Speaker 1: Someone I know was on vacation with a boyfriend and
Speaker 1: the boyfriend broke up with her on vacation.
Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, hold on, I'm writing boyfriend girlfriend.
Speaker 1: I told you there will be a small Q and
Speaker 1: a right limited how on vacation? They've been dating for
Speaker 1: many years.
Speaker 2: Oh, by the way, that answered one of my questions. Years.
Speaker 1: They were in Yellowstone, which is Montana or Wyoming, Wyoming.
Speaker 2: It's same part of the country. And over the weekend.
Speaker 3: That's the part. This weekend, yes, like two days ago.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like Sunday. Sorry, no, it's not funny.
Speaker 1: He broke up with her and she decided to fly
Speaker 1: home back home without him from mont or from Wyoming
Speaker 1: across the US, because she lives on the East coast.
Speaker 2: Now, do you have any quick questions? I do?
Speaker 1: How many days into the vacation.
Speaker 2: Right, Diane, I wasn't even there.
Speaker 1: I believe they arrived on Friday and he broke up
Speaker 1: with her on Sunday.
Speaker 2: Was it over like a single incident.
Speaker 1: I think they broke up on Saturday and she left Sunday.
Speaker 2: They were only there for a day.
Speaker 1: Well, you say they It was his family's vacation, so it.
Speaker 2: Wasn't a way. So she was with the family. Yes,
Speaker 2: how many was it just mom and dad?
Speaker 1: Do your siblings or sibling? One sibling and two parents?
Speaker 2: So there's five of them all together. I can't help
Speaker 2: that her.
Speaker 1: Yes, and then four and then the four family members.
Speaker 2: Yeah? Did was it one thing that happened?
Speaker 1: I can't get into the specifics. It wasn't something where
Speaker 1: it wasn't in fidelity with you because I found this out.
Speaker 2: It wasn't.
Speaker 1: It was certainly not like that. It was a shock
Speaker 1: to everyone, including his own family, who offered to fly
Speaker 1: back with her.
Speaker 2: Oh boy, wait, why would they offer to fly back with.
Speaker 1: So everybody but him was going to leave? Essentially, were they.
Speaker 2: Down on him?
Speaker 1: They weren't happy with the timing of it all. You
Speaker 1: could see where that was screwed.
Speaker 4: Up, not only her vacation but their vacation too, because
Speaker 4: it leaves this sort of cloud over it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you're still with your family. Why would they
Speaker 3: fly back with them?
Speaker 1: Her sounds like they felt really bad for her.
Speaker 2: Yes, so he was a dick. I can't answer that.
Speaker 3: Well, he wasn't great, or they'd still be together. Will
Speaker 3: they get back to Was it just a fight or
Speaker 3: they done so.
Speaker 2: I think they're they're done. Can I can I ask this?
Speaker 3: Like, I know they've been together years, is that Do
Speaker 3: they have one of those relationships that's on again always?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: No, they've been by each other side for many years.
Speaker 2: Yep. Were they by each other sight on that flight back? Sorry? Sorry? Sorry?
Speaker 1: She so that's quite so she flew from Yellowstone whatever
Speaker 1: airport it's closest to to the northeast. So that's not
Speaker 1: just like heading back from a weekend away.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no.
Speaker 1: Driving distance that's pretty far.
Speaker 3: Could could they have found a way? So I don't
Speaker 3: know how long the vacation was. Could they have found
Speaker 3: a way to stick it through the vacation?
Speaker 2: What is that?
Speaker 1: Why?
Speaker 3: So you're on vacation with Scott in his in his
Speaker 3: mom somewhere, I don't care how far away, and you
Speaker 3: and Scott get in a fight and you're and and
Speaker 3: you're like, I've had it up to here, I'm done.
Speaker 3: Just to kind of get through, you wouldn't just go,
Speaker 3: you know what again, if it was if it was
Speaker 3: just Scott, then you would be like, yeah, I'll leave.
Speaker 3: I've bet a lot of people even in that case
Speaker 3: wouldn't leave.
Speaker 1: But with Scott's like, how much money have we already
Speaker 1: spent for this trip?
Speaker 2: Why am I still but.
