WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.040 --> 00:00:04.519 Happy Thanksgiving Eve. It's the Minnesota Goodbye with Jenny Bailey 2 00:00:04.559 --> 00:00:07.719 and vant Oh We're chill. This is your final Minnesota 3 00:00:07.759 --> 00:00:10.240 Goodbye of the year that will involve just the three 4 00:00:10.240 --> 00:00:13.080 of us because I don't think Dave has any vacation 5 00:00:13.839 --> 00:00:16.760 the rest of the year until after Christmas, so it'll 6 00:00:16.800 --> 00:00:19.359 just be us today and then Dave will be back 7 00:00:19.559 --> 00:00:22.800 on Monday. All right, stop messing. 8 00:00:22.559 --> 00:00:23.760 Around you, start messing around you. 9 00:00:23.839 --> 00:00:27.480 Let's do some emails. Read This one comes from Brandon 10 00:00:27.480 --> 00:00:29.760 and says, Hey, you all need to watch by now 11 00:00:29.879 --> 00:00:33.079 The Shopping Conspiracy on Netflix right away. It's pretty crazy 12 00:00:33.200 --> 00:00:35.880 and touches on topics you have talked about passionately before. 13 00:00:36.280 --> 00:00:37.840 I just turned it on for a bit before bed, 14 00:00:37.840 --> 00:00:40.119 but apparently I'm staying up until it's over. But also 15 00:00:40.119 --> 00:00:42.759 I feel terrible because I love buying things and we'll 16 00:00:42.799 --> 00:00:45.640 be doing so this week and holiday season. Enjoy, Brandon. 17 00:00:45.759 --> 00:00:47.799 I have heard some things about this that is going 18 00:00:47.880 --> 00:00:50.799 to make you feel disgusted with your spending, and so 19 00:00:50.880 --> 00:00:53.079 I'm a little bit nervous to watch it, but I 20 00:00:53.119 --> 00:00:53.799 do want to. 21 00:00:54.079 --> 00:00:55.719 Yeah, because then maybe you can learn to be a 22 00:00:55.719 --> 00:00:57.000 better person afterwards. 23 00:00:57.039 --> 00:00:58.600 That's what I feel like. It's supposed to teach me, 24 00:00:58.679 --> 00:01:01.799 so we'll see this one, says Jenny Vaunt and Bailey. First, 25 00:01:01.840 --> 00:01:04.280 I have to say, Jenny, you rock as the host 26 00:01:04.359 --> 00:01:06.879 when Dave is gone. I don't say that lightly because 27 00:01:06.879 --> 00:01:09.239 I definitely cringe slightly in the past when Dave was gone, 28 00:01:09.239 --> 00:01:11.400 and it always made me appreciate how good he is 29 00:01:11.480 --> 00:01:14.400 and making a smooth show. But truly, you hold the 30 00:01:14.400 --> 00:01:16.079 hat to that legend and I am proud of you. 31 00:01:16.159 --> 00:01:18.079 Keep up with the great work. That's very sweet view. 32 00:01:18.359 --> 00:01:21.760 Thank you see Sydney. That is truly like I don't 33 00:01:21.760 --> 00:01:24.120 even know. To be compared to Dave is like WHOA. 34 00:01:24.439 --> 00:01:27.879 So I appreciate that. Second. On yesterday's Minnesota Bye, Vonton 35 00:01:27.879 --> 00:01:30.359 and Jenny talked about sharing details about their partners, so 36 00:01:30.400 --> 00:01:32.719 it led me to want to hear more about Bailey 37 00:01:32.719 --> 00:01:36.000 and her new relationship, Oh Trip. Bailey mentioned that Trip 38 00:01:36.040 --> 00:01:38.400 listens to the morning show. Did he listen before you 39 00:01:38.439 --> 00:01:40.359 were on the show? That's the first question. 40 00:01:40.200 --> 00:01:42.760 As far as I know, No, I mean, I could 41 00:01:42.799 --> 00:01:46.000 ask him, but it's kind of wild that, Like, now 42 00:01:46.040 --> 00:01:49.040 that I've been seeing Trip, I feel like more people 43 00:01:49.120 --> 00:01:53.159 in Northfield listen than have ever before because it is 44 00:01:53.200 --> 00:01:54.760 like a smaller community. 45 00:01:56.040 --> 00:01:57.959 And yeah, we have people who text in. 46 00:01:57.959 --> 00:02:00.719 From like the Northfield area code all the time, and 47 00:02:00.959 --> 00:02:03.359 people follow me on Instagram that are just from Northfield 48 00:02:03.400 --> 00:02:06.159 who only know who I am because I am dating 49 00:02:06.200 --> 00:02:08.159 Trip and that's so weird. 