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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Moving Conversations, a podcast for movement professionals, by

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<v Speaker 1>movement professionals. If you coach, train, or teach movement, pilates

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<v Speaker 1>or fitness, then this podcast is for you. With more

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<v Speaker 1>than sixty years of experience and fitness and pilates, your host,

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<v Speaker 1>Brian Ritchie and North Saint John explored to science of

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<v Speaker 1>human movement, diving deep into the facts, myths, and common misconceptions,

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<v Speaker 1>hoping to spark thought and conversation about how we view

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<v Speaker 1>fitness and movement. Now let's jump into Moving Conversations and

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<v Speaker 1>welcome back to Moving Conversations. I'm Brian Richie joining me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's always it is norse, say John Morton, Nora.

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<v Speaker 2>How you doing very well? Brian? It's uh, you know

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<v Speaker 2>it was raining here yesterday, which is weird. Here in California,

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<v Speaker 2>we always have a weather reporte you notice that at

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<v Speaker 2>the beginning of things, I mean, Brian's coming back from China.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm about to teach advance one of the principles here

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<v Speaker 2>in Sacramento. It's raining. Life is granted. How about you.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's say this the weather is always a safe topic.

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<v Speaker 1>Where you are, you're going to have weather, so and

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<v Speaker 1>being on up in the sides of the coast. It

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<v Speaker 1>can be really really different. It's really interesting when they

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<v Speaker 1>were saying, oh, this year we're going to have a

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<v Speaker 1>real you know, and El Nino and all of this

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<v Speaker 1>sort of thing, and I say, you know, I think

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<v Speaker 1>in the nineties we started hearing that term pop up.

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<v Speaker 1>I still don't know one hundred percent what that means.

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<v Speaker 1>If it means it's going to be bad. If it's

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<v Speaker 1>going to be good, there'll be some hurricanes. If it's

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<v Speaker 1>going to be not so much. So I I never know,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just am like, you know what, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to just do the Washington DC weather window where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just going to look outside and it is what it is,

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<v Speaker 1>and if it's raining, oh okay, if it's sunny, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Wednesday I was I needed to run an

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<v Speaker 1>error and I was like, oh, it's supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>storming out there. I went out, had my had all

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<v Speaker 1>the keeuron and everything went outside, not raining at all.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like, you know, I don't know, it's easier

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<v Speaker 1>to look outside, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>It's accordingly what's happening. Okay, I'll deal with that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>really exactly a little piece of information so you and

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<v Speaker 2>my husband, for those who don't know, al had this

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<v Speaker 2>whole thing about a cyber truck for a long time

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<v Speaker 2>and Brian not a fan and kind of kept giving

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<v Speaker 2>me some of some some little bit of grief about it.

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<v Speaker 2>So Alice now bought a pickup truck F one fifty

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<v Speaker 2>two thousand and eight pickup truck, just so you know.

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<v Speaker 2>He's part of the pickup truck family that I know.

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<v Speaker 1>You welcome, Welcome to the crowd. I'm dodging guy, but hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll accept a ford.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway. So today, so today speaking of influence, Yes that

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<v Speaker 2>was Brian. Brian was an influencer on that one. So

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<v Speaker 2>we wanted to talk today a bit about just influencers

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<v Speaker 2>and it particularly fitness and plot of influencers and what

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<v Speaker 2>do you know what to be aware of, things to

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<v Speaker 2>think about, just some some maybe maybe some dues and

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<v Speaker 2>don'ts for some cautionary tales because it's gotten. It is

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<v Speaker 2>the wild West out there, and some of it's and

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<v Speaker 2>some of it's not, and it's a little hard to tell. Honestly.

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<v Speaker 2>If it's well produced, it looks official.

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<v Speaker 1>It looks official, and that's just it. I I'm gullible

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be the first to admit I see something that

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<v Speaker 1>looks really cool on social media. I'll be like, Ooh,

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<v Speaker 1>that looks really cool, and I'll say, it doesn't cost

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<v Speaker 1>that much, let me buy it. And I'd say about

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<v Speaker 1>sixty percent of the time, I'm happy it works like

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<v Speaker 1>it should I'm like, this is kind of cool. About

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<v Speaker 1>forty percent of the time, What the what.

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<v Speaker 2>What the heck am I doing? Why am I doing this?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this is the biggest piece of junk. But it

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<v Speaker 1>looks but the way they make it look is fascinating,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, on on screen. And so I've gotten much

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<v Speaker 1>better about just swiping away, you know, turning it off,

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<v Speaker 1>not even looking at it. But where I came up

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<v Speaker 1>with this years ago, probably a year and a half ago,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe even two years ago, when we were first starting

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast. This is a topic I wanted to talk about,

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<v Speaker 1>and I say it like this, the difference between being

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<v Speaker 1>an educator and an influencer, because I think there's a

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<v Speaker 1>huge difference. There's a huge difference because there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people who, let's face it, people want to be

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<v Speaker 1>where we are, who want to be thought of as

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<v Speaker 1>an expert, who want to be thought of as the

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<v Speaker 1>teacher who want to have all of the so quote

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<v Speaker 1>unquote quote glory, thinking there's a lot of money and

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<v Speaker 1>success and all of this with this, and there are

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<v Speaker 1>some perks, but let me tell you, my bank account

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<v Speaker 1>sure doesn't show a whole lot of perks when it

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<v Speaker 1>comes to that. But at the same time, it's nice

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<v Speaker 1>to be respected for what we do, no question.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, right, absolutely, and I.

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<v Speaker 1>Have I've had a number of younger people come up

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<v Speaker 1>to me saying they want to teach with me, and

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<v Speaker 1>they want to they want to do what I do

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<v Speaker 1>and all of this. And a question that I always say,

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<v Speaker 1>I say this every single time, is say what do

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<v Speaker 1>you got to say? Yep, and they just say, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean? I said, you have to have something

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<v Speaker 1>to say that's worth saying. You can't just be regurgitating

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<v Speaker 1>everything that's out there, or if you do, you can

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<v Speaker 1>teach other people's stuff. There's not a problem with that.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to be in balanced body, you know, parlance,

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<v Speaker 1>an educator and teach matt one, two, three, four and

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<v Speaker 1>become and do that great teach that. You can still

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<v Speaker 1>be a teacher, but there comes that next level where

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<v Speaker 1>you're actually creating content and really going above and beyond

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<v Speaker 1>and becoming that next level of educator, which I think

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<v Speaker 1>requires a lot more skill and a lot more time

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<v Speaker 1>in the saddle and experience, and I think those are

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<v Speaker 1>things that can't just easily be done by I've been

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<v Speaker 1>in the industry for one year and I should be teaching.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about that, Brian.

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<v Speaker 2>You kind of you hit at least one part of

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<v Speaker 2>the nail on the head, right. I programmed plot Is

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<v Speaker 2>on tours for years and years and years, and that

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<v Speaker 2>was you know, created the program and did it in

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<v Speaker 2>bodyline spirit. And so I've been in that game of conferences,

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<v Speaker 2>which is one version of an influencer or a presenter.

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<v Speaker 2>There's lots of other versions now, and it was really

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<v Speaker 2>it was interesting to me because I had that conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>I cannot tell you how many times people would come up,

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<v Speaker 2>and even people who had a lot of experience would say,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I really want to be a presenter. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'd say, what do you have to teach? And they

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<v Speaker 2>would look at me and they'd say, well, what do

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<v Speaker 2>you want me to teach? And I'd say, no, no, right,

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<v Speaker 2>That's where if you want to be an educator, for like,

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<v Speaker 2>like Bounce Body or Peak or whatever, like an an

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<v Speaker 2>education program and they give you the curriculum. Fantastic, absolutely

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<v Speaker 2>wonderful thing to do. Knock yourself out. There's a wonderful

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<v Speaker 2>way for you to use your voice with other people's material.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's totally legitimate. But if you want to be

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<v Speaker 2>a presenter at a conference, for example, or an independent

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<v Speaker 2>educator of your own material of things that you're passionate about,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a different thing. It takes skill, it takes experience,

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<v Speaker 2>and honestly, it is a it's a lot of work.

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<v Speaker 2>I would like to so. And this is one of

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<v Speaker 2>those moments because I've recently had a conversation with somebody

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<v Speaker 2>who's a good teacher, but who really was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I won't want to present. I want to present, And

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<v Speaker 2>they wanted to show me some power points and this

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<v Speaker 2>kind of thing. And I sort of looked at them

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<v Speaker 2>and I said, have you ever done this before? Have

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<v Speaker 2>you ever created a workshop? No? Okay, well I would

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<v Speaker 2>not be likely to put you on at least in

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<v Speaker 2>you know, in our world and the fitness world, a

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<v Speaker 2>relatively large stage without you at least having taught this

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<v Speaker 2>at your studio or something. And then and then it

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I've just thought back on how many hours

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<v Speaker 2>I've spent, and I know you have two creating power

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<v Speaker 2>points and outlines and finding a plan and figuring out

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<v Speaker 2>how I'm going to structure that in a way that

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<v Speaker 2>makes sense. Like for that three hour workshop, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>twenty hours a week of work, I mean twenty hours

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<v Speaker 2>of work the first time, and then you always go

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<v Speaker 2>back and edit and revise, and that's another few hours.

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<v Speaker 2>And a lot of times those hours may you may

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<v Speaker 2>not be sitting at the computer doing them. You may

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<v Speaker 2>be reading something or listening to somebody else's lecture, or

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<v Speaker 2>something else is coming in. That's a new information that

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<v Speaker 2>you're trying to hone to be able to deliver. So

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<v Speaker 2>it's just a really different process than people think.

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<v Speaker 1>It really is.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a whole lot more work.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, when I was in China, I was approached by

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<v Speaker 1>a large company that owns several thousand gyms that wants

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<v Speaker 1>me to teach my courses for them. Fantastic, no problem,

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<v Speaker 1>And they never want to pay much. They just think, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you're just sort to come in and you're only teaching

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<v Speaker 1>for six hours a day or eight hours a day,

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<v Speaker 1>so you should we should pay you for those eight hours.

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<v Speaker 1>They say no, no, no, no, no no no. You're

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<v Speaker 1>paying me I'm coming to China for me to come there,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're also paying me for all the years of

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<v Speaker 1>experience I have in creating this, all of the information

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<v Speaker 1>that I've gathered from fifty seventy five hundred and five

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<v Speaker 1>sources whatever it is, and filtered what I feel is

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<v Speaker 1>important for whatever I'm teaching, and then use my experience

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<v Speaker 1>based on all of those theories and seeing what really floats.

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<v Speaker 1>And then a lot of it comes down to, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a different culture, okay, So for your culture,

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<v Speaker 1>you really want to focus on this and this, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So now I have to redesign the whole thing around that.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's a lot more to it than people ever realize.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's I think what's missing for a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people is they don't realize all the background that it

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<v Speaker 1>takes to build that. Like you say, a three hour class,

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<v Speaker 1>if it takes me twenty hours, that's small because, like

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<v Speaker 1>you said on the plane just before the class, how

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<v Speaker 1>many times have we spent And sometimes you're looking at it.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember one of our best friends were teaching together

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<v Speaker 1>at a conference and she comes up to me and

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<v Speaker 1>she says, well, I haven't finished the power points yet.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, you're teaching tomorrow. She said, yeah, Well I

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<v Speaker 1>have this new theory and I'm not exactly sure how

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<v Speaker 1>to make it work. I'm like, you're teaching tomorrow morning

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<v Speaker 1>at seven am. Yeah, okay, let's talk this through. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>get this theory out, because you've got all night to

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<v Speaker 1>try and do this. And it was kind of funny that,

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<v Speaker 1>requires that when you do have a new train of

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<v Speaker 1>why don't we try this? Well, why don't we do that?

