WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.640 --> 00:00:08.439 Made a decision a face sunny sunmon On. I had 2 00:00:08.599 --> 00:00:11.320 a vision like night. 3 00:00:15.160 --> 00:00:15.960 Meat, what's that? 4 00:00:16.079 --> 00:00:16.800 Fuckers? 5 00:00:16.920 --> 00:00:17.960 Heye cunts. 6 00:00:19.760 --> 00:00:23.719 If we were in England, that would have totally been fine. Yeah, 7 00:00:24.000 --> 00:00:26.839 not one defended and been like, I really don't like 8 00:00:26.879 --> 00:00:30.239 that word. There's a thread on our reel and end 9 00:00:30.280 --> 00:00:33.759 page of I love it when they call us fuckers 10 00:00:35.039 --> 00:00:35.640 to see. 11 00:00:35.439 --> 00:00:36.960 That I love it. 12 00:00:37.000 --> 00:00:40.560 I was in one of my recovery meetings the other 13 00:00:40.640 --> 00:00:44.119 day and there was this girl was saying how she 14 00:00:44.200 --> 00:00:46.759 has she has like three months of sobriety, and then 15 00:00:46.799 --> 00:00:47.399 she's like. 16 00:00:47.479 --> 00:00:49.880 You know, she goes, and I just I feel so good. 17 00:00:49.920 --> 00:00:51.679 I'm so happy I did it. She goes. I mean, 18 00:00:51.759 --> 00:00:54.560 oh she's British. She goes. I mean the first thirty 19 00:00:54.640 --> 00:00:55.840 days were a right cunt. 20 00:00:56.320 --> 00:00:59.240 But after that she said that, oh my god, the 21 00:00:59.359 --> 00:01:04.000 room racked up. I've got to incorporate calling things a 22 00:01:04.120 --> 00:01:08.879 right cunt? Is it Lisa Vanderbumt. Now you can't say, oh, 23 00:01:08.959 --> 00:01:13.000 Lisa Vanna is a right cunt. That'd be funny, which 24 00:01:13.040 --> 00:01:13.680 she kind of is. 25 00:01:13.719 --> 00:01:14.120 She is. 26 00:01:14.400 --> 00:01:15.280 I fucking hate her. 27 00:01:16.400 --> 00:01:19.760 Can I just say that I hate her? Oh my god? Oh? 28 00:01:19.799 --> 00:01:21.920 And by the way, well, we should save this for 29 00:01:21.959 --> 00:01:24.840 the regular show. Yeah, oh my, speaking of recovery meetings, 30 00:01:24.959 --> 00:01:27.319 Derinda totally triggers me. 31 00:01:27.439 --> 00:01:29.159 She's just such a bad alcoholic. 32 00:01:29.519 --> 00:01:32.400 I don't think she I don't think she remembers fights 33 00:01:32.480 --> 00:01:34.120 she gets into with people. I don't think she has 34 00:01:34.159 --> 00:01:38.319 a very clear picture of her part in anything. So 35 00:01:38.400 --> 00:01:39.959 I think she does sort of the thing I used 36 00:01:39.959 --> 00:01:41.359 to tell you I would do, which is like I'd 37 00:01:41.359 --> 00:01:44.079 get in a fight with John drunk, and then I'd 38 00:01:44.280 --> 00:01:46.560 have to pretend that we're still in a fight, right thing, 39 00:01:47.120 --> 00:01:50.000 and go like, oh, I'm so mad at him. I 40 00:01:50.000 --> 00:01:52.079 can't remember why, but I can't tell him that. I 41 00:01:52.079 --> 00:01:54.680 think she does that to her castmates. I think she's 42 00:01:54.760 --> 00:01:59.120 like I'm so mad at lu Anne and doesn't really. 43 00:01:58.879 --> 00:02:02.239 Remember what watch the film back. 44 00:02:02.599 --> 00:02:04.519 But then when she watches it back, I think she's 45 00:02:04.560 --> 00:02:07.560 got to be like still self righteous about it, otherwise 46 00:02:07.599 --> 00:02:09.039 she would be embarrassed. 47 00:02:09.639 --> 00:02:10.000 Anyway. 48 00:02:10.080 --> 00:02:12.680 I haven't watched it yet, Pilot. 