Speaker 1: Weird things happened in the backyard.
Speaker 2: Weird, weird, weird. I'm sorry, I'm in myself laugh doing that.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but we can start like that. It's okay.
Speaker 2: That was great. Thank you, dude, thank you. You're thirty one.
Speaker 2: Now you're what were you saying, Alex over the hill?
Speaker 3: Thirty one runs over the hill.
Speaker 4: I'm feeling different, you feel different? Yeah, I'm seeing things different.
Speaker 3: Really, so getting that social Security check?
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, man, And I just you know, it's it's
Speaker 4: a little bit tougher to wake up every day.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie, bro, that's some bull literally, like
Speaker 2: since we were thirteen, you couldn't get out of bed.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true, bro, which is thirty one in reverse?
Speaker 2: Oh yo, you know at this point we have for
Speaker 2: sure known each other like more than half of our lives.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, dude, since twelve and eleven. Really yeah, damn,
Speaker 2: that's crazy me In case, we were talking about that
Speaker 2: the other day, I was like, twenty years. Yeah, oh
Speaker 2: my god, dude, twenty years seems like the duration of
Speaker 2: my life. So anything longer than that is, like, that's
Speaker 2: for sure not real. Like I don't I feel thirty,
Speaker 2: but I also I'm like that seems old as am.
Speaker 3: I don't remember like ten years of your life.
Speaker 2: No, I don't remember the majority of my life. To
Speaker 2: be honest, I feel like a child. They let drive.
Speaker 2: Who's they? Yeah? Who is they?
Speaker 3: The powers that the people who let me get my license, the.
Speaker 2: Powers that be state.
Speaker 3: I guess I don't know power, the power with the.
Speaker 2: Governor, the mayor. How are we doing, boys, I'm doing good? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm doing good. Tired today? Yeah? Yeah? We little Debbie
Speaker 2: little Oh that was a little Debbie by the way,
Speaker 2: that wasn't like honestly, I've seen way worse than Fable.
Speaker 2: But I'm also I've been telling people because people in
Speaker 2: my office were like that was Everybody got way too
Speaker 2: bent out of shape about this Hurricane Debora. If there's people,
Speaker 2: I'm sure, like Grace in Australia has no idea what
Speaker 2: we're talking about when we say little Debbie.
Speaker 3: Pretty sure they get typhoons. Yeah, which is a hurricane
Speaker 3: spins in reverse?
Speaker 2: It's a hurricane. No it's not.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm pretty sure it does.
Speaker 2: That's not what that is.
Speaker 3: They get monsters, it's a different hemisphere spends the other way. Oh,
Speaker 3: the toilet's also flush.
Speaker 2: I feel like that part's a myth.
Speaker 3: I'll find it out.
Speaker 2: No, I feel like that that is probably not true
Speaker 2: at all. But yeah, I thinking it was gonna be worse. Well,
Speaker 2: everybody was. Everybody like, at least at work, We're like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, it's gonna be so terrible, Like we
Speaker 2: couldn't find water. Oh yeah, we went to Walmart. There's
Speaker 2: like no water, no milk, no bread, know, nothing whatever.
Speaker 2: And then it was like, not not really that bad
Speaker 2: at all.
Speaker 4: That's every storm. I think, like people always freak out,
Speaker 4: what are you laughing about?
Speaker 3: Ultimately, after all of the scientific talk has been done,
Speaker 3: we can confidently state that the only thing that has
Speaker 3: an influence on which way down the drain the water
Speaker 3: goes in Australia is the shape of the basin that
Speaker 3: you are using.
Speaker 2: You see what I'm saying, Dude. You can't freaking believe
Speaker 2: everything you see on the internet.
Speaker 3: So you thought for a moment that the water in
Speaker 3: Australia reverse different?
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm I'm sure he thought that his entire life.
Speaker 2: Am I wrong? You thought that's been the truth? I
Speaker 2: love you, It's been the truth. That's what I'm saying like, man,
Speaker 2: I've heard that my whole life. Have you never heard that?
Speaker 4: What about Australian water reverse different?
Speaker 2: Yes, you've never heard that. I've heard that my entire life.
Speaker 3: Okay, tropical cyclones above the equator's been counterclockwise, while those
Speaker 3: below it'spin clockwise. So tropical that part tropical cyclones, that
Speaker 3: being tropical storms, hurricanes, and typhoons.
Speaker 2: Uh well, then that means that a typhoon is not
Speaker 2: just a reverse hurricane, so they don't typhoon.
Speaker 3: A typhoon in the southern hemisphere below the equator spins different, sir.
Speaker 2: That is not what we are discussing here, and I'm
Speaker 2: gonna need you to just fess up.
Speaker 3: No, no, this is where we started. But I likened
Speaker 3: this to flushing the toilet because the time I flushed
Speaker 3: the toilet was a bigger storm than Debbie.
Speaker 2: Uh huh right, but right, yeah, for sure.
Speaker 3: That's how we got there. Yeah.
Speaker 4: Man, people are always freaking out about storms, and I
Speaker 4: don't know. I saw the report that they were like
Speaker 4: gonna be expecting the Carolina is to be on the
Speaker 4: outskirts of the storm.
Speaker 2: So I was just like, whatever, No, it wasn't it
Speaker 2: wasn't nothing. Emily got kind of did you see the
Speaker 2: she sent you that video. The water was like coming
Speaker 2: up to her door.
Speaker 4: There's someone I think one of Jenny's coworkers had some flooding,
Speaker 4: like in her house. But I want to say they
Speaker 4: might live right outside of Wilmington.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I have a couple coworkers across the bridge that
Speaker 2: couldn't get to work today. It was like, look at them. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I know for real. I was stuck in there like
Speaker 2: there was nobody in there.
Speaker 4: So basically for the audience, we had like that tropical
Speaker 4: storm Debbie passed through yesterday and hey, the rain was crazy. Though.
Speaker 2: It's Deborah, is it Deborah? Yeah? Put the respect on.
Speaker 2: Oh it's Debbie. I thought it was Debbie. Debbie. It's dead. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: If you're cool with her, it's dead. If you know her,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, it's dead.
Speaker 3: We had to walk got under her outskirts.
Speaker 2: Oh dude, wait a minute, all right.
Speaker 3: Does it reverse different? It's only when you flip it
Speaker 3: in reverse it Yo, that's und dude.
Speaker 2: I cannot believe you just went there with that. That's nuts.
Speaker 3: Uh.
Speaker 2: If y'all can't tell, we're doing a Stream of Consciousness episode.
Speaker 2: I think you could probably tell from Alex's Shenanigans. So
Speaker 2: I kind of just want to talk about what we's
Speaker 2: been going through our minds lately.
Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure, in all seriousness.
Speaker 2: Like, I feel like I've been going through a little
Speaker 2: bit of like a spiritual bat So how about you, man,
Speaker 2: how are you settling into Wilmington? I am feeling like
Speaker 2: I'm settling in. Yeah, it's starting to feel it's starting
Speaker 2: to feel normal. Things are finally finally starting to get stable.
Speaker 2: I like it here. It's awesome. It's so great being
Speaker 2: so close to the podcast. Like, yeah, dude, not having
Speaker 2: to drive two and a half hours has been like
Speaker 2: the greatest thing ever. If we have literally anything we
Speaker 2: need to do, I am two minutes down the road.
Speaker 2: Did we see each other.
Speaker 4: Like ten times as much now? Yeah, it's like literally
Speaker 4: three four days a week.
Speaker 2: Yeatly It's like it's like how it used to be
Speaker 2: in Fayetteville when we both lived in Fayetteville. We saw
Speaker 2: each other all the time. But no, I'm adjusting. I'm adjusting,
Speaker 2: like I feel like it's going good. I miss my
Speaker 2: family like I do miss my family. I feel like,
Speaker 2: how long do you think it took you to get
Speaker 2: over that.
Speaker 4: Oh, definitely a while. But I will tell you that
Speaker 4: you get used to the distance. And like I've been
Speaker 4: telling you even before you moved here, like when you
Speaker 4: when you adjust to the distance, you actually find that
Speaker 4: like every time you see them is better, you know
Speaker 4: what I mean, because you're not around them all the
Speaker 4: time every week. And you know, obviously being around family
Speaker 4: is great, but when it's like absence, you know, makes
Speaker 4: the heart grow fonder.
Speaker 2: So those holidays are.
Speaker 4: So much more special and so much more meaningful, and
Speaker 4: you want to just squeeze every drop out of being
Speaker 4: around your parents, and it's actually it seems better to
Speaker 4: me really.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I feel like we like me and my
Speaker 2: family work. There's a spider. Sorry, Oh no, I feel
Speaker 2: like me and my family were kind of I don't know,
Speaker 2: we our family's been through a lot of kind of
Speaker 2: just like weird transitional phases of like people moving away
Speaker 2: or then, Like there's been a couple kind of scary situations,
Speaker 2: like Dad's gone through some stuff, you know, with health problems,
Speaker 2: health problems. Yeah, and you know, there's been a few
Speaker 2: things kind of personal. But I feel like within the past,
Speaker 2: like a year or two, we are just starting to
Speaker 2: get to the point where we all feel like we're
Speaker 2: kind of like close, and it hasn't felt like that
Speaker 2: for a while. Like we always like we love each other,
Speaker 2: we always have loved each other. It's not that it's
Speaker 2: that like I don't know, you know, like there's family
Speaker 2: members you get around where it's just like easy and
Speaker 2: seamless and like it's fun, you love being around them
Speaker 2: and whatever, and then sometimes like you're around your family
Speaker 2: and it's like not as what's the word I'm looking for,
Speaker 2: like effortless, right, you're kind of having to you know,
Speaker 2: you're kind of having to like put on a little bit,
Speaker 2: and like there's almost this feeling of like Okay, I
Speaker 2: don't like fully completely want to be here. But in
Speaker 2: the past couple of years we've like finally started to
Speaker 2: get really close. There's been a lot of healing stuff
Speaker 2: in my family, so I think like having like especially
Speaker 2: when I was working with my other like for that
Speaker 2: full year we were super super close, and then like
Speaker 2: right after that, boom, I'm in Wilmington. So I don't know,
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm in this spot in my life
Speaker 2: right now where I'm being like constantly back to back
Speaker 2: served lessons.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel that too.
