Speaker 1: Happy Thanksgiving Eve. It's the Minnesota Goodbye with Jenny Bailey
Speaker 1: and vant Oh We're chill. This is your final Minnesota
Speaker 1: Goodbye of the year that will involve just the three
Speaker 1: of us because I don't think Dave has any vacation
Speaker 1: the rest of the year until after Christmas, so it'll
Speaker 1: just be us today and then Dave will be back
Speaker 1: on Monday. All right, stop messing.
Speaker 2: Around you, start messing around you.
Speaker 1: Let's do some emails. Read This one comes from Brandon
Speaker 1: and says, Hey, you all need to watch by now
Speaker 1: The Shopping Conspiracy on Netflix right away. It's pretty crazy
Speaker 1: and touches on topics you have talked about passionately before.
Speaker 1: I just turned it on for a bit before bed,
Speaker 1: but apparently I'm staying up until it's over. But also
Speaker 1: I feel terrible because I love buying things and we'll
Speaker 1: be doing so this week and holiday season. Enjoy, Brandon.
Speaker 1: I have heard some things about this that is going
Speaker 1: to make you feel disgusted with your spending, and so
Speaker 1: I'm a little bit nervous to watch it, but I
Speaker 1: do want to.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because then maybe you can learn to be a
Speaker 2: better person afterwards.
Speaker 1: That's what I feel like. It's supposed to teach me,
Speaker 1: so we'll see this one, says Jenny Vaunt and Bailey. First,
Speaker 1: I have to say, Jenny, you rock as the host
Speaker 1: when Dave is gone. I don't say that lightly because
Speaker 1: I definitely cringe slightly in the past when Dave was gone,
Speaker 1: and it always made me appreciate how good he is
Speaker 1: and making a smooth show. But truly, you hold the
Speaker 1: hat to that legend and I am proud of you.
Speaker 1: Keep up with the great work. That's very sweet view.
Speaker 1: Thank you see Sydney. That is truly like I don't
Speaker 1: even know. To be compared to Dave is like WHOA.
Speaker 1: So I appreciate that. Second. On yesterday's Minnesota Bye, Vonton
Speaker 1: and Jenny talked about sharing details about their partners, so
Speaker 1: it led me to want to hear more about Bailey
Speaker 1: and her new relationship, Oh Trip. Bailey mentioned that Trip
Speaker 1: listens to the morning show. Did he listen before you
Speaker 1: were on the show? That's the first question.
Speaker 2: As far as I know, No, I mean, I could
Speaker 2: ask him, but it's kind of wild that, Like, now
Speaker 2: that I've been seeing Trip, I feel like more people
Speaker 2: in Northfield listen than have ever before because it is
Speaker 2: like a smaller community.
Speaker 3: And yeah, we have people who text in.
Speaker 2: From like the Northfield area code all the time, and
Speaker 2: people follow me on Instagram that are just from Northfield
Speaker 2: who only know who I am because I am dating
Speaker 2: Trip and that's so weird.
Speaker 1: It is weird, but it's also like really cool that
Speaker 1: you had that influence on getting people in Northfield to.
Speaker 3: You know what I can get.
Speaker 2: If I can get people to listen to the show
Speaker 2: that aren't just my friends, then I've done something good.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: Her next question says, have you two talked about what
Speaker 1: he's comfortable with you sharing or not sharing on the show?
Speaker 2: Not necessarily, like we haven't sat down and talked about it.
Speaker 2: But I think he understands that I'm going to just
Speaker 2: say whatever I need to say about him, not need to,
Speaker 2: but you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: But you want to say you're not going to indulge
Speaker 1: on every single detail of everything.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, but but no I didn't.
Speaker 2: I haven't seen his butt.
Speaker 3: I don't want to.
Speaker 2: But so he like, it's weird to say, but he
Speaker 2: is kind of like a local celebrity in Northfield. So,
Speaker 2: like everyone who's involved with the defeat of Jesse James
Speaker 2: Days knows who he is because it's like his family
Speaker 2: I'm quote unquote like runs it sort of or like
Speaker 2: they've been huge like part of it for forty fifty
Speaker 2: years or whatever. So like people know who Trip is,
Speaker 2: so he's like used to being in the public eye.