50 00:02:08.759 --> 00:02:10.479 It is weird, but it's also like really cool that 51 00:02:10.560 --> 00:02:13.080 you had that influence on getting people in Northfield to. 52 00:02:13.439 --> 00:02:14.960 You know what I can get. 53 00:02:15.000 --> 00:02:16.520 If I can get people to listen to the show 54 00:02:16.560 --> 00:02:19.400 that aren't just my friends, then I've done something good. 55 00:02:23.360 --> 00:02:23.599 Okay. 56 00:02:23.639 --> 00:02:26.080 Her next question says, have you two talked about what 57 00:02:26.120 --> 00:02:28.719 he's comfortable with you sharing or not sharing on the show? 58 00:02:29.919 --> 00:02:32.960 Not necessarily, like we haven't sat down and talked about it. 59 00:02:33.000 --> 00:02:36.039 But I think he understands that I'm going to just 60 00:02:36.120 --> 00:02:39.759 say whatever I need to say about him, not need to, 61 00:02:39.879 --> 00:02:40.520 but you know what I mean. 62 00:02:40.599 --> 00:02:42.560 But you want to say you're not going to indulge 63 00:02:42.599 --> 00:02:43.879 on every single detail of everything. 64 00:02:44.159 --> 00:02:48.719 Yeah, I know, but but no I didn't. 65 00:02:48.719 --> 00:02:49.560 I haven't seen his butt. 66 00:02:50.039 --> 00:02:50.639 I don't want to. 67 00:02:52.439 --> 00:02:55.800 But so he like, it's weird to say, but he 68 00:02:55.879 --> 00:02:59.000 is kind of like a local celebrity in Northfield. So, 69 00:02:59.080 --> 00:03:01.840 like everyone who's involved with the defeat of Jesse James 70 00:03:01.919 --> 00:03:04.039 Days knows who he is because it's like his family 71 00:03:04.840 --> 00:03:07.639 I'm quote unquote like runs it sort of or like 72 00:03:07.680 --> 00:03:11.400 they've been huge like part of it for forty fifty 73 00:03:11.479 --> 00:03:14.759 years or whatever. So like people know who Trip is, 74 00:03:14.840 --> 00:03:17.439 so he's like used to being in the public eye. 75 00:03:17.879 --> 00:03:21.080 And people were even texting me when I first started 76 00:03:21.080 --> 00:03:24.080 talking to Trip saying like you have to like watch 77 00:03:24.120 --> 00:03:27.080 out because whatever you do will not be a secret 78 00:03:27.159 --> 00:03:30.120 at all because Trip is so well known. So like 79 00:03:30.199 --> 00:03:34.439 I think we're it works out because we're both in 80 00:03:34.479 --> 00:03:38.240 the public eye. Yeah, so like I'm here like in 81 00:03:38.280 --> 00:03:41.400 Twin Cities kind of public eye and he's there Northfield 82 00:03:41.439 --> 00:03:44.039 public eye. But like I could bring him or he 83 00:03:44.039 --> 00:03:45.759 could bring me somewhere and people are gonna know who 84 00:03:45.800 --> 00:03:47.400 I am. But people are also gonna know who he is. 85 00:03:47.840 --> 00:03:50.000 So it's like, yeah, it's cool. 86 00:03:50.560 --> 00:03:51.120 It is cool. 87 00:03:51.159 --> 00:03:52.840 It's that's why I keep saying we're the Taylor and 88 00:03:52.879 --> 00:03:57.960 Travis of Minnesota right now of local fame, because yeah, 89 00:03:58.000 --> 00:04:00.759 it's so I think, like he's totally cool with being 90 00:04:01.120 --> 00:04:04.919 in the public eye to the point or to the 91 00:04:05.000 --> 00:04:06.680 extent that I talk about him on the air. 92 00:04:06.879 --> 00:04:08.199 Yeah, like he's cool with that. 93 00:04:08.680 --> 00:04:10.280 Got it, and then she has one more question, Does 94 00:04:10.280 --> 00:04:12.680 it stress you out knowing that he listens to the show? 95 00:04:12.840 --> 00:04:16.199 No, I honestly, the last two days his I don't know, 96 00:04:16.199 --> 00:04:18.680 he's been like sick or something, so he's been sleeping. Later, 97 00:04:19.439 --> 00:04:22.079 I find it comforting when he texts me during the 98 00:04:22.079 --> 00:04:24.319 show to say things that he thinks about it, and 99 00:04:24.360 --> 00:04:26.720 the last two days he hasn't been and so like 100 00:04:26.759 --> 00:04:29.079 today he texted me like, I don't know, half an 101 00:04:29.079 --> 00:04:30.240 hour ago and I was like, where have you been. 102 00:04:30.560 --> 00:04:31.199 Oh my gosh. 103 00:04:31.319 --> 00:04:32.560 Yeah, so and I'm like used to it. So No, 104 00:04:32.639 --> 00:04:34.120 it does not stress me out that he's listening. It 105 00:04:34.120 --> 00:04:36.120 stresses me out more that like my mom is listening 106 00:04:36.160 --> 00:04:40.040 all the time, because she definitely listens from start to finish. 