Speaker 2: By like the universe or I don't, I don't know
Speaker 2: by what, Like I'm I feel like I am just
Speaker 2: constantly being put through these kind of trials, even like
Speaker 2: on a smaller scale, like they're not all huge and
Speaker 2: devastating and whatever, Like I still feel like I've lived
Speaker 2: a fairly easy life, but you know, just little things.
Speaker 4: I think that there's always resistance when something is evolving,
Speaker 4: You understand what I'm saying, Like, I think, as you're
Speaker 4: growing as a person, and we are growing as a
Speaker 4: team and what we're doing, and like we're getting more
Speaker 4: like laser focus and locked in and obviously the growth
Speaker 4: is happening. I feel like as we are rapidly grow
Speaker 4: going collectively as the team, we all are also going
Speaker 4: on like our individual.
Speaker 2: Growth journey too.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I feel like when that happens, like there's
Speaker 4: always resistance when you grow. It's always uncomfortable. It's always
Speaker 4: like you know, when something evolves the caterpillar, it goes
Speaker 4: into the chrystalist and then it becomes the butterfly. It's
Speaker 4: always this like strange, uncomfortable situation. And I feel like
Speaker 4: maybe That's that's what it is like, because your intentions
Speaker 4: are to keep moving forward and to keep focusing in
Speaker 4: on this and to keep like doing this and bettering yourself.
Speaker 4: It's like these things are being thrown at you left
Speaker 4: and right, but it's like as you're overcoming them, maybe
Speaker 4: each time you're becoming a little bit more equipped to
Speaker 4: deal with all of these problems.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think so. I think that's true. It's
Speaker 2: it's just like it's been. It's been tough at points.
Speaker 2: It's been particularly tough at points, and I'm I don't know,
Speaker 2: I'm not like I'm I feel like I'm in touch
Speaker 2: with my emotions, but I sometimes I feel like it's
Speaker 2: hard to decode how I'm feeling and why I'm feeling it.
Speaker 2: Like I don't know if y'all experience this, but a
Speaker 2: lot of times I'll feel things way before I know
Speaker 2: like why I'm feeling them, like oh yeah. Sometimes it'll
Speaker 2: go on for a long time, like potentially weeks sometimes,
Speaker 2: and for me personally, I have to slow everything down
Speaker 2: and literally like have a conversation with myself and be
Speaker 2: like okay, like like completely stop doing everything else, shut
Speaker 2: shut the TV off, put my phone, down, like completely
Speaker 2: stop doing everything and kind of like meditate in a
Speaker 2: sense and just like talk to myself and be like,
Speaker 2: what's going on? Why are we feeling this? And then
Speaker 2: process it. And that's finally when I can like come
Speaker 2: to peace with whatever that thing was that was bothering me,
Speaker 2: Which is kind of weird because I feel like in
Speaker 2: my mind I know certain things, like I know that
Speaker 2: growth is uncomfortable, change is uncomfortable, and evolution is uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: But then when I'm in the middle of it, I'm like,
Speaker 2: why am I so uncomfortable?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 2: And I forget to stop and be like, your whole
Speaker 2: entire life is changing around you in like a huge
Speaker 2: dramatic way. And like I can like kind of beat
Speaker 2: myself up sometimes about it and like about feeling the
Speaker 2: way that I feel, but it's important to remember that
Speaker 2: you can't like control the way that you feel. You
Speaker 2: can't you can't control like the initial feeling at least.
Speaker 4: Yeah, That's something I've always wrestled with, like feeling bad
Speaker 4: about something or someone or a situation and then like
Speaker 4: feeling like guilty, like why do I even feel this way?
Speaker 4: And that's a lesson that I've had to learn that, Like,
Speaker 4: you know, not every.
Speaker 2: Day is gonna be perfect. Like some some.
Speaker 4: Days, I feel like we are literally like if there
Speaker 4: was some metaphysical calendar that was like tomorrow, you're gonna
Speaker 4: feel like this. Tomorrow, you know, people might say that's astrology,
Speaker 4: but today you're gonna feel like this. I feel like
Speaker 4: many of those days are just you're gonna wake up
Speaker 4: and you're gonna feel bad. Yeah, and it's okay to
Speaker 4: feel bad. It's okay to not be, you know, on
Speaker 4: top of your game. And that's something that I'm wrestling with.
Speaker 4: Like even Jenny today, she was just feeling so tired
Speaker 4: and so like just emotionally. I mean, you know, everything's fine,
Speaker 4: just having a day where she's just like, man, I'm
Speaker 4: just not on my game today. I'm so tired. I
Speaker 4: just feel like anxious. And I was telling her, I
Speaker 4: was like, Jenny, you know what, She's like, I don't
Speaker 4: want to feel this way. I want to turn my
Speaker 4: day around. I'm like, well, maybe you're not supposed to.
Speaker 4: Maybe you're just supposed to kind of chill in this
Speaker 4: state for a little bit and just relax and not
Speaker 4: resist yourself so much.
Speaker 2: And I was like, you're so productive.
Speaker 4: You're so badass, You're doing amazing at your job, You're
Speaker 4: doing X, Y Z amazing things. You need to stop
Speaker 4: beating yourself up so bad. And tomorrow we're gonna wake
Speaker 4: up and we're gonna feel better. Yeah, you know, And
Speaker 4: she just kind of sat there. I hope she took
Speaker 4: it in, but.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's funny. There are people like I would consider
Speaker 2: Jenny to see see, like one of these people that
Speaker 2: like if they are having kind of a down day
Speaker 2: or something, it feels a little off. Like she is
Speaker 2: very she seems very capable at most times to like
Speaker 2: turn it around and like still get the stuff done
Speaker 2: that she needs to get done and be productive, and
Speaker 2: like she's very on it in that way. And then
Speaker 2: like I know people where it seems like it is.
Speaker 4: Just impossible, Yeah.
Speaker 2: Completely impossible. And then I know other people who it's
Speaker 2: like I used to like there's never an issue.
Speaker 4: I used to be one of the impossible people, were
Speaker 4: like I can't turn this shit around in my head.
Speaker 4: And as I'm getting older, I'm starting to be a
Speaker 4: little better at it.
Speaker 2: But like you think, you mean, for like extended periods
Speaker 2: of time you would feel like that.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, especially lately man like with with the
Speaker 4: house stuff, you know, buying the house, and there was
Speaker 4: quite a bit of like.
Speaker 1: It.
Speaker 4: It's hard to say buyer's remorse, but just it's one
Speaker 4: thing when you're making decisions and you're spending money and
Speaker 4: you're like literally changing your life, and like, logically, this
Speaker 4: is a good choice, this is a good idea. I'm
Speaker 4: going to do this. You're doing it. Okay, I'm doing it.
Speaker 4: But then when the dust settles after the storm of
Speaker 4: it all, and then you're on the other side, I'm
Speaker 4: sitting here like, oh my god, did I just should
Speaker 4: I have done this? Should I have done this? And
Speaker 4: I've grappled with I mean, just like you, man like,
Speaker 4: I feel like, at the very same time, this is
Speaker 4: so weird, but at the same time, our lives both
Speaker 4: just got flipped upside down.
Speaker 2: Alex is about to but in a really good way.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's married, and it's it's really not gonna be
Speaker 4: a shocking change for you because you've been together so long.
Speaker 4: It's gonna be a good change.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, but how.
Speaker 3: You feel, I don't. I think it's gonna be a
Speaker 3: very seamless like. I don't think there's gonna be a change. No,
Speaker 3: it is just interesting, like.
Speaker 4: There will be a little change and it's gonna be
Speaker 4: how you feel about each other.
Speaker 3: I believe it.
Speaker 2: It's real.
Speaker 3: Man, I'm kind of over She probably won't listen to this,
Speaker 3: but no, yeah, all of that's for sure. But it's
Speaker 3: just like this whole planning of the wedding and doing
Speaker 3: all of this part of like everything leading up to it.
Speaker 3: I'm just so over it. And I'm like listening to
Speaker 3: you guys talk about your your spiritual journey lately, and
Speaker 3: I'm just sitting here thinking that I've been so wrapped
Speaker 3: up in like material stuff for like the last six
Speaker 3: months that I haven't really given my spiritual journey any thought.
Speaker 3: And I'm sure that you guys can tell, just with
Speaker 3: the nature of a show and the nature of our
Speaker 3: relationships and stuff. But like, holy crap, like napkin colors,
Speaker 3: freaking oh, this person's not coming, this person's coming.
Speaker 4: How many invites have you sent out to X, Y
Speaker 4: Z flashions you know, who's right?
Speaker 3: And then this shower, that shower, this shower, who's r SVP,
Speaker 3: Who who's opened the invitation and not gotten back to
Speaker 3: us and stuff like that, And it's I don't know, man,
Speaker 3: we don't have there's not a lot of people not coming.
Speaker 3: It's gonna be.
Speaker 2: That's awesome.
Speaker 3: Yeah, also a little stressful, it can be. Yeah, I
Speaker 3: can't believe I got a kiss her in front of
Speaker 3: that many people.
Speaker 2: Dude, that's so funny that, like, that's a real thing
Speaker 2: that you with talk about.
Speaker 3: This isn't the first time you've mentioned it. No, we
Speaker 3: are not PDA. People like y'all know that. I mean,
Speaker 3: y'all have been around me.
