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Speaker 1: Made uh Deci, John.

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Speaker 2: Pace, Sonny sune On, I had vision.

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Speaker 3: Night.

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Speaker 1: What's happening?

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Speaker 4: Everybody woo who welcome to FCO l.

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Speaker 3: As Helen Paradise would say, whoo.

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Speaker 4: Whoo, Nata, what are you doing it sitting on the

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couch and get out? But Tella Pama to leave us.

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She's been here three nights in the raw. Talla had

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a lazy acid to leave? That a Pama, she's a noghetter.

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My mom, just because Pam's overweight doesn't mean she's a

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Oh no, she's a lazy.

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Speaker 1: That's how horrible. My mom was like, oh my god.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but like, oh that's Suzanne, and she's a cute,

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she's a pretty, she's a going places. It turns out

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my mom was right, though Suzanne is going places. Pam

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is the biggest no getting person in my I mean,

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I'm not friends with her anymore. She's a mooch. She

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never really got jobs. She worked odd jobs.

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Speaker 3: Really.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, she's a big mooch.

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Speaker 3: I feel like she should be hooked up without that guy. Yes, man,

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is that only a Patreon?

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Speaker 1: No, I've I did two episodes.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we've said we say it all the time, like

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those two should get married, but they there's nobody they

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can mooch off of. They just be mooching off of

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each other and getting right. Yeah, two moochers, the moochers.

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Speaker 3: Theers, mister and missus moocher.

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Speaker 1: Hello, missus mood shany moochers. Yeah yeah wow.

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Speaker 3: So your mom was just she was She.

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Speaker 1: Was right, she was right. Yeah, as far as those

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two were concerned.

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Speaker 3: Did there ever come a time when those two were

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still in your life or when she was still your

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life that your mom was like do you see? Ah?

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Speaker 4: Not now, not like she never really saw who they

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became to be in life, especially Pam.

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Speaker 1: But she didn't need to see. She was right, She

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had a crystal ball. She was right.

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Speaker 3: Oh man, Yeah, that makes me think about my hometown. Well,

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it's really not my hometown. I have no hometown. But

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when I lived in Springfield, Mass I mean mostly losers.

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Sorry sorry anybody. I went to high school within Springfield,

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but like really like just the town just depressed, right,

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you know, so much crime, so many kids that there

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was like one college prep school. I think I told

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you that, and then there was a I want to

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say this, so I'm just going to say it. Even

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though somebody could fact check me and find out it's

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totally not true. I feel like there was a high

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school for unwed mothers, Like could I be wrong? Could

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I remember it wrong? There was definitely a school that

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was like for home eck, you know what I mean, Like,

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oh yeah, And then there was a technical school that

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was like it was basically like the only one if

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you if you saw any kind of future was the

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high school I went to. But most of those kids

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were not going places right, like yeah, that was like

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hopeful parents on there. But then the parents that I had,

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like no hope were just going to like school for

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which no shade because some of those kids probably ended

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up doing much better at the kids that thought they

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were going to college. Yeah, but my point is that

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I went to that. I there was one kid, two

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I want to say, that were always a little bit

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different than everybody else, and they freaking went place like

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this one the one guy that I had a fat

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crush on, he I was not I was a loser,

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so he did not like me back, but he was

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so cute. If he's out there somewhere, his name is

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Joe Pog. Of course, because it was a very Italian town,

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but he was so cute and it was really nice,

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and he was nice to me even when people were

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not nice to me. And I just this morning was

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on Facebook. I follow him on Facebook and he made

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a he he does like digital media with his wife

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and they have a company and they were they were

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showing a mock up that they made for a dunkin Donuts,

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a Duncan commercial, and it was so good and I

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remember thinking that was this morning. I remember like Soko

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and I thought, wow, see something good did come out

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of like Springfield, Massachusetts. And then there's one other guy

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who's a director now who you've never heard of, but

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he like and he was another one that had a

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whole group of like goons for friends, criminals, like you know,

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there's they still all live there and he was like nope,

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and he moved to LA and now got into filmmaking.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, it's amazing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there's always those some some of them that you

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know they go somewhere. Speaking of goons, today's the first

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day of the p Didy trial. I know, yeah, it's

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all gonna be jury selection though, like it's this whole week.

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I think it's going to be mostly jury selection and

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then I think testimony starts next week.

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Speaker 3: What's your are you testifying?

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Speaker 4: I wish I could. I wish I could be on

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the jury. Could you imagine?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, that would be like the greatest three

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months right life?

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Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, so we'll see no cameras in the courtroom,

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which kind of sucks. But oh no, why, I don't know,

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I'm not sure. I guess it's all up to individual judges.

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But yeah, no cameras in the courtroom.

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Speaker 3: And if I was a judge, I'd be like you,

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you should put cameras in the courtroom so that that way,

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like no shenanigans.

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Speaker 1: That's true, Like you know, yeah, I don't want it.

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Speaker 3: To be my word against theirs, like you know, see

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for yourself these.

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Speaker 1: You know, right right, Yeah, it'll be interesting.

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Speaker 4: Rumor was going around that Garagos was going to take over,

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that Mark Garagos was going to take over his defense.

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Speaker 1: I thought his daughter is, yes, but there was there.

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Speaker 3: Was a rumor that he was going to take over

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for her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that he well, that he was going to be

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a part of the defense team, that she would still

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I think still be on it because he does a

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podcast with Harvey Levin two Angry men and they and

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Harvey Levin was like, I'd bet my house that you're

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going to be on that defense team and so far, no,

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not that I'm.

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Speaker 1: We know of as of now.

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Speaker 3: But it's his company. I guess so right, because doesn't

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his daughter work for him?

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Speaker 4: I don't know if that his daughter works for him.

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I think she works for a I don't know, I

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could be wrong, law firm in New York. I guess

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I think because she's been living in New York ever

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since she graduated law school. Oh yeah, it's gotta be

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weird having your dad like is your daddy? Is daddy

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gonna swoop in and save the day kind of thing?

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Like on your big At.

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Speaker 3: The same time, he's had a ton of experience, wouldn't

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you also may be your first huge case want to have.

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Find it good to have the input of somebody with

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that you is your father that.

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Speaker 4: I agree with that, yeah, have somebody. But also though

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there's the other guy, a Nafalo or whatever, the main

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lawyer of p Diddy. There's the other the lawyer, a

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Nafalo or whatever. So I think he's Diddy's main lawyer,

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and I think she works for him. I guess I

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think I think that's what happened. I don't know, and

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be interesting to see what happens, but yeah, this week

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it's just your selection.

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Speaker 3: How do you like defend p deity?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I guess their whole defense is that it's everything was consensual.

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Speaker 1: These are consenting adults. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Okay, but there's literal video of him beating that up.

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Speaker 1: The that video the.

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Speaker 3: Girlfriend in the hallway of a hotel and then trying

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to drag her back into a room, Like, right, how

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do how do you go? Like consensual? She liked it?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 4: What that That's gonna be tough. That video is gonna

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be tough for them. Yeah, from what I've.

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Speaker 2: Seen, plus just from what I watched on that HBO

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documentary there's did you watch the HBO? Yeah, there's that

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one girl that talks about when he like drugged her

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and raped her and.

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Speaker 4: On the pool the pool table, on the pool table. Yeah,

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I mean, there's gotta be other other victims that are

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gonna come forward.

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Speaker 3: But then look at Cosby Cosby where they're like over

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fifty accusers, so many accounts of being drugged and people

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were still like, yeah, no, sounds consensual.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 3: I mean that was his defense too.

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Speaker 1: That's the only defense you can have.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you got something to say, kaylin No, I

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was just gonna think, like, I think Cosby had more

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of like love going into the like, but he was

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he was like a like not a mental yeah right,

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he had a lot more like sympathy to exactly, whereas

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I don't think anybody really feels that way about P Diddy, Right,

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that's true. He was like a you know, pioneer and

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comedian and America's dad and mixtible.

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Speaker 4: This cute fuzzy sweaters. Yeah, yeah, yeah, ain't no p

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Diddy And then.

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Speaker 3: Doctor Huxtable's Oh the raping women on the regular, Like

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the stories were so horrendous, Like it's just unfathomable that

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people like, nope, don't, I don't buy it.

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Speaker 4: But that's the other thing too, is like the fence,

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they must have video of this shit, Like I don't

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know if there was video of of Cosby doing that,

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but there's I think there's video of you know, there's

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video of the these freak offs.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be Why isn't he pleading guilty?

