WEBVTT 1 00:00:08.519 --> 00:00:11.560 Hi, everyone, Welcome back to between Us Girlies. I'm Bailey, 2 00:00:11.720 --> 00:00:15.560 I'm Casey, I'm brand and well we have a new 3 00:00:15.560 --> 00:00:18.039 Taylor Swift album. We really do like we have to 4 00:00:18.079 --> 00:00:22.079 celebrate that. One hundreds twelve colors. Oh, I'm wearing green. 5 00:00:22.760 --> 00:00:25.600 First things first, our dear Lindsay has come down with 6 00:00:25.640 --> 00:00:28.199 the sickness, so she is not here today, but we 7 00:00:28.280 --> 00:00:29.679 will yap in her honor. 8 00:00:30.079 --> 00:00:33.759 Bailey's too excited about I'm so Starlans. 9 00:00:33.960 --> 00:00:36.439 We have a lot to discuss. 10 00:00:36.200 --> 00:00:36.840 Yeah, we do. 11 00:00:37.799 --> 00:00:39.679 How does everybody feel about the album? 12 00:00:40.240 --> 00:00:42.240 I'm obsessed with the album. 13 00:00:42.280 --> 00:00:44.960 I have literally not stopped listening to it for four 14 00:00:45.039 --> 00:00:45.640 days now. 15 00:00:45.719 --> 00:00:53.039 Okay, love, Yeah, I did I like the album? Sorry, 16 00:00:53.079 --> 00:00:55.799 I feel like that was coming off really bad. There's 17 00:00:55.799 --> 00:00:57.920 are a few songs I really the song Canceled. I 18 00:00:57.920 --> 00:01:00.560 don't see that many people online talking about it. It's 19 00:01:00.600 --> 00:01:02.280 a car song like I saved my card act for 20 00:01:02.320 --> 00:01:03.880 thirty seconds just so I can hear. It's just about 21 00:01:03.920 --> 00:01:05.719 boom boom. 22 00:01:06.040 --> 00:01:08.239 I'm dropping the Easter egg now that there is a 23 00:01:08.319 --> 00:01:11.439 line in Canceled that is going to make the most 24 00:01:11.879 --> 00:01:16.159 insane Halloween transition for me, and I cannot wait to 25 00:01:16.200 --> 00:01:18.799 do it. So when you see this hit your timeline, 26 00:01:18.840 --> 00:01:20.799 you are going to lose your minds. It is like 27 00:01:20.840 --> 00:01:26.120 it was literally made for me. But anyway, yeah. 28 00:01:26.599 --> 00:01:27.879 I don't know. I don't I don't know. I think 29 00:01:27.879 --> 00:01:29.719 I need to. I mean I listened to it like twice. 30 00:01:29.719 --> 00:01:31.519 I can listen to it twice. I mean I feel 31 00:01:31.519 --> 00:01:32.719 like I did listen to it twice. I feel like 32 00:01:32.719 --> 00:01:35.040 that's also saying something. I feel like every time I listen, 33 00:01:35.040 --> 00:01:36.879 I feel like I find maybe another one I like, 34 00:01:36.920 --> 00:01:38.280 but I just cancel canceled. 35 00:01:38.560 --> 00:01:42.120 Yeah, I like it. I think it's fun. I caught 36 00:01:42.159 --> 00:01:44.120 myself like dancing to a lot of them. I do 37 00:01:44.200 --> 00:01:46.599 think that a lot of them like are catchy. I 38 00:01:46.719 --> 00:01:50.719 get my head. Yeah, I do like it. I also like, 39 00:01:51.079 --> 00:01:53.760 I don't know, I feel like I wasn't expecting that much, 40 00:01:53.920 --> 00:01:56.159 Like not to sound bad, but like I feel like 41 00:01:56.200 --> 00:01:58.560 everyone is being hard on her because she set like 42 00:01:58.599 --> 00:02:02.319 a bar really high. But like because of that, I 43 00:02:02.359 --> 00:02:05.959 was just like, yeah, like I don't really like if 44 00:02:06.000 --> 00:02:08.919 she doesn't top what she's already done, like that's okay, right. 45 00:02:09.240 --> 00:02:11.159 I feel like it's also like a little bit to 46 00:02:11.199 --> 00:02:13.919 what we talked about in a previous episode, Like so 47 00:02:14.039 --> 00:02:16.840 many new Tailor Swift fans have entered the Tailor Swift 48 00:02:16.879 --> 00:02:21.479 fandom that I think a little bit of her core 49 00:02:21.639 --> 00:02:24.840 tailorness is being lost on them. Like I've heard a 50 00:02:24.840 --> 00:02:28.159 lot of things about like the corniness of her lyrics, 51 00:02:28.280 --> 00:02:31.719 and like me and all my coworkers are all Swifties, 52 00:02:31.719 --> 00:02:34.719 Like they're all very they're heavy Swifties. So we were 53 00:02:34.719 --> 00:02:36.680 talking about it forever today and they were just bringing 54 00:02:36.759 --> 00:02:40.280 up so many lyrics in previous albums that are cornier 55 00:02:40.319 --> 00:02:43.319 than this one. But it's like people have a new 56 00:02:43.400 --> 00:02:45.960 lens and focus on her, so they're like really picking 57 00:02:46.000 --> 00:02:47.800 apart her lyrics, and it's like if you go back 58 00:02:47.800 --> 00:02:51.639 and listen to blank Space, like those lyrics aren't that great. 59 00:02:51.680 --> 00:02:53.240 Like they're like they're great, you know what I mean. 60 00:02:53.280 --> 00:02:55.719 But there's like certain corny things that people are just like, 61 00:02:56.319 --> 00:02:58.280 which I just feel like anytime she releases. 62 00:02:58.000 --> 00:03:00.039 Something, people are gonna like hate on it. 63 00:03:00.039 --> 00:03:00.319 It's bad. 64 00:03:00.400 --> 00:03:02.240 Guys. I know the words to like almost. 65 00:03:01.879 --> 00:03:04.759 Every song, but I have not listened to anything else 66 00:03:04.759 --> 00:03:07.199 since Friday. I've listened because the album's like forty five 67 00:03:07.240 --> 00:03:10.280 minutes something on literally listened to it start to finish. 68 00:03:10.280 --> 00:03:13.439 You know, she's going to release a delxe Oh she 69 00:03:13.479 --> 00:03:15.240 has well like eight extra songs. 70 00:03:15.000 --> 00:03:17.199 Not eight extra but it's a separate it's only on 71 00:03:17.240 --> 00:03:19.439 iTunes available right now for the next twenty four hours 72 00:03:19.479 --> 00:03:22.360 and CDs. But she has like four acoustic versions like 73 00:03:22.439 --> 00:03:25.800 mashups of the songs in the album. So that's where 74 00:03:27.560 --> 00:03:29.280 she's just like. But then I'm like, I saw that 75 00:03:29.360 --> 00:03:31.479 post because she's a supposed like multiple times, I think 76 00:03:31.520 --> 00:03:34.280 she's just like, she's like, there's like four separate CDs 77 00:03:34.319 --> 00:03:36.759 of this one of these four tracks, but like they're 78 00:03:36.759 --> 00:03:39.560 not on Spotify yet, but they're only on iTunes, and I'm. 79 00:03:39.360 --> 00:03:41.240 Like, damn iTunes. 80 00:03:41.360 --> 00:03:43.520 I know she was doing a lot with Apple. Yeah, 81 00:03:43.560 --> 00:03:46.120 I did see that, but I think Spotify they don't 82 00:03:46.840 --> 00:03:49.479 you get less of a percentage for your like as 83 00:03:49.479 --> 00:03:51.800 an artist, you get less percentage for your stream. But 84 00:03:51.800 --> 00:03:54.080 I think it's like one cent on a Spotify versus 85 00:03:54.159 --> 00:03:55.680 like I think it's like say like five cents on 86 00:03:55.680 --> 00:03:58.639 Apple Music. So I don't know. It was so funny. 87 00:03:58.680 --> 00:04:00.879 I was showing Jake the Fad of Aphelia. 88 00:04:00.599 --> 00:04:04.000 Music video last night and he just had the funniest reaction. 89 00:04:04.120 --> 00:04:06.960 He watched the music video and so Dead series he goes, 90 00:04:07.199 --> 00:04:12.319 that's gonna dominate the airwaves. What he goes, that's like 91 00:04:12.400 --> 00:04:14.879 the perfect pop song. He was like, it has every 92 00:04:14.919 --> 00:04:17.360 single recipe of like a pop song. That's gonna be 93 00:04:17.360 --> 00:04:19.160 famous for the next five years. He was like, Taylor 94 00:04:19.160 --> 00:04:21.319 Swift just creates that kind of music. And he was like, 95 00:04:21.639 --> 00:04:23.759 as someone who doesn't listen to her or pop music, 96 00:04:23.839 --> 00:04:25.800 like that to me is the ideal pop song. And 97 00:04:25.839 --> 00:04:28.000 he was just like, that's going to dominate the airwaves, 98 00:04:28.600 --> 00:04:31.920 Like yeah, probably. I mean, I think that songs so catchy. 99 00:04:31.959 --> 00:04:34.079 I love the dance, I love the music video. 100 00:04:34.160 --> 00:04:36.120 I love that song. I think it's a really strong 101 00:04:36.160 --> 00:04:36.800 opening track. 102 00:04:37.120 --> 00:04:39.639 Well, you're right, she does have a good opening track. 103 00:04:39.879 --> 00:04:42.000 The only thing I mean that's just like whatever, it's 104 00:04:42.000 --> 00:04:44.279 a different stype of style of writing she did for 105 00:04:44.319 --> 00:04:46.439 this when I'm sure, but I just like love her bridges, 106 00:04:47.040 --> 00:04:49.639 like she does have a damn good bridge, Like I 107 00:04:49.680 --> 00:04:53.199 just listened to I'm Gonna Get You Back that fucking bridge. 108 00:04:53.279 --> 00:04:54.800 But I'm like, all right, maybe it's a different type 109 00:04:54.800 --> 00:04:57.279 of style. And I'm also thinking her life is a 110 00:04:57.680 --> 00:04:59.560 showgirlcause I'm also on the side of TikTok right now, 111 00:04:59.600 --> 00:05:03.160 where it's like bashing her to Pa, It's like, like, 112 00:05:03.199 --> 00:05:04.240 I feel like you got on it. 113 00:05:04.759 --> 00:05:07.560 I like more on like the defense the side of it. 114 00:05:08.279 --> 00:05:09.199 But I've seen something. 115 00:05:09.480 --> 00:05:12.680 I feel like it's like bash bashed, defense dance bash. 116 00:05:12.800 --> 00:05:15.040 Like it's just like so saturated, but like it's such 117 00:05:15.040 --> 00:05:17.920 a people are just taking their takes and like they're 118 00:05:17.920 --> 00:05:19.600 saying whatever. I was just give into that whatever, but 119 00:05:19.600 --> 00:05:21.959 I was thinking with it. Yeah, I'm thinking her life 120 00:05:21.959 --> 00:05:23.759 of a showgirl because she's also sampling a lot of 121 00:05:23.800 --> 00:05:25.439 other songs in it, and I feel like maybe like 122 00:05:25.439 --> 00:05:27.720 because you know how her we know how her brain works, 123 00:05:27.839 --> 00:05:29.279 Like I feel like she maybe took that and it's 124 00:05:29.279 --> 00:05:30.759 like that's also like a little bit of an Easter 125 00:05:30.800 --> 00:05:32.480 egg within these songs and me she's like the Jackson 126 00:05:32.560 --> 00:05:36.120 five sample on wood something. I don't know, I feel 127 00:05:36.120 --> 00:05:37.000 like I heard something else. 128 00:05:37.040 --> 00:05:39.519 Seems like Poppy Lindsay last night was saying that she's 129 00:05:39.519 --> 00:05:42.519 on the bashing side, and we actually went back and 130 00:05:42.560 --> 00:05:45.240 forth about a lyric in Eldest Daughter when she's like 131 00:05:45.279 --> 00:05:47.279 I'm not a bad bitch and I'm not savage because 132 00:05:47.279 --> 00:05:49.879 everyone's saying that's corny, and I think that that's literally 133 00:05:49.920 --> 00:05:51.720 the whole point is because she's trying to say that 134 00:05:51.759 --> 00:05:54.000 she's not cool and so she's going to say something 135 00:05:54.240 --> 00:05:57.199 corny and uncool. And I was like, but that shows 136 00:05:57.240 --> 00:05:59.399 like how TikTok can so split it. Like Lindsay's on 137 00:05:59.439 --> 00:06:01.519 the bashing side, so she sees how it's like a 138 00:06:01.560 --> 00:06:04.519 bad lyric and I'm on the positive side, so I 139 00:06:04.560 --> 00:06:05.839 see like the defense of it. And I was like, 140 00:06:05.879 --> 00:06:07.720 we need to just send each other tiktoks back and 141 00:06:07.759 --> 00:06:11.000 forth to like reset each other's algorithms. Because I love 142 00:06:11.480 --> 00:06:14.160 I'm in like deep, like this is Taylor's best album, 143 00:06:14.199 --> 00:06:15.519 can't stop dancing to it, love her. 144 00:06:15.560 --> 00:06:17.240 So it's like I feel like that's feeding into how 145 00:06:17.279 --> 00:06:17.839 much I like it. 146 00:06:17.879 --> 00:06:22.600 And I'm like, I will say, I think actually romantic 147 00:06:22.959 --> 00:06:26.439 is a little like mean m m uh huh, Like 148 00:06:26.639 --> 00:06:30.959 I didn't like love that. Yeah, I just feel like 149 00:06:31.040 --> 00:06:35.199 it's a little bit like hypocritical to be like, oh, 150 00:06:35.240 --> 00:06:37.399 you spend so much time thinking about me, but like 151 00:06:37.480 --> 00:06:39.279 you just wrote a whole song about it. Like I 152 00:06:39.279 --> 00:06:42.600 feel like it's a little bit of mismatched energy, like Okay, 153 00:06:42.680 --> 00:06:44.920 you don't pay her any mind or whoever. I mean, 154 00:06:45.439 --> 00:06:47.600 it's pretty obvious she's talking about Charlie. But what let's 155 00:06:47.639 --> 00:06:51.000 say it's somebody else. But if you don't pay her 156 00:06:51.000 --> 00:06:52.439 any mind and you don't think about her, then you 157 00:06:52.439 --> 00:06:53.920 don't write a song about her. Like kind of just 158 00:06:53.920 --> 00:06:55.600 scoff about it, and like I get it, like you're 159 00:06:55.600 --> 00:06:58.240 writing about your experience and like maybe you're trying to 160 00:06:58.240 --> 00:07:01.120 inspire other people, but like it just felt like a 161 00:07:01.160 --> 00:07:02.240 little bit nasty. 