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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, bad with something for you to think about.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to put on a little happy music today

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, listen good.

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<v Speaker 1>To change how you see yourself, it will require inter healing.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me say it again. To change how you.

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<v Speaker 1>See yourself will require inner healing. There's no as if

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<v Speaker 1>so but's about it. There's no way around it.

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<v Speaker 2>It will require inside work.

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<v Speaker 1>People go through life every single day trying to make it,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to fake it. But all you have to do

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<v Speaker 1>is allow internhaling to take place. When you allow inner

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<v Speaker 1>healing to take place, you no longer feel that you

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<v Speaker 1>need to put up a screen, camouflage, fake pretending. You

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<v Speaker 1>no longer feel that way you present to the world

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<v Speaker 1>who you really are now who you pretending to be?

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<v Speaker 1>So many people, most people walking around faking from the

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<v Speaker 1>rich on down, faking pretending they're happy, pretending they're riches, making.

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<v Speaker 2>Them so happy. No, it's allowed.

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<v Speaker 1>Until that inside work is completed. People will remain the

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<v Speaker 1>same mentally. They will continue to be a fact that

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<v Speaker 1>the same way. Mentally, you will believe what other people

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<v Speaker 1>say about you. You will adopt and embrace the things

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<v Speaker 1>that people say about you to keep you down.

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<v Speaker 2>I know most things.

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<v Speaker 1>Start from childhood, but not all things, but most times

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<v Speaker 1>it does start at childhood. Your parents beat you down

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<v Speaker 1>verbally in every way, and you allow those things to

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<v Speaker 1>dictate the rest of your life or someone else that

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to be your parents, people you encountered on

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<v Speaker 1>your journey in life. You allow what they say about

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<v Speaker 1>you to hinder your growth. But the reason you do

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<v Speaker 1>that because you don't have that inner healing.

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<v Speaker 2>When you have inner healing.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't care what people are gonna say about you,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know they're going to talk regardless, can be

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<v Speaker 1>the best they're gonna talk about you, or she thinks

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<v Speaker 1>she's all that, he think he's all that. You can

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<v Speaker 1>be the worst they're gonna talk about you, So it

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<v Speaker 1>won't matter. They're gonna talk. They are going to talk, period.

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<v Speaker 1>It does not matter. What matters is how you see yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>how you perceive yourself, what you think about yourself, what

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<v Speaker 1>you believe about yourself. Many many people hold themselves back

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<v Speaker 1>because they lack confidence, They lack that self esteem that

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<v Speaker 1>they need, that courage that they need.

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<v Speaker 2>Because they allow fear to hold them back.

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<v Speaker 1>They allow what things others say about them to hold

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<v Speaker 1>them back.

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<v Speaker 2>But really the real truth, you're holding.

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<v Speaker 1>Yourself back because it is you who's taken in, or

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<v Speaker 1>have taken in what others have said, and you have

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<v Speaker 1>embraced that as.

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<v Speaker 2>If it's true.

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<v Speaker 1>It's only true if you believe it's true.

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<v Speaker 2>Some of you have no confidence. You are so.

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<v Speaker 1>Caught up and so fixated and so hurt and broken

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<v Speaker 1>because of what someone else said. You're fixated on that.

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<v Speaker 1>It keeps playing through your head like a broken record.

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<v Speaker 1>But still it is you who is doing it to you. You,

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<v Speaker 1>you are the one who's holding you back. You are

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<v Speaker 1>the one who's prevai in your growth and your progression

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<v Speaker 1>mentally to that level of maturity. It is you, no

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<v Speaker 1>matter what people do, no matter what people say, you

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<v Speaker 1>are the person who is responsible for your life.

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<v Speaker 2>You can blame all.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to, but you're the one who's responsible for

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<v Speaker 1>your life, no one else.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care who contributed to your pain.

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<v Speaker 1>You, as an adult, are responsible for your life. Whichever

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<v Speaker 1>direction you choose to go. You're responsible. You cannot hold

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<v Speaker 1>anyone else accountable and responsible. You may want to because

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<v Speaker 1>someone took you through hell, you went through a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of trauma, but still you are ultimately responsible for who

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<v Speaker 1>you become. You're responsible for how you react to what

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<v Speaker 1>people say and what people do. To change how you

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<v Speaker 1>see yourself will require inter healing. I was looking at

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<v Speaker 1>a Christmas show and the guy was wanting a date

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<v Speaker 1>for Christmas. So he went to this lady who had

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<v Speaker 1>this business to help, you know, build their confidence and

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<v Speaker 1>things like that. And I know that was a TV show,

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<v Speaker 1>but I also know it was realistic. There are many

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<v Speaker 1>people who lack confidence. They don't even walk with confidence.

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<v Speaker 1>They walk with their shoulders slumped, just no physical show.

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<v Speaker 2>Or signed of confidence.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you allow others to take away your confidence. You

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<v Speaker 1>allow others to strip you of your self esteem. And

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<v Speaker 1>this guy had no confidence in himself to get a

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<v Speaker 1>date for his Christmas party.