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Speaker 4: I guess they offered him a plea deal and he

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rejected it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I guess they feel they have a strong defense against

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uh consult uh you know, being a consensual Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I don't think that's gonna work out, no matter his celebrity,

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it's just not gonna work out.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 3: No, I think he also did some stuff to Bieber.

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what I thought. I thought there was more bad stuff

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is even gonna come out during the trial.

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Speaker 1: And I thought there was miners involved.

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Speaker 4: But now they're saying, no, there's no miners involved in

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this in their case.

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Speaker 1: At least that's what I saw on the coverage. I

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don't know.

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Speaker 3: Well, I think there are Yeah, totally off topic. Can

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I just tell you that? So this morning I woke

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up and I went to my computer. So I was out.

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I was busy all weekend, which I'll get to and

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I had my computer with me, so the top was closed,

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you know, it wasn't So anyway, I went over to

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my computer and I put on my computer glasses and

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I was trying to look at my computer, and I

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was like, damn, I can't see, Like why can't I

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see my computer? Why can't I read? And then I

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was like, God, I cannot believe my eyesight has degraded again,

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and like literally like over the week. I said, so sad,

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I had the surgery like a year and a half ago.

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This is this is ridiculous. I have to go get

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my eyes checked again. And I was so bummed. And

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then so then I was. I put my face like

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up closed to my computer so that I could read.

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any chance that I did Because my computer was closed,

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the screen got darker, like but it maaged me and

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I hit the brightness and I and it was like

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bit and I was like, oh, never mind.

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Speaker 1: I could say it's too bad.

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Speaker 4: I thought you were gonna say I saw the reflection

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on the monitor and I was wearing somebody else's glasses.

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Speaker 3: Yeah no, I was just like had don of the

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just went, well, I can't see. I guess I need ice.

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Speaker 4: Or I dine that before too on my phone screen,

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like why can't I can't? Yeah, it's when it gets

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dark all of a sudden.

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Speaker 3: But I thought it was out of focus, like It

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didn't even occur to my brain that it was just

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dark and that's why I couldn't see it correctly. I

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was like, maybe the room's kind of dark, like maybe,

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But then I was like, no, I've looked at my

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computer and when my room is a little bit dark

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before I should be able to see. Yeah, I spent

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way too much time thinking I needed eye surgery our glasses.

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Speaker 1: So then once you brightened it up, you could see, Okay.

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Speaker 3: Totally fine, like night and day. Another thing that happened

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to me was before the end of the week, maybe

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like Thursday, I went to get my eyebrows done and

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my lips, my mustache waxed, and my freakin nail. Well

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she's my nail lady, but also eyebrows, yea mustache. Been

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going to her since I was literally pregnant with Lbie. Wow,

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so twenty years I've been going to the same person

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because I've lived in this because I found her when

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I moved into our house and I was pregnant when

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I moved in needed an eyebrow person and she burned

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my lip or ripped off the hair to I don't

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know what she did, but I had You can still

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see it. Like a little bit. There's a little scab there,

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A little scar, A little scab. Yeah, but I had

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it looked like I had the worst herpes cold sore,

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and of course it's on the tail of coughing and

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sounding congested. So it's like I'm sure anybody that came

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near me was like, oh jeez, this But it was giant,

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it was a huge and that happened was when did

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that happen?

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Speaker 1: The scab?

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Speaker 3: I can I can show it.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was.

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Speaker 4: When she first you first started seeing her. No, no, no,

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she did it recently the other day. So then and

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then I was like, I took a picture of it.

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I sent her the picture. Okay, so it would have

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happened like last Wednesday, so I took I felt it

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in the moment, right, yeah, I felt like a little

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a little blood little teeny was spot of blood, and

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I knew it kind of hurt, right, It's like ooh,

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the smart And then I look and I'm like, oh no,

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there's a little bit of blood. I was like, this

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is not going to be good. Like the top of

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your lip is so thin. I was like, this is terrible.

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But she booked it out of there as soon as

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she finished. As soon as she finished, she didn't even

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say like, that's twenty two dollars.

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Speaker 3: She just split the room. I was like, oh, she knows,

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she bitch knows that she fucked me up. She leaves,

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so I leave, I go get in the car and

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I'm looking. But you know, it never looks terrible like

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right away. By the time I got home, it was

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art like you could see it was very pink. By

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the next day, I had a scab, took a picture

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of it, and I sent it to her and she

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wrote back, Oh. I was like, her name's baby Kim,

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and I was like, baby Kim, I go, you mess

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me up. I was like, look what happened? And then

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she just wrote, oh no, I'm sorry. So then the

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next day it was even worse. I'm going to show

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you a picture of it in a minute, but and

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then I so I had to send her another picture

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because I was like, I don't think I got proper

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right respond response. So I sent her another picture and

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then she was like, oh, I feel so bad. She

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was like, do you want me I could drop off,

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like you got to put some ointment on it. And

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I had to go judge speech and debate this weekend

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is terrible. Luckily it was better. By Saturday it was better.

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It was I could cover it with makeup. And by

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Sunday it was even better. And now it's like almost gone.

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Speaker 1: I can't sorry, I can't see anything.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, when I show you the picture, I'll post a

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picture of it so you guys can see. But it was,

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it was a mess. Hasped.

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Speaker 4: No, I never I never have any waxing done under.

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Speaker 3: You don't want it? No, No, I thought you're Italian.

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Speaker 4: I know I got lucky. Sorry, I get lucky for

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some reason. I don't have like a lot of that

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hair like my my arms, I don't really have a

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lot of hair, and my legs. I don't know, stop

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growing hair or something.

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Speaker 3: Did you ever? Because when I was young, when I

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was a kid, like now, I have hardly anything. It's

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so right. I look like bare armed. When I was

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a kid, it was horrible. I had black, hairy arms

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and people used to call me like a gorilla. I

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was so sad about it all the time. I tried

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shaving my arms one time, I used to use tried nair.

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I did the bleaching like my entire arms. I was.

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I mean, I had a million things I was self

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conscious about, but that was a big one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't have that was I got lucky with

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that in the Italian female department.

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Speaker 1: With the hair. I didn't have a lot of hair

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on me. Thank god.

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Speaker 3: What about your mom?

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Speaker 1: No, my mom didn't.

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Speaker 3: That's so lucky.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but uh no, I just now I just even

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my eyebrows. I just do my own eyebrows. I take

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the little thing, the little razor thing, and just kind

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of like trim it up, pluck it. I do it myself,

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trim it.

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Speaker 3: That is so lucky, because my eyebrows grow so that

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it's just they're so out of shape. They just look

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like caterpillars. But not even hairy enough to like do

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anything with. It's like, I just get a second eyebrow

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underneath the top one. So they need I need the

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I need them fixed constants.

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Speaker 4: Right right, Yeah, No, I haven't gotten my I haven't

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gotten my eyebrows done in a long time.

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Speaker 3: You know what we're talking about, right, you get it.

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Speaker 2: I don't. I'm like not hairy at all. Really, I

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have no body hair. I have like no hair on

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my chest, My arms aren't hairy nothing.

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Speaker 3: But you have like a full beard.

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't even have a full beard. I

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it won't grow in on the sides here. I mean

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it looks good now because I got it done over

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the weekend, but the whole, like my cheeks won't grow in,

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so I have to a glow up over the weekend.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, tell us everything. What made you decide? Was that

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an Amy thing?

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Speaker 4: Or was that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: It was an it? I mean I had a guy

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that was cutting my hair. Well, okay, so first I

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had a girl that I like grew up with over

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at Floyd's that I met and she was like the

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best hairdresser and I went to her from like fifteen

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to like thirty, and then she was like, oh, I'm

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moving to Tennessee. So I was like, I gotta find

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someone else. So I went to someone else in Long

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Beach and he was very nice and he was actually

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a big Adam Krola show fan, so like he knew

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who I was and everything. Oh, he was very nice,

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but he took like forever to do it. And anyway

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I had I wanted to get my beard done too,

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because I kind of just wanted to shave it off.

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But Amy's like, no, you look too young. You're not

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shaving your beard off.

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Speaker 3: You need to have a beard.

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Speaker 2: So she's like, I'll find you someone who can do

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your beard. So she looked up somebody in Long Beach

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and I went on there yelp page and the guy

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had like his beard was literally down to his waist

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like he had that. And I was like, Okay, this

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guy knows what he's doing.

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Speaker 1: He knows beards so like zz top style.