107 00:04:40.079 --> 00:04:41.920 And I'm like, well, I've said some things that my 108 00:04:41.959 --> 00:04:44.439 mom's heard. Yeah, awkward, but yeah, I don't care if 109 00:04:44.480 --> 00:04:45.240 trip listens. 110 00:04:45.959 --> 00:04:47.639 The last thing she says is third. I know Dave 111 00:04:47.720 --> 00:04:49.560 mentions that Susan never listens to the show, but I 112 00:04:49.560 --> 00:04:52.959 guess I am not sure if Andrew or Alyssa regularly listen. 113 00:04:53.519 --> 00:04:55.560 Andrew listens every once in a while if he has 114 00:04:55.600 --> 00:04:57.600 time too. He doesn't go out of his way to listen, 115 00:04:57.639 --> 00:04:59.560 but a lot of most mornings he'll turn it on 116 00:04:59.600 --> 00:05:02.519 if he has time. But Andrew basically gets up, makes 117 00:05:02.519 --> 00:05:05.800 coffee and is immediately on phone calls or meetings or 118 00:05:05.839 --> 00:05:09.079 something for his job, so he doesn't have like the 119 00:05:09.160 --> 00:05:13.560 flexibility to listen constantly. But if someone like texts him 120 00:05:13.600 --> 00:05:15.959 and says, hey, you should listen right now or something 121 00:05:16.079 --> 00:05:19.360 like shout out Kim because she's a big listener of 122 00:05:19.360 --> 00:05:21.279 the show, and Andrew helps them buy a house recently, 123 00:05:21.319 --> 00:05:24.279 and she texted Andrew the morning lying that that girl 124 00:05:24.560 --> 00:05:27.399 said she's not Jenny pretty, she's really pretty. Yeah, And 125 00:05:27.439 --> 00:05:29.560 so she texted and she's like, you need to text 126 00:05:29.600 --> 00:05:31.519 Jenny right now and tell her that she's amazing and 127 00:05:31.560 --> 00:05:33.600 she's beautiful and blah blah blah. So Andrew just sends 128 00:05:33.639 --> 00:05:36.720 me this long text and he didn't even know what 129 00:05:36.720 --> 00:05:39.839 he was texting me about because he didn't hear the segments. 130 00:05:39.959 --> 00:05:43.639 So anyways, I've been told to tell you, yeah, beautiful below. 131 00:05:45.240 --> 00:05:47.839 What what about Elisa van Melyssa doesn't even know that 132 00:05:47.839 --> 00:05:50.439 I'm on the radio. Yeah, she she just thinks you're 133 00:05:50.480 --> 00:05:52.920 another guy who goes to an office and works. 134 00:05:53.079 --> 00:05:54.240 She thinks I'm a custodian. 135 00:05:54.360 --> 00:05:58.279 Yeah at uh at Robinsdale Elementary. Yeah, No, Alyssa doesn't 136 00:05:58.319 --> 00:05:58.920 listen to the show. 137 00:05:59.160 --> 00:06:01.000 Like she knows. I'll tell her if. 138 00:06:00.839 --> 00:06:02.879 Like we did a bit about her or something, or 139 00:06:03.000 --> 00:06:05.319 chances are like when I'm editing, like for YouTube or something, 140 00:06:05.360 --> 00:06:08.160 she'll hear me. She'll hear her name and be like, oh, 141 00:06:08.199 --> 00:06:09.639 what's that, and then I'll play like a little bit 142 00:06:09.639 --> 00:06:11.920 of it. But Alyssa doesn't care, like at all, and 143 00:06:11.959 --> 00:06:13.839 it's not in like a rude way. Alyssa just like 144 00:06:13.879 --> 00:06:17.040 even in college, I just talk. I did radio in 145 00:06:17.079 --> 00:06:18.839 college too, so she's like, oh, you're doing content? 146 00:06:19.040 --> 00:06:19.319 Whoop? 