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<v Speaker 1>Someone I know was on vacation with a boyfriend and

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<v Speaker 1>the boyfriend broke up with her on vacation.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on, hold on, hold on, I'm writing boyfriend girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>I told you there will be a small Q and

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<v Speaker 1>a right limited how on vacation? They've been dating for

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<v Speaker 1>many years.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, by the way, that answered one of my questions. Years.

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<v Speaker 1>They were in Yellowstone, which is Montana or Wyoming, Wyoming.

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<v Speaker 2>It's same part of the country. And over the weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the part. This weekend, yes, like two days ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like Sunday. Sorry, no, it's not funny.

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<v Speaker 1>He broke up with her and she decided to fly

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<v Speaker 1>home back home without him from mont or from Wyoming

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<v Speaker 1>across the US, because she lives on the East coast.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, do you have any quick questions? I do?

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<v Speaker 1>How many days into the vacation.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Diane, I wasn't even there.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe they arrived on Friday and he broke up

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<v Speaker 1>with her on Sunday.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it over like a single incident.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they broke up on Saturday and she left Sunday.

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<v Speaker 2>They were only there for a day.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you say they It was his family's vacation, so it.

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<v Speaker 2>Wasn't a way. So she was with the family. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>how many was it just mom and dad?

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<v Speaker 1>Do your siblings or sibling? One sibling and two parents?

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<v Speaker 2>So there's five of them all together. I can't help

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<v Speaker 2>that her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and then four and then the four family members.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Did was it one thing that happened?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't get into the specifics. It wasn't something where

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't in fidelity with you because I found this out.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>It was certainly not like that. It was a shock

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<v Speaker 1>to everyone, including his own family, who offered to fly

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<v Speaker 1>back with her.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh boy, wait, why would they offer to fly back with.

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<v Speaker 1>So everybody but him was going to leave? Essentially, were they.

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<v Speaker 2>Down on him?

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<v Speaker 1>They weren't happy with the timing of it all. You

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<v Speaker 1>could see where that was screwed.

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<v Speaker 4>Up, not only her vacation but their vacation too, because

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<v Speaker 4>it leaves this sort of cloud over it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but you're still with your family. Why would they

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<v Speaker 3>fly back with them?

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<v Speaker 1>Her sounds like they felt really bad for her.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, so he was a dick. I can't answer that.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, he wasn't great, or they'd still be together. Will

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<v Speaker 3>they get back to Was it just a fight or

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<v Speaker 3>they done so.

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<v Speaker 2>I think they're they're done. Can I can I ask this?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I know they've been together years, is that Do

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<v Speaker 3>they have one of those relationships that's on again always?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>No, they've been by each other side for many years.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep. Were they by each other sight on that flight back? Sorry? Sorry? Sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>She so that's quite so she flew from Yellowstone whatever

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<v Speaker 1>airport it's closest to to the northeast. So that's not

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<v Speaker 1>just like heading back from a weekend away.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no.

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<v Speaker 1>Driving distance that's pretty far.

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<v Speaker 3>Could could they have found a way? So I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know how long the vacation was. Could they have found

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<v Speaker 3>a way to stick it through the vacation?

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<v Speaker 2>What is that?

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<v Speaker 1>Why?

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<v Speaker 3>So you're on vacation with Scott in his in his

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<v Speaker 3>mom somewhere, I don't care how far away, and you

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<v Speaker 3>and Scott get in a fight and you're and and

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<v Speaker 3>you're like, I've had it up to here, I'm done.

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<v Speaker 3>Just to kind of get through, you wouldn't just go,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what again, if it was if it was

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<v Speaker 3>just Scott, then you would be like, yeah, I'll leave.

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<v Speaker 3>I've bet a lot of people even in that case

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't leave.

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<v Speaker 1>But with Scott's like, how much money have we already

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<v Speaker 1>spent for this trip?

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<v Speaker 2>Why am I still but.