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Speaker 2: Yeah exactly. And so I went in there and I

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saw him and he had actually cut it all off

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and he had it like hanging there. I don't know.

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He's doing something for charity, he said. But uh. I

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was like, he's like, what do you want? And I

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was like, I don't know. I don't know how to

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I get my hair cut like twice a year, just

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do whatever. So he just did it all and he

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he he yeah. Half of it was the hair, he

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just chopped it all off, and then the other half

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was the beard, which I'd never gotten done. And he

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did that thing where he put like a hot towel

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over my face and I was so uncomfortable, like I.

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Speaker 1: Hate really, I hate the heat really.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and he put like the whole towel like over

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my fate, like surrounding my face just so my nose

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was out and I was getting like claustrophobic and it

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was all hot and I didn't like it, and I

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should have just told him stop stop at the town.

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He did a great job. It was a great place.

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Just next time I go in there and I say, no,

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no hot towel.

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Speaker 3: Yeah he would. I'm sure he thinks people love it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sure they do.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure people do love it.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, so I mean I'm sure if you didn't,

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he would be like, of course I'll take it off.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So I don't know. He put a bunch of

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like products and stuff on there, and he did the

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whole beard and he did the cut and yeah, it

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was good. And when I was in there too, he's like, oh,

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what do you do. I'm like, I produced podcasts, blah

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blah blah. He's like, oh, okay, does the cut, does a beer?

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And then I'm leving you say hey, let me get

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your number. We're thinking about doing a podcast at the

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barber shop and I want to know about it. I was like, okay, yeah,

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give me your give me your info and hit me

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up if you guys want to do a podcasts.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, barbershop is.

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Speaker 2: Going to be a little tough logistically, but I don't know.

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We'll see if he hits me up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, so you had a weekend.

492
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:22,039
Speaker 3: I am so exhausted. I feel bad for Xander because

493
00:24:22,519 --> 00:24:24,599
you know, there's been all this build up. This was

494
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,920
our the last speech and debate thing. So as I

495
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:31,200
told you, he had competed in the nationals for the

496
00:24:31,279 --> 00:24:36,359
national qualifier, he didn't he didn't break. And then in

497
00:24:36,519 --> 00:24:40,839
the last chance national qualifier that was the one I

498
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:46,920
talked about that I did online, he didn't win that one.

499
00:24:48,319 --> 00:24:50,319
So it was all leading up to this the state

500
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:53,359
he'd already qualified for state listen, and my whole thing

501
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:57,680
was like, you are you already won? Yeah, you qualified

502
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:02,599
for this competition. Apparently there were like forty five hundred

503
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:06,519
people tried to qualify for Wow, that's a lot, and

504
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:11,160
only fifty six kids in each category from around the

505
00:25:11,319 --> 00:25:12,000
entire state.

506
00:25:12,799 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 1: Wow fight for each thing. That's impressive.

507
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:18,079
Speaker 3: So he was one of fifty six people qualified in

508
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:21,519
the entire State of California for original oratory, which is

509
00:25:21,559 --> 00:25:28,359
this thing. And my friend's daughter also qualified for her thing,

510
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:31,759
which is called declamation, which is where you give a

511
00:25:31,759 --> 00:25:37,079
speech that is that you didn't write, so as Xander's

512
00:25:37,079 --> 00:25:40,279
speech he wrote himself, which I think is so cool

513
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:44,000
that like, he wrote this. But it's also more vulnerable

514
00:25:44,079 --> 00:25:47,119
because it's you're being judged not just on your delivery,

515
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:50,920
but like on your speech, on your writing, on the

516
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:55,519
meaning behind it. And if people don't really agree with you, yeah,

517
00:25:55,759 --> 00:26:01,880
then you're so the whole thing. There's there's so much

518
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:06,920
to this. And oh and you missed because Tamra, my

519
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:10,720
friend Tamra who her son, was not in the state.

520
00:26:13,839 --> 00:26:17,039
He wasn't in the competition. He didn't try out for

521
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:20,039
the state competition because he does one with a partner

522
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:24,200
and the partner was sick. Oh yeah, she got COVID

523
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,319
so they couldn't go to the qualifier. So he was

524
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:29,400
really bummed. And then I was really bummed because she

525
00:26:29,519 --> 00:26:32,519
wasn't with me, so I was there. It was a

526
00:26:32,759 --> 00:26:36,960
huge thing. And it's very much like doing jury duty,

527
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:41,119
where if you don't get stuff to judge, you're literally

528
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:46,720
like just sitting around. I see yeah, drinking like bad coffee.

529
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:51,400
So anyway, we had to get there at the krack

530
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:57,000
of dawn. Yeah, we had to be there I want

531
00:26:57,039 --> 00:27:04,079
to say at seven four seven, seven, I don't know,

532
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:08,960
but we left a light very much before eight. I think. No,

533
00:27:09,039 --> 00:27:11,240
we had to be there at seven thirty. So yeah,

534
00:27:11,319 --> 00:27:15,160
so you know up at six whatever. That part doesn't matter.

535
00:27:15,599 --> 00:27:17,880
I'm a grown up. We can get up early. But

536
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:23,160
we get there. It's just hundreds. I mean, it's just

537
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:27,599
swarmed with people. And the thing that I always hate

538
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,440
the most, and I'm not alone in this. My friend

539
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:33,400
hated it too. Was we were at this It was

540
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:38,960
at Culver City High School, which is a huge school. Okay,

541
00:27:39,279 --> 00:27:42,119
imagine like the fear of going to going back to school,

542
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,319
your first day of school and having to find all

543
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,240
your classes and having to figure out the and they

544
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,759
give you a map that is not helpful, right, You're like,

545
00:27:51,039 --> 00:27:53,079
first of all, I don't even know where I am,

546
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:56,440
And even if I do figure out like where I am,

547
00:27:56,759 --> 00:27:59,279
I don't know where anything else is in relation to

548
00:27:59,319 --> 00:28:01,680
where I am, because how the fuck would I know?

549
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:05,319
The context is all off because like I did, be

550
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:08,839
totally turned around. So you and then when they give

551
00:28:08,839 --> 00:28:13,079
you a ballot. Basically, the worst part is they're like, Okay,

552
00:28:13,519 --> 00:28:16,799
it says your ballot, and then it says room one

553
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:22,000
ninety eight E, and you're like go and then you're

554
00:28:22,279 --> 00:28:25,079
you could literally walk to one side of the school

555
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:29,160
and there's nobody goes to the school right right, there's

556
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:33,240
no Culver City High School student. Yeah, there's nobody who's like, hey,

557
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,319
I work at Culver City High School. Let me know

558
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:37,359
what you're trying to know. It's all people who are

559
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:40,160
as lost as you are. So you're walking around, You're like,

560
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:42,880
does anybody know where room one ninety eight is? And

561
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:46,440
they're like, I don't know any better than you do.

562
00:28:46,599 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 4: I remember going on these the tournaments and stuff at

563
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:53,200
these different schools, and it was the same thing, like

564
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:54,039
where do you park?

565
00:28:54,079 --> 00:28:54,559
Speaker 1: Where do you go?

566
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:56,079
Speaker 4: And then once you're in the school, how do you

567
00:28:56,119 --> 00:28:58,720
find me out to? Like I'd have to listen, you know,

568
00:28:58,839 --> 00:29:01,880
for like the whistles and balls, like it's obviously I

569
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:05,000
parked on the wrong side because it's dead quiet, you know,

570
00:29:05,039 --> 00:29:07,559
I you know what I mean, Like you don't get

571
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:10,000
turned around. And also when you're driving and you have

572
00:29:10,039 --> 00:29:11,519
to look at a map at the same time.

573
00:29:11,599 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 1: I can't do that.

574
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 4: I have to pull over read like, I can't just

575
00:29:15,599 --> 00:29:18,000
willy nilly just show up at a high school and

576
00:29:18,039 --> 00:29:19,839
look at a map like right.

577
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, Well, the first thing that happened was we

578
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,839
could not find the parking lot and there were all

579
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:28,759
and apparently the day before the competition had started, So

580
00:29:28,799 --> 00:29:32,160
it started on Friday. But that was for like debate

581
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,799
and something called parloa other things that I don't know

582
00:29:34,799 --> 00:29:37,920
what they are. Right, that was Friday. Well, the emails

583
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:42,240
start coming in like, hey, parents, a lot of you

584
00:29:42,279 --> 00:29:45,319
have been parking in the wrong spot. It's clearly marked

585
00:29:45,319 --> 00:29:49,319
on the map, like these are places you do not park. Well,

586
00:29:49,359 --> 00:29:52,440
of course, so we drive down there. You know, it's

587
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,079
very early. We're thinking we're going to be like the

588
00:29:55,119 --> 00:29:59,759
earliest ones there. You're you're driving down, you put into

589
00:29:59,799 --> 00:30:01,599
your map like the school.