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<v Speaker 1>And the creation process takes a long time. I had

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<v Speaker 1>a employee who hadn't been with me for six months

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<v Speaker 1>and she said, yeah, I'm going to be a teacher

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<v Speaker 1>for BOSU. I was like, oh, okay, cool, Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I know they're top teachers. I'm friends with these people.

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<v Speaker 1>They're closer to my age than your age, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you think it's going to be as

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<v Speaker 1>I think it goes into a lot more detail. There's

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<v Speaker 1>of it comes from your experience level, comes from your

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<v Speaker 2>So we're talking two different things here a little bit,

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<v Speaker 2>and I wanted to make that distinction. One is there's

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<v Speaker 2>a here's a fun new move or whatever, or watching

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<v Speaker 2>on YouTube, watching influencers on YouTube, which is a little

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<v Speaker 2>more detailed, often in depth, and think about you know,

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<v Speaker 2>a bunch of fitness influences I've watched on YouTube who

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<v Speaker 2>there's and then there's educators who is more like what

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<v Speaker 2>you and I do, and presenters and that kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So just there's a lot of different ways that this

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<v Speaker 2>shows up in our world. Yeah, but all of it

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<v Speaker 2>in the best, right, all the best versions of it

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<v Speaker 2>have depth, have experience, have time in the saddle, And

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<v Speaker 2>that's oftentimes what I'm looking for if I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 2>identify a good presenter or legitimized like read through the

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<v Speaker 2>bios of an instructor or of an influencer, like I

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<v Speaker 2>want to know where they came from, what they've done,

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly, Yeah. There. Every now and then I have

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<v Speaker 1>one exercise, and I mean, how do I put this?

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<v Speaker 1>be a model. Cool, right, But just because you film

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<v Speaker 1>I mean literally, you're just watching people do take off

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<v Speaker 1>their shirts and exercise, and I'm like, Okay, that's that's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>If that's what you want to do, no problem with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Where I come down with this is when someone is

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<v Speaker 1>this work. You need to lose weight. So here's what

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<v Speaker 2>here's four exercises to solve this. Here's all those things, right,

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<v Speaker 2>here's the six exercises for this, here's the five foods

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<v Speaker 2>you need to eat to change your life, whatever, all

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<v Speaker 2>those which have been around forever, right, the like, here's.

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<v Speaker 1>Do it exactly. I was one popped up on my

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<v Speaker 1>to follow sort of thing, and I literally just like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what's this say? And it's her from the backside. She

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<v Speaker 1>the stair climber or the step mill. Yeah, I'm all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I know I know what's getting people's attention here, But okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what's she trying to say? And it said at this

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<v Speaker 1>speed and it shows her doing it, you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>and at this speed you're going to be burning fat.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm looking at it to say, Okay, the only

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<v Speaker 1>fat that I'm looking is in her head because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not seeing a lot of science here. I'm not seeing

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<v Speaker 1>anything being explained except for you know, you know, do

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<v Speaker 1>it faster, do it slower? Do this? Do that. I'm thinking, hmm, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how about actually And I tried to even look in

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<v Speaker 1>the try to you know, read underneath. Maybe she explains

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<v Speaker 1>herself in the thread. No nothing, And I said, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're going for showing us one of your best assets, obviously, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe that's going to give some people to like

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<v Speaker 1>you and to follow you. Good for you. However, what's

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<v Speaker 1>coming out of your mouth is really not what I

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<v Speaker 1>would want my clients to listen to. I wouldn't want

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<v Speaker 1>my children to listen to, or my wife to listen to.

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<v Speaker 1>And yes, occasionally they send me stuff, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>say is this correct, and I'll be like, yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, but it's not. And I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>say that everything out there has to be scientifically based,

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<v Speaker 1>because there are lots of hypotheses out there that have

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<v Speaker 1>just never been tested. But I think you and I

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<v Speaker 1>both know that when we see someone teaching a class

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<v Speaker 1>as a presenter or something and the only data they

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<v Speaker 1>have are, well, my clients see this result, Well my

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<v Speaker 1>client or I had this one client who had had

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<v Speaker 1>this happen, It's like you had one one result. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that one result is scientific proof. Yet

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to say in everything needs to be

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<v Speaker 1>validated with double blind research. However, an anecdotal evidence on

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<v Speaker 1>a single person is not the reason that I should

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<v Speaker 1>be listening to this information either.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think once you bring up there, which I

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<v Speaker 2>think is interesting, and you know, you and I are educators,

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<v Speaker 2>we're old, we work hard, we take ourselves seriously, and

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<v Speaker 2>we have a honestly, for both of us a huge

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<v Speaker 2>body of work that we have developed to try to

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<v Speaker 2>bring information into the fitness and the movement and the

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<v Speaker 2>plots world in a way that helps other teachers to

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<v Speaker 2>be able to absorb it, digest it, and apply it. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, that's that's what we've done. That's kind of

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<v Speaker 2>been our mission in life, and that is I mean again,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a diable missions. That's why we're doing what we're doing.

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<v Speaker 2>But there is part of today that is not interested

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<v Speaker 2>in time, not interested in skill, not interested in expertise.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, to some extent, like if somebody wants

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<v Speaker 2>to make a their gorgeous looking and then want to

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<v Speaker 2>make a minute and a half video or a minute

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<v Speaker 2>video high production values and them doing something that looks marvelous, fantastic,

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<v Speaker 2>And again, if that's the deal. If I'm doing something

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<v Speaker 2>to show off how beautifully I do this because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a beautiful person, that's whatever that is, Like, enjoy that,

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<v Speaker 2>like as you said, you know, enjoy the assets in

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<v Speaker 2>front of you or whatever you're doing that's great. That's

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<v Speaker 2>not education. It may be inspiration, it may be entertainment,

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<v Speaker 2>but just understand kind of that difference between is this

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<v Speaker 2>actually teaching me something. Is this giving me information I need?

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<v Speaker 2>Or is this just fun? And again, they can be both,

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<v Speaker 2>or they can be either, or they can be neither.

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<v Speaker 2>But just understand what you're looking at and what you're

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely absolutely, I always look at these people and I

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<v Speaker 1>do break it down to a couple of different things.

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<v Speaker 1>An influencer is usually going to be and I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>saying that there aren't educators who are not attractive. They

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<v Speaker 1>normally are, but they're usually going to be people who

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<v Speaker 1>could be models. They're going to be showing off a

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<v Speaker 1>lot more skin than necessarily, you know, I would feel

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable doing. They would be, you know, again, touting their

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<v Speaker 1>body and that sort of thing. And what the problem

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<v Speaker 1>that I have with that is when you're asking other

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<v Speaker 1>people to try and do what you're doing. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think you and I have talked about this because in

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<v Speaker 1>the world of plates, we see a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>who are going to put style over substance when it

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<v Speaker 1>comes to things online. And there are a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>companies that do that with their marketing now where they're

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<v Speaker 1>hiring not necessarily the best plates instructors to teach something online,

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<v Speaker 1>they're hiring the best looking people in the best looking models,

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<v Speaker 1>and you watch them do the exercises, and even the

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<v Speaker 1>basic exercises look wrong and they're being instructed wrong, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they'll show something really crazy way out, far out.

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<v Speaker 1>I was watching this woman do a modified pull up

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<v Speaker 1>on a trap table Cadillac. Yeah, okay, putting her feet

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<v Speaker 1>behind her so her back was arched like you wouldn't believe,

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<v Speaker 1>in the straps elevated at okay. I was just watching

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<v Speaker 1>her trying to get into the getting into the position.

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<v Speaker 1>To me, that was the most impressive part because of

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<v Speaker 1>how she had to contort her body and everything and

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<v Speaker 1>then climb up in different ways just to do a

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<v Speaker 1>simple pull up. Of course, my brain is always breaking

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<v Speaker 1>down to the easiest thing. Isn't there an easier way

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<v Speaker 1>to do that?

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<v Speaker 2>You want to get that right? If the purpose of

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<v Speaker 2>that is this, do I need to go through these

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<v Speaker 2>all these contortions. Isn't where to make that happen? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly, And in looking at her doing it, I said, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>she's going to get followers from this. She's going to

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<v Speaker 1>get people's attention because she's doing something crazy, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>all of this kind of stuff. I said, Okay, if

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<v Speaker 1>that's what makes her happy. Go forward. I worry about

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning plates instructor or the beginning fitness instructor who

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<v Speaker 1>watches this, who we meet imediately start saying, oh, this

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<v Speaker 1>is what I should be doing too, because it looks cool.

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<v Speaker 1>And we've all I think everybody who's taken a bosu

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<v Speaker 1>of the amazing teachers that we've had, like I bring

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<v Speaker 1>up Douglas Brooks. The stuff he can do on a

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<v Speaker 1>Olympic schep us A snowboarding team. So guess what. For

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<v Speaker 1>those people, it's all it's appropriate. It's not appropriate for

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<v Speaker 1>a sixty seven year old, you know, grandmother to maybe

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<v Speaker 1>be jumping from bosu to bosu to bosu. It might

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<v Speaker 1>be if that's your gig, go for it. However, I

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<v Speaker 1>do see people who immediately watch that because I see

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<v Speaker 1>it at the gym. They're watching something and say, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>funny moment we talked about AI a few weeks ago,

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<v Speaker 2>just as a general topic, and we were sitting in

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<v Speaker 2>We basically said, groc, who are the most famous people

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<v Speaker 2>in pilates right now? And they came up with five

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<v Speaker 2>like you know, which isn't surprising and not a big

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<v Speaker 2>social media prison, but it was just really interesting and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, huh. So then I looked up those

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<v Speaker 2>people and you know, they all had a big Instagram

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<v Speaker 2>following a big and all they were doing was essentially

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<v Speaker 2>showing off super advanced moves on the apparatus and really

415
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<v Speaker 2>no explanation, no no education piece. It was fun to watch, right,

416
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<v Speaker 2>So that's that's the thing. And it was interesting because

417
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<v Speaker 2>they were the most famous people in pilates, but they

418
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<v Speaker 2>weren't teaching anything. They were they may have been inspirational. Again,

419
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<v Speaker 2>they may have been inspirational. They it may have been fun.

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<v Speaker 2>They may have been getting somebody's creative you is flowing

421
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<v Speaker 2>a bit, but it was just interesting, like, oh, that's

422
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<v Speaker 2>that's what's most That's what's happening now?

423
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<v Speaker 1>Right? And for me, for me, my eighteen year old,

424
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<v Speaker 1>he's fairly inflexible. Okay, do I want him to actually

425
00:23:16.359 --> 00:23:18.279
<v Speaker 1>learn from someone who can teach him how to stretch?

426
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<v Speaker 1>Or do I want him to go to a carnival

427
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<v Speaker 1>watch the contortionist and say I should be doing that.

428
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<v Speaker 2>I think this gets to something we talk about I

429
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<v Speaker 2>think a lot which is just critical thinking. Yeah, you know,

430
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<v Speaker 2>and it's like it's okay if you're just enjoying something,

431
00:23:33.440 --> 00:23:35.839
<v Speaker 2>but if you try to put your to your point.