49 00:02:12.719 --> 00:02:17.719 All right, so my Patreon today, what's going on? Well? 50 00:02:18.560 --> 00:02:21.840 I saved this for Patreon because the last couple episodes, 51 00:02:21.960 --> 00:02:23.840 or at least the last one I told you about 52 00:02:24.439 --> 00:02:28.759 the girl at school at Elbie's school who's a right, cunt. 53 00:02:30.639 --> 00:02:33.919 She was a bully and she punched our other friend, 54 00:02:34.000 --> 00:02:35.400 the other another little girl. 55 00:02:35.639 --> 00:02:41.039 Remember she punched a girl and then the innocent girl that. 56 00:02:41.159 --> 00:02:45.639 This innocent girl who does nothing wrong ever, who's super nice, 57 00:02:45.719 --> 00:02:48.520 and how everyone is scared of this girl and how 58 00:02:48.960 --> 00:02:52.560 John kind of lost his mind about it and was like, 59 00:02:52.639 --> 00:02:54.719 I'm so tired of hearing about this girl. 60 00:02:54.759 --> 00:02:56.960 Why is she still at the school right right? 61 00:02:57.360 --> 00:03:02.360 And so we and our feeling was having a trans 62 00:03:02.479 --> 00:03:05.840 kid coming into that school next year. John was just 63 00:03:05.840 --> 00:03:09.639 feeling like, I have no assurance. 64 00:03:09.680 --> 00:03:11.960 That they're at all equipped to look out for our 65 00:03:12.039 --> 00:03:12.960 kids exactly. 66 00:03:13.000 --> 00:03:15.199 They have no policy. What's their policy? 67 00:03:15.599 --> 00:03:15.800 Many? 68 00:03:15.960 --> 00:03:17.919 How many times can this girl do something and not 69 00:03:17.919 --> 00:03:19.879 get thrown out? And he was like I want to know? 70 00:03:20.000 --> 00:03:22.199 And remember I said, well you should email them then 71 00:03:22.840 --> 00:03:25.560 get on that. Yeah, why should I always be those 72 00:03:25.560 --> 00:03:29.120 squeaky wheel? And then John was like, well, okay, I will. 73 00:03:30.960 --> 00:03:34.479 He wrote a kick ass email to the principle and 74 00:03:34.520 --> 00:03:36.599 said I want to have And then he was said 75 00:03:36.599 --> 00:03:38.719 to me like what should I what do we want 76 00:03:38.719 --> 00:03:39.919 out of this? And I go, well, I think we 77 00:03:39.919 --> 00:03:42.879 should have a meeting with them. Let another shit ain't 78 00:03:42.879 --> 00:03:45.000 gonna fly with our kid next year. 79 00:03:45.080 --> 00:03:45.199 Right. 80 00:03:46.879 --> 00:03:49.960 Look, LB can handle herself, and Elbe's not really scared 81 00:03:50.000 --> 00:03:52.759 of that girl. It's not really that traumatizing to LB. 82 00:03:53.240 --> 00:03:57.800 But if somebody started targeting Xander, that's the thing. 83 00:03:57.879 --> 00:04:00.520 And there was no consistent he just kept doing stuff. 84 00:04:00.560 --> 00:04:02.319 Some of the kid kept doing stuff. 85 00:04:02.000 --> 00:04:05.159 And they were like, oh, he seems like he's getting better. 86 00:04:05.319 --> 00:04:08.159 The bully, we'd be pissed. So anyway we go in. 87 00:04:09.360 --> 00:04:12.240 It's the principal who let's call. 88 00:04:12.159 --> 00:04:16.680 Him Charlie, and then there's the vice principal. 89 00:04:16.759 --> 00:04:23.240 Let's call her Lucy. Okay, So Lucy is awesome, Okay, 90 00:04:23.959 --> 00:04:25.240 she is. 91 00:04:25.199 --> 00:04:26.079 One of these women. 92 00:04:26.480 --> 00:04:28.759 So the way the school is set up, the sixth 93 00:04:28.759 --> 00:04:30.639 grade is on a separate campus from the seventh and 94 00:04:30.680 --> 00:04:33.920 eighth grade, and Lucy is the assistant principal, but she's 95 00:04:33.959 --> 00:04:36.920 been in charge of the sixth grade campus and Charlie's 96 00:04:36.959 --> 00:04:40.600 in charge of seventh and eighth grade campus. And Charlie 97 00:04:40.800 --> 00:04:47.079 is like very mild mannered, not very pro active, seem. 98 00:04:46.920 --> 00:04:50.360 A little like leaguered, like in over his head. 99 00:04:51.160 --> 00:04:54.360 Over his head, and very like hands don't take him seriously. 100 00:04:55.000 --> 00:04:57.800 And John put it perfectly when he was like, he's 101 00:04:57.879 --> 00:04:59.240 just he's a science teacher. 