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<v Speaker 3>With Scott's mom, Scott's gonna get up on Sunday morning

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<v Speaker 3>and be like, Oh, Diane left, we had a fight.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, but you chose to break up with me

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<v Speaker 4>in this moment, and I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a difference to you keep saying they had a fight. No,

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<v Speaker 1>they're they broke done some stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>They break up in front of the parents. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, but this is not You can't just say they

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<v Speaker 1>had a fight and someone left that this is not

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<v Speaker 1>they're not getting back together. Something was said that they're

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<v Speaker 1>not getting back together.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what was said? Yeah, I just I

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<v Speaker 2>can't say it.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't supposed to talk about it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not I'm going to get in big trouble for

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<v Speaker 3>this family still in Wyoming.

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<v Speaker 1>But I imagine there are people hopefully this maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>will be able to present my wife who will not

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk to me later this afternoon. With all

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<v Speaker 1>these other people who have been in silmer situations found

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<v Speaker 1>themselves afterwards, are now thriving, but at some point didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to travel by themselves a long distance after a breakup.

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<v Speaker 3>By the way, traveling back from Ocean City would suck.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, oh no, that's a long distance.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll give you that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this isn't like I was at your house and

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<v Speaker 3>I drove home.

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<v Speaker 2>You left a vacation, But.

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<v Speaker 1>At least you can drive back from us since city.

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<v Speaker 3>Still three and a half hours if you time your

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<v Speaker 3>exit right.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, could you imagine going to the airport?

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<v Speaker 3>What just because you're so electional it just it brought

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<v Speaker 3>you broke up or it all went south.

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<v Speaker 2>You gotta drive to the airport Like that sucks? You

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<v Speaker 2>gotta pack.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh like this to just add one little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>color to the story, and then we do need to

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<v Speaker 1>be done with my story. Like this breakup would have

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<v Speaker 1>been a big deal anywhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So then to add on top of it the travel,

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<v Speaker 1>the vacation, the family, and then the distance back.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm dying to know why on the vacation, Like why

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<v Speaker 4>couldn't you have just done it beforehand?

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<v Speaker 2>That's what her mother wondered too.

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<v Speaker 3>That never even crossed my mind because I just assumed

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<v Speaker 3>something happened in the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, oh yeah, I can't know whoa I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to say it was brewing, but you don't make

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<v Speaker 1>that snap.

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<v Speaker 4>Something happened of such impact that you made that decision

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<v Speaker 4>while you're on vacation with your girlfriend and your family.

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<v Speaker 1>There are two things that would give you total clarity.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't give them to.

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<v Speaker 2>You, Christian. Will you do me a favorite?

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<v Speaker 5>Then?

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<v Speaker 2>But but it was not all Lindsay No. Wait, so

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<v Speaker 2>is it Lindsay's friend or your friend?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to say Lindsay Here I answered your questions.

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<v Speaker 6>What do you say?

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<v Speaker 2>I did? I heard?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you say for talking over?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? You interrupt? You talk over me so many times?

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<v Speaker 2>That is what you miss. Christ Will you find me

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<v Speaker 2>somebody who's had to deal with this? Please?

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't even mean with the family with you too.

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<v Speaker 1>It can just be the two the couple out and about.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, you know the part that sucks, like I

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<v Speaker 3>feel bad for the oh, I'm sorry to give the number.

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<v Speaker 3>Find me somebody who's dealt with this right eight six

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<v Speaker 3>six to Elliott eight six six two three five five

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<v Speaker 3>four six eight You know the part that would suck.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't know what this person's situation is.

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<v Speaker 3>But at some point and it's the woman that left

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<v Speaker 3>the girl whatever you want to call her.

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<v Speaker 2>This was not a mutual breakup.

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<v Speaker 3>I understand that. But the one that flew back was

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<v Speaker 3>the girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it's not. She has no family.

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<v Speaker 2>There, no, no, no, but his but she is a.

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<v Speaker 1>Familifaication that she was a yeah, no, no, no, I get that,

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<v Speaker 1>But follow me here.

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<v Speaker 3>You know the part that sucks, Like the breakup sucks,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's there, and it's in front of his parents,

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<v Speaker 3>and you've been together years and you know him. At

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<v Speaker 3>some point between arriving at the airport, flying and arriving

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<v Speaker 3>back in Maryland, at some point you call your family

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<v Speaker 3>and go, oh, hey, I'm back home.