147 00:06:19.319 --> 00:06:19.519 Do do? 148 00:06:19.879 --> 00:06:20.120 Yeah? 149 00:06:20.279 --> 00:06:21.079 Do you like? 150 00:06:21.120 --> 00:06:22.759 Even when I've been like at home, like recording a 151 00:06:22.800 --> 00:06:25.199 fit like with uh it's like a top five list 152 00:06:25.279 --> 00:06:27.360 or something for my Instagram. Yeah, She'll just shut the 153 00:06:27.360 --> 00:06:29.040 door that way, she doesn't have to hear it. 154 00:06:29.120 --> 00:06:31.360 So I have to tell Andrew to leave if I'm 155 00:06:31.360 --> 00:06:33.720 like recording stuff for social media because he like just 156 00:06:33.759 --> 00:06:36.000 wants to be around and I'm like, can you go away? 157 00:06:36.160 --> 00:06:37.720 I just want to like do this without like the 158 00:06:37.759 --> 00:06:40.680 pressure of if I screw up, then you're there. 159 00:06:40.439 --> 00:06:42.639 To know me or like but I was recording my 160 00:06:42.680 --> 00:06:44.079 podcast a couple of weeks ago, because I do that 161 00:06:44.120 --> 00:06:45.319 in my bed, in our bedroom. 162 00:06:45.560 --> 00:06:47.240 She like just walked in one day and was just 163 00:06:47.240 --> 00:06:50.519 like and I was like, you come on, do you 164 00:06:50.680 --> 00:06:51.120 like hello? 165 00:06:51.399 --> 00:06:53.199 And it's very obvious because I sit there with like 166 00:06:53.240 --> 00:06:55.879 a mixer and a microphone and headphone, and she was 167 00:06:55.959 --> 00:06:57.000 just like, oh, were you recording? 168 00:06:57.079 --> 00:06:59.279 Shut up? Shut up? 169 00:07:00.160 --> 00:07:02.959 Oh gosh, okay. Well, this says jeers and happy Thanksgiving. 170 00:07:03.040 --> 00:07:05.199 Thanks for sharing everything. It's always fun to connect with 171 00:07:05.240 --> 00:07:07.639 you guys, even though I'm just a fangirl listening from Afar. 172 00:07:07.759 --> 00:07:10.120 And this comes from a Sydney So thank you, Sydney. 173 00:07:10.160 --> 00:07:12.800 Happy Thanksgiving you Sydney, see you as well. 174 00:07:13.319 --> 00:07:13.680 All right. 175 00:07:13.759 --> 00:07:16.639 This says hello to my favorite podcast that isn't in 176 00:07:16.680 --> 00:07:19.759 the true crime genre and to the best morning show 177 00:07:19.759 --> 00:07:21.800 hosts ever. I had something happened this morning, and I 178 00:07:21.839 --> 00:07:25.199 don't know if I she says, I don't know how 179 00:07:25.240 --> 00:07:29.199 I'm feeling about it as an overreaction or if it's justified. 180 00:07:29.600 --> 00:07:31.600 So of course I'm going to ask my BFFs, whom 181 00:07:31.680 --> 00:07:35.120 I never met in real life, yet here's what went down. 182 00:07:35.319 --> 00:07:38.360 We are renters, We have always been and are relatively 183 00:07:38.360 --> 00:07:41.879 familiar with the rules, regulations, and basic etiquettes. We live 184 00:07:41.959 --> 00:07:44.560 in a cute single family home and a quaint neighborhood 185 00:07:44.560 --> 00:07:47.000 in the suburbs. The people who own the house live 186 00:07:47.040 --> 00:07:49.480 out of state, so a property management company takes care 187 00:07:49.519 --> 00:07:52.160 of it. This morning, I was in the bathroom, half naked, 188 00:07:52.319 --> 00:07:55.040 catching up on yesterday's episode of The Minnesota Goodbye, about 189 00:07:55.079 --> 00:07:56.319 to get in the show er when I hear a 190 00:07:56.319 --> 00:07:59.360 commotion at the front door. I quickly throw some clothes 191 00:07:59.439 --> 00:08:01.680 back on and go see what the fuck is happening. 192 00:08:02.199 --> 00:08:04.000 I got to my door just as a strange man 193 00:08:04.079 --> 00:08:06.839 is unlocking and opening it with the key from the 194 00:08:06.879 --> 00:08:09.639 lock box that's there for the maintenance crew in case 195 00:08:09.639 --> 00:08:12.560 I'm not home and there's an emergency. Now I'm freaking 196 00:08:12.600 --> 00:08:15.519 out because I'm home alone, half naked, and not expecting anyone. 