Speaker 1: That's enough in my past to be ashamed of some
Speaker 1: decisions I wish I hadn't made.
Speaker 2: Some stuff.
Speaker 1: I wish I could go back and fix.
Speaker 2: Some things.
Speaker 1: I wish I could unsay.
Speaker 2: Some words I wish I could put back in my mouth.
Speaker 1: Some actions I wish I had never taken.
Speaker 2: But they're end my path and I'm not.
Speaker 3: Gonna let you hold up my pasts as a mirror
Speaker 3: when God wants me to use it as a window.
Speaker 3: When you're in that darkness, you want to sit there
Speaker 3: and wait for the light to come, but you can't wait.
Speaker 3: The only way out is to step forward, to face
Speaker 3: your fist, to.
Speaker 1: Become your own life.
Speaker 2: There's gonna be a lot.
Speaker 1: Of times y'all about to fail. We are all a
Speaker 1: work in progress. But in that moment, I want you
Speaker 1: to remember the power of you. What you have and
Speaker 1: who you are is enough.
Speaker 3: Live like a warrior, and warrior is always in fight mode.
Speaker 2: Because this thing called life it's challenging. You got to
Speaker 2: fight the piece of you. Got to fight into.
Speaker 3: Their way to toxic negative energy draining people.
Speaker 1: You've got to fight to put all your.
Speaker 3: Efforts and energy into things that's productive and purposeful. You
Speaker 3: can train yourself.
Speaker 2: You can condition yourself.
Speaker 3: That this is my moment, this is my time, this
Speaker 3: is my super Bowl. There will be no commercial breaks.
Speaker 2: This is my style. So it's really about you being
Speaker 2: in the state where you execute. Knowledge is not power,
Speaker 2: it's total bs. Knowledge is potential power. Execution Trump's knowledge
Speaker 2: every day of the week. And some of my life
Speaker 2: is how do you get to yourself to execute it?
Speaker 2: And execution comes from learning to put yourself in that
Speaker 2: right state of.
Speaker 1: It is.
Speaker 2: You want to become a diamond.
Speaker 3: Your whole attitude, change your whole lindset. You're thinking your
Speaker 3: relationship to decisions that you make, how you spend your time,
Speaker 3: your energy, Ah, it changes. You're going to determine the
Speaker 3: outcome of your life. You're going to determine whether or
Speaker 3: not your life is exciting or whether or not it's boring.
Speaker 3: You determine that. And those people who know that, they
Speaker 3: move with a sense of urgency, They move with purpose
Speaker 3: and direction. They work and they've managed their time.
Speaker 1: Effectively, saying it is work to maintain the discipline. That's
Speaker 1: what it is.
Speaker 2: Work.
Speaker 1: So work through the weakness, fight through the temptation, hold
Speaker 1: the line. It is not easy, but it is worth it, Yes,
Speaker 1: because discipline equals freedom.
Speaker 2: As more time goes by, time disappears. Because when you're
Speaker 2: really fulfilled, when you're doing things that are really shifting you,
Speaker 2: have you ever discovered, like you know, what's a long time?
Speaker 2: A long time is anytime you're not enjoying yourself. Right,
Speaker 2: a minute can feel like eternity if you're going through
Speaker 2: something horrible, but if you're having a great time, hours
Speaker 2: can go they can go by so quick. So time
Speaker 2: is really emotion. And what we want to do here
Speaker 2: this week, you see, if we can't give you some
Speaker 2: key principles each day tools and then take some action
Speaker 2: so we get that momentum going. So you really do
Speaker 2: set yourself up without any hyperbole, without any bs, without
Speaker 2: positive thing, truly set yourself up to make twenty twenty
Speaker 2: one your best year, because make it twenty one your
Speaker 2: best year. You got to make you move to the
Speaker 2: next level. Who's with me on this? Say? I say
Speaker 2: I so nor do that we kind of kind of
Speaker 2: identify it. So yesterday we started with just understanding that
Speaker 2: we really got to take control of our own minds.