Speaker 3: With Scott's mom, Scott's gonna get up on Sunday morning
Speaker 3: and be like, Oh, Diane left, we had a fight.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, but you chose to break up with me
Speaker 4: in this moment, and I'm.
Speaker 1: There's a difference to you keep saying they had a fight. No,
Speaker 1: they're they broke done some stuff.
Speaker 2: They break up in front of the parents. I don't
Speaker 2: know that.
Speaker 1: Oh, but this is not You can't just say they
Speaker 1: had a fight and someone left that this is not
Speaker 1: they're not getting back together. Something was said that they're
Speaker 1: not getting back together.
Speaker 2: Do you know what was said? Yeah, I just I
Speaker 2: can't say it.
Speaker 1: I wasn't supposed to talk about it.
Speaker 3: It's not I'm going to get in big trouble for
Speaker 3: this family still in Wyoming.
Speaker 1: But I imagine there are people hopefully this maybe I
Speaker 1: will be able to present my wife who will not
Speaker 1: want to talk to me later this afternoon. With all
Speaker 1: these other people who have been in silmer situations found
Speaker 1: themselves afterwards, are now thriving, but at some point didn't
Speaker 1: have to travel by themselves a long distance after a breakup.
Speaker 3: By the way, traveling back from Ocean City would suck.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, oh no, that's a long distance.
Speaker 2: I'll give you that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, this isn't like I was at your house and
Speaker 3: I drove home.
Speaker 2: You left a vacation, But.
Speaker 1: At least you can drive back from us since city.
Speaker 3: Still three and a half hours if you time your
Speaker 3: exit right.
Speaker 2: All right, could you imagine going to the airport?
Speaker 3: What just because you're so electional it just it brought
Speaker 3: you broke up or it all went south.
Speaker 2: You gotta drive to the airport Like that sucks? You
Speaker 2: gotta pack.
Speaker 1: Oh like this to just add one little bit of
Speaker 1: color to the story, and then we do need to
Speaker 1: be done with my story. Like this breakup would have
Speaker 1: been a big deal anywhere.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So then to add on top of it the travel,
Speaker 1: the vacation, the family, and then the distance back.
Speaker 4: I'm dying to know why on the vacation, Like why
Speaker 4: couldn't you have just done it beforehand?
Speaker 2: That's what her mother wondered too.
Speaker 3: That never even crossed my mind because I just assumed
Speaker 3: something happened in the moment.
Speaker 1: No, no, oh yeah, I can't know whoa I don't
Speaker 1: want to say it was brewing, but you don't make
Speaker 1: that snap.
Speaker 4: Something happened of such impact that you made that decision
Speaker 4: while you're on vacation with your girlfriend and your family.
Speaker 1: There are two things that would give you total clarity.
Speaker 1: I can't give them to.
Speaker 2: You, Christian. Will you do me a favorite?
Speaker 5: Then?
Speaker 2: But but it was not all Lindsay No. Wait, so
Speaker 2: is it Lindsay's friend or your friend?
Speaker 1: I don't want to say Lindsay Here I answered your questions.
Speaker 6: What do you say?
Speaker 2: I did? I heard?
Speaker 1: What do you say for talking over?
Speaker 2: Yeah? You interrupt? You talk over me so many times?
Speaker 2: That is what you miss. Christ Will you find me
Speaker 2: somebody who's had to deal with this? Please?
Speaker 1: And I don't even mean with the family with you too.
Speaker 1: It can just be the two the couple out and about.
Speaker 3: You know, you know the part that sucks, like I
Speaker 3: feel bad for the oh, I'm sorry to give the number.
Speaker 3: Find me somebody who's dealt with this right eight six
Speaker 3: six to Elliott eight six six two three five five
Speaker 3: four six eight You know the part that would suck.
Speaker 2: And I don't know what this person's situation is.
Speaker 3: But at some point and it's the woman that left
Speaker 3: the girl whatever you want to call her.
Speaker 2: This was not a mutual breakup.
Speaker 3: I understand that. But the one that flew back was
Speaker 3: the girl.
Speaker 1: Yeah it's not. She has no family.
Speaker 2: There, no, no, no, but his but she is a.
Speaker 1: Familifaication that she was a yeah, no, no, no, I get that,
Speaker 1: But follow me here.
