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<v Speaker 1>Weird things happened in the backyard.

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<v Speaker 2>Weird, weird, weird. I'm sorry, I'm in myself laugh doing that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, but we can start like that. It's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>That was great. Thank you, dude, thank you. You're thirty one.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you're what were you saying, Alex over the hill?

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<v Speaker 3>Thirty one runs over the hill.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm feeling different, you feel different? Yeah, I'm seeing things different.

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<v Speaker 3>Really, so getting that social Security check?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, man, And I just you know, it's it's

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit tougher to wake up every day.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna lie, bro, that's some bull literally, like

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<v Speaker 2>since we were thirteen, you couldn't get out of bed.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's true, bro, which is thirty one in reverse?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yo, you know at this point we have for

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<v Speaker 2>sure known each other like more than half of our lives.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, dude, since twelve and eleven. Really yeah, damn,

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<v Speaker 2>that's crazy me In case, we were talking about that

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<v Speaker 2>the other day, I was like, twenty years. Yeah, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, dude, twenty years seems like the duration of

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<v Speaker 2>my life. So anything longer than that is, like, that's

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<v Speaker 2>for sure not real. Like I don't I feel thirty,

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<v Speaker 2>but I also I'm like that seems old as am.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't remember like ten years of your life.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't remember the majority of my life. To

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<v Speaker 2>be honest, I feel like a child. They let drive.

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<v Speaker 2>Who's they? Yeah? Who is they?

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<v Speaker 3>The powers that the people who let me get my license, the.

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<v Speaker 2>Powers that be state.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I don't know power, the power with the.

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<v Speaker 2>Governor, the mayor. How are we doing, boys, I'm doing good? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing good. Tired today? Yeah? Yeah? We little Debbie

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<v Speaker 2>little Oh that was a little Debbie by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>that wasn't like honestly, I've seen way worse than Fable.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm also I've been telling people because people in

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<v Speaker 2>my office were like that was Everybody got way too

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<v Speaker 2>bent out of shape about this Hurricane Debora. If there's people,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure, like Grace in Australia has no idea what

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<v Speaker 2>we're talking about when we say little Debbie.

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<v Speaker 3>Pretty sure they get typhoons. Yeah, which is a hurricane

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<v Speaker 3>spins in reverse?

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<v Speaker 2>It's a hurricane. No it's not.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm pretty sure it does.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not what that is.

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<v Speaker 3>They get monsters, it's a different hemisphere spends the other way. Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>the toilet's also flush.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like that part's a myth.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll find it out.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I feel like that that is probably not true

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<v Speaker 2>at all. But yeah, I thinking it was gonna be worse. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>everybody was. Everybody like, at least at work, We're like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, it's gonna be so terrible, Like we

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't find water. Oh yeah, we went to Walmart. There's

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<v Speaker 2>like no water, no milk, no bread, know, nothing whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>And then it was like, not not really that bad

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<v Speaker 2>at all.

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<v Speaker 4>That's every storm. I think, like people always freak out,

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<v Speaker 4>what are you laughing about?

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<v Speaker 3>Ultimately, after all of the scientific talk has been done,

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<v Speaker 3>we can confidently state that the only thing that has

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<v Speaker 3>an influence on which way down the drain the water

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<v Speaker 3>goes in Australia is the shape of the basin that

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<v Speaker 3>you are using.

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<v Speaker 2>You see what I'm saying, Dude. You can't freaking believe

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<v Speaker 2>everything you see on the internet.

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<v Speaker 3>So you thought for a moment that the water in

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<v Speaker 3>Australia reverse different?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, I'm I'm sure he thought that his entire life.

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<v Speaker 2>Am I wrong? You thought that's been the truth? I

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<v Speaker 2>love you, It's been the truth. That's what I'm saying like, man,

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<v Speaker 2>I've heard that my whole life. Have you never heard that?

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<v Speaker 4>What about Australian water reverse different?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, you've never heard that. I've heard that my entire life.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, tropical cyclones above the equator's been counterclockwise, while those

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<v Speaker 3>below it'spin clockwise. So tropical that part tropical cyclones, that

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<v Speaker 3>being tropical storms, hurricanes, and typhoons.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh well, then that means that a typhoon is not

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<v Speaker 2>just a reverse hurricane, so they don't typhoon.

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<v Speaker 3>A typhoon in the southern hemisphere below the equator spins different, sir.

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<v Speaker 2>That is not what we are discussing here, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna need you to just fess up.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, this is where we started. But I likened

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<v Speaker 3>this to flushing the toilet because the time I flushed

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<v Speaker 3>the toilet was a bigger storm than Debbie.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh huh right, but right, yeah, for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>That's how we got there. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Man, people are always freaking out about storms, and I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know. I saw the report that they were like

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<v Speaker 4>gonna be expecting the Carolina is to be on the

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<v Speaker 4>outskirts of the storm.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was just like, whatever, No, it wasn't it

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't nothing. Emily got kind of did you see the

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<v Speaker 2>she sent you that video. The water was like coming

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<v Speaker 2>up to her door.

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<v Speaker 4>There's someone I think one of Jenny's coworkers had some flooding,

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<v Speaker 4>like in her house. But I want to say they

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<v Speaker 4>might live right outside of Wilmington.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I have a couple coworkers across the bridge that

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't get to work today. It was like, look at them. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I know for real. I was stuck in there like

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<v Speaker 2>there was nobody in there.

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<v Speaker 4>So basically for the audience, we had like that tropical

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<v Speaker 4>storm Debbie passed through yesterday and hey, the rain was crazy. Though.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Deborah, is it Deborah? Yeah? Put the respect on.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it's Debbie. I thought it was Debbie. Debbie. It's dead. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're cool with her, it's dead. If you know her,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean, it's dead.

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<v Speaker 3>We had to walk got under her outskirts.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh dude, wait a minute, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>Does it reverse different? It's only when you flip it

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<v Speaker 3>in reverse it Yo, that's und dude.

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<v Speaker 2>I cannot believe you just went there with that. That's nuts.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh.

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<v Speaker 2>If y'all can't tell, we're doing a Stream of Consciousness episode.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you could probably tell from Alex's Shenanigans. So

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of just want to talk about what we's

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<v Speaker 2>been going through our minds lately.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, for sure, in all seriousness.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I feel like I've been going through a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit of like a spiritual bat So how about you, man,

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<v Speaker 2>how are you settling into Wilmington? I am feeling like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm settling in. Yeah, it's starting to feel it's starting

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<v Speaker 2>to feel normal. Things are finally finally starting to get stable.

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<v Speaker 2>I like it here. It's awesome. It's so great being

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<v Speaker 2>so close to the podcast. Like, yeah, dude, not having

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<v Speaker 2>to drive two and a half hours has been like

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<v Speaker 2>the greatest thing ever. If we have literally anything we

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<v Speaker 2>need to do, I am two minutes down the road.

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<v Speaker 2>Did we see each other.

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<v Speaker 4>Like ten times as much now? Yeah, it's like literally

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<v Speaker 4>three four days a week.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeatly It's like it's like how it used to be

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<v Speaker 2>in Fayetteville when we both lived in Fayetteville. We saw

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<v Speaker 2>each other all the time. But no, I'm adjusting. I'm adjusting,

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<v Speaker 2>like I feel like it's going good. I miss my

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<v Speaker 2>family like I do miss my family. I feel like,

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<v Speaker 2>how long do you think it took you to get

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<v Speaker 2>over that.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, definitely a while. But I will tell you that

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<v Speaker 4>you get used to the distance. And like I've been

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<v Speaker 4>telling you even before you moved here, like when you

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<v Speaker 4>when you adjust to the distance, you actually find that

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<v Speaker 4>like every time you see them is better, you know

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<v Speaker 4>what I mean, because you're not around them all the

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<v Speaker 4>time every week. And you know, obviously being around family

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<v Speaker 4>is great, but when it's like absence, you know, makes

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<v Speaker 4>the heart grow fonder.

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<v Speaker 2>So those holidays are.

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<v Speaker 4>So much more special and so much more meaningful, and

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<v Speaker 4>you want to just squeeze every drop out of being

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<v Speaker 4>around your parents, and it's actually it seems better to

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<v Speaker 4>me really.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I feel like we like me and my

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<v Speaker 2>family work. There's a spider. Sorry, Oh no, I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like me and my family were kind of I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>we our family's been through a lot of kind of

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<v Speaker 2>just like weird transitional phases of like people moving away

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<v Speaker 2>or then, Like there's been a couple kind of scary situations,

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<v Speaker 2>like Dad's gone through some stuff, you know, with health problems,

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<v Speaker 2>health problems. Yeah, and you know, there's been a few

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<v Speaker 2>things kind of personal. But I feel like within the past,

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<v Speaker 2>like a year or two, we are just starting to

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<v Speaker 2>get to the point where we all feel like we're

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<v Speaker 2>kind of like close, and it hasn't felt like that

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<v Speaker 2>for a while. Like we always like we love each other,

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<v Speaker 2>we always have loved each other. It's not that it's

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<v Speaker 2>that like I don't know, you know, like there's family

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<v Speaker 2>members you get around where it's just like easy and

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<v Speaker 2>seamless and like it's fun, you love being around them

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<v Speaker 2>and whatever, and then sometimes like you're around your family

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<v Speaker 2>and it's like not as what's the word I'm looking for,

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<v Speaker 2>like effortless, right, you're kind of having to you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you're kind of having to like put on a little bit,

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<v Speaker 2>and like there's almost this feeling of like Okay, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't like fully completely want to be here. But in

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<v Speaker 2>the past couple of years we've like finally started to

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<v Speaker 2>get really close. There's been a lot of healing stuff

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<v Speaker 2>in my family, so I think like having like especially

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<v Speaker 2>when I was working with my other like for that

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<v Speaker 2>full year we were super super close, and then like

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<v Speaker 2>right after that, boom, I'm in Wilmington. So I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I'm in this spot in my life

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<v Speaker 2>right now where I'm being like constantly back to back

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<v Speaker 2>served lessons.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I feel that too.

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<v Speaker 2>By like the universe or I don't, I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>by what, Like I'm I feel like I am just

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<v Speaker 2>constantly being put through these kind of trials, even like

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<v Speaker 2>on a smaller scale, like they're not all huge and

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<v Speaker 2>devastating and whatever, Like I still feel like I've lived

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<v Speaker 2>a fairly easy life, but you know, just little things.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that there's always resistance when something is evolving,

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<v Speaker 4>You understand what I'm saying, Like, I think, as you're

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<v Speaker 4>growing as a person, and we are growing as a

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<v Speaker 4>team and what we're doing, and like we're getting more

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<v Speaker 4>like laser focus and locked in and obviously the growth

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<v Speaker 4>is happening. I feel like as we are rapidly grow

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<v Speaker 4>going collectively as the team, we all are also going

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<v Speaker 4>on like our individual.

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<v Speaker 2>Growth journey too.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And I feel like when that happens, like there's

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<v Speaker 4>always resistance when you grow. It's always uncomfortable. It's always

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<v Speaker 4>like you know, when something evolves the caterpillar, it goes

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<v Speaker 4>into the chrystalist and then it becomes the butterfly. It's

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<v Speaker 4>always this like strange, uncomfortable situation. And I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>maybe That's that's what it is like, because your intentions

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<v Speaker 4>are to keep moving forward and to keep focusing in

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<v Speaker 4>on this and to keep like doing this and bettering yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like these things are being thrown at you left

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<v Speaker 4>and right, but it's like as you're overcoming them, maybe

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<v Speaker 4>each time you're becoming a little bit more equipped to

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<v Speaker 2>And I forget to stop and be like, your whole

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<v Speaker 4>Like even Jenny today, she was just feeling so tired

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<v Speaker 4>was like, Jenny, you know what, She's like, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe you're just supposed to kind of chill in this

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, you're so productive.

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<v Speaker 4>beating yourself up so bad. And tomorrow we're gonna wake

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<v Speaker 4>up and we're gonna feel better. Yeah, you know, And

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<v Speaker 4>she just kind of sat there. I hope she took

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's funny. There are people like I would consider

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<v Speaker 2>Jenny to see see, like one of these people that

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<v Speaker 2>that she needs to get done and be productive, and

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<v Speaker 2>like she's very on it in that way. And then

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<v Speaker 2>like I know people where it seems like it is.

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<v Speaker 4>Just impossible, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Completely impossible. And then I know other people who it's

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<v Speaker 2>like I used to like there's never an issue.

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<v Speaker 4>I used to be one of the impossible people, were

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<v Speaker 4>And as I'm getting older, I'm starting to be a

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<v Speaker 2>But like you think, you mean, for like extended periods

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<v Speaker 2>of time you would feel like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, yeah, especially lately man like with with the

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<v Speaker 4>house stuff, you know, buying the house, and there was

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<v Speaker 4>It's hard to say buyer's remorse, but just it's one

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<v Speaker 4>thing when you're making decisions and you're spending money and

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<v Speaker 4>you're like literally changing your life, and like, logically, this

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<v Speaker 4>is a good choice, this is a good idea. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>going to do this. You're doing it. Okay, I'm doing it.

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<v Speaker 4>But then when the dust settles after the storm of

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<v Speaker 4>it all, and then you're on the other side, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>sitting here like, oh my god, did I just should

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<v Speaker 4>I have done this? Should I have done this? And

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<v Speaker 4>I've grappled with I mean, just like you, man like,

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like, at the very same time, this is

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<v Speaker 4>so weird, but at the same time, our lives both

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<v Speaker 4>just got flipped upside down.

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<v Speaker 2>Alex is about to but in a really good way.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's married, and it's it's really not gonna be

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<v Speaker 4>a shocking change for you because you've been together so long.

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<v Speaker 4>It's gonna be a good change.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, but how.

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<v Speaker 3>You feel, I don't. I think it's gonna be a

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<v Speaker 3>very seamless like. I don't think there's gonna be a change. No,

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<v Speaker 3>it is just interesting, like.

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<v Speaker 4>There will be a little change and it's gonna be

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<v Speaker 3>I believe it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's real.

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<v Speaker 3>Man, I'm kind of over She probably won't listen to this,

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<v Speaker 3>but no, yeah, all of that's for sure. But it's

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<v Speaker 3>just like this whole planning of the wedding and doing

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<v Speaker 3>all of this part of like everything leading up to it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just so over it. And I'm like listening to

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<v Speaker 3>you guys talk about your your spiritual journey lately, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just sitting here thinking that I've been so wrapped

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<v Speaker 3>up in like material stuff for like the last six

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<v Speaker 3>months that I haven't really given my spiritual journey any thought.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm sure that you guys can tell, just with

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<v Speaker 3>the nature of a show and the nature of our

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<v Speaker 3>relationships and stuff. But like, holy crap, like napkin colors,

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<v Speaker 3>freaking oh, this person's not coming, this person's coming.

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<v Speaker 4>Z flashions you know, who's right?

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<v Speaker 3>And then this shower, that shower, this shower, who's r SVP,

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<v Speaker 3>Who who's opened the invitation and not gotten back to

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<v Speaker 3>us and stuff like that, And it's I don't know, man,

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<v Speaker 3>It's gonna be.

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<v Speaker 2>That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, also a little stressful, it can be. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>can't believe I got a kiss her in front of

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<v Speaker 3>that many people.

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<v Speaker 2>Dude, that's so funny that, like, that's a real thing

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<v Speaker 2>that you with talk about.

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<v Speaker 3>This isn't the first time you've mentioned it. No, we

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<v Speaker 3>are not PDA. People like y'all know that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>y'all have been around me.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know that, but now I do.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean, how many times have you seen Olivia

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<v Speaker 3>kiss each other?

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<v Speaker 2>That's true?