590
00:30:01,839 --> 00:30:03,319
Speaker 1: Yeah.

591
00:30:03,359 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 3: Well you get there and it's like they're like, oh,

592
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:08,000
the parking is on the other side of the school. Well,

593
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:11,720
there's no easy way. The school takes up like four blocks.

594
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:15,119
There's no easy way. There's like dead ends, you know.

595
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:18,160
We found ourselves driving around and around and around, and

596
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:23,519
finally finally we find this one street but we'd been

597
00:30:23,599 --> 00:30:26,279
driving around for like fifteen minutes and then there was

598
00:30:26,319 --> 00:30:28,519
like a little parking lot in there, and honestly, we

599
00:30:28,519 --> 00:30:30,480
were like, you know what, fuck it, I don't if

600
00:30:30,519 --> 00:30:33,519
this isn't the right parking lot, tough, I don't know

601
00:30:33,559 --> 00:30:36,359
what to tell you. It was the right parking lot.

602
00:30:37,079 --> 00:30:39,519
Then we couldn't find our car when we went to leave.

603
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:42,599
Oh no, you can't figure out where we parked. So

604
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:45,200
then then so then I had a good idea, which

605
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:49,079
was like an address of just a house that was

606
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:51,839
right near the parking lot, or like put that address

607
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:53,799
into our GPS tomorrow.

608
00:30:54,079 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 1: Very good, good.

609
00:30:55,279 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 3: And that worked better for the next day. But the

610
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:59,799
whole thing was, the whole day went like that. It

611
00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:03,200
was like every because I judged three different rounds three

612
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:06,559
different times, got lost on the campus and I was like, gosh, okay,

613
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:10,559
I don't Everything was so spread out, and every time

614
00:31:10,559 --> 00:31:12,640
I would get nervous and be like, oh my god,

615
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:14,680
I can't I can't find this classroom.

616
00:31:14,799 --> 00:31:17,839
Speaker 1: Were you late for the judging for the no, Luckily

617
00:31:17,839 --> 00:31:18,480
you got no.

618
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 3: I figured it out, But that's because I'm nervous, So

619
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,240
I would I would leave immediately, like I'd be like,

620
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,720
I'm gonna give myself all the time to find this. No,

621
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:31,200
actually I was like first in most of them. Everybody

622
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,880
had trouble finding stuff, right, But I never let that

623
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,160
make me feel better. I always just go like, oh

624
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:39,559
my god, yeah, what's wrong with me? I can't find anything?

625
00:31:41,119 --> 00:31:46,279
But anyway, all these kids were so good. But I

626
00:31:46,359 --> 00:31:49,000
do have kind of a I have a crazy story

627
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:54,480
for Patreon okay that I cannot in good conscience tell

628
00:31:54,519 --> 00:31:59,039
on the regular show. This needs to be Patreon. But

629
00:31:59,279 --> 00:32:01,559
something on a fucked up did happen?

630
00:32:02,279 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 1: Oh really?

631
00:32:04,079 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, Okay, me and this other judge decided that

632
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:13,480
we needed to be well, he was like, I'm a

633
00:32:13,519 --> 00:32:16,960
mandatory reporter, so let me just I'll just I'll leave

634
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:19,720
it at that, and then I backed him up on

635
00:32:19,759 --> 00:32:23,119
the fact that we this has never happened. Okay, we

636
00:32:23,119 --> 00:32:29,880
were Yeah. So anyway, it was very it was pretty

637
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:35,640
fun the first day. I'll say that Xander did not

638
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,839
make it to the semi finals. But here's what's kind

639
00:32:38,839 --> 00:32:43,720
of fucked up. So all day Saturday, they have rounds.

640
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:47,799
But then there's two groups of kids. There's Group A

641
00:32:48,039 --> 00:32:50,559
and Group B and Xander's Group A. So Group A

642
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:54,559
had three rounds on Saturday, and Group B had two

643
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:57,359
rounds they started a little later, and then they had

644
00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:00,240
one Sunday morning. Then all the kids find out who

645
00:33:00,319 --> 00:33:05,200
made it to the semi finals. So they originally were like,

646
00:33:05,559 --> 00:33:07,920
you have to go to the school the next day,

647
00:33:08,079 --> 00:33:10,519
even if you don't make it. You won't find out

648
00:33:10,559 --> 00:33:12,799
if you made it until the next day, which was

649
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:16,799
really crazy. So I told Xander, I was like, you

650
00:33:16,839 --> 00:33:18,839
know what, just don't come with me in the morning

651
00:33:19,079 --> 00:33:23,599
because it would be so sad because the semifinal round

652
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:25,640
wasn't going to start until one and he would have

653
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:27,119
had to be with me there at eight o'clock in

654
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,960
the morning, right, So I was like, just sleep, I'll go,

655
00:33:31,319 --> 00:33:35,160
I'll do the judging. If you broke and you're going

656
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:39,920
to be in the semifinals, dad can drop o. So

657
00:33:40,319 --> 00:33:45,400
he did not break, but in his defense, almost nobody

658
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:48,480
that we know did. Wow, it was really hard. It

659
00:33:48,559 --> 00:33:51,359
was schools, it was kids from everywhere in the state

660
00:33:51,559 --> 00:33:55,680
to have competition released off competition. I think he did

661
00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:59,319
pretty well. It was kind of all over the place.

662
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:03,759
But one round two judges gave him second, but one

663
00:34:03,799 --> 00:34:09,159
gave him sixth, and then another round somebody gave him first,

664
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:12,800
but somebody gave him sixth, and then someone gave him

665
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:14,079
third and again.

666
00:34:14,199 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 4: These judges are volunteered judges.

667
00:34:16,639 --> 00:34:20,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, like yep, yeah right. In fact, the round that

668
00:34:20,679 --> 00:34:27,800
I'm going to talk about in patreon on Patreon, when

669
00:34:28,119 --> 00:34:30,440
you can look back at you can look back and

670
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:33,400
see what everybody, what all the judges did after the fact.

671
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:35,800
So I spent like a bunch of time this morning

672
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:39,880
looking and it is crazy, like you're watching something with

673
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:42,599
me somebody else. There's three judges in every room.

674
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,320
Speaker 4: You can look back and see what the judges did.

675
00:34:45,519 --> 00:34:49,239
Speaker 3: I can look back at every kid and every room

676
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:52,599
that they were in and what the judges scored them.

677
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 1: I see.

678
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,559
Speaker 3: So I could look at every round that Xander had

679
00:34:55,679 --> 00:34:58,559
and see what each judge gave him. Oh, then if

680
00:34:58,559 --> 00:35:01,079
I want to, I could look at what those judges

681
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:04,400
gave other people. I could look at all the rounds

682
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:07,159
that I judged and see what the other judges that

683
00:35:07,199 --> 00:35:08,880
were in the room, what they thought of the same

684
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:13,480
people I was looking at. Mmmm, a person that I

685
00:35:13,599 --> 00:35:18,599
put dead last, another woman put first. Really, so this

686
00:35:18,639 --> 00:35:22,679
is it's so arbitrary. It is really hard to tell

687
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:27,159
your kid, like, well, you have to improve. If somebody

688
00:35:27,159 --> 00:35:29,840
gives you first, somebody gives you last, and someone puts you.

689
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:32,639
Speaker 4: In the right you do with that? Yeah, what are

690
00:35:32,639 --> 00:35:34,719
you supposed to do with that? That's that's crazy.

691
00:35:35,159 --> 00:35:38,159
Speaker 3: But a lot of these judges are really fucking.

692
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:41,519
Speaker 4: Crazy because they're parent volunteers.

693
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 3: So some of them are parent volunteers.

694
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:46,039
Speaker 1: I have a dog in the fight.

695
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 3: Some of them are like teachers from the school. Some

696
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:54,960
of them are like literally your neighbor that like, your

697
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:57,440
school doesn't have enough people and they need an extra person.

698
00:35:57,599 --> 00:36:01,800
So you're like, oh my, uh huh. My sister's boyfriend says,

699
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:04,320
says he'll come do it, right, I've never done it before.