162 00:07:02.399 --> 00:07:05.040 Yeah, I agree with that, But me being a tailor defender, 163 00:07:05.079 --> 00:07:07.319 apparently this episode I did see a TikTok about how 164 00:07:07.319 --> 00:07:10.199 it's supposed to be about multiple people, not just Charlie, 165 00:07:10.199 --> 00:07:13.680 Like apparently the funny Valentines is about Kim, so like 166 00:07:13.720 --> 00:07:16.079 the whole like like first half, which I agree. 167 00:07:16.120 --> 00:07:17.959 We talked about this last night. I think. 168 00:07:19.439 --> 00:07:21.720 Re listening to Sympathy as a Knife, it seems like 169 00:07:21.800 --> 00:07:25.279 that song is written from the viewpoint of Charlie speaking 170 00:07:25.399 --> 00:07:28.360 Charlie alone, like she's speaking about other people, but in 171 00:07:28.399 --> 00:07:31.800 her experience of them, not necessarily them, So it didn't 172 00:07:31.879 --> 00:07:33.079 really feel like a disc track. 173 00:07:33.199 --> 00:07:33.759 So like I. 174 00:07:33.759 --> 00:07:36.439 Agree that maybe it was a little bit aggressive everything 175 00:07:36.480 --> 00:07:39.000 she said, but it does seem like she's writing about 176 00:07:39.040 --> 00:07:41.800 two different people and or a combination of a lot 177 00:07:41.800 --> 00:07:45.000 of women who have been obsessed with her and obsessed 178 00:07:45.000 --> 00:07:48.120 with tearing her down. So I did see that. 179 00:07:48.199 --> 00:07:50.639 I see that. But then like also like on the flips, 180 00:07:50.720 --> 00:07:52.639 like Charlie song that I love that damn song. It's 181 00:07:52.680 --> 00:07:55.240 my shower song. It's also she's just like talking about 182 00:07:56.000 --> 00:07:57.560 not the comparison, because I mean, the time it came 183 00:07:57.600 --> 00:07:59.160 out did make sense why she was writing it, but 184 00:07:59.160 --> 00:08:02.120 I think it's also to talk about like just not 185 00:08:02.199 --> 00:08:04.680 trying to be like about the lyrics of the song. 186 00:08:05.079 --> 00:08:09.000 It's like it was like her insecurities being like shown 187 00:08:09.079 --> 00:08:12.199 back to her and like her experience with her own insecurities. 188 00:08:12.439 --> 00:08:13.800 So like and like she as said, don't want to 189 00:08:13.800 --> 00:08:16.360 see you backstage on my boyfriend's show, which could be 190 00:08:16.399 --> 00:08:18.720 anyone she's talking about, but at the time she was 191 00:08:18.800 --> 00:08:22.959 dating Mattie Heally, so it could be about anyone. But 192 00:08:23.199 --> 00:08:25.920 it also seems a little not off brand for her. 193 00:08:25.959 --> 00:08:28.199 But just like it just oh, I don't know. 194 00:08:28.839 --> 00:08:32.039 I thought like there was a lot of things that 195 00:08:32.120 --> 00:08:34.679 were off brand, and like I don't necessarily hate that 196 00:08:34.720 --> 00:08:36.960 because I kind of love I mean, I love people 197 00:08:37.039 --> 00:08:40.879 changing and whatever, and I but this was the album 198 00:08:40.960 --> 00:08:44.320 to me where like there was no like questioning about 199 00:08:44.360 --> 00:08:49.279 what situations were about. Yeah, Like I think what I 200 00:08:49.320 --> 00:08:52.000 heard that canceled is about like almost like staying by 201 00:08:52.039 --> 00:08:55.240 people like Blake Lively's side, like through every like through 202 00:08:55.240 --> 00:08:57.879 their shit, and like I was like, damn, I. 203 00:08:57.799 --> 00:09:02.559 Heard about Sophia Turner or Sophie Turner one dated jo Jonas, Yes, 204 00:09:02.600 --> 00:09:05.039 thank you, almost aid Nick or Kevin because she went 205 00:09:05.080 --> 00:09:06.600 through the whole like she had like a low key 206 00:09:06.639 --> 00:09:09.840 cancelation a verbatim reading it TikTok. She had a cancelation 207 00:09:09.879 --> 00:09:11.720 because when her and Joe got was it Joe or Nick? 208 00:09:11.720 --> 00:09:13.840 Would I say Joe? Yes, Joe? When they got a divorce, 209 00:09:14.000 --> 00:09:15.759 like she they have a kid together, she was out 210 00:09:15.759 --> 00:09:17.799 partying and like London all this, so they're also like 211 00:09:17.840 --> 00:09:19.279 giving her the bad mom edit. But then when you 212 00:09:19.279 --> 00:09:21.279 see on the flip side, like I didn't realize, I 213 00:09:21.279 --> 00:09:23.519 guess now, like Joe was the one to calling teams 214 00:09:23.720 --> 00:09:26.279 like his team is doing all that, So they were 215 00:09:26.320 --> 00:09:28.399 saying like it's like one line she said, it's like 216 00:09:28.679 --> 00:09:32.039 you've been through before, been with me through my exoneration. 217 00:09:32.200 --> 00:09:35.679 Is that the word? Yeah, yeah, just fucking And I 218 00:09:35.679 --> 00:09:38.120 guess that kind of flipped where it's like Sophie Turner, 219 00:09:38.240 --> 00:09:40.360 like Taylor let her stay at her house for whatever, 220 00:09:40.360 --> 00:09:41.360 blah blah blah. 221 00:09:41.440 --> 00:09:43.480 That's something I noticed a lot with this album is 222 00:09:43.519 --> 00:09:45.440 I feel like the first half of every song is 223 00:09:45.440 --> 00:09:47.639 from one perspective and then the second half is another, 224 00:09:47.720 --> 00:09:49.720 Like father Figure, the whole first part is from the 225 00:09:49.759 --> 00:09:52.519 perspective of like the person in power, and then at 226 00:09:52.519 --> 00:09:55.279 the end of the song, she switches the power and she's. 227 00:09:55.000 --> 00:09:57.200 Now the one who's in charge. And I feel like 228 00:09:57.240 --> 00:09:57.919 I've noticed that. 229 00:09:57.879 --> 00:09:59.840 With like a lot of her This album felt like 230 00:09:59.840 --> 00:10:01.759 a of the first half was telling one story and 231 00:10:01.840 --> 00:10:04.000 then like the energy shifted, which I feel like is 232 00:10:04.559 --> 00:10:07.840 representative of like Taylor, like getting her power back, like 233 00:10:07.960 --> 00:10:11.399 that all thing. Yeah, I also feel like with Taylor, 234 00:10:11.559 --> 00:10:14.519 like all of her albums are so different obviously, like 235 00:10:14.559 --> 00:10:17.080 the first few are really similar, but like they all 236 00:10:17.120 --> 00:10:19.320 she like dips her toes in a lot of different genres, 237 00:10:19.320 --> 00:10:22.360 and I think swifties need to start identifying with different 238 00:10:22.399 --> 00:10:25.519 genres versus like I'm an all for one swifty. It's 239 00:10:25.559 --> 00:10:28.000 like you can be a folklore swifty and you can 240 00:10:28.039 --> 00:10:30.039 be a midnight swifty, and you can be a nineteen 241 00:10:30.039 --> 00:10:32.240 eighty nine to fifty and we're all in it together, 242 00:10:32.279 --> 00:10:35.000 but we all like different versions of her. Because I 243 00:10:35.039 --> 00:10:36.840 feel like so many people are comparing this. It's like 244 00:10:36.919 --> 00:10:39.320 I didn't really like Evermore, but I don't think Taylor's 245 00:10:39.960 --> 00:10:41.679 a horrible person. Like I don't think she's a bad 246 00:10:42.159 --> 00:10:43.960 artist because she made an album that I don't like. 247 00:10:44.000 --> 00:10:46.240 It's just not really my style of music versus like 248 00:10:46.279 --> 00:10:48.799 this one where I'm like dancing in the shower, Like 249 00:10:48.799 --> 00:10:49.279 I feel. 250 00:10:49.080 --> 00:10:50.919 They're all different vibes, Like, You're right, I feel like 251 00:10:52.000 --> 00:10:54.320 I feel like I consider like ever More in folklore, 252 00:10:54.440 --> 00:10:57.159 like together, like the like kind of like the Sadder album. 253 00:10:57.600 --> 00:10:59.360 And then I mean she has happiness on there. Hello 254 00:11:00.120 --> 00:11:01.600 you said, like, I feel like Red is like a 255 00:11:01.600 --> 00:11:06.279 good autumn album. Ho again, the album album with whatever 256 00:11:06.639 --> 00:11:12.240 Jesus Christ? Well yeah, wow, yeah, do we want to 257 00:11:12.279 --> 00:11:13.159 talk about the movie? 258 00:11:13.240 --> 00:11:13.320 Oh? 259 00:11:13.399 --> 00:11:15.000 Yeah, you guys saw Oh my God. 260 00:11:15.120 --> 00:11:19.559 Yes, So I we went and saw the movie, and 261 00:11:20.399 --> 00:11:22.759 I will preface it by saying that we saw it wrong. 262 00:11:23.039 --> 00:11:25.000 Yes, we one hundred percent saw it wrong. 263 00:11:25.039 --> 00:11:27.039 We should have seen it Friday night with a big 264 00:11:27.080 --> 00:11:28.960 group of people in a crowded theater. 265 00:11:29.639 --> 00:11:31.559 We saw it just us. 266 00:11:31.320 --> 00:11:34.600 In a silent theater Sunday, when I personally have already 267 00:11:34.600 --> 00:11:38.759 listened to the album twenty times, so it was we 268 00:11:38.759 --> 00:11:42.039 did leave. We left halfway through. Oh wow, it was 269 00:11:42.120 --> 00:11:46.320 a disappointment, but I I think regardless, it was a 270 00:11:46.320 --> 00:11:48.320 little bit of a disappointment. But I do think had 271 00:11:48.360 --> 00:11:51.080 we seen it in a different context, we maybe wouldn't 272 00:11:51.080 --> 00:11:52.879 have left. We would have left and been like, Okay, 273 00:11:52.879 --> 00:11:56.360 that wasn't really a must watch. But given how we 274 00:11:56.399 --> 00:11:58.039 saw it, we did leave halfway through. 275 00:11:58.240 --> 00:12:00.399 I think it would have been cooler. But I get 276 00:12:00.399 --> 00:12:02.279 why she didn't do this because she probably would have 277 00:12:02.360 --> 00:12:07.039 really gotten the capitalist allegations if she had said, the 278 00:12:07.080 --> 00:12:09.200 album is coming out Friday, but if you want to 279 00:12:09.240 --> 00:12:12.120 hear it first, you can come to the movie Thursday. 