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<v Speaker 4>And now that I think about it, literally never. But

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not sitting there thinking about, like, oh one of

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<v Speaker 4>my friends gonna kids, you know. You know, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>think about you know.

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<v Speaker 3>But some people are very like and there's nothing wrong

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<v Speaker 3>with that. Some people are very touchy, feeling very PDA

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<v Speaker 3>with each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, good for them, Yeah that's cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't know what that's good for them. Don't know what

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<v Speaker 3>that's like at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Bro. I Yeah, I feel like me and Casey are

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<v Speaker 2>like that. We're we're very lovey dove.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but it's not as bad as you might think

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<v Speaker 4>people would think. You guys are pretty like, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>We try to be considerate about it. Okay, so there's

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<v Speaker 2>a time and a place, So yeah, for sure for

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<v Speaker 2>the people who don't know, Casey just started working for

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<v Speaker 2>the company that I work for, which is awesome. It

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<v Speaker 2>has been really great. Literally, Jim and Pam, honestly, it

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<v Speaker 2>kind of feels like that sometimes, like, uh, but so

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<v Speaker 2>we drive to work together and everything, like we get

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<v Speaker 2>up at the same time. It's like, it's so weird

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<v Speaker 2>her being familiar with like my home at the same time. Yeah, everything,

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<v Speaker 2>and so, but it's funny because what we've been doing

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<v Speaker 2>is we'll like walk into the building and like going

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<v Speaker 2>up the stairs and right before we open the door

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<v Speaker 2>to go into our office, that's when we kiss. So

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<v Speaker 2>that we're not doing it in front of a bunch

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<v Speaker 2>of people and like making people uncomfortable. Yeah, we're considerate

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<v Speaker 2>to a to a certain degree.

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<v Speaker 3>But I just think that falls under professional.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's the workplace. It's like, yeah, I just don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to make anybody.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't want to give HR something to do, Yeah, god forbid.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm tight with HR though, So it's all good.

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<v Speaker 3>Good.

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<v Speaker 2>You you said something that I have been thinking about

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<v Speaker 2>a lot lately, and I'm interested in, uh talking about

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<v Speaker 2>which is that like the you feel like you've been

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<v Speaker 2>in a situation where you're not like you it's a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of material stuff and like earthly stuff and you

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<v Speaker 2>haven't really had time to let your mind just kind

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<v Speaker 2>of be open and like accept spirituality and practice it

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff like that, or even think about it, even

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<v Speaker 2>think about it. I feel like I've been in that since,

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<v Speaker 2>like I mean mostly since I moved here, because it's

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<v Speaker 2>been like just we've been so stressed about you know,

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<v Speaker 2>making the money work and like you know all that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just constantly like Casey has been looking for a

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<v Speaker 2>job and it's been super super stressful because she's like

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<v Speaker 2>looking for a job and then also running her business

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<v Speaker 2>that she owns, and you know that is its own

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<v Speaker 2>like source of stress stuff Casey Mang Design or it's

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<v Speaker 2>it's Casey Made. Yeah, we had a rebrand so set again.

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<v Speaker 2>We did so Instagram at its Casey Made. I T

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<v Speaker 2>S C A s E Y M A d E.

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<v Speaker 2>She's been running that. We're doing a big event in

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<v Speaker 2>Durham soon this weekend, but it'll be you know earlier

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<v Speaker 2>for the listener. But there's been a lot of stuff

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<v Speaker 2>going on, and then on top of all of that,

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<v Speaker 2>it's been like, I'm I'm working on you know, Twice

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<v Speaker 2>Born stuff, I'm working on Emily's album. I've got a

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<v Speaker 2>And then on top of all of that stuff, it's

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<v Speaker 2>like there's there's there's so many things right now that

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like another song, another song, we can talk

422
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<v Speaker 2>about it. Let's talk about it. Yeah, let's do it. Okay,

423
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<v Speaker 2>we we like what was that?

424
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<v Speaker 3>I'll just tell you where to sit.

425
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah. A few nights ago we finally sat down.

426
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<v Speaker 2>You know, we've been waiting for months to have free

427
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<v Speaker 2>time to work on this. We've like mentioned in passing

428
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<v Speaker 2>that there's another Patreon show coming, and we.

429
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<v Speaker 4>Also mentioned it will be on the other side of

430
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<v Speaker 4>our crazy uprooting situations.

431
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<v Speaker 2>In life, which yeah, approch. We're we're here pretty much

432
00:21:02.359 --> 00:21:05.279
<v Speaker 2>like we're one more left, one more left, we got

433
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<v Speaker 2>we got the But that's like the that's the big celebration.

434
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<v Speaker 2>That's gonna feel like the big like the big relief

435
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<v Speaker 2>of all the pressure. Dud His wedding is gonna be dope.

436
00:21:14.799 --> 00:21:18.119
<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be the best. I cannot wait. Yeah, Like

437
00:21:18.440 --> 00:21:23.519
<v Speaker 2>I like weddings, I usually feel obligated to go to weddings.

438
00:21:23.960 --> 00:21:26.680
<v Speaker 2>There have been a couple of weddings. Y'all's wedding was

439
00:21:26.799 --> 00:21:30.119
<v Speaker 2>obviously I had a lot of fun. Yeah, like that

440
00:21:30.160 --> 00:21:32.519
<v Speaker 2>one was one that there was no feeling of, like

441
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<v Speaker 2>I don't want it. That one was so much fun.

442
00:21:35.400 --> 00:21:38.400
<v Speaker 2>Our buddy Alex Hodge, his wedding was amazing. I love that.

443
00:21:38.759 --> 00:21:41.519
<v Speaker 2>And then this, I'm so excited for your wedding, Dude,

444
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<v Speaker 2>I cannot wait. But it's gonna be like a huge

445
00:21:44.480 --> 00:21:47.079
<v Speaker 2>like burst of the bubble for all of us, like

446
00:21:47.519 --> 00:21:50.920
<v Speaker 2>all of our lives in that moment will finally be

447
00:21:51.079 --> 00:21:55.039
<v Speaker 2>settling down for a minute, Like it'll be like time

448
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<v Speaker 2>to like let out a breath of like relief. So

449
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<v Speaker 2>I can't wait for them at But.

450
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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm going to France. You all are relaxing, Yeah.

451
00:22:04.799 --> 00:22:09.079
<v Speaker 2>I mean, are you saying being in France isn't gonna

452
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<v Speaker 2>be relaxing?

453
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<v Speaker 3>I hope it is.

454
00:22:11.440 --> 00:22:13.839
<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be sweet, dude, It's gonna be sweet.

455
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<v Speaker 3>You're going to Paris right for two days, which is

456
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<v Speaker 3>like about all the time I want to spend in Paris.

457
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<v Speaker 2>And anywhere else.

458
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<v Speaker 3>I don't know south of France, but you don't remember.

459
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<v Speaker 2>No, it's on overside at all.

460
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<v Speaker 3>I think maybe you gotta go there, do I think

461
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<v Speaker 3>it's on the itinerary.

462
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<v Speaker 2>That's cool.

463
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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we're doing like a guided tour through.

464
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<v Speaker 2>You know, Oversida is right.

465
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<v Speaker 3>Nice, it's where they signed the treaty.

466
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<v Speaker 2>It's like where it's it's where the king lives. The castle.

467
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<v Speaker 3>You can get the castle.

468
00:22:39.880 --> 00:22:42.079
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you can tour it and everything. It's like a museum.

469
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<v Speaker 2>Now we are taking a little bit of an aside,

470
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<v Speaker 2>but it's okay. What what maybe y'all choose France.

471
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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what made her choose Fans. See, that's

472
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<v Speaker 3>the thing about marriage too.

473
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<v Speaker 4>Man, you're gonna you're gonna become a lot more comfortable

474
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<v Speaker 4>with Like, you know, we're in the house buying process, right,

475
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<v Speaker 4>uh huh.

476
00:23:00.720 --> 00:23:02.359
<v Speaker 3>And we'll get back to France in a minute and

477
00:23:02.400 --> 00:23:04.200
<v Speaker 3>then we'll get back to Green Boys. It's okay, this

478
00:23:04.240 --> 00:23:05.640
<v Speaker 3>is great, this is great, this is this is the

479
00:23:05.720 --> 00:23:06.200
<v Speaker 3>rabbit hole.

480
00:23:06.279 --> 00:23:06.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this is great.

481
00:23:07.039 --> 00:23:09.359
<v Speaker 4>No, but we're buying houses and you know, we toured

482
00:23:09.519 --> 00:23:11.559
<v Speaker 4>three or four of them, and she sees this when

483
00:23:11.559 --> 00:23:15.079
<v Speaker 4>she really likes this one, and I'm just like, sure.

484
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<v Speaker 2>You know, I really liked it.

485
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<v Speaker 4>I'm underplaying it, but I'm just saying, you gotta get

486
00:23:19.200 --> 00:23:20.319
<v Speaker 4>used to a lot more of that, brother.

487
00:23:20.759 --> 00:23:24.240
<v Speaker 2>It's true. But also, like you always it's always like

488
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<v Speaker 2>the happy wife, happy life, happy spouse, happy house, you

489
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<v Speaker 2>know whatever. But it's it's less like nefarious than it sounds. Absolutely,

490
00:23:33.319 --> 00:23:36.200
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's just participating and making them happy. Yeah,

491
00:23:36.240 --> 00:23:38.880
<v Speaker 2>what it actually is is more it's like it's like

492
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<v Speaker 2>that like participating, like the give and the take.

493
00:23:42.240 --> 00:23:44.119
<v Speaker 4>Going to the concerts with her that I would never

494
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<v Speaker 4>in a million years go see on my own.

495
00:23:45.519 --> 00:23:47.799
<v Speaker 2>But it's like it makes it one of the responsibilities

496
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<v Speaker 2>of like being married. This is true. This is what

497
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<v Speaker 2>I can't we're gonna give you.

498
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<v Speaker 3>I can't wait to hear it. But I've got my

499
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<v Speaker 3>own take.

500
00:23:53.799 --> 00:23:56.240
<v Speaker 2>We're gonna give you marriage advice right now. That's what's happening.

501
00:23:57.240 --> 00:24:00.799
<v Speaker 2>It is it's very much like you have a responsibility

502
00:24:00.920 --> 00:24:05.160
<v Speaker 2>when you get married to not always put yourself first,

503
00:24:05.839 --> 00:24:09.160
<v Speaker 2>like yep, and that can be a hard adjustment. Yeah,

504
00:24:09.559 --> 00:24:12.799
<v Speaker 2>Like I consider myself for a lot of my life

505
00:24:12.880 --> 00:24:17.440
<v Speaker 2>a pretty selfish person. That's like naturally who I have

506
00:24:17.599 --> 00:24:18.960
<v Speaker 2>been for a lot of my life.

507
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<v Speaker 3>I can I can agree with that, I think not.

508
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<v Speaker 3>We'll talk about it, Okay, you can agree No, no, no,

509
00:24:26.720 --> 00:24:29.680
<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, I'm let me be more clear. I can

510
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<v Speaker 3>agree that I feel the same way about myself.

511
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<v Speaker 2>I see, I see, but not.

512
00:24:33.759 --> 00:24:37.119
<v Speaker 3>I think there's selfishness in like a selfish way. And

513
00:24:37.160 --> 00:24:41.079
<v Speaker 3>then I think there's selfishness in like a self loving

514
00:24:41.200 --> 00:24:44.400
<v Speaker 3>kind of way. I have priorities, My time is important, right,

515
00:24:44.720 --> 00:24:49.039
<v Speaker 3>Like I think there's healthy boundaries selfishness, yeah for sure. Yeah,

516
00:24:49.079 --> 00:24:51.680
<v Speaker 3>And like yeah, like I would rather be selfish and

517
00:24:51.759 --> 00:24:55.359
<v Speaker 3>hurt people's feelings than be a pushover and have people

518
00:24:55.359 --> 00:24:56.920
<v Speaker 3>walk all over me all the time.

519
00:24:57.240 --> 00:24:57.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

520
00:24:58.240 --> 00:25:01.319
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, sorry, but go ahead marriage if I.

521
00:25:00.680 --> 00:25:03.000
<v Speaker 2>No, I feel that. And those things are very different,

522
00:25:03.000 --> 00:25:06.119
<v Speaker 2>by the way, right, like the self love thing and

523
00:25:06.160 --> 00:25:10.119
<v Speaker 2>the boundaries and stuff that like shouldn't for the most part,

524
00:25:10.160 --> 00:25:14.319
<v Speaker 2>like shouldn't go away like you have to you cannot.

525
00:25:14.480 --> 00:25:16.920
<v Speaker 2>You can't be capable of loving someone else if you

526
00:25:16.960 --> 00:25:19.400
<v Speaker 2>don't love yourself and take care of yourself.

527
00:25:19.640 --> 00:25:21.279
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. No, but I think it's a good thing to

528
00:25:21.279 --> 00:25:23.240
<v Speaker 3>bring up because I'm sure there's people out there that

529
00:25:23.279 --> 00:25:26.279
<v Speaker 3>struggle with that and will write that off as om

530
00:25:26.279 --> 00:25:29.200
<v Speaker 3>being selfish. It's like, no, you're not, You're being good

531
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<v Speaker 3>to yourself.

532
00:25:29.799 --> 00:25:31.839
<v Speaker 2>Good point. Yeah, you know, good point.

533
00:25:31.839 --> 00:25:36.039
<v Speaker 3>And it's really it's so won't I won't name names,

534
00:25:36.079 --> 00:25:39.119
<v Speaker 3>but someone in my life is going through this like

535
00:25:39.519 --> 00:25:42.880
<v Speaker 3>is on the other side where this person will do

536
00:25:43.160 --> 00:25:48.440
<v Speaker 3>anything for anybody without limit, without caring for themselves. Yeah,

537
00:25:49.160 --> 00:25:52.559
<v Speaker 3>and in the process of trying to find this self

538
00:25:52.640 --> 00:25:56.960
<v Speaker 3>love and self respect is like hitting the walls. On

539
00:25:57.119 --> 00:26:02.160
<v Speaker 3>both sides will do very very selfish things and be

540
00:26:02.400 --> 00:26:05.759
<v Speaker 3>very very rude to other people, but because they're hitting

541
00:26:05.839 --> 00:26:09.799
<v Speaker 3>the wall and trying to find that boundary. So knowing this,

542
00:26:10.079 --> 00:26:12.599
<v Speaker 3>knowing that this person who's very very close to me

543
00:26:13.240 --> 00:26:16.599
<v Speaker 3>is in the process of trying to find this middle Yeah,

544
00:26:16.720 --> 00:26:22.519
<v Speaker 3>I'm having to be very lenient with how I respond

545
00:26:22.599 --> 00:26:25.039
<v Speaker 3>to some of these things when this person is hitting

546
00:26:25.039 --> 00:26:26.640
<v Speaker 3>the wall, you know what I mean.

547
00:26:27.599 --> 00:26:30.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, which is very It's that's very caring of you,

548
00:26:30.680 --> 00:26:31.319
<v Speaker 2>and that's.

549
00:26:31.160 --> 00:26:33.079
<v Speaker 3>Like sometimes I'm not saying I'm really good at.