Speaker 3: You know the part that sucks, Like the breakup sucks,
Speaker 3: and it's there, and it's in front of his parents,
Speaker 3: and you've been together years and you know him. At
Speaker 3: some point between arriving at the airport, flying and arriving
Speaker 3: back in Maryland, at some point you call your family
Speaker 3: and go, oh, hey, I'm back home.
Speaker 1: Did they live together? They don't live together? And that
Speaker 1: you don't think the family knew before she got back.
Speaker 2: Well that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: No, but at some time, at some time, you have
Speaker 3: to say that that sucks. Could you imagine having to
Speaker 3: call your family and go like, hey, I'm leaving Wyoming.
Speaker 2: Oh I thought you were there with the mcgilla cuddies.
Speaker 2: Oh I was, but s went south.
Speaker 4: But going back, at least they don't live together, because
Speaker 4: then that would be a whole nother thing of like, Okay,
Speaker 4: now I need to pack up all my stuff and
Speaker 4: find a new place to live.
Speaker 2: That's true. Yeah, I mean, listen, none of it's easy.
Speaker 1: There's a relationship coaching, none of it's None of it's easy.
Speaker 2: All right, are we done with my story? I don't
Speaker 2: know yet.
Speaker 1: Hold on one side, juicy be in the dog house
Speaker 1: for a whole week?
Speaker 2: The where am I going line for? Hello? Hey morning? Hey,
Speaker 2: who's this?
Speaker 3: Hey?
Speaker 7: This is Josh and DC.
Speaker 2: Hey, what's going on? Dude?
Speaker 7: Not much.
Speaker 8: I have a funny similar story. I'd been dating a
Speaker 8: girl for about eighteen months and we were on a
Speaker 8: ski trip in Colorado with my parents and we ended
Speaker 8: up breaking up in the.
Speaker 2: Middle of the trip over what.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 8: So we were about to start going into college and
Speaker 8: my girlfriend and I at the time, we're not going
Speaker 8: to the same college. And we had a play argument
Speaker 8: that turned serious and she basically said, you know, I
Speaker 8: thought we were going to do this long distance. I
Speaker 8: thought we were going to stay together. And I said,
Speaker 8: can we not do this while we're on the trip, Like,
Speaker 8: let's enjoy the rest of this. We're in Breckenridge, and
Speaker 8: we can figure this out when we get back to Michigan,
Speaker 8: where we were both originally from. And she goes, no,
Speaker 8: now that I know that it's coming, I'd rather get
Speaker 8: it over with. And then it spirals into a huge
Speaker 8: fight and and had to tell my parents the next
Speaker 8: morning and the apologies for the babbling baby. Had to
Speaker 8: tell my parents the next morning, like, Hey, my ex
Speaker 8: and I just broke up, and they were furious with me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you just ruined the trip, Hey did she Now?
Speaker 3: Granted, I understand you guys were younger, so she didn't
Speaker 3: fly back on her own.
Speaker 2: She stayed the rest of the time.
Speaker 8: She stayed the rest the next It was Wednesday, in
Speaker 8: the middle of a Saturday, a Saturday trip time.
Speaker 2: Dude, not great.
Speaker 8: Not great?
Speaker 2: Were your parents? Yes, your parents were furious.
Speaker 8: Yeah they were. They were really unhappy. They were like,
Speaker 8: you could have ruined our vacation, and you know, they
Speaker 8: liked her a lot. And yeah, it was thankfully, like
Speaker 8: we did escape relatively unscathed. There were definitely some awkward
Speaker 8: moments on the ski lift, but.
Speaker 7: I was you know, it was a learning moment for sure.
Speaker 8: And to your point, Eliot, like was much younger, and
Speaker 8: now I know, like, you know, make sure we're in
Speaker 8: an ironcloud relationship.
Speaker 7: If if we're going on a trip somewhere.
Speaker 3: Yeah, or just don't or wait till you get back
Speaker 3: to break things off.
Speaker 2: You could try, you could show get down. No, no,
Speaker 2: that's on her.
Speaker 3: And I will say this, some of the worst arguments
Speaker 3: are the play arguments that turned real real Oh oh god.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was in one of those not too long ago.
Speaker 3: Actually it's horrible, horrible, all right, very good, very good,
Speaker 3: Thank you, sir, Thank you.