197 00:08:15.759 --> 00:08:17.439 He said that he was sent by the owner to 198 00:08:17.480 --> 00:08:20.120 inspect the electrical work. She gave him the coach to 199 00:08:20.160 --> 00:08:22.160 the lock box and told them to go in. We 200 00:08:22.199 --> 00:08:25.079 have always received a text message at least twenty four 201 00:08:25.079 --> 00:08:28.399 hours prior to anyone coming for maintenance, but no warning 202 00:08:28.439 --> 00:08:31.120 this time. I will add that he was from a 203 00:08:31.199 --> 00:08:34.759 legit company and I don't expect anything nefarious on his 204 00:08:34.840 --> 00:08:37.039 side of things. He was just doing what he was told. 205 00:08:37.360 --> 00:08:39.720 I'm extra pissed because there are two women in this 206 00:08:39.879 --> 00:08:42.519 home who should feel safe and secure in the fact 207 00:08:42.559 --> 00:08:45.200 that strangers will not be entering our home unannounced at 208 00:08:45.200 --> 00:08:48.240 any time. I have emailed the property managers and asked 209 00:08:48.279 --> 00:08:51.080 them to remind the owners that there are rules regarding this, 210 00:08:51.240 --> 00:08:53.120 and it stated in our lease that we be given 211 00:08:53.200 --> 00:08:56.600 reasonable notice. However, ten hours later, I'm still mad and 212 00:08:56.639 --> 00:08:59.000 I need to rant. Has anyone else dealt with a 213 00:08:59.039 --> 00:09:02.279 similar situation, and if so, how did you deal with it? 214 00:09:02.320 --> 00:09:04.960 We still have ten months until we can move out, 215 00:09:05.039 --> 00:09:07.519 and this was really unsettling. Thanks again for all that 216 00:09:07.559 --> 00:09:11.159 you do keeping my dartboard covered and so I know 217 00:09:11.200 --> 00:09:14.039 there are no strangers lurking at my front door, and 218 00:09:14.080 --> 00:09:15.879 that comes from Jamie. 219 00:09:16.039 --> 00:09:16.240 Yeah. 220 00:09:16.279 --> 00:09:18.320 I mean, the rule obviously is always like you need 221 00:09:18.320 --> 00:09:21.559 a twenty four hour notice, so that's a huge one. 222 00:09:21.639 --> 00:09:22.360 Barely what about you. 223 00:09:22.519 --> 00:09:25.399 I've I've had people like my landlord maybe like put 224 00:09:25.440 --> 00:09:26.799 up a sign that says, like, you need to move 225 00:09:26.840 --> 00:09:28.879 your car in the next twelve hours out of the 226 00:09:28.919 --> 00:09:30.240 parking lot so we can do this that and the 227 00:09:30.320 --> 00:09:32.159 other thing or whatever, or we're shutting off the water 228 00:09:32.320 --> 00:09:34.720 in five hours and we're like okay. 229 00:09:34.399 --> 00:09:36.320 But at least it's like a little bit. 230 00:09:36.279 --> 00:09:40.840 Of like forward. But it should be twenty four hours 231 00:09:40.840 --> 00:09:43.240 and nobody should be coming into your apartment. So I 232 00:09:43.240 --> 00:09:45.720 don't think you are overreacting that at all. It's like 233 00:09:45.759 --> 00:09:48.440 one thing if they're doing like work in the building 234 00:09:48.519 --> 00:09:51.159 and they don't give you a notice of that, but 235 00:09:51.159 --> 00:09:54.360 if they're coming into the place where you live, absolutely not, 236 00:09:54.720 --> 00:09:57.440 like you would have to get twenty four hours of 237 00:09:57.480 --> 00:10:03.519 expec are twenty four hours the word advanced notice. Yeah, 238 00:10:03.679 --> 00:10:05.399 before that they that they come in. So I don't 239 00:10:05.399 --> 00:10:06.960 think you're overreacting at all. 240 00:10:07.320 --> 00:10:11.720 I would be pissed. Yeah, I don't want to say gracious. 241 00:10:11.759 --> 00:10:14.879 I'm just I'm thinking of Me and Alyssa were getting 242 00:10:14.879 --> 00:10:18.480 emails our entire apartment building about like, hey, there's a 243 00:10:18.559 --> 00:10:20.279 maintenance chat. I don't know what the fuck it was 244 00:10:20.279 --> 00:10:22.080 with some kind of inspection. Yeah, and it was like 245 00:10:22.120 --> 00:10:23.840 going on for weeks, like and it's at random, we'll 246 00:10:23.879 --> 00:10:25.159 pick random apartment units. 247 00:10:25.399 --> 00:10:26.080 Me and Alyssa. 