102 00:05:00.120 --> 00:05:01.600 It's not a principle like he. 103 00:05:02.240 --> 00:05:05.879 He does not establish any sense of authority at all. 104 00:05:06.079 --> 00:05:12.959 Right now, Lucy is like super sweet and nice but 105 00:05:13.240 --> 00:05:17.120 has that kind of quiet strength that you're like love 106 00:05:17.160 --> 00:05:20.279 that this woman doesn't suffer fools. Right, But she's also 107 00:05:20.639 --> 00:05:23.959 not coming across as a bach. She seems so warm 108 00:05:24.000 --> 00:05:24.720 and like someone. 109 00:05:24.480 --> 00:05:28.199 You can talk to, but you just know that goes down, 110 00:05:28.199 --> 00:05:31.639 You're not getting anything past her, right, I goes down. 111 00:05:31.800 --> 00:05:32.639 This woman's on it. 112 00:05:33.040 --> 00:05:35.680 And so in the past, when there's been a problem 113 00:05:35.720 --> 00:05:39.360 with the cyber bullying, I called her because I was like, 114 00:05:39.399 --> 00:05:41.560 I don't trust this guy to actually do anything about it. 115 00:05:42.120 --> 00:05:45.160 So okay, so that's the groundwork for this meeting. So 116 00:05:45.199 --> 00:05:47.240 our meeting is with Charlie and Lucy. 117 00:05:47.399 --> 00:05:49.120 This is just so sad that we have to deal 118 00:05:49.160 --> 00:05:52.560 with this. If everybody did their job, then we wouldn't 119 00:05:52.600 --> 00:05:55.720 have to. Fucking that's life about the utopia. 120 00:05:55.240 --> 00:05:58.399 Would be in life in life. If I want to 121 00:05:58.399 --> 00:06:01.759 make her job like percent it seriously serious. 122 00:06:03.160 --> 00:06:05.560 I came across four or five people that work there 123 00:06:05.879 --> 00:06:08.160 that don't do their fucking job. No, they don't give 124 00:06:08.160 --> 00:06:10.199 a shit. If I get my size seven and a 125 00:06:10.199 --> 00:06:13.199 half show. I want to dry on. No, they don't care. 126 00:06:13.319 --> 00:06:15.920 I feel like, you know, the amount of training maybe 127 00:06:15.920 --> 00:06:18.839 that people have for their jobs is very minimal. Like 128 00:06:19.079 --> 00:06:22.079 when I had my first job at burger King, I 129 00:06:22.120 --> 00:06:24.160 had a whole training, Like I had to go through 130 00:06:24.199 --> 00:06:27.160 official training to watch a video and how to run 131 00:06:27.160 --> 00:06:30.519 the fryer and how to run the grill. It wasn't like, look, 132 00:06:31.000 --> 00:06:33.120 learn the grill and then you can't catch on to 133 00:06:33.240 --> 00:06:34.399 the fry machine. 134 00:06:34.600 --> 00:06:36.879 No, because I'd be making shitty fries for a while. 135 00:06:37.000 --> 00:06:39.600 You know, be a learning curve totally, and some people 136 00:06:39.639 --> 00:06:41.160 would get bad fries right. 137 00:06:41.279 --> 00:06:46.279 And burger king is not about bad fries. No, They're like, bitch, 138 00:06:46.279 --> 00:06:46.839 you better get. 139 00:06:46.759 --> 00:06:47.600 It right the first time. 140 00:06:48.279 --> 00:06:49.079 Watch your video. 141 00:06:49.279 --> 00:06:54.720 Yes, totally. On Friday show, I'm going to talk about 142 00:06:54.720 --> 00:06:57.279 how I walked away from the makeup counter of Macy's. 143 00:06:57.319 --> 00:06:58.680 Oh my god, I couldn't take it. 144 00:06:58.680 --> 00:07:03.199 And I'll talk oh USh Jesus Christ anyway, But seriously, 145 00:07:03.240 --> 00:07:05.560 this is sad that you guys, you and John have 146 00:07:05.560 --> 00:07:08.160 to take time out of your day to deal with 147 00:07:08.839 --> 00:07:11.360 to make sure that people are doing their job. 148 00:07:11.600 --> 00:07:13.120 Yeah, unbelievable. 