Speaker 1: From Hugh. My college girlfriend's family invited me on the
Speaker 1: family vacation to the Jersey Shore. She was being such
Speaker 1: a sea word when I got there and we broke up.
Speaker 1: Two days in. I drove back to Virginia got a
Speaker 1: speeding ticket. Her mom called and apologized me to me
Speaker 1: for her demon's actions.
Speaker 2: See, but I like that one. Being able to drive
Speaker 2: yourself back.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean you're getting yourself back. No, but I
Speaker 3: like that the parents called.
Speaker 1: Well remember the offer that was out there for.
Speaker 3: Yes, in your case where the parents were going to
Speaker 3: fly back, remember it, but the parents were going to
Speaker 3: fly back to me. That's crazy. I'm not leaving my
Speaker 3: vacation to fly back with you.
Speaker 1: But like Diana said, the vacation is ruined. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: a cloud over it for everybody.
Speaker 2: Definitely taking an awkward turn. It's definitely taking.
Speaker 1: You're the only person I could see you totally being
Speaker 1: able to compartmentalize what's gone down and just going on
Speaker 1: with your vacation. Even if you were upset with your son.
Speaker 2: Your child, I would stay he.
Speaker 1: Went, your interactions with your kid be like, yeah, totally.
Speaker 3: Odd, No, I mean odd a little bit. Yeah, I
Speaker 3: mean yes, it would take you.
Speaker 2: It would.
Speaker 3: You would probably need a couple hours of like getting
Speaker 3: over the uncomfortable ness. But like my older one, they've
Speaker 3: been together forever. She's gone away and vice versa. She's
Speaker 3: gone away with like I wasn't there. But like Jackie
Speaker 3: and the boys and her went, and my kid will
Speaker 3: go to her family's like summer trip to like the
Speaker 3: Outer Banks. But if they got into a fight and
Speaker 3: broke up and my kid came home, I definitely wouldn't
Speaker 3: expect their family to come home.
Speaker 2: You still have four days in the Outer Banks to
Speaker 2: have fun.
Speaker 4: And one of the family members has been crying a lot,
Speaker 4: so that's fun. I'm just gonna go to the beat.
Speaker 3: Move up to start a happy hour and let's deal.
Speaker 3: But yeah, I think I would. I definitely would have
Speaker 3: volunteered to come back with her. I'll tell you that.
Speaker 2: Hi, Elliet at the morning, Hi is this me? Yeah? Hi,
Speaker 2: you got that sound in your voice already.
Speaker 5: So it was junior year of college and I paid.
Speaker 5: I paid for me and my boyfriend at the time
Speaker 5: we were together a year to go to Hawaii for
Speaker 5: spring break.
Speaker 2: Wow, and.
Speaker 5: My three great aunts and my great uncle were They
Speaker 5: weren't meeting us over there, but they were getting there
Speaker 5: same time, around.
Speaker 9: Three days into the trip. And I got broken up
Speaker 9: with the day after they got there because he got
Speaker 9: sunburnt the first day and just wanted to stay in
Speaker 9: the room and I called him a little B word
Speaker 9: and I was like, well, I'm not staying in the room.
Speaker 5: So I went shopping by myself, I went to the
Speaker 5: beach by myself, and every day he just stayed in
Speaker 5: the room. He wouldn't even come to the pool. So
Speaker 5: he broke up with me the day after my family
Speaker 5: got there, and I just hung out with them until
Speaker 5: we flew home.
Speaker 2: Wait did you two fly home together?
Speaker 3: Yep?
Speaker 2: Oh God, wait a minute.
Speaker 3: So he stayed there for the rest of the time,
Speaker 3: just sitting in the room yep, watching Mcuba March Madness Tournament.
Speaker 2: Where did you stay? Did you also stay.
Speaker 7: In the room.
Speaker 9: Yeah, we had two beds.
Speaker 5: We slept in separate beds.
Speaker 3: I bet you put a towel on before you came
Speaker 3: out of the bathroom too.
Speaker 2: Damn it.
Speaker 3: The wait so you still flaunted it around in front
Speaker 3: of him, like, Hey, look at the candy you can't eat.
Speaker 5: Hey, I'm on vacation. It's not my fault. You're being
Speaker 5: a pussy.