550
00:26:32.960 --> 00:26:36.119
<v Speaker 2>It, but you're trying, and that's all that matters. We

551
00:26:36.119 --> 00:26:38.319
<v Speaker 2>were having a conversation the other day I don't remember

552
00:26:38.799 --> 00:26:42.160
<v Speaker 2>when or Yeah, we have conversations. No I know, I

553
00:26:42.200 --> 00:26:44.480
<v Speaker 2>just don't remember this one. But you also haven't said

554
00:26:44.480 --> 00:26:48.039
<v Speaker 2>what it was about yet, right, you should probably let

555
00:26:48.039 --> 00:26:51.000
<v Speaker 2>me say what it was about first. All right, we

556
00:26:51.000 --> 00:26:55.079
<v Speaker 2>were talking about how like what makes you like always

557
00:26:55.240 --> 00:26:59.359
<v Speaker 2>doing good? Oh yeah, yeah, is not what just makes

558
00:26:59.400 --> 00:27:02.319
<v Speaker 2>you a good You don't have to constantly make every

559
00:27:02.440 --> 00:27:05.799
<v Speaker 2>right decision and constantly do the right thing to be

560
00:27:05.920 --> 00:27:08.960
<v Speaker 2>considered a good person. The thing that makes you a

561
00:27:09.000 --> 00:27:13.759
<v Speaker 2>good person is your genuine desire to be good and to.

562
00:27:13.759 --> 00:27:17.880
<v Speaker 3>Be like agree, right, I mean, I think what you're

563
00:27:17.920 --> 00:27:20.480
<v Speaker 3>describing is being perfect versus doing your best.

564
00:27:20.799 --> 00:27:24.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly, yes, And like there is no perfect.

565
00:27:24.000 --> 00:27:25.440
<v Speaker 3>There's no perfect people in heaven.

566
00:27:25.880 --> 00:27:29.279
<v Speaker 2>There's no perfect people anywhere, That's what I mean. Yeah, yeah,

567
00:27:29.480 --> 00:27:33.599
<v Speaker 2>And and I feel like there's people who feel like

568
00:27:33.759 --> 00:27:35.839
<v Speaker 2>in order to be a good person, they have to

569
00:27:36.000 --> 00:27:37.359
<v Speaker 2>be perfect.

570
00:27:37.279 --> 00:27:39.799
<v Speaker 4>And that's a lot of pressure. Oh my god, that's

571
00:27:39.839 --> 00:27:40.839
<v Speaker 4>a lot of pressure.

572
00:27:40.960 --> 00:27:43.319
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. You can't you can't put that kind

573
00:27:43.319 --> 00:27:43.640
<v Speaker 2>of press.

574
00:27:43.680 --> 00:27:45.519
<v Speaker 3>Actually, I hope Olivia listens to this one.

575
00:27:47.000 --> 00:27:50.920
<v Speaker 2>WHOA, I do not endorse that. I don't.

576
00:27:51.000 --> 00:27:53.240
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know, I kind of she wouldn't mind me

577
00:27:53.279 --> 00:27:53.680
<v Speaker 3>saying that.

578
00:27:54.079 --> 00:27:57.200
<v Speaker 4>I low key like in this whole wedding ordeal. You

579
00:27:57.240 --> 00:27:59.839
<v Speaker 4>do realize I'm sort of like, she's my boss.

580
00:28:01.119 --> 00:28:02.200
<v Speaker 2>Oh do you understand that?

581
00:28:02.319 --> 00:28:06.200
<v Speaker 3>No, I completely understand that. You watch it, you're my boss, right,

582
00:28:07.039 --> 00:28:09.000
<v Speaker 3>but for that day, she's going to be your boss.

583
00:28:09.640 --> 00:28:15.400
<v Speaker 4>She's she's like, I got a yes, ma'am, I'm officiating

584
00:28:15.440 --> 00:28:16.160
<v Speaker 4>the wedding.

585
00:28:16.839 --> 00:28:19.559
<v Speaker 3>Me and you both, buddy, Yes, ma'am.

586
00:28:19.680 --> 00:28:20.599
<v Speaker 2>Well, if it would make you.

587
00:28:20.519 --> 00:28:22.599
<v Speaker 4>Feel better, man, I will put my hands on your

588
00:28:22.599 --> 00:28:24.720
<v Speaker 4>shoulders when it's time to kiss the bride.

589
00:28:24.920 --> 00:28:27.359
<v Speaker 2>Give him a little I'm sure that'll make him feel better.

590
00:28:27.480 --> 00:28:29.400
<v Speaker 3>Actually, if you just get out of the way, that'd be.

591
00:28:33.440 --> 00:28:37.759
<v Speaker 2>I hope I'll be in it. You can be in one,

592
00:28:38.319 --> 00:28:38.519
<v Speaker 2>you know.

593
00:28:38.880 --> 00:28:42.240
<v Speaker 4>Not to make the whole day about me here, but

594
00:28:42.480 --> 00:28:45.039
<v Speaker 4>I'm feeling a lot of pressure, dude, are you really?

595
00:28:45.359 --> 00:28:48.519
<v Speaker 4>I mean, not in a non serious way and then

596
00:28:48.640 --> 00:28:50.759
<v Speaker 4>not stressful, be honest.

597
00:28:50.839 --> 00:28:52.480
<v Speaker 2>Do you feel any pressure?

598
00:28:53.319 --> 00:28:54.400
<v Speaker 3>I hope you feel some pressure.

599
00:28:54.440 --> 00:28:57.039
<v Speaker 4>I hope I feel I feel It's a big deal.

600
00:28:57.200 --> 00:29:00.680
<v Speaker 4>I feel okay, So I've done one. It was like

601
00:29:00.759 --> 00:29:03.720
<v Speaker 4>seventy five people, and now we're.

602
00:29:03.519 --> 00:29:05.359
<v Speaker 2>Going to be what three hundred?

603
00:29:05.799 --> 00:29:07.839
<v Speaker 3>Well, if it makes you feel any better. Right now,

604
00:29:07.880 --> 00:29:11.000
<v Speaker 3>we're sitting at about two hundred and forty.

605
00:29:10.920 --> 00:29:13.920
<v Speaker 4>Great and I have probably met like twenty five of them.

606
00:29:14.400 --> 00:29:18.960
<v Speaker 2>So and it's like that kind of makes it that easier.

607
00:29:19.119 --> 00:29:21.799
<v Speaker 2>Flip it, flip your your pressure.

608
00:29:21.480 --> 00:29:22.759
<v Speaker 3>Flip it move sit.

609
00:29:24.359 --> 00:29:25.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, second time.

610
00:29:25.720 --> 00:29:31.359
<v Speaker 4>So I'm going to work with some secret identities that

611
00:29:31.599 --> 00:29:33.480
<v Speaker 4>I don't necessarily want to put in your head, that

612
00:29:33.519 --> 00:29:36.640
<v Speaker 4>I'm going to like talk to at some point once

613
00:29:36.680 --> 00:29:38.839
<v Speaker 4>I because obviously we have to meet to get what

614
00:29:38.880 --> 00:29:40.359
<v Speaker 4>you expect out of the wedding. But then once I

615
00:29:40.440 --> 00:29:42.640
<v Speaker 4>drafted up, there's a couple of people that I'm gonna

616
00:29:43.079 --> 00:29:46.599
<v Speaker 4>approach tied to. You know, people you know talk and

617
00:29:46.680 --> 00:29:48.559
<v Speaker 4>just you know, get their opinion. Well I've thought of

618
00:29:48.599 --> 00:29:52.160
<v Speaker 4>some more and just get some opinions. Hey is this

619
00:29:52.359 --> 00:29:54.799
<v Speaker 4>you know, is this on vibe? And you know I'll

620
00:29:54.799 --> 00:29:55.680
<v Speaker 4>feel better after that.

621
00:29:55.759 --> 00:29:58.119
<v Speaker 2>But well that's good. You're doing your due diligence. That's

622
00:29:58.160 --> 00:30:00.480
<v Speaker 2>going to make all the difference. There's no there's no

623
00:30:00.759 --> 00:30:02.799
<v Speaker 2>you know, you don't need to feel pressure. Most of

624
00:30:02.799 --> 00:30:04.519
<v Speaker 2>these people are people you don't even freaking know.

625
00:30:04.920 --> 00:30:08.599
<v Speaker 3>And it's also like, I don't know, I'm trying to

626
00:30:08.640 --> 00:30:11.119
<v Speaker 3>think of there's only one wedding I've been to where

627
00:30:11.640 --> 00:30:14.079
<v Speaker 3>the efficient made an impact on me, and it was

628
00:30:14.160 --> 00:30:17.279
<v Speaker 3>because I was related to them, right, So it's like yeah,

629
00:30:17.400 --> 00:30:19.480
<v Speaker 3>and that's what I have to constantly remind myself when

630
00:30:19.480 --> 00:30:22.279
<v Speaker 3>we're going through this planning, is like, who's going to

631
00:30:22.359 --> 00:30:23.759
<v Speaker 3>remember what color the napkins are?

632
00:30:23.839 --> 00:30:26.720
<v Speaker 2>Dude, no one, you won't. I don't remember the color

633
00:30:26.720 --> 00:30:30.039
<v Speaker 2>of mine me either. You won't listen. It's so crazy.

634
00:30:30.119 --> 00:30:32.079
<v Speaker 2>It'll be the fastest day of your whole life.

635
00:30:32.119 --> 00:30:34.319
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, yeah, you want to hear my wedding timeline

636
00:30:34.359 --> 00:30:37.480
<v Speaker 3>of your whole life? No, like like personally where I'm

637
00:30:37.519 --> 00:30:40.759
<v Speaker 3>at with the whole thing where Yeah, So like just

638
00:30:40.880 --> 00:30:42.559
<v Speaker 3>just go day of day of wake up with the

639
00:30:42.559 --> 00:30:43.880
<v Speaker 3>boys chilling like.

640
00:30:43.799 --> 00:30:44.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh you got it?

641
00:30:44.519 --> 00:30:46.440
<v Speaker 3>You got this ship land out and yeah. In my

642
00:30:46.480 --> 00:30:48.960
<v Speaker 3>head it's like all right, okay, cool, share what.

643
00:30:48.960 --> 00:30:50.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm a crash man. I'm one of the boys.

644
00:30:50.599 --> 00:30:54.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, yeah, the boys. So then then we're taking pictures.

645
00:30:54.559 --> 00:30:56.359
<v Speaker 3>I don't know how I feel about all that whatever,

646
00:30:56.400 --> 00:30:58.319
<v Speaker 3>it's gonna start bubbling up and you're gonna have to

647
00:30:58.319 --> 00:31:00.200
<v Speaker 3>get calmed down. Probably then we got a ride to

648
00:31:00.240 --> 00:31:02.240
<v Speaker 3>the venue, and that's probably when I'm going to start

649
00:31:02.240 --> 00:31:06.359
<v Speaker 3>to get nervous, get nervous. The whole time, show up,

650
00:31:06.400 --> 00:31:08.960
<v Speaker 3>walk in, do what I'm supposed to do, like we practiced,

651
00:31:09.359 --> 00:31:11.519
<v Speaker 3>not try not to throw up, try not to pass out,

652
00:31:11.680 --> 00:31:13.119
<v Speaker 3>try not to sweat too much.

653
00:31:13.880 --> 00:31:16.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, I'm sorry to interrupt you. Why is this

654
00:31:17.000 --> 00:31:20.119
<v Speaker 2>a real concern? I just like when the day of

655
00:31:20.160 --> 00:31:23.839
<v Speaker 2>my wedding, I like, you should see the pictures from

656
00:31:23.839 --> 00:31:26.839
<v Speaker 2>my wedding. I am like as white as your shirt,

657
00:31:27.039 --> 00:31:31.160
<v Speaker 2>like and just nervous. Oh my god, dude, Well, I

658
00:31:31.200 --> 00:31:33.279
<v Speaker 2>don't know why I was so nervous. I was like,

659
00:31:33.599 --> 00:31:34.960
<v Speaker 2>I've been with this girl for.

660
00:31:35.599 --> 00:31:37.880
<v Speaker 3>Well, dude, it was the same. Oh so my dude,

661
00:31:38.000 --> 00:31:40.000
<v Speaker 3>my one of my best buddies who's in the wedding,

662
00:31:40.359 --> 00:31:44.200
<v Speaker 3>just got engaged. Oh and we were chatting about it

663
00:31:44.480 --> 00:31:46.839
<v Speaker 3>and he had his girl on speaker and Olivia was

664
00:31:46.960 --> 00:31:48.640
<v Speaker 3>with me on speaker. We were chatting about it and

665
00:31:48.640 --> 00:31:52.119
<v Speaker 3>they were just going off about how nervous we both

666
00:31:52.240 --> 00:31:55.799
<v Speaker 3>were when we popped the question, dude, same, I wasn't

667
00:31:55.880 --> 00:31:59.400
<v Speaker 3>And it's like, yeah, well no, you probably don't proposal day.

668
00:31:59.480 --> 00:32:03.039
<v Speaker 3>I was like, I'm gonna puk Yeah no, I'm like, dude,

669
00:32:03.079 --> 00:32:05.400
<v Speaker 3>we've been together for ten years. Why am I so nervous?

670
00:32:06.240 --> 00:32:11.119
<v Speaker 3>Like it's not even like her saying no didn't even

671
00:32:11.119 --> 00:32:12.720
<v Speaker 3>cross my mind, cross mind.

672
00:32:12.839 --> 00:32:17.200
<v Speaker 2>It was really that was never gonna happen. That was

673
00:32:17.279 --> 00:32:18.359
<v Speaker 2>never gonna happen.

674
00:32:18.240 --> 00:32:20.279
<v Speaker 3>Cross my mind. It didn't cross my mind. But it's

675
00:32:20.319 --> 00:32:22.960
<v Speaker 3>just the gravity of the situation. I'm a worrier, That's

676
00:32:22.960 --> 00:32:25.279
<v Speaker 3>what it is. It was the gravity and that's where

677
00:32:25.279 --> 00:32:29.359
<v Speaker 3>I'm at now, like, holy crap. Yeah, yeah, so anyway,

678
00:32:29.680 --> 00:32:32.759
<v Speaker 3>show up, do the thing. Then I think peak nerves

679
00:32:32.880 --> 00:32:37.799
<v Speaker 3>is having to kiss her. Actually really like, no, we're

680
00:32:37.799 --> 00:32:41.839
<v Speaker 3>not doing We're not doing you're not We're doing personal vows,

681
00:32:41.880 --> 00:32:44.960
<v Speaker 3>custom vowels at the first look, and then we're doing

682
00:32:45.000 --> 00:32:46.599
<v Speaker 3>traditional at the ceremony.

683
00:32:46.640 --> 00:32:48.079
<v Speaker 2>That's a good idea.

684
00:32:48.240 --> 00:32:50.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't want to profess my love in front

685
00:32:50.000 --> 00:32:51.599
<v Speaker 3>of a bunch of people. It's their business.

686
00:32:51.680 --> 00:32:55.640
<v Speaker 2>Well you're really extreme about this PDA thing, That's what

687
00:32:55.640 --> 00:32:56.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm telling you.

688
00:32:56.920 --> 00:33:00.200
<v Speaker 3>So look, no, not quite peak nerves, right, gotta kis through.

689
00:33:00.200 --> 00:33:04.319
<v Speaker 3>Peak nerves is dip on the way out. You mean,

690
00:33:04.400 --> 00:33:08.240
<v Speaker 3>like the picture walk out dip. God, that's the most nervous.

691
00:33:08.680 --> 00:33:09.319
<v Speaker 2>I skipped that.

692
00:33:09.480 --> 00:33:12.400
<v Speaker 4>I was like, maybe we're not doing that, which we

693
00:33:12.440 --> 00:33:12.640
<v Speaker 4>did not.

694
00:33:12.799 --> 00:33:14.160
<v Speaker 2>Might be smart usually do that.

695
00:33:14.359 --> 00:33:16.720
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Yeah, because then you get a second as you're

696
00:33:16.720 --> 00:33:18.839
<v Speaker 3>walking down the aisle, then you dip, and then it's

697
00:33:18.839 --> 00:33:21.720
<v Speaker 3>gonna come down a little bit. We first dance, first

698
00:33:21.799 --> 00:33:24.759
<v Speaker 3>dance is still gonna be like top three most nervous things.

