Speaker 1: This is tj Amanda and j Rud's second.
Speaker 2: Date update on kJ one O three Jocelyn from Okay
see on the second date update.
Speaker 3: Good morning, josson, good.
Speaker 4: Morning, Good morning. How are you guys?
Speaker 3: You met Garrett at Dollar Tree? Is that right? All right?
Speaker 4: Yeah, well sure, let's go ahead.
Speaker 1: My stupid car, I needed jumper cables.
Speaker 4: I needed somebody to help me.
Speaker 1: And so he basically was able to.
Speaker 4: Be my hero and like hook me up, take me
to be.
Speaker 3: A new battery, some like save my day. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I mean he's like he's super hot, right, that's not
kind of tall, and he's good looking, and so in
my mind, I'm like, dang, this is like how did
I get so lucky? Right out? Okay, we exchanged numbers
even and started talking and that's basically how we met.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you go on a date, obviously you think
it went well, but you're on the second date updates,
so where are where are we now?
Speaker 4: Wrong? Well, we met for dinner on the very next day,
and it was like it was really fun.
Speaker 5: We had a really good time.
Speaker 4: Like I'm sitting there thinking this is it right? Like wait,
maybe we met at a dollar Tree, but it's like a.
It's like a wrong com right, thank you. Next, he's
basically saying we need to do this again sometimes, like
we need sometime soon. But he that's the last thing
I've got from him.
Speaker 2: Okay, So he so he was the one that said
we need to do this again sometime, but then just
now then just kind of the.
Speaker 4: Exactly exactly you know, and you don't say that.
Speaker 2: You need to find out what Yeah, hey, right, maybe
we need to get some jumper cables and charge this
relationship there. So we will get Garrett on the phone
and we'll find out what's happening as to why he
seemed like he wanted a second date and now nothing.
Speaker 3: Okay, the idea, well, we we can get this fixed, Jocelyn.
Speaker 4: Okay, thank you, guys. I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: The Second Date update with TJ, Amanda.
Speaker 2: And j Rod On KJE three, we tracked down Garrett
for the second Date update.
Speaker 3: Thanks for coming on Garrett.
Speaker 6: Garrett, Hi, thanks for having me guys.
Speaker 2: So Jocelyn said, you know, you met at the Dollar Tree,
you helped fix her car, you had a great dinner.
You even text her afterwards said we got to do
this again sometime, and then you just bailed.
Speaker 3: She hasn't heard from you since. So what's going on?
Speaker 2: What made you change your opinion of going out again
with Jocelyn?
Speaker 3: What was that sorry about?
Speaker 6: Well, all right, so let me take me and she Yeah,
she's attractive. We did have a very nice time at
dinner and everything. But I made the mistake of looking
at her social media. Okay, and she's one of those
people I'm sure you know them that kind of threatens
to unfollow everyone, you.
Speaker 4: Know what I mean, Like how like she starts.
Speaker 6: To well, she'll post like if you don't like what
I'm about to say, then you can just go ahead
and unfollow me, like you could just feel, you know
what I mean. Or you know, she's like got post
talking about how she'll just unfriend a few hundred people
they have different beliefs than her. Okay, so very negative.
It just seems very high school and immature.
Speaker 3: Wow, Okay, dang dude.
Speaker 4: Well, and so then that means I guess you'd disagree
with my opinion.
Speaker 2: But Jocelyn's on the phone, Yes, yes, Jocelyn, awesome.
Speaker 6: Well, actually I agree with a lot of the things
you say there.
Speaker 4: Well, then what the heck, why do you even care
or unfollow or what does that have to if if
you agree with me, then why does it matter?
Speaker 6: Well, why do you have to be so like high
and mighty and don't follow everybody?
Speaker 5: Because I don't want to have to deal with their books? Basically,
some days I don't want to deal with it. I
can't deal with it. It's too much sometimes I do.
So you're like, if you don't agree with me, even
get hit and un follow me.
Speaker 3: Okay, wow, we don't got to get mean about it?
Speaker 4: Then, Like, why does even any of that?
Speaker 3: Social media is not real? Guys, it's not.
Speaker 6: It's a little narcissistic to think that you know, people's
social media lives revolved around your profound opinions.
Speaker 2: Wow, Garrett, Yeah, your strong feelings on this social media
is real for Garrett right.
Speaker 4: Well, and I feel like, get over yourself, Garrett, because
it's not that big of a deal.
Speaker 2: Okay, but okay, but Garrett, you you seem to be
annoyed by this seriously, So this is your deal breaker
why you won't go out again?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean her social.
Speaker 6: Media has a lot of negative energy, so guess what
also has a lot of negative energy for real life?
Speaker 4: Wow?
Speaker 2: Wow, Okay, this is something bad bad energy here. Okay,
all right, Garrett, thanks for coming on the second date update.
Speaker 3: We appreciate it.
Speaker 2: Man having their car at least, I guess okay, bye, wow,
that was that was a lot uglier than I thought
it was gonna be.
Speaker 3: You look, you look very uncomfortable, Amanda.
Speaker 5: If if somebody is a certain way on social media,
I don't think.
Speaker 2: That necessarily means that's the way they are in real life.
Speaker 1: I'm like baffled right now, Like, well, this is a
perfect example of why I unfollow people, because I give
people a chance, do you know what I mean? And
then after you realize that they're dramatic and like materialistic
and shallow, then they're out there.
Speaker 4: I do unfollow them. But it's my social media, so
I should be able to do whatever I want.
Speaker 3: You know what I mean, it's your corner. You can
do what you do.
Speaker 4: It's my algorithm for God's sake, like g But whatever,
if you.
Speaker 2: Don't like these states, how does my hel charism? Okay, well, Jocelyn,
sorry we didn't get you another day with Garrett. But yeah,
there there definitely wasn't a match there right now.
Speaker 4: You saved me.
Speaker 3: You saved me.
Speaker 1: He was like a Googler.
Speaker 3: Well it's a new one. I haven't heard that one.
Speaker 2: Okay, Hey Jocelyn, good luck with everything.
Speaker 3: Thanks for coming on the second date update. Okay, thanks guys.
All right, and kind I kind of get what this
isn't about social media at all. Right.
Speaker 2: This is like, if let's say I just and I
I do both of these. Let's say I just, I
don't know, I'll just pick a random restaurant, a taco bell.
This isn't true, but I'd be like, I'm kind of
done with taco Bell.
Speaker 3: But then you have to walk around and go.
Speaker 2: I just want everyone to know that I don't eat
a taco bell anymore. I'm just over tackle bell. It's like, okay,
can you just just friend me without telling everybody how?
I don't know what your thoughts four oh five for
six O one O two seven does the I just
want everyone, if you don't agree with me, to unfriend
me or I've unfriended this many people like, explain explain why.
Speaker 3: This is a thing. Yeah, for for all of us.
I think I get it. I think you're gonna do
that is really what it's the why? Right, Yeah, it's
or you don't have to. I don't know, I don't know. Yeah, yeah, whatever.
They're not a good match. They're not. It's okay though
it happens.
Speaker 2: You know, there could be someone else that she meets
that's like, amen, sister.
Speaker 3: The whole thing perfectly true, and comes over my way.
He's like, Okay, it's not that person, all right. kJ
onele three t j Amanda J. Rodd in the morning,