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<v Speaker 1>Did they live together? They don't live together? And that

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<v Speaker 1>you don't think the family knew before she got back.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>No, but at some time, at some time, you have

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<v Speaker 3>to say that that sucks. Could you imagine having to

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<v Speaker 3>call your family and go like, hey, I'm leaving Wyoming.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I thought you were there with the mcgilla cuddies.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I was, but s went south.

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<v Speaker 4>But going back, at least they don't live together, because

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<v Speaker 4>then that would be a whole nother thing of like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>now I need to pack up all my stuff and

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<v Speaker 4>find a new place to live.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true. Yeah, I mean, listen, none of it's easy.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a relationship coaching, none of it's None of it's easy.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, are we done with my story? I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know yet.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on one side, juicy be in the dog house

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<v Speaker 1>for a whole week?

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<v Speaker 2>The where am I going line for? Hello? Hey morning? Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>who's this?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey?

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<v Speaker 7>This is Josh and DC.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, what's going on? Dude?

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<v Speaker 7>Not much.

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<v Speaker 8>I have a funny similar story. I'd been dating a

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<v Speaker 8>girl for about eighteen months and we were on a

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<v Speaker 8>ski trip in Colorado with my parents and we ended

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<v Speaker 8>up breaking up in the.

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<v Speaker 2>Middle of the trip over what.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>So we were about to start going into college and

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<v Speaker 8>my girlfriend and I at the time, we're not going

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<v Speaker 8>to the same college. And we had a play argument

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<v Speaker 8>that turned serious and she basically said, you know, I

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<v Speaker 8>thought we were going to do this long distance. I

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<v Speaker 8>thought we were going to stay together. And I said,

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<v Speaker 8>can we not do this while we're on the trip, Like,

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<v Speaker 8>let's enjoy the rest of this. We're in Breckenridge, and

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<v Speaker 8>we can figure this out when we get back to Michigan,

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<v Speaker 8>where we were both originally from. And she goes, no,

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<v Speaker 8>now that I know that it's coming, I'd rather get

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<v Speaker 8>it over with. And then it spirals into a huge

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<v Speaker 8>fight and and had to tell my parents the next

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<v Speaker 8>morning and the apologies for the babbling baby. Had to

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<v Speaker 8>tell my parents the next morning, like, Hey, my ex

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<v Speaker 8>and I just broke up, and they were furious with me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you just ruined the trip, Hey did she Now?

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<v Speaker 3>Granted, I understand you guys were younger, so she didn't

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<v Speaker 3>fly back on her own.

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<v Speaker 2>She stayed the rest of the time.

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<v Speaker 8>She stayed the rest the next It was Wednesday, in

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<v Speaker 2>Dude, not great.

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<v Speaker 8>Not great?

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<v Speaker 2>Were your parents? Yes, your parents were furious.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah they were. They were really unhappy. They were like,

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<v Speaker 7>I was you know, it was a learning moment for sure.

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<v Speaker 8>And to your point, Eliot, like was much younger, and

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<v Speaker 7>If if we're going on a trip somewhere.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, or just don't or wait till you get back

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<v Speaker 2>You could try, you could show get down. No, no,

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<v Speaker 3>And I will say this, some of the worst arguments

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<v Speaker 3>Actually it's horrible, horrible, all right, very good, very good,

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, sir, Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>From Hugh. My college girlfriend's family invited me on the

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<v Speaker 1>family vacation to the Jersey Shore. She was being such

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<v Speaker 1>a sea word when I got there and we broke up.

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<v Speaker 1>Two days in. I drove back to Virginia got a

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<v Speaker 1>speeding ticket. Her mom called and apologized me to me

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<v Speaker 2>See, but I like that one. Being able to drive

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean you're getting yourself back. No, but I

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<v Speaker 1>Well remember the offer that was out there for.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, in your case where the parents were going to

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<v Speaker 3>fly back, remember it, but the parents were going to

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<v Speaker 3>fly back to me. That's crazy. I'm not leaving my

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<v Speaker 1>But like Diana said, the vacation is ruined. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 2>Definitely taking an awkward turn. It's definitely taking.

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<v Speaker 1>You're the only person I could see you totally being

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<v Speaker 1>able to compartmentalize what's gone down and just going on

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<v Speaker 1>with your vacation. Even if you were upset with your son.