Speaker 1: You only get one spring break? Yolo.
Speaker 2: Wow, that's rough you.
Speaker 9: Okay for the trap.
Speaker 1: I know for the flight and.
Speaker 3: Everything now, but now I don't know. Would would you
Speaker 3: have been happier if he just left?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: So maybe it is for your case.
Speaker 3: Maybe that is a blessing in disguise that the woman
Speaker 3: was checked out.
Speaker 1: I mean his family, Oh god.
Speaker 9: His family picked us up at the airport.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, did they know? Did they know?
Speaker 10: No?
Speaker 2: Not until we got there.
Speaker 3: Did you get in the car and go And they
Speaker 3: were like, hey, kids, how was the trip?
Speaker 2: And you were like, I don't know. Wanted to ask
Speaker 2: your bitch ass son.
Speaker 9: I should have reacted that way. But we drove back
Speaker 9: to his house and my car.
Speaker 5: Was there because I drove us home from college. So
Speaker 5: I just got in my car and went to my
Speaker 5: parents' house.
Speaker 2: Oh, they probably thought that was weird.
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, very good, very good, Thank you man,
Speaker 4: sort of an abrupt exit.
Speaker 2: Now wait, what was I asking you?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 1: I started to talk and she picked it up almost seamlessly,
Speaker 1: and it helped me out because I was about to
Speaker 1: say something that I hadn't said yet.
Speaker 2: What's that his family favorite?
Speaker 3: Hear?
Speaker 1: Wow?
Speaker 2: Wait? The the the added cost?
Speaker 1: Yeah, whatever, the yaps and it wasn't like a wonder.
Speaker 1: That was very nice of them.
Speaker 2: This dude did something wrong.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, their team her. He ruined their family vacation.
Speaker 3: No no, no, no no. I could see where. It's like,
Speaker 3: you've made the vacation unpleasant. But he clearly did something wrong.
Speaker 1: They didn't understand why he waited until they were all.
Speaker 2: So was their only issue the timing. I think they
Speaker 2: really like her too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I mean yeah, but it sounds I'm not
Speaker 3: offering to pay either. You want to leave, leave, you
Speaker 3: got a credit card, pay it off over a couple
Speaker 3: of months. I maybe team her, but I'm not paying
Speaker 3: because you broke up.
Speaker 1: But she also wanted to leave, not just for her
Speaker 1: own doing, but because she thought it would be better
Speaker 1: for everyone else if she left.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's already going to be awkward. It's
Speaker 4: a little less awkward if she's not there.
Speaker 2: Okay, But it's also expensive for her tore.
Speaker 1: Maybe we'll get reimbursed from the Sun.
Speaker 2: He's not going to pay you.
Speaker 4: I'm never gonna let him hear the end of it.
Speaker 4: I tell you that, Oh, I've deducted from your Christmas
Speaker 4: this year because of the money that I had to
Speaker 4: pay for your girlfriend that you dumped to fly back East.
Speaker 2: Hi Elliott the morning.
Speaker 7: Hey, so got a buddy who flew his girlfriend to Paris,
Speaker 7: and while they were there, he ended up breaking up
Speaker 7: with her in Paris.
Speaker 3: In Paris, did they stay together on the trip?
Speaker 10: No.
Speaker 7: Her mother was there as well, and I guess one
Speaker 7: of her dreams was to get engaged in Paris, and
Speaker 7: so she went out there with all these expectations. He
Speaker 7: was going out there on a work trip and was
Speaker 7: trying to make a work and combine some work in
Speaker 7: vacation together and had done a lot of expectation management,
Speaker 7: and it didn't work. And when she figured out that
Speaker 7: they were not getting engaged on that trip. It did
Speaker 7: not go over well and it just spiraled from there.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 3: Now that's on her. That's on her, especially if he
Speaker 3: tried to manage it.
Speaker 2: But still that no, I mean.
Speaker 7: These I want to say, these things happened, but it
Speaker 7: was very awkward for him, especially with her mother being
Speaker 7: right there as well, along with work colleagues that he's
Speaker 7: supposed to be meeting for drinks and hanging out with
Speaker 7: a little bit as well when they're not working. So
Speaker 7: it was not a fun trip.
Speaker 3: That sucks. That sucks. Oh that would blow. All right,
Speaker 3: very good, very good, Thank you, sir.