Speaker 2: That yes, some of what you experienced in the past
Speaker 2: world is kind of over, something new is available, But
Speaker 2: you can't move on and build something new and create
Speaker 2: until you kind of let go of some of what
Speaker 2: you've been hanging on to your expectations. And even if
Speaker 2: it's unjust, even if it's unfair, eventually we gotta let
Speaker 2: go or we're the prisoner. And so we walk through
Speaker 2: those five stages. If you recall that people go through
Speaker 2: that shock, that anger, or that sense of fear or loss,
Speaker 2: that gam you know, you know, trying to negotiate, so
Speaker 2: to speak, to make things happen. Eventually a lot of sadness,
Speaker 2: eventually some acceptance of what has been. But as we said,
Speaker 2: we want to create. Now that's what this is all about,
Speaker 2: and creating a way to not just get back to
Speaker 2: where you were, but get to a place that's even better.
Speaker 2: As I've said, always, the greatest story of humanity is
Speaker 2: always the comeback, isn't it. You want to root for
Speaker 2: that person. It's the rocky stories, right, It's the people
Speaker 2: that get knocked down, Because we all get knocked down,
Speaker 2: we all get taken to our knees. COVID has done that,
Speaker 2: or at least our reactions to COVID have done that.
Speaker 2: And so it's not where you go, it's what do
Speaker 2: you do when that happens? Because anybody can do well
Speaker 2: when life is going their way, can you do well?
Speaker 2: Can you find a way to do well when it's
Speaker 2: going against you? So yesterday we talked just a little
Speaker 2: bit about problems or gifts. Doesn't know look like it,
Speaker 2: but if you recall, we chatted about there are times
Speaker 2: in your life when you've had some horrible things happen,
Speaker 2: but you look back three, four or five years later
Speaker 2: to go don't want to have to go through it again.
Speaker 2: Wouldn't anybody else I care to? But I see why
Speaker 2: it happened, and maybe stronger it made me care more,
Speaker 2: It made something shift in me, or it gave me
Speaker 2: lessons that allowed me to succeed today. And then we
Speaker 2: talked just a little bit to give you a sense
Speaker 2: about what are the things that are really controlling us,
Speaker 2: Those invisible forces that we're talking about, those emotions that
Speaker 2: we have an emotional home that literally we find a
Speaker 2: way to get back to it. If our home is
Speaker 2: not so nice, we get back to it. If our
Speaker 2: home is beautiful, we get back to it mentally and emotionally.
Speaker 2: And so today we want to show you what controls
Speaker 2: that emotional home. And it's this term called identity. Identity
Speaker 2: and it's similar theme. Yesterday I saw many of you
Speaker 2: going back online. Thank you for doing it, sharing your
Speaker 2: old story, your new story, what you're gonna do with
Speaker 2: twenty twenty one, because you need that clarity. Without a vision,
Speaker 2: people perish, it says in a very good book called
Speaker 2: The Good Book. And the bottom line is we need
Speaker 2: that vision when we're stressed out. So many people have
Speaker 2: no vision for where were we're going. If your vision
Speaker 2: to just get back to work, that's not much of
Speaker 2: a vision. You gotta say, how do we make it
Speaker 2: even better? But to do that, it's going to require
Speaker 2: a different you than the one might be overwhelmed or stressed.
Speaker 2: And that's why we walked you a little bit through
Speaker 2: the warrior and the lover, and the magician and the
Speaker 2: king or queen or the sovereign. How many have you
Speaker 2: got a lot out of yesterday and it's still with
Speaker 2: you today. You gotta build on it. Here say ah, awesome.
Speaker 2: So today when we talk about identity, what are we
Speaker 2: really talking about? Please jot this down as a phrase.