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<v Speaker 2>Your child, I would stay he.

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<v Speaker 1>Went, your interactions with your kid be like, yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 3>Odd, No, I mean odd a little bit. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>mean yes, it would take you.

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<v Speaker 2>It would.

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<v Speaker 3>You would probably need a couple hours of like getting

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<v Speaker 3>over the uncomfortable ness. But like my older one, they've

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<v Speaker 3>been together forever. She's gone away and vice versa. She's

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<v Speaker 3>gone away with like I wasn't there. But like Jackie

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<v Speaker 3>and the boys and her went, and my kid will

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<v Speaker 3>Outer Banks. But if they got into a fight and

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<v Speaker 3>broke up and my kid came home, I definitely wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>You still have four days in the Outer Banks to

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<v Speaker 4>And one of the family members has been crying a lot,

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<v Speaker 4>so that's fun. I'm just gonna go to the beat.

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<v Speaker 3>Move up to start a happy hour and let's deal.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I think I would. I definitely would have

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<v Speaker 3>volunteered to come back with her. I'll tell you that.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Elliet at the morning, Hi is this me? Yeah? Hi,

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<v Speaker 2>you got that sound in your voice already.

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<v Speaker 5>So it was junior year of college and I paid.

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<v Speaker 5>I paid for me and my boyfriend at the time

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<v Speaker 5>we were together a year to go to Hawaii for

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<v Speaker 5>spring break.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, and.

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<v Speaker 5>My three great aunts and my great uncle were They

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<v Speaker 5>weren't meeting us over there, but they were getting there

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<v Speaker 5>same time, around.

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<v Speaker 9>Three days into the trip. And I got broken up

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<v Speaker 9>with the day after they got there because he got

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<v Speaker 9>sunburnt the first day and just wanted to stay in

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<v Speaker 9>the room and I called him a little B word

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<v Speaker 9>and I was like, well, I'm not staying in the room.

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<v Speaker 5>So I went shopping by myself, I went to the

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<v Speaker 5>beach by myself, and every day he just stayed in

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<v Speaker 5>the room. He wouldn't even come to the pool. So

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<v Speaker 5>he broke up with me the day after my family

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<v Speaker 5>got there, and I just hung out with them until

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<v Speaker 5>we flew home.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait did you two fly home together?

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<v Speaker 3>Yep?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh God, wait a minute.

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<v Speaker 3>So he stayed there for the rest of the time,

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<v Speaker 3>just sitting in the room yep, watching Mcuba March Madness Tournament.

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<v Speaker 2>Where did you stay? Did you also stay.

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<v Speaker 7>In the room.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, we had two beds.

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<v Speaker 5>We slept in separate beds.

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<v Speaker 3>I bet you put a towel on before you came

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<v Speaker 3>out of the bathroom too.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn it.

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<v Speaker 3>The wait so you still flaunted it around in front

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<v Speaker 3>of him, like, Hey, look at the candy you can't eat.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, I'm on vacation. It's not my fault. You're being

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<v Speaker 5>a pussy.

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<v Speaker 1>You only get one spring break? Yolo.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, that's rough you.

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<v Speaker 9>Okay for the trap.

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<v Speaker 1>I know for the flight and.

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<v Speaker 3>Everything now, but now I don't know. Would would you

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<v Speaker 3>have been happier if he just left?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>So maybe it is for your case.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe that is a blessing in disguise that the woman

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<v Speaker 3>was checked out.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean his family, Oh god.

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<v Speaker 9>His family picked us up at the airport.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, did they know? Did they know?

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<v Speaker 10>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Not until we got there.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you get in the car and go And they

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<v Speaker 3>were like, hey, kids, how was the trip?

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<v Speaker 2>And you were like, I don't know. Wanted to ask

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<v Speaker 2>your bitch ass son.

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<v Speaker 9>I should have reacted that way. But we drove back

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<v Speaker 9>to his house and my car.

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<v Speaker 5>Was there because I drove us home from college. So

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<v Speaker 5>I just got in my car and went to my

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<v Speaker 5>parents' house.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, they probably thought that was weird.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, all right, very good, very good, Thank you man,

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<v Speaker 4>sort of an abrupt exit.