699
00:33:24.799 --> 00:33:26.960
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's the easy part.

700
00:33:27.079 --> 00:33:29.119
<v Speaker 4>Is the easy part because you're talking to each other. Yeah,

701
00:33:29.160 --> 00:33:31.920
<v Speaker 4>well we're choreographing it right now. Oh yeah, you're doing

702
00:33:31.960 --> 00:33:35.240
<v Speaker 4>like I'm in I have lessons every Sunday. You're doing

703
00:33:35.279 --> 00:33:39.079
<v Speaker 4>the freaking the cupa shuffle. No, like we have, like

704
00:33:39.119 --> 00:33:41.319
<v Speaker 4>we have a choreographed dance that I'm.

705
00:33:43.680 --> 00:33:48.160
<v Speaker 2>For his first dance, Like you know, that's the corny

706
00:33:48.240 --> 00:33:51.200
<v Speaker 2>song that plays at every wedding ever, But like for

707
00:33:51.240 --> 00:33:54.400
<v Speaker 2>that to be the first dance would actually, on ironically

708
00:33:54.440 --> 00:33:56.119
<v Speaker 2>be one of the funniest things I've ever seen in

709
00:33:56.119 --> 00:33:56.440
<v Speaker 2>my life.

710
00:33:56.559 --> 00:33:58.880
<v Speaker 4>I was gonna say, like, what dance we're really doing,

711
00:33:58.920 --> 00:34:00.440
<v Speaker 4>and then I was like, nah, maybe I wouldn't say,

712
00:34:00.480 --> 00:34:01.400
<v Speaker 4>We'll leave it to surprise.

713
00:34:02.039 --> 00:34:03.200
<v Speaker 2>Well areographs.

714
00:34:03.400 --> 00:34:07.839
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, after the dance, once the dance is over, it's

715
00:34:07.880 --> 00:34:11.559
<v Speaker 3>all party like and like, once the dance out of

716
00:34:11.559 --> 00:34:13.679
<v Speaker 3>the way, I'm gonna have a good time. So you're

717
00:34:13.800 --> 00:34:15.199
<v Speaker 3>not saying I'm gonna have a bad time.

718
00:34:15.239 --> 00:34:15.519
<v Speaker 2>Sure.

719
00:34:15.639 --> 00:34:17.360
<v Speaker 3>For just for the record, I'm gonna it's gonna be

720
00:34:17.360 --> 00:34:18.639
<v Speaker 3>the best able move we've both.

721
00:34:18.519 --> 00:34:20.440
<v Speaker 2>Been in your shoes. You don't you don't have I'm

722
00:34:20.480 --> 00:34:21.199
<v Speaker 2>talking to the viewer.

723
00:34:21.239 --> 00:34:22.800
<v Speaker 3>I don't want I don't want people out there to

724
00:34:22.800 --> 00:34:26.719
<v Speaker 3>spin my words and email it to her email dude,

725
00:34:26.719 --> 00:34:26.920
<v Speaker 3>you know.

726
00:34:26.920 --> 00:34:28.239
<v Speaker 2>Because they all have her email.

727
00:34:28.360 --> 00:34:31.920
<v Speaker 4>I'm just saying I felt the same pressure as you know, Alex.

728
00:34:32.119 --> 00:34:33.920
<v Speaker 4>And this is one of my big regrets is that

729
00:34:33.960 --> 00:34:36.280
<v Speaker 4>you weren't there at this thing. But I felt like

730
00:34:36.719 --> 00:34:40.800
<v Speaker 4>at this point, when you know, the wedding that you officiated, we.

731
00:34:40.840 --> 00:34:41.440
<v Speaker 2>Had been.

732
00:34:43.239 --> 00:34:47.159
<v Speaker 4>Long story short, you know, I proposed in I think

733
00:34:47.159 --> 00:34:50.559
<v Speaker 4>it was late twenty nineteen, and at this point I

734
00:34:50.599 --> 00:34:54.360
<v Speaker 4>had only known Alex for like a year, and then

735
00:34:54.480 --> 00:34:56.239
<v Speaker 4>when it came time to the wedding, we had only

736
00:34:56.239 --> 00:34:57.119
<v Speaker 4>known each other for two.

737
00:34:57.039 --> 00:34:57.679
<v Speaker 2>Years, I see.

738
00:34:58.079 --> 00:35:00.920
<v Speaker 4>So I felt like if I didn't which I wanted

739
00:35:00.960 --> 00:35:02.199
<v Speaker 4>him to be there. I felt like if I did

740
00:35:02.320 --> 00:35:04.239
<v Speaker 4>invite him, it would have been truly unfair to my

741
00:35:04.320 --> 00:35:06.039
<v Speaker 4>other friends that you were there. And so you know,

742
00:35:06.119 --> 00:35:08.639
<v Speaker 4>there was a lot of people that I didn't invite, Yeah,

743
00:35:09.239 --> 00:35:13.559
<v Speaker 4>because it was like it was wedding party only and

744
00:35:14.000 --> 00:35:14.599
<v Speaker 4>my grandma.

745
00:35:14.920 --> 00:35:19.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's because it was like like COVID exactly. Yeah,

746
00:35:19.320 --> 00:35:19.960
<v Speaker 2>that's why I did it.

747
00:35:20.039 --> 00:35:22.760
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm not upset.

748
00:35:23.000 --> 00:35:25.000
<v Speaker 4>Well I know you're not, but I'm just saying that's

749
00:35:25.039 --> 00:35:28.039
<v Speaker 4>one of my big, big, big regrets is that you

750
00:35:28.079 --> 00:35:30.480
<v Speaker 4>couldn't be there at the time. We didn't have the podcast.

751
00:35:30.800 --> 00:35:34.199
<v Speaker 4>We had been friends working together for a year, and

752
00:35:34.320 --> 00:35:36.199
<v Speaker 4>thinking back on it, I'm like, God, you should have

753
00:35:36.239 --> 00:35:36.480
<v Speaker 4>been there.

754
00:35:36.559 --> 00:35:38.239
<v Speaker 2>Dude, you should have been there. I feel the same

755
00:35:38.239 --> 00:35:42.159
<v Speaker 2>way about you. Oh, I mean, it is what it is. Yeah,

756
00:35:42.239 --> 00:35:44.199
<v Speaker 2>you know, it just shook out that way. It is

757
00:35:44.239 --> 00:35:47.639
<v Speaker 2>what it is. Yeah. I mean I love and here

758
00:35:47.639 --> 00:35:50.320
<v Speaker 2>we are exactly, that's all that matters. I love my wedding.

759
00:35:50.360 --> 00:35:52.679
<v Speaker 2>But I am sometimes like, man, you.

760
00:35:52.639 --> 00:35:55.760
<v Speaker 3>Know what's It's like, I was talking to my mom

761
00:35:55.840 --> 00:35:57.960
<v Speaker 3>about this and she's like, everybody that was in my

762
00:35:58.000 --> 00:35:59.559
<v Speaker 3>wedding I'm not friends with anymore.

763
00:36:00.159 --> 00:36:00.440
<v Speaker 1>Wow.

764
00:36:00.599 --> 00:36:03.000
<v Speaker 3>I was like, damn, okay, Like, and this was in

765
00:36:03.000 --> 00:36:05.960
<v Speaker 3>the process of choosing these people, and that really took

766
00:36:06.320 --> 00:36:09.800
<v Speaker 3>a lot of weight off of the situation. Yeah, it's true,

767
00:36:09.840 --> 00:36:13.159
<v Speaker 3>Like it's okay, yeah, you know. And then I also like,

768
00:36:13.320 --> 00:36:16.719
<v Speaker 3>as we get closer and I'm like, casually meeting some

769
00:36:16.800 --> 00:36:20.239
<v Speaker 3>of my neighbors and like casually making some adult friends.

770
00:36:20.599 --> 00:36:23.719
<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, I just we've just become friends two

771
00:36:23.800 --> 00:36:26.079
<v Speaker 3>months out from the wedding. You're not getting invited, but

772
00:36:26.320 --> 00:36:28.320
<v Speaker 3>we could become great friends. And that's just that's just

773
00:36:28.320 --> 00:36:29.400
<v Speaker 3>how it's gonna be. Yeah.

774
00:36:29.599 --> 00:36:33.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there are like seasons in life, and like sometimes

775
00:36:33.320 --> 00:36:35.480
<v Speaker 2>people like come and go out of your life. You

776
00:36:35.519 --> 00:36:38.840
<v Speaker 2>don't really have control over it. It just it just happens.

777
00:36:39.000 --> 00:36:40.760
<v Speaker 2>It's just the flow of life.

778
00:36:40.800 --> 00:36:43.360
<v Speaker 3>And well, this was like this is like way out

779
00:36:43.400 --> 00:36:46.239
<v Speaker 3>of left field, but this was one of my neighbors

780
00:36:46.239 --> 00:36:48.159
<v Speaker 3>who just came. We were walking the dog and he

781
00:36:48.280 --> 00:36:49.679
<v Speaker 3>was out there and I hung out with him a

782
00:36:49.679 --> 00:36:51.719
<v Speaker 3>little bit. Buddy came to tell me his wife was pregnant,

783
00:36:52.519 --> 00:36:54.239
<v Speaker 3>and I was like, man, that is so awesome. And

784
00:36:54.239 --> 00:36:56.599
<v Speaker 3>then it got me thinking, like we planned to stay here,

785
00:36:56.639 --> 00:36:58.960
<v Speaker 3>and like we planned to have children, and I'm like, man,

786
00:36:59.199 --> 00:37:01.039
<v Speaker 3>is my kid going to be running around with this kid?

787
00:37:01.159 --> 00:37:05.000
<v Speaker 3>Like that's huge, that's awesome. Yeah, and then I was like, man,

788
00:37:05.039 --> 00:37:07.039
<v Speaker 3>we could become good. Like this is all on my hip.

789
00:37:07.280 --> 00:37:08.880
<v Speaker 3>That's where that's how I got to where I'm at.

790
00:37:10.480 --> 00:37:13.440
<v Speaker 2>Damn, man, I'm now getting a picture of like the

791
00:37:13.559 --> 00:37:17.239
<v Speaker 2>mental torture that you're going through, like you're feeling a

792
00:37:17.280 --> 00:37:17.760
<v Speaker 2>lot of.

793
00:37:17.840 --> 00:37:21.119
<v Speaker 3>Pressure, like foreverness pressure, right, yeah, yeah, but it's it's

794
00:37:21.119 --> 00:37:23.920
<v Speaker 3>good man. And And the reason I brought up my

795
00:37:24.280 --> 00:37:27.719
<v Speaker 3>beach wedding that Nick officiated was just to say that day, dude,

796
00:37:28.199 --> 00:37:28.800
<v Speaker 3>I was so.

797
00:37:29.000 --> 00:37:30.199
<v Speaker 2>Scared to read my vows.

798
00:37:30.440 --> 00:37:32.599
<v Speaker 4>I mean I just cried my eyes out, And honestly,

799
00:37:32.639 --> 00:37:36.480
<v Speaker 4>the reason was because I was confessing this stuff in

800
00:37:36.480 --> 00:37:39.960
<v Speaker 4>front of Jenny's parents, who before we were married, I

801
00:37:40.000 --> 00:37:46.519
<v Speaker 4>didn't have that level of I guess, like comfort, comfortability,

802
00:37:46.719 --> 00:37:48.280
<v Speaker 4>like emotional openness.

803
00:37:48.920 --> 00:37:50.920
<v Speaker 3>I remember, yeah, yeah, And.

804
00:37:51.280 --> 00:37:54.519
<v Speaker 4>I mean obviously we were always were close and got

805
00:37:54.559 --> 00:37:56.599
<v Speaker 4>along and had a great relationship. But I don't think

806
00:37:56.599 --> 00:38:00.480
<v Speaker 4>that I just I didn't feel at the time. I mean,

807
00:38:00.519 --> 00:38:02.679
<v Speaker 4>I did it. I obviously was comfortable enough to do it,

808
00:38:02.679 --> 00:38:04.480
<v Speaker 4>but I'm just saying I felt the pressure too, Like

809
00:38:04.519 --> 00:38:07.000
<v Speaker 4>I know exactly what you're describing. But then when it

810
00:38:07.039 --> 00:38:09.519
<v Speaker 4>came time to the the you know, the public wedding

811
00:38:09.559 --> 00:38:11.280
<v Speaker 4>a year later, I just breathed through the vowels and

812
00:38:11.280 --> 00:38:13.199
<v Speaker 4>I didn't give a shit because I had.

813
00:38:13.039 --> 00:38:13.519
<v Speaker 2>Done the hard.

814
00:38:13.599 --> 00:38:15.960
<v Speaker 3>Dude, he did the same vowels, same exact vowels. Yeah,

815
00:38:16.159 --> 00:38:18.360
<v Speaker 3>so it was the same ceremony essentially.

816
00:38:19.039 --> 00:38:20.440
<v Speaker 2>But I wasn't officiating it.

817
00:38:20.719 --> 00:38:23.679
<v Speaker 4>Well yeah, I mean, okay, not really the same ceremony.

818
00:38:23.679 --> 00:38:26.079
<v Speaker 4>Like we literally just walked up. Nick gave us an

819
00:38:26.239 --> 00:38:30.679
<v Speaker 4>entirely different, original, unique, uh ceremony.

820
00:38:30.880 --> 00:38:33.039
<v Speaker 2>We read our vowels. It was over. But the wedding.

821
00:38:32.719 --> 00:38:34.480
<v Speaker 4>Obviously, you know, there's a little bit of a program,

822
00:38:34.519 --> 00:38:39.039
<v Speaker 4>but obviously the wedding one was more special emotionally.

823
00:38:39.199 --> 00:38:43.000
<v Speaker 2>I put in some uh little nerdy Easter eggs into

824
00:38:43.079 --> 00:38:47.239
<v Speaker 2>my yeah, my speech. It started with dearly beloved, which

825
00:38:47.280 --> 00:38:49.480
<v Speaker 2>is Kingdom hearts, and then at one point I said

826
00:38:49.519 --> 00:38:51.960
<v Speaker 2>share your energy with me, which is what Goku says,

827
00:38:52.480 --> 00:38:55.559
<v Speaker 2>Like I like worked it in there naturally so that

828
00:38:56.079 --> 00:38:59.880
<v Speaker 2>only I could see people's faces lighting up, like Warren was.

829
00:39:00.039 --> 00:39:04.039
<v Speaker 2>As soon as I said dearly beloved, Warren went, I

830
00:39:04.199 --> 00:39:06.480
<v Speaker 2>saw his face give my grandma cried her eyes out.

831
00:39:06.719 --> 00:39:07.599
<v Speaker 2>So then that happened.

832
00:39:07.599 --> 00:39:10.159
<v Speaker 4>And then our buddy Chris who you don't know that well,

833
00:39:10.159 --> 00:39:10.920
<v Speaker 4>but you've met him.

834
00:39:10.840 --> 00:39:15.400
<v Speaker 3>Chris Tutin. Yeah, it's okay, shout out Chris Tutan He's

835
00:39:15.400 --> 00:39:17.760
<v Speaker 3>one of my best friends in life. Yeah. No, we

836
00:39:17.800 --> 00:39:18.719
<v Speaker 3>get along really well.

837
00:39:18.800 --> 00:39:20.559
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he's he's a great guy, just he lives in

838
00:39:20.559 --> 00:39:20.800
<v Speaker 4>the wrong.

839
00:39:20.880 --> 00:39:23.039
<v Speaker 3>I hope that's true. I'm just speaking for myself.

