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Speaker 1: Made a decision a face sunny sunmon On. I had

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a vision like night.

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Speaker 2: Meat, what's that?

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Speaker 3: Fuckers?

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Speaker 2: Heye cunts.

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Speaker 4: If we were in England, that would have totally been fine. Yeah,

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not one defended and been like, I really don't like

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that word. There's a thread on our reel and end

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page of I love it when they call us fuckers

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to see.

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Speaker 2: That I love it.

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Speaker 4: I was in one of my recovery meetings the other

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day and there was this girl was saying how she

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has she has like three months of sobriety, and then

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she's like.

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Speaker 2: You know, she goes, and I just I feel so good.

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I'm so happy I did it. She goes. I mean,

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oh she's British. She goes. I mean the first thirty

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days were a right cunt.

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Speaker 4: But after that she said that, oh my god, the

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room racked up. I've got to incorporate calling things a

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right cunt? Is it Lisa Vanderbumt. Now you can't say, oh,

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Lisa Vanna is a right cunt. That'd be funny, which

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she kind of is.

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Speaker 2: She is.

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Speaker 3: I fucking hate her.

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Speaker 2: Can I just say that I hate her? Oh my god? Oh?

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Speaker 4: And by the way, well, we should save this for

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the regular show. Yeah, oh my, speaking of recovery meetings,

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Derinda totally triggers me.

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Speaker 2: She's just such a bad alcoholic.

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Speaker 4: I don't think she I don't think she remembers fights

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she gets into with people. I don't think she has

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a very clear picture of her part in anything. So

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I think she does sort of the thing I used

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to tell you I would do, which is like I'd

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get in a fight with John drunk, and then I'd

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have to pretend that we're still in a fight, right thing,

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and go like, oh, I'm so mad at him. I

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can't remember why, but I can't tell him that. I

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think she does that to her castmates. I think she's

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like I'm so mad at lu Anne and doesn't really.

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Speaker 2: Remember what watch the film back.

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Speaker 4: But then when she watches it back, I think she's

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got to be like still self righteous about it, otherwise

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she would be embarrassed.

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Speaker 2: Anyway.

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Speaker 3: I haven't watched it yet, Pilot.

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Speaker 2: All right, so my Patreon today, what's going on? Well?

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Speaker 4: I saved this for Patreon because the last couple episodes,

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or at least the last one I told you about

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the girl at school at Elbie's school who's a right, cunt.

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She was a bully and she punched our other friend,

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the other another little girl.

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Speaker 3: Remember she punched a girl and then the innocent girl that.

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Speaker 4: This innocent girl who does nothing wrong ever, who's super nice,

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and how everyone is scared of this girl and how

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John kind of lost his mind about it and was like,

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I'm so tired of hearing about this girl.

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Speaker 2: Why is she still at the school right right?

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Speaker 4: And so we and our feeling was having a trans

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kid coming into that school next year. John was just

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feeling like, I have no assurance.

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Speaker 3: That they're at all equipped to look out for our

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kids exactly.

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Speaker 2: They have no policy. What's their policy?

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Speaker 3: Many?

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Speaker 4: How many times can this girl do something and not

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get thrown out? And he was like I want to know?

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And remember I said, well you should email them then

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get on that. Yeah, why should I always be those

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squeaky wheel? And then John was like, well, okay, I will.

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He wrote a kick ass email to the principle and

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said I want to have And then he was said

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to me like what should I what do we want

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out of this? And I go, well, I think we

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should have a meeting with them. Let another shit ain't

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gonna fly with our kid next year.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 4: Look, LB can handle herself, and Elbe's not really scared

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of that girl. It's not really that traumatizing to LB.

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But if somebody started targeting Xander, that's the thing.

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Speaker 2: And there was no consistent he just kept doing stuff.

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Speaker 4: And they were like, oh, he seems like he's getting better.

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Speaker 2: The bully, we'd be pissed. So anyway we go in.

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It's the principal who let's call.

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Speaker 4: Him Charlie, and then there's the vice principal.

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Speaker 3: Let's call her Lucy. Okay, So Lucy is awesome, Okay,

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Speaker 2: One of these women.

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Speaker 4: So the way the school is set up, the sixth

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grade is on a separate campus from the seventh and

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eighth grade, and Lucy is the assistant principal, but she's

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been in charge of the sixth grade campus and Charlie's

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in charge of seventh and eighth grade campus. And Charlie

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is like very mild mannered, not very pro active, seem.

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Speaker 3: A little like leaguered, like in over his head.

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Speaker 4: Over his head, and very like hands don't take him seriously.

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just he's a science teacher.