700
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:11,800
Right there, they say, like weird, stop like hmm, yeah,

701
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:13,119
it's weird.

702
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:16,119
Speaker 4: Yeah that is, that's I don't know of any other

703
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:19,679
sport that well. I guess, like you know, when you

704
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:22,679
have volunteer refs and stuff at games, I guess it's

705
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:24,320
like that, yeah, right right.

706
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:27,719
Speaker 3: Yeah. Kaitlin, like, what's been happening with the kids'.

707
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 2: Sports, Well, they haven't been doing any where. I guess

708
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:33,239
we're just kind of waiting for soccer to roll around.

709
00:36:33,639 --> 00:36:36,119
But Blake didn't really seem that into soccer. So I

710
00:36:36,119 --> 00:36:38,000
don't know if we're gonna I mean, she probably would

711
00:36:38,039 --> 00:36:39,760
be if Ila was going to soccer all the time,

712
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:41,840
she'd be like, well, why not going to soccer? So

713
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:43,840
we'll probably end up signing both of them up for that.

714
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:46,760
But yeah, that's the only sport that that that that

715
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:47,360
they're doing.

716
00:36:48,119 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 3: Mmm.

717
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:51,280
Speaker 1: Yeah.

718
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:52,760
Speaker 3: Do they have a birthday coming up again?

719
00:36:54,079 --> 00:36:55,039
Speaker 2: Yeah, at the end of June.

720
00:36:56,199 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 3: Wow, she's gonna be six.

721
00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:57,679
Speaker 1: Huh.

722
00:36:58,119 --> 00:36:58,760
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

723
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, they getting old. Not all kids like sports, it's

724
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:06,280
fine maybe.

725
00:37:06,119 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 3: But they also might like it later. Not all kids

726
00:37:09,079 --> 00:37:11,639
like it when they're really young. Yes, you know, none

727
00:37:11,679 --> 00:37:14,519
of my kids started doing anything until they were like ten. Well,

728
00:37:14,559 --> 00:37:16,760
Abe didn't play basketball starting at ten.

729
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:19,320
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah.

730
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:21,920
Speaker 4: I mean my kids played sports here, and you know,

731
00:37:22,079 --> 00:37:26,199
like when they started little, they tried everything, but to

732
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:27,800
find the sport that they really liked.

733
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:32,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, they were older, like around ten yeah. Yeah.

734
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 3: And I know kids that started older than that that

735
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:38,840
were like twelve thirteen. Yeah, yeah, they were like, well

736
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:40,360
I think I'll try basketball, right.

737
00:37:40,559 --> 00:37:42,159
Speaker 2: I didn't even find the sport that I like until

738
00:37:42,199 --> 00:37:45,079
I was sixteen. Really, yeah, I played them all.

739
00:37:45,599 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 1: What was your sport?

740
00:37:46,599 --> 00:37:47,119
Speaker 2: Volleyball?

741
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:47,800
Speaker 1: Volleyball.

742
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 3: Oh interesting, at sixteen you decided to try it.

743
00:37:52,039 --> 00:37:56,559
Speaker 2: Yeah. I only played for two years, I think, but

744
00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:00,519
like we won our division, the Division four, but we

745
00:38:00,559 --> 00:38:01,880
won both years, so that was good.

746
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:04,159
Speaker 1: Wow, that's nice.

747
00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:07,559
Speaker 3: I didn't know that. What made you decide to try it?

748
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:09,840
Speaker 2: I think just my friends were doing it. I think

749
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:11,920
I just signed up because some of my friends were

750
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:14,039
doing it, And yeah, I loved.

751
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:15,559
Speaker 1: It, and you loved it. Yeah, why'd you quit?

752
00:38:16,639 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 2: School's over?

753
00:38:17,519 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, I went all the way to to senior year.

754
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:24,320
Speaker 2: You know, I don't Maybe I didn't play senior year

755
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:27,480
because I just didn't want to because it's senior year.

756
00:38:27,519 --> 00:38:30,360
I wanted to fuck around. Yeah I think that was

757
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:31,000
the case.

758
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:37,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, because Natalia played volleyball up until senior year, right,

759
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:38,719
quit right before?

760
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:41,280
Speaker 1: Yeah.

761
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:46,760
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762
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about another thing that we absolutely love, which is quints.

763
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Everybody loves quints. Yeah, and he doesn't love quints. And

764
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:56,679
if you say that you don't like quince, you're absolutely

765
00:38:56,760 --> 00:39:00,199
lying to yourself. You love it, and the temperatures are rising,

766
00:39:01,039 --> 00:39:05,039
and they have a beautiful summer wardrobe that you're going

767
00:39:05,119 --> 00:39:08,119
to want. It a part of like one hundred percent

768
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European linen shorts, dresses from the thirty dollars luck, swimwear, swimwear,

769
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:20,000
platform sandals is they have so much great stuff all

770
00:39:20,039 --> 00:39:25,079
in one place. Yes, and every summer inexpensive and everything

771
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is affordable.

772
00:39:26,079 --> 00:39:28,679
Speaker 4: I have their wrap dress from last summer that I

773
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:29,960
absolutely love.

774
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Speaker 3: Get a new one.

775
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Speaker 4: I'm gonna get a new one. They have all the

776
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:37,440
different colors that you can want. They've got all different varieties.

777
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:40,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, Kaitlin, you just got some more performance shorts, right.

778
00:39:40,559 --> 00:39:43,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I did. I've talked about how my in laws

779
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:45,599
always get me Quints for Christmas. Well it was just

780
00:39:45,679 --> 00:39:47,599
my birthday, so they got me a quinn S gift cards.

781
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:50,840
I got more of than shorts for summer.

782
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:53,639
Speaker 3: I love it. That's a great gift. You can get

783
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:56,800
quinn S gift cards now, Yeah, that's nice, but also

784
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785
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786
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791
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Speaker 1: Nice boom boom.

792
00:40:23,639 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 3: We still do that, even though matt Man fund earlier has.

793
00:40:27,039 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 1: Long gone yep boom.

794
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:33,559
Speaker 3: Yeah. So okay, So anyway, Day one I got to

795
00:40:33,639 --> 00:40:37,239
judge three different rounds. It was really fun. The great

796
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:39,960
thing about judging is it well a I like it

797
00:40:40,039 --> 00:40:42,199
and it's something to do, and it's better than any

798
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:45,360
TV show, right, you know, right? And then also you

799
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:47,159
feel like you have a dog in that fight, so

800
00:40:47,199 --> 00:40:50,000
that later when people when you find out who won

801
00:40:50,079 --> 00:40:53,960
or lost, who won or lost, who is the winner,

802
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:56,119
who are the winners, who are the losers, you can

803
00:40:56,159 --> 00:41:00,440
go oh, I I called it. I that she was

804
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:01,880
in my round and I ranked them.

805
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:02,519
Speaker 2: Yeah.

806
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:05,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, that sounds so fun.

807
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 4: I get really, And didn't you have a friend that

808
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:08,639
did it with you?

809
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:11,719
Speaker 1: The other mom? Yeah, so she was judging too.

810
00:41:12,679 --> 00:41:15,519
Speaker 3: Yes, so my friend was judging too. So we got

811
00:41:15,519 --> 00:41:18,719
to hang out for the whole day together. I brought

812
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:21,719
a book, but I didn't ever read it because you know,

813
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:22,639
I was hanging out with this.

814
00:41:22,599 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: Other mom or looking for classrooms.

815
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:29,199
Speaker 3: Or looking for classrooms. Yes, well, yes, Day one, we

816
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:31,960
were both kind of busy because we both judged the

817
00:41:32,079 --> 00:41:35,719
same amount of rounds, and when you're judging around, it's

818
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:38,480
that's like an hour and a half. So I did

819
00:41:38,559 --> 00:41:41,000
three of those, so that's like four and a half

820
00:41:41,039 --> 00:41:44,000
hours of my day was spent actually in around judging.

821
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,880
Then you have like time in between, and then you

822
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:49,119
have lunch and then you're.

823
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: You know, right.

824
00:41:50,519 --> 00:41:53,400
Speaker 3: But anyway, the second day was kind of a bummer

825
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:55,320
because I had to be there early in the morning.

826
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:58,079
I didn't bring Xander, and then I didn't get one

827
00:41:58,639 --> 00:42:00,719
round to judge. What happened?

828
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:03,360
Speaker 1: You didn't know, you didn't get to judge anything.

829
00:42:03,599 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 3: No, but one kid from our school who's really good.