149 00:07:13.160 --> 00:07:16.519 Also, and here's something that you will totally relate to 150 00:07:17.319 --> 00:07:19.920 I had just come from dropping okay, so Penela b 151 00:07:20.519 --> 00:07:24.879 Peopo pepos Pepo's and needed some some dental work, and 152 00:07:25.199 --> 00:07:27.000 you know, they have to put him under I know, 153 00:07:27.160 --> 00:07:29.959 and Pipo is not used to like look, Phil's like 154 00:07:29.959 --> 00:07:32.560 a war vet. 155 00:07:33.279 --> 00:07:36.120 He's like, oh, front line, okay, not so in the mood. 156 00:07:36.160 --> 00:07:37.959 But I guess right, I know it's happening here. 157 00:07:38.040 --> 00:07:42.279 Don't know the vets any other Tuesday man, I know, right, yes. 158 00:07:42.519 --> 00:07:45.160 But Penelope is like, what's happening? Am I back at 159 00:07:45.160 --> 00:07:45.639 the pound? 160 00:07:46.040 --> 00:07:49.439 I had to walk her into a cage because before 161 00:07:49.480 --> 00:07:52.319 her surgery, I'm like, how long is she going to 162 00:07:52.360 --> 00:07:55.199 be in the cage? My dog's kind of a snowflake, 163 00:07:55.360 --> 00:07:55.600 I know. 164 00:07:55.680 --> 00:07:58.720 Oh I hate that. I know. My dog's a special snowflake. 165 00:07:58.759 --> 00:08:00.279 She doesn't even like to be in a crazy like 166 00:08:00.319 --> 00:08:01.920 what's happening? And then she was. 167 00:08:02.000 --> 00:08:04.759 And Penelope is not a very vocal dog except with 168 00:08:04.800 --> 00:08:08.720 the gardeners. She doesn't whine or cry or work for 169 00:08:08.759 --> 00:08:11.639 no reason. Oh my god, she was like whining and 170 00:08:11.720 --> 00:08:16.240 crying and making for me. And I had to be like, goodbye, Penelope, 171 00:08:16.480 --> 00:08:17.800 I'll see you in a few hours. 172 00:08:18.279 --> 00:08:20.480 And then I had to go straight to this fucking meeting. 173 00:08:20.800 --> 00:08:23.680 Oh my heart breaks for you. I swear to God, 174 00:08:23.720 --> 00:08:26.560 I hate that. 175 00:08:25.360 --> 00:08:27.439 I've left one of my kids, you know, in a 176 00:08:27.519 --> 00:08:30.839 cage at the vet. So all right, so we go 177 00:08:30.920 --> 00:08:32.799 in and we sit down. So I'm like, I'm not 178 00:08:33.399 --> 00:08:37.279 in the mood for like niceties. 179 00:08:37.399 --> 00:08:41.240 I just gotta say, I'm just like, quite, just get 180 00:08:41.279 --> 00:08:41.559 to it. 181 00:08:41.759 --> 00:08:43.919 We sit down and look, I don't have a bad 182 00:08:43.960 --> 00:08:47.080 relationship with these people, you know. I don't like I'll 183 00:08:47.240 --> 00:08:51.519 for for one, I love Lucy Charlie. I really wish 184 00:08:51.600 --> 00:08:54.440 we had a different principle. But whatever I'm going to take. 185 00:08:54.600 --> 00:08:58.320 Your bottom line is I do like the school and 186 00:08:58.360 --> 00:08:59.799 I want it to work, and I don't have a 187 00:08:59.799 --> 00:09:02.039 lot of other choices. It's not like I'm going to 188 00:09:02.120 --> 00:09:06.480 just I understand that I have it better than for them. 189 00:09:06.600 --> 00:09:09.360 And there's my kid's situation than sending him to some 190 00:09:09.440 --> 00:09:12.200 big public school. Yeah, that's not going to be a 191 00:09:12.200 --> 00:09:16.080 good situation for Xander. In my estimation, I'm not saying 192 00:09:16.120 --> 00:09:16.759 I know everything. 193 00:09:17.559 --> 00:09:17.960 My point. 194 00:09:17.960 --> 00:09:19.919 You are a doctor, but I am. I mean, I've 195 00:09:19.960 --> 00:09:21.720 had some training and education. 196 00:09:24.399 --> 00:09:27.039 You're a better doctor than some doctors I've come across. 197 00:09:27.080 --> 00:09:32.320 Seriously, So I said, let's let's just get to the point, 198 00:09:32.399 --> 00:09:36.120 which is, look, I know what the situation was with 199 00:09:36.240 --> 00:09:38.600 this girl. I can't even remember what I called her 200 00:09:38.679 --> 00:09:41.240 last time, Charmuta number two. 201 00:09:41.080 --> 00:09:42.120 Charmutha number two. 202 00:09:42.679 --> 00:09:45.840 I said, look, this Charmuta like punch somebody in the 203 00:09:45.879 --> 00:09:50.120 head and we all know that her victim is adorable sweetheart. 