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Speaker 2: It's not a principle like he.

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Speaker 4: He does not establish any sense of authority at all.

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Right now, Lucy is like super sweet and nice but

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has that kind of quiet strength that you're like love

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that this woman doesn't suffer fools. Right, But she's also

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not coming across as a bach. She seems so warm

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and like someone.

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Speaker 3: You can talk to, but you just know that goes down,

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You're not getting anything past her, right, I goes down.

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Speaker 2: This woman's on it.

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Speaker 4: And so in the past, when there's been a problem

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with the cyber bullying, I called her because I was like,

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I don't trust this guy to actually do anything about it.

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So okay, so that's the groundwork for this meeting. So

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our meeting is with Charlie and Lucy.

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Speaker 3: This is just so sad that we have to deal

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with this. If everybody did their job, then we wouldn't

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have to. Fucking that's life about the utopia.

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Speaker 2: Would be in life in life. If I want to

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make her job like percent it seriously serious.

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Speaker 3: I came across four or five people that work there

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that don't do their fucking job. No, they don't give

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a shit. If I get my size seven and a

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half show. I want to dry on. No, they don't care.

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Speaker 4: I feel like, you know, the amount of training maybe

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that people have for their jobs is very minimal. Like

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when I had my first job at burger King, I

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had a whole training, Like I had to go through

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official training to watch a video and how to run

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the fryer and how to run the grill. It wasn't like, look,

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learn the grill and then you can't catch on to

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the fry machine.

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Speaker 2: No, because I'd be making shitty fries for a while.

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Speaker 4: You know, be a learning curve totally, and some people

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would get bad fries right.

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Speaker 2: And burger king is not about bad fries. No, They're like, bitch,

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you better get.

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Speaker 3: It right the first time.

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Speaker 2: Watch your video.

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Speaker 3: Yes, totally. On Friday show, I'm going to talk about

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how I walked away from the makeup counter of Macy's.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I couldn't take it.

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Speaker 3: And I'll talk oh USh Jesus Christ anyway, But seriously,

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this is sad that you guys, you and John have

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to take time out of your day to deal with

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to make sure that people are doing their job.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, unbelievable.

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Speaker 4: Also, and here's something that you will totally relate to

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I had just come from dropping okay, so Penela b

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Peopo pepos Pepo's and needed some some dental work, and

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you know, they have to put him under I know,

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and Pipo is not used to like look, Phil's like

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a war vet.

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Speaker 2: He's like, oh, front line, okay, not so in the mood.

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Speaker 3: Don't know the vets any other Tuesday man, I know, right, yes.

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Speaker 2: But Penelope is like, what's happening? Am I back at

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the pound?

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Speaker 4: I had to walk her into a cage because before

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her surgery, I'm like, how long is she going to

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be in the cage? My dog's kind of a snowflake,

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I know.

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Speaker 2: Oh I hate that. I know. My dog's a special snowflake.

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She doesn't even like to be in a crazy like

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what's happening? And then she was.

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Speaker 4: And Penelope is not a very vocal dog except with

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the gardeners. She doesn't whine or cry or work for

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no reason. Oh my god, she was like whining and

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crying and making for me. And I had to be like, goodbye, Penelope,

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I'll see you in a few hours.

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Speaker 2: And then I had to go straight to this fucking meeting.

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Speaker 3: Oh my heart breaks for you. I swear to God,

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I hate that.

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Speaker 4: I've left one of my kids, you know, in a

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cage at the vet. So all right, so we go

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in and we sit down. So I'm like, I'm not

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Speaker 4: We sit down and look, I don't have a bad

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relationship with these people, you know. I don't like I'll

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for for one, I love Lucy Charlie. I really wish

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we had a different principle. But whatever I'm going to take.

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Your bottom line is I do like the school and

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I want it to work, and I don't have a

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lot of other choices. It's not like I'm going to

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big public school. Yeah, that's not going to be a

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good situation for Xander. In my estimation, I'm not saying

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I know everything.

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Speaker 2: My point.

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Speaker 4: You are a doctor, but I am. I mean, I've

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had some training and education.

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Speaker 3: You're a better doctor than some doctors I've come across.

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Speaker 4: Seriously, So I said, let's let's just get to the point,

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which is, look, I know what the situation was with

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this girl. I can't even remember what I called her

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last time, Charmuta number two.

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Speaker 2: Charmutha number two.

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Speaker 4: I said, look, this Charmuta like punch somebody in the

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head and we all know that her victim is adorable sweetheart.

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she beat somebody up. I said, she also has targeted

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Elbie and bullied her. I said, then she I go,

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let's just say she started an Instagram account and called

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it LBT and then told showed it to teachers and said, look,

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this person LBT is direct messaging me, calling me a

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bitch and telling me I should go crawl on a hole.