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<v Speaker 2>Now wait, what was I asking you?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I started to talk and she picked it up almost seamlessly,

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<v Speaker 1>and it helped me out because I was about to

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<v Speaker 1>say something that I hadn't said yet.

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<v Speaker 2>What's that his family favorite?

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<v Speaker 3>Hear?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait? The the the added cost?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, whatever, the yaps and it wasn't like a wonder.

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<v Speaker 1>That was very nice of them.

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<v Speaker 2>This dude did something wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, their team her. He ruined their family vacation.

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<v Speaker 3>No no, no, no no. I could see where. It's like,

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<v Speaker 3>you've made the vacation unpleasant. But he clearly did something wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>They didn't understand why he waited until they were all.

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<v Speaker 2>So was their only issue the timing. I think they

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<v Speaker 2>really like her too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, I mean yeah, but it sounds I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>offering to pay either. You want to leave, leave, you

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<v Speaker 3>got a credit card, pay it off over a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of months. I maybe team her, but I'm not paying

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<v Speaker 3>because you broke up.

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<v Speaker 1>But she also wanted to leave, not just for her

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<v Speaker 1>own doing, but because she thought it would be better

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<v Speaker 1>for everyone else if she left.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean it's already going to be awkward. It's

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<v Speaker 4>a little less awkward if she's not there.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, But it's also expensive for her tore.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe we'll get reimbursed from the Sun.

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<v Speaker 2>He's not going to pay you.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm never gonna let him hear the end of it.

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<v Speaker 4>I tell you that, Oh, I've deducted from your Christmas

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<v Speaker 4>this year because of the money that I had to

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<v Speaker 4>pay for your girlfriend that you dumped to fly back East.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi Elliott the morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Hey, so got a buddy who flew his girlfriend to Paris,

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<v Speaker 7>and while they were there, he ended up breaking up

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<v Speaker 7>with her in Paris.

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<v Speaker 3>In Paris, did they stay together on the trip?

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<v Speaker 10>No.

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<v Speaker 7>Her mother was there as well, and I guess one

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<v Speaker 7>of her dreams was to get engaged in Paris, and

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<v Speaker 7>so she went out there with all these expectations. He

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<v Speaker 7>was going out there on a work trip and was

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<v Speaker 7>trying to make a work and combine some work in

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<v Speaker 7>vacation together and had done a lot of expectation management,

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<v Speaker 7>and it didn't work. And when she figured out that

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<v Speaker 7>they were not getting engaged on that trip. It did

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<v Speaker 7>not go over well and it just spiraled from there.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>Now that's on her. That's on her, especially if he

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<v Speaker 3>tried to manage it.

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<v Speaker 2>But still that no, I mean.

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<v Speaker 7>These I want to say, these things happened, but it

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<v Speaker 7>was very awkward for him, especially with her mother being

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<v Speaker 7>right there as well, along with work colleagues that he's

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<v Speaker 7>supposed to be meeting for drinks and hanging out with

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<v Speaker 7>a little bit as well when they're not working. So

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<v Speaker 7>it was not a fun trip.

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<v Speaker 3>That sucks. That sucks. Oh that would blow. All right,

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<v Speaker 3>very good, very good, Thank you, sir.

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<v Speaker 1>Chris writes, my wife ended our marriage in Reno that

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to say that's aggress and learned too

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<v Speaker 1>since that day. Don't trust women and it takes an

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<v Speaker 1>hour for an edible to kick in.

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<v Speaker 2>I ate five. Wow, So wait a minute.

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<v Speaker 3>So like she she told him mid vacation, I want

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<v Speaker 3>to divorce clearly, dude, that's that's harsher.

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<v Speaker 2>That's harsher than just to break up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's rough one because at that point you do

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<v Speaker 1>imagine they have property together back home and maybe children.

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<v Speaker 3>The even without kids, I'm not having that conversation on vacation.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm on vacation.

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<v Speaker 1>There are certain This is where I got into a

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<v Speaker 1>word salad thing with my kids because we were telling

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<v Speaker 1>them what happened, and you'll tell them, Lindsey said to

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<v Speaker 1>them something like, uh, learn from this and never do this.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I had to jump in and say, well,

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<v Speaker 1>there there, what if a crime was committed, like.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, you don't stay in the relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>There it comes dad with scenarios. Yeah, I said, if

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<v Speaker 1>there's something certainly physical that happened, oh my god, something

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<v Speaker 1>in their past, you can do this. You can break

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<v Speaker 1>up with someone whenever the can I can?