Speaker 2: It's a little a long phrase, but jotted down because
Speaker 2: it's critical because when I started working with people, I
Speaker 2: started studying every tool I could find that could help
Speaker 2: people change quickly. And it wasn't because I was an intellectual.
Speaker 2: I wanted to change me. You know, I was in
Speaker 2: high school. I was I love people, but I wasn't
Speaker 2: the most popular kid in school. In fact, the most
Speaker 2: popular kid in school treated me and my friend's like dirt,
Speaker 2: like trash. It was mean as hell. How can it
Speaker 2: be popular? And it made me want to under human
Speaker 2: psychology and what drives people and where they are. And
Speaker 2: plus I was fat and short, that was five to one,
Speaker 2: and so I had to figure out what to do
Speaker 2: to turn myself around. So I want to learn hivery
Speaker 2: tool and a lot of things I did gave me
Speaker 2: a change for a short term. So then I go back.
Speaker 2: Who's experienced this, either like with your weight or your finances,
Speaker 2: start to make money or draws back or in a
Speaker 2: relationship right, and it's like it would piss me off.
Speaker 2: I'd be mad at myself. You know, I know many
Speaker 2: of you do this because it's human nature, Like we
Speaker 2: have high expectations for ourselves. Somebody like you who comes
Speaker 2: to an event like this you're pushing yourself to be more,
Speaker 2: to do more, to create more. And I used to
Speaker 2: beat myself up, like why am I doing this? But
Speaker 2: there's a problem beating yourself up? Does anybody know what
Speaker 2: it is when you beat yourself up? One of the
Speaker 2: critical elements that taking action for solving things, for having
Speaker 2: a great psychology is energy. And when you beat yourself
Speaker 2: up and you say I should have done this, why
Speaker 2: did I do this? Or what's wrong with me? Does
Speaker 2: your energy increase or decrease? Guys, show me which one
Speaker 2: you know, damn well decreases. So what it actually does.
Speaker 2: It becomes a trap. The more you beat yourself up,
Speaker 2: the worse you got, and then you beat yourself up more.
Speaker 2: Now you're in this vicious cycle.
Speaker 4: Three Major personal development. Number one is physical. Part part
Speaker 4: of success is physical. Some people don't do well because
Speaker 4: they don't feel well. One of the first things to
Speaker 4: go to work on with intensive effort, and that's your
Speaker 4: own good health because a lot of things come from that.
Speaker 4: You know, the future possibilities could be greatly, greatly, greatly,
Speaker 4: greatly diminished by being lazy in producing maximum health. If
Speaker 4: you'll take care of that as a support system, you
Speaker 4: can't believe what else is possible. You can't believe what
Speaker 4: the mind can think of. You can't believe your imagination
Speaker 4: and your faith and your ability to say, Hey, I'll
Speaker 4: go to work and produce the muscle to do the deal.
Speaker 4: Why I'm healthy, I'm vigorous, I'm vital, I'm not out
Speaker 4: of breath. But sometimes you know, when all these ideas
Speaker 4: and stuff comes and you know you're too a little
Speaker 4: bit too weak to even attempt, you say, oh, I'm
Speaker 4: not sure I can do that. The doubts sometimes are
Speaker 4: more physical than they are mental. You haven't got the
Speaker 4: vitality to believe it's possible. But if you've got the
Speaker 4: vitality and the strength and you've got the health to
Speaker 4: do it, I'm telling you, ideas seem to love to
Speaker 4: be invested in healthy people that have got the ability
Speaker 4: and the ambition to pull it off. They got the
Speaker 4: health to do it, they got the strength. So why
Speaker 4: not start with the health and see if your own
Speaker 4: vitality would inspire you to more imagination. Because now, when
Speaker 4: you imagine, you can pull it off. But if you
Speaker 4: can't pull it off, you know why imagine? The imagination says,
Speaker 4: why to go to work and spin all these goals
Speaker 4: and stuff when the body isn't ready to produce, So
Speaker 4: start with physical It's very important