432
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<v Speaker 2>You know, seventy two year old jumping from bosu to

433
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<v Speaker 2>bosu and she's got ostioporosis, Probably not the best choice,

434
00:23:42.480 --> 00:23:45.359
<v Speaker 2>you know. And so it's also just like understanding, yes,

435
00:23:45.400 --> 00:23:48.519
<v Speaker 2>these are interesting things, what's the purpose of it? What

436
00:23:48.640 --> 00:23:50.519
<v Speaker 2>I always almost want to do when I see those

437
00:23:50.559 --> 00:23:53.640
<v Speaker 2>little clips, it's just youright and go, why are you

438
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<v Speaker 2>doing this? Like what's what's the point? And the point

439
00:23:56.119 --> 00:23:58.480
<v Speaker 2>can be it felt good or it was fun. I'm

440
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<v Speaker 2>not saying that's an illegitimate point. That's fine, right, that's fine,

441
00:24:02.240 --> 00:24:04.759
<v Speaker 2>But I'm kind of more interested in in why and

442
00:24:04.839 --> 00:24:07.200
<v Speaker 2>who and when and how would I apply this in

443
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<v Speaker 2>a way that would actually make a difference in somebody's

444
00:24:09.079 --> 00:24:12.720
<v Speaker 2>life in the long term, just because that's my perspective,

445
00:24:12.799 --> 00:24:14.559
<v Speaker 2>you know, as an educator and as a teacher this

446
00:24:14.759 --> 00:24:17.759
<v Speaker 2>method for a billion years. That's what I'm more interested in,

447
00:24:17.839 --> 00:24:19.839
<v Speaker 2>is how can I make a difference in somebody's life,

448
00:24:19.960 --> 00:24:23.680
<v Speaker 2>And that means teaching the same old thing that doesn't

449
00:24:23.720 --> 00:24:27.079
<v Speaker 2>look so exciting on Instagram, but teaches them the skills

450
00:24:27.079 --> 00:24:30.079
<v Speaker 2>they need to then be able to lift their kids up,

451
00:24:30.480 --> 00:24:33.599
<v Speaker 2>run faster, bicycle longer, whatever is they want to do.

452
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, when I was in China just a couple of

453
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<v Speaker 1>weeks ago teaching these courses. Now, I do social media

454
00:24:42.519 --> 00:24:46.640
<v Speaker 1>in China through Red Note so, but I don't look

455
00:24:46.680 --> 00:24:49.279
<v Speaker 1>at it very much. I don't speak Chinese, so I

456
00:24:49.319 --> 00:24:51.480
<v Speaker 1>have someone who does it for me because it's just

457
00:24:51.720 --> 00:24:54.039
<v Speaker 1>easier they do. They translate all my stuff. It's great

458
00:24:54.960 --> 00:24:58.039
<v Speaker 1>and got a decent following there. Well. People in the

459
00:24:58.079 --> 00:25:06.240
<v Speaker 1>class started asking me questions based on popular influencers.

460
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<v Speaker 2>And.

461
00:25:06.279 --> 00:25:11.720
<v Speaker 1>These influencers there are really there's not much filter. And

462
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<v Speaker 1>when I say filter, I'm talking a mental filter because

463
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<v Speaker 1>they're talking about things that are only now you and

464
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<v Speaker 1>I both know Asian beauty standards are very very strict

465
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<v Speaker 1>and very high. They're taking so super very specific and

466
00:25:26.599 --> 00:25:31.240
<v Speaker 1>they take are taken very seriously. So these are influencers

467
00:25:31.240 --> 00:25:34.920
<v Speaker 1>talking about for fitness, how to correct your neck to

468
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<v Speaker 1>make it have a better curve, because if you have

469
00:25:37.839 --> 00:25:40.480
<v Speaker 1>a better curve in this way, it makes you look better.

470
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<v Speaker 1>And there were a lot of weird, wacky things that

471
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<v Speaker 1>they're asking me questions, what are you trying to correct here?

472
00:25:48.759 --> 00:25:50.960
<v Speaker 1>I said, first of all, you've already got a fairly

473
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<v Speaker 1>straight spine because you're Asian and compared to Caucasian spine

474
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<v Speaker 1>where we have a little bit more curvature. To us,

475
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<v Speaker 1>I said, that's just genetic. We're we have more curve

476
00:25:59.079 --> 00:26:02.279
<v Speaker 1>in that regard. You have a little less. Nothing wrong

477
00:26:02.279 --> 00:26:04.559
<v Speaker 1>with that. And they were really saying, oh, I have

478
00:26:04.640 --> 00:26:07.000
<v Speaker 1>to do this, So they were forcing themselves to be

479
00:26:07.200 --> 00:26:12.200
<v Speaker 1>more more head forward protraction trying and they're getting these

480
00:26:12.519 --> 00:26:17.240
<v Speaker 1>headaches because they're really compressing the uppermost portion of their

481
00:26:17.240 --> 00:26:20.440
<v Speaker 1>cervical vertebrae. And I just said, you know, no, no,

482
00:26:20.559 --> 00:26:23.359
<v Speaker 1>please don't do that, Please please don't do that. And

483
00:26:23.440 --> 00:26:26.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to show them how to do other things

484
00:26:26.440 --> 00:26:29.039
<v Speaker 1>if they want to look a little different here and there,

485
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<v Speaker 1>and I'm thinking it just there can be a lot

486
00:26:32.319 --> 00:26:34.880
<v Speaker 1>of danger, is what I'm saying, especially if you're looking

487
00:26:34.920 --> 00:26:37.240
<v Speaker 1>at things from point of view of here's what I

488
00:26:37.359 --> 00:26:41.200
<v Speaker 1>should look like because this person's body is perfect, and

489
00:26:41.240 --> 00:26:43.240
<v Speaker 1>they say, if I do this, I'm going to look

490
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<v Speaker 1>like them, which is that's an issue.

491
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<v Speaker 2>Always the challenge, right, I mean, vanity driven fitness is

492
00:26:51.960 --> 00:26:56.440
<v Speaker 2>always a challenge because there is such a strong genetic

493
00:26:56.480 --> 00:27:00.359
<v Speaker 2>component to your structure es, you know. I mean I

494
00:27:00.400 --> 00:27:05.960
<v Speaker 2>think about Chinese contortionists, right, You're like they're they're lying down,

495
00:27:06.000 --> 00:27:08.359
<v Speaker 2>they're prone, and they can basically turn their head up

496
00:27:08.400 --> 00:27:10.160
<v Speaker 2>to look at the ceiling and touch their toes with

497
00:27:10.240 --> 00:27:13.920
<v Speaker 2>their hands behind it. Right, I'm thinking, Okay, so if

498
00:27:13.960 --> 00:27:17.079
<v Speaker 2>that's your goal, and maybe it is, if you had

499
00:27:17.160 --> 00:27:20.119
<v Speaker 2>your body or my body, that is never going to

500
00:27:20.200 --> 00:27:21.640
<v Speaker 2>happen in this lifetime.

501
00:27:22.279 --> 00:27:23.759
<v Speaker 1>I'll be attraction for a week.

502
00:27:24.279 --> 00:27:26.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. No, I don't want to think about it.

503
00:27:26.480 --> 00:27:28.319
<v Speaker 2>But you know, even for me, like when I turned

504
00:27:28.359 --> 00:27:29.920
<v Speaker 2>I think it was twenty five or twenty six, for

505
00:27:29.960 --> 00:27:34.240
<v Speaker 2>some reason, I realized, huh, I'm never going to be

506
00:27:34.279 --> 00:27:36.400
<v Speaker 2>five 't ten and I'm never going to be blonde,

507
00:27:37.839 --> 00:27:40.720
<v Speaker 2>which which is a funny way of saying, this is

508
00:27:40.759 --> 00:27:43.519
<v Speaker 2>the body that I have, This is the structure that

509
00:27:43.599 --> 00:27:46.400
<v Speaker 2>I have. This is what I can do with it

510
00:27:46.480 --> 00:27:48.799
<v Speaker 2>or what I Maybe I don't know what I can't

511
00:27:48.799 --> 00:27:50.240
<v Speaker 2>do with it, but I did at that point it

512
00:27:50.319 --> 00:27:52.400
<v Speaker 2>some things I could not do with it. And that's

513
00:27:52.559 --> 00:27:55.240
<v Speaker 2>that's what it is, and it's I mean, there's just

514
00:27:55.279 --> 00:28:00.359
<v Speaker 2>something destructive always about trying to be something that you're

515
00:28:00.400 --> 00:28:03.480
<v Speaker 2>not going ever to be. And not that you can't

516
00:28:03.599 --> 00:28:08.240
<v Speaker 2>keep striving for being better at whatever you are, but

517
00:28:08.319 --> 00:28:11.559
<v Speaker 2>it's like that, Yeah, those Asian beauty standards are really intense,

518
00:28:11.680 --> 00:28:13.039
<v Speaker 2>and I spent a lot of time in Korea, and

519
00:28:13.039 --> 00:28:15.880
<v Speaker 2>they're even more intense in Korea than they're in China.

520
00:28:16.839 --> 00:28:21.920
<v Speaker 2>And it's just like, you know, that's just destructive. It

521
00:28:22.000 --> 00:28:24.680
<v Speaker 2>is trying to be somebody you're not, especially when you

522
00:28:24.720 --> 00:28:27.880
<v Speaker 2>can't get there and can't even get closed, and are

523
00:28:27.920 --> 00:28:31.039
<v Speaker 2>going to spend your life being unsatisfied because you can't

524
00:28:31.160 --> 00:28:35.079
<v Speaker 2>get to that thing. I mean, that's not a happy life.

525
00:28:35.160 --> 00:28:38.880
<v Speaker 2>That doesn't make you feel better about yourself or anything

526
00:28:38.880 --> 00:28:39.319
<v Speaker 2>that you're.

527
00:28:39.200 --> 00:28:43.519
<v Speaker 1>Doing right right now we're looking at especially in Asia,

528
00:28:43.599 --> 00:28:45.759
<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of people and I find this in

529
00:28:45.799 --> 00:28:50.200
<v Speaker 1>South America as well, where we're seeing this travel medicine.

530
00:28:50.200 --> 00:28:54.240
<v Speaker 1>We're seeing people travel for plastic surgery. We see that

531
00:28:54.279 --> 00:28:57.720
<v Speaker 1>a lot in Korea. In fact, I was staying in

532
00:28:57.759 --> 00:29:00.559
<v Speaker 1>a hotel across the street from a place that that's

533
00:29:00.640 --> 00:29:03.720
<v Speaker 1>pretty much all this building did, and I was watching

534
00:29:03.799 --> 00:29:06.039
<v Speaker 1>people come out looking wrapped up like you know, the

535
00:29:06.079 --> 00:29:10.480
<v Speaker 1>old nineteen sixties mummies, and I literally thought it was

536
00:29:10.519 --> 00:29:14.880
<v Speaker 1>a hospital, in an emergency type hospital, because everybody had

537
00:29:14.880 --> 00:29:17.480
<v Speaker 1>these head bandages and all this kind of stuff. And

538
00:29:17.519 --> 00:29:20.759
<v Speaker 1>I thought, oh my gosh, what accident. And then they said,

539
00:29:20.799 --> 00:29:22.279
<v Speaker 1>oh no, no, no, no, no, they just had a

540
00:29:22.279 --> 00:29:25.240
<v Speaker 1>little work done. What do you mean a little work done?