840
00:39:23.840 --> 00:39:27.039
<v Speaker 2>He doesn't he doesn't not get along like with anyone anybody.

841
00:39:27.039 --> 00:39:29.440
<v Speaker 2>He's one of those guys that, like it, doesn't have enemies.

842
00:39:29.559 --> 00:39:31.840
<v Speaker 2>No anyone in the world could meet this guy the

843
00:39:31.880 --> 00:39:33.440
<v Speaker 2>first time and they're cool.

844
00:39:33.599 --> 00:39:35.519
<v Speaker 4>And he knows about you. He I mean, obviously he

845
00:39:35.599 --> 00:39:37.800
<v Speaker 4>knows you, but he asks about you. Guys, he supports

846
00:39:37.840 --> 00:39:40.960
<v Speaker 4>the podcast. He's he's got he's a good guy. But

847
00:39:41.679 --> 00:39:44.039
<v Speaker 4>he was so touched by that that he asked me

848
00:39:44.079 --> 00:39:45.800
<v Speaker 4>to do his wedding and now here we are full

849
00:39:45.800 --> 00:39:47.000
<v Speaker 4>circle doing yours.

850
00:39:47.480 --> 00:39:52.039
<v Speaker 2>Who Yeah, it trickles down, it passes down. Yeah, I was.

851
00:39:53.840 --> 00:39:56.239
<v Speaker 3>We were kind of so we're not, like we don't

852
00:39:56.239 --> 00:39:58.440
<v Speaker 3>belong to a church yet And I say yet, because

853
00:39:58.440 --> 00:40:01.119
<v Speaker 3>you kind of plan on it even though you know

854
00:40:01.159 --> 00:40:02.599
<v Speaker 3>we've talked about like I don't go to church. I

855
00:40:02.639 --> 00:40:06.079
<v Speaker 3>go to podcasts, but I can't send my kids to podcasts,

856
00:40:06.079 --> 00:40:11.239
<v Speaker 3>so ca. So anyway, we were like, man, who are

857
00:40:11.280 --> 00:40:13.760
<v Speaker 3>we going to have officiate the wedding because like, we're

858
00:40:13.800 --> 00:40:15.679
<v Speaker 3>not we don't have a relationship with the church when

859
00:40:15.679 --> 00:40:18.280
<v Speaker 3>I'm a relationship with like a preacher or anybody like that.

860
00:40:18.360 --> 00:40:22.159
<v Speaker 3>And my cousins in the past have used some of

861
00:40:22.159 --> 00:40:25.800
<v Speaker 3>my uncles to and have them do it. But then

862
00:40:25.840 --> 00:40:28.440
<v Speaker 3>I was like, you know, then I thought the podcast

863
00:40:28.519 --> 00:40:30.519
<v Speaker 3>is my church. Then I was like, Olivia, what do

864
00:40:30.599 --> 00:40:32.679
<v Speaker 3>you think about Ryan? And she was like that's a

865
00:40:32.679 --> 00:40:36.039
<v Speaker 3>great idea. Immediately like no hesitation. I was like, really,

866
00:40:37.880 --> 00:40:39.880
<v Speaker 3>you're like, you're good with it, and she's like yeah.

867
00:40:39.920 --> 00:40:42.239
<v Speaker 3>So then we just asked Ryan. You know what's funny

868
00:40:42.440 --> 00:40:43.639
<v Speaker 3>is when we were at your.

869
00:40:45.039 --> 00:40:45.639
<v Speaker 2>It's just right.

870
00:40:45.679 --> 00:40:48.159
<v Speaker 4>This is like the week before you moved here, you

871
00:40:48.199 --> 00:40:51.960
<v Speaker 4>had your I think it was your engagement party, right, yes,

872
00:40:52.000 --> 00:40:54.119
<v Speaker 4>but Jenny couldn't make because she was yes, yes, yes, yes,

873
00:40:54.159 --> 00:40:57.519
<v Speaker 4>And I was there and unless you're comfortable with it,

874
00:40:57.519 --> 00:41:00.400
<v Speaker 4>I won't say names. No, But I was talking to

875
00:41:00.400 --> 00:41:02.880
<v Speaker 4>Olivia's parents, who obviously I know really well because they

876
00:41:02.880 --> 00:41:05.519
<v Speaker 4>were my bosses years ago, so like we have a

877
00:41:05.599 --> 00:41:07.000
<v Speaker 4>rapport in a previous history.

878
00:41:07.360 --> 00:41:09.599
<v Speaker 2>And I go up to Olivia's dad and he's I

879
00:41:09.639 --> 00:41:10.480
<v Speaker 2>love her dad.

880
00:41:11.920 --> 00:41:13.920
<v Speaker 4>And I go up to her dad and I'm like, hey,

881
00:41:13.960 --> 00:41:15.280
<v Speaker 4>how's it going, you know, mister Walton.

882
00:41:15.280 --> 00:41:16.760
<v Speaker 2>I'll just say that, mister Walton.

883
00:41:16.880 --> 00:41:20.239
<v Speaker 3>And I was like, did you hear that I'm officiating

884
00:41:20.239 --> 00:41:20.599
<v Speaker 3>the wedding?

885
00:41:20.599 --> 00:41:24.599
<v Speaker 4>He was like what really, No, that's crazy.

886
00:41:24.639 --> 00:41:26.599
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know that. And I was like, oh, okay.

887
00:41:26.639 --> 00:41:28.480
<v Speaker 4>And then I go up to Olivia's mom and I'm like, hey,

888
00:41:29.519 --> 00:41:31.239
<v Speaker 4>did you hear him officiating the wedding? And she looked

889
00:41:31.239 --> 00:41:33.760
<v Speaker 4>at me like, who do you think made the decision?

890
00:41:35.920 --> 00:41:37.440
<v Speaker 4>Who do you think talked her into it?

891
00:41:37.519 --> 00:41:37.760
<v Speaker 2>Yes?

892
00:41:37.840 --> 00:41:41.119
<v Speaker 4>I know, So this is the dichotomy. There was so

893
00:41:41.199 --> 00:41:42.760
<v Speaker 4>funny Elayne.

894
00:41:42.400 --> 00:41:45.800
<v Speaker 3>And Olivia playing this wedding. Yeah, yeah, that's her mother. Yeah,

895
00:41:45.840 --> 00:41:47.960
<v Speaker 3>And that was a big boost of confidence that she

896
00:41:48.239 --> 00:41:49.880
<v Speaker 3>was like, yes, get him to do it.

897
00:41:49.960 --> 00:41:53.400
<v Speaker 2>So I think it's going to be perfect. Yeah, it's

898
00:41:53.440 --> 00:41:56.559
<v Speaker 2>gonna be perfect. It'd be a good time. I can't wait. So, yeah,

899
00:41:56.800 --> 00:41:59.639
<v Speaker 2>you go for it, France. I don't really think we're

900
00:41:59.679 --> 00:42:01.679
<v Speaker 2>gonna get why out of that. Yeah. I don't think

901
00:42:01.719 --> 00:42:03.199
<v Speaker 2>we are either. Olivia wanted it.

902
00:42:04.400 --> 00:42:09.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we've traveled Europe together with her parents and that

903
00:42:09.920 --> 00:42:11.800
<v Speaker 3>was a good time with the same company that we're

904
00:42:11.840 --> 00:42:13.960
<v Speaker 3>traveling with this time.

905
00:42:14.280 --> 00:42:16.119
<v Speaker 2>So wait, wait, wait, like a travel company.

906
00:42:16.360 --> 00:42:20.639
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that's cool. Honestly, like I was when I

907
00:42:20.679 --> 00:42:24.320
<v Speaker 3>got invited to Italy. So so basically tell the whole story. Yea,

908
00:42:26.000 --> 00:42:30.679
<v Speaker 3>she went study abroad in Italy for two months. She

909
00:42:30.719 --> 00:42:34.199
<v Speaker 3>did a dance program. This year her junior year of college,

910
00:42:34.840 --> 00:42:36.840
<v Speaker 3>so we were still together. This had to been five

911
00:42:36.960 --> 00:42:41.320
<v Speaker 3>or six or seven years ago now, And so she

912
00:42:41.360 --> 00:42:45.280
<v Speaker 3>did two months abroad, did a performance, and then for

913
00:42:45.320 --> 00:42:49.400
<v Speaker 3>her for her like final, her final performance, her parents,

914
00:42:49.480 --> 00:42:51.599
<v Speaker 3>her mom flew in and me and her dad flew

915
00:42:51.639 --> 00:42:54.719
<v Speaker 3>in and we all met up with each other in Florence.

916
00:42:54.800 --> 00:42:57.360
<v Speaker 3>So we watched her performance in Florence, and then we

917
00:42:57.400 --> 00:43:01.960
<v Speaker 3>went and started a tour with Gate one, and Gate

918
00:43:02.000 --> 00:43:05.440
<v Speaker 3>one like handles everything, but it's they handle everything in

919
00:43:05.480 --> 00:43:08.159
<v Speaker 3>a way where you still get to do what you want.

920
00:43:08.320 --> 00:43:10.519
<v Speaker 3>And this is like, I'm not sponsored by them, but

921
00:43:10.719 --> 00:43:11.760
<v Speaker 3>I did have a good time.

922
00:43:12.280 --> 00:43:16.639
<v Speaker 2>But or slash blood. I'm kidding you.

923
00:43:16.599 --> 00:43:18.679
<v Speaker 3>Want to if Gate one's out there and here's this,

924
00:43:18.760 --> 00:43:21.679
<v Speaker 3>I feel like that get some trips out of it.

925
00:43:22.519 --> 00:43:26.320
<v Speaker 3>But so yeah, they they'll like they handle all of

926
00:43:26.320 --> 00:43:28.880
<v Speaker 3>your hotel accommodations, they handle all of your travel, you get,

927
00:43:29.199 --> 00:43:31.880
<v Speaker 3>you get to go to multiple cities in the same country.

928
00:43:32.280 --> 00:43:34.159
<v Speaker 3>They make sure that you hit all of the museums,

929
00:43:34.199 --> 00:43:36.880
<v Speaker 3>all of the sight seeing, all of the castles and whatnot.

930
00:43:37.039 --> 00:43:40.599
<v Speaker 3>But they'll only do one meal or two meals max

931
00:43:40.679 --> 00:43:44.480
<v Speaker 3>per day. So maybe you meet for breakfast and then

932
00:43:44.519 --> 00:43:46.440
<v Speaker 3>you go hit the road and then you have lunch together.

933
00:43:46.519 --> 00:43:47.880
<v Speaker 3>Then you see what you need to see. But then

934
00:43:47.920 --> 00:43:49.559
<v Speaker 3>they say, all right, have fun for dinner and meet

935
00:43:49.559 --> 00:43:52.320
<v Speaker 3>you back at the hotel. Like then you get to

936
00:43:52.320 --> 00:43:52.800
<v Speaker 3>do what you want.

937
00:43:52.840 --> 00:43:53.599
<v Speaker 2>That sounds awesome.

938
00:43:53.599 --> 00:43:55.599
<v Speaker 3>But I don't have to worry about speaking French. I

939
00:43:55.599 --> 00:43:57.679
<v Speaker 3>don't have to worry about finding the right place to stay.

940
00:43:57.679 --> 00:43:59.519
<v Speaker 3>I don't have to worry about So you'll.

941
00:44:00.039 --> 00:44:01.920
<v Speaker 2>You'll have like a translator follow you.

942
00:44:02.280 --> 00:44:04.960
<v Speaker 3>We'll have a tour guide throughout the day, so we'll

943
00:44:05.000 --> 00:44:06.800
<v Speaker 3>have a group. It'll be a group of people, and

944
00:44:06.880 --> 00:44:11.280
<v Speaker 3>we did small groups. You've got to do the catacombs. Yeah, yes,

945
00:44:11.400 --> 00:44:14.400
<v Speaker 3>if you have the opportunity in Paris. I know we're

946
00:44:14.400 --> 00:44:17.199
<v Speaker 3>doing a vintage car ride around Paris. That's cool.

947
00:44:17.239 --> 00:44:18.119
<v Speaker 2>You know what else you need to do?

948
00:44:18.199 --> 00:44:18.360
<v Speaker 3>Bro?

949
00:44:18.679 --> 00:44:21.320
<v Speaker 4>If you have an evening, I'm serious, write this down, dude.

950
00:44:21.639 --> 00:44:24.079
<v Speaker 4>If you have an evening where you and Olivia have

951
00:44:24.159 --> 00:44:26.000
<v Speaker 4>some hours to just like chill and you don't have

952
00:44:26.079 --> 00:44:29.079
<v Speaker 4>to be on a schedule. The cool thing about Paris

953
00:44:29.159 --> 00:44:32.159
<v Speaker 4>is there are Lime scooters. You guys know about limescooters.

954
00:44:32.159 --> 00:44:34.679
<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah've done those in rally everywhere. Yes, same thing,

955
00:44:34.760 --> 00:44:37.719
<v Speaker 4>same brand, but they have other brands too. Get you

956
00:44:37.760 --> 00:44:41.000
<v Speaker 4>a scooter one of their electric rentals, and dude, in Paris,

957
00:44:41.039 --> 00:44:42.199
<v Speaker 4>you could just bike.

958
00:44:42.039 --> 00:44:44.280
<v Speaker 2>It with traffic. So I was kind of thinking that

959
00:44:44.920 --> 00:44:45.559
<v Speaker 2>it's amazing.

960
00:44:45.679 --> 00:44:45.960
<v Speaker 1>I was.

961
00:44:46.239 --> 00:44:48.480
<v Speaker 3>I pitched her that maybe and like Nice or one

962
00:44:48.480 --> 00:44:51.679
<v Speaker 3>of the other little beach towns that will rent vespas.

963
00:44:51.480 --> 00:44:53.679
<v Speaker 4>That's cool, do that too, and do that, but dude,

964
00:44:53.679 --> 00:44:55.199
<v Speaker 4>rent you a little line. Once you're done with it,

965
00:44:55.239 --> 00:44:56.639
<v Speaker 4>you just drop it off. Yeah yeah, I've done it

966
00:44:56.639 --> 00:44:58.480
<v Speaker 4>before and just scooter around Paris.

967
00:44:58.800 --> 00:45:02.320
<v Speaker 3>So we only have two days Paris. So at night

968
00:45:02.400 --> 00:45:05.400
<v Speaker 3>it's amazing with the lights everywhere. We're doing the we're

969
00:45:05.400 --> 00:45:06.480
<v Speaker 3>doing Mulin Rouge.

970
00:45:07.000 --> 00:45:09.039
<v Speaker 2>What are you serious?

971
00:45:09.119 --> 00:45:12.639
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we got tickets already. No, yeah, I don't know

972
00:45:12.639 --> 00:45:13.320
<v Speaker 3>what to expect.

973
00:45:13.360 --> 00:45:15.639
<v Speaker 2>I'm kind of have you ever seen it like the

974
00:45:15.719 --> 00:45:17.559
<v Speaker 2>State the like? Have you?

975
00:45:17.840 --> 00:45:20.280
<v Speaker 3>Are you talking about the theater like the show.

976
00:45:20.119 --> 00:45:23.039
<v Speaker 2>The stout it the stage, the stage show, that's like

977
00:45:23.079 --> 00:45:24.519
<v Speaker 2>what it's about.

978
00:45:24.840 --> 00:45:27.320
<v Speaker 3>No, No, so there's there's a theater performance.

979
00:45:27.360 --> 00:45:31.000
<v Speaker 2>That's about I'm talking about like the there's videos of it,

980
00:45:31.239 --> 00:45:32.119
<v Speaker 2>like all over the internet.

981
00:45:32.199 --> 00:45:34.320
<v Speaker 3>No, I haven't watched anything, and you can spoil it

982
00:45:34.360 --> 00:45:34.559
<v Speaker 3>for me.