248 00:10:26.519 --> 00:10:32.600 Uh, ironically, we were getting ready to bake cookies. Bake cookies, yes, 249 00:10:32.639 --> 00:10:34.519 and I get a phone call, I'm like, what the 250 00:10:34.519 --> 00:10:35.919 fuck is calling me? And I see it's like our 251 00:10:35.960 --> 00:10:37.679 area codes. I'm like hello, and they're like, oh, yeah, 252 00:10:37.679 --> 00:10:39.519 we'll be at your unit in like two minutes to. 253 00:10:39.440 --> 00:10:42.440 Do this the heck, Like you can't. Yeah, I don't know. 254 00:10:42.399 --> 00:10:44.440 If that's technically like because they gave us like a 255 00:10:44.879 --> 00:10:45.720 random warning. 256 00:10:45.840 --> 00:10:47.799 Yeah, but still I feel like that's not even that's 257 00:10:47.840 --> 00:10:49.960 not enough, Like you should know when someone's coming into 258 00:10:49.960 --> 00:10:50.759 the place where you live. 259 00:10:50.919 --> 00:10:53.519 Yeah, like not within two minutes. Yeah yeah, that's like 260 00:10:53.799 --> 00:10:54.879 if I was in the shower. 261 00:10:54.679 --> 00:10:56.639 Right, Yeah, if you didn't get that and then you 262 00:10:56.759 --> 00:10:58.960 just heard someone coming in to your apartment. No, She's 263 00:10:59.039 --> 00:11:02.600 totally valid in being like frightened in that moment. That's why, 264 00:11:02.759 --> 00:11:04.679 like I'm always so thankful that I have like a 265 00:11:05.320 --> 00:11:06.840 like I have a regular lock, and then I have 266 00:11:06.879 --> 00:11:08.840 a dead lock, like the chain, Like they ain't getting 267 00:11:08.879 --> 00:11:11.240 through that chain. So I'm always chaining my door just 268 00:11:11.279 --> 00:11:14.039 in case for like these very situations, like you can 269 00:11:14.080 --> 00:11:18.279 never tell exactly who's just going to walk in whenever. 270 00:11:18.919 --> 00:11:21.039 I have never had like the chain lock before, but 271 00:11:21.080 --> 00:11:22.759 I do have one creepy story from when I was 272 00:11:22.799 --> 00:11:25.000 a renter. I lived in the same place for four 273 00:11:25.039 --> 00:11:28.039 years and someone bought it like a year in and 274 00:11:28.120 --> 00:11:30.320 so he had the same like maintenance people that would 275 00:11:30.320 --> 00:11:32.639 always be coming in and doing stuff. And that was 276 00:11:32.639 --> 00:11:34.919 fine and they usually were really great with everything. But 277 00:11:35.039 --> 00:11:37.360 one time I had gotten home from the morning show, 278 00:11:37.840 --> 00:11:39.639 took a show or did whatever, and then I went 279 00:11:39.679 --> 00:11:41.840 to take a nap in the afternoon. And I was 280 00:11:41.879 --> 00:11:43.919 taking a nap, I heard the knocking at the door, 281 00:11:44.279 --> 00:11:45.799 but I was like, Okay, I know they're coming in 282 00:11:45.799 --> 00:11:49.240 for maintenance. Yea, So because I had requested something, so 283 00:11:49.320 --> 00:11:50.799 I'm not going to answer the door. They need to 284 00:11:50.799 --> 00:11:53.000 go to my bathroom. The door shut to my bedroom. 285 00:11:53.240 --> 00:11:55.519 I don't need to get up and like acknowledge anything. 286 00:11:55.519 --> 00:11:58.360 He can just go into the bathroom. And so I'm 287 00:11:58.399 --> 00:12:01.440 like in there trying to take a nap, and he 288 00:12:01.519 --> 00:12:05.360 goes and opens my door to my bedroom and looks in. 289 00:12:05.919 --> 00:12:08.799 Now I didn't I pretended to keep sleeping in that 290 00:12:08.840 --> 00:12:12.320 moment because it was so fucking uncomfortable. 291 00:12:13.039 --> 00:12:14.759 But I was also going to do like sit up 292 00:12:14.799 --> 00:12:17.120 and be like hello, that would be so weird. 293 00:12:16.919 --> 00:12:20.600 Too, So because I didn't witness it though, because I 294 00:12:20.639 --> 00:12:22.639 pretend to be sleeping in and had my eyeshut I 295 00:12:22.639 --> 00:12:24.399 didn't like physically see it with my eyes, but I 296 00:12:24.399 --> 00:12:27.200 can obviously hear my door open and someone kind of 297 00:12:27.200 --> 00:12:30.159 like looking in and stuff. And I sat there and 298 00:12:30.200 --> 00:12:32.039 I was like, what do I do, Like do I 299 00:12:32.159 --> 00:12:36.600 email the landlord or what? So honestly, I didn't do 300 00:12:36.639 --> 00:12:39.159 anything about it. I just made sure like the next time, 