280 00:12:12.559 --> 00:12:14.960 But like that probably would have caused another shutdown with 281 00:12:15.000 --> 00:12:18.360 like AMC theaters and just been like a whole disaster, 282 00:12:18.480 --> 00:12:22.360 because if you had never heard the album, you would 283 00:12:22.360 --> 00:12:26.039 have probably enjoyed it more because she quite literally just 284 00:12:26.080 --> 00:12:29.159 goes through every song, plays them in full with a 285 00:12:29.240 --> 00:12:32.679 lyric video over it, and in the beginning she shows 286 00:12:32.720 --> 00:12:35.759 the music video for Ophelia, and then there's a lot 287 00:12:35.799 --> 00:12:40.919 of like behind the scenes footage. I think she could 288 00:12:40.960 --> 00:12:44.279 have made just like twelve different lyric videos on like 289 00:12:44.360 --> 00:12:46.399 a rap genius or whatever you. 290 00:12:46.600 --> 00:12:50.519 Like, her make her own YouTube account and done on YouTube, and. 291 00:12:50.320 --> 00:12:52.759 Then people could have just watched every single one if 292 00:12:52.799 --> 00:12:54.879 you wanted to, or like the ones that you were 293 00:12:54.879 --> 00:12:55.679 curious about. 294 00:12:56.919 --> 00:13:00.840 Yeah. So yeah, that's the My only thing that is 295 00:13:01.039 --> 00:13:03.440 she did do that. Like she uploaded like last night. 296 00:13:03.639 --> 00:13:05.720 I think it was like seven o'clock, maybe at like 297 00:13:05.759 --> 00:13:07.720 eight o'clock, like all everything that was in the movies 298 00:13:07.759 --> 00:13:08.720 is on YouTube now. 299 00:13:09.159 --> 00:13:12.720 Because it was done showing yesterday at seven yeah, oh fuck, 300 00:13:12.799 --> 00:13:13.879 I think it was yesterday. 301 00:13:13.919 --> 00:13:16.000 It only aired Friday, Saturday Sunday. 302 00:13:16.080 --> 00:13:17.840 Yeah. Then like I saw like it was like earlier 303 00:13:17.840 --> 00:13:19.120 to night, and I was like, oh, she already put this. 304 00:13:19.200 --> 00:13:22.159 I knew she was going to mm hmm. But like 305 00:13:22.200 --> 00:13:24.559 the lyric videos and before that, she also had like 306 00:13:24.559 --> 00:13:26.200 I think, you guys just like the canvas like you 307 00:13:26.200 --> 00:13:28.240 know on Spotify, like the canvas, like she has that 308 00:13:28.360 --> 00:13:31.559 already on the YouTube. That's where I just think like 309 00:13:31.559 --> 00:13:33.759 if it was I think like advertising. You know how 310 00:13:33.759 --> 00:13:36.759 Beyonce has her like renaissance and those are only in theaters, 311 00:13:36.759 --> 00:13:39.000 like no one can find those like anywhere on the internet, 312 00:13:39.200 --> 00:13:43.480 but yeah, I think yeah, for probably the I know 313 00:13:43.519 --> 00:13:45.480 there's listening parties, but I think that's a little that's 314 00:13:45.480 --> 00:13:47.480 where I'm just like, it's a little not capitalist from 315 00:13:47.480 --> 00:13:50.279 like it is if you're putting everything that's everything. It's 316 00:13:50.320 --> 00:13:52.399 the music video and lyric videos. But like you said, 317 00:13:52.440 --> 00:13:53.360 if you already listened. 318 00:13:53.120 --> 00:13:54.759 To it with you can write, like that would have 319 00:13:54.799 --> 00:13:57.799 been so much cooler if I didn't already know all 320 00:13:57.799 --> 00:13:59.840 the lyrics and I was like learning them and seeing 321 00:13:59.840 --> 00:14:01.639 them for the first time and hearing her talk about them. 322 00:14:01.639 --> 00:14:04.320 But like I'd already seen half those clips on TikTok 323 00:14:04.440 --> 00:14:06.279 and I already saw like and I knew. 324 00:14:06.120 --> 00:14:10.480 The song, so it was just like not the most beneficial. 325 00:14:10.639 --> 00:14:12.399 But I feel like. 326 00:14:13.840 --> 00:14:15.559 It annoys me when she does stuff like that, because 327 00:14:15.600 --> 00:14:17.879 I'm like, you're just giving people more, Like people already 328 00:14:17.879 --> 00:14:20.039 talk so much shit on you, and like whatever, who 329 00:14:20.080 --> 00:14:22.080 cares She's living in her billion dollar house, what does 330 00:14:22.120 --> 00:14:24.320 she give a fuck? But like people already talk so 331 00:14:24.399 --> 00:14:26.000 much shit on her. It's like, don't give them any 332 00:14:26.080 --> 00:14:28.600 other reason to call you, like all of these horrible 333 00:14:28.600 --> 00:14:31.279 things that they're saying for no reason, Like, don't. 334 00:14:31.120 --> 00:14:35.000 Actually give them a reason. Yeah, not my favorite. 335 00:14:35.519 --> 00:14:36.039 I agree. 336 00:14:36.320 --> 00:14:41.039 Oh well, hopefully that documentary still coming soon. Like give me, like, 337 00:14:41.200 --> 00:14:43.159 if you're gonna keep giving us stuff, just give me 338 00:14:43.240 --> 00:14:44.840 what I want. I think. 339 00:14:45.000 --> 00:14:48.440 Another criticism and then we can wrap this up is 340 00:14:48.480 --> 00:14:50.039 just I don't really get the life of the show 341 00:14:50.039 --> 00:14:52.720 Girl theme, Like I really just don't. I think it 342 00:14:52.759 --> 00:14:56.360 was a great theme for the Ophelia music video, but 343 00:14:56.480 --> 00:15:01.919 I don't really like understand and the album I thought 344 00:15:02.000 --> 00:15:05.320 was gonna have like show tune vibes and more of that. 345 00:15:05.360 --> 00:15:07.240 And I'm not saying that I wanted to like that. 346 00:15:07.240 --> 00:15:10.440 That's not yeah, but like I was open to it 347 00:15:10.480 --> 00:15:12.919 like fitting an error like midnights to me, like feels 348 00:15:12.960 --> 00:15:17.320 like midnight like folklore, feels like you're in a folk tale. 349 00:15:17.480 --> 00:15:22.720 Like she's usually really good at that. Yeah, I don't 350 00:15:22.759 --> 00:15:24.559 like see that for this. I think it was more 351 00:15:24.559 --> 00:15:27.240 of like a story almost like maybe she she's talking 352 00:15:27.240 --> 00:15:31.200 about different elements of like the Showgirl biz like, but 353 00:15:31.879 --> 00:15:33.440 it seemed like a little bit of a stretch. 354 00:15:34.080 --> 00:15:37.080 Ag. Yeah, I think the here I think I was 355 00:15:37.120 --> 00:15:39.240 thinking that's like she had that concept, like it's a 356 00:15:39.320 --> 00:15:43.799 great creative concept for like a shoot or like the 357 00:15:43.879 --> 00:15:46.159 music video and I think the concept of itself like 358 00:15:46.200 --> 00:15:48.120 the show Girl, like the shoot she did. I love 359 00:15:48.159 --> 00:15:50.159 all of that, but it just doesn't I think she 360 00:15:50.240 --> 00:15:51.679 just shows like that, like look what I did, but 361 00:15:51.679 --> 00:15:52.879 then like the album just doesn't. 362 00:15:53.159 --> 00:15:55.639 It feels more like a title of the movie versus 363 00:15:55.679 --> 00:15:59.360 like the album. This album, to me, like just feels 364 00:15:59.399 --> 00:16:02.080 so lovey, like even in the songs that aren't about love, 365 00:16:02.200 --> 00:16:04.840 she kind of weaves in like her relationship and her 366 00:16:05.159 --> 00:16:07.120 like I don't know, I feel like there's a tide 367 00:16:07.120 --> 00:16:11.279 to Travis in every single song, like and it just like, 368 00:16:11.559 --> 00:16:13.039 I don't know, I feel like it should have been 369 00:16:13.080 --> 00:16:16.600 something more about being like loverish versus like the Life 370 00:16:16.639 --> 00:16:18.559 of show Girl, which I don't really like. I did 371 00:16:18.600 --> 00:16:20.679 see when she originally announced it that everyone was saying 372 00:16:20.759 --> 00:16:22.639 she did it so she could be rank higher than 373 00:16:22.679 --> 00:16:26.639 the Life of Pablo from Kanye. So I don't know 374 00:16:26.679 --> 00:16:29.559 if that's like her soul reason, but I did hear 375 00:16:29.600 --> 00:16:31.159 that that's why she wanted to name it the Life 376 00:16:31.159 --> 00:16:31.799 of a show Girl. 377 00:16:32.200 --> 00:16:33.000 I did see that too. 378 00:16:34.080 --> 00:16:37.559 Smart damn get his ass. That's crazy, that's true. 379 00:16:37.799 --> 00:16:38.000 Yeah. 380 00:16:38.039 --> 00:16:39.879 If there's one thing you need to learn from tylor 381 00:16:39.919 --> 00:16:42.039 Swift is like we just need to be more like 382 00:16:42.200 --> 00:16:45.720 petty with people who fuck us over, like the way 383 00:16:45.799 --> 00:16:47.759 she's like, Oh, you fucked me over in ninth grade. 384 00:16:48.200 --> 00:16:50.000 I'm gonna remember that. I'm gonna put an easter egg 385 00:16:50.000 --> 00:16:51.919 about you in my song twenty years later, Like. 386 00:16:52.840 --> 00:16:56.519 Yeah, no, that's insane, that's crazy. If that's true, Yeah, 387 00:16:57.000 --> 00:16:57.679 makes sense to me. 388 00:16:58.080 --> 00:17:03.679 Anything else going on I did. 389 00:17:04.279 --> 00:17:06.759 I did go to my first ever event alone last week, 390 00:17:07.480 --> 00:17:11.359 and that was crazy going to like an event. First off, 391 00:17:11.400 --> 00:17:14.079 going to an event where you were having an active anxiety. 392 00:17:13.680 --> 00:17:15.839 Attack is crazy work, Like I. 393 00:17:15.680 --> 00:17:18.559 Bring your bills with you. No, wow, so you white 394 00:17:18.640 --> 00:17:19.200 knuckled it. 395 00:17:19.279 --> 00:17:23.599 I really truly was pushing myself. I recently did something 396 00:17:23.680 --> 00:17:25.480 like out of my comfort zone. I was like challenging 397 00:17:25.559 --> 00:17:27.200 myself and I felt really good about it. And I 398 00:17:27.240 --> 00:17:28.920 was like, I haven't done that in a while. Like 399 00:17:29.559 --> 00:17:32.799 I've been like existing in spaces that I feel very 400 00:17:32.839 --> 00:17:34.880 like comfortable in, and I like did something I spent 401 00:17:34.960 --> 00:17:36.640 a day alone and I was like, oh, that's like 402 00:17:36.759 --> 00:17:38.359 fun and it made me feel good. So I was 403 00:17:38.359 --> 00:17:42.720 really inspired to go to this event and walking in 404 00:17:42.799 --> 00:17:45.119 I was first off, I circled the block twice because 405 00:17:45.160 --> 00:17:46.839 I walked past it and there was no one in 406 00:17:46.880 --> 00:17:48.440 the event, so I was like, of course, I have 407 00:17:48.519 --> 00:17:49.880 to go take another lap around the block. 408 00:17:50.599 --> 00:17:53.000 Finally made my way in and I. 409 00:17:52.960 --> 00:17:54.519 Just went straight to the bathroom because I feel like 410 00:17:54.559 --> 00:17:56.720 I just needed to get through the door and then 411 00:17:56.759 --> 00:17:58.519 from there I could like figure out how I wanted 412 00:17:58.559 --> 00:17:59.759 to do the rest of the night. But as soon 413 00:17:59.759 --> 00:18:01.440 as I got in, I panicked, So I went straight 414 00:18:01.440 --> 00:18:04.480 to the bathroom and I was having panic attack in 415 00:18:04.480 --> 00:18:06.759 the bathroom, and then I started having a panic attack 416 00:18:06.799 --> 00:18:09.279 about how long I was in the bathroom because it 417 00:18:09.319 --> 00:18:12.559 was just like one singular bathroom in the restaurant. So 418 00:18:12.640 --> 00:18:14.480 I was sitting in there freaking out about how I 419 00:18:14.559 --> 00:18:15.880 was so afraid to go out there. And then I 420 00:18:15.920 --> 00:18:17.799 was like, but now I'm in here for so long, 421 00:18:17.880 --> 00:18:20.839 now it seems weird, Like what if someone's waiting outside 422 00:18:20.839 --> 00:18:22.519 of the door. This is weirder that I've been in 423 00:18:22.559 --> 00:18:24.559 here for so long. So the fear of somebody waiting 424 00:18:24.599 --> 00:18:27.240 outside of the door forced me to like just go. 425 00:18:27.440 --> 00:18:28.799 I was like, I have to just get out of here, 426 00:18:28.839 --> 00:18:30.599 because if somebody's waiting and I've just been in here 427 00:18:30.599 --> 00:18:33.920 for five minutes, like that's so that's even more embarrassing 428 00:18:33.920 --> 00:18:37.119 than being alone, and so I like went and I 429 00:18:37.160 --> 00:18:39.559 actually ended and ended up running into someone I know, 430 00:18:39.680 --> 00:18:43.319 which did help. But like it's so it made me 431 00:18:43.319 --> 00:18:45.000 feel so privileged because we get to go to so 432 00:18:45.039 --> 00:18:47.240 many events together and like even if it's not the 433 00:18:47.279 --> 00:18:49.279 four of us, it's at least two of us, or like, 434 00:18:49.799 --> 00:18:52.359 especially in Philly. I've definitely gone to events alone in Philly, 435 00:18:52.400 --> 00:18:54.599 but we know a lot of other creators in this city, 436 00:18:54.680 --> 00:18:57.400 and we also know what to expect at events. So 437 00:18:57.519 --> 00:18:59.559 going to an event that I had no idea what 438 00:18:59.599 --> 00:19:01.480 I was walking too, I had no idea that the 439 00:19:01.640 --> 00:19:03.640 company that put it together or the event that it 440 00:19:03.680 --> 00:19:07.960 was promoting, I was like, Oh, this is what other 441 00:19:08.000 --> 00:19:09.960 people feel like when they come to influence their events. 