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<v Speaker 2>I ask this though? Is it?

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<v Speaker 10>No?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 3>No is the Is the girl an old friend from college? No?

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<v Speaker 2>Damn it.

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<v Speaker 5>No.

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<v Speaker 2>I was hoping it was Jess.

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<v Speaker 1>I told you who she was?

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<v Speaker 2>The say again, Ian, didn't hear if I told you

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<v Speaker 2>who she was?

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<v Speaker 3>When when Diane talked all over Oh yes, yeah, oh

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<v Speaker 3>that's right, that's right.

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<v Speaker 2>Not not by name, but the yes, I got it.

447
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<v Speaker 2>I got it. What was that? The connection?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Yelliet, the morning, I'm connecting my fingers. Hello, Hey,

450
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<v Speaker 2>good morning, how are you? I am well? Thank you?

451
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<v Speaker 2>How are you.

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<v Speaker 1>Good?

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<v Speaker 6>Good? I? Uh, my girlfriend broke up with me the

454
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<v Speaker 6>night before we were flying to Alaska to spend a

455
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<v Speaker 6>week with their fans. I showed up at the airport

456
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<v Speaker 6>the next morning ready to go.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait a minute, she broke up with you on let's

458
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<v Speaker 3>just call it Thursday night, and you went to the

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<v Speaker 3>airport on Friday morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Damn right, because I was going skiing. And I got

461
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<v Speaker 6>there and her dad picked me up and she yelled

462
00:22:24.000 --> 00:22:26.519
<v Speaker 6>we broke up, and he said, all right, I'm taking

463
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<v Speaker 6>you skiing.

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<v Speaker 7>With my friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Screw her.

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<v Speaker 6>And I skied with her dad all week. Awkward. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>it was phenomenal, some of the best ski What's that?

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<v Speaker 2>What did she do?

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<v Speaker 6>She went out with her friends and then when she

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<v Speaker 6>went out one night for dinner, Dad goes, well, you

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<v Speaker 6>can go with her. So I went to dinner and

472
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<v Speaker 6>I bought my own dinner.

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<v Speaker 10>But yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 6>Went skiing in Alaska and I didn't have to pay

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<v Speaker 6>a damn dime. He bought my flight, by all my passes.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything I will say. They say, hey, listen, God bless you.

477
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<v Speaker 2>That's balls. I wouldn't have the balls to show up now. No,

478
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<v Speaker 2>and even if you got the favor of it being ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>Of time, but even if it's a hobby of yours

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<v Speaker 1>or an activity you enjoy.

481
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<v Speaker 2>Even admitted it was awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Line eight, did you say hi elliot in the morning? Hey?

484
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<v Speaker 2>Is this name? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>Hi?

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<v Speaker 2>Who's this? Hey?

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<v Speaker 10>This is Casey from Frederick.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, ma'am.

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<v Speaker 10>So when I was a senior in college, my boyfriend

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<v Speaker 10>at the time and I went down to Fort Myers

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<v Speaker 10>to visit my grandparents for spring break. Cool and when

492
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<v Speaker 10>we were there, I got a message from one of

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<v Speaker 10>our mutual friends with like text evidence that he was

494
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<v Speaker 10>he cheated on.

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<v Speaker 3>Me and you were on and you guys were in

496
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<v Speaker 3>Fort Myers when you found out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep.

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<v Speaker 10>So I found out like a Monday night. We had

499
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<v Speaker 10>just gotten there and my grandpa told him, you know,

500
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<v Speaker 10>I'll let you sleep on the couch, but you're out

501
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<v Speaker 10>tomorrow morning. And so he drove home from.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a long dry So what he cheated the Okay,

503
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<v Speaker 3>this is when I was telling my kids, you'll learned something.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, and you there move forward Accordingly.

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<v Speaker 10>We literally just got there that day because we drove,

506
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<v Speaker 10>we were we went to old this right. We literally

507
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<v Speaker 10>just got there that Monday and I found out that night.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I can I ask a question.