Speaker 2: And people were even texting me when I first started
Speaker 2: talking to Trip saying like you have to like watch
Speaker 2: out because whatever you do will not be a secret
Speaker 2: at all because Trip is so well known. So like
Speaker 2: I think we're it works out because we're both in
Speaker 2: the public eye. Yeah, so like I'm here like in
Speaker 2: Twin Cities kind of public eye and he's there Northfield
Speaker 2: public eye. But like I could bring him or he
Speaker 2: could bring me somewhere and people are gonna know who
Speaker 2: I am. But people are also gonna know who he is.
Speaker 2: So it's like, yeah, it's cool.
Speaker 3: It is cool.
Speaker 2: It's that's why I keep saying we're the Taylor and
Speaker 2: Travis of Minnesota right now of local fame, because yeah,
Speaker 2: it's so I think, like he's totally cool with being
Speaker 2: in the public eye to the point or to the
Speaker 2: extent that I talk about him on the air.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like he's cool with that.
Speaker 1: Got it, and then she has one more question, Does
Speaker 1: it stress you out knowing that he listens to the show?
Speaker 2: No, I honestly, the last two days his I don't know,
Speaker 2: he's been like sick or something, so he's been sleeping. Later,
Speaker 2: I find it comforting when he texts me during the
Speaker 2: show to say things that he thinks about it, and
Speaker 2: the last two days he hasn't been and so like
Speaker 2: today he texted me like, I don't know, half an
Speaker 2: hour ago and I was like, where have you been.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so and I'm like used to it. So No,
Speaker 2: it does not stress me out that he's listening. It
Speaker 2: stresses me out more that like my mom is listening
Speaker 2: all the time, because she definitely listens from start to finish.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, well, I've said some things that my
Speaker 2: mom's heard. Yeah, awkward, but yeah, I don't care if
Speaker 2: trip listens.
Speaker 1: The last thing she says is third. I know Dave
Speaker 1: mentions that Susan never listens to the show, but I
Speaker 1: guess I am not sure if Andrew or Alyssa regularly listen.
Speaker 1: Andrew listens every once in a while if he has
Speaker 1: time too. He doesn't go out of his way to listen,
Speaker 1: but a lot of most mornings he'll turn it on
Speaker 1: if he has time. But Andrew basically gets up, makes
Speaker 1: coffee and is immediately on phone calls or meetings or
Speaker 1: something for his job, so he doesn't have like the
Speaker 1: flexibility to listen constantly. But if someone like texts him
Speaker 1: and says, hey, you should listen right now or something
Speaker 1: like shout out Kim because she's a big listener of
Speaker 1: the show, and Andrew helps them buy a house recently,
Speaker 1: and she texted Andrew the morning lying that that girl
Speaker 1: said she's not Jenny pretty, she's really pretty. Yeah, And
Speaker 1: so she texted and she's like, you need to text
Speaker 1: Jenny right now and tell her that she's amazing and
Speaker 1: she's beautiful and blah blah blah. So Andrew just sends
Speaker 1: me this long text and he didn't even know what
Speaker 1: he was texting me about because he didn't hear the segments.
Speaker 2: So anyways, I've been told to tell you, yeah, beautiful below.
Speaker 1: What what about Elisa van Melyssa doesn't even know that
Speaker 1: I'm on the radio. Yeah, she she just thinks you're
Speaker 1: another guy who goes to an office and works.
Speaker 3: She thinks I'm a custodian.
Speaker 4: Yeah at uh at Robinsdale Elementary. Yeah, No, Alyssa doesn't
Speaker 4: listen to the show.
Speaker 3: Like she knows. I'll tell her if.