442 00:19:10.000 --> 00:19:12.240 Like it like made me feel like I want to 443 00:19:12.240 --> 00:19:15.200 be more welcoming to other people when they when I 444 00:19:15.200 --> 00:19:17.319 see someone walk into an event alone, Because like some 445 00:19:17.359 --> 00:19:18.559 girl came up to me who was just like a 446 00:19:18.599 --> 00:19:20.200 stranger and started talking to me, and I was like, 447 00:19:20.640 --> 00:19:21.640 in my head, I was like, that. 448 00:19:21.640 --> 00:19:22.160 Was so nice. 449 00:19:22.160 --> 00:19:24.039 She has no idea how nervous I just was, and 450 00:19:24.079 --> 00:19:24.799 she just came over. 451 00:19:24.680 --> 00:19:26.839 And she's like, I love your outfit, My name's blank, Like, 452 00:19:27.119 --> 00:19:28.759 you look really cute. I was like, oh my god, 453 00:19:28.799 --> 00:19:29.759 did I just make a friend? 454 00:19:30.000 --> 00:19:34.519 Like so I was being a girl. 455 00:19:34.559 --> 00:19:36.079 It's so easy to make a friend. Oh my god, 456 00:19:36.119 --> 00:19:38.079 your hair is so cute? Did you get it done to? 457 00:19:38.200 --> 00:19:39.160 Like did you crawl your hair? 458 00:19:39.160 --> 00:19:39.799 What do you use? 459 00:19:39.839 --> 00:19:41.839 I love the color? Like you could just say so 460 00:19:41.960 --> 00:19:44.880 many things. So I was so proud of myself. I 461 00:19:45.160 --> 00:19:46.960 couldn't believe that I actually did it. I don't know 462 00:19:47.000 --> 00:19:49.400 how many more of those I'll love to go to. 463 00:19:49.640 --> 00:19:51.200 But it was very fun. 464 00:19:54.000 --> 00:19:54.759 Inspiring me. 465 00:19:55.000 --> 00:19:56.480 It was for a summer house. Well it was not 466 00:19:56.519 --> 00:19:58.400 for summerhouse. I keep calling in a summerhouse event. But 467 00:19:58.440 --> 00:20:01.839 it was at Carl radkey 's new bar. And I 468 00:20:01.839 --> 00:20:02.640 feel like we've talked. 469 00:20:02.519 --> 00:20:04.599 About how the three of us like summerhouse on here before. 470 00:20:05.359 --> 00:20:07.799 So when I got that invite, I just was like, damn, 471 00:20:07.839 --> 00:20:09.400 I kind of just have to go see it because 472 00:20:09.440 --> 00:20:10.799 so many people I've been talking about it. 473 00:20:10.799 --> 00:20:11.559 But it's so cute. 474 00:20:11.599 --> 00:20:13.079 I feel like we need to go and spend a 475 00:20:13.160 --> 00:20:16.000 day hour alcohol there none no alcohol. They do breakfast 476 00:20:16.000 --> 00:20:19.000 and coffee in the morning, and then I turns into 477 00:20:19.039 --> 00:20:20.960 like a social bar at night. But it's like really cool. 478 00:20:21.039 --> 00:20:23.240 It's in like a cool area, like a cool spot 479 00:20:23.240 --> 00:20:24.000 in Brooklyn, So. 480 00:20:24.160 --> 00:20:27.079 I think we need to go. Wow, maybe he'll be there. 481 00:20:27.680 --> 00:20:28.480 How'd you get there? 482 00:20:28.880 --> 00:20:31.599 I took the train. I've been taking the Hamilton Parkins. 483 00:20:31.680 --> 00:20:34.119 You like just drive. It's thirty two dollars to get 484 00:20:34.119 --> 00:20:36.279 there and back from New York. It's so cheap. Yeah, 485 00:20:36.319 --> 00:20:38.279 And it was like, yeah, it was one time I 486 00:20:38.279 --> 00:20:40.519 loved so nice. I just sat on the train on 487 00:20:40.599 --> 00:20:43.119 the way back. I was crashing out because I got 488 00:20:43.160 --> 00:20:46.279 Chick fil A really really like the event. I ended 489 00:20:46.319 --> 00:20:48.480 up luckily, I ended up staying longer than I thought 490 00:20:48.519 --> 00:20:50.000 I was. I genuinely thought I was going to go 491 00:20:50.039 --> 00:20:52.119 for five minutes and leave. I ended up saying for 492 00:20:52.200 --> 00:20:54.640 like forty, so I was really hungry. I picked up 493 00:20:54.680 --> 00:20:56.319 Chick fil A, and then I saw that the train 494 00:20:56.400 --> 00:20:58.759 was boarding, so I was sprinting to make it to 495 00:20:58.799 --> 00:21:00.200 the train because I didn't want to have to wait. 496 00:21:00.079 --> 00:21:00.960 Another thirty minutes. 497 00:21:01.599 --> 00:21:04.319 And I was so frazzled, and I like walked up 498 00:21:04.359 --> 00:21:06.640 and there was no seats anywhere. So I walked through 499 00:21:06.680 --> 00:21:09.480 like three trains to find a seat, and I finally 500 00:21:09.519 --> 00:21:11.400 found one, and I just had to like quietly eat 501 00:21:11.440 --> 00:21:13.319 my Chick fil a like, and I didn't want to 502 00:21:13.319 --> 00:21:15.119 put my bag on the ground because I'm like gross 503 00:21:15.119 --> 00:21:16.799 about drums. So I had all my bags on my 504 00:21:16.880 --> 00:21:18.359 lap and I was just trying to eat like my 505 00:21:18.480 --> 00:21:19.759 fries and dip my chicken. 506 00:21:19.799 --> 00:21:21.960 And I was like, this is so embarrassing. And then 507 00:21:21.960 --> 00:21:23.200 some girl damned me and said, oh. 508 00:21:23.160 --> 00:21:24.400 My god, I saw you on the train. 509 00:21:24.440 --> 00:21:28.359 I was too scared to say hi, together girl. 510 00:21:29.000 --> 00:21:31.640 I was sweating, freaking out trying to film myself because 511 00:21:31.640 --> 00:21:32.480 I was making a vlog. 512 00:21:32.559 --> 00:21:34.440 I was like, I probably looked a hot ass mess. 513 00:21:34.759 --> 00:21:36.160 Damn that sounds good. 514 00:21:36.200 --> 00:21:40.920 I know it sounds It was incredible. It's funny when 515 00:21:40.920 --> 00:21:43.480 you said about like anxiety while like you were like, oh, 516 00:21:43.519 --> 00:21:45.720 like I'm wonder if someone's coming into the bathroom or 517 00:21:46.000 --> 00:21:48.319 not bad like people waiting for me. I am pee 518 00:21:48.319 --> 00:21:51.960 anxiety in public and that's sometimes if if I really 519 00:21:52.000 --> 00:21:53.440 have to pee, and like it's like I know it's 520 00:21:53.480 --> 00:21:56.079 all coming out. Like for instance, it happened weird to Loom. 521 00:21:56.119 --> 00:21:57.880 We were about to get on the boat and I 522 00:21:57.960 --> 00:22:00.240 knew everyone was waiting, but like, its just I could 523 00:22:00.279 --> 00:22:02.519 not pee for life. And I'm like Bailey, so many 524 00:22:02.599 --> 00:22:04.440 people are waiting for you right now, Like I always 525 00:22:04.480 --> 00:22:06.160 say that I had, like so many people are waiting 526 00:22:06.160 --> 00:22:08.759 on you, waiting on you right now, get out and pee, 527 00:22:08.799 --> 00:22:11.359 like I just have to like convince myself like people 528 00:22:11.400 --> 00:22:13.720 are waiting on me. But then for some reason, I 529 00:22:13.720 --> 00:22:15.680 can't pee. If it's a stall and like I'm the 530 00:22:15.720 --> 00:22:17.839 first doll and people are right there, I can't. I mean, 531 00:22:17.839 --> 00:22:19.359 I don't care if I waiting, I'll just I'll see 532 00:22:19.400 --> 00:22:20.559 you for the next thirty minutes. 533 00:22:20.720 --> 00:22:22.680 I feel like there's been so many times where you're 534 00:22:22.720 --> 00:22:24.079 like in the bathroom and then we go out and 535 00:22:24.119 --> 00:22:25.920 you're like, I didn't even pee, and I'm like you 536 00:22:26.039 --> 00:22:27.119 just said how bad you have to pee? 537 00:22:27.160 --> 00:22:28.920 Like I know I couldn't. I know my brain like 538 00:22:29.279 --> 00:22:31.319 it's so bad my body. I'm like my brain will 539 00:22:31.319 --> 00:22:34.160 just be like no, if you're not peeing, like you can't, damn, 540 00:22:34.400 --> 00:22:36.279 I know, it's really fucked. I mean, luckily I could 541 00:22:36.319 --> 00:22:38.160 be that. I always like say when I meet someone, 542 00:22:38.480 --> 00:22:43.960 it doesn't really happen actually, or if I'm just lying 543 00:22:44.680 --> 00:22:46.759 at lying I'm trying to think, or like I guess 544 00:22:46.759 --> 00:22:49.400 it's a friend, like we're friends with when we start 545 00:22:49.440 --> 00:22:52.559 becoming friends with someone, yes, like more friendly with him, 546 00:22:52.559 --> 00:22:54.160 and they're with me peeing. I'm like wow, I'm like 547 00:22:54.200 --> 00:22:56.200 I can pee around you and they're like what. I'm like, 548 00:22:56.240 --> 00:22:57.839 I'm peeing in front of you, Like this is a 549 00:22:57.839 --> 00:23:00.000 big deal right now, excuse me when I'm black. 550 00:22:59.839 --> 00:23:02.680 Though, I can't pay in front of Jake, like sometimes 551 00:23:02.720 --> 00:23:04.960 when he's showering and I have to pee, like and 552 00:23:05.000 --> 00:23:06.920 if I'm upstairs, I don't feel like going downstairs, so 553 00:23:07.000 --> 00:23:08.960 we like just come in and like I can't pee 554 00:23:08.960 --> 00:23:09.839 with him in the bathroom. 555 00:23:09.880 --> 00:23:11.160 It freaks me out. 556 00:23:11.200 --> 00:23:13.440 I'm like, no, he'll hear it, like you can't hear 557 00:23:13.519 --> 00:23:14.599 me pee, or. 558 00:23:14.599 --> 00:23:18.400 Like you just never know if we're gonna fart for you, pea. 559 00:23:18.880 --> 00:23:22.440 There's also there's a lot to consider that, there's a 560 00:23:22.519 --> 00:23:31.440 lot so bad on the line. You're on the line. 561 00:23:31.640 --> 00:23:34.559 I know. I've been seeing these tiktoks about like morning 562 00:23:34.599 --> 00:23:36.960 poops and like they really do hit. 563 00:23:36.920 --> 00:23:42.519 Nights, they hit beautifully, Like, oh. 564 00:23:41.319 --> 00:23:45.079 Sorry, that was a TikTok. I saw this girl whose 565 00:23:45.160 --> 00:23:47.559 TikTok was. She was like, I love seeing all these 566 00:23:47.559 --> 00:23:49.920 people's morning routine. She actually said farted. She was like, 567 00:23:50.160 --> 00:23:51.960 I woke up this morning and I farted really loud, 568 00:23:52.279 --> 00:23:57.000 and that was like her whole video, and I was 569 00:23:57.039 --> 00:24:03.519 just like thank god, dude, Like thank god. Are all AnyWho? 