Speaker 2: I didn't know that, but now I do.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, how many times have you seen Olivia
Speaker 3: kiss each other?
Speaker 2: That's true?
Speaker 4: And now that I think about it, literally never. But
Speaker 4: I'm not sitting there thinking about, like, oh one of
Speaker 4: my friends gonna kids, you know. You know, I don't
Speaker 4: think about you know.
Speaker 3: But some people are very like and there's nothing wrong
Speaker 3: with that. Some people are very touchy, feeling very PDA
Speaker 3: with each other.
Speaker 2: Yeah, good for them, Yeah that's cool.
Speaker 3: Don't know what that's good for them. Don't know what
Speaker 3: that's like at all.
Speaker 2: Bro. I Yeah, I feel like me and Casey are
Speaker 2: like that. We're we're very lovey dove.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's not as bad as you might think
Speaker 4: people would think. You guys are pretty like, yeah.
Speaker 2: We try to be considerate about it. Okay, so there's
Speaker 2: a time and a place, So yeah, for sure for
Speaker 2: the people who don't know, Casey just started working for
Speaker 2: the company that I work for, which is awesome. It
Speaker 2: has been really great. Literally, Jim and Pam, honestly, it
Speaker 2: kind of feels like that sometimes, like, uh, but so
Speaker 2: we drive to work together and everything, like we get
Speaker 2: up at the same time. It's like, it's so weird
Speaker 2: her being familiar with like my home at the same time. Yeah, everything,
Speaker 2: and so, but it's funny because what we've been doing
Speaker 2: is we'll like walk into the building and like going
Speaker 2: up the stairs and right before we open the door
Speaker 2: to go into our office, that's when we kiss. So
Speaker 2: that we're not doing it in front of a bunch
Speaker 2: of people and like making people uncomfortable. Yeah, we're considerate
Speaker 2: to a to a certain degree.
Speaker 3: But I just think that falls under professional.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the workplace. It's like, yeah, I just don't
Speaker 2: want to make anybody.
Speaker 3: Don't want to give HR something to do, Yeah, god forbid.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm tight with HR though, So it's all good.
Speaker 3: Good.
Speaker 2: You you said something that I have been thinking about
Speaker 2: a lot lately, and I'm interested in, uh talking about
Speaker 2: which is that like the you feel like you've been
Speaker 2: in a situation where you're not like you it's a
Speaker 2: lot of material stuff and like earthly stuff and you
Speaker 2: haven't really had time to let your mind just kind
Speaker 2: of be open and like accept spirituality and practice it
Speaker 2: and stuff like that, or even think about it, even
Speaker 2: think about it. I feel like I've been in that since,
Speaker 2: like I mean mostly since I moved here, because it's
Speaker 2: been like just we've been so stressed about you know,
Speaker 2: making the money work and like you know all that.
Speaker 2: It's just constantly like Casey has been looking for a
Speaker 2: job and it's been super super stressful because she's like
Speaker 2: looking for a job and then also running her business
Speaker 2: that she owns, and you know that is its own
Speaker 2: like source of stress stuff Casey Mang Design or it's
Speaker 2: it's Casey Made. Yeah, we had a rebrand so set again.
Speaker 2: We did so Instagram at its Casey Made. I T
Speaker 2: S C A s E Y M A d E.
Speaker 2: She's been running that. We're doing a big event in
Speaker 2: Durham soon this weekend, but it'll be you know earlier
Speaker 2: for the listener. But there's been a lot of stuff
Speaker 2: going on, and then on top of all of that,
Speaker 2: it's been like, I'm I'm working on you know, Twice
Speaker 2: Born stuff, I'm working on Emily's album. I've got a
Speaker 2: lot of like projects up in the air right now.
Speaker 2: And then on top of all of that stuff, it's
Speaker 2: like there's there's there's so many things right now that
Speaker 2: I feel like another song, another song, we can talk
Speaker 2: about it. Let's talk about it. Yeah, let's do it. Okay,
Speaker 2: we we like what was that?
Speaker 3: I'll just tell you where to sit.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. A few nights ago we finally sat down.
Speaker 2: You know, we've been waiting for months to have free
Speaker 2: time to work on this. We've like mentioned in passing
Speaker 2: that there's another Patreon show coming, and we.
Speaker 4: Also mentioned it will be on the other side of
Speaker 4: our crazy uprooting situations.
Speaker 2: In life, which yeah, approch. We're we're here pretty much
Speaker 2: like we're one more left, one more left, we got
Speaker 2: we got the But that's like the that's the big celebration.
Speaker 2: That's gonna feel like the big like the big relief
Speaker 2: of all the pressure. Dud His wedding is gonna be dope.
Speaker 2: It's gonna be the best. I cannot wait. Yeah, Like
Speaker 2: I like weddings, I usually feel obligated to go to weddings.
Speaker 2: There have been a couple of weddings. Y'all's wedding was
Speaker 2: obviously I had a lot of fun. Yeah, like that
Speaker 2: one was one that there was no feeling of, like
Speaker 2: I don't want it. That one was so much fun.
Speaker 2: Our buddy Alex Hodge, his wedding was amazing. I love that.
Speaker 2: And then this, I'm so excited for your wedding, Dude,
Speaker 2: I cannot wait. But it's gonna be like a huge
Speaker 2: like burst of the bubble for all of us, like
Speaker 2: all of our lives in that moment will finally be
Speaker 2: settling down for a minute, Like it'll be like time
Speaker 2: to like let out a breath of like relief. So
Speaker 2: I can't wait for them at But.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm going to France. You all are relaxing, Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean, are you saying being in France isn't gonna
Speaker 2: be relaxing?
Speaker 3: I hope it is.
Speaker 2: It's gonna be sweet, dude, It's gonna be sweet.
Speaker 3: You're going to Paris right for two days, which is
Speaker 3: like about all the time I want to spend in Paris.
Speaker 2: And anywhere else.
Speaker 3: I don't know south of France, but you don't remember.
Speaker 2: No, it's on overside at all.
Speaker 3: I think maybe you gotta go there, do I think
Speaker 3: it's on the itinerary.
Speaker 2: That's cool.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're doing like a guided tour through.
Speaker 2: You know, Oversida is right.
Speaker 3: Nice, it's where they signed the treaty.
Speaker 2: It's like where it's it's where the king lives. The castle.
Speaker 3: You can get the castle.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can tour it and everything. It's like a museum.
Speaker 2: Now we are taking a little bit of an aside,
Speaker 2: but it's okay. What what maybe y'all choose France.
Speaker 3: I don't know what made her choose Fans. See, that's
Speaker 3: the thing about marriage too.
Speaker 4: Man, you're gonna you're gonna become a lot more comfortable
Speaker 4: with Like, you know, we're in the house buying process, right,
Speaker 4: uh huh.
Speaker 3: And we'll get back to France in a minute and
Speaker 3: then we'll get back to Green Boys. It's okay, this
Speaker 3: is great, this is great, this is this is the
Speaker 3: rabbit hole.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is great.
Speaker 4: No, but we're buying houses and you know, we toured
Speaker 4: three or four of them, and she sees this when
Speaker 4: she really likes this one, and I'm just like, sure.
Speaker 2: You know, I really liked it.
Speaker 4: I'm underplaying it, but I'm just saying, you gotta get
Speaker 4: used to a lot more of that, brother.
Speaker 2: It's true. But also, like you always it's always like
Speaker 2: the happy wife, happy life, happy spouse, happy house, you
Speaker 2: know whatever. But it's it's less like nefarious than it sounds. Absolutely,
Speaker 2: you know, it's just participating and making them happy. Yeah,
Speaker 2: what it actually is is more it's like it's like
Speaker 2: that like participating, like the give and the take.
Speaker 4: Going to the concerts with her that I would never
Speaker 4: in a million years go see on my own.
Speaker 2: But it's like it makes it one of the responsibilities
Speaker 2: of like being married. This is true. This is what
Speaker 2: I can't we're gonna give you.
Speaker 3: I can't wait to hear it. But I've got my
Speaker 3: own take.
Speaker 2: We're gonna give you marriage advice right now. That's what's happening.
Speaker 2: It is it's very much like you have a responsibility
Speaker 2: when you get married to not always put yourself first,
Speaker 2: like yep, and that can be a hard adjustment. Yeah,
Speaker 2: Like I consider myself for a lot of my life
Speaker 2: a pretty selfish person. That's like naturally who I have
Speaker 2: been for a lot of my life.
Speaker 3: I can I can agree with that, I think not.
Speaker 3: We'll talk about it, Okay, you can agree No, no, no,
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I'm let me be more clear. I can
Speaker 3: agree that I feel the same way about myself.
Speaker 2: I see, I see, but not.
Speaker 3: I think there's selfishness in like a selfish way. And
Speaker 3: then I think there's selfishness in like a self loving
Speaker 3: kind of way. I have priorities, My time is important, right,
Speaker 3: Like I think there's healthy boundaries selfishness, yeah for sure. Yeah,
Speaker 3: And like yeah, like I would rather be selfish and
Speaker 3: hurt people's feelings than be a pushover and have people
Speaker 3: walk all over me all the time.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, sorry, but go ahead marriage if I.
Speaker 2: No, I feel that. And those things are very different,
Speaker 2: by the way, right, like the self love thing and
Speaker 2: the boundaries and stuff that like shouldn't for the most part,
Speaker 2: like shouldn't go away like you have to you cannot.
Speaker 2: You can't be capable of loving someone else if you
Speaker 2: don't love yourself and take care of yourself.
Speaker 3: Yeah. No, but I think it's a good thing to
Speaker 3: bring up because I'm sure there's people out there that
Speaker 3: struggle with that and will write that off as om
Speaker 3: being selfish. It's like, no, you're not, You're being good
Speaker 3: to yourself.