983
00:45:34.760 --> 00:45:37.000
<v Speaker 2>No no, no, no, no, I'm not going to no no no.

984
00:45:37.199 --> 00:45:40.320
<v Speaker 2>But like that is so sick. That would be high

985
00:45:40.360 --> 00:45:42.639
<v Speaker 2>on my list of things that I wanted to do.

986
00:45:42.880 --> 00:45:48.079
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was like, yeah, I just we talked about it.

987
00:45:48.199 --> 00:45:50.760
<v Speaker 3>Her parents went and I was like, all right, let's

988
00:45:50.800 --> 00:45:55.199
<v Speaker 3>just do it. And so we did the the vi P.

989
00:45:55.440 --> 00:45:57.840
<v Speaker 3>I don't know what it's. They were very cryptic about

990
00:45:57.840 --> 00:45:59.719
<v Speaker 3>what the VIP is. And so it was like a

991
00:45:59.800 --> 00:46:01.840
<v Speaker 3>huge Campbell. It was like you get nicer food and

992
00:46:01.880 --> 00:46:03.800
<v Speaker 3>premium champagne and a surprise.

993
00:46:03.559 --> 00:46:09.440
<v Speaker 2>An extra surprise. Yeah. Yeah, we'll see dude, that's gonna

994
00:46:09.480 --> 00:46:10.119
<v Speaker 2>be sick.

995
00:46:10.280 --> 00:46:12.320
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you're gonna have a great time. I'll be holding

996
00:46:12.320 --> 00:46:13.000
<v Speaker 4>it down over here.

997
00:46:13.159 --> 00:46:15.039
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I just want to hit the beach man because

998
00:46:15.039 --> 00:46:16.920
<v Speaker 3>if it were up to me, we'd be somewhere tropical.

999
00:46:17.639 --> 00:46:18.800
<v Speaker 2>You're gonna be there how long?

1000
00:46:20.920 --> 00:46:24.079
<v Speaker 3>Like twelve days days?

1001
00:46:24.159 --> 00:46:27.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's epic, dude. Yep, that's gonna be a blast.

1002
00:46:27.719 --> 00:46:28.719
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's gonna be fun.

1003
00:46:29.440 --> 00:46:31.480
<v Speaker 2>I know, I don't if it might be feudile, but

1004
00:46:31.559 --> 00:46:33.800
<v Speaker 2>try to shake the nerves of the wedding thing. That's

1005
00:46:33.840 --> 00:46:36.880
<v Speaker 2>one of my biggest regrets is like I was a wreck.

1006
00:46:37.159 --> 00:46:40.559
<v Speaker 2>I was such a nervous wreck that like Jenny had

1007
00:46:40.599 --> 00:46:43.599
<v Speaker 2>to take CBD. Yeah I did helped. She didn't even

1008
00:46:43.599 --> 00:46:47.039
<v Speaker 2>cry to her in her vowels. I bawled like a babby.

1009
00:46:47.719 --> 00:46:53.559
<v Speaker 3>I kinda. I just have to channel the little performer

1010
00:46:53.960 --> 00:46:57.000
<v Speaker 3>mode that I have that y'all have seen, Like, I

1011
00:46:57.119 --> 00:46:59.119
<v Speaker 3>just need to get into it. I think the best

1012
00:46:59.159 --> 00:47:01.920
<v Speaker 3>thing you can do, man, honestly, to do yourself justice

1013
00:47:02.360 --> 00:47:05.079
<v Speaker 3>is just be completely genuine and authentic. That's the plan.

1014
00:47:05.360 --> 00:47:08.480
<v Speaker 4>But if you feel like I would like to cry,

1015
00:47:08.679 --> 00:47:10.960
<v Speaker 4>if you feel like your emotional, if you feel like

1016
00:47:11.079 --> 00:47:13.159
<v Speaker 4>you're you know, gonna cry or anything like that, just

1017
00:47:13.719 --> 00:47:15.320
<v Speaker 4>do it because that's like the one day in your

1018
00:47:15.400 --> 00:47:18.400
<v Speaker 4>life where people are sitting there in the chair and

1019
00:47:18.480 --> 00:47:19.280
<v Speaker 4>they're like waiting.

1020
00:47:19.440 --> 00:47:21.840
<v Speaker 2>People want to they want to. Yeah, it's the.

1021
00:47:21.920 --> 00:47:23.840
<v Speaker 3>Only day you can cry as a man and not

1022
00:47:23.960 --> 00:47:24.519
<v Speaker 3>be judged.

1023
00:47:25.320 --> 00:47:25.480
<v Speaker 1>Well.

1024
00:47:25.519 --> 00:47:27.199
<v Speaker 2>Also the birth of like your children too.

1025
00:47:27.280 --> 00:47:29.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like, but only people there depends on you ask

1026
00:47:29.960 --> 00:47:35.320
<v Speaker 3>you know, no, like I I you know, I'm not

1027
00:47:35.440 --> 00:47:37.519
<v Speaker 3>going to stop it if I do because if I

1028
00:47:37.639 --> 00:47:39.079
<v Speaker 3>try to stop it, it's gonna be worse.

1029
00:47:41.119 --> 00:47:43.000
<v Speaker 4>I'll reach over there with the finger and just kind of.

1030
00:47:44.679 --> 00:47:45.880
<v Speaker 3>Raw fingsue.

1031
00:47:45.960 --> 00:47:49.719
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like hold hands behind your back, you know, well

1032
00:47:49.880 --> 00:47:52.519
<v Speaker 4>until i've just what you did with your arm was hold.

1033
00:47:53.079 --> 00:47:55.000
<v Speaker 4>I'll hold his hand behind his back until of course

1034
00:47:55.039 --> 00:47:56.480
<v Speaker 4>I like give him over to her.

1035
00:47:56.639 --> 00:48:02.239
<v Speaker 2>Then he's hers him up there in handcuffs behind his back.

1036
00:48:02.519 --> 00:48:04.679
<v Speaker 2>So then when they finally say their value, you unlock

1037
00:48:04.760 --> 00:48:05.000
<v Speaker 2>it and.

1038
00:48:05.880 --> 00:48:08.159
<v Speaker 3>So no rings, just you get a key from Ryan.

1039
00:48:08.360 --> 00:48:10.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'll walk them up in handcuffs.

1040
00:48:10.400 --> 00:48:13.159
<v Speaker 3>And then when it's like when when they when we're

1041
00:48:13.199 --> 00:48:15.239
<v Speaker 3>doing the legally like do you take this man to

1042
00:48:15.280 --> 00:48:18.199
<v Speaker 3>be your lawfully wedded husband whatever, I'll just give him

1043
00:48:18.280 --> 00:48:22.559
<v Speaker 3>over as her product. So wait, so we're we go

1044
00:48:22.679 --> 00:48:24.599
<v Speaker 3>from handcuffs to ball and chain.

1045
00:48:25.440 --> 00:48:29.360
<v Speaker 4>No, you're the ball and chain you are, that's what

1046
00:48:29.559 --> 00:48:32.639
<v Speaker 4>he say. I give you over as you're you're the PROD.

1047
00:48:34.360 --> 00:48:35.239
<v Speaker 3>You're going home with me.

1048
00:48:35.440 --> 00:48:38.280
<v Speaker 2>Now, the fact that you chose the word product.

1049
00:48:38.559 --> 00:48:40.599
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to take care of you. Yeah, because I

1050
00:48:40.719 --> 00:48:41.039
<v Speaker 3>love you.

1051
00:48:41.239 --> 00:48:45.159
<v Speaker 2>Like you usually hear property yeah, like, which is like funny,

1052
00:48:45.400 --> 00:48:47.119
<v Speaker 2>it's like technically true, but it's weird.

1053
00:48:47.360 --> 00:48:50.679
<v Speaker 3>But Honestly, I've been I've been saying that a lot

1054
00:48:50.719 --> 00:48:51.199
<v Speaker 3>as a joke.

1055
00:48:51.440 --> 00:48:54.519
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's what. It's what every guy who's about to

1056
00:48:54.599 --> 00:48:55.400
<v Speaker 2>get married does.

1057
00:48:55.760 --> 00:48:58.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like, what are you going to do when you're

1058
00:48:58.039 --> 00:49:01.000
<v Speaker 3>my property kind of thing? Yeah, yeah, probably do the

1059
00:49:01.039 --> 00:49:02.800
<v Speaker 3>same thing she already does and boss me around.

1060
00:49:03.000 --> 00:49:06.800
<v Speaker 2>It's funny because like, right, exactly, nothing's going to change there.

1061
00:49:07.320 --> 00:49:09.760
<v Speaker 2>But I still slipped that joke in every now and then.

1062
00:49:09.880 --> 00:49:12.400
<v Speaker 2>Doesn't mean I get like once or twice a year.

1063
00:49:12.480 --> 00:49:14.679
<v Speaker 2>I'll just be like, yeah, well you are my property,

1064
00:49:14.880 --> 00:49:20.360
<v Speaker 2>so just joke. It's just yeah, of course, it's just obviously.

1065
00:49:20.159 --> 00:49:22.519
<v Speaker 4>But Alex, pro tip for you man. The first week,

1066
00:49:22.599 --> 00:49:24.280
<v Speaker 4>at least for me, dude, the first week I wore

1067
00:49:24.360 --> 00:49:25.239
<v Speaker 4>this ring, that bitch.

1068
00:49:25.119 --> 00:49:29.719
<v Speaker 2>Was hurting well my ring. My ring has always been

1069
00:49:29.840 --> 00:49:31.960
<v Speaker 2>loose on my finger. And then when I lost a

1070
00:49:32.000 --> 00:49:34.679
<v Speaker 2>bunch of weight last year, it does not even fit

1071
00:49:34.760 --> 00:49:37.440
<v Speaker 2>me anymore. Oh yeah, I noticed it. I haven't worn

1072
00:49:37.480 --> 00:49:39.519
<v Speaker 2>it in a while. Yeah, And oh my god, the

1073
00:49:39.599 --> 00:49:42.840
<v Speaker 2>amount of times I get asked like, or why aren't

1074
00:49:42.840 --> 00:49:45.440
<v Speaker 2>you I thought you weren't married, Like why aren't you

1075
00:49:45.440 --> 00:49:48.480
<v Speaker 2>wearing your ring? Like I'm like, it just doesn't fit me. Anymore. Yeah,

1076
00:49:48.519 --> 00:49:50.360
<v Speaker 2>I just assumed never to ask those kinds of questions,

1077
00:49:50.400 --> 00:49:53.320
<v Speaker 2>but I did. Somebody did tell me, like, you can

1078
00:49:53.400 --> 00:49:55.320
<v Speaker 2>just go get it resized for cheap in the mall,

1079
00:49:55.480 --> 00:49:56.519
<v Speaker 2>So I'm probably gonna do that.

1080
00:49:56.760 --> 00:50:00.800
<v Speaker 3>You can. They can going down to size is way cheaper.

1081
00:50:00.880 --> 00:50:03.239
<v Speaker 4>They just like make little laser knicks and like cut

1082
00:50:03.280 --> 00:50:05.159
<v Speaker 4>out small portions of it and then just kind of

1083
00:50:05.199 --> 00:50:07.000
<v Speaker 4>like read because it's pretty easy.

1084
00:50:07.280 --> 00:50:09.880
<v Speaker 3>They're removing material, not adding materials, in charge you for

1085
00:50:09.960 --> 00:50:12.360
<v Speaker 3>the material. Yeah, but I'm kind of like, so we

1086
00:50:12.519 --> 00:50:16.760
<v Speaker 3>picked out our bands, like a year ago, we got

1087
00:50:16.800 --> 00:50:21.239
<v Speaker 3>our I remember, and then I switched jobs, so now

1088
00:50:21.280 --> 00:50:23.599
<v Speaker 3>I do a lot of like electrician type got to

1089
00:50:23.599 --> 00:50:24.400
<v Speaker 3>get the rubber.

1090
00:50:24.159 --> 00:50:27.360
<v Speaker 2>One one, and I don't I want one bad dude.

1091
00:50:27.480 --> 00:50:28.320
<v Speaker 3>I'm not a big fan.

1092
00:50:28.519 --> 00:50:32.239
<v Speaker 2>But honestly, are you saying like you might not be

1093
00:50:32.320 --> 00:50:34.039
<v Speaker 2>able to wear it while you work because it might

1094
00:50:34.280 --> 00:50:35.480
<v Speaker 2>it might not be a good idea.

1095
00:50:35.760 --> 00:50:38.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it I'm kind of like, you know, I don't

1096
00:50:38.480 --> 00:50:41.039
<v Speaker 3>really mess with a lot of super high voltage stuff,

1097
00:50:41.119 --> 00:50:43.320
<v Speaker 3>and I'm not really worried about the arc.

1098
00:50:43.840 --> 00:50:47.440
<v Speaker 2>Like, no, it's not that I know three people. I

1099
00:50:47.800 --> 00:50:50.519
<v Speaker 2>just like last week's one of my coworkers was telling

1100
00:50:50.559 --> 00:50:53.000
<v Speaker 2>me a horror story about it. And this makes the

1101
00:50:53.119 --> 00:50:56.119
<v Speaker 2>third person that I know who like knows somebody or

1102
00:50:56.199 --> 00:50:59.559
<v Speaker 2>it happened to them where like their ring got caught

1103
00:50:59.639 --> 00:51:02.079
<v Speaker 2>on some thing and it just pulled their finger off

1104
00:51:02.599 --> 00:51:06.599
<v Speaker 2>like like very easily. Dude, that happened to Jimmy fallon,

1105
00:51:07.239 --> 00:51:09.880
<v Speaker 2>Like his finger didn't come off, but he was like

1106
00:51:10.079 --> 00:51:14.559
<v Speaker 2>at home the most normal day ever. He tripped and

1107
00:51:14.760 --> 00:51:17.239
<v Speaker 2>his finger got caught on the corner of a table

1108
00:51:17.719 --> 00:51:19.920
<v Speaker 2>and like split his finger in half.

1109
00:51:19.719 --> 00:51:21.719
<v Speaker 3>Because the ring got caught out the corner like fully

1110
00:51:21.840 --> 00:51:23.000
<v Speaker 3>like pulled skin off.

1111
00:51:23.119 --> 00:51:25.840
<v Speaker 2>Had to have like crazy surgery. His finger was stuck

1112
00:51:25.920 --> 00:51:28.760
<v Speaker 2>like this forever. Like rings are like low key kind

1113
00:51:28.800 --> 00:51:29.599
<v Speaker 2>of dangerous.

1114
00:51:30.360 --> 00:51:32.039
<v Speaker 3>So I might hang in on my necklace.

1115
00:51:32.679 --> 00:51:34.519
<v Speaker 2>That is probably the move. While you're like that's a

1116
00:51:34.559 --> 00:51:35.000
<v Speaker 2>great idea.

1117
00:51:35.519 --> 00:51:37.719
<v Speaker 3>That'd be super like I've never seen anybody do that.

1118
00:51:37.920 --> 00:51:38.559
<v Speaker 2>It'd be swag.

1119
00:51:39.559 --> 00:51:42.079
<v Speaker 3>Well, yeah, of course, yeah, I was thinking Lord of

1120
00:51:42.119 --> 00:51:42.440
<v Speaker 3>the rings.

1121
00:51:44.159 --> 00:51:48.360
<v Speaker 2>Well, by the way, Ryan and Jenny proposed to me

1122
00:51:50.760 --> 00:51:53.000
<v Speaker 2>to be my efficient, to be the efficient, how do.

1123
00:51:53.079 --> 00:51:54.199
<v Speaker 3>We propose you? I forgot.