Speaker 4: Like we did a bit about her or something, or
Speaker 4: chances are like when I'm editing, like for YouTube or something,
Speaker 4: she'll hear me. She'll hear her name and be like, oh,
Speaker 4: what's that, and then I'll play like a little bit
Speaker 4: of it. But Alyssa doesn't care, like at all, and
Speaker 4: it's not in like a rude way. Alyssa just like
Speaker 4: even in college, I just talk. I did radio in
Speaker 4: college too, so she's like, oh, you're doing content?
Speaker 3: Whoop?
Speaker 2: Do do?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Do you like?
Speaker 4: Even when I've been like at home, like recording a
Speaker 4: fit like with uh it's like a top five list
Speaker 4: or something for my Instagram. Yeah, She'll just shut the
Speaker 4: door that way, she doesn't have to hear it.
Speaker 1: So I have to tell Andrew to leave if I'm
Speaker 1: like recording stuff for social media because he like just
Speaker 1: wants to be around and I'm like, can you go away?
Speaker 1: I just want to like do this without like the
Speaker 1: pressure of if I screw up, then you're there.
Speaker 4: To know me or like but I was recording my
Speaker 4: podcast a couple of weeks ago, because I do that
Speaker 4: in my bed, in our bedroom.
Speaker 3: She like just walked in one day and was just
Speaker 3: like and I was like, you come on, do you
Speaker 3: like hello?
Speaker 4: And it's very obvious because I sit there with like
Speaker 4: a mixer and a microphone and headphone, and she was
Speaker 4: just like, oh, were you recording?
Speaker 3: Shut up? Shut up?
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, okay. Well, this says jeers and happy Thanksgiving.
Speaker 1: Thanks for sharing everything. It's always fun to connect with
Speaker 1: you guys, even though I'm just a fangirl listening from Afar.
Speaker 1: And this comes from a Sydney So thank you, Sydney.
Speaker 1: Happy Thanksgiving you Sydney, see you as well.
Speaker 3: All right.
Speaker 1: This says hello to my favorite podcast that isn't in
Speaker 1: the true crime genre and to the best morning show
Speaker 1: hosts ever. I had something happened this morning, and I
Speaker 1: don't know if I she says, I don't know how
Speaker 1: I'm feeling about it as an overreaction or if it's justified.
Speaker 1: So of course I'm going to ask my BFFs, whom
Speaker 1: I never met in real life, yet here's what went down.
Speaker 1: We are renters, We have always been and are relatively
Speaker 1: familiar with the rules, regulations, and basic etiquettes. We live
Speaker 1: in a cute single family home and a quaint neighborhood
Speaker 1: in the suburbs. The people who own the house live
Speaker 1: out of state, so a property management company takes care
Speaker 1: of it. This morning, I was in the bathroom, half naked,
Speaker 1: catching up on yesterday's episode of The Minnesota Goodbye, about
Speaker 1: to get in the show er when I hear a
Speaker 1: commotion at the front door. I quickly throw some clothes
Speaker 1: back on and go see what the fuck is happening.
Speaker 1: I got to my door just as a strange man
Speaker 1: is unlocking and opening it with the key from the
Speaker 1: lock box that's there for the maintenance crew in case
Speaker 1: I'm not home and there's an emergency. Now I'm freaking
Speaker 1: out because I'm home alone, half naked, and not expecting anyone.
Speaker 1: He said that he was sent by the owner to
Speaker 1: inspect the electrical work. She gave him the coach to
Speaker 1: the lock box and told them to go in. We
Speaker 1: have always received a text message at least twenty four
Speaker 1: hours prior to anyone coming for maintenance, but no warning
Speaker 1: this time. I will add that he was from a
Speaker 1: legit company and I don't expect anything nefarious on his
Speaker 1: side of things. He was just doing what he was told.
Speaker 1: I'm extra pissed because there are two women in this
Speaker 1: home who should feel safe and secure in the fact
Speaker 1: that strangers will not be entering our home unannounced at
Speaker 1: any time. I have emailed the property managers and asked
Speaker 1: them to remind the owners that there are rules regarding this,
Speaker 1: and it stated in our lease that we be given
Speaker 1: reasonable notice. However, ten hours later, I'm still mad and
Speaker 1: I need to rant. Has anyone else dealt with a
Speaker 1: similar situation, and if so, how did you deal with it?