Speaker 2: Good point. Yeah, you know, good point.
Speaker 3: And it's really it's so won't I won't name names,
Speaker 3: but someone in my life is going through this like
Speaker 3: is on the other side where this person will do
Speaker 3: anything for anybody without limit, without caring for themselves. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and in the process of trying to find this self
Speaker 3: love and self respect is like hitting the walls. On
Speaker 3: both sides will do very very selfish things and be
Speaker 3: very very rude to other people, but because they're hitting
Speaker 3: the wall and trying to find that boundary. So knowing this,
Speaker 3: knowing that this person who's very very close to me
Speaker 3: is in the process of trying to find this middle Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm having to be very lenient with how I respond
Speaker 3: to some of these things when this person is hitting
Speaker 3: the wall, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: Yeah, which is very It's that's very caring of you,
Speaker 2: and that's.
Speaker 3: Like sometimes I'm not saying I'm really good at.
Speaker 2: It, but you're trying, and that's all that matters. We
Speaker 2: were having a conversation the other day I don't remember
Speaker 2: when or Yeah, we have conversations. No I know, I
Speaker 2: just don't remember this one. But you also haven't said
Speaker 2: what it was about yet, right, you should probably let
Speaker 2: me say what it was about first. All right, we
Speaker 2: were talking about how like what makes you like always
Speaker 2: doing good? Oh yeah, yeah, is not what just makes
Speaker 2: you a good You don't have to constantly make every
Speaker 2: right decision and constantly do the right thing to be
Speaker 2: considered a good person. The thing that makes you a
Speaker 2: good person is your genuine desire to be good and to.
Speaker 3: Be like agree, right, I mean, I think what you're
Speaker 3: describing is being perfect versus doing your best.
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, yes, And like there is no perfect.
Speaker 3: There's no perfect people in heaven.
Speaker 2: There's no perfect people anywhere, That's what I mean. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: And and I feel like there's people who feel like
Speaker 2: in order to be a good person, they have to
Speaker 2: be perfect.
Speaker 4: And that's a lot of pressure. Oh my god, that's
Speaker 4: a lot of pressure.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. You can't you can't put that kind
Speaker 2: of press.
Speaker 3: Actually, I hope Olivia listens to this one.
Speaker 2: WHOA, I do not endorse that. I don't.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I kind of she wouldn't mind me
Speaker 3: saying that.
Speaker 4: I low key like in this whole wedding ordeal. You
Speaker 4: do realize I'm sort of like, she's my boss.
Speaker 2: Oh do you understand that?
Speaker 3: No, I completely understand that. You watch it, you're my boss, right,
Speaker 3: but for that day, she's going to be your boss.
Speaker 4: She's she's like, I got a yes, ma'am, I'm officiating
Speaker 4: the wedding.
Speaker 3: Me and you both, buddy, Yes, ma'am.
Speaker 2: Well, if it would make you.
Speaker 4: Feel better, man, I will put my hands on your
Speaker 4: shoulders when it's time to kiss the bride.
Speaker 2: Give him a little I'm sure that'll make him feel better.
Speaker 3: Actually, if you just get out of the way, that'd be.
Speaker 2: I hope I'll be in it. You can be in one,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 4: Not to make the whole day about me here, but
Speaker 4: I'm feeling a lot of pressure, dude, are you really?
Speaker 4: I mean, not in a non serious way and then
Speaker 4: not stressful, be honest.
Speaker 2: Do you feel any pressure?
Speaker 3: I hope you feel some pressure.
Speaker 4: I hope I feel I feel It's a big deal.
Speaker 4: I feel okay, So I've done one. It was like
Speaker 4: seventy five people, and now we're.
Speaker 2: Going to be what three hundred?
Speaker 3: Well, if it makes you feel any better. Right now,
Speaker 3: we're sitting at about two hundred and forty.
Speaker 4: Great and I have probably met like twenty five of them.
Speaker 2: So and it's like that kind of makes it that easier.
Speaker 2: Flip it, flip your your pressure.
Speaker 3: Flip it move sit.
Speaker 2: Yeah, second time.
Speaker 4: So I'm going to work with some secret identities that
Speaker 4: I don't necessarily want to put in your head, that
Speaker 4: I'm going to like talk to at some point once
Speaker 4: I because obviously we have to meet to get what
Speaker 4: you expect out of the wedding. But then once I
Speaker 4: drafted up, there's a couple of people that I'm gonna
Speaker 4: approach tied to. You know, people you know talk and
Speaker 4: just you know, get their opinion. Well I've thought of
Speaker 4: some more and just get some opinions. Hey is this
Speaker 4: you know, is this on vibe? And you know I'll
Speaker 4: feel better after that.
Speaker 2: But well that's good. You're doing your due diligence. That's
Speaker 2: going to make all the difference. There's no there's no
Speaker 2: you know, you don't need to feel pressure. Most of
Speaker 2: these people are people you don't even freaking know.
Speaker 3: And it's also like, I don't know, I'm trying to
Speaker 3: think of there's only one wedding I've been to where
Speaker 3: the efficient made an impact on me, and it was
Speaker 3: because I was related to them, right, So it's like yeah,
Speaker 3: and that's what I have to constantly remind myself when
Speaker 3: we're going through this planning, is like, who's going to
Speaker 3: remember what color the napkins are?
Speaker 2: Dude, no one, you won't. I don't remember the color
Speaker 2: of mine me either. You won't listen. It's so crazy.
Speaker 2: It'll be the fastest day of your whole life.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, you want to hear my wedding timeline
Speaker 3: of your whole life? No, like like personally where I'm
Speaker 3: at with the whole thing where Yeah, So like just
Speaker 3: just go day of day of wake up with the
Speaker 3: boys chilling like.
Speaker 2: Oh you got it?
Speaker 3: You got this ship land out and yeah. In my
Speaker 3: head it's like all right, okay, cool, share what.
Speaker 2: I'm a crash man. I'm one of the boys.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, the boys. So then then we're taking pictures.
Speaker 3: I don't know how I feel about all that whatever,
Speaker 3: it's gonna start bubbling up and you're gonna have to
Speaker 3: get calmed down. Probably then we got a ride to
Speaker 3: the venue, and that's probably when I'm going to start
Speaker 3: to get nervous, get nervous. The whole time, show up,
Speaker 3: walk in, do what I'm supposed to do, like we practiced,
Speaker 3: not try not to throw up, try not to pass out,
Speaker 3: try not to sweat too much.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'm sorry to interrupt you. Why is this
Speaker 2: a real concern? I just like when the day of
Speaker 2: my wedding, I like, you should see the pictures from
Speaker 2: my wedding. I am like as white as your shirt,
Speaker 2: like and just nervous. Oh my god, dude, Well, I
Speaker 2: don't know why I was so nervous. I was like,
Speaker 2: I've been with this girl for.
Speaker 3: Well, dude, it was the same. Oh so my dude,
Speaker 3: my one of my best buddies who's in the wedding,
Speaker 3: just got engaged. Oh and we were chatting about it
Speaker 3: and he had his girl on speaker and Olivia was
Speaker 3: with me on speaker. We were chatting about it and
Speaker 3: they were just going off about how nervous we both
Speaker 3: were when we popped the question, dude, same, I wasn't
Speaker 3: And it's like, yeah, well no, you probably don't proposal day.
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm gonna puk Yeah no, I'm like, dude,
Speaker 3: we've been together for ten years. Why am I so nervous?
Speaker 3: Like it's not even like her saying no didn't even
Speaker 3: cross my mind, cross mind.
Speaker 2: It was really that was never gonna happen. That was
Speaker 2: never gonna happen.
Speaker 3: Cross my mind. It didn't cross my mind. But it's
Speaker 3: just the gravity of the situation. I'm a worrier, That's
Speaker 3: what it is. It was the gravity and that's where
Speaker 3: I'm at now, like, holy crap. Yeah, yeah, so anyway,
Speaker 3: show up, do the thing. Then I think peak nerves
Speaker 3: is having to kiss her. Actually really like, no, we're
Speaker 3: not doing We're not doing you're not We're doing personal vows,
Speaker 3: custom vowels at the first look, and then we're doing
Speaker 3: traditional at the ceremony.
Speaker 2: That's a good idea.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't want to profess my love in front
Speaker 3: of a bunch of people. It's their business.
Speaker 2: Well you're really extreme about this PDA thing, That's what
Speaker 2: I'm telling you.
Speaker 3: So look, no, not quite peak nerves, right, gotta kis through.
Speaker 3: Peak nerves is dip on the way out. You mean,
Speaker 3: like the picture walk out dip. God, that's the most nervous.
Speaker 2: I skipped that.
Speaker 4: I was like, maybe we're not doing that, which we
Speaker 4: did not.
Speaker 2: Might be smart usually do that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, because then you get a second as you're
Speaker 3: walking down the aisle, then you dip, and then it's
Speaker 3: gonna come down a little bit. We first dance, first
Speaker 3: dance is still gonna be like top three most nervous things.
Speaker 2: Oh that's the easy part.
Speaker 4: Is the easy part because you're talking to each other. Yeah,
Speaker 4: well we're choreographing it right now. Oh yeah, you're doing
Speaker 4: like I'm in I have lessons every Sunday. You're doing
Speaker 4: the freaking the cupa shuffle. No, like we have, like
Speaker 4: we have a choreographed dance that I'm.
Speaker 2: For his first dance, Like you know, that's the corny
Speaker 2: song that plays at every wedding ever, But like for
Speaker 2: that to be the first dance would actually, on ironically
Speaker 2: be one of the funniest things I've ever seen in
Speaker 2: my life.
Speaker 4: I was gonna say, like, what dance we're really doing,
Speaker 4: and then I was like, nah, maybe I wouldn't say,
Speaker 4: We'll leave it to surprise.
Speaker 2: Well areographs.
