the same time.
Speaker 3: It's out there one yeah, that's.
Speaker 4: Yeah, see.
Speaker 2: That's wild.
Speaker 3: Need me sell the lace hoodie?
Speaker 4: And there's like.
Speaker 6: There are so many different kinds, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: It's like reptile penies.
Speaker 3: And like, I'm mad that you sell the like though, imagine.
Speaker 4: This is the one I'm talking about, like the like
Speaker 4: kind of technical kind of thing.
Speaker 11: How would you feel still drop their ethicals And that's
Speaker 11: what she pulled out.
Speaker 8: You know.
Speaker 6: I actually just added a steale on Facebook. I was like, damn,
Speaker 6: kind of crispy around this motherfucking confirmed.
Speaker 4: I mean, how you got dudes?
Speaker 1: Go on Twitter?
Speaker 3: They be out there hanging out on I mean on Twitter, TikTok,
Speaker 3: they be hanging out over there and trying to suck them.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I've seen Yeah, I've definitely seen.
Speaker 3: Videos.
Speaker 9: Well.
Speaker 6: I usually don't jump like right right into the heavy
Speaker 6: topics like right away, but I realized that I am
Speaker 6: probably the only person who doesn't work until the afternoon.
Speaker 6: Everybody else has to work in the morning, and I
Speaker 6: don't want to have kalile too late, but.
Speaker 4: I've wanted Oh.
Speaker 6: You know what, damn it, Tom, I didn't even sing
Speaker 6: you these because I was trying to put them together in.
Speaker 3: A tastefully packaged No, I was trying to.
Speaker 6: Put them together in a like a side by side.
Speaker 6: But the picture is the way they are. They're too wide.
Speaker 4: So I'm about to send these to you now.
Speaker 6: And obviously you know to put the stats side the
Speaker 6: stat pick up first, and then we'll put the coming
Speaker 6: up after.
Speaker 3: The tasteful package is nasty work you sit on the
Speaker 3: other side.
Speaker 4: Well, in the meantime, we want to tell everybody what
Speaker 4: you brought in that you're just snacking on. Yes, I
Speaker 4: mean TikTok spaghetti. Well, TikTok pasta.
Speaker 9: With the alfredo and the meat sauce, TikTok post food
Speaker 9: to share. So you I have discovered that I cook
Speaker 9: too much. It's only two of us, and we throw
Speaker 9: away so much frog and so I've been more intentional
Speaker 9: about shopping.
Speaker 4: More intentional.
Speaker 3: I can give you the key to the studio so
Speaker 3: you can just leave it in the fridge.
Speaker 4: No, because it's really been ridiculous, Like even Dylan was
Speaker 4: like this is just is too much.
Speaker 3: Now, I am a boy, I do not eat that much.
Speaker 6: And it's been except because my household is a complete opposite.
Speaker 6: I literally make recipes double and triple yeah, and it
Speaker 6: doesn't last and then they can you make that again?
Speaker 6: So then I end up making ship back to back
Speaker 6: because I have to remake it again because they ate
Speaker 6: it off even though I fucking doubled and tripled the recipe.
Speaker 4: So you know, it just be too much. Yeah, I
Speaker 4: pay cash. I wish I had that problem. I pay cash,
Speaker 4: and Dylan.
Speaker 9: Don't really like left like this here he's gonna eat,
Speaker 9: He's gonna eat this, but he don't really eat left over.
Speaker 9: So it's like I'll cook one day and then the
Speaker 9: next thing a comment, He'll be like, oh I don't
Speaker 9: want it, and then it's like it's just me eating
Speaker 9: it and I'm not really eating a whole bunch.
Speaker 4: So it's just it's been so much.
Speaker 2: I had.
Speaker 11: Choices many yr Mom, this designer from yesterday, we're not
Speaker 11: fucking with it today.
Speaker 2: Eat some piece of quiet.
Speaker 4: You choose not to eat. He'd be on his own
Speaker 4: cooking extra what.
Speaker 2: You already.
Speaker 4: I'm not one of the moms that make a million.
Speaker 4: I'm not. I'm cooking maybe about three four days a week.
Speaker 3: That's it.
Speaker 9: And I'm a hot breakfast mom now too, so I'm
Speaker 9: definitely not. Yes, Sundays, Tuesdays, actually no, three days, Sundays,
Speaker 9: Tuesdays and Thursdays.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then we go.
Speaker 4: That was Sydney start the weekend. That was Sydney Star.
Speaker 6: That was a lot you was a little exciting now
Speaker 6: that that that'll come back up because that's part of
Speaker 6: Yeah you can.
Speaker 4: It's a pasta with the Alfredo sauce and the red
Speaker 4: sauce ready see, And I ain't gonna end up making
Speaker 4: that because I don't like and then you put the
Speaker 4: red meat sauce on top.
Speaker 6: And then that sounds like you gotta use your Outfreda
Speaker 6: out like definitely made from trash and it only tastes
Speaker 6: it's still the same. Yes, I don't use your Afraid.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I hate it.
Speaker 12: I mean.
Speaker 4: To me, it don't take long to make afraid.
Speaker 2: It literally didn't it.
Speaker 4: Don't it? Just Joe Alfreda. It always has an aftertasting
Speaker 4: me no matter.
Speaker 3: What the brand.
Speaker 4: I like you and I added some boys and cheese.
Speaker 6: Why are you coming to friendsgiving? He said, he put
Speaker 6: it on the calendar so that they don't forget because
Speaker 6: you know, he missed it last time.
Speaker 3: That was his point.
Speaker 4: We'll see.
Speaker 6: We were there, absolutely, and I had a goddamn ball time. Hey, hey,
Speaker 6: you need to let me know if giggle juices go
Speaker 6: be in the bill.
Speaker 3: He put it in the group requesting her to bring it.
Speaker 4: I didn't see it. So this is the reason why
Speaker 4: I really really really wanted Kayla on the show today.
Speaker 4: This this specific topic. So I want to run through
Speaker 4: this one.
Speaker 3: First.
Speaker 6: We know that social media gives people, you know, a
Speaker 6: platform to voice the most idiotic opinions on shit, and
Speaker 6: it's it's very unfortunate because the fact that you were
Speaker 6: posting on the internet means that you have access to
Speaker 6: the Internet. So if you have access to the internet,
Speaker 6: you have access to the knowledge that is available on
Speaker 6: the fucking internet. But instead of accessing this knowledge that
Speaker 6: is readily available, you just go and be like, you
Speaker 6: know what, I'm a post.
Speaker 4: And be an idiot.
Speaker 3: I remember, So the person who reposted that a woman?
Speaker 3: That is a man behind that page.
Speaker 6: No, No, the person who I screenshot at her caption,
Speaker 6: that's actually my Facebook friend. She does heir so that's
Speaker 6: that's an actual woman. So we're gonna get to that
Speaker 6: in a minute. But the original post, you know, because
Speaker 6: again not everybody is watching live, it says heavy periods
Speaker 6: means dirty and low pH balance. And the quote the
Speaker 6: person who shared it in quota, they said, yeah, shout
Speaker 6: out God, because mine's be two to three days max
Speaker 6: and rarely heavy with the little smiley heart face.
Speaker 4: Now let's go on to the comments. Okay, so no,
Speaker 4: but it might as well be in because the chicks
Speaker 4: is just as ignorant. No, it's not as worse. It's
Speaker 4: worse perfectly.
Speaker 2: Let you be stupid among yourselves. I don't want no
Speaker 2: niggas to hear this topic.
Speaker 6: But when you see women doing this, this is why
Speaker 6: men think it's okay there because they see ship and
Speaker 6: be like, oh, well that's the bitch, so she should
Speaker 6: know what it is. And then they go off of
Speaker 6: that because they think, all, well, if a woman saying it, no,
Speaker 6: they just as they just dump.
Speaker 2: You gotta cite your sources.
Speaker 4: No, So so okay, so scroll scroll a little bit.
Speaker 6: So it said, so someone commented and they said it's wait, no,
Speaker 6: you gotta scroll up. So somebody comment and said this
Speaker 6: is so inaccurate in laugh and the person who quoted
Speaker 6: and said it's not though, google it, so now you
Speaker 6: can scroll so we can read that full comment.
Speaker 4: Thank you. So that person then said, your period is
Speaker 4: caused because your uterus lining is shedding.
Speaker 6: If you have a thicker uterus lining, it's gonna take
Speaker 6: a minute to break down. Some women have PCOS. There's
Speaker 6: times when I was eating pure nasty food in that
Speaker 6: my unhealthiest and only blood for two days. I've been
Speaker 6: at my healthiest and of blood for seven to scroll down.
Speaker 6: So she says, yeah, I know what it is or
Speaker 6: what it's for.
Speaker 4: I'm a woman. I go through it every month like
Speaker 4: what most women do, so you should know better.
Speaker 6: It's the fact that a period after use infection or
Speaker 6: STD or BB or anything that can change your pH
Speaker 6: like your diet or hydration can cause a more painful
Speaker 6: and heavier period. And sometimes I bleed longer rarely though
Speaker 6: since I've given birth. Since giving birth, PCOS is a
Speaker 6: medical disorder that can cause multiple problems with your period,
Speaker 6: but that has nothing to do with what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: Women with PCOS don't maintain regular vaginal health to begin with.
Speaker 4: Miss Kayla Taylor, would you like to give us a
Speaker 4: quick little rundown on PCOS.
Speaker 3: Police a whole episode about it?
Speaker 4: He did, And that's why I wanted hurt.
Speaker 6: That's why I needed HERS.
Speaker 9: Stands for colycystic over ovary syndrome. So it's basically when
Speaker 9: your ovary has cysts on them, right, one or multiple,
Speaker 9: So you can go through several different things, not just
Speaker 9: it's more than just your cycle. It can be insulin resistance,
Speaker 9: it can could be case in point to stick acme
Speaker 9: a bunch of different things. Hair grow oh yes, hair
Speaker 9: growth yees. So I never know how to say it,
Speaker 9: but perutism. So you'll see a lot of women with
Speaker 9: PCO west like they actually have like mustache like beards.
Speaker 9: They have like issues, right, and so it's a pain
Speaker 9: to live with.
Speaker 4: So does it mean that you don't take care of
Speaker 4: your vaginal health? That definitely does not mean that.
Speaker 9: Now for me personally, what I will say is the
Speaker 9: opposite of what she said at my Unhealthiest eating horrible food.
Speaker 9: My cycle is like three days, no issue. I didn't
Speaker 9: drop thirty pounds eating healthier than I ever have.
Speaker 4: Don't mind. It's just.
Speaker 9: So many mans and different things that I have to
Speaker 9: take for the pco as to assist, and she'll tell
Speaker 9: you I I will bleed seven days heavy as hell,
Speaker 9: like beyond beyond like full disclosure for the for the
Speaker 9: month of September. Because I am as healthy as I
Speaker 9: am now. My body fought against me and because I
Speaker 9: was exercising, because I was stressed out because I've lost
Speaker 9: so much weight and stopped my cycle for the first
Speaker 9: time ever. So I went two weeks without a cycle,
Speaker 9: and then all of a sudden it showed up. She'll
Speaker 9: tell you the whole time we were in Vegas, full
Speaker 9: blown heavy ass cycle.
Speaker 4: Every time between your butchers. What I was just the
Speaker 4: fact the fact that it was literally every time I
Speaker 4: turned her around, listen closure. I didn't even big Mamas.
Speaker 4: I shit got the game from my belly button.
Speaker 3: She was just having to be looking at the wrong
Speaker 3: time every time.
Speaker 6: I don't even go through that. I just I'm I'm
Speaker 6: in love with the period Pamper joints now in Vegas.
Speaker 6: I can't be like a couple of months ago, like
Speaker 6: you look back like me and the girls, like if
Speaker 6: you would always know because you just see like a
Speaker 6: black camper walking past in the hallway but.
Speaker 4: No, like it's extremely stressful.
Speaker 9: And this is again being at my healthiest because again
Speaker 9: taking care of like your vaginal health, when you have
Speaker 9: PCOS or even a woman in general, your body is
Speaker 9: going to do what it's going to do, and a lot.
Speaker 4: Of times you don't have control over that ship. You
Speaker 4: don't have control over it. So imagine me being somebody
Speaker 4: with PCOS.
Speaker 9: And for the majority of the month of September when
Speaker 9: my cycle did come, I was pretty much bleeding heavily
Speaker 9: every single day for more than seven days. So I
Speaker 9: think it was that's just in since like that, don't
Speaker 9: I feel like, if anything, when you have PCOS, you
Speaker 9: are more tuned in with your vaginal health because it's
Speaker 9: so much going on with your reproductive system, so you're
Speaker 9: more tuned in to it.
Speaker 4: Like that's right, Casey said, shout out to the period
Speaker 4: pampers and period they were to see and and and
Speaker 4: that's another thing.
Speaker 6: And it's like, we have so many women who are
Speaker 6: willing to be idiotic because right baby was living with
Speaker 6: me when I was bleeding, we used to put a
Speaker 6: towel down, so so don't act brand new, nigga.
Speaker 4: We used to put a towel down.
Speaker 6: I mean stop, trust me to put some ketch up
Speaker 6: on that hot dog nigga.
Speaker 4: I'm just saying, don't don't get on here acting brand new, like.
Speaker 6: Talking about yeah, but it wasn't you when you was you,
Speaker 6: when you were staring in the spaghetti pot.
Speaker 3: Men needs you, you out here having.
Speaker 4: Nowhere near me. That wasn't different. That is not different.
Speaker 4: It's literally the same. But no, that was very number one.
Speaker 4: Is that was insensitive and.
Speaker 9: Like that because she's my old two three days too,
Speaker 9: three days the way karma gonna come around.
Speaker 4: Why But and that's the thing.
Speaker 6: You know that my peers are very short and I'm
Speaker 6: a very light bleeder. Even I'm saying that, that's fucking stupid.
Speaker 6: I've never I've never played.
Speaker 4: Like that like that's just that's not how my body worked,
Speaker 4: like everybody's body is. Really it's different. Yestern spaghetta heavy cycle.
Speaker 9: It's like bad enough for somebody to be like, you're dirty,
Speaker 9: your pH balance his low.
Speaker 4: That's why he still love me. I put that blood
Speaker 4: magic on him.
Speaker 9: Take care of yourself. You don't, girl, please, we don't
Speaker 9: have those issues over here.
Speaker 4: Is just fine.
Speaker 8: No, but.
Speaker 6: No, but it's just funny to me because you have
Speaker 6: so many women who are so thirsty to sound better
Speaker 6: than other women because at the risk of being just
Speaker 6: being so fucking ignorant. And it's like I expect like
Speaker 6: why I said, man, I hope we ain't in the comments,
Speaker 6: but it's like, I expect men to be ignorant about
Speaker 6: stuff like that because it's not your reproductive organs, you
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, Like I don't. I don't see
Speaker 6: y'all just sitting here after ninth grade health class.
Speaker 4: I'm like, you know what, let me read up on
Speaker 4: the pussy a little bit, see what's going on it,
Speaker 4: you know what, Like I just I don't expect y'all
Speaker 4: to do that. Yeah, I don't think that would be helpful.
Speaker 9: If man like I get the like stay out of
Speaker 9: women's business, won't need to be a part of conversation.
Speaker 4: But they do. They have daughters and ship y'all still
Speaker 4: need to know. Yes, you got two of them, bro.
Speaker 3: So I paid. I studied. Yeah, I talked to y'all.
Speaker 9: From about certain things like, hey, this is a period,
Speaker 9: this is this time of month, if I'm doing this,
Speaker 9: or if I need that.
Speaker 4: Well you you in deals anyway, because he had come
Speaker 4: put it right in your face.
Speaker 3: Hey, mom, that's nasty work though the joys of being
Speaker 3: a mom.
Speaker 9: But I also think that is irresponsible because a lot
Speaker 9: of people don't realize, even the person that posted that,
Speaker 9: there's a lot of women that.
Speaker 4: Have PCOS and it is undiagnosed.
Speaker 9: We're just now getting to a point where we're starting
Speaker 9: to hear more women be diagnosed and open up and
Speaker 9: talk about it, talking about but her going on there
Speaker 9: and saying that.
Speaker 4: I also feel like it's irresponsible, Like.
Speaker 6: You just google it to the person, right, and then
Speaker 6: like I share stuff from my opinion, and I'm here
Speaker 6: to argue, which, okay, right, because you're saying stuff that's incorrect.
Speaker 4: Don't her?
Speaker 9: And the person she because she shared that post, so her,
Speaker 9: the person that originally wrote it.
Speaker 4: I was talking about the one who shared it because
Speaker 4: that because that was my Facebook frame. What yeah, and.
Speaker 11: So so it's the original post that person stupid, right,
Speaker 11: and then the person who shared it is also an
Speaker 11: ice clown too, right, yes? And then the people that
Speaker 11: were in the comments are also a bunch of jackasses.
Speaker 6: Everybody, No, not everybody actually seemed like I think I
Speaker 6: don't even think I saw I may have seen one
Speaker 6: person agree, but everybody else was like no, that's some bullshit, Like.
Speaker 9: Yeah, and then you're making this assumption and people don't
Speaker 9: take care of their vaginal health, like so you.
Speaker 4: Be in and out, like how do you another thing?
Speaker 4: But this is another thing?
Speaker 6: And it's like we I've talked about this on the
Speaker 6: show multiple times, like how females will talk shit about
Speaker 6: like things like BV.
Speaker 4: BV is not sexually transmitted disease.
Speaker 6: Now is there something where if your spouse is messing
Speaker 6: with multiple people and coming and mixing up ship, then
Speaker 6: yes it can contribute to it.
Speaker 4: But you don't even have to be having sex in
Speaker 4: order to get BV.
Speaker 6: As a woman, I wasn't even sexually active at the time,
Speaker 6: Like if you, if you so much is I wake
Speaker 6: up in the morning and I fucking turn the wrong
Speaker 6: way my body might be like you know what, I
Speaker 6: don't like that today.
Speaker 4: What let's go hit us a metro DOWNASA like.
Speaker 6: It should happen anything, especially because I'm so sensitive. And
Speaker 6: that's what's funny because a lot of times when it
Speaker 6: comes to BV, other women who like to make them sounds,
Speaker 6: themselves sound better, would make it seem like, oh, well,
Speaker 6: if you're getting BV, that means that you're dirty and
Speaker 6: you blah blah blah blah blah, when actually most of
Speaker 6: the women who are getting BB are getting it because
Speaker 6: they're cleaning themselves too much.
Speaker 4: The products.
Speaker 6: Yeah, the products that they're using to clean themselves, whether
Speaker 6: they're dousing, they're using the wrong kind of soap or
Speaker 6: any of that kind of stuff that will throw them
Speaker 6: off and all of a sudden, you have BB.
Speaker 9: You can't just go to the store and just be.
Speaker 9: You can't wash Big Mama with anything. You got to
Speaker 9: make sure everybody, everybody's body is different. What's up, bro experience.
Speaker 9: Now that's a filthy nigga.
Speaker 4: We know he didn't ran some red lights.
Speaker 3: That was such an unnecessary dagger. He came in all
Speaker 3: nice and calm and professional.
Speaker 4: Some smart evangelists. It was never the dagger was honest.
Speaker 2: You don't want everybody know that what he's doing this.
Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure he said it that he admits to
Speaker 4: his filthiness.
Speaker 7: Yeah, we was having a conversation in the group that
Speaker 7: I don't never want to have.
Speaker 9: But yeah, that I mean, you're in title to your opinion,
Speaker 9: but I don't know. I just feel like when women
Speaker 9: do stuff like that and it's like women focused, like
Speaker 9: why girl were supposed to be it.
Speaker 6: Bothers me because like, as a woman to be out
Speaker 6: here spreading miss information like that, why don't you know
Speaker 6: about our bodies better? You got the same ship we
Speaker 6: got and you don't even know how it worked. This
Speaker 6: is this is why we got dead beats like Brian
Speaker 6: McKnight who thought that they could make a song to say,
Speaker 6: let me show you how your pussy work.
Speaker 4: Because it's enough bitches that clearly don't know how they.
Speaker 3: Came to him that didn't know her pussy work.
Speaker 6: We were supposed to play that video from him last week,
Speaker 6: So now that you asked me that you still got that,
Speaker 6: I mean, okay, no, no, it's it's more than him.
Speaker 4: Being a deabbie trying.
Speaker 2: To be right.
Speaker 3: Mistake, my bad.
Speaker 4: I fucked up.
Speaker 11: Y'all good though, I guess I don't really know. I
Speaker 11: don't even care no more. Y'all are grown.
Speaker 4: Ass, bro. You don't get.
Speaker 6: Get you don't get there's no eraser where you can
Speaker 6: just do like this your kids and redraw new ones.
Speaker 2: But I'm just explaining what he's doing. To these people.
Speaker 6: He just whatever, however you feeling, and that's not They
Speaker 6: had no idea about Brian. I had to bring him
Speaker 6: up to speed about Brian.
Speaker 4: He didn't know none of that.
Speaker 6: He was he was and this was before the whole
Speaker 6: podcast thing. So I had to him like, no, this
Speaker 6: nigga went. I had a new baby and was like, no,
Speaker 6: I don't want the old Brian Jr. So I'm finna
Speaker 6: go change my name so I can make a new break.
Speaker 6: He was like, you're fucking lying. So I had to
Speaker 6: bring him up to speed. He was like, I had
Speaker 6: no idea that he was a nigga like this.
Speaker 7: Do I ever crushed your mind?
Speaker 4: He said, oh my god. He had a video brit.
Speaker 12: He definitely.
Speaker 2: I am.
Speaker 4: Oh my god. He said, the door lock broke, we
Speaker 4: can't open it. We trapped in here. He said, start
Speaker 4: back at one, and he really did.
Speaker 11: I don't know why you asked the fact that not
Speaker 11: getting up you know, I'm not like you. Here's the
Speaker 11: crazy part. Like anybody who sat in this room with me,
Speaker 11: No that to a point when I sit down, not
Speaker 11: getting up.
Speaker 1: Hey.
Speaker 4: Tones sent Kayla to let us get up either. But
Speaker 4: he was the one. He was over there working trying
Speaker 4: to get stuff set up. No, see, because I knew
Speaker 4: about it on Twitter. Oh wait, you you really have
Speaker 4: to do I'm not getting I don't open the door
Speaker 4: for strangers.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, stranger dangers is not the way.
Speaker 9: And we also ain't nobody gonna walk all the way
Speaker 9: upstairs open them. No, you better send somebody a picture
Speaker 9: proof for life?
Speaker 4: You here yet?
Speaker 2: Baby?
Speaker 9: If I walk up them stairs and they ain't a
Speaker 9: nigga at the door, you hadn't take a picture.
Speaker 4: Sit into one of them because I have the mother
Speaker 4: be like open the door and they will be at
Speaker 4: the door yet there.