570 00:24:03.680 --> 00:24:06.079 We haven't done a pyramid ranking in a while, and 571 00:24:06.119 --> 00:24:08.519 we'll get to it, but we wanted to have a 572 00:24:08.559 --> 00:24:12.920 conversation today about group chats and their dynamics. And I 573 00:24:12.960 --> 00:24:16.599 feel like this has been so interesting because my relationship 574 00:24:16.599 --> 00:24:19.200 with group chats has changed so much, like as I've 575 00:24:19.240 --> 00:24:21.880 gotten older, like i feel like I'm not in as 576 00:24:21.920 --> 00:24:24.279 many and the ones that I'm in aren't as active. 577 00:24:24.359 --> 00:24:28.319 But like during my early twenties in college, like group 578 00:24:28.400 --> 00:24:32.680 chats were genuinely like my everything. Like the group chat 579 00:24:32.759 --> 00:24:35.200 like was was the place to be. 580 00:24:35.640 --> 00:24:37.279 It was like your social experience. 581 00:24:37.440 --> 00:24:39.920 Like whatever group chat you were in and whatever one 582 00:24:39.960 --> 00:24:41.960 was most active was like how you. 583 00:24:41.839 --> 00:24:44.119 Were feeling or what you were doing for that day. Yeah, 584 00:24:44.200 --> 00:24:46.000 well you said as like a general noun, like, oh, 585 00:24:46.039 --> 00:24:47.319 do you see the group chat? Do you write in 586 00:24:47.319 --> 00:24:47.920 the group chat? 587 00:24:48.000 --> 00:24:51.680 Like I got an iPhone originally in high school because 588 00:24:51.839 --> 00:24:53.759 I've heard about the group chat feature. I was like, 589 00:24:53.880 --> 00:24:56.440 I need to have that in high school. 590 00:24:56.519 --> 00:24:56.880 Mm hmm. 591 00:24:57.039 --> 00:24:59.079 I was like, I need to have like a group 592 00:24:59.160 --> 00:25:01.359 conversation like that, that's insane that like you could. 593 00:25:01.160 --> 00:25:03.480 Do that on I message. Oh my god, that was. 594 00:25:03.400 --> 00:25:05.799 Like an iOS update like probably like back in. 595 00:25:05.759 --> 00:25:09.599 The right like now featuring group chats. You're so right, 596 00:25:09.680 --> 00:25:11.680 we didn't have kids don't know about that. 597 00:25:11.880 --> 00:25:15.160 Yeah, wow, kids really don't know that you used to 598 00:25:15.160 --> 00:25:16.240 not be able to have a group chat. 599 00:25:16.319 --> 00:25:18.759 No, actually side talk. I just saw TikTok recently. It 600 00:25:18.839 --> 00:25:20.920 was like, kids don't know what it was like text 601 00:25:20.920 --> 00:25:23.359 on ten nine and like when or it's the etiquette 602 00:25:23.359 --> 00:25:25.640 of texting and like we used to say like brb 603 00:25:26.000 --> 00:25:27.960 or like got to go, like you would say like 604 00:25:28.039 --> 00:25:30.240 or like can't text right now? Like we would tell 605 00:25:30.279 --> 00:25:31.920 each other like got to go, Like no, just like 606 00:25:32.000 --> 00:25:34.640 dropping off the face of the earth, like damn, yeah, 607 00:25:34.759 --> 00:25:35.880 we got no group chats. 608 00:25:35.920 --> 00:25:38.920 And then I feel like just the waves like really 609 00:25:39.240 --> 00:25:42.960 like escalated when they started to release, like emphasizing messages 610 00:25:43.119 --> 00:25:46.759 and laughing at messages and like that just took everything 611 00:25:46.799 --> 00:25:50.279 to another level. It's like being the group chat like comedian, 612 00:25:50.440 --> 00:25:53.519 like making everybody laugh, Like that is such an honor 613 00:25:53.599 --> 00:25:55.079 when you get that, because there. 614 00:25:55.039 --> 00:25:58.880 Was like nothing worse than working in college and like 615 00:25:58.960 --> 00:26:02.079 if you were busy and you look at your phone 616 00:26:02.119 --> 00:26:04.640 and there's sixty three text messages because everyone in the 617 00:26:04.680 --> 00:26:07.640 group chat is not working and they're all actively talking, 618 00:26:07.680 --> 00:26:11.079 and you're like in the fucking weeds at work. You're miserable, 619 00:26:11.119 --> 00:26:13.920 you're hungover, it's busy, you're hot, you want to go home, 620 00:26:13.960 --> 00:26:16.559 and it's just blowing up and you're like, fuck, I 621 00:26:16.599 --> 00:26:18.440 have to read through all of these messages. I have 622 00:26:18.440 --> 00:26:20.400 to go back and figure out the context of everything. 623 00:26:20.480 --> 00:26:23.160 Like that was the worst when we had a huge, 624 00:26:23.160 --> 00:26:23.920 massive group chat. 625 00:26:23.920 --> 00:26:26.160 But now I feel like with like emphasizing and laughing, 626 00:26:26.559 --> 00:26:28.759 you can kind of like they're almost like spark notes, 627 00:26:28.799 --> 00:26:30.759 like you can read through the most important parts of 628 00:26:30.759 --> 00:26:31.920 the message and sort of. 629 00:26:32.200 --> 00:26:34.559 Yeah, move on. I also like the newer feature where 630 00:26:34.559 --> 00:26:36.160 it's like because once you said that I thought about something, 631 00:26:36.279 --> 00:26:37.680 when we'd have to like scroll through and see what 632 00:26:37.680 --> 00:26:40.680 everyone's talking about, when you can reply to because now, 633 00:26:40.759 --> 00:26:42.000 like I feel like back in the like when we'd 634 00:26:42.039 --> 00:26:44.000 have sixty some messages, like I feel like we just 635 00:26:44.039 --> 00:26:47.039 get so fucked up, But it'd be nice when like 636 00:26:47.359 --> 00:26:49.319 i'd have that downtime, like okay, like let me read 637 00:26:49.319 --> 00:26:49.920 the story. Now. 638 00:26:51.599 --> 00:26:53.279 Have you guys ever been in a group chat fight, 639 00:26:54.160 --> 00:26:57.160 like fighting with either the whole chat or fighting with 640 00:26:57.200 --> 00:26:59.759 someone but like in public and the chat. 641 00:27:00.680 --> 00:27:03.039 I feel like in college, we definitely had a few 642 00:27:03.079 --> 00:27:06.720 experiences where like I can't remember them specifically, but I 643 00:27:06.759 --> 00:27:10.000 feel like I remember the like idea of like two 644 00:27:10.079 --> 00:27:12.519 people kind of fighting in the group chat and then 645 00:27:12.519 --> 00:27:14.559 all of a sudden they stop answering and then you 646 00:27:14.640 --> 00:27:16.240 like later talk to them and they're like, oh, well, 647 00:27:16.240 --> 00:27:18.119 I texted her outside of the group chat, like yeah, 648 00:27:18.200 --> 00:27:22.359 you can like see that the fight went offline. That's 649 00:27:22.440 --> 00:27:24.519 sort of like I feel like the most I've ever 650 00:27:24.559 --> 00:27:25.720 like fought in a group chat. 651 00:27:26.279 --> 00:27:31.880 Yeah, I've definitely like fought in group chats before, like 652 00:27:32.680 --> 00:27:34.519 and I feel like it's like always like been at 653 00:27:34.519 --> 00:27:36.720 my probably like bitchiest times where I was like, you 654 00:27:36.759 --> 00:27:38.440 know what, I'm so pissed off, like I'm going to 655 00:27:38.480 --> 00:27:41.160 say this in the group chat, so like okay, especially 656 00:27:41.160 --> 00:27:43.759 if you like know that like everyone else is low 657 00:27:43.839 --> 00:27:45.920 key feeling the same, like you take on the role 658 00:27:45.960 --> 00:27:47.480 of like being like fine if no one else said, 659 00:27:47.519 --> 00:27:51.240 I will like and that's always like a sticky point 660 00:27:51.480 --> 00:27:53.319 I will say for me because then like I would 661 00:27:53.359 --> 00:27:54.480 do it and I would get pissed off when no 662 00:27:54.480 --> 00:27:56.079 one else would say anything, I'd be like yeah, yeah. 663 00:27:57.000 --> 00:27:59.039 And then you're texting everyone outside of the group chat 664 00:27:59.039 --> 00:28:00.440 and you're like, you just told me you're mad at 665 00:28:00.480 --> 00:28:01.839 her for that the other day. Why aren't you not 666 00:28:01.880 --> 00:28:04.279 saying anything? And they're like, oh, well, I just wanted, 667 00:28:04.319 --> 00:28:06.000 you know, I wanted her to reply, and you're like, no, 668 00:28:06.160 --> 00:28:07.920 you're fake, like you said you were mad at her 669 00:28:07.920 --> 00:28:08.279 for that. 670 00:28:08.359 --> 00:28:10.440 And that awful like low point where you have to 671 00:28:10.440 --> 00:28:13.480 text someone outside like can you emphasize the message? Can 672 00:28:13.519 --> 00:28:14.640 you like my message? 673 00:28:14.920 --> 00:28:17.240 Or like the worst when it's like pre planned, like 674 00:28:17.240 --> 00:28:19.240 two people are texting as a group. It's like, hey, 675 00:28:19.279 --> 00:28:20.759 I'm going to send this in the group chat. Can 676 00:28:20.799 --> 00:28:22.799 you reply really quick? And like you have to like 677 00:28:22.880 --> 00:28:23.440 set it up. 678 00:28:23.559 --> 00:28:24.480 I've done that before. 679 00:28:24.880 --> 00:28:26.119 I did for your engagement. I was like, all right, 680 00:28:26.119 --> 00:28:28.359 I about to say this in the group check you guys, Yeah, 681 00:28:28.400 --> 00:28:30.359 you guys, just like fucking say something else. 682 00:28:30.559 --> 00:28:32.680 And then it's like the worst when you have two 683 00:28:33.240 --> 00:28:36.680 really similar group chats but there's one person missing from 684 00:28:36.720 --> 00:28:39.200 like the one that's a crucial person, and so like 685 00:28:39.240 --> 00:28:41.119 you're in one group chat and then you're kind of 686 00:28:41.160 --> 00:28:44.000 talking shit and maybe a smaller group chat, and then 687 00:28:44.039 --> 00:28:46.000 you start to get the anxiety of like, oh my god, 688 00:28:46.039 --> 00:28:48.039 what group chat am I sending this in? Like I 689 00:28:48.039 --> 00:28:51.640 don't think I've ever accidentally sent a message in the 690 00:28:51.680 --> 00:28:54.000 wrong group chat. I definitely sent a wrong message to 691 00:28:54.039 --> 00:28:55.799 someone individually, but I feel like when it comes to 692 00:28:55.839 --> 00:28:58.839 group chats, I'm really careful about it, only. 693 00:28:58.680 --> 00:29:01.240 Because I know when it's times where we've had two 694 00:29:01.319 --> 00:29:04.680 separate group chats going on, and in one group chat whatever, 695 00:29:04.920 --> 00:29:07.039 like we're just talking about that group chat. It's like, 696 00:29:07.079 --> 00:29:09.000 we need to figure this out. But I actually just 697 00:29:09.039 --> 00:29:12.359 like yesterday or day before, I was on Instagram and 698 00:29:12.480 --> 00:29:15.119 I shouldn't we have our group chat labeled? I just 699 00:29:15.200 --> 00:29:17.200 was not paying attention and I just saw like Brandon 700 00:29:17.240 --> 00:29:19.400 Lindsay and like two I think it was I could 701 00:29:19.440 --> 00:29:21.240 have sworn and said one other and I just sent 702 00:29:21.319 --> 00:29:23.960 someone's story to that random ass group chat and I 703 00:29:24.000 --> 00:29:25.279 was like, oh shit, my fault. 704 00:29:25.359 --> 00:29:27.759 So and there was someone who had no idea the 705 00:29:27.759 --> 00:29:29.920 context of the story you said, and I was I'm like. 706 00:29:29.880 --> 00:29:34.000 Why is she dming me? I was so confusing, Like fuck, 707 00:29:34.519 --> 00:29:36.839 But yeah, I feel like that happens, or like when 708 00:29:37.200 --> 00:29:38.799 I feel like getting back to the comedian of the 709 00:29:38.839 --> 00:29:41.680 group chat. That is one just because I will say 710 00:29:41.880 --> 00:29:45.519 some group chats I have that role. But I feel 711 00:29:45.559 --> 00:29:47.480 like that's when I have to Like if I'm looking 712 00:29:47.559 --> 00:29:49.279 actively on the group chat, that's when feel I can 713 00:29:49.319 --> 00:29:51.599 really engage. But sometimes I hate it if I missed 714 00:29:51.640 --> 00:29:55.079 the joke and it's really active by like three texts, 715 00:29:55.319 --> 00:29:56.720 Like if I'm in there and it's taken me too 716 00:29:56.759 --> 00:29:58.400 long to find that reaction to me, I'm like, fuck it. 717 00:29:58.880 --> 00:30:03.000 Yeah, And like I feel like I'm I never used 718 00:30:03.039 --> 00:30:04.559 to be like this, but I feel. 719 00:30:04.319 --> 00:30:06.640 Like now I'm a multiple text texture. 