830
00:42:09,079 --> 00:42:13,119
He they call it breaking. That means you make it

831
00:42:13,119 --> 00:42:16,199
to the semi finals. So we had one kid who broke.

832
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:19,039
We had five kids out of our team that made

833
00:42:19,039 --> 00:42:22,599
it to the state. One of those kids made it

834
00:42:22,639 --> 00:42:26,039
to the semi finals, so Xander got dropped off. He

835
00:42:26,079 --> 00:42:28,760
came to go support that guy because he's a freaking

836
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:34,159
sweet kid. Then me and the other mom, the mom

837
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,880
drove me. We were kind of hoping that the kid

838
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:40,159
would not make it to the finals because if he

839
00:42:40,199 --> 00:42:42,760
didn't make it to finals, we could be eligible to

840
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:44,800
judge a final round, but if we didn't get one,

841
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:48,320
we could go. But he did make it to the finals,

842
00:42:49,119 --> 00:42:53,599
so then our coach was texting me and she was like, listen,

843
00:42:53,639 --> 00:42:56,079
if you have to leave, like, I will understand, but

844
00:42:57,400 --> 00:43:01,719
his name's Quinn. But I'm sure Quinn would really appreciate

845
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:03,000
the support, right.

846
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:05,360
Speaker 1: I know, what are you going to do?

847
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:07,280
Speaker 3: It is like I'm not going to leave the car

848
00:43:07,679 --> 00:43:10,880
and just the kid on their own, like no one

849
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:13,199
else from the school, Like yeah, that's it. And then

850
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:16,239
it turned out that the other kids did leave. Really

851
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:18,840
it was just Xander and Xander and I was like,

852
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:21,159
I don't know, what do you think, like should we go?

853
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,039
And Xander's like I feel bad? And I was like

854
00:43:23,159 --> 00:43:27,079
I feel bad too. Well. The mom that drove me

855
00:43:27,199 --> 00:43:30,480
there though, she didn't give a fuck because she didn't

856
00:43:30,519 --> 00:43:33,639
have any Nobody from the first school school even broke

857
00:43:33,679 --> 00:43:36,519
to the semi finals. So as soon as her final

858
00:43:36,599 --> 00:43:39,599
round got called and she didn't.

859
00:43:39,079 --> 00:43:41,559
Speaker 1: Basically she was like she wanted to leave.

860
00:43:41,679 --> 00:43:43,800
Speaker 3: I want to. She was like I feel so bad,

861
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,000
but like, are you sure you want to stay for

862
00:43:46,079 --> 00:43:49,360
this award ceremony? And I was like, well, I feel bad.

863
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:52,519
Because I was like, listen, you can go. I go.

864
00:43:52,599 --> 00:43:56,199
We'll just uber home. Oh And she was like, oh,

865
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:58,440
I feel so bad. I don't want to make you uber,

866
00:43:58,599 --> 00:44:02,320
but I also don't want to stay, I know. And

867
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:06,119
I was like, I get it go. And then luckily

868
00:44:06,599 --> 00:44:09,119
the kid who made it to the finals, who was

869
00:44:09,159 --> 00:44:13,079
in the awards ceremony, his parents came to watch him

870
00:44:13,119 --> 00:44:15,719
to get his award and they live kind of near me.

871
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:21,400
They're oak So I was like, yeah, anyway, you guys

872
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:23,920
could drive us to the valley. I actually just just

873
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:26,119
take us to your house and I'll just uber house.

874
00:44:26,159 --> 00:44:28,199
And they were like no, that's ridiculous, we'll drive you home.

875
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:31,400
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you stayed for their kid, right, Like.

876
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:37,039
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I still felt bad. Basically they we and

877
00:44:37,079 --> 00:44:41,159
we all understand this. They were like, we left our dog,

878
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:44,360
our senior dog alone all day. This was they were

879
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:47,079
telling me. They're like we Oh. So I said, is

880
00:44:47,119 --> 00:44:49,320
there any way you guys could like drop us off

881
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:54,480
in the valley, And the mom, who's super nice, was like, yes,

882
00:44:54,639 --> 00:44:57,079
but we're not going to stay for the whole awards ceremony,

883
00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:00,440
which of course I was like hell yeah, yea either,

884
00:45:00,519 --> 00:45:03,360
we don't want to either because our dog has been

885
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:07,559
like we left our we planned this wrong. We didn't

886
00:45:07,639 --> 00:45:08,960
know he was going to go all the way to

887
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:11,360
the finals, so we didn't so we let we just

888
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:13,559
left him in our dog in the house, and we

889
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:16,159
have to get back to our dog. So then I

890
00:45:16,199 --> 00:45:18,880
still felt bad because, you know, the whole way home,

891
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:20,880
they're like, oh god, I hope our dog didn't like

892
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:23,480
be in the house. I was like, you can just

893
00:45:23,559 --> 00:45:25,840
drop me off at your house and we'll just and

894
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:28,840
they're like no, no, no, we'll take you home. Yeah,

895
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:30,639
And then I kept going like I feel so bad,

896
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:33,119
like your dog is home alone longer and they're like,

897
00:45:33,199 --> 00:45:34,239
I don't think ten minutes.

898
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:38,119
Speaker 4: So right, well that's nice. They live close by. That

899
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:41,360
was nice of you to stay though, you know, yeah,

900
00:45:41,559 --> 00:45:42,239
I get it.

901
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 3: But it was like a let's see, we got home

902
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:50,760
at like eight pm. Oh and I left at like

903
00:45:51,159 --> 00:45:52,760
seven thirty at seven.

904
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:54,280
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

905
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 3: Yeah. It was both weekend, like seven thirty home at

906
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:00,519
like eight pm both days both days. Yeah.

907
00:46:00,559 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 1: Wow, it's a long weekend. Yeah.

908
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:07,199
Speaker 3: And here's the thing. Okay, and this is like just

909
00:46:07,199 --> 00:46:11,760
a small complaint, but you'll know what I mean now.

910
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:16,599
In John's defense, he had to. Our dog has gotten

911
00:46:16,639 --> 00:46:21,039
so high maintenance in her in her golden years. Yes,

912
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:23,800
she needs so many walks. At night, she doesn't know

913
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:27,239
what she wants, so she just cries. But in the

914
00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:31,400
morning she sleeps in. She's gotten some like reversed thing

915
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:34,719
where she sleeps during the day, but she sleeps in

916
00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:37,000
in the morning and does not cry for a walk.

917
00:46:37,159 --> 00:46:40,039
Or she used to wake me up first thing in

918
00:46:40,039 --> 00:46:42,280
the morning. She wakes you up, she'll put her paw

919
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:46,599
on you like that was most of our existence. Now

920
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:49,039
she won't. She like won't get you up in the morning,

921
00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:50,880
so you have to wait for her to want to

922
00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:53,679
get up in the morning. But at night she wants

923
00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:57,320
all like starting at like four point thirty, she starts

924
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:01,599
like crying and pacing around like barking. So you have

925
00:47:01,639 --> 00:47:03,320
to take her for a walk at like four point thirty.

926
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:06,599
Then she wants another walk at like six oh my gosh.

927
00:47:06,679 --> 00:47:09,880
Then she wants another walk at like eight wow. Yeah,

928
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:13,119
So she take she needs at least like three walks

929
00:47:13,159 --> 00:47:15,440
starting in the afternoon like and that, so we take

930
00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:18,000
her out in the morning when she finally wakes up. Then,

931
00:47:18,119 --> 00:47:21,840
so John had given her a lot of walks but

932
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:24,400
I got a lot of texts about how unhappy the

933
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:27,639
dog is, and it's like, yeah, I can't do anything

934
00:47:27,679 --> 00:47:33,039
about that. Yeah, from the speech and debate competition, I

935
00:47:33,039 --> 00:47:36,000
feel your pain. I know it sucks. But then, like,

936
00:47:37,199 --> 00:47:39,519
what he likes to do, and you know, this is

937
00:47:39,519 --> 00:47:43,239
something I've said for years, but like he likes to go,

938
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:45,000
so what what do you guys want to do for dinner?

939
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:47,119
Speaker 1: Uh? Huh?

940
00:47:47,159 --> 00:47:49,880
Speaker 3: And I just wish that, like, because it's just him

941
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:51,880
and Sadie, I just wish that they would just go

942
00:47:52,119 --> 00:47:55,159
just eat, you know, and then Xander and I we'll

943
00:47:55,679 --> 00:47:57,119
go stop and get some food on the way home.

