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Speaker 1: This is tj Amanda and j Rud's second.

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Speaker 2: Date update on kJ one O three Jocelyn from Okay

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see on the second date update.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, josson, good.

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Speaker 4: Morning, Good morning. How are you guys?

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Speaker 3: You met Garrett at Dollar Tree? Is that right? All right?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well sure, let's go ahead.

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Speaker 1: My stupid car, I needed jumper cables.

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Speaker 4: I needed somebody to help me.

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Speaker 1: And so he basically was able to.

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Speaker 4: Be my hero and like hook me up, take me

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to be.

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Speaker 3: A new battery, some like save my day. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean he's like he's super hot, right, that's not

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kind of tall, and he's good looking, and so in

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my mind, I'm like, dang, this is like how did

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I get so lucky? Right out? Okay, we exchanged numbers

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even and started talking and that's basically how we met.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you go on a date, obviously you think

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it went well, but you're on the second date updates,

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so where are where are we now?

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Speaker 4: Wrong? Well, we met for dinner on the very next day,

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and it was like it was really fun.

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Speaker 5: We had a really good time.

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Speaker 4: Like I'm sitting there thinking this is it right? Like wait,

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maybe we met at a dollar Tree, but it's like a.

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It's like a wrong com right, thank you. Next, he's

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basically saying we need to do this again sometimes, like

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we need sometime soon. But he that's the last thing

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I've got from him.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So he so he was the one that said

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we need to do this again sometime, but then just

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now then just kind of the.

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Speaker 4: Exactly exactly you know, and you don't say that.

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Speaker 2: You need to find out what Yeah, hey, right, maybe

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we need to get some jumper cables and charge this

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relationship there. So we will get Garrett on the phone

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and we'll find out what's happening as to why he

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seemed like he wanted a second date and now nothing.

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Speaker 3: Okay, the idea, well, we we can get this fixed, Jocelyn.

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Speaker 4: Okay, thank you, guys. I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: The Second Date update with TJ, Amanda.

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Speaker 2: And j Rod On KJE three, we tracked down Garrett

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for the second Date update.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for coming on Garrett.

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Speaker 6: Garrett, Hi, thanks for having me guys.

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Speaker 2: So Jocelyn said, you know, you met at the Dollar Tree,

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you helped fix her car, you had a great dinner.

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You even text her afterwards said we got to do

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this again sometime, and then you just bailed.

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Speaker 3: She hasn't heard from you since. So what's going on?

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Speaker 2: What made you change your opinion of going out again

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with Jocelyn?

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Speaker 3: What was that sorry about?

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Speaker 6: Well, all right, so let me take me and she Yeah,

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she's attractive. We did have a very nice time at

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dinner and everything. But I made the mistake of looking

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at her social media. Okay, and she's one of those

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people I'm sure you know them that kind of threatens

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to unfollow everyone, you.

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Speaker 4: Know what I mean, Like how like she starts.

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Speaker 6: To well, she'll post like if you don't like what

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I'm about to say, then you can just go ahead

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and unfollow me, like you could just feel, you know

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what I mean. Or you know, she's like got post

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talking about how she'll just unfriend a few hundred people

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they have different beliefs than her. Okay, so very negative.

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It just seems very high school and immature.

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Speaker 3: Wow, Okay, dang dude.

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Speaker 4: Well, and so then that means I guess you'd disagree

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with my opinion.

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Speaker 2: But Jocelyn's on the phone, Yes, yes, Jocelyn, awesome.

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Speaker 6: Well, actually I agree with a lot of the things

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you say there.

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Speaker 4: Well, then what the heck, why do you even care

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or unfollow or what does that have to if if

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you agree with me, then why does it matter?

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Speaker 6: Well, why do you have to be so like high

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and mighty and don't follow everybody?

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Speaker 5: Because I don't want to have to deal with their books? Basically,

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some days I don't want to deal with it. I

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can't deal with it. It's too much sometimes I do.

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So you're like, if you don't agree with me, even

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get hit and un follow me.

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Speaker 3: Okay, wow, we don't got to get mean about it?

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Speaker 4: Then, Like, why does even any of that?

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Speaker 3: Social media is not real? Guys, it's not.

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Speaker 6: It's a little narcissistic to think that you know, people's

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social media lives revolved around your profound opinions.

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Speaker 2: Wow, Garrett, Yeah, your strong feelings on this social media

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is real for Garrett right.

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Speaker 4: Well, and I feel like, get over yourself, Garrett, because

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it's not that big of a deal.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but okay, but Garrett, you you seem to be

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annoyed by this seriously, So this is your deal breaker

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why you won't go out again?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean her social.

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Speaker 6: Media has a lot of negative energy, so guess what

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also has a lot of negative energy for real life?

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Wow, Okay, this is something bad bad energy here. Okay,

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all right, Garrett, thanks for coming on the second date update.

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Speaker 3: We appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Man having their car at least, I guess okay, bye, wow,

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that was that was a lot uglier than I thought

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it was gonna be.

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Speaker 3: You look, you look very uncomfortable, Amanda.

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Speaker 5: If if somebody is a certain way on social media,

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I don't think.

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Speaker 2: That necessarily means that's the way they are in real life.

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Speaker 1: I'm like baffled right now, Like, well, this is a

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perfect example of why I unfollow people, because I give

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people a chance, do you know what I mean? And

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then after you realize that they're dramatic and like materialistic

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and shallow, then they're out there.

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Speaker 4: I do unfollow them. But it's my social media, so

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I should be able to do whatever I want.

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean, it's your corner. You can

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do what you do.

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Speaker 4: It's my algorithm for God's sake, like g But whatever,

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if you.

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Speaker 2: Don't like these states, how does my hel charism? Okay, well, Jocelyn,

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sorry we didn't get you another day with Garrett. But yeah,

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there there definitely wasn't a match there right now.

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Speaker 4: You saved me.

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Speaker 3: You saved me.

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Speaker 1: He was like a Googler.

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Speaker 3: Well it's a new one. I haven't heard that one.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Hey Jocelyn, good luck with everything.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for coming on the second date update. Okay, thanks guys.

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All right, and kind I kind of get what this

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isn't about social media at all. Right.

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Speaker 2: This is like, if let's say I just and I

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I do both of these. Let's say I just, I

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don't know, I'll just pick a random restaurant, a taco bell.

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This isn't true, but I'd be like, I'm kind of

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done with taco Bell.

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Speaker 3: But then you have to walk around and go.

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Speaker 2: I just want everyone to know that I don't eat

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a taco bell anymore. I'm just over tackle bell. It's like, okay,

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can you just just friend me without telling everybody how?

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I don't know what your thoughts four oh five for

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six O one O two seven does the I just

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want everyone, if you don't agree with me, to unfriend

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me or I've unfriended this many people like, explain explain why.

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Speaker 3: This is a thing. Yeah, for for all of us.

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I think I get it. I think you're gonna do

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that is really what it's the why? Right, Yeah, it's

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or you don't have to. I don't know, I don't know. Yeah, yeah, whatever.

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They're not a good match. They're not. It's okay though

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it happens.

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Speaker 2: You know, there could be someone else that she meets

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that's like, amen, sister.

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Speaker 3: The whole thing perfectly true, and comes over my way.

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He's like, Okay, it's not that person, all right. kJ

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onele three t j Amanda J. Rodd in the morning,