1124
00:51:55.119 --> 00:51:56.960
<v Speaker 4>I think he came over with an envelope and you

1125
00:51:57.000 --> 00:51:59.119
<v Speaker 4>were like openness, Yeah, that's how he did it.

1126
00:51:59.320 --> 00:52:01.480
<v Speaker 2>Dude, I was when I was in shock. Were we

1127
00:52:01.519 --> 00:52:05.079
<v Speaker 2>already doing the podcast at that point or no? No, okay, yeah,

1128
00:52:05.119 --> 00:52:05.760
<v Speaker 2>this was we.

1129
00:52:05.800 --> 00:52:10.039
<v Speaker 4>Were doing the podcast, uh like eight months later.

1130
00:52:10.400 --> 00:52:12.760
<v Speaker 2>Wow. So yeah. So we were just there for the weekend,

1131
00:52:12.880 --> 00:52:15.920
<v Speaker 2>just hanging out. Yeah, and like, I don't even remember

1132
00:52:16.000 --> 00:52:17.719
<v Speaker 2>what we were doing. I just turned around and Ryan

1133
00:52:17.800 --> 00:52:20.519
<v Speaker 2>and Jinny are both on one knee and they handed

1134
00:52:20.559 --> 00:52:23.960
<v Speaker 2>me the one ring from Lord of the Rings on

1135
00:52:24.079 --> 00:52:26.239
<v Speaker 2>a chain and they were like, will you marry us?

1136
00:52:26.360 --> 00:52:28.880
<v Speaker 2>And I was so in shock. I did not see

1137
00:52:28.920 --> 00:52:32.559
<v Speaker 2>that coming a mile away. Like I didn't see it

1138
00:52:32.639 --> 00:52:35.119
<v Speaker 2>at all. But it is a big shock. Asking to

1139
00:52:35.159 --> 00:52:36.360
<v Speaker 2>do somebody's wedding. Yeah.

1140
00:52:36.519 --> 00:52:38.440
<v Speaker 3>Both times now, I've been asked twice and both times

1141
00:52:38.440 --> 00:52:40.320
<v Speaker 3>I was like what and I yeah, And I never

1142
00:52:40.440 --> 00:52:43.360
<v Speaker 3>thought that I would ever like do anyone's wedding ever.

1143
00:52:43.760 --> 00:52:46.480
<v Speaker 3>Never even considered it, Like, never considered that I.

1144
00:52:46.480 --> 00:52:49.679
<v Speaker 2>Would be asked to do it. I was like fully

1145
00:52:49.760 --> 00:52:52.280
<v Speaker 2>in shock, like, oh my god, you said we were

1146
00:52:52.320 --> 00:52:53.000
<v Speaker 2>talking about Lord of It.

1147
00:52:53.119 --> 00:52:55.079
<v Speaker 4>But that's why I felt like I had to because

1148
00:52:55.119 --> 00:52:56.400
<v Speaker 4>I wasn't at your wedding. So I was like, well,

1149
00:52:56.440 --> 00:52:59.639
<v Speaker 4>then you you gotta do hours. It did kind of

1150
00:52:59.679 --> 00:53:01.320
<v Speaker 4>feel like amending.

1151
00:53:01.840 --> 00:53:05.079
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't feel reverend enough to do that, to

1152
00:53:05.239 --> 00:53:05.519
<v Speaker 3>do that.

1153
00:53:07.280 --> 00:53:12.280
<v Speaker 2>PVC pipes and stuff. Yeah, nobody knows what we're talking about.

1154
00:53:12.800 --> 00:53:14.400
<v Speaker 2>Let's keep it that way. Let's keep it that. It's

1155
00:53:14.400 --> 00:53:15.719
<v Speaker 2>a good idea, but yeah, I.

1156
00:53:15.760 --> 00:53:17.960
<v Speaker 3>Just don't feel like I've got what it takes.

1157
00:53:18.480 --> 00:53:21.320
<v Speaker 2>Well, that's not true that some people got Dude, I

1158
00:53:21.440 --> 00:53:24.199
<v Speaker 2>know that's not true. I wouldn't have thought I did.

1159
00:53:24.440 --> 00:53:26.320
<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't have thought like I could have done something

1160
00:53:26.360 --> 00:53:26.519
<v Speaker 2>like that.

1161
00:53:26.599 --> 00:53:28.360
<v Speaker 3>I could have told you there's a reason you're on

1162
00:53:28.480 --> 00:53:31.639
<v Speaker 3>that side of the table. Both of youse Buffy is

1163
00:53:32.360 --> 00:53:33.440
<v Speaker 3>y'all want to hear something shocking?

1164
00:53:33.639 --> 00:53:39.599
<v Speaker 2>Yes, shock me. We are on the final episode of

1165
00:53:39.599 --> 00:53:45.800
<v Speaker 2>the Sopranos. That's shocking. How how has season six or

1166
00:53:45.880 --> 00:53:50.000
<v Speaker 2>is it five six? How has season six been? It's crazy, really.

1167
00:53:49.920 --> 00:53:51.840
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And it's just because it's the last season. It's

1168
00:53:51.920 --> 00:53:55.639
<v Speaker 4>just so like, oh, start this episode, everything's going great, boop,

1169
00:53:55.719 --> 00:53:58.480
<v Speaker 4>this character's dead. But no, it's just crazy because both

1170
00:53:58.480 --> 00:54:00.360
<v Speaker 4>of y'all like started it before us, and both of

1171
00:54:00.400 --> 00:54:02.519
<v Speaker 4>y'all convinced us to watch it, and we have just

1172
00:54:02.800 --> 00:54:03.599
<v Speaker 4>not stopped.

1173
00:54:03.840 --> 00:54:05.480
<v Speaker 2>We're not watching anything and both of.

1174
00:54:05.559 --> 00:54:06.960
<v Speaker 3>Us have hit a road pluck.

1175
00:54:07.960 --> 00:54:10.559
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I do that with shows. I started watching that

1176
00:54:10.679 --> 00:54:11.840
<v Speaker 2>like a year and a half ago.

1177
00:54:12.000 --> 00:54:14.159
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, we started around the same time.

1178
00:54:14.320 --> 00:54:18.719
<v Speaker 2>Really, yeah, he was a few months before you. Raven

1179
00:54:18.840 --> 00:54:22.039
<v Speaker 2>got me on it. Yeah, Raven like he just binged

1180
00:54:22.079 --> 00:54:24.199
<v Speaker 2>it in like a month or two, like just binge

1181
00:54:24.239 --> 00:54:25.960
<v Speaker 2>the whole thing and was like, Bro, you have to

1182
00:54:26.079 --> 00:54:29.000
<v Speaker 2>watch the Sopranos. Uh. So I finally watched it.

1183
00:54:29.079 --> 00:54:31.599
<v Speaker 4>But so I wanted to say this real quick about

1184
00:54:31.639 --> 00:54:33.800
<v Speaker 4>the Sopranos. Okay, in my mind, I was like, well,

1185
00:54:33.880 --> 00:54:35.559
<v Speaker 4>this could be a whole episode, but I'm like, nah,

1186
00:54:36.559 --> 00:54:38.960
<v Speaker 4>it could be, but then I'd have to rewatch from

1187
00:54:39.000 --> 00:54:41.719
<v Speaker 4>the jump. From the very beginning of the show. I

1188
00:54:41.840 --> 00:54:43.840
<v Speaker 4>was telling Jenny this show as a cult. There is

1189
00:54:44.079 --> 00:54:47.559
<v Speaker 4>so much esoteric symbolism in this show and it's very subtle.

1190
00:54:48.119 --> 00:54:50.320
<v Speaker 4>And now that we're on like the final episode, which

1191
00:54:50.440 --> 00:54:52.880
<v Speaker 4>will we will likely finish tonight after we're done with

1192
00:54:52.920 --> 00:54:56.320
<v Speaker 4>all the recording, there have been like a couple of

1193
00:54:56.519 --> 00:55:00.280
<v Speaker 4>overt things that have kind of happened that I'm like,

1194
00:55:00.480 --> 00:55:02.559
<v Speaker 4>I fucking knew it telling Jenny, Like last night, I

1195
00:55:02.559 --> 00:55:03.280
<v Speaker 4>was telling I'll.

1196
00:55:03.079 --> 00:55:05.280
<v Speaker 2>Just see I told you it's a cult and it

1197
00:55:05.360 --> 00:55:06.960
<v Speaker 2>makes sense. It was like the biggest running show of

1198
00:55:07.039 --> 00:55:08.519
<v Speaker 2>the time. You know, that's how it works.

1199
00:55:08.880 --> 00:55:10.280
<v Speaker 4>So there's a couple of things I wanted to run

1200
00:55:10.320 --> 00:55:12.960
<v Speaker 4>by you guys that pretty much are not spoilers the

1201
00:55:13.079 --> 00:55:17.039
<v Speaker 4>things you've seen mmmm maybe not mm.

1202
00:55:19.280 --> 00:55:22.360
<v Speaker 2>Maybe not now. And then I think about it. Oh yeah,

1203
00:55:22.519 --> 00:55:23.559
<v Speaker 2>there's there's one that.

1204
00:55:23.599 --> 00:55:26.880
<v Speaker 3>I can say. Did y'all know that AJ and Meadow

1205
00:55:26.960 --> 00:55:29.199
<v Speaker 3>have their own show? Yes? Yeah, podcast.

1206
00:55:29.719 --> 00:55:31.559
<v Speaker 4>But I want to say this because I'm not trying

1207
00:55:31.599 --> 00:55:33.280
<v Speaker 4>to rant for the listener to hear me talk about

1208
00:55:33.320 --> 00:55:37.559
<v Speaker 4>sopranos the whole time. But Okay, so this is going

1209
00:55:37.639 --> 00:55:42.360
<v Speaker 4>to be a minor uh spoiler, if that's right with

1210
00:55:42.400 --> 00:55:44.920
<v Speaker 4>you guys. But it has nothing to do like what happens.

1211
00:55:44.559 --> 00:55:48.199
<v Speaker 3>In the main with Nicker, with me or both both. Okay,

1212
00:55:48.800 --> 00:55:51.599
<v Speaker 3>it's really minor. It's just one of those occult things.

1213
00:55:51.760 --> 00:55:53.440
<v Speaker 2>So I did not care about spoilers.

1214
00:55:53.559 --> 00:55:59.039
<v Speaker 4>Okay, So at one point Tony does peyote mmm, and again,

1215
00:55:59.239 --> 00:56:01.400
<v Speaker 4>like it's gonna be some minor spoiler. It depends on

1216
00:56:01.599 --> 00:56:03.119
<v Speaker 4>you know what a spoiler is to you. But it's

1217
00:56:03.119 --> 00:56:06.000
<v Speaker 4>not gonna be like major stuff that happens and they're

1218
00:56:06.039 --> 00:56:11.039
<v Speaker 4>in Vegas, and there's a whole episode in season six

1219
00:56:11.239 --> 00:56:15.719
<v Speaker 4>that shows how like bad he is with gambling, Oh Tony,

1220
00:56:15.880 --> 00:56:18.199
<v Speaker 4>Like he's constantly blowing money. He goes through this whole

1221
00:56:18.199 --> 00:56:20.599
<v Speaker 4>phase where he's blowing hundreds of thousands of dollars in

1222
00:56:20.639 --> 00:56:24.920
<v Speaker 4>gambling and getting into debt. So they set that up,

1223
00:56:25.000 --> 00:56:26.559
<v Speaker 4>and then several episodes later, I think it was like

1224
00:56:26.639 --> 00:56:29.559
<v Speaker 4>the third from the last, he goes some terrible, terrible,

1225
00:56:29.840 --> 00:56:33.920
<v Speaker 4>terrible things have happened, Characters die, things like that, serious

1226
00:56:33.960 --> 00:56:35.480
<v Speaker 4>main characters, you know, because it's the end of the

1227
00:56:35.519 --> 00:56:38.000
<v Speaker 4>show and he's, you know, going away.

1228
00:56:38.039 --> 00:56:38.679
<v Speaker 2>He's on a strat.

1229
00:56:38.800 --> 00:56:43.039
<v Speaker 4>He does peyote in Las Vegas, and he goes to gamble.

1230
00:56:43.159 --> 00:56:47.639
<v Speaker 4>He wins like seventy thousand dollars. Psychic, his intuition. He's

1231
00:56:47.639 --> 00:56:49.960
<v Speaker 4>having this psychic moment where he's seeing these patterns he's

1232
00:56:50.000 --> 00:56:52.239
<v Speaker 4>winning the money. And then he goes outside and he's

1233
00:56:52.360 --> 00:56:54.960
<v Speaker 4>like looks at the sun and the sun flashes at

1234
00:56:55.039 --> 00:56:56.960
<v Speaker 4>him in a flash of light, and then he starts

1235
00:56:57.000 --> 00:56:58.480
<v Speaker 4>standing in the pos of a cross and he's.

1236
00:56:58.360 --> 00:57:01.280
<v Speaker 2>Like, I get it now, I get it. And then

1237
00:57:01.320 --> 00:57:02.599
<v Speaker 2>he goes to therapy and he.

1238
00:57:02.599 --> 00:57:06.280
<v Speaker 4>Starts talking about these metaphysical revelations that he had in

1239
00:57:06.360 --> 00:57:08.679
<v Speaker 4>his head, and it's like really insightful stuff like about

1240
00:57:09.079 --> 00:57:11.320
<v Speaker 4>I saw my mother and all mothers as being the

1241
00:57:11.400 --> 00:57:13.599
<v Speaker 4>bust that carries us here to this world and then

1242
00:57:13.920 --> 00:57:15.599
<v Speaker 4>you know, we suffer in life because we're trying to

1243
00:57:15.639 --> 00:57:17.360
<v Speaker 4>stay on the bus, but we have to go forward.

1244
00:57:17.400 --> 00:57:18.960
<v Speaker 2>It's just like this kind of stuff like that.

1245
00:57:19.159 --> 00:57:23.079
<v Speaker 4>And damn, I just thought that was crazy, like the

1246
00:57:23.480 --> 00:57:25.400
<v Speaker 4>the overt occult symbolism.

1247
00:57:25.440 --> 00:57:27.599
<v Speaker 2>But I feel like, I feel like in almost every

1248
00:57:27.719 --> 00:57:31.679
<v Speaker 2>season there's something, there's something yes there, and throughout the

1249
00:57:31.719 --> 00:57:34.119
<v Speaker 2>whole show there's a huge emphasis on dreams.

1250
00:57:34.280 --> 00:57:38.119
<v Speaker 4>Yes like and there's there's some things that are unfolding

1251
00:57:38.199 --> 00:57:40.119
<v Speaker 4>now that were set up for like four or five

1252
00:57:40.239 --> 00:57:44.639
<v Speaker 4>six seasons. And I just want to put your mind

1253
00:57:44.760 --> 00:57:49.239
<v Speaker 4>towards this that when Christopher goes through his initiation, which

1254
00:57:49.280 --> 00:57:52.679
<v Speaker 4>by the way, it was you know, pricking their fingers,

1255
00:57:52.760 --> 00:57:57.400
<v Speaker 4>drawing blood candle, they're wearing this regalia and there's.

1256
00:57:57.239 --> 00:57:59.440
<v Speaker 2>Like a crow in the window. There's a crow. That's

1257
00:57:59.440 --> 00:58:01.320
<v Speaker 2>what I was gonna say. There's a crow and.