Speaker 1: Chris writes, my wife ended our marriage in Reno that
Speaker 1: I was going to say that's aggress and learned too
Speaker 1: since that day. Don't trust women and it takes an
Speaker 1: hour for an edible to kick in.
Speaker 2: I ate five. Wow, So wait a minute.
Speaker 3: So like she she told him mid vacation, I want
Speaker 3: to divorce clearly, dude, that's that's harsher.
Speaker 2: That's harsher than just to break up.
Speaker 1: Yes, it's rough one because at that point you do
Speaker 1: imagine they have property together back home and maybe children.
Speaker 3: The even without kids, I'm not having that conversation on vacation.
Speaker 2: Like I'm on vacation.
Speaker 1: There are certain This is where I got into a
Speaker 1: word salad thing with my kids because we were telling
Speaker 1: them what happened, and you'll tell them, Lindsey said to
Speaker 1: them something like, uh, learn from this and never do this.
Speaker 1: And then I had to jump in and say, well,
Speaker 1: there there, what if a crime was committed, like.
Speaker 3: I said, you don't stay in the relationship.
Speaker 1: There it comes dad with scenarios. Yeah, I said, if
Speaker 1: there's something certainly physical that happened, oh my god, something
Speaker 1: in their past, you can do this. You can break
Speaker 1: up with someone whenever the can I can?
Speaker 2: I ask this though? Is it?
Speaker 10: No?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 3: No is the Is the girl an old friend from college? No?
Speaker 2: Damn it.
Speaker 5: No.
Speaker 2: I was hoping it was Jess.
Speaker 1: I told you who she was?
Speaker 2: The say again, Ian, didn't hear if I told you
Speaker 2: who she was?
Speaker 3: When when Diane talked all over Oh yes, yeah, oh
Speaker 3: that's right, that's right.
Speaker 2: Not not by name, but the yes, I got it.
Speaker 2: I got it. What was that? The connection?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 2: Hi, Yelliet, the morning, I'm connecting my fingers. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 2: good morning, how are you? I am well? Thank you?
Speaker 2: How are you.
Speaker 1: Good?
Speaker 6: Good? I? Uh, my girlfriend broke up with me the
Speaker 6: night before we were flying to Alaska to spend a
Speaker 6: week with their fans. I showed up at the airport
Speaker 6: the next morning ready to go.
Speaker 3: Wait a minute, she broke up with you on let's
Speaker 3: just call it Thursday night, and you went to the
Speaker 3: airport on Friday morning.
Speaker 6: Damn right, because I was going skiing. And I got
Speaker 6: there and her dad picked me up and she yelled
Speaker 6: we broke up, and he said, all right, I'm taking
Speaker 6: you skiing.
Speaker 7: With my friends.
Speaker 1: Screw her.
Speaker 6: And I skied with her dad all week. Awkward. Yeah,
Speaker 6: it was phenomenal, some of the best ski What's that?
Speaker 2: What did she do?
Speaker 6: She went out with her friends and then when she
Speaker 6: went out one night for dinner, Dad goes, well, you
Speaker 6: can go with her. So I went to dinner and
Speaker 6: I bought my own dinner.
Speaker 10: But yeah, I.
Speaker 6: Went skiing in Alaska and I didn't have to pay
Speaker 6: a damn dime. He bought my flight, by all my passes.
Speaker 2: Everything I will say. They say, hey, listen, God bless you.
Speaker 2: That's balls. I wouldn't have the balls to show up now. No,
Speaker 2: and even if you got the favor of it being ahead.
Speaker 1: Of time, but even if it's a hobby of yours
Speaker 1: or an activity you enjoy.
Speaker 2: Even admitted it was awkward.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Line eight, did you say hi elliot in the morning? Hey?
Speaker 2: Is this name? Yeah?
Speaker 7: Hi?
Speaker 2: Who's this? Hey?
Speaker 10: This is Casey from Frederick.
Speaker 2: Yes, ma'am.
Speaker 10: So when I was a senior in college, my boyfriend
Speaker 10: at the time and I went down to Fort Myers
Speaker 10: to visit my grandparents for spring break. Cool and when
Speaker 10: we were there, I got a message from one of
Speaker 10: our mutual friends with like text evidence that he was
Speaker 10: he cheated on.