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This girl has some right metal problem. I had to

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go to the mom at that situation and say, go

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check your daughter's phone. She's bullying herself. I had to

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solve that myself. But then I did call Lucy, and

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Lucy was like, okay, I'm on it. But meanwhile, she's

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done all these things. So I said, look, here's what

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is upsetting to me. She's done all these things. I

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want to know why she's still here. At the school.

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Speaker 2: And I said, and the reason we want to know

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this is because next year I've signed an intent to

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enroll my transgender son to come into your school. And

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I said, and.

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Speaker 4: I'm not feeling reassured by watching you handle this situation

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that my kid is safe at this school. I want

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to know what you're going to do, what's your plan,

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what's your protocol to tech kids? Like I get that

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this girl hasn't like lit the you know, the charmote

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to number two hasn't lit the school on fire.

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Speaker 2: But what at that point, I know, what are you

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waiting for?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 4: So he says, Okay, Well, oh, I said, it bothers

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me that you sat down all these kids and you

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checked out, like you questioned the victims story and you

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asked for witnesses to tell you what happened. I said,

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you know what happened. Charmoute ded number two punched my

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eldest friend in the head.

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Speaker 2: You know that.

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Speaker 4: Happened, right, because this girl has a history, right, And

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he's like, well, he he says, well, you know, I'm

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just letting you know that I even if Sadie and

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Xander come to this school, like I will be checking

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everybody's stories.

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Speaker 2: He starts out like that and John.

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Speaker 4: I look at John and I was like, really, dude,

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what I was like, Really, that's that's how you're gonna

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that's your answer is like your shit out of luck.

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If you think that I'm going to be like looking

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out for your kid. I go, that's how I'm hearing this.

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And John's like, no, what is that is that threat? Like,

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don't bring your kids to our school because we're not

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equick to help you, because we're because we're going to

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be interested in. I go, so if somebody starts targeting

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our kid for being transgender, your attitude is going to be, well,

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what Exander doing?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 4: And listen, No, that's not what I'm trying to say,

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but you know that's this way. I look, I look

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at all sides and you know. And I was like, okay, well,

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your policy? Cause she punched somebody? And he said, well,

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I wouldn't necessarily qualify it as a punch.

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Speaker 2: And I said, oh really, but you weren't there. I said.

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Speaker 4: Elbe was homesick that day. First thing that happens is

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she gets a text. Oh my god, charmud To number

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two punched our front right right. Everybody else who was

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there and saw it said she punched her.

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Speaker 2: I said. The victim said she got punched in the head.

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Speaker 4: I go, and you're in your email to the mom,

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you said, well, it didn't hurt. She was just she

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cried because she was shocked. That was And I said,

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I don't what is that? What is that like?

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Speaker 2: It didn't hurt. I wouldn't qualify it as a punch.

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I go.

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Speaker 4: What I'm hearing is you just don't want to kick

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this girl out of school. That's what I'm hearing, right,

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And I want to know why. Yeah, and John was saying.

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John was saying the same thing. He's like, look, I

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know times have changed, but when I was, you know,

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in middle school, I got beaten up really badly. I

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was bleeding from my mouth. I came home by these

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two brothers. It was a rough time. I am not

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sending my kid into an atmosphere that reminds me of

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like cause that was traumatizing.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And I was like, yeah, I got.

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Speaker 4: Hit one time in the tenth grade and I still

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remember it like it was yesterday. As somebody and guess

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what it. Maybe they wouldn't have qualified that as a punch.

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The girl hit me in the back of the head

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and I turned around and we got into a fistfight

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and traumatizing.

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Speaker 2: I still remember it.

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Speaker 4: It shouldn't be something that goes on in this school,

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in this day and age, exactly.

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Speaker 2: I need to speak to about.

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Speaker 4: Anti bullying, right, I go, And you're not doing anything

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about it, right, So then so then then Lucy was like, Okay,

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can I talk. I was like, please do so then

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she says, look, I don't think we've done enough about

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Charmuta number two.

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Speaker 2: I agree with you. She's like, I think we.

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Speaker 4: Should have handled it differently. I think you could have

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handled it differently. She goes, But I want you to

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know that it doesn't get swept under the rug like

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I'm on it. She goes, I have Charmuta number two

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schedule on my computer and she goes, and I want

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you to know that whenever when there has been an incident,

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she goes, I'm aware of every incident. And when there's

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an incident, I and we've we've and she's had a

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consequence and we talked to her.

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Speaker 2: She goes, I follow up. I will go to the

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other campus.