204 00:09:50.320 --> 00:09:52.799 And I was like, and by the way, last year 205 00:09:53.000 --> 00:09:56.679 she beat somebody up. I said, she also has targeted 206 00:09:56.759 --> 00:09:59.840 Elbie and bullied her. I said, then she I go, 207 00:10:00.360 --> 00:10:04.279 let's just say she started an Instagram account and called 208 00:10:04.320 --> 00:10:08.519 it LBT and then told showed it to teachers and said, look, 209 00:10:08.919 --> 00:10:12.559 this person LBT is direct messaging me, calling me a 210 00:10:12.600 --> 00:10:14.360 bitch and telling me I should go crawl on a hole. 211 00:10:14.759 --> 00:10:18.039 This girl has some right metal problem. I had to 212 00:10:18.080 --> 00:10:21.080 go to the mom at that situation and say, go 213 00:10:21.159 --> 00:10:24.440 check your daughter's phone. She's bullying herself. I had to 214 00:10:24.519 --> 00:10:28.120 solve that myself. But then I did call Lucy, and 215 00:10:28.240 --> 00:10:30.919 Lucy was like, okay, I'm on it. But meanwhile, she's 216 00:10:30.919 --> 00:10:33.679 done all these things. So I said, look, here's what 217 00:10:33.799 --> 00:10:36.559 is upsetting to me. She's done all these things. I 218 00:10:36.600 --> 00:10:39.240 want to know why she's still here. At the school. 219 00:10:39.399 --> 00:10:41.519 And I said, and the reason we want to know 220 00:10:41.559 --> 00:10:44.799 this is because next year I've signed an intent to 221 00:10:44.960 --> 00:10:49.000 enroll my transgender son to come into your school. And 222 00:10:49.039 --> 00:10:49.519 I said, and. 223 00:10:50.159 --> 00:10:54.000 I'm not feeling reassured by watching you handle this situation 224 00:10:54.399 --> 00:10:56.679 that my kid is safe at this school. I want 225 00:10:56.679 --> 00:10:58.480 to know what you're going to do, what's your plan, 226 00:10:58.559 --> 00:11:03.000 what's your protocol to tech kids? Like I get that 227 00:11:03.320 --> 00:11:06.120 this girl hasn't like lit the you know, the charmote 228 00:11:06.120 --> 00:11:07.799 to number two hasn't lit the school on fire. 229 00:11:08.080 --> 00:11:10.559 But what at that point, I know, what are you 230 00:11:10.559 --> 00:11:11.120 waiting for? 231 00:11:11.440 --> 00:11:11.759 Right? 232 00:11:12.320 --> 00:11:15.759 So he says, Okay, Well, oh, I said, it bothers 233 00:11:15.799 --> 00:11:18.360 me that you sat down all these kids and you 234 00:11:18.480 --> 00:11:22.840 checked out, like you questioned the victims story and you 235 00:11:22.879 --> 00:11:25.360 asked for witnesses to tell you what happened. I said, 236 00:11:25.519 --> 00:11:29.039 you know what happened. Charmoute ded number two punched my 237 00:11:29.440 --> 00:11:30.519 eldest friend in the head. 238 00:11:30.759 --> 00:11:31.320 You know that. 239 00:11:31.399 --> 00:11:34.200 Happened, right, because this girl has a history, right, And 240 00:11:34.200 --> 00:11:37.360 he's like, well, he he says, well, you know, I'm 241 00:11:37.399 --> 00:11:40.039 just letting you know that I even if Sadie and 242 00:11:40.200 --> 00:11:43.159 Xander come to this school, like I will be checking 243 00:11:43.159 --> 00:11:44.200 everybody's stories. 244 00:11:44.679 --> 00:11:47.799 He starts out like that and John. 245 00:11:47.879 --> 00:11:50.799 I look at John and I was like, really, dude, 246 00:11:51.320 --> 00:11:54.360 what I was like, Really, that's that's how you're gonna 247 00:11:54.600 --> 00:11:58.600 that's your answer is like your shit out of luck. 248 00:11:58.639 --> 00:12:00.240 If you think that I'm going to be like looking 249 00:12:00.279 --> 00:12:02.080 out for your kid. I go, that's how I'm hearing this. 250 00:12:02.279 --> 00:12:03.919 Then I was like, John, am I hearing this rock? 251 00:12:04.159 --> 00:12:07.600 And John's like, no, what is that is that threat? Like, 252 00:12:07.639 --> 00:12:09.440 don't bring your kids to our school because we're not 253 00:12:09.480 --> 00:12:11.360 equick to help you, because we're because we're going to 254 00:12:11.399 --> 00:12:14.639 be interested in. I go, so if somebody starts targeting 255 00:12:14.639 --> 00:12:17.240 our kid for being transgender, your attitude is going to be, well, 256 00:12:17.240 --> 00:12:18.360 what Exander doing? 