541
00:29:25.279 --> 00:29:29.440
<v Speaker 1>That's a lot of work. I remember teaching a course

542
00:29:29.440 --> 00:29:33.279
<v Speaker 1>at Palates on tour in Korea, and we were doing

543
00:29:33.279 --> 00:29:37.079
<v Speaker 1>some exercises and including a lot of thorascic rotation, which

544
00:29:37.960 --> 00:29:40.559
<v Speaker 1>they're usually much better at that I am. But this

545
00:29:40.640 --> 00:29:44.759
<v Speaker 1>one person couldn't move very well. And I was watching

546
00:29:44.799 --> 00:29:50.200
<v Speaker 1>her young gorgeous of Asian beauty standards. She was hitting

547
00:29:51.160 --> 00:29:53.680
<v Speaker 1>nine out of ten of all of things. I was thinking, Okay,

548
00:29:53.720 --> 00:29:57.319
<v Speaker 1>what's going on? And I asked my interpreter, I said,

549
00:29:57.400 --> 00:30:00.519
<v Speaker 1>are you seeing what I'm seeing with her movements, and

550
00:30:00.559 --> 00:30:06.559
<v Speaker 1>she said yes. She said that she had breast augmentation

551
00:30:07.160 --> 00:30:11.079
<v Speaker 1>about a year ago. She has so much scar tissues

552
00:30:11.160 --> 00:30:16.240
<v Speaker 1>she can't actually turn through her thoracic anymore. I don't

553
00:30:16.240 --> 00:30:18.240
<v Speaker 1>know how it was done. I'm not asking those kind

554
00:30:18.279 --> 00:30:23.039
<v Speaker 1>of questions. But she was so afraid to move. She

555
00:30:23.079 --> 00:30:26.680
<v Speaker 1>looked good, but she was robotic. She could barely move.

556
00:30:27.240 --> 00:30:30.160
<v Speaker 1>And it really made me think, Wow, what are we

557
00:30:30.279 --> 00:30:33.880
<v Speaker 1>doing to our bodies injecting all of these things. You're

558
00:30:33.920 --> 00:30:37.359
<v Speaker 1>seeing all these you know, they see it on TV.

559
00:30:37.480 --> 00:30:40.640
<v Speaker 1>They see it, especially now with social media. They want

560
00:30:40.759 --> 00:30:43.720
<v Speaker 1>that Brazilian butt whatever, Bazilian butt lift, or they want this,

561
00:30:43.880 --> 00:30:45.680
<v Speaker 1>or they want that. It's like, okay, if you want

562
00:30:45.680 --> 00:30:50.240
<v Speaker 1>to if you want to do something like that, do

563
00:30:50.279 --> 00:30:52.559
<v Speaker 1>your research first. Don't just jump in and know it's

564
00:30:52.559 --> 00:30:54.279
<v Speaker 1>going to cost a lot and that they're going to

565
00:30:54.319 --> 00:30:57.519
<v Speaker 1>probably be some consequences that you're unaware of in the

566
00:30:57.559 --> 00:31:00.519
<v Speaker 1>long run, especially when it comes to your fossil suit,

567
00:31:00.920 --> 00:31:02.519
<v Speaker 1>because they have to cut into you and they have

568
00:31:02.559 --> 00:31:05.359
<v Speaker 1>to do some things. I recently had surgery and guess what,

569
00:31:05.559 --> 00:31:07.920
<v Speaker 1>my fossil suit has more holes in it than it

570
00:31:07.960 --> 00:31:10.960
<v Speaker 1>did before, and it had a bunch before, so it's

571
00:31:11.000 --> 00:31:13.279
<v Speaker 1>kind of like, Okay, I just I'm probably gonna move

572
00:31:13.279 --> 00:31:15.880
<v Speaker 1>a little differently than I did in the past. That's okay.

573
00:31:16.359 --> 00:31:19.359
<v Speaker 1>I understand this mine was emergency, But when you're doing

574
00:31:19.400 --> 00:31:23.079
<v Speaker 1>it in a situation like this and they're expecting to

575
00:31:23.119 --> 00:31:29.759
<v Speaker 1>come out quote unquote perfect, I think that's I think

576
00:31:29.799 --> 00:31:34.359
<v Speaker 1>those expectations have to be you know, tampered down a

577
00:31:34.400 --> 00:31:38.279
<v Speaker 1>little bit and just brought down just a hair because perfection,

578
00:31:38.759 --> 00:31:42.039
<v Speaker 1>like you said, genetics are gonna be what will get

579
00:31:42.079 --> 00:31:45.079
<v Speaker 1>you the closest and if you want to find tune.

580
00:31:45.079 --> 00:31:47.960
<v Speaker 1>That's one thing. I've had some people who lost twenty

581
00:31:47.960 --> 00:31:51.279
<v Speaker 1>pounds or whatnot, you know, got down to a body

582
00:31:51.279 --> 00:31:54.359
<v Speaker 1>fat that looked incredible and it's wow, you look fantastic,

583
00:31:55.160 --> 00:31:57.160
<v Speaker 1>but they still weren't perfect in their mind because they

584
00:31:57.160 --> 00:32:02.279
<v Speaker 1>didn't look like whoever they were looking at. Ye, even

585
00:32:02.319 --> 00:32:06.079
<v Speaker 1>though they looked fantastic, they you know, they would be

586
00:32:06.119 --> 00:32:08.720
<v Speaker 1>considered you know, perfect by a lot of other people.

587
00:32:09.960 --> 00:32:11.240
<v Speaker 1>And that's that's dangerous.

588
00:32:13.759 --> 00:32:15.920
<v Speaker 2>This is this is a whole topic we did. I

589
00:32:15.920 --> 00:32:17.839
<v Speaker 2>did not think we were going to go into today.

590
00:32:18.039 --> 00:32:21.680
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, okay, we're out in there. No, No, I'm

591
00:32:21.759 --> 00:32:28.799
<v Speaker 2>just it's it's one of the issues certainly with influencer

592
00:32:28.799 --> 00:32:32.440
<v Speaker 2>culture as a general thing, especially in fitness, is exactly

593
00:32:32.480 --> 00:32:34.640
<v Speaker 2>that as it somebody sees. And this is true with

594
00:32:34.680 --> 00:32:37.359
<v Speaker 2>fitness forever. You know, you see somebody who looks a

595
00:32:37.400 --> 00:32:39.400
<v Speaker 2>certain way, and you think, I want to look like

596
00:32:39.440 --> 00:32:41.440
<v Speaker 2>that person, so I'm going to do that thing. I mean,

597
00:32:41.480 --> 00:32:45.000
<v Speaker 2>Pilate's for years was the thing that didn't really build

598
00:32:45.079 --> 00:32:48.279
<v Speaker 2>bulk but made long, lean muscles. Well, it's kind of true.

599
00:32:48.920 --> 00:32:51.680
<v Speaker 2>But again, what's your body type. Do you build long,

600
00:32:51.759 --> 00:32:54.400
<v Speaker 2>lean muscles or do you build little bulky muscles, because

601
00:32:54.440 --> 00:32:59.559
<v Speaker 2>that's your body type, that's your genetics. Yeah, and again

602
00:33:00.119 --> 00:33:02.319
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. This is me. I'm old. I don't

603
00:33:02.319 --> 00:33:06.599
<v Speaker 2>care anymore in the sense of I want bodies to

604
00:33:06.640 --> 00:33:08.799
<v Speaker 2>work well. I want people to be able to move

605
00:33:09.039 --> 00:33:13.039
<v Speaker 2>with ease and with grace and with comfort. And that

606
00:33:13.319 --> 00:33:15.759
<v Speaker 2>is my goal. And that's my goal as an educator,

607
00:33:15.799 --> 00:33:20.000
<v Speaker 2>that's my goal. As a presenter, that's my goal. I

608
00:33:20.000 --> 00:33:23.000
<v Speaker 2>don't care whether you're forty pounds overweight, or you have

609
00:33:23.079 --> 00:33:27.559
<v Speaker 2>no hamstring flexibility, or you're seventy five years old. I

610
00:33:27.640 --> 00:33:30.160
<v Speaker 2>don't care. I want you, whoever you are, to be

611
00:33:30.200 --> 00:33:35.240
<v Speaker 2>able to move better. And that is maybe even more

612
00:33:35.319 --> 00:33:40.559
<v Speaker 2>lost in this day of Instagram and Facebook and all

613
00:33:40.599 --> 00:33:42.599
<v Speaker 2>these people out there saying this is you know, you

614
00:33:42.640 --> 00:33:44.720
<v Speaker 2>can be like me if you just do these crazy

615
00:33:44.839 --> 00:33:49.359
<v Speaker 2>whatever these crazy things are. It's just honestly, it's disturbing

616
00:33:49.359 --> 00:33:51.440
<v Speaker 2>to me. I just think, I don't know, think people

617
00:33:51.480 --> 00:33:53.240
<v Speaker 2>should be a little more comfortable with who they are

618
00:33:53.279 --> 00:33:55.000
<v Speaker 2>and figure it out and do the best they can

619
00:33:55.039 --> 00:33:57.799
<v Speaker 2>to be the best person they can be. There's my

620
00:33:57.799 --> 00:33:58.799
<v Speaker 2>philosophy at the moment.

621
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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, And I'm right with you. I you

622
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<v Speaker 1>know my story. I really did not have the optimum

623
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<v Speaker 1>body for so many years, being multiple hundreds of pounds overweight,

624
00:34:09.000 --> 00:34:11.280
<v Speaker 1>and fought with it like crazy, and you know what,

625
00:34:11.559 --> 00:34:15.920
<v Speaker 1>I still work at it every single day. And it's

626
00:34:16.400 --> 00:34:19.400
<v Speaker 1>one of those things that you just you realize that

627
00:34:19.880 --> 00:34:24.800
<v Speaker 1>you're in my mind, perfection is never an ending. It's like,

628
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<v Speaker 1>you know, enjoy the journey, not the destination, because I

629
00:34:27.920 --> 00:34:31.280
<v Speaker 1>don't think there is a destination. Because as my body ages, well,

630
00:34:31.320 --> 00:34:34.039
<v Speaker 1>guess what my goals a change. I would love to

631
00:34:34.079 --> 00:34:37.719
<v Speaker 1>look like a certain way, but guess what my genetics

632
00:34:37.719 --> 00:34:39.679
<v Speaker 1>is going to limit it to a certain amount. And

633
00:34:39.719 --> 00:34:42.000
<v Speaker 1>now that I'm much older than I am. I just

634
00:34:42.039 --> 00:34:43.679
<v Speaker 1>want to move better. I want to be able to

635
00:34:44.360 --> 00:34:46.400
<v Speaker 1>get up and down off the floor, not hurt myself

636
00:34:46.440 --> 00:34:48.480
<v Speaker 1>when I do something silly, you know, like trip and

637
00:34:48.519 --> 00:34:52.039
<v Speaker 1>fall or whatever it is. I want to perform better

638
00:34:52.079 --> 00:34:54.719
<v Speaker 1>in life. So your goals are going to continue to change.

639
00:34:55.119 --> 00:34:58.280
<v Speaker 1>We still have vanity. I joke all the time that

640
00:34:58.599 --> 00:35:00.320
<v Speaker 1>clients come in and all they want to do get

641
00:35:00.320 --> 00:35:01.880
<v Speaker 1>out of pain, and as soon as the pain starts

642
00:35:01.880 --> 00:35:04.760
<v Speaker 1>going away, suddenly Vanity comes out to play. So it's

643
00:35:04.760 --> 00:35:06.840
<v Speaker 1>now I want to I want to I want to

644
00:35:06.880 --> 00:35:09.239
<v Speaker 1>get rid of underneath my arm, and I want to

645
00:35:09.280 --> 00:35:11.599
<v Speaker 1>reduce my second chin and things like that. It's like,

646
00:35:11.679 --> 00:35:14.000
<v Speaker 1>oh right, and I knew it's coming. I knew it's

647
00:35:14.000 --> 00:35:17.079
<v Speaker 1>coming because you know, I could see the you know,

648
00:35:17.119 --> 00:35:20.199
<v Speaker 1>I could see it. But at the same time, it's like, okay,

649
00:35:20.280 --> 00:35:22.679
<v Speaker 1>let's maximize what you have. Let's take a look at

650
00:35:22.679 --> 00:35:26.679
<v Speaker 1>what your genetics are. And we're planning to do a

651
00:35:26.760 --> 00:35:30.599
<v Speaker 1>GOLP one update in a couple of weeks. And with

652
00:35:30.719 --> 00:35:32.800
<v Speaker 1>gop ones of having a lot of clients coming in

653
00:35:32.840 --> 00:35:38.440
<v Speaker 1>and their bodies are changing, it's great, but now you

654
00:35:38.480 --> 00:35:41.320
<v Speaker 1>know they may be looking at things about influencers and whatnot,

655
00:35:41.320 --> 00:35:44.800
<v Speaker 1>and I have to remind them, you're sixty, you're fifty five.