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Speaker 4: I know where her classes are, and I will go

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sit through an entire class and just watch her.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, Okay, well that's good.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's helpful, better than what science teacher has

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to say. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And I was like, but at the same time, it

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hasn't solved the problem.

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Speaker 2: I go, because, oh so.

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Speaker 4: Then Charlie says, you know, I put him on the spot,

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and I'm like, tell me what the policy is.

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Speaker 2: He goes, well, it depends on the kid.

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Speaker 4: He goes, If I feel if they've had a consequence before,

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and I feel like they're going to keep doing this behavior,

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that's when we make the decision to get rid of them.

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Speaker 2: He's like, but with charmoud to number two, every time

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we've met with her, every time there's been a situation

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and we've talked to her, it has gotten better. And

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he said and through the years, because this has been

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a problem since sixth grade, so sixth, seventh, and now eighth, right,

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I said, but it's been going.

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Speaker 4: On for all three years. Parents are constantly called I

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go in sixth grade. I know of at least two

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families who she was targeting their kids, and they had

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to come in and the parents had to have a meeting.

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Speaker 2: I go seventh grade, she beats somebody up?

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Speaker 4: And he goes, you keep mentioning this this that she

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beats someone up in the seventh in seventh grade, I

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don't know what you're talking about?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 4: And then I was like really really? And then I

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look at John and I was like, Okay, now I'm

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getting mad. I was like, am I? Am I wrong?

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And John goes, no, You're not wrong. He goes, what

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do you mean you don't remember? And then and then

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he's like I and I go she beat up a

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girl in the bathroom.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's right?

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Speaker 4: And then yes, yeah, and then he and then he says,

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oh yeah, I forgot about that.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, he shot about that.

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Speaker 2: You should forgot about that?

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Speaker 3: He should?

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Speaker 4: How do you forget? How does that slip your mind?

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I understand that you forgot what you had for lunch

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last week? How do you forget that.

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Speaker 3: The girl that you're in a file while during the

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meeting you're talking about this situation. Don't you think he

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should have it?

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Speaker 2: Every day a new day? Are you like never been

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to the fifty first dates?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: Are you that girl?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: Every day starts out and you're like.

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Speaker 4: Okay, clean plate any charmud to number two, good to

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see you, Like, she's never done anything.

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Speaker 2: What's happening? I was like, this is I go. Now

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I'm getting mad.

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Speaker 4: I go, well, wow, yeah, I go, well, now I'm

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getting mad. I go, what do you mean you forgot?

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Well I just I forgot. I was like, well, okay,

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that tells me that you don't have any kind of policy, right,

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I go, because if you'd checked her file, you would

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have seen all the things that she'd done in the past,

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and the list is very long. I said, so oh,

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and he said, well, you know, every time we talked

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to her, he goes, she's much less defensive. Now when

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I talked to her, she accepts responsibility. I go, when

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you went earlier last year, when you met with her

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and Lbie, I said, Charmoute, you wanted them to sign

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a behavior contract to leave each other alone. I go

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in Charmoute to number two, it's like not signing it,

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and I said, and then she continued to bully Elbe.

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You had to move her out of all of Elbie's classes.

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So anyway, I was like, I'm not seeing how it's

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getting better. And he goes, well, with me, you know,

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she accepts responsibility now, and she understands, and her mom understands.

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If if this ever happens again, she's out. And I go, well,

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what about after she beat somebody up last year? Shouldn't

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she have been out? Why is it everything different with

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this girl? And he's like, well, it's really does depend

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on the bro. We think she's getting better. We think

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there's help for her, We've gotten her resources. And I

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was like, and he goes, and she's gotten a lot better.

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I go, yeah, and then last week she punched someone

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in the head, So how much better has girl.

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Speaker 3: That she punched out in trouble as well? Right, doesn't

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she have to.

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Speaker 2: Do something nice?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: And I was like, and then you gave her an

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infraction and then and then that's yeah, right, that's not right,

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totally not right, horrible.

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Speaker 2: So then I'm like, now I'm mad.

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Speaker 4: And I'm just sitting there and John's sitting there, and

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I'm like, John's never going to let them go to

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this school. But then Lucy stepped up and she was like, look,

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I've got them next year, and we're we I'm going

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to I establish a sense of community, and she goes,

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this is a small school, and I want you to know

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that I'm on it. If I see any kind of

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red flags with a kid at the beginning anything, I'm

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calling them into my office.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna have a talk.

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Speaker 4: There's going to be a book that I refer to

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about every instance of their behavior, and if I'm going

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to do what I need to do to make sure

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everybody's safe, it's.