720 00:30:07.119 --> 00:30:09.880 Like I send multiple texts even though I'm only speaking 721 00:30:09.920 --> 00:30:12.279 in one part, because it's just like how my brain works. 722 00:30:12.519 --> 00:30:14.359 So sometimes I text something in the group chat and 723 00:30:14.359 --> 00:30:17.000 then people respond before I've sent the next thing. So like, 724 00:30:17.039 --> 00:30:19.640 if I have something really important, I'll like type it 725 00:30:19.680 --> 00:30:21.759 all out first and then like copy and paste it, 726 00:30:21.799 --> 00:30:22.759 like if I want to send. 727 00:30:22.599 --> 00:30:24.920 It separately, which is just like so ocd me. 728 00:30:25.119 --> 00:30:28.000 But I'm like, I can't let anyone type before I 729 00:30:28.039 --> 00:30:30.720 send this next part because it'll change the context of everything. 730 00:30:30.440 --> 00:30:35.759 I just said. Yeah, have you ever left a group chat? 731 00:30:36.559 --> 00:30:40.680 No, I haven't. I just put group, do not disturb. Sorry, 732 00:30:42.720 --> 00:30:46.680 cats homes not a surprise. I sometimes it's just too much, 733 00:30:47.559 --> 00:30:49.799 too much. I've definitely been in the group chat when 734 00:30:49.839 --> 00:30:53.039 someone's left and then someone's like, ooh, that was awkward. 735 00:30:53.440 --> 00:30:55.839 It's like, yeah, no, I think I've been taking out 736 00:30:55.920 --> 00:30:58.039 as a joke. I'm like, this isn't funny, Like I 737 00:30:58.039 --> 00:30:59.599 don't think that's a funny joke, because then you have 738 00:30:59.599 --> 00:31:01.960 to ask something you had me back like that's I 739 00:31:02.000 --> 00:31:03.200 think that's really embarrassing. 740 00:31:03.559 --> 00:31:09.799 No, damn, what was I gonna say? Oh? So yeah, 741 00:31:09.880 --> 00:31:13.319 I feel like in high school, I had this giant 742 00:31:13.359 --> 00:31:16.039 group chat and we if anyone from my my friend 743 00:31:16.039 --> 00:31:18.119 the group from high school is for some reasons listening 744 00:31:18.119 --> 00:31:20.240 to this, they're gonna laugh. We had a group chat. 745 00:31:20.319 --> 00:31:23.680 It was our senior week house and then into college 746 00:31:23.759 --> 00:31:27.000 we used it and like it honestly was amazing, like 747 00:31:27.039 --> 00:31:29.799 having this group chat. It was called the situation. Oh, 748 00:31:29.839 --> 00:31:34.240 and we all wrote in that so much and it 749 00:31:34.279 --> 00:31:37.079 was so helpful, like because we were all at different schools, 750 00:31:37.119 --> 00:31:39.319 like all at different like size schools, different things, and 751 00:31:39.319 --> 00:31:40.839 we'd be like, oh my gosh, like this is happening 752 00:31:40.839 --> 00:31:42.359 to me right now, Like oh my God, guys, I'm 753 00:31:42.440 --> 00:31:44.240 rushing the sorority and like look what they made me do, 754 00:31:44.359 --> 00:31:47.920 and like it was so like supportive, but then it 755 00:31:47.920 --> 00:31:50.440 would get nasty sometimes because you could like see like 756 00:31:50.519 --> 00:31:52.759 people like also competing and be like, well, I'm doing 757 00:31:52.759 --> 00:31:54.720 this at my school and like this is happening at 758 00:31:54.720 --> 00:31:59.039 my school. But then the I feel like ever so 759 00:31:59.680 --> 00:32:02.599 in that fable happens where there becomes a chat within 760 00:32:02.599 --> 00:32:05.599 the chat, So then four of us had a chat 761 00:32:05.640 --> 00:32:08.279 outside of it called the Mini Liddy since the big 762 00:32:08.359 --> 00:32:08.799 chat was. 763 00:32:08.720 --> 00:32:11.599 Called I like from that's give me flashbacks of you 764 00:32:11.680 --> 00:32:12.680 talking about like that. 765 00:32:12.599 --> 00:32:17.039 Group chat where we would text outside and be like 766 00:32:17.240 --> 00:32:19.720 it sounds so like pissing all off today, or like 767 00:32:20.119 --> 00:32:22.000 I want to hang out with just you guys tonight 768 00:32:22.039 --> 00:32:24.000 and like not the big group, and that's where shit 769 00:32:24.079 --> 00:32:28.920 gets like petty. But like also I feel like everyone 770 00:32:29.079 --> 00:32:32.079 like there's if you're in a big friend group where 771 00:32:32.079 --> 00:32:33.680 you have a lot of friends, there's probably like a 772 00:32:33.720 --> 00:32:36.000 big group chat, and then there's like a subcategory of 773 00:32:36.039 --> 00:32:37.559 like the smaller chat within the chat. 774 00:32:37.920 --> 00:32:39.759 You're right, I like in college, like I was recently 775 00:32:39.759 --> 00:32:41.400 going through my messages because I was like leaving them. 776 00:32:41.440 --> 00:32:43.839 I still have every single group chat on my phone. 777 00:32:43.920 --> 00:32:47.799 That's insane. This is what we had, like four, I 778 00:32:47.839 --> 00:32:49.720 was like looking at one of our own career. 779 00:32:51.000 --> 00:32:53.240 Before someone hacks your eye clouds. 780 00:32:53.599 --> 00:32:55.119 Oh my god, here's a right. No, I was like 781 00:32:55.319 --> 00:32:57.440 being the one that we had. Like also, like the 782 00:32:57.480 --> 00:33:00.400 group chat names, that's what they brings back. So I'm like, 783 00:33:00.559 --> 00:33:02.720 oh my Jesus, like this is popping up on my phone. 784 00:33:02.759 --> 00:33:05.440 I mean Biden's Barby's was iconic. I'm not gonna lie. Yeah, yeah, 785 00:33:05.480 --> 00:33:07.839 but like you're right, I should. Was that the girlies 786 00:33:07.880 --> 00:33:09.240 group chat before it was the girlies. 787 00:33:09.279 --> 00:33:15.920 Oh that's our like snapchat, that's crazy girlsap girls was 788 00:33:15.960 --> 00:33:17.519 like my favorite name. 789 00:33:17.799 --> 00:33:18.319 That was good. 790 00:33:18.559 --> 00:33:22.240 I remember in college was Philly Queen's the biggest one 791 00:33:22.279 --> 00:33:25.440 we had or no, what was the biggest Yeah, something 792 00:33:25.480 --> 00:33:28.119 like that, like Queen's or something. I remember in college 793 00:33:28.160 --> 00:33:30.640 we had this massive group chat that was like ten 794 00:33:30.720 --> 00:33:32.599 girls deep. We've talked about our big friend group in 795 00:33:32.640 --> 00:33:35.759 college before, and I remember like there would be a 796 00:33:35.799 --> 00:33:37.680 moment where it was like, oh, like is she finally 797 00:33:37.680 --> 00:33:39.319 being added to the group chat, and like we would 798 00:33:39.319 --> 00:33:41.319 like add people and that was like a big moment 799 00:33:41.359 --> 00:33:42.960 when we would add someone to the group chat. 800 00:33:43.680 --> 00:33:45.079 I remember what I could add. I know where I 801 00:33:45.119 --> 00:33:49.279 was at. That's why I on my phone. I was queen. 802 00:33:52.200 --> 00:33:53.599 That was crazy. 803 00:33:54.680 --> 00:33:57.880 Because that group chat in college was like the huge deal. 804 00:33:57.920 --> 00:33:59.720 Like that's where all the drama went down, all the 805 00:33:59.759 --> 00:34:02.400 plane happened, and it was like a big deal. And 806 00:34:02.440 --> 00:34:05.119 then like like you just said, slowly, it was like, oh, 807 00:34:05.240 --> 00:34:06.720 the four of us are in one, and then the 808 00:34:06.720 --> 00:34:08.320 three of us and then we like had we had 809 00:34:08.400 --> 00:34:10.639 so many different groups at one point that it was like. 810 00:34:10.639 --> 00:34:12.639 Bring break that broke up that Queen's that. 811 00:34:12.599 --> 00:34:14.960 We had the yep, that's whereas came in. 812 00:34:15.440 --> 00:34:17.480 Yep. Yeah, we did have a massive Yeah was it 813 00:34:17.519 --> 00:34:18.079 spring break? 814 00:34:18.079 --> 00:34:20.119 That ended it pretty much? 815 00:34:20.239 --> 00:34:24.199 Yeah, people loft the group chat like that was a big. 816 00:34:24.400 --> 00:34:26.079 Yeah, that was a big That was a turning point. 817 00:34:27.719 --> 00:34:29.320 Well, I want to get back to what you're saying 818 00:34:29.320 --> 00:34:31.719 about emphasizing messages. I don't know if that's going to 819 00:34:31.760 --> 00:34:35.360 get into the pyramid, but I will say, as a 820 00:34:35.400 --> 00:34:38.519 person that like has gone out of group chats, I 821 00:34:38.559 --> 00:34:40.320 still pay attention. I'm still in them. That's not me 822 00:34:40.400 --> 00:34:43.199 saying take me out, but emphasizing has given me such 823 00:34:43.239 --> 00:34:46.000 an out for some things. But it's also like I 824 00:34:46.039 --> 00:34:47.760 just want to be like, I agree, but I also 825 00:34:47.840 --> 00:34:50.280 hate when it first came out when perst that one 826 00:34:50.280 --> 00:34:52.519 person emphasizes everything in a chat and you're just getting 827 00:34:52.559 --> 00:34:55.440 multiple notifications that they're not responding. Yeah, no, I did 828 00:34:55.679 --> 00:34:57.840 that earlier to you guys, but do not mirror. 829 00:34:58.679 --> 00:35:01.760 Yeah, the notifications are a little crazy. Yeah, I wonder 830 00:35:01.800 --> 00:35:04.559 if you can turn that off because like even earlier, 831 00:35:04.599 --> 00:35:06.840 like I was like, I walked back to my phone 832 00:35:06.840 --> 00:35:09.079 and I was like sixteen text messages, like literally just 833 00:35:09.119 --> 00:35:11.159 went to the bathroom and it was like half people 834 00:35:11.239 --> 00:35:13.559 just like emphasizing or liking something. I was like, oh, 835 00:35:13.599 --> 00:35:14.119 like that's. 836 00:35:14.880 --> 00:35:15.880 That counts as a message. 837 00:35:16.039 --> 00:35:17.760 Yeah yea, So I was like, there probably is a 838 00:35:17.760 --> 00:35:20.000 future where you can turn that off. Not sure. 839 00:35:20.159 --> 00:35:22.280 I love that you can react with emojis now too, 840 00:35:22.360 --> 00:35:24.800 because sometimes like the emphasis or the heart just don't 841 00:35:24.800 --> 00:35:28.199 do it for me, Like I just can't. They don't 842 00:35:28.199 --> 00:35:30.079 tell the story that I need them to tell, and 843 00:35:30.119 --> 00:35:32.199 I feel like I can tell it better with an emoji. 844 00:35:32.039 --> 00:35:36.639 Right right, I agree with that. Well, let's rank yeah, 845 00:35:36.760 --> 00:35:40.320 okay on the bottom for me, and I just made 846 00:35:40.360 --> 00:35:44.400 a TikTok about this is. I hate when someone makes 847 00:35:44.440 --> 00:35:47.000 a big group chat for one single event. I will 848 00:35:47.159 --> 00:35:49.719 take accountability that I did do this for New Year's 849 00:35:49.719 --> 00:35:54.400 Eve last year, But besides that, I I don't think 850 00:35:54.400 --> 00:35:56.760 i've ever, like in my recent years, have done that 851 00:35:56.840 --> 00:35:59.639 where it's like, say someone's having a birthday party and 852 00:35:59.679 --> 00:36:02.440 they just make a giant group chat with like twenty people. 