Speaker 3: Me and you were on and you guys were in
Speaker 3: Fort Myers when you found out.
Speaker 2: Yep.
Speaker 10: So I found out like a Monday night. We had
Speaker 10: just gotten there and my grandpa told him, you know,
Speaker 10: I'll let you sleep on the couch, but you're out
Speaker 10: tomorrow morning. And so he drove home from.
Speaker 3: That's a long dry So what he cheated the Okay,
Speaker 3: this is when I was telling my kids, you'll learned something.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, and you there move forward Accordingly.
Speaker 10: We literally just got there that day because we drove,
Speaker 10: we were we went to old this right. We literally
Speaker 10: just got there that Monday and I found out that night.
Speaker 2: Can I can I ask a question.
Speaker 1: Glad, Grandpa let him stay on the couch with Diane.
Speaker 3: But let's let's let's let's rewind for a second.
Speaker 2: Did the person did did you say hold on?
Speaker 3: She said, okay, no, I thought you said hold on
Speaker 3: like you were paying a toll to get an easy
Speaker 3: pass the no. No, did the person who sent you
Speaker 3: this whatever evidence it was, did they know that.
Speaker 2: The two of you were in Fort Myers together?
Speaker 10: Oh?
Speaker 2: Yes, you got to wait.
Speaker 10: We were like, we were on we were like so
Speaker 10: we were all in the marching band together at Old
Speaker 10: Miss and she was in our section, and so she
Speaker 10: knew that we were together. She knew we were going
Speaker 10: to Fort Myers, and she sent that evidence.
Speaker 1: What was the evidence? I have to say it was
Speaker 1: text messages.
Speaker 10: Right, Yeah, it was text messages of him sending it
Speaker 10: to her because she was the other She was the
Speaker 10: other woman, right, saying like, you know, I'm planning on
Speaker 10: leaving her, like I want to be with you all
Speaker 10: this stuff. And I confronted him and he's like, yes too,
Speaker 10: and I said, than get out.
Speaker 2: But was there anything physical?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, that's just like like maybe
Speaker 2: he was just in a like in a bad spot.
Speaker 3: At the time, Elliott, See, I'm trying to help, You're
Speaker 3: not you're normalizing.
Speaker 10: Not that not that I'm aware of. But I also
Speaker 10: found it strange that they were Facebook official within two days.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, all.
Speaker 3: Right, all right, so there's your answer answer, all right, Harry.
Speaker 10: The Harry on top of everything is when his mom
Speaker 10: found out, his mom calls me and booked my ticket
Speaker 10: home for me.
Speaker 2: You know, what is that? Is that?
Speaker 7: Like?
Speaker 2: Is that is that in right now?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 2: No, no, no where else did that happen?
Speaker 1: The parents jumping up?
Speaker 2: I don't remember the no, no, but like, is that? Well?
Speaker 2: Is that? But is that?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 3: Would that be counted on where you're supposed to pay
Speaker 3: for them to get home?
Speaker 1: Mandatory? It's a nice thing to do. It sounded like
Speaker 1: it was the right thing to do.
Speaker 2: I mean, it is a kind gesture. But also where
Speaker 2: we're staying.
Speaker 3: It's a beautiful vacation home, but there's not a money
Speaker 3: tree in the backyard. I spend all that money having
Speaker 3: you here. Now I got to spend more money getting
Speaker 3: you out of here.
Speaker 10: Well, I was just grateful that she was what her.
Speaker 2: Son did was yes, No, that is nice. That is nice.
Speaker 2: That is nice.
Speaker 3: All right, very good, very good. Thank you, ma'am.
Speaker 2: Thank you. From Instagram. I dated someone in the Philippines.
Speaker 1: We broke while up while I still had a couple
Speaker 1: of weeks left before my flight home. I stayed with
Speaker 1: the family for those awkward couple of weeks. Her parents
Speaker 1: felt so sorry for me being stuck there.
Speaker 3: I couldn't I couldn't do that. That's not just a
Speaker 3: week that I didn't do that. I couldn't stay for weeks.
Speaker 3: But you got to get at it to leave financially,
Speaker 3: run up your credit card
Speaker 1: Or count on the trend of the family.