944
00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:01,679
And again, if I just said to him, like, can

945
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:05,039
you guys just eat? And then he would, but he'd

946
00:48:05,039 --> 00:48:07,079
be a little like a little but hurt about it.

947
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:10,679
He'd be a little bit like okay, but like he

948
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:13,159
could just wait for you guys, right, But he will

949
00:48:13,199 --> 00:48:16,159
do this when like Sadie will be saying like I'm hungry,

950
00:48:16,199 --> 00:48:19,400
like what's for dinner? Early? Let's just say I'm out

951
00:48:19,519 --> 00:48:23,559
or doing something. He'll be like, hey, so the kids

952
00:48:23,559 --> 00:48:30,400
are getting hungry or whatever, get them eat, you know

953
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:35,599
what I mean. Yeah, So basically nobody got food until

954
00:48:35,639 --> 00:48:40,079
I got home. Yes, and then we were all like.

955
00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:44,119
Then he was like, okay, so Sadie's been waiting to eat,

956
00:48:44,199 --> 00:48:46,360
so like, what do you guys want to do for dinner?

957
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:50,639
And then I really, I'm not trying to throw John

958
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:52,960
under the bus. This is just me, I think maybe

959
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:57,119
guy thinking, because if I was to say, okay, go

960
00:48:57,159 --> 00:49:03,280
get us whatever, he would Wait. He's tired. He's like, oh,

961
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:05,320
I was cutting down like trees in front of the

962
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:08,920
house like all day. So I'm like okay, but I

963
00:49:09,079 --> 00:49:11,960
was also out for twelve hours. So then it becomes

964
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:14,679
a thing where I have to go, okay, well, what

965
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:18,599
do you guys want to eat? And then John goes,

966
00:49:18,639 --> 00:49:20,400
you want to get like Panda?

967
00:49:20,679 --> 00:49:21,280
Speaker 1: Uh huh?

968
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:25,159
Speaker 3: So I go, okay, do the kids want it? Like

969
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:27,519
I don't know. Then I go, Sadie, do you want

970
00:49:27,519 --> 00:49:32,440
to Panda? Express? Okay, like Xander, do you want Panda? Yeah?

971
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:35,519
And then I have to go like, okay, yes, we're

972
00:49:35,519 --> 00:49:38,360
getting Panda. Give me your order, yes, and then you'll

973
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:39,920
have to play see yes, and then I have to

974
00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:41,440
go get it and you have to go get it.

975
00:49:41,519 --> 00:49:41,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

976
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:45,800
Speaker 2: Why doesn't he just text you hey when he can

977
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:47,119
be home. I'm gonna get.

978
00:49:47,159 --> 00:49:50,559
Speaker 3: Yes, that's even worse. I don't like that, Okaylin That's

979
00:49:50,559 --> 00:49:53,599
what I used to complain about the most, because it's okay.

980
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 2: Well, now I'm kind of on John's side.

981
00:49:56,559 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 3: You get what I'm saying that I get When you

982
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:00,960
get the text that's like, hey, what are we doing

983
00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:03,920
for dinner? It's like, no, I don't mind if he says,

984
00:50:04,199 --> 00:50:05,880
are you guys gonna come home for dinner?

985
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:06,559
Speaker 1: Right?

986
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:10,400
Speaker 2: That's what he should I wait for you or they're hungry?

987
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:12,119
I'm just gonna go get food text, But.

988
00:50:12,119 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 3: He doesn't say should I wait for you or should

989
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:17,119
I just get them food? He says where are you

990
00:50:17,119 --> 00:50:19,880
guys for dinner? And then if I was to say,

991
00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:23,639
then I'm like, well, I don't know. I guess we're

992
00:50:23,679 --> 00:50:27,400
with you for But he won't say like, hey, are

993
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:30,360
you guys hungry? Like I'm gonna order Chipotle and have it.

994
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:31,960
I'll go pick it up and have it ready when

995
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:32,840
you guys come home.

996
00:50:33,079 --> 00:50:33,280
Speaker 1: Right.

997
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:35,880
Speaker 3: It's like we don't start thinking about it until it's

998
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:38,079
already eight o'clock. And then then you got to go

999
00:50:38,119 --> 00:50:40,159
into like, well, what's open late?

1000
00:50:40,559 --> 00:50:40,760
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1001
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:41,159
Speaker 3: What I mean?

1002
00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:44,239
Speaker 1: And then who's going to place the order, Who's going

1003
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:45,239
to pick up the order?

1004
00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:47,760
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah?

1005
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:50,800
Speaker 4: And also like if you guys are gone all day

1006
00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:55,599
and he's home with with Sadie and she's hungry, why

1007
00:50:55,639 --> 00:50:57,840
not just go okay, like we'll get something to eat

1008
00:50:58,320 --> 00:51:01,119
and then say, hey, Sadie and I are going to chibil,

1009
00:51:01,119 --> 00:51:03,000
Like it might be hours before you guys get home,

1010
00:51:03,039 --> 00:51:04,840
but do you guys want anything you know?

1011
00:51:05,119 --> 00:51:07,559
Speaker 1: Or do you you know what I mean something something

1012
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:09,840
or you know?

1013
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:11,800
Speaker 3: Well, because he used to do this back when I

1014
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:15,280
had to drive to San Clemente and I would be

1015
00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:17,679
gone all day because it would be like a two

1016
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:19,239
and a half hour drive there and then a two

1017
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:21,159
and a half hour drive back. When I was working

1018
00:51:21,199 --> 00:51:27,519
for that crazy doctor Tom Mois Sharma criminal, he would

1019
00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:30,480
the things would start at like five o'clock, like, hey,

1020
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:33,519
what is there a plan for dinner? Now? Granted the

1021
00:51:33,559 --> 00:51:36,199
kids are a little bit younger, but it would be like, yeah,

1022
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:38,239
I don't know what the fucking plan is for dinner

1023
00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:40,920
because I'm in a car driving from basically San Diego

1024
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:44,840
at that point, right, right, can you just parent like

1025
00:51:45,039 --> 00:51:47,719
that's I would get mad back then. I don't get

1026
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:52,079
his I'm not mad about it. He's trying to be considerate.

1027
00:51:52,159 --> 00:51:54,400
I get you, Kaylin, I get that you're saying that

1028
00:51:54,519 --> 00:51:57,119
he's he's just trying to be like, hey, what do

1029
00:51:57,159 --> 00:51:57,800
you guys want?

1030
00:51:57,880 --> 00:52:00,119
Speaker 2: Well, I'm just thinking like he's just putting myself in

1031
00:52:00,159 --> 00:52:02,840
that situation. And so if I were to send no text,

1032
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:04,599
and then I were to go out and get like

1033
00:52:05,199 --> 00:52:07,039
me and islet in and out and then come back,

1034
00:52:07,079 --> 00:52:09,440
and then Amy and Blake came home and they were like, oh,

1035
00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:12,519
we haven't eaten, Like okay, Dick, move, you didn't tell

1036
00:52:12,639 --> 00:52:15,639
us you, But I would go and get I just say, hey,

1037
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:17,039
me and I are going to get in and out.

1038
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:18,119
Speaker 1: You want anything?

1039
00:52:18,199 --> 00:52:18,559
Speaker 3: That's it?

1040
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:18,920
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1041
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 1: Right?

1042
00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:20,760
Speaker 2: But that is a very busy text.

1043
00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:24,400
Speaker 3: But he doesn't send that. He doesn't say, Sadie's hungry.

1044
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:26,639
We're gonna grab some food. Do you guys want Are

1045
00:52:26,679 --> 00:52:28,159
you guys gonna be hungry when you get home? Sh

1046
00:52:28,159 --> 00:52:29,159
I'd get you something? Right?

1047
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:32,320
Speaker 2: Putting the whole dinner on you, like, hey, what do

1048
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:35,159
you do? That's different. But just saying hey, I'm going

1049
00:52:35,199 --> 00:52:37,440
to get food. Do you want anything? That is the

1050
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:39,880
text that should be sent, Hey, dinner, We're going to

1051
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:41,159
eat you want anything? No?

1052
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:41,519
Speaker 3: Right?

1053
00:52:41,559 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 2: We'll figure out good, right.

1054
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:47,039
Speaker 3: But that's because John is like very tight b So

1055
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:50,119
in his mind he's like, hey, it's all good, we'll

1056
00:52:50,199 --> 00:52:53,039
just wait, we'll lay home and see what everyone wants

1057
00:52:53,079 --> 00:52:55,800
to do. But in my mind, I'm like, by the

1058
00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:58,920
time you're waiting for then it becomes like my responsive

1059
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:01,320
Then I've got to figure out what everybody wants right right?