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Speaker 2: My first priority.

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Speaker 4: If that person, even if they haven't done anything yet,

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might have to have a meeting with me once a week,

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maybe twice a week. Maybe they're gonna have to check

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in with me, and I'm going to be keeping an

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eye on their behavior. So I was like, okay, that's better.

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Then Charlie is like, so well, I want to apologize

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if I feel like I might have been defensive at

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the beginning of the meeting and I might have given

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you the wrong impression. He's like, first of all, of course,

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we want Sadie and Xander at our school. And he goes,

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not only because I know them personally, I know they're

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good kids, but you know, I love lb Lbie's a

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great kid, and you guys are a great family. And

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I was like, yeah, yeah, I was like, you can't

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afford to be just writing people like you don't feel

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like having a policy, so it's just easier for you

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to be like, well, don't go to our school. He's like,

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that was never my intention. He goes, Let me not

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even apologize more. Let me just say it is my

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priority to keep the kids safe and it's not gonna

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happen again. And if it does happen again, she's out

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of the school and blah blah blah.

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Speaker 2: So we felt a little bit better.

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Speaker 3: Maybe Lucy was kicking him under the table, like, hey,

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got your fucking shit and gear and follow my lead.

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It he's just the science teacher.

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Speaker 2: How long has he been the principal? Like a couple

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of years. See that's the sixth grade.

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Speaker 4: But he's not I would say most people agree that

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he's not doing a good job.

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Speaker 3: No, But I'll tell you though, principles make a big difference.

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I mean, I've had some great principles. There's a principle

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at the other school that we used to go to

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who is phenomenal. I mean phenomenally. He's still there.

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Speaker 2: He should be.

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Speaker 3: I hate to say it, but he should be like

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a mayor, so he should be running for something because

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he's just onto. He runs at fucking school like a ship.

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Every morning he comes a good morning Cougars. He's on

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the thing on the microphone and he's like, and his

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last line is make it a great day or not.

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The choice is yours. He says that every time I

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say it all the time. Now of the kids make

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it a great all right, they close.

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Speaker 2: The door on me.

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Speaker 3: But he's phenomenal great. He gets everybody inspired and wanting

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to And then you'd meet another principal, like the first

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principle we came across, and she was just like a

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wet rag, like she barely talked. She was she seemed

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like the kids intimidated her battle bit that's Charlie, Like

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they just want to collect the page. Yeah, I just

474
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want to collect the paycheck and kind of quietly go

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home and like I don't want all this drama, Like

476
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I try to do administration work. I don't need to.

477
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I don't need to be meeting with parents. You know,

478
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when Lucy sounds like she's on it, Hopefully Lucy gets promoted.

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Speaker 4: Oh and then, by the way, this is a really

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quick I'm so, he says, Well, he starts talking about

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how charmouth the number two is like gotten so much better,

482
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and John goes, maybe she's just learned to play the game.

483
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And I was like, you know, I go, no offense,

484
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But I don't think you understand the mind of the

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middle school girl. Nice, I said, I don't think you

486
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get it. I go, people will tell you what you

487
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want to hear. You know, they learn how to do that.

488
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I go, teenage girls are very manipulative. Oh yeah, so

489
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I go. Feel like you're just taking it as like,

490
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oh yeah, she's gotten better. And then she goes out

491
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and punches somebody and you're like, wow, that's so surprising.

492
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I go, not surprising to any of us, not surprised

493
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at all. I wasn't like, whoa, but I thought she'd

494
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improve so much. I know, Charlie, she hasn't improved. All

495
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you hear is complaints. I go, the complaints haven't stopped.

496
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She only left Elbe alone when you moved all her classes.

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Speaker 2: I go, then that's a horror.

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Speaker 3: That's so frustrating, very frustrating. But I'm so proud of

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you guys. I'm glad you guys went remind me, well,

500
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you remind me about the have a make it a

501
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great day. It's your choice, because I need to complain

502
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on the main show about Sadie, okay, because she doesn't

503
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try to make it any a great day. The choice

504
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is her, The.

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Speaker 2: Choice is hers, and she doesn't make that choice.

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Speaker 3: Adam does it every morning too, and I'll go the

507
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choice is Phills, make it a great day or not.

508
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You know already says that, he already always changes it,

509
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as the kids know. They've heard it every day for years,

510
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two years in a row. I love that guy, mister Martinez.

511
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I'm gonna give him his name, shout out mister Martinez,

512
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Studio City.

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Speaker 2: He's awesome. Hell yeah, don't worry Brand all right, you

514
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don't have to do anything. That was Patreon, Thank

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Speaker 3: You, Bye byeh