853 00:36:02.599 --> 00:36:06.079 You don't have anybody's numbers, and like one like the 854 00:36:06.079 --> 00:36:08.039 first day that it's made, it's like popping off, and 855 00:36:08.079 --> 00:36:10.199 then it's just now. See. 856 00:36:10.199 --> 00:36:11.159 I kind of like that. 857 00:36:11.559 --> 00:36:14.920 Really, I feel like I only like it if I'm 858 00:36:14.960 --> 00:36:17.119 a key member of the of the group, like if 859 00:36:17.159 --> 00:36:19.800 I know the majority of the people totally get it. 860 00:36:19.800 --> 00:36:22.199 If it's like I'm kind of the outsider and I 861 00:36:22.199 --> 00:36:23.960 don't have anyone's number saved, and I don't even know 862 00:36:24.000 --> 00:36:26.079 who's making the jokes. But for me, it's like when 863 00:36:26.119 --> 00:36:28.360 you are when you have most of the numbers saved 864 00:36:28.599 --> 00:36:30.800 and you're about to like go on a trip or 865 00:36:30.840 --> 00:36:32.679 like go to a party or go to an event, 866 00:36:32.960 --> 00:36:35.000 and everyone can start texting in it, and then at 867 00:36:35.039 --> 00:36:36.679 the event you're texting in it, and then the next 868 00:36:36.679 --> 00:36:37.639 morning you're texting in it. 869 00:36:37.559 --> 00:36:39.719 It sort of feels like a little summer house. 870 00:36:39.760 --> 00:36:41.320 For a second, you're like, oh, this is so fun, 871 00:36:41.360 --> 00:36:44.199 Like we're all kind of in this together. But for me, 872 00:36:44.239 --> 00:36:46.039 the bottom of the group of the pyramid would be 873 00:36:46.079 --> 00:36:48.000 group chats that I don't have anyone's number saved because 874 00:36:48.000 --> 00:36:50.440 it's just like I don't know who's talking about what. 875 00:36:50.559 --> 00:36:52.679 I don't know who's like that. So it's like a 876 00:36:52.679 --> 00:36:54.199 double edged sword because I like it and then. 877 00:36:54.119 --> 00:36:54.840 Sometimes I hate it. 878 00:36:54.920 --> 00:36:57.280 Yeah, yeah, I see it for a night out, like 879 00:36:57.360 --> 00:36:59.480 we don't need a big group chat, but also but 880 00:36:59.559 --> 00:37:02.280 also makes sense though it makes sense what people in 881 00:37:02.320 --> 00:37:03.880 groups I so you don't have to send the same 882 00:37:03.960 --> 00:37:07.960 message fourteen different times, like five times whatever. Ugh, it's 883 00:37:07.960 --> 00:37:10.599 a double edged sword. I'm like, I'm with you on 884 00:37:09.719 --> 00:37:12.800 that one group chat. 885 00:37:12.840 --> 00:37:14.559 It's not a specific group chat, but it's like a 886 00:37:14.599 --> 00:37:17.440 group chat etiquette that bothers me that I am guilty of, 887 00:37:17.639 --> 00:37:20.480 so I can take accountability. But it's like when somebody 888 00:37:20.519 --> 00:37:22.920 asks a question, or when you ask a question and 889 00:37:22.960 --> 00:37:25.639 no one answers it and then somebody says something else 890 00:37:25.679 --> 00:37:28.400 without ever referring to what you asked before, Like at 891 00:37:28.519 --> 00:37:31.239 least I'll try to be like, Lol, that was so funny. 892 00:37:31.239 --> 00:37:32.599 Ohso guys who wants to come over and watch a 893 00:37:32.599 --> 00:37:34.840 movie tonight, Like I'll try to like slightly answer it, 894 00:37:35.159 --> 00:37:37.800 but sometimes it's like you saw my message not say anything, 895 00:37:37.840 --> 00:37:39.280 and you're just gonna start a whole new topic and 896 00:37:39.320 --> 00:37:40.480 not talk about what I just said. 897 00:37:40.800 --> 00:37:46.360 Yeah, I will say that has been Another least favorite 898 00:37:46.440 --> 00:37:48.320 is like a group chat where just no one answers 899 00:37:48.679 --> 00:37:50.199 and I feel like I've been on the side of 900 00:37:50.199 --> 00:37:53.119 it where I write stuff and nobody answers them, Like. 901 00:37:54.559 --> 00:37:56.480 I know you say that, but I swear, I swear 902 00:37:56.960 --> 00:38:00.960 I think is I agree? Well I can't. I mean, 903 00:38:01.000 --> 00:38:03.079 I guess I'm the person who doesn't answer. But then 904 00:38:03.119 --> 00:38:05.039 I'm like casey wrom like I say the one thing. 905 00:38:05.079 --> 00:38:07.039 I'm like, oh, these bitches don't fuck with me, but 906 00:38:07.079 --> 00:38:08.679 they I'm like okay, Like I get it, I get it. 907 00:38:08.719 --> 00:38:11.960 But you're right the amount of times, Bailey, that you 908 00:38:12.000 --> 00:38:14.199 have gone on your finsteman like no one's answering me 909 00:38:14.239 --> 00:38:16.079 in the group chat today, so fuck all of y'all. 910 00:38:16.119 --> 00:38:17.239 No one likes me, and I'm. 911 00:38:17.039 --> 00:38:22.519 Like, bitch you just five minutes ago. It's like like 912 00:38:22.679 --> 00:38:24.760 or like you know that meme where it's like the 913 00:38:24.840 --> 00:38:28.400 woman on the train and she's like like herself always 914 00:38:28.559 --> 00:38:30.000 when I say something, you're telling all right, I do 915 00:38:30.119 --> 00:38:33.920 find but no, I get that. Are we still in 916 00:38:33.920 --> 00:38:38.400 the bottom of the pyramid? Yeah, okay, ok M maybe 917 00:38:38.719 --> 00:38:40.599 Casey can you go? I had it. I don't know. 918 00:38:40.599 --> 00:38:42.280 If I want to see overactive. 919 00:38:41.800 --> 00:38:44.599 Group chats, I would say, yeah, is on. 920 00:38:44.639 --> 00:38:47.199 A bottom, Like it could be like a it could 921 00:38:47.199 --> 00:38:48.239 be one of those flexible ones. 922 00:38:48.280 --> 00:38:49.840 Sometimes it's on the bottom. Sometimes it's middle. 923 00:38:50.000 --> 00:38:53.400 It's constantly overactive. That's annoying. If there's like one day 924 00:38:53.440 --> 00:38:56.880 where it's like popping off, like sometimes that's really funny, 925 00:38:57.960 --> 00:39:01.239 but otherwise, yeah, not my favorite. 926 00:39:01.599 --> 00:39:02.360 Yeah right. 927 00:39:02.599 --> 00:39:05.400 I think the drama group chat, like where there's people 928 00:39:05.480 --> 00:39:07.800 like fighting in it is on the middle for me 929 00:39:07.880 --> 00:39:11.519 because sometimes if you're not involved, it's very entertaining and 930 00:39:11.719 --> 00:39:15.480 like crazy. But other times, when you are involved or 931 00:39:15.840 --> 00:39:19.840 you're not enjoying the drama as much, it can be bad. 932 00:39:20.760 --> 00:39:21.000 Yeah. 933 00:39:21.119 --> 00:39:24.519 Yeah, I feel like that happens too when you're planning 934 00:39:24.559 --> 00:39:26.639 something and everyone's sort of going back and then you 935 00:39:26.719 --> 00:39:29.239 like can tell maybe like two people want to do 936 00:39:29.280 --> 00:39:30.920 something and two people want to do something else, and 937 00:39:30.960 --> 00:39:33.360 they're like and you're just like watching it all happen 938 00:39:33.400 --> 00:39:34.960 and you're like, damn, they're fighting in the group chat, 939 00:39:34.960 --> 00:39:36.840 like I don't really care where this goes either way, 940 00:39:36.880 --> 00:39:38.480 but they're like going back and forth with it. 941 00:39:39.840 --> 00:39:40.280 Yeah. 942 00:39:40.519 --> 00:39:42.159 I feel like mine too. Again, I feel like mine 943 00:39:42.199 --> 00:39:42.920 are like etiquettes. 944 00:39:43.000 --> 00:39:44.800 Like I kind of when two people are fighting in 945 00:39:44.800 --> 00:39:46.719 a group chat and at some point they don't just 946 00:39:47.519 --> 00:39:50.000 text separately, it's kind of like, all right, now you're 947 00:39:50.039 --> 00:39:52.280 like crowding up my inbox for no reason. 948 00:39:52.400 --> 00:39:54.280 Like if you two or if like two. 949 00:39:54.199 --> 00:39:57.039 People are very active messaging each other and no one 950 00:39:57.039 --> 00:40:00.000 else is answering, just take it intoto a separate chat 951 00:40:00.159 --> 00:40:02.000 Like that happened the other day. I was texting the 952 00:40:02.039 --> 00:40:03.559 group chat and me lindsay, we're going back and forth 953 00:40:03.559 --> 00:40:05.119 about a topic, and I just text her outside of it. 954 00:40:05.159 --> 00:40:06.800 I was like, these they don't care about what we're 955 00:40:06.800 --> 00:40:08.440 talking about, Like let me go deeper into what I 956 00:40:08.480 --> 00:40:09.360 have to say, Like. 957 00:40:09.719 --> 00:40:11.440 Yeah, I was just gonna say that. Like when two 958 00:40:11.440 --> 00:40:13.719 people are like active, it's like okay, Like if I 959 00:40:13.800 --> 00:40:15.079 know I'm not, like, don't I don't want to clog 960 00:40:15.119 --> 00:40:18.360 up these people in box about something they don't care about. Yeah, 961 00:40:19.000 --> 00:40:23.159 I agree on that. I it's the middle. I kind 962 00:40:23.159 --> 00:40:26.000 of like, well, I don't know. I like family group chats, 963 00:40:26.599 --> 00:40:27.840 like I think those are fun. 964 00:40:27.960 --> 00:40:31.360 I don't have any, but I'm sure they're not. 965 00:40:35.000 --> 00:40:38.559 They can be. But then like I'm like, all right, 966 00:40:38.639 --> 00:40:40.880 y'all are because I have my family group like my mom, 967 00:40:40.960 --> 00:40:42.960 like my uncles, like they're older, so I like the 968 00:40:43.039 --> 00:40:44.960 jokes get like just so old. I'm like, all right, 969 00:40:44.960 --> 00:40:47.280 taking me off of this, like like y'all can have 970 00:40:47.280 --> 00:40:48.519 a separate one, like. 971 00:40:49.719 --> 00:40:51.920 Yeah, I'm guilty of in my family group chat, like 972 00:40:53.039 --> 00:40:55.039 sometimes I just use it as my own journal, like 973 00:40:55.079 --> 00:40:56.920 when anybody else does anything, I don't answer. 974 00:40:56.920 --> 00:40:58.239 But then it's like when I have. 975 00:40:58.199 --> 00:41:00.719 Something to say, everyone needs to text me back immediately 976 00:41:00.760 --> 00:41:02.599 and you will all be responding to it. But like, 977 00:41:02.679 --> 00:41:04.679 I'm not going to respond to everything you guys say. 978 00:41:04.840 --> 00:41:06.360 They're gonna be so mad at me for that because 979 00:41:06.360 --> 00:41:09.280 they call me out for it all the time. But sorry, Oh, 980 00:41:11.440 --> 00:41:14.079 I would be so hurt if I found out that 981 00:41:14.079 --> 00:41:15.719 my sister and my parents had a group like an 982 00:41:15.760 --> 00:41:18.639 active group chat without it, I would actually be really offended. 983 00:41:19.000 --> 00:41:22.559 Yeah, I would say on my middle is the big 984 00:41:22.599 --> 00:41:26.239 friend group chat, Like I like it. I think it's 985 00:41:26.280 --> 00:41:28.559 great for making plans. I think it's great to like 986 00:41:28.840 --> 00:41:31.599 be all together. I just feel like it's usually kind 987 00:41:31.599 --> 00:41:34.840 of surface level, like about just hey, does anyone want 988 00:41:34.880 --> 00:41:37.320 to do this? Like it doesn't really ever get like 989 00:41:38.039 --> 00:41:43.199 too personal. So it's a mid tier for me. I 990 00:41:43.320 --> 00:41:45.199 enjoy it. It's not my favorite. 991 00:41:45.760 --> 00:41:47.519 Mm hmm, I agree. 