1258
00:58:03.360 --> 00:58:06.239
<v Speaker 4>Something to do with They had an altar and I

1259
00:58:06.320 --> 00:58:08.519
<v Speaker 4>think they had cards on the table like Caro cards

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<v Speaker 4>or something. So I just want to throw that out there.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, I just I wanted to see what you

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<v Speaker 4>guys can say when I was like, I'm on the

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<v Speaker 4>last episode, that's all the end of an era.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's awesome. We will definitely be finishing it at

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<v Speaker 2>some point. We like to jump around show to show

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<v Speaker 2>and then I also get into modes where all I

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<v Speaker 2>want to watch is one piece and so yeah, but

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<v Speaker 2>we will finish it at some point very soon.

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<v Speaker 4>So that was a random tangent. How do you guys

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<v Speaker 4>feel about giving them a little bit about green Boys?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, let's do that before. If you guys, if this

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<v Speaker 2>is your first Stream of Consciousness episode, this is how

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<v Speaker 2>they go. We just like get in here. It's like

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00:58:43.719 --> 00:58:46.039
<v Speaker 2>usually when we are in like busy points in our

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00:58:46.079 --> 00:58:47.599
<v Speaker 2>life and we just kind of get in here and

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00:58:47.719 --> 00:58:52.079
<v Speaker 2>update y'all on what's been going on, just like chit chat. Yeah,

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00:58:52.119 --> 00:58:53.880
<v Speaker 2>we'd be streamed if you enjoy it.

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00:58:54.079 --> 00:58:56.719
<v Speaker 4>Let us know if you enjoy just hearing us talk

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00:58:56.800 --> 00:58:59.519
<v Speaker 4>candidly about our personal lives and just kind of like

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<v Speaker 4>you know, chatting with each other necessarily not with a

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<v Speaker 4>topic or like some focused educational content.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, we really like doing this.

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00:59:08.559 --> 00:59:10.480
<v Speaker 2>I've really enjoyed this. I love it. I've had great

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<v Speaker 2>We just sprinkle them in every every now and then,

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<v Speaker 2>every couple of months or so.

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<v Speaker 4>We took us like three years to do the second one,

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<v Speaker 4>and now we're in.

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<v Speaker 2>Love with the format. Yeah, but yeah, just sprinkling them

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<v Speaker 2>in every now and then.

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<v Speaker 3>And if you like stream of consciousness, you're gonna love

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<v Speaker 3>Green Barge.

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<v Speaker 2>We've been conceptualizing this for a long time and it's

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<v Speaker 2>our new Patreon show. It's gonna be out soon then

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<v Speaker 2>in the next couple months, in the fall, yeah, we can.

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<v Speaker 2>We can confidently say in the fall fall, Yeah, after

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00:59:40.239 --> 00:59:43.880
<v Speaker 2>Alex's wedding, Yes for sure. And Green Boys is gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be the new show, and it's gonna be the show

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00:59:45.639 --> 00:59:49.199
<v Speaker 2>where we get in here and we get all of

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<v Speaker 2>our energy out.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Some of y'all's favorite moments from the show are like

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00:59:53.800 --> 00:59:56.840
<v Speaker 2>when we role play as characters and when we just

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<v Speaker 2>like completely goof off and go on these like goo

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01:00:00.079 --> 01:00:02.079
<v Speaker 2>feed tangents and stuff like that. It's gonna be a

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01:00:02.119 --> 01:00:05.559
<v Speaker 2>lot of that, and then like some other high energy

1306
01:00:05.639 --> 01:00:09.719
<v Speaker 2>type content, it's gonna be like a creative kind of

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01:00:09.760 --> 01:00:12.199
<v Speaker 2>outleg yeah party, Yeah, it's gonna be a party.

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<v Speaker 4>The way I think of it in my mind is

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01:00:13.599 --> 01:00:16.280
<v Speaker 4>just like full disclosure, where it's just like we show

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<v Speaker 4>up and we just like kind of vent our hearts out,

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01:00:18.559 --> 01:00:21.280
<v Speaker 4>but instead of it being like more personal things. I

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01:00:21.360 --> 01:00:23.159
<v Speaker 4>mean sometimes it can be, yeah, but to me, it's

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01:00:23.199 --> 01:00:25.679
<v Speaker 4>just kind of like a lighthearted comedy show.

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<v Speaker 2>Goofy, goofy, goofy. Yeah, we're just having fun. We're gonna

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01:00:28.199 --> 01:00:31.840
<v Speaker 2>be goofy, goofy, goofy on Green Boys. So we uh

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of nights ago we got in here because

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<v Speaker 2>I've been telling them for months, like we're gonna do

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<v Speaker 2>a new like theme song for Green Boys. It's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be its own show and all this stuff. But I

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<v Speaker 2>want us to make the song together. I want us

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<v Speaker 2>to be in the room and make the song together.

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01:00:45.960 --> 01:00:48.000
<v Speaker 2>I had like experimented with some stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>But because all the other songs, it's just Nick, it's

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<v Speaker 3>just me, and they turned out like I'm happy with

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01:00:53.320 --> 01:00:55.840
<v Speaker 3>the way that those turned out, amazing, but thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was like, this one, I want all of

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<v Speaker 2>our energy in it. And we made it the other

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<v Speaker 2>night right here in this room, and like what we

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<v Speaker 2>came up with was where we were laughing so like

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<v Speaker 2>for an hour straight making this song. It was so

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01:01:10.880 --> 01:01:14.079
<v Speaker 2>much fun. Yeah, that's gonna be the energy of Green Boys,

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01:01:14.239 --> 01:01:16.639
<v Speaker 2>just like Goofy having so much fun.

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<v Speaker 4>There's a lot of moments in this show where like

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<v Speaker 4>you have to understand as a listener, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>we're we're we're trying to do something different here where

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<v Speaker 4>we want to have like very deep, mystical, profound, you know,

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01:01:28.800 --> 01:01:32.320
<v Speaker 4>spiritual conversation about all these x y Z you know,

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01:01:32.679 --> 01:01:38.119
<v Speaker 4>occult and paranormal and conspiratorial and whatever subjects. But like

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01:01:38.199 --> 01:01:40.719
<v Speaker 4>also at our core, we're just like we just like

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01:01:40.760 --> 01:01:42.360
<v Speaker 4>to cut up and have fun. And I feel like

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01:01:42.760 --> 01:01:45.280
<v Speaker 4>our solution was to create a show where all of

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01:01:45.360 --> 01:01:47.480
<v Speaker 4>that energy that we have on this show that sometimes

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01:01:47.519 --> 01:01:49.760
<v Speaker 4>we want to spend on that, now we can have

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01:01:49.840 --> 01:01:51.280
<v Speaker 4>a whole segment for that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the perfect way to put it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that is the perfect way to It's a must

1347
01:01:55.719 --> 01:01:58.679
<v Speaker 3>for us, and it is an outlet for that type

1348
01:01:58.719 --> 01:02:02.599
<v Speaker 3>of energy, Yeah, which then creates more room in BSS,

1349
01:02:02.760 --> 01:02:04.800
<v Speaker 3>the main show, to do main show things.

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01:02:04.920 --> 01:02:05.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah for sure.

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01:02:05.880 --> 01:02:08.000
<v Speaker 3>Well it's not saying either the you know BSS is

1352
01:02:08.039 --> 01:02:10.559
<v Speaker 3>going to change, It's just I think like the more dude, Like,

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01:02:10.880 --> 01:02:13.920
<v Speaker 3>I can't deny that when we started Full Disclosure, I

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01:02:14.079 --> 01:02:16.679
<v Speaker 3>started to feel more confident in myself when it came.

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<v Speaker 2>To record this show.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, And I think you can go back and look

1357
01:02:19.760 --> 01:02:21.320
<v Speaker 3>at that and see that real time.

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01:02:21.599 --> 01:02:22.039
<v Speaker 2>Definitely.

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<v Speaker 4>And I feel like us getting into Green Boys, I

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01:02:23.920 --> 01:02:26.239
<v Speaker 4>think we're all just going to feel better about what

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<v Speaker 4>we're doing. I mean, it's just all gonna gel. It's

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01:02:28.119 --> 01:02:30.800
<v Speaker 4>all gonna be firing together on all cylinders. And I'm

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<v Speaker 4>very excited.

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<v Speaker 2>I am too. It's gonna be so goofy and so

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01:02:34.280 --> 01:02:37.159
<v Speaker 2>much fun. So if you want more Yellowstone role play,

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01:02:38.239 --> 01:02:38.960
<v Speaker 2>get on over to.

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01:02:40.480 --> 01:02:41.960
<v Speaker 4>I've been telling you all today, like I really want

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01:02:42.000 --> 01:02:43.360
<v Speaker 4>to do some GTA five role plays.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we're going to do one.

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<v Speaker 2>I r L in this room. I've been thinking exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>I've been thinking about some sort of potential BSS streaming thing.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't know that's later. Yeah, we can do it.

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01:03:02.920 --> 01:03:04.679
<v Speaker 3>Now that we've talked Patreon, we might as well. You

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01:03:04.679 --> 01:03:07.679
<v Speaker 3>want to give them a plug, Alex a Patreon plug

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01:03:07.840 --> 01:03:08.440
<v Speaker 3>all plugs.

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01:03:08.599 --> 01:03:11.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we rarely do it. Welsosaid, so dot com.

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01:03:11.440 --> 01:03:13.760
<v Speaker 3>We have merch and all of our details on there

1378
01:03:14.400 --> 01:03:16.760
<v Speaker 3>that lead you over to Patreon. Patreon dot com slash

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01:03:16.800 --> 01:03:19.840
<v Speaker 3>Bloodsoe said, so, get you perks, gets you into the

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01:03:19.880 --> 01:03:24.880
<v Speaker 3>mothership Discord chat with everybody, super like minded community, very

1381
01:03:24.960 --> 01:03:28.000
<v Speaker 3>supportive community, very loving community. It's been awesome hanging out

1382
01:03:28.039 --> 01:03:31.639
<v Speaker 3>with five hundred people who just get along. Yeah, that's awesome.

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01:03:32.039 --> 01:03:34.639
<v Speaker 3>So you get Discord, you get episodes a day early

1384
01:03:34.760 --> 01:03:37.079
<v Speaker 3>and gets full two days early. Yeah, two days, two

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01:03:37.159 --> 01:03:39.639
<v Speaker 3>days early, and then you get Full Disclosure, which is

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01:03:39.719 --> 01:03:42.920
<v Speaker 3>a show basically Ryan pouring his heart out on camera.

1387
01:03:44.159 --> 01:03:47.400
<v Speaker 3>And then you'll also have an option for Green Boys

1388
01:03:47.559 --> 01:03:50.960
<v Speaker 3>and some other perks come the fall. So Patreon dot com.

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01:03:51.039 --> 01:03:53.440
<v Speaker 3>Slash bloodso said, so is the best way to support.

1390
01:03:53.199 --> 01:03:54.320
<v Speaker 2>Us New Tear.

1391
01:03:56.119 --> 01:04:01.679
<v Speaker 3>And also subscribe on the YouTube. Subscribe ever almost a

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<v Speaker 3>twenty k. I might be at twenty k by the

1393
01:04:03.400 --> 01:04:05.480
<v Speaker 3>time this comes out. It was twenty seven. I mean

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01:04:05.519 --> 01:04:08.519
<v Speaker 3>it was nineteen seven hundred, nineteen thousand, seven hundred today

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01:04:08.519 --> 01:04:11.679
<v Speaker 3>when I look yesterday, we were at nineteen thousand, six hundred.

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<v Speaker 3>Twenty thousand special. We talked about that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think we've ever Yeah, we want to do

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01:04:17.039 --> 01:04:19.800
<v Speaker 2>a twenty thousand checkout special. I don't think we've ever

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<v Speaker 2>done like a plug for subscriptions or everything like that.

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01:04:24.039 --> 01:04:28.320
<v Speaker 2>But there's about like about fifty percent of nineteen severership

1401
01:04:28.599 --> 01:04:32.039
<v Speaker 2>is subscribed, So if you like us and you want

1402
01:04:32.039 --> 01:04:34.159
<v Speaker 2>to see more, please subscribe. It helps to show a lot.

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01:04:34.760 --> 01:04:37.360
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it just it helps us to be like more

1404
01:04:37.480 --> 01:04:40.000
<v Speaker 4>on the algorithm and YouTube and all that, and also like,

1405
01:04:40.079 --> 01:04:42.000
<v Speaker 4>if you want to follow us on social media, you know,

1406
01:04:42.079 --> 01:04:45.800
<v Speaker 4>we really should do this more. Really well, we're working

1407
01:04:45.840 --> 01:04:48.280
<v Speaker 4>on it. Yeah, yeah, we're working on that. But we

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<v Speaker 4>do have an Instagram and my lovely wife Jennifer, who

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01:04:52.880 --> 01:04:55.880
<v Speaker 4>I was, you know, spending a great deal bragging about

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01:04:55.920 --> 01:05:00.239
<v Speaker 4>today confessing my feelings at our wedding, that one. She

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01:05:00.480 --> 01:05:03.320
<v Speaker 4>works very hard on our Instagram. She works very hard

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01:05:03.440 --> 01:05:06.960
<v Speaker 4>on our social media's and you know, if you want

1413
01:05:07.000 --> 01:05:12.079
<v Speaker 4>to see our updates and what we're planning, obviously every

1414
01:05:12.079 --> 01:05:16.719
<v Speaker 4>week we're posting about episode content, just all future ideas,

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01:05:16.760 --> 01:05:17.320
<v Speaker 4>all that stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>It's behind the scenes.

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<v Speaker 2>Behind the scenes, yeah anything.

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<v Speaker 4>Our main hub of social media is Instagram and it's

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01:05:23.039 --> 01:05:25.039
<v Speaker 4>at Bledsoe podcast on.

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01:05:25.239 --> 01:05:32.440
<v Speaker 2>Instagram Bledsoe Family Developments. Yeah anything, yeah, yeah, install, install, install,

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01:05:32.880 --> 01:05:37.840
<v Speaker 2>Get over the I am not sponsored one of those

1422
01:05:37.840 --> 01:05:40.360
<v Speaker 2>little fast ad reads you know. Also, look, we have neon.

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01:05:40.400 --> 01:05:43.440
<v Speaker 2>Isn't that cool? We did we already did an episode

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<v Speaker 2>with the but it's cool. It's cool. Didn't talk about

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<v Speaker 2>it at all.

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<v Speaker 3>No, but it's because we're doing the Instagram post.

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<v Speaker 1>So.

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<v Speaker 3>But but that first episode that it's in, I brought

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<v Speaker 3>you guys in with a big wide shot.

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<v Speaker 4>You can't what was that?

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01:06:00.800 --> 01:06:04.159
<v Speaker 2>King Arthur? Yes, so iconic. Bro.

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01:06:04.440 --> 01:06:06.480
<v Speaker 3>Do you remember in the Da Vinci Code episode we

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<v Speaker 3>talked about the blade and the chalice. Yeah, and how

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01:06:08.920 --> 01:06:11.639
<v Speaker 3>like the sword or the blade is is the masculine energy,

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01:06:11.840 --> 01:06:14.320
<v Speaker 3>and we know, I just thought that was kind of cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Bro.

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<v Speaker 2>We got the blowing ass.

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01:06:16.360 --> 01:06:19.760
<v Speaker 3>On fucking triangle on the King Arthur episode. It's the blade,

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01:06:20.079 --> 01:06:21.679
<v Speaker 3>It's the Blade. Who knows?

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<v Speaker 2>I love y'all, Love you guys, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>It was weird things happen in the backyard of Bletsoe House.

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01:06:30.599 --> 01:06:42.159
<v Speaker 1>Shiit o god, it was so weird coming cluster to

1443
01:06:48.440 --> 01:06:53.400
<v Speaker 1>like smirring on the inside of it. No one knows

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01:06:59.480 --> 01:07:17.079
<v Speaker 1>coming right, haven't nod a side not a

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<v Speaker 3>Happy