1060
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:01,639
Speaker 1: Right?

1061
00:53:02,159 --> 00:53:05,880
Speaker 4: Yes, Like I'm out and about, I'm busy, I'm working,

1062
00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:08,679
I'm doing my thing. You're at home with the kid

1063
00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:12,239
or the kids, and if they're hungry, just take that

1064
00:53:12,400 --> 00:53:15,280
off my plate so I don't have to think about it.

1065
00:53:15,519 --> 00:53:18,079
I'll figure it out, you know, if I need to

1066
00:53:18,159 --> 00:53:20,800
get food for myself or food for me and whoever

1067
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:23,320
i'm with, if I'm with a kid or whatever, we'll

1068
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:23,960
figure it out.

1069
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:27,679
Speaker 1: But since you guys are home, you just right.

1070
00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:30,639
Speaker 3: I don't mind if he says like, hey, are you

1071
00:53:30,679 --> 00:53:33,360
guys going to be home for dinner? Right, and it's

1072
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:36,000
going to be early. But if I say, like, I

1073
00:53:36,039 --> 00:53:37,800
don't know, I don't know how long we're going to

1074
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:40,039
be here, he knew I was kind of miserable. But

1075
00:53:40,159 --> 00:53:42,000
this thing that I was stuck there and it was

1076
00:53:42,039 --> 00:53:44,280
taking a long time, And I said, I have no

1077
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:46,039
idea what time we're going to get back. It's taking

1078
00:53:46,079 --> 00:53:48,559
a long time, right. But if I was to say, like,

1079
00:53:48,599 --> 00:53:50,440
go ahead and eat, he wouldn't.

1080
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:51,599
Speaker 1: He just wouldn't.

1081
00:53:51,639 --> 00:53:53,760
Speaker 3: No, we'll just wait for you. It's cool, Sadie can wait,

1082
00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:56,159
She'll have a snack. But then it's like a thing

1083
00:53:56,199 --> 00:53:58,119
that I have to when I guess one thing I

1084
00:53:58,159 --> 00:53:59,880
have to do. I can't just go home and relax.

1085
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:04,119
Speaker 4: I got to think about everybody, right, getting everybody fed. Yeah,

1086
00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:06,960
when you can just have like cheese and crackers and

1087
00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:07,280
go to.

1088
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:11,199
Speaker 1: Bed totally, yeah, yeah, yes.

1089
00:54:11,159 --> 00:54:13,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I'm not I'd rather just go to bed

1090
00:54:13,559 --> 00:54:16,639
and just I'm not how interested in eating and getting

1091
00:54:16,679 --> 00:54:18,159
everybody their meal?

1092
00:54:18,519 --> 00:54:22,440
Speaker 3: And then I ate Panda Express at like nine o'clock

1093
00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:25,599
thirty at night, and then there's that. Yeah, then you

1094
00:54:25,639 --> 00:54:28,039
wake up feeling like did I really need like a

1095
00:54:28,119 --> 00:54:31,199
plate like two? Like, yeah, I got steamed rice, but

1096
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:33,880
did I really need kung pow and mushroom chicken? But

1097
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:35,360
by that point I was hungry.

1098
00:54:35,480 --> 00:54:37,199
Speaker 1: I get the same thing you do.

1099
00:54:37,559 --> 00:54:41,199
Speaker 4: Yeah, mushroom chicken and kung pau That's what I got.

1100
00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:44,639
Speaker 3: Yeah. First I tried to order. I was like, can

1101
00:54:44,679 --> 00:54:48,039
I just do a bowl which is like one order,

1102
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:51,840
like one side and one order? And I can I split?

1103
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:55,079
Can I do like half in half? And she goes yeah.

1104
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:57,280
So then I said, okay, I want kung pow and

1105
00:54:57,360 --> 00:54:59,800
mushroom chicken, and she goes, oh, no, you can do

1106
00:55:00,079 --> 00:55:02,800
half and half. You could do like fried rice and

1107
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:07,039
child maine, but only one thing. Yeah, why didn't you

1108
00:55:07,079 --> 00:55:07,400
tell me?

1109
00:55:07,639 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 1: Right?

1110
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:14,119
Speaker 3: So I upgraded to a plate and then felt bad

1111
00:55:14,119 --> 00:55:14,920
about it this morning.

1112
00:55:15,079 --> 00:55:20,920
Speaker 1: Right, I get it. I totally get it. Oh my god,

1113
00:55:22,119 --> 00:55:23,320
I can't wait for Patreon.

1114
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:29,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a little crazy story, and there's gonna be

1115
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:32,960
a trigger warning. Okay, but anyway, let us say to

1116
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:35,920
our friends. We got Dick Frolicker and Kelly Lattie Dad

1117
00:55:35,960 --> 00:55:40,239
and Katie who's rolling on and Nicky's Nicky, she's.

1118
00:55:40,039 --> 00:55:41,719
Speaker 1: Calling us, calling your girls.

1119
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Speaker 3: And Elizabeth Williamson has got a lot of kids.

1120
00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:50,599
Speaker 4: Not in speech and you not not yet nope.

1121
00:55:50,639 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 3: And Rita has a bass yet even though she's got

1122
00:55:53,519 --> 00:55:56,239
no kids, just just a bas nut for no reason,

1123
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Polly we live your pancakes, and Valerie Bubba Fenwick and

1124
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Katerina trust get that post put in now for your

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fake tooth. And Gabby and Missy they were debate judging

1126
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:11,239
no reason, no reason.

1127
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:15,199
Speaker 4: No, not trained, not trained, just throwing their opinion around.

1128
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Speaker 3: E Sean, he's a lawyer. Yeah, judge, you can come. Judge.

1129
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Rebecca cute. And Kelly Brandt, she's your aunt. She came.

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She was there spectating. Alicia Escalante from the City of

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al Monte and Leslie coughs more than we do, which

1132
00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:35,079
is saying a lot. Aaron's a dirty Sanchez. Jennifer, you

1133
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need to get up girl, Sandra, it's not easy being green. Athena.

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We love your dancing and your lipstick. Stephanie's a stinker wrinker. Ashley,

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you're so chic. Listen. Check out Robin's Animal Rescue or

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she got her doggets called pop Culture Rescue.

1137
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Speaker 1: Right, that's okay, it's a cute name. Yeah.

1138
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Speaker 3: They would love even a small donation so they can

1139
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:04,960
get these dogs their vaccines. Even if you're anti vaxer,

1140
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:08,079
I should give a little money so that they can

1141
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get these dogs food and medical treatments. Their nonprofit and

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they could really use some help. Popculture Rescue dot org

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also Chase Haley Project. That's our our friend. Christs Troop's

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friend lost her son to suicide. Very important to try

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to like help with the gap in mental hellness and

1146
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bring awareness to this problem in Ohio. So go to

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Chase Haleyproject dot com. Also, my friend is all kinds

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of There's been a court case. This is my friend

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who writes for Medium. There's been a court case and

1150
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now she can write whatever the fuck she wants to

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a little more than before. So go check out Unbecoming

1152
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Stories on Medium. Also Family Skeptical it's a podcast about

1153
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raising kids without religion. So if you're not a believer,

1154
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don't feel no shame in your game. That's right, Let

1155
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your freak flag fly and listen to the Family Skeptical. Also,

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if you're in Palm Springs or Palm Desert, why would

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you not stop by Wilmanfreedo Why?

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Speaker 1: I mean, get it for the salmon alone.

1159
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She's who she does all of our shirts, all of

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our stuff. Also, our friend Kelsey makes candles out of

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car broker. Adam's got a car dot com. You know

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what he does at this point. Check him out. And

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another month of the Queer Youth Resource Vancouver, Washington that

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it's called if You y RC Vancouver Wa dot org.

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They really need our help. We're doing a lot of

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shout outs for charities and non profits, which I love.

1173
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Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, great to go to there read

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about what they do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and last but not least, before we go, please

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listen to my podcast Drunkish. I have a lot of

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great episodes out. The one that's coming out today is

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my friend Jane Edith Wilson. Such an interesting story. She's

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an actress friend of mine. She's been sober for over

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thirty years and she has a crazy past. And yeah,

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it would really help me give it a give it

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a review, yes, started, Yeah, subscribe, all right, thank you, Kaylin,

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Thanks everybody, your parent now, don't n if it up.

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