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<v Speaker 2>He had no confidence in himself.

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<v Speaker 1>None. But again, this is what people do to themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>They allow other people who are by the way broken themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>Any person that hurt you, any person.

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<v Speaker 1>That bullies you, any person who speak down to you,

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<v Speaker 1>belittle you, try to make you feel less than those

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<v Speaker 1>are broken people. So many individuals in this world give

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<v Speaker 1>their power to broken people. It's absolutely horrible giving your

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<v Speaker 1>power to broken.

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<v Speaker 2>People to hurt you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's crazy, but so many people do it. Millions of

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<v Speaker 1>people do it.

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<v Speaker 2>They lack.

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<v Speaker 1>Self confidence and self esteem and belief and.

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<v Speaker 2>Self and they go through life.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever people say negative about their boom, they allow it

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<v Speaker 1>to stick and then those things start messing with your mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I'm not pretty enough, I'm too big, I'm too little,

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<v Speaker 1>i have no talent, just all types.

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<v Speaker 2>Of negativity, negative self talk.

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<v Speaker 1>It bruises you, It crimples you, It keeps you stagnant,

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<v Speaker 1>and many of you have.

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<v Speaker 2>It to dictate your life. You allowed your bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Experiences to dictate the rest of your life, and that

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<v Speaker 1>is a shame. It's a shame when it is you

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<v Speaker 1>who is responsible for your life.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Gain awareness and be mindful, love yourself, believe in yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>have confidence, self esteem, all of those things and more, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Have to do the necessary inner work. No one else

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<v Speaker 2>can do it for you. You have to.

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<v Speaker 1>Do it for yourself. So to change how you see yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>it will require in the work that.

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<v Speaker 2>Only you can do. Only you can.

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<v Speaker 1>Complete the task. Stop giving power to powerless people to

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<v Speaker 1>hurt you, to people who are broken more broken than you.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>Wake up, love yourself, believe in yourself, have faith in yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>know that.

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<v Speaker 2>You are enough.

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<v Speaker 1>When people treat you as if nothing you do is

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<v Speaker 1>ever enough, they are the problem. But if you keep

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<v Speaker 1>allowing that behavior in your life, you're the problem too.

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<v Speaker 2>And in every situation, you're your biggest problem.

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<v Speaker 1>Because your mindset is what leads you into good things

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<v Speaker 1>and leads you into bad things. It depends on the

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<v Speaker 1>mindset you have. And many people in this world.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't get it.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't understand that they are their own worst enemy.

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<v Speaker 2>Not other people or things.

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<v Speaker 1>Your mindset is your worst enemy. Because many people carry

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<v Speaker 1>around old baggage. They carry it into their relationships or

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<v Speaker 1>their jobs, at their churches, wherever they go.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I've always told.

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<v Speaker 1>You that one person you can never escape, you can

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<v Speaker 1>never escape is you, because you take you everywhere you go.

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<v Speaker 1>Can't get away from yourself. Some of you may want to,

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<v Speaker 1>but you can't do it. So what people do is

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<v Speaker 1>take their old baggage and project it into the lives

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<v Speaker 1>of other people.

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<v Speaker 2>I see it every day every.

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<v Speaker 1>Day, unbelievable, inconceivable projection just trying to hurt other people,

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<v Speaker 1>or just bringing chaos and just trying to torment others

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<v Speaker 1>because they're struggling internally. I see it every day and

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<v Speaker 1>it is so I mean extremely sad, because no one

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<v Speaker 1>has to be that way. No one has to walk

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<v Speaker 1>this earth miserable, lack in comforten and self esteem. People

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<v Speaker 1>do this because they have become comfortable with that behavior.

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<v Speaker 1>They have become comfortable with the mindset that they have.

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<v Speaker 1>Although it causes self in the pain in their lives

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<v Speaker 1>just constantly.

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<v Speaker 2>Just constantly. But people are so comfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>With it.

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<v Speaker 2>That they never choose to change. Only thing they do

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<v Speaker 2>is bang bang bang bang.

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<v Speaker 1>Bang, point the fingers. It's her fault, it's their fault, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>This or that, but it's you.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you don't choose change. And the only way to

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<v Speaker 1>become better is by doing better. That's why you hear

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<v Speaker 1>me say that on cliche. People do better when they

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<v Speaker 1>know better.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a lie.

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<v Speaker 1>That is a lie, bold faced lie, because people know better,

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<v Speaker 1>but they just.

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<v Speaker 2>Won't do better.

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot tell you how many times I've led the

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<v Speaker 1>horse to the water.

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<v Speaker 2>But couldn't make them drink, and you just can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot tell you how many times I've offered to

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<v Speaker 1>help people find jobs and do this and do that,

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<v Speaker 1>and you give them all the tools, and they still

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<v Speaker 1>will not create anything. They still will not move forward

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<v Speaker 1>with all the tools because of the mindsets they have.