Speaker 3: Yeah, after the dance, once the dance is over, it's
Speaker 3: all party like and like, once the dance out of
Speaker 3: the way, I'm gonna have a good time. So you're
Speaker 3: not saying I'm gonna have a bad time.
Speaker 2: Sure.
Speaker 3: For just for the record, I'm gonna it's gonna be
Speaker 3: the best able move we've both.
Speaker 2: Been in your shoes. You don't you don't have I'm
Speaker 2: talking to the viewer.
Speaker 3: I don't want I don't want people out there to
Speaker 3: spin my words and email it to her email dude,
Speaker 3: you know.
Speaker 2: Because they all have her email.
Speaker 4: I'm just saying I felt the same pressure as you know, Alex.
Speaker 4: And this is one of my big regrets is that
Speaker 4: you weren't there at this thing. But I felt like
Speaker 4: at this point, when you know, the wedding that you officiated, we.
Speaker 2: Had been.
Speaker 4: Long story short, you know, I proposed in I think
Speaker 4: it was late twenty nineteen, and at this point I
Speaker 4: had only known Alex for like a year, and then
Speaker 4: when it came time to the wedding, we had only
Speaker 4: known each other for two.
Speaker 2: Years, I see.
Speaker 4: So I felt like if I didn't which I wanted
Speaker 4: him to be there. I felt like if I did
Speaker 4: invite him, it would have been truly unfair to my
Speaker 4: other friends that you were there. And so you know,
Speaker 4: there was a lot of people that I didn't invite, Yeah,
Speaker 4: because it was like it was wedding party only and
Speaker 4: my grandma.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's because it was like like COVID exactly. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's why I did it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not upset.
Speaker 4: Well I know you're not, but I'm just saying that's
Speaker 4: one of my big, big, big regrets is that you
Speaker 4: couldn't be there at the time. We didn't have the podcast.
Speaker 4: We had been friends working together for a year, and
Speaker 4: thinking back on it, I'm like, God, you should have
Speaker 4: been there.
Speaker 2: Dude, you should have been there. I feel the same
Speaker 2: way about you. Oh, I mean, it is what it is. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you know, it just shook out that way. It is
Speaker 2: what it is. Yeah. I mean I love and here
Speaker 2: we are exactly, that's all that matters. I love my wedding.
Speaker 2: But I am sometimes like, man, you.
Speaker 3: Know what's It's like, I was talking to my mom
Speaker 3: about this and she's like, everybody that was in my
Speaker 3: wedding I'm not friends with anymore.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 3: I was like, damn, okay, Like, and this was in
Speaker 3: the process of choosing these people, and that really took
Speaker 3: a lot of weight off of the situation. Yeah, it's true,
Speaker 3: Like it's okay, yeah, you know. And then I also like,
Speaker 3: as we get closer and I'm like, casually meeting some
Speaker 3: of my neighbors and like casually making some adult friends.
Speaker 3: And I'm like, I just we've just become friends two
Speaker 3: months out from the wedding. You're not getting invited, but
Speaker 3: we could become great friends. And that's just that's just
Speaker 3: how it's gonna be. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there are like seasons in life, and like sometimes
Speaker 2: people like come and go out of your life. You
Speaker 2: don't really have control over it. It just it just happens.
Speaker 2: It's just the flow of life.
Speaker 3: And well, this was like this is like way out
Speaker 3: of left field, but this was one of my neighbors
Speaker 3: who just came. We were walking the dog and he
Speaker 3: was out there and I hung out with him a
Speaker 3: little bit. Buddy came to tell me his wife was pregnant,
Speaker 3: and I was like, man, that is so awesome. And
Speaker 3: then it got me thinking, like we planned to stay here,
Speaker 3: and like we planned to have children, and I'm like, man,
Speaker 3: is my kid going to be running around with this kid?
Speaker 3: Like that's huge, that's awesome. Yeah, and then I was like, man,
Speaker 3: we could become good. Like this is all on my hip.
Speaker 3: That's where that's how I got to where I'm at.
Speaker 2: Damn, man, I'm now getting a picture of like the
Speaker 2: mental torture that you're going through, like you're feeling a
Speaker 2: lot of.
Speaker 3: Pressure, like foreverness pressure, right, yeah, yeah, but it's it's
Speaker 3: good man. And And the reason I brought up my
Speaker 3: beach wedding that Nick officiated was just to say that day, dude,
Speaker 3: I was so.
Speaker 2: Scared to read my vows.
Speaker 4: I mean I just cried my eyes out, And honestly,
Speaker 4: the reason was because I was confessing this stuff in
Speaker 4: front of Jenny's parents, who before we were married, I
Speaker 4: didn't have that level of I guess, like comfort, comfortability,
Speaker 4: like emotional openness.
Speaker 3: I remember, yeah, yeah, And.
Speaker 4: I mean obviously we were always were close and got
Speaker 4: along and had a great relationship. But I don't think
Speaker 4: that I just I didn't feel at the time. I mean,
Speaker 4: I did it. I obviously was comfortable enough to do it,
Speaker 4: but I'm just saying I felt the pressure too, Like
Speaker 4: I know exactly what you're describing. But then when it
Speaker 4: came time to the the you know, the public wedding
Speaker 4: a year later, I just breathed through the vowels and
Speaker 4: I didn't give a shit because I had.
Speaker 2: Done the hard.
Speaker 3: Dude, he did the same vowels, same exact vowels. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so it was the same ceremony essentially.
Speaker 2: But I wasn't officiating it.
Speaker 4: Well yeah, I mean, okay, not really the same ceremony.
Speaker 4: Like we literally just walked up. Nick gave us an
Speaker 4: entirely different, original, unique, uh ceremony.
Speaker 2: We read our vowels. It was over. But the wedding.
Speaker 4: Obviously, you know, there's a little bit of a program,
Speaker 4: but obviously the wedding one was more special emotionally.
Speaker 2: I put in some uh little nerdy Easter eggs into
Speaker 2: my yeah, my speech. It started with dearly beloved, which
Speaker 2: is Kingdom hearts, and then at one point I said
Speaker 2: share your energy with me, which is what Goku says,
Speaker 2: Like I like worked it in there naturally so that
Speaker 2: only I could see people's faces lighting up, like Warren was.
Speaker 2: As soon as I said dearly beloved, Warren went, I
Speaker 2: saw his face give my grandma cried her eyes out.
Speaker 2: So then that happened.
Speaker 4: And then our buddy Chris who you don't know that well,
Speaker 4: but you've met him.
Speaker 3: Chris Tutin. Yeah, it's okay, shout out Chris Tutan He's
Speaker 3: one of my best friends in life. Yeah. No, we
Speaker 3: get along really well.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's he's a great guy, just he lives in
Speaker 4: the wrong.
Speaker 3: I hope that's true. I'm just speaking for myself.
Speaker 2: He doesn't he doesn't not get along like with anyone anybody.
Speaker 2: He's one of those guys that, like it, doesn't have enemies.
Speaker 2: No anyone in the world could meet this guy the
Speaker 2: first time and they're cool.
Speaker 4: And he knows about you. He I mean, obviously he
Speaker 4: knows you, but he asks about you. Guys, he supports
Speaker 4: the podcast. He's he's got he's a good guy. But
Speaker 4: he was so touched by that that he asked me
Speaker 4: to do his wedding and now here we are full
Speaker 4: circle doing yours.
Speaker 2: Who Yeah, it trickles down, it passes down. Yeah, I was.
Speaker 3: We were kind of so we're not, like we don't
Speaker 3: belong to a church yet And I say yet, because
Speaker 3: you kind of plan on it even though you know
Speaker 3: we've talked about like I don't go to church. I
Speaker 3: go to podcasts, but I can't send my kids to podcasts,
Speaker 3: so ca. So anyway, we were like, man, who are
Speaker 3: we going to have officiate the wedding because like, we're
Speaker 3: not we don't have a relationship with the church when
Speaker 3: I'm a relationship with like a preacher or anybody like that.
Speaker 3: And my cousins in the past have used some of
Speaker 3: my uncles to and have them do it. But then
Speaker 3: I was like, you know, then I thought the podcast
Speaker 3: is my church. Then I was like, Olivia, what do
Speaker 3: you think about Ryan? And she was like that's a
Speaker 3: great idea. Immediately like no hesitation. I was like, really,
Speaker 3: you're like, you're good with it, and she's like yeah.
Speaker 3: So then we just asked Ryan. You know what's funny
Speaker 3: is when we were at your.
Speaker 2: It's just right.
Speaker 4: This is like the week before you moved here, you
Speaker 4: had your I think it was your engagement party, right, yes,
Speaker 4: but Jenny couldn't make because she was yes, yes, yes, yes,
Speaker 4: And I was there and unless you're comfortable with it,
Speaker 4: I won't say names. No, But I was talking to
Speaker 4: Olivia's parents, who obviously I know really well because they
Speaker 4: were my bosses years ago, so like we have a
Speaker 4: rapport in a previous history.
Speaker 2: And I go up to Olivia's dad and he's I
Speaker 2: love her dad.
Speaker 4: And I go up to her dad and I'm like, hey,
Speaker 4: how's it going, you know, mister Walton.
Speaker 2: I'll just say that, mister Walton.
Speaker 3: And I was like, did you hear that I'm officiating
Speaker 3: the wedding?
Speaker 4: He was like what really, No, that's crazy.
Speaker 2: I didn't know that. And I was like, oh, okay.
Speaker 4: And then I go up to Olivia's mom and I'm like, hey,
Speaker 4: did you hear him officiating the wedding? And she looked
Speaker 4: at me like, who do you think made the decision?
Speaker 4: Who do you think talked her into it?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 4: I know, So this is the dichotomy. There was so
Speaker 4: funny Elayne.