257 00:12:18.480 --> 00:12:18.600 Right? 258 00:12:19.000 --> 00:12:21.120 And listen, No, that's not what I'm trying to say, 259 00:12:21.279 --> 00:12:24.120 but you know that's this way. I look, I look 260 00:12:24.159 --> 00:12:27.000 at all sides and you know. And I was like, okay, well, 261 00:12:27.279 --> 00:12:29.919 I want to know what the policy is. What is 262 00:12:29.960 --> 00:12:34.360 your policy? Cause she punched somebody? And he said, well, 263 00:12:34.399 --> 00:12:37.240 I wouldn't necessarily qualify it as a punch. 264 00:12:38.360 --> 00:12:41.960 And I said, oh really, but you weren't there. I said. 265 00:12:42.159 --> 00:12:44.879 Elbe was homesick that day. First thing that happens is 266 00:12:44.919 --> 00:12:47.919 she gets a text. Oh my god, charmud To number 267 00:12:47.960 --> 00:12:52.519 two punched our front right right. Everybody else who was 268 00:12:52.559 --> 00:12:54.320 there and saw it said she punched her. 269 00:12:54.720 --> 00:12:58.000 I said. The victim said she got punched in the head. 270 00:12:58.320 --> 00:13:01.600 I go, and you're in your email to the mom, 271 00:13:02.000 --> 00:13:05.000 you said, well, it didn't hurt. She was just she 272 00:13:05.240 --> 00:13:08.919 cried because she was shocked. That was And I said, 273 00:13:09.799 --> 00:13:12.799 I don't what is that? What is that like? 274 00:13:12.919 --> 00:13:15.600 It didn't hurt. I wouldn't qualify it as a punch. 275 00:13:15.799 --> 00:13:16.000 I go. 276 00:13:16.120 --> 00:13:18.000 What I'm hearing is you just don't want to kick 277 00:13:18.000 --> 00:13:19.960 this girl out of school. That's what I'm hearing, right, 278 00:13:20.240 --> 00:13:22.840 And I want to know why. Yeah, and John was saying. 279 00:13:22.919 --> 00:13:25.679 John was saying the same thing. He's like, look, I 280 00:13:25.720 --> 00:13:28.440 know times have changed, but when I was, you know, 281 00:13:28.519 --> 00:13:32.000 in middle school, I got beaten up really badly. I 282 00:13:32.039 --> 00:13:34.960 was bleeding from my mouth. I came home by these 283 00:13:35.000 --> 00:13:37.320 two brothers. It was a rough time. I am not 284 00:13:37.480 --> 00:13:42.639 sending my kid into an atmosphere that reminds me of 285 00:13:42.720 --> 00:13:44.279 like cause that was traumatizing. 286 00:13:44.440 --> 00:13:46.559 Yes, And I was like, yeah, I got. 287 00:13:46.440 --> 00:13:49.080 Hit one time in the tenth grade and I still 288 00:13:49.120 --> 00:13:51.480 remember it like it was yesterday. As somebody and guess 289 00:13:51.519 --> 00:13:54.159 what it. Maybe they wouldn't have qualified that as a punch. 290 00:13:54.200 --> 00:13:55.639 The girl hit me in the back of the head 291 00:13:55.960 --> 00:13:58.039 and I turned around and we got into a fistfight 292 00:13:58.440 --> 00:13:59.919 and traumatizing. 293 00:14:00.360 --> 00:14:01.480 I still remember it. 294 00:14:01.480 --> 00:14:03.879 It shouldn't be something that goes on in this school, 295 00:14:03.960 --> 00:14:05.360 in this day and age, exactly. 296 00:14:05.799 --> 00:14:07.480 I need to speak to about. 