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<v Speaker 1>Glad, Grandpa let him stay on the couch with Diane.

510
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<v Speaker 3>But let's let's let's let's rewind for a second.

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<v Speaker 2>Did the person did did you say hold on?

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<v Speaker 3>She said, okay, no, I thought you said hold on

513
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<v Speaker 3>like you were paying a toll to get an easy

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<v Speaker 3>pass the no. No, did the person who sent you

515
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<v Speaker 3>this whatever evidence it was, did they know that.

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<v Speaker 2>The two of you were in Fort Myers together?

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<v Speaker 10>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, you got to wait.

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<v Speaker 10>We were like, we were on we were like so

520
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<v Speaker 10>we were all in the marching band together at Old

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<v Speaker 10>Miss and she was in our section, and so she

522
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<v Speaker 10>knew that we were together. She knew we were going

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<v Speaker 10>to Fort Myers, and she sent that evidence.

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<v Speaker 1>What was the evidence? I have to say it was

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<v Speaker 1>text messages.

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<v Speaker 10>Right, Yeah, it was text messages of him sending it

527
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<v Speaker 10>to her because she was the other She was the

528
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<v Speaker 10>other woman, right, saying like, you know, I'm planning on

529
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<v Speaker 10>leaving her, like I want to be with you all

530
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<v Speaker 10>this stuff. And I confronted him and he's like, yes too,

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<v Speaker 10>and I said, than get out.

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<v Speaker 2>But was there anything physical?

533
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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean, that's just like like maybe

535
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<v Speaker 2>he was just in a like in a bad spot.

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<v Speaker 3>At the time, Elliott, See, I'm trying to help, You're

537
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<v Speaker 3>not you're normalizing.

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<v Speaker 10>Not that not that I'm aware of. But I also

539
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<v Speaker 10>found it strange that they were Facebook official within two days.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, all.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, all right, so there's your answer answer, all right, Harry.

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<v Speaker 10>The Harry on top of everything is when his mom

543
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<v Speaker 10>found out, his mom calls me and booked my ticket

544
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<v Speaker 10>home for me.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, what is that? Is that?

546
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<v Speaker 7>Like?

547
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<v Speaker 2>Is that is that in right now?

548
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<v Speaker 3>Like?

549
00:26:31.400 --> 00:26:33.279
<v Speaker 2>No, no, no where else did that happen?

550
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<v Speaker 1>The parents jumping up?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't remember the no, no, but like, is that? Well?

552
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<v Speaker 2>Is that? But is that?

553
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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>Would that be counted on where you're supposed to pay

555
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<v Speaker 3>for them to get home?

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<v Speaker 1>Mandatory? It's a nice thing to do. It sounded like

557
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<v Speaker 1>it was the right thing to do.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it is a kind gesture. But also where

559
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<v Speaker 2>we're staying.

560
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<v Speaker 3>It's a beautiful vacation home, but there's not a money

561
00:26:55.039 --> 00:26:57.720
<v Speaker 3>tree in the backyard. I spend all that money having

562
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<v Speaker 3>you here. Now I got to spend more money getting

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<v Speaker 3>you out of here.

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<v Speaker 10>Well, I was just grateful that she was what her.

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<v Speaker 2>Son did was yes, No, that is nice. That is nice.

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<v Speaker 2>That is nice.

567
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<v Speaker 3>All right, very good, very good. Thank you, ma'am.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you. From Instagram. I dated someone in the Philippines.

569
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<v Speaker 1>We broke while up while I still had a couple

570
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<v Speaker 1>of weeks left before my flight home. I stayed with

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<v Speaker 1>the family for those awkward couple of weeks. Her parents

572
00:27:27.200 --> 00:27:30.119
<v Speaker 1>felt so sorry for me being stuck there.

573
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<v Speaker 3>I couldn't I couldn't do that. That's not just a

574
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<v Speaker 3>week that I didn't do that. I couldn't stay for weeks.

575
00:27:39.319 --> 00:27:42.039
<v Speaker 3>But you got to get at it to leave financially,

576
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<v Speaker 3>run up your credit card

577
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<v Speaker 1>Or count on the trend of the family.