Speaker 3: And Olivia playing this wedding. Yeah, yeah, that's her mother. Yeah,
Speaker 3: And that was a big boost of confidence that she
Speaker 3: was like, yes, get him to do it.
Speaker 2: So I think it's going to be perfect. Yeah, it's
Speaker 2: gonna be perfect. It'd be a good time. I can't wait. So, yeah,
Speaker 2: you go for it, France. I don't really think we're
Speaker 2: gonna get why out of that. Yeah. I don't think
Speaker 2: we are either. Olivia wanted it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we've traveled Europe together with her parents and that
Speaker 3: was a good time with the same company that we're
Speaker 3: traveling with this time.
Speaker 2: So wait, wait, wait, like a travel company.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's cool. Honestly, like I was when I
Speaker 3: got invited to Italy. So so basically tell the whole story. Yea,
Speaker 3: she went study abroad in Italy for two months. She
Speaker 3: did a dance program. This year her junior year of college,
Speaker 3: so we were still together. This had to been five
Speaker 3: or six or seven years ago now, And so she
Speaker 3: did two months abroad, did a performance, and then for
Speaker 3: her for her like final, her final performance, her parents,
Speaker 3: her mom flew in and me and her dad flew
Speaker 3: in and we all met up with each other in Florence.
Speaker 3: So we watched her performance in Florence, and then we
Speaker 3: went and started a tour with Gate one, and Gate
Speaker 3: one like handles everything, but it's they handle everything in
Speaker 3: a way where you still get to do what you want.
Speaker 3: And this is like, I'm not sponsored by them, but
Speaker 3: I did have a good time.
Speaker 2: But or slash blood. I'm kidding you.
Speaker 3: Want to if Gate one's out there and here's this,
Speaker 3: I feel like that get some trips out of it.
Speaker 3: But so yeah, they they'll like they handle all of
Speaker 3: your hotel accommodations, they handle all of your travel, you get,
Speaker 3: you get to go to multiple cities in the same country.
Speaker 3: They make sure that you hit all of the museums,
Speaker 3: all of the sight seeing, all of the castles and whatnot.
Speaker 3: But they'll only do one meal or two meals max
Speaker 3: per day. So maybe you meet for breakfast and then
Speaker 3: you go hit the road and then you have lunch together.
Speaker 3: Then you see what you need to see. But then
Speaker 3: they say, all right, have fun for dinner and meet
Speaker 3: you back at the hotel. Like then you get to
Speaker 3: do what you want.
Speaker 2: That sounds awesome.
Speaker 3: But I don't have to worry about speaking French. I
Speaker 3: don't have to worry about finding the right place to stay.
Speaker 3: I don't have to worry about So you'll.
Speaker 2: You'll have like a translator follow you.
Speaker 3: We'll have a tour guide throughout the day, so we'll
Speaker 3: have a group. It'll be a group of people, and
Speaker 3: we did small groups. You've got to do the catacombs. Yeah, yes,
Speaker 3: if you have the opportunity in Paris. I know we're
Speaker 3: doing a vintage car ride around Paris. That's cool.
Speaker 2: You know what else you need to do?
Speaker 3: Bro?
Speaker 4: If you have an evening, I'm serious, write this down, dude.
Speaker 4: If you have an evening where you and Olivia have
Speaker 4: some hours to just like chill and you don't have
Speaker 4: to be on a schedule. The cool thing about Paris
Speaker 4: is there are Lime scooters. You guys know about limescooters.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah've done those in rally everywhere. Yes, same thing,
Speaker 4: same brand, but they have other brands too. Get you
Speaker 4: a scooter one of their electric rentals, and dude, in Paris,
Speaker 4: you could just bike.
Speaker 2: It with traffic. So I was kind of thinking that
Speaker 2: it's amazing.
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 3: I pitched her that maybe and like Nice or one
Speaker 3: of the other little beach towns that will rent vespas.
Speaker 4: That's cool, do that too, and do that, but dude,
Speaker 4: rent you a little line. Once you're done with it,
Speaker 4: you just drop it off. Yeah yeah, I've done it
Speaker 4: before and just scooter around Paris.
Speaker 3: So we only have two days Paris. So at night
Speaker 3: it's amazing with the lights everywhere. We're doing the we're
Speaker 3: doing Mulin Rouge.
Speaker 2: What are you serious?
Speaker 3: Yeah, we got tickets already. No, yeah, I don't know
Speaker 3: what to expect.
Speaker 2: I'm kind of have you ever seen it like the
Speaker 2: State the like? Have you?
Speaker 3: Are you talking about the theater like the show.
Speaker 2: The stout it the stage, the stage show, that's like
Speaker 2: what it's about.
Speaker 3: No, No, so there's there's a theater performance.
Speaker 2: That's about I'm talking about like the there's videos of it,
Speaker 2: like all over the internet.
Speaker 3: No, I haven't watched anything, and you can spoil it
Speaker 3: for me.
Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no, I'm not going to no no no.
Speaker 2: But like that is so sick. That would be high
Speaker 2: on my list of things that I wanted to do.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like, yeah, I just we talked about it.
Speaker 3: Her parents went and I was like, all right, let's
Speaker 3: just do it. And so we did the the vi P.
Speaker 3: I don't know what it's. They were very cryptic about
Speaker 3: what the VIP is. And so it was like a
Speaker 3: huge Campbell. It was like you get nicer food and
Speaker 3: premium champagne and a surprise.
Speaker 2: An extra surprise. Yeah. Yeah, we'll see dude, that's gonna
Speaker 2: be sick.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're gonna have a great time. I'll be holding
Speaker 4: it down over here.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I just want to hit the beach man because
Speaker 3: if it were up to me, we'd be somewhere tropical.
Speaker 2: You're gonna be there how long?
Speaker 3: Like twelve days days?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's epic, dude. Yep, that's gonna be a blast.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's gonna be fun.
Speaker 2: I know, I don't if it might be feudile, but
Speaker 2: try to shake the nerves of the wedding thing. That's
Speaker 2: one of my biggest regrets is like I was a wreck.
Speaker 2: I was such a nervous wreck that like Jenny had
Speaker 2: to take CBD. Yeah I did helped. She didn't even
Speaker 2: cry to her in her vowels. I bawled like a babby.
Speaker 3: I kinda. I just have to channel the little performer
Speaker 3: mode that I have that y'all have seen, Like, I
Speaker 3: just need to get into it. I think the best
Speaker 3: thing you can do, man, honestly, to do yourself justice
Speaker 3: is just be completely genuine and authentic. That's the plan.
Speaker 4: But if you feel like I would like to cry,
Speaker 4: if you feel like your emotional, if you feel like
Speaker 4: you're you know, gonna cry or anything like that, just
Speaker 4: do it because that's like the one day in your
Speaker 4: life where people are sitting there in the chair and
Speaker 4: they're like waiting.
Speaker 2: People want to they want to. Yeah, it's the.
Speaker 3: Only day you can cry as a man and not
Speaker 3: be judged.
Speaker 1: Well.
Speaker 2: Also the birth of like your children too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like, but only people there depends on you ask
Speaker 3: you know, no, like I I you know, I'm not
Speaker 3: going to stop it if I do because if I
Speaker 3: try to stop it, it's gonna be worse.
Speaker 4: I'll reach over there with the finger and just kind of.
Speaker 3: Raw fingsue.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like hold hands behind your back, you know, well
Speaker 4: until i've just what you did with your arm was hold.
Speaker 4: I'll hold his hand behind his back until of course
Speaker 4: I like give him over to her.
Speaker 2: Then he's hers him up there in handcuffs behind his back.
Speaker 2: So then when they finally say their value, you unlock
Speaker 2: it and.
Speaker 3: So no rings, just you get a key from Ryan.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll walk them up in handcuffs.
Speaker 3: And then when it's like when when they when we're
Speaker 3: doing the legally like do you take this man to
Speaker 3: be your lawfully wedded husband whatever, I'll just give him
Speaker 3: over as her product. So wait, so we're we go
Speaker 3: from handcuffs to ball and chain.
Speaker 4: No, you're the ball and chain you are, that's what
Speaker 4: he say. I give you over as you're you're the PROD.
Speaker 3: You're going home with me.
Speaker 2: Now, the fact that you chose the word product.
Speaker 3: I'm going to take care of you. Yeah, because I
Speaker 3: love you.
Speaker 2: Like you usually hear property yeah, like, which is like funny,
Speaker 2: it's like technically true, but it's weird.
Speaker 3: But Honestly, I've been I've been saying that a lot
Speaker 3: as a joke.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's what. It's what every guy who's about to
Speaker 2: get married does.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like, what are you going to do when you're
Speaker 3: my property kind of thing? Yeah, yeah, probably do the
Speaker 3: same thing she already does and boss me around.
Speaker 2: It's funny because like, right, exactly, nothing's going to change there.
Speaker 2: But I still slipped that joke in every now and then.
Speaker 2: Doesn't mean I get like once or twice a year.
Speaker 2: I'll just be like, yeah, well you are my property,
Speaker 2: so just joke. It's just yeah, of course, it's just obviously.
Speaker 4: But Alex, pro tip for you man. The first week,
Speaker 4: at least for me, dude, the first week I wore
Speaker 4: this ring, that bitch.
Speaker 2: Was hurting well my ring. My ring has always been
Speaker 2: loose on my finger. And then when I lost a
Speaker 2: bunch of weight last year, it does not even fit
Speaker 2: me anymore. Oh yeah, I noticed it. I haven't worn
Speaker 2: it in a while. Yeah, And oh my god, the
Speaker 2: amount of times I get asked like, or why aren't
Speaker 2: you I thought you weren't married, Like why aren't you
Speaker 2: wearing your ring? Like I'm like, it just doesn't fit me. Anymore. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I just assumed never to ask those kinds of questions,
Speaker 2: but I did. Somebody did tell me, like, you can
Speaker 2: just go get it resized for cheap in the mall,
Speaker 2: So I'm probably gonna do that.