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<v Speaker 1>They allow fear to cripple them. They allow that debilitating

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<v Speaker 1>negativity that they say to themselves about themselves to cripple them,

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<v Speaker 1>to disable them, meaning it inhibbits their growth.

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<v Speaker 2>It inhibits them from being able to.

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<v Speaker 1>Move forward, to gain self esteem and confidence and belief

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<v Speaker 1>about themselves. People just don't want to put it in

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<v Speaker 1>the work. It's like, well, I've been in this way

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<v Speaker 1>so so long. They don't say it verbally, but their

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<v Speaker 1>action said because they don't choose to change. But if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to change how you think about yourself, what

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<v Speaker 1>you believe about yourself, you are the one who have

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<v Speaker 1>to do that in the work. And it's very possible. See,

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<v Speaker 1>too many people give power to to people who hurt them,

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<v Speaker 1>people who wrong them in some way.

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<v Speaker 2>You still give them power over you.

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<v Speaker 1>When you hold on to all the negativity and you

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<v Speaker 1>let those memories shape your life. Some of the people

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<v Speaker 1>are dead and gone and you're still waddling.

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<v Speaker 2>You're still waddling in your woes.

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<v Speaker 1>The people dead and gone, and you still allowing all

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<v Speaker 1>the hurt to cripple you.

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<v Speaker 2>That's on you.

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<v Speaker 1>And yes I can say it because I've been through devastation.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm living it now for the rest of my life.

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<v Speaker 1>But guess what, I don't give power to nothing and

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<v Speaker 1>no one. I don't care who it is. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>care what happens because I understand life happens. Tragic things

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<v Speaker 1>are going to happen in life. We always think it's

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<v Speaker 1>going to be the next person that it happened to,

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<v Speaker 1>until it's at your front door.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's at our front.

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<v Speaker 1>Door sometime, and you just have to take the good

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<v Speaker 1>with the bad and keep rolling, not giving power to things, situations, people.

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<v Speaker 2>To cause dysfunction in your life.

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<v Speaker 1>That's who I am because I.

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<v Speaker 2>Give all.

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<v Speaker 1>All things to my Lord and Savior. I can't handle it,

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<v Speaker 1>so I just put it at the feet of God

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<v Speaker 1>and through Jesus Christ. Hey, they handle it for me.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not saying you're not gonna feel things in life.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not gonna experience, you know, hurt, pain, sorrow. You are,

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<v Speaker 1>We all are because it's a part of the life process,

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<v Speaker 1>the life cycle. But you can't let nothing in life

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<v Speaker 1>that happens to be so devastating that it cripples you

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<v Speaker 1>and cause dysfunction in your life, cause you to turn

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<v Speaker 1>the drugs.

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<v Speaker 2>And alcohol, cause you to become whatever. You shouldn't allow

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<v Speaker 2>any of that, and unfortunately, that's what a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I'm making this episode now, because so

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<v Speaker 1>many people have crippled themselves by embracing the negativity that

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<v Speaker 1>others have said to them about them. But when you

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<v Speaker 1>take it in and you hold it in, you are

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<v Speaker 1>causing self inflicted pain in your life because nothing no

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<v Speaker 1>one says can hurt you unless you allow for it too.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what, I'm leaving it right there. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like sad enough. I hope you get it. I

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<v Speaker 1>truly do. Because you are the one who create things

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<v Speaker 1>in your life.

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<v Speaker 2>You create the monsters in your life. You are the

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<v Speaker 2>one who allow people to treat you any kind of way.

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<v Speaker 1>You creating monsters. I don't care who they are. They

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<v Speaker 1>can be your child, your husband, your wife, your girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>your boyfriend, your friend, relatives, other people. You create the

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<v Speaker 1>monsters in your life. You're the one who allow fear

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<v Speaker 1>to grow. You're the one who allows lack of confidence

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<v Speaker 1>to grow. Lack of self esteem to you.

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<v Speaker 2>You're the one who.

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<v Speaker 1>Who cultivate that and till that soil and water it

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<v Speaker 1>to grow in your life. You, I want you to really,

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<v Speaker 1>really really really really let this penetrate. Wake up, Wake up.

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<v Speaker 1>Many of you have gone years and years and years.

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<v Speaker 2>And years the same old way, never.

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<v Speaker 1>Choosing change, never choosing to become better, when it's always

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<v Speaker 1>been your opportunity, your right.

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<v Speaker 2>To do so.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm leaving it there. Thank you for listening. Much love,

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<v Speaker 1>much love, much love. I appreciate each and every one

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<v Speaker 1>of you. Please share this episode. I have a book

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<v Speaker 1>that's gonna be coming out pretty soon, and I'll keep

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<v Speaker 1>you updated on that. I'll also have a CD project

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<v Speaker 1>that's coming out, a gospel CD, yes, finally pretty soon.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll keep you.

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<v Speaker 1>Informed about that as well. So take care, God bless

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<v Speaker 1>please share. I in every episode is the same, and

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<v Speaker 1>I hope and I pray in the name of Jesus

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<v Speaker 1>that you do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank called it