301 00:12:39.559 --> 00:12:41.159 the next handful of times, if it ever would have 302 00:12:41.159 --> 00:12:42.919 happened again, then I would have been like, yo, you 303 00:12:42.919 --> 00:12:45.360 got to get your maintenance people on lock, because this 304 00:12:45.519 --> 00:12:46.759 is not appropriate at all. 305 00:12:46.799 --> 00:12:48.279 I'm glad that he didn't just like open the door 306 00:12:48.279 --> 00:12:49.559 and just stand there and stare at you. 307 00:12:49.720 --> 00:12:52.919 No, I just like opened it, and who knows, like 308 00:12:53.000 --> 00:12:55.799 maybe maybe he was like trying to check for something else, 309 00:12:55.840 --> 00:12:57.519 so he opened the door and assumed I wasn't home, 310 00:12:57.559 --> 00:13:00.720 since I like didn't come out and acknowledge. But regardless, 311 00:13:00.879 --> 00:13:02.720 still there, the bedroom door is locked, and it's a 312 00:13:02.720 --> 00:13:04.480 one bedroom apartment. It's not like he didn't know what 313 00:13:04.559 --> 00:13:06.919 door he was opening. It's the only other door in 314 00:13:06.960 --> 00:13:13.639 my apartment. It was Reddy Graby. So anyways, in your thoughts, 315 00:13:14.080 --> 00:13:15.679 and I think Jamie, you should follow up with those 316 00:13:15.720 --> 00:13:17.600 people again and say, hey, just want to make sure 317 00:13:17.639 --> 00:13:19.720 that you guys know that this is not okay, and 318 00:13:19.759 --> 00:13:22.960 I want a response to know that you're aware of 319 00:13:23.000 --> 00:13:30.039 what I sent you. So let's she The next one says, Hi, 320 00:13:30.200 --> 00:13:34.720 my favorite Dart liquors. I absolutely love the vant. We 321 00:13:34.759 --> 00:13:37.080 could go with all the sound effects. Get out of here, 322 00:13:38.159 --> 00:13:40.960 I will start over it. She says, I absolutely love 323 00:13:41.000 --> 00:13:44.200 the current crew. Everyone's different personalities and the way you 324 00:13:44.200 --> 00:13:46.399 all just work together. The way you do just makes 325 00:13:46.440 --> 00:13:49.360 the show. You each bring something different and it works. 326 00:13:49.360 --> 00:13:52.320 Here's a question. How do you feel about your significant 327 00:13:52.360 --> 00:13:55.559 others saying love you instead of I love you? Do 328 00:13:55.600 --> 00:13:57.960 you feel like it has different meanings when said with 329 00:13:58.320 --> 00:14:01.240 or without the eye? My boyfriend is plus years tends 330 00:14:01.279 --> 00:14:03.559 to text and say love you more than he doesn't. 331 00:14:03.600 --> 00:14:04.159 I love you. 332 00:14:04.240 --> 00:14:05.559 Just a topic that's been on my mind for a 333 00:14:05.600 --> 00:14:09.120 long time. A right that comes from Patty. 334 00:14:09.480 --> 00:14:10.159 That's interesting. 335 00:14:10.440 --> 00:14:11.519 Yeah, what do you guys think. 336 00:14:11.720 --> 00:14:15.279 I used to be you like I used to care? 337 00:14:15.559 --> 00:14:17.720 There's a difference between love you and I love you, 338 00:14:18.159 --> 00:14:20.519 and I'm not big on it now, but I feel. 339 00:14:20.320 --> 00:14:21.639 About babe and baby. 340 00:14:21.879 --> 00:14:22.120 Yeah. 341 00:14:22.200 --> 00:14:23.960 I don't know why. Just babe to me is like 342 00:14:24.039 --> 00:14:25.200 anybody can be babe. 343 00:14:25.240 --> 00:14:28.120 Sure, but like I call Alyssa and I call each 344 00:14:28.120 --> 00:14:31.639 other honey or baby, and I guess theoretically somebody could 345 00:14:31.639 --> 00:14:33.279 be Thoset also, but I don't know. They just have 346 00:14:33.360 --> 00:14:35.919 more meaning behind him. Babe is just so generous, just 347 00:14:35.960 --> 00:14:37.360 like love you. It is like, but do. 348 00:14:37.279 --> 00:14:39.240 You Yeah, I feel like you say I love you 349 00:14:39.279 --> 00:14:42.039 when you're having like a conversation about your relationship and 350 00:14:42.039 --> 00:14:44.279 how you feel about each other versus love you is 351 00:14:44.320 --> 00:14:45.679 like a thing you say in passing. 