Speaker 1: We still have ten months until we can move out,
Speaker 1: and this was really unsettling. Thanks again for all that
Speaker 1: you do keeping my dartboard covered and so I know
Speaker 1: there are no strangers lurking at my front door, and
Speaker 1: that comes from Jamie.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean, the rule obviously is always like you need
Speaker 1: a twenty four hour notice, so that's a huge one.
Speaker 1: Barely what about you.
Speaker 2: I've I've had people like my landlord maybe like put
Speaker 2: up a sign that says, like, you need to move
Speaker 2: your car in the next twelve hours out of the
Speaker 2: parking lot so we can do this that and the
Speaker 2: other thing or whatever, or we're shutting off the water
Speaker 2: in five hours and we're like okay.
Speaker 3: But at least it's like a little bit.
Speaker 2: Of like forward. But it should be twenty four hours
Speaker 2: and nobody should be coming into your apartment. So I
Speaker 2: don't think you are overreacting that at all. It's like
Speaker 2: one thing if they're doing like work in the building
Speaker 2: and they don't give you a notice of that, but
Speaker 2: if they're coming into the place where you live, absolutely not,
Speaker 2: like you would have to get twenty four hours of
Speaker 2: expec are twenty four hours the word advanced notice. Yeah,
Speaker 2: before that they that they come in. So I don't
Speaker 2: think you're overreacting at all.
Speaker 3: I would be pissed. Yeah, I don't want to say gracious.
Speaker 4: I'm just I'm thinking of Me and Alyssa were getting
Speaker 4: emails our entire apartment building about like, hey, there's a
Speaker 4: maintenance chat. I don't know what the fuck it was
Speaker 4: with some kind of inspection. Yeah, and it was like
Speaker 4: going on for weeks, like and it's at random, we'll
Speaker 4: pick random apartment units.
Speaker 3: Me and Alyssa.
Speaker 4: Uh, ironically, we were getting ready to bake cookies. Bake cookies, yes,
Speaker 4: and I get a phone call, I'm like, what the
Speaker 4: fuck is calling me? And I see it's like our
Speaker 4: area codes. I'm like hello, and they're like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 4: we'll be at your unit in like two minutes to.
Speaker 3: Do this the heck, Like you can't. Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4: If that's technically like because they gave us like a
Speaker 4: random warning.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but still I feel like that's not even that's
Speaker 2: not enough, Like you should know when someone's coming into
Speaker 2: the place where you live.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like not within two minutes. Yeah yeah, that's like
Speaker 3: if I was in the shower.
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, if you didn't get that and then you
Speaker 2: just heard someone coming in to your apartment. No, She's
Speaker 2: totally valid in being like frightened in that moment. That's why,
Speaker 2: like I'm always so thankful that I have like a
Speaker 2: like I have a regular lock, and then I have
Speaker 2: a dead lock, like the chain, Like they ain't getting
Speaker 2: through that chain. So I'm always chaining my door just
Speaker 2: in case for like these very situations, like you can
Speaker 2: never tell exactly who's just going to walk in whenever.
Speaker 1: I have never had like the chain lock before, but
Speaker 1: I do have one creepy story from when I was
Speaker 1: a renter. I lived in the same place for four
Speaker 1: years and someone bought it like a year in and
Speaker 1: so he had the same like maintenance people that would
Speaker 1: always be coming in and doing stuff. And that was
Speaker 1: fine and they usually were really great with everything. But
Speaker 1: one time I had gotten home from the morning show,
Speaker 1: took a show or did whatever, and then I went
Speaker 1: to take a nap in the afternoon. And I was
Speaker 1: taking a nap, I heard the knocking at the door,
Speaker 1: but I was like, Okay, I know they're coming in
Speaker 1: for maintenance. Yea, So because I had requested something, so
Speaker 1: I'm not going to answer the door. They need to
Speaker 1: go to my bathroom. The door shut to my bedroom.