297 00:14:07.200 --> 00:14:10.039 Anti bullying, right, I go, And you're not doing anything 298 00:14:10.080 --> 00:14:14.080 about it, right, So then so then then Lucy was like, Okay, 299 00:14:14.759 --> 00:14:18.120 can I talk. I was like, please do so then 300 00:14:18.200 --> 00:14:21.440 she says, look, I don't think we've done enough about 301 00:14:21.519 --> 00:14:22.519 Charmuta number two. 302 00:14:24.120 --> 00:14:26.559 I agree with you. She's like, I think we. 303 00:14:26.559 --> 00:14:28.360 Should have handled it differently. I think you could have 304 00:14:28.399 --> 00:14:30.279 handled it differently. She goes, But I want you to 305 00:14:30.360 --> 00:14:32.720 know that it doesn't get swept under the rug like 306 00:14:32.799 --> 00:14:35.399 I'm on it. She goes, I have Charmuta number two 307 00:14:35.480 --> 00:14:38.759 schedule on my computer and she goes, and I want 308 00:14:38.759 --> 00:14:41.440 you to know that whenever when there has been an incident, 309 00:14:41.519 --> 00:14:43.799 she goes, I'm aware of every incident. And when there's 310 00:14:43.840 --> 00:14:47.279 an incident, I and we've we've and she's had a 311 00:14:47.320 --> 00:14:48.759 consequence and we talked to her. 312 00:14:48.879 --> 00:14:50.840 She goes, I follow up. I will go to the 313 00:14:50.879 --> 00:14:51.600 other campus. 314 00:14:52.039 --> 00:14:54.000 I know where her classes are, and I will go 315 00:14:54.080 --> 00:14:57.799 sit through an entire class and just watch her. 316 00:14:58.720 --> 00:15:00.440 And I was like, Okay, well that's good. 317 00:15:00.559 --> 00:15:03.679 I mean, that's helpful, better than what science teacher has 318 00:15:03.720 --> 00:15:04.240 to say. Yeah. 319 00:15:04.279 --> 00:15:06.279 And I was like, but at the same time, it 320 00:15:06.360 --> 00:15:08.320 hasn't solved the problem. 321 00:15:08.519 --> 00:15:09.799 I go, because, oh so. 322 00:15:09.879 --> 00:15:14.960 Then Charlie says, you know, I put him on the spot, 323 00:15:15.000 --> 00:15:17.480 and I'm like, tell me what the policy is. 324 00:15:17.919 --> 00:15:19.799 He goes, well, it depends on the kid. 325 00:15:20.000 --> 00:15:23.039 He goes, If I feel if they've had a consequence before, 326 00:15:23.120 --> 00:15:26.120 and I feel like they're going to keep doing this behavior, 327 00:15:26.600 --> 00:15:29.240 that's when we make the decision to get rid of them. 328 00:15:29.399 --> 00:15:32.120 He's like, but with charmoud to number two, every time 329 00:15:32.120 --> 00:15:34.399 we've met with her, every time there's been a situation 330 00:15:34.440 --> 00:15:37.960 and we've talked to her, it has gotten better. And 331 00:15:38.000 --> 00:15:40.000 he said and through the years, because this has been 332 00:15:40.039 --> 00:15:44.000 a problem since sixth grade, so sixth, seventh, and now eighth, right, 333 00:15:44.039 --> 00:15:46.000 I said, but it's been going. 334 00:15:45.799 --> 00:15:48.679 On for all three years. Parents are constantly called I 335 00:15:48.720 --> 00:15:50.559 go in sixth grade. I know of at least two 336 00:15:50.600 --> 00:15:53.360 families who she was targeting their kids, and they had 337 00:15:53.399 --> 00:15:55.039 to come in and the parents had to have a meeting. 338 00:15:55.320 --> 00:15:57.320 I go seventh grade, she beats somebody up? 339 00:15:57.519 --> 00:16:00.360 And he goes, you keep mentioning this this that she 340 00:16:00.399 --> 00:16:02.600 beats someone up in the seventh in seventh grade, I 341 00:16:02.919 --> 00:16:04.039 don't know what you're talking about? 342 00:16:04.879 --> 00:16:05.080 What? 343 00:16:05.360 --> 00:16:09.440 And then I was like really really? And then I 344 00:16:09.480 --> 00:16:11.639 look at John and I was like, Okay, now I'm 345 00:16:11.679 --> 00:16:14.759 getting mad. I was like, am I? Am I wrong? 346 00:16:14.960 --> 00:16:17.919 And John goes, no, You're not wrong. He goes, what 347 00:16:17.919 --> 00:16:22.720 do you mean you don't remember? And then and then 348 00:16:22.720 --> 00:16:25.120 he's like I and I go she beat up a 349 00:16:25.159 --> 00:16:26.240 girl in the bathroom. 350 00:16:26.480 --> 00:16:27.399 Oh that's right? 