352 00:14:46.320 --> 00:14:50.279 Yeah, I agree, I don't know. I Andrew and I 353 00:14:50.320 --> 00:14:53.080 will always say I'm pretty sure. We just say love 354 00:14:53.120 --> 00:14:54.720 you when we get off the phone. It'll be like, hey, 355 00:14:54.720 --> 00:14:56.840 i'm gonna I'll see in a few minutes, I'm almost home, 356 00:14:56.960 --> 00:14:59.879 or I gotta get going, I'm at my appointment. Okay, 357 00:15:00.200 --> 00:15:02.240 you love you by and that's all it is. Yeah, 358 00:15:02.240 --> 00:15:04.639 and I don't really care. We don't really text much, 359 00:15:04.759 --> 00:15:07.240 so I don't have that like physical form of I 360 00:15:07.320 --> 00:15:08.200 love you versus love you. 361 00:15:09.120 --> 00:15:11.120 I really think text Andrella. 362 00:15:10.919 --> 00:15:13.559 No, I hate texting. We are both like phone call people, 363 00:15:13.639 --> 00:15:15.559 so we talk on the phone if we feel like talking. 364 00:15:15.600 --> 00:15:17.919 Most of the time, unless it's like we're both busy 365 00:15:17.919 --> 00:15:20.039 with something but I don't text her in the morning 366 00:15:20.039 --> 00:15:22.120 show because I like have to stay focused, So I 367 00:15:22.120 --> 00:15:25.519 don't really text anyone during the morning show. And so 368 00:15:25.960 --> 00:15:30.039 I just really don't text him unless like something wild happens, 369 00:15:30.279 --> 00:15:32.480 then maybe I would text him something that happened in 370 00:15:32.480 --> 00:15:35.480 the show. But for the most part, I just like 371 00:15:35.559 --> 00:15:37.399 give him the update when I get home, because we 372 00:15:37.480 --> 00:15:41.080 always catch up at like either the end of the 373 00:15:41.159 --> 00:15:42.799 day or when we first see each other for the 374 00:15:42.840 --> 00:15:45.000 first time in like the afternoon. Sure, that's when we 375 00:15:45.039 --> 00:15:47.080 like catch up. So but I'm not I've told you 376 00:15:47.120 --> 00:15:49.039 guys this, I'm not a Texter. I don't like I 377 00:15:49.080 --> 00:15:51.840 really don't like texting. It's not my thing. And I 378 00:15:51.879 --> 00:15:54.600 am awful with my family. They will text back and 379 00:15:54.639 --> 00:15:57.320 forth about things and I will forget to respond for days. 380 00:15:57.240 --> 00:15:59.879 And I do that. Yeah, I'm bad at texting, but 381 00:15:59.879 --> 00:16:01.320 I don't not like texting. 382 00:16:01.399 --> 00:16:03.480 Has that been a red flag for you in relationships? Jenny? 383 00:16:03.759 --> 00:16:04.720 What people texting? 384 00:16:05.120 --> 00:16:05.320 Well? 385 00:16:05.600 --> 00:16:06.639 You not texting people? 386 00:16:06.679 --> 00:16:08.279 Like, have people said something to you about it, like, hey, 387 00:16:08.279 --> 00:16:11.279 why don't you text mex period? 388 00:16:11.519 --> 00:16:14.759 Not really, because I think most of the people I 389 00:16:14.799 --> 00:16:16.919 respond to texts that are important the morning show stuff, 390 00:16:16.960 --> 00:16:19.720 I will always respond when I see it, unless I'm sleeping. 391 00:16:19.879 --> 00:16:21.759 Then that's the only reason you're not hearing back from me, 392 00:16:22.080 --> 00:16:24.320 like within a couple hours. Is if I took a 393 00:16:24.399 --> 00:16:26.879 nap or something. That's like the only reason I wouldn't 394 00:16:26.879 --> 00:16:28.840 respond to that. But like other things, I am the 395 00:16:28.879 --> 00:16:31.039 person who says I don't have the mental capacity to 396 00:16:31.080 --> 00:16:34.360 respond right now. And honestly, the group of girlfriends that 397 00:16:34.399 --> 00:16:37.480 I'm in a text chain with, we are all the same. 398 00:16:37.720 --> 00:16:41.519 We all will text something and then one of nobody 399 00:16:41.559 --> 00:16:43.960 will respond for like a day, then someone remembers to respond, 400 00:16:43.960 --> 00:16:46.159 then we all start responding. We're like, shit, sorry you forgot. 401 00:16:46.360 --> 00:16:48.320