656
00:35:46.159 --> 00:35:51.960
<v Speaker 1>Maybe some of those goals aren't as realistic as maybe

657
00:35:52.000 --> 00:35:55.679
<v Speaker 1>you think they are. Let's talk about real reality. And

658
00:35:55.719 --> 00:35:58.559
<v Speaker 1>I think when we have people who are influencers, who

659
00:35:58.880 --> 00:36:05.159
<v Speaker 1>people are listening to, it's sometimes our job to remind them, hey,

660
00:36:05.320 --> 00:36:12.039
<v Speaker 1>guess what. Let's set up some clear expectations of what

661
00:36:12.119 --> 00:36:15.519
<v Speaker 1>can we do and work toward those goals, and if

662
00:36:15.519 --> 00:36:18.800
<v Speaker 1>we exceed them, fantastic. But I'm not going to set

663
00:36:18.880 --> 00:36:24.960
<v Speaker 1>up really outrageous expectations that I'm never going to let

664
00:36:25.039 --> 00:36:26.880
<v Speaker 1>them see, because then they're only going to be disappointed

665
00:36:26.920 --> 00:36:27.559
<v Speaker 1>in working with me.

666
00:36:30.599 --> 00:36:34.840
<v Speaker 2>Exactly exactly. So I want to say a little something

667
00:36:34.840 --> 00:36:37.719
<v Speaker 2>else too, because again, I was watching a bunch of

668
00:36:37.719 --> 00:36:39.719
<v Speaker 2>influencers over this period of time because our I never

669
00:36:39.719 --> 00:36:42.039
<v Speaker 2>going to this topic was coming up. And one other thing,

670
00:36:42.119 --> 00:36:44.039
<v Speaker 2>like I was watching on YouTube and there's a fitness

671
00:36:44.079 --> 00:36:47.800
<v Speaker 2>influence on there who really focuses on supplements and that's

672
00:36:47.880 --> 00:36:50.559
<v Speaker 2>kind of his thing. So he does a lot of

673
00:36:50.840 --> 00:36:53.840
<v Speaker 2>nutrition stuff and a lot of others. And one of

674
00:36:53.840 --> 00:36:57.000
<v Speaker 2>the things that I really realized after watching a few

675
00:36:57.039 --> 00:36:58.760
<v Speaker 2>of them, and it took a few because he always says,

676
00:36:58.760 --> 00:37:00.679
<v Speaker 2>here's a study, and you look at this, and studies

677
00:37:00.760 --> 00:37:04.800
<v Speaker 2>legitimate on a certain micro nutrient that makes like some

678
00:37:04.960 --> 00:37:07.920
<v Speaker 2>kind of difference in something, right, And then I realized,

679
00:37:07.960 --> 00:37:11.559
<v Speaker 2>like every single one of his things was sponsored by

680
00:37:11.679 --> 00:37:15.079
<v Speaker 2>whoever made that particular supplement, and at some point, if

681
00:37:15.119 --> 00:37:17.840
<v Speaker 2>you followed him for a period of time and took

682
00:37:17.920 --> 00:37:20.599
<v Speaker 2>all of his supplements, it would probably cost you four

683
00:37:20.639 --> 00:37:22.599
<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars a month, and god knows it would be

684
00:37:22.679 --> 00:37:25.360
<v Speaker 2>doing you any good. So that's the other thing too,

685
00:37:25.480 --> 00:37:30.719
<v Speaker 2>is people promoting products, promoting certain methods, promote prowning certain equipment.

686
00:37:32.599 --> 00:37:35.320
<v Speaker 2>And then it's also what are their goals? Like what

687
00:37:35.400 --> 00:37:37.480
<v Speaker 2>are their goals and what are your goals? And are

688
00:37:37.480 --> 00:37:41.159
<v Speaker 2>they a match? Yes? Because also just something to think.

689
00:37:41.039 --> 00:37:46.039
<v Speaker 1>About, Well, twenty years ago, thirty years ago, whatever it

690
00:37:46.199 --> 00:37:48.800
<v Speaker 1>was when people started doing a little bit more of

691
00:37:48.840 --> 00:37:52.920
<v Speaker 1>this influencer culture we're talking, we're talking at the beginning

692
00:37:52.920 --> 00:37:55.239
<v Speaker 1>of like MySpace and Facebook and all of that sort

693
00:37:55.280 --> 00:37:59.559
<v Speaker 1>of thing. People wanted to get known and they would

694
00:37:59.559 --> 00:38:04.159
<v Speaker 1>start outing something like their system or let's say the

695
00:38:04.199 --> 00:38:07.880
<v Speaker 1>infomercial that was really popular, you know, Susan Powder Billy blanks,

696
00:38:07.920 --> 00:38:09.880
<v Speaker 1>all of these type of things. And some of those

697
00:38:09.920 --> 00:38:11.880
<v Speaker 1>things were fine, some of them were fine, and a

698
00:38:11.920 --> 00:38:15.079
<v Speaker 1>lot of them were bs. But you always have to

699
00:38:15.119 --> 00:38:20.480
<v Speaker 1>ask yourself, why are they doing this? For the most part,

700
00:38:20.760 --> 00:38:25.280
<v Speaker 1>it's a financial gain. Yeah, And when it comes down

701
00:38:25.320 --> 00:38:28.280
<v Speaker 1>to financial gain, that's one of those things that always

702
00:38:28.320 --> 00:38:32.840
<v Speaker 1>makes me a little leery. I remember who was it.

703
00:38:35.239 --> 00:38:38.480
<v Speaker 1>I can't remember his name right now, not doctor Phil,

704
00:38:38.519 --> 00:38:43.239
<v Speaker 1>but the other one that was on TV. That's the

705
00:38:43.320 --> 00:38:49.360
<v Speaker 1>guy he was touting all of these supplements that were

706
00:38:49.480 --> 00:38:52.760
<v Speaker 1>such bs. Now, I'm gonna say this, in working in

707
00:38:53.039 --> 00:38:56.119
<v Speaker 1>radio and a little bit of television, but mostly radio

708
00:38:56.199 --> 00:38:59.199
<v Speaker 1>for a number of years, it's hard to fill the

709
00:38:59.280 --> 00:39:02.400
<v Speaker 1>hours you're doing a weekly show. It's hard to fill

710
00:39:02.440 --> 00:39:07.920
<v Speaker 1>the hours. I get it totally, yes, absolutely, But to

711
00:39:07.960 --> 00:39:12.960
<v Speaker 1>be saying you need to go out and buy this elderberry,

712
00:39:13.280 --> 00:39:15.440
<v Speaker 1>you know cream, because it's going to make all the

713
00:39:15.440 --> 00:39:21.559
<v Speaker 1>wrinkles on your butt go away, Okay, And then they

714
00:39:21.559 --> 00:39:24.159
<v Speaker 1>start saying, here's all this documented proof, and here's the

715
00:39:24.199 --> 00:39:27.519
<v Speaker 1>inventor of this, and here's this, And all I'm thinking is, really,

716
00:39:27.920 --> 00:39:29.840
<v Speaker 1>is this what it's come down to, This is snake oil.

717
00:39:30.079 --> 00:39:32.679
<v Speaker 1>That's all it really was. And then it was proven

718
00:39:33.119 --> 00:39:37.159
<v Speaker 1>that he was getting kickbacks or whatnot, you know, sponsorship

719
00:39:37.239 --> 00:39:42.119
<v Speaker 1>deals from all these different companies. When there's a financial

720
00:39:42.159 --> 00:39:44.960
<v Speaker 1>gained this to all of this, you have to really

721
00:39:45.000 --> 00:39:49.760
<v Speaker 1>watch out. Yeah, you know. I it's one of those

722
00:39:49.760 --> 00:39:53.400
<v Speaker 1>things that you see and I've seen a lot of podcasters.

723
00:39:53.440 --> 00:39:56.920
<v Speaker 1>I've seen a lot of influencers who will have sponsored

724
00:39:57.000 --> 00:40:00.679
<v Speaker 1>things and at least now they will say us sponsorship

725
00:40:00.760 --> 00:40:02.559
<v Speaker 1>somewhere in the on the screen.

726
00:40:03.519 --> 00:40:06.280
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes they don't. There's they're supposed to. I mean they

727
00:40:06.280 --> 00:40:09.440
<v Speaker 2>always do, because I've seen sometimes when they clearly didn't.

728
00:40:09.440 --> 00:40:11.599
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, they're supposed to say, like I am sponsored

729
00:40:11.599 --> 00:40:14.039
<v Speaker 2>by so and so, which always is like red flag

730
00:40:14.559 --> 00:40:16.800
<v Speaker 2>for me. Just and maybe that's fine and maybe totally

731
00:40:16.880 --> 00:40:19.239
<v Speaker 2>legitimate and they're sponsored by them because they actually use

732
00:40:19.280 --> 00:40:21.920
<v Speaker 2>that product and like it. But it's also just like okay,

733
00:40:22.000 --> 00:40:25.519
<v Speaker 2>no know where the money is? Oh yeah, because podcasters

734
00:40:25.559 --> 00:40:28.800
<v Speaker 2>and and and YouTube people particularly, they get all their

735
00:40:28.840 --> 00:40:33.159
<v Speaker 2>money from sponsorships or from Patreon or from something like that, right,

736
00:40:33.199 --> 00:40:36.079
<v Speaker 2>but a lot of it's from sponsorships. So they're directly

737
00:40:36.159 --> 00:40:41.480
<v Speaker 2>dependent on that, you know, different than even uh commercial

738
00:40:41.559 --> 00:40:44.239
<v Speaker 2>television or whatever, where you know, the actors are paid

739
00:40:44.519 --> 00:40:47.280
<v Speaker 2>to be they're doing that thing, right, they're not and

740
00:40:47.280 --> 00:40:49.920
<v Speaker 2>and yes, advertising pays for a lot of that, but indirectly.

741
00:40:50.199 --> 00:40:52.280
<v Speaker 2>If these guys are directly paid by the advertisers to

742
00:40:52.320 --> 00:40:54.719
<v Speaker 2>do their job, and that's that's just an important thing

743
00:40:54.760 --> 00:40:56.519
<v Speaker 2>to think about always, is where's the money.