Speaker 3: You can. They can going down to size is way cheaper.
Speaker 4: They just like make little laser knicks and like cut
Speaker 4: out small portions of it and then just kind of
Speaker 4: like read because it's pretty easy.
Speaker 3: They're removing material, not adding materials, in charge you for
Speaker 3: the material. Yeah, but I'm kind of like, so we
Speaker 3: picked out our bands, like a year ago, we got
Speaker 3: our I remember, and then I switched jobs, so now
Speaker 3: I do a lot of like electrician type got to
Speaker 3: get the rubber.
Speaker 2: One one, and I don't I want one bad dude.
Speaker 3: I'm not a big fan.
Speaker 2: But honestly, are you saying like you might not be
Speaker 2: able to wear it while you work because it might
Speaker 2: it might not be a good idea.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it I'm kind of like, you know, I don't
Speaker 3: really mess with a lot of super high voltage stuff,
Speaker 3: and I'm not really worried about the arc.
Speaker 2: Like, no, it's not that I know three people. I
Speaker 2: just like last week's one of my coworkers was telling
Speaker 2: me a horror story about it. And this makes the
Speaker 2: third person that I know who like knows somebody or
Speaker 2: it happened to them where like their ring got caught
Speaker 2: on some thing and it just pulled their finger off
Speaker 2: like like very easily. Dude, that happened to Jimmy fallon,
Speaker 2: Like his finger didn't come off, but he was like
Speaker 2: at home the most normal day ever. He tripped and
Speaker 2: his finger got caught on the corner of a table
Speaker 2: and like split his finger in half.
Speaker 3: Because the ring got caught out the corner like fully
Speaker 3: like pulled skin off.
Speaker 2: Had to have like crazy surgery. His finger was stuck
Speaker 2: like this forever. Like rings are like low key kind
Speaker 2: of dangerous.
Speaker 3: So I might hang in on my necklace.
Speaker 2: That is probably the move. While you're like that's a
Speaker 2: great idea.
Speaker 3: That'd be super like I've never seen anybody do that.
Speaker 2: It'd be swag.
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, of course, yeah, I was thinking Lord of
Speaker 3: the rings.
Speaker 2: Well, by the way, Ryan and Jenny proposed to me
Speaker 2: to be my efficient, to be the efficient, how do.
Speaker 3: We propose you? I forgot.
Speaker 4: I think he came over with an envelope and you
Speaker 4: were like openness, Yeah, that's how he did it.
Speaker 2: Dude, I was when I was in shock. Were we
Speaker 2: already doing the podcast at that point or no? No, okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: this was we.
Speaker 4: Were doing the podcast, uh like eight months later.
Speaker 2: Wow. So yeah. So we were just there for the weekend,
Speaker 2: just hanging out. Yeah, and like, I don't even remember
Speaker 2: what we were doing. I just turned around and Ryan
Speaker 2: and Jinny are both on one knee and they handed
Speaker 2: me the one ring from Lord of the Rings on
Speaker 2: a chain and they were like, will you marry us?
Speaker 2: And I was so in shock. I did not see
Speaker 2: that coming a mile away. Like I didn't see it
Speaker 2: at all. But it is a big shock. Asking to
Speaker 2: do somebody's wedding. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Both times now, I've been asked twice and both times
Speaker 3: I was like what and I yeah, And I never
Speaker 3: thought that I would ever like do anyone's wedding ever.
Speaker 3: Never even considered it, Like, never considered that I.
Speaker 2: Would be asked to do it. I was like fully
Speaker 2: in shock, like, oh my god, you said we were
Speaker 2: talking about Lord of It.
Speaker 4: But that's why I felt like I had to because
Speaker 4: I wasn't at your wedding. So I was like, well,
Speaker 4: then you you gotta do hours. It did kind of
Speaker 4: feel like amending.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't feel reverend enough to do that, to
Speaker 3: do that.
Speaker 2: PVC pipes and stuff. Yeah, nobody knows what we're talking about.
Speaker 2: Let's keep it that way. Let's keep it that. It's
Speaker 2: a good idea, but yeah, I.
Speaker 3: Just don't feel like I've got what it takes.
Speaker 2: Well, that's not true that some people got Dude, I
Speaker 2: know that's not true. I wouldn't have thought I did.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have thought like I could have done something
Speaker 2: like that.
Speaker 3: I could have told you there's a reason you're on
Speaker 3: that side of the table. Both of youse Buffy is
Speaker 3: y'all want to hear something shocking?
Speaker 2: Yes, shock me. We are on the final episode of
Speaker 2: the Sopranos. That's shocking. How how has season six or
Speaker 2: is it five six? How has season six been? It's crazy, really.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And it's just because it's the last season. It's
Speaker 4: just so like, oh, start this episode, everything's going great, boop,
Speaker 4: this character's dead. But no, it's just crazy because both
Speaker 4: of y'all like started it before us, and both of
Speaker 4: y'all convinced us to watch it, and we have just
Speaker 4: not stopped.
Speaker 2: We're not watching anything and both of.
Speaker 3: Us have hit a road pluck.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do that with shows. I started watching that
Speaker 2: like a year and a half ago.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we started around the same time.
Speaker 2: Really, yeah, he was a few months before you. Raven
Speaker 2: got me on it. Yeah, Raven like he just binged
Speaker 2: it in like a month or two, like just binge
Speaker 2: the whole thing and was like, Bro, you have to
Speaker 2: watch the Sopranos. Uh. So I finally watched it.
Speaker 4: But so I wanted to say this real quick about
Speaker 4: the Sopranos. Okay, in my mind, I was like, well,
Speaker 4: this could be a whole episode, but I'm like, nah,
Speaker 4: it could be, but then I'd have to rewatch from
Speaker 4: the jump. From the very beginning of the show. I
Speaker 4: was telling Jenny this show as a cult. There is
Speaker 4: so much esoteric symbolism in this show and it's very subtle.
Speaker 4: And now that we're on like the final episode, which
Speaker 4: will we will likely finish tonight after we're done with
Speaker 4: all the recording, there have been like a couple of
Speaker 4: overt things that have kind of happened that I'm like,
Speaker 4: I fucking knew it telling Jenny, Like last night, I
Speaker 4: was telling I'll.
Speaker 2: Just see I told you it's a cult and it
Speaker 2: makes sense. It was like the biggest running show of
Speaker 2: the time. You know, that's how it works.
Speaker 4: So there's a couple of things I wanted to run
Speaker 4: by you guys that pretty much are not spoilers the
Speaker 4: things you've seen mmmm maybe not mm.
Speaker 2: Maybe not now. And then I think about it. Oh yeah,
Speaker 2: there's there's one that.
Speaker 3: I can say. Did y'all know that AJ and Meadow
Speaker 3: have their own show? Yes? Yeah, podcast.
Speaker 4: But I want to say this because I'm not trying
Speaker 4: to rant for the listener to hear me talk about
Speaker 4: sopranos the whole time. But Okay, so this is going
Speaker 4: to be a minor uh spoiler, if that's right with
Speaker 4: you guys. But it has nothing to do like what happens.
Speaker 3: In the main with Nicker, with me or both both. Okay,
Speaker 3: it's really minor. It's just one of those occult things.
Speaker 2: So I did not care about spoilers.
Speaker 4: Okay, So at one point Tony does peyote mmm, and again,
Speaker 4: like it's gonna be some minor spoiler. It depends on
Speaker 4: you know what a spoiler is to you. But it's
Speaker 4: not gonna be like major stuff that happens and they're
Speaker 4: in Vegas, and there's a whole episode in season six
Speaker 4: that shows how like bad he is with gambling, Oh Tony,
Speaker 4: Like he's constantly blowing money. He goes through this whole
Speaker 4: phase where he's blowing hundreds of thousands of dollars in
Speaker 4: gambling and getting into debt. So they set that up,
Speaker 4: and then several episodes later, I think it was like
Speaker 4: the third from the last, he goes some terrible, terrible,
Speaker 4: terrible things have happened, Characters die, things like that, serious
Speaker 4: main characters, you know, because it's the end of the
Speaker 4: show and he's, you know, going away.
Speaker 2: He's on a strat.
Speaker 4: He does peyote in Las Vegas, and he goes to gamble.
Speaker 4: He wins like seventy thousand dollars. Psychic, his intuition. He's
Speaker 4: having this psychic moment where he's seeing these patterns he's
Speaker 4: winning the money. And then he goes outside and he's
Speaker 4: like looks at the sun and the sun flashes at
Speaker 4: him in a flash of light, and then he starts
Speaker 4: standing in the pos of a cross and he's.
Speaker 2: Like, I get it now, I get it. And then
Speaker 2: he goes to therapy and he.
Speaker 4: Starts talking about these metaphysical revelations that he had in
Speaker 4: his head, and it's like really insightful stuff like about
Speaker 4: I saw my mother and all mothers as being the
Speaker 4: bust that carries us here to this world and then
Speaker 4: you know, we suffer in life because we're trying to
Speaker 4: stay on the bus, but we have to go forward.
Speaker 2: It's just like this kind of stuff like that.
Speaker 4: And damn, I just thought that was crazy, like the
Speaker 4: the overt occult symbolism.
Speaker 2: But I feel like, I feel like in almost every
Speaker 2: season there's something, there's something yes there, and throughout the
Speaker 2: whole show there's a huge emphasis on dreams.
Speaker 4: Yes like and there's there's some things that are unfolding
Speaker 4: now that were set up for like four or five
Speaker 4: six seasons. And I just want to put your mind
Speaker 4: towards this that when Christopher goes through his initiation, which
Speaker 4: by the way, it was you know, pricking their fingers,
Speaker 4: drawing blood candle, they're wearing this regalia and there's.