Speaker 1: I don't need to get up and like acknowledge anything.
Speaker 1: He can just go into the bathroom. And so I'm
Speaker 1: like in there trying to take a nap, and he
Speaker 1: goes and opens my door to my bedroom and looks in.
Speaker 1: Now I didn't I pretended to keep sleeping in that
Speaker 1: moment because it was so fucking uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: But I was also going to do like sit up
Speaker 2: and be like hello, that would be so weird.
Speaker 1: Too, So because I didn't witness it though, because I
Speaker 1: pretend to be sleeping in and had my eyeshut I
Speaker 1: didn't like physically see it with my eyes, but I
Speaker 1: can obviously hear my door open and someone kind of
Speaker 1: like looking in and stuff. And I sat there and
Speaker 1: I was like, what do I do, Like do I
Speaker 1: email the landlord or what? So honestly, I didn't do
Speaker 1: anything about it. I just made sure like the next time,
Speaker 1: the next handful of times, if it ever would have
Speaker 1: happened again, then I would have been like, yo, you
Speaker 1: got to get your maintenance people on lock, because this
Speaker 1: is not appropriate at all.
Speaker 2: I'm glad that he didn't just like open the door
Speaker 2: and just stand there and stare at you.
Speaker 1: No, I just like opened it, and who knows, like
Speaker 1: maybe maybe he was like trying to check for something else,
Speaker 1: so he opened the door and assumed I wasn't home,
Speaker 1: since I like didn't come out and acknowledge. But regardless,
Speaker 1: still there, the bedroom door is locked, and it's a
Speaker 1: one bedroom apartment. It's not like he didn't know what
Speaker 1: door he was opening. It's the only other door in
Speaker 1: my apartment. It was Reddy Graby. So anyways, in your thoughts,
Speaker 1: and I think Jamie, you should follow up with those
Speaker 1: people again and say, hey, just want to make sure
Speaker 1: that you guys know that this is not okay, and
Speaker 1: I want a response to know that you're aware of
Speaker 1: what I sent you. So let's she The next one says, Hi,
Speaker 1: my favorite Dart liquors. I absolutely love the vant. We
Speaker 1: could go with all the sound effects. Get out of here,
Speaker 1: I will start over it. She says, I absolutely love
Speaker 1: the current crew. Everyone's different personalities and the way you
Speaker 1: all just work together. The way you do just makes
Speaker 1: the show. You each bring something different and it works.
Speaker 1: Here's a question. How do you feel about your significant
Speaker 1: others saying love you instead of I love you? Do
Speaker 1: you feel like it has different meanings when said with
Speaker 1: or without the eye? My boyfriend is plus years tends
Speaker 1: to text and say love you more than he doesn't.
Speaker 3: I love you.
Speaker 1: Just a topic that's been on my mind for a
Speaker 1: long time. A right that comes from Patty.
Speaker 3: That's interesting.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you guys think.
Speaker 3: I used to be you like I used to care?
Speaker 4: There's a difference between love you and I love you,
Speaker 4: and I'm not big on it now, but I feel.
Speaker 3: About babe and baby.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I don't know why. Just babe to me is like
Speaker 3: anybody can be babe.
Speaker 4: Sure, but like I call Alyssa and I call each
Speaker 4: other honey or baby, and I guess theoretically somebody could
Speaker 4: be Thoset also, but I don't know. They just have
Speaker 4: more meaning behind him. Babe is just so generous, just
Speaker 4: like love you. It is like, but do.
Speaker 2: You Yeah, I feel like you say I love you
Speaker 2: when you're having like a conversation about your relationship and
Speaker 2: how you feel about each other versus love you is
Speaker 2: like a thing you say in passing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, I don't know. I Andrew and I
Speaker 1: will always say I'm pretty sure. We just say love
Speaker 1: you when we get off the phone. It'll be like, hey,
Speaker 1: i'm gonna I'll see in a few minutes, I'm almost home,
Speaker 1: or I gotta get going, I'm at my appointment. Okay,
Speaker 1: you love you by and that's all it is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I don't really care. We don't really text much,
Speaker 1: so I don't have that like physical form of I
Speaker 1: love you versus love you.