744
00:40:57.440 --> 00:40:59.719
<v Speaker 1>I can say, I can let you know. And I

745
00:40:59.719 --> 00:41:03.239
<v Speaker 1>haven't even told you about this very much, but I'll

746
00:41:03.320 --> 00:41:06.719
<v Speaker 1>let everyone who's listening no little backstory of what's going

747
00:41:06.760 --> 00:41:10.360
<v Speaker 1>on in the podcasting world. We don't have the most

748
00:41:10.639 --> 00:41:14.920
<v Speaker 1>largest following in the world. We're movement professionals. We have

749
00:41:14.960 --> 00:41:18.239
<v Speaker 1>a small niche. But I can't tell you how many

750
00:41:18.360 --> 00:41:22.639
<v Speaker 1>emails I get per week asking us to be brand

751
00:41:22.639 --> 00:41:28.159
<v Speaker 1>ambassadors for lines of clothing, for this, for that, all

752
00:41:28.239 --> 00:41:30.639
<v Speaker 1>sorts of things, and saying we would love to have

753
00:41:30.719 --> 00:41:34.960
<v Speaker 1>you represent our line. I just delete them all because,

754
00:41:34.960 --> 00:41:38.400
<v Speaker 1>you know what, it's crap. The first couple, I'll be honest,

755
00:41:38.400 --> 00:41:41.079
<v Speaker 1>the first time someone said they want to sponsor, Hey, hey,

756
00:41:41.239 --> 00:41:44.920
<v Speaker 1>all right, this might be cool. I'm getting somewhere, getting

757
00:41:44.960 --> 00:41:47.559
<v Speaker 1>somewhere alright, and I, you know, click on something, and

758
00:41:47.559 --> 00:41:52.679
<v Speaker 1>I thought, oh my no, I really don't think I'm

759
00:41:52.679 --> 00:41:54.840
<v Speaker 1>gonna look good in booty shorts. I just don't think

760
00:41:54.920 --> 00:41:57.679
<v Speaker 1>that's gonna look good on my body. Sorry to say,

761
00:41:57.760 --> 00:42:01.599
<v Speaker 1>I'm beyond the booty short era saying me, you know

762
00:42:01.960 --> 00:42:03.599
<v Speaker 1>you knew you in life, but I know for me,

763
00:42:03.719 --> 00:42:05.519
<v Speaker 1>that's not probably the look I'm going to go for

764
00:42:05.599 --> 00:42:08.360
<v Speaker 1>when I'm at the gym and I laugh at some

765
00:42:08.400 --> 00:42:10.840
<v Speaker 1>of these things, I'm like, wow, Okay, they really are

766
00:42:10.880 --> 00:42:14.800
<v Speaker 1>just hitting hitting everybody. They don't care who they're asking.

767
00:42:15.119 --> 00:42:17.840
<v Speaker 1>And that's what a lot of these are doing. And

768
00:42:17.960 --> 00:42:20.239
<v Speaker 1>let's face it, if that's your income, if that's the

769
00:42:20.280 --> 00:42:21.960
<v Speaker 1>only way you're making money, you're going to take a

770
00:42:21.960 --> 00:42:24.840
<v Speaker 1>lot of those deals and you're going to start touting

771
00:42:24.840 --> 00:42:28.199
<v Speaker 1>things you don't necessarily believe in. And I think you

772
00:42:28.239 --> 00:42:31.280
<v Speaker 1>and I said a long time ago, nope, that's we

773
00:42:31.360 --> 00:42:33.360
<v Speaker 1>have no interest in that. That's not what we do.

774
00:42:33.599 --> 00:42:37.440
<v Speaker 1>We have our beliefs, and a lot of podcasters do

775
00:42:37.480 --> 00:42:42.280
<v Speaker 1>and some influencers do. But I think once you start

776
00:42:42.599 --> 00:42:48.280
<v Speaker 1>getting money involved, I think decisions are made differently. And

777
00:42:48.280 --> 00:42:50.519
<v Speaker 1>I can tell you a story about this. It happened

778
00:42:50.559 --> 00:42:52.960
<v Speaker 1>to me. Okay, I worked for a gym and I

779
00:42:52.960 --> 00:42:56.440
<v Speaker 1>was doing nutritional consulting. Okay, was I going a little

780
00:42:56.480 --> 00:43:00.639
<v Speaker 1>outside of my scope for practice, probably my degrees in casiology.

781
00:43:00.679 --> 00:43:03.519
<v Speaker 1>But I did a ton of nutritional research as a

782
00:43:03.519 --> 00:43:07.920
<v Speaker 1>minor and whatnot, so I understood it. And one of

783
00:43:07.960 --> 00:43:13.199
<v Speaker 1>the things was we needed to sell supplements. And at

784
00:43:13.199 --> 00:43:15.480
<v Speaker 1>first it was like, okay, I just wanted to sort

785
00:43:15.480 --> 00:43:18.000
<v Speaker 1>of make my minimum quota. I was only I was

786
00:43:18.320 --> 00:43:21.400
<v Speaker 1>giving only the basics, just the basics that would make

787
00:43:21.400 --> 00:43:23.920
<v Speaker 1>my boss happy, so that no one would yell at me. Okay,

788
00:43:23.960 --> 00:43:27.159
<v Speaker 1>like a vitamin, multi vitamin. Okay, everybody can use a

789
00:43:27.239 --> 00:43:29.400
<v Speaker 1>multi vitamin for the most part. Okay, it's not gonna

790
00:43:29.480 --> 00:43:33.679
<v Speaker 1>hurt you. But I got promoted, I got sent to

791
00:43:33.840 --> 00:43:36.079
<v Speaker 1>a different gym where I was the only person doing this.

792
00:43:36.519 --> 00:43:40.599
<v Speaker 1>So I got ten percent of all sales of supplements,

793
00:43:42.920 --> 00:43:46.559
<v Speaker 1>and within six or eight weeks, I realized my numbers

794
00:43:46.559 --> 00:43:51.199
<v Speaker 1>were going up and I was making suggestions that I

795
00:43:51.280 --> 00:43:55.079
<v Speaker 1>probably never would have made before. Now this is twenty

796
00:43:55.159 --> 00:43:57.519
<v Speaker 1>years ago, thirty years ago, whatever it was. I mean,

797
00:43:57.519 --> 00:43:59.800
<v Speaker 1>this was back in I mean new it was in

798
00:43:59.840 --> 00:44:02.480
<v Speaker 1>the nineteen hundreds. It was a long time ago. So

799
00:44:03.280 --> 00:44:07.880
<v Speaker 1>but it's because I was seeing a substantial increase. Thousands

800
00:44:07.880 --> 00:44:11.920
<v Speaker 1>of dollars a month was coming into my pocket, and

801
00:44:11.960 --> 00:44:14.159
<v Speaker 1>as a college student, I was like, Wow, this is

802
00:44:14.400 --> 00:44:19.880
<v Speaker 1>awesome until I made some suggestions. This is when a

803
00:44:20.000 --> 00:44:24.320
<v Speaker 1>Fedra Mahong all of these, you know, things for metabolic

804
00:44:24.400 --> 00:44:27.880
<v Speaker 1>enhancement were very popular. I made a suggestion to someone

805
00:44:27.880 --> 00:44:30.159
<v Speaker 1>who had some medical conditions that I didn't know about,

806
00:44:31.480 --> 00:44:35.199
<v Speaker 1>and she ended up being taken to the hospital. Now

807
00:44:35.239 --> 00:44:38.519
<v Speaker 1>she took too much. I said, you know, follow the instructions.

808
00:44:38.840 --> 00:44:41.119
<v Speaker 1>Only you know it says take one in the morning,

809
00:44:41.119 --> 00:44:44.000
<v Speaker 1>one in the afternoon. That's it, okay, all this she

810
00:44:44.079 --> 00:44:46.760
<v Speaker 1>wanted to lose weight faster, so she doubled the dose.

811
00:44:47.559 --> 00:44:50.480
<v Speaker 1>She called me from her she worked at ad bank.

812
00:44:50.559 --> 00:44:52.000
<v Speaker 1>She said, I'm lying on the floor and my heart

813
00:44:52.079 --> 00:44:55.960
<v Speaker 1>rates one hundred and fifty. I said, you better get

814
00:44:55.960 --> 00:45:00.440
<v Speaker 1>in now. I said, ambulance. Now, don't be called calling me.

815
00:45:01.199 --> 00:45:06.599
<v Speaker 1>Call an ambulance exactly. And that was my wake up call.

816
00:45:07.360 --> 00:45:12.800
<v Speaker 1>And that moment I realized, oh my gosh, Now was

817
00:45:12.840 --> 00:45:16.760
<v Speaker 1>it considered safe to take because it was a supplement. Sure,

818
00:45:16.840 --> 00:45:19.880
<v Speaker 1>I did not know her medical backstory. She never mentioned

819
00:45:19.880 --> 00:45:22.480
<v Speaker 1>any of that to me. I had no idea, but

820
00:45:22.559 --> 00:45:26.079
<v Speaker 1>I still took responsibility. I made sure she was doing okay,

821
00:45:26.119 --> 00:45:29.679
<v Speaker 1>and I apologized profusely. I probably. I'm sure the gym

822
00:45:29.760 --> 00:45:32.559
<v Speaker 1>I was working for wish I hadn't, And she never

823
00:45:32.599 --> 00:45:34.480
<v Speaker 1>held me responsible. She said, yeah, I was just taking

824
00:45:34.519 --> 00:45:36.679
<v Speaker 1>too much. I was just taking more than I should

825
00:45:36.679 --> 00:45:38.760
<v Speaker 1>because I read it in a magazine and you know,

826
00:45:38.800 --> 00:45:40.360
<v Speaker 1>I had it anyway, so I was taking And I

827
00:45:40.400 --> 00:45:43.800
<v Speaker 1>said yeah. But after that, I really changed my ways

828
00:45:43.840 --> 00:45:45.880
<v Speaker 1>and I didn't stay with that job for very much

829
00:45:45.880 --> 00:45:48.639
<v Speaker 1>longer because I was made and it made me uncomfortable

830
00:45:48.639 --> 00:45:52.360
<v Speaker 1>for the decisions I made. And over the years, I've

831
00:45:52.360 --> 00:45:54.960
<v Speaker 1>had a number of people come to me and say,

832
00:45:54.960 --> 00:45:58.840
<v Speaker 1>why don't you sell supplements in your gym? I say,

833
00:45:58.920 --> 00:46:02.119
<v Speaker 1>because as soon as the dollars become involved and I'm

834
00:46:02.119 --> 00:46:05.480
<v Speaker 1>making money on it, I'm going to probably make some

835
00:46:05.519 --> 00:46:14.320
<v Speaker 1>suggestions based on that unconsciously that will make me lose

836
00:46:16.400 --> 00:46:20.199
<v Speaker 1>lose faith in myself and lose some respect. So if

837
00:46:20.199 --> 00:46:22.159
<v Speaker 1>I like something, I'll say, you can order it through here,

838
00:46:22.280 --> 00:46:24.360
<v Speaker 1>you can order it on Amazon. You can do that. Said,

839
00:46:24.360 --> 00:46:28.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't need to sell it because I don't like

840
00:46:28.360 --> 00:46:29.639
<v Speaker 1>the way that makes me feel.