Speaker 1: I hate that.
Speaker 4: Okay, send somebody a picture. Then I think about it.
Speaker 9: Yes, it's freezing sore because I ain't walking up those steps.
Speaker 4: I not even have to do that ship once. Yeah,
Speaker 4: sorry about that. It wasn't my funt. I didn't know that.
Speaker 9: If I wasn't here yet, he was really working like
Speaker 9: he was getting all your stuff up, so I didn't mind.
Speaker 4: You got it, bro, You send a pictures anybody get
Speaker 4: no takes all right?
Speaker 3: I got from from Britain from at the door a.
Speaker 9: Picture that you at the door and somebody will come
Speaker 9: and open it. I'm not walking up stair. If I
Speaker 9: walk up the stairs and it ain't a nigga at
Speaker 9: the door business, I'm dumbed at us.
Speaker 4: Like bro, I dine went up there once, rotating steps.
Speaker 9: Send it to your people, Send it to somebody. Hurry
Speaker 9: up because it's cold outside.
Speaker 3: I know you cold.
Speaker 4: Don't have me waiting. I mean, you know she's paying
Speaker 4: it forward because she had to wait. It's crazy because
Speaker 4: all right, you're getting ripped. He was gonna do that anyway.
Speaker 2: You're gonna easily just FaceTime somebody.
Speaker 4: I know, FaceTime somebody was outside. But you know he
Speaker 4: didn't not gonna have me looking crazy.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna tell people how to be smart. He
Speaker 2: just wants to sit in the comments and keep talking.
Speaker 4: Already.
Speaker 2: And the mother told he must not be that cold.
Speaker 2: And I told you the stipulation of how you could
Speaker 2: get in, and he's.
Speaker 4: Just in the message and crazy person, I'm gonna go
Speaker 4: upstairs ahead. Oh yeah, he had to.
Speaker 2: Do motherfucker's crazy people in real time.
Speaker 6: Hey no, because I hate that mother, Like, come open
Speaker 6: the door, and then I got to sit at the
Speaker 6: fucking door and wait for you to go to the car.
Speaker 4: She already on her way up. I told her you
Speaker 4: sent it.
Speaker 6: Then I'm sitting here and there and gotta hurry up
Speaker 6: and run down the stairs and hope I don't trip
Speaker 6: over my motherfucking feet and shit trying to get back
Speaker 6: to the show.
Speaker 3: Nah.
Speaker 6: But Brian McKnight is really, really fucking terrible. So for
Speaker 6: you to sit here and know that you were a
Speaker 6: dead beat, right, and then you were like, all right,
Speaker 6: so now I have new children.
Speaker 4: I am about to go and do a segment. You know,
Speaker 4: I didn't even check and see because Friday just passed.
Speaker 4: If he kept it going, wait.
Speaker 7: Where do he got a second?
Speaker 4: I don't know if it was on TikTok or not.
Speaker 4: To him, you still ain't got it, nah, Like what
Speaker 4: do he be oh bricks in? Well, I don't know
Speaker 4: if she's saying. I don't know what she's saying. No,
Speaker 4: that must have been how you Pussy work video?
Speaker 3: It might be that, well from her, it might be
Speaker 3: that he had.
Speaker 1: But what is he talking?
Speaker 4: Fatherhood Friday?
Speaker 3: Well, the initial.
Speaker 4: The initial fatherhood Friday was he was talking about to
Speaker 4: Ricky smiling a badass. That's why I didn't get up,
Speaker 4: letty man, No, but I could have no but he
Speaker 4: went in talk.
Speaker 6: He was saying something about Ricky Smiley because I guess
Speaker 6: Ricky Smiley had common in on them.
Speaker 4: He was like, we know, Ricky, you know, since you're
Speaker 4: since you're not man enough, you outside. He didn't even
Speaker 4: thank you.
Speaker 2: It's way cheer.
Speaker 4: Don't want to come over here. Okay, okay, sir, that's
Speaker 4: the boogie man.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: But to be a dead bie and you really going
Speaker 4: this mother talking about fatherhood Fridays. That's because he losing money.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, because he had that concert coming up.
Speaker 9: And it was like because people was in the comments
Speaker 9: like held on and it's like, yeah, you're not making
Speaker 9: no money no more.
Speaker 4: Those are the ones you was talking about on Facebook.
Speaker 4: I thought they were separate, all right.
Speaker 6: So moving on to the next segment, right, yeah, no,
Speaker 6: you know, remember back in the day when he used
Speaker 6: to come and he used to have like fruit and ship.
Speaker 4: He used to be useful, Remember them days. I remember,
Speaker 4: I know you smell like it.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 11: I thought we fired him like a long com ago. Okay,
Speaker 11: So what's the special occasion what brings him here? Oh okay,
Speaker 11: I don't know, as you were saying.
Speaker 6: Him friends, mm hmmm, what is one of the craziest
Speaker 6: things you have dealt with or done after breaking up
Speaker 6: with somebody.
Speaker 4: After you want to go first, wait after breaking up?
Speaker 6: Yeah, you're after breaking up either or like the craziest
Speaker 6: thing you've had done to you or the craziest thing
Speaker 6: you've done as far as.
Speaker 7: Like with a breakdown, I've got Facebook stock in.
Speaker 4: Public, Facebook stocked in public.
Speaker 7: Absolutely.
Speaker 1: Oh.
Speaker 2: Then then she was uh.
Speaker 11: Then she hit me like she was quoting like Panos
Speaker 11: bars in my inbox, talking about I was going to
Speaker 11: route today.
Speaker 7: Let my friends pick on her rooted decade.
Speaker 2: Somebody that.
Speaker 4: It's like you can see the fish shake with it, bro.
Speaker 8: Like the craziest thing flying up.
Speaker 2: Let's see.
Speaker 4: I think he was cheating.
Speaker 3: What did I do?
Speaker 9: I knew where the girl lived at because of a
Speaker 9: parking ticket, and I kept the address in mind because
Speaker 9: I said, what address is this? And I remember the address.
Speaker 9: It was six am in the morning. I called my sisters,
Speaker 9: I got all I gathered all his stuff. I took
Speaker 9: some of it to his mama house. I remember ringing
Speaker 9: the doorbell. She opened the door, and I kind of
Speaker 9: just threw it in there. Then my sisters made me
Speaker 9: in the alley and parked and I took like all
Speaker 9: the valuables, all the CDs, the clothes, the shoes, all
Speaker 9: of the expensive stuff with like bleach and like a
Speaker 9: sledgehammer outside the girl house and went to town. And
Speaker 9: my sisters just stood back and made sure anybody touch me.
Speaker 2: Don't nobody loved me.
Speaker 4: Like it was.
Speaker 2: In the morning.
Speaker 4: It was so everything had bleeds.
Speaker 1: Up.
Speaker 4: Yeah, all the music. Look my sisters back and said,
Speaker 4: don't nobody, but don't nobody to cloud Drug must have
Speaker 4: said something and he ran out. Yeah, I ain't cry nothing.
Speaker 4: That's how you know, not tone. You've been around for
Speaker 4: a lot of decades. What's your story.
Speaker 3: I've only been around four Okay, yeah, I had paid.
Speaker 4: That's not really crazy, because that's when the babies comes,
Speaker 4: when you're done, when you're done, and and it's when
Speaker 4: you're serious about being. It's it's when you when you
Speaker 4: not when you're just talking ship, but like when you
Speaker 4: be like, bro, I'm over this ship, and you be
Speaker 4: and then you be like, damn, I'm pregnant.
Speaker 7: M hmm.
Speaker 2: I'm just reaching out to let you.
Speaker 3: Know my period late. That's on you. You stressing and
Speaker 3: I can't I have anything.
Speaker 10: The craziest thing I had is I had a chick
Speaker 10: try to get me demoted, try to get me demoted.
Speaker 3: Job or like in the service, like actually in the service.
Speaker 3: They tried to lie and said I went a wall.
Speaker 3: Butter did that. I remember that she tried to say
Speaker 3: I went a wall. They was like, uh, everyone, Lucky,
Speaker 3: where are you at.
Speaker 10: It's like, I'm down by the creek. It's like the
Speaker 10: rumor is that you are on your way back to Wisconsin.
Speaker 10: I was like why, Like yeah, Sergeant Milton and said
Speaker 10: that you were on your No, no, no, no, Marshall.
Speaker 4: You know you start messing with his money. That's where
Speaker 4: it hit right there.
Speaker 3: Oh that's nasty work right there.
Speaker 4: Everything you got.
Speaker 6: You gotta share the story, man, you gotta tell us.
Speaker 6: Mike said, who, I only did one crazy thing.
Speaker 4: That's when I.
Speaker 9: Knew I had to start guarding my heart. That the
Speaker 9: nigga ever had me out here that bad?
Speaker 4: My heart not bringing that up. It's bringing back to
Speaker 4: things that I buried with my eggs.
Speaker 9: It was crazy as Yeah, it was a lot of
Speaker 9: I remember one time he called himself selling it.
Speaker 3: Broke.
Speaker 4: No, I ain't telling him this is actually dangerous. No,
Speaker 4: I ain't.
Speaker 9: Found out where the car was and pulled up. He
Speaker 9: always had the doors on like call of that, and
Speaker 9: got went basically cleaned everything out the car.
Speaker 3: When I say everything, I mean you would and stole
Speaker 3: the stash.
Speaker 4: I had helped to. I was like me, me on,
Speaker 4: me on, and this ten minutes clean.
Speaker 2: See how they just take you too far? But but
Speaker 2: all I did what happened, but you took it somewhere else.
Speaker 4: Love should have brought you home. You want to got
Speaker 4: ribes and.
Speaker 3: Around. That would have been much, but you took it there.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: But when you when your mind, you don't be thinking
Speaker 4: about that. It's just should get tricky. Well it means
Speaker 4: why I'll be trying to say leave me alone? Then't
Speaker 4: even all that? That's the thing I like. It wasn't
Speaker 4: crashing out over to me.
Speaker 6: Well it was two jelly bean dad. Then they can
Speaker 6: play football, but damn all three of them did. But
Speaker 6: he was he was kind of quick. Yeah, so okay,
Speaker 6: like three minutes.
Speaker 1: So thank you.
Speaker 9: When a woman set up it ain't nothing, you know, No,
Speaker 9: it's like running out of love.
Speaker 4: So and when I have to talk about.
Speaker 6: It, when I hit him and we we when when
Speaker 6: I hit him I had. That's when I had to explore.
Speaker 9: Wait, so you hit him and he did one of
Speaker 9: those things where he like rolled back on the hood
Speaker 9: into the roof.
Speaker 6: Get one of those like to leave the weapons ship right. No,
Speaker 6: so what happened was, okay, you hit him, so well,
Speaker 6: what happened was he tried to jump like Super Mario Brothers.
Speaker 6: He thought that he was going to try.
Speaker 4: He thought he was gonna clear of the car. Explorer. Yeah,
Speaker 4: but you know they go smaller but like true shrink.
Speaker 4: But no, so okay, so this so this is the Explorer.
Speaker 6: Right, and he tries to jump, but it ends up
Speaker 6: and he rolls. So he's rolling. I can hear over
Speaker 6: the car and he's rolling at the I can hear
Speaker 6: as he's at the top and I'm adjusting my mirror
Speaker 6: as he's falling off the back of the truck.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, how fast. No, we were in my alley.
Speaker 2: I saw the Kobe Bryant video too.
Speaker 11: I don't think he jumped over a car, but that
Speaker 11: don't mean gonna try that sh it in real life.
Speaker 4: What's he hurt?
Speaker 6: They arrested me and I had the bruises and shit,
Speaker 6: he started it trying to clear. No, So well, I
Speaker 6: don't know if he was just trying to like lessen
Speaker 6: the impact, like I think like how I think he
Speaker 6: he was going to like jump on the hood, so
Speaker 6: like the front end missed him so that the impact
Speaker 6: wouldn't really hit him because he was like land on
Speaker 6: the hood. But what happened was he ended up hitting
Speaker 6: because I was still going forward that momentum threw the top.
Speaker 4: That gotta be movie.
Speaker 3: We have that.
Speaker 4: And then we had one of my exes. I hit him.
Speaker 4: We was off of Villard somewhere. He was on some
Speaker 4: buge and I hit him. I didn't give a fuck
Speaker 4: if he got up or not, because he didn't.
Speaker 6: Same Explorer, Oh, that explored that mother until I flipped
Speaker 6: it over an expressway. That motherfucker didn't have a din
Speaker 6: in it. That's why I flipped over that time. Was
Speaker 6: your accomplice? Yet, Man, if I ever have to have
Speaker 6: like another track vehicle, it would be a ninety six
Speaker 6: Explorer because when they say built for it tough, they
Speaker 6: fucking mean it because they hit a nigga and keep
Speaker 6: on ticking.
Speaker 4: I didn't even dent the emblem in the front.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that motherfucker was especially if you consider like if
Speaker 6: I was to post a picture like after I because
Speaker 6: I flipped over three times on the expressway, That motherfucker
Speaker 6: should have been a PEPSI can. That's like it was
Speaker 6: slightly dinner at the top, but I didn't have tales
Speaker 6: from the explorer. Look, but Jellybean dad he he ducked
Speaker 6: like well, he jumped off on the curb and between
Speaker 6: some garbage cans.
Speaker 4: So I missed him. But the other too. Oh they
Speaker 4: had that ship coming. Actually everybody did that.
Speaker 2: I hear.
Speaker 4: I don't just I don't just get made.
Speaker 3: You have to do some ship.
Speaker 6: You gotta really do some ship. And that's what people missed,
Speaker 6: Like what did you do for us to get here?
Speaker 6: Something happened?
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's.
Speaker 2: How did we get there.
Speaker 6: The fact that I had I had literal fingerprints, Like
Speaker 6: this motherfucker choked me so hard. I had his handprints
Speaker 6: and my fucking neck, my knee was my knee looked
Speaker 6: like my shit could have been windy.
Speaker 4: I'm not I'm just saying based on my frame. You
Speaker 4: give what I'm saying, But I'm saying at that time,
Speaker 4: I was probably like a I think I was like
Speaker 4: a buck fifteen buck, twenty tops no, I needed them
Speaker 4: to know how big my ship was.
Speaker 6: Like I thought my ship was broken. And as soon
Speaker 6: as my X rays cleared, they arrested me. They wheeled
Speaker 6: me out, throw me in the fucking batty wagon, bro.
Speaker 6: And then it told me, and I'm like, all right,
Speaker 6: ain't but you know what, I took my l because
Speaker 6: I knew that I you know, I knew we had
Speaker 6: the altercation this shit. But I'm like, all right, what
Speaker 6: is he being charged with? Because they told me I
Speaker 6: was being charge of recklessly and dangerous safety super vehicle.
Speaker 4: Nothing.
Speaker 6: Gave this nigga a pink victim pamphlet and told him
Speaker 6: how to get a restrained in order and press charges
Speaker 6: on me. Like he wasn't at my house and attacked me.
Speaker 6: I said, who fucking addresses on his ID? This nigga
Speaker 6: lived Damnar on the east Side. I live up here
Speaker 6: on seventy Rember, the Hampton.
Speaker 4: He came here.
Speaker 6: They wasn't on that bullshit until they ran my name
Speaker 6: and saw that I was on paper. Prior to that,
Speaker 6: it was are you okay? They saw the bruises, they
Speaker 6: saw my need of you need medical attention. But as
Speaker 6: soon as they ran my name and dog came.
Speaker 7: Back a fella for I was going excuse me away
Speaker 7: from him on one of.
Speaker 4: The craziest things that I've had actually, like this one motherfucker.
Speaker 6: There's a full list. Joel did thing of Dempsey please
Speaker 6: rotten pissed. That's why he looked the way he looked
Speaker 6: down because d no d Daniel Daniel. Yeah, his dad
Speaker 6: name was nothing. His middle name is did think, Yeah,
Speaker 6: just d E T H A N y A I
Speaker 6: L or some shit.
Speaker 4: But yeah, but anyway, No, but.
Speaker 6: This person, when I tell you that, they have done
Speaker 6: everything from trying to get me fired from multiple jobs.
Speaker 6: Like when I first got home, my very first job
Speaker 6: was that was.
Speaker 4: Actually where I met Jellybean's dad at It.
Speaker 6: Was my very first job when I got out, and
Speaker 6: they wanted to hire me permanently because at that point,
Speaker 6: like I was trying to build up more of my
Speaker 6: experiences shit going through tim agencies, but they fucking loved
Speaker 6: me out there. They wanted us to hire me permanently.
Speaker 6: This motherfucker calls in to my job and ask them
Speaker 6: how they would consider hiring somebody like me who's a
Speaker 6: feeling when they're good people like him still looking for
Speaker 6: work and they called me in the office to ask
Speaker 6: me about Now. I said, I don't know what that
Speaker 6: person's because you gotta look at They didn't do background
Speaker 6: just because everything went through the temp agency. The temp
Speaker 6: agency didn't find none of that shit because what the
Speaker 6: most temp agencies look for, they look on seacat. My
Speaker 6: shit was federal. So I was still skating on a
Speaker 6: lot of things because people weren't thinking. They butn't checking
Speaker 6: the federal fucking database to working and work in the warehouse.
Speaker 6: But they was like, yeah, we had a call and this,
Speaker 6: you know he was. I was like, I said, I
Speaker 6: don't know what this person is talking about. I was like,
Speaker 6: I had an ex boyfriend and we broke up, and
Speaker 6: you know, they was like, oh, say no more, we
Speaker 6: get it and they let it go.
Speaker 4: So I know the fuck you ain't talking nigga. Have
Speaker 4: you ever hit him with a car?
Speaker 6: I do have a picture with Ken on the front
Speaker 6: of the hood while I was driving, but I didn't
Speaker 6: hit him. He put itself there. He was holding on
Speaker 6: like this too.
Speaker 4: It was so funny. I'm gonna go share it on Facebook.
Speaker 4: It's still there.
Speaker 6: Sent my memory somewhere. Well, yeah, because you know that
Speaker 6: one finger is yeah, but no, you did put yourself there.
Speaker 6: His hat was to the back of ship. No, but
Speaker 6: that nigga was really fucking mental when he found out
Speaker 6: that I was pregnant with jelly Bean. Do you know
Speaker 6: how retarded you have to be to come show your
Speaker 6: ass and m a TC when the police station is
Speaker 6: literally right across the street. So so his sister, well,
Speaker 6: he thought that he was basically like untouched. His mom
Speaker 6: was white. So while he was in the middle of
Speaker 6: violating this restrained order a million times, yes, violating this restrained.
Speaker 4: A million times, he's leaving.
Speaker 6: It got to a point where my mom disabled like
Speaker 6: our actual voicemail feature on the phone and got a
Speaker 6: physical answer machine like with the taping ship, so that
Speaker 6: she could be able to have the evidence for the police,
Speaker 6: because you have a restrained order on you. But yeah,
Speaker 6: you were leaving fucking messages, so you were leaving proof
Speaker 6: that you were violating this restraining order. And then one
Speaker 6: of the one of the messages, he said like I
Speaker 6: can kill you and get away with it because I'm
Speaker 6: half white and when you white, everything is right.
Speaker 2: The word black.
Speaker 6: So one day, so one day, so what happened was
Speaker 6: his I saw his I saw one of his sisters
Speaker 6: when I was working in MTC and she saw that
Speaker 6: I was pregnant, So she must have went back and said, hey,
Speaker 6: you know I ran into such and such. You know
Speaker 6: she I didn't know she was pregnant, like all this
Speaker 6: kind of shit. He ends up coming down n ATC
Speaker 6: while I am at work, and he shows his natural
Speaker 6: black ass, so they had to cause security cops came
Speaker 6: as a bunch of shit.
Speaker 4: They you know, carting them off, did whatever with them.
Speaker 4: And fast forward. I'm way down the line with my pregnancy.
Speaker 4: Now I am on the couch not out.
Speaker 6: All of a sudden, you hear do like it sound
Speaker 6: like the fucking swat is beating on my door, So
Speaker 6: I get up go to the door. They asked him like,
Speaker 6: are you to Mika thinkings blah blah blah blah blah. Yeah,
Speaker 6: they trying to fucking take me so that they can
Speaker 6: commit me to a mental institution because this nigga then
Speaker 6: told them that I was trying to kill myself because
Speaker 6: he broke up with me. He called CPS on me
Speaker 6: twice and told them that it was his baby that
Speaker 6: I was pregnant with and I was holding a shotgun
Speaker 6: to my stomach, saying that I was gonna kill me
Speaker 6: and the baby that I was trying to drown reading
Speaker 6: the bathtub and beating her with hair brushes and all
Speaker 6: kinds of shit. So I had to deal with this toy,
Speaker 6: and you know, and even the second time, like CPS
Speaker 6: is like they've already had it in and I was like,
Speaker 6: there's no Vius going on with happy kids. You know,
Speaker 6: you can tell she's taking care of all of this
Speaker 6: kind of shit, but you know, they can't ignore the claims.
Speaker 6: They still have to come out and investigate. So it's
Speaker 6: like at this point when the second people come like
Speaker 6: we're not mad at it because we know that it's protocol,
Speaker 6: but it's like how much.
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, so Ken is like was that to let
Speaker 4: me see my kid? Nigga? Yes, So there was a
Speaker 4: letter on my wingshes you don't remember that letter he
Speaker 4: left on my windshit when it was like let me
Speaker 4: see my son, bro, I don't even have a son,
Speaker 4: but it was I was like, maybe he was watching
Speaker 4: baby boy. I want to see my son.
Speaker 6: When Juddy was at the door. Oh, when he left
Speaker 6: that note under my windshield wiper. It came at the
Speaker 6: cost of a flat tire and a huge cinder block
Speaker 6: that cracked my windshield and was laying on the top
Speaker 6: of my hood. I came out of my house to
Speaker 6: a full gas can on my porch as a warning
Speaker 6: that he was going to burn my house down. It
Speaker 6: got to a point where I had an actual officer
Speaker 6: assigned to my case, officer Thomas Strick. I still remember
Speaker 6: his name, Thomas Strick. He ended up actually being assigned
Speaker 6: to the because because I had to keep calling and
Speaker 6: he was like like, like that was his area. So
Speaker 6: one day I called because I spotted him in the neighborhood.
Speaker 6: He was walking around and he had a backpack on.
Speaker 4: He was walking like this with his backpack, and I'm like,
Speaker 4: you got a half white nigga with a backpack. It's
Speaker 4: probably not gonna go well.
Speaker 6: And for me being on probation, because I was, you know,
Speaker 6: I'm still on probation and shit at the time, like
Speaker 6: there's nothing that I can really do without getting in
Speaker 6: trouble other than continuously called the police because I need
Speaker 6: a paper trailer to protect myself. So I'm sitting here
Speaker 6: and I'm at the driver's window of the police car
Speaker 6: talking to officer strict. All of a sudden, he seen
Speaker 6: me eat and he see him talking. So here I
Speaker 6: was like, there he go right there, there go right there.