Speaker 3: I really think text Andrella.
Speaker 1: No, I hate texting. We are both like phone call people,
Speaker 1: so we talk on the phone if we feel like talking.
Speaker 1: Most of the time, unless it's like we're both busy
Speaker 1: with something but I don't text her in the morning
Speaker 1: show because I like have to stay focused, So I
Speaker 1: don't really text anyone during the morning show. And so
Speaker 1: I just really don't text him unless like something wild happens,
Speaker 1: then maybe I would text him something that happened in
Speaker 1: the show. But for the most part, I just like
Speaker 1: give him the update when I get home, because we
Speaker 1: always catch up at like either the end of the
Speaker 1: day or when we first see each other for the
Speaker 1: first time in like the afternoon. Sure, that's when we
Speaker 1: like catch up. So but I'm not I've told you
Speaker 1: guys this, I'm not a Texter. I don't like I
Speaker 1: really don't like texting. It's not my thing. And I
Speaker 1: am awful with my family. They will text back and
Speaker 1: forth about things and I will forget to respond for days.
Speaker 2: And I do that. Yeah, I'm bad at texting, but
Speaker 2: I don't not like texting.
Speaker 3: Has that been a red flag for you in relationships? Jenny?
Speaker 1: What people texting?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 3: You not texting people?
Speaker 4: Like, have people said something to you about it, like, hey,
Speaker 4: why don't you text mex period?
Speaker 1: Not really, because I think most of the people I
Speaker 1: respond to texts that are important the morning show stuff,
Speaker 1: I will always respond when I see it, unless I'm sleeping.
Speaker 1: Then that's the only reason you're not hearing back from me,
Speaker 1: like within a couple hours. Is if I took a
Speaker 1: nap or something. That's like the only reason I wouldn't
Speaker 1: respond to that. But like other things, I am the
Speaker 1: person who says I don't have the mental capacity to
Speaker 1: respond right now. And honestly, the group of girlfriends that
Speaker 1: I'm in a text chain with, we are all the same.
Speaker 1: We all will text something and then one of nobody
Speaker 1: will respond for like a day, then someone remembers to respond,
Speaker 1: then we all start responding. We're like, shit, sorry you forgot.
Speaker 2: And then you're stuck in a group conversation.
Speaker 1: Okay, but we're all the same, so nobody gets mad
Speaker 1: at each other because we all do the same thing
Speaker 1: to each other and that's kind of just how it is.
Speaker 1: But yeah, no, nobody's ever gotten mad at me for texting.
Speaker 1: You know me, I know you are very sassy with
Speaker 1: your texting, and you think if you see someone on
Speaker 1: Instagram and then they're not texting you back.
Speaker 3: You're like, what the hell I think?
Speaker 4: Just in the same two seconds it takes to post
Speaker 4: on your story, it takes to respond.
Speaker 2: Nah, takes a different part of your brain.
Speaker 3: But it depends on who you that is true, depends
Speaker 3: on who you are in why I care.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I would say at the beginning of
Speaker 1: a relationship, I probably was like heavier on the texting
Speaker 1: with someone, but like I don't know even then. I
Speaker 1: feel like usually I would like call people a lot
Speaker 1: if I was dating. So all right, that's going to
Speaker 1: do it for the Minnesota Goodbye to Day. Thanks for
Speaker 1: your emails this week. Dave's back on Monday, so if
Speaker 1: you've been dying to ask Dave something specifically, feel free
Speaker 1: to send those emails in but regardless, we always love
Speaker 1: your emails. You can send those into Ryan Show at
Speaker 1: katiewb dot com. Thank you for listening. Happy Thanksgiving if
Speaker 1: you celebrate, and we'll be back with a new podcast
Speaker 1: episode on Monday. There won't be one the next two days,
Speaker 1: so just to heads up on that. All right, Happy
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