841
00:46:30.480 --> 00:46:33.639
<v Speaker 2>That is such a good story, Brian. With all the

842
00:46:33.679 --> 00:46:37.280
<v Speaker 2>things that we're talking about, what's the reward? How do

843
00:46:37.320 --> 00:46:39.239
<v Speaker 2>you do it, How do you manage that? How do

844
00:46:39.320 --> 00:46:43.760
<v Speaker 2>you know, how do you personally and me personally stay

845
00:46:44.719 --> 00:46:49.320
<v Speaker 2>clean with what we're offering to people, making sure we

846
00:46:49.400 --> 00:46:52.000
<v Speaker 2>stay on one side of the line, which is really

847
00:46:52.119 --> 00:46:56.400
<v Speaker 2>keeping their best interests at heart. Yeah, they pass money,

848
00:46:56.480 --> 00:46:59.400
<v Speaker 2>that's good, they should, That's an important thing. But for

849
00:46:59.519 --> 00:47:02.840
<v Speaker 2>the skill that we have making sure that we're giving

850
00:47:02.880 --> 00:47:06.360
<v Speaker 2>them good value for what we're doing, and that we're

851
00:47:06.400 --> 00:47:11.119
<v Speaker 2>not necessarily motivated by that right selling them something because

852
00:47:11.159 --> 00:47:12.920
<v Speaker 2>we know we're going to get a good kickback off

853
00:47:12.960 --> 00:47:16.280
<v Speaker 2>of it, even if it's not necessarily well, you know,

854
00:47:16.360 --> 00:47:18.440
<v Speaker 2>they could probably use that, it's probably not going to

855
00:47:18.480 --> 00:47:20.880
<v Speaker 2>do many harm. I'm going to just picture the thinking

856
00:47:21.199 --> 00:47:23.239
<v Speaker 2>that can go on in your head. Or and it's

857
00:47:23.360 --> 00:47:25.400
<v Speaker 2>sixty bucks a bottle, and that means I'm going to

858
00:47:25.400 --> 00:47:27.679
<v Speaker 2>get six dollars and I do that with every client

859
00:47:27.679 --> 00:47:29.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm seeing this week, and you know, I've got enough

860
00:47:29.840 --> 00:47:32.360
<v Speaker 2>money to pay for gas or whatever. It is. Right,

861
00:47:32.679 --> 00:47:37.000
<v Speaker 2>that thinking is so insidious, and you see that all

862
00:47:37.039 --> 00:47:40.000
<v Speaker 2>over podcasting and YouTube for sure. That's that's where a

863
00:47:40.039 --> 00:47:41.280
<v Speaker 2>lot of that is driven.

864
00:47:41.039 --> 00:47:45.519
<v Speaker 1>By absolutely absolutely, and that's why it's always just made

865
00:47:45.559 --> 00:47:48.960
<v Speaker 1>me uncomfortable I see too many podcasters do that, and

866
00:47:49.000 --> 00:47:53.000
<v Speaker 1>I see too many influencers and YouTubers and things like that. Now,

867
00:47:53.280 --> 00:47:55.039
<v Speaker 1>if I have something that i'm selling of my own

868
00:47:55.039 --> 00:47:58.480
<v Speaker 1>that I believe in, there's a couple of I'm sure

869
00:47:59.320 --> 00:48:02.280
<v Speaker 1>all of you know woodworking, and I love music stuff.

870
00:48:02.519 --> 00:48:05.840
<v Speaker 1>So I'll be watching someone who you know is a

871
00:48:05.840 --> 00:48:09.360
<v Speaker 1>guitar teacher and he'll have a guitar book talking about, oh,

872
00:48:09.599 --> 00:48:12.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, train your ear better to listen. Okay, he

873
00:48:13.000 --> 00:48:16.000
<v Speaker 1>believes in this, and it's helped him and his students,

874
00:48:16.280 --> 00:48:18.280
<v Speaker 1>and it's usually for a decent price. So I'm like, good,

875
00:48:18.519 --> 00:48:22.000
<v Speaker 1>he wrote it. Great, I have a book. I'd have

876
00:48:22.079 --> 00:48:25.320
<v Speaker 1>no problem selling my stuff because I believe in it.

877
00:48:25.599 --> 00:48:27.360
<v Speaker 1>Because I wrote it, I believe in it, and if

878
00:48:27.400 --> 00:48:28.840
<v Speaker 1>I didn't, then I shouldn't have written it in the

879
00:48:28.880 --> 00:48:32.360
<v Speaker 1>first place. But when it does get sticky, when you

880
00:48:32.400 --> 00:48:37.159
<v Speaker 1>are representing another company that you don't know, you don't

881
00:48:37.159 --> 00:48:40.320
<v Speaker 1>know all the research behind it necessarily, and if money

882
00:48:40.360 --> 00:48:43.760
<v Speaker 1>is the only reason you're doing it, I think that's

883
00:48:43.800 --> 00:48:45.039
<v Speaker 1>where we really get sticky.

884
00:48:47.960 --> 00:48:55.880
<v Speaker 2>Agreed, Agreed. Huh. So, giving this conversation has really been

885
00:48:55.920 --> 00:48:59.719
<v Speaker 2>wide ranging, I have to say kind of like like

886
00:49:00.079 --> 00:49:01.960
<v Speaker 2>bring it and bring it a little bit somewhere. And

887
00:49:02.280 --> 00:49:05.159
<v Speaker 2>where I want to bring it into is if you're

888
00:49:05.159 --> 00:49:07.920
<v Speaker 2>listening to this from a number of different perspectives. So,

889
00:49:07.960 --> 00:49:10.079
<v Speaker 2>first of all, if you are a client or an

890
00:49:10.119 --> 00:49:13.360
<v Speaker 2>instructor and you're looking at influencers, because we all do,

891
00:49:13.559 --> 00:49:17.960
<v Speaker 2>whether it's on Instagram, talk or TikTok or whatever it is, YouTube,

892
00:49:18.000 --> 00:49:21.360
<v Speaker 2>whatever you got, and even us for that matter, honestly

893
00:49:21.400 --> 00:49:24.199
<v Speaker 2>as podcasters, you know, just looking with a critical eye,

894
00:49:24.239 --> 00:49:29.039
<v Speaker 2>really finding those that speak to you, being aware of

895
00:49:29.079 --> 00:49:33.360
<v Speaker 2>your view worldview biases a bit and what those are,

896
00:49:33.679 --> 00:49:35.480
<v Speaker 2>and just you know, knowing that those you're going to

897
00:49:35.480 --> 00:49:38.480
<v Speaker 2>bring those with you to those experiences. And if you're

898
00:49:38.880 --> 00:49:42.639
<v Speaker 2>interested in becoming an influencer or being a presenter or

899
00:49:42.679 --> 00:49:45.360
<v Speaker 2>doing that, I'm going to be very old fashion here

900
00:49:45.360 --> 00:49:50.000
<v Speaker 2>and I'm going to say do the work, yes, And

901
00:49:50.400 --> 00:49:53.480
<v Speaker 2>what i mean by that is educate yourself as best

902
00:49:53.519 --> 00:49:57.199
<v Speaker 2>you can. Learn everything you can, take courses from people

903
00:49:57.239 --> 00:50:00.239
<v Speaker 2>you admire and respect to have you know your in

904
00:50:00.280 --> 00:50:04.679
<v Speaker 2>the field, and then really work with clients. If you're

905
00:50:04.800 --> 00:50:08.679
<v Speaker 2>working with clients twenty thirty hours a week for years

906
00:50:08.719 --> 00:50:11.320
<v Speaker 2>after years after years, and you're paying attention, and those

907
00:50:11.360 --> 00:50:14.559
<v Speaker 2>are not always happening, and you're paying attention, you'll learn something.

908
00:50:15.000 --> 00:50:17.239
<v Speaker 2>You'll learn something from every single person that goes by.

909
00:50:17.760 --> 00:50:21.559
<v Speaker 2>And that's for me, certainly, what has fed my passion

910
00:50:21.599 --> 00:50:24.719
<v Speaker 2>and my interests is just observing people over time, over time,

911
00:50:24.760 --> 00:50:27.880
<v Speaker 2>over time, seeing what works, seeing what doesn't, seeing all

912
00:50:27.960 --> 00:50:31.880
<v Speaker 2>the weird little things that go into making somebody better

913
00:50:32.039 --> 00:50:36.440
<v Speaker 2>or not, and then honing your skills of how do

914
00:50:36.519 --> 00:50:39.639
<v Speaker 2>I then communicate that, how do I communicate it to clients,

915
00:50:39.719 --> 00:50:42.440
<v Speaker 2>how do I communicate it to other teachers, and then

916
00:50:42.480 --> 00:50:44.760
<v Speaker 2>how do I communicate it to an audience if I'm

917
00:50:44.800 --> 00:50:48.000
<v Speaker 2>doing a podcast, or I'm presenting, or I'm a YouTuber

918
00:50:48.119 --> 00:50:51.079
<v Speaker 2>or I'm at a conference, And those are all really

919
00:50:51.159 --> 00:50:55.199
<v Speaker 2>important skills. You know, arn, learn the stuff, practice the stuff,

920
00:50:55.559 --> 00:50:59.239
<v Speaker 2>and then practice how you articulate the stuff to put

921
00:50:59.239 --> 00:51:03.719
<v Speaker 2>it in like a pretty simple simple formula, and then practice,

922
00:51:04.719 --> 00:51:06.960
<v Speaker 2>you know, then practice like I don't know how many

923
00:51:07.599 --> 00:51:10.639
<v Speaker 2>at one time. At one point, at one point, it

924
00:51:10.679 --> 00:51:14.360
<v Speaker 2>was just trying to figure out how many courses I'd taught,

925
00:51:14.400 --> 00:51:16.239
<v Speaker 2>and I think at this point I was just looking

926
00:51:16.280 --> 00:51:19.920
<v Speaker 2>at anatomy in three D classes that I taught im

927
00:51:19.920 --> 00:51:21.400
<v Speaker 2>and to add them all up because I'm a Jingham

928
00:51:21.400 --> 00:51:23.400
<v Speaker 2>for I don't know, I'm fifteen years something. It was

929
00:51:23.440 --> 00:51:26.719
<v Speaker 2>like seventy classes, Like I've taught this course seventy times

930
00:51:27.519 --> 00:51:30.280
<v Speaker 2>or something like. That's ridiculous. And that was only one

931
00:51:30.280 --> 00:51:32.119
<v Speaker 2>of the many, many, many classes that I've taught over

932
00:51:32.119 --> 00:51:34.559
<v Speaker 2>the many years. And that also came to me when

933
00:51:34.559 --> 00:51:37.440
<v Speaker 2>I was when I work with new presenters, because they

934
00:51:37.559 --> 00:51:41.440
<v Speaker 2>think that they have those skills automatically, they think they

935
00:51:41.480 --> 00:51:44.000
<v Speaker 2>have your skills, they think they have my skills because

936
00:51:44.039 --> 00:51:46.880
<v Speaker 2>they do everybody projects onto whoever they're looking at. Oh

937
00:51:46.960 --> 00:51:50.599
<v Speaker 2>that I could do that, Maybe you can, but you

938
00:51:50.719 --> 00:51:52.840
<v Speaker 2>got to try, you got to work it, you got

939
00:51:52.840 --> 00:51:55.840
<v Speaker 2>to practice, and then you've got to be self cryptical, right,

940
00:51:56.199 --> 00:51:59.079
<v Speaker 2>and then over time you get better, hopefully if you

941
00:51:59.079 --> 00:52:01.800
<v Speaker 2>continue doing it and you understand how to be more

942
00:52:01.840 --> 00:52:05.760
<v Speaker 2>effective and you take feedback and you move forward. But

943
00:52:05.880 --> 00:52:08.679
<v Speaker 2>it's it's you know, it just it's a skill building,

944
00:52:08.760 --> 00:52:13.280
<v Speaker 2>long term process to get good at anything, but to

945
00:52:13.320 --> 00:52:16.599
<v Speaker 2>get good at those kinds of things, really understanding what

946
00:52:16.639 --> 00:52:18.559
<v Speaker 2>you have to say and saying well, that takes time

947
00:52:18.599 --> 00:52:19.199
<v Speaker 2>and practice.

948
00:52:19.880 --> 00:52:23.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, we're talking about that a couple of days ago.

949
00:52:23.920 --> 00:52:26.760
<v Speaker 1>There are some teachers out there who understand the information,

950
00:52:27.559 --> 00:52:30.159
<v Speaker 1>know it like the back of their hand, but they're

951
00:52:30.199 --> 00:52:33.800
<v Speaker 1>not very good teachers. They're good regurgitators, but they're not

952
00:52:33.840 --> 00:52:38.239
<v Speaker 1>really good teachers. I say, there's more to it than

953
00:52:38.599 --> 00:52:44.239
<v Speaker 1>just talking the words. There's something, there's an entertainment value.

954
00:52:44.280 --> 00:52:46.559
<v Speaker 1>There has to be something that gets people to listen

955
00:52:46.639 --> 00:52:49.920
<v Speaker 1>to you, to draw them in. How you use your voice,

956
00:52:49.960 --> 00:52:54.119
<v Speaker 1>how you use your body, how you use everything doing

957
00:52:54.239 --> 00:52:56.960
<v Speaker 1>years of You and I both did years of things

958
00:52:56.960 --> 00:52:59.840
<v Speaker 1>like acting. You did dance, I did stand up comedy,

959
00:53:00.079 --> 00:53:03.639
<v Speaker 1>did radio and television. There's something to be said about

960
00:53:03.679 --> 00:53:07.239
<v Speaker 1>having those skills as well when you go into other things.

961
00:53:07.280 --> 00:53:10.159
<v Speaker 1>Because we can, we can tap from those and make

962
00:53:10.199 --> 00:53:13.320
<v Speaker 1>it a lot more fun for the people who are

963
00:53:13.360 --> 00:53:15.480
<v Speaker 1>listening to us. We can feel a room and know

964
00:53:15.519 --> 00:53:18.599
<v Speaker 1>when it's dying down. We know how to dial it

965
00:53:18.719 --> 00:53:21.400
<v Speaker 1>up and turn our volume up without turning our volume up,

966
00:53:21.960 --> 00:53:26.400
<v Speaker 1>how to amplify ourselves. All of these are skills that

967
00:53:26.440 --> 00:53:28.719
<v Speaker 1>you build in time. And it's not just saying the

968
00:53:28.760 --> 00:53:31.280
<v Speaker 1>words on a paper. You can listen to ten people

969
00:53:31.360 --> 00:53:34.920
<v Speaker 1>give the same speech and only one of them really hits.

970
00:53:34.960 --> 00:53:37.119
<v Speaker 1>Everyone else is just sort of going through the motions,

971
00:53:37.920 --> 00:53:41.559
<v Speaker 1>and it's a real skill that takes time to build.

972
00:53:42.400 --> 00:53:46.119
<v Speaker 1>Something that I'm going to remind people about influencer culture

973
00:53:46.840 --> 00:53:50.519
<v Speaker 1>is when you see something, ask yourself a couple of questions.

974
00:53:51.639 --> 00:53:54.360
<v Speaker 1>Number One, if they're saying this, you have to do this,

975
00:53:54.440 --> 00:53:59.800
<v Speaker 1>you have to do this, this is does it make sense? Simple?

976
00:54:00.920 --> 00:54:03.280
<v Speaker 1>Does this ring true in your heart? Because there have

977
00:54:03.280 --> 00:54:06.639
<v Speaker 1>been many times I've sat in classrooms when I'm watching

978
00:54:06.639 --> 00:54:10.000
<v Speaker 1>someone else talk and they're entertaining, they're a good speaker,

979
00:54:10.440 --> 00:54:14.519
<v Speaker 1>they've got the skills to talk, but what they're saying

980
00:54:15.360 --> 00:54:19.960
<v Speaker 1>doesn't make sense. My brain is just thinking there's something

981
00:54:20.000 --> 00:54:23.840
<v Speaker 1>missing here. And I'm not saying they all screw loose.

982
00:54:23.880 --> 00:54:27.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying it doesn't make sense from my perspective,

983
00:54:28.039 --> 00:54:31.599
<v Speaker 1>a movement point of view, kneasy, a logic, anatomics, something's

984
00:54:31.639 --> 00:54:35.320
<v Speaker 1>not making sense. And sometimes what that makes me do

985
00:54:35.360 --> 00:54:37.679
<v Speaker 1>is see two or three of their classes and think, Okay,

986
00:54:37.719 --> 00:54:41.000
<v Speaker 1>maybe I'm the one missing something, Maybe I'm the one

987
00:54:41.000 --> 00:54:44.079
<v Speaker 1>who's not smart enough, or I can't hear what they're

988
00:54:44.119 --> 00:54:46.880
<v Speaker 1>trying to say yet. And I'd say that's only happened

989
00:54:46.880 --> 00:54:49.639
<v Speaker 1>once that I took a bunch of courses and finally

990
00:54:49.639 --> 00:54:51.360
<v Speaker 1>it hit and I went oh there's something to this,

991
00:54:52.119 --> 00:54:54.239
<v Speaker 1>all right, I wasn't ready to hear it at the beginning.

992
00:54:55.679 --> 00:54:58.960
<v Speaker 1>Ninety Nine percent of the time i'd say, if it's

993
00:54:58.960 --> 00:55:02.719
<v Speaker 1>not ringing true it's there, it's probably not true and

994
00:55:02.719 --> 00:55:06.400
<v Speaker 1>there's something missing. So I'm gonna say that, ask yourself,

995
00:55:06.880 --> 00:55:11.800
<v Speaker 1>does it make sense? And number two is does it

996
00:55:11.880 --> 00:55:17.159
<v Speaker 1>look safe? Yeah, when you see someone doing Yeah, when

997
00:55:17.199 --> 00:55:20.679
<v Speaker 1>you see someone doing something. Just because you can do

998
00:55:20.719 --> 00:55:23.159
<v Speaker 1>it at age twenty five doesn't mean that I can

999
00:55:23.159 --> 00:55:25.960
<v Speaker 1>do at age fifty five, or that she can do

1000
00:55:25.960 --> 00:55:27.840
<v Speaker 1>it at age seventy five, or he can do it

1001
00:55:27.840 --> 00:55:31.639
<v Speaker 1>at age forty five or whatever it is. It doesn't

1002
00:55:31.679 --> 00:55:34.119
<v Speaker 1>mean it's safe for everybody. And you have to really

1003
00:55:34.119 --> 00:55:37.280
<v Speaker 1>ask yourself does it look safe for the person that

1004
00:55:37.320 --> 00:55:40.599
<v Speaker 1>I'm working with, because I think we've all hurt people

1005
00:55:40.599 --> 00:55:43.199
<v Speaker 1>in our careers, you know, especially when we were baby

1006
00:55:43.239 --> 00:55:46.000
<v Speaker 1>trainers baby pilate's instructors. We probably did things that we

1007
00:55:46.000 --> 00:55:48.079
<v Speaker 1>were like, well, I probably shouldn't have done that, but

1008
00:55:49.159 --> 00:55:51.960
<v Speaker 1>we learned it was many many, many years ago. But

1009
00:55:52.000 --> 00:55:54.440
<v Speaker 1>if it doesn't look safe, there's probably a reason that

1010
00:55:54.599 --> 00:55:56.639
<v Speaker 1>something inside of you is like, maybe I shouldn't be

1011
00:55:56.639 --> 00:55:59.920
<v Speaker 1>doing that. So sometimes I think you got to listen

1012
00:55:59.920 --> 00:56:01.039
<v Speaker 1>to your gut on all of these.

1013
00:56:03.079 --> 00:56:04.920
<v Speaker 2>I also to add one little piece on that, which

1014
00:56:04.960 --> 00:56:10.360
<v Speaker 2>is in plates specifically, there are people using the equipment

1015
00:56:10.440 --> 00:56:13.119
<v Speaker 2>in ways that are not safe for the equipment. It's

1016
00:56:13.119 --> 00:56:15.840
<v Speaker 2>just not designed to hold weight in that way. It's

1017
00:56:15.880 --> 00:56:19.960
<v Speaker 2>not designed to be moved in that particular fashion. Resistance

1018
00:56:20.039 --> 00:56:22.400
<v Speaker 2>is coming from a funny angle. There's a lot of

1019
00:56:22.480 --> 00:56:26.400
<v Speaker 2>that happening out there with people just not understanding physics,

1020
00:56:26.400 --> 00:56:30.119
<v Speaker 2>mechanics and how things work and don't work. So that's

1021
00:56:30.119 --> 00:56:33.400
<v Speaker 2>another thing too, is there's the physical safety of the person.

1022
00:56:33.519 --> 00:56:36.840
<v Speaker 2>Is also is that going to break something? Is that yes,

1023
00:56:37.119 --> 00:56:40.199
<v Speaker 2>designed for that particular weird move that's happening right now.

1024
00:56:40.599 --> 00:56:42.960
<v Speaker 2>So those are another way of another opportunity for safety

1025
00:56:43.000 --> 00:56:45.360
<v Speaker 2>is just being aware of what the machine can and

1026
00:56:45.400 --> 00:56:46.599
<v Speaker 2>can't and should and shouldn't do.

1027
00:56:47.360 --> 00:56:49.559
<v Speaker 1>I remember when I first got I think I first

1028
00:56:49.599 --> 00:56:54.559
<v Speaker 1>I got a Cadillac sorry trap table and one of

1029
00:56:54.599 --> 00:56:56.760
<v Speaker 1>the spring, the yellow spring. I was thinking, huh, I

1030
00:56:56.800 --> 00:56:58.400
<v Speaker 1>wonder if I can do this move? And it was

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<v Speaker 1>sort of a chopping motion. And let's just say I

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<v Speaker 1>put that spring to a range of motion that it

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<v Speaker 1>was not designed to do. I tried to make it

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<v Speaker 1>a cable, and at the end of it, it became

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<v Speaker 1>a cable because it stretched all the way. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it literally stretched out to the point that it was

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<v Speaker 1>no longer like a spring anymore. It was twice as

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<v Speaker 1>long as when I first saw it. I said, oops,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that's not supposed to do that. But again, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Do it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm a strong enough person, I guess. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was a yellow, it was a light. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a light guy. But I mean it was one of

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<v Speaker 1>those things that I was like, huh, I wonder if

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<v Speaker 1>I can do this, And I was like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess not. So you're absolutely right. Some things are not

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<v Speaker 1>meant for that. Find another piece of equipment. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to make everything work on every piece of equipment.

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<v Speaker 1>So I made that mistake in my life. I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>the first to admit it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh man, Well we have we have. We have wandered

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<v Speaker 2>here and there, we have talked about it, We've talked

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<v Speaker 2>about being an influencer, some cautionary tales, things to be

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<v Speaker 2>aware of. You know, hopefully this has been enlightening in

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<v Speaker 2>some ways, or interesting in some ways, or maybe even

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<v Speaker 2>inspiring in some ways. If you guys really want to

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<v Speaker 2>move up in your career and become somebody who's got

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<v Speaker 2>a little more influence in the world. We wish you

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<v Speaker 2>good luck on that, and you know, reach out to

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<v Speaker 2>us if you want any help or advice on that.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we've got plenty.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Absolutely, the best way to do that is through

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<v Speaker 1>our Gmail. Hit us up Moving Convos at gmail dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the easiest way to get in touch with us.

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<v Speaker 1>You can also do it through Instagram. Moving Convos is

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<v Speaker 1>our handle there. Nor and I also have our private ones.

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<v Speaker 1>You can check that out in the show notes and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>also YouTube under my name Brian Ritchie. We have a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of things this episode will post there, so if

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<v Speaker 1>you ever just want to watch us. We're kind of

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<v Speaker 1>animated more so than we are vocally, so I mean

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<v Speaker 1>my hands and bodies always moving around. So you can

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<v Speaker 1>always check us out live and live and in color there.

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<v Speaker 1>Check out our shorts, hit that like and subscribe button.

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<v Speaker 1>We really appreciate it every time you do. It helps

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<v Speaker 1>us out a lot. We're not doing this for the money,

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<v Speaker 1>as we said, We're doing this basically to spread the

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<v Speaker 1>joy of movement and whatnot. So until next week from

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<v Speaker 1>North Saint John and Brian Richie. We'll see you then.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye, guys,