351 00:16:27.559 --> 00:16:29.720 And then yes, yeah, and then he and then he says, 352 00:16:30.720 --> 00:16:32.159 oh yeah, I forgot about that. 353 00:16:32.240 --> 00:16:34.679 Oh my god, he shot about that. 354 00:16:34.720 --> 00:16:35.840 You should forgot about that? 355 00:16:36.000 --> 00:16:36.480 He should? 356 00:16:37.559 --> 00:16:39.879 How do you forget? How does that slip your mind? 357 00:16:40.240 --> 00:16:42.399 I understand that you forgot what you had for lunch 358 00:16:42.480 --> 00:16:44.759 last week? How do you forget that. 359 00:16:44.840 --> 00:16:48.159 The girl that you're in a file while during the 360 00:16:48.240 --> 00:16:51.600 meeting you're talking about this situation. Don't you think he 361 00:16:51.600 --> 00:16:52.080 should have it? 362 00:16:52.559 --> 00:16:55.440 Every day a new day? Are you like never been 363 00:16:55.480 --> 00:16:57.159 to the fifty first dates? 364 00:16:57.399 --> 00:16:57.480 Like? 365 00:16:57.559 --> 00:16:58.360 Are you that girl? 366 00:16:58.440 --> 00:16:58.519 Like? 367 00:16:58.600 --> 00:17:00.039 Every day starts out and you're like. 368 00:17:00.000 --> 00:17:03.039 Okay, clean plate any charmud to number two, good to 369 00:17:03.080 --> 00:17:05.839 see you, Like, she's never done anything. 370 00:17:06.519 --> 00:17:09.880 What's happening? I was like, this is I go. Now 371 00:17:09.920 --> 00:17:10.640 I'm getting mad. 372 00:17:10.880 --> 00:17:13.000 I go, well, wow, yeah, I go, well, now I'm 373 00:17:13.000 --> 00:17:16.440 getting mad. I go, what do you mean you forgot? 374 00:17:17.759 --> 00:17:20.319 Well I just I forgot. I was like, well, okay, 375 00:17:20.559 --> 00:17:23.240 that tells me that you don't have any kind of policy, right, 376 00:17:23.640 --> 00:17:27.000 I go, because if you'd checked her file, you would 377 00:17:27.000 --> 00:17:29.119 have seen all the things that she'd done in the past, 378 00:17:29.119 --> 00:17:31.839 and the list is very long. I said, so oh, 379 00:17:31.839 --> 00:17:34.279 and he said, well, you know, every time we talked 380 00:17:34.279 --> 00:17:36.880 to her, he goes, she's much less defensive. Now when 381 00:17:37.240 --> 00:17:40.559 I talked to her, she accepts responsibility. I go, when 382 00:17:40.599 --> 00:17:43.680 you went earlier last year, when you met with her 383 00:17:43.799 --> 00:17:46.799 and Lbie, I said, Charmoute, you wanted them to sign 384 00:17:46.839 --> 00:17:49.240 a behavior contract to leave each other alone. I go 385 00:17:49.279 --> 00:17:51.240 in Charmoute to number two, it's like not signing it, 386 00:17:51.599 --> 00:17:55.599 and I said, and then she continued to bully Elbe. 387 00:17:55.680 --> 00:17:58.200 You had to move her out of all of Elbie's classes. 388 00:17:58.640 --> 00:18:00.759 So anyway, I was like, I'm not seeing how it's 389 00:18:00.759 --> 00:18:03.599 getting better. And he goes, well, with me, you know, 390 00:18:03.720 --> 00:18:07.279 she accepts responsibility now, and she understands, and her mom understands. 391 00:18:07.279 --> 00:18:10.599 If if this ever happens again, she's out. And I go, well, 392 00:18:10.599 --> 00:18:13.279 what about after she beat somebody up last year? Shouldn't 393 00:18:13.319 --> 00:18:17.039 she have been out? Why is it everything different with 394 00:18:17.079 --> 00:18:20.119 this girl? And he's like, well, it's really does depend 395 00:18:20.160 --> 00:18:22.119 on the bro. We think she's getting better. We think 396 00:18:22.160 --> 00:18:24.480 there's help for her, We've gotten her resources. And I 397 00:18:24.519 --> 00:18:26.559 was like, and he goes, and she's gotten a lot better. 398 00:18:26.759 --> 00:18:28.799 I go, yeah, and then last week she punched someone 399 00:18:28.839 --> 00:18:31.960 in the head, So how much better has girl. 400 00:18:31.720 --> 00:18:34.079 That she punched out in trouble as well? Right, doesn't 401 00:18:34.119 --> 00:18:34.599