992 00:41:47.639 --> 00:41:50.000 I would say my favorite is the chat within the 993 00:41:50.079 --> 00:41:54.280 chat always and not even and now it's not in 994 00:41:54.679 --> 00:41:58.079 like a petty or spiteful way, like really it's genuinely 995 00:41:58.119 --> 00:42:00.480 just like this is the chat that I'm gonna write 996 00:42:00.519 --> 00:42:03.559 to like my closest friends about like my closest issues, 997 00:42:04.159 --> 00:42:07.679 and that's it, Like I want support and that's like 998 00:42:07.719 --> 00:42:09.400 I don't want to have fun in this chat. And 999 00:42:09.440 --> 00:42:11.599 like also like I don't know, I just feel like 1000 00:42:11.599 --> 00:42:14.159 it's more personal and that's what I like about it. 1001 00:42:14.639 --> 00:42:16.480 That's what I was gonna say, Like I like the 1002 00:42:16.639 --> 00:42:20.519 chat that, like the close friends chat, that I can 1003 00:42:20.559 --> 00:42:23.920 say something insanely rude to you guys, like talking shit, 1004 00:42:24.039 --> 00:42:26.119 I can say something really meaningful, like hey, I'm going 1005 00:42:26.159 --> 00:42:28.400 through something. I can just be like, oh my god, 1006 00:42:28.400 --> 00:42:31.159 I just saw this person. Like you can say anything 1007 00:42:31.199 --> 00:42:33.800 to this group chat and it's gonna go well, Like 1008 00:42:33.800 --> 00:42:34.920 you don't have to be like, oh. 1009 00:42:34.760 --> 00:42:36.800 Should I not say that in this one? Like you 1010 00:42:36.800 --> 00:42:37.840 can say whatever you need to. 1011 00:42:37.960 --> 00:42:41.000 I agree, your true authentic self, like if like like 1012 00:42:41.039 --> 00:42:42.599 you have to act professional, like I just like I 1013 00:42:42.599 --> 00:42:44.440 don't say certain things in certain groups, like I don't 1014 00:42:44.440 --> 00:42:47.519 send everybody reaction gift right, like like not everyone's gonna 1015 00:42:47.559 --> 00:42:49.400 laugh at them, like especially like some of the reactions 1016 00:42:49.440 --> 00:42:51.119 I send. But I'm like, I know you guys, like 1017 00:42:51.320 --> 00:42:55.039 I appreciate that you guys get my humor. Yeah, I agree. 1018 00:42:55.559 --> 00:42:57.519 I also love I don't know if we ever talked 1019 00:42:57.519 --> 00:42:58.280 about on the podcast. 1020 00:42:58.360 --> 00:43:00.199 I love that we have two separate group chats for 1021 00:43:00.280 --> 00:43:03.440 like friendship in the podcast, because it is really nice 1022 00:43:03.440 --> 00:43:05.880 to be able to like send a text in the 1023 00:43:05.880 --> 00:43:08.800 podcast group chat that's like business business E. And then 1024 00:43:08.840 --> 00:43:10.880 if like we have like there have been times where 1025 00:43:10.880 --> 00:43:13.280 we're texting in both, like we're saying something like business 1026 00:43:13.320 --> 00:43:13.719 C in the. 1027 00:43:13.639 --> 00:43:16.119 Podcast group chat and then like talking. 1028 00:43:15.840 --> 00:43:17.960 Friendship and just our friend group chat, And I'm like 1029 00:43:18.000 --> 00:43:19.000 that does help my brain. 1030 00:43:19.119 --> 00:43:20.760 I will say the day we decide to do that, 1031 00:43:20.840 --> 00:43:23.320 like it like it really changed our lives. Like I 1032 00:43:23.400 --> 00:43:25.280 do love it. I thought it's gonna be like annoying, 1033 00:43:25.400 --> 00:43:27.599 like damn, I have two group chats with the same people. 1034 00:43:27.719 --> 00:43:28.800 But I love it. 1035 00:43:29.079 --> 00:43:31.079 Yeah, cause I know if I need to find something 1036 00:43:31.480 --> 00:43:35.199 for the podcast, I'm not scrolling through screenshots memes, like 1037 00:43:35.239 --> 00:43:37.239 I know that I'm going into the business group chat 1038 00:43:37.280 --> 00:43:39.880 and I'm only going to find useful information. 1039 00:43:39.960 --> 00:43:43.400 Yeah, you're so right, fair enough, I think we covered it. 1040 00:43:43.519 --> 00:43:45.800 We did. I love a groupup chat. I'll take you. 1041 00:43:47.360 --> 00:43:50.360 I'm really curious for people to comment there, like on YouTube, 1042 00:43:50.360 --> 00:43:53.000 like comment your group chat experiences, like do gen z 1043 00:43:53.199 --> 00:43:55.440 have different group chats than we do? 1044 00:43:55.559 --> 00:43:57.199 Like do they have different group chat etiquettes? 1045 00:43:57.440 --> 00:43:59.039 So comment your best group chat name. 1046 00:43:59.239 --> 00:44:00.960 Yeah, oh yeah, I don't want to steal it. 1047 00:44:01.320 --> 00:44:05.000 I want to steal it too. I feel like FYP 1048 00:44:05.199 --> 00:44:08.440 we kind of covered since I'm sure your alls is 1049 00:44:08.480 --> 00:44:09.280 all tailor swift. 1050 00:44:09.400 --> 00:44:12.800 Literally, I might like reset it. I can't really, It's 1051 00:44:12.840 --> 00:44:15.440 like it's so negative and like I just like can't. 1052 00:44:15.599 --> 00:44:18.920 I can't scroll, like impletally cannot scroll on my phone. 1053 00:44:19.079 --> 00:44:22.119 Maybe search for a positive video and then it will 1054 00:44:22.599 --> 00:44:26.760 I find that is what Really? If you search something that, 1055 00:44:26.880 --> 00:44:29.679 at least for my FYP brings everything. 1056 00:44:29.400 --> 00:44:31.800 Truly it usually does. Yeah, I guess you're right. 1057 00:44:32.119 --> 00:44:35.000 Like that really changes my entire FYP. If I like 1058 00:44:35.239 --> 00:44:38.719 search like Nino dub brav right now, I would be 1059 00:44:38.760 --> 00:44:39.800 on Nino dub breath Talk. 1060 00:44:40.519 --> 00:44:44.800 I have a burner TikTok that I just Yeah, it's 1061 00:44:44.800 --> 00:44:46.719 so embarrassing because I accidentally shared it with all my 1062 00:44:46.719 --> 00:44:49.320 contacts and I'm like, damn, everybody probably thinks I'm like 1063 00:44:49.360 --> 00:44:50.280 trying to use this to face. 1064 00:44:50.360 --> 00:44:51.079 I didn't get the note. 1065 00:44:51.519 --> 00:44:53.880 It's called hot Dog COTTI everyone can. It's fine, It's 1066 00:44:53.880 --> 00:44:58.079 hot Dog Cotty thirteen. And this is the burner account 1067 00:44:58.119 --> 00:45:00.760 that I use to search anything that I don't want 1068 00:45:00.760 --> 00:45:03.039 on my own FYP. So like if I'm interested in 1069 00:45:03.079 --> 00:45:05.039 a topic, whether it's like for work, or like if 1070 00:45:05.039 --> 00:45:06.800 I'm interested in something that I just don't feel like 1071 00:45:06.840 --> 00:45:09.079 making it my main FYP, I search it on this 1072 00:45:09.159 --> 00:45:12.199 burner account and it's so nice and I can especially 1073 00:45:12.239 --> 00:45:14.360 curate it to certain topics, so like right now, it's 1074 00:45:14.440 --> 00:45:17.039 really curated to like social media marketing. So like when 1075 00:45:17.079 --> 00:45:18.800 I need inspo for work, I just go on my 1076 00:45:18.840 --> 00:45:22.119 burner FIP and all the info ie is there, and 1077 00:45:22.119 --> 00:45:24.199 then I have my own personal that's like funny time. 1078 00:45:25.159 --> 00:45:27.239 It's a really nice hack. So if you ever want 1079 00:45:27.280 --> 00:45:31.679 to search something, make a burner knows. Yeah, you don't 1080 00:45:31.679 --> 00:45:33.119 need a burner to talk. 1081 00:45:33.599 --> 00:45:37.159 I'm already on reels half today brand. How are you 1082 00:45:37.199 --> 00:45:38.760 about reels? Do you scroll reels? 1083 00:45:38.920 --> 00:45:42.000 No? Never, you're a poster or not a we will 1084 00:45:42.119 --> 00:45:45.360 create or not a scroller. Now I don't ever use 1085 00:45:45.599 --> 00:45:47.559 I really probably should look more on there. 1086 00:45:47.960 --> 00:45:50.039 It's all I feel like. 1087 00:45:50.199 --> 00:45:52.519 Reels to me is the most marketing of any social 1088 00:45:52.519 --> 00:45:54.960 media app. Like every video to me is like the 1089 00:45:54.960 --> 00:45:57.159 top five reasons I stopped doing pilates, the top five 1090 00:45:57.199 --> 00:45:59.519 reasons I started doing pilates, the top things, Like it's 1091 00:45:59.599 --> 00:46:01.599 just like those kind of videos at least that's my 1092 00:46:01.800 --> 00:46:03.639 reels page I'm on like. 1093 00:46:03.800 --> 00:46:06.559 Like I get the weirdest like how is this legal 1094 00:46:06.559 --> 00:46:10.519 on Instagram type of thing. Yeah, so like I can't 1095 00:46:10.559 --> 00:46:12.239 talk about on here, Like it's just like I'm on 1096 00:46:12.320 --> 00:46:14.039 such a random side of reels where like I can't 1097 00:46:14.039 --> 00:46:16.440 I need get off m it's on a reset. 1098 00:46:16.760 --> 00:46:21.719 I do have an unslicited wreck and this is not 1099 00:46:21.760 --> 00:46:24.480 an ad, but I didn't add for this. If you 1100 00:46:24.519 --> 00:46:26.800 need a good show to watch, especially if you live 1101 00:46:26.840 --> 00:46:31.280 in Philly watch Task on HBO. It's like true crime, 1102 00:46:31.400 --> 00:46:34.880 but like also like just really like I feel like 1103 00:46:34.880 --> 00:46:36.719 it's like a story about like hope and stuff too. 1104 00:46:36.800 --> 00:46:38.760 And it's like if you ever watch Mayor of East Town, 1105 00:46:38.800 --> 00:46:41.760 it's the same creator and it's very similar vibes. And 1106 00:46:41.800 --> 00:46:43.639 that's like one of my favorite mini series ever. 1107 00:46:43.719 --> 00:46:46.360 Wait really mm hm oh it was filmed and eerie. 1108 00:46:46.760 --> 00:46:51.320 Really yeah, I love that show, Okay, but yeah, this 1109 00:46:51.440 --> 00:46:53.719 show is very similar and it's really good. It is 1110 00:46:53.840 --> 00:46:56.280 kind of heavy, so like I would recommend like maybe 1111 00:46:56.320 --> 00:46:59.280 watching like one episode at a time, but like it 1112 00:47:00.199 --> 00:47:01.679 if you're looking for a good time to start. Like 1113 00:47:01.719 --> 00:47:06.000 last night's episode was crazy. Weekly episodes, Yeah, weekly episodes. 1114 00:47:06.039 --> 00:47:09.599 Every Sunday you met, Yeah, and I met I met 1115 00:47:09.599 --> 00:47:11.920 the stars Mark and tom So. 1116 00:47:12.440 --> 00:47:16.159 I screamed bloody murder, Like we have to watch Marvel movies. 1117 00:47:16.199 --> 00:47:19.880 Now you understand that, right, fucking hell? Like that's so crazy. 1118 00:47:20.400 --> 00:47:22.119 I forgot he was in those I like only know 1119 00:47:22.199 --> 00:47:23.960 him from thirteen going on thirty. I mean, I know 1120 00:47:24.000 --> 00:47:27.480 he's been up in other things, but that's like, yeah, 1121 00:47:27.480 --> 00:47:29.320 that's the role that sticks out to me, not. 1122 00:47:29.199 --> 00:47:32.280 Just the whole Avengers. I'll go through his whole discography, Like, 1123 00:47:32.360 --> 00:47:34.119 you guys, we have to have a full three days 1124 00:47:34.119 --> 00:47:34.360 of this. 1125 00:47:34.559 --> 00:47:36.960 He's really sweet and he loves Philly. 1126 00:47:37.039 --> 00:47:38.320 Did they film it? Did they come from? 1127 00:47:38.519 --> 00:47:40.800 He connected here? A lot of it was filmed in Delco, 1128 00:47:41.119 --> 00:47:43.360 which is like where the show takes place in Delco. 1129 00:47:43.719 --> 00:47:46.239 And it's just like you'll just like anyone who lives 1130 00:47:46.280 --> 00:47:48.039 in Philly will just enjoy it because all they talk 1131 00:47:48.079 --> 00:47:51.199 about is like locations, but they're like cops and FBI, 1132 00:47:51.440 --> 00:47:53.400 so they're like, oh, he was spot in Ridley or 1133 00:47:53.400 --> 00:47:55.440 oh he's in Chester County. It's like oh, it was 1134 00:47:55.480 --> 00:47:59.679 like it's like funny, Okay, yeah, yeah, it's really. 1135 00:47:59.280 --> 00:48:02.599 Good, amazing. I need a new show. ABD Elementary just 1136 00:48:02.639 --> 00:48:04.800 came back on too. I need to watch that too. 1137 00:48:04.960 --> 00:48:08.840 Philly's crushing it. We are well except for the Eagles 1138 00:48:10.199 --> 00:48:15.639 and on that. Keep everything between us. 1139 00:48:15.559 --> 00:48:18.840 Girlies, keep it in the group chat. I'm going to 1140 00:48:18.840 --> 00:48:23.079 delete someone, please, bye bye