Speaker 2: Like a crow in the window. There's a crow. That's
Speaker 2: what I was gonna say. There's a crow and.
Speaker 4: Something to do with They had an altar and I
Speaker 4: think they had cards on the table like Caro cards
Speaker 4: or something. So I just want to throw that out there.
Speaker 4: But yeah, I just I wanted to see what you
Speaker 4: guys can say when I was like, I'm on the
Speaker 4: last episode, that's all the end of an era.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's awesome. We will definitely be finishing it at
Speaker 2: some point. We like to jump around show to show
Speaker 2: and then I also get into modes where all I
Speaker 2: want to watch is one piece and so yeah, but
Speaker 2: we will finish it at some point very soon.
Speaker 4: So that was a random tangent. How do you guys
Speaker 4: feel about giving them a little bit about green Boys?
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's do that before. If you guys, if this
Speaker 2: is your first Stream of Consciousness episode, this is how
Speaker 2: they go. We just like get in here. It's like
Speaker 2: usually when we are in like busy points in our
Speaker 2: life and we just kind of get in here and
Speaker 2: update y'all on what's been going on, just like chit chat. Yeah,
Speaker 2: we'd be streamed if you enjoy it.
Speaker 4: Let us know if you enjoy just hearing us talk
Speaker 4: candidly about our personal lives and just kind of like
Speaker 4: you know, chatting with each other necessarily not with a
Speaker 4: topic or like some focused educational content.
Speaker 3: I mean, we really like doing this.
Speaker 2: I've really enjoyed this. I love it. I've had great
Speaker 2: We just sprinkle them in every every now and then,
Speaker 2: every couple of months or so.
Speaker 4: We took us like three years to do the second one,
Speaker 4: and now we're in.
Speaker 2: Love with the format. Yeah, but yeah, just sprinkling them
Speaker 2: in every now and then.
Speaker 3: And if you like stream of consciousness, you're gonna love
Speaker 3: Green Barge.
Speaker 2: We've been conceptualizing this for a long time and it's
Speaker 2: our new Patreon show. It's gonna be out soon then
Speaker 2: in the next couple months, in the fall, yeah, we can.
Speaker 2: We can confidently say in the fall fall, Yeah, after
Speaker 2: Alex's wedding, Yes for sure. And Green Boys is gonna
Speaker 2: be the new show, and it's gonna be the show
Speaker 2: where we get in here and we get all of
Speaker 2: our energy out.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: Some of y'all's favorite moments from the show are like
Speaker 2: when we role play as characters and when we just
Speaker 2: like completely goof off and go on these like goo
Speaker 2: feed tangents and stuff like that. It's gonna be a
Speaker 2: lot of that, and then like some other high energy
Speaker 2: type content, it's gonna be like a creative kind of
Speaker 2: outleg yeah party, Yeah, it's gonna be a party.
Speaker 4: The way I think of it in my mind is
Speaker 4: just like full disclosure, where it's just like we show
Speaker 4: up and we just like kind of vent our hearts out,
Speaker 4: but instead of it being like more personal things. I
Speaker 4: mean sometimes it can be, yeah, but to me, it's
Speaker 4: just kind of like a lighthearted comedy show.
Speaker 2: Goofy, goofy, goofy. Yeah, we're just having fun. We're gonna
Speaker 2: be goofy, goofy, goofy on Green Boys. So we uh
Speaker 2: a couple of nights ago we got in here because
Speaker 2: I've been telling them for months, like we're gonna do
Speaker 2: a new like theme song for Green Boys. It's gonna
Speaker 2: be its own show and all this stuff. But I
Speaker 2: want us to make the song together. I want us
Speaker 2: to be in the room and make the song together.
Speaker 2: I had like experimented with some stuff.
Speaker 3: But because all the other songs, it's just Nick, it's
Speaker 3: just me, and they turned out like I'm happy with
Speaker 3: the way that those turned out, amazing, but thank you.
Speaker 2: But I was like, this one, I want all of
Speaker 2: our energy in it. And we made it the other
Speaker 2: night right here in this room, and like what we
Speaker 2: came up with was where we were laughing so like
Speaker 2: for an hour straight making this song. It was so
Speaker 2: much fun. Yeah, that's gonna be the energy of Green Boys,
Speaker 2: just like Goofy having so much fun.
Speaker 4: There's a lot of moments in this show where like
Speaker 4: you have to understand as a listener, like, you know,
Speaker 4: we're we're we're trying to do something different here where
Speaker 4: we want to have like very deep, mystical, profound, you know,
Speaker 4: spiritual conversation about all these x y Z you know,
Speaker 4: occult and paranormal and conspiratorial and whatever subjects. But like
Speaker 4: also at our core, we're just like we just like
Speaker 4: to cut up and have fun. And I feel like
Speaker 4: our solution was to create a show where all of
Speaker 4: that energy that we have on this show that sometimes
Speaker 4: we want to spend on that, now we can have
Speaker 4: a whole segment for that.
Speaker 2: That's the perfect way to put it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that is the perfect way to It's a must
Speaker 3: for us, and it is an outlet for that type
Speaker 3: of energy, Yeah, which then creates more room in BSS,
Speaker 3: the main show, to do main show things.
Speaker 2: Yeah for sure.
Speaker 3: Well it's not saying either the you know BSS is
Speaker 3: going to change, It's just I think like the more dude, Like,
Speaker 3: I can't deny that when we started Full Disclosure, I
Speaker 3: started to feel more confident in myself when it came.
Speaker 2: To record this show.
Speaker 3: Absolutely, And I think you can go back and look
Speaker 3: at that and see that real time.
Speaker 2: Definitely.
Speaker 4: And I feel like us getting into Green Boys, I
Speaker 4: think we're all just going to feel better about what
Speaker 4: we're doing. I mean, it's just all gonna gel. It's
Speaker 4: all gonna be firing together on all cylinders. And I'm
Speaker 4: very excited.
Speaker 2: I am too. It's gonna be so goofy and so
Speaker 2: much fun. So if you want more Yellowstone role play,
Speaker 2: get on over to.
Speaker 4: I've been telling you all today, like I really want
Speaker 4: to do some GTA five role plays.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're going to do one.
Speaker 2: I r L in this room. I've been thinking exactly.
Speaker 4: I've been thinking about some sort of potential BSS streaming thing.
Speaker 2: But I don't know that's later. Yeah, we can do it.
Speaker 3: Now that we've talked Patreon, we might as well. You
Speaker 3: want to give them a plug, Alex a Patreon plug
Speaker 3: all plugs.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we rarely do it. Welsosaid, so dot com.
Speaker 3: We have merch and all of our details on there
Speaker 3: that lead you over to Patreon. Patreon dot com slash
Speaker 3: Bloodsoe said, so, get you perks, gets you into the
Speaker 3: mothership Discord chat with everybody, super like minded community, very
Speaker 3: supportive community, very loving community. It's been awesome hanging out
Speaker 3: with five hundred people who just get along. Yeah, that's awesome.
Speaker 3: So you get Discord, you get episodes a day early
Speaker 3: and gets full two days early. Yeah, two days, two
Speaker 3: days early, and then you get Full Disclosure, which is
Speaker 3: a show basically Ryan pouring his heart out on camera.
Speaker 3: And then you'll also have an option for Green Boys
Speaker 3: and some other perks come the fall. So Patreon dot com.
Speaker 3: Slash bloodso said, so is the best way to support.
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Speaker 2: I don't think we've ever Yeah, we want to do
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Speaker 4: if you want to follow us on social media, you know,
Speaker 4: we really should do this more. Really well, we're working
Speaker 4: on it. Yeah, yeah, we're working on that. But we
Speaker 4: do have an Instagram and my lovely wife Jennifer, who
Speaker 4: I was, you know, spending a great deal bragging about
Speaker 4: today confessing my feelings at our wedding, that one. She
Speaker 4: works very hard on our Instagram. She works very hard
Speaker 4: on our social media's and you know, if you want
Speaker 4: to see our updates and what we're planning, obviously every
Speaker 4: week we're posting about episode content, just all future ideas,
Speaker 4: all that stuff.
Speaker 3: It's behind the scenes.
Speaker 2: Behind the scenes, yeah anything.
Speaker 4: Our main hub of social media is Instagram and it's
Speaker 4: at Bledsoe podcast on.
Speaker 2: Instagram Bledsoe Family Developments. Yeah anything, yeah, yeah, install, install, install,
Speaker 2: Get over the I am not sponsored one of those
Speaker 2: little fast ad reads you know. Also, look, we have neon.
Speaker 2: Isn't that cool? We did we already did an episode
Speaker 2: with the but it's cool. It's cool. Didn't talk about
Speaker 2: it at all.
Speaker 3: No, but it's because we're doing the Instagram post.
Speaker 1: So.
Speaker 3: But but that first episode that it's in, I brought
Speaker 3: you guys in with a big wide shot.
Speaker 4: You can't what was that?
Speaker 2: King Arthur? Yes, so iconic. Bro.
Speaker 3: Do you remember in the Da Vinci Code episode we
Speaker 3: talked about the blade and the chalice. Yeah, and how
Speaker 3: like the sword or the blade is is the masculine energy,
Speaker 3: and we know, I just thought that was kind of cool.
Speaker 1: Bro.
Speaker 2: We got the blowing ass.
Speaker 3: On fucking triangle on the King Arthur episode. It's the blade,
Speaker 3: It's the Blade. Who knows?
Speaker 2: I love y'all, Love you guys, guys.
Speaker 1: It was weird things happen in the backyard of Bletsoe House.
Speaker 1: Shiit o god, it was so weird coming cluster to
Speaker 1: like smirring on the inside of it. No one knows
Speaker 1: coming right, haven't nod a side not a
Speaker 3: Happy