Speaker 6: So I'm saying, he was like he went and he
Speaker 6: stopped me. He threw him in the back of the
Speaker 6: fucking squad car.
Speaker 7: I don't know.
Speaker 4: He took him and he pulled off.
Speaker 9: Like but see, that's why what you just mentioned on
Speaker 9: kind of off topic. But having those police in the
Speaker 9: neighborhood gets to know you, you get to know them.
Speaker 4: He didn't have a choice.
Speaker 6: I had to call him and say he didn't have
Speaker 6: a fucking choice. He might as well have been personally,
Speaker 6: he might as well have in personal fucking security. Because
Speaker 6: now I thought that they were I thought that they
Speaker 6: were going to rest my mom because that day that
Speaker 6: they sent them to the house and they thought that
Speaker 6: they was. Yeah, when I tell you my mama went
Speaker 6: the fuck off, I would too. And and and one
Speaker 6: of them was like a sergeant or some shit, and
Speaker 6: he was a he was a black guy. But when
Speaker 6: I tell you, my mama went the fuck And when
Speaker 6: she was like, get the fuck out of my like,
Speaker 6: she just went the fuck off. And I'm I'm I'm
Speaker 6: pregnant and you already know what that's like. And I'm frustrated,
Speaker 6: and when I tell you, like I was stumped, like
Speaker 6: I was crying, like I was so frustrated and just
Speaker 6: mad because I'm like, this nigga has been harassing me
Speaker 6: for the longest and y'all not doing shit. The restrainer
Speaker 6: order ain't fucking doing nothing. Restrainer orders are a joke
Speaker 6: because as many times as he violated, they let that
Speaker 6: nigga plead down to like three of them, and even
Speaker 6: then they stayed the sentence, so they didn't put him
Speaker 6: in jail right the fuck away. All No, But then
Speaker 6: the moment you pop a motherfucker, then they be mad
Speaker 6: and talking about some Well you should have called the police.
Speaker 6: I did, you bitches, wasn't doing your job. You might
Speaker 6: as well put me on the fucking forest, put me
Speaker 6: on the payroll. I had to kill my own fucking stalker.
Speaker 6: That mine said. She said, they don't help until something happens,
Speaker 6: which is sad, right, and it'd be too late. It'd
Speaker 6: be too fucking late, like they will watch all of
Speaker 6: this ship unfold and do absolutely fucking nothing.
Speaker 4: But yes, this nigga was a fucking minute. He was
Speaker 4: a goddamn terror. I did feel good. Now he dig
Speaker 4: get his ass whooped the uk mm hmm.
Speaker 6: And then when he got beat up, he got beat
Speaker 6: up by younger people like they were miners. We were
Speaker 6: at chante house and now I'm at my cousin house.
Speaker 6: I actually met him through my cousin's baby daddy. So
Speaker 6: I am holding her youngest daughter like it's a baby,
Speaker 6: and he coming there grabbing my fucking hair and shit
Speaker 6: while I have the baby.
Speaker 4: So I had to give the baby to one of them,
Speaker 4: and I gir.
Speaker 6: She had this big ass cast iron scalet on her
Speaker 6: uh stove, and I took it and I hit him
Speaker 6: with it. All of her baby daddy's little brothers like
Speaker 6: they whipped his ass like they literally beat him on
Speaker 6: his shoe in the sock. So by the time the
Speaker 6: police came and arrested him, and shit, he only had
Speaker 6: one shoe and sock on. But my uncle, but my
Speaker 6: uncle shout out to my uncle Carl. My uncle Carl
Speaker 6: came and when I tell you this, nigga was on
Speaker 6: his fucking knees begging my uncle because my uncle's a
Speaker 6: big dude, begging my uncle not to shrad his shit.
Speaker 9: You ain't think about none of that when he was
Speaker 9: wreaking habit. Nope, I'm glad he gonna.
Speaker 4: This story would be a lot.
Speaker 6: I've had a nigga shoot at me because I was
Speaker 6: at a fucking stripper party.
Speaker 4: It's niggas is wild. Now I've set ship on fire though,
Speaker 4: hm hm, So I think.
Speaker 9: When it comes to the stories of who has done
Speaker 9: the craziest things, I think you won.
Speaker 3: So yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, but even the crazy ship that I did, it
Speaker 6: wasn't just like because we broke up it was it
Speaker 6: was always something that was attached to it, Like even
Speaker 6: like with the fire ship, like it was std shit
Speaker 6: involved like that was that was what set me the
Speaker 6: fuck off. I've never just did shit crazy to being crazy. Yes,
Speaker 6: you hit me with a car, Yes, shit, everybody know
Speaker 6: the fucking story.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: But the reason why I asked that is because of
Speaker 6: something that came up on social media. Tone you want
Speaker 6: to play that video the moment to caption the girl
Speaker 6: with our lip gluss that one yep, done in a relationship.
Speaker 13: This is one of my We weren't in the relationship,
Speaker 13: but this is probably one of my favorite crazy Kayla
Speaker 13: stories because I don't have that many, but I'm a
Speaker 13: scorpio and I have that crazy in me though.
Speaker 4: You know what I mean, like it exactly.
Speaker 3: So.
Speaker 4: I was dating a guy.
Speaker 13: Okay, I was dating a guy and he dumped me
Speaker 13: through a text message, and he dumped me for this
Speaker 13: singer slash actress who was famous at the time, dumped
Speaker 13: me for her, lied about it for months, then popped
Speaker 13: out with her, and it became this public thing and
Speaker 13: it was like, oh my god, we love them another,
Speaker 13: like celebrity iconic relationship. And of course little old me,
Speaker 13: I'm devastated. I'm heartbroke, and I just moved to New
Speaker 13: York to like be with this person and move in
Speaker 13: with them.
Speaker 4: It was a whole thing.
Speaker 12: It's not what y'all think.
Speaker 13: Yeah, you guys will not be able to figu this out. Everything, Well,
Speaker 13: who cares, it's not. So he breaks up with me,
Speaker 13: dumps me, moves on, and for Halloween that year, I
Speaker 13: dressed up as her.
Speaker 4: I dressed up as that lady for Halloween.
Speaker 13: And not only they're they're somewhere there on the internet
Speaker 13: and it went by that, it went viral.
Speaker 3: It was everywhere, and it.
Speaker 13: Was before like I was even anything on Instagram, which
Speaker 13: is why it was even funnier because everybody's like, oh
Speaker 13: my god, you.
Speaker 4: Look so goody did he say something?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you call me.
Speaker 4: Crazy, like you're a crazy person.
Speaker 6: I don't know what she thought that she was achieving
Speaker 6: with that, but that that picture that mom was about
Speaker 6: to beat his meat too. Y, go ahead and put
Speaker 6: that on screen, please, so can we see who she dressed?
Speaker 4: Like, yes, so she was talking about Yes, oh.
Speaker 2: Smart move, buddy. I mean, I mean, you're in the
Speaker 2: fucked up boat now, but a one at the moment.
Speaker 7: You're not wrong.
Speaker 4: But yeah, yeah, so I have an opinion about that too.
Speaker 4: It's probably a little unpopular, but yeah, so go ahead
Speaker 4: and put up that next one. I wait after you this. Yep.
Speaker 6: So Tianna now knows, like what's going on. She said,
Speaker 6: it's really crazy that everyone is allowed to bother me
Speaker 6: and be distasteful. Everybody gets to play while I move
Speaker 6: with grace always. But now I want to have a
Speaker 6: little Sagittarius fun too, And it's a problem fucking in
Speaker 6: my part. I'm divorced and happily so. However, her choice
Speaker 6: of words were very distasteful and uncalled for. She knew
Speaker 6: exactly what she was doing. That lady said she was
Speaker 6: famous at the time, also said I don't care who
Speaker 6: see it. It was very distasteful and uncalled for. Most importantly,
Speaker 6: she knew people would so automatically my name was attached
Speaker 6: to the nonsense at that point.
Speaker 4: She didn't need to act me.
Speaker 6: That was very clearly a quick search. My name was
Speaker 6: trending without an act before even saying the word. That's
Speaker 6: how I seen it. On top of the fact that
Speaker 6: the math was in mathing and the facts weren't factor. However,
Speaker 6: the level of cringe factor was. I'm finding out, just
Speaker 6: like the world, that her intentions were ill and petty.
Speaker 6: She pulled the black card when it came to Taylor Swift,
Speaker 6: but in the same circle turned around and tried to
Speaker 6: bully the black woman that was married to her situationship
Speaker 6: because she claimed dumped her for me dressing up like me.
Speaker 6: For what crazy part about all of it is, I
Speaker 6: actually showed love under her pick when she posted it,
Speaker 6: like I did the other million people that dressed up
Speaker 6: as me for Halloween. Whole time, I ain't even know
Speaker 6: she was being shady now I do so in that case,
Speaker 6: Petty Pennies on, I had my little fun, I said
Speaker 6: what I said, and now I'm done and headed back
Speaker 6: to set. How did you think that that you being
Speaker 6: petty to her in any way?
Speaker 11: That's the weirdest place I've ever seen, right, Like, you
Speaker 11: didn't you didn't doing that. He dumbed you for me,
Speaker 11: and then you went and decided to be me like
Speaker 11: that is That's ill, That's ill.
Speaker 2: That's why we think women is fucking tycho.
Speaker 3: They are.
Speaker 6: Like if anything I would, I think I would dressing
Speaker 6: your ap like instead of you.
Speaker 1: You d.
Speaker 4: Here's my thing with it, and I think and it
Speaker 4: kind of is unrelated to what she said. In particular, yo,
Speaker 4: he the energy that she had for this situation when
Speaker 4: a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 9: And Barros was frolicking on the boat with this nigga
Speaker 9: and was fucking around with him when y'all were still married,
Speaker 9: and that was all over the internet and she said.
Speaker 4: Absolutely nothing about it.
Speaker 9: But then it's like this situation, it's like, oh no,
Speaker 9: I'm wearing And I think a lot of people when
Speaker 9: I was reading the comments had agree with that too.
Speaker 9: It was like okay, like yeah, she did this, but
Speaker 9: it wasn't as serious as all of this other stuff,
Speaker 9: and normally you stay quiet when he's attached to any
Speaker 9: other woman or got anything else going on, and you
Speaker 9: decided to all of a sudden pop out and speak
Speaker 9: now when amberban frollocking with your nigga and your friends
Speaker 9: spoke out, and you didn't say shit like.
Speaker 4: Thank you?
Speaker 6: Mind? She said, will is Amber speaking on her? And
Speaker 6: I think that's my thing. It's like how I have
Speaker 6: always said, I have never beef with a bitch. I
Speaker 6: had a problem with a bitch over a nigga, but
Speaker 6: I have had it over disrespect. In this case, you
Speaker 6: pulled some and then you had me under this motherfucker
Speaker 6: comment and complimenting you and shit because I didn't know
Speaker 6: you was on bullshit like this is something that you.
Speaker 4: Did directly towards me.
Speaker 6: I don't give a fuck about it that nigga, but
Speaker 6: this was some ship that you did towards me and
Speaker 6: bitch for what. So maybe that's why I understand it,
Speaker 6: because I've always felt like, but I'm not gonna be
Speaker 6: with you over no nigga.
Speaker 4: Just keep your just keep your mouth off me. You
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying. Don't don't do no bullshit towards me.
Speaker 4: And I don't. We don't got to worry about it.
Speaker 11: I think, And she look at it like the game
Speaker 11: is the game, this is the circle we hang out,
Speaker 11: and this is the level of people.
Speaker 2: So you're gonna day other famous.
Speaker 9: No, this situation with them was they were it was
Speaker 9: her friends said they were messing around behind Tiana back
Speaker 9: when they were married, and so to all of a
Speaker 9: sudden pop out with her, it's like, yeah, like.
Speaker 4: You was crying to Tiana and saying no, no, no,
Speaker 4: it's not like that. It's not like that, but now
Speaker 4: it looks like that's what it is.
Speaker 11: But the game is the game. She's not speaking on well,
Speaker 11: me and him doing and got nothing to do with you.
Speaker 11: That's why we're cheating. Anybody supposed to know what we're doing.
Speaker 11: I have had out here with the over disrespect.
Speaker 6: I have had family that is going behind my back
Speaker 6: and fuck niggas that I was fucking weird, right.
Speaker 4: I didn't get mad at nobody. I didn't cuss nobody out.
Speaker 4: I didn't do none of that.
Speaker 6: The one time that I spoke was when you felt
Speaker 6: like you was gonna go to this nigga and tell
Speaker 6: him some shit about me, because bitch, if you wanted
Speaker 6: to fucking you do that, keep your mother fucking name,
Speaker 6: keep my motherfucking name out your mouth, do whatever you
Speaker 6: go do. And if you can pull that nigga without
Speaker 6: saying anything about me, then you do that.
Speaker 4: But the moment you get to, oh, well, you know
Speaker 4: she this and you know she that. See now you
Speaker 4: want me to slap the fuck out you. You know
Speaker 4: what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: Like so so for me, I think that's why I
Speaker 6: don't look at it that way, because it's like you
Speaker 6: fucking with that nigga.
Speaker 4: I'm not even with him no more.
Speaker 6: So whatever y'all was doing in it clearly don't matter
Speaker 6: because we divorced anyway, so clearly something about him wasn't shit.
Speaker 6: But the fact that you are talking now, like right
Speaker 6: now on the platform about how you was petty towards me,
Speaker 6: you could have kept that story to yourself.
Speaker 4: Exactly.
Speaker 6: Man, that like that is like you really said, damn
Speaker 6: he left me for her. I'm finna go baby oil
Speaker 6: myself up and go be her on Instagram?
Speaker 4: Like what the fuck.
Speaker 11: Somebody's supposed to the walker gift under that way?
Speaker 6: He just be like, yeah, that man said, And she
Speaker 6: could have told the story without making it known who
Speaker 6: it was or throwing shade who is she?
Speaker 4: She used to date? The chick?
Speaker 9: Who the guy that, Yeah, she's kind of in like
Speaker 9: journalism and like the sports world, and she's also.
Speaker 7: Who is she?
Speaker 2: What is her name?
Speaker 4: Honestly Taylor no joy by future baby sins what I'm.
Speaker 2: Saying, who are these holes?
Speaker 11: And then you're sitting on the couch next to the
Speaker 11: angel reasons should be somewhere in the fucking gym shooting
Speaker 11: fucking free throws or something like, what is it all?
Speaker 4: But what's funny?
Speaker 1: Injury?
Speaker 3: If I'm not mistaken, use your other hand.
Speaker 2: Get it strong, ye y'all letting this white girl come
Speaker 2: in here and watch all y'all.
Speaker 4: Your other hand, get it drunk.
Speaker 1: A break?
Speaker 4: This sounds like advice to give a nigga to masturbate with.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it did that.
Speaker 6: Mine said, never the dude, It's always a disrespect. And
Speaker 6: I've been in those situations a lot.
Speaker 9: You probably was like, this is gonna be a silent
Speaker 9: like when you see, you gonna know what You're gonna
Speaker 9: know that I know, and it's gonna be a one
Speaker 9: to one thing, which all these years it might have been.
Speaker 2: But Shorty won't walk up and punch you in the face.
Speaker 6: Stop playing with people, and and then it was like
Speaker 6: that was my only thing on top of that, and
Speaker 6: then you and then you're throwing additional shade on top
Speaker 6: of like and she was famous at the time.
Speaker 4: The motherfucker. I still don't know that she's that chicken.
Speaker 4: I love Tiannah Taylor.
Speaker 6: I think now she's she's really really, really focusing on
Speaker 6: her acting. You know, I got to watch one of
Speaker 6: her movies. I forgot the name of it, but people
Speaker 6: say that it was actually really good.
Speaker 4: She's a good actress. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I forgot the
Speaker 4: name of it. Yeah, but I think that was her thing.
Speaker 6: And then people were taking a clique that she had
Speaker 6: on Breakfast Club out of context because they thought that
Speaker 6: she was talking about Emma when she was talking about
Speaker 6: her career.
Speaker 4: She wasn't even talking about him. When she was like
Speaker 4: as far as like.
Speaker 6: We're going where you appreciate it, and she was saying
Speaker 6: like how like we're doing music and stuff, it was
Speaker 6: just it was a lot of hurdles and obstacles and stuff.
Speaker 6: When she wasn't feeling like she didn't have the people
Speaker 6: rallying behind her that she should have have to be
Speaker 6: able to give her that push, and she turned, you
Speaker 6: know into acting like she realized like that's really what
Speaker 6: you know she want to put her focus into.
Speaker 4: And I'm like, damn, I like that. I like that
Speaker 4: ain't but yeah that I ain't never.
Speaker 6: Seeing no, like that's some like that's some single white
Speaker 6: female ship, like because the time I saw motherfuckuld do
Speaker 6: that and they was trying to take take over and
Speaker 6: turn into somebody else, it was some bullshit.
Speaker 4: Damn. I want to watch Face Off Can Eat the
Speaker 4: Peach for hours.
Speaker 2: That movie was cold, Like I just remember mastering the movie.
Speaker 6: You said you gotta go, oh no, because it's funny
Speaker 6: because one of the things I was talking about that
Speaker 6: actually fits you.
Speaker 2: So that's all been good that.
Speaker 4: The second one, Nope, yep, play that. Let's it go.
Speaker 14: I'm gonna say some controversial men need to stop taking
Speaker 14: women on dates.
Speaker 4: Dates, take her out of here. You need to stop
Speaker 4: going on dates.
Speaker 12: Elaborate.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say why you should never take a woman
Speaker 4: out on a.
Speaker 14: Date that you don't have vested interest in, and that
Speaker 14: you're not sure she has a vested interest in.
Speaker 15: You.
Speaker 4: Stop trying to disillusion her with your money.
Speaker 14: Your resources, your ability to buy her roses and all
Speaker 14: that dumb stuff.
Speaker 4: That's not dumb. Disillusion meet baby all day and where
Speaker 4: have tho? What has that? What has that gotten you?
Speaker 4: Where are that? Exactly?
Speaker 14: So stop doing it. You're wasting your money, you're wasting
Speaker 14: your time. If you need to hold on, I'm not done.
Speaker 14: If you need if you want to know if a
Speaker 14: woman is interested in you for real and wants to
Speaker 14: not just use you as a meal plan, because let
Speaker 14: me tell you, a lot.
Speaker 4: Of my homegirls, a lot of my homegirls.
Speaker 14: Are going out with you because they're bored.
Speaker 4: They don't have nothing to do.
Speaker 14: They're not over the other doing somebody else in Vegas
Speaker 14: or fucking New York hasn't hit her back yet, so
Speaker 14: she's going out with your stupid ass.
Speaker 3: Jen.
Speaker 7: There's a lot of there's a lot of truth.
Speaker 4: I know, there's supercimes. I've been there. So stop taking
Speaker 4: her out on dates. And what do you do to
Speaker 4: get to know? The talk on the phone, because there's
Speaker 4: only so much what you do with coffee that's minimal.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't even mind her coffee. Let me tell you
Speaker 4: that might let me tell you don't buy her anything.
Speaker 4: Don't spend a dime, don't spend a nickel, don't spend
Speaker 4: a penny. Go somewhere that is freaking If she is
Speaker 4: unwilling to go there with you, don't go out with her.
Speaker 4: It's pick me face. I don't care because FaceTime got
Speaker 4: her point. She's FaceTime.
Speaker 14: Talk to her on FaceTime, talk to her on the phone.
Speaker 14: Where if she wants something from you without knowing you,
Speaker 14: she's playing you. Oh my, and and that's so that's
Speaker 14: kind of my thing.
Speaker 4: So I feel like.
Speaker 6: I feel like and and and and this is something
Speaker 6: like like one of the only men who's always been
Speaker 6: like one hundred percent upfront with me about you know,
Speaker 6: how men are, and like how to handle them and
Speaker 6: shit like that, like my uncle Carl. But I feel
Speaker 6: like whatever standard is set in the beginning is what
Speaker 6: they really go roll with. And we see niggas all
Speaker 6: the time, including this nigga. They will post all the time,
Speaker 6: oh I had her doing this and didn't even have
Speaker 6: to do that, And then once they get to that point,
Speaker 6: they're like, well, shit, I ain't got to do nothing, period,
Speaker 6: no matter how much you know what I'm saying, Like whatever, whatever,
Speaker 6: we go from this point, You've already showed me that
Speaker 6: I don't have to do nothing for you, so I'm
Speaker 6: not gonna do it.
Speaker 4: Bro says this all the time, all the time.
Speaker 6: So it's not just us, Like, there are men who
Speaker 6: look at that just as much as we do, and
Speaker 6: once they realize that they don't have to do anything,
Speaker 6: they're not going to fucking do it.
Speaker 4: You become a free lunch. Now.
Speaker 6: I'm not saying that you got to break the bank, Dayton,
Speaker 6: you gotta take bitches out to the most expensive places,
Speaker 6: none of that. But I'm not with the you don't
Speaker 6: have to do anything. Yeah, I'm not with you. You
Speaker 6: don't have to do anything like.
Speaker 9: Women like don't be a well I don't require much
Speaker 9: because then it's like, oh, well you don't require much.
Speaker 9: Seta do shit.
Speaker 4: Team.
Speaker 12: Yeah.
Speaker 6: And it's like, I'm not saying that, you know, you
Speaker 6: should be making all this extravagant effort for people without
Speaker 6: getting to know them first, because I agree with the
Speaker 6: initial part that she said, We're like before you know that,
Speaker 6: there's a real vested interest both you know on both sides.
Speaker 4: Time I'm surprised you still want it. You need to
Speaker 4: heat it up.
Speaker 6: It looks like it got cold and stiff a little bit.
Speaker 6: Should we eat on the show all the time? Oh uh,
Speaker 6: Fritz said, give him a mic. I can't hear with
Speaker 6: the man and saying he don't need one, he don't
Speaker 6: need one. He's actually on his way out the door.
Speaker 6: I want to thank you for coming in, brother. I
Speaker 6: appreciate your presence.
Speaker 4: No, I mean you heard she hit people with cards.
Speaker 12: Hand you.
Speaker 3: I said that if.
Speaker 15: I said, you better get a date before you take
Speaker 15: your draws off, because if you take your draws off first,
Speaker 15: you take and ship after that.
Speaker 4: So right, which is what? Which is what? I just said?
Speaker 10: That?
Speaker 4: He says all the fucking time, So I feel like
Speaker 4: you have to find.
Speaker 2: Let me see, she don't deserve it.
Speaker 3: She just can't get it from the here.
Speaker 12: You can have whatever you want.
Speaker 4: But but he talks about the niggas who do give
Speaker 4: it to him.
Speaker 6: Oh see, and you doing this And I fucked the
Speaker 6: bitch for a motherfucking four piece nugget.
Speaker 4: Like why is that they business? Because you didn't do it.
Speaker 11: That don't mean to say all this shit really be situation,
Speaker 11: So like she may run. I'm just saying, for like
Speaker 11: one nigga may stand on that bitch head and be like, well,
Speaker 11: I fucked you already so all that day ship So
Speaker 11: so she's not gonna get no date out of you,
Speaker 11: which you might talk the next nigga and giving her
Speaker 11: a date and spending money because the nigga that she
Speaker 11: actually liked not doing that.
Speaker 4: I say, it's really.
Speaker 5: It'd be funny. I see some easy work. Say I
Speaker 5: ain't settling for.
Speaker 2: What you did already already like nigga.
Speaker 4: Less than me but nothing And I'm saying a lot y'all.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but just because she can't, you know, stun on
Speaker 7: you or home mee.
Speaker 2: But if she gonna stand on something.
Speaker 5: Think about it. Be seeing nigga stressing out about this
Speaker 5: mm hmm.
Speaker 7: Absolutely like you like me? This getting huge, the run around, the.
Speaker 2: Runner around, and.
Speaker 5: I don't know, times is just changing. That is my
Speaker 5: business though.
Speaker 2: I just be laughing about.
Speaker 4: Uh said.
Speaker 6: Folks be saying little maintenance because they don't believe they're
Speaker 6: worth the effort maintain me. The fuck can't la Ken said, No,
Speaker 6: bro got a point. How you fuck him and want
Speaker 6: to date me? I don't want to date. I want
Speaker 6: to fuck.
Speaker 2: This time.
Speaker 8: Right.
Speaker 4: I was a side chicken. He was dating me, he
Speaker 4: was taking me on dates, we was going out.
Speaker 2: A conversation.
Speaker 3: You can leave now. Only God told me you was
Speaker 3: salid and now you can bad place.
Speaker 4: You might still be there.
Speaker 8: No, But.
Speaker 6: So I don't one hundred percent disagree with her, like
Speaker 6: because I do agree that when you were dating people,
Speaker 6: you need to date people that you know are interested
Speaker 6: in you. That is why we have so many niggas
Speaker 6: who are always online crying and talking about.
Speaker 4: Me, and these bitches just won't free meals and they
Speaker 4: just won't free.
Speaker 6: You are in her inbox from January to August, talking
Speaker 6: to yourself. She finally agreed to go on the day
Speaker 6: you take her out for dinner, and then she don't
Speaker 6: call you again.
Speaker 4: You set yourself up for that. Big facts, little like
Speaker 4: huge facts.
Speaker 7: This this is facts.
Speaker 9: Yeah, because some niggas' you just fuckable, but I might
Speaker 9: want to date you though that that's very it's very true.
Speaker 4: It's very true. I feel like I've definitely had sex
Speaker 4: with Ninglas that I had no desire.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, Lee said, but sometimes the girls just want
Speaker 6: to fuck too when we're in date Monk. That's different,
Speaker 6: which is true because there are niggas who I might
Speaker 6: be like, you know what, I'm sexually attracted, but I
Speaker 6: don't see nothing else with them. He can he can
Speaker 6: go on this only fans camera, and then other than that,
Speaker 6: it's something completely different.
Speaker 4: So it's like.
Speaker 11: You're being what we'd be a day mom. That's cool,
Speaker 11: go on days. I'm just not trying to take you.
Speaker 4: We actually talked about that.
Speaker 6: But the motherfucker coming in lust out the gate because
Speaker 6: I and I tell me in this because I know
Speaker 6: I'm around pieces of ship like y'all all the time.
Speaker 6: So when so when when niggas would approach me in
Speaker 6: a certain way and I tell them like, I don't
Speaker 6: just fuck with random niggas.
Speaker 4: That ain't my thing. Oh you know, let's go out,
Speaker 4: let's get to know, because you've already showed you. I
Speaker 4: know what you because if.
Speaker 6: If if you really had the intent of getting to
Speaker 6: know me and day didn't mean you would have lived
Speaker 6: with that.
Speaker 4: So I already know what it is. No, I'm not interested,
Speaker 4: right mm hmm. So it's you know, well, you know
Speaker 4: what's funny.
Speaker 2: Want to spend money and date.
Speaker 6: What's just funny. But when they do do that, then
Speaker 6: you have niggas who are not minded it. You have
Speaker 6: niggas who are not mine. So I find a perfect example.
Speaker 6: So everybody knows with me and doing only fans. You
Speaker 6: may have some guys who feel like I am not
Speaker 6: worth dating because I was doing poor. That is perfectly
Speaker 6: fine for them to feel that way about about dating. Now,
Speaker 6: I will not take slander from a nigga with syphilis.
Speaker 1: Huh.
Speaker 4: Thank you for tuning in to this episode of Holy
Speaker 4: Awkward it is.
Speaker 11: I'm just.
Speaker 4: Always go do appreciate you for tuning in.
Speaker 11: It's just like, but what I'm saying is all you
Speaker 11: did was called you must you can wash your arm fists. Bro,
Speaker 11: you put something you gotta get shot for it, Like
Speaker 11: that's crazy.
Speaker 4: Him having simphilis is like the running joke.
Speaker 2: I'm just telling you how women takes you too far?
Speaker 2: How did you out you and your mama?
Speaker 13: Like?
Speaker 9: Why do?
Speaker 4: But this this is different.
Speaker 6: This is not a woman taking stuff too far. This
Speaker 6: is sibling rivalry. Siblings always takes you.
Speaker 4: Barely.
Speaker 3: Let y'all tell it.
Speaker 4: Like wine and mine, Yes, way too far?
Speaker 7: No, just like you got what's what?
Speaker 4: Wait? That was old country buffet and we had the waitress.
Speaker 2: Taking waitress ship and like we're still having to turn around.
Speaker 2: And she was in the booth telling her.
Speaker 4: You see how fast traveling. Now, that's how fast mono traveling.
Speaker 4: A LEXI gave it to him. Tell me you got
Speaker 4: Bell's palsy. This is a sick bunch, myno.
Speaker 3: Bell's the funny thing is Caleb be funny shot out and.
Speaker 4: It's a sorry from Herbie and musty this is a.
Speaker 1: Dress a lie.
Speaker 4: How did we get here?
Speaker 2: Bro?
Speaker 4: Let me tell you, bro hospital because you have myno,
Speaker 4: and you know what? Why did you?
Speaker 6: But listen, Taylor Tayler and it's so bad? Have you
Speaker 6: have you noticed that wine immune system been sucked up?
Speaker 6: Ever since then? Remember why never got sick that one
Speaker 6: time when that bitch gave him mine? Then all of
Speaker 6: a sudden he got a call out?
Speaker 4: Why you.
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 4: Because ever since then your am system but not a wack?
Speaker 4: How did you? Oh my jo, I don't need to.
Speaker 7: My mind, I never had no motherfucking.
Speaker 12: But yet you sit next.
Speaker 8: You have.
Speaker 4: Right yeah, when I okay, you gotta go home to
Speaker 4: take a shot. So so you have Bell's palsy, let
Speaker 4: it go. That's that's the only that's not connecting. How
Speaker 4: he had.
Speaker 3: This is this the last time we tell story telling?
Speaker 7: I like, let.
Speaker 2: But let them.
Speaker 4: Okay, so how does that tie into him?
Speaker 11: I asked to to give me a ride to the hospital. Okay,
Speaker 11: that's all tone did. When I got in the car,
Speaker 11: Ton was perfectly fine.
Speaker 2: I was cool.
Speaker 4: I just couldn't talk.
Speaker 2: Then Tom said that the next.
Speaker 3: Was the next day was very next day. The next
Speaker 3: morning he said, couldn't put the left side of my face.
Speaker 4: And yours is having a stroke, that.
Speaker 2: Is and I couldn't want to live.
Speaker 11: But like as soon as he was soon as he
Speaker 11: wrote it in like the group chat, I just automatically
Speaker 11: thought it Jim rows, Yeah.
Speaker 3: And you know what's funny, that's the first thing that
Speaker 3: came to my head.
Speaker 9: The hospital when somebody said somebody somebody said, drop you
Speaker 9: off at the hospital. I'm thinking declined.
Speaker 3: I was last on New Year's where my leg was
Speaker 3: by someone's going on with my leg?
Speaker 6: Family, Leo said, I thought Bell's palsy comes from like
Speaker 6: a doctor making the air during birth.
Speaker 4: That's crazy. Can it can? It can actually be a
Speaker 4: reaction to a viral infection, which.
Speaker 3: Is why we keep saying he had money.
Speaker 10: Now, it couldn't That's why I always keep saying he
Speaker 10: had mino, because because the only person I talked to
Speaker 10: this nigga in my and I had a Toyota at
Speaker 10: the time, so it was a car.
Speaker 3: No, it was cold. It was when there.
Speaker 1: Like this.
Speaker 4: Tones out here looking like two facemen batman.
Speaker 10: This whole shot, this face wasn't moving, like I'm having
Speaker 10: whole conversations on this side, but this one's still staying in.
Speaker 4: Place, Todd said, mana was so much conviction, so your
Speaker 4: face was just confused.
Speaker 9: You know what's Ah, that's a lot going on in months, damn.
Speaker 4: Okay, But see now it makes sense.
Speaker 10: I was mad at that nigga for a good three
Speaker 10: months because I couldn't be mad at her because whatever
Speaker 10: you had you got from her.
Speaker 4: How long did you have that for it?
Speaker 3: It's like not even the whole week.
Speaker 4: Your faces messed up for a week.
Speaker 3: You just couldn't move, just.
Speaker 7: Damn.
Speaker 4: I don't know, maybe a cramp that from that tremendous
Speaker 4: head he was offering bitches on Twitter.
Speaker 3: I never had to complain about that either, saying.
Speaker 2: Like, why are you going in the archives of our.
Speaker 3: Line because our lives are funny? To her when she's depressed.
Speaker 4: She laughs at us, put the found thing up and
Speaker 4: like it because I found out.
Speaker 2: What they said.
Speaker 4: I'm telling this sphilis. The moral of the story is
Speaker 4: kids said, damn it me me. I was just about
Speaker 4: to say that. So the moral of the story is
Speaker 4: for the fellas stop dating women that don't like you.
Speaker 6: Y'all won't be bitter and all on social media women
Speaker 6: crying about being used for dates and women is just
Speaker 6: gold diggers and all, and they just looking for free
Speaker 6: meal and all this ship. You know, when the motherfucker
Speaker 6: is not interested. Okay, you're getting dry conversations. She's barely
Speaker 6: responding to you. Like I said, there there's somebody. There
Speaker 6: is somebody in my dn Actually there's a couple of people.
Speaker 6: There are a couple of guys in my DMS I
Speaker 6: could very well use if I wanted to. I'm just
Speaker 6: it's not worth the fucking headache because all of this
Speaker 6: time that I've been telling y'all that I'm not interested
Speaker 6: in going out. I'm not interested in dating. I don't
Speaker 6: want to come kick it with you, I don't want
Speaker 6: to meet you out. I don't want to do any
Speaker 6: of these things. But then I randomly get bored one day,
Speaker 6: or maybe I'm mad at Baity's my band. I'm like,
Speaker 6: you know what, Damn, I could go for some motherfucking
Speaker 6: buffalo wings today. Well, what you're doing and then I go.
Speaker 6: You set yourself up for that because I've been telling
Speaker 6: you for the last few years. It's not even just
Speaker 6: a couple of weeks or even a couple of months.
Speaker 6: I've been telling you for the last few years that
Speaker 6: I am not interested in dating you, and nothing clicks
Speaker 6: for you to be like, Damn, all of a sudden,
Speaker 6: this bitch want to go out?
Speaker 4: Man, what's she on?
Speaker 6: No, you think that you're now all of a sudden exactly?
Speaker 6: You think that you thene bore me down. Oh yeah,
Speaker 6: I'm finally finna get that.
Speaker 7: See that's why I stay out to having unboxer exactly
Speaker 7: why I just feel like it's.
Speaker 3: All I mean.
Speaker 6: And I'm not even saying that you should stay out,
Speaker 6: but I think that at a certain point, if you're like,
Speaker 6: all right, this interaction ain't really going. You know how
Speaker 6: I wanted it to go. You see you at the
Speaker 6: stage left, but you just keep it going. You keep
Speaker 6: it going, and then you're mad at us. The rest
Speaker 6: of us who didn't use you because you didn't use
Speaker 6: any type of discernment. You was like, hey, you know what,
Speaker 6: I'm gonna take this bitch out who never responds to
Speaker 6: me ever unless she's hungry screenshot ship.
Speaker 7: So once you stop talking to me in the mbox,
Speaker 7: I'm not here and talk to myself.
Speaker 4: It's all just so confusing and so just like.
Speaker 9: So that's the lesson like this because I mean I
Speaker 9: haven't really given too much of my opinion about it.
Speaker 1: But.
Speaker 3: Give you scared scared one he should go to the doctor.
Speaker 9: I feel like it's it's confusing because it's like I said,
Speaker 9: on one hand, it's like, oh, don't be the woman
Speaker 9: that says you don't require too much, you know, ask
Speaker 9: for stuff, expect stuff, and.
Speaker 4: Can they take you out, make me give you money.
Speaker 9: And then on the other end, with the men, it's like, oh,
Speaker 9: you all go there and all you want is money
Speaker 9: you don't want.
Speaker 4: But then say, for instance, like.
Speaker 9: When I watched that clip, I said, I could get
Speaker 9: what I agree with what she's saying, and I mean,
Speaker 9: you know, we talking about it all the time.
Speaker 4: But you have somebody like me who's genuinely like a
Speaker 4: good person. I have a good heart, nurturing, caring. It
Speaker 4: comes with the terrors for you.
Speaker 9: But also because like she said, I don't.
Speaker 4: I've never been a person to have my handout. I don't.
Speaker 4: I don't be asking niggas for nothing. I don't need
Speaker 4: no cash.
Speaker 9: App she's talking about all you want to go have
Speaker 9: a coffee, go do something free, even buy the coffee.
Speaker 3: Cool. Cool.
Speaker 4: I just want to spend time with you. You don't
Speaker 4: got to spend money to do that. It's free. But
Speaker 4: being like this in this world, it just gets confusing
Speaker 4: because it's like, do you asking in the summer? Do
Speaker 4: you not?
Speaker 12: Do you?
Speaker 2: Do you.
Speaker 9: Do I care about you because I genuinely do, or
Speaker 9: do I have to pretend like I don't. It's like
Speaker 9: your mind just gets so confusing to the point where
Speaker 9: I'm just like.
Speaker 2: No, you know what.
Speaker 6: Never my mother told me something never mind a long
Speaker 6: time ago, a very long time ago, and she said,
Speaker 6: the moment you go and your like in those early stages,
Speaker 6: the moment you go in your purse, he is going
Speaker 6: to get accustomed to that.
Speaker 4: He is never going to treat you the same again.
Speaker 4: And yeah, and I can tell you that that is not.
Speaker 6: Then a lie like I updated, Yeah, I updated two
Speaker 6: different times of dudes. And it's like, it's like I said,
Speaker 6: if you are dealing with somebody and you are not
Speaker 6: requiring them to do anything, that is the standard that
Speaker 6: you were setting. So then as much as you, oh well,
Speaker 6: I'm just simple, I just like you know, you to
Speaker 6: show up with You don't even have to get me
Speaker 6: a bouquet of roses. You can just show up with
Speaker 6: some raggedy dandelions.
Speaker 4: They don't even have to be a food.
Speaker 6: Dandelions that could be the ones that you can just
Speaker 6: get ready to blow they already dead the.
Speaker 4: Hell and now.
Speaker 6: Down the line, you in this relationship with this man
Speaker 6: and he don't never do this. He don't never like
Speaker 6: because you told him that he didn't have to. You
Speaker 6: showed him that your bar was in the fucking basement,
Speaker 6: a flooded basement at that.
Speaker 9: I mean, she's being honest, And like I said, I
Speaker 9: don't have a problem taking a koind of building.
Speaker 4: I mean, in general, I don't ask people for shit.
Speaker 9: So me coming into contact with a nigga that is
Speaker 9: gonna be given by and paying do this and do that,
Speaker 9: that's a different world for me because in general, I
Speaker 9: don't ask people for shit. I don't know how to
Speaker 9: accept when somebody's like here or trying to do something
Speaker 9: like That's just not.
Speaker 4: The way my mind works, not even with just a nigga.
Speaker 4: This is what people in general like it.
Speaker 6: Just but it's like, but I know just how many
Speaker 6: niggas are like the nigga that was just sitting here,
Speaker 6: and it's like the moment they see that they can
Speaker 6: get whatever with the bare minimum, you will never get
Speaker 6: anything over that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And the only reason, the only way.
Speaker 6: That I'm going to put myself in that situation is
Speaker 6: if I'm not looking for anything with you, Like if
Speaker 6: I know, like, oh, I'm just gonna treat this nigga
Speaker 6: like a prop. He's just gonna be some dick, or
Speaker 6: he's just gonna be a path to income like for
Speaker 6: my videos.
Speaker 4: Different where depending on who.
Speaker 9: If like you said earlier, if you don't have no
Speaker 9: emotional ties, you don't see yourself dating him. You barely
Speaker 9: even like the nigga as a person. You are literally
Speaker 9: just a prop. Were just about to be fucking and
Speaker 9: that is it. I don't need shadows. I halfway even
Speaker 9: like you, like, this is just what it is. It's
Speaker 9: nothing else. Yeah, when it's cutting dry.
Speaker 4: Like that, it's like, okay, that's.
Speaker 7: To stay away.
Speaker 4: Sometimes no, and there's nothing wrong with that. It's just
Speaker 4: you need to know me to you.
Speaker 6: You see, you see how there's a split right in
Speaker 6: the middle of this table. It's this side and it's
Speaker 6: this side.
Speaker 4: You need to know what you want.
Speaker 6: And I think a lot of people when they're dating
Speaker 6: than can't talking to you, mom. I think a lot
Speaker 6: of people when they are dealing with people, they don't
Speaker 6: set the standard for how they're going to date. They
Speaker 6: allow the person that they're dealing with to set the standard.
Speaker 4: So instead of saying.
Speaker 6: So, instead of saying, well, this is what I want
Speaker 6: going into this situation, or this is what I'm looking for,
Speaker 6: this is what I require, is just like, well, you
Speaker 6: lead the way and I'll take whatever you give me.
Speaker 6: And now you're in a situation that you didn't want
Speaker 6: to be in because you didn't put forth what you
Speaker 6: wanted from them. So now they're like, oh, ship just
Speaker 6: all I'm gonna give you. So now you're on Aaron.
Speaker 6: You're sitting here with Aaron Hall, and he talking about
Speaker 6: I'm gonna give you a piece of my love and
Speaker 6: that's all you got is a fucking piece a.
Speaker 11: Piece of foottom that's what that's what you get called.
Speaker 11: When you tell bitch is what you is and what
Speaker 11: you ain't gonna do, Well, we're gonna talk about it.
Speaker 11: What we're not gonna talk about what we do and
Speaker 11: what we're not gonna do.
Speaker 7: Use a sensitivedviced nigga.
Speaker 4: No, it's called communication.
Speaker 3: Why are you listening to a ball headed nigga who
Speaker 3: wants a podcast him?
Speaker 11: But that's how some women feel when you expressed like, look,
Speaker 11: this is, this is how it is, is how it's
Speaker 11: gonna be, this is then then you leave her alone.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 8: That's what she said.
Speaker 3: But like she said, you got to know what you
Speaker 3: want people.
Speaker 6: Once I tell you, if you don't know what, if
Speaker 6: you don't know what you want for yourself, then how
Speaker 6: you were somebody? You are never going to have a
Speaker 6: successful day of life because if you don't know what
Speaker 6: you want, you just collecting whatever people give me around
Speaker 6: the way, like.
Speaker 4: An honest conversation about myself.
Speaker 9: I know this, I know this is what I want,
Speaker 9: but because I haven't had it or I feel like
Speaker 9: I'm not gonna get it. It's like you training your
Speaker 9: mind to just accept other ship that you know you
Speaker 9: really don't want, and it to come into the realization
Speaker 9: like this is not what you want. You need to
Speaker 9: be honest about what you want and start aligning yourself
Speaker 9: with those types of situations. And once I came to
Speaker 9: that realization, phone dry. Everybody fall off because none of
Speaker 9: this is what I want at all. None of this
Speaker 9: a line, none of this is intentional. It's all the
Speaker 9: waste my time because now I'm being honest with myself
Speaker 9: and there's nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 4: Because and a lot of people.
Speaker 6: I'm gonna bring up a post that I made in
Speaker 6: some of the comments because this nigga's kind of slow.
Speaker 6: You can read it out loud because but you know,
Speaker 6: gotta remember, everybody don't watch life.
Speaker 4: You gotta show people. Leelo said, you got to show
Speaker 4: people how to love you.
Speaker 9: If you're in a relationship with me, please believe you're
Speaker 9: packing my car up for these vending events and supporting
Speaker 9: my business.
Speaker 4: That's my love language, make my life easier.
Speaker 3: And I agree, I agree, but I got to know
Speaker 3: a caveat on that.
Speaker 10: But you also got to make sure you show up
Speaker 10: for him the same way that he needs for his
Speaker 10: love language, because a lot of times people will want
Speaker 10: that person to do that, but then they'll only show
Speaker 10: up the way that they want to show up, not
Speaker 10: the way that person wants them to show up. They're
Speaker 10: not reciprocating it in the way to make that person
Speaker 10: feel just the same way that he's making you feel.
Speaker 3: It makes it feel like you're a helpmate not someone
Speaker 3: you love.
Speaker 6: That's true, but that was a huge problem when me
Speaker 6: and Cam were together. That was a huge, huge problem,
Speaker 6: Like he would do things that he felt like he
Speaker 6: wanted to do and it would seem like I was
Speaker 6: being unappreciative, which you know, I I've admitted this, like
Speaker 6: when me and Kim had an episode on the Pot.
Speaker 4: But it's like realizing, like.
Speaker 6: Doing things that you want to do versus the things
Speaker 6: that make me feel loved, they're not the same. And
Speaker 6: it's like, no matter how much you do, if it's
Speaker 6: not within my love language, it's gonna be a disconnect
Speaker 6: and it's always gonna be something whether you feel like
Speaker 6: I'm being ungrateful or I'm being bitchy or I'm never happy,
Speaker 6: and it's like because you're not showing me what I
Speaker 6: need in order to fill luck, and it goes the
Speaker 6: same way for me. So that actually brings me to
Speaker 6: say there was a post, I saved it and mis see,
Speaker 6: so there was a chicken and she was she was
Speaker 6: I messages somebody and she was like, so my husband
Speaker 6: bought me a fridge because I had been complaining but
Speaker 6: he didn't get the right one. And I'm sad, but
Speaker 6: I gotta be happy and said, oh man, did you
Speaker 6: tell him which one you want it? She sent a
Speaker 6: sad face and said, yes, I did, but he thought
Speaker 6: he was getting.
Speaker 4: Some kind of deal.
Speaker 6: Now you have a lot of people who half and
Speaker 6: half they're half who understand and they're a half who
Speaker 6: oh man, and that's ungrateful and that's whatever. And it's
Speaker 6: like she's not complaining to him about it. She's like,
Speaker 6: you know, I gotta, you know, be put on a
Speaker 6: smiley face for her. But I feel like with us
Speaker 6: talking about stop doing stuff that you want for people,
Speaker 6: like if you're not gonna get me what I asked for,
Speaker 6: or I would rather you just not do it, Okay.
Speaker 10: So I'm gonna play Devil's advocate on that one because
Speaker 10: I don't think it's not that he didn't get what
Speaker 10: he asks for.
Speaker 3: She didn't give the importancy of why she needed that
Speaker 3: specific model.
Speaker 10: She just said, I wanted a fridge because I want
Speaker 10: to put my wine in it. But she told him
Speaker 10: the exact one that she wanted. But like I said,
Speaker 10: he's saying, hey, I'm getting a deal.
Speaker 4: He went.
Speaker 10: Because that's why I said, sometimes not knowing the importancy
Speaker 10: of why you want this particular one, because I can say, hey,
Speaker 10: I want a fridge for the studio because I like
Speaker 10: to keep the water in here cool.
Speaker 3: But there's a particular well you know what, what does
Speaker 3: it look like?
Speaker 10: And I seen you one and you thinking I only
Speaker 10: want that one because of the size of it, not
Speaker 10: that I want this particular one because it has a
Speaker 10: warm side and the cold side so when I put
Speaker 10: food in, there's still good. You don't know that that's
Speaker 10: the reason why I want that particular one.
Speaker 4: But if he did know that, would it have changed
Speaker 4: because and he would have been like, well, I know you.
Speaker 3: Know this, but I got to deal with what I'm saying.
Speaker 10: If he knew that and he's steel wing and got
Speaker 10: a different one because it was cheaper, then yeah, my nigga,
Speaker 10: you fucked up. But if you said I need a fridge,
Speaker 10: it's this is the this is the type of fridge
Speaker 10: I need, and that's all you said. I'm gonna go
Speaker 10: find a fridge of that type. And if I see
Speaker 10: Best Buy got this same fridge for one hundred dollars less,
Speaker 10: I'm buying this because I just think you need a
Speaker 10: fridge of this size, not that you want this particular
Speaker 10: one with tablet built into it so you can know
Speaker 10: what's going on when you at work. It sometimes just
Speaker 10: conveyed little details like that can make a big difference
Speaker 10: for some people.
Speaker 9: But I feel like that wouldn't matter because it feels
Speaker 9: based off of what she just read. It seemed like
Speaker 9: you in inn you saw that it costs too much
Speaker 9: or possibly and you found a deal. So in the
Speaker 9: top of your mind, it was the price.
Speaker 3: So the details was because we didn't know the level
Speaker 3: of importance.
Speaker 9: He didn't put in the effort because okay, it costs
Speaker 9: this much here, But did you go to other stories
Speaker 9: to check, like how much effort did you put in
Speaker 9: to get her the one that she acts.
Speaker 4: For all of those details.
Speaker 6: Jelly Bean is a child, Yes, jelly Bean don't got
Speaker 6: no fucking job. Jelly Bean is in a position where
Speaker 6: you get what the fuck I buy you because she's
Speaker 6: a child with no job.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 6: I just had jelly Bean pick out a new bed.
Speaker 6: I told her, I said, going Amazon, because it was
Speaker 6: like prime days. I said, go on Amazon. Fine, a
Speaker 6: bed that you like, now you can get it, like
Speaker 6: put a couple of options in the cart and stuff
Speaker 6: like whatever little features or you know whatever. If whatever
Speaker 6: you choose is too much, I'll try to find something
Speaker 6: like I community. And she's a child, and I communicated
Speaker 6: that with her. So when I found a bed, that
Speaker 6: was it. You know, as as much as I want
Speaker 6: to say no, I was actually about to say, Ken,
Speaker 6: I'm gonna need your assistance.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna need you to come to you, mister half handyman.
Speaker 2: It gets stuck in that. That's still funny, No.
Speaker 4: Because still going strong, kid.
Speaker 10: You know what, First of all, shout out to kle
Speaker 10: I'm gonna give Kylla her flower because somebody was really
Speaker 10: about to be like, fuck that, I'm not talking to
Speaker 10: that nigga. That nigga was never putting nothing in my house.
Speaker 10: And she was like, uh, he came in, he did
Speaker 10: this and it's still working.
Speaker 3: Everything good.
Speaker 10: Oh okay, well, I guess I'll let him to fix
Speaker 10: my house all my still kid was about to get
Speaker 10: a bad Yelp review for something Kayla King.
Speaker 6: Yeah, but before I purchased a bed, so I looked
Speaker 6: at him, like, Okay, this is what you want. I
Speaker 6: found a bed in line with what she was looking
Speaker 6: for for a lower price. I called her into my
Speaker 6: room and I said, Jelly, look at this bed. Tell
Speaker 6: me if this is close enough to you know, the
Speaker 6: one that you picked hers. And she looked and she
Speaker 6: was like, it pretty much got all the same stuff.
Speaker 6: Like I'm fine with this, and she's a kid who
Speaker 6: didn't have a choice, and I still communicated with her.
Speaker 10: Okay, first of all, we can only go based off
Speaker 10: of her posts, so we don't know if he didn't
Speaker 10: try to call her and she didn't answer.
Speaker 3: She was at work, you know, he didn't respond. He
Speaker 3: right here in the moment making the person.
Speaker 12: We don't know that.
Speaker 10: Unfortunately, it's the one sided conversation. But at the same time,
Speaker 10: you were considerate enough and you look to see if
Speaker 10: it had all the same features. Okay, she may not
Speaker 10: have insinuated that these features are very important she did.
Speaker 6: She wanted the one with the charging you know how
Speaker 6: they have like the different charger connected into the headboard
Speaker 6: and the led.
Speaker 3: Im talking about the chicken.
Speaker 1: The chicken, the fridge.
Speaker 3: So you didn't tell me what the importance he of
Speaker 3: this fridge was. So just like you did.
Speaker 10: You've seen a fridge that was cheaper, that checked all
Speaker 10: the normal boxes of what a fridge needs to have.
Speaker 3: You bought that fridge going to business.
Speaker 2: I think he told you what she wanted just go by.
Speaker 4: It was very simple for you. Just go and get
Speaker 4: this is what she wants.
Speaker 9: Me.
Speaker 2: That reason of this.
Speaker 11: Post is why if my girlfriend in the future is
Speaker 11: not a sneakerhead, do.
Speaker 7: Not make no attempt to buy me no shoes Because
Speaker 7: as much as I would.
Speaker 11: Be appreciative that you went out and you thought it
Speaker 11: was cute and you brought it home, I know what
Speaker 11: kind of shoes I like.
Speaker 2: If you bring me some bullshit home, you're.
Speaker 11: Gonna be upset because you're like, bag, why you don't
Speaker 11: want the shoes I bought you?
Speaker 1: I don't like it.
Speaker 2: They don't matter. I got in this closet, which is
Speaker 2: fucking crazy because we lived.
Speaker 10: Together, which is why I be so disturbed when my
Speaker 10: kids buy me shoes for my birthday or whatnot, because
Speaker 10: it's like, it's my kids, so I can't be mad.
Speaker 3: But then I look at the shoes you bought me,
Speaker 3: It's like I would never wear these.
Speaker 4: But I mean we had I had a situation like that,
Speaker 4: were dealing with back to school.
Speaker 9: There were some new Balances he wanted to and they
Speaker 9: were one fifty and I'm like, I can't bring myself
Speaker 9: to spend one fifty for some shoes. So I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 9: we're gonna go into the store and say he look
Speaker 9: ended up finding a pair of new Balance with a
Speaker 9: different color way on sale for one hundred dollars. So
Speaker 9: I'm like, okay, well and I and I plead in
Speaker 9: my case, this one is a different color and my
Speaker 9: natural a little more, but it's cheaper and we made
Speaker 9: But at.
Speaker 2: That point, if you was gonna spend a.
Speaker 10: Honey, you could, because he definitely would have cared a
Speaker 10: lot more about them shoes can.
Speaker 4: He loves them. He actually likes them better than the
Speaker 4: ones that he was gonna get.
Speaker 3: But getting back to thay, no, my child, he would.
Speaker 10: The fridge if it was me, I honestly would have
Speaker 10: bought the exact pig, the picture, the fridge and the picture.
Speaker 3: It would not have it.
Speaker 10: Gave a damn because you want to know why, I
Speaker 10: don't want to hear your damn mouth.
Speaker 6: I'm sorry, but this is such a man response to
Speaker 6: this situation. If you know your partner, you should know
Speaker 6: when something is important to them. Why should they have
Speaker 6: to stress that.
Speaker 10: First of all, I initially start the conversation by saying,
Speaker 10: I'm playing Devil's advocate.
Speaker 4: But that's a response to the devil.
Speaker 10: Okay, I'm playing devil because we have in a conversation
Speaker 10: we all agree he fucked up.
Speaker 2: Be up at nine am on the sniggers.
Speaker 12: That's how you do.
Speaker 9: I would you send me a picture normally like you
Speaker 9: send me a picture, detail oriented and just like all
Speaker 9: of the Steffs.
Speaker 4: You said that if she would have told him boom,
Speaker 4: he would have forgot that ship.
Speaker 3: By the time he got I see that we build
Speaker 3: different our military details.
Speaker 4: You can't even you really can't even send a nigga
Speaker 4: to the grocery store.
Speaker 3: He gonna get what he wants because we're hungry when
Speaker 3: you sent it to the store.
Speaker 11: Right though, Because I watch when like when I be
Speaker 11: at work and I be like customer watching. I watch
Speaker 11: how women's shop versus me versus when it's just a
Speaker 11: dude in their bombs versus when it's you and your wife.
Speaker 11: You either live alone or.
Speaker 9: You were just because you got to them with a
Speaker 9: list that has pictures on it, quantities and yes, because
Speaker 9: why are there's so many different variations of bread?
Speaker 4: Because they gonna be like, you know.
Speaker 2: What, it's mad ship that just like why is there
Speaker 2: so much?
Speaker 4: He can't say y'all got to cheer with the me
Speaker 4: you don't even by mehul that go together?
Speaker 2: Yo. And one thing dudes like they don't never get
Speaker 2: no car, no basket. He's got seventy things in his
Speaker 2: head because I need to.
Speaker 1: But I'm like to carry.
Speaker 3: Because they came in just to get bread. Thought about it.
Speaker 4: Can suit.
Speaker 3: It's not one because it's just.
Speaker 9: Washing that recently and I promise it just made me it.
Speaker 9: I wanted to be like, please go put that back, please.
Speaker 7: Three and one.
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's.
Speaker 2: Gotta look at it because.
Speaker 10: Like washing their hair with it, right, like the body
Speaker 10: washing the body wash my hair.
Speaker 3: I got a completely three and one man.
Speaker 2: People three and one is bad.
Speaker 3: I won't because my bathroom body watched some of that.
Speaker 6: I didn't know what Maybe, ladies, you see how we
Speaker 6: started the show talking about p H balance and ship.
Speaker 6: Maybe your pH not off because he's cheating. Maybe it's
Speaker 6: because he was three and one on his dick three
Speaker 6: one on the Yeah, yeah, I was like, yeah, SOAPRS
Speaker 6: man is INSTACR shoppers are the fucking worst, and that's
Speaker 6: your job. What I asked for is literally right fucking there.
Speaker 6: The substitutions that.
Speaker 4: I have seen.
Speaker 3: Why I never do never.
Speaker 6: Okay, now now you're asking for a cabbage and then
Speaker 6: bringing the lettuce, even though it's wrong.
Speaker 4: That is way more reasonable than the ship that I
Speaker 4: have seen. Did you see the post?
Speaker 9: I think the lady had actually tampions or something and
Speaker 9: they had like did a substitute for like mushrooms, chicken
Speaker 9: feed or crazy.
Speaker 4: This nigga said, if you got such a preference, go
Speaker 4: get it yourself. Motherfucker you getting paid to do it.
Speaker 4: Let me trying out you an instacart. One of the
Speaker 4: men in.
Speaker 11: Biktok and and the girlfriend or the wife was like,
Speaker 11: I need my husband and boyfriend and get me some
Speaker 11: pass with the wings and.
Speaker 3: This is not that slow.
Speaker 4: I saw that.
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm saying, he brought.
Speaker 2: What they wanted past with the wings. He broke past
Speaker 2: and then like the sixties, he.
Speaker 3: Bre like car pads, no, like like GOLs.
Speaker 13: Like.
Speaker 4: Minstrel pads. But instead of getting the pads with.
Speaker 6: The wings that wrap around the pennies, they got wings
Speaker 6: as in chicken wings.
Speaker 10: Like how do you not get the ones that got
Speaker 10: the flat bos? You got the you got pass, you
Speaker 10: went and got a butt.
Speaker 4: They heard pads with wings and thought pads and wings.
Speaker 10: In his defense, he thought they need sometimes y'all need
Speaker 10: chocolate when y'all going through y'all things.
Speaker 3: So he probably thought they maybe want some some.
Speaker 4: Assistan can't can't say, okay now that that guy might
Speaker 4: be retarded. No, it was the thing.
Speaker 6: It was multiple women doing it to their spouses, you
Speaker 6: know how, like when they show like when people text
Speaker 6: and show people response.
Speaker 4: No, it was multiple women who uploaded their men coming
Speaker 4: in with pads and wins.
Speaker 10: Give them a little grace because, first of all, if
Speaker 10: they don't, if they never had to deal with the
Speaker 10: shopping for y'all, they don't a lot of them don't
Speaker 10: know that there's.
Speaker 4: Right, no speaking of.
Speaker 6: Pictures, comment on the machine on the monitor. I mean
Speaker 6: it's technically machine, and she said, it's when they take
Speaker 6: the picture to show you what you're asking for, isn't
Speaker 6: there when the fucking thing is fully present in the
Speaker 6: fucking picture.
Speaker 4: Just look, make it make sense. Kim Kim just posted
Speaker 4: a picture of that.
Speaker 6: She was making something and it was a cheese that
Speaker 6: she wanted and they sent the picture and was like,
Speaker 6: they don't have that, and she was like, it's literally
Speaker 6: right there next to the such and such like, so
Speaker 6: the cheese that she wanted, it was just a.
Speaker 3: Back a little bit further the look. Okay, I can't say.
Speaker 6: So, I gotta say that maybe the men shoppers that
Speaker 6: I had grew up with single moms or something, because
Speaker 6: they don't miss the ones that I've had. Dave actually
Speaker 6: like the last one that I had, like and he
Speaker 6: was out at at Woodman's, like he took his time,
Speaker 6: like because I wanted certain like tortillas and shit, like,
Speaker 6: he actually took his time, and then when they didn't
Speaker 6: have them, he got the right substitution and everything.
Speaker 10: Okay, So can I ask you'all ladies a question, including
Speaker 10: the ones in the comments too, Would y'all consider grocery
Speaker 10: shopping just to make sure everything is done right the
Speaker 10: woman's job while we taking out garbages and stuff like that,
Speaker 10: because apparently if we go do it, we do it wrong.
Speaker 10: So if you in a relationship, will you take that
Speaker 10: as the woman's responsibility because apparently were not gonna do
Speaker 10: shit right.
Speaker 9: Okay, So for me personally, go on grocery shopping because
Speaker 9: I know how I cook and I know certain ingredients
Speaker 9: of highlight things to go. I don't mind grocery shopping,
Speaker 9: but if there's any a situation that arises, then I
Speaker 9: can't go to the grocery store. You should be able
Speaker 9: to step up and go to the grocery store efficiently
Speaker 9: for this household.
Speaker 6: I feel like you, regardless as an adult, you shouldn't
Speaker 6: be a fucking idiot. If I tell you, if I
Speaker 6: tell you, if I tell you to bring me a
Speaker 6: I need pickle onions and you go and bring me
Speaker 6: pickles and an onion, I'm gonna be pissed because I
Speaker 6: know how I wrote it right.
Speaker 3: You didn't even that.
Speaker 6: No nigga can talking about some gender roles exist for
Speaker 6: a reason. You should have thought of that ship when
Speaker 6: I was working two jobs while you was at home.
Speaker 4: Don't piss me off.
Speaker 3: God damn, I was didn't fast quick.
Speaker 4: Because no, I know what you said too.
Speaker 9: It's like, you're not about to keep finding stuff and
Speaker 9: doing the wrong on purpose because weaponized incompetence.
Speaker 4: Ladies and gentlemen, old men who do that too.
Speaker 3: Let me.
Speaker 6: Don't forget something if you take a list, I really,
Speaker 6: I really regret that you weren't one of the ones
Speaker 6: that I hit with my car.
Speaker 4: Now I had to be with then it was newer.
Speaker 4: If you're dating back when I.
Speaker 11: Yeah significant other like send me to the grocery store,
Speaker 11: were like, no list, She's gonna understand that I was
Speaker 11: one of the kids that grew up in their parents
Speaker 11: work second shift.
Speaker 2: You're gonna be all kind of microwaving.
Speaker 4: You weren't. That's actually Lelo said.
Speaker 6: You will not grocer, thank Youlelo said. Leo said, you
Speaker 6: will not depart, You will not weaponized. Hold on, put
Speaker 6: Lelo on the screen. That is, Lelo said, you will
Speaker 6: not weaponize your incompetence. Figure it the funk out, or
Speaker 6: you will be paying for a door dash that night.
Speaker 9: How about get all of this ship and we went
Speaker 9: back to the grocery store because I'm trying to figure
Speaker 9: out how to hell this happened, like there is no
Speaker 9: but okay, what if I just had a damn baby?
Speaker 9: I can't leave and go to the grocery store. You
Speaker 9: gotta go to the store. Why are you stressing me
Speaker 9: out with this.
Speaker 4: Attention? Here's the thing too, if you're paying attention, we
Speaker 4: live together. I'm cooking. We're a household. You know how
Speaker 4: I shine. You know what I buy. So if you're
Speaker 4: at the store and you come back with some bull
Speaker 4: you know that I don't buy this ship.
Speaker 3: You know that I don't.
Speaker 4: You don't even eat this. But it's and I will
Speaker 4: be honest, it's not just men. My mom don't cook.
Speaker 2: In the room telling you how changed like ares from.
Speaker 3: I feel like she's experienced.
Speaker 4: My mom doesn't cook. But you know what my mom does.
Speaker 6: My mom don't just wing it and bring home when
Speaker 6: she thinks I mean, Mama, if it take her extra
Speaker 6: twenty minutes in that fucking store, you know what she does.
Speaker 4: She takes a picture of it and sends it and says,
Speaker 4: is this it?
Speaker 6: If it's something that I know that she's not familiar
Speaker 6: with and she's not gonna know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 6: I will scream shot it from Meyer app or whatever
Speaker 6: store she going to and said, this is what you're getting.
Speaker 10: The funny thing is I actually grocery shop better because
Speaker 10: my mom used to send me the centuries on my
Speaker 10: own with a list and dared me to come home
Speaker 10: with something.
Speaker 4: You know, it's crazy.
Speaker 6: Century is so high, and Centry seemed like a dump.
Speaker 6: I don't think I've been in the Cyria. That's like
Speaker 6: a billion where he can sat back the same. Century
Speaker 6: is like a step up from the hood Pickley Wiggly,
Speaker 6: not the one, not the pickly be out there, but
Speaker 6: like the good.
Speaker 9: But we have the point with Dylan where he's able
Speaker 9: to stop at the store on the way home. And
Speaker 9: there are times where I will go on the pick
Speaker 9: and Save app and I'll pull up a screenshot and
Speaker 9: I'll say, hey, I need you to go get this
Speaker 9: and the pick and Save all show you the picture.
Speaker 3: He will show you the eye.
Speaker 4: It will show you the price.
Speaker 9: And he's able to go in and with through that
Speaker 9: store because we don't been in there enough times and
Speaker 9: he know like, okay, I'm not gonna.
Speaker 4: Get pickled Oprah because he asks for a jar pickles.
Speaker 10: And I don't, I know see at that point them
Speaker 10: just niggas being dumb because you know read it's fundamental.
Speaker 4: I'm trying to help his future to the grocery store.
Speaker 6: And but I think another thing that really frustrates you
Speaker 6: when you were sending somebody to the grocery stoes because
Speaker 6: it's like I already have to do the cooking.
Speaker 4: You not about to cook this shit.
Speaker 6: I don't want to have to go spend my time
Speaker 6: in the grocery store because you act like you don't
Speaker 6: know what the fuck to do. Have to come home,
Speaker 6: prep this ship, cook it, and you're not doing absolutely
Speaker 6: fucking nothing. No, if you want to fucking eat, take
Speaker 6: your musty ass to the grocery store and go get
Speaker 6: this ship that I told you to get. Like I said,
Speaker 6: my mom, if she don't know, she will send me
Speaker 6: a picture or she will video chat me from the
Speaker 6: store and say, hey, is this what you was talking about?
Speaker 4: Is this what you need?
Speaker 13: Is this?
Speaker 4: And she paying the cart? Is this enough? Do I
Speaker 4: need to get more like that?
Speaker 12: Now?
Speaker 3: Like back in our days when telephones and have a
Speaker 3: camera on it, Yes, but.
Speaker 6: Now, even back then, they used to write on the
Speaker 6: fucking would tear. I was gonna set the back of
Speaker 6: the envelope they tear and tell you exactly what you need.
Speaker 9: My mom and when my stepdad had to go to
Speaker 9: the store, my mom will always send me and my
Speaker 9: sister with her because she takes us a grocery shop.
Speaker 9: And we would go to the store with him because
Speaker 9: if he gets something that we know she don't normally buy,
Speaker 9: we can call it out while we at the store. Hey,
Speaker 9: she don't normally buy that, she usually get this one. Now,
Speaker 9: with my ex boyfriend, if there were ever times where
Speaker 9: I had to work and I couldn't make it to
Speaker 9: the grocery store, he don't know how to grocery shop,
Speaker 9: but yes, what he'll do, my mom will go right
Speaker 9: the list time and my mama go do it. And
Speaker 9: by the time I would get off work, the groceries
Speaker 9: to be there because he sent his mama to the store.
Speaker 9: You can't do it, but you figured out somebody that
Speaker 9: you knew could go.
Speaker 11: And do it.
Speaker 10: Because no girl, man that lives by himself should not
Speaker 10: not have a grocery shop. You can't just keep having
Speaker 10: two dollars pop pyees in the freezer on the top
Speaker 10: all the time.
Speaker 4: But niggas really be I don't know what you are
Speaker 4: talking about. I'm a Canadian farmer, so you don't have
Speaker 4: to go to the grocery store then paint over driving.
Speaker 4: I'm jealous you grow your food. Yeah, that's actually pretty dope.
Speaker 6: I actually love the fact that you are a farmer
Speaker 6: because that means that you have food that don't have
Speaker 6: all of our our Why if I wasn't extremely terrified
Speaker 6: of bugs and nature, and I wasn't allergic to everything,
Speaker 6: I would totally try to save my money to get
Speaker 6: me a farm and do my own thing.
Speaker 4: I would try to be police out here. You see
Speaker 4: how fine the ladies are to have their farms. Have
Speaker 4: you paid attention to that.
Speaker 10: I don't love the white women. They white women. I
Speaker 10: can't look at him that way. That's really not That's
Speaker 10: not what I want.
Speaker 7: Doing the tik tik challenge.
Speaker 6: See that said, I'm triggered in the bitch tone even
Speaker 6: when I'm fucking with hi nigga. I learn him by
Speaker 6: asking questions. So if he had my place, there are
Speaker 6: drinks that he likes, so he won't be him my ship.
Speaker 6: Here are your snacks, so you ain't in my ship,
Speaker 6: folks said, if it's just me and that's my favorite,
Speaker 6: what the problem is.
Speaker 10: I didn't say you couldn't have pop pies in your
Speaker 10: free I said you need to know how to buy
Speaker 10: other stuff besides just that.
Speaker 4: Nigga, I'm just fascinated by black culture in the States.
Speaker 3: What's that, lady man, I'll give you a path. Oh okay,
Speaker 3: that was the green dots on difficult.
Speaker 4: Talking about you talking about Marie Calendar.
Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, those are That's a different story I'm talking about.
Speaker 9: That's what I'm talking about talking about. I got you
Speaker 9: talking about the little red boe No, no green box. Now,
Speaker 9: I'm like, okay, calendar box, yes, okay, at least.
Speaker 3: You care a little bit.
Speaker 9: The green Boy's got loved you was talking about the banquet,
Speaker 9: the little red box with the pip pie and.
Speaker 10: The South, the one that get all sought like the
Speaker 10: one that gets soggy at the bottom.
Speaker 4: I love that crust Scooper, No, the bank was scoop
Speaker 4: around the bottom and eat and eat the crust. Who
Speaker 4: used to have good? Have y'all ever had the pop
Speaker 4: Hobaby from KOC Yeah?
Speaker 6: First, I haven't had. I haven't had them recently. I
Speaker 6: haven't had them recently, but like when they first first
Speaker 6: first drop, Oh my god, I.
Speaker 4: Used to take the corners off and kind of put
Speaker 4: them in there.
Speaker 6: Because the chicken used to like they used to because
Speaker 6: I don't know about now, Like I said, it's I
Speaker 6: haven't had them in all these years I was a kid.
Speaker 4: But when I used to eat them, okay, they had
Speaker 4: the biggest, juiciest pieces of chicken.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm gonna do a quick call back.
Speaker 10: So you know when we were talking about the fridge
Speaker 10: earlier and how she said, you see how specifics are
Speaker 10: fucking important. Had she told them specifically why she want
Speaker 10: that fridge, he wouldn't have mattered. It was one hundred
Speaker 10: dollars cheaper. He would have bought the fridge she wanted that,
Speaker 10: you know, exactly on.
Speaker 4: The list of things that were important. Her specifics wouldn't
Speaker 4: have mattered.
Speaker 13: That.
Speaker 9: You want to know why, because he would have said,
Speaker 9: that costs too much, and this one is she So
Speaker 9: let's just get this one.
Speaker 7: Ain't that what you just did?
Speaker 3: I buy the one that I want in the picture.
Speaker 7: You didn't actual for one hundred dollars new balance. The
Speaker 7: actual ones I want.
Speaker 3: That's true, you did you No, that's still that same
Speaker 3: same dynamics.
Speaker 4: That's a child.
Speaker 9: That's kind of like she was saying, what the bed,
Speaker 9: the shoes still have to say your feature there was
Speaker 9: a different color, but you still need new balances.
Speaker 4: It's a different color comfort. And now they won his
Speaker 4: favorite pair of shoes.
Speaker 3: You just got lucky that that's his favorite pair of shoes.
Speaker 4: You infrigerator.
Speaker 6: There was also communication there. There was no communication for
Speaker 6: him to say, hey, and that's what do you think?
Speaker 12: What do you think?
Speaker 4: What do you think about this fridge?
Speaker 3: We don't know if he tried to call and she
Speaker 3: just didn't answer whatever.
Speaker 4: I feel like also gave she gave I don't.
Speaker 3: Know she gave a victim answer.
Speaker 4: I think my problem is this, I didn't like the
Speaker 4: responses to it.
Speaker 3: I give you that because some of the responses do
Speaker 3: I didn't like those.
Speaker 4: Spons was saying that she was ungrateful, and.
Speaker 6: I feel like people need to understand that it is
Speaker 6: okay to be grateful for a gesture but disappointed with
Speaker 6: the execution.
Speaker 4: Two things can be true at once.
Speaker 6: I can be grateful that you did something, but disappointed
Speaker 6: with the outcome.
Speaker 4: Because this isn't what I asked for.
Speaker 9: I don't like flowers, but you're You're bringing me flowers,
Speaker 9: and I'm telling you I don't like flowers, and you
Speaker 9: keep bringing them to me.
Speaker 4: I'm so grateful that I was grate the flowers you
Speaker 4: bought me. But we know that I am fucking allergic
Speaker 4: to everything.
Speaker 3: You are an asshole for that tried to kill her.
Speaker 9: No, I was being actual. I was actually being very genuine.
Speaker 9: But you forgot in my mind, I was like, oh,
Speaker 9: this would make her dead. It wasn't oh this is
Speaker 9: gonna kill her, because if I was thinking it was
Speaker 9: a killer, then that wouldn't right.
Speaker 3: But for me.
Speaker 6: But for me, the most important part of her gesture
Speaker 6: was the handwritten note that she left me.
Speaker 4: I still have that. You did that, Yeah, and you
Speaker 4: and you even you even signed it. Melan and Hitler.
Speaker 4: You even signed it Melani and Hitler.
Speaker 3: Melani and Hitler.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you've known way more along to tell me about it.
Speaker 4: What did he say?
Speaker 6: I feel like it said Okay, as a white German
Speaker 6: Canadian with she with three generations of farmers, I am
Speaker 6: fascinated by black Americans Americans.
Speaker 4: Are you African or American?
Speaker 3: That's a great question.
Speaker 4: Either way, they don't want us here.
Speaker 3: You're right, how do we get into Canada?
Speaker 4: I love Canada? It's so clean.
Speaker 9: How do we Either way, we're not welcome in America.
Speaker 9: We just surviving here, you know, wen't actually be here.
Speaker 4: Brought us over.
Speaker 3: That is a lot. He is white, German and Canadian
Speaker 3: and a farmer.
Speaker 4: You know, a man named Damien there. I mean, I
Speaker 4: don't know man.
Speaker 3: You never know. It could be him farmer.
Speaker 9: I can't stand flowers, but I'll accept them and given
Speaker 9: just don't expect me to keep them.
Speaker 3: Holes a lot nobody expect.
Speaker 4: He's coming in from YouTube YouTube.
Speaker 3: My algorithm is kind of open now.
Speaker 9: But like I tend to take the road of gratitude.
Speaker 9: I don't like hurting people feelings. So I feel like
Speaker 9: it's definitely been times for No, it's actually bad because
Speaker 9: I don't say half of the stuff that I should.
Speaker 6: I can can actually vouch for me that as much
Speaker 6: as people think I'm an asshole, there is a lot
Speaker 6: that I don't say a lot, but.
Speaker 9: I'll definitely be I'm so grateful. I'm so grateful, and
Speaker 9: it's stuff that I'm like, I really don't care.
Speaker 4: For this and said, they brought us here without her permission.
Speaker 6: Own business, and by they, I mean my parents because
Speaker 6: I didn't ask to be here paying bills because y'all
Speaker 6: wanted to get busy.
Speaker 4: Can be in a sack, but no.
Speaker 6: And so I was really upset with the comments because
Speaker 6: I hate how people automatically feel like if you were
Speaker 6: disappointed with something, it means that you were ungrateful. Now,
Speaker 6: if I go to a restaurant because I have a
Speaker 6: taste for steak, I want steak, I order steak, and
Speaker 6: they decide, you know what, we want to give you
Speaker 6: a burger.
Speaker 4: It's still beef. So what does it matter?
Speaker 6: Am I supposed to just sit here smile and grinting
Speaker 6: like a fucking idiot, like, well, it's still beef.
Speaker 3: I gotta be, you know, happy that some guys still
Speaker 3: took you out on the date.
Speaker 4: And you know what that reminded me of.
Speaker 9: That just reminded me of a conversation this lady at
Speaker 9: work was having her birthday is coming up soon. She
Speaker 9: told her husband that she wanted to go to Belize.
Speaker 9: She said, I want to take a vacation and I
Speaker 9: want to go to Belize. And then she said he
Speaker 9: was like, Okay, we're going on vacation. And she's like,
Speaker 9: oh my god, we're going to Belieze for my birthday.
Speaker 9: And he was like, no, we're actually going to go
Speaker 9: to London and so, and you can see the disappointment. Now,
Speaker 9: she didn't really express it to him, like oh, that's
Speaker 9: not what I asked for, but when she was describing
Speaker 9: it to us, she was like, I told him that
Speaker 9: I wanted to go to L's like we've been in
Speaker 9: London so many times.
Speaker 4: I want to go to London.
Speaker 3: But what stopped him. What stopped her from telling that was.
Speaker 4: No money, It's not an issue.
Speaker 3: But that's what I'm saying. What stopped her from telling him, Nigga,
Speaker 3: I don't want to go to London. I want to
Speaker 3: go to Believe she.
Speaker 9: Might have mentioned it, but it wasn't likely. But you
Speaker 9: can clearly see the disappointment. Like she told him exactly,
Speaker 9: they travel all the time, so you taking me here
Speaker 9: should not be issue.
Speaker 4: The money is not a problem. Traveling is not a problem.
Speaker 3: I don't like her.
Speaker 4: He literally was like, yeah, so we're gonna we're gonna
Speaker 4: go to London.
Speaker 9: And she's like, I asked to go the Belieze but okay,
Speaker 9: And I remember asking her, I said, well, are you
Speaker 9: gonna go?
Speaker 4: And she said, well, that's what he planned, so we're
Speaker 4: gonna go. And I'm just like, you ain't gotta go.
Speaker 3: You can stay home, but you can say on your own.
Speaker 9: I feel back at her because when she was just
Speaker 9: you can tell the disappointment, like that's not where she
Speaker 9: They've been there before. She wanted to go somewhere that
Speaker 9: she didn't want, didn't go before she wanted to go
Speaker 9: to believe, So how we end up in London?
Speaker 13: All?
Speaker 3: Do black folks have my back on the demons attack?
Speaker 6: I really hate to want to tell you, but here
Speaker 6: for us, white folks are the demons.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just need we actually need you more than
Speaker 3: you need us. We needed folks are the demons, right,
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but I'll try a couple.
Speaker 4: They really don't like us here. But yeah, I didn't
Speaker 4: like that you too much.
Speaker 3: Now, I didn't like that at all to white Germany
Speaker 3: and all caps feel like a micro that's not like.
Speaker 2: Who it's from.
Speaker 10: Yeah, but what But that brings up a good point
Speaker 10: because I do remember talking to like older generations when
Speaker 10: me and Teresa person had got married and he was
Speaker 10: telling me the story about how he bought his wife
Speaker 10: a coat, and she didn't never say that she didn't
Speaker 10: like the coach. She just left it in the closet
Speaker 10: and never wore it. And he said, I'll never buy
Speaker 10: nothing again for her.
Speaker 4: She didn't, that's not what she asked for.
Speaker 10: But and and and then now, y'all, I said, I
Speaker 10: actually thought about that, said maybe you just didn't buy
Speaker 10: her the coach she wanted. But she didn't want to
Speaker 10: hurt your feelings by saying, nigga, that is the wrong coat.
Speaker 3: And that's what I said too. He wanted to go
Speaker 3: to lon. Like I said, I think about that.
Speaker 10: I think that's a lot of thing is we don't
Speaker 10: actually communicate with comprehension when something.
Speaker 3: Is not what we like. Because, like you said, he
Speaker 3: tried to be nice.
Speaker 10: So I don't want to hurt nobody's feelings, but sometimes
Speaker 10: hurt their feelings so it sticks.
Speaker 3: And head to not make this type of mistake ever again.
Speaker 6: So my ex boyfriend got a fur coat as collateral
Speaker 6: from a crackhead.
Speaker 4: And I ended up with it.
Speaker 3: You got she got two more videos, so we used
Speaker 3: to and yeah, no more stories.
Speaker 1: I was a fur.
Speaker 3: Coat ain't cheap.
Speaker 4: You get at least a good two rock and a
Speaker 4: long story short, the coat was gifted to me and
Speaker 4: I never wore the coat.
Speaker 10: I wouldn't wear it either because I don't know where
Speaker 10: that coke being. But it's you put it on and
Speaker 10: somebody seeing it's like that's my mama coat. Next thing
Speaker 10: you know it they spraying up the joint.
Speaker 4: So it's like it was just haying and he.
Speaker 3: Thought it was like mono.
Speaker 6: And then it's like, I don't pal and if you
Speaker 6: and if you're asking me, I will go with rabbit
Speaker 6: fur coat.
Speaker 10: Never get if you get siblings from a fur coat,
Speaker 10: that is a wild world you live.
Speaker 3: The co came from a crackhead, Yes, in a wild world.
Speaker 4: But yeah, I just.
Speaker 6: I really, I really think that we need to start
Speaker 6: admitting that there are limits on it's the thought that counts,
Speaker 6: because a lot of those it's the thought that counts.
Speaker 4: It really don't be that much thought.
Speaker 3: It don't be thought.
Speaker 6: It don't be thought to me, to me, to me,
Speaker 6: when it's you can tell when it's really a thought,
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying, a lot of times I don't.
Speaker 4: Feel like it's a thought that counts. It was convenience.
Speaker 3: A thought that counts is when you produce something that
Speaker 3: you know they like that they did not expect you
Speaker 3: to get. Like if you know that the girl you
Speaker 3: talking to likes care bears, but y'all ain't talked about
Speaker 3: care bear since the very first time.
Speaker 10: She said she used to have one when she was little.
Speaker 10: So you happen to be on Amazon and you go
Speaker 10: buy her a care bear. That's a thought that counts.
Speaker 10: You just bought a fucking bear at the store. You
Speaker 10: just bought a fucking bear at the store because it
Speaker 10: came with the beer.
Speaker 4: If it came with the beer, you didn't even bite it.
Speaker 3: When you told her to shut it down.
Speaker 6: No more stories, no, because but that's like and so
Speaker 6: like recently, like I am I am a very like
Speaker 6: when it comes to the thought that counts type person,
Speaker 6: like that's really how it moved.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so.
Speaker 6: If it's something small or simple, it still means a
Speaker 6: lot because it's like, damn, you was really paying attention,
Speaker 6: you know what I mean?
Speaker 4: So even like but it's not bad.
Speaker 3: I like that nigga just get on my nerves because
Speaker 3: he know you too well.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's like he can't.
Speaker 10: He can't pull up with bullshit because we we all
Speaker 10: have high expectations with him.
Speaker 3: But he but he knows me though, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: He can't come up with bullshit. He can't pull up
Speaker 3: with a fur coat he got from I don't care
Speaker 3: where you go.
Speaker 10: But he but knowing him, he would buy you a
Speaker 10: wrestling T shirt or some ship like that, and he
Speaker 10: will buy the wrestler that you He would buy you
Speaker 10: a yeak shirt and that would mean more to you
Speaker 10: than anything else.
Speaker 4: Sometimes it's hard to shot for people that you.
Speaker 3: Do know your order one already. I wasn't go, I
Speaker 3: was gonna wait.
Speaker 4: That knows you that you can know them very well,
Speaker 4: and you just like damn, Like, I don't know if
Speaker 4: the gift hard is hard some people.
Speaker 1: It is hard.
Speaker 10: To figure out what It was hard for me to
Speaker 10: shot for Teresa. It's always been hard for me to
Speaker 10: shot for her.
Speaker 6: Well, we were still in that stage like of me
Speaker 6: learning you, so I didn't know, like I didn't know
Speaker 6: what you needed.
Speaker 4: The people that did know me that you was asking. Yeah.
Speaker 4: So it's like but me, I'm observant, but but see
Speaker 4: I'm one of those Yeah.
Speaker 6: But I'm one of those people where you don't you
Speaker 6: don't have to ask me because I observe.
Speaker 4: And that's like with him, like going the past couple
Speaker 4: of times that I went over and I'm like, this
Speaker 4: nigga need a new garbage can. That's what I do.
Speaker 6: I'm the target and buy him a brand new garbage camp.
Speaker 6: And as simple as it was, it's just like, man,
Speaker 6: I love this garbage.
Speaker 3: Camp like it is it the kind where you just
Speaker 3: wave his hand across and open up on his own.
Speaker 4: It got like the older control all the ship.
Speaker 10: You know what I'm saying, Hey, that's a great that's
Speaker 10: a great gift if you ever want to buy something.
Speaker 3: For the studio.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: So it's like you know, little Ship like that, or
Speaker 6: noticing like bruh, example, one day you go go to
Speaker 6: climbing your truck and your lunch is go fall off
Speaker 6: the bottom of that bag. So going on Amazon and
Speaker 6: getting them one of the lunch boxes that keep like
Speaker 6: little ship, or even like back when I was fucking
Speaker 6: with one of my little Yamians. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 6: Like I got tired of every time we went somewhere.
Speaker 6: I'm like, bro, that wallet is ass so I went
Speaker 6: on Amazon. It cost me ten dollars.
Speaker 4: He was so happy.
Speaker 3: No, he's s we like our wallets.
Speaker 4: He needed it, and he just kept forgetting to get
Speaker 4: him one.
Speaker 6: And I finally got him and he was like man
Speaker 6: like and he appreciated it just because he's like, you're
Speaker 6: paying attention, like because he wasn't even saying it, like damn,
Speaker 6: can you give me a wallet?
Speaker 4: Was just like, damn, man, I gotta give me a
Speaker 4: new wallet.
Speaker 3: This month, paying attention.
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 10: The white German Canadian guy, if we ever knew him
Speaker 10: and it was his birthday, I would buy him a
Speaker 10: chest set because he likes playing chess paying attention.
Speaker 4: Why you keep captitalized?
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 10: And that's what they keep pointing out, like why are
Speaker 10: you like he's trying to I think he's trying to
Speaker 10: troll us and make us get upset that he's doing.
Speaker 10: He just doesn't say we don't care, like he's inspasizing
Speaker 10: raise like it's supposed to, but we don't care.
Speaker 3: He just wanted to. He just wanted to riles out
Speaker 3: of somebody. We don't care, We'll run with it.
Speaker 6: So I still got two more videos to go. We're
Speaker 6: actually gonna go with the last video first.
Speaker 4: Yep, I'm a mother.
Speaker 16: So when a guy's like, oh, let me go over, like,
Speaker 16: I don't care if your kid's there, like all way
Speaker 16: till they're asleep, dude.
Speaker 4: I'll tell you what. I'm a mother.
Speaker 16: So when a guy's like, oh, let me go over, like,
Speaker 16: I don't care if your kid's there, like all way
Speaker 16: till they're asleep, blocked.
Speaker 4: Done, Like what you mean go away for my kid
Speaker 4: to be asleep? Hell yeah, that's a that's an instant
Speaker 4: turn off.
Speaker 3: So so, no, I love you, He's all that. I
Speaker 3: love you.
Speaker 10: There need to be more love in this world. I
Speaker 10: don't know what white, Germany Canadian love looks like. That
Speaker 10: is a wild combination. So she said, So, Kayla, would
Speaker 10: you have a problem with a man who was like,
Speaker 10: I wait till my I wait for your kids to
Speaker 10: go to sleep the slide through?
Speaker 4: Is it a man that I just like start dealing
Speaker 4: with or one that we got history.
Speaker 3: Based on the way she told that on the video.
Speaker 3: Based on the video, it has to be less than
Speaker 3: three weeks.
Speaker 4: It's a hell no for me.
Speaker 3: That's no, I don't want to go.
Speaker 9: You'll been surprised how many how many men are like
Speaker 9: comfortable saying that, Like I had a guy even be like, oh,
Speaker 9: you know, I want to hang out on to see you,
Speaker 9: and I'm like, no, Like I spend time with my son, like, oh,
Speaker 9: I'll come spend time with you. All know you won't
Speaker 9: a lot of what no, Like I don't just let
Speaker 9: random men in my home, Like I don't let men
Speaker 9: in my home at all.
Speaker 3: That I know a lot of women that will not.
Speaker 3: They could be dating to do for almost a year
Speaker 3: and he has never been over by the house.
Speaker 4: I mean, it's especially not upfront.
Speaker 9: If we got history and I trust you, Like yeah,
Speaker 9: but if he if my child is up moving around,
Speaker 9: he can't tell you that he's seen a man in
Speaker 9: my house at all?
Speaker 3: How long will you now?
Speaker 4: Once he goes to.
Speaker 3: Sleep grown, you gotta grown as man.
Speaker 4: But I also feel like at his age, it also
Speaker 4: gets it also gets harder.
Speaker 3: Right I was saying, you gotta grown as man.
Speaker 4: It's no, you can't come over here, but I can
Speaker 4: go over there.
Speaker 2: I can.
Speaker 9: But it's also kind of weird too because it's like
Speaker 9: then you got to come home with that walk of shame.
Speaker 3: It's only shame if it was bad, how are.
Speaker 7: You You gotta realize out here somehow my mom.
Speaker 4: Is fucking It's also weird.
Speaker 2: It's an eventually no no, you're gonna start fucking no.
Speaker 10: But why why let's let's keep let's keep it the butt.
Speaker 10: Do you want to have to get him and go
Speaker 10: to the bathroom in here? Your mom getting cracked like
Speaker 10: a bro?
Speaker 4: He got a sister, that's how old he knows what's going.
Speaker 3: But do you want to hear it? You see what
Speaker 3: I'm saying? You put that over there?
Speaker 10: If your brother beating his meat while your mom is
Speaker 10: getting their cheek beat, I really need you to check
Speaker 10: that nigga into something.
Speaker 3: Why why is the mom and dad now on the
Speaker 3: first floor anyway? Why are you up on the top
Speaker 3: floor with everybody else? Look, I.
Speaker 4: I have been traumatized on multiple occasions. I feel like, honestly,
Speaker 4: a woman should he said, first of all, goofy ass
Speaker 4: over here, bro, you will get shot.
Speaker 10: I always feel like the woman should be one who
Speaker 10: initiate you coming to crack her taco, no matter where
Speaker 10: it's at.
Speaker 6: So the video itself is not the problem because there's
Speaker 6: nothing wrong with what she said it was the comments always, always,
Speaker 6: the comments there are so there are so many men
Speaker 6: in these comments who are attacking. They're attacking her looks,
Speaker 6: they're attacking her for being a single mom, they're attacking
Speaker 6: her weight. All of this because she said, and don't
Speaker 6: come over here. Don't come over here talking about some
Speaker 6: youthinna come.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, only because I forgot the order.
Speaker 4: And then you have something.
Speaker 6: Some they be so thirsty to say shit about women
Speaker 6: that they completely missed the point of the video. Once say,
Speaker 6: if you were a real mother, you wouldn't want any
Speaker 6: random guy to meet your kids.
Speaker 10: What you just say, gardless if the kid go to
Speaker 10: sleep or now you don't want no in the grocery
Speaker 10: store because clearly you don't read.
Speaker 11: I don't want niggas to be a part of the
Speaker 11: first topic when women get to talking.
Speaker 9: Bro, even if there is no child, I did not
Speaker 9: invite you. I'm about to just be like, hey, you
Speaker 9: want to come over.
Speaker 4: No, you don't need niggas.
Speaker 3: Don't niggas don't think with nothing.
Speaker 9: But they didn't, especially in the world that we live
Speaker 9: in today. As a man, that just would not be
Speaker 9: how the conversation leads for me and as a man't
Speaker 9: want to go about your in the world that we
Speaker 9: live in today.
Speaker 4: I am going to automatically think sorry that you're trying
Speaker 4: to murder me.
Speaker 3: Probably you have to think that.
Speaker 10: But at the same time, as a man, you should
Speaker 10: not want to go over by someone's house that you
Speaker 10: haven't gotten to know better because you can get set up.
Speaker 10: I might actually rob you so exactly you don't know.
Speaker 10: You don't know how many brothers uncle she got.
Speaker 4: They might rob you, you say, yo, But it is
Speaker 4: scary times.
Speaker 9: You really have to vet people and be very you
Speaker 9: don't know what, and careful about who you let know
Speaker 9: where you lay your head, especially when there are children.
Speaker 3: Involved, especially when the kids involved.
Speaker 4: Especially like, no, you not know, you can't come over here.
Speaker 4: You don't need snow.
Speaker 3: I'm a big nigga. She can't take me. It's not her.
Speaker 3: You gotta worry about my guy.
Speaker 6: Okay, she rejected a guy just because he wanted to
Speaker 6: be with her after the kids are asleep. I see
Speaker 6: nothing wrong with that. She's a red flag anyway, because
Speaker 6: she can't get out of her own way. When it
Speaker 6: comes down to finding and keeping a new man to
Speaker 6: do with that.
Speaker 12: He get all of that.
Speaker 4: How did that last part come from? This short clip?
Speaker 4: Was this longer?
Speaker 3: It couldn't have been.
Speaker 4: How did you get single?
Speaker 6: Moms always have the highest standards because she don't want
Speaker 6: you around her kids.
Speaker 3: She got a lot to lose.
Speaker 4: I don't this single mom if I the highest when
Speaker 4: it comes to my kids.
Speaker 12: You damn right, Like at the end of the day, want.
Speaker 6: You have people like well, like she have options like
Speaker 6: attacking her. It's like y'all feel like y'all get mad.
Speaker 6: And and that's why, because y'all know me, and I commented,
Speaker 6: and I said, the comments are exactly why I preach
Speaker 6: to women that men's opinions are not to be taken seriously.
Speaker 6: They contradict themselves at every turn, and it will always
Speaker 6: be a double edged swords with them. They constantly attacking
Speaker 6: her now for not wanting to entertain men in her
Speaker 6: home while her kids are there, but if she did
Speaker 6: have him over, they call her trifling and a bad mom.
Speaker 6: They continuously get on these apps and tell women the
Speaker 6: so called choose and pick better, but when they see
Speaker 6: her doing that, they attack her for having a standard.
Speaker 6: They don't truly want women to choose better men because
Speaker 6: it would exclude them. They only say that when they
Speaker 6: want to attempt to shame a woman for something the
Speaker 6: guy has done to her. Stay safe, ladies, and praises
Speaker 6: to the men who are nothing like what I just described.
Speaker 4: The comments are the reason why she don't hold them
Speaker 4: at her house.
Speaker 3: Now I'm like that person said everything that I was
Speaker 3: I was getting ready to say for the reason that
Speaker 3: was my comment. Okay, so my sister, you think like me.
Speaker 3: That's fine, see, and this is why I am. I
Speaker 3: am sad. I have two daughters.
Speaker 6: But when I tell you like the majority of the
Speaker 6: comments is like it is ridiculous, Like how are y'all
Speaker 6: mad at her about this?
Speaker 1: How?
Speaker 4: How is what she said?
Speaker 1: He said?
Speaker 10: Because that excludes them by her having standards. It takes
Speaker 10: you off the table, and now you feel like you
Speaker 10: are less of a man because someone who doesn't want
Speaker 10: you to begin with is now not.
Speaker 3: Even considering you as a possible option.
Speaker 10: These are the same niggas who got highly upset and
Speaker 10: getting their chest when women started using the road and
Speaker 10: didn't need you fuck niggas to come up over by
Speaker 10: their house at two o'clock in the morning.
Speaker 4: No more, with mediocre dig she'll be fifty five years
Speaker 4: old and single.
Speaker 3: She's probably got a boyfriend now, and what's so wrong
Speaker 3: with that?
Speaker 11: I just don't understand why niggas just like why y'all
Speaker 11: want to be wearing like y'all not.
Speaker 13: Right?
Speaker 7: Like if you looking for a specific if you're looking
Speaker 7: for the hose.
Speaker 3: There's a section of life where they're just hos, just hoes. Now,
Speaker 3: once you get to.
Speaker 11: The battlefield of holes, you have to realize that these
Speaker 11: holes still women at the end of the day, which
Speaker 11: means they still gonna be picking and choosing.
Speaker 2: Because they given out pussy don't mean they giving it
Speaker 2: to you.
Speaker 9: And part about it all that I feel like they're
Speaker 9: looking over is the fact that this is a mother
Speaker 9: protecting her child.
Speaker 7: I don't want to be no.
Speaker 6: Shout out to Ray, Ray Ruie, shout out to me.
Speaker 6: He said, you know, men, they get super triggered whenever
Speaker 6: a woman says boundaries, won't bend them and isn't afraid
Speaker 6: to kick a dude to the curve that doesn't respect that.
Speaker 6: Many men want traditional or feminine women and women who
Speaker 6: says boundaries and calls out guys for being a dick
Speaker 6: does not fit their idea. But I raised my daughters
Speaker 6: to not give a crap with insecure guys find appeeling.
Speaker 6: If guys like that weakness, they can just hook up
Speaker 6: with each other shout out to you, and.
Speaker 3: A lot of them do.
Speaker 11: I shared a video in the group about niggas looking
Speaker 11: out with each other. I read that has nasty work.
Speaker 11: How you got a group chat?
Speaker 4: Finished even finished the video. Your homeboys in this group
Speaker 4: chat and everybody got HIV.
Speaker 2: When you came back clean?
Speaker 4: What I started watching?
Speaker 9: When she said he not, he broke her jaw and
Speaker 9: she woke up in the house. After that, I turned
Speaker 9: it on.
Speaker 2: That wasn't funny, like your girl, your baby mama cat
Speaker 2: and she to being gay and.
Speaker 9: The first thing you thought, let me crack and then
Speaker 9: house and she woke up on the bathroom floor with
Speaker 9: a broke y'await what yeah, you have to watch?
Speaker 2: It was a video.
Speaker 7: She was like.
Speaker 11: She found out that not only was her baby daddy
Speaker 11: gay or bisexual everyone phrasy, but he had as because
Speaker 11: he had a secret group chat of him.
Speaker 2: And his friends friends they were sucking each other.
Speaker 3: And that's nasty work. Yeah, literally, like he you know?
Speaker 4: So she she said, she started throwing up and ran streaming.
Speaker 2: He noticed that she had his phone and he fired her,
Speaker 2: broke her jaw back and forth.
Speaker 4: And you've been laughing the entire time.
Speaker 12: Like that destroyed her.
Speaker 4: Destroyed the house.
Speaker 2: Horrible, not funny.
Speaker 11: But it's just like the thought of like most niggas
Speaker 11: gonna please, you know, you go to beg and some
Speaker 11: ship in his first instance was like knock.
Speaker 4: All this ship over, and like he knocks her unconsciously
Speaker 4: he was that what I'm saying, like thought she was
Speaker 4: I think she was pregnant.
Speaker 2: It reminds me of that clip with like like Andy
Speaker 2: in the office, he just knock everything. I will show
Speaker 2: you to gain.
Speaker 10: But that's what I thought when he went to court
Speaker 10: and he had to get away real quick. That's why
Speaker 10: where do you find these videos at brouh. I need
Speaker 10: you to reset your algorithm.
Speaker 4: The longest and yes, like it was before.
Speaker 6: Shamed to the comments, that's din Lelo said, it just
Speaker 6: gives creepy to invite yourself to my crib and we
Speaker 6: just started talking. Move Britt said, even if there is
Speaker 6: no child, I did not invite you period. Most of
Speaker 6: the men folks don't even have a pot to piss in.
Speaker 6: That's their own. That's why they want to tiptoe towards
Speaker 6: your stability.
Speaker 4: It's hobo sexual season.
Speaker 13: Uh it is.
Speaker 6: It says they would slammer her if she proclaims she
Speaker 6: had no problem with a man coming over.
Speaker 4: Damned if you do, damned if you don't. These comments
Speaker 4: as are pathetic.
Speaker 9: Yeah, it's like it's really really really bad, Like it's
Speaker 9: it's crazy now again.
Speaker 3: Probably we cook when we won't to always allowed us
Speaker 3: to talk.
Speaker 4: Can you cook?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I can?
Speaker 12: Can you? Yeah?
Speaker 7: I just don't because I don't.
Speaker 4: I'm not talking about the Popeye's not required of me
Speaker 4: to cook.
Speaker 6: No, I've never known you to do anything like deep friar, yeah,
Speaker 6: but like to actually cook, I've never I've literally never
Speaker 6: known that.
Speaker 4: So I was legitimately asking, yeah I cook. I just
Speaker 4: chose not to because like my mom, like we.
Speaker 6: Know, like my mom, the only thing that she would
Speaker 6: like cook it is like lasagn you're like like chicken
Speaker 6: or pork chops like she like that.
Speaker 4: Everything else is just heating. My Mom's a heater. She
Speaker 4: peels that corner of film back on whatever little dinner
Speaker 4: is going in the oven.
Speaker 6: She do that to go with the peel back dinner.
Speaker 6: So like Salisbury's steak and potatoes. I'm not shaming Salisbury.
Speaker 4: I'm just saying talking about my mom is not my mind.
Speaker 3: It's the level of It's her skill set.
Speaker 6: It's the fact that my mom will go in the
Speaker 6: kitchen and put on her green apron like she's really
Speaker 6: about to cook some ship and get herself dirty when
Speaker 6: it's just a banquet dinner. She's level two on the
Speaker 6: sim Meanwhile, Thanksgivings in a couple of weeks, Who's going
Speaker 6: to be making Thanksgiving dinner? It is going to be me.
Speaker 6: I'm going to have to make dressing. I'm gonna have
Speaker 6: to make turkey breasts, I'm gonna have to make ham
Speaker 6: and yams and roast and everything else.
Speaker 4: But what she is, But what she's gonna.
Speaker 10: Do everything, I'm usually in charge, just like it's a
Speaker 10: skill set for him. Absolutely, Chi on the same.
Speaker 6: On the you know what, I will forever, I will
Speaker 6: forever give this nigga grace on frying chicken because he
Speaker 6: was in the back picking save and everybody know how
Speaker 6: good pick and saved chicken is. So this was a
Speaker 6: nigga maker big chicken.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was.
Speaker 3: He's the reason why seventy six, was on and popping
Speaker 3: for years.
Speaker 4: Hey who got you fired? Because I still want to
Speaker 4: fail him. She can catch this work too. I'm forty now,
Speaker 4: so technically I'm an old black lady, so I feel.
Speaker 3: Like I'm ala, so I feel so I.
Speaker 4: Feel like she can catch his hands like.
Speaker 3: Because she was doing Yeah, so she took you out
Speaker 3: to get the heat off of her.
Speaker 2: You gotta stitch on somebody else.
Speaker 3: That's always how you get fired somebody else.
Speaker 6: Every job that you get fired from, somebody got caught
Speaker 6: doing the same ship and told on you.
Speaker 4: Have you not noticed that pattern.
Speaker 3: Every time? I didn't know work alone.
Speaker 2: But he's crazy, bro Lie, I wasn't in cohoota with
Speaker 2: this bitch.
Speaker 4: You don't have to be like I gotta if I
Speaker 4: get in trouble for doing it. He was doing it too,
Speaker 4: but we wasn't doing the same ship.
Speaker 3: So she just dined you out.
Speaker 11: You're like for her to snick like, I don't even
Speaker 11: know what she actually told on me about.
Speaker 3: To take you out and.
Speaker 2: Explain that they just told me what they like had on,
Speaker 2: which was basically ship. I knew I was eventually gonna
Speaker 2: get fired for I'm still in town.
Speaker 3: Oh that's yeah. I was gonna let you go for that. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that's different.
Speaker 2: I got off work.
Speaker 11: I don't, and I like, I stopped working at nine
Speaker 11: o'clock and I'm riding the fucking motor cart around the
Speaker 11: store four an hour until it's time to out.
Speaker 2: I knew I was going down eventually.
Speaker 3: Oh, no, your time. She just didn't add up, That's
Speaker 3: all it was.
Speaker 10: They were probably getting ready to redo the schedule and
Speaker 10: realize that you was on the schedule for ten to
Speaker 10: ten and you wasn't doing nothing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I don't.
Speaker 3: Maybe she didn't snitch in.
Speaker 6: And it's funny because it's like I do know men
Speaker 6: that cook, but honestly, men who cook are annoying.
Speaker 3: Because they think that because they cooked, they on a
Speaker 3: whole other levels. They think they better. It's like then
Speaker 3: they were backwards for them.
Speaker 4: Because you will have my brothers, like like my pops.
Speaker 6: But it's like when you have men who cook, it's
Speaker 6: annoying because no, it's not sad, So it's just annoying
Speaker 6: because it's like when you have people, well people in general,
Speaker 6: who think that they cook better than everybody.
Speaker 4: It makes it difficult because it's like if you.
Speaker 6: Cook, They complaining because they always feel like they could
Speaker 6: have done it better. They don't want to go out
Speaker 6: to eat because they feel like they cook better than
Speaker 6: all the restaurants.
Speaker 4: So it's like it's really annoying to deal with. So
Speaker 4: if I would never date a guy.
Speaker 6: Who his profession or even a hobby is for him
Speaker 6: to be a chef, because I already know what kind
Speaker 6: of attitude you gonna have, and that's that's gonna piss
Speaker 6: me off, because it's like like.
Speaker 4: With my pops, it's like he gets he get offended,
Speaker 4: Like he get offended.
Speaker 6: When it's certain shit that the girls or my mom
Speaker 6: are like that they might like better of mine or
Speaker 6: of moms or whoever better than his. Because he feels
Speaker 6: like he's the cook of the house. Everybody's supposed to
Speaker 6: think that all of his shit is number one, and
Speaker 6: it is not.
Speaker 4: See, my uncle is not like that. The only thing
Speaker 4: that he's gonna get offended by.
Speaker 9: Is if you go to if we go out to
Speaker 9: a restaurant and you order a steak and you ask
Speaker 9: for steak sauce, all you'll hear is like.
Speaker 4: Excuse me, would you just ask for That's when he's
Speaker 4: gonna get offended. Other than that, not gonna say.
Speaker 9: That's the only time you'll ever see him get offend
Speaker 9: anything else.
Speaker 4: He ain't gonna say nothing.
Speaker 2: Would you call.
Speaker 3: Good?
Speaker 6: But you know, I like, I used to love a
Speaker 6: one as a kid, but now I don't eat any
Speaker 6: sauce on mysteak because I don't need to back then her,
Speaker 6: she judged.
Speaker 4: When we went to the steakhouse on the cruise ship,
Speaker 4: I feel like I was disclosed. That was like, would
Speaker 4: you like any whatever? Whatever? The eye ride went up
Speaker 4: and I glared across the table like don't.
Speaker 1: You say no?
Speaker 4: You ended up coming with some kind of like Jimmy.
Speaker 2: Cherry, like definitely dirty, like well.
Speaker 4: Done, but now your life changed.
Speaker 3: Well done. It's so just disrespect for no reason.
Speaker 4: And I'm actually probably gonna start going down even even
Speaker 4: lower one lower, maybe even a medium. It depends on
Speaker 4: who cook it. The medium is perfect depending on where.
Speaker 3: You are, like some people is you know, medium is tricky.
Speaker 4: But and it also depends on how thick the steak is.
Speaker 6: So like if you going y'all drunk, like how when
Speaker 6: we used to come from mixing ship and we end
Speaker 6: up at the George web somewhere and I order a
Speaker 6: steak and eggs. I can't tell this motherfucker give me
Speaker 6: a steak medium because the motherfucker cooking two minutes because
Speaker 6: it's so fucking thin, it's always gonna be well done.
Speaker 3: Because it's too thin anywhere, because I like steaking eggs
Speaker 3: when I've been in the morning.
Speaker 4: I asked the medium, well, but I honestly think it
Speaker 4: was a little under.
Speaker 6: Yeah, because and that hurt, because that steak was fucking amazing,
Speaker 6: but you know, I wasn't feeling so my appetite and.
Speaker 9: Ship with one of those cuts of meat that they
Speaker 9: give you is like damn, they're still moving. And that
Speaker 9: was the one that I didn't like, not because it
Speaker 9: just didn't taste.
Speaker 4: It didn't have no flavor. It was like red red,
Speaker 4: and my mind was just playing tricks on me.
Speaker 6: More cook side they ask you, because they asked you
Speaker 6: beside you one you want.
Speaker 4: I think they only gave to me once, and I
Speaker 4: didn't want it again because that's how my mom. If
Speaker 4: I had knew that, I would have got it again,
Speaker 4: but I just tried to once I didn't.
Speaker 6: Get it because that's how my mom is. Because they
Speaker 6: know everybody don't eat. They meat the same. So my
Speaker 6: mom she always gets the more done side, and me
Speaker 6: and the girls we get the media.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm good with a median will. But that was
Speaker 4: that was.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: But but speaking of speaking of niggas being niggas and comments, yes,
Speaker 6: but speaking of me and being men in comments, We're
Speaker 6: going to get on our last video and topic for
Speaker 6: the night.
Speaker 17: The reason why I popped your blown and it was
Speaker 17: because you say that you have a history of domestic.
Speaker 4: Violence, and that is it's not okay for me. So
Speaker 4: I just had a popular learning for that reason.
Speaker 15: I'm working on it and that you know, I have
Speaker 15: different methods of dealing with situations. But it wasn't like
Speaker 15: physical with a woman is just like I said, I said,
Speaker 15: break things, said things.
Speaker 4: Yeah, stop right there, he said he meet Wait wait
Speaker 4: you said he said me? He said I break things?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Or did he say I mean.
Speaker 3: Probably breaks things breaks?
Speaker 4: You could play it one more time. It wasn't that long.
Speaker 17: The reason why I popped your balloon and it was
Speaker 17: because you say that you have a history of domestic.
Speaker 4: Violence, and that is it's not okay for me. So
Speaker 4: I just had a popular learning for that reason.
Speaker 15: I'm working on it and that you know, I have
Speaker 15: different methods of dealing with situations, but it wasn't like
Speaker 15: physical with a woman is just like I said, I
Speaker 15: said break things.
Speaker 3: You said I break things.
Speaker 4: I feel like that opening chuck. Yeah, so you have
Speaker 4: men in the comments like so do women change the order?
Speaker 4: Just the so called checklist?
Speaker 6: He told the truth as well as show his vulnerable side,
Speaker 6: which is what I hear many women say they want.
Speaker 4: I feel like there are huge deal breakers.
Speaker 6: Why y'all worried about the past not being insecure? It
Speaker 6: was his past that had nothing to do with you.
Speaker 3: Because but here's the thing.
Speaker 9: What I'm listening to is that I've never been in
Speaker 9: This topic is always tricky for me. What I hear
Speaker 9: you say is that, oh, I've never been physical with
Speaker 9: the woman I break things. Oh okay, So that sounds
Speaker 9: like to me, this is the beginning. So in my mind,
Speaker 9: abody gonna be the woman that you're gonna decide to
Speaker 9: finally get physical with.
Speaker 3: You don't have your emotions and check my god.
Speaker 9: Like and then that I'm just supposed to take that risk,
Speaker 9: Like no, sorry, not doing it. Yes, kudos to you
Speaker 9: for being honest. That's a problem.
Speaker 10: We started to show talking about I'm glad that men
Speaker 10: are not in the comments as these women have conversations
Speaker 10: about women and in the rest of the damn show
Speaker 10: is men being dumb.
Speaker 3: She set us up. Let's be honest here, feel safe.
Speaker 4: Let's be honest here.
Speaker 6: We never give black men grace on admitting to being
Speaker 6: something such as abusive, verbal, physical, non physical, etc. The
Speaker 6: fact that he expressed that it's growth on his part. Women, yes,
Speaker 6: protect yourselves at all times, but from someone like this.
Speaker 6: But the fact that he put it out there is
Speaker 6: what it's supposed to happen more often so that women
Speaker 6: can decide if they want a rocker brow or not.
Speaker 6: I do pray and also know God will send him
Speaker 6: the right one. Just keep working on you, bro, and
Speaker 6: keep elevating to become better as a community. Even though
Speaker 6: Shody said no, I do encourage us to uplift brothers
Speaker 6: that are honest about their lives, especially in this space,
Speaker 6: so that we nurture our people and not downplay them
Speaker 6: for growing up no matter the past, if they show
Speaker 6: signs of growth, give grace to that because you would
Speaker 6: want it done to you.
Speaker 3: Okay, I love How.
Speaker 10: I Love How, a show that is basically speed dating
Speaker 10: on crack now somehow turned into a ted talk. She
Speaker 10: clearly said, you had a history with domestic violence.
Speaker 3: I can't rock with that. Cool move on. But all
Speaker 3: of a sudden we're supposed to like get mad at
Speaker 3: her for not choosing them. That's stupid. It's a fucking
Speaker 3: show where it's just like, hey, I don't like the
Speaker 3: color of your shoes. I'm out. It was about of deep.
Speaker 3: That was a tad talk. That was a deep think tank.
Speaker 3: We quick.
Speaker 9: But my thing is that also shows to me it's
Speaker 9: your priorities probably should be a little bit more in
Speaker 9: check because.
Speaker 4: I just you shouldn't be here like you shouldn't be there.
Speaker 10: Don't also know how long ago that was he didn't
Speaker 10: get I don't think he got a chance to say
Speaker 10: if he even goes to therapy about it, Like, we
Speaker 10: don't know how in depth it went. But at the
Speaker 10: same time, he already got his balloon pop.
Speaker 3: We don't care.
Speaker 6: He never give black Man grace on admitting to being
Speaker 6: something such as abusive. That's the part that's tripping me
Speaker 6: up that that part could have been left out because
Speaker 6: he admits that he and says, oh, I'm working on
Speaker 6: myself on whatever. And then he decides later on down
Speaker 6: the line the busser and her ship, who is everybody
Speaker 6: gonna jump on about forgiving him.
Speaker 3: Because she knew already that he had a history.
Speaker 6: So my ex who I told y'all all of that
Speaker 6: ship about earlier at the beginning of the show, I
Speaker 6: was the first in line. Every person who he has
Speaker 6: dated after me has needed a restrain.
Speaker 4: And order on that man. Damn you know what, same
Speaker 4: story yep. And I relationship with my with the DV situation. Yeah,
Speaker 4: now that you say that every person after me has
Speaker 4: needed a restrain and order on him.
Speaker 6: And I feel like for me because the police guilt
Speaker 6: tripped me about calling the police well you know, you know,
Speaker 6: and it's black men because it was a black cop.
Speaker 6: It's black men or whatever. And because what he did
Speaker 6: was technically strong armed robbery, like he assaulted me and
Speaker 6: he took my wallet from me, and he talked to
Speaker 6: me out of pressing charges against him because he's like, well,
Speaker 6: you know, and this will always follow him and this
Speaker 6: will be this and this that, and it's just whatever.
Speaker 4: And now these white people in my son business.
Speaker 6: And now, and I regret that because giving him that
Speaker 6: pass left a path up and for him to terrorize
Speaker 6: every woman after you.
Speaker 9: See that, they can get away with it and there's
Speaker 9: no punishment for it. It's literally going to continue.
Speaker 6: So now every case he has always has a domestic
Speaker 6: abuse repeater modifier, added Tode.
Speaker 4: Yes, I noticed that.
Speaker 9: I feel like back when I went through what I
Speaker 9: was going through, I didn't. I didn't see that back then.
Speaker 4: So I don't know if that's like a it's some
Speaker 4: type of different charge or some type of way that
Speaker 4: they but mine was twenty ten. Mine was twenty ten.
Speaker 6: But yeah, so now every time he does something there's
Speaker 6: a domestic abuse repeater as a modifier to the charges
Speaker 6: that he had.
Speaker 3: Em I don't know.
Speaker 9: So it's like, yeah, you were honest. Great, thanks because
Speaker 9: that let me know that I'm not gonna deal with you.
Speaker 9: But as far as giving you grace, and I don't
Speaker 9: and I don't feel like she was penalizing him for
Speaker 9: being honest.
Speaker 4: She had a preference.
Speaker 9: He could very well meet a woman that's like, oh, okay,
Speaker 9: well you didn't actually hit nobody, so we can try
Speaker 9: it out as cool. He might meet somebody that's cool
Speaker 9: with that, But she had a preference and her preference
Speaker 9: was to not deal with a nigga that have that
Speaker 9: has a domestic violence.
Speaker 6: In history, and people are like, that's not domestic violence.
Speaker 6: According to the court systems, Yes, it is breaking breaking property,
Speaker 6: and all of that shit still counts under domestic violence.
Speaker 9: Because once breaking property don't do shit for you, then
Speaker 9: that's when the hand's gonna get the going and yeah,
Speaker 9: like it's it's gonna escalate from there.
Speaker 4: That's usually how it goes.
Speaker 6: Look the very next comment, he was honest, But when
Speaker 6: breaking things isn't enough, it'll be breaking a woman.
Speaker 4: That was the very next comment.
Speaker 9: I feel like when it comes to domestic violence, at
Speaker 9: least in my experience, it always it starts somewhere at
Speaker 9: the at the lower end, and it escalates.
Speaker 4: It's like I'm gonna start verbally. I might start.
Speaker 9: Mentally, i might start breaking things. I might start messing
Speaker 9: stuff up around the house. And then when that's not enough,
Speaker 9: now I'm finna start putting my hands on you. Like
Speaker 9: it's it's going.
Speaker 4: To escalate, y'all.
Speaker 6: Tell us to stop ignoring red flags and then try
Speaker 6: to tell us that this red flag is yellow.
Speaker 9: If it was anything higher than red, that's what that
Speaker 9: would have been and she literally was like, no, no
Speaker 9: six flags for me. I'm going on to the next person.
Speaker 9: And y'all like, see give him you ain't giving him
Speaker 9: no grades. Okay, So she might have just saved her life.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 4: The craziness how about put me in the ground. Honestly,
Speaker 4: the craziest.
Speaker 6: Part are the men in the comments who are trying
Speaker 6: to compare domestic violence to body count.
Speaker 4: Battleper But honestly, this is not even funny.
Speaker 9: It's sad as hell because it really shows how our society.
Speaker 9: They don't take domestic violence serious enough until somebody.
Speaker 4: Until it's too late. It's laughable as oh he just
Speaker 4: did it one time. It's just it's cool. That's just
Speaker 4: how we like. No, that ship is not cool. And
Speaker 4: these comments just show how unseerious people are about a
Speaker 4: very serious thing.
Speaker 3: Little one time my daughter come home.
Speaker 4: So I mean shout out to her, sound like she
Speaker 4: chose herself in her life. Hey, I mean best of
Speaker 4: luck to you and your journey. But no, no, not
Speaker 4: talking about him. No, no, I'm talking about him, like,
Speaker 4: best of luck to you and your journey. But this
Speaker 4: should not for me.
Speaker 1: I thought about it.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that just bro, Why are you there, like you
Speaker 6: did what I'm saying, Like you said so that means
Speaker 6: that you were still at a point.
Speaker 4: Where you can be triggered. That's what I was saying
Speaker 4: about the priorities. You should not be here.
Speaker 2: His bro was like speed you want to get down?
Speaker 2: He was like, yeah, cool, I'm always down to girls.
Speaker 4: But I want to know how that.
Speaker 2: Didn't wasn't like nobody probably would have. God, do you hear?
Speaker 4: I wonder what led up to that? Like what led
Speaker 4: up to him admitting to that?
Speaker 3: Like that doesn't sound like a conversation.
Speaker 4: Where did I come from with the opportunity? It could
Speaker 4: have been a question she could have asked.
Speaker 2: I think that this was gonna be a part of
Speaker 2: the screening process.
Speaker 4: Like I give him credit for yeah, like you were
Speaker 4: honest screen girls.
Speaker 3: So his boy set them up?
Speaker 4: Me is a valid question? Do you have a history
Speaker 4: of that? Would that would be?
Speaker 6: That would be that would be something that I would
Speaker 6: have to ask just because of my history. Yes, I
Speaker 6: would have to ask, like do you have a history
Speaker 6: of domestic violence?
Speaker 4: Oh? I have to ask that question because I need
Speaker 4: to know is you nuts? Do you leave gas cans
Speaker 4: on bitches porches? Do you do you buzz out they
Speaker 4: win flatten their tires, then you harassed him. You know,
Speaker 4: it's a valid question because then you.
Speaker 7: Catch these hands. If my dinner not done.
Speaker 9: Too much, I like, I like, no, I'm done, thanks,
Speaker 9: because I'm not gonna be the next one. Sorry, And
Speaker 9: it's like it and then it ain't pray nobody else's
Speaker 9: but no, I don't.
Speaker 7: Think I can get that, maud.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like, and here's the thing. You see how
Speaker 4: how how we see cat people? Right, mm hmm.
Speaker 6: It's not it's not an indicator that I was the
Speaker 6: first person that he was abusive towards. I was probably
Speaker 6: just the first person that went to the cops about
Speaker 6: it because I was on probation and I couldn't take
Speaker 6: that risk.
Speaker 4: I had to have a paper trip.
Speaker 6: So because I don't, I don't feel like this behavior
Speaker 6: just came out of nowhere, especially because it continued long
Speaker 6: after me.
Speaker 9: That's how I found out that it was. It continued
Speaker 9: after me. Yeah, it keeps happening, so clearly this is
Speaker 9: the problem here.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 6: So it just kills me that there are always angry
Speaker 6: men in the comments of women making wise decisions, because
Speaker 6: when they don't make wise decisions. All y'all do is
Speaker 6: criticize them and say y'all should have chose better and
Speaker 6: y'all should have picked better. But then when they do
Speaker 6: that is y'all, y'all don't give y'all don't give me
Speaker 6: in grace.
Speaker 4: Oh you don't.
Speaker 6: You don't deserve to make no no, no, no choice
Speaker 6: and have a standard because you look like this, or
Speaker 6: you weigh as much or shout yokes.
Speaker 9: Up, I give him grace. We move forward together. And
Speaker 9: then the domestic violance.
Speaker 3: Literally, I'm literally.
Speaker 4: Now what y'all saying in the comments. Now, he told
Speaker 4: you that that was your fault, but no, he no,
Speaker 4: he didn't. He didn't say he hit people. He said
Speaker 4: he broke stuff. And what the fuck did you think
Speaker 4: he was gonna break this? That was your fault? You
Speaker 4: know what?
Speaker 10: It's all it's never the same type of nigga on
Speaker 10: both sides of those conversations. It always be like a
Speaker 10: completely different batch of niggas that be complaining.
Speaker 1: It.
Speaker 4: Don't that be the crazy part? It'd be the same.
Speaker 6: That's why I'm saying it'd be a double ed sword
Speaker 6: because and I have watched this, especially if anybody is
Speaker 6: in the rain Report podcast group. I will watch, I
Speaker 6: will watch, I will watch. Who's coming, Yes, all the time,
Speaker 6: all the time, It'll be Marshall Duke, Aris Garner, Robert
Speaker 6: claybrooksm It Real, Marquis or Marcus Claiborne. I know who's coming.
Speaker 6: I know who's coming. And on my page is gonna
Speaker 6: be the Markwan Baker. And he don't he we're not
Speaker 6: even friends. He just follows that is weird to me
Speaker 6: and acts like that because they didn't choose better. But
Speaker 6: they always telling motherfucker to choose better, because had they
Speaker 6: chose better, then we wouldn't have this issue.
Speaker 4: Because I actually I made a post about.
Speaker 10: That, like all we gotta do is just sit back
Speaker 10: and just be us and we win, because niggas out
Speaker 10: here is we ain't gotta do no work, big girls.
Speaker 3: I'm afraid of tell me out here what because.
Speaker 11: I would be so afraid that, like, yeah, like if
Speaker 11: I got on some bully shit trying to punch it
Speaker 11: and then it don't go my way, and now I
Speaker 11: gotta explain not only to like my family that I
Speaker 11: was being a fuck nigga and beating on my girl,
Speaker 11: but my girl and whooped my eyes. I don't want
Speaker 11: to have to have that conversation with in my life.
Speaker 4: You get tired enough.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't want to have that conversation with nobody.
Speaker 4: So I made a post a couple of days ago,
Speaker 4: and I said, fellas as unwebbed men. Fellas as unwebbed
Speaker 4: men who regularly tell women you should have picked your
Speaker 4: chosen better and that men control marriage.
Speaker 6: Why aren't you married to any of the women you
Speaker 6: chose prior to now? Or why are you divorced from
Speaker 6: the woman you did choose from marriage? I feel, as
Speaker 6: experts and may choosing, you all should have picked the
Speaker 6: perfect women to be married to. So I'm curious as
Speaker 6: to what the issue is and how it's possible you
Speaker 6: didn't know those women weren't right for you out the
Speaker 6: gate because oh so people change? Is that what you're
Speaker 6: saying supposed to? Because they make it seem like what
Speaker 6: will they make it seem like when we pick people?
Speaker 4: They don't change. They're automatically like that from the beginning.
Speaker 6: There's no possible way that once we date someone that
Speaker 6: they can change into some bullshit later on down the line.
Speaker 4: That must only apply to y'all.
Speaker 7: In I think every rocky said, everybody changes.
Speaker 6: After you be I even d so someone come in it,
Speaker 6: he said, and he said, he said marriage isn't a
Speaker 6: man's goal in general. I said, if marriage isn't a
Speaker 6: man's goal in general, then why would he constantly be
Speaker 6: speaking on why women are married as if a woman's
Speaker 6: work rest on marriage, why would they care and try
Speaker 6: to shame women for not being married while not wanting
Speaker 6: to be married to women anyway?
Speaker 4: That makes no sense.
Speaker 2: That's gay, you know, like it's some conversations. Nigga should
Speaker 2: really mind their business.
Speaker 12: If you not.
Speaker 11: That's why when I see niggas talking about girlfriends and
Speaker 11: having significant I don't even speak because I don't.
Speaker 3: Ain't no, but not even like me. Why you need
Speaker 3: to cut the internet off every Tuesday?
Speaker 2: Like I just watched it and see it.
Speaker 10: I'll be like, okay, social media needs to deactivate every
Speaker 10: Tuesday and Thursday.
Speaker 3: Just cut off man every Tuesday Thursday for longer. But
Speaker 3: I see y'all in January, No on.
Speaker 10: Tuesday and Thursday because I need Wednesday in the weekends
Speaker 10: from a podcast stuff, but and Thursday.
Speaker 4: But I went on to say, I said, okay, we
Speaker 4: can go live. So if college is not my goal.
Speaker 6: Imagine me telling another motherfucker that they're not smart enough
Speaker 6: because they're not a college graduate. I'm basing their worth
Speaker 6: off of something that I didn't even want for myself.
Speaker 6: That sounds like I'm just full of shit and looking
Speaker 6: for any reason to say something negative to him. His
Speaker 6: response was, it's sex the main priority for women one day,
Speaker 6: and yes or no that had.
Speaker 10: Shit to do with whatever, because that's all he could
Speaker 10: talk about. He can he can control the rhetoric of
Speaker 10: how I said.
Speaker 6: That isn't a yes or no question because it can
Speaker 6: be a priority for me and not for other women
Speaker 6: and vice versa. Just like if you're speaking and saying
Speaker 6: marriage isn't a man's goal, but I know several men
Speaker 6: who disagree. That's why I ask men who say these
Speaker 6: things to respond personally.
Speaker 4: What we're wrong with? Your own choices? Since you're the
Speaker 4: experts on Tuesday.
Speaker 6: The right may but from there it's just I could
Speaker 6: be talking about apples in this nigga, I'm talking about.
Speaker 4: A food plate.
Speaker 3: It just he he.
Speaker 4: Just always goes.
Speaker 10: It depends on who make it, because I've seen apples
Speaker 10: on the chacouterie board. That's what It's a lot of
Speaker 10: melons on a lot of melons on those tray myself, right,
Speaker 10: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: But then another guy came, ain't got no problem with
Speaker 6: dipping my apple, and he said, we do pick the
Speaker 6: right one when we're ready. I said, so, is that
Speaker 6: like the men's version of him? Single by choice? And
Speaker 6: I never got a response to that.
Speaker 3: I get that too, That's why they won't say it.
Speaker 3: That's good, but that's what it is.
Speaker 10: If you're gonna sit here and picking and complain about
Speaker 10: every single woman who may have even opted to show you.
Speaker 10: And that's another thing.
Speaker 3: Most of these niggas don't no woman, won't them or
Speaker 3: just date each other.
Speaker 4: They don't all have what each other needs ate each other.
Speaker 2: But I know fromat.
Speaker 4: I don't understand.
Speaker 6: But I and I've said this, I don't understand men
Speaker 6: who are homophobes that have a problem with women, because
Speaker 6: it's like y'all spend every single day on social media
Speaker 6: and every platform you can get your hands on, telling
Speaker 6: women why no man wants them, why no men should
Speaker 6: want them, and why they are unworthy and why they
Speaker 6: are unworthy of any men.
Speaker 4: But then you're mad.
Speaker 10: First of all, do not ever use the word bang
Speaker 10: bro again because that is one of my favorite But then.
Speaker 6: But you, but you, you have all of these reasons
Speaker 6: on why women are not datable and why men shouldn't
Speaker 6: date them, but then you mad when they dating fuck
Speaker 6: each other.
Speaker 4: So you don't want men to want us, but you
Speaker 4: don't want men to want other men either. What?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 6: Because that's because y'all kept talking over me talking about
Speaker 6: bang brothers and ship. I said, if you spend every
Speaker 6: single day, day in and day out, on social media
Speaker 6: and every platform that you can get your hands on,
Speaker 6: talking about how no men will want us, no men
Speaker 6: will date us, ain't no man gonna marry us. We're
Speaker 6: unworthy of any man ever doing anything of any value
Speaker 6: with us.
Speaker 4: We are basically worthless and useless too men.
Speaker 6: But then you are now mad at men who date
Speaker 6: other men because you are also a homophobe. How are
Speaker 6: you mad at men that don't want to date women
Speaker 6: when all you do is spend all your time telling
Speaker 6: them why.
Speaker 4: They shouldn't want us?
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't know what child, I don't know what
Speaker 3: it is.
Speaker 2: Because women my offering myself at this.
Speaker 4: But no, because they mad at gay.
Speaker 3: People, but they don't.
Speaker 6: They don't want men to want women, but they don't
Speaker 6: want men to want men, So what the fuck do
Speaker 6: y'all want to happen here? And on that note, we're
Speaker 6: gonna go ahead and wrap this show up because I
Speaker 6: know that Kayla has to get out of here. I
Speaker 6: want to thank everyone for tuning into this week's episode,
Speaker 6: and I want to thank Kayla for ignoring her bed
Speaker 6: time schedule and coming.
Speaker 4: And chilling with us today.
Speaker 3: Happy and Negro Dad.
Speaker 4: Whatever, I will, I write you.
Speaker 2: Serious question.
Speaker 11: Brust Chans is still a thing, right yes, And I
Speaker 11: feel like I've seen nobody say nothing about saving First of.
Speaker 3: All, you haven't.
Speaker 10: You haven't paid attention to Patrice his page because that's
Speaker 10: all she's been talking about.
Speaker 3: I've been seeing breast cancer stuff.
Speaker 6: All Wine is saying is what happened when they used
Speaker 6: to show their titties on Twitter to breast cancer.
Speaker 2: Twitter is just I'm talking about some real ship.
Speaker 3: Serious question, cause your algorithm is trash. I'm no one.
Speaker 3: Your algorithm is the same way.
Speaker 2: I feel about certain STDs.
Speaker 4: I feel like they're just supposed to show me the time.
Speaker 12: I'm a has tds that.
Speaker 11: You used to hear about as a kid, Do you
Speaker 11: hear about now as an adult everything except for crabs.
Speaker 3: And that's because everybody's changed.
Speaker 2: The still got symphlis outside of the mall.
Speaker 4: I love a lot of people that I have. I
Speaker 4: have to do a full panel workup.
Speaker 10: They do all blood work up, simphlis and Gunn area
Speaker 10: is running rampant down at Marquette.
Speaker 4: A lot of those tests them test syphilis garneria.
Speaker 8: I do have.
Speaker 10: I told you this time when Teresa had to say
Speaker 10: being at the Walgreens over there right by Marquette, and
Speaker 10: she said she spent the whole eight hour shift feeling
Speaker 10: simplest and Gunna read prescriptions.
Speaker 12: Nasty.
Speaker 4: I thought it was just a simplest outbreak here. Not
Speaker 4: too long ago.
Speaker 10: It might have been still that too, because women are
Speaker 10: shaving more now, you know.
Speaker 6: And I think I think that that is actually what
Speaker 6: brought on the craze of just fully removing hair.
Speaker 3: Yeah, craps get rid of crabs.
Speaker 6: So I don't think I don't think that it started
Speaker 6: as a fashion thing. I think that people was tired
Speaker 6: of getting crabs and then it.
Speaker 4: Was just like, oh okay, this is kind of neat.
Speaker 6: Or maybe somebody who had crabs took all their hair
Speaker 6: off and to not look suspicious.
Speaker 4: It was like, oh, I'm trying something new.
Speaker 10: No, I think niggas started cutting it could have get
Speaker 10: rid of it. I mean, you had to try something
Speaker 10: new if you went hairless down there, because you gotta
Speaker 10: remember the time, the seventies day, the bush wasn't hairy.
Speaker 4: They't I knew, I wasn't crazy.
Speaker 6: Milwaukee saw its highest citizens case total in two decades
Speaker 6: back in.
Speaker 4: Twenty and twenty one. That was just a couple years ago.
Speaker 6: I remember hearing we had a big syphilis outbreak because
Speaker 6: after cod damn dodging COVID because they what it probably
Speaker 6: was outbreak because everybody was inside.
Speaker 3: Everybody was inside, so that y'all.
Speaker 4: Was supposed to be social distancing, not catching fucking syphilis. Listen,
Speaker 4: I was sing a pandemic. That was the best bodies
Speaker 4: like I was, like, you knew she was on the
Speaker 4: second risk.
Speaker 3: Okay home.
Speaker 6: Well, recently twenty twenty two, cases of syphilis increased nineteen percent. Damn,
Speaker 6: so you win twenty twenty one to twenty twenty two,
Speaker 6: so they went up even more age.
Speaker 3: It's the twenty year olds gotta be.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I believe that.
Speaker 6: Well, it was a combination including high school students that
Speaker 6: contract the HIV, syphilis or both.
Speaker 2: You got.
Speaker 4: Just say including some high school students.
Speaker 3: No, no, getting a's and syphiless.
Speaker 4: Because it was because you know it's bad.
Speaker 6: It hit the city in Milwaukee website and and all
Speaker 6: caps Syphiliss strikes Milwaukee.
Speaker 3: Damn you ma, don't put that on my man's jackets.
Speaker 4: Coming, Oh my god, affecting babies, teens because.
Speaker 3: You got team Mama's being born with. Who got simplists kids.
Speaker 4: Y'all wrap it up, so y'all don't keep giving out
Speaker 4: syphilis ship on that.
Speaker 3: No, thank you for tuning into this episode.
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Speaker 10: You're coming back on Friday, Come.
Speaker 3: On back to TDR. He did bully me to take
Speaker 3: you back though we had a nice little groove going on,
Speaker